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NURTURE YOUR<br />

RELATIONSHIPS<br />

A lot of our personal happiness comes<br />

from moments and feelings we get while<br />

interacting with others so make sure to<br />

make time to nurture positive<br />

relationships, you have in your life, and<br />

maybe even develop a couple of new<br />

ones.<br />

4<br />

ENJOY THE MOMENT<br />

So many of us are second guessing what's<br />

going to happen that we fail to experience<br />

what's happening right now and consequently<br />

end up missing out. Take a breath and look at how amazing<br />

your life is right now. Enjoy every moment you are given in<br />

life and truly appreciate the small things as if they were<br />

major events, because they usually end up being quite<br />

amazing and memorable.<br />

3<br />

LEARN A NEW SKILL<br />

Identify your personal strengths for a positivity<br />

boost! Noting how skilled we are in certain areas of<br />

our lives can remind us of just how talented we are<br />

and make us feel great. Trying a new activity, facing<br />

a fear or joining a new interest group can feel scary, but the<br />

rewards are worth it. People who take risks tend to be happier<br />

and more successful than those who don't.<br />

5GIVE TO OTHERS<br />

Giving can often make you happier. It is no secret<br />

that altruism can help us to feel good about<br />

ourselves, and this is now backed up by MRI scans which<br />

show this “warm-glow effect” in the reward centres of the<br />

brain. Experiments have been conducted in which a group<br />

of people are given money, and half of them are required to<br />

spend it on themselves while half are required to spend it on<br />

other people. Contrary to their own expectations, the half<br />

who spent the money on others consistently get more<br />

pleasure out of the experience than their non-altruistic<br />

colleagues.

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