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ISSUE 096<br />
QUARTER 1, 2018<br />
floodgates<br />
Following Jesus with our all<br />
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Message from Senior Pastor<br />
floodgates<br />
Jan to Mar 2018<br />
From the Editorial Team:<br />
Dear Church Family,<br />
Message from Senior Pastor<br />
1-3 Making Most of Every Opportunity<br />
Events<br />
4-6 Year End Watch Night & Forward<br />
7 Syok BBQ<br />
8-9 Women’s Encounter Weekend<br />
Message from Founding Senior Pastor<br />
10-12 How To Live Well in 2018<br />
Features<br />
13-14 Learn & Serve in Chiang Mai<br />
15-17 Living Waters<br />
18-19 Isaiah & Your Calling<br />
20-21 Bible Reading Plan<br />
22-23 Leading Tomorrow’s Leaders Today<br />
24-26 PRIDE The Genesis Of Sin<br />
Family<br />
27-29 New Mummies<br />
30-31 Mighty Movers<br />
DUMC Stories<br />
32-33 My Transformed Life<br />
34-35 Learning the Way of the Cross<br />
36 Serving is a Privilege<br />
38-39 DUMC Ministries<br />
<strong>Floodgates</strong> was created to be a vessel,<br />
a platform where we can publish articles<br />
and testimonies to bless and inspire God’s<br />
people towards that Godly renewal of<br />
the mind mentioned by the apostle Paul,<br />
and which will stand out from the daily<br />
bombardment of confusing and possibly<br />
unhelpful “information”.<br />
In <strong>Floodgates</strong> we, as a Church body of<br />
Christ, can share stories and bear witness<br />
to God’s amazing grace and give Him the<br />
glory. Also, we can remind ourselves that<br />
we are nothing without Jesus, that we<br />
would just be part of a dying world and<br />
hopeless.<br />
On the cover, “G” is at the centre of the<br />
title, <strong>Floodgates</strong>, just as we need to place<br />
God at the centre of our all. Our name<br />
<strong>Floodgates</strong> originates from Malachi 3:10<br />
“Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse,<br />
that there may be food in my house. Test<br />
me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and<br />
see if I will not throw open the floodgates<br />
of heaven and pour out so much blessing<br />
that there will not be room enough to store<br />
it.”<br />
Father God, may we all, children of God,<br />
be blessed when the “floodgates of<br />
heaven pour out…” and be reminded that<br />
the presence of God in our lives is the<br />
blessed life.<br />
MAKING<br />
THE MOST<br />
of every<br />
opportunity<br />
by Chris Kam, Senior Pastor<br />
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Be very careful, then, how you live-not as unwise<br />
but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity,<br />
because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be<br />
foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.<br />
Ephesians 5:15-17<br />
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The call to be very<br />
careful suggests that<br />
it is very easy to be<br />
careless! How are<br />
we careless? By not<br />
paying attention to<br />
the consequences<br />
of what we are<br />
doing. We often only<br />
live for the present<br />
rather than live out a vision for the future.<br />
We do not understand that what we<br />
do today influences future generations.<br />
Hence the exhortation to “be very careful”.<br />
In what ways are we to be careful? I am<br />
reminded of two passages of scripture<br />
from the Old Testament that were<br />
translated with the same phrase. Joshua<br />
22:5 “But be very careful to keep the<br />
commandment and the law that Moses<br />
the servant of the LORD gave you: to love<br />
the LORD your God, to walk in obedience<br />
to him, to keep his commands, to hold fast<br />
to him and to serve him with all your heart<br />
and with all your soul.” and Joshua 23:9-<br />
11 ”9The LORD has driven out<br />
before you great and powerful<br />
nations; to this day no one has<br />
been able to withstand you.<br />
10 One of you routs a thousand,<br />
because the LORD your God<br />
fights for you, just as he<br />
promised. 11 So be very careful<br />
to love the LORD your God.”<br />
Both were reminders to the<br />
nation of Israel of their love<br />
relationship with God and their obedience<br />
to His commandments. Love and obedience<br />
come hand in hand. John 14:15 says “If you<br />
love me, you will obey what I command.”<br />
We cannot say we love God and yet not<br />
do what He tells us. The Great Commission<br />
of Matthew 28:18-20 reminds us to<br />
disciple others to “obey everything I have<br />
commanded you.” Discipleship demands<br />
a response of obedience. It is incongruent<br />
to say we are a Christian yet live a life<br />
totally unChristlike.<br />
Your enemy<br />
the devil<br />
prowls around<br />
like a roaring<br />
lion looking<br />
for someone<br />
to devour.<br />
1 Peter 5:8<br />
There are at least three areas where we<br />
are often not careful. Firstly, Christians<br />
can be too wounded to serve. They lack<br />
the inner resolve to go to the cross to<br />
completely leave their past hurts there.<br />
Hence the cycle of being easily offended<br />
by people continues and this can mess<br />
every area of their relationships with other<br />
people. Secondly, Christians can become<br />
too complacent to serve. The Christian<br />
faith is just another self-centred religion<br />
for them. They are unconcerned about the<br />
affairs of God and His heart for the world.<br />
As long as they are personally blessed,<br />
they go on living without a care for the<br />
community around them. Thirdly, Christians<br />
are too preoccupied to serve. They are<br />
distracted by the demands of life and are<br />
not able to integrate every aspect of life<br />
well.<br />
We are also to be careful because the days<br />
are evil. “Your enemy the devil prowls<br />
around like a roaring lion looking for<br />
someone to devour.” (1 Peter 5:8) We are<br />
to remain vigilant and not be caught while<br />
napping. We are already in<br />
a state of spiritual warfare<br />
by default. Either the devil<br />
will do his work undetected<br />
or, if discovered, he will come<br />
on a frontal attack to put<br />
fear into us. The number one<br />
mission of the devil and his<br />
cohorts is to keep people<br />
from the salvation of God.<br />
The apostle Paul went on to<br />
remind us that foolishness is the absence<br />
of God in our lives. Therefore, understand<br />
what the will of God is. How do we<br />
understand the will of God? There are<br />
three aspects of God’s will: His sovereign<br />
will, His will as revealed in Scripture and<br />
His individual will for our lives. Where His<br />
sovereign will is concerned, He does not<br />
need to ask our permission for what will<br />
happen. He is God! He is omniscient (has<br />
infinite knowledge). He is timeless, the<br />
Alpha and the Omega, no beginning and<br />
no end. His revealed will is entirely found<br />
in Scripture: a basic manual on how to live<br />
life on earth. His individual will for us would<br />
need to come from the first two as we work<br />
out that precious thought, that He had us<br />
in mind even before we were created,<br />
to do His good works. (Ephesians 2:10)<br />
What are these good works we are to do?<br />
It is everything we do that will point others<br />
to God or to Christ. “In the same way, let<br />
your light shine before others, that they<br />
may see your good deeds and glorify your<br />
Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16) So in the<br />
state of spiritual vigilance, we are to take<br />
up every opportunity that presents itself<br />
to sow into people’s lives, that they may<br />
see and hear about the God in our lives.<br />
“Be wise in the way you act toward<br />
outsiders; make the most of every<br />
opportunity.” (Colossians 4:5) And this can<br />
only be done when we are careful with our<br />
lives, understand what the will of God is and<br />
be filled with the Spirit of God. (Ephesians<br />
5:18-20)<br />
The opportunities presented to us in<br />
Malaysia are amazing, in spite of all the<br />
challenges restricting the advancement<br />
of the Gospel. 90% of Malaysians have yet<br />
to come to know Jesus. The opportunities<br />
present themselves wherever we are and<br />
And this can only<br />
be done when<br />
we are careful<br />
with our lives,<br />
understand what<br />
the will of God is<br />
and be filled with<br />
the Spirit of God.<br />
whatever we do every day, and we just<br />
need to see people with the eyes of our<br />
loving God.<br />
At the dawn of the twenty-first century,<br />
we see this phenomenon of unprecedented<br />
numbers of people on the move. Malaysia<br />
is no exception to this. The news agency<br />
Al Jazeera reported recently that, in their<br />
estimation, there are as many as four<br />
million undocumented and two million<br />
documented foreigners in our land. Fulfilling<br />
the Great Commission among the diaspora<br />
(movement of the population from its<br />
original homeland) of people scattered<br />
throughout the globe demands that we<br />
think afresh how to do local mission at our<br />
doorstep. Just in DUMC itself we see now<br />
four distinct groups of such foreigners.<br />
On top of that, there are more than 100,000<br />
international students seeking to come<br />
to Malaysia, considered a hub for higher<br />
education, citing cultural comfort, cost,<br />
value for money, language of instruction<br />
and quality of life as their reasons for<br />
selection. These are unprecedented<br />
opportunities for the Gospel. Many come<br />
from lands where the Gospel is not easily<br />
accessed. God has brought them to our<br />
land. Are we making the most of every<br />
opportunity?<br />
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when we started. Now as a child<br />
of God, can we finish better than<br />
when we started?<br />
Thirdly, have we kept the faith? I feel<br />
that we need to continuously remind<br />
ourselves of the death of Christ on the<br />
cross, and that the cross is the symbol<br />
of sacrifice, grace, mercy and<br />
forgiveness. We have experienced God,<br />
so will we be able to be unwavering in<br />
our faith like Jesus was till his death on<br />
the cross?<br />
As the preaching came to an end,<br />
a huge cross was brought out in front<br />
of the sanctuary. We were asked to write<br />
on pieces of paper our “idols” or desires<br />
STEPping Into 2018…<br />
By Vera Tay, PJS2<br />
There was another 30 minutes to<br />
go but the seats were filling up<br />
fast. Excitement was in the air!<br />
It was PROCLAIM2017 and the<br />
people were gathering to usher<br />
in the New Year. We began with worship<br />
and praising God. We had fun, as we<br />
recalled the memorable bits of 2017 –<br />
funny, meaningful, challenging, something<br />
distinctive for each one to recall.<br />
As the clock was counting down to<br />
midnight, we soon settled into our seats<br />
to hear a message from our Senior Pastor’s<br />
heart…<br />
“We are no longer our own but God’s”<br />
as he shared 3 points from 2 Timothy 4:7.<br />
Firstly, “I have fought the good fight” – Paul<br />
stated that life was a fight and we needed<br />
to fight the good fight. We should not<br />
fight over the wrong things nor get into<br />
unwarranted fights. As long as the fight<br />
is not to make a stand for Christian<br />
principles and to glorify God, we should<br />
take a step back. Neither should we get<br />
into conflict with one another, we are<br />
brothers and sisters in Christ. We are part<br />
of the same family and we have the same<br />
Heavenly Father.<br />
Secondly, we are all mortals. Are we ready<br />
to cross the finishing line and into heaven?<br />
God’s values should be our foundation<br />
and second nature to us. No matter which<br />
season of life we are in, are we able to put<br />
God first? Do we have the wisdom to adjust<br />
our priorities, time and energy to ensure<br />
that we live a life that pleases God. What<br />
then is a life that pleases God? The one<br />
thing to which God has called all of us,<br />
is to “Proclaim the Gospel of Salvation to<br />
All” – the Great Commandment. So have<br />
you put every effort to fulfil this? Have you<br />
shared the gospel? We didn’t know God<br />
for God to deal with, or our dreams and<br />
requests that were so big that only God<br />
could bring them to pass. It was a<br />
solemn and meaningful moment as<br />
we individually walked up and laid our<br />
“desires” at the foot of the Cross.<br />
Soon it was time for the count-down. 5,<br />
4, 3, 2, 1 and the whole church launched<br />
into a prayer dedicating ourselves to<br />
God. I felt the presence of the Holy Spirit,<br />
and peace flooded the sanctuary. It was<br />
indeed a significant way to end 2017 and<br />
to usher in 2018.<br />
A week later…<br />
At FORWARD2018, we had two special<br />
events, a special midnight Celebration<br />
on Saturday led by the Myanmar<br />
congregation, and a Sunday Celebration<br />
where 6 congregations (English, Chinese,<br />
BM, Tamil, Nepali, Myanmar) gathered to<br />
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worship God. The Worship in different<br />
languages was just amazing! The<br />
atmosphere was warm and exciting, joy<br />
on everyone’s faces, it gave a glimpse of<br />
what Heaven would be like with people<br />
from different tribes and tongues, praising<br />
God in one voice. Pastor Ravi was just the<br />
right person to deliver the welcome in the<br />
6 languages. He had a gift that puts the<br />
congregation at ease and bonded all of us.<br />
Senior Pastor Chris then shared with us<br />
the theme for 2018, for the Church to<br />
“Step In(to)” the lives of people and to be<br />
receptive when opportunity presented itself<br />
and to always ask the Holy Spirit to lead us.<br />
Senior Pastor Chris preached from<br />
Ephesians 5:15-20 that as we move forward<br />
into the New Year we need to be ‘very<br />
careful’ how to live as the Devil is prowling<br />
and wants to devour us. We are in<br />
a Spiritual War and we have to guard<br />
our hearts as the wounds of the heart<br />
are the hardest to heal. We must not allow<br />
ourselves to be hurt to the point that<br />
we are unable to serve God. We need to<br />
forgive as Christ has forgiven us. We need<br />
to think about other people without<br />
a selfish “Bless Me” attitude. We need to<br />
have an attitude that serves others too.<br />
We also need to guard our time and make<br />
sure that we spend time with God.<br />
Next, we should live our lives with Godly<br />
wisdom and to fulfil the purposes of God<br />
for our lives. Do you desire to know the<br />
will of God? For this to happen, we need<br />
to recognise 3 things about God ’s will.<br />
Firstly, His Sovereign Will – this means to<br />
acknowledge that God is in control, even<br />
if we do not understand everything that is<br />
happening and even if things seem to be<br />
out of control.<br />
Secondly is God’s Revealed Will. God has<br />
revealed His will in the Bible. This is the<br />
reason why we need to spend time reading<br />
the Bible as it will reveal His will for our life<br />
and the things that are happening in the<br />
world. The Bible is also an acronym<br />
for “Basic Instruction before Leaving Earth”.<br />
Thirdly there is God’s Individual Will for our<br />
lives. We are his special handiwork, created<br />
in Christ Jesus to do good works which God<br />
prepared in advance for us to do. God has<br />
a unique plan for each of us. To find out<br />
God’s special plan for our lives, we must<br />
spend time reading the Bible.<br />
Finally, we need to be ready for every<br />
opportunity and to let our light shine before<br />
others. We should allow the Holy Spirit<br />
to guide us and to be sensitive to the call<br />
of the Holy Spirit. Just as we greet the Holy<br />
Spirit in the morning, we should also begin<br />
to say “Good Night” to the Holy Spirit. As<br />
the sermon came to a close we were asked<br />
if there was anything that we needed to<br />
sacrifice in order that God could use us<br />
in a mighty way.<br />
What a way to start the first Sunday<br />
of 2018! Yes we are indeed moving forward<br />
with God the Father, God the Son and God<br />
the Holy Spirit.<br />
SYOK<br />
BBQ<br />
“Time waits for no man”…<br />
Twenty35 Event by Natalia David,<br />
PJN 6<br />
How these words<br />
ring true as we find<br />
ourselves facing the<br />
impending close of 2017.<br />
In a blink of an eye, we find<br />
ourselves a few weeks before<br />
Christmas and then the New<br />
Year in the following week.<br />
The Twenty35 event on<br />
18 November arrived with<br />
a group of young adults<br />
anticipating what every<br />
Malaysian loves best - food,<br />
an awesome double whammy<br />
of it being a BBQ.<br />
We were well taken care<br />
of by a team of dedicated<br />
comrades who spent the<br />
night facing a hot and stuffy<br />
fire pit as they diligently<br />
cooked food that reminded<br />
us of why we continued to<br />
stay in Malaysia, and dessert<br />
that compelled you to sing<br />
with the heavenly angels,<br />
it was that good.<br />
The theme for the<br />
night was one constantly<br />
overlooked in our busy,<br />
turbulent lives -<br />
Thanksgiving. It was<br />
originally a curious American<br />
holiday that holds a<br />
meaningful air around it<br />
but it is not common within<br />
Asian society. Twenty35<br />
did something different and<br />
taught people ranging from<br />
their early twenties to their<br />
mid-thirties that despite<br />
the year we had to face, be<br />
it good or bad, amazing or<br />
downright ugly, joyful or just<br />
plain depressing, we still had<br />
so much to be thankful for.<br />
Most times we are in the<br />
habit of focusing on the<br />
darkness and storms around<br />
us that we forget to realise<br />
how God has always been<br />
there to take us through it all<br />
until we find clear blue skies<br />
and calm waters. Personally,<br />
I was reminded of the year I<br />
will soon be leaving behind<br />
- how far I have come, how<br />
far I will go, how much had<br />
changed and how thankful<br />
I was for every storm that<br />
taught me the best way to<br />
overcome it, every mountain<br />
that taught me how to climb<br />
higher, and every experience<br />
that became a meaningful<br />
memory.<br />
It was definitely a fun<br />
experience getting to<br />
know new faces that night<br />
and ‘being yourself’ with<br />
familiar ones among those<br />
in the same age range. Good<br />
conversations and equally<br />
good food, not forgetting<br />
the amazing dessert, made<br />
it quite an affair. It was a<br />
chance for us to learn from<br />
one another and found that<br />
while we might be very<br />
different individuals on the<br />
outside, we, oddly enough,<br />
were not so different at the<br />
same time. One common<br />
thread that tied us all<br />
together was God’s love.<br />
Twenty35 has been<br />
an excellent platform for<br />
impacting those of us who<br />
are at this impressionable<br />
stage of our lives, with its ups<br />
and downs and its crossroads<br />
of important choices to be<br />
made. I, for one, am thankful<br />
to DUMC for the Twenty35<br />
ministry which has been<br />
giving me life-changing<br />
experiences and I hope that<br />
there will be more to come<br />
so that others like me will be<br />
just as blessed by the new<br />
generation experience.<br />
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Weekend<br />
complied by Petulia Lun, PJN6<br />
“Instead, it should be that of your inner self,<br />
the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet<br />
spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.”<br />
1 Peter 3:4<br />
Every year, in<br />
November, Women<br />
to Women (W2W)<br />
has an Encounter<br />
Weekend (EW)<br />
getaway. It’s a time to<br />
contemplate God and reflect<br />
upon God’s goodness in our<br />
lives. It is also an opportune<br />
time to take stock of our lives<br />
as well as to evaluate our<br />
spiritual walk. In short, the<br />
W2W EW is a spiritual retreat<br />
for sisters in Christ.<br />
Here are three testimonies<br />
from three ladies who<br />
attended the recent<br />
November 2017 EW.<br />
During the nature walk,<br />
I didn’t expect an anxiety to<br />
stir up within me. I thought<br />
I was just there to spend<br />
quality time with God, to hear<br />
from God. But I got so angry<br />
with God, so angry that He<br />
had taken away my baby not<br />
once, not twice but three times.<br />
I was so angry with God and<br />
was asking why God had not<br />
been there to save my baby.<br />
It was through the connect<br />
group later that I learned<br />
I needed to go through a<br />
grieving period to acknowledge<br />
the loss of my child and it was<br />
ok that I questioned God. God<br />
revealed to me the why – it<br />
was because God is not just a<br />
Father to us but also a Mother.<br />
So, God can understand how<br />
a mother’s love is, and he<br />
surely knows the mother’s pain<br />
at losing a child. He lost His<br />
one and only son, Jesus.<br />
I used to think, “He is God,<br />
He gives and takes away,<br />
He has every right to do what<br />
He wants. Even if I ask why,<br />
He can choose not to answer,<br />
so there’s no point to ask him,<br />
I have to accept what He has<br />
given me”. It is as though<br />
“bo bian” (Hokkien).”<br />
It was through the encounter<br />
that I learned that our God is<br />
not an authoritarian God but<br />
a gentle and loving God. With<br />
these sisters in Christ who did<br />
not judge me nor my views,<br />
but who instead pointed me<br />
back to God, my perspective<br />
has changed in seeing God and<br />
seeing myself. I got to know<br />
God and understood Him<br />
better through this encounter.<br />
I was living a lonely life – all<br />
alone, with no one, no friend,<br />
to help me through any<br />
problem that I was facing.<br />
I was a believer for many years<br />
but left God for a while. At the<br />
beginning of 2017, I decided<br />
to attend church again. I also<br />
joined a cell group. Then,<br />
I signed up for the W2W<br />
Encounter Weekend (EW).<br />
At that EW, God affirmed<br />
that I was still His daughter<br />
and He loved me. He assured<br />
me that He would always<br />
protect me. Moreover, I now<br />
had a group of sisters in Christ<br />
to support me. This was when<br />
my life changed and God<br />
began to turn my life around,<br />
from evil to good.<br />
When I came back from<br />
the EW, I saw a radical change<br />
in myself. I was able to find<br />
joy again. I stepped out of my<br />
darkness. I became excited<br />
about life again and now my<br />
face reflects my joy. I am no<br />
longer fearful or in doubt,<br />
confused or angry. I no longer<br />
fear talking to people. I am<br />
now living a motivated life and<br />
I walk in confidence, trusting<br />
God. My sisters in Christ have<br />
supported and strengthened<br />
me through my journey of<br />
faith and now there is joy in<br />
my life.” I am now stronger<br />
because of what I had to go<br />
through. Perhaps, I am even<br />
smarter! I have found peace in<br />
God. Only He can give me this<br />
kind of peace. He is the<br />
powerful Creator of the whole<br />
universe and only He is<br />
perfect. Most importantly,<br />
God is personal and He wants<br />
to know me. Hallelujah!<br />
28 years ago, I attended<br />
a healing event at my previous<br />
church. I went forward for<br />
an altar call at the end of the<br />
sermon as it was the Friday<br />
before my water-baptism<br />
weekend.<br />
The pastor who prayed,<br />
released a prophetic word<br />
to me after seeing a vision<br />
of a flower bud. The message<br />
from God was that my life then<br />
was like the flower, not in full<br />
bloom as yet... but in time,<br />
God would nurture it and<br />
cause it to bloom beautifully.<br />
Out of the blossoming of my<br />
life, the sweet fragrance<br />
of Christ would be released<br />
to those around me, as stated<br />
in 2 Corinthians 2:15<br />
“For we are to God the<br />
pleasing aroma of Christ<br />
among those who are being<br />
saved and those who are<br />
perishing.”<br />
During the nature walk<br />
at the Women’s Encounter<br />
Weekend, I was drawn to<br />
this yellow flower with a bud<br />
attached from the same stem.<br />
What was impressed upon my<br />
heart was that the first half<br />
of my life had bloomed, just<br />
like the bright, opened flower<br />
but, God was still not done<br />
with me yet. The other half<br />
of my life was now like the<br />
accompanying bud...yet<br />
to bloom.<br />
God assured me that I had<br />
always been a late bloomer<br />
but I would definitely blossom<br />
in His Time and once again,<br />
release the fragrance of Christ<br />
to bless people around me.<br />
He was working my life out for<br />
His Glory and He would make<br />
all things beautiful in His<br />
perfect timing.<br />
God is my Abba Father and<br />
has my best interest at Heart.<br />
In Him I trust.<br />
For more information about<br />
W2W Moments / W2W<br />
Essential / W2W Encounter<br />
Weekend go to http://dumc.<br />
my/connect/adults/womenwomen/<br />
or email to dumc.<br />
w2w@gmail.com<br />
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Message from Founding Senior Pastor<br />
HOW<br />
TO LIVE WELL<br />
in 2018 & beyond?<br />
Dato’ Dr Daniel Ho, Founding Senior Pastor<br />
“ 1 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such<br />
a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything<br />
that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and<br />
let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.<br />
2<br />
Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter<br />
of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured<br />
the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right<br />
hand of the throne of God. 3 Consider him who endured<br />
such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not<br />
grow weary and lose heart.”<br />
Hebrews 12:1-3<br />
Whatever that has happened in 2017, the joys<br />
and blessings as well as the heartaches and<br />
pains, we give thanks to Almighty God!<br />
Through it all we should learn precious<br />
lessons about life. As we begin 2018 with a<br />
clean slate, what has the New Year in store<br />
for us? More importantly, how can we really<br />
live well in 2018 and beyond too? I would<br />
like to suggest four areas for us to anchor<br />
our thoughts on. The passage in Hebrews<br />
12 provides us a good springboard for our<br />
reflections.<br />
Firstly, the encouragement we all need.<br />
Hebrews 12:1 says, “Therefore, since we<br />
are surrounded by such a great cloud of<br />
witnesses… let us run with perseverance<br />
the race marked out for us.” What is this<br />
great cloud of witnesses we are surrounded<br />
by? Who are they and what are they doing<br />
there? They are, I believe, the people of old<br />
like Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, Isaiah,<br />
Jeremiah and many other prophets and<br />
saints of the past who are cheering us on<br />
in this race of life. They are saying to us,<br />
“Keep up and keep on running this race<br />
of life! Do not give up or give in.” They<br />
encourage us as we run this race. In our<br />
journey of faith, we need good friends and<br />
deep spiritual friends where we pray, help,<br />
support and inspire one another in both<br />
good and challenging times. We cannot<br />
have it better than in the body of Christ and<br />
in the cell group where God is at the centre<br />
of our lives and relationships.<br />
Secondly, the entanglements we need to<br />
watch out for. Hebrews 12:1 says to us again,<br />
“…let us throw off everything that hinders<br />
and the sin that so easily entangles…” What<br />
are some of the entanglements that can trip<br />
us over and prevent us from running well<br />
in 2018 and beyond? One is being greedy<br />
for money or the lack of accountability<br />
and transparency in the handling of monies.<br />
With cryptocurrencies and all kinds of<br />
outrageous investments and get-rich-quick<br />
schemes being touted it is so easy for<br />
us to fall prey to these insanely tempting<br />
instruments. We need to keep a tight rein<br />
on our heart because the heart of the<br />
problem is the problem of the heart.<br />
A second is not being wise or guarded<br />
in our relationships with the opposite sex.<br />
We get entangled in inappropriate, wrong<br />
or immoral relationships and are torn apart<br />
in our lives, relationships and Christian walk<br />
and witness for the Lord. A third is the<br />
misusing of power and position that the<br />
Lord has given to us. Instead of using<br />
power and position to serve people we use<br />
it to abuse and oppress people. What a<br />
tragedy when such entanglements prevent<br />
us from running this race of life well and<br />
finishing well!<br />
Hebrews 12:2 says,<br />
“Let us fix our eyes on<br />
Jesus, the author and<br />
perfecter of our faith,<br />
who for the joy set<br />
before him endured<br />
the cross, scorning its<br />
shame, and sat down<br />
at the right hand of<br />
the throne of God.”<br />
Thirdly, the example to follow. Hebrews<br />
12:2 says, “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the<br />
author and perfecter of our faith, who for<br />
the joy set before him endured the cross,<br />
scorning its shame, and sat down at the<br />
right hand of the throne of God.” Our<br />
example is the Lord Jesus Christ whom<br />
we seek to follow and emulate. Jesus not<br />
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Message from Founding Senior Pastor<br />
Features<br />
The Christian<br />
race is not a 100<br />
metres sprint but<br />
a marathon race,<br />
an endurance race<br />
indeed.<br />
LEARN & SERVE<br />
in Chiang Mai<br />
by Low Mei Ling, PJN2<br />
only went through good and great times<br />
when He was on earth. He also experienced<br />
times of heartaches like betrayal and the<br />
excruciating pain of being crucified on the<br />
cross for no sin of His own. Yet Jesus was<br />
never bitter, angry, resentful or retaliatory.<br />
On the cross He said, “Father, forgive them,<br />
for they do not know what they are doing”<br />
(Luke 23:34). Jesus could have retaliated<br />
or taken revenge but instead He chose<br />
to forgive and to let go. So, whatever<br />
heartaches, burdens, grievances and pains<br />
we may have we must learn to forgive and<br />
let go too. Then we are delivered from<br />
the bondage to anger, resentment and<br />
bitterness. Then we can live in true freedom<br />
and with a real sense of inward peace, joy<br />
and abandonment in the Lord. What an<br />
example to follow and a wonderful life to<br />
live when we emulate the example of our<br />
Lord Jesus Christ.<br />
Fourthly and finally, the endurance we<br />
need. Hebrews 12:3 says, “Consider him<br />
who endured such opposition from sinful<br />
men, so that you will not grow weary and<br />
lose heart.” Jesus endured everything<br />
while on earth including the pain and the<br />
shame. So should we. The Christian race<br />
is not a 100 metres sprint but a marathon<br />
race, an endurance race indeed. When we<br />
endure like athletes it develops muscles<br />
and strength in us. And when our own<br />
strength is lacking and we feel really weak,<br />
like Apostle Paul we would be assuredly<br />
told, “My grace is sufficient for you, for<br />
my power is made perfect in weakness”<br />
(2 Corinthians 12:9). It is in our weakness<br />
that we discover God’s strength and grace.<br />
Apostle James also writes, “Perseverance<br />
must finish its work so that you may<br />
be mature and complete, not lacking<br />
anything.” Perseverance is the other word<br />
for endurance and the end result when<br />
we do so is maturity. What a remarkable<br />
outcome and that is what we all should<br />
desire to be as we live out 2018 and<br />
beyond: a maturity of life and faith!<br />
May these four areas of encouragements<br />
to offer, entanglements to guard, example<br />
to follow and endurance to garner mark<br />
our lives and our walk in 2018 and beyond.<br />
Imagine nearly 170<br />
Christian leaders from 38<br />
countries speaking over<br />
40 different languages,<br />
all gathered in Chiang Mai<br />
for a conference from 13 to 17<br />
November 2017. Desiring to<br />
further equip themselves for<br />
the Great Commission, they<br />
travelled thousands<br />
of miles from as far as Africa,<br />
the Americas, Europe with a<br />
quarter of them from Russia<br />
and Central Asia to this<br />
conference organised by the<br />
Increase Association, also<br />
known as “Increase”.<br />
BUT WHO IS<br />
INCREASE?<br />
When our team of seven<br />
DUMC members were invited<br />
as helpers to the conference,<br />
we also asked the same<br />
question, “Who is Increase?”<br />
Increase is an association<br />
which seeks to connect and<br />
strengthen church-based<br />
training movements across<br />
Asia and beyond. Its vision<br />
is to see “churches equipping<br />
all Christ’s followers in their<br />
contexts, so that many<br />
millions are discipled and<br />
empowered for mission,<br />
ministry and leadership”.<br />
Increase is also a recipient<br />
of DUMC’s Anniversary Gift<br />
Weekend.<br />
Increase uses primarily TEE<br />
which stands for “Tools to<br />
Equip and Empower”. There<br />
are over 100 discipling<br />
courses catering to a whole<br />
spectrum of believers from<br />
semi-literate believers<br />
to leaders aspiring to<br />
be pastors. During the<br />
conference, participants<br />
shared how courses like<br />
“Abundant Life” and<br />
“Abundant Light” taught in<br />
their local languages have<br />
been powerfully used to<br />
disciple and transform lives.<br />
Anyone who has benefitted<br />
from the course can lead<br />
a small TEE group at home,<br />
in the field or anywhere<br />
else. For more information<br />
on Increase, please<br />
visit their website at<br />
increaseassociation.org.<br />
Rev Dr Tim Green, the<br />
General Secretary of Increase<br />
is also a member of DUMC.<br />
When Tim and his wife,<br />
Rachel moved to Malaysia<br />
in 2014, they made DUMC<br />
their home church and they<br />
opened their home for cell<br />
meetings.<br />
THE CONFERENCE IN<br />
CHIANG MAI<br />
At the conference, many<br />
shared great news of God<br />
at work across Asia and how<br />
TEE groups have thrived<br />
in the face of persecution.<br />
Practical training workshops<br />
on “How to write project<br />
proposals for Western<br />
donors”, “Understanding<br />
Communications” and<br />
“The Impact of Digital<br />
Technology” were organised<br />
to equip the participants.<br />
Worship time was incredible.<br />
With everyone singing and<br />
connecting with God in<br />
their own language, it was<br />
like a glimpse of heaven<br />
on earth. The conference<br />
closed on a high note with<br />
Holy Communion and a<br />
declaration of commitment<br />
to work together for the<br />
discipleship of diaspora<br />
believers worldwide.<br />
Diaspora is the movement<br />
of people away from their<br />
homeland. It is a rising<br />
global trend. Over the years,<br />
millions have moved - some<br />
as refugees while others<br />
relocated for economic<br />
reasons. In Malaysia, many<br />
have come as foreign<br />
workers and TEE resources<br />
have been used to disciple<br />
many Nepalese and other<br />
foreign workers.<br />
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THE DUMC TEAM<br />
Our DUMC team led by<br />
Danny Kong, comprised<br />
Grace Kong, Janice Ling,<br />
Kong Kam Yong, Teresa<br />
Tiong, Melanie Lim and<br />
myself. We were known<br />
as the Learn & Serve<br />
team. In essence, we<br />
were the operations team.<br />
Everyone had different<br />
roles: registration, finance,<br />
slide projection, logistics,<br />
photography, story collection<br />
and anything else to ensure<br />
the smooth running of the<br />
conference.<br />
As we served, we learnt.<br />
Pastor Jolyon Trickey came<br />
from the UK to be our<br />
spiritual mentor. During<br />
our daily morning devotion,<br />
he prepared us for the<br />
unexpected challenges of<br />
the day. Having him greatly<br />
enhanced our learning.<br />
Grace Kong<br />
Hearing from delegates about<br />
how God moves mightily in<br />
Central Asia and catching<br />
a glimpse of how the Great<br />
Commission is fulfilled through<br />
the work of Increase is exciting.<br />
Many of the participants face<br />
huge challenges and yet they<br />
remain committed and faithful<br />
to God’s calling.<br />
Danny Kong<br />
Although the tasks for the<br />
team were not easy, I was<br />
overwhelmed by our team<br />
spirit and the willingness of<br />
our members to serve in the<br />
midst of tiredness and hiccups.<br />
I was also blessed by the many<br />
stories of how believers remain<br />
faithful and grow to be leaders<br />
amidst hardship using simple<br />
TEE resources for discipleship.<br />
From Pastor Jolyon, I learnt<br />
that prioritising prayer teaches<br />
us to be dependent on God.<br />
Janice Ling<br />
I was touched by the sharing<br />
of a Central Asian participant<br />
about how her life was<br />
transformed after she became<br />
a Christian and TEE resources<br />
were used to disciple her.<br />
Today, she leads small TEE<br />
groups. The TEE three-fold<br />
components of home study,<br />
weekly group meetings and<br />
practical application have<br />
proven to be very effective<br />
for discipleship.<br />
Teresa Tiong<br />
I often hear God through<br />
images. One morning,<br />
I had the image of a man<br />
gasping for air. I asked God,<br />
“What has this to do with<br />
the conference?” Later that<br />
morning, I saw a pastor<br />
from Indonesia at my table<br />
struggling with English.<br />
I immediately realised that<br />
God had used the image to<br />
alert me. As I translated for<br />
him, I learnt that God can<br />
use us in ways we never would<br />
have imagined.<br />
Kong Kam Yong<br />
As TEE resources are available<br />
in many places where people<br />
have settled, the diaspora<br />
movement could be God’s way<br />
of reaching out to people who<br />
would otherwise be in nations<br />
of limited access. Many people<br />
have also chosen to remain<br />
where they are, at high risk<br />
and cost, to strengthen the<br />
body of Christ. Participating<br />
in the Holy Communion with<br />
so many nationalities was a<br />
reminder of God’s love for the<br />
lost and the Great Commission<br />
that He has entrusted to the<br />
body of Christ.<br />
Living Waters<br />
for the tired and thirsty<br />
by Low Mei Ling, PJN2<br />
When one has<br />
travelled long<br />
hours by bus to<br />
bring a sick family member<br />
for treatment at the General<br />
Hospital in Chiang Mai, where<br />
can one go for the night<br />
if one has no money? Our<br />
DUMC social workers, KL<br />
Wong and his wife, Su found<br />
many in such a predicament<br />
around and under the<br />
staircases of the hospital.<br />
Driven by the need to meet<br />
a basic need, KL and Su set<br />
up Living Waters in 2009.<br />
Today, people with similar<br />
needs are directed to Living<br />
Waters by the hospital and<br />
social welfare officials.<br />
Living Waters is a shelter<br />
home for outpatients and<br />
their caregivers. Guests<br />
can stay for one night or<br />
even months without any<br />
charge. They are free to use<br />
the facilities of the home<br />
including cooking their own<br />
meals. Those who do not<br />
have money are welcome to<br />
share simple meals of rice<br />
and eggs provided by Living<br />
Waters. Su runs the shelter<br />
home with the help of two<br />
female workers.<br />
Apart from meeting the<br />
guests’ essential needs,<br />
Su also spends time to get<br />
to know them. Many have<br />
come to Living Waters<br />
with bondages and are<br />
emotionally down. On<br />
Wednesday evenings, all the<br />
guests are encouraged to<br />
join KL and Su for a time<br />
of worship and sharing.<br />
When our DUMC team<br />
of seven recently visited<br />
Living Waters, it was heartwarming<br />
to see KL and Su<br />
representing our church<br />
to serve wholeheartedly<br />
in this city. The home can<br />
comfortably accommodate<br />
15 people but if the need<br />
arises, it can be stretched<br />
to 20 people. Many who<br />
stayed in Living Waters have<br />
heard the Good News and<br />
those who were more open<br />
have responded positively.<br />
KL and Su have been very<br />
encouraged by the many<br />
transformed lives over the<br />
years.<br />
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Here are some thoughts of our team members after our visit.<br />
DANNY<br />
GRACE<br />
I am touched by the Apart from fending for<br />
commitment of KL and Su the poor and sick, their<br />
to their ministry and their ministry also looks after<br />
hearts’ desire to honour abused children and women.<br />
God in all that they do. I Seeing their sacrificial love<br />
am also humbled by how for people reminds me of<br />
they faithfully work among them being the light of the<br />
the locals despite the world for God. They are<br />
many physical, health and giving light to everyone who<br />
financial challenges. comes to Living Waters.<br />
In fact, many guests have<br />
found Living Waters to be<br />
a bright and comfortable<br />
place where they can sleep<br />
soundly.<br />
KAM YONG<br />
Being on the front line of<br />
caring for the physical,<br />
emotional and spiritual<br />
needs of patients, KL and<br />
Su are serving God in such<br />
selfless ways which can<br />
easily result in burnout.<br />
There is a great need to keep<br />
them in prayer.<br />
A LIFE-<br />
TRANSFORMING<br />
STORY<br />
We had the pleasure of<br />
meeting Martha. Two years<br />
ago, Martha’s daughter,<br />
Natalie met with a very bad<br />
motorcycle accident. Her leg<br />
had to be operated on and<br />
fitted with a metal cast which<br />
required a 30,000 baht<br />
deposit. Su had to help with<br />
the deposit required by the<br />
hospital.<br />
In her village, Martha was<br />
an enterprising food stall<br />
operator. So she tried to<br />
make some extra money<br />
by acting as a guarantor<br />
for loans. When one of the<br />
borrowers ran off with the<br />
money, she was caught with<br />
the liability. With no money<br />
to settle, she also fled for her<br />
life. Worried for the safety<br />
of Natalie, she parked her<br />
daughter at Living Waters.<br />
There, we met the pretty<br />
16-year-old who has recently<br />
accepted the Lord and is still<br />
wearing her metal cast.<br />
Eventually, Martha became<br />
tired of running. In October<br />
2016, she came to see Natalie<br />
and sought refuge in Living<br />
Waters. As she had time, she<br />
read the whole Bible in one<br />
month. She also had many<br />
questions which Su helped<br />
to answer. Martha was<br />
baptised in December 2016<br />
and she stayed on to work in<br />
Living Waters. Having saved<br />
some money, Martha is now<br />
returning to her village to<br />
settle some of her debts.<br />
We had the privilege of<br />
praying for Martha just<br />
before she made the trip.<br />
THINK NAAM.ASIA<br />
Living Waters has also<br />
started a social enterprise<br />
called NAAM.asia which<br />
produces beautiful fabric<br />
products ranging from<br />
keychain pouches, cosmetic<br />
bags, aprons, pot holders to<br />
computer bags. NAAM was<br />
birthed out of a need to help<br />
girls and single mothers. A<br />
work area was created within<br />
Living Waters for these ladies<br />
to sew. The sewing process<br />
became a way for the ladies<br />
to heal from their past and<br />
showing other ladies the way<br />
to break away from abusive<br />
relationships. Guests at<br />
Living Waters also lend<br />
a helping hand whenever<br />
they can.<br />
The products are sold<br />
through friends, churches<br />
in Malaysia and through<br />
social media. They are also<br />
available in the concourse<br />
of Dream Centre during<br />
weekends. NAAM.asia<br />
welcomes bulk orders.<br />
Apart from providing a living<br />
for the ladies, 30% of the<br />
revenue goes back to the<br />
ministry of Living Waters.<br />
LATEST GOOD NEWS<br />
The General Hospital is<br />
planning to build a basic<br />
four-storey building of which<br />
two floors will be allocated<br />
for accommodation for poor<br />
outpatients. The good news<br />
is that Living Waters has<br />
been invited for preliminary<br />
discussions to consider<br />
operating the place which<br />
is targeting to have 100<br />
beds. This is a clear<br />
acknowledgement of the<br />
work of Living Waters.<br />
Although the prospect<br />
is exciting, there are many<br />
challenges ahead. As God<br />
leads KL and Su to new<br />
territory, we as a church will<br />
need to journey and support<br />
them in whatever way the<br />
Lord calls us. Meanwhile,<br />
here are a few ways we can<br />
begin to support Living<br />
Waters.<br />
How can we support KL and<br />
Su?<br />
1. Prayer - pray for wisdom,<br />
health and provision.<br />
2. Buy NAAM.asia products<br />
and “The Seed” authored by<br />
Su at their stall at the Dream<br />
Centre Concourse.<br />
3. Help to direct bulk<br />
orders to NAAM.asia.<br />
For more information, visit<br />
http://naam.asia or email Su<br />
at sfchin67@yahoo.com.<br />
4. Contact Living Waters<br />
when you next plan to visit<br />
Chiang Mai.<br />
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ISAIAH & Your Calling<br />
by Pastor Mike Ngui<br />
Here<br />
King Uzziah was one of the better<br />
kings in the history of biblical<br />
Israel. 2 Chronicles 26:4<br />
describes him as a king who<br />
“did what was right in the eyes<br />
of the Lord.” Only 8 of the 20 kings of the<br />
southern kingdom of Israel received this<br />
commendation, never once given to the<br />
19 northern kings. He, however, did not<br />
end so well, despite a good start to his<br />
52-year reign.<br />
IN A MOMENT OF PRIDE…<br />
In a moment of pride, he overstepped his<br />
kingly role by doing something only the<br />
priests were allowed to do (2 Chronicles<br />
26:16-18). Consequently for the remainder<br />
of his life, he lived as a leper, banished from<br />
the temple, with his reign effectively passed<br />
on to his son. And when Uzziah died,<br />
Isaiah received a vision described in Isaiah<br />
6:1-8. This passage is instructive, as it lays<br />
out the setting in which Isaiah received<br />
and responded to his call.<br />
Firstly, he saw the Lord,<br />
the God of Israel as one<br />
enthroned in terrifying<br />
majesty. It was a scene<br />
that would have struck<br />
awe and fear into the<br />
heart of Isaiah. He dared<br />
not look up to take in the<br />
‘full view’. He could only<br />
take in that “the train of<br />
his robe filled the temple.”<br />
Isaiah 6:1<br />
Isaiah glimpsed the utter holiness<br />
of the Lord in the seraphims’ posture.<br />
These magnificent angelic beings covered<br />
their eyes with two of their six wings,<br />
lest they gaze on the blinding glory of<br />
God. Two other wings covered their feet<br />
in instinctive lowly sense of unworthiness<br />
though glorious beings they were. Flying<br />
with their remaining two wings, they cried<br />
out to one another, “Holy, holy, holy is the<br />
Lord Almighty; the whole earth is full of his<br />
glory.” (Isaiah 6:3) The impression made<br />
on Isaiah is unmistakable.<br />
He became keenly conscious of his<br />
unworthiness, along with all of Judah’s<br />
people. He became aware of his own<br />
sinfulness, measured simply in sins<br />
of speech. And he saw himself as no<br />
more worthy than others. When Isaiah<br />
acknowledged his unworthiness, he<br />
received atonement for his sin from<br />
the altar of God.<br />
WHEN ISAIAH ACKNOWLEDGED<br />
HIS UNWORTHINESS, HE<br />
RECEIVED ATONEMENT FOR<br />
HIS SIN…<br />
Then he heard the call of God. Only<br />
after his confession of sinful unworthiness<br />
and experience of grace did Isaiah hear<br />
God’s voice. And he heard God calling for<br />
someone who could be sent and would<br />
go on His behalf. And Isaiah responded to<br />
what he heard with, “Here am I. Send me!”<br />
(Isaiah 6:8)<br />
MANY OF US ASK THE QUESTION<br />
OF OUR CALLING FROM GOD…<br />
Many of us ask the question of our calling<br />
from God, whether it concerns a call to the<br />
mission field, full-time Christian vocation,<br />
marketplace or political engagement.<br />
This account beckons us to reflect on our<br />
I am,<br />
Send<br />
Me.<br />
approach to this question.<br />
This passage calls to us, to re-evaluate<br />
our relationship to the levers of power<br />
in the world that we as individuals inhabit.<br />
Who do we see as being on the ‘throne’ in<br />
our world? Uzziah was Isaiah’s king. Isaiah<br />
was reminded that the Lord God is the<br />
Sovereign King over all authority. We need<br />
to perceive beyond what our eyes see, as<br />
to who is truly in charge. Our answering<br />
the call of God will eventually bring us into<br />
conflict with the ‘powers’ of this world<br />
- whether power from wealth, position,<br />
influence or sheer violence.<br />
WHEN WE ANSWER THE CALL<br />
OF GOD…<br />
When we answer the call of God, we step<br />
into the centre-ring of the conflict between<br />
two kingdoms (c.f. Colossians 1:12, 13;<br />
Ephesians 6:12). In that centre-ring, we must<br />
know who truly holds power in order to live<br />
out our call faithfully. In our wanting<br />
to ‘make a difference’ in this world, we need<br />
to recognise our sinfulness and our being<br />
disqualified from serving God actively if not<br />
for the grace of God in Christ. Our resumes<br />
of vast experience, accomplishments and<br />
degrees fail to qualify us to answer His call.<br />
FOR GOD’S WORK, ONLY BROKEN<br />
PEOPLE NEED APPLY.<br />
For God’s work, only broken people need<br />
apply. Only sinners who have embraced the<br />
unparalleled magnanimity of God in Christ,<br />
can truly answer His call, to join His work<br />
to bring His kingdom on earth. God’s call<br />
can only be answered upon experiencing<br />
His grace of forgiveness for our sin. Not<br />
only are we saved by grace, but we also<br />
serve by grace.<br />
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Leading Tomorrow’s Leaders Today<br />
WHY the focus<br />
on LEADERSHIP?<br />
By Robbin Khoo, PJS1<br />
Most people either take the subject of<br />
Leadership very lightly or they simply do<br />
not believe that learning how to be a better<br />
leader is for everyone. What can be further<br />
from the truth?<br />
Let us take a closer look at why leadership<br />
competence in life is a necessity and<br />
even more importantly, why the ongoing<br />
journey to study, grow and develop one’s<br />
leadership skills is not a mere preference<br />
but a necessary CHOICE in life.<br />
GENESIS 1:26<br />
26 Then God said, “Let us make mankind in<br />
our image, in our likeness, so that they may<br />
rule over the fish in the sea and the birds<br />
in the sky, over the livestock and all the<br />
wild animals, and over all the creatures that<br />
move along the ground.”<br />
It is by God’s decree that ALL man (women<br />
included) may rule over the things of the<br />
world. In this, we must understand that it<br />
is expected of us to be leaders. Each of us,<br />
in the God-given areas of our lives, needs<br />
to stand up and honour the position that<br />
God has bestowed upon us to take up the<br />
role and responsibility of the leader. Each<br />
of us needs to take on the leadership role<br />
within the environment in which we have<br />
been so placed according to His Almighty<br />
plans. Therefore, if we are to serve the<br />
LORD to the best of our abilities, we must<br />
make a conscious effort to continually hone,<br />
mould and improve our skills, abilities and<br />
knowledge.<br />
It was a sunny Sunday afternoon. A small<br />
town. It was a lovely day. Everyone was<br />
going about doing their own thing. The kids<br />
were running around at the park nearby,<br />
watched by their parents like the prey that<br />
never left the hawk’s eyes. Two brothers<br />
were at a bookstore checking out some<br />
books.<br />
“Peter, what’s that you’re reading?” asked<br />
Thomas, the younger brother.<br />
“Aw…nothing much, just another selfdevelopment<br />
book”.<br />
“What’s the title?” Thomas persisted.<br />
“Leadership by CHOICE,” Peter answered.<br />
“Why are you always so interested in such<br />
books? Aren’t books like that meant for<br />
the senior people? Those in higher up<br />
positions?”<br />
Peter, who was a young working adult,<br />
continued turning the pages, ignoring<br />
Thomas who was still babbling in his<br />
own monologue. He was quite drawn to<br />
and captivated by this author, Eric Papp,<br />
who seemed to have found a wonderful<br />
perspective to explain this unique quality<br />
in the characters of some great leaders.<br />
In his book, he explained that all too often,<br />
we rush into making decisions over matters<br />
and circumstances, and end up putting<br />
a strain on our relationships with others.<br />
But the best of leaders often develop a<br />
system that allows them to reflect on their<br />
ideas and hold themselves accountable for<br />
every choice they make, before they make<br />
them.<br />
Though physically rooted to the spot,<br />
Peter was totally moved by what he was<br />
reading. “All this makes sense,” he thought<br />
to himself. He began to reflect on those<br />
moments and occasions when decisions<br />
had gone wrong, leaders had faltered, and<br />
disharmony was imminent. If only people<br />
were more aware of the techniques and<br />
systems that they could learn and develop.<br />
If only they knew that there were methods<br />
and models of approach where they could<br />
lead better and make better decisions. And<br />
it was just a matter of CHOICE to be able<br />
to positively influence, manage and lead<br />
others.<br />
Peter was getting excited about the<br />
potential of this new-found inspiration.<br />
He felt he could perhaps take this learning<br />
in leadership development and raise his<br />
personal performance to another level.<br />
He envisioned how he could possibly make<br />
a difference in his interactions with others,<br />
back in his office as well as where he was<br />
faithfully serving in the local church he was<br />
attending.<br />
“This is great,” he thought to himself.<br />
“If I could consistently learn, develop and<br />
grow my leadership skills, I could then<br />
make a positive difference in the circle of<br />
people I deal with. If leadership is all about<br />
influencing others in a positive manner,<br />
then the more I learn about leadership, the<br />
more I would learn about how to deal with<br />
and influence others. I would be able to<br />
persuade and motivate people to do the<br />
things that need to be accomplished.<br />
I would be able to show them the process<br />
in action and not just via a hope. I would be<br />
able to not just steer the ship alone but to<br />
chart the direction in which I believe they<br />
need to go and navigate the paths through<br />
which they would be convinced to select”.<br />
Peter was so lost in his thoughts that he<br />
did not even notice Thomas tugging at his<br />
sleeve.<br />
“Hey! … let’s go man,” Thomas was<br />
anxiously motioning to Peter. “It’s getting<br />
late and we promised mom we wouldn’t be<br />
late for dinner this time. You can tell me all<br />
about this on the way home. Why are you<br />
suddenly so interested in that book? It’s as<br />
if you’ve found a new love or something.”<br />
“I’ve got to really come back here<br />
tomorrow. I want to sleep on what I just<br />
digested today and map out my thoughts.<br />
I believe this book on Leadership is going<br />
to help me become a better person, a<br />
better leader, make better decisions, and<br />
get better results. I must get this book.<br />
I believe I have just stumbled upon the<br />
key to resolving many of the challenging<br />
circumstances or environment we face<br />
in life-given situations, in the areas of<br />
leadership. All it takes is for the leader to<br />
be able to positively influence the rest of<br />
the people in the group, and inspire them<br />
to put aside their differences, agree and<br />
maintain a clear vision leading towards<br />
a common direction or goal, to be able<br />
to work together and willingly help one<br />
another get there, and understand that<br />
it is the teamwork that makes the dream<br />
work. And this one person MUST have the<br />
relevant A.S.K. (Abilities, Skills, Knowledge),<br />
a good purpose-driven character with the<br />
drive to take the people from here to there<br />
and most importantly the right heart that<br />
puts God first.”<br />
“And Tom, come to think of it. I’m now<br />
totally convinced Dr John C Maxwell got<br />
it right in his quote – “Everything rises<br />
and falls upon Leadership.” And that’s<br />
why if we want to have a hope for a<br />
better future, we cannot continue to be<br />
flippant about the subject of Leadership.<br />
We need to seriously focus on continuous<br />
growth and development in our leadership<br />
performance”.<br />
“Wow…Peter!” Thomas exclaimed, “You<br />
sound like one of the Lord’s apostles. Such<br />
wisdom. Go preach it, man … and hey, I<br />
shall be the first amongst those who would<br />
gather at your feet. Hahaha… but for now,<br />
let’s get home for dinner!”<br />
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PRIDE The Genesis Of Sin<br />
by Alex Tung PJN1<br />
Christians today<br />
stand witness to an<br />
epoch of humanity<br />
that prizes narcissism like<br />
never before. The image of<br />
someone oozing boundless<br />
egotistical self-confidence<br />
and an aura of superior<br />
self-assuredness, which in<br />
the past would categorically<br />
classify the person as being<br />
vain and obnoxious, is today<br />
considered attractive. Whilst<br />
there is nothing wrong with<br />
self-confidence per se, such<br />
confidence, if it were to<br />
remain a positive attribute,<br />
must pass the litmus test<br />
of recognition – do we<br />
acknowledge our abilities<br />
as God-given gifts and in turn<br />
praise Him for the confidence<br />
we have, or do we relish in<br />
our advantage over others<br />
while taking full credit for<br />
our abilities and bask in the<br />
compliments that follow our<br />
triumph?<br />
It is high time that humanity<br />
(including Christians,<br />
especially) takes stock of our<br />
egoistical competitive ways<br />
and re-evaluates how badly<br />
we have been corrupted by<br />
the sin of pride. So malignant<br />
is the sin of pride that C.<br />
S. Lewis devoted an entire<br />
chapter in his book Mere<br />
Christianity to expound<br />
on it. Aptly entitled “The<br />
Great Sin”, Lewis says in this<br />
chapter that:<br />
According to Christian teachers,<br />
the essential vice, the utmost evil,<br />
is Pride. Unchastity, anger, greed,<br />
drunkenness, and all that, are mere<br />
fleabites in comparison:<br />
it was through Pride that the devil<br />
became the devil.<br />
C. S. Lewis<br />
THE ROOT OF SIN<br />
The question is not whether<br />
we have been corrupted<br />
by the sin of pride – we all,<br />
undoubtedly, have. The<br />
correct question, rather,<br />
is how deeply we have<br />
allowed this sin to corrode<br />
our integrity. The unchecked<br />
perpetuating rust of pride<br />
on a man’s soul manifests<br />
as symptoms in the form<br />
of other sins as all other sins<br />
originate from the sin of<br />
pride. It is pride that fuels<br />
a man into an obsessive<br />
competition with his<br />
fellow man. This ungodly<br />
competitive nature (read:<br />
jealousy) reveals its visible<br />
sting in an array of immoral<br />
conduct that man stumbles<br />
into, all for the sake of having<br />
an advantage over others.<br />
In his jealous pursuit to outdo<br />
another, mankind lies, bribes,<br />
lusts, and even murders.<br />
Pride gets no<br />
pleasure out of<br />
having something,<br />
only out of having<br />
more of it than the<br />
next man... It is the<br />
comparison that<br />
makes you proud:<br />
the pleasure of<br />
being above the<br />
rest.<br />
Once the element<br />
of competition is<br />
gone, pride is gone.<br />
C. S. Lewis<br />
The sin of pride has<br />
corrupted the heart of<br />
man so deeply that even<br />
the virtue of humility, the<br />
moral opposite of pride,<br />
risks being tarnished by our<br />
ego if we are not careful.<br />
Whilst we should all aspire<br />
to be humble, the moment<br />
we consider ourselves<br />
sufficiently humble, will<br />
bring that feeling of selfsatisfaction<br />
which triggers<br />
the undoing of all our efforts.<br />
The pursuit of humility,<br />
then, is akin to our pursuit<br />
of Godliness; regardless<br />
of how repentant we may<br />
be, we would never be as<br />
sinless as Christ was and is<br />
– in that same tangent, we<br />
would never achieve perfect<br />
humility.<br />
[As a senior devil writing to his<br />
apprentice, a junior devil] Your<br />
patient has become humble; have<br />
you drawn his attention to the fact?<br />
All virtues are less formidable to us<br />
once the man is aware that he has<br />
them, but this is especially true<br />
of humility.<br />
C. S. Lewis<br />
PRIDE – THE CORE OF<br />
SATANISM<br />
To fully comprehend the<br />
severity of the sin of pride,<br />
consider this statement –<br />
Satan would not exist if it<br />
were not for the sin of pride.<br />
If this seems an exaggeration<br />
of the devil’s origin, consider<br />
Isaiah 14:12-14 which recounts<br />
how Lucifer, one of God’s<br />
angels, as a result of his<br />
pride-driven ambition to<br />
be as great as, if not greater<br />
than God, was ultimately<br />
cast out of heaven and<br />
condemned to the depths<br />
of hell. Before he became<br />
Satan, Lucifer was a perfect<br />
creation of God – he was<br />
beautiful, powerful, intelligent<br />
and gifted – and did remain<br />
so until he became absorbed<br />
in his own greatness that led<br />
to his conceit and eventual<br />
condemnation (Ezekiel<br />
28:15).<br />
The other, and<br />
less bad, vices<br />
come from the<br />
devil working on<br />
us through our<br />
animal nature.<br />
But [pride]<br />
does not come<br />
through our<br />
animal nature.<br />
It comes direct<br />
from Hell. It is<br />
purely spiritual:<br />
consequently it<br />
is far more subtle<br />
and deadly.<br />
C. S. Lewis<br />
THE EVE ACCOUNT<br />
Genesis 3 records man’s<br />
fall into sin, a curse which<br />
all humanity inherits to this<br />
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day. In this account of sin’s<br />
pioneering entry into man,<br />
the devil, in the form of a<br />
serpent comes to Eve to<br />
confuse her. The serpent<br />
is magnificently subtle in<br />
his tugging and prodding<br />
of Eve’s heart away from<br />
God-centeredness to selfcenteredness.<br />
A reading<br />
of Genesis 3:1-4 reveals<br />
the crafty devil’s gentle<br />
and gradual tests to Eve’s<br />
confidence and integrity,<br />
until he finally succeeds to<br />
tantalise Eve’s desire to be<br />
God-like. This desire to “be<br />
like God” (Genesis 3:5) is<br />
mankind’s smug desire for<br />
autonomy from God; Eve’s<br />
eating from the tree of<br />
knowledge of good and evil<br />
is then a premeditated and<br />
deliberate move away from<br />
God’s control.<br />
In the serpent’s temptation<br />
for Eve to eat from the<br />
tree of knowledge of good<br />
and evil, we see mankind’s<br />
envy of God’s position to<br />
dictate and determine good<br />
and evil. Whilst the pursuit<br />
of knowledge itself is a<br />
commendable endeavour,<br />
the post-modernistic<br />
worldview mankind adopts<br />
in his conceited craving<br />
to retain autonomy for<br />
determining that which is<br />
good and that which is evil<br />
has inevitable blurred the<br />
lines so that mankind today<br />
(and many Christians too)<br />
subscribe to the notion that<br />
there are no moral absolutes.<br />
Indeed the safest road to Hell<br />
is the gradual one--the gentle<br />
slope, soft underfoot, without<br />
sudden turnings, without<br />
milestones, without signposts...<br />
C. S. Lewis<br />
As Christians, look to live<br />
a Christ-like life, we would<br />
justifiably need to address<br />
a myriad of sins we fall<br />
guilty of and to repent from<br />
them. Nonetheless, unless<br />
we understand the ultimate<br />
cause of our sinful nature, our<br />
medicating these symptoms<br />
do not address the cancer<br />
of the matter. Pride remains<br />
stubbornly in the background<br />
of most of our repentance.<br />
Against the will of the devil,<br />
pride needs, for the sake<br />
of our spiritual walk, to be<br />
brought to the forefront and<br />
addressed unashamedly.<br />
So the next time you feel<br />
glad or proud over your<br />
accomplishment or when<br />
someone compliments<br />
you for a job well done, be<br />
sure to look heavenwards<br />
and give Him the credit for<br />
working the accomplishment<br />
through you.<br />
My pride, my ego,<br />
my needs, and<br />
my selfish ways,<br />
caused a good<br />
strong woman<br />
like you to walk<br />
out my life. Now<br />
I never, never get<br />
to clean up the<br />
mess I made, oh,<br />
and it haunts me<br />
every time I close<br />
my eyes.<br />
Bruno Mars<br />
Singer, song writer<br />
• This article quotes heavily<br />
from C. S. Lewis – in<br />
particular, from two of his<br />
books, Mere Christianity<br />
and The Screwtape Letters.<br />
• The final quote from<br />
Bruno Mars comes from his<br />
Grammy Award nominated<br />
composition When I Was<br />
Your Man.<br />
“ENCOURAGE<br />
each other and build<br />
each other up…”<br />
1 Thessalonians 5:11<br />
Staphanie Mun Chen, KL<br />
Becoming a mother might be the most significant transformation<br />
in a woman’s life. One day we are women, knowing, and pretty certain<br />
about most decisions that we make —not least being a person who<br />
could take a shower or use the bathroom pretty much whenever she<br />
wanted. Then we become a mum, and it feels like the world we have<br />
known is over, and a new one, one we are not fully prepared for, has begun.<br />
That sounds dramatic, I know, but it is the way most new mums might feel<br />
during those first few weeks of motherhood. DUMC W2W New Mummies Ministry<br />
(NMM) was birthed to give support to this very special group of women, the new<br />
mums. Here, we interviewed eight special women who lead this new mothers<br />
support movement since 2016.<br />
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WHAT IS NMM ABOUT?<br />
Wern Lu: It is a community<br />
of women, giving emotional<br />
support, sharing the joys<br />
and pains of motherhood<br />
and lending support in<br />
whatever way that is needed -<br />
emotionally, spiritually<br />
or even physically.<br />
WHO DO YOU LOOK<br />
OUT FOR, HOW DO<br />
YOU CONNECT WITH<br />
THEM?<br />
Jaime Solomon: Serving<br />
in NMM gives me many<br />
opportunities to connect with<br />
new mummies. Most of the<br />
new mummies are seated with<br />
their families at the ‘Stroller<br />
Section’ in the auditorium so<br />
a friendly smile and a simple<br />
introduction is not difficult.<br />
Because babies are just full of<br />
cuteness, so talking about them<br />
becomes a natural icebreaker.<br />
I also get to connect with the<br />
new mums and dads when<br />
serving at the ABC (Arrows<br />
and Bows Corner) counter<br />
over the weekend. It gives me<br />
the opportunity to meet old<br />
and new faces and remember<br />
parents’ and children’s names<br />
better and to do a bit of a<br />
follow-up with them. Our<br />
NMM activities like playdates<br />
and Family Day is also great<br />
ways to connect with young<br />
families - times when we are<br />
more relaxed and engaged in<br />
fun activities.<br />
WHAT DOES A<br />
COMMUNITY OF<br />
YOUNG MOTHERS DO<br />
TOGETHER? WHAT<br />
IS THE AGENDA OF<br />
A TYPICAL GET-<br />
TOGETHER?<br />
Anne Yeow: Sharing our<br />
good times and bad times, our<br />
experiences in bringing up our<br />
babies and children, just being<br />
our cheeky selves and being<br />
able to chat and connect. We<br />
also lend a listening ear, share,<br />
learn and pray for one another.<br />
Debbie Yeow: Many times<br />
new mummies face loneliness<br />
and difficulties in managing<br />
their new season of life. It is<br />
harder to connect with friends,<br />
sometimes even family, or to<br />
share and seek help in all new<br />
aspects of motherhood. These<br />
are often the major reasons<br />
why new mummies may<br />
struggle with depression and<br />
lack of self-worth.<br />
NMM provides a great<br />
platform for new friendships<br />
and great resources to help<br />
new mummies cope with<br />
motherhood. It is also a great<br />
ministry that shows care and<br />
understanding, and prays<br />
together. We also share tips<br />
on nursing as well as<br />
overcoming difficulties<br />
with postnatal syndromes.<br />
I personally feel that this<br />
ministry helps our church to<br />
come together in bringing up<br />
our next generation. After all,<br />
it is true that it takes a whole<br />
village to raise a child, what<br />
more an entire generation.<br />
I thank God and praise God<br />
for the wonderful opportunity<br />
to serve in the ABC ministry<br />
and the time spent with all<br />
these new mummies. It has<br />
been a wonderful experience<br />
for me and my family.<br />
Joyce Khong: We share<br />
our stories and experiences<br />
with one another. We laugh<br />
and we cry together. We learn<br />
from one another and are<br />
encouraged to know that we<br />
are not alone in this season<br />
of life that is super demanding.<br />
We pray with one another and<br />
connect with one another to<br />
exercise whatever gifts and<br />
talents God has given us to<br />
bless others.<br />
HOW HAS GOD MOVED<br />
IN THIS MINISTRY?<br />
HOW HAS SERVING<br />
YOUNG FAMILIES<br />
IMPACTED YOUR OWN<br />
FAMILY?<br />
Anne Patricia: Over the<br />
last year or so, we have seen<br />
young moms step up and serve<br />
because they have had similar<br />
struggles and understand<br />
these struggles are real. We<br />
see God move their hearts to<br />
serve other mums. We see our<br />
children having a natural love<br />
to serve and it has given us an<br />
opportunity to demonstrate to<br />
them that serving God is not<br />
just something we do but<br />
a way of our Christian life.<br />
Joyce Khong: God has<br />
shown me that when we are<br />
faithful in the little things,<br />
He will bless us with more.<br />
He has never failed to provide<br />
and show us that when we<br />
are willing to do His will,<br />
everything will work out for<br />
good.<br />
Serving in the Arrows and<br />
Bows Corner has changed my<br />
family routine for the better.<br />
Everyone is more cooperative<br />
and gets ready earlier in time<br />
for church vs always being<br />
late to church. I have the<br />
opportunity to serve with<br />
my 10-year-old daughter<br />
who always looks forward<br />
to being on duty. She feels<br />
important and is happy that<br />
she is contributing and using<br />
her talents. Everyone learns<br />
to be more patient too as they<br />
know that we can only leave<br />
after everything is locked up<br />
properly. So, my kids would<br />
have to endure their rumbling<br />
tummies until mummy is all<br />
done and ready to go for our<br />
meal.<br />
WHAT SPURS YOU ON?<br />
Jaime Solomon: The<br />
need is the call; this is what<br />
spurs me on. New mummies<br />
have many needs – needs for<br />
physical, emotional and/or<br />
spiritual support, or marriage<br />
and parenting advice. Having<br />
gone a little bit ahead of the<br />
new mummy stage, I believe<br />
that I can pass on some life<br />
experiences, be it failures<br />
or triumphs, to others just<br />
starting out on their journey.<br />
To me, having someone come<br />
alongside you through your<br />
journey is invaluable. Many<br />
times, strong friendships are<br />
forged and spiritual growth is<br />
fostered when there is honesty<br />
and vulnerability in<br />
a relationship. I am so blessed<br />
to be able to glean from others<br />
who have gone ahead of me for<br />
support and advice. Likewise,<br />
I strive to pass on life lessons<br />
to the younger generation<br />
Lyanne Sum: Three main<br />
things spur me on - God’s<br />
Word, my family and the<br />
people I meet. My young<br />
children have started being<br />
eager about serving at ABC<br />
and my husband has always<br />
been willing to support in<br />
every way. Sometimes, when<br />
things seem a bit dry and<br />
efforts seem futile, it is God’s<br />
Word that is able to bring<br />
life and to put things into<br />
perspective. His Word not<br />
only refreshes the soul but also<br />
challenges me in deciphering<br />
what His way is and what my<br />
own wants and desires are. The<br />
people I meet fill me with awe<br />
and amazement. They come<br />
from such different walks of<br />
life! The busiest of mummies<br />
somehow find time to help,<br />
whether personally or serving<br />
in the ministry. Even the<br />
daddies who are so involved<br />
in family life and the young<br />
adults who are brave enough<br />
to step into our world and<br />
share their lives with us.<br />
Joyce Khong: I want to be<br />
able to say the following when<br />
I return to be with Jesus :<br />
“I have fought the good fight,<br />
I have finished the race, I have<br />
kept the faith.” (2 Timothy<br />
4:7)<br />
Stay tuned for more<br />
exciting activities and<br />
events planned for 2018.<br />
Come join this dynamic<br />
community of young<br />
families.<br />
Find us at W2W@new<br />
mummies on Facebook<br />
and send us a request<br />
to join, or email us at<br />
w2wfornewmummies@<br />
gmail.com<br />
You can also get more<br />
information about us<br />
at the Arrows and Bows<br />
Corner in the Mother<br />
Infants Room during<br />
weekend celebrations.<br />
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Family<br />
Family<br />
MIGHTY MOVERS<br />
dancing for the Lord<br />
Staphanie Mun Chen, KL<br />
“You have turned<br />
my mourning into<br />
joyful dancing.<br />
You have taken<br />
away my clothes<br />
of mourning and<br />
clothed me with<br />
joy,”<br />
Psalm 30:11 NLT<br />
For the past 2 years,<br />
the New Mummies<br />
Ministry (NMM) have<br />
been collaborating with<br />
the Resonate dancers to<br />
teach young children dance<br />
movements to worship God.<br />
You might have witnessed<br />
the Mighty Movers dancing<br />
at our weekend celebrations.<br />
When Pastor Chris saw the<br />
Resonate dancers leading<br />
the children in Praise and<br />
Worship, he was touched<br />
and said, “This is a perfect<br />
example of discipleship!”<br />
We got in touch with some<br />
of these Resonate dancers,<br />
mostly young adults, to<br />
find out more about Mighty<br />
Movers.<br />
WHAT INSPIRED YOU<br />
TO INVEST YOUR<br />
TIME IN THE LIVES OF<br />
YOUNG CHILDREN VIA<br />
RESONATE DANCE &<br />
MIGHTY MOVERS?<br />
Erin: In 2016, when I was<br />
approached with the idea of<br />
dancing with young children<br />
during weekend celebrations,<br />
I was hesitant as I was not very<br />
fond of children then.<br />
So we decided that the<br />
Resonate dance team in<br />
collaboration with the W2W<br />
New Mummies’ Group<br />
would just organise a one-off<br />
children’s dance workshop to<br />
teach both the parents and<br />
their children simple Praise<br />
and Worship movements.<br />
As I continued to pray and<br />
ask the Lord to search my<br />
heart and deal with my<br />
hesitations towards the initial<br />
idea, He began to soften my<br />
heart towards children. During<br />
the weekend leading up to<br />
the workshop, God showed<br />
me a vision of many young<br />
children together with their<br />
parents worshipping and<br />
dancing freely before Him and<br />
leading the entire congregation<br />
in worship. From that day<br />
onwards, I have held on to that<br />
picture in my mind.<br />
Terence: There is a need for<br />
a worship model for the young<br />
children. Young children may<br />
not be proficient in playing<br />
an instrument or singing in<br />
harmony, so dancing with<br />
simple movements will provide<br />
them a chance to learn how<br />
to worship the Lord.<br />
Matthew: I was inspired<br />
by the quote: “We are not<br />
dancers that worship, we are<br />
worshippers that use dance”.<br />
This means that everyone,<br />
including children, can dance<br />
for the glory of God. I am also<br />
serving in Children’s Church,<br />
and I would like to see children<br />
worship Jesus in every way<br />
they can.<br />
WHAT WAS THE MOST<br />
FULFILLING MOMENT?<br />
Liam: During my second time<br />
serving, there were a few boys<br />
who came up to us and began<br />
dancing alongside us during<br />
worship.<br />
Terence: When I see the<br />
talents/skills/knowledge<br />
that God has given me<br />
“multiplying” when they are<br />
being passed on to another<br />
person or to children.<br />
Evelyn: To see the joy on their<br />
faces when they are dancing.<br />
Some may have their interests<br />
and potential discovered<br />
through this and others learn<br />
to worship and encounter God<br />
WHAT WAS THE<br />
FUNNIEST OR MOST<br />
MEMORABLE MOMENT<br />
WHILE WORKING<br />
WITH THESE YOUNG<br />
CHILDREN?<br />
Erin: During the recent dance<br />
workshop in August 2017.<br />
The dance team taught both<br />
the young children and their<br />
parents a hip hop dance<br />
choreography and at the end<br />
of it, all the young children<br />
laid on the floor exhausted.<br />
And I thought kids were<br />
always full of energy!<br />
Ashley: During one of the<br />
children’s dance workshops,<br />
one of the children gave me<br />
a biscuit from his snack and<br />
said he saved it for me. Oh<br />
that heart of generosity and<br />
love at such a young age!<br />
Ping Yin: The relationships<br />
between mothers & their<br />
children touch me because<br />
I never had this with my<br />
own parents. It was most<br />
encouraging to see the mothers<br />
so willing to learn everything<br />
with the children.<br />
Matthew: One of the children<br />
that attended shared with their<br />
friends in Children’s Church<br />
what she had learnt from the<br />
workshop!<br />
HOW HAS SERVING<br />
IMPACTED YOUR<br />
WALK WITH THE<br />
LORD?<br />
Lena: Many times we learn<br />
to just rely on His creativity<br />
and strength to choreograph<br />
a song. This encourages me to<br />
spend more time with the Lord<br />
in order to be more sensitive to<br />
Him, which is something I am<br />
still learning to improve on.<br />
Grace: Serving challenges<br />
spiritual growth. I was still<br />
young in my faith when I<br />
joined Resonate Dance. There<br />
were times that I was so busy<br />
I did not spend enough time<br />
with the Lord, and serving<br />
from the heart was difficult,<br />
until He refreshed me when<br />
I sought after Him. It made<br />
me realise how gracious and<br />
merciful our God is. Our<br />
relationship with Him is not<br />
based on how much work<br />
we do but what is our heart<br />
condition. It taught me to be<br />
disciplined to seek God and<br />
to be connected to Him at all<br />
times.<br />
Ping Yin: I can feel His love<br />
for me through serving. This<br />
brings me closer to God.<br />
WHAT WOULD YOU<br />
SAY TO SOMEONE<br />
WHO ASPIRES TO<br />
SERVE LIKEWISE?<br />
Grace: Be faithful in what you<br />
do, no matter how big or small<br />
it is. You’ll never know how<br />
God can use you.<br />
Lena: Know the purpose<br />
of why you do what you do<br />
and do your best, then God<br />
will do the rest.<br />
Evelyn: Don’t be held back by<br />
busy schedules. Have faith in<br />
Him, believe in Him. All things<br />
are possible according to His<br />
will and His plan. Just-do-it!<br />
For more information about<br />
Mighty Movers timetable<br />
and upcoming children’s<br />
dance workshops, email us at<br />
w2wfornewmummies@gmail.<br />
com.<br />
You can also get more<br />
information at the Arrows<br />
and Bows Corner in the<br />
Mother Infants Room during<br />
weekend celebrations.<br />
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DUMC Stories<br />
DUMC Stories<br />
I could not control myself, and my wife sensed<br />
that there could be some spiritual disturbance.<br />
She asked me to go to a church or see a Taoist<br />
Sifu to seek for help. I chose the church.<br />
MY<br />
Transformed Life…<br />
by Jeffrey Lim, PJN 2<br />
Before knowing Jesus, I was a devout<br />
follower of another religion. I always<br />
thought Christianity was only for<br />
rich people, and for obtaining business<br />
connections. In 2015, I lost my job and<br />
my income due to the oil price drop. I was<br />
also deep in debt. People owed me money<br />
but I could not collect the debt. I suffered<br />
from depression and a serious case of acid<br />
reflux causing me to spend a lot of time and<br />
money on medication.<br />
To me, losing my job felt like a surgeon<br />
losing his hand. I began to be really worried<br />
for my family’s future, feeling both helpless<br />
and hopeless. There was no peace in my<br />
heart. I had sleepless nights, no appetite,<br />
was always in a bad mood and was<br />
downcast. My wife, Mei Ling, and I were<br />
not communicating well with each other.<br />
I felt even more hurt and insecure when<br />
she sought advice from her friends because<br />
I did not want others to know about my<br />
problem.<br />
I went to see a psychiatrist, but he was<br />
of little help. I kept changing medications,<br />
to help me sleep better and to control my<br />
mood swings. The medication was a strong<br />
tranquiliser that caused me to be very<br />
groggy. I could sleep for days at a time and<br />
would constantly argue with my wife. In<br />
order to manage my inner anger, I would<br />
just keep very quiet. I would park my car<br />
a distance away and walk back home. I felt<br />
that I could not manage my family anymore<br />
and had disappointed them. Our marital<br />
relationship grew worse, and I wanted<br />
to get a divorce.<br />
One day, during a heated argument over<br />
family matters, I lost control and slapped<br />
Mei Ling. I felt it was not me and did not<br />
know what came over me. In another<br />
quarrel, in a fit of rage, I broke things<br />
in the house. I shook her shoulders and<br />
pushed her onto the sofa. Mei Ling and my<br />
son were both terrified! They left me alone<br />
in the house. I felt so alone, I wanted to end<br />
my life. Feeling broken and sick, I needed<br />
help, but I did not want people to know.<br />
Then, once again in a fit of rage, I hit my<br />
fist so hard against the wall that I fractured<br />
it. I could not control myself, and my wife<br />
sensed that there could be some spiritual<br />
disturbance. She asked me to go to a<br />
church or see a Taoist Sifu to seek for help.<br />
I chose the church.<br />
Our son had already started attending<br />
Children’s Church here at DUMC. My wife<br />
had also started attending church. I was<br />
uncomfortable seeing my son sing worship<br />
songs. I did not believe the words of the<br />
songs. At times, I would ask my wife not<br />
to go to church.<br />
In October 2015, I accepted Jesus after<br />
bumping into Pastor Moy How at the<br />
church cafe. At first, I accepted Jesus<br />
because I wanted to please my wife, but<br />
something special happened during the<br />
process of saying the sinner’s prayer. It was<br />
noisy that day in the cafe, but I could only<br />
hear the Pastor’s voice. I was sobbing with<br />
tears which was not the usual me.<br />
Not long after that, my family was assigned<br />
to a cell group. Initially, I avoided going.<br />
One day, I dreamt I needed to follow my<br />
cell Leader, Adrian Chen, who heads the<br />
Marriage Course, which we eventually<br />
attended. I knew God was directing me.<br />
At the same time, I joined the “To Be<br />
A Better Dad” course, led by Fan Ngian<br />
and Sian Li. I learned how to treat my son<br />
better, and the importance of leaving<br />
a strong legacy. I started to open my heart<br />
to my cell group. Knowing that I was in<br />
financial need, my cell group helped by<br />
referring jobs to me. My family was in a<br />
much happier and healthier state in this<br />
loving environment. I love my cell group,<br />
and we have received much love from<br />
them. They are my ‘true’ family.<br />
During a family trip, I encountered God<br />
personally. Many miracles happened.<br />
We walked closely with the Holy Spirit,<br />
our prayers were answered and we learned<br />
to be at peace. God is so good.<br />
On returning home, I was healed of my<br />
sickness and freed from taking medication.<br />
Mei Ling and I were able to communicate<br />
better. When I could not sleep, she would<br />
pray for me and before she finished her<br />
prayer, I would fall asleep like a baby.<br />
We attended the Baptism and Membership<br />
Encounter Weekend (BMEW) and arranged<br />
for a home cleansing by Pastor Jin Leong.<br />
I remember clearly on the morning I was<br />
baptised, I felt a chain ‘break’ away, my<br />
‘old-self died’ and I experienced such an<br />
overwhelming peace. Consecutively for<br />
three days, when I started my car, the<br />
same lyrics, ‘Be humble and kind’ played<br />
on a radio channel. God is with me even<br />
in my car! Now, I am not easily angered<br />
as I surrendered my all to God. In Him,<br />
everything happens for a reason.<br />
Today my life is completely changed<br />
and transformed. I serve in the Children’s<br />
Church and soon I will be going on my first<br />
mission trip to Myanmar. Even when things<br />
seemed difficult, we learned to fully trust<br />
God. Jesus loves me. He loves all of you<br />
too. Thank You Jesus!<br />
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DUMC Stories<br />
DUMC Stories<br />
Learning<br />
the way of the<br />
CROSS<br />
By Debbie Loh, PJN 3<br />
I’m Debbie Loh and I’ve been in DUMC<br />
since 2001. I came on-board the staff<br />
team in 2012 running programmes<br />
for the Citizens’ Network for a Better<br />
Malaysia. I have moved to the Equip team<br />
in October 2017, where I am now Equipping<br />
Programme Administrator.<br />
When it dawned on me in March 2017 that<br />
cancer could be the reason for the slight<br />
swell on my neck, I had a few reactions.<br />
Among them was a prayer to God that<br />
I did not want to be known as a “cancer<br />
survivor”, who would be writing testimonies<br />
like this one. It was not that I did not want<br />
to write testimonies, I simply preferred to<br />
be known for my accomplishments, not for<br />
a sickness.<br />
Instantly I realised that this was one of my<br />
basest, unscripted thoughts, springing from<br />
a place within me. The moment I said the<br />
prayer, I saw the condition of my heart,<br />
and the falseness of it. I realised that I had<br />
a plan for my life, and it was to be some<br />
kind of hero or champion. In the face of<br />
a possible death sentence, I was more<br />
worried about my reputation, and being<br />
a “cancer survivor” would taint it.<br />
As the secret thoughts of my heart were<br />
made known to me, I realised the falseness<br />
of my desire, and I surrendered myself to<br />
the possibility of cancer. If that would help<br />
me realise that my life was not my own, and<br />
if it would push me closer to Christ, so be it.<br />
The biopsy results came back, and<br />
I reproduce this message I texted to my<br />
closer friends and community in April 2017,<br />
before my surgery:<br />
“After a series of tests, it became clear that<br />
I have papillary thyroid cancer, the least<br />
aggressive of all cancers. What is needed<br />
is to remove my thyroid gland, followed<br />
by a radioactive iodine treatment, and daily<br />
intake of thyroxin to make up for the loss of<br />
the hormones produced by the gland. There<br />
is no chemotherapy involved. It is highly<br />
curable.<br />
The outcome of the ultrasound has made<br />
the possibility of cancer enter into my<br />
personal world, and I have ruminated on<br />
its implications personally with the Lord.<br />
There was no better time than Good<br />
Friday, meditating and somehow sharing<br />
in the sufferings and death of our Lord. I<br />
am thankful I am allowed to share in the<br />
sufferings of the world too in a tiny way,<br />
yet realising that my privilege allows me to<br />
sail through with less stress. Compared with<br />
the poor with less privilege in my situation,<br />
what I will go through is less heavy.<br />
I’m thankful it wasn’t a death sentence after<br />
all and there are clear steps that I can take.<br />
I am unhappy to say goodbye to my thyroid<br />
gland, I will miss it.<br />
Thankfully I can look forward to the<br />
continuity of my relationships, work and<br />
ministry and most of all, the present life on<br />
this earth. I’m thankful to have good friends<br />
in the medical profession advising me, and<br />
church who looks out for me.”<br />
I dived whole-heartedly into the experience<br />
of learning about the sickness, surgery,<br />
recovery, numerous hospital visits and<br />
treatment. I also became fully immersed in<br />
the emotions and confusion that came with<br />
having a sickness. Examples of my struggles<br />
were the loneliness and uncertainty of<br />
entering the operating theatre and yielding<br />
myself to the wisdom of the medical team;<br />
catching up with a pregnant friend and<br />
realising we were going to the hospital for<br />
totally different reasons - new life for hers,<br />
and sickness and death for mine; and worst<br />
of all, the feeling of complete loss of control<br />
over my life.<br />
The surgery has left me without a thyroid<br />
gland, which means that I need lifelong<br />
medication. Just as God has laid His hand<br />
of ownership on Israel through Jacob, so<br />
He has laid His hand of ownership in my<br />
life - “You are mine.” (Isaiah 43:1). Today,<br />
my trips to collect my medication are trips<br />
to remember my utter dependence on God.<br />
I remember my vulnerability, my weakness<br />
and my personal need to be in the presence<br />
of God.<br />
This experience has brought me closer<br />
to the Cross - the Cross is how life is given<br />
but first through a process of humiliation<br />
which Christ has borne. And thus, the Cross<br />
has opened up the cruciform way of life -<br />
that in the humiliation of my broken plans,<br />
a certain firmer and more genuine way of<br />
life is forming.<br />
As I re-evaluated my life, I began to be<br />
able to see areas in my life that were false<br />
and shallow - things that I did for my own<br />
reputation, or a fear of missing out. I also<br />
began to see areas in my life that were<br />
genuine. I began the process of making<br />
changes, being brave to let go of parts<br />
of my life that were already dead, and<br />
choosing instead the things that had life.<br />
I reflected much on the love of God, and<br />
realised how far I was from truly loving<br />
Him and loving others.<br />
In the Bible class that I co-teach (Bible 101),<br />
I often point out that the biblical narrative<br />
shows God to be holy, present and active.<br />
At that point in my life, while I trusted Him<br />
as holy and present in my life, I struggled<br />
to see that He was active. In my moments<br />
of desolation, I felt He only stood at<br />
a distance, doing nothing to help me. Over<br />
time, God showed me that He was active,<br />
when things around me began to fall<br />
into place as He helped me piece my life<br />
together again. I saw, and I learned.<br />
I learned that God is able to take what<br />
is broken and sick, even dead, to breathe<br />
into it new life. That is the way of the Cross.<br />
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DUMC Stories<br />
SERVING<br />
is a<br />
privilege<br />
by Wendy Tan Min Litt, PJS1<br />
I<br />
have been a Christian<br />
for over 30 years.<br />
I used to be very active<br />
in Christian fellowships at<br />
school and university, but<br />
I did things mostly out of<br />
mere obligation. If I was<br />
not approached, I would<br />
gladly let someone else do<br />
it. I was in and out of church,<br />
back-slided, smoked, tried<br />
marijuana, read a lot about<br />
astrology, numerology<br />
and even had a tarot card<br />
readings done by an exboyfriend.<br />
I was doing things<br />
that would later blanket my<br />
life with guilt and shame.<br />
I would treat God like my<br />
ATM machine when it came<br />
to prayer. Only praying when<br />
I needed Him and forgetting<br />
about Him when things were<br />
going well. When I prayed<br />
and asked for direction, He<br />
would answer sometimes<br />
with a “no”, which I would<br />
choose to ignore. My faith<br />
towards God would spike<br />
up and down. I even told<br />
Him once, “I believe you<br />
exist, but just leave me<br />
alone.”<br />
Then, in May 2016, my<br />
heart was shattered by<br />
a very painful break-up.<br />
It impacted me deeply.<br />
This time, I surrendered<br />
to God completely: my<br />
hopelessness, despair, pain,<br />
grief – everything I had gone<br />
through in life. I was so tired<br />
of hiding and running from<br />
Him.<br />
It was not an overnight<br />
transformation, but as<br />
I attended conferences,<br />
Equip classes and Bible<br />
studies and began going<br />
regularly to church and<br />
attending cell group, I relearned<br />
many things, rebuilt<br />
my relationship with God<br />
and began to cut off a lot of<br />
baggage from my life. I have<br />
also learned to lean on God,<br />
to listen and obey His voice,<br />
and follow His guidance.<br />
With so much that God has<br />
done for me, I felt I should do<br />
something for Him in return.<br />
During last year’s Volunteers’<br />
Preview, I signed up to serve<br />
at the Registration Counter<br />
and on the Writing Team.<br />
What have I have gained<br />
from serving? I will base<br />
my response on DUMC’s<br />
five Core Habits.<br />
Honour – As God is my #1<br />
priority, I have learned to<br />
honour Him and people,<br />
with my time and effort.<br />
Humility – Serving keeps me<br />
grounded. Ultimately, in all<br />
that I do, the glory goes to<br />
God and not me.<br />
Be Real – I can be my usual<br />
self and do not need to put<br />
up a front. I appreciate that<br />
people accept me just as<br />
I am.<br />
Pass It On – With the joy<br />
I have gained, I just want to<br />
share my stories with others,<br />
especially with those who<br />
may face similar situations.<br />
Fun – It has been great to<br />
be part of the DUMC family;<br />
getting to know and doing<br />
life with so many wonderful<br />
people here.<br />
My life is completely different<br />
these days. I always feel a<br />
tremendous sense of peace.<br />
I am assured and steady,<br />
knowing that God is with me,<br />
at all times. He is indeed my<br />
good, good Father.<br />
The year before, I stepped<br />
up. Last year, I stepped out.<br />
This year, I cannot wait to<br />
step in.<br />
If you have not already done<br />
so, I do hope that you will<br />
take the step as well, to start<br />
serving, be it at home, in your<br />
cell group or in church.<br />
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DUMC Ministries<br />
DUMC Ministries<br />
DUMC Ministries<br />
CONGREGATIONS<br />
ENGLISH<br />
Pr Tan Moy How<br />
english@dumc.my<br />
BAHASA MALAYSIA<br />
Pr Eddy Marson<br />
bahasa.malaysia@dumc.my<br />
CHINESE CHURCH<br />
Pr Dr Ling Shui Nyuk<br />
chinese@dumc.my<br />
NEPALESE<br />
Alvin Yeo<br />
nepalese@dumc.my<br />
MYANMAR<br />
Pr Sarah Aye<br />
myanmar@dumc.my<br />
TAMIL<br />
Pr Ravindren Arumugam<br />
tamil@dumc.my<br />
COMMUNICATIONS<br />
& MEDIA<br />
DEW CREW<br />
Tan Chee Meng<br />
dew.crew@dumc.my<br />
DEW DESIGN<br />
Melody Soh<br />
dew.design@dumc.my<br />
FLOODGATES<br />
(Church Magazine)<br />
Petulia Lun<br />
floodgates@dumc.my<br />
PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
Stanley Woo<br />
dew.photo@dumc.my<br />
CREATIVE ARTS<br />
PUNCTUATION<br />
(Performing Arts and<br />
Drama ministry)<br />
Pr Gilbert Tan<br />
punctuation@dumc.my<br />
YOUTH<br />
CHILDREN’S CHURCH<br />
Pr Jonathan Yeoh<br />
children@dumc.my<br />
NEXTGEN<br />
Terry Yeow (Teen)<br />
nextgen.teens@dumc.my<br />
Sara Leong (Campus)<br />
nextgen.campus@dumc.my<br />
INTERNATIONAL<br />
STUDENTS MINISTRY<br />
Thomas & Cynthia Lim<br />
ism@dumc.my<br />
ADULTS<br />
MEN ALIVE!<br />
Fong Siew Keong<br />
men.alive@dumc.my<br />
WOMEN2WOMEN<br />
Stella Hoh<br />
w2w@dumc.my<br />
MISSIONS<br />
CROSSFIELDS<br />
Pr Kelvin Yong<br />
missions@dumc.my<br />
COMMUNITY<br />
BREAKTHROUGH DRUG<br />
REHABILITATION CENTRE<br />
Pr Samuel Krishnan<br />
breakthrough.rehab@dumc.my<br />
CITIZENS NETWORK FOR<br />
A BETTER MALAYSIA<br />
cnbm@ces.org.my<br />
EXCEL TUITION CLUB<br />
Yuen Ting Ai<br />
excel.tuition@ces.org.my<br />
GOLDEN CLUB<br />
Rupert Ling<br />
general@ces.org.my<br />
FOODBANK<br />
Tan Hong Looi<br />
foodbank@ces.org.my<br />
S.T.A.R YOUTH<br />
(Ministry for Intellectually -<br />
Challenged Youth)<br />
Tracey Chan<br />
micy@ces.org.my<br />
STREET MINISTRY<br />
(Ministry to the Homeless)<br />
Jerry Teo<br />
street.ministry@ces.org.my<br />
URBAN COMMUNITY<br />
DEVELOPMENT<br />
Sophy Lim<br />
urban.community@ces.org.my<br />
FAMILY<br />
FAMILY LIFE MINISTRY<br />
T C and Jean Lau<br />
family.life@dumc.my<br />
PREMARITAL<br />
COUNSELLING<br />
Bob and Ruby Chee<br />
pmc@dumc.my<br />
MARRIAGE<br />
Adrian Chen & Susan<br />
marriage.course@dumc.my<br />
PARENTING (Children)<br />
Ronnie and Ivy Khoo<br />
Dennis Ngai and Joo Wei<br />
parenting.children@dumc.my<br />
PARENTING (Teens)<br />
Vincent and Lily Wong<br />
parenting.teens@dumc.my<br />
WEDDING PLANNING<br />
Elizabeth Lee<br />
weddings@dumc.my<br />
FIRST TOUCH<br />
CONNECTORS<br />
Pr Alex Tan<br />
connectors@dumc.my<br />
SECURITY<br />
Pr Adrian Chong<br />
security@dumc.my<br />
USHERING<br />
Dr Tham Kok Wah<br />
ushering@dumc.my<br />
OTHERS<br />
FORERUNNERS<br />
(Intercessory Prayer<br />
Ministry)<br />
Pr Chris Manivannan<br />
forerunners@dumc.my<br />
LIBRARY<br />
Pr Michael Ngui<br />
library@dumc.my<br />
TADIKA JUARA CERDIK<br />
Yuen Ting Ai<br />
general@dreamacademy.edu.my<br />
RESONATE<br />
(Worship ministry)<br />
Pr Gilbert Tan<br />
resonate@dumc.my<br />
YOUTH EXCEL SERVICES<br />
(Football Coaching)<br />
Pr Samuel Krishnan<br />
yes@ces.org.my<br />
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LIMITED COPIES OF THE TRAC LENT DEVOTIONAL<br />
ARE AVAILABLE AT THE INFO COUNTER.<br />
31 MAY - 2 JUNE<br />
EARLY BIRD REGISTRATION: DUMC.MY/LEAD<br />
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LOVE GOD.<br />
SERVE PEOPLE.<br />
MAKE DISCIPLES.<br />
We are DUMC.<br />
A church for all generations<br />
—an exciting community<br />
of families, senior citizens,<br />
young adults, teenagers,<br />
and young children, doing<br />
life together.<br />
Our primary purpose is not<br />
to make nice religious Christians.<br />
Our purpose is to build passionate<br />
disciples of Jesus Christ.<br />
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