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ISSUE 096<br />

QUARTER 1, 2018<br />

floodgates<br />

Following Jesus with our all<br />

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Message from Senior Pastor<br />

floodgates<br />

Jan to Mar 2018<br />

From the Editorial Team:<br />

Dear Church Family,<br />

Message from Senior Pastor<br />

1-3 Making Most of Every Opportunity<br />

Events<br />

4-6 Year End Watch Night & Forward<br />

7 Syok BBQ<br />

8-9 Women’s Encounter Weekend<br />

Message from Founding Senior Pastor<br />

10-12 How To Live Well in 2018<br />

Features<br />

13-14 Learn & Serve in Chiang Mai<br />

15-17 Living Waters<br />

18-19 Isaiah & Your Calling<br />

20-21 Bible Reading Plan<br />

22-23 Leading Tomorrow’s Leaders Today<br />

24-26 PRIDE The Genesis Of Sin<br />

Family<br />

27-29 New Mummies<br />

30-31 Mighty Movers<br />

DUMC Stories<br />

32-33 My Transformed Life<br />

34-35 Learning the Way of the Cross<br />

36 Serving is a Privilege<br />

38-39 DUMC Ministries<br />

<strong>Floodgates</strong> was created to be a vessel,<br />

a platform where we can publish articles<br />

and testimonies to bless and inspire God’s<br />

people towards that Godly renewal of<br />

the mind mentioned by the apostle Paul,<br />

and which will stand out from the daily<br />

bombardment of confusing and possibly<br />

unhelpful “information”.<br />

In <strong>Floodgates</strong> we, as a Church body of<br />

Christ, can share stories and bear witness<br />

to God’s amazing grace and give Him the<br />

glory. Also, we can remind ourselves that<br />

we are nothing without Jesus, that we<br />

would just be part of a dying world and<br />

hopeless.<br />

On the cover, “G” is at the centre of the<br />

title, <strong>Floodgates</strong>, just as we need to place<br />

God at the centre of our all. Our name<br />

<strong>Floodgates</strong> originates from Malachi 3:10<br />

“Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse,<br />

that there may be food in my house. Test<br />

me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and<br />

see if I will not throw open the floodgates<br />

of heaven and pour out so much blessing<br />

that there will not be room enough to store<br />

it.”<br />

Father God, may we all, children of God,<br />

be blessed when the “floodgates of<br />

heaven pour out…” and be reminded that<br />

the presence of God in our lives is the<br />

blessed life.<br />

MAKING<br />

THE MOST<br />

of every<br />

opportunity<br />

by Chris Kam, Senior Pastor<br />

15<br />

Be very careful, then, how you live-not as unwise<br />

but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity,<br />

because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be<br />

foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.<br />

Ephesians 5:15-17<br />

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Message from Senior Pastor<br />

The call to be very<br />

careful suggests that<br />

it is very easy to be<br />

careless! How are<br />

we careless? By not<br />

paying attention to<br />

the consequences<br />

of what we are<br />

doing. We often only<br />

live for the present<br />

rather than live out a vision for the future.<br />

We do not understand that what we<br />

do today influences future generations.<br />

Hence the exhortation to “be very careful”.<br />

In what ways are we to be careful? I am<br />

reminded of two passages of scripture<br />

from the Old Testament that were<br />

translated with the same phrase. Joshua<br />

22:5 “But be very careful to keep the<br />

commandment and the law that Moses<br />

the servant of the LORD gave you: to love<br />

the LORD your God, to walk in obedience<br />

to him, to keep his commands, to hold fast<br />

to him and to serve him with all your heart<br />

and with all your soul.” and Joshua 23:9-<br />

11 ”9The LORD has driven out<br />

before you great and powerful<br />

nations; to this day no one has<br />

been able to withstand you.<br />

10 One of you routs a thousand,<br />

because the LORD your God<br />

fights for you, just as he<br />

promised. 11 So be very careful<br />

to love the LORD your God.”<br />

Both were reminders to the<br />

nation of Israel of their love<br />

relationship with God and their obedience<br />

to His commandments. Love and obedience<br />

come hand in hand. John 14:15 says “If you<br />

love me, you will obey what I command.”<br />

We cannot say we love God and yet not<br />

do what He tells us. The Great Commission<br />

of Matthew 28:18-20 reminds us to<br />

disciple others to “obey everything I have<br />

commanded you.” Discipleship demands<br />

a response of obedience. It is incongruent<br />

to say we are a Christian yet live a life<br />

totally unChristlike.<br />

Your enemy<br />

the devil<br />

prowls around<br />

like a roaring<br />

lion looking<br />

for someone<br />

to devour.<br />

1 Peter 5:8<br />

There are at least three areas where we<br />

are often not careful. Firstly, Christians<br />

can be too wounded to serve. They lack<br />

the inner resolve to go to the cross to<br />

completely leave their past hurts there.<br />

Hence the cycle of being easily offended<br />

by people continues and this can mess<br />

every area of their relationships with other<br />

people. Secondly, Christians can become<br />

too complacent to serve. The Christian<br />

faith is just another self-centred religion<br />

for them. They are unconcerned about the<br />

affairs of God and His heart for the world.<br />

As long as they are personally blessed,<br />

they go on living without a care for the<br />

community around them. Thirdly, Christians<br />

are too preoccupied to serve. They are<br />

distracted by the demands of life and are<br />

not able to integrate every aspect of life<br />

well.<br />

We are also to be careful because the days<br />

are evil. “Your enemy the devil prowls<br />

around like a roaring lion looking for<br />

someone to devour.” (1 Peter 5:8) We are<br />

to remain vigilant and not be caught while<br />

napping. We are already in<br />

a state of spiritual warfare<br />

by default. Either the devil<br />

will do his work undetected<br />

or, if discovered, he will come<br />

on a frontal attack to put<br />

fear into us. The number one<br />

mission of the devil and his<br />

cohorts is to keep people<br />

from the salvation of God.<br />

The apostle Paul went on to<br />

remind us that foolishness is the absence<br />

of God in our lives. Therefore, understand<br />

what the will of God is. How do we<br />

understand the will of God? There are<br />

three aspects of God’s will: His sovereign<br />

will, His will as revealed in Scripture and<br />

His individual will for our lives. Where His<br />

sovereign will is concerned, He does not<br />

need to ask our permission for what will<br />

happen. He is God! He is omniscient (has<br />

infinite knowledge). He is timeless, the<br />

Alpha and the Omega, no beginning and<br />

no end. His revealed will is entirely found<br />

in Scripture: a basic manual on how to live<br />

life on earth. His individual will for us would<br />

need to come from the first two as we work<br />

out that precious thought, that He had us<br />

in mind even before we were created,<br />

to do His good works. (Ephesians 2:10)<br />

What are these good works we are to do?<br />

It is everything we do that will point others<br />

to God or to Christ. “In the same way, let<br />

your light shine before others, that they<br />

may see your good deeds and glorify your<br />

Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16) So in the<br />

state of spiritual vigilance, we are to take<br />

up every opportunity that presents itself<br />

to sow into people’s lives, that they may<br />

see and hear about the God in our lives.<br />

“Be wise in the way you act toward<br />

outsiders; make the most of every<br />

opportunity.” (Colossians 4:5) And this can<br />

only be done when we are careful with our<br />

lives, understand what the will of God is and<br />

be filled with the Spirit of God. (Ephesians<br />

5:18-20)<br />

The opportunities presented to us in<br />

Malaysia are amazing, in spite of all the<br />

challenges restricting the advancement<br />

of the Gospel. 90% of Malaysians have yet<br />

to come to know Jesus. The opportunities<br />

present themselves wherever we are and<br />

And this can only<br />

be done when<br />

we are careful<br />

with our lives,<br />

understand what<br />

the will of God is<br />

and be filled with<br />

the Spirit of God.<br />

whatever we do every day, and we just<br />

need to see people with the eyes of our<br />

loving God.<br />

At the dawn of the twenty-first century,<br />

we see this phenomenon of unprecedented<br />

numbers of people on the move. Malaysia<br />

is no exception to this. The news agency<br />

Al Jazeera reported recently that, in their<br />

estimation, there are as many as four<br />

million undocumented and two million<br />

documented foreigners in our land. Fulfilling<br />

the Great Commission among the diaspora<br />

(movement of the population from its<br />

original homeland) of people scattered<br />

throughout the globe demands that we<br />

think afresh how to do local mission at our<br />

doorstep. Just in DUMC itself we see now<br />

four distinct groups of such foreigners.<br />

On top of that, there are more than 100,000<br />

international students seeking to come<br />

to Malaysia, considered a hub for higher<br />

education, citing cultural comfort, cost,<br />

value for money, language of instruction<br />

and quality of life as their reasons for<br />

selection. These are unprecedented<br />

opportunities for the Gospel. Many come<br />

from lands where the Gospel is not easily<br />

accessed. God has brought them to our<br />

land. Are we making the most of every<br />

opportunity?<br />

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when we started. Now as a child<br />

of God, can we finish better than<br />

when we started?<br />

Thirdly, have we kept the faith? I feel<br />

that we need to continuously remind<br />

ourselves of the death of Christ on the<br />

cross, and that the cross is the symbol<br />

of sacrifice, grace, mercy and<br />

forgiveness. We have experienced God,<br />

so will we be able to be unwavering in<br />

our faith like Jesus was till his death on<br />

the cross?<br />

As the preaching came to an end,<br />

a huge cross was brought out in front<br />

of the sanctuary. We were asked to write<br />

on pieces of paper our “idols” or desires<br />

STEPping Into 2018…<br />

By Vera Tay, PJS2<br />

There was another 30 minutes to<br />

go but the seats were filling up<br />

fast. Excitement was in the air!<br />

It was PROCLAIM2017 and the<br />

people were gathering to usher<br />

in the New Year. We began with worship<br />

and praising God. We had fun, as we<br />

recalled the memorable bits of 2017 –<br />

funny, meaningful, challenging, something<br />

distinctive for each one to recall.<br />

As the clock was counting down to<br />

midnight, we soon settled into our seats<br />

to hear a message from our Senior Pastor’s<br />

heart…<br />

“We are no longer our own but God’s”<br />

as he shared 3 points from 2 Timothy 4:7.<br />

Firstly, “I have fought the good fight” – Paul<br />

stated that life was a fight and we needed<br />

to fight the good fight. We should not<br />

fight over the wrong things nor get into<br />

unwarranted fights. As long as the fight<br />

is not to make a stand for Christian<br />

principles and to glorify God, we should<br />

take a step back. Neither should we get<br />

into conflict with one another, we are<br />

brothers and sisters in Christ. We are part<br />

of the same family and we have the same<br />

Heavenly Father.<br />

Secondly, we are all mortals. Are we ready<br />

to cross the finishing line and into heaven?<br />

God’s values should be our foundation<br />

and second nature to us. No matter which<br />

season of life we are in, are we able to put<br />

God first? Do we have the wisdom to adjust<br />

our priorities, time and energy to ensure<br />

that we live a life that pleases God. What<br />

then is a life that pleases God? The one<br />

thing to which God has called all of us,<br />

is to “Proclaim the Gospel of Salvation to<br />

All” – the Great Commandment. So have<br />

you put every effort to fulfil this? Have you<br />

shared the gospel? We didn’t know God<br />

for God to deal with, or our dreams and<br />

requests that were so big that only God<br />

could bring them to pass. It was a<br />

solemn and meaningful moment as<br />

we individually walked up and laid our<br />

“desires” at the foot of the Cross.<br />

Soon it was time for the count-down. 5,<br />

4, 3, 2, 1 and the whole church launched<br />

into a prayer dedicating ourselves to<br />

God. I felt the presence of the Holy Spirit,<br />

and peace flooded the sanctuary. It was<br />

indeed a significant way to end 2017 and<br />

to usher in 2018.<br />

A week later…<br />

At FORWARD2018, we had two special<br />

events, a special midnight Celebration<br />

on Saturday led by the Myanmar<br />

congregation, and a Sunday Celebration<br />

where 6 congregations (English, Chinese,<br />

BM, Tamil, Nepali, Myanmar) gathered to<br />

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worship God. The Worship in different<br />

languages was just amazing! The<br />

atmosphere was warm and exciting, joy<br />

on everyone’s faces, it gave a glimpse of<br />

what Heaven would be like with people<br />

from different tribes and tongues, praising<br />

God in one voice. Pastor Ravi was just the<br />

right person to deliver the welcome in the<br />

6 languages. He had a gift that puts the<br />

congregation at ease and bonded all of us.<br />

Senior Pastor Chris then shared with us<br />

the theme for 2018, for the Church to<br />

“Step In(to)” the lives of people and to be<br />

receptive when opportunity presented itself<br />

and to always ask the Holy Spirit to lead us.<br />

Senior Pastor Chris preached from<br />

Ephesians 5:15-20 that as we move forward<br />

into the New Year we need to be ‘very<br />

careful’ how to live as the Devil is prowling<br />

and wants to devour us. We are in<br />

a Spiritual War and we have to guard<br />

our hearts as the wounds of the heart<br />

are the hardest to heal. We must not allow<br />

ourselves to be hurt to the point that<br />

we are unable to serve God. We need to<br />

forgive as Christ has forgiven us. We need<br />

to think about other people without<br />

a selfish “Bless Me” attitude. We need to<br />

have an attitude that serves others too.<br />

We also need to guard our time and make<br />

sure that we spend time with God.<br />

Next, we should live our lives with Godly<br />

wisdom and to fulfil the purposes of God<br />

for our lives. Do you desire to know the<br />

will of God? For this to happen, we need<br />

to recognise 3 things about God ’s will.<br />

Firstly, His Sovereign Will – this means to<br />

acknowledge that God is in control, even<br />

if we do not understand everything that is<br />

happening and even if things seem to be<br />

out of control.<br />

Secondly is God’s Revealed Will. God has<br />

revealed His will in the Bible. This is the<br />

reason why we need to spend time reading<br />

the Bible as it will reveal His will for our life<br />

and the things that are happening in the<br />

world. The Bible is also an acronym<br />

for “Basic Instruction before Leaving Earth”.<br />

Thirdly there is God’s Individual Will for our<br />

lives. We are his special handiwork, created<br />

in Christ Jesus to do good works which God<br />

prepared in advance for us to do. God has<br />

a unique plan for each of us. To find out<br />

God’s special plan for our lives, we must<br />

spend time reading the Bible.<br />

Finally, we need to be ready for every<br />

opportunity and to let our light shine before<br />

others. We should allow the Holy Spirit<br />

to guide us and to be sensitive to the call<br />

of the Holy Spirit. Just as we greet the Holy<br />

Spirit in the morning, we should also begin<br />

to say “Good Night” to the Holy Spirit. As<br />

the sermon came to a close we were asked<br />

if there was anything that we needed to<br />

sacrifice in order that God could use us<br />

in a mighty way.<br />

What a way to start the first Sunday<br />

of 2018! Yes we are indeed moving forward<br />

with God the Father, God the Son and God<br />

the Holy Spirit.<br />

SYOK<br />

BBQ<br />

“Time waits for no man”…<br />

Twenty35 Event by Natalia David,<br />

PJN 6<br />

How these words<br />

ring true as we find<br />

ourselves facing the<br />

impending close of 2017.<br />

In a blink of an eye, we find<br />

ourselves a few weeks before<br />

Christmas and then the New<br />

Year in the following week.<br />

The Twenty35 event on<br />

18 November arrived with<br />

a group of young adults<br />

anticipating what every<br />

Malaysian loves best - food,<br />

an awesome double whammy<br />

of it being a BBQ.<br />

We were well taken care<br />

of by a team of dedicated<br />

comrades who spent the<br />

night facing a hot and stuffy<br />

fire pit as they diligently<br />

cooked food that reminded<br />

us of why we continued to<br />

stay in Malaysia, and dessert<br />

that compelled you to sing<br />

with the heavenly angels,<br />

it was that good.<br />

The theme for the<br />

night was one constantly<br />

overlooked in our busy,<br />

turbulent lives -<br />

Thanksgiving. It was<br />

originally a curious American<br />

holiday that holds a<br />

meaningful air around it<br />

but it is not common within<br />

Asian society. Twenty35<br />

did something different and<br />

taught people ranging from<br />

their early twenties to their<br />

mid-thirties that despite<br />

the year we had to face, be<br />

it good or bad, amazing or<br />

downright ugly, joyful or just<br />

plain depressing, we still had<br />

so much to be thankful for.<br />

Most times we are in the<br />

habit of focusing on the<br />

darkness and storms around<br />

us that we forget to realise<br />

how God has always been<br />

there to take us through it all<br />

until we find clear blue skies<br />

and calm waters. Personally,<br />

I was reminded of the year I<br />

will soon be leaving behind<br />

- how far I have come, how<br />

far I will go, how much had<br />

changed and how thankful<br />

I was for every storm that<br />

taught me the best way to<br />

overcome it, every mountain<br />

that taught me how to climb<br />

higher, and every experience<br />

that became a meaningful<br />

memory.<br />

It was definitely a fun<br />

experience getting to<br />

know new faces that night<br />

and ‘being yourself’ with<br />

familiar ones among those<br />

in the same age range. Good<br />

conversations and equally<br />

good food, not forgetting<br />

the amazing dessert, made<br />

it quite an affair. It was a<br />

chance for us to learn from<br />

one another and found that<br />

while we might be very<br />

different individuals on the<br />

outside, we, oddly enough,<br />

were not so different at the<br />

same time. One common<br />

thread that tied us all<br />

together was God’s love.<br />

Twenty35 has been<br />

an excellent platform for<br />

impacting those of us who<br />

are at this impressionable<br />

stage of our lives, with its ups<br />

and downs and its crossroads<br />

of important choices to be<br />

made. I, for one, am thankful<br />

to DUMC for the Twenty35<br />

ministry which has been<br />

giving me life-changing<br />

experiences and I hope that<br />

there will be more to come<br />

so that others like me will be<br />

just as blessed by the new<br />

generation experience.<br />

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Events<br />

Women’s<br />

Encounter<br />

Weekend<br />

complied by Petulia Lun, PJN6<br />

“Instead, it should be that of your inner self,<br />

the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet<br />

spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.”<br />

1 Peter 3:4<br />

Every year, in<br />

November, Women<br />

to Women (W2W)<br />

has an Encounter<br />

Weekend (EW)<br />

getaway. It’s a time to<br />

contemplate God and reflect<br />

upon God’s goodness in our<br />

lives. It is also an opportune<br />

time to take stock of our lives<br />

as well as to evaluate our<br />

spiritual walk. In short, the<br />

W2W EW is a spiritual retreat<br />

for sisters in Christ.<br />

Here are three testimonies<br />

from three ladies who<br />

attended the recent<br />

November 2017 EW.<br />

During the nature walk,<br />

I didn’t expect an anxiety to<br />

stir up within me. I thought<br />

I was just there to spend<br />

quality time with God, to hear<br />

from God. But I got so angry<br />

with God, so angry that He<br />

had taken away my baby not<br />

once, not twice but three times.<br />

I was so angry with God and<br />

was asking why God had not<br />

been there to save my baby.<br />

It was through the connect<br />

group later that I learned<br />

I needed to go through a<br />

grieving period to acknowledge<br />

the loss of my child and it was<br />

ok that I questioned God. God<br />

revealed to me the why – it<br />

was because God is not just a<br />

Father to us but also a Mother.<br />

So, God can understand how<br />

a mother’s love is, and he<br />

surely knows the mother’s pain<br />

at losing a child. He lost His<br />

one and only son, Jesus.<br />

I used to think, “He is God,<br />

He gives and takes away,<br />

He has every right to do what<br />

He wants. Even if I ask why,<br />

He can choose not to answer,<br />

so there’s no point to ask him,<br />

I have to accept what He has<br />

given me”. It is as though<br />

“bo bian” (Hokkien).”<br />

It was through the encounter<br />

that I learned that our God is<br />

not an authoritarian God but<br />

a gentle and loving God. With<br />

these sisters in Christ who did<br />

not judge me nor my views,<br />

but who instead pointed me<br />

back to God, my perspective<br />

has changed in seeing God and<br />

seeing myself. I got to know<br />

God and understood Him<br />

better through this encounter.<br />

I was living a lonely life – all<br />

alone, with no one, no friend,<br />

to help me through any<br />

problem that I was facing.<br />

I was a believer for many years<br />

but left God for a while. At the<br />

beginning of 2017, I decided<br />

to attend church again. I also<br />

joined a cell group. Then,<br />

I signed up for the W2W<br />

Encounter Weekend (EW).<br />

At that EW, God affirmed<br />

that I was still His daughter<br />

and He loved me. He assured<br />

me that He would always<br />

protect me. Moreover, I now<br />

had a group of sisters in Christ<br />

to support me. This was when<br />

my life changed and God<br />

began to turn my life around,<br />

from evil to good.<br />

When I came back from<br />

the EW, I saw a radical change<br />

in myself. I was able to find<br />

joy again. I stepped out of my<br />

darkness. I became excited<br />

about life again and now my<br />

face reflects my joy. I am no<br />

longer fearful or in doubt,<br />

confused or angry. I no longer<br />

fear talking to people. I am<br />

now living a motivated life and<br />

I walk in confidence, trusting<br />

God. My sisters in Christ have<br />

supported and strengthened<br />

me through my journey of<br />

faith and now there is joy in<br />

my life.” I am now stronger<br />

because of what I had to go<br />

through. Perhaps, I am even<br />

smarter! I have found peace in<br />

God. Only He can give me this<br />

kind of peace. He is the<br />

powerful Creator of the whole<br />

universe and only He is<br />

perfect. Most importantly,<br />

God is personal and He wants<br />

to know me. Hallelujah!<br />

28 years ago, I attended<br />

a healing event at my previous<br />

church. I went forward for<br />

an altar call at the end of the<br />

sermon as it was the Friday<br />

before my water-baptism<br />

weekend.<br />

The pastor who prayed,<br />

released a prophetic word<br />

to me after seeing a vision<br />

of a flower bud. The message<br />

from God was that my life then<br />

was like the flower, not in full<br />

bloom as yet... but in time,<br />

God would nurture it and<br />

cause it to bloom beautifully.<br />

Out of the blossoming of my<br />

life, the sweet fragrance<br />

of Christ would be released<br />

to those around me, as stated<br />

in 2 Corinthians 2:15<br />

“For we are to God the<br />

pleasing aroma of Christ<br />

among those who are being<br />

saved and those who are<br />

perishing.”<br />

During the nature walk<br />

at the Women’s Encounter<br />

Weekend, I was drawn to<br />

this yellow flower with a bud<br />

attached from the same stem.<br />

What was impressed upon my<br />

heart was that the first half<br />

of my life had bloomed, just<br />

like the bright, opened flower<br />

but, God was still not done<br />

with me yet. The other half<br />

of my life was now like the<br />

accompanying bud...yet<br />

to bloom.<br />

God assured me that I had<br />

always been a late bloomer<br />

but I would definitely blossom<br />

in His Time and once again,<br />

release the fragrance of Christ<br />

to bless people around me.<br />

He was working my life out for<br />

His Glory and He would make<br />

all things beautiful in His<br />

perfect timing.<br />

God is my Abba Father and<br />

has my best interest at Heart.<br />

In Him I trust.<br />

For more information about<br />

W2W Moments / W2W<br />

Essential / W2W Encounter<br />

Weekend go to http://dumc.<br />

my/connect/adults/womenwomen/<br />

or email to dumc.<br />

w2w@gmail.com<br />

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Message from Founding Senior Pastor<br />

Message from Founding Senior Pastor<br />

HOW<br />

TO LIVE WELL<br />

in 2018 & beyond?<br />

Dato’ Dr Daniel Ho, Founding Senior Pastor<br />

“ 1 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such<br />

a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything<br />

that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and<br />

let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.<br />

2<br />

Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter<br />

of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured<br />

the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right<br />

hand of the throne of God. 3 Consider him who endured<br />

such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not<br />

grow weary and lose heart.”<br />

Hebrews 12:1-3<br />

Whatever that has happened in 2017, the joys<br />

and blessings as well as the heartaches and<br />

pains, we give thanks to Almighty God!<br />

Through it all we should learn precious<br />

lessons about life. As we begin 2018 with a<br />

clean slate, what has the New Year in store<br />

for us? More importantly, how can we really<br />

live well in 2018 and beyond too? I would<br />

like to suggest four areas for us to anchor<br />

our thoughts on. The passage in Hebrews<br />

12 provides us a good springboard for our<br />

reflections.<br />

Firstly, the encouragement we all need.<br />

Hebrews 12:1 says, “Therefore, since we<br />

are surrounded by such a great cloud of<br />

witnesses… let us run with perseverance<br />

the race marked out for us.” What is this<br />

great cloud of witnesses we are surrounded<br />

by? Who are they and what are they doing<br />

there? They are, I believe, the people of old<br />

like Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, Isaiah,<br />

Jeremiah and many other prophets and<br />

saints of the past who are cheering us on<br />

in this race of life. They are saying to us,<br />

“Keep up and keep on running this race<br />

of life! Do not give up or give in.” They<br />

encourage us as we run this race. In our<br />

journey of faith, we need good friends and<br />

deep spiritual friends where we pray, help,<br />

support and inspire one another in both<br />

good and challenging times. We cannot<br />

have it better than in the body of Christ and<br />

in the cell group where God is at the centre<br />

of our lives and relationships.<br />

Secondly, the entanglements we need to<br />

watch out for. Hebrews 12:1 says to us again,<br />

“…let us throw off everything that hinders<br />

and the sin that so easily entangles…” What<br />

are some of the entanglements that can trip<br />

us over and prevent us from running well<br />

in 2018 and beyond? One is being greedy<br />

for money or the lack of accountability<br />

and transparency in the handling of monies.<br />

With cryptocurrencies and all kinds of<br />

outrageous investments and get-rich-quick<br />

schemes being touted it is so easy for<br />

us to fall prey to these insanely tempting<br />

instruments. We need to keep a tight rein<br />

on our heart because the heart of the<br />

problem is the problem of the heart.<br />

A second is not being wise or guarded<br />

in our relationships with the opposite sex.<br />

We get entangled in inappropriate, wrong<br />

or immoral relationships and are torn apart<br />

in our lives, relationships and Christian walk<br />

and witness for the Lord. A third is the<br />

misusing of power and position that the<br />

Lord has given to us. Instead of using<br />

power and position to serve people we use<br />

it to abuse and oppress people. What a<br />

tragedy when such entanglements prevent<br />

us from running this race of life well and<br />

finishing well!<br />

Hebrews 12:2 says,<br />

“Let us fix our eyes on<br />

Jesus, the author and<br />

perfecter of our faith,<br />

who for the joy set<br />

before him endured<br />

the cross, scorning its<br />

shame, and sat down<br />

at the right hand of<br />

the throne of God.”<br />

Thirdly, the example to follow. Hebrews<br />

12:2 says, “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the<br />

author and perfecter of our faith, who for<br />

the joy set before him endured the cross,<br />

scorning its shame, and sat down at the<br />

right hand of the throne of God.” Our<br />

example is the Lord Jesus Christ whom<br />

we seek to follow and emulate. Jesus not<br />

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Message from Founding Senior Pastor<br />

Features<br />

The Christian<br />

race is not a 100<br />

metres sprint but<br />

a marathon race,<br />

an endurance race<br />

indeed.<br />

LEARN & SERVE<br />

in Chiang Mai<br />

by Low Mei Ling, PJN2<br />

only went through good and great times<br />

when He was on earth. He also experienced<br />

times of heartaches like betrayal and the<br />

excruciating pain of being crucified on the<br />

cross for no sin of His own. Yet Jesus was<br />

never bitter, angry, resentful or retaliatory.<br />

On the cross He said, “Father, forgive them,<br />

for they do not know what they are doing”<br />

(Luke 23:34). Jesus could have retaliated<br />

or taken revenge but instead He chose<br />

to forgive and to let go. So, whatever<br />

heartaches, burdens, grievances and pains<br />

we may have we must learn to forgive and<br />

let go too. Then we are delivered from<br />

the bondage to anger, resentment and<br />

bitterness. Then we can live in true freedom<br />

and with a real sense of inward peace, joy<br />

and abandonment in the Lord. What an<br />

example to follow and a wonderful life to<br />

live when we emulate the example of our<br />

Lord Jesus Christ.<br />

Fourthly and finally, the endurance we<br />

need. Hebrews 12:3 says, “Consider him<br />

who endured such opposition from sinful<br />

men, so that you will not grow weary and<br />

lose heart.” Jesus endured everything<br />

while on earth including the pain and the<br />

shame. So should we. The Christian race<br />

is not a 100 metres sprint but a marathon<br />

race, an endurance race indeed. When we<br />

endure like athletes it develops muscles<br />

and strength in us. And when our own<br />

strength is lacking and we feel really weak,<br />

like Apostle Paul we would be assuredly<br />

told, “My grace is sufficient for you, for<br />

my power is made perfect in weakness”<br />

(2 Corinthians 12:9). It is in our weakness<br />

that we discover God’s strength and grace.<br />

Apostle James also writes, “Perseverance<br />

must finish its work so that you may<br />

be mature and complete, not lacking<br />

anything.” Perseverance is the other word<br />

for endurance and the end result when<br />

we do so is maturity. What a remarkable<br />

outcome and that is what we all should<br />

desire to be as we live out 2018 and<br />

beyond: a maturity of life and faith!<br />

May these four areas of encouragements<br />

to offer, entanglements to guard, example<br />

to follow and endurance to garner mark<br />

our lives and our walk in 2018 and beyond.<br />

Imagine nearly 170<br />

Christian leaders from 38<br />

countries speaking over<br />

40 different languages,<br />

all gathered in Chiang Mai<br />

for a conference from 13 to 17<br />

November 2017. Desiring to<br />

further equip themselves for<br />

the Great Commission, they<br />

travelled thousands<br />

of miles from as far as Africa,<br />

the Americas, Europe with a<br />

quarter of them from Russia<br />

and Central Asia to this<br />

conference organised by the<br />

Increase Association, also<br />

known as “Increase”.<br />

BUT WHO IS<br />

INCREASE?<br />

When our team of seven<br />

DUMC members were invited<br />

as helpers to the conference,<br />

we also asked the same<br />

question, “Who is Increase?”<br />

Increase is an association<br />

which seeks to connect and<br />

strengthen church-based<br />

training movements across<br />

Asia and beyond. Its vision<br />

is to see “churches equipping<br />

all Christ’s followers in their<br />

contexts, so that many<br />

millions are discipled and<br />

empowered for mission,<br />

ministry and leadership”.<br />

Increase is also a recipient<br />

of DUMC’s Anniversary Gift<br />

Weekend.<br />

Increase uses primarily TEE<br />

which stands for “Tools to<br />

Equip and Empower”. There<br />

are over 100 discipling<br />

courses catering to a whole<br />

spectrum of believers from<br />

semi-literate believers<br />

to leaders aspiring to<br />

be pastors. During the<br />

conference, participants<br />

shared how courses like<br />

“Abundant Life” and<br />

“Abundant Light” taught in<br />

their local languages have<br />

been powerfully used to<br />

disciple and transform lives.<br />

Anyone who has benefitted<br />

from the course can lead<br />

a small TEE group at home,<br />

in the field or anywhere<br />

else. For more information<br />

on Increase, please<br />

visit their website at<br />

increaseassociation.org.<br />

Rev Dr Tim Green, the<br />

General Secretary of Increase<br />

is also a member of DUMC.<br />

When Tim and his wife,<br />

Rachel moved to Malaysia<br />

in 2014, they made DUMC<br />

their home church and they<br />

opened their home for cell<br />

meetings.<br />

THE CONFERENCE IN<br />

CHIANG MAI<br />

At the conference, many<br />

shared great news of God<br />

at work across Asia and how<br />

TEE groups have thrived<br />

in the face of persecution.<br />

Practical training workshops<br />

on “How to write project<br />

proposals for Western<br />

donors”, “Understanding<br />

Communications” and<br />

“The Impact of Digital<br />

Technology” were organised<br />

to equip the participants.<br />

Worship time was incredible.<br />

With everyone singing and<br />

connecting with God in<br />

their own language, it was<br />

like a glimpse of heaven<br />

on earth. The conference<br />

closed on a high note with<br />

Holy Communion and a<br />

declaration of commitment<br />

to work together for the<br />

discipleship of diaspora<br />

believers worldwide.<br />

Diaspora is the movement<br />

of people away from their<br />

homeland. It is a rising<br />

global trend. Over the years,<br />

millions have moved - some<br />

as refugees while others<br />

relocated for economic<br />

reasons. In Malaysia, many<br />

have come as foreign<br />

workers and TEE resources<br />

have been used to disciple<br />

many Nepalese and other<br />

foreign workers.<br />

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THE DUMC TEAM<br />

Our DUMC team led by<br />

Danny Kong, comprised<br />

Grace Kong, Janice Ling,<br />

Kong Kam Yong, Teresa<br />

Tiong, Melanie Lim and<br />

myself. We were known<br />

as the Learn & Serve<br />

team. In essence, we<br />

were the operations team.<br />

Everyone had different<br />

roles: registration, finance,<br />

slide projection, logistics,<br />

photography, story collection<br />

and anything else to ensure<br />

the smooth running of the<br />

conference.<br />

As we served, we learnt.<br />

Pastor Jolyon Trickey came<br />

from the UK to be our<br />

spiritual mentor. During<br />

our daily morning devotion,<br />

he prepared us for the<br />

unexpected challenges of<br />

the day. Having him greatly<br />

enhanced our learning.<br />

Grace Kong<br />

Hearing from delegates about<br />

how God moves mightily in<br />

Central Asia and catching<br />

a glimpse of how the Great<br />

Commission is fulfilled through<br />

the work of Increase is exciting.<br />

Many of the participants face<br />

huge challenges and yet they<br />

remain committed and faithful<br />

to God’s calling.<br />

Danny Kong<br />

Although the tasks for the<br />

team were not easy, I was<br />

overwhelmed by our team<br />

spirit and the willingness of<br />

our members to serve in the<br />

midst of tiredness and hiccups.<br />

I was also blessed by the many<br />

stories of how believers remain<br />

faithful and grow to be leaders<br />

amidst hardship using simple<br />

TEE resources for discipleship.<br />

From Pastor Jolyon, I learnt<br />

that prioritising prayer teaches<br />

us to be dependent on God.<br />

Janice Ling<br />

I was touched by the sharing<br />

of a Central Asian participant<br />

about how her life was<br />

transformed after she became<br />

a Christian and TEE resources<br />

were used to disciple her.<br />

Today, she leads small TEE<br />

groups. The TEE three-fold<br />

components of home study,<br />

weekly group meetings and<br />

practical application have<br />

proven to be very effective<br />

for discipleship.<br />

Teresa Tiong<br />

I often hear God through<br />

images. One morning,<br />

I had the image of a man<br />

gasping for air. I asked God,<br />

“What has this to do with<br />

the conference?” Later that<br />

morning, I saw a pastor<br />

from Indonesia at my table<br />

struggling with English.<br />

I immediately realised that<br />

God had used the image to<br />

alert me. As I translated for<br />

him, I learnt that God can<br />

use us in ways we never would<br />

have imagined.<br />

Kong Kam Yong<br />

As TEE resources are available<br />

in many places where people<br />

have settled, the diaspora<br />

movement could be God’s way<br />

of reaching out to people who<br />

would otherwise be in nations<br />

of limited access. Many people<br />

have also chosen to remain<br />

where they are, at high risk<br />

and cost, to strengthen the<br />

body of Christ. Participating<br />

in the Holy Communion with<br />

so many nationalities was a<br />

reminder of God’s love for the<br />

lost and the Great Commission<br />

that He has entrusted to the<br />

body of Christ.<br />

Living Waters<br />

for the tired and thirsty<br />

by Low Mei Ling, PJN2<br />

When one has<br />

travelled long<br />

hours by bus to<br />

bring a sick family member<br />

for treatment at the General<br />

Hospital in Chiang Mai, where<br />

can one go for the night<br />

if one has no money? Our<br />

DUMC social workers, KL<br />

Wong and his wife, Su found<br />

many in such a predicament<br />

around and under the<br />

staircases of the hospital.<br />

Driven by the need to meet<br />

a basic need, KL and Su set<br />

up Living Waters in 2009.<br />

Today, people with similar<br />

needs are directed to Living<br />

Waters by the hospital and<br />

social welfare officials.<br />

Living Waters is a shelter<br />

home for outpatients and<br />

their caregivers. Guests<br />

can stay for one night or<br />

even months without any<br />

charge. They are free to use<br />

the facilities of the home<br />

including cooking their own<br />

meals. Those who do not<br />

have money are welcome to<br />

share simple meals of rice<br />

and eggs provided by Living<br />

Waters. Su runs the shelter<br />

home with the help of two<br />

female workers.<br />

Apart from meeting the<br />

guests’ essential needs,<br />

Su also spends time to get<br />

to know them. Many have<br />

come to Living Waters<br />

with bondages and are<br />

emotionally down. On<br />

Wednesday evenings, all the<br />

guests are encouraged to<br />

join KL and Su for a time<br />

of worship and sharing.<br />

When our DUMC team<br />

of seven recently visited<br />

Living Waters, it was heartwarming<br />

to see KL and Su<br />

representing our church<br />

to serve wholeheartedly<br />

in this city. The home can<br />

comfortably accommodate<br />

15 people but if the need<br />

arises, it can be stretched<br />

to 20 people. Many who<br />

stayed in Living Waters have<br />

heard the Good News and<br />

those who were more open<br />

have responded positively.<br />

KL and Su have been very<br />

encouraged by the many<br />

transformed lives over the<br />

years.<br />

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Here are some thoughts of our team members after our visit.<br />

DANNY<br />

GRACE<br />

I am touched by the Apart from fending for<br />

commitment of KL and Su the poor and sick, their<br />

to their ministry and their ministry also looks after<br />

hearts’ desire to honour abused children and women.<br />

God in all that they do. I Seeing their sacrificial love<br />

am also humbled by how for people reminds me of<br />

they faithfully work among them being the light of the<br />

the locals despite the world for God. They are<br />

many physical, health and giving light to everyone who<br />

financial challenges. comes to Living Waters.<br />

In fact, many guests have<br />

found Living Waters to be<br />

a bright and comfortable<br />

place where they can sleep<br />

soundly.<br />

KAM YONG<br />

Being on the front line of<br />

caring for the physical,<br />

emotional and spiritual<br />

needs of patients, KL and<br />

Su are serving God in such<br />

selfless ways which can<br />

easily result in burnout.<br />

There is a great need to keep<br />

them in prayer.<br />

A LIFE-<br />

TRANSFORMING<br />

STORY<br />

We had the pleasure of<br />

meeting Martha. Two years<br />

ago, Martha’s daughter,<br />

Natalie met with a very bad<br />

motorcycle accident. Her leg<br />

had to be operated on and<br />

fitted with a metal cast which<br />

required a 30,000 baht<br />

deposit. Su had to help with<br />

the deposit required by the<br />

hospital.<br />

In her village, Martha was<br />

an enterprising food stall<br />

operator. So she tried to<br />

make some extra money<br />

by acting as a guarantor<br />

for loans. When one of the<br />

borrowers ran off with the<br />

money, she was caught with<br />

the liability. With no money<br />

to settle, she also fled for her<br />

life. Worried for the safety<br />

of Natalie, she parked her<br />

daughter at Living Waters.<br />

There, we met the pretty<br />

16-year-old who has recently<br />

accepted the Lord and is still<br />

wearing her metal cast.<br />

Eventually, Martha became<br />

tired of running. In October<br />

2016, she came to see Natalie<br />

and sought refuge in Living<br />

Waters. As she had time, she<br />

read the whole Bible in one<br />

month. She also had many<br />

questions which Su helped<br />

to answer. Martha was<br />

baptised in December 2016<br />

and she stayed on to work in<br />

Living Waters. Having saved<br />

some money, Martha is now<br />

returning to her village to<br />

settle some of her debts.<br />

We had the privilege of<br />

praying for Martha just<br />

before she made the trip.<br />

THINK NAAM.ASIA<br />

Living Waters has also<br />

started a social enterprise<br />

called NAAM.asia which<br />

produces beautiful fabric<br />

products ranging from<br />

keychain pouches, cosmetic<br />

bags, aprons, pot holders to<br />

computer bags. NAAM was<br />

birthed out of a need to help<br />

girls and single mothers. A<br />

work area was created within<br />

Living Waters for these ladies<br />

to sew. The sewing process<br />

became a way for the ladies<br />

to heal from their past and<br />

showing other ladies the way<br />

to break away from abusive<br />

relationships. Guests at<br />

Living Waters also lend<br />

a helping hand whenever<br />

they can.<br />

The products are sold<br />

through friends, churches<br />

in Malaysia and through<br />

social media. They are also<br />

available in the concourse<br />

of Dream Centre during<br />

weekends. NAAM.asia<br />

welcomes bulk orders.<br />

Apart from providing a living<br />

for the ladies, 30% of the<br />

revenue goes back to the<br />

ministry of Living Waters.<br />

LATEST GOOD NEWS<br />

The General Hospital is<br />

planning to build a basic<br />

four-storey building of which<br />

two floors will be allocated<br />

for accommodation for poor<br />

outpatients. The good news<br />

is that Living Waters has<br />

been invited for preliminary<br />

discussions to consider<br />

operating the place which<br />

is targeting to have 100<br />

beds. This is a clear<br />

acknowledgement of the<br />

work of Living Waters.<br />

Although the prospect<br />

is exciting, there are many<br />

challenges ahead. As God<br />

leads KL and Su to new<br />

territory, we as a church will<br />

need to journey and support<br />

them in whatever way the<br />

Lord calls us. Meanwhile,<br />

here are a few ways we can<br />

begin to support Living<br />

Waters.<br />

How can we support KL and<br />

Su?<br />

1. Prayer - pray for wisdom,<br />

health and provision.<br />

2. Buy NAAM.asia products<br />

and “The Seed” authored by<br />

Su at their stall at the Dream<br />

Centre Concourse.<br />

3. Help to direct bulk<br />

orders to NAAM.asia.<br />

For more information, visit<br />

http://naam.asia or email Su<br />

at sfchin67@yahoo.com.<br />

4. Contact Living Waters<br />

when you next plan to visit<br />

Chiang Mai.<br />

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ISAIAH & Your Calling<br />

by Pastor Mike Ngui<br />

Here<br />

King Uzziah was one of the better<br />

kings in the history of biblical<br />

Israel. 2 Chronicles 26:4<br />

describes him as a king who<br />

“did what was right in the eyes<br />

of the Lord.” Only 8 of the 20 kings of the<br />

southern kingdom of Israel received this<br />

commendation, never once given to the<br />

19 northern kings. He, however, did not<br />

end so well, despite a good start to his<br />

52-year reign.<br />

IN A MOMENT OF PRIDE…<br />

In a moment of pride, he overstepped his<br />

kingly role by doing something only the<br />

priests were allowed to do (2 Chronicles<br />

26:16-18). Consequently for the remainder<br />

of his life, he lived as a leper, banished from<br />

the temple, with his reign effectively passed<br />

on to his son. And when Uzziah died,<br />

Isaiah received a vision described in Isaiah<br />

6:1-8. This passage is instructive, as it lays<br />

out the setting in which Isaiah received<br />

and responded to his call.<br />

Firstly, he saw the Lord,<br />

the God of Israel as one<br />

enthroned in terrifying<br />

majesty. It was a scene<br />

that would have struck<br />

awe and fear into the<br />

heart of Isaiah. He dared<br />

not look up to take in the<br />

‘full view’. He could only<br />

take in that “the train of<br />

his robe filled the temple.”<br />

Isaiah 6:1<br />

Isaiah glimpsed the utter holiness<br />

of the Lord in the seraphims’ posture.<br />

These magnificent angelic beings covered<br />

their eyes with two of their six wings,<br />

lest they gaze on the blinding glory of<br />

God. Two other wings covered their feet<br />

in instinctive lowly sense of unworthiness<br />

though glorious beings they were. Flying<br />

with their remaining two wings, they cried<br />

out to one another, “Holy, holy, holy is the<br />

Lord Almighty; the whole earth is full of his<br />

glory.” (Isaiah 6:3) The impression made<br />

on Isaiah is unmistakable.<br />

He became keenly conscious of his<br />

unworthiness, along with all of Judah’s<br />

people. He became aware of his own<br />

sinfulness, measured simply in sins<br />

of speech. And he saw himself as no<br />

more worthy than others. When Isaiah<br />

acknowledged his unworthiness, he<br />

received atonement for his sin from<br />

the altar of God.<br />

WHEN ISAIAH ACKNOWLEDGED<br />

HIS UNWORTHINESS, HE<br />

RECEIVED ATONEMENT FOR<br />

HIS SIN…<br />

Then he heard the call of God. Only<br />

after his confession of sinful unworthiness<br />

and experience of grace did Isaiah hear<br />

God’s voice. And he heard God calling for<br />

someone who could be sent and would<br />

go on His behalf. And Isaiah responded to<br />

what he heard with, “Here am I. Send me!”<br />

(Isaiah 6:8)<br />

MANY OF US ASK THE QUESTION<br />

OF OUR CALLING FROM GOD…<br />

Many of us ask the question of our calling<br />

from God, whether it concerns a call to the<br />

mission field, full-time Christian vocation,<br />

marketplace or political engagement.<br />

This account beckons us to reflect on our<br />

I am,<br />

Send<br />

Me.<br />

approach to this question.<br />

This passage calls to us, to re-evaluate<br />

our relationship to the levers of power<br />

in the world that we as individuals inhabit.<br />

Who do we see as being on the ‘throne’ in<br />

our world? Uzziah was Isaiah’s king. Isaiah<br />

was reminded that the Lord God is the<br />

Sovereign King over all authority. We need<br />

to perceive beyond what our eyes see, as<br />

to who is truly in charge. Our answering<br />

the call of God will eventually bring us into<br />

conflict with the ‘powers’ of this world<br />

- whether power from wealth, position,<br />

influence or sheer violence.<br />

WHEN WE ANSWER THE CALL<br />

OF GOD…<br />

When we answer the call of God, we step<br />

into the centre-ring of the conflict between<br />

two kingdoms (c.f. Colossians 1:12, 13;<br />

Ephesians 6:12). In that centre-ring, we must<br />

know who truly holds power in order to live<br />

out our call faithfully. In our wanting<br />

to ‘make a difference’ in this world, we need<br />

to recognise our sinfulness and our being<br />

disqualified from serving God actively if not<br />

for the grace of God in Christ. Our resumes<br />

of vast experience, accomplishments and<br />

degrees fail to qualify us to answer His call.<br />

FOR GOD’S WORK, ONLY BROKEN<br />

PEOPLE NEED APPLY.<br />

For God’s work, only broken people need<br />

apply. Only sinners who have embraced the<br />

unparalleled magnanimity of God in Christ,<br />

can truly answer His call, to join His work<br />

to bring His kingdom on earth. God’s call<br />

can only be answered upon experiencing<br />

His grace of forgiveness for our sin. Not<br />

only are we saved by grace, but we also<br />

serve by grace.<br />

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Leading Tomorrow’s Leaders Today<br />

WHY the focus<br />

on LEADERSHIP?<br />

By Robbin Khoo, PJS1<br />

Most people either take the subject of<br />

Leadership very lightly or they simply do<br />

not believe that learning how to be a better<br />

leader is for everyone. What can be further<br />

from the truth?<br />

Let us take a closer look at why leadership<br />

competence in life is a necessity and<br />

even more importantly, why the ongoing<br />

journey to study, grow and develop one’s<br />

leadership skills is not a mere preference<br />

but a necessary CHOICE in life.<br />

GENESIS 1:26<br />

26 Then God said, “Let us make mankind in<br />

our image, in our likeness, so that they may<br />

rule over the fish in the sea and the birds<br />

in the sky, over the livestock and all the<br />

wild animals, and over all the creatures that<br />

move along the ground.”<br />

It is by God’s decree that ALL man (women<br />

included) may rule over the things of the<br />

world. In this, we must understand that it<br />

is expected of us to be leaders. Each of us,<br />

in the God-given areas of our lives, needs<br />

to stand up and honour the position that<br />

God has bestowed upon us to take up the<br />

role and responsibility of the leader. Each<br />

of us needs to take on the leadership role<br />

within the environment in which we have<br />

been so placed according to His Almighty<br />

plans. Therefore, if we are to serve the<br />

LORD to the best of our abilities, we must<br />

make a conscious effort to continually hone,<br />

mould and improve our skills, abilities and<br />

knowledge.<br />

It was a sunny Sunday afternoon. A small<br />

town. It was a lovely day. Everyone was<br />

going about doing their own thing. The kids<br />

were running around at the park nearby,<br />

watched by their parents like the prey that<br />

never left the hawk’s eyes. Two brothers<br />

were at a bookstore checking out some<br />

books.<br />

“Peter, what’s that you’re reading?” asked<br />

Thomas, the younger brother.<br />

“Aw…nothing much, just another selfdevelopment<br />

book”.<br />

“What’s the title?” Thomas persisted.<br />

“Leadership by CHOICE,” Peter answered.<br />

“Why are you always so interested in such<br />

books? Aren’t books like that meant for<br />

the senior people? Those in higher up<br />

positions?”<br />

Peter, who was a young working adult,<br />

continued turning the pages, ignoring<br />

Thomas who was still babbling in his<br />

own monologue. He was quite drawn to<br />

and captivated by this author, Eric Papp,<br />

who seemed to have found a wonderful<br />

perspective to explain this unique quality<br />

in the characters of some great leaders.<br />

In his book, he explained that all too often,<br />

we rush into making decisions over matters<br />

and circumstances, and end up putting<br />

a strain on our relationships with others.<br />

But the best of leaders often develop a<br />

system that allows them to reflect on their<br />

ideas and hold themselves accountable for<br />

every choice they make, before they make<br />

them.<br />

Though physically rooted to the spot,<br />

Peter was totally moved by what he was<br />

reading. “All this makes sense,” he thought<br />

to himself. He began to reflect on those<br />

moments and occasions when decisions<br />

had gone wrong, leaders had faltered, and<br />

disharmony was imminent. If only people<br />

were more aware of the techniques and<br />

systems that they could learn and develop.<br />

If only they knew that there were methods<br />

and models of approach where they could<br />

lead better and make better decisions. And<br />

it was just a matter of CHOICE to be able<br />

to positively influence, manage and lead<br />

others.<br />

Peter was getting excited about the<br />

potential of this new-found inspiration.<br />

He felt he could perhaps take this learning<br />

in leadership development and raise his<br />

personal performance to another level.<br />

He envisioned how he could possibly make<br />

a difference in his interactions with others,<br />

back in his office as well as where he was<br />

faithfully serving in the local church he was<br />

attending.<br />

“This is great,” he thought to himself.<br />

“If I could consistently learn, develop and<br />

grow my leadership skills, I could then<br />

make a positive difference in the circle of<br />

people I deal with. If leadership is all about<br />

influencing others in a positive manner,<br />

then the more I learn about leadership, the<br />

more I would learn about how to deal with<br />

and influence others. I would be able to<br />

persuade and motivate people to do the<br />

things that need to be accomplished.<br />

I would be able to show them the process<br />

in action and not just via a hope. I would be<br />

able to not just steer the ship alone but to<br />

chart the direction in which I believe they<br />

need to go and navigate the paths through<br />

which they would be convinced to select”.<br />

Peter was so lost in his thoughts that he<br />

did not even notice Thomas tugging at his<br />

sleeve.<br />

“Hey! … let’s go man,” Thomas was<br />

anxiously motioning to Peter. “It’s getting<br />

late and we promised mom we wouldn’t be<br />

late for dinner this time. You can tell me all<br />

about this on the way home. Why are you<br />

suddenly so interested in that book? It’s as<br />

if you’ve found a new love or something.”<br />

“I’ve got to really come back here<br />

tomorrow. I want to sleep on what I just<br />

digested today and map out my thoughts.<br />

I believe this book on Leadership is going<br />

to help me become a better person, a<br />

better leader, make better decisions, and<br />

get better results. I must get this book.<br />

I believe I have just stumbled upon the<br />

key to resolving many of the challenging<br />

circumstances or environment we face<br />

in life-given situations, in the areas of<br />

leadership. All it takes is for the leader to<br />

be able to positively influence the rest of<br />

the people in the group, and inspire them<br />

to put aside their differences, agree and<br />

maintain a clear vision leading towards<br />

a common direction or goal, to be able<br />

to work together and willingly help one<br />

another get there, and understand that<br />

it is the teamwork that makes the dream<br />

work. And this one person MUST have the<br />

relevant A.S.K. (Abilities, Skills, Knowledge),<br />

a good purpose-driven character with the<br />

drive to take the people from here to there<br />

and most importantly the right heart that<br />

puts God first.”<br />

“And Tom, come to think of it. I’m now<br />

totally convinced Dr John C Maxwell got<br />

it right in his quote – “Everything rises<br />

and falls upon Leadership.” And that’s<br />

why if we want to have a hope for a<br />

better future, we cannot continue to be<br />

flippant about the subject of Leadership.<br />

We need to seriously focus on continuous<br />

growth and development in our leadership<br />

performance”.<br />

“Wow…Peter!” Thomas exclaimed, “You<br />

sound like one of the Lord’s apostles. Such<br />

wisdom. Go preach it, man … and hey, I<br />

shall be the first amongst those who would<br />

gather at your feet. Hahaha… but for now,<br />

let’s get home for dinner!”<br />

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PRIDE The Genesis Of Sin<br />

by Alex Tung PJN1<br />

Christians today<br />

stand witness to an<br />

epoch of humanity<br />

that prizes narcissism like<br />

never before. The image of<br />

someone oozing boundless<br />

egotistical self-confidence<br />

and an aura of superior<br />

self-assuredness, which in<br />

the past would categorically<br />

classify the person as being<br />

vain and obnoxious, is today<br />

considered attractive. Whilst<br />

there is nothing wrong with<br />

self-confidence per se, such<br />

confidence, if it were to<br />

remain a positive attribute,<br />

must pass the litmus test<br />

of recognition – do we<br />

acknowledge our abilities<br />

as God-given gifts and in turn<br />

praise Him for the confidence<br />

we have, or do we relish in<br />

our advantage over others<br />

while taking full credit for<br />

our abilities and bask in the<br />

compliments that follow our<br />

triumph?<br />

It is high time that humanity<br />

(including Christians,<br />

especially) takes stock of our<br />

egoistical competitive ways<br />

and re-evaluates how badly<br />

we have been corrupted by<br />

the sin of pride. So malignant<br />

is the sin of pride that C.<br />

S. Lewis devoted an entire<br />

chapter in his book Mere<br />

Christianity to expound<br />

on it. Aptly entitled “The<br />

Great Sin”, Lewis says in this<br />

chapter that:<br />

According to Christian teachers,<br />

the essential vice, the utmost evil,<br />

is Pride. Unchastity, anger, greed,<br />

drunkenness, and all that, are mere<br />

fleabites in comparison:<br />

it was through Pride that the devil<br />

became the devil.<br />

C. S. Lewis<br />

THE ROOT OF SIN<br />

The question is not whether<br />

we have been corrupted<br />

by the sin of pride – we all,<br />

undoubtedly, have. The<br />

correct question, rather,<br />

is how deeply we have<br />

allowed this sin to corrode<br />

our integrity. The unchecked<br />

perpetuating rust of pride<br />

on a man’s soul manifests<br />

as symptoms in the form<br />

of other sins as all other sins<br />

originate from the sin of<br />

pride. It is pride that fuels<br />

a man into an obsessive<br />

competition with his<br />

fellow man. This ungodly<br />

competitive nature (read:<br />

jealousy) reveals its visible<br />

sting in an array of immoral<br />

conduct that man stumbles<br />

into, all for the sake of having<br />

an advantage over others.<br />

In his jealous pursuit to outdo<br />

another, mankind lies, bribes,<br />

lusts, and even murders.<br />

Pride gets no<br />

pleasure out of<br />

having something,<br />

only out of having<br />

more of it than the<br />

next man... It is the<br />

comparison that<br />

makes you proud:<br />

the pleasure of<br />

being above the<br />

rest.<br />

Once the element<br />

of competition is<br />

gone, pride is gone.<br />

C. S. Lewis<br />

The sin of pride has<br />

corrupted the heart of<br />

man so deeply that even<br />

the virtue of humility, the<br />

moral opposite of pride,<br />

risks being tarnished by our<br />

ego if we are not careful.<br />

Whilst we should all aspire<br />

to be humble, the moment<br />

we consider ourselves<br />

sufficiently humble, will<br />

bring that feeling of selfsatisfaction<br />

which triggers<br />

the undoing of all our efforts.<br />

The pursuit of humility,<br />

then, is akin to our pursuit<br />

of Godliness; regardless<br />

of how repentant we may<br />

be, we would never be as<br />

sinless as Christ was and is<br />

– in that same tangent, we<br />

would never achieve perfect<br />

humility.<br />

[As a senior devil writing to his<br />

apprentice, a junior devil] Your<br />

patient has become humble; have<br />

you drawn his attention to the fact?<br />

All virtues are less formidable to us<br />

once the man is aware that he has<br />

them, but this is especially true<br />

of humility.<br />

C. S. Lewis<br />

PRIDE – THE CORE OF<br />

SATANISM<br />

To fully comprehend the<br />

severity of the sin of pride,<br />

consider this statement –<br />

Satan would not exist if it<br />

were not for the sin of pride.<br />

If this seems an exaggeration<br />

of the devil’s origin, consider<br />

Isaiah 14:12-14 which recounts<br />

how Lucifer, one of God’s<br />

angels, as a result of his<br />

pride-driven ambition to<br />

be as great as, if not greater<br />

than God, was ultimately<br />

cast out of heaven and<br />

condemned to the depths<br />

of hell. Before he became<br />

Satan, Lucifer was a perfect<br />

creation of God – he was<br />

beautiful, powerful, intelligent<br />

and gifted – and did remain<br />

so until he became absorbed<br />

in his own greatness that led<br />

to his conceit and eventual<br />

condemnation (Ezekiel<br />

28:15).<br />

The other, and<br />

less bad, vices<br />

come from the<br />

devil working on<br />

us through our<br />

animal nature.<br />

But [pride]<br />

does not come<br />

through our<br />

animal nature.<br />

It comes direct<br />

from Hell. It is<br />

purely spiritual:<br />

consequently it<br />

is far more subtle<br />

and deadly.<br />

C. S. Lewis<br />

THE EVE ACCOUNT<br />

Genesis 3 records man’s<br />

fall into sin, a curse which<br />

all humanity inherits to this<br />

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day. In this account of sin’s<br />

pioneering entry into man,<br />

the devil, in the form of a<br />

serpent comes to Eve to<br />

confuse her. The serpent<br />

is magnificently subtle in<br />

his tugging and prodding<br />

of Eve’s heart away from<br />

God-centeredness to selfcenteredness.<br />

A reading<br />

of Genesis 3:1-4 reveals<br />

the crafty devil’s gentle<br />

and gradual tests to Eve’s<br />

confidence and integrity,<br />

until he finally succeeds to<br />

tantalise Eve’s desire to be<br />

God-like. This desire to “be<br />

like God” (Genesis 3:5) is<br />

mankind’s smug desire for<br />

autonomy from God; Eve’s<br />

eating from the tree of<br />

knowledge of good and evil<br />

is then a premeditated and<br />

deliberate move away from<br />

God’s control.<br />

In the serpent’s temptation<br />

for Eve to eat from the<br />

tree of knowledge of good<br />

and evil, we see mankind’s<br />

envy of God’s position to<br />

dictate and determine good<br />

and evil. Whilst the pursuit<br />

of knowledge itself is a<br />

commendable endeavour,<br />

the post-modernistic<br />

worldview mankind adopts<br />

in his conceited craving<br />

to retain autonomy for<br />

determining that which is<br />

good and that which is evil<br />

has inevitable blurred the<br />

lines so that mankind today<br />

(and many Christians too)<br />

subscribe to the notion that<br />

there are no moral absolutes.<br />

Indeed the safest road to Hell<br />

is the gradual one--the gentle<br />

slope, soft underfoot, without<br />

sudden turnings, without<br />

milestones, without signposts...<br />

C. S. Lewis<br />

As Christians, look to live<br />

a Christ-like life, we would<br />

justifiably need to address<br />

a myriad of sins we fall<br />

guilty of and to repent from<br />

them. Nonetheless, unless<br />

we understand the ultimate<br />

cause of our sinful nature, our<br />

medicating these symptoms<br />

do not address the cancer<br />

of the matter. Pride remains<br />

stubbornly in the background<br />

of most of our repentance.<br />

Against the will of the devil,<br />

pride needs, for the sake<br />

of our spiritual walk, to be<br />

brought to the forefront and<br />

addressed unashamedly.<br />

So the next time you feel<br />

glad or proud over your<br />

accomplishment or when<br />

someone compliments<br />

you for a job well done, be<br />

sure to look heavenwards<br />

and give Him the credit for<br />

working the accomplishment<br />

through you.<br />

My pride, my ego,<br />

my needs, and<br />

my selfish ways,<br />

caused a good<br />

strong woman<br />

like you to walk<br />

out my life. Now<br />

I never, never get<br />

to clean up the<br />

mess I made, oh,<br />

and it haunts me<br />

every time I close<br />

my eyes.<br />

Bruno Mars<br />

Singer, song writer<br />

• This article quotes heavily<br />

from C. S. Lewis – in<br />

particular, from two of his<br />

books, Mere Christianity<br />

and The Screwtape Letters.<br />

• The final quote from<br />

Bruno Mars comes from his<br />

Grammy Award nominated<br />

composition When I Was<br />

Your Man.<br />

“ENCOURAGE<br />

each other and build<br />

each other up…”<br />

1 Thessalonians 5:11<br />

Staphanie Mun Chen, KL<br />

Becoming a mother might be the most significant transformation<br />

in a woman’s life. One day we are women, knowing, and pretty certain<br />

about most decisions that we make —not least being a person who<br />

could take a shower or use the bathroom pretty much whenever she<br />

wanted. Then we become a mum, and it feels like the world we have<br />

known is over, and a new one, one we are not fully prepared for, has begun.<br />

That sounds dramatic, I know, but it is the way most new mums might feel<br />

during those first few weeks of motherhood. DUMC W2W New Mummies Ministry<br />

(NMM) was birthed to give support to this very special group of women, the new<br />

mums. Here, we interviewed eight special women who lead this new mothers<br />

support movement since 2016.<br />

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WHAT IS NMM ABOUT?<br />

Wern Lu: It is a community<br />

of women, giving emotional<br />

support, sharing the joys<br />

and pains of motherhood<br />

and lending support in<br />

whatever way that is needed -<br />

emotionally, spiritually<br />

or even physically.<br />

WHO DO YOU LOOK<br />

OUT FOR, HOW DO<br />

YOU CONNECT WITH<br />

THEM?<br />

Jaime Solomon: Serving<br />

in NMM gives me many<br />

opportunities to connect with<br />

new mummies. Most of the<br />

new mummies are seated with<br />

their families at the ‘Stroller<br />

Section’ in the auditorium so<br />

a friendly smile and a simple<br />

introduction is not difficult.<br />

Because babies are just full of<br />

cuteness, so talking about them<br />

becomes a natural icebreaker.<br />

I also get to connect with the<br />

new mums and dads when<br />

serving at the ABC (Arrows<br />

and Bows Corner) counter<br />

over the weekend. It gives me<br />

the opportunity to meet old<br />

and new faces and remember<br />

parents’ and children’s names<br />

better and to do a bit of a<br />

follow-up with them. Our<br />

NMM activities like playdates<br />

and Family Day is also great<br />

ways to connect with young<br />

families - times when we are<br />

more relaxed and engaged in<br />

fun activities.<br />

WHAT DOES A<br />

COMMUNITY OF<br />

YOUNG MOTHERS DO<br />

TOGETHER? WHAT<br />

IS THE AGENDA OF<br />

A TYPICAL GET-<br />

TOGETHER?<br />

Anne Yeow: Sharing our<br />

good times and bad times, our<br />

experiences in bringing up our<br />

babies and children, just being<br />

our cheeky selves and being<br />

able to chat and connect. We<br />

also lend a listening ear, share,<br />

learn and pray for one another.<br />

Debbie Yeow: Many times<br />

new mummies face loneliness<br />

and difficulties in managing<br />

their new season of life. It is<br />

harder to connect with friends,<br />

sometimes even family, or to<br />

share and seek help in all new<br />

aspects of motherhood. These<br />

are often the major reasons<br />

why new mummies may<br />

struggle with depression and<br />

lack of self-worth.<br />

NMM provides a great<br />

platform for new friendships<br />

and great resources to help<br />

new mummies cope with<br />

motherhood. It is also a great<br />

ministry that shows care and<br />

understanding, and prays<br />

together. We also share tips<br />

on nursing as well as<br />

overcoming difficulties<br />

with postnatal syndromes.<br />

I personally feel that this<br />

ministry helps our church to<br />

come together in bringing up<br />

our next generation. After all,<br />

it is true that it takes a whole<br />

village to raise a child, what<br />

more an entire generation.<br />

I thank God and praise God<br />

for the wonderful opportunity<br />

to serve in the ABC ministry<br />

and the time spent with all<br />

these new mummies. It has<br />

been a wonderful experience<br />

for me and my family.<br />

Joyce Khong: We share<br />

our stories and experiences<br />

with one another. We laugh<br />

and we cry together. We learn<br />

from one another and are<br />

encouraged to know that we<br />

are not alone in this season<br />

of life that is super demanding.<br />

We pray with one another and<br />

connect with one another to<br />

exercise whatever gifts and<br />

talents God has given us to<br />

bless others.<br />

HOW HAS GOD MOVED<br />

IN THIS MINISTRY?<br />

HOW HAS SERVING<br />

YOUNG FAMILIES<br />

IMPACTED YOUR OWN<br />

FAMILY?<br />

Anne Patricia: Over the<br />

last year or so, we have seen<br />

young moms step up and serve<br />

because they have had similar<br />

struggles and understand<br />

these struggles are real. We<br />

see God move their hearts to<br />

serve other mums. We see our<br />

children having a natural love<br />

to serve and it has given us an<br />

opportunity to demonstrate to<br />

them that serving God is not<br />

just something we do but<br />

a way of our Christian life.<br />

Joyce Khong: God has<br />

shown me that when we are<br />

faithful in the little things,<br />

He will bless us with more.<br />

He has never failed to provide<br />

and show us that when we<br />

are willing to do His will,<br />

everything will work out for<br />

good.<br />

Serving in the Arrows and<br />

Bows Corner has changed my<br />

family routine for the better.<br />

Everyone is more cooperative<br />

and gets ready earlier in time<br />

for church vs always being<br />

late to church. I have the<br />

opportunity to serve with<br />

my 10-year-old daughter<br />

who always looks forward<br />

to being on duty. She feels<br />

important and is happy that<br />

she is contributing and using<br />

her talents. Everyone learns<br />

to be more patient too as they<br />

know that we can only leave<br />

after everything is locked up<br />

properly. So, my kids would<br />

have to endure their rumbling<br />

tummies until mummy is all<br />

done and ready to go for our<br />

meal.<br />

WHAT SPURS YOU ON?<br />

Jaime Solomon: The<br />

need is the call; this is what<br />

spurs me on. New mummies<br />

have many needs – needs for<br />

physical, emotional and/or<br />

spiritual support, or marriage<br />

and parenting advice. Having<br />

gone a little bit ahead of the<br />

new mummy stage, I believe<br />

that I can pass on some life<br />

experiences, be it failures<br />

or triumphs, to others just<br />

starting out on their journey.<br />

To me, having someone come<br />

alongside you through your<br />

journey is invaluable. Many<br />

times, strong friendships are<br />

forged and spiritual growth is<br />

fostered when there is honesty<br />

and vulnerability in<br />

a relationship. I am so blessed<br />

to be able to glean from others<br />

who have gone ahead of me for<br />

support and advice. Likewise,<br />

I strive to pass on life lessons<br />

to the younger generation<br />

Lyanne Sum: Three main<br />

things spur me on - God’s<br />

Word, my family and the<br />

people I meet. My young<br />

children have started being<br />

eager about serving at ABC<br />

and my husband has always<br />

been willing to support in<br />

every way. Sometimes, when<br />

things seem a bit dry and<br />

efforts seem futile, it is God’s<br />

Word that is able to bring<br />

life and to put things into<br />

perspective. His Word not<br />

only refreshes the soul but also<br />

challenges me in deciphering<br />

what His way is and what my<br />

own wants and desires are. The<br />

people I meet fill me with awe<br />

and amazement. They come<br />

from such different walks of<br />

life! The busiest of mummies<br />

somehow find time to help,<br />

whether personally or serving<br />

in the ministry. Even the<br />

daddies who are so involved<br />

in family life and the young<br />

adults who are brave enough<br />

to step into our world and<br />

share their lives with us.<br />

Joyce Khong: I want to be<br />

able to say the following when<br />

I return to be with Jesus :<br />

“I have fought the good fight,<br />

I have finished the race, I have<br />

kept the faith.” (2 Timothy<br />

4:7)<br />

Stay tuned for more<br />

exciting activities and<br />

events planned for 2018.<br />

Come join this dynamic<br />

community of young<br />

families.<br />

Find us at W2W@new<br />

mummies on Facebook<br />

and send us a request<br />

to join, or email us at<br />

w2wfornewmummies@<br />

gmail.com<br />

You can also get more<br />

information about us<br />

at the Arrows and Bows<br />

Corner in the Mother<br />

Infants Room during<br />

weekend celebrations.<br />

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Family<br />

Family<br />

MIGHTY MOVERS<br />

dancing for the Lord<br />

Staphanie Mun Chen, KL<br />

“You have turned<br />

my mourning into<br />

joyful dancing.<br />

You have taken<br />

away my clothes<br />

of mourning and<br />

clothed me with<br />

joy,”<br />

Psalm 30:11 NLT<br />

For the past 2 years,<br />

the New Mummies<br />

Ministry (NMM) have<br />

been collaborating with<br />

the Resonate dancers to<br />

teach young children dance<br />

movements to worship God.<br />

You might have witnessed<br />

the Mighty Movers dancing<br />

at our weekend celebrations.<br />

When Pastor Chris saw the<br />

Resonate dancers leading<br />

the children in Praise and<br />

Worship, he was touched<br />

and said, “This is a perfect<br />

example of discipleship!”<br />

We got in touch with some<br />

of these Resonate dancers,<br />

mostly young adults, to<br />

find out more about Mighty<br />

Movers.<br />

WHAT INSPIRED YOU<br />

TO INVEST YOUR<br />

TIME IN THE LIVES OF<br />

YOUNG CHILDREN VIA<br />

RESONATE DANCE &<br />

MIGHTY MOVERS?<br />

Erin: In 2016, when I was<br />

approached with the idea of<br />

dancing with young children<br />

during weekend celebrations,<br />

I was hesitant as I was not very<br />

fond of children then.<br />

So we decided that the<br />

Resonate dance team in<br />

collaboration with the W2W<br />

New Mummies’ Group<br />

would just organise a one-off<br />

children’s dance workshop to<br />

teach both the parents and<br />

their children simple Praise<br />

and Worship movements.<br />

As I continued to pray and<br />

ask the Lord to search my<br />

heart and deal with my<br />

hesitations towards the initial<br />

idea, He began to soften my<br />

heart towards children. During<br />

the weekend leading up to<br />

the workshop, God showed<br />

me a vision of many young<br />

children together with their<br />

parents worshipping and<br />

dancing freely before Him and<br />

leading the entire congregation<br />

in worship. From that day<br />

onwards, I have held on to that<br />

picture in my mind.<br />

Terence: There is a need for<br />

a worship model for the young<br />

children. Young children may<br />

not be proficient in playing<br />

an instrument or singing in<br />

harmony, so dancing with<br />

simple movements will provide<br />

them a chance to learn how<br />

to worship the Lord.<br />

Matthew: I was inspired<br />

by the quote: “We are not<br />

dancers that worship, we are<br />

worshippers that use dance”.<br />

This means that everyone,<br />

including children, can dance<br />

for the glory of God. I am also<br />

serving in Children’s Church,<br />

and I would like to see children<br />

worship Jesus in every way<br />

they can.<br />

WHAT WAS THE MOST<br />

FULFILLING MOMENT?<br />

Liam: During my second time<br />

serving, there were a few boys<br />

who came up to us and began<br />

dancing alongside us during<br />

worship.<br />

Terence: When I see the<br />

talents/skills/knowledge<br />

that God has given me<br />

“multiplying” when they are<br />

being passed on to another<br />

person or to children.<br />

Evelyn: To see the joy on their<br />

faces when they are dancing.<br />

Some may have their interests<br />

and potential discovered<br />

through this and others learn<br />

to worship and encounter God<br />

WHAT WAS THE<br />

FUNNIEST OR MOST<br />

MEMORABLE MOMENT<br />

WHILE WORKING<br />

WITH THESE YOUNG<br />

CHILDREN?<br />

Erin: During the recent dance<br />

workshop in August 2017.<br />

The dance team taught both<br />

the young children and their<br />

parents a hip hop dance<br />

choreography and at the end<br />

of it, all the young children<br />

laid on the floor exhausted.<br />

And I thought kids were<br />

always full of energy!<br />

Ashley: During one of the<br />

children’s dance workshops,<br />

one of the children gave me<br />

a biscuit from his snack and<br />

said he saved it for me. Oh<br />

that heart of generosity and<br />

love at such a young age!<br />

Ping Yin: The relationships<br />

between mothers & their<br />

children touch me because<br />

I never had this with my<br />

own parents. It was most<br />

encouraging to see the mothers<br />

so willing to learn everything<br />

with the children.<br />

Matthew: One of the children<br />

that attended shared with their<br />

friends in Children’s Church<br />

what she had learnt from the<br />

workshop!<br />

HOW HAS SERVING<br />

IMPACTED YOUR<br />

WALK WITH THE<br />

LORD?<br />

Lena: Many times we learn<br />

to just rely on His creativity<br />

and strength to choreograph<br />

a song. This encourages me to<br />

spend more time with the Lord<br />

in order to be more sensitive to<br />

Him, which is something I am<br />

still learning to improve on.<br />

Grace: Serving challenges<br />

spiritual growth. I was still<br />

young in my faith when I<br />

joined Resonate Dance. There<br />

were times that I was so busy<br />

I did not spend enough time<br />

with the Lord, and serving<br />

from the heart was difficult,<br />

until He refreshed me when<br />

I sought after Him. It made<br />

me realise how gracious and<br />

merciful our God is. Our<br />

relationship with Him is not<br />

based on how much work<br />

we do but what is our heart<br />

condition. It taught me to be<br />

disciplined to seek God and<br />

to be connected to Him at all<br />

times.<br />

Ping Yin: I can feel His love<br />

for me through serving. This<br />

brings me closer to God.<br />

WHAT WOULD YOU<br />

SAY TO SOMEONE<br />

WHO ASPIRES TO<br />

SERVE LIKEWISE?<br />

Grace: Be faithful in what you<br />

do, no matter how big or small<br />

it is. You’ll never know how<br />

God can use you.<br />

Lena: Know the purpose<br />

of why you do what you do<br />

and do your best, then God<br />

will do the rest.<br />

Evelyn: Don’t be held back by<br />

busy schedules. Have faith in<br />

Him, believe in Him. All things<br />

are possible according to His<br />

will and His plan. Just-do-it!<br />

For more information about<br />

Mighty Movers timetable<br />

and upcoming children’s<br />

dance workshops, email us at<br />

w2wfornewmummies@gmail.<br />

com.<br />

You can also get more<br />

information at the Arrows<br />

and Bows Corner in the<br />

Mother Infants Room during<br />

weekend celebrations.<br />

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DUMC Stories<br />

DUMC Stories<br />

I could not control myself, and my wife sensed<br />

that there could be some spiritual disturbance.<br />

She asked me to go to a church or see a Taoist<br />

Sifu to seek for help. I chose the church.<br />

MY<br />

Transformed Life…<br />

by Jeffrey Lim, PJN 2<br />

Before knowing Jesus, I was a devout<br />

follower of another religion. I always<br />

thought Christianity was only for<br />

rich people, and for obtaining business<br />

connections. In 2015, I lost my job and<br />

my income due to the oil price drop. I was<br />

also deep in debt. People owed me money<br />

but I could not collect the debt. I suffered<br />

from depression and a serious case of acid<br />

reflux causing me to spend a lot of time and<br />

money on medication.<br />

To me, losing my job felt like a surgeon<br />

losing his hand. I began to be really worried<br />

for my family’s future, feeling both helpless<br />

and hopeless. There was no peace in my<br />

heart. I had sleepless nights, no appetite,<br />

was always in a bad mood and was<br />

downcast. My wife, Mei Ling, and I were<br />

not communicating well with each other.<br />

I felt even more hurt and insecure when<br />

she sought advice from her friends because<br />

I did not want others to know about my<br />

problem.<br />

I went to see a psychiatrist, but he was<br />

of little help. I kept changing medications,<br />

to help me sleep better and to control my<br />

mood swings. The medication was a strong<br />

tranquiliser that caused me to be very<br />

groggy. I could sleep for days at a time and<br />

would constantly argue with my wife. In<br />

order to manage my inner anger, I would<br />

just keep very quiet. I would park my car<br />

a distance away and walk back home. I felt<br />

that I could not manage my family anymore<br />

and had disappointed them. Our marital<br />

relationship grew worse, and I wanted<br />

to get a divorce.<br />

One day, during a heated argument over<br />

family matters, I lost control and slapped<br />

Mei Ling. I felt it was not me and did not<br />

know what came over me. In another<br />

quarrel, in a fit of rage, I broke things<br />

in the house. I shook her shoulders and<br />

pushed her onto the sofa. Mei Ling and my<br />

son were both terrified! They left me alone<br />

in the house. I felt so alone, I wanted to end<br />

my life. Feeling broken and sick, I needed<br />

help, but I did not want people to know.<br />

Then, once again in a fit of rage, I hit my<br />

fist so hard against the wall that I fractured<br />

it. I could not control myself, and my wife<br />

sensed that there could be some spiritual<br />

disturbance. She asked me to go to a<br />

church or see a Taoist Sifu to seek for help.<br />

I chose the church.<br />

Our son had already started attending<br />

Children’s Church here at DUMC. My wife<br />

had also started attending church. I was<br />

uncomfortable seeing my son sing worship<br />

songs. I did not believe the words of the<br />

songs. At times, I would ask my wife not<br />

to go to church.<br />

In October 2015, I accepted Jesus after<br />

bumping into Pastor Moy How at the<br />

church cafe. At first, I accepted Jesus<br />

because I wanted to please my wife, but<br />

something special happened during the<br />

process of saying the sinner’s prayer. It was<br />

noisy that day in the cafe, but I could only<br />

hear the Pastor’s voice. I was sobbing with<br />

tears which was not the usual me.<br />

Not long after that, my family was assigned<br />

to a cell group. Initially, I avoided going.<br />

One day, I dreamt I needed to follow my<br />

cell Leader, Adrian Chen, who heads the<br />

Marriage Course, which we eventually<br />

attended. I knew God was directing me.<br />

At the same time, I joined the “To Be<br />

A Better Dad” course, led by Fan Ngian<br />

and Sian Li. I learned how to treat my son<br />

better, and the importance of leaving<br />

a strong legacy. I started to open my heart<br />

to my cell group. Knowing that I was in<br />

financial need, my cell group helped by<br />

referring jobs to me. My family was in a<br />

much happier and healthier state in this<br />

loving environment. I love my cell group,<br />

and we have received much love from<br />

them. They are my ‘true’ family.<br />

During a family trip, I encountered God<br />

personally. Many miracles happened.<br />

We walked closely with the Holy Spirit,<br />

our prayers were answered and we learned<br />

to be at peace. God is so good.<br />

On returning home, I was healed of my<br />

sickness and freed from taking medication.<br />

Mei Ling and I were able to communicate<br />

better. When I could not sleep, she would<br />

pray for me and before she finished her<br />

prayer, I would fall asleep like a baby.<br />

We attended the Baptism and Membership<br />

Encounter Weekend (BMEW) and arranged<br />

for a home cleansing by Pastor Jin Leong.<br />

I remember clearly on the morning I was<br />

baptised, I felt a chain ‘break’ away, my<br />

‘old-self died’ and I experienced such an<br />

overwhelming peace. Consecutively for<br />

three days, when I started my car, the<br />

same lyrics, ‘Be humble and kind’ played<br />

on a radio channel. God is with me even<br />

in my car! Now, I am not easily angered<br />

as I surrendered my all to God. In Him,<br />

everything happens for a reason.<br />

Today my life is completely changed<br />

and transformed. I serve in the Children’s<br />

Church and soon I will be going on my first<br />

mission trip to Myanmar. Even when things<br />

seemed difficult, we learned to fully trust<br />

God. Jesus loves me. He loves all of you<br />

too. Thank You Jesus!<br />

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DUMC Stories<br />

DUMC Stories<br />

Learning<br />

the way of the<br />

CROSS<br />

By Debbie Loh, PJN 3<br />

I’m Debbie Loh and I’ve been in DUMC<br />

since 2001. I came on-board the staff<br />

team in 2012 running programmes<br />

for the Citizens’ Network for a Better<br />

Malaysia. I have moved to the Equip team<br />

in October 2017, where I am now Equipping<br />

Programme Administrator.<br />

When it dawned on me in March 2017 that<br />

cancer could be the reason for the slight<br />

swell on my neck, I had a few reactions.<br />

Among them was a prayer to God that<br />

I did not want to be known as a “cancer<br />

survivor”, who would be writing testimonies<br />

like this one. It was not that I did not want<br />

to write testimonies, I simply preferred to<br />

be known for my accomplishments, not for<br />

a sickness.<br />

Instantly I realised that this was one of my<br />

basest, unscripted thoughts, springing from<br />

a place within me. The moment I said the<br />

prayer, I saw the condition of my heart,<br />

and the falseness of it. I realised that I had<br />

a plan for my life, and it was to be some<br />

kind of hero or champion. In the face of<br />

a possible death sentence, I was more<br />

worried about my reputation, and being<br />

a “cancer survivor” would taint it.<br />

As the secret thoughts of my heart were<br />

made known to me, I realised the falseness<br />

of my desire, and I surrendered myself to<br />

the possibility of cancer. If that would help<br />

me realise that my life was not my own, and<br />

if it would push me closer to Christ, so be it.<br />

The biopsy results came back, and<br />

I reproduce this message I texted to my<br />

closer friends and community in April 2017,<br />

before my surgery:<br />

“After a series of tests, it became clear that<br />

I have papillary thyroid cancer, the least<br />

aggressive of all cancers. What is needed<br />

is to remove my thyroid gland, followed<br />

by a radioactive iodine treatment, and daily<br />

intake of thyroxin to make up for the loss of<br />

the hormones produced by the gland. There<br />

is no chemotherapy involved. It is highly<br />

curable.<br />

The outcome of the ultrasound has made<br />

the possibility of cancer enter into my<br />

personal world, and I have ruminated on<br />

its implications personally with the Lord.<br />

There was no better time than Good<br />

Friday, meditating and somehow sharing<br />

in the sufferings and death of our Lord. I<br />

am thankful I am allowed to share in the<br />

sufferings of the world too in a tiny way,<br />

yet realising that my privilege allows me to<br />

sail through with less stress. Compared with<br />

the poor with less privilege in my situation,<br />

what I will go through is less heavy.<br />

I’m thankful it wasn’t a death sentence after<br />

all and there are clear steps that I can take.<br />

I am unhappy to say goodbye to my thyroid<br />

gland, I will miss it.<br />

Thankfully I can look forward to the<br />

continuity of my relationships, work and<br />

ministry and most of all, the present life on<br />

this earth. I’m thankful to have good friends<br />

in the medical profession advising me, and<br />

church who looks out for me.”<br />

I dived whole-heartedly into the experience<br />

of learning about the sickness, surgery,<br />

recovery, numerous hospital visits and<br />

treatment. I also became fully immersed in<br />

the emotions and confusion that came with<br />

having a sickness. Examples of my struggles<br />

were the loneliness and uncertainty of<br />

entering the operating theatre and yielding<br />

myself to the wisdom of the medical team;<br />

catching up with a pregnant friend and<br />

realising we were going to the hospital for<br />

totally different reasons - new life for hers,<br />

and sickness and death for mine; and worst<br />

of all, the feeling of complete loss of control<br />

over my life.<br />

The surgery has left me without a thyroid<br />

gland, which means that I need lifelong<br />

medication. Just as God has laid His hand<br />

of ownership on Israel through Jacob, so<br />

He has laid His hand of ownership in my<br />

life - “You are mine.” (Isaiah 43:1). Today,<br />

my trips to collect my medication are trips<br />

to remember my utter dependence on God.<br />

I remember my vulnerability, my weakness<br />

and my personal need to be in the presence<br />

of God.<br />

This experience has brought me closer<br />

to the Cross - the Cross is how life is given<br />

but first through a process of humiliation<br />

which Christ has borne. And thus, the Cross<br />

has opened up the cruciform way of life -<br />

that in the humiliation of my broken plans,<br />

a certain firmer and more genuine way of<br />

life is forming.<br />

As I re-evaluated my life, I began to be<br />

able to see areas in my life that were false<br />

and shallow - things that I did for my own<br />

reputation, or a fear of missing out. I also<br />

began to see areas in my life that were<br />

genuine. I began the process of making<br />

changes, being brave to let go of parts<br />

of my life that were already dead, and<br />

choosing instead the things that had life.<br />

I reflected much on the love of God, and<br />

realised how far I was from truly loving<br />

Him and loving others.<br />

In the Bible class that I co-teach (Bible 101),<br />

I often point out that the biblical narrative<br />

shows God to be holy, present and active.<br />

At that point in my life, while I trusted Him<br />

as holy and present in my life, I struggled<br />

to see that He was active. In my moments<br />

of desolation, I felt He only stood at<br />

a distance, doing nothing to help me. Over<br />

time, God showed me that He was active,<br />

when things around me began to fall<br />

into place as He helped me piece my life<br />

together again. I saw, and I learned.<br />

I learned that God is able to take what<br />

is broken and sick, even dead, to breathe<br />

into it new life. That is the way of the Cross.<br />

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DUMC Stories<br />

SERVING<br />

is a<br />

privilege<br />

by Wendy Tan Min Litt, PJS1<br />

I<br />

have been a Christian<br />

for over 30 years.<br />

I used to be very active<br />

in Christian fellowships at<br />

school and university, but<br />

I did things mostly out of<br />

mere obligation. If I was<br />

not approached, I would<br />

gladly let someone else do<br />

it. I was in and out of church,<br />

back-slided, smoked, tried<br />

marijuana, read a lot about<br />

astrology, numerology<br />

and even had a tarot card<br />

readings done by an exboyfriend.<br />

I was doing things<br />

that would later blanket my<br />

life with guilt and shame.<br />

I would treat God like my<br />

ATM machine when it came<br />

to prayer. Only praying when<br />

I needed Him and forgetting<br />

about Him when things were<br />

going well. When I prayed<br />

and asked for direction, He<br />

would answer sometimes<br />

with a “no”, which I would<br />

choose to ignore. My faith<br />

towards God would spike<br />

up and down. I even told<br />

Him once, “I believe you<br />

exist, but just leave me<br />

alone.”<br />

Then, in May 2016, my<br />

heart was shattered by<br />

a very painful break-up.<br />

It impacted me deeply.<br />

This time, I surrendered<br />

to God completely: my<br />

hopelessness, despair, pain,<br />

grief – everything I had gone<br />

through in life. I was so tired<br />

of hiding and running from<br />

Him.<br />

It was not an overnight<br />

transformation, but as<br />

I attended conferences,<br />

Equip classes and Bible<br />

studies and began going<br />

regularly to church and<br />

attending cell group, I relearned<br />

many things, rebuilt<br />

my relationship with God<br />

and began to cut off a lot of<br />

baggage from my life. I have<br />

also learned to lean on God,<br />

to listen and obey His voice,<br />

and follow His guidance.<br />

With so much that God has<br />

done for me, I felt I should do<br />

something for Him in return.<br />

During last year’s Volunteers’<br />

Preview, I signed up to serve<br />

at the Registration Counter<br />

and on the Writing Team.<br />

What have I have gained<br />

from serving? I will base<br />

my response on DUMC’s<br />

five Core Habits.<br />

Honour – As God is my #1<br />

priority, I have learned to<br />

honour Him and people,<br />

with my time and effort.<br />

Humility – Serving keeps me<br />

grounded. Ultimately, in all<br />

that I do, the glory goes to<br />

God and not me.<br />

Be Real – I can be my usual<br />

self and do not need to put<br />

up a front. I appreciate that<br />

people accept me just as<br />

I am.<br />

Pass It On – With the joy<br />

I have gained, I just want to<br />

share my stories with others,<br />

especially with those who<br />

may face similar situations.<br />

Fun – It has been great to<br />

be part of the DUMC family;<br />

getting to know and doing<br />

life with so many wonderful<br />

people here.<br />

My life is completely different<br />

these days. I always feel a<br />

tremendous sense of peace.<br />

I am assured and steady,<br />

knowing that God is with me,<br />

at all times. He is indeed my<br />

good, good Father.<br />

The year before, I stepped<br />

up. Last year, I stepped out.<br />

This year, I cannot wait to<br />

step in.<br />

If you have not already done<br />

so, I do hope that you will<br />

take the step as well, to start<br />

serving, be it at home, in your<br />

cell group or in church.<br />

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DUMC Ministries<br />

DUMC Ministries<br />

DUMC Ministries<br />

CONGREGATIONS<br />

ENGLISH<br />

Pr Tan Moy How<br />

english@dumc.my<br />

BAHASA MALAYSIA<br />

Pr Eddy Marson<br />

bahasa.malaysia@dumc.my<br />

CHINESE CHURCH<br />

Pr Dr Ling Shui Nyuk<br />

chinese@dumc.my<br />

NEPALESE<br />

Alvin Yeo<br />

nepalese@dumc.my<br />

MYANMAR<br />

Pr Sarah Aye<br />

myanmar@dumc.my<br />

TAMIL<br />

Pr Ravindren Arumugam<br />

tamil@dumc.my<br />

COMMUNICATIONS<br />

& MEDIA<br />

DEW CREW<br />

Tan Chee Meng<br />

dew.crew@dumc.my<br />

DEW DESIGN<br />

Melody Soh<br />

dew.design@dumc.my<br />

FLOODGATES<br />

(Church Magazine)<br />

Petulia Lun<br />

floodgates@dumc.my<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Stanley Woo<br />

dew.photo@dumc.my<br />

CREATIVE ARTS<br />

PUNCTUATION<br />

(Performing Arts and<br />

Drama ministry)<br />

Pr Gilbert Tan<br />

punctuation@dumc.my<br />

YOUTH<br />

CHILDREN’S CHURCH<br />

Pr Jonathan Yeoh<br />

children@dumc.my<br />

NEXTGEN<br />

Terry Yeow (Teen)<br />

nextgen.teens@dumc.my<br />

Sara Leong (Campus)<br />

nextgen.campus@dumc.my<br />

INTERNATIONAL<br />

STUDENTS MINISTRY<br />

Thomas & Cynthia Lim<br />

ism@dumc.my<br />

ADULTS<br />

MEN ALIVE!<br />

Fong Siew Keong<br />

men.alive@dumc.my<br />

WOMEN2WOMEN<br />

Stella Hoh<br />

w2w@dumc.my<br />

MISSIONS<br />

CROSSFIELDS<br />

Pr Kelvin Yong<br />

missions@dumc.my<br />

COMMUNITY<br />

BREAKTHROUGH DRUG<br />

REHABILITATION CENTRE<br />

Pr Samuel Krishnan<br />

breakthrough.rehab@dumc.my<br />

CITIZENS NETWORK FOR<br />

A BETTER MALAYSIA<br />

cnbm@ces.org.my<br />

EXCEL TUITION CLUB<br />

Yuen Ting Ai<br />

excel.tuition@ces.org.my<br />

GOLDEN CLUB<br />

Rupert Ling<br />

general@ces.org.my<br />

FOODBANK<br />

Tan Hong Looi<br />

foodbank@ces.org.my<br />

S.T.A.R YOUTH<br />

(Ministry for Intellectually -<br />

Challenged Youth)<br />

Tracey Chan<br />

micy@ces.org.my<br />

STREET MINISTRY<br />

(Ministry to the Homeless)<br />

Jerry Teo<br />

street.ministry@ces.org.my<br />

URBAN COMMUNITY<br />

DEVELOPMENT<br />

Sophy Lim<br />

urban.community@ces.org.my<br />

FAMILY<br />

FAMILY LIFE MINISTRY<br />

T C and Jean Lau<br />

family.life@dumc.my<br />

PREMARITAL<br />

COUNSELLING<br />

Bob and Ruby Chee<br />

pmc@dumc.my<br />

MARRIAGE<br />

Adrian Chen & Susan<br />

marriage.course@dumc.my<br />

PARENTING (Children)<br />

Ronnie and Ivy Khoo<br />

Dennis Ngai and Joo Wei<br />

parenting.children@dumc.my<br />

PARENTING (Teens)<br />

Vincent and Lily Wong<br />

parenting.teens@dumc.my<br />

WEDDING PLANNING<br />

Elizabeth Lee<br />

weddings@dumc.my<br />

FIRST TOUCH<br />

CONNECTORS<br />

Pr Alex Tan<br />

connectors@dumc.my<br />

SECURITY<br />

Pr Adrian Chong<br />

security@dumc.my<br />

USHERING<br />

Dr Tham Kok Wah<br />

ushering@dumc.my<br />

OTHERS<br />

FORERUNNERS<br />

(Intercessory Prayer<br />

Ministry)<br />

Pr Chris Manivannan<br />

forerunners@dumc.my<br />

LIBRARY<br />

Pr Michael Ngui<br />

library@dumc.my<br />

TADIKA JUARA CERDIK<br />

Yuen Ting Ai<br />

general@dreamacademy.edu.my<br />

RESONATE<br />

(Worship ministry)<br />

Pr Gilbert Tan<br />

resonate@dumc.my<br />

YOUTH EXCEL SERVICES<br />

(Football Coaching)<br />

Pr Samuel Krishnan<br />

yes@ces.org.my<br />

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LIMITED COPIES OF THE TRAC LENT DEVOTIONAL<br />

ARE AVAILABLE AT THE INFO COUNTER.<br />

31 MAY - 2 JUNE<br />

EARLY BIRD REGISTRATION: DUMC.MY/LEAD<br />

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LOVE GOD.<br />

SERVE PEOPLE.<br />

MAKE DISCIPLES.<br />

We are DUMC.<br />

A church for all generations<br />

—an exciting community<br />

of families, senior citizens,<br />

young adults, teenagers,<br />

and young children, doing<br />

life together.<br />

Our primary purpose is not<br />

to make nice religious Christians.<br />

Our purpose is to build passionate<br />

disciples of Jesus Christ.<br />

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