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The Contemporary Man Magazine june 2018

The Contemporary Man THE MISSION: is Hoping to become one of the world's most popular men's lifestyle magazine. includes monthly features on subjects such as fashion, fitness, dating, money and entertainment. Tips from style on choosing a new suit to workout advice on modernizing tired fitness routines complement editorial features on relationships, finance and entertainment. It is my life’s mission to transform the lives of MEN through my programs and books as well through my information online. I want to see you succeed. Words such as honor, loyalty, trust, integrity, and courage are words that have powerful meanings, but they are only words unless you live by them. As I talk with other men, I can see that there is a massive need for learning how to be a better father. But I’ve also seen a need for reliable and honorable men outside of the home. Guys, we’re losing the meaning of manhood. We’ve gone away from being reliable, rugged, independent, and tough to a collection of wimpy, dependent, whiners. Something has got to be done! “Some say there is no such thing as an Alpha made Man’s man. That nothing can be accomplished in life without the help of others. That a man cannot reach his goals without assistance. And while that may be true, these people are not the source or the cause of his success. A man becomes an Alpha made the moment he decides to shape his world, rather than be formed by it. It is a spark… A decision… An internal will that can never be given by another and that can never be purchased or borrowed. At that moment, he becomes the sole architect and artist of his life - an Alpha made Man’s man, where the rest of the world serves as the hammer and chisel he wields in order to shape it to his desire. The Contemporary Man was created for men who want to achieve greatness. Who wants to leave their mark on the world, and create a legacy of honor, integrity, and achievement in every aspect of their lives.” -Travis S. Miller Editor-in-Chief/Founder of the Contemporary Man.

The Contemporary Man THE MISSION: is Hoping to become one of the world's most popular men's lifestyle magazine. includes monthly features on subjects such as fashion, fitness, dating, money and entertainment.

Tips from style on choosing a new suit to workout advice on modernizing tired fitness routines complement editorial features on relationships, finance and entertainment.

It is my life’s mission to transform the lives of MEN through my programs and books as well through my information online.

I want to see you succeed. Words such as honor, loyalty, trust, integrity, and courage are words that have powerful meanings, but they are only words unless you live by them.

As I talk with other men, I can see that there is a massive need for learning how to be a better father. But I’ve also seen a need for reliable and honorable men outside of the home. Guys, we’re losing the meaning of manhood.

We’ve gone away from being reliable, rugged, independent, and tough to a collection of wimpy, dependent, whiners. Something has got to be done! “Some say there is no such thing as an Alpha made Man’s man.

That nothing can be accomplished in life without the help of others. That a man cannot reach his goals without assistance.

And while that may be true, these people are not the source or the cause of his success. A man becomes an Alpha made the moment he decides to shape his world, rather than be formed by it. It is a spark… A decision… An internal will that can never be given by another and that can never be purchased or borrowed.

At that moment, he becomes the sole architect and artist of his life - an Alpha made Man’s man, where the rest of the world serves as the hammer and chisel he wields in order to shape it to his desire. The Contemporary Man was created for men who want to achieve greatness.

Who wants to leave their mark on the world, and create a legacy of honor, integrity, and achievement in every aspect of their lives.”


-Travis S. Miller

Editor-in-Chief/Founder of the Contemporary Man.



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And that feels like it could be humiliating.<br />

And the compounding issue is that she, also being a human, is probably too insecure<br />

about these issues, and has similar fears around having her sexuality rejected "publicly"<br />

inside of her social circle.<br />

<strong>The</strong> thing that could make this simple, however, is to understand that those fears are<br />

entirely delusional. Natural… but delusional.<br />

If you have a sincere belief that sex is fantastic and everyone ought to love it, and if you<br />

are confident that YOUR sexuality is natural, and an attractively masculine characteristic<br />

(or feminine characteristic, if you are a woman reading this), then it's easy and<br />

comfortable to talk about adding "benefits" or sex to the relationship — regardless of<br />

whether it's early or late in the friendship.<br />

If she (or he) rejects the idea, it's not embarrassing because if you're confident in your<br />

sexuality and believe it's right, ethical, and natural, then you don't require another<br />

person's external acceptance or validation to feel that.<br />

If you say, "I like pizza," and your friend says, "ew, I hate pizza," you don't feel<br />

embarrassed by that. Because you KNOW pizza is excellent!<br />

Of course, it may be disappointing, you wanted something and didn't get it, but it does<br />

not need to be humiliating or frightening or "hard."<br />

And once you understand and work towards achieving this mindset, it also becomes<br />

MUCH EASIER FOR YOUR FRIEND TO ACCEPT the offer and enjoy those benefits<br />

with you.<br />

<strong>The</strong> key here is that there is no way for her to “lose” with you.<br />

If she’s not interested in that sort of thing, it won’t cost her your attention, the enjoyment<br />

of your interactions, or anything else. You won’t be hurt, and you won’t act weird, and<br />

the pressure is off.<br />

That makes it super comfortable for her to think about it, and not have to make a snap<br />

decision or feel threatened by the situation.<br />

Just like asking if someone if they want pizza generally doesn’t end a conversation if<br />

they don’t.<br />

<strong>The</strong> same thing is exact of women you'd like to have benefits with.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y may be thinking the very same thing that you are, and are also frustrated by the<br />

(entirely false) belief that it's hard to change your role once it's been established.

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