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Without a doubt we are living in a time when the world is waiting for the manifestation of the<br />

sons of God. Jesus told us that in the last days we shall hear of wars and rumours of wars<br />

but He added that that we should not be troubled: for all these things must come to pass,<br />

but the end is not yet.<br />

There are many wars going on in the world today. I’m not only speaking about the physical wars that we hear<br />

about via the media, I’m also speaking about the world’s battle against Christianity, the battle of ideologies, the<br />

battle for our families and the battle for our children.<br />

We are not to be troubled because every man, woman and child who has accepted and confessed Jesus Christ<br />

as their Lord and Saviour has been given the manifestation of the Holy Spirit. They have evidence of the Spirit<br />

for good and profit. When you have the manifestation of the Spirit, His power and His presence displays in your<br />

life. The world will see it and God will be glorified.<br />

You and I carry the very life of God in our spirit and as that power cannot be overcome by darkness, neither<br />

can we.<br />

The time has come for the children of God to manifest the grace of God on their lives. I believe that this year’s<br />

IGOC will result in transformation on several levels: There will be a transformation of mindsets, there will be<br />

breakthroughs and there will be healings in Jesus’ name.<br />

CONTENT<br />

TRANSFORMATION<br />

4 23<br />

Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo<br />

TRANSFORMING<br />

YOUR HEALTH<br />

THE TRANSFORMED<br />

10 FAMILY<br />

26<br />

Pastor Yemisi Ashimolowo<br />

NOT CONFORMED<br />

BUT TRANSFORMED<br />

TRANSFORMING<br />

12 28<br />

YOUR COMMUNITY<br />

TRANSFORMING<br />

YOUR CAREER<br />

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THE POWER OF<br />

TRANSFORMATION<br />

Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo<br />

In the journey of life, it is impossible for<br />

us to truly reflect the life of Christ if we<br />

remain at the gate of salvation. In order<br />

for us to come into all that God has for us<br />

our minds need to be transformed.<br />

THE BATTLEFIELD<br />

The question we ask ourselves is, ‘why do our<br />

minds need to be transformed?’ The answer to<br />

this question is that the devil always attempts<br />

to fight our minds. Our minds have become<br />

a battlefield and in order for this to cease, we<br />

need our minds to be renewed.<br />

In the Bible we see various people who fought a<br />

battle in their mind. Adam and Eve had to fight<br />

their mind when they were confronted by the<br />

serpent; Elijah had to fight a battle in his mind<br />

when Jezebel threatened him; and Jesus fought<br />

a battle in His mind when the devil tempted<br />

Him.<br />

THE NEW BIRTH<br />

Paul states that something happens when<br />

we give our lives to Christ. New light shines<br />

our way and we are brought back to God after<br />

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being alienated from him. Ephesians 4:17-<br />

19 Our minds need to be transformed by the<br />

impartation of this new birth.<br />

We cannot afford to be born again and remain<br />

as spiritual babies. Our minds need to be totally<br />

committed to Christ and offered as a gift to Him.<br />

We cannot live between two worlds. The voice of<br />

the world may be beckoning us to return to our<br />

old ways but our choices need to honor God. 2<br />

Corinthians 5: 17 states that if any person be in<br />

Christ he is a new person.<br />

You are a brand new creation. You need to<br />

understand what that means. When a person<br />

becomes transformed he becomes bigger than<br />

the form from his father’s house. Christianity is<br />

not to be seen as a religion, it is a relationship<br />

with God and it transcends culture.<br />

WHY CHANGE?<br />

The main reason we need to change is because<br />

we are not perfect people. Paul emphasized this<br />

point in Romans 7:19, when he said that when<br />

he wanted to good, evil was always appearing.<br />

Through Paul’s statement we can only be


changed by the power of God, and that power<br />

is manifested through His Word. It cannot be<br />

done overnight, it is a process which begins at<br />

salvation.<br />

BE TRANSFORMED<br />

In order for us to become Christ-like there are<br />

various areas which need transformation.<br />

We need to be transformed from carnality to<br />

spirituality. To be carnally minded is death but<br />

to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Being<br />

carnally minded is giving your flesh everything<br />

it desires (Romans 8:6).<br />

a covenant agreement between us and God. We<br />

therefore need to understand and believe the<br />

Word of God concerning us and healing.<br />

We need a full transformation in order for us<br />

to become Christ like and win people to the<br />

Kingdom of God. This transformation begins in<br />

our mind.<br />

This article is based on the message:– Total<br />

Transformation (2018) © Pastor Matthew<br />

Ashimolowo. To obtain your copy of this<br />

message please log onto www.pastormatthew.tv<br />

We need to be transformed from fear to faith.<br />

Hebrew 10:38, states that when we are led by<br />

fear we are not released into the faith walk.<br />

Christianity is a faith walk. It is not a walk of<br />

analytical belief. Thomas was analytical in his<br />

belief. It was only when he saw the nail prints in<br />

Christ hands that he believed Christ had risen<br />

from the dead.<br />

We need to be transformed from a life of<br />

barrenness to fruitfulness. We need to bear<br />

fruit in Christ by reaching people for Jesus. John<br />

15:2 states that if we are not fruitful he will cast<br />

away: He cuts off every branch in me that bears<br />

no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit<br />

he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.<br />

We also need to bear the fruit of character. Our<br />

character should be changed to a Christ-like<br />

character.<br />

We need to transform from weakness to<br />

strength. Stop talking about your weakness and<br />

start talking about God’s strength.<br />

When we know transformation we shall be able<br />

to hold onto his Word of healing and God will<br />

also take us from sickness to health. Healing is<br />

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Miracles STILL Happen<br />

GOD TRANSFORMED OUR LIVES!<br />

MIRACLE WORKER<br />

I<br />

have been trusting God for another child although there<br />

have been challenges. I went for a medical appointment<br />

and it was confirmed that I was two months pregnant. In<br />

the fullness of time the baby was born by caesarean section<br />

and declared a still<br />

birth. However, our<br />

God is a miracle worker<br />

and as the lifeless baby<br />

was being taken away<br />

by a nurse I requested<br />

them to bring the baby<br />

to me. I touched my<br />

baby and commanded<br />

her to come to life.<br />

The nurse then began<br />

to walk out of the<br />

room, as they got to the<br />

door the baby sneezed.<br />

Glory to God. My daughter and I are doing well.<br />

GOD IS OUR VERY PRESENT HELP<br />

I<br />

want to thank God for His love and mercy. Some time<br />

ago, my younger brother was arrested on an account of<br />

a crime he knew nothing about. Despite the fact that he<br />

had an alibi, the anti-robbery squad (SARS) picked him up<br />

and he was charged. We employed lawyers, but to no avail.<br />

However, one particular Sunday several declarations were<br />

made during service, and I trusted God for His release.<br />

Following this I received a call to say that my brother had<br />

been discharged and acquitted. He was released. Praise God!<br />

N.O.<br />

I could have been made homeless with my children but<br />

God gave me a house fully paid. In February 2013, I put in<br />

an application to renew my visa because I was on my late<br />

husband’s one but my application was refused and we were<br />

asked to go back home. I appealed. Again it was refused.<br />

In 2016 I applied for my indefinite leave to remain and by<br />

His grace it was granted. However, my children were asked<br />

to go back home even though they were born in the United<br />

Kingdom. I kept holding onto the word in Isaiah 43:1 - 3 that<br />

‘He would shield and protect us wherever we are’ . During<br />

The River event in January, I applied for naturalisation.<br />

The Home Office stated that it would take a maximum of 6<br />

months so, I kept praying for the application to be granted<br />

and arrive early. By His special grace naturalisation was<br />

granted to all of us exactly one month after I submitted<br />

the application. Hold on to God’s Word and He will see you<br />

through. Thank you Jesus.<br />

E.B<br />

JEHOVAH RAPHA<br />

Last year my 3 year old daughter was diagnosed with<br />

bone cancer and a gallstone in her stomach.<br />

This led to her having tests, MRI scans, x-rays and a<br />

biopsy. My daughter was transferred to and from various<br />

hospitals before finally being transferred to Great Ormond<br />

Street Childrens Hospital.<br />

Today, I testify that God has healed my daughter. The bone<br />

cancer and the gallstone inher stomach have completely<br />

disappeared. This is completely the LORD’s doing and I give<br />

Him all the glory.<br />

O.J<br />

THE LORD IS MY<br />

SHIELD<br />

I<br />

could have lost<br />

my unborn child<br />

or even gone mad<br />

when I heard the news of<br />

my late husband’s death<br />

but God strengthened<br />

me and gave me a new<br />

heart to go through<br />

the bereavement and<br />

childbirth.<br />

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THE<br />

TRANSFORMED<br />

FAMILY<br />

Pastor Yemisi Ashimolowo<br />

Whether we are married or single, we need to<br />

build our home for God. God is interested<br />

in families, and family is actually derived<br />

directly from Him (Eph 3:14-15). It is God’s<br />

wisdom that builds a family and through understanding is it<br />

established (Pro 24:3-4).<br />

Family is one of God’s greatest resources. It is a place that<br />

provides acceptance, encouragement, guidance and counsel.<br />

It can be thought of as a mini nation and the strength of that<br />

nation is in direct proportion to the strength of the family<br />

unit. When the family operates without God it can never<br />

experience the spiritual bond that He brings to relationships.<br />

We belong to God and He has appointed you in your family.<br />

You are not a member of your family by accident (Ps 68:5-6).<br />

There are families living together like tenants, in a house<br />

that is not a home. They come to church, clap and shout and<br />

then when they step into their car there is silence. That is not<br />

God’s plan for you and we see this in Luke 6:49. God wants<br />

your home to be built on Him; He wants your home to have<br />

a solid foundation. He wants your house to be standing<br />

through and after the storms. It does not matter whether you<br />

are married, or single; you still need to build your home for<br />

God. God wants a home built for Him.<br />

SIGNS OF AN UNHEALTHY HOME<br />

1. Fighting over money.<br />

2. Confusion. God is not the author of confusion.<br />

3. Lack of understanding.<br />

4. Division.<br />

5. Jealousy between husband and wife.<br />

6. Selfishness.<br />

7. Strife.<br />

8. Being quick tempered: A quick temper brings strife and<br />

assumptions can cause problems in the home.<br />

WHAT MAKES A HEALTHY HOME?<br />

1. Enduring love.<br />

2. Trust.<br />

3. Peace and unity in the home<br />

4. The grace of God. Single parents, the grace of God will be<br />

sufficient for you as you raise a family, take a stand and<br />

draw a line. Children are to be brought up in the way of<br />

God.<br />

5. Order: The woman is not the head of the home, anything<br />

that supersedes God’s divine order is out of order.<br />

6. Love means no violence. You are not allowed to beat<br />

your wife or husband.<br />

IS THERE A FAMILY IN YOUR HOUSE?<br />

God has to be the architect of your family, it says so in the<br />

Bible in Ps 127:1:Except the Lord build the house, they<br />

labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the<br />

watchman waketh but in vain. (KJV). Storms will come but<br />

the home built on the Rock of Jesus Christ will stand. Shut<br />

the door to the devil in your homes by determining to live in<br />

harmony.<br />

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KICC<br />

TRANSFORMING<br />

COMMUNITIES<br />

Kingsway International<br />

Christian Centre’s Noah’s Ark<br />

Food Bank (NAFB) Ministry is<br />

dedicated to its assignment to<br />

take a stand against poverty.<br />

Through its outreach initiatives; Noah’s<br />

Ark Food Bank, the Noah’s Ark Community<br />

Kitchen and Noah’s Ark Cares, the church<br />

is able to bring practical help to those in<br />

need. Divisional Leader Min Peju Oluyomi<br />

said: “We believe we are sent out to disciple<br />

the nations and express the unfailing love<br />

of God to all, particularly those who are<br />

going through a crisis.<br />

“We are the hands, feet, ears and eyes<br />

of Christ. We are to empower people to<br />

overcome poverty and suffering and it’s our<br />

role to reveal Christ to our communities. As<br />

we disciple the people, it’s our aim to bring<br />

them to church and ensure they settle into<br />

regular fellowship.”<br />

THE NAFB MISSION<br />

Team work based on Ecclesiastes 4:9-12:<br />

Two people are better off than one, for<br />

they can help each other succeed. If one<br />

person falls, the other can reach out<br />

and help. But someone who falls alone<br />

is in real trouble. Likewise, two people<br />

lying close together can keep each other<br />

warm. But how can one be warm alone? A<br />

person standing alone can be attacked and<br />

defeated, but two can stand back-to-back<br />

and conquer. Three are even better, for a<br />

triple-braided cord is not easily broken.<br />

THE VISION<br />

• Grow up<br />

• Grow big<br />

• Grow together<br />

THE OBJECTIVE<br />

• Zero tolerance to hunger, lack and<br />

poverty<br />

• Food distribution<br />

• Empowering families and individuals<br />

to overcome poverty<br />

THE NAFB PROGRAMS<br />

THE NOAH’S ARK COMMUNITY<br />

KITCHEN<br />

In collaboration with Basildon council<br />

the Community Kitchen project provides<br />

a three course meal once a month for<br />

local elderly residents. The Community<br />

Kitchen also hosts quiz evenings and talks<br />

on various subjects including benefits,<br />

personal safety, bridging the age gap,<br />

carers support and housing.<br />

Every month it also donates breakfast<br />

packages for the breakfast clubs of four<br />

primary schools in Rochester, Kent.<br />

The initiative also works in collaboration<br />

with The Open House Project, based at the<br />

Quaker Meeting House, also in in Rochester,<br />

Kent. The Open House community project<br />

(co-ordinated and managed by Mr John<br />

Spencer) is also supported by local Hindu,<br />

Sikh and Islamic groups, for homeless and<br />

vulnerable people.<br />

“On the last Saturday of every month we<br />

join OHP to provide hot meals and drinks,<br />

snacks, toiletries and good company to<br />

between 40-70 homeless and vulnerable<br />

people from all parts of Medway. We<br />

respect the views and choices of everyone<br />

but maintain our identity as Christians. As<br />

such, we believe that the Lord will work<br />

through us as living testimonies and some<br />

of these people will be led to Christ and<br />

start to attend our church”, said Min Peju.<br />

THE NOAHS ARK FOOD BANK<br />

The Food Bank distribution takes place<br />

every third Saturday of the Month at KICC<br />

Prayer City and KICC The Land of Wonders,<br />

London. We don’t just supply food, we also<br />

supply toiletries, clothing, baby formula<br />

and food and products. There is also a<br />

stock of ethnic foods.<br />

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CONTINUES FROM PAGE 10<br />

THE ROLE OF MARRIAGE<br />

God instituted the family and performed the first wedding<br />

ceremony in the Garden of Eden. This marriage relationship<br />

is the cornerstone of every family. That is why satan regards<br />

marriage and the home as his greatest battle ground. He<br />

knows that the easiest way to destroy churches and society<br />

is through the home. This is why he attacks marriages and<br />

attempts to weaken and tear the family unit apart. It is<br />

our duty therefore as Christians, to be diligent in standing<br />

against his intrusions (1 Pet 5:8).<br />

Marriage is not for the immature. You have to be ready and<br />

be selfless. A good marriage does not just happen, you have<br />

to work on it, it must be built. It takes wisdom to have a good<br />

family and it takes understanding to make it strong (Prov<br />

24.3) NCV<br />

RULES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE<br />

• Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.<br />

• If you feel you must criticize do it lovingly.<br />

• If you have a choice between making yourself or your<br />

mate look good, choose your mate.<br />

• Never bring up a mistake of the past.<br />

• Neglect the whole world rather than neglecting each<br />

other.<br />

• Never let the day end without saying one complimentary<br />

thing to your partner.<br />

• Don’t lie to your spouse because you think that is what<br />

they want to hear.<br />

• Be polite one to another.<br />

• Wear your wedding ring if you are married.<br />

• Date your spouse at least once a week.<br />

• Laugh together.<br />

• Listen to one another.<br />

• Show respect and try to look your best.<br />

• Seek help when needed.<br />

RESTORATION<br />

What the devil has taken can be restored. If the enemy has<br />

come in, he can be driven out. If children have been lost, they<br />

can be prayed back into the Kingdom of God. God will put<br />

things back together again. Acknowledge that your family<br />

and your marriage are priority. Make God your priority and<br />

let Him do the building.<br />

This article is based on the message:– Is there a Family in your<br />

House (2004) © Pastor Yemisi Ashimolowo. To obtain your<br />

copy of this message please log onto www.pastormatthew.tv<br />

CONTINUES ON PAGE 12<br />

NAFB also works with Fareshare Kent, a charity that redistributes<br />

surplus food to charities and community organisations working<br />

with disadvantaged people across the region. This service is not<br />

exclusive to KICC members. People come via KICC Branches or<br />

Chapels in and around London and people are also referred from<br />

local health groups, single parent clubs and other churches.<br />

NAFB products are supplied through a mix of retail partners at<br />

subsidised rates, structured shopping at local grocery stores and<br />

donations from KICC members, individual donors, local schools<br />

& businesses. Min Peju said: “We welcome everyone’s support.<br />

They can fundraise for us, volunteer, and after discussions with us<br />

people can contact their local schools, businesses, grocery stores<br />

on our behalf.”<br />

NOAHS ARK CARES<br />

This programs serves the needs of the elderly in care homes. A<br />

Visitation Team goes to the Fort Horstead Nursing Home, Chatham,<br />

Kent on the last Saturday of each month. The team conducts a<br />

church service in the care home’s common room and also visit the<br />

bed-bound in their rooms. In Walthamstow, the teams visits the<br />

residents of Aspray Care Home, Hoe Street on the 3rd Saturday of<br />

each month.<br />

JOINING THE TEAM<br />

It’s easy to join the NAFB Ministry. “You only need to ask!”,<br />

says Min Peju, “Serving in the NAFB offers the joy of pleasing<br />

God, knowing that we are ambassadors for Christ and KICC,<br />

personal contentment and fulfilment and serving God’s purpose<br />

in our generation. NAFB stewards serve intentionally, lovingly,<br />

respectfully, with a heart of gratitude and with excellence and<br />

great grace. It is humbling and fulfilling to be a part of the NAFB<br />

team, we are a family.” “Renowned author Malcolm Gladwell has<br />

an idea that it takes at least 10,000 hours of practice, plus talent, to<br />

achieve mastery a particular skill. The stewards who serve in this<br />

department, build up our own 10,000 hours of practice through<br />

several activities including community engagement with local<br />

and national agencies, producing monthly, quarterly and annual<br />

reports, interview skills (face-face & telephone), team building,<br />

project management, logistics efforts and so much more.<br />

For more information about the XXXX Ministry please call the<br />

church office on +44 (0) 20 8525 0000 or email: XXXX<br />

KICC ALSO RUNS THE FOLLOWING FREE SERVICES:<br />

Legal Counselling, Educational Counselling, the Christmas<br />

hamper Challenge, Homeless Outreach (befriending team), a<br />

Prison Ministry and Career Counselling. For more details please<br />

call the church office or email admin@kicc.org.uk.<br />

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BE A THINK<br />

TANK<br />

dare to meditate.<br />

Inventive thinking requires taking a new<br />

step, altering your worldview to discover new<br />

horizons. It is finding the things that challenge<br />

you the most, facing them until you finish it<br />

with the solution God gives. – Then you will<br />

know the truth, and the truth will set you free.<br />

John 8:32<br />

Don’t be glued to old habits and belief<br />

systems. Recognise that they can hamper and<br />

hinder the fresh thoughts that can take you<br />

out of the rut you may have found yourself in.<br />

Thinking is calling to mind certain<br />

things or remembering them.<br />

It is the capacity to concentrate<br />

on particular matters until a<br />

clear line of decision or indecision is<br />

drawn. Thinking is anticipating, assuming,<br />

comprehending, conceiving; it is drawing a<br />

conclusion. To think is to consider a matter,<br />

to deem it, to estimate and to determine.<br />

Becoming a think tank makes you see<br />

what others overlook. It means you will<br />

use the gifts of observation planted inside<br />

you from the beginning. Becoming a think<br />

tank is necessary because only those who<br />

exercise their mind will rule the world.<br />

Think tanks ask questions where others<br />

brush over. Think tanks do not just accept<br />

poverty and other challenges of life. They<br />

want to know what is at work. – Now the<br />

Bereans were of more noble character than<br />

the Thessalonians, for they received the<br />

message with great eagerness and examined<br />

the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul<br />

said was true. Acts 17:11<br />

The application of the mind helps to<br />

discover the greatness of our God, the<br />

beauty of His creation, the awesomeness<br />

of His universe, the faithfulness of His<br />

word, the timeliness of His work and the<br />

intricacies of His creation.<br />

It is not even enough to think. In our<br />

presentation in this chapter we shall see<br />

how thinking has to meet five criteria.<br />

1. THINKING MUST BE PROGRESSIVE<br />

You cannot be progressive and keep a<br />

weak mind. – Your attitude should be the<br />

same as that of Christ Jesus: Philippians 2:5<br />

Weak minds are like a microscope. They<br />

magnify small things but cannot perceive<br />

great ones.<br />

To have a progressive mind means<br />

having the capacity to receive new things,<br />

to be taught new things. – Because of the<br />

LORD’s great love we are not consumed,<br />

for his compassions never fail. They are new<br />

every morning; great is your faithfulness.<br />

Lamentations 3:22-23<br />

2. THINKING MUST BE CONSTRUCTIVE<br />

Your thinking must be constructive and<br />

by that we mean that your thoughts are the<br />

blocks God hands over to you with which to<br />

build your world. It starts in the inner recess<br />

of your spirit but soon crystallises into the<br />

habits you exercise and then your habits<br />

move on to become your circumstance.<br />

If you can change your thoughts to be in<br />

agreement with the Word of God you will<br />

build a world that is in consonance with the<br />

mind of God.<br />

3. THINKING MUST BE INVENTIVE<br />

This method of thinking recognises that<br />

life is always virgin territory and that no one<br />

has the best or brightest idea. The whole<br />

playing field of life is open to those who will<br />

4. THINKING MUST BE CREATIVE<br />

One of the greatest privileges which<br />

distinguishes man from all of the creations of<br />

God is the capacity for creativity. The Creator,<br />

God himself created entities out of nothing<br />

and out of something.<br />

He then gave us the ability to imagine and<br />

use the raw material He gave us to create.<br />

Everything God gives is in seed form. He<br />

therefore expects you to use the skill of<br />

creative thinking to take the seed and multiply<br />

it.<br />

If you must be creative in your thoughts<br />

you must first start with hindsight. With that,<br />

you are able to look back at the limitations<br />

that have hampered the things that you desire<br />

to do, and with foresight, look ahead to the<br />

things that you can achieve for God.<br />

5. THINKING MUST BE POSITIVE<br />

To be a think tank you must approach life<br />

with positive thinking. Those who fear failure<br />

never succeed at all because they never make<br />

any attempt. Thinking is an act which you<br />

freely engage in. However, you can become<br />

imprisoned by engaging in negative thoughts.<br />

Your future can be energised or paralysed<br />

by what goes through your mind. So if your<br />

thoughts are bad, the fruits which follow will<br />

be the same.<br />

The kind of thinking which is rooted in the<br />

will of God as described by Paul in Philippians<br />

4:8 serves like good medicine. It cures the<br />

heart and gives you the energy for progress.<br />

Improve yourself, get out of indolence,<br />

wrath and self-deception. Remember; godly<br />

thoughts and actions can never produce<br />

bad results so engage yourself in the kind of<br />

thinking that is positive, godly and progressive.<br />

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever<br />

is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure,<br />

whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if<br />

anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think<br />

about such things. Philippians 4:8<br />

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DON’T WORRY<br />

STAY HAPPY<br />

lack adequate information. If access<br />

to information is possible, access it to<br />

enlighten your mind.<br />

7. Create an ability to see positive<br />

outcomes.<br />

Life is about perspective. You must<br />

create that ability to see a positive<br />

outcome. If someone comes with<br />

things that want to create worry,<br />

ask the right questions. Sometimes<br />

people will whip us into a state<br />

of worry and they are acting on<br />

inadequate information.<br />

The musician Bobby<br />

McFerrin made popular<br />

the words, “Don’t worry,<br />

be happy” in his song. His<br />

lyrics state: “In every life<br />

we have some trouble But when<br />

you worry you make it double. Don’t<br />

Worry, Be Happy. Ain’t got no place<br />

to lay your head, somebody came and<br />

took your bed. Don’t Worry, Be Happy.<br />

The landlord say your rent is late, he<br />

may have to litigate. Don’t Worry, Be<br />

Happy. The song goes on and on and<br />

on and seems to suggest that one can<br />

simply snap out of worry and simply be<br />

happy.<br />

Before him, Bob Marley also sang:<br />

“Don’t worry about a thing. ‘Cause<br />

every little thing, is gonna be alright”.<br />

Many people want to snap out of<br />

worry but their brains, emotions and<br />

possibly the state of their mind does<br />

not allow them to walk-away that<br />

easily.<br />

Worry is the act of tormenting<br />

oneself with, or to suffer from<br />

disturbing thoughts. It is fretting over<br />

every matter. It is an act which brings<br />

a lot of anguish, mentally, physically,<br />

emotionally and sometimes spiritually.<br />

Worry is a projection of anxiety<br />

and apprehension, particularly over<br />

situations that we sometimes do not<br />

have total control over.<br />

Worry has never been known to<br />

accomplish anything; rather, it leaves<br />

the person under its spell totally<br />

miserable. This is because much of<br />

what people worry about, they may<br />

not even have control over. Worry<br />

cannot change the past, neither can it<br />

be the solution to the issue at hand.<br />

In order to end worry, you can take<br />

these steps.<br />

1. Make a list of all the worries.<br />

Analyse the list, embrace the<br />

fact that there will be a degree of<br />

uncertainty for some time to come<br />

but in the midst of it all, stay calm.<br />

2. Make yourself uncomfortable.<br />

In other words, do not be<br />

comfortable in the zone of worry.<br />

3. Move on and get away from the<br />

feeling of urgency.<br />

When we are worried, a sense of<br />

urgency comes upon us because<br />

we want to snap out of the<br />

problem. You have got to learn<br />

to not work yourself into a frenzy<br />

when you think, “This matter is<br />

urgent and I need to get out of it.”<br />

Things are not always as bad as<br />

they seem.<br />

4. You must cry out for help.Talk to<br />

somebody about it. Deal with one<br />

day at a time.<br />

5. You must practice mindfulness.<br />

Let your mind be full of other<br />

things. This will serve as a good<br />

distraction from the very subject<br />

that worries you.<br />

6. Get to the root of your worry.<br />

Sometimes worries result from a<br />

8. Designate time for some worries.<br />

Some matters will never go away. You<br />

might as well find it, face it and finish<br />

it. Get to the root of the problem and<br />

do not make assumptions.<br />

9. Let God do a new thing in your life.<br />

“Behold, I will do a new thing, now it<br />

shall spring forth; shall you not know<br />

it? I will even make a road in the<br />

wilderness and rivers in the desert.”<br />

Isaiah 43:19<br />

Always be ready, be open to<br />

experiencing a new thing. You need<br />

to recognise the toxicity of worry<br />

and address it from the perspective.<br />

Ask God to help you get rid of this<br />

satanic toxin that is eating into your<br />

happiness.<br />

10. Learn to laugh<br />

Even though it may not make natural<br />

sense, part of the practical steps<br />

that need to be mastered includes<br />

laughter.<br />

“A merry heart does good, like medicine,<br />

but a broken spirit dries the bones.”<br />

Proverbs 17:22<br />

Beating worry takes a concerted effort.<br />

It takes going the extra mile.As you<br />

rely on God and pray, He can give you<br />

unspeakable joy in the midst of whatever<br />

has caused worry.<br />

“Whom having not seen you love. Though<br />

now you do not see Him, yet believing, you<br />

rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of<br />

glory,” 1 Peter 1:8<br />

Stay focused on your purpose and<br />

direction in life, and don’t allow worry to<br />

distract you.<br />

“I press toward the goal for the prize of<br />

the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”<br />

Philippians 3:14<br />

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The Power<br />

of Relationships<br />

Whatever a man attains to, if he has a problem with<br />

relationships it can ruin everything he has ever built.<br />

Great empires, enterprises, establishments and systems<br />

have been brought down, because of the founder’s or manager’s<br />

inability to build positive relationships.<br />

IT STARTS WITH YOU<br />

Positive relationships must first start<br />

from within. You can only achieve<br />

fulfilment, lasting joy, self-actualisation<br />

and vocational success to the extent<br />

to which you love yourself and others<br />

unconditionally.<br />

Sometimes the concept of selflove<br />

within the Christian teaching of<br />

being crucified with Christ sounds like<br />

an anomaly. It is not hard for some<br />

theologians to pick on the subject of<br />

self-love and say, ‘Didn’t Christ say that<br />

we must carry the cross and follow<br />

Him, didn’t He say we are unprofitable<br />

servants?’ Luke 17:10<br />

This is true however, Christ also said<br />

to love your neighbour as yourself. The<br />

simplest meaning of that sentence is<br />

that you can only love your neighbour<br />

to the degree to which you love<br />

yourself. You cannot give more or less<br />

than what you have.<br />

Self-love is the ability to understand<br />

yourself and value who you are. It<br />

is also strongly connected to selfacceptance<br />

and self-knowledge; that<br />

is, knowing who you are and accepting<br />

your strengths and limitations.<br />

The goals you set, the visions you<br />

have, the dreams and ideals you<br />

strive for, the ability to be the best,<br />

are always attached to the degree of<br />

self-acceptance and love you have for<br />

yourself.<br />

If you love and respect yourself, you<br />

will have confidence in other people<br />

too. Positive relationship is not only<br />

about believing in your own gifting and<br />

ability, it is about investing the same<br />

confidence in others.<br />

SELF LOVE vs SELFISHNESS<br />

Selfishness and self-love are two<br />

different things. Self-love is valuing<br />

who you are. Selfishness is, believing<br />

that the world belongs to you and<br />

everything must be about you.<br />

Selfishness contradicts the Gospel of<br />

Jesus Christ because it enthrones man<br />

on the throne which Christ should<br />

occupy.<br />

Positive love, on the other hand,<br />

leads to positive self-esteem and<br />

self-respect. These qualities are<br />

necessary for a wholesome and<br />

healthy personality. These qualities are<br />

necessary for your transformation.<br />

Self-love is not pride. When people<br />

are proud it is an indication of a deep<br />

seated problem of self-rejection and<br />

low self-esteem.<br />

THE REAL YOU<br />

Once you understand that you are<br />

holy, accepted, beloved, seated in the<br />

heavenly places and adopted by God,<br />

your godly self-confidence and self-<br />

worth will increase.<br />

This beautiful and godly confidence now<br />

affects how you relate to other people<br />

because you now realise that just as you are<br />

accepted in God, they are precious in His<br />

sight too. You are immediately able to value<br />

other people (Romans 15:7 Ephesians 1:4-5).<br />

Accepting yourself unconditionally,<br />

irrespective of what has happened to you in<br />

the past is very important for you to make<br />

progress. God did not start loving you after<br />

you were cleaned up, He loved you when<br />

you were still a sinner (Romans 5:8).<br />

Self-love is setting worthwhile goals and<br />

pursuing them, having a clear vision for<br />

yourself, knowing what you want to become<br />

and what you want to achieve spiritually,<br />

physically, mentally, financially etc. If you<br />

cannot believe in the grace and ability of<br />

God for your life you will not be able to<br />

commit it to paper.<br />

THE BENEFITS OF POSITIVE LOVE<br />

AND RELATIONSHIP<br />

The bottom line here really is ‘Why should<br />

you develop positive relationships? What<br />

benefit is there?<br />

Well, the law of focus says that whatever<br />

you dwell on will occur. If you choose to<br />

love people, love grows around you and in<br />

you.<br />

Love is the antidote to every negative<br />

relationship. It is the answer to conquering<br />

behavioural problems. “He that loveth not<br />

knoweth not God; for God is love.” 1 John 4:8<br />

“There is no fear in love; but perfect love<br />

casts out fear, because fear involves torment.<br />

But he who fears has not been made perfect<br />

in love.” 1 John 4:18 (NKJV).<br />

The kind of love indicated here is the<br />

one which was manifested by God through<br />

Christ, and led to the transformation of the<br />

world. We must change the world around<br />

us. You cannot be transformed if your life is<br />

devoid of positive love. We must know the<br />

real and powerful transformation of love.<br />

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THE<br />

WEALTHY<br />

PLACE<br />

Many Christians have<br />

allowed the spirit of<br />

the age to confirm<br />

their thinking about<br />

money but it is time<br />

to experience a transformation<br />

so that the entire Church can<br />

experience the blessing of<br />

Abraham and live in the wealthy<br />

place, which Christ’s redemptive<br />

work has provided.<br />

The time has come for the<br />

church to be empowered to do<br />

the things it was ordained for.<br />

THE MOTIVE FOR FINANCIAL<br />

INCREASE<br />

What motivates your desire to<br />

have money? From a biblical point<br />

of view, it can be said that there<br />

are positive reasons for wanting<br />

to be blessed financially and there<br />

are negative reasons.<br />

It is God’s will that Christians<br />

be financially empowered (Deut<br />

8:18). Positive motives include<br />

personal and family comfort<br />

and convenience, being blessed<br />

to be a blessing, ministering to<br />

the household of faith and the<br />

promotion of the Kingdom of God.<br />

Negative motivations include peer<br />

pressure, envy, personal validation<br />

and a love of money.<br />

One of the key problems at the<br />

root of the debate on prosperity<br />

within the Church is the motive<br />

of pursuit. People with good<br />

intentions have found their<br />

minds corrupted in the past. So<br />

good intention is not a good<br />

enough reason for the pursuit of<br />

prosperity. It is important to not<br />

only know positive motives, but<br />

you must also know how to keep<br />

your heart pure and right before<br />

and after you have been blessed.<br />

THE MANDATE FOR INCREASE<br />

In 3 John 1:2 the wish of God is<br />

expressed.<br />

Beloved, I wish above all things<br />

that thou mayest prosper and be in<br />

health, even as thy soul prospereth.<br />

3 John 1:2<br />

This means that it’s God’s plan is<br />

for the believer to experience this<br />

blessing. However, if the blessing<br />

of God is eluding you, there must<br />

be a reason. Because having come<br />

into the knowledge of salvation<br />

through Christ, everything God<br />

has is now made available to you.<br />

According as his divine power<br />

hath given unto us all things that<br />

pertain unto life and godliness,<br />

through the knowledge of him that<br />

hath called us to glory and virtue: 2<br />

Peter 1:3<br />

There is always a reason for the<br />

absence of supply, there is a cause<br />

for every effect. That cause and<br />

effect is what underwrites the principle or the<br />

law of sowing and reaping.<br />

While the earth remaineth, seedtime and<br />

harvest, and cold and heat, and summer and<br />

winter, and day and night shall not cease.<br />

Genesis 8:22<br />

If you can get to the root cause of the<br />

lack you are experiencing, then you can be<br />

released into God›s original intention for your<br />

blessing.<br />

YOUR FIELD OF DREAMS<br />

Are you finding fulfilment in what you are<br />

doing? Are you blossoming and expressing<br />

the gift of God planted in you? Are you<br />

achieving all that God has given you the<br />

ability to achieve? Do you sense growth in<br />

your personal life and dream? Are you reaping<br />

harvests in the field God has planted for you?<br />

God’s harvest is a ready one and He wants<br />

to bring it into our lives immediately. Until you<br />

search diligently you may not recognise the<br />

harvest God already has for you.<br />

Your breakthrough in life is in your field,<br />

not what works for somebody else. Your<br />

actualisation is tied to the discovery of the<br />

field of your dreams. Jesus said, “Lift up your<br />

eyes and look.”<br />

Say not ye, There are yet four months, and<br />

then cometh harvest? behold, I say unto you, Lift<br />

up your eyes, and look on the fields; for they are<br />

white already to harvest. John 4:35<br />

Until you find your field of dreams,<br />

happiness eludes you, the struggle continues<br />

and life is a continuous fight. The mandate<br />

for financial blessing is certainly that there is<br />

a divine field ready for your harvest. It is a<br />

matured harvest field waiting for you to put<br />

in the sickle. You must be ready to see that<br />

harvest with the eyes of God.<br />

Your chief quest is to know where God<br />

has planted His harvest for you. If you have<br />

the field of God’s planting you will have the<br />

blessing of Deuteronomy 28, not the curses.<br />

So I ask you again, is your present work the<br />

most fulfilling you could do?<br />

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Praying For The<br />

Presence & Power<br />

Of The Holy Spirit<br />

• Job 22:28, 37:23<br />

• Psalm 106:8<br />

• Isaiah 11:2, 45:11<br />

• Mark 10:27<br />

• Ephesians 3:20<br />

• 2 Corinthians 12:9<br />

• 2 Timothy 1:7<br />

2 Corinthians 10:3-5<br />

• Nahum 1:9<br />

• Jeremiah 32:17<br />

Mark 9:23<br />

• Proverbs 28:1<br />

• Ephesians 3:20<br />

Pray that as you pursue<br />

God’s will, His anointing will<br />

rest upon your life.<br />

Pray to receive the<br />

anointing of the Holy Spirit<br />

with signs and wonders<br />

following.<br />

Pray for the anointing power<br />

and presence of God to<br />

always be manifest in your<br />

life.<br />

Pray that you will proclaim<br />

God’s word such that His<br />

anointing and power will<br />

cause people to react to it.<br />

Thank God for the anointing<br />

which is key to you winning<br />

in life.<br />

Pray to receive the boldness<br />

of the Holy Ghost to enter<br />

territories and occupy them<br />

for God.<br />

Pray for the power and<br />

presence of the Holy Spirit<br />

to bring deliverance in every<br />

aspect of your life.<br />

Pray that the gifts of the<br />

Spirit will be manifest<br />

through your ministry in<br />

Jesus name.<br />

Pray for the anointing to<br />

preach the word of God<br />

with power and boldness.<br />

Pray for the power and<br />

presence of the Holy Spirit<br />

so that your ministry will<br />

change lives in Jesus name.<br />

Pray for the anointing of the<br />

Holy Spirit that will influence<br />

and change your prayer life<br />

for good.<br />

Ask the Lord to give you<br />

wisdom on how to build<br />

fellowship with the Holy<br />

Spirit.<br />

Pray that the Holy Spirit will<br />

release in your heart deep<br />

compassion about people in<br />

need.<br />

Pray for divine revelation to<br />

flow in you by reason of the<br />

Holy Spirit.<br />

Repent of every sin that<br />

breaks the circuit of power<br />

that the Holy Spirit brings.<br />

Thank God for the inner<br />

witness that the Holy Spirit<br />

gives you concerning whom<br />

you are in God.<br />

Pray to receive the<br />

anointing to bring healing<br />

and deliverance to the sick.<br />

Pray that at all times in your<br />

life and ministry God will<br />

confirm His word with signs<br />

and wonders.<br />

Confess daily that you will<br />

be the evidence of the<br />

power of God in action.<br />

Command every mountain<br />

of satanic confrontation to<br />

crumble in Jesus Name.<br />

Take authority over every<br />

lie of Satan and declare that<br />

God’s grace is sufficient for<br />

you.<br />

Confess that you will not fall<br />

but stand in the assembly<br />

of His people to declare His<br />

goodness.<br />

Come against every<br />

stronghold of the mind that<br />

wants you to walk in fear.<br />

Declare that every<br />

reoccurring cycle of problem<br />

has come to an end in your<br />

life.<br />

Confess that according to<br />

the Word of God, nothing<br />

shall be impossible, because<br />

you believe in Him.<br />

Pray for boldness and<br />

confidence in Him that will<br />

help you trust in Him.<br />

Thank God, because He will<br />

exceed every situation.<br />

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TRANSFORMING<br />

YOUR HEALTH<br />

When God created mankind, He<br />

commented on the fact that creation in<br />

its entirety was very good (Genesis 1:31).<br />

This implies that disease and ill health<br />

could not have been present in Adam and Eve at that<br />

stage. Disease, sickness and ill health entered the<br />

world because Adam and Eve disobeyed and sinned<br />

against God (Genesis 3).<br />

But now, in Christ Jesus, the regenerated believer is<br />

being transformed so that their health conforms to<br />

God’s original purpose (Romans 12:2), made possible<br />

by Christ’s restorative work of Salvation.<br />

illness that repeats itself from one generation to<br />

another. One must also recognise lifestyle associated<br />

illnesses and those that are race, culture, gender or<br />

age specific. Once a predisposition to an illness is<br />

recognised, action must be taken by applying God’s<br />

Word to the situation and seeking medical help.<br />

Just as medical doctors prescribe medication to be<br />

taken at certain times and frequency, so believers<br />

should self-administer healing scriptures several times<br />

a day. The good part of administering God’s Word for<br />

healing and divine health is that it has no known side<br />

effects.<br />

Transformation can only be achieved through a<br />

wholesome and three-pronged approach:<br />

THE SPIRITUAL APPROACH<br />

The approach helps one to gain spiritual insight. It<br />

involves searching the Bible for healing scriptures and<br />

allowing the Holy Spirit to illuminate the scriptures<br />

that promise divine health and healing.<br />

These scriptures (including Isaiah 53:3-5; Exodus15:26,<br />

Luke 5:12,3John1:2 and many more) must be<br />

memorised, believed, confessed and applied to the<br />

individual’s situation.<br />

THE INTELLECTUAL APPROACH<br />

Pattern recognition: Be quick to recognise the family<br />

THE PHYSICAL APPROACH<br />

God’s healing Word has been sent forth (Psalm 107:20);<br />

it is hovering and waiting for the believer to make a<br />

demand on it and take steps of faith until their healing<br />

is complete. In-addition to the above actions, lifestyle<br />

changes should be made to maintain good health.<br />

Practical Considerations for those with chronic illness<br />

Some may ask, how do I know when I have been<br />

healed if I don’t stop taking my medication? It is<br />

not advisable for individuals to stop taking their<br />

medication without consulting their doctor because of<br />

the risk that their condition may worsen.<br />

If God has healed, it will be evident to your doctors.<br />

For example, those healed of diabetes develop<br />

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persistently low sugar levels and their doctor usually<br />

has no option but to withdraw their medication. For<br />

those healed from mental health illness, doctors will<br />

gradually withdraw medication if they remain well and<br />

have no relapse after a number of years.<br />

This principle applies to several chronic conditions<br />

and it is important not to unilaterally stop medication<br />

without consulting your doctor.<br />

GENERAL HEALTH TIPS FOR LIVING WELL<br />

The average life expectancy in the UK is 79.4 years for<br />

men and 83.1 years for women. This is at variance with<br />

biblical life expectancy that was put at 120 years in<br />

Genesis 6: 3. There are very few people on earth today<br />

who live close to this age.<br />

Medical consensus will roughly put the factors that<br />

affect longevity as follows: genetics, environment,<br />

level of physical activity and a healthy diet. God<br />

suspended and amended some of these factors so<br />

that the Israelites, who were on the move for 40 years<br />

in the desert, had none feeble among them (Psalm<br />

105:37). The same God is still at work today and will<br />

fulfil the number of our days (Exodus 23:26). However,<br />

we also need to pursue healthy lifestyle choices in the<br />

following areas:<br />

CARDIOVASCULAR HEALTH<br />

People with a family history of heart attacks and<br />

strokes, should get themselves checked out sooner<br />

rather than later, especially if they occur before the<br />

age of 55. Everyone else should avail themselves of the<br />

free NHS health check for those aged between 40 and<br />

74 years.<br />

EXERCISE NUGGETS<br />

Everyone, irrespective of their age, must keep<br />

themselves active and moving. Spending long periods<br />

of time being inactive (watching television or being<br />

glued to a computer screen, smart phone or tablet) is<br />

detrimental to health.<br />

Adults aged 19 and older must do at least 150 minutes<br />

of moderate activity (cycling, brisk walking) and<br />

strength exercises (lifting weights, heavy gardening)<br />

on two or more days a week. Those who are much<br />

older, and frail should seek expert guidance about<br />

appropriate exercise regimes.<br />

10,000 STEPS A DAY The science behind this number<br />

is not firmed up yet and it is arbitrary. However, the<br />

preliminary guideline is for daily steps of between<br />

10,000 and 15,000 depending on age and gender.<br />

10,000 steps, walked mostly at brisk pace (quick<br />

enough to make one break out in a sweat), will count<br />

towards the recommended 150 minutes of aerobic<br />

exercise per week. Younger people should do more<br />

than this and include vigorous activity (a game of<br />

football, basketball etc) in their weekly exercise<br />

routine.<br />

Many who can’t exercise regularly, because of<br />

complicated and busy lives, should include walking<br />

in their daily routine as a way of increasing their level<br />

of physical activity. Examples of what they can do are:<br />

walking for part of the journey to work; getting off<br />

the bus or train a station early and walking the rest of<br />

the way; walking to the shops; using stairs instead of<br />

the lift; walking the children to school and going for a<br />

stroll with family or friends after dinner.<br />

DOES THE PERFECT DIET EXIST?<br />

Many people are still searching for this, but it has not<br />

been found yet. Several diets that exist are based on<br />

calorific restriction and only work for the period one<br />

is on them. Going back to unrestricted eating will lead<br />

to rebound weight gain. Anyone looking to achieve a<br />

healthy weight will have to embrace a diet plan that<br />

works for them and make other lifestyle changes<br />

that will help them burn more calories than they are<br />

eating. Any diet must contain the following elements<br />

to be successful: calorific restriction (smaller plate/<br />

portion size) and a good variety of food types, based on<br />

the eatwell plate guide.<br />

Intermittent fasting is on the rise as a way of dieting<br />

and the most popular method used is the five to two<br />

variants. This involves five days of normal eating and<br />

the two other days are spent fasting. On these days,<br />

calorific intake is reduced to 500 calories for women<br />

and 600 for men.<br />

In summary, do the practical and needful but believe<br />

God for divine health and healing. The healing power<br />

of God is real and active today, no matter what the<br />

health condition is. God needs our health to be<br />

transformed so we can carry out the great commission<br />

and fulfil His purpose for us on earth.<br />

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NOT CONFORMED BUT<br />

TRANSFORMED<br />

The motto of the KICC Singles<br />

Ministry to ‘know no man after the<br />

flesh but after the spirit’ recognises<br />

that things are not always as they<br />

appear. It reminds us to aspire to get to know<br />

the real person underneath what we see<br />

or experience of other peoples behaviour,<br />

character, or appearance.<br />

Theme for this year’s IGOC has great<br />

significance for every single person pursuing<br />

true friendships and a lasting relationship<br />

with a future spouse.<br />

In Philippians 4:8, Paul admonishes us to<br />

think about things that are true, honest, just,<br />

pure, lovely, of good report, full of virtue<br />

and praiseworthy. The best relationships are<br />

developed when we commit to cultivating a<br />

positive mind-set.<br />

CONFORMING<br />

As we live in an age where there is prolific<br />

reporting of evil happenings with some<br />

businesses thriving on so called ‘fake news’; it<br />

can be challenging for people who try to have<br />

a positive frame of reference. Hence, people<br />

readily conform to the existing norms.<br />

Conformation is agreeing with the status<br />

quo, whether it is good or bad. It is accepting<br />

the norm without positively questioning or<br />

challenging it.<br />

This gives birth to stagnancy and can be<br />

a trap of the enemy. Conformation can<br />

also manifest as living perpetually in one’s<br />

comfort zone, redundancy, inflexibility and a<br />

failure to embrace progressive thinking.<br />

TRANSFORMATION<br />

In contrast, transformation is dynamic<br />

and speaks of good change. The road to<br />

transformation is a renewed mind. In<br />

Romans 12 Paul pleads with believers that<br />

each one should present themselves a living<br />

sacrifice; not conformed to this world but<br />

rather transformed by the renewing of<br />

their minds. This order of affairs is crucial<br />

for anyone who desires to go from hope to<br />

actualisation. A renewed mind is necessary<br />

for healthy relationships as it has built into its<br />

fabric trust, hope, love and a genuine quality<br />

of being naked and unashamed.<br />

A renewed mind seeks to see things through<br />

God’s own eyes, whilst a conformed mind<br />

judges based on the outward appearance.<br />

If God opens your eyes to see a person’s<br />

potential, you can become part of the process<br />

of turning a stone with rough edges into a<br />

diamond. Investing in others in this way also<br />

transforms us and makes us more like our<br />

Father, the greatest Investor of all times.<br />

As far as relationships are concerned, a<br />

renewed mind is not focused on people’s past<br />

and does not define others based on their past<br />

failures, insufficiencies or current difficulties.<br />

When individuals lean on their natural<br />

senses and conform to societal expectations,<br />

peer or parental pressure, they can make<br />

wrong judgements and miss out on the best<br />

opportunities and friendships. Love dictates<br />

that we must give people a chance.<br />

Paul’s portrayal of the process for<br />

transformation in 2 Corinthians 3:18 (AMP)<br />

highlights that that it should be continual and<br />

progressive, a sort of continuous personal<br />

development.<br />

As we fill our minds with God’s word, we<br />

behold Christ as in a mirror; His image rubs<br />

off on us and we become more like him in the<br />

way we think and live. Real change starts on<br />

the inside and works its way out. Whilst we<br />

acknowledge that true transformation is by<br />

His spirit, we know that it comes at a cost to<br />

the individual and not by wishful thinking.<br />

To be transformed and not conformed, it will<br />

take<br />

• Turning to God<br />

• Relinquishing self-will as a living<br />

sacrifice<br />

• Accepting Gods order and embracing<br />

• New ways of thinking with a definite<br />

• Shift to seeing others through Gods eyes<br />

and a fervent pursuit of good change<br />

irrespective of the opportunity cost<br />

• Remodelling our frames of reference to<br />

align with godly values and welcoming<br />

• Metamorphosis as we understand that<br />

transformation must be from glory to<br />

glory.<br />

With a transformed mind, each individual<br />

can become a pacesetter equipped with the<br />

best tool kit for successful relationships.<br />

Dr. Nkiru Asiegbunam<br />

Head of KICC Singles Ministry<br />

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TRANSFORMING<br />

YOUR CAREER<br />

What we achieve, what<br />

we aspire to achieve<br />

and what we settle<br />

for in life, starts in<br />

our minds. Your mindset can either<br />

be a springboard to help maximise<br />

your potential, or it can hinder your<br />

progress. The analogy of a cup being<br />

half empty or full epitomises how<br />

people approach situations.<br />

A positive mindset looks at possibilities<br />

and constantly sees opportunities to<br />

increase capacity, while a negative<br />

mindset focuses on the void and often<br />

looks for excuses or seeks to blame<br />

others for the void. It is important we<br />

adopt a positive mindset in order to<br />

transform our careers and future proof<br />

them against the storms of life.<br />

Here are 5 steps to apply to aid the<br />

transformation of your career.<br />

STEP 1 – Devise a career development<br />

plan: Plans are not limited to<br />

businesses, we need to appreciate the<br />

need to plan for a successful career.<br />

If you fail to steer your career in the<br />

direction you choose, its course is<br />

likely to be determined by others.<br />

Always start with the end in mind<br />

and work backward. Identify what<br />

it is that you want to accomplish and<br />

where you want to be in 5 or 10 years<br />

time. Whether it is running your own<br />

business or getting to the top of the<br />

ladder in your sector, it won’t happen<br />

accidentally. You need to plan. Effective<br />

planning is quite simply about setting<br />

goals which need to be SMART.<br />

The S in the mnemonic stands for<br />

specific; you need to be able to define<br />

your goal.<br />

M is measurable you cannot manage<br />

a goal that can’t be measured as this<br />

will enable you to know when it is<br />

accomplished.<br />

The A means the goal must also<br />

be Achievable whilst it should be<br />

stretching it must be something that<br />

you personally can attain. It must also<br />

be Realistic and relevant to your future<br />

ambitions. Lastly, an effective goal<br />

must have a Timeframe attached to<br />

it. You should set short, medium and<br />

long-term goals. Your plan should be<br />

written down, pass the SMART test and<br />

be reviewed regularly. Achieving shortterm<br />

goals will spur you on to achieve<br />

the medium and longer-term goals.<br />

Don’t wait until the New Year to map<br />

your career goals!<br />

STEP 2 - Identify your strengths and<br />

address your weaknesses: Businesses<br />

analyse their internal environment<br />

by determining their strengths and<br />

weaknesses. Individuals also need to<br />

be fully aware of these. A strength can<br />

be anything you do exceptionally well<br />

either because it is innate and a natural<br />

gifting or because it is something you<br />

have worked hard to achieve. In short,<br />

your strength should make you stand<br />

out from the crowd.<br />

There should not be a mismatch<br />

between your strengths and your career<br />

goals. Your passion is demonstrated in<br />

something you would be willing to do<br />

if money weren’t an issue, something<br />

you can never tire of that puts a smile<br />

on your face.<br />

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Employers look for passion and strengths on your CV and are<br />

increasingly conducting strength-based interviews in order<br />

to establish what motivates you and what you are good at.<br />

You should keep a log of major accomplishments and<br />

ensure your CV is updated regularly, at least once a year.<br />

Weaknesses are evident in the things you struggle with, or<br />

only do because you have to. Unfortunately, many people are<br />

blind to their weaknesses, but they are things that need to be<br />

addressed in order to turn them into strengths.<br />

A good appraisal review should highlight weaknesses and a<br />

trusted friend can also point these out to you. However, you<br />

need to be receptive to receiving constructive feedback.<br />

STEP 3 - Identify gaps and barriers and address them:<br />

Many of us have dreams, unfortunately for many people<br />

aspirations don’t become actualised because they fail to plan<br />

and address the obstacles preventing them from realising<br />

their goals. Anything preventing your success is a barrier<br />

and needs to be removed. Many job seekers see a lack of<br />

work experience as a barrier.<br />

Where you lack direct experience use transferable skills<br />

which can be drawn from a range of sources such as<br />

hobbies, work experience, your education and home life.<br />

You don’t have to have worked as a manager to demonstrate<br />

leadership skills. Leadership skills can come from activities<br />

at College, managing your siblings, or being a carer for a<br />

relative. The same applies to budgeting skills. A great source<br />

of experience for those in work is taking on responsibilities<br />

beyond the remit of the job description; managing projects<br />

can help plug the gaps in your experience.<br />

a world of rapid change, it is predicted that 65% of jobs that<br />

Generation Z will perform don’t yet exist.<br />

Be aware of the impact of technology on your chosen<br />

profession and learn how to exploit it.<br />

Consider jobs that artificial intelligence will produce not<br />

displace, review the PEST analysis for your sector. The PEST<br />

tool analyses the political, economic, socio-cultural and<br />

technological changes in your sector. Core and professional<br />

competencies are as important as technical skills, so ensure<br />

you can demonstrate that you possess them examples<br />

include leadership, communication, resilience and problemsolving<br />

skills, which are transferable across sectors. Think<br />

globally and consider learning a new language. Given that in<br />

the year 2020 four generations will be working side by side<br />

(baby boomers, generation X, Y, and Z) it will be imperative,<br />

irrespective of age, for those in work to ensure their skills are<br />

current, relevant and economically valuable.<br />

STEP 5 - Build your professional network and develop your<br />

brand. Ensure your network is wide-ranging and includes<br />

strategic networks, that is people with significant influence<br />

and positioning in their fields, operational networks<br />

comprising of people you work with and social networks<br />

of peers and friends. Include mentors or coaches in your<br />

network.<br />

Ensure your networks are diverse in all aspects of their skills,<br />

backgrounds, and influence. Rebrand yourself. Restaurants<br />

and many other local businesses are very keen to draw our<br />

attention to the fact that they are under new management by<br />

doing so they raise our expectations and make us feel that we<br />

will experience something new and better.<br />

Volunteering is a great example of acquiring employability<br />

skills as it demonstrates determination and motivation.<br />

Consider an apprenticeship where you are employed by an<br />

organisation who pay you a salary and cover all training<br />

fees (including degrees) these are open to young people and<br />

adults.<br />

STEP 4 - Constantly update your skills. Take every opportunity<br />

to continue your professional development. Increase<br />

your net worth by exploiting training and development<br />

opportunities at work or invest in your own training and<br />

development. Don’t wait until you are asked to leave work<br />

to retrain. Employers are increasingly looking for staff that<br />

have the capacity to learn new skills “learnability”. We live in<br />

It is never too late for us to refresh our approach. Make sure<br />

you are the go-to person for things to be done at work. Be<br />

consistent, reliable and loyal not the first out of the door<br />

when the clock strikes 5. Have an impeccable work ethic, at<br />

all times. Give your CV a makeover and have someone look<br />

over it. Many people are much better at selling themselves<br />

verbally than they are in writing, not realising that a CV<br />

creates the first impression.<br />

By Teresa Esan, Head of the Career Counselling Department.<br />

For further advice on how to transform your career, improve<br />

your CV or identify your strengths and possible career<br />

options contact KICC’s Career counselling department:<br />

career_counselling@kicc.org.uk<br />

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