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CHAPTER 2<br />
SALESMAN, AD MAN, MIND MAN, PATRIOT<br />
MY PERSONAL EVOLUTION<br />
"Every revolution, bloody or bloodless, has two phases. The first is the<br />
struggle for Freedom; the second the struggle for power. The phase of the<br />
struggle for Freedom is divine. He who has participated in it invariably feels,<br />
physically, that his best and most precious-inner self has come <strong>to</strong> the surface.<br />
We know that being faithful <strong>to</strong> the TRUTH stands higher than our own<br />
participation in governing the country—and that is why we must not have a<br />
suciety that would reject ethical norms in the name of political mirages." 3<br />
As I was saying <strong>to</strong> my grandmother, Mamaleen Johnson, "My life has<br />
turned in<strong>to</strong> a nightmare and I'm wide awake," tears were streaming down my<br />
face, dripping off my chin on<strong>to</strong> her patent leather shoes. She affectionately<br />
patted my shoulder as she listened.<br />
The words we exchanged, the room's wallpaper and furnishings, my<br />
beloved grandmother, Mamaleen. even the taste of my tears combined with a<br />
feeling of overwhelming grief-it is ail there etched in<strong>to</strong> my memory.<br />
This was the summer before I was <strong>to</strong> enter my second year of school in<br />
1950. The first year remains a blur with cause.<br />
Life for me and my family had changed dramatically over the previous year.<br />
So radical a change that it had taken almost a year for me <strong>to</strong> realize life was not<br />
becoming any easier <strong>to</strong> live. My stuttering was getting worse. The rare<br />
moments I could speak coherently were limited <strong>to</strong> short sentences devoid of the<br />
word "you", and then only <strong>to</strong> my mother and grandmother. Occasionally when<br />
angry I could speak clearly, or when alone in the woods while talking or singing<br />
<strong>to</strong> trees. Apparently my frustration with oral communication due <strong>to</strong> stuttering<br />
had been intensified by a trauma I experienced the previous year. Little did I<br />
know then that this trauma would positively and negatively influence my future<br />
and the lives of others I would know for the rest of my life.<br />
On a hot and sticky Tennessee July day in 1949, my father helped boost first<br />
my mother, then me, in<strong>to</strong> the saddle astride our four-year-old high-spirited "gift<br />
horse" Wojac. This was <strong>to</strong> be my first ride on the back of an animal. The<br />
excitement of the moment combined with stuttering rendered me, literally,<br />
speechless. As I recall and from pho<strong>to</strong>graphs taken at the time, I was wearing a<br />
sweat-soaked, pale yellow cot<strong>to</strong>n shirt, dark tan shorts, brown socks, and dirty<br />
tennis shoes. At six years old, I was very thin and did not take up the remaining<br />
saddle space behind my mother.<br />
With the reins in my mother's hands, the horse responded <strong>to</strong> her polite<br />
command of "Come on, Wojac. Giddyup." He began slowly walking down<br />
our driveway <strong>to</strong> the narrow crushed limes<strong>to</strong>ne road beside our property. Upon<br />
reaching the gravel road, the horse turned or was guided left, momentarily<br />
disappointing me as I knew we were only going for a short ride. It was only<br />
about a quarter of a mile <strong>to</strong> the busy paved intersection that would be dangerous<br />
<strong>to</strong> cross. (Had my mother decided <strong>to</strong> go in the opposite direction, we could<br />
have ridden for a couple of miles before reaching any au<strong>to</strong>mobile traffic.)<br />
As quickly as the horse made the turn from our driveway on<strong>to</strong> the country<br />
road, my mother nudged his flanks with her heels. With another command of