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Let’s Celebrate<br />
Birthday ideas for parents with twins & multiples<br />
by Eileen Pearlman, Ph.D.<br />
All children’s birthdays are special, and for<br />
twins, they are doubly special. Parents of<br />
twins have so many questions regarding<br />
this special day and rightfully so, they are more<br />
complex than a singleton birthday. These celebrations<br />
are an important opportunity to show<br />
your multiples they are loved as separate unique<br />
individuals who also share a unique bond. Parents<br />
confirm this in both their words and actions.<br />
As a monozygotic twin and a psychotherapist<br />
who works with multiples and their families, I<br />
would like to share some of my personal experiences<br />
around birthday celebrations. When I was<br />
young, my twin, Elaine, and I would always share<br />
a birthday. It never occurred to either one of us<br />
there was another way to celebrate a twin birthday.<br />
My parents bought one cake for Elaine and me and<br />
then sang “Happy Birthday” to both of us at the<br />
28 TWINS Magazine A www.twinsmagazine.com