UP Magazine Dec 2017

MAGAZINE
DECEMBER 2017
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Contents
December 2017
Issue 1
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4
Interesting facts
about social media
11
Fashion with Emily
8
Inspiration
12
Message from
Carmen
11
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IN THIS ISSUE…
UP WARD
PERFORMANCE
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Morning habits
of a successful
person
19
Becoming a
digital savvy
leader
20
Reflection of
your freedom
22 Instagram
following
article
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30
The Intelligent
Solo Traveler
34
Take the leap
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35
Get Sexy Fit
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Moments in
Transition
Join Upward Performance Facebook group
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10 interesting facts
about social media
Social Media is the combination of the online
communication channels, which are fully applied
to the community-based input, interaction, and
content sharing. It is a future of communication,
which allows people or company to create or share
information, ideas, pictures, videos, and many
other things.
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1.Social Media improves results
Regarding the recent study, about 62% of
the marketers from separate fields have
reported a positive change in their
marketing campaigns and efforts after
they began to use social media as a
foundation of many of their campaigns.
2.Job offers on Linked In
In actuality, one client joins with
LinkedIn's expert system each minute of a
day. The site is utilized by over 60% of
the general population to look for some
employment, apply to work, or fabricate
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their expert systems.

3. Millions of photos on Instagram
As per a current report, more than one
billion photographs were transferred to
Instagram in the year 2012. Not just
that, standard 300 million photos are
moved to this stage making it a sound
stage for picture takers, pros and from
authorities.
4. Small and medium businesses are
benefiting from social media
Small and medium-sized businesses
have started using various social media
platforms to raise their business income,
extend their promoting endeavors, and
find out about their clients. Around 34%
of medium organizations are now
utilizing web-based social networking as
a showcasing apparatus though 27% of
independent companies are
participating.
5.Mobiles makes it more happening
Around 161 million minutes a month are
spent on portable online networking
applications around the globe. Indeed,
according to gossip, individuals have
more cell phones than toothbrushes.
6. Deals on Social Media
We love an unusual arrangement, and
online networking happens to be a
perfect place to discover them. A
current research uncovered that over
67% of Facebook clients like an
organization's page to get a coupon
offering 25% off while 28% offer the
adoration utilizing their online
networking stages.
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7. Games to earn money
Often, you don't anticipate that great
pictures will manifest in your brain if
hear some person taking an interest in
online networking amusements.
Nonetheless, a current review
uncovered that over 79% of individuals
who take an interest in web-based social
networking diversions have a
professional education or better and
44% of them win more than $50,00 a
year. On top of it, the greater part of the
players are more than 40 years of age,
and just about 30% of them are hitched
and have kids.
8. Twitter
Almost one million Twitter accounts are
created, and 340 million tweets are
posted daily. Using Twitter can be a very
useful and helpful asset to most
companies.
9. Social media usage differences
It is accounted for that ladies, for the
most part, utilize Pinterest while men,
for the most part, utilize Google+.
Pinterest is an energizing group of which
you can share your thoughts through
pictures while with Google+ you have
more alternatives for sharing your
contemplation, for example, pictures,
recordings, and articles.
10. Facebook remains unsurpassed
One out of at regular intervals spent
online is utilized to surf, remark, offer
and like pictures, presents, and
recordings transferred on Facebook. In
fact, you can triple the traffic to your
website overnight if you can identify
your audience on Facebook and post
things they are interested in.
These were ten interesting facts about
social media that you must know to use
it to your advantage.
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-Upward Performance Team

Photograph by Eric Froehling
“Women who
invest in
themselves go
further” -unknown
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"Fashions fade, style is eternal.“
—Yves Saint Laurent
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10 THINGS MY MOTHER TAUGHT ME
Carmen R. Loving
When I think of my mom, I think insightful, strong, thoughtful,
creative...all the wonderful things that make up the 'typical Mom’
attributes that others think of when referencing their Mothers. But as I
thought deeper, I never really stood back and played Her “sayings” back
in my head to realize how witty and comical She really is on the
teachings She gave me growing up. Thinking back, and although these
things helped me, the woman was Hilarious! I would like to share some
of them with You. A special tribute to my mom Anita “Chic” Loving…
Enjoy!
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“Baskin AND Robbins
- 31 Flavors.”
She would tell me that “it takes
All kinds to make this world up”,
meaning there are different kinds
of people around me that I will
probably never understand. We
all are different and if that's what
people like or don't like, if that is
who they are or are not, that it is
their prerogative and I should
never look down on others.
(btw...there are more than 1,000
Flavors of Baskin-Robbins these
days)
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“You Just Told on Yourself.”
To just be Honest with myself and not
Perpetuate a Fraud. To lie to myself is one
thing, but to be Hypocritical is just flat-out
confusing. Be sure to Never try to be
something I am not.
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“Be Nice.”
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“Sometimes people are not having the
same day as You, Luv. “You never know
what others are going through. Smile,
say Please and Thank You, and to
always treat others the way that You
prefer to be treated in a kind matter
spreading along goodness to others.
You never know how much it can trickle
down in an effect.
She taught me how to “Do the Right
Thing” as far as courtesy, respecting
others and to Always play Fair. But
some people come along in life and are
simply just A**holes! They cheat, rob
and even steal your joy, pushing you
aside to get what want or to get ahead.
That is when all her Good Teachings
turn into “Now You must hang in there
and Fight!” All the good stuff goes out
of the window and Protecting Me
comes in order.
“Everything I Taught You,
now You have to throw it
out the Window.”
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“You Ain't Invented S#!%.”
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“Don't take things so Personally.”
Things happen to lots of different
people for a lot of different reasons.
Sometimes situations are like others
and some are not, but to know that I
am nowhere near special. She taught
me to not feel as if I am being singled
out and to use my experiences as
lessons to personally learn from.
“Silly Girl!”
She taught me to “Laugh at Myself”
and to not take myself so serious all
the time. To remind myself that we
all make mistakes and that
sometimes just getting through
things and looking at them in a way
of laughing at myself can promote
growth. Besides, it's also the best
medicine, ever!
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“You’ll Figure It Out.”
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To think for myself and not rely on
others for consistent help. My life was
given to me for a reason to figure out
and learn from, and along with having
patience, searching my own answers
will only lead to what will be beneficial
to me.
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“Everybody Don't Have What You Have, Either.”
She taught me to be Grateful for
Everything I have. To be grateful for
my warm heart, my good health, my
and even my small statured frame.
She always reminded me that
comparing myself to others or other
situations could be mentally
dangerous and to practice gratitude
every chance I get. Teaching me that
‘we are all different for a reason’
instilled acceptance of my
uniqueness, keeping my focus on
what is important.
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“What’cha Gonna Do
when it Happens to
You?”
Choices. So, things didn't go my way, or
I hit a brick wall, again? I have a choice
to lay there frustrated and Give Up or
Get up! Things are going to happen for
sure, but I Must decide one way or
another. Complaining about it is not
going to resolve the issue, I am.
Finally, she taught me to explore who I
am and to Never give up on myself. To
know that I am never too old to learn
or discover new things and that there is
a huge Journey ahead for me. She
encouraged me to step into life
Without fear, and with a pursuit of
Happiness and Purpose.
“Keepa’ Livin’!”
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Living a limitless life
Self
Love
Peace
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Once a year,
go someplace
you’ve never
been before.
-Dalai Lama
Photo credits: Merlin Mimms
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Morning habits of highly
On the journey to becoming the very best that you can
possibly be within your own career, it's helpful to take notes
from predecessors about the habits that worked well for
them on their rise to greatness. Review these four morning
habits of highly successful professionals and consider
implementing them into your own career-boosting routine.
Write down goals
Our personal and professional lives are only limited by what
we allow, so if there are specific areas of development that
you wish to improve upon, or if there are goals that you wish
to achieve, write them down. Buy a nice journal and take
some time after waking up to jot down both long-term and
daily goals, as well as a basic game plan for achieving them.
Wake up earlier
If you're normally a night owl and used to staying up late only
to rise later than you should, consider heading to bed an
hour earlier while setting your alarm clock for an hour before
your normal time as well. Aside from sleeping in just
generally being a waste of valuable morning hours,
oversleeping can have the opposite effect you might seek
from your snoozing, and it will leave you tired and hazy.
While one hour may not seem like a large chunk of time,
you'll be pleasantly surprised by how much you can
accomplish within that time frame each morning.
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successful professionals
Exercise
Beginning a workout routine, especially one that starts first
thing in the morning, is an adjustment for many people.
However, the boost of adrenaline and endorphins right after
waking up combines to craft the perfect cocktail for jump
starting your day on an energetic and clear-headed note.
Exercise increases overall positivity and reduces stress
levels, so it's an ideal addition to the morning of any
professional looking to improve their career performance.
Meditate
When your thoughts start to jumble together and your
workload becomes overwhelming, it's of the utmost
importance to find an outlet for releasing the built-up stress
and tension each day. Whether you deal with anxiety,
depression, or general stress, mediation can put you in a
more enlightened state of mind each morning. Take a few
minutes to sit and reflect quietly in solitude and take note of
everything you're thankful for as well as things you're
looking forward to. Your overall outlook will dramatically
improve and you'll gain a newfound sense of clarity to take
with you to the office.
Jennifer Logan
Founder of Upward Performance, LLC 19
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A Reflection of Your Freedom
God Bless,
Donnica Crossland
God said your behavior will be a reflection of your
freedom. As sit to write I had a thought of all
that’s going on in the world today. God said to me
your behavior is a reflection of your freedom. As
we walk out our life daily as believers of Christ,
non-believers, citizens of American, non-citizens,
employed, unemployed, etc. our life is developed
through our behavior. I had to stop in my tracks
and think about my behavior in all areas of my
life…. Am I being an example of what I share with
others daily. And I was reminded that my good
outweighs my bad on any given day when I
acknowledge the error of my ways…you’re
probably asking why would I do that…I’m glad you
asked that question. I realize out of all that I’ve
been through the last five years it was all in God’s
plan for my life and my outcome was all in my
behavior and response during my situation!! I had
to recognize that better days couldn’t come if I
focused on the negative of the situation I had to
remember that God would never leave me nor
forsake me but my behavior had to line up with
what I believed God to do in my life. When I look
back over what God has brought me through I
realize I never would have made without Him so
today I encourage you that whatever you’re going
through seek God’s guidance and line up your
behavior with what you’re believing God to do for
you.
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5 key
strategies to
build more
Instagram
followers
Building a big social media following is
crucial for your business in this era of
the internet and mobile devices.
Engaged followers can lead more
people to your website, increase your
sales, or help in growing your overall
brand reach. When it comes to social
media, the best social network for
businesses today is by far Instagram.
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Why Instagram, you ask? Well, among all other
social media, studies show that Instagram users
show the highest engagement. Now that we made
that clear, you must be wondering: "If that's so,
how can I grow my Instagram following?" Fear not,
we've got you covered. Here are 5 proven
techniques you can use to grow your Instagram
audience:
Optimize your profile
Use the right hashtags
Post A LOT and AT THE RIGHT
TIME
Don't slack on your post
quality
Utilize your
Competition
-Jenn Logan
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Becoming a
stay at home
mom
Can we really have it all… a career, the good life and parenthood? Can parents afford to raise a child on one income? How
can new parents decide whether to work or stay home with the kids?
Kristie Tamsevicius, author of I Love My Life: A Mom’s Guide to Working from Home says that the answer has never
been clearer. Since September 11, 2001, people are going back to basics. Fueled by frustration with their current work
environments, people long to spend more time at home with their families. This desire has led millions of parents to say
“goodbye” to corporate America and “hello” to a work at home career.
One of the toughest decisions you face is whether you will stay at home with the children or go back to work. Financially,
it can be difficult to make the switch to living on one income. Additionally, women often wonder if they are sacrificing
their career by choosing to stay at home.
New parents are overwhelmed with the onslaught of child relating expenses including baby gear, clothing, diapers, and
medical bills. In fact, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture, raising a child from birth to age 2 costs $13,400 a
year. So how can families cut back and survive on less income and endure these added costs?
The common myth is that if both parents work, there will be more income.
But this is not always the case. If you add up the numbers, oftentimes you are not getting ahead financially by working
and paying daycare. When you subtract childcare costs, auto expenses, dry cleaning and other work-related expenses
many find they are not making that much by working outside the home. The truth is that we trap ourselves into thinking
that we need two incomes to survive. Whether it’s keeping up with the Jones’ or buying high tech toys, it seems when you
make more, you spend more. When our income increases, instead of banking the difference, we raise our standard of
living.
The pressures of dual working parents can weigh on a family. Sometimes working mothers feel guilty for wanting to
work away from home. Then there is the issue of balance. Juggling the pressures of work and home can be tough. Trying
to make sure meals are made, the house is clean, and the bills get paid between running kids to soccer practice is trying.
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We must ask what we are teaching our kids with our busy lifestyles.
Are we teaching our kids that this pace of life is normal and desirable?
Will daycare teach your kids the values you would?
No one will love and teach your kids the way you do. Daycare will attend to the physical needs of your child, but are they
teaching your kids the values and lessons you would? In situations such as the bullying kid at daycare, or the fight over
toys is the daycare provider shaping your child’s character in the same way you would?
Children reap vast benefits when moms stay at home. Mothers can provide care with love. They are there to discipline and
teach proper behaviors. While spending quality time, mothers can develop a lasting bond with their children. This bond
creates a stronger sense of security and wellbeing within the child.
Kids enjoy other benefits too. Moms can provide a more varied diet and better nutrition. And children receive more
mental stimulation when one on one sharing time with mom.
How can moms learn to live on less and stay at
home with the kids? Shopping smart saves money.
Spending conscious minded moms cut coupons,
look for sales, and buy in bulk to cut costs. Many
families are learning that a simple life beats the
pressures of trying to keep up. By setting a lower
standard of living, you can learn to enjoy the
simple things. You teach your children that wealth
lies not in material possessions, but in the joy of
living.
Working from home can help parents to have the
best of both worlds by having precious family time
and extra income via becoming a mompreneur.
Working from home offers a variety of benefits
including being your own boss, flexibility, the
ultimate office space, no commute, increased
control, time with family, and the sheer joy of
designing your own business and life.
Entrepreneurship offers thrills, stimulation,
challenge, and a new powerful choice-driven reality.
It provides an option for single parents and families
struggling with family and career concerns. It’s
allowing dads to quit the 9-to-5 grind and stay at
home with the kids.
-Upward Performance Staff
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Your Dream is Still There
Vi Jones
“What do you plan on doing when you graduate high
school?” “What do you want to be” my business
correspondence teacher asked? During the time I was in high
school it was a different world. The teachers were actually
educators back then. “I don’t know, maybe a teacher”. I said
that because she was a teacher. I thought to myself, I could be
a musician or an actress, a nurse, even a model. Those are
the only African American role models I had seen.
My world was small then; I had not traveled or experienced
much outside of my immediate community.
I had dreams even then; however those dreams did not
materialize. I became an unwed teen; hopes for dreams
became a nightmare. Needless to say that was a set-back.
But as I have journeyed through life (for years) through two
marriages and three children, my dream is still there. The
dream of accomplishing. Of wanting more. Doing more, not
only for myself, but to serve my community, as well as leave a
legacy to my family that it is possible to see your dream
materialize. I realized that my dream was still there because I
never forgot it.
I can begin again. You can begin again. You may not be able
to ‘go back’ and start over, but you can start today and make a
new ending.
Having some setbacks? Never allow a small setback ruin your
future. You are not alone. No one comes to maturity
unscathed; no one is exempt from trouble; trouble is
inevitable.
The circumstances and events that we view as setbacks are
oftentimes the very things that launch us into periods of
intense spiritual growth.” Charles Stanley
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Joseph, in the Bible (Gen. 30-50), is one of Jacob’s sons and was obviously
favorite. He was hated by his brothers, not only because he was favored by
his father, but for his dreams, as well. He told his family of the dreams that
he would rule over them. Joseph was sold into slavery because his brothers
were jealous of him. Consequently, he was thrown into prison unfairly.
Would you call those incidents setbacks? Me too. Joseph was a man of
integrity, a man of wisdom and confidence. These are characteristics that
allowed him to survive the pain while most would have failed.
Joseph was betrayed and deserted by his family, exposed to sexual
temptation, and then punished for doing the right thing.
Can you identify with one or more of these hardships that Joseph
experienced? Been betrayed by a family member? Lied on and was punished
for doing the right thing? Helped people and they forget you in your time of
trouble?
Do as Joseph did. Joseph kept a good attitude. That’s what I did although I
was in a negative environment.
This is key: God showed Joseph his destiny in a dream when he was a
teenager which validates the fact that Joseph was destined for greatness; so
are you.
Yes, Joseph suffered many things (as did I), but he was also destined to come
out of them. Dear reader, just know that when you are suffering through a
setback, have a Joseph-like attitude. Yes, there will be pain on your path to
purpose, but you too, are on your way to greatness!
I implore you to do as I did. I talked to myself. I got up off the floor, and told
myself: “let’s go”. Do it now! I have wasted a lot of precious time because I
did not know who I was. Well, I’ve done enough of times, and I’m not doing
that anymore. Do not allow anyone to make you feel insignificant. Surround
yourself with those that are succeeding; those that have been where you
desire to go. Go back and dust off your dream.
“Don’t tell people your dream. Show them.”
Vi Jones
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The Intelligent Solo Traveler
-by Sade Griggs
For some, traveling to the most enchanting, breathtaking places is a dream too far to reach. Others, the
wanderlust individual, take life by its handles and travel far and wide no matter the circumstances. As for
me, I've traveled a plenty of family road trips across America during my childhood. Mainly due to the fact
that my parents and grandparents were much too fearful of getting on any plane or ship but deep inside
I knew there was more to be discovered. Until a few years ago, I took my very first international trip to
Okinawa, Japan. Since then, the need to travel has become an insatiable desire.
Herein lies for what was an issue. I was trapped in quite the dilemma. Not everyone close to me shared
my same desire nor did they have the freedom in their careers and lives or finances to travel. So do I wait
for that friend or family member or do I plan that vacation and go solo? Well, lets just say that now when
I am hungry for that travel thrill, I pack my bags and go!
I know what you may be thinking; A single traveler is sure to pay a more considerable price compared to
traveling in twos, right? Wrong! The single traveler market is exponentially growing. In fact, solo travelers
have been the key trend in 2017. Responding to the increase demand, cruise lines, tour operators,
hotels, and all inclusive resorts are now accommodating for one-person travelers and even offering
special single deals and incentives. That is incredible news for those curious minds.
Ok, so the big elephant that's sitting here, allow me to get that out of the room. Is traveling solo safe?
One can conclude that traveling in pairs or groups are obviously much safer. However, traveling solo can
be as well if simple, common sense precautions are utilized. They include, but not limited to, avoiding to
appear like a tourist, staying in open, well lit areas, limiting alcohol intake, keeping family and friends
informed of your whereabouts, planning your stays ahead of time, and researching the area of your
destination for the latest news, events and information on locals.
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Now, let's take a quick escapade through my first solo adventure, which happened to be a trip across the
country. Whew, what a drive that was but one experience that was amazing and life changing, to say the
least. As I packed my house to be shipped by freight, I sought to put some miles on my Acura and trek
the road from Los Angeles, California to Charlotte, North Carolina alone. Weeks before, I planned my
route, researched destinations and activities in each state, and budgeted my expenses based on gas
mileage, hotel costs, and expenses for activities and food along the route. I got my car fully serviced to
ensure no major car issues ensued. I informed family and friends of my plans to travel alone. On my
phone, I downloaded the best recommended apps for traveling long distances that also had special
features that alerted family and friends on my exact location (Waze road trippers). I was all geared up.
Off I went, out of California heading straight to the historical, scenic Route 66. Depending on my
destination and activity for the day, I would alternatively take Highway 40. The route crossed over in to
Arizona, New Mexico, Texas, Oklahoma, Arkansas, and Tennessee spending a day or two in each state site
seeing, participating in activities and events, meeting new people, trying favorite dishes and popular
restaurants, and experiencing the culture in its entirety.
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If you are that someone who desires to travel alone but
concerned of its safety, that you will be lonely or not
have as much fun, I highly encourage you to face that
fear and go. Go somewhere, anywhere. Instead of
buying the new pair of shoes or spending money to keep
up with the next fad, your money could be used on
experiences, something that you can never put a price
tag on. The stigma that traveling alone will leave you
lonely at heart is a thing of the past. More travelers are
choosing to see the world on their own terms than ever
before.
Take that leap and when you are ready for that next
vacation and travel adventure, book with me as your
personal travel agent atwww.sadegriggs.inteletravel.com
or contact me at sadenichole@gmail.com for exclusive
rates and deals. And if we are lucky enough, I'll catch you
on a flight, cruise, or even at a gas station!
The Intelligent Solo Traveler
Go Global with Sade
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Discover your untapped potential by taking the leap.
-Jenn Logan
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MOMENTS OF TRANISITION
Has there ever been a time in your life where it seem as if everything was being turned upside down?
You might have experienced a layoff at work? A financial setback in your business? Or even a closing of a
business? Most would consider these events to be failures. Well, they’re not! These are moments of
TRANSITION. Transitions are not moments of failure, but moments to discover and experience a
GREATER YOU. I figured this out as I was experienced a tremendously painful transition in my business
and professional life. Here’s just a brief insight on what took place. My partners and I had built a
seemingly successful Non-emergency medical transportation company. We had just crossed over the
five year mark, feeling greatly accomplished, we began to strategically plan out the next five years. Then
the bomb dropped. We had expanded the business too soon and the cost of it all began to take its toll.
We needed to do some fast restructuring. We started downsizing our offices by eliminating three out of
five locations. But looking deeper into the situations, the forecast showed that closing those locations
had a greater impact on our bottom line. Therefore, we had to shut our doors completely. Our five years
had just end; now, what do we do? Transition!!!!!
When we are desiring a change within ourselves, business, or an organization transition is necessary.
Through a transitional period the process may seem very murky and uncertain. Someone once told me
that continuing to do the same things over and over and expecting different results it’s called, INSANITY!
We have to change our positions in life in order to obtain new purpose, new territory and a new YOU.
But many times, we look upon the transitioning process as failure, instead of an opportunity to discover
untapped potential, untapped opportunity, or even undeveloped ideas. That is exactly what we had
experienced in our transitional period.
Here’s three tips that I am going to share that can help you through a transitional period in life. If you
only applied one, I believe you will come out on the other side greater than before. Are You READY!?
© Moments of Transition,
Aspiring Coaching, LLC. 36

Tip 1. Focus your attention. Instead of focusing on what happened, shift your
thinking to focusing your attention on what’s happening in you. What does
this mean? In transition, you have to do in introspective look at your
situation and recognize the “learning moments”. In every problem there lays
the solution to that problem. As a leader you have to dig within the problem
to extract the answer. By doing so, you have just turned your transition in to
a transformation! Now, you’ve gain new insight and abilities to carry you into
your next venture for greater success.
Tip 2. Be aware of your conversations. One of the greatest books of wisdom
says, “Death and life is in the power of the tongue…..” In our transitional
moments we have to be extremely careful how we express our thoughts,
emotions and concerns. You have to even take it one step further, be
cautious of the people you share your transition with. Every one doesn’t
have the perspective of a leader to give you the necessary insight to deal with
the situation in the consciousness of a leader. As a leader we always
transition to transform to…..GREATER!!!
Tip 3. Monitor you thinking. In the moments of transition our ability to think
clearly is highly necessary. I once heard a mentor say, “what you focus on you
empower”. Those words always ring loud to me when I’m experiencing a
transition. During a transition, you have to focus on the process of the
transition and not the transition. However there should be equal time
thinking about how this transition will be used to bring you into new
opportunities, new territories, and new relationships and a new YOU! Your
ability to use the POWER OF THINKING can take what seems to be a failure
and transform it into a catalyst that can change lives and make millions of
dollars. Proper thinking can turn messes into life changing messages. As a
leader we understand that failure is the part of the success system process
for Transformation!
So next time when you find yourself in a transition, get excited. There’s
greater opportunities waiting on the other side along with a NEW AND
GREATER YOU!
Transition Well,
Anthony D. Cherry, Sr.,
Aspiring Coaching, LLC.
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