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WHAT IS NMM ABOUT?
Wern Lu: It is a community
of women, giving emotional
support, sharing the joys
and pains of motherhood
and lending support in
whatever way that is needed -
emotionally, spiritually
or even physically.
WHO DO YOU LOOK
OUT FOR, HOW DO
YOU CONNECT WITH
THEM?
Jaime Solomon: Serving
in NMM gives me many
opportunities to connect with
new mummies. Most of the
new mummies are seated with
their families at the ‘Stroller
Section’ in the auditorium so
a friendly smile and a simple
introduction is not difficult.
Because babies are just full of
cuteness, so talking about them
becomes a natural icebreaker.
I also get to connect with the
new mums and dads when
serving at the ABC (Arrows
and Bows Corner) counter
over the weekend. It gives me
the opportunity to meet old
and new faces and remember
parents’ and children’s names
better and to do a bit of a
follow-up with them. Our
NMM activities like playdates
and Family Day is also great
ways to connect with young
families - times when we are
more relaxed and engaged in
fun activities.
WHAT DOES A
COMMUNITY OF
YOUNG MOTHERS DO
TOGETHER? WHAT
IS THE AGENDA OF
A TYPICAL GET-
TOGETHER?
Anne Yeow: Sharing our
good times and bad times, our
experiences in bringing up our
babies and children, just being
our cheeky selves and being
able to chat and connect. We
also lend a listening ear, share,
learn and pray for one another.
Debbie Yeow: Many times
new mummies face loneliness
and difficulties in managing
their new season of life. It is
harder to connect with friends,
sometimes even family, or to
share and seek help in all new
aspects of motherhood. These
are often the major reasons
why new mummies may
struggle with depression and
lack of self-worth.
NMM provides a great
platform for new friendships
and great resources to help
new mummies cope with
motherhood. It is also a great
ministry that shows care and
understanding, and prays
together. We also share tips
on nursing as well as
overcoming difficulties
with postnatal syndromes.
I personally feel that this
ministry helps our church to
come together in bringing up
our next generation. After all,
it is true that it takes a whole
village to raise a child, what
more an entire generation.
I thank God and praise God
for the wonderful opportunity
to serve in the ABC ministry
and the time spent with all
these new mummies. It has
been a wonderful experience
for me and my family.
Joyce Khong: We share
our stories and experiences
with one another. We laugh
and we cry together. We learn
from one another and are
encouraged to know that we
are not alone in this season
of life that is super demanding.
We pray with one another and
connect with one another to
exercise whatever gifts and
talents God has given us to
bless others.
HOW HAS GOD MOVED
IN THIS MINISTRY?
HOW HAS SERVING
YOUNG FAMILIES
IMPACTED YOUR OWN
FAMILY?
Anne Patricia: Over the
last year or so, we have seen
young moms step up and serve
because they have had similar
struggles and understand
these struggles are real. We
see God move their hearts to
serve other mums. We see our
children having a natural love
to serve and it has given us an
opportunity to demonstrate to
them that serving God is not
just something we do but
a way of our Christian life.
Joyce Khong: God has
shown me that when we are
faithful in the little things,
He will bless us with more.
He has never failed to provide
and show us that when we
are willing to do His will,
everything will work out for
good.
Serving in the Arrows and
Bows Corner has changed my
family routine for the better.
Everyone is more cooperative
and gets ready earlier in time
for church vs always being
late to church. I have the
opportunity to serve with
my 10-year-old daughter
who always looks forward
to being on duty. She feels
important and is happy that
she is contributing and using
her talents. Everyone learns
to be more patient too as they
know that we can only leave
after everything is locked up
properly. So, my kids would
have to endure their rumbling
tummies until mummy is all
done and ready to go for our
meal.
WHAT SPURS YOU ON?
Jaime Solomon: The
need is the call; this is what
spurs me on. New mummies
have many needs – needs for
physical, emotional and/or
spiritual support, or marriage
and parenting advice. Having
gone a little bit ahead of the
new mummy stage, I believe
that I can pass on some life
experiences, be it failures
or triumphs, to others just
starting out on their journey.
To me, having someone come
alongside you through your
journey is invaluable. Many
times, strong friendships are
forged and spiritual growth is
fostered when there is honesty
and vulnerability in
a relationship. I am so blessed
to be able to glean from others
who have gone ahead of me for
support and advice. Likewise,
I strive to pass on life lessons
to the younger generation
Lyanne Sum: Three main
things spur me on - God’s
Word, my family and the
people I meet. My young
children have started being
eager about serving at ABC
and my husband has always
been willing to support in
every way. Sometimes, when
things seem a bit dry and
efforts seem futile, it is God’s
Word that is able to bring
life and to put things into
perspective. His Word not
only refreshes the soul but also
challenges me in deciphering
what His way is and what my
own wants and desires are. The
people I meet fill me with awe
and amazement. They come
from such different walks of
life! The busiest of mummies
somehow find time to help,
whether personally or serving
in the ministry. Even the
daddies who are so involved
in family life and the young
adults who are brave enough
to step into our world and
share their lives with us.
Joyce Khong: I want to be
able to say the following when
I return to be with Jesus :
“I have fought the good fight,
I have finished the race, I have
kept the faith.” (2 Timothy
4:7)
Stay tuned for more
exciting activities and
events planned for 2018.
Come join this dynamic
community of young
families.
Find us at W2W@new
mummies on Facebook
and send us a request
to join, or email us at
w2wfornewmummies@
gmail.com
You can also get more
information about us
at the Arrows and Bows
Corner in the Mother
Infants Room during
weekend celebrations.
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