The Contemporary Man Magazine june 2018
The Contemporary Man THE MISSION: is Hoping to become one of the world's most popular men's lifestyle magazine. includes monthly features on subjects such as fashion, fitness, dating, money and entertainment. Tips from style on choosing a new suit to workout advice on modernizing tired fitness routines complement editorial features on relationships, finance and entertainment. It is my life’s mission to transform the lives of MEN through my programs and books as well through my information online. I want to see you succeed. Words such as honor, loyalty, trust, integrity, and courage are words that have powerful meanings, but they are only words unless you live by them. As I talk with other men, I can see that there is a massive need for learning how to be a better father. But I’ve also seen a need for reliable and honorable men outside of the home. Guys, we’re losing the meaning of manhood. We’ve gone away from being reliable, rugged, independent, and tough to a collection of wimpy, dependent, whiners. Something has got to be done! “Some say there is no such thing as an Alpha made Man’s man. That nothing can be accomplished in life without the help of others. That a man cannot reach his goals without assistance. And while that may be true, these people are not the source or the cause of his success. A man becomes an Alpha made the moment he decides to shape his world, rather than be formed by it. It is a spark… A decision… An internal will that can never be given by another and that can never be purchased or borrowed. At that moment, he becomes the sole architect and artist of his life - an Alpha made Man’s man, where the rest of the world serves as the hammer and chisel he wields in order to shape it to his desire. The Contemporary Man was created for men who want to achieve greatness. Who wants to leave their mark on the world, and create a legacy of honor, integrity, and achievement in every aspect of their lives.” -Travis S. Miller Editor-in-Chief/Founder of the Contemporary Man.
The Contemporary Man THE MISSION: is Hoping to become one of the world's most popular men's lifestyle magazine. includes monthly features on subjects such as fashion, fitness, dating, money and entertainment.
Tips from style on choosing a new suit to workout advice on modernizing tired fitness routines complement editorial features on relationships, finance and entertainment.
It is my life’s mission to transform the lives of MEN through my programs and books as well through my information online.
I want to see you succeed. Words such as honor, loyalty, trust, integrity, and courage are words that have powerful meanings, but they are only words unless you live by them.
As I talk with other men, I can see that there is a massive need for learning how to be a better father. But I’ve also seen a need for reliable and honorable men outside of the home. Guys, we’re losing the meaning of manhood.
We’ve gone away from being reliable, rugged, independent, and tough to a collection of wimpy, dependent, whiners. Something has got to be done! “Some say there is no such thing as an Alpha made Man’s man.
That nothing can be accomplished in life without the help of others. That a man cannot reach his goals without assistance.
And while that may be true, these people are not the source or the cause of his success. A man becomes an Alpha made the moment he decides to shape his world, rather than be formed by it. It is a spark… A decision… An internal will that can never be given by another and that can never be purchased or borrowed.
At that moment, he becomes the sole architect and artist of his life - an Alpha made Man’s man, where the rest of the world serves as the hammer and chisel he wields in order to shape it to his desire. The Contemporary Man was created for men who want to achieve greatness.
Who wants to leave their mark on the world, and create a legacy of honor, integrity, and achievement in every aspect of their lives.”
-Travis S. Miller
Editor-in-Chief/Founder of the Contemporary Man.
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So I offer this EVEN BETTER solution that crushes compromise:<br />
Offer up your agreement as a GIFT to your lover.<br />
If you've ever purchased an exquisite gift for someone you love, something you knew<br />
that they would enjoy, then you already know what a fantastic PLEASURE that is.<br />
I talk about this with sex a lot. We all have a powerful urge to make OUR PARTNER<br />
experience great pleasure, huge orgasms. It's often more fun to GIVE your partner a<br />
great experience than to focus on your satisfaction.<br />
And this is the way we humans are wired. It's FUN to give a wonderful gift and watch<br />
someone we love to light up with appreciation and gratitude and enjoyment.<br />
When you frame your agreement as an opportunity to give a wonderful GIFT, rather than<br />
as giving something up that you wanted, you get to experience massive pleasure at<br />
doing it her/his way!<br />
In fact, you may even find that it’s MORE enjoyable to give the gift than it would have<br />
been to do things your way.<br />
But BE CAREFUL! Because there are two evil obstacles that you MUST AVOID if you<br />
want to do this right…<br />
<strong>The</strong> first obstacle is the "martyr effect" and finding yourselves competing for points on<br />
who gets to be the "good person" by giving up what they wanted.<br />
You end up trading in one argument (Let's do it MY way/No, let's do it MY way!) for a<br />
different discussion (Let's do it YOUR way/No, let's do it YOUR way!).<br />
This arises from feelings of guilt around receiving and being miserly around giving freely.<br />
But if you practice doing this the right way, you'll strengthen your relationship with your<br />
lover, and with yourself, in ways, you can't even imagine.<br />
<strong>The</strong> big move here is to recognize that giving your partner what they want in the<br />
disagreement is a beautiful, fun, and enjoyable gift.<br />
And that receiving your partner's agreement with open gratitude and joy MAKES it fun<br />
and enjoyable for both of you.<br />
You’ve got to get the receiving end of it right to honor your partner for their gift and make<br />
them feel loved and appreciated.<br />
Now the second evil obstacle is falling into a pattern of “taking turns” with who gets to<br />
have their way.
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