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<strong>December</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />

Vol 5 No 5<br />

Q&A with<br />

RICKY SMILEY<br />

SWLA feature<br />

My Best<br />

Christmas Ever<br />

<strong>The</strong> Man Behind <strong>The</strong> Laughs My Senior Moments 2.0<br />

Joyce R. Kebodeaux<br />

<strong>The</strong><br />

Business<br />

Titan <strong>of</strong><br />

Tomorrow<br />

ERIKA SIMON<br />

Vice President <strong>of</strong> the Children's<br />

Advocacy Center and Court<br />

Appointed Special Advocates (COSA)<br />

MISSION POSSIBLE<br />

CAJUN NAVY RELIEF "Getting It Done"<br />

GIFTS AND<br />

MORE...<br />

More than Gifts<br />

Breaking the bank<br />

does not have to be an<br />

option...<br />

–Kris Welcome


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editor’s<br />

By Brenda Hill<br />

A Savior Indeed...<br />

When Jesus was born, to Virgin Mary<br />

He was 100 percent God, and 100 percent Man.<br />

Word from the beginning, Word made flesh.<br />

Once He arrived, with humanity to tarry<br />

He learned obedience through suffering, and, withstood the limited constraints <strong>of</strong> time and space...<br />

Yet,<br />

Mindful <strong>of</strong> all His creation, male and female,<br />

He blessed them with dominion, the whole human race!<br />

God with us – Emmanuel<br />

Altogether, He made us able to subdue,<br />

to rule with power, the earth,<br />

the fish in the sea, the birds <strong>of</strong> the air and all creeping things.<br />

To think! He trusted me and you.<br />

Though sometimes we get confused and act like we have wings,<br />

I am called to see you as my sister, my brother.<br />

We are not to rule and have power over each other!<br />

Now that this is, the season recognized to honor His birth,<br />

Let it also reveal the reason to learn <strong>of</strong> Him<br />

And honor His way, His truth, His life.<br />

As with Peter’s mother, a centurion’s daughter, and the woman that touched His garment’s hem,<br />

You just may discover a reason <strong>of</strong> great worth<br />

why the covering is being removed<br />

from current<br />

hidden<br />

secret<br />

strife<br />

Merry Christmas<br />

Luke 2<br />

Genesis 2<br />

Hebrews 2<br />

Mathew 8<br />

Luke 8<br />

Isaiah 7<br />

Psalms 44<br />

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Dec <strong>2017</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Voice</strong>'s Choice<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Voice</strong>'s Choice will spotlight groups, individuals or topics that<br />

spread love, joy and peace throughout SWLA.<br />

Nwora Emeke Amechi<br />

Fairley (meaning: First born<br />

noble son that knows that<br />

which is forthcoming).<br />

Nwora E.A. Fairley is<br />

the loving father <strong>of</strong> 3<br />

children: Nihya Lin Fairley,<br />

Malachi Ajani Fairley, and<br />

Naomi Grace Fairley. He<br />

attended Aldine High<br />

School in Houston, Texas<br />

and graduated in the top<br />

10% <strong>of</strong> 700 students. He is<br />

a McNeese State University<br />

alum, graduating with a BA<br />

in Graphic Design and MEd<br />

in Instructional Technology.<br />

He is an active member <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity<br />

Inc., having pledged in 1989.<br />

Nwora is a seasoned graphic<br />

designer with over 20 years<br />

<strong>of</strong> experience. He turns<br />

visions into reality for many<br />

businesses and individuals<br />

throughout SWLA. He is also<br />

strategic in Mobile Marketing<br />

and Social Network<br />

Management.<br />

He designed the original<br />

KZWA 104.9 FM radio logo, an<br />

iconic symbol <strong>of</strong> the historic<br />

legacy left by the late Ms.<br />

Faye Brown Blackwell. He<br />

volunteers as a Track Coach<br />

at LaGrange High School,<br />

Lake Charles Site Coach for<br />

U.S. Express Track Club and a<br />

non-pr<strong>of</strong>it USATF youth track<br />

team. He is also a member <strong>of</strong><br />

W.O.K.E. (Watching Our Kings<br />

Evolve), a mentoring group<br />

for young men. He has a deep<br />

love and devotion to assist<br />

small to medium businesses<br />

achieve their dreams.<br />

Nwora has joined forces<br />

with the Small Business<br />

Summit, which is a division<br />

<strong>of</strong> the Lake Charles North<br />

Redevelopment Authority to<br />

provide free business training<br />

and resources.<br />

CONTENTS<br />

14 FEATURE<br />

My Best<br />

Christmas<br />

Ever<br />

When I asked Liz<br />

Eastman, “What was<br />

your best Christmas<br />

ever?” her spontaneous<br />

answer was, “When I<br />

was in seventh grade. I<br />

got a fishing pole and a<br />

record player.”<br />

24 AVENTURES OF THE LAKE<br />

Healthy Happy<br />

Victory<br />

Juice Thyme Plus<br />

owner, Sharon<br />

Antoine wanted<br />

to change her<br />

own lifestyle and<br />

move in a healthier<br />

direction...<br />

Editor-In-Chief<br />

Brenda Hill<br />

brenda@thevoice<strong>of</strong>southwestla.com<br />

General Manager<br />

Tracy Clark<br />

tracy@thevoice<strong>of</strong>southwestla.com<br />

Art Director<br />

Vinh Alexander<br />

tvswlart@gmail.com<br />

Sales<br />

Lori Ross<br />

loriross3422@gmail.com<br />

Copy Editors<br />

Jason Clark<br />

Cecely Clark<br />

Ann Champagne<br />

Consultants<br />

Gene R. Hill, Sr.<br />

Reginald Clark<br />

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS<br />

Cheri L. Soileau, AICP, Executive/MPO<br />

Director<br />

Shining the Light (Contributed Article)<br />

Emily Ashworth RN, BSN<br />

Kris Welcome<br />

Carra Sergeant, LPC<br />

Joyce R. Kebodeaux<br />

Ronald J. Blanchard<br />

Tori Hebert<br />

Ian Thibodeaux<br />

3 EDITOR'S PEN<br />

A SAVIOR INDEED...<br />

5 I-10 BRIDGE<br />

IMPERIAL CALCASIEU REGIONAL PLANNING & DEVELOPMENT<br />

COMMISSION<br />

6 MISSION POSSIBLE<br />

CAJUN NAVY RELIEF<br />

8 WHAT IS LIFE?<br />

LIFE IS A VAPOR...JAMES 4:14<br />

10 GIFTS AND MORE...<br />

MORE THAN GIFTS<br />

12 SWLA GIVING<br />

GIVING BACK: THE ULTIMATE PATH TO HAPPINESS<br />

4<br />

14 SWLA FEATURE STORY<br />

MY BEST CHRISTMAS EVER<br />

16 REFLECTIVE LIGHT<br />

ALL ABOUT LOVE<br />

18 SWLA BUSINESS<br />

A VOICE FOR CHANGE: THE BUSINESS TITAN OF TOMORROW<br />

20 ANOTHER SEASON IN THE BOOKS<br />

MCNEESE FOOTBALL LEFT OUT OF PLAYOFFS<br />

24 ADVENTURES OF THE LAKE<br />

JUICE THYME PLUS - HEALTHY HAPPY VICTORY<br />

26 Q&A WITH RICKEY SMILEY<br />

THE MAN BEHIND THE LAUGHS<br />

DISCLOSURE: All materials contained in the publication are copy-righted and may not be reproduced or reprinted in part or its entirety without the expressed written<br />

permission <strong>of</strong> <strong>The</strong> <strong>Voice</strong> <strong>of</strong> SWLA. <strong>The</strong> views expressed in articles <strong>of</strong> <strong>The</strong> <strong>Voice</strong> <strong>of</strong> SWLA are not necessarily the views <strong>of</strong> the ownership or sponsors in this publication. <strong>The</strong> <strong>Voice</strong> <strong>of</strong><br />

SWLA assumes no liability for errors or omissions. Every effort has been made to ensure the accuracy <strong>of</strong> all content.<br />

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Cover<br />

By Vinh Photography<br />

Credits to Adrian Said Mason<br />

for photos in Nov <strong>2017</strong>, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Voice</strong><br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>Southwest</strong> <strong>Louisiana</strong> Vol 5(4),<br />

Adventures <strong>of</strong> the Lake pg. 24.<br />

AdrianSaid.org


SWLA news<br />

Editor's Note: This is the 12th and final article in a year-long series<br />

that focused on the Interstate 10 Bridge replacement project.<br />

I-10<br />

Bridge<br />

Imperial Calcasieu Regional<br />

Planning & Development<br />

Commission<br />

By Cheri L. Soileau, AICP, Executive/MPO Director<br />

IMCAL is not only the regional<br />

planning commission for the<br />

five-parish area, but we also<br />

provide the technical staff for the<br />

MPO (Metropolitan Planning<br />

Organization).<br />

<strong>The</strong> MPO is a federally-mandated<br />

agency that facilitates the<br />

planning and coordinates the<br />

construction <strong>of</strong> transportation projects<br />

throughout the urbanized area. <strong>The</strong><br />

urbanized area includes the cities <strong>of</strong><br />

Lake Charles, Sulphur and Westlake and<br />

part <strong>of</strong> Calcasieu Parish. <strong>The</strong>re are two<br />

committees <strong>of</strong> the MPO: the Technical<br />

Advisory Committee (TAC) which<br />

consists <strong>of</strong> technical staff (engineers,<br />

planners, administrators) from not only<br />

the cities and parish but DOTD District<br />

7, the Port <strong>of</strong> Lake Charles, Chennault<br />

Airfield, Lake Charles Airport and the<br />

Calcasieu Parish School Board. This<br />

group is the advisory body to the<br />

Transportation Policy Committee (TPC).<br />

<strong>The</strong> TPC is made up <strong>of</strong> the Mayors<br />

<strong>of</strong> Lake Charles, Sulphur, Westlake, a<br />

representative <strong>of</strong> Calcasieu Parish and<br />

the Administrator <strong>of</strong> DOTD District 7.<br />

IMCAL provides two transportation<br />

planners, a regional safety coordinator<br />

and a director to support the activities<br />

<strong>of</strong> the MPO. <strong>The</strong> major activities include<br />

planning, for the near and far term,<br />

coordinating transportation projects<br />

and providing support to Lake Charles<br />

Transit and the Human Services<br />

Transportation agencies throughout<br />

the five-parish region.<br />

Every year, a Unified Planning Work<br />

Program is submitted to DOTD and<br />

Federal Highways Administration<br />

(FHWA) that outlines the planning<br />

activities for the next year. Other<br />

significant documents include the<br />

Transportation Improvement Plan (TIP)<br />

and the Metropolitan Transportation<br />

Plan (MTP).<br />

<strong>The</strong> TIP shows programmed projects,<br />

within a fiscal constraint, for the next<br />

five years throughout the MPO Study<br />

area. <strong>The</strong> TIP projects are submitted<br />

by member cities and the parish and<br />

must comply with the fiscal constraints<br />

<strong>of</strong> the area. <strong>The</strong> MPO currently has a<br />

$3.3 million budget for transportation<br />

projects each year. Each entity is<br />

responsible for the development <strong>of</strong><br />

their project. Projects are ranked and<br />

added to the TIP throughout the year.<br />

<strong>The</strong> MTP has a 20-year planning<br />

horizon and is the guiding document<br />

for planning for growth and<br />

expansion <strong>of</strong> transportation systems<br />

throughout the study area and beyond.<br />

Transportation is rarely confined to<br />

one political boundary or area, so it is<br />

important that this study encompasses<br />

all factors which influence and impact<br />

traffic throughout the MPO study area.<br />

<strong>The</strong> MTP update is due in July 2019<br />

and work on the update is expected to<br />

commence shortly. As part <strong>of</strong> the MTP<br />

update, the MPO will be conducting<br />

a very robust public outreach to<br />

engage as many citizens as possible.<br />

It is important that all citizens be<br />

involved and aware <strong>of</strong> the process<br />

and contribute to the planning for the<br />

future.<br />

This is just a snapshot <strong>of</strong> what work<br />

the MPO does. For more information,<br />

please feel free to contact the <strong>of</strong>fice at<br />

337-433-1771 or check out our website:<br />

imcal.la<br />

Cheri L. Soileau, AICP,<br />

Executive/MPO Director<br />

Imperial Calcasieu Regional<br />

Planning & Development<br />

Commission<br />

Lake Charles Urbanized MPO<br />

4310 Ryan Street, Suite 330 Lake<br />

Charles LA 70605<br />

O: 337-433-1771<br />

C: 469-964-2015<br />

www.imcal.la<br />

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SWLA news<br />

Mission<br />

Possible<br />

Cajun<br />

Navy<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cajun Navy Relief<br />

being honored at the<br />

Cancer Awareness Walk<br />

in Beaumont, Texas<br />

Relief<br />

Shining the Light (Contributed Article)<br />

We can all vividly remember<br />

the hurricanes that crashed<br />

onto <strong>Louisiana</strong>’s shores<br />

in 2005. <strong>The</strong> government’s limited<br />

resources to help the state conduct<br />

rescue missions gave birth to <strong>The</strong><br />

Cajun Navy. Fast forward to 2016, the<br />

floods that inundated Baton Rouge<br />

and surrounding areas gave birth to<br />

a more diversified mission called the<br />

Cajun Navy Relief. <strong>The</strong>ir multifaceted<br />

assistance approach has set them aside<br />

from other disaster relief entities.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cajun Navy Relief is a 501<br />

(c)3 organization. <strong>The</strong> nonpr<strong>of</strong>it<br />

organization is made-up <strong>of</strong> men<br />

and women volunteers who<br />

dedicate their time (endless<br />

hours, seven days a week),<br />

resources, finances and energy<br />

to assist and rebuild the lives <strong>of</strong><br />

people during a disaster.<br />

On August 26, <strong>2017</strong>, with the help <strong>of</strong><br />

Zello (phone app) approximately 200<br />

volunteers with boats, canoes, trucks<br />

and rescue equipment met under<br />

the awning <strong>of</strong> the Civic Center to<br />

strategize a rescue mission plan. Mike<br />

Reid (former law enforcement) led<br />

the group and efficiently dispatched<br />

volunteers across <strong>Louisiana</strong> and Texas.<br />

Shortly after the rescue missions began,<br />

additional assistance and resources<br />

began to arrive from across the United<br />

States.<br />

Mike Reid, Jason Waymire, Linda<br />

Clark-Fonda, Jeff Mott, and Tommy<br />

McClelland, a group <strong>of</strong> Lake Charles<br />

volunteers who became involved<br />

during Hurricane Harvey remain<br />

involved today. Ms. Linda (Clark Bail<br />

Bonds) and Carl Webb traveled to<br />

Rockport, TX to distribute eleven pallets<br />

<strong>of</strong> water and mixed supplies. Mike Reid<br />

leads <strong>The</strong> Cajun Navy Relief in Lake<br />

Charles, LA, overseeing various disaster<br />

relief work sites across <strong>Louisiana</strong> and<br />

Texas.<br />

Disaster relief efforts began with Phase<br />

I encompassing rescue missions and<br />

resource distribution. Distribution sites<br />

stocked items from food (baby, pet) and<br />

water to household items (blankets,<br />

air mattresses, generators, fans, and<br />

blowers). Phase II is in effect, rehabbing<br />

homes (mudding out and installing<br />

sheetrock) in the Terrace area <strong>of</strong> Lake<br />

Charles. Phase III is in the planning<br />

stage with more resources being<br />

identified. Community distribution will<br />

begin in the near future.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cajun Navy Relief has gained the<br />

support <strong>of</strong> the community across<br />

<strong>Louisiana</strong> and Texas and has created<br />

strong partnerships. <strong>The</strong> Church <strong>of</strong> the<br />

King (Lake Charles, LA) provided their<br />

warehouse as a main distribution site<br />

which allows volunteers (with trucks/<br />

trailers) to continue to haul resources<br />

to other warehouses, churches<br />

and residential homes throughout<br />

southeast Texas and <strong>Louisiana</strong>. <strong>The</strong><br />

Voluntary Organizations Active in<br />

Disaster (VOAD) has provided financial<br />

support and resources. <strong>The</strong> Cajun Navy<br />

Relief has recruited skilled volunteers<br />

and secured resources from local<br />

businesses. <strong>The</strong>y have been honored<br />

for their commitment; Church <strong>of</strong> the<br />

King and Open Gate Church in Lake<br />

Charles, LA as well as the Thanksgiving<br />

Parade in Houston, Texas.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cajun Navy Relief understands that<br />

we can only depend on a unified effort<br />

to rebuild communities and that’s why<br />

they are “Getting it Done!”<br />

If you have been affected and need<br />

assistance due to the floods or<br />

Hurricane Harvey, contact the Cajun<br />

Navy Relief website, Cajunnavyrelief.<br />

com or Church <strong>of</strong> the King (Lake<br />

Charles) website, Church<strong>of</strong>theking.us<br />

for assistance.<br />

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Shaklee’s products are made <strong>of</strong> the highest quality naturally-sourced<br />

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SWLA health, wealth & wellness Inform, Educate, Empower<br />

What is<br />

Life?<br />

Life is a vapor…James 4:14<br />

I<br />

asked my eleven-year-old son,<br />

“What is life?” He answered,<br />

“Something that has been given to<br />

me that is precious and is not always<br />

going to be there for some people.”<br />

He paused and went on to say, “It can<br />

be taken at any time so cherish every<br />

moment you have.” A few years ago I<br />

would have thought his response was<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>ound for a child, but the society we<br />

live in today has so many moments <strong>of</strong><br />

violence, suicide, and death that I can’t<br />

help but understand why he responded<br />

in the manner that he did.<br />

Both <strong>of</strong> our children are in middle school,<br />

and they <strong>of</strong>ten discuss topics that I would<br />

not have expected to expound upon with<br />

them until they were in high school. One<br />

<strong>of</strong> those topics is suicide. My daughter<br />

told me about a young lady that<br />

attended her school that was a “cutter.”<br />

She said the young lady told her that<br />

other children were saying things about<br />

her on social media, so she attempted<br />

suicide by cutting herself. <strong>The</strong>re are so<br />

many youth today experiencing sadness<br />

and depression that encapsulates them<br />

to the point <strong>of</strong> despair that may lead to<br />

suicide. According to the Centers for<br />

Disease Control and Prevention, suicide<br />

is the second leading cause <strong>of</strong> death in<br />

children starting at age ten through their<br />

teenage years and into young adulthood.<br />

I urge everyone to go to the attached<br />

link https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/<br />

publications/nimh-answers-questionsabout-suicide/index.shtml<br />

to the National<br />

By Emily Ashworth RN, BSN<br />

Institute <strong>of</strong> Mental Health and read more<br />

about the risk factors, warning signs and<br />

guidance on what to do if someone you<br />

know is suicidal.<br />

<strong>The</strong> holidays can be a time <strong>of</strong> sadness<br />

for those who have lost loved ones or<br />

may be experiencing tough times.<br />

In Loving Memory:<br />

L-R: Pictured wearing their traditional church hats<br />

are Emily and Mrs. Annie Ray Ashworth, Emily's<br />

husband's grandmother, who passed away February<br />

<strong>2017</strong>. <strong>The</strong>y have the rich tradition <strong>of</strong> faith and family<br />

left to pass along to their children and to others.<br />

Reverend Elmore Garner <strong>of</strong> the Mount<br />

Calvary Baptist Church said it best, “You<br />

cannot focus on what you lost. You must<br />

focus on what you have left.” Though at<br />

times this can be difficult, prayer, seeking<br />

counsel from your Pastor, pr<strong>of</strong>essional<br />

counselors, or even talking with those<br />

around you who love and support you<br />

can help shift your focus on“what you<br />

have left.”<br />

As my son so eloquently elaborated in<br />

the opening paragraph, life is a gift! It<br />

is filled with good times, bad times, sad<br />

Nigil speaks about his concerns.<br />

Allonah and Nigil talks with their mom, Emily.<br />

times, negative and positive energy,<br />

laughter, joy, moments <strong>of</strong> peace and<br />

pain. All feelings that we feel and<br />

connect with, good or bad, we feel;<br />

therefore, we are alive! Life, moments<br />

filled with deep breaths <strong>of</strong> air that moves<br />

through our pursed lips, tears that roll<br />

down our cheeks and sometimes fall<br />

into our lap, sighs when we exhale with<br />

memories <strong>of</strong> those who made us laugh,<br />

made us cry and taught us lessons…is all<br />

part <strong>of</strong> living…LIFE!<br />

May the Holiday Season be filled with the<br />

Gift <strong>of</strong> Life and continue as we experience<br />

every single day in the PRESENT!<br />

Be Well and Merry Christmas!<br />

National Suicide Prevention Hotline at<br />

1-800-273-TALK (8255) at any time day<br />

or night 24/7, to talk to someone who<br />

understands. Or go online at www.<br />

suicidepreventionlifeline.org for more<br />

information and help.<br />

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SWLA giving<br />

Gifts and More…<br />

More than Gifts<br />

By Kris Welcome<br />

It’s that delightful time <strong>of</strong> the<br />

year again where we scurry all<br />

over creation to ensure that<br />

our loved ones have the most<br />

magical and splendid holiday<br />

season possible! Though this<br />

time <strong>of</strong> the year brings about a lot<br />

<strong>of</strong> joy and excitement, the anxiety<br />

that comes along with it can seem<br />

unbearable. Menu planning, gift<br />

shopping, decorations, and holiday<br />

family event coordinating can all be<br />

grueling tasks. This year I want to<br />

help sprout some inspiration for gift<br />

ideas that will leave an impression<br />

on the loved ones you hold near and<br />

dear.<br />

Gifting is stressful because you are<br />

responsible for gauging someone’s<br />

personality and needs into an item<br />

or two <strong>of</strong> material possession.<br />

This year I’ve had an epiphany <strong>of</strong><br />

some sorts that has awakened me to<br />

understand the depth <strong>of</strong> enriching<br />

oneself with experiences that create<br />

lifelong memories… Though a good<br />

gift never hurt either!<br />

This year think about taking a<br />

loved one on a tour <strong>of</strong> another<br />

city. Traveling is a relaxing and<br />

rejuvenating activity for people to<br />

partake. One <strong>of</strong> my favorite gifts<br />

to date has been traveling to the<br />

swamp tour in New Orleans. Seeing<br />

the geography <strong>of</strong> another city and<br />

the architecture and landscape it has<br />

to <strong>of</strong>fer is inspiring and renews a love<br />

for the world in which we live. Maybe<br />

your friend has had a hard year and<br />

could use something to invigorate<br />

them for the year to come… Perhaps<br />

your wife has picked up most <strong>of</strong> the<br />

slack as your work has picked up and<br />

she deserves a getaway <strong>of</strong> some sort<br />

to recalibrate. <strong>The</strong>se types <strong>of</strong> events<br />

can be relatively cheap and even<br />

<strong>of</strong>fered on sites like Groupon and<br />

LivingSocial.<br />

Breaking the bank doesn’t<br />

have to be an option when<br />

expressing your appreciation<br />

and adoration for those in<br />

your life!<br />

<strong>The</strong> memory you have given them<br />

will last longer than that Keurig<br />

machine or those Givenchy boots,<br />

anyway. Aside from this, maybe<br />

consider a spa day, a day trip to<br />

another city to just wander or relax,<br />

and maybe even book a flight<br />

somewhere you want to go in the<br />

next few months (the hotel and<br />

other amenities can be bought later,<br />

but the booked flight solidifies the<br />

desire to travel.)<br />

For those who love tackling the<br />

task <strong>of</strong> gift shopping head on,<br />

there are countless resources for<br />

you to breeze through the season<br />

without breaking a sweat! Amazon<br />

has become a hub for all-things gifts.<br />

It doesn’t matter how eccentric,<br />

introverted, weird, sexy, or nerdy<br />

your loved one may be—Amazon<br />

has something to put a smile on<br />

their face (there is even a weird gifts<br />

section on their site!) <strong>The</strong> internet<br />

has become a trusted ally in the<br />

grand scheme <strong>of</strong> all-things shopping.<br />

Sites like uncommongoods.com<br />

and odditymall.com can give you<br />

new gift ideas you’d never imagined<br />

before like custom socks or an eye<br />

glass holder that looks like an owl is<br />

wearing them, a mini donut maker,<br />

and backseat car organizer for<br />

electronics and drinks.<br />

Traditional gifting is an awesome<br />

gesture, but beyond the notion<br />

that it’s the thought that counts<br />

are the impressions we leave upon<br />

our loved ones. Let’s go beyond<br />

the bare minimum and really put<br />

thought into the experiences and<br />

objects that we gift. Your gift is<br />

a representation <strong>of</strong> you—why<br />

not make sure it’s thoughtful,<br />

compassionate, and amazing as<br />

you?!<br />

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SWLA giving<br />

Giving Back:<br />

THE ULTIMATE PATH<br />

TO HAPPINESS<br />

By Carra Sergeant, LPC<br />

‘Tis the season<br />

<strong>of</strong> giving; what<br />

better time to<br />

take a look at the<br />

mental health<br />

benefits <strong>of</strong> giving<br />

and giving back?<br />

“In everything I showed you<br />

that by working hard in this<br />

manner you must help the<br />

weak and remember the<br />

words <strong>of</strong> the Lord Jesus,<br />

that He Himself said, ‘It is<br />

more blessed to give than to<br />

receive.” Acts 20:35<br />

Our lives are richer when we<br />

share, and great joy comes<br />

from helping others to<br />

better their lives. Truly giving<br />

from the heart fills your life<br />

with joy and nourishes your<br />

soul. As Mahatma Gandhi<br />

said, “To find yourself, you<br />

must first lose yourself in<br />

the service <strong>of</strong> others.” Giving<br />

takes you out <strong>of</strong> yourself and<br />

allows you to expand beyond<br />

earthly limitations. <strong>The</strong> act <strong>of</strong><br />

giving kindles self-esteem and<br />

brings happiness. True joy lies<br />

in the act <strong>of</strong> giving without<br />

an expectation <strong>of</strong> receiving<br />

something in return.<br />

When people are asked<br />

why they give, the readiest<br />

answers include: God wants<br />

me to; I feel better about<br />

myself; others need, and I<br />

have; I want to share; it’s only<br />

right. <strong>The</strong> question I would<br />

ask is how did you feel when<br />

you gave to others? I imagine<br />

you felt very pleased with<br />

yourself and happy inside.<br />

It has been my experience<br />

that when we are focused on<br />

giving to others, we’re less<br />

likely to become consumed<br />

by our own concerns and<br />

challenges. Giving provides<br />

an opportunity to look<br />

beyond our own world and<br />

see the bigger picture. A great<br />

perspective can be achieved<br />

by stepping out <strong>of</strong> our own<br />

world and venturing into the<br />

world <strong>of</strong> other people. Our<br />

worries and challenges may<br />

not seem as significant when<br />

compared to other people’s<br />

situations.<br />

A true gift is something<br />

that is enjoyed twice. First,<br />

by the giver who revels in the<br />

pleasure <strong>of</strong> giving something<br />

special. Secondly, it is then<br />

enjoyed by the person who<br />

received the special gift. We<br />

need to realize, however,<br />

that it is not always money or<br />

belongings that people need.<br />

So, at this point, you may find<br />

yourself being a bit skeptical,<br />

wondering what you have to<br />

give. In truth, everybody has<br />

something <strong>of</strong> value to <strong>of</strong>fer.<br />

Many times, giving takes the<br />

form <strong>of</strong> small, personal acts<br />

<strong>of</strong> kindness. It’s the things<br />

that can’t be seen, Iike a<br />

few minutes <strong>of</strong> your time, a<br />

kind word, a simple smile,<br />

some appreciation, a hug <strong>of</strong><br />

reassurance, the sharing <strong>of</strong><br />

some special knowledge, a<br />

helping hand or even a bit<br />

<strong>of</strong> support during a difficult<br />

emotional time.<br />

What, you may be asking,<br />

exactly what does “true<br />

giving” mean? Well,<br />

how <strong>of</strong>ten do you expect<br />

something back from the<br />

person to whom you give<br />

something? If so, it is not true<br />

giving, but instead it is an<br />

ego based form <strong>of</strong> giving. It<br />

is giving with an expectation<br />

<strong>of</strong> something in return. A true<br />

act <strong>of</strong> giving comes from the<br />

same place inside you as your<br />

deepest happiness. <strong>The</strong>y are<br />

inexplicably intertwined.<br />

One philanthropic<br />

organization uses the catchphrase,<br />

“Give ‘til it hurts”.<br />

This approach is not healthy<br />

and can leave us feeling<br />

depleted and taken advantage<br />

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<strong>of</strong>. Here are some tips that will<br />

help you give not until it hurts,<br />

but until it feels great:<br />

••<br />

Find your passion: Our<br />

passion should be the<br />

foundation for our giving.<br />

It is not how much we give,<br />

but how much love we put<br />

into giving.<br />

••<br />

Give your time: <strong>The</strong> gift <strong>of</strong><br />

time is <strong>of</strong>ten more valuable<br />

to the receiver and more<br />

satisfying for the giver than<br />

the gift <strong>of</strong> money.<br />

••<br />

Find ways to integrate your<br />

interests and skills with the<br />

needs <strong>of</strong> others: Selfless<br />

giving, in the absence <strong>of</strong><br />

self-preservation instincts,<br />

becomes overwhelming and<br />

results in fast burn-out.<br />

••<br />

Be proactive, not reactive:<br />

We should set aside time,<br />

examine our options, and<br />

then find the best way to<br />

“give-back” that aligns with<br />

our values.<br />

••<br />

Don’t be guilt-tripped into<br />

giving: <strong>The</strong> key is to find the<br />

approach that best fits. That<br />

way, we are more likely to<br />

gain purpose, meaning and<br />

happiness.<br />

Truly giving something from<br />

the heart is an action which<br />

will fill your life with joy. This<br />

is where the expression to<br />

“give whole heartedly” comes<br />

from. <strong>The</strong> intention behind<br />

your giving is the most<br />

important thing. <strong>The</strong> intention<br />

should always be to create<br />

happiness for both the giver<br />

and the receiver. Simply put, if<br />

you want to experience more<br />

joy, give joy to others. If you<br />

want more love, learn to give<br />

love. If you want appreciation,<br />

learn to give appreciation to<br />

others. <strong>The</strong>se are some <strong>of</strong> life’s<br />

most precious gifts and they<br />

don’t cost you anything.<br />

Every day that goes by<br />

without helping another<br />

is an opportunity missed.<br />

Recognize that others helped<br />

you achieve your merits, and<br />

now you have the opportunity<br />

to pay them back while<br />

paying the effort forward.<br />

As the Apostle Paul said,<br />

“the Lord loveth a cheerful<br />

giver”. No matter what your<br />

circumstances in life, you have<br />

the ability to give. I encourage<br />

you to look for opportunities<br />

where you can give, give<br />

back and help others. This, I<br />

believe, is the ultimate path to<br />

happiness.<br />

<strong>The</strong> rewards <strong>of</strong> giving are<br />

priceless. If you want to<br />

have happiness, you need to<br />

give happiness. If you want<br />

love, you need to give love.<br />

It is only in giving that you<br />

receive. No matter what your<br />

circumstances in life, you have<br />

the ability to give. I encourage<br />

you to look for opportunities<br />

where you can give and help<br />

others. <strong>The</strong> gift <strong>of</strong> joy will<br />

come to you when you give <strong>of</strong><br />

yourself to others. That’s what<br />

life is all about. Let’s practice<br />

and commit our lives to giving<br />

joy. Try it! It works!<br />

To learn more about the<br />

benefits <strong>of</strong> giving, check out<br />

the following:<br />

<strong>The</strong> Neurobiology <strong>of</strong> Giving Versus<br />

Receiving Support: https://www.ncbi.<br />

nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26867078<br />

A Reflection on Serving Others:<br />

http://www.sjpcommunications.<br />

org/images/uploads/documents/<br />

servingothers.pdf<br />

<strong>The</strong> Joy <strong>of</strong> Giving: https://www.<br />

speakingtree.in/blog/the-joy-<strong>of</strong>-givingsharing<br />

Happiness That Comes From Giving:<br />

http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/thetrue-essence-<strong>of</strong>-giving/<br />

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Licensed Pr<strong>of</strong>essional Counselor<br />

Peace from Pieces Counseling Services<br />

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SWLA feature story<br />

My Best<br />

By Joyce R. Kebodeaux<br />

Christmas Ever<br />

Liz Eastman Jennings School picture<br />

Year she got the rod and reel for christmas<br />

Liz as a toddler to second grade<br />

When I asked<br />

Liz Eastman,<br />

“What was your<br />

best Christmas ever?” her<br />

spontaneous answer was,<br />

“When I was in seventh<br />

grade. I got a fishing pole<br />

and a record player.”<br />

This got my attention.<br />

One would think a middle<br />

school girl would ask for<br />

“girly things,”<br />

“I was a bit <strong>of</strong> a tomboy,” Liz<br />

laughs.<br />

As we talked about her gifts I<br />

came to understand why she<br />

was so excited about a rod<br />

and reel. It goes back to her<br />

grandfather, Frank Dietz<br />

Cannon who was an avid<br />

fisherman and hunter. He<br />

passed his passion down<br />

to his children which lives<br />

on today in his greatgreat-grand’s.<br />

A buddy who had moved<br />

to <strong>Louisiana</strong> missed<br />

fishing and hunting with<br />

Frank. He was visiting<br />

back in Indiana. “Frank,”<br />

he said, “there are so<br />

many good places to<br />

hunt and fish. You ought<br />

to come down there.”<br />

When Frank brought up moving to<br />

<strong>Louisiana</strong> to his wife, Bertie Ann, she<br />

wasn’t at all into the idea. “I’d like to see<br />

what it’s like down there,” he bargained<br />

“We can stay for just one year. If you don’t<br />

want to stay after that we’ll move back<br />

here to our families.” After much cajoling,<br />

Bertie finally gave in.<br />

Frank found work here and they began<br />

their life in the sportsman‘s paradise.<br />

By the year’s end the transplants were<br />

firmly rooted in <strong>Louisiana</strong>’s swampy soil.<br />

Making their home in Welch, they happily<br />

lived out their lives there watching their<br />

children and grandchildren grow up to<br />

love hunting and fishing just as Grandpa<br />

did.<br />

Liz was born in Lake Charles. She had<br />

three younger brothers. Her father’s work<br />

took the family to live in several towns<br />

in <strong>Southwest</strong> <strong>Louisiana</strong>. “When we lived<br />

in Ville Platte there were more horse and<br />

buggies than there were cars,” Liz recalls,<br />

“We moved to Jennings when I was in<br />

the sixth grade and I graduated from<br />

Jennings High School.”<br />

With their grandparent’s home in<br />

Welch and Liz and her family in<br />

Jennings they were all very close. While<br />

Frank Cannon taught the grandchildren<br />

to fish just as he had their dad, Grandma<br />

Bertie left her mark on the family too. Liz<br />

chuckled, “On Sundays she loaded up her<br />

black iron pot, some potatoes, seasonings<br />

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and a tub <strong>of</strong> lard. All the roads towards<br />

Cameron were dirt roads. Leaving at two<br />

or three in the morning we each had<br />

our fishing poles in the old car and we<br />

children slept all the way there<br />

Daddy and Grandpa knew all the best<br />

places to catch fish. As soon as we<br />

caught enough for our meal the men<br />

cleaned them. Mama and Grandma<br />

cooked them and we ate outdoors. Once<br />

when we were fishing from the rocks at<br />

the jetties, my little brother was taken by<br />

the tide into the deep water. Grandma<br />

was the fastest. She grabbed his arm and<br />

pulled him back to shore.”<br />

For as long as I can remember Daddy<br />

took us children to the woods near<br />

Evangeline to find a Christmas tree.<br />

In those days everybody cut down a<br />

pine tree growing on vacant land. We<br />

made green and red paper chains from<br />

construction paper. Mama got silver<br />

foil icicles in a box. She helped us string<br />

popcorn using a needle and thread.<br />

When the Sears Catalog [the Wish Book,<br />

we called it] came in the mail mama<br />

ordered a large tin <strong>of</strong> Christmas Candy.<br />

<strong>The</strong> hard candies were different flavors<br />

and shapes. I especially liked the striped<br />

ones that looked like ribbons. We each<br />

got a few pieces and the rest was put<br />

away for Christmas Day. On Christmas<br />

Morning our stockings were filled with<br />

fruit, nuts and small gifts. Grandma came<br />

over with her homemade divinity”<br />

Until that memorable Christmas Liz<br />

remembers so well, she had only<br />

a cane pole to fish with. She was as<br />

excited about her first rod and reel as she<br />

was with the new record player. While<br />

at home her family enjoyed the record<br />

player too. Tommy Dorsey, Frank Sinatra<br />

and Bing Crosby were some <strong>of</strong> their<br />

favorites.<br />

Liz married Frank Eastman in January<br />

1953. “While Frank was in the United<br />

States Marines we lived out <strong>of</strong> state.<br />

It was hard leaving my family. Our first<br />

home away from here was made <strong>of</strong><br />

railroad cross-ties and cement. When<br />

we lived in the Mohave Desert, a tribe <strong>of</strong><br />

Indians lived across the street. <strong>The</strong>re were<br />

also three marine and one air force base<br />

surrounding the town.”<br />

Liz Eastman, at 83years young<br />

each Christmas becomes the best<br />

ever.<br />

Liz lost her husband in the year 2000.<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir children, Scott, Mari, Dietz, Jan<br />

and Kristi all live in <strong>Southwest</strong> La. <strong>The</strong><br />

Liz today.<br />

At age 83 Liz still enjoys fishing at Toledo Bend<br />

L-R front row: Scott Eastman, Mari Rieth, Dietz Eastman<br />

L-R back row: Liz Eastman, Kristi Raca, Jan Eastman<br />

stocking tradition <strong>of</strong> Liz’s childhood has<br />

been carried on throughout the years. At<br />

8:00 a.m. Christmas morning the whole<br />

family, dressed in pajamas gather for<br />

breakfast and the gift exchange, then<br />

return home. At 2:00 p.m. they return<br />

for Christmas Dinner which include Liz’s<br />

cornbread dressing, ham, and turkey<br />

and, <strong>of</strong> course wild game; compliments<br />

<strong>of</strong> the hunters in the Eastman Family.<br />

To Liz Eastman, at 83 years young each<br />

Christmas becomes the best ever.<br />

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Reflective Light INSPIRED REVELATIONS FROM A MALE PERSPECTIVE<br />

All About Love<br />

By Ronald J. Blanchard<br />

Beyond the words <strong>of</strong> a<br />

poem, the lyrics and<br />

melody <strong>of</strong> a song, there<br />

is the undeniable, intangible<br />

revelation <strong>of</strong> the reality <strong>of</strong> inner<br />

motivation. Within the essence<br />

<strong>of</strong> a man, the essence <strong>of</strong> a woman,<br />

there is a special inner quality that<br />

dares one to care about one’s fellow<br />

man, demonstrate a true concern<br />

about humanity. Looking beyond<br />

the surface <strong>of</strong> one’s skin, there is<br />

universal kin; after all there is only<br />

one family, one race, the human race.<br />

<strong>The</strong> commonality <strong>of</strong> purpose creates<br />

a necessity for unity and compassion.<br />

An elevated vision allows one to<br />

see a hidden mystery, accepting<br />

the possibility <strong>of</strong> a colorblind mind,<br />

the nature <strong>of</strong> a magnetic attraction<br />

defines who we ought to be. A<br />

spiritual understanding inspires an<br />

unconditional situation as one learns<br />

that we exist within invisibility. What<br />

one can see is not what one may be.<br />

This pr<strong>of</strong>ound observation suggests<br />

that there is a need to explore the<br />

totality <strong>of</strong> personality. More than<br />

simple affection, one must overcome<br />

the complexity <strong>of</strong> emotion. Simplicity<br />

communicates the solution, the<br />

answer is unconditional; it’s all about<br />

love.<br />

Walking in rhythm to a<br />

supernatural order, there is hope<br />

and comfort in knowing that from<br />

pediatrics to geriatrics, there<br />

is endless potentials to share a<br />

world that <strong>of</strong>fers empathy and<br />

sympathy to sisters and brothers.<br />

It begins with love for one’s God as<br />

one’s self as there is the fact that<br />

within His image we exist. It begins<br />

with a parental commitment to<br />

demonstrate through example the<br />

righteous application <strong>of</strong> integrity<br />

and respect. Learning the rule <strong>of</strong><br />

doing to others as one would have<br />

done to oneself, it continues with<br />

the elimination <strong>of</strong> hate and bigotry<br />

supplanted by illustrations <strong>of</strong> love<br />

and tolerance for our university<br />

<strong>of</strong> diversity. Elementary teachings<br />

<strong>of</strong> acceptance and effectual<br />

relationships contribute to a<br />

wonderful human evolution, as our<br />

children transform into conscientious<br />

adults perpetuating elements <strong>of</strong> a<br />

better world. This cannot happen<br />

through chance and happenstance.<br />

Choosing to be better, one must do<br />

better.<br />

As we share the totality <strong>of</strong> who<br />

we are to one another, we<br />

begin to understand that as<br />

we are different, we are mostly<br />

the same.<br />

Sharing dreams <strong>of</strong> success and<br />

happiness, there are endless<br />

possibilities. Ignoring the obstacles<br />

<strong>of</strong> carnality, there are endless<br />

possibilities to see. Writing a story <strong>of</strong><br />

glory, together, people <strong>of</strong> tomorrow<br />

must begin today, perpetuating<br />

acts <strong>of</strong> deliberate kindness to each<br />

and every man, woman, and child;<br />

eliminating doubt that love is here<br />

today. More than the scientific DNA,<br />

one must follow the way <strong>of</strong> heavenly<br />

instructions, a righteous blueprint<br />

within a human heart. It’s all about<br />

love.<br />

A Bible speaks <strong>of</strong> a woman<br />

made <strong>of</strong> a man--a metaphysical<br />

wonderment <strong>of</strong> eternal inspiration.<br />

<strong>The</strong> beginnings <strong>of</strong> a family is<br />

expressed. We learn responsibility as<br />

our brother’s keeper. Instructions in<br />

soul survival enhances our lives as we<br />

begin the journey to salvation. What<br />

we look for is what we already have.<br />

Walking hand in hand, like children<br />

playing countless games that foster<br />

oneness <strong>of</strong> purpose, one gains a<br />

unique insight through majestic<br />

light. Ultimately, there must be<br />

more than a physical education. Life<br />

lessons <strong>of</strong> long-suffering, patience,<br />

and selfless generosity are the key.<br />

It’s all about love.<br />

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Teresa Bellard<br />

Author, Inspirational & Motivational Speaker<br />

writer takes her pen to tell the story about answering<br />

A the call and being in the position as a real armorbearer<br />

walking with her pastors, but the will to follow first, serving<br />

as a true and faithful servant in her local church.<br />

Book Availability:<br />

CreateSpace, Amazon,<br />

Smashword, Kindle, Calcasieu<br />

Parish Libraries, Christian Book<br />

Store, Barns and Noble.<br />

Website: www.teresabellard.com<br />

Real Armor-Bearers, you will learn:<br />

••<br />

How to hear the voice <strong>of</strong> God to become an<br />

effective Armor-Bearer.<br />

••<br />

How to have the mindset to be a builder for the<br />

kingdom <strong>of</strong> God.<br />

••<br />

How to be consistent and stay true to who you<br />

are in your position.<br />

••<br />

How to know the spirit <strong>of</strong> those who labor<br />

amongst you.<br />

••<br />

How to find favor with God first and men second.<br />

••<br />

How a good soldier never goes into battle<br />

without putting on the whole armour <strong>of</strong> God, but<br />

knowing how to fight in combat with the right<br />

weapons.<br />

••<br />

How to receive a double portion in the anointing<br />

with an overflowing cup.<br />

••<br />

How to run with the vision <strong>of</strong> the visionaries in<br />

the local church.<br />

••<br />

How to discern the seasons and times you are in.<br />

Armor-Bearers Today, but<br />

Ministers for Tomorrow<br />

Email: tbellard@yahoo.com<br />

Follow Teresa on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Snapchat, and Twitter.<br />

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<strong>The</strong> Busin<br />

<strong>of</strong> Tomor<br />

SWLA business<br />

A <strong>Voice</strong> for<br />

What makes a<br />

good leader?<br />

Some people<br />

say it’s a person who<br />

can walk ahead and<br />

forge a path for others<br />

while inspiring them to<br />

be the best version <strong>of</strong><br />

themselves. Erika Simon<br />

is such a person.<br />

Erika Simon is a young up and<br />

coming star in the business world.<br />

She started <strong>of</strong>f at the Family and Youth<br />

Counseling Agency in 2006 and in<br />

2015 became the vice president <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Children’s Advocacy Center and COSA<br />

(Court Appointed Special Advocates).<br />

Erika has been working at Family<br />

and Youth for 11 years recruiting and<br />

training volunteers to advocate for<br />

children placed in the foster system.<br />

Erika Simon, Vice President <strong>of</strong> the Children’s Advocacy Center and COSA (Court Appointed Special<br />

Advocates).<br />

Erika and her team serve as an extra<br />

set <strong>of</strong> eyes and ears for endangered<br />

children in child protection cases<br />

and make sure that everything<br />

runs smoothly. <strong>The</strong>y talk to children<br />

and learn what their needs are, then<br />

advocate for them so they can live<br />

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Change:<br />

ess Titan<br />

row<br />

By Ian Thibodeaux<br />

THE Women's Business Network Luncheon honored women in business including this year's Up &<br />

Coming Woman in Business Erika Simon <strong>of</strong> Family & Youth Counseling (top right with Leslie Harless, <strong>2017</strong><br />

WBN Chair).<br />

Credit: SWLA Economic Development Alliance Town Planner-Your Community Calendar<br />

the best life possible. Erika also fights<br />

for children who have been victims<br />

<strong>of</strong> abuse and neglect. <strong>The</strong> Children’s<br />

Advocacy Center talks with children<br />

one on one about anything they want<br />

to discuss. Everything stays neutral<br />

and confidential. <strong>The</strong>y always move<br />

at the child’s pace so they can feel<br />

comfortable and safe. This information<br />

is even sometimes used in trial cases to<br />

prosecute <strong>of</strong>fenders.<br />

Erika also leads community<br />

initiatives to make people aware<br />

<strong>of</strong> what child abuse looks like. She<br />

teaches parents how to talk to their<br />

children about how to protect their<br />

bodies. “It’s always up to us as adults<br />

to ensure the safety <strong>of</strong> the children in<br />

our community. <strong>The</strong>y are going to be<br />

shaping our future for tomorrow,” says<br />

Erika.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Children’s Advocacy Center<br />

does everything it can to educate<br />

the community about how to keep<br />

children safe. In the case <strong>of</strong> children<br />

who are victims <strong>of</strong> home abuse, they<br />

want to provide counseling services<br />

to help the family heal and be whole<br />

again. “It does become a family issue<br />

once you have a child in the home<br />

that is a victim <strong>of</strong> some type <strong>of</strong> abuse.<br />

It’s going to affect the siblings. It’s<br />

going to affect the non-<strong>of</strong>fending<br />

parent, if for whatever reason, the<br />

other parent is in prison or is out <strong>of</strong><br />

the home because <strong>of</strong> what happened.<br />

So we want to make sure we provide<br />

education and support services to<br />

our families and also provide a child<br />

friendly environment for the kids to<br />

talk and tell their story,” says Erika.<br />

Last year for the five parish area,<br />

there were 672 kids that came to<br />

the center to share their stories<br />

<strong>of</strong> abuse. Also on the COSA side,<br />

Erika and her team were able to<br />

advocate on behalf <strong>of</strong> 215 children<br />

that were assigned to the program.<br />

“It’s an ongoing effort on our part to<br />

recruit quality volunteers that want<br />

to be engaged with youth in our<br />

community,” says Erika.<br />

Erika Simon is so passionate and<br />

impactful in what she does, that<br />

she even caught the attention <strong>of</strong><br />

the Allstate Greater Good Nonpr<strong>of</strong>it<br />

Leaders Program. She was awarded<br />

the scholarship to the program which<br />

was designed to train the leaders <strong>of</strong><br />

nonpr<strong>of</strong>it organizations. Out <strong>of</strong> 400<br />

applicants to the program, Erika is<br />

one out <strong>of</strong> 31 that were accepted.<br />

<strong>The</strong> training courses are held at the<br />

University <strong>of</strong> Northwestern in Chicago.<br />

<strong>The</strong> program teaches everything<br />

about nonpr<strong>of</strong>it management, from<br />

leadership development to learning<br />

how to inspire others within your<br />

organization. “It’s been amazing. I’m<br />

literally studying at one <strong>of</strong> the top 10<br />

schools in our country for nonpr<strong>of</strong>it<br />

management, the Kellogg School<br />

<strong>of</strong> Management in Chicago. <strong>The</strong><br />

pr<strong>of</strong>essors are really knowledgeable<br />

and the classes are interactive. <strong>The</strong><br />

way we’re learning the material has<br />

been really beneficial and exciting<br />

for me.” Erika also stated, “I’m fairly<br />

new in my leadership role and I’m<br />

just hungry to learn more. It will<br />

help me prepare for the next level<br />

within my organization.” She is<br />

also hoping the program will assist<br />

her in becoming a more effective<br />

leader and help her to mentor<br />

others just as she was mentored<br />

along the way.<br />

Erika Simon has a true zeal<br />

for helping others. She fights<br />

for children’s rights and does<br />

everything she can to create a<br />

safer world for them. She is a<br />

positive force for change. So make<br />

sure you keep up with her as<br />

she continues on her journey to<br />

becoming a business titan.<br />

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SWLA sports<br />

"Bringing the Wood" is a football tradition that highlights<br />

a player that has lived up to the motto big hits and big<br />

plays. Prior to the game, head strength coach or a defensive<br />

coach picks an individual to lead the team out the tunnel.<br />

Another Season<br />

By Tori Hebert<br />

After a 9-2 regular season<br />

record and 7-2 in conference<br />

play, the McNeese Cowboys<br />

were hoping for a play<strong>of</strong>f appearance.<br />

Unfortunately, the Cowboys were<br />

left out <strong>of</strong> the NCAA Division I FCS<br />

Play<strong>of</strong>fs.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Southland Conference was<br />

hoping to have four teams make the<br />

play<strong>of</strong>fs for the first time. Nicholls,<br />

Central Arkansas, and Sam Houston<br />

are all Southland teams that made<br />

the play<strong>of</strong>fs. <strong>The</strong> season came to end<br />

sooner than the team wanted, but<br />

McNeese football left out <strong>of</strong> play<strong>of</strong>fs<br />

they still have reason to celebrate.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Cowboys ended this season in the<br />

number one spot for rushing defense<br />

in all <strong>of</strong> Division I football with 54.5<br />

yards per game. This number also set<br />

a new school and conference record.<br />

<strong>The</strong> team also finished in the top ten<br />

in the FCS for total defense, thirddown<br />

conversion, first down defense,<br />

defensive touchdowns, turnovers<br />

gained, red zone defense, pass<br />

interceptions, and tackles for a loss.<br />

Safety Dominique Hill was named<br />

in the Books<br />

first team all-conference defense<br />

and Ashari Goins was named to the<br />

second team. First team <strong>of</strong>fense<br />

winners were running back David<br />

Hamm, tight end Lawayne Ross, and<br />

place kicker Gummar Raborn. Second<br />

team <strong>of</strong>fensive went to center Andy<br />

Dodd. Wide receiver Kent Shelby,<br />

running back Justin Pratt, defensive<br />

end Jammerio Gross-Whitaker and<br />

linebacker BJ Blunt all received<br />

honorable mentions.<br />

Special thanks to McNeese Sports for<br />

athletic information.<br />

Spring sports are gearing up and will be looking for your<br />

support. Show your Cowboy pride all year long!<br />

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~ 2 0 1 8 ~<br />

Martin Luther King Jr. Festival<br />

s c h e d u l e<br />

<strong>The</strong> M.L.K., Jr. Festival honors the<br />

courageous efforts and sacrifices<br />

<strong>of</strong> Martin Luther King Jr.<br />

<strong>The</strong> MLK Coalition announces plans for<br />

Martin Luther King Jr. Festival 2018<br />

to be held January 12-15. <strong>The</strong> theme this<br />

year is “<strong>The</strong> Ultimate Measure Of A Man<br />

Is Not Where He Stands In Moments Of<br />

Comfort And Convenience, But Where<br />

He Stands At Times Of Challenge And<br />

Controversy.” We celebrate the 34th<br />

anniversary and being chosen as a top 20<br />

Event by the Southeast Tourism Society<br />

for the first quarter <strong>of</strong> <strong>2017</strong>, a coveted<br />

honor among 12 member states.<br />

Starting Friday January 12th<br />

7:30 a.m. — Annual Memorial Breakfast Morning Kick Off @ Glad Tidings<br />

Church (Honoring outstanding individuals in the community)<br />

Guest Speaker- Pastor Byron Broussard, <strong>The</strong> Love Center ,Atlanta Georgia. Local high<br />

school choirs performing include: Barbe, Lagrange, Sulphur, St. Louis and Washington<br />

Marion, led by each school’s choir director, and accompanied by Mr. Don McZeal and Ms.<br />

Belinda Williams.<br />

9:00 a.m. — MLK Unsung Hero Award<br />

First place winners from each division <strong>of</strong> the essay contest will read their winning essay.<br />

Open to the public and televised live on KPLC TV.<br />

Saturday January 13th<br />

8:00 a.m. — MLK Community 5K Run/3Mile Walk And Health Fair @ Lake<br />

Charles Civic Center<br />

3:00 p.m. — MLK Community Clean-Up @ Martin Luther King Center<br />

Featuring the Boy Scouts <strong>of</strong> America and Washington Marion ROTC<br />

Sunday January 14th<br />

6:00 p.m. — Gospel Extravaganza @ Throne <strong>of</strong> Grace Fellowship on 2401 6th<br />

Street Lake Charles, LA<br />

Featuring performers from throughout <strong>Louisiana</strong>...Free Admission<br />

Monday January 15th<br />

8:30 a.m. — Annual Parade Line up @ the Lake Charles Civic Center<br />

11:00 a.m. — Parade Roll Out<br />

Family Day Celebration<br />

WW<br />

Zydeco, R&B, Blues, and Southern Soul Music<br />

WW<br />

Celebrity Gumbo/Sauce Piquant Cook-Off Contest<br />

WW<br />

Local Vendor Exhibition<br />

WW<br />

Arts, Crafts, Creole, and Cajun Foods<br />

Purchase T-Shirts at KZWA and Unlimited Fashions<br />

Those wearing Commemorative MLK 2018 T-Shirts are invited to march in the parade and the<br />

admittance into Monday events are all free.<br />

Scenes from <strong>2017</strong> MLK Festival events<br />

Pay fees and/or pick up<br />

entry forms at the following<br />

business <strong>of</strong>fices, and for<br />

more details contact:<br />

ROXIE SMITH<br />

Call: 337-491-9955<br />

or fax: 337-433-8097<br />

KZWA LIVE 104.9<br />

mail@kzwafm.com<br />

305 Enterprise Blvd<br />

Lake Charles, LA 70601<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Southwest</strong> <strong>Louisiana</strong> AIDS Council<br />

is<br />

SLAC<br />

Commemorating 30 years!<br />

PROVIDING SUPPORT & SERVICES TO<br />

Region 5<br />

99Free & Confidential HIV Testing<br />

99Primary Medical & HIV Care<br />

99Medical & Non-Medical Case<br />

Management<br />

99Oral Health & Vision Care<br />

99Outpatient Psychiatric, Mental<br />

Health & Substance Use<br />

Counseling<br />

99Emergency Financial Medication<br />

Assistance<br />

99Nutrition / Food Pantry<br />

99Medical Transportation Assistance<br />

99Housing Assistance<br />

99Support Groups<br />

99HIV Education & Prevention to<br />

Community<br />

1987-<strong>2017</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Southwest</strong> <strong>Louisiana</strong> AIDS Council (SLAC) is a nonpr<strong>of</strong>it<br />

community-based organization supported by grants<br />

from the HIV/AIDS Program <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Louisiana</strong> Office <strong>of</strong> Public<br />

Health, Department <strong>of</strong> Health and Hospitals, and Health<br />

Resources Services Administration (HRSA), as well as other<br />

private and foundation funding. <strong>The</strong>se grants allow SLAC<br />

to provide HIV prevention and education programs, risk<br />

assessment, and outreach in <strong>Southwest</strong> <strong>Louisiana</strong>, as well<br />

medical and social services to regional persons living with<br />

HIV and AIDS. Additionally, fundraisers memorials and other<br />

donations support the agency’s mission. Founded in 1987,<br />

SLAC provides services to five (5) parishes <strong>of</strong> <strong>Southwest</strong><br />

<strong>Louisiana</strong>: Allen, Beauregard, Calcasieu, Cameron, and Jeff<br />

Davis.<br />

Our Mission: to provide education to the people <strong>of</strong><br />

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<strong>of</strong>fer medical and social services to people living with HIV.<br />

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425 Kingsley St.<br />

Lake Charles, La – 337-439-5861<br />

slac.org<br />

30 years<br />

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ADVENTURES <strong>of</strong> the Lake<br />

Healthy Happy<br />

Victory<br />

By Ian Thibodeaux<br />

<strong>The</strong> woman behind the movement<br />

So the year is almost<br />

over and your body<br />

still isn’t where you<br />

want it to be! Maybe<br />

it’s time for a change.<br />

If you’re looking for<br />

a way that leads to<br />

a healthier lifestyle,<br />

then you should start<br />

at Juice Thyme Plus.<br />

Juice Thyme Plus is a<br />

local business in Lake<br />

Charles, <strong>Louisiana</strong><br />

that promotes healthy<br />

food options in the<br />

form <strong>of</strong> juice by<br />

blending fruits and<br />

vegetables, but this<br />

isn’t your average<br />

juice joint. <strong>The</strong>re’s so<br />

much more.<br />

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Juice Thyme Plus was created<br />

when its owner, Sharon<br />

Antoine, wanted to change<br />

her own lifestyle and move in a<br />

healthier direction. After dealing<br />

with medical conditions and having<br />

to take medication for years, Sharon<br />

was told about the benefits <strong>of</strong> juicing<br />

by her doctor and it changed her<br />

life. Upon this new found discovery<br />

foward Sharon thought that it was so<br />

revolutionary that she wanted to share<br />

it with others. “Once I saw the benefits<br />

<strong>of</strong> juicing, I wanted to share it with the<br />

community” says Sharon.<br />

Sharon is an advocate for healthy<br />

living. Juice Thyme Plus even tries to<br />

encourage others to eat healthier by<br />

<strong>of</strong>fering promotions such as discounts<br />

for senior citizens, first responders and<br />

teacher Tuesdays. She even promotes<br />

children to strive for excellence in<br />

school by <strong>of</strong>fering them a free smoothie<br />

with a good report card.<br />

Juice Thyme Plus is also<br />

going to start a class called<br />

Juicing 101. This class will<br />

show people how to pick good<br />

ingredients and how to juice,<br />

teaching them everything they<br />

need to know in order to begin<br />

their juicing journey.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are multiple benefits to<br />

juicing. Taking on this practice can help<br />

you detox, boost energy, lower blood<br />

pressure and even lower cholesterol. It<br />

is a great way to get your daily dose <strong>of</strong><br />

vegetables, especially if you have a hard<br />

time eating them. Personally speaking,<br />

I’m not exactly the definition <strong>of</strong> health,<br />

so this is a good way for me to change<br />

that. My metabolism isn’t what it used<br />

to be in high school. Back then I could<br />

eat whatever I wanted and never gain<br />

weight, but now eating reckless has<br />

consequences and I should<br />

really treat my body better.<br />

As Sharon would say “Love<br />

your body from the inside<br />

out”.<br />

It’s all about taking baby<br />

steps. You don’t have to go fullfledged<br />

health guru right away. Upon<br />

my visit to Juice Thyme Plus, I tried<br />

a drink called Reset Juice. It consists<br />

<strong>of</strong> kale, cucumber, spinach, broccoli,<br />

pear, pineapple and carrot. I won’t lie.<br />

I was a little scared at first, but I have<br />

to say it was pretty good. It serves as a<br />

meal replacement and I would drink it<br />

again. However, for those <strong>of</strong> you who<br />

are too scared to try that one, Sharon<br />

suggests starting with Tropical Melon,<br />

but hopefully you’ll get the courage<br />

to explore the rest <strong>of</strong> the menu. “<strong>The</strong><br />

mind, that’s where the battle is. Once<br />

you renew your mind, you renew your<br />

thinking,” says Sharon.<br />

Juice Thyme Plus even does<br />

delivery. You have the option <strong>of</strong> Waiter<br />

or Sharon will even personally deliver<br />

her awesome fresh, all organic products<br />

to you herself.<br />

Juice Thyme Plus is located in<br />

North Lake Charles. Sharon chose<br />

the location because she wants to<br />

help people in the African-American<br />

community develop a healthy lifestyle.<br />

It can certainly be hard to eat healthy<br />

when you are surrounded by fast food<br />

restaurants. “I feel like if we knew better<br />

we’d do better,” says<br />

Sharon. Sharon<br />

wants to give<br />

people options to<br />

have a healthier<br />

life. “Eat healthy<br />

now and avoid<br />

taking medication<br />

down the road,” she<br />

says. Juice Thyme<br />

Plus also <strong>of</strong>fers<br />

sandwiches and<br />

organic c<strong>of</strong>fee.<br />

Ianander Thibodeaux, a recent Mass<br />

Communication graduate from McNeese<br />

enjoys travel and writing about interesting<br />

experiences and adventures in SWLA.<br />

Message Ian S. Thibodeaux on Facebook<br />

to have your adventures featured.<br />

My experience at Juice Thyme Plus<br />

was great! I found out that eating<br />

healthy can also be tasty and affordable.<br />

I am looking forward to taking a step<br />

toward healthy eating now so I can leap<br />

into the New Year as a healthier and<br />

happier me. So what are you waiting for?<br />

Go down to Juice Thyme Plus and start<br />

the journey with me. You won’t regret it.<br />

Taking the first sip to a healthy me<br />

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1540 N. MLK Hwy, Suite B. Lake Charles, LA. 70601 (337)437-4237<br />

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Q&A<br />

...sometimes<br />

standing by<br />

your truth, you<br />

have to run for<br />

your life...<br />

RICKEY<br />

<strong>The</strong> Man<br />

In my interview with renowned<br />

comedian Rickey Smiley, we<br />

discussed his new book “Stand<br />

by Your Truth And <strong>The</strong>n<br />

Run For Your Life!”<br />

Look closely at his<br />

answers as we dig<br />

into his thoughts.<br />

QWhat does “Stand by Your Truth”<br />

mean?<br />

AStand by your truth is part<br />

memoir, part inspirational. It<br />

has great stories with an inspirational<br />

message in each chapter and I think<br />

that the readers would absolutely<br />

love it. Just stand by your truth and<br />

run for your life because sometimes<br />

standing by your truth, you have<br />

to run for your life. <strong>The</strong> book is<br />

straightforward and it comes right at<br />

you. It’s honest and open, and it’s a<br />

great read.<br />

QHow did you come up with<br />

the idea for the book?<br />

AMy manager is a<br />

literary agent as well<br />

and I had been thinking<br />

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SMILEY<br />

Behind <strong>The</strong> Laughs<br />

By Ian Thibodeaux<br />

about a book for a while. It just made sense<br />

to do a book. I’ve been doing stand up for<br />

some years and it made good business sense<br />

to do an inspirational book that would be<br />

with folks for generations, and I’m really<br />

excited about it.<br />

QWhat happened in your life that<br />

impacted you to even want to write the<br />

book?<br />

AMy whole life impacted me from 30<br />

years <strong>of</strong> stand-up comedy, 12 years <strong>of</strong><br />

radio and 49 years <strong>of</strong> life.<br />

QHow will the book help people find their<br />

truth on their journey?<br />

A<strong>The</strong>re’s a lot <strong>of</strong> stories in it that people<br />

can probably relate to. A lot <strong>of</strong> people<br />

have come to a point in their life where they<br />

can use some <strong>of</strong> that wisdom and knowledge<br />

in there when it comes to their decision<br />

making. I would definitely recommend it to<br />

anybody. Any young parent, any single dad,<br />

any teenager. It’s a great read that people<br />

could learn from and pull from.<br />

QSo would you say it has a lot <strong>of</strong> life<br />

examples that you’ve experienced that<br />

people could use themselves?<br />

AOh absolutely, in almost every chapter.<br />

It has some great and wonderful stories.<br />

<strong>The</strong> book should be a movie. It would make a<br />

great movie because there’s a lot <strong>of</strong> trials and<br />

tribulations that I had to overcome to this<br />

point, and I still have trials and tribulations;<br />

but I just think that people would get a lot <strong>of</strong><br />

information and encouragement from it.<br />

QYou said that you’ve been doing<br />

comedy for 30 years now, so why write<br />

this book now?<br />

ANow is the perfect time! You don’t want<br />

to write a book when you get too old<br />

and do a book tour because you can’t get up<br />

and down the steps.<br />

QWhat is one <strong>of</strong> the most impactful<br />

lessons you've learned that’s<br />

highlighted in your book and can help<br />

others?<br />

AForgiveness, the world is filled with<br />

grudge holders including myself, but<br />

the forgiveness chapter is a great chapter for<br />

people to read; and I just hope people can<br />

free themselves from stuff so that they can<br />

move on. It’s a really positive chapter that I<br />

think everybody would enjoy.<br />

QWhat can people get from this book<br />

that they can’t get from your comedy?<br />

How can they differentiate the man from the<br />

entertainer?<br />

AA lot <strong>of</strong> the stories that happened are<br />

just not funny. My stage show is funny.<br />

Everything that happened to me in my life<br />

is not funny, and you just can’t talk about it<br />

on stage because people come to see you<br />

perform. So you get a lot <strong>of</strong> great stories in<br />

there that I think you would actually enjoy.<br />

QI noticed the name <strong>of</strong> your show is<br />

called “Rickey Smiley and Friends.” So,<br />

how would you describe the friends that<br />

travel and entertain with you on tour?<br />

A<strong>The</strong>se are a group <strong>of</strong> comedians that<br />

are funny and up and coming. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

deserve the opportunity to get out on the<br />

road and work out their talent.<br />

QIn the second part <strong>of</strong> your book’s title<br />

it says run for your life. So, why should<br />

someone run after finding their truth?<br />

AEverybody can’t handle the truth. So,<br />

you have to run for your life because<br />

people get mad at your honesty.<br />

In closing, Rickey Smiley may tell a lot <strong>of</strong><br />

jokes for a living, but his life isn’t one. In<br />

his book, “Stand by Your Truth And <strong>The</strong>n<br />

Run For Your Life!” you get to know not<br />

the celebrity, but the man. With each<br />

enticing chapter you’ll experience his<br />

triumphs and struggles as you’re thrown<br />

into his world. This book is full <strong>of</strong> life<br />

lessons that can help you come to know<br />

your own truth and the examples <strong>of</strong> his<br />

strength to overcome will inspire you to<br />

run forward in your own life. <strong>The</strong> book is<br />

now available on www.rickeysmileybook.<br />

com, Barnes and Nobles, and Amazon.<br />

Pick up your copy today because you’ll<br />

definitely want to know the truth about<br />

Rickey Smiley. It makes a great stocking<br />

stuffer for the holidays!<br />

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