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The Green Platform Chapter One

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THE GREEN AND RED PLATFORMS<br />

<strong>The</strong> Ego allows us to think that we can be happy – but only<br />

somewhere way down the line. It never, ever will help or enable<br />

you to be happy in the here and now.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Ego is a very important player in all our lives. And if we<br />

don’t wake up and realise the damage it is doing to us on an hourly,<br />

daily and weekly basis, he (we’ll call him “he” for handiness sake)<br />

will continue to be the orchestrator of our worries, fears, sadness<br />

and real suffering.<br />

Like all forces of darkness, the Ego is manipulative, clever and<br />

persuasive, particularly if you don’t stand up to him by the simple<br />

act of bringing awareness to recognise his underhand activities.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Ego invites you to step onto the Red <strong>Platform</strong> by reminding<br />

you of the mess you made in work yesterday or the way your<br />

boyfriend or girlfriend is fed up with your behaviour. Once the Ego<br />

gets you on the Red <strong>Platform</strong>, he has you snared.<br />

Expertly, he will then go to work by filling your past with<br />

shame, anger or guilt. He is equally happy to project you into the<br />

future where he will highlight your areas of worry, fear and<br />

anxiety about financial problems or personal relationships or<br />

whatever area he perceives to be a weakness in your attitude.<br />

Imagine you are driving to work or on the train or on the bus<br />

or maybe you are just in the kitchen and this invisible hand of<br />

unhappiness is prompting you to bring resistance and nonacceptance<br />

to your life as it is now.<br />

Before you know it, the Ego has you making up imaginary fights<br />

with your boss, your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife or<br />

partner. Once you’re on that Red <strong>Platform</strong>, he is winning and knows<br />

his job will be easy for the rest of the day. <strong>The</strong> Ego is one of the few<br />

who is happy when he sees Red. He is at his happiest when you are<br />

at your unhappiest.<br />

He will prompt you with whispers of: “My boss is always<br />

picking on me,” or: “I do everything around here,” and without your<br />

knowing it, you are winding yourself up at a rate of knots. Tense,<br />

unhappy, wearing a scowl on your face. He is a grievance looking<br />

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