Get Out! GAY Magazine – Issue 373 – June 27, 2018

You guys are blowing up
my inbox with questions
about dicks. Questions
about your own, your
partner(s) and what’s
normal. Side note: I’m
not able to diagnose
anything, especially via
email, so if there’s pain
or something coming
out of your junk that’s
unexpected, go see your
doctor.
A study from 2015
included cock sizes from
over 15,000 men across
the world. Researchers
measured participants
both soft and erect
(probably not the worst
job ever) and reported
averages of 3.5 inches
soft and 5.2 inches erect.
But, not everyone is
in that range, and this
week I’ll answer a few
questions I’ve received
about the outsiders.
I’m a self-proclaimed
size-queen, but I’ve
fallen for someone
who is pretty small. We
went on a few dates
before I found out, and
THOMAS
TALKS
ABOUT:
now I really like him,
but I also love big dick.
I’m afraid I’m going to
miss it and might end
up cheating. – Gay,
male, 25
We like what we
like, and there isn’t
always something we
can change about it;
however, there are a few
things you can do in this
situation. First, you could
have a conversation
with him about getting
your needs met. Guys
know what their dicks
are, and if he’s not hung,
he’s likely aware of it.
It’s also possible that
people have stopped
dating him in the past
because of it, and If
that’s the case, he would
probably appreciate
talking about it instead
of just being dumped.
Come up with a plan
for pleasure that works
for both of you. This
could include toys, a
special hung guest star,
whatever you need—as
long as you both agree
on it. Second, you can
end it and look for
someone with a larger
dick. It’s really a choice
of what’s more important
to you now, a big dick
or continuing with this
guy. Neither choice is
better than the other,
it’s just where you are.
In NYC there’s always a
bigger dick around every
DICKS, DICKS, DICKS
corner, but connections
aren’t guaranteed.
My boyfriend has a
huge cock—I know,
woe is me. But really,
it’s too big, and I don’t
like bottoming for
him, because it hurts.
I do everything else to
get him off, but am I
supposed to just grin
and bear it, or am I
allowed to stop? – Gay,
male, 19
You’re young, listen
up. You do not have to
keep doing ANYTHING
sexual you don’t want to,
at any age. Sometimes
in relationships we do
things for our partners
that we maybe aren’t
so into, but don’t do
something that hurts you
if you don’t like it. If you
do want to bottom, but
more comfortably, there
are other things you can
try to loosen up. Include
plenty of foreplay like
fingering, toys, rimjobs
and different lubes (use
lots). There are also
anal trainers, which are
sets of butt plugs that
slowly stretch you over
time so you’re able to
accommodate a larger
dick more easily. Again,
if anything hurts too
much, stop. If you don’t,
you may run the risk of
developing anal fissures
(small painful tears),
which are easily treated
by a doctor, but literally
a pain in the ass.
Sex/Love/Relationship advice? Send your questions to: ThomasTalksAbout@gmail.com
@ThomasWhitfield84