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- aartsenfruit – Asia column -<br />

'From country to country'<br />

with aartsenfruit<br />

Asia<br />

Du zhe men, wǒ men zai ci huan ying nin!*<br />

Menno van Breemen has been Managing Director of aartsenfruit Asia in Hong Kong since 2012.<br />

*Welcome back in the column!<br />

When do you know<br />

you're Asian?<br />

If you're good at<br />

maths, travel in<br />

groups and always<br />

have at least 25 kg<br />

of rice in your<br />

suitcase...<br />

How do you cram 15 Dutch people in a<br />

car? By throwing a 10-cent coin onto the<br />

back seat... What do you call a very rich<br />

Chinese man? Cha Ching... Who is the<br />

only Chinese rapper? Vanilla Rice...<br />

Who enjoys this kind of humor?<br />

Humor is a global phenomenon, or is it?<br />

Everyone has a sense of humor, but do<br />

people in different parts of the world enjoy<br />

the same jokes? Why is it that people from<br />

different cultures don't always get each<br />

other's jokes and why do we think it's<br />

strange that people in China don't laugh<br />

at our jokes or vice versa?<br />

Diuliun and Guanxi<br />

While people in our culture often make jokes<br />

about politicians, dignitaries or other<br />

people's personal lives, this topic is<br />

something that people in Asia tend to avoid.<br />

The royal family is the butt of many jokes in<br />

the Netherlands, but would that still be the<br />

case if you were thrown in jail for deriding<br />

the royal family, as you are in Thailand?<br />

In Asia, you should also take care to avoid<br />

jokes that would cause someone to lose<br />

face in public. We call that notion 'diuliun' in<br />

Chinese. From a cultural point of view, the<br />

respect that one receives from others is<br />

extremely important. Such relationships are<br />

referred to in Chinese as 'guanxi'. Guanxi is<br />

very important in Asia. You develop<br />

relationships that go from friendship to a<br />

true family bond. This process makes it easy<br />

to do business with each other, because the<br />

foundation is very strong. Since it takes time<br />

to get to that point, people are highly<br />

invested in developing this status. For this<br />

reason, jokes that attack status are<br />

unthinkable. Western culture often uses<br />

humor as an outlet for any frustration that<br />

one feels towards authority, or even towards<br />

your boss. In China, where there's still such a<br />

rigid hierarchy, being rude about someone<br />

is therefore really something to avoid. So<br />

definitely don't expect anyone to laugh at<br />

these kinds of jokes. And if your job is<br />

important to you, don't make any jokes<br />

about your boss.<br />

Humor across generations<br />

As I wrote above, a sense of humor isn't<br />

universal: what is fine for one person can<br />

really annoy someone else. One very clear<br />

development is that the world is becoming<br />

smaller all the time. In a country such as<br />

China where the authorities like to control<br />

online content and public perception, they<br />

also have to deal with a large population,<br />

around 500 million of whom are always<br />

online on their phones. The spread of<br />

content, likely including satirical films about<br />

politicians, is a development that cannot be<br />

separated from the younger generations.<br />

That's because they have access to and<br />

contact with the outside world, where taking<br />

the mickey out of those in power is generally<br />

an accepted phenomenon.<br />

Try to see the joke<br />

In sum, it's clear that humor can be fun,<br />

but it's also easy to take a joke the wrong<br />

way. Before anyone feels offended by the<br />

few poor jokes in this column, I do want to<br />

remind everyone that laughter is healthy. It's<br />

also important to bear in mind that jokes<br />

are not usually intended to hurt anyone. Life<br />

is serious enough, so it'd be really tough to<br />

spend this many hours at the office without<br />

people having a sense of humor. Think<br />

about it! And before I forget: if you've read<br />

this column without laughing at least once,<br />

you simply do not have a sense of humor.<br />

At least that much is clear...<br />

Menno van Breemen<br />

Colophon<br />

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