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SUMMER <strong>2017</strong>


Building lives that<br />

honour God ...<br />

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all for Jesus!<br />

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a note from Pastor James<br />

In the film Shadowlands, the character of C.S. Lewis says,<br />

“We read to know we’re not alone.”<br />

<strong>Storyline</strong> is a platform for sharing stories here at FAC – your stories! – stories<br />

to make us laugh, cry, smile, and ultimately to guide us toward a hope in<br />

Jesus Christ that transcends the circumstances of our lives.<br />

We believe in everything we do here at FAC, during our weekend gatherings<br />

and all week through, on campus or elsewhere in the community, our role<br />

is about bringing to life God’s story as He’s communicated it to us, and<br />

exploring how the story each of us is living integrates with His.<br />

So, what’s your story? What is God doing in your life these days? Because we’ve all got a story, and<br />

the few we’re telling in this issue of <strong>Storyline</strong> are just a representation of what God is doing in our<br />

FAC community. We hope as you read them, they remind you that your story is meant to share, too,<br />

and that you are part of a greater narrative.<br />

So, enjoy these pages … Be encouraged … Be challenged … And be sure to let us know if there’s a<br />

story God’s writing in your life these days that’s ready to be told!<br />

-Pastor James Paton<br />

Cconnect with pastor James!<br />

our team<br />

Editor in Chief Heather Wile<br />

Graphic Design Briana Southerland & Peggy Xia<br />

Editor Cheryl Siebring<br />

Photography (unless otherwise noted)<br />

Judith Tuck Enoch Tse<br />

Jill Hopkins Daron Young<br />

Josh Boak Barry Pendergast<br />

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Content Goodness (Writers)<br />

Josephine Tse Kathy Lloyd<br />

James Paton Erin Boyce<br />

Jill Hopkins Rosalind Coben<br />

Briana Southerland<br />

Photo Editing Samuel Campo, Janina Resus<br />

Print Production Humphries Printing Inc.<br />

A quartly publication of First Alliance Church, Calgary, Alberta of<br />

the C&MA Canada.<br />

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Journey of the Artist<br />

as a Young Man<br />

Journey of the Artist<br />

as a Young Man<br />

Written by Jill Hopkins<br />

Written by Jill Hopkins<br />

"Go in peace, the priest replied. For the LORD<br />

is watching over your journey."<br />

"Go in peace, the priest replied. For the LORD<br />

is watching<br />

Judges<br />

over<br />

18:<br />

your<br />

5-6<br />

journey."<br />

Judges 18: 5-6<br />

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"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those<br />

who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose."<br />

Romans 8:28<br />

"Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will stand before kings ..."<br />

Proverbs 22:29<br />

It has been a 17-year journey but today, 22-year-old Enoch Tseng is actively seeking<br />

and discovering God’s plan in his life. He is seeing how God worked in the hardships<br />

of his past to bring him to where he is now. And it is a beautiful, creative place.<br />

A<br />

victim of bullying in his public school years, Enoch<br />

struggled with loneliness and depression. He worked<br />

to fit in, finding his niche in sports. Still, he wondered<br />

why he had to endure so much pain and rejection in his peer<br />

relationships. Through “Bell Let’s Talk,” a social networking<br />

campaign aimed at supporting those with mental health issues<br />

and removing the stigma often associated, Enoch found<br />

his voice. He made peace with God, understanding how<br />

his difficult past was part of God’s plan and purpose<br />

for his life. He has found the sweet spot of resting in<br />

God’s direction and is allowing his life to be shaped<br />

accordingly.<br />

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Trained formally in the violin since the age of 4,<br />

Enoch is a gifted and recognized musician. He has<br />

written and performed 3 songs on an EP entitled<br />

‘Journey.’ Inspired by the people and events, both<br />

positive and negative, that have shaped his life,<br />

these songs tell of his path in rising above the pain<br />

to a place of hope and purpose. One song, simply<br />

called ‘Tonight,’ is playful and fun, reflecting the<br />

joy he now has in sharing the beauty of a night sky<br />

with his closest friends.<br />

It has been a journey of faith<br />

and healing, indeed.<br />

Enoch is using his musical gifts now, no longer for<br />

himself, but strictly to honour God. He plays violin<br />

and guitar on one of the worship teams at FAC and<br />

also leads a worship team for the Junior High and<br />

Grade 5&6 ministries.<br />

/enochtsengphotography<br />

For him, it is all about finding the right music to<br />

support the message, immersing in worship, and<br />

glorifying the One who has stood by him through<br />

thick and thin.<br />

Enoch approaches photography in the same way<br />

as he does music: as a way to use his considerable<br />

gifts to worship God.<br />

He sees the beauty in all that's around him. His<br />

artistic eye is evident in his cityscapes, night skies,<br />

portraits, and travel photos. He captures it all in a<br />

unique and personal way that reflects a sensitive<br />

and gentle spirit. Enoch finds a place of peace and<br />

contemplation when he escapes into photography.<br />

Spending time alone brings him closer to God<br />

and His creation and fills his soul. He longs to be<br />

‘wowed by God’ and uses his gifts to capture the<br />

awe.<br />

Enoch’s thirst to find amazing vistas has taken<br />

him to the far corners of the globe: Korea, Japan,<br />

Taiwan, and Hong Kong and now, Europe. At<br />

home, he hikes into the passes and alpine lakes<br />

of the Rockies, revels in the golden fields of the<br />

Prairies at dusk, and walks the streets of Calgary<br />

at dawn, always looking through a lens coloured<br />

by the soft light of God’s grace and love as the<br />

journey continues. •<br />

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"None of my words will be delayed any longer; whatever<br />

I say will be fulfilled, declares the Sovereign Lord."<br />

Ezekiel 12:28<br />

Written by Erin Boyce<br />

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When Cindy found out she was pregnant she<br />

couldn’t believe it – she actually didn’t believe<br />

it. Three pregnancy tests and a frantic “Call me<br />

right now!” text to her husband later, it started<br />

to sink in. After 8 years of trial and error, hope<br />

and heartbreak, God had blessed them with a<br />

miracle. This is their 8-year journey.<br />

Before Jeremy and Cindy Duffin moved to Calgary, a pastor<br />

prayed over them and told them something they weren’t<br />

expecting to hear – that they would experience difficulty<br />

having children. A young, happy couple, they didn’t dwell<br />

on it; they thought it was a little strange and didn’t think it<br />

would amount to anything.<br />

A few years later, after a year of trying to get pregnant,<br />

Cindy tragically lost her father, and to add to the heartbreak<br />

she had a miscarriage 7 months later. Unable to conceive<br />

again, they felt compelled to pursue treatment; “We wanted<br />

to ensure there would be no regrets later in life.” At the<br />

fertility clinic, Cindy and Jeremy were given a 2% chance of<br />

ever having a child. “Even though we were told we had a 2%<br />

chance of conceiving, I knew if God decided it was time we<br />

had a 100% chance.”<br />

Everything went perfectly with IVF and Cindy was told she<br />

now had a 75% chance of becoming pregnant – but it wasn’t<br />

time yet. “Just because God asks you to walk through a door<br />

doesn’t mean you are promised the answers or the solution<br />

you want on the other side,” Jeremy told me. God had<br />

led them through many “empty” doors and they faithfully<br />

followed every time, their faith growing stronger with each<br />

one.<br />

In the 8 th year Cindy had found her peace; through tears she<br />

recalled, “I had to grieve what I was losing and let every little<br />

piece of that dream go. You can’t be afraid of what you’re<br />

feeling. There’s a lot of grief and that’s something you have<br />

to acknowledge and deal with in a healthy way.”<br />

Through the help of their small group, good friends, and<br />

prayer, Jeremy and Cindy let go of the life they thought they<br />

would have, downsized to a smaller home, and focused on<br />

what God had already given them.<br />

“We are very blessed,” Cindy said. “Moving forward, that was<br />

something we focused on. He has given us everything and<br />

owes us nothing. This family is not owed to me.”<br />

When they accepted what they thought was God’s plan for<br />

their life, He opened up one final door and on the other<br />

side was a miracle. Their miracle was a healthy pregnancy.<br />

Joshua, their beautiful baby boy, was born in December<br />

2016.<br />

When I asked Cindy if she could give one piece of advice to<br />

someone going through a similar situation, she answered<br />

immediately with two things: protect your marriage and talk<br />

to someone. What they went through can break a person<br />

and a marriage. “We both love to laugh,” Cindy smiled, and<br />

I can attest to this throughout the time I spent with them. “I<br />

think that’s one thing that really got us through this; we would<br />

always try to make each other laugh.”<br />

Cindy and Jeremy talked about how important community is.<br />

“You can’t keep everything in – it can be very isolating,” she<br />

started. “But be careful who you confide in, or you’ll be getting<br />

a lot of advice and ‘Have you tried this or that?’ which can be<br />

very discouraging.”<br />

They found a lot of their comfort from a close community<br />

of good friends – including their small group – who<br />

walked alongside them, supporting them in prayer and<br />

encouragement.<br />

Daryl, from their small group, was the first person they told<br />

they were pregnant. He shared with them how that morning<br />

he’d read from Ezekiel 12:28, “Therefore say to them, this<br />

is what the Sovereign Lord says: None of my words will be<br />

delayed any longer; whatever I say will be fulfilled, declares<br />

the Sovereign Lord.” He knew the verse was meant for<br />

someone else, so when Jeremy and Cindy knocked on his<br />

door and told him the news, he wasn’t surprised.<br />

Ezekiel 12:28 is part of the reason they named their son<br />

Joshua. Joshua led the Israelites into the Promised Land after<br />

many years wandering through the desert waiting for God’s<br />

promise, just like Jeremy and Cindy. Joshua also spent 7<br />

days walking around Jericho, waiting for it to fall. The people<br />

of Jericho actually laughed at them, making fun of God’s<br />

promise, for it was taking so long no one believed it would<br />

fall. Joshua was faithful and kept marching, believing and<br />

trusting his God – just like Jeremy and Cindy.<br />

At their baby shower, a close friend wrote a speech. Here’s a<br />

piece of what she wrote that is so fitting to their journey:<br />

“The Bible is our ‘Adventure Guide.’ It reminds us<br />

that when we are lost to pray! ‘Lord, I call to You<br />

all day long. Bring joy to Your servant, Lord, I put<br />

my trust in You. You, Lord, are forgiving and good,<br />

abounding in love to all who call to You. Hear my<br />

prayer, Lord; listen to my cry for mercy. When I am<br />

in distress, I call to You, because You answer me.’”<br />

Jeremy and Cindy never stopped calling to God. They believed<br />

He was good even when life was trying to tell them otherwise,<br />

and they knew God would answer. He gave them peace to<br />

accept they wouldn’t have a child – then He gave them Joshua. •<br />

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Senior High trip<br />

to Montreal<br />

Written by Rosalind Coben<br />

How does one prepare for a missions<br />

trip to the only French-speaking<br />

province in Canada? There are many<br />

ways experienced missionaries suggest<br />

preparing to enter a different culture,<br />

but I decided to do the one that seemed<br />

the most approachable – eating my way<br />

there. After careful consideration and<br />

Google-translating of menus, I came<br />

to the conclusion that it was best for<br />

me to ease into it and start with the<br />

esteemed French delicacy … the fry.<br />

But before I get ahead of myself, maybe I should let you<br />

know why I’m selflessly eating copious amounts of French<br />

fries. This upcoming July 7-18, a team of senior high students<br />

and leaders from FAC are travelling to Montreal to work<br />

with communities there to share the love of God in that<br />

city. We are partnering with an organization called SOAR,<br />

who will bring together 150-200 students to accomplish a<br />

common goal: “love the city in the name of Jesus.” SOAR is<br />

unique in that it doesn’t have a set plan for exactly what<br />

the students will be doing, but rather it bases the activities<br />

solely on the need of communities in Montreal, as well as<br />

the skills of the students. In their words, “We do whatever<br />

it takes to build relationships and share God’s good news.”<br />

So, you might be wondering, “Why Montreal?” It’s common<br />

for many of us to think that missions trips mean going<br />

outside of Canada because everyone in Canada must have<br />

heard about Jesus, right? In reality, Quebec is the leastreached<br />

province in Canada. It’s a province that identifies<br />

as ‘Catholic,’ but only in the cultural sense of the word.<br />

If you were to attend a church service, you’d more than<br />

likely find the buildings empty. Since the Quiet Revolution<br />

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in the 1960’s, there has been an overall trend of people<br />

leaving the church in Quebec, to the point where it is now<br />

considered Canada’s most secular province.<br />

With this knowledge, it might seem fair to wonder how<br />

sending senior high students for 11 days will benefit the<br />

city of Montreal. Team leader Pastor David Conrad made<br />

the purpose of this trip abundantly clear, saying, “Shortterm<br />

missions trips are two-fold. First, we are going to serve<br />

the community and work alongside them; and second, we<br />

want to disciple the students.” This is the 7 th short-term<br />

missions trip David has led with FAC, and when asked why<br />

Montreal was the chosen destination, he replied with the<br />

simple notion that “it’s important for us to see the need in<br />

our own country.”<br />

Quebec is the least-reached provience in<br />

Canada!<br />

To be a disciple is to be a person who is following Christ.<br />

As mentioned above, one of the main goals of this trip is<br />

to disciple the students who have chosen to take this leap<br />

of faith and say “au revoir!” to their families for 11 days.<br />

While the details on exactly what each day will look like are<br />

unclear just yet, the discipleship process has already begun<br />

here in Calgary. The students have started fundraising for<br />

the trip in a variety of ways: bottle drives, pizza sales, online<br />

auctions, bake sales, and personal prayer and support<br />

letters. While they might seem like mundane, practical<br />

tasks, these are the very things that bond the team and<br />

help point their hearts towards Jesus. Walking around the<br />

church parking lot, collecting bottles, while not in any way<br />

glamorous, was a time for the team to get together and<br />

work towards our common goal of going to Montreal to<br />

share Jesus.<br />

Perhaps the most important part of the preparation for<br />

this trip is the support of FAC through prayer. Please pray<br />

that the team will maintain unity, and keep focused on the<br />

goal of making a difference in the city of Montreal in Jesus’<br />

name. As you can imagine, there is also a lot of preparation<br />

work that goes into organizing a trip of this capacity, so<br />

please pray specifically for David Conrad as he navigates all<br />

the details and paperwork.<br />

On July 7, the team of 19 students and leaders will be<br />

boarding a plane and taking a trip that will be life-changing<br />

for them. As we continue to diligently study the French<br />

culture by the in-taking of the amazing cuisine (hello,<br />

poutine!), we say ‘au revoir’ and ‘merci’ for all of your<br />

support and prayer as this journey to Montreal continues! •<br />

Meet the team! Please pray for them as they<br />

prepare to serve with SOAR Ministries.<br />

Donate<br />

Help send the team!<br />

Visit faccalgary.com/giving.<br />

SOAR<br />

love God, love people<br />

Find our more about SOAR Ministries at<br />

soarmontreal.com.<br />

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UNLIKELY CALL<br />

PURPOSE THROUGH TRIALS<br />

WRITTEN BY BRIANA SOUTHERLAND<br />

Over the past few years we have seen an unprecedented amount of people fleeing their<br />

homes seeking shelter and refuge. On the news we see the images of terror, fear, and<br />

despair on the faces of young children and their helpless mothers – any sense of safety and<br />

joy have completely evaporated.<br />

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Sometimes I find it easier to leave the news off<br />

and live disconnected from this harsh reality that<br />

affects the majority of the world. It helps me stay<br />

comfortable, protected, safe … it’s like living in a world<br />

with peaceful blinders. When I take off the blinders I am<br />

left feeling uncomfortable, helpless – unsure of what to<br />

do to help.<br />

Two years ago I would have chosen this disconnected<br />

life because my personality has always been to see a<br />

problem and do something about it right away. But<br />

with the issue of helping refugees I couldn’t find an<br />

immediate solution – and that<br />

makes me uncomfortable. It<br />

makes me question God; it makes<br />

me angry to know that there are<br />

so many people hurting. Two<br />

years ago I would’ve preferred<br />

not to wrestle with God. It was<br />

easier to be oblivious about the<br />

large-scale issues and pick battles<br />

that I could do something to fix. But now I realize<br />

that through this sense of being uncomfortable God<br />

has stirred my heart to be empathetic and reach out<br />

in ways I never could have imagined. These lessons<br />

did not come easily for me; in fact, God brought me<br />

through a 2-year personal journey to get to the point<br />

where my heart not only reaches out to refugees but<br />

longs to help those I never thought I could help.<br />

My journey began as I was blissfully preparing for my<br />

wedding day. All I could focus on was getting married<br />

and starting a life with my husband. We’d been living<br />

thousands of miles away from one another – Austin<br />

in Calgary and I in St. Paul, Minnesota. In my mind,<br />

nothing could get harder than this period of distance.<br />

We’d get married, move to Canada, and start our lives<br />

Everything I had pictured my<br />

first year of marriage to be<br />

like was a faded dream within<br />

3 days; comfort was ripped<br />

out from under my feet.<br />

together. To say I was unprepared for what was ahead is a<br />

complete understatement.<br />

I believed that as a North American, moving to Canada<br />

would be a piece of cake and I would take some time to<br />

set up our new townhome while waiting for my residency<br />

then start my job in a nonprofit in Calgary. In reality I was<br />

a foreigner, an alien, temporary, just another immigration<br />

case number. I had to go through the same system that<br />

every immigrant has to go through and wait for a visa.<br />

Everything I pictured my first year of marriage to be like<br />

was a faded dream within 3 days; comfort was ripped out<br />

from under my feet.<br />

We crossed the border into<br />

Canada where I was questioned<br />

and reminded that being married<br />

didn’t guarantee I could be with<br />

my husband. The suggestion was<br />

given that staying in the US during<br />

the visa process – separated from<br />

my husband – might be easier than<br />

repeatedly updating my visitor visa.<br />

Since our townhome wasn’t ready, we stayed in a rental<br />

for over a month with no internet, cable, cell phone,<br />

or any of our own stuff. Just a mattress on the floor. I<br />

knew nobody and was completely new to the city, and I<br />

began to feel very isolated. I was lonely, homesick for my<br />

family and friends, and I began to question what I was<br />

doing. I focused on my visa application to keep my mind<br />

off things, but I hit roadblock after roadblock. I couldn’t<br />

apply until I had my name change in effect, which meant<br />

I needed a new passport. I couldn’t apply for a passport<br />

until we had an address. I couldn’t find out our address<br />

until we had a postal code … but the city hadn’t assigned<br />

postal codes because our development wasn’t complete. I<br />

began to realize things were out of my control. I thought I<br />

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could have my application sent in within the week; instead<br />

it took us over 2 months to get everything in place to<br />

apply.<br />

We weren’t prepared to live on a single income, so I<br />

poured my time into creating budgets and plans to help<br />

us succeed. Once I had the plan in place, a little bit of<br />

comfort returned. I thought I had gained some control<br />

again. But I began to struggle with feelings of anxiety and<br />

believed I was a burden. I felt responsible so I started<br />

slicing the budget in areas where we needed money,<br />

like our groceries. As our groceries became cheaper and<br />

cheaper, our food became lower quality but it was “my<br />

sacrifice.” However, when you live with celiac disease<br />

there are major consequences to eating things you<br />

shouldn’t and so on came my sickness. Three months of<br />

constantly being sick and unable to leave the house for<br />

long meant I lost weight, I had no energy, and mentally I<br />

hit a low. Austin and I couldn’t get through a day without<br />

me upset at him. I blamed him for the state of where I<br />

was physically, emotionally, mentally. My<br />

self-worth had vanished. I was convinced<br />

nobody knew how I felt and honestly, I<br />

think people couldn’t handle how I felt.<br />

Everyone around me was in a land of<br />

comfort and security, yet I couldn’t get<br />

through a day of wondering if my next<br />

visitor visa would be approved, or if my<br />

residency would come through, when I<br />

would be able to work again … The list<br />

goes on.<br />

I could tell you endless amounts of things I went through<br />

to tear down my walls of control and comfort. When I<br />

finally hit the bottom, I cried out to God and my burden<br />

became lighter. Austin and I went away for a week and<br />

we began praying that my visa would come in. But we<br />

began to realize that wasn’t our prayer; our prayer was<br />

that we would trust God in the circumstances, that we<br />

would let Him be our provider. We began to look back on<br />

the things that had happened and see God’s hand in it all.<br />

A GST return we weren’t expecting to help with groceries<br />

… Grandparents giving us a late wedding gift to get away<br />

for awhile when things were unbearable … God provided<br />

for our needs; He never abandoned us. But He did give us<br />

trials, lots of trials. In that week I had to finally give up my<br />

last ounces of control, fully surrender, and humble myself.<br />

We trusted God with what was to come.<br />

We got home refreshed and ready to continue our time<br />

of unknowns. I remember it was dark outside and Austin<br />

decided to get the mail. He came around the corner,<br />

Our prayer was that<br />

we would trust God in<br />

the circumstances, that<br />

we would let Him be our<br />

provider.<br />

looking at me in disbelief, with a single brown envelope<br />

in his hands. “I think it’s here,” he said. As we opened<br />

the letter shock fell over us. It wasn’t permanent<br />

residency, but it was my work visa. God works in<br />

mysterious ways. He brought me on a long road to<br />

surrender my control and when I finally did He gave<br />

me just enough to have a sense of normalcy again.<br />

But even the next steps were predetermined by God.<br />

Within the week I was offered a job at First Alliance to<br />

cover a one-year maternity leave. Shortly thereafter<br />

the Syrian Refugee Crisis hit the news. I was providing<br />

admin support for Pat Worsley, who oversees our<br />

refugee ministry. Daily, I answered phone calls from<br />

people desperate to have their stories heard. I wasn’t<br />

uncomfortable anymore. I listened, I felt their pain, and<br />

I told them it wasn’t fair. My empathy for these people<br />

was so strong, and God stirred my heart for them so<br />

vividly. I would go home and be driven to pray for them<br />

in the same way God drove me to pray for him to take<br />

my burden of permanent residency. I<br />

knew I couldn’t do anything for these<br />

people in a task-driven way. God had<br />

been equipping me and preparing<br />

me to share hope and love with the<br />

broken and hopeless.<br />

I grew immensely through these<br />

phone calls and listening to people’s<br />

stories. Months after things slowed down, I woke up<br />

from a repetitive dream where I audibly heard the<br />

name of one of the women I used to talk to on the<br />

phone. The Holy Spirit pushed me to call her to see<br />

how she was doing. I am so thankful for this boldness<br />

that the Holy Spirit gave me! I know that if I hadn’t<br />

gone through the trials I did, I would have never called<br />

her to see how she was doing. I called her on a day<br />

when all hope was gone and she wanted to give up.<br />

Hearing that and now gaining an amazing friendship<br />

with her has made my trials worth it. Austin and I are<br />

now co-sponsors to have her sister come to Canada<br />

as a refugee and we are on a journey with her and her<br />

family. There are days where I am uneasy because<br />

there is no task for me to help with, but I am gently<br />

reminded to listen to her, to pray for her, and to pray<br />

for God to direct the application. Sometimes all we can<br />

do is listen and pray.<br />

This is just the journey of one of the many applications<br />

we as a church are applying for and I challenge you to<br />

pray diligently for the ministry of refugee sponsorship.<br />

It is a long, dark, and painful journey for so many. •


Life got in the Way<br />

Written by Kathy Lloyd<br />

Extreme Rakeover is June 3 here at FAC. With<br />

summer coming on, the grass needs a good raking<br />

to clean out the small pebbles, leaves, and other winter<br />

detritus left by the winds and snow. Aerating pulls plugs<br />

of soil out to give the lawn a chance to breathe and grow<br />

new life. Flower beds need to have the soil turned and<br />

new seeds need to be planted.<br />

Our lives are sometimes like that. What’s there is good,<br />

but God wants to pull out some of the good in order for<br />

us to flourish at His best in new places. That seems to be<br />

how the Lord has been working in the life of Sheila Ball.<br />

Sheila was head of Human Resources in an engineering<br />

firm but saw her department dwindle from 18 down to<br />

2 during this last downturn in our economy. She applied<br />

for and received an early retirement package, thinking<br />

she would take a bit of a break before re-entering the<br />

proverbial rat-race of a stressful new job.<br />

Years ago, when Sheila was finishing up her master’s in<br />

Toronto, Ursula Franklin – beloved professor and mentor<br />

to Sheila – had asked her,<br />

“How will you use your life<br />

experiences to serve others?”<br />

Franklin was a prominent physicist, educator, and<br />

advocate of women’s rights. She was also a Quaker, and<br />

suggested to Sheila that she work with victims of war and<br />

displaced people.<br />

Life got in the way, as it often does with many of us, and<br />

Sheila successfully climbed the corporate ladder. After<br />

deciding to retire last February, these words from her<br />

friend and mentor again came to mind. Sheila googled<br />

and found the Calgary Catholic Immigration Society.<br />

They work with survivors of torture or those who have<br />

experienced the trauma of war. She was paired with a<br />

newly immigrated Syrian family, who had been forced<br />

to flee their home on foot when their town was totally<br />

flattened. They arrived in Turkey with no possessions,<br />

clothing, or even food. Last October they came to Calgary.<br />

Sheila is able to put them in touch with professionals who<br />

can help in whatever way is needed, and orientate them<br />

to city life here in Canada.<br />

God has been pruning Sheila’s life in other areas as well.<br />

Last year Sheila volunteered at Extreme Rakeover. She<br />

has become good friends with Cindy Bartlett, FAC's Serve<br />

Coordinator and Extreme Rakeover Participant. Cindy has,<br />

since found numerous volunteer opportunities for her at<br />

FAC.<br />

Extreme Rakeover helped to instill in her a love for<br />

gardening. During the summer, her front yard comes<br />

alive with soft clusters of John Cabot climbing roses, the<br />

deep fuschia of Winnipeg Parks, and bright orangey red of<br />

Morden Fireglow bushes. When I visited, these had been<br />

pruned back to within three feet of the ground, not yet<br />

even budding out, but just biding their time before new<br />

life breaks forth.<br />

Her Syrian family will benefit not only from the overflow of<br />

her backyard apple trees, but from the various vegetables<br />

she plans to put in this year. Already, sweet peppers were<br />

poking up through the soil in small pots. In a few weeks<br />

they will be ready for transplanting to the garden.<br />

Sheila says it’s very much like how God has worked in<br />

her own life. He prepared the soil by allowing her to get<br />

a good education, but at the same time planting seeds of<br />

service. He opened doors to a successful career working<br />

with people, gaining valuable relationship skills. Then He<br />

pruned back her career, slowed her down, and shifted her<br />

focus. “I’m like a new garden,” Sheila exclaims, ‘’tilled and<br />

ready for God to plant new seeds into my life!”•<br />

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Hearts United and Ignited!<br />

Written by Jill Hopkins<br />

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy;<br />

I have come that they may have life, and have it to<br />

the full. John 10:10<br />

The marriage was in peril.<br />

Like many, Steve and Lisa LeBlanc’s relationship<br />

had started out with hope and innocent trust that<br />

love would be enough to overcome past hurts and<br />

give them the life they both desired. From very different<br />

upbringings, family values, and dynamics, they came in<br />

with needs and expectations of themselves, each other,<br />

and the relationship itself. But when those expectations<br />

clashed, and Steve’s heavy work and travel demands were<br />

compounded by the everyday stress of raising a young family,<br />

the marriage broke. Lisa and Steve separated. Frustrated that<br />

they were unable to find support in the church, they turned to<br />

outside resources for help. They worked on their relationship<br />

with a highly-skilled secular counselor and thankfully, after<br />

nine months, were able to reconcile and begin the long process<br />

of restoration.<br />

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That was 21 years ago. From that place, a passion to<br />

explore and strengthen their relationship was sparked.<br />

After coming to Calgary in 2007, the LeBlancs joined<br />

FAC and attended “Marriage Matters” with Pastor Scott<br />

Weatherford. This was their first taste of marriage ministry<br />

in the church. They were encouraged!<br />

They then attended Dynamic Marriage, under the<br />

leadership of Ron and Teresa Buschman. Their eyes<br />

were opened to the possibility of a deeper, more<br />

meaningful relationship. The leaders in the nine-week<br />

Dynamic Marriage course are facilitators only, whose<br />

purpose is to guide the participating couples through<br />

a series of exercises in<br />

which they identify and<br />

learn to communicate<br />

personal needs, wants,<br />

and expectations with each<br />

other, thereby enhancing<br />

their already functioning<br />

marriage. As is often true<br />

concerning things of value,<br />

the more energy, honesty,<br />

and openness that is<br />

brought to the discussion, the greater the return. As<br />

Lisa and Steve allowed the Holy Spirit to work in them,<br />

they gradually came to a place of mutual validation and<br />

acceptance. They learned to express and manage their<br />

expectations and to better understand themselves and<br />

each other.<br />

When the opportunity to mentor other couples in crisis<br />

arose, Lisa and Steve jumped at the chance. Not only<br />

had they found a ministry for which they were both<br />

passionate, they were excited to offer the support and<br />

skills that they themselves had so desperately needed<br />

more than two decades before.<br />

Marriage 911 is that ministry. Arising from the materials<br />

Joe and Michelle Williams have developed and are using<br />

in the United States to rescue marriages on the brink,<br />

Marriage 911 has a unique approach.<br />

“For I know the plans I have for<br />

you,” declares the Lord, “plans<br />

to prosper you and not to harm<br />

you, plans to give you hope and a<br />

future.”<br />

Jeremiah 29:11<br />

“God, what do you want to do with ME?” approach. It takes<br />

gut-wrenching honesty with oneself and with God, but the<br />

leaders are there to facilitate the growth. Expectations<br />

and blame directed at the spouse are replaced with the<br />

quest to heal inner brokenness. Lisa and Steve end each<br />

session in prayer. Midway through the twelve weeks, Lisa<br />

flips the more common petition of begging God for help to<br />

praying in praise, thanking God for completing this work<br />

in them and claiming the promise that it has already been<br />

accomplished. It changes the focus to looking through<br />

God’s lens, asking how we can participate in His good work<br />

in us. It makes a difference! When one person changes,<br />

the spouse cannot help but notice; the dynamics in the<br />

relationship shift.<br />

Marriage 911 is, indeed, a<br />

powerful agent of change. It<br />

offers hope and encouragement<br />

as people in relationship crisis<br />

are supported in a structured<br />

and loving environment.<br />

The LeBlancs have been a vital<br />

part of Marriage Ministry at<br />

FAC. As they prepare to move to<br />

Winnipeg, they are excited to take this ground-breaking,<br />

essential ministry with them.<br />

Born from the distress and pain in their own marriage,<br />

and nurtured through the various courses offered at FAC,<br />

the spark has been fully ignited. Their passion to take<br />

up the fight to preserve marriage and the family shines<br />

brightly, instilling God’s light where there has previously<br />

been only darkness. •<br />

Do you want to have a rich, God-centred marriage? Check<br />

out the courses and workshops offered at FAC:<br />

faccalgary.com/couples<br />

Do you and your spouse want to be a part of Marriage<br />

Ministry at FAC?<br />

Rather than dwelling on problems in the marriage, the<br />

program focuses on the individual. Men and women are<br />

led through lessons in separate rooms, so that even if<br />

one spouse is uninterested, the other is free to attend<br />

on his or her own. As Steve explains, “the spouse and the<br />

relationship are left at the door.” The facilitators take their<br />

groups on a journey of self-discovery and faith. It’s an<br />

“end of yourself” place, and offers a new beginning with a<br />

The need for Marriage 911 is great, but the availability of<br />

this course is restricted by the lack of facilitators. If helping<br />

others develop strong relationship skills is on your heart,<br />

please connect with our Marriage Ministry Team Leaders<br />

Ron Buschman<br />

rbuschman@faccalgary.com or Teresa Buschman<br />

tbuschman@faccalgary.com.<br />

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Our Nation is 150<br />

By: Josephine Tse<br />

place where many of us call home<br />

A<br />

is hitting a milestone this year. Our<br />

beautiful country of Canada will be<br />

celebrating its 150th Anniversary of<br />

Confederation! As Dorothy from the Wizard<br />

of Oz puts it, “there is no place like home”.<br />

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There are many wonders in Canada that cannot be found in other<br />

areas of the World. Our stunning landscape that is as vast as it is<br />

diverse; from the prairie mountains to the Maritime coastlines,<br />

from Great Lakes to flowing rivers, and wildlife inhabitants like the<br />

infamous beaver and sweet chickadees. Proudly, Canada is a leader<br />

for for accessible health care, human rights advocacy, respect for<br />

diversity and conservation of history. Canadians are excessively<br />

polite, love to laugh and arguably the most passionate hockey fans<br />

in the world. Canada is home to so many good things and a nation of<br />

infinite opportunity.<br />

Like any birthday for a great friend, you would<br />

want to celebrate by spoiling them with<br />

gifts! Our Mayor Naheed Nenshi started<br />

an initiative to do just that for our Nation<br />

that we can all take part in! The project is<br />

called ‘Three Things for Canada’. To celebrate<br />

Canada’s 150th birthday, Mayor Nenshi<br />

encourages Canadians to give our nation three<br />

gifts of service, large or small.<br />

If we all did three things for our neighborhood, community, church,<br />

nation- what an incredible way to celebrate and foster goodness for<br />

Canada! You can lead a cleanup initiative around the city, pay for<br />

a stranger’s coffee, host a meal for friends, hold grocery bags for a<br />

stranger, or take your kids to the park more often than usual - the<br />

gift ideas are endless. Mayor Nenshi doesn’t want you to be shy<br />

about your gifts; he wants you to share it with the world! Visit<br />

www.threethingsforcanada.ca to see some of the gifts that are<br />

already happening in our city and to share your own!<br />

As our amazing Country is turning 150 we can’t forget<br />

about the party and celebration, and with plenty going<br />

on in and around our City, make sure to go out and<br />

explore! Parks of Canada is offering free park<br />

passes for <strong>2017</strong>, to obtain your pass visit Parks<br />

Canada online and head on out to celebrate<br />

Canada’s great outdoors! Soak in our Country<br />

and City’s history by visiting Heritage Park, Fort<br />

Calgary, Glenbow Museum, Calgary Tower, the<br />

Famous Five Statues at Olympic Plaza or the<br />

Chinese Cultural Center.<br />

Some local attractions to enjoy with family and<br />

friends also include the Calgary Zoo and Telus Spark.<br />

Don’t miss the yearly Canada Day festivities at Prince’s<br />

Island Park, Eau Claire, and Olympic Plaza - tons of live<br />

music, fireworks and a festive atmosphere. Celebrating<br />

our country can be personal and low key, too. Perhaps<br />

take a stroll around Fish Creek Provincial Park, or rent<br />

a bike and enjoy our city bike lanes and trails. The<br />

celebration is definitely not limited to the items above;<br />

you can host your own Canada Day party, inviting<br />

friends & neighbors over for BBQ and games. Keep<br />

your eyes out for firework shows located around the<br />

City in the evening as well!


Celebrate AT FAC<br />

Special Canadiana Services<br />

With Party afterwards!<br />

Regular services on July 2<br />

(no Service on July 1)<br />

Celebrations until 2:00 pm<br />

Let’s show our appreciation for our country<br />

Happy Birthday Canada!<br />

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Living<br />

off<br />

Creativity<br />

Written by Erin Boyce<br />

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Artist In The Spotlight<br />

C<br />

ynthia Cabrera is an interior<br />

designer born in Guadalajara, Jalisco,<br />

Mexico. Very early in life she showed<br />

a keen interest in art: drawing, painting,<br />

and music. Growing up without some of the<br />

comforts we in Canada are so accustomed to,<br />

she developed an interest in how space has an<br />

effect on human interaction and development.<br />

She describes interior design as much more<br />

than fashion and esthetics. “Good interior<br />

design is about function; how can you make<br />

everyday life easier, so you can concentrate on<br />

the things that really matter in life?”<br />

Asked if she saw God in her work, Cynthia replied,<br />

“He first decided to reveal Himself as the Creator; He<br />

is the one and ultimate Designer. All creativity and<br />

problem-solving skills come from Him.”<br />

After graduating, Cynthia began her interior design<br />

career in Mexico. She moved to Canada six years<br />

ago, where she now lives with her husband Moises<br />

and son Aaron, and continues to work in her field.<br />

Cynthia’s creativity can be seen here at FAC many<br />

weekends; she recently joined a team of volunteers<br />

who design and create the look of our sanctuary<br />

stage for weekend services. •<br />

Cynthia graduated from the University of<br />

Guadalajara with a Bachelor of Interior Design. A lot<br />

of people wanted her to choose a different career<br />

path that would be more profitable in Mexico. “I<br />

prayed and asked God for guidance,” recalls Cynthia.<br />

“I know now He guided my decision. I had no idea at<br />

the time what He had in store for me. Being able to<br />

live off of creativity is a blessing.”<br />

God has given Cynthia a passion for art and design,<br />

which you can see pour out of her whenever she<br />

speaks about it. “The ultimate Artist reveals Himself<br />

throughout creation, and we are the pinnacle of it –<br />

we are His Mona Lisa"<br />

she says. “We are creative because we are made in<br />

the likeness of Him.”<br />

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RETHINKING HOLINESS<br />

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Bernie Van De Walle<br />

"But just as He who called you is<br />

holy, so be holy in all you do;<br />

for it is written: “Be holy,<br />

because I am holy.”<br />

1 Peter 1:15-16


What does holiness mean? Why<br />

does God’s word emphasize<br />

it as so important? How do we begin to<br />

answer these questions?<br />

In his book, Rethinking Holiness, Bernie A. Van De<br />

Walle states from the first pages that this is not a<br />

“how-to” book for morality or ethics but rather a<br />

“what is” book. This is important because in order<br />

to follow God’s command for us to be holy, it is<br />

essential to first understand holiness. Van De Walle<br />

gets to the heart of the matter in our living – that<br />

our discussions about how we got here or even<br />

where we are going, although important, are not as<br />

essential as the considerations surrounding our call<br />

to participate in the divine.<br />

Based on the subtitle, A Theological Introduction,<br />

and author’s biography, it might be easy to presume<br />

that Rethinking Holiness is a book to be approached<br />

with an academic lens. After all, Bernie A. Van<br />

De Walle’s specialty at Ambrose University is the<br />

impressive domain of historical and systematic<br />

theology. This first impression might lead the reader<br />

to conclude that reading this book would be an<br />

intellectual exercise. However, it is very clear from<br />

the first few paragraphs that this is an accessible and<br />

engaging read which is a relevant and even essential<br />

text for everyone seeking to understand more about<br />

God.<br />

Van De Walle boldly presents tricky words such<br />

as soteriology, eschatology, teleology, and ontology<br />

but allows you to understand them without<br />

having to have a Master of Divinity or a PhD. By<br />

giving a straightforward explanation and context<br />

immediately after introducing each concept, his book<br />

allows those in the church without backgrounds<br />

in academic theology access to terminology and<br />

foundational faith principles that are key in our<br />

understanding who we worship and who we are.<br />

This book encourages the reader to dig deeper into<br />

the scriptures which define what we believe about<br />

holiness: who God is and who we are individually<br />

and corporately as the church in light of salvation.<br />

In seven chapters, Van De Walle effectively leads<br />

the reader through the definition, theology,<br />

understanding, application, assaults against, and<br />

implications (both individual and corporate) of<br />

holiness. Based on conversations, this book was<br />

written in such a way that you can almost imagine<br />

being in Van De Walle’s class and having your next<br />

question answered.<br />

Described as an “approachable theological<br />

introduction to the Christian doctrine of holiness,”<br />

the text draws the reader into thinking about<br />

holiness beyond cultural presets into the ultimate<br />

truth that holiness is neither a commodity nor a set<br />

of ethics but rather found in the nature of God.<br />

Reading Rethinking Holiness not only resulted in an<br />

increase in knowledge but also a transformative<br />

experience. From sparking conviction and igniting<br />

meditation on holiness to inciting discussions and<br />

expanding perspectives, the book takes the reader<br />

on a journey from examining a topic that generally<br />

does not get explored into a recognition of the<br />

central place the pursuit of holiness must take in<br />

the life of every believer. This leads to a deeper<br />

understanding of the character of God.<br />

For something as incredibly challenging to<br />

describe as holiness, Van De Walle has delivered<br />

a framework for understanding through practical<br />

explanations and interesting examples for each of<br />

the implications, making this book an engaging soulchanger<br />

and fodder for revival in the church. As Van<br />

De Walle writes, “in a quest for holiness, humans<br />

cannot be passive.” We are called to be conformed<br />

to the image of Christ and this book deftly presents<br />

a call to the deep-rooted desire within believers and<br />

non-believers alike: a call to holiness. •<br />

Book Review by Judith Tuck<br />

Book Review<br />

What do students say about Professor Van De Walle?<br />

"Bernie helped me understand that a well-placed quote from<br />

“The Princess Bride” in a lecture is an art! While his teaching<br />

was integral to my faith and ministry, he always made room for<br />

a laugh or two along the way." - Spencer<br />

"Bernie Van de Walle wonderfully combines being one of<br />

the most authoritative and knowledgeable men I have ever<br />

encountered with being easily approachable. I have learned so<br />

much from him because of this ability to tie the two together<br />

and teach in a manner that involves not only depth, but casual<br />

simplicity and light-hearted humour. - Matthew<br />

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Starts June 3/4<br />

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