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Without a doubt we are living in a time when the world is waiting for the manifestation of the<br />
sons of God. Jesus told us that in the last days we shall hear of wars and rumours of wars<br />
but He added that that we should not be troubled: for all these things must come to pass,<br />
but the end is not yet.<br />
There are many wars going on in the world today. I’m not only speaking about the physical wars that we hear<br />
about via the media, I’m also speaking about the world’s battle against Christianity, the battle of ideologies, the<br />
battle for our families and the battle for our children.<br />
We are not to be troubled because every man, woman and child who has accepted and confessed Jesus Christ<br />
as their Lord and Saviour has been given the manifestation of the Holy Spirit. They have evidence of the Spirit<br />
for good and profit. When you have the manifestation of the Spirit, His power and His presence displays in your<br />
life. The world will see it and God will be glorified.<br />
You and I carry the very life of God in our spirit and as that power cannot be overcome by darkness, neither<br />
can we.<br />
The time has come for the children of God to manifest the grace of God on their lives. I believe that this year’s<br />
IGOC will result in transformation on several levels: There will be a transformation of mindsets, there will be<br />
breakthroughs and there will be healings in Jesus’ name.<br />
CONTENT<br />
TRANSFORMATION<br />
4 23<br />
Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo<br />
TRANSFORMING<br />
YOUR HEALTH<br />
THE TRANSFORMED<br />
10 FAMILY<br />
26<br />
Pastor Yemisi Ashimolowo<br />
NOT CONFORMED<br />
BUT TRANSFORMED<br />
TRANSFORMING<br />
12 28<br />
YOUR COMMUNITY<br />
TRANSFORMING<br />
YOUR CAREER<br />
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THE POWER OF<br />
TRANSFORMATION<br />
Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo<br />
In the journey of life, it is impossible for<br />
us to truly reflect the life of Christ if we<br />
remain at the gate of salvation. In order<br />
for us to come into all that God has for us<br />
our minds need to be transformed.<br />
THE BATTLEFIELD<br />
The question we ask ourselves is, ‘why do our<br />
minds need to be transformed?’ The answer to<br />
this question is that the devil always attempts<br />
to fight our minds. Our minds have become<br />
a battlefield and in order for this to cease, we<br />
need our minds to be renewed.<br />
In the Bible we see various people who fought a<br />
battle in their mind. Adam and Eve had to fight<br />
their mind when they were confronted by the<br />
serpent; Elijah had to fight a battle in his mind<br />
when Jezebel threatened him; and Jesus fought<br />
a battle in His mind when the devil tempted<br />
Him.<br />
THE NEW BIRTH<br />
Paul states that something happens when<br />
we give our lives to Christ. New light shines<br />
our way and we are brought back to God after<br />
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being alienated from him. Ephesians 4:17-<br />
19 Our minds need to be transformed by the<br />
impartation of this new birth.<br />
We cannot afford to be born again and remain<br />
as spiritual babies. Our minds need to be totally<br />
committed to Christ and offered as a gift to Him.<br />
We cannot live between two worlds. The voice of<br />
the world may be beckoning us to return to our<br />
old ways but our choices need to honor God. 2<br />
Corinthians 5: 17 states that if any person be in<br />
Christ he is a new person.<br />
You are a brand new creation. You need to<br />
understand what that means. When a person<br />
becomes transformed he becomes bigger than<br />
the form from his father’s house. Christianity is<br />
not to be seen as a religion, it is a relationship<br />
with God and it transcends culture.<br />
WHY CHANGE?<br />
The main reason we need to change is because<br />
we are not perfect people. Paul emphasized this<br />
point in Romans 7:19, when he said that when<br />
he wanted to good, evil was always appearing.<br />
Through Paul’s statement we can only be
changed by the power of God, and that power<br />
is manifested through His Word. It cannot be<br />
done overnight, it is a process which begins at<br />
salvation.<br />
BE TRANSFORMED<br />
In order for us to become Christ-like there are<br />
various areas which need transformation.<br />
We need to be transformed from carnality to<br />
spirituality. To be carnally minded is death but<br />
to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Being<br />
carnally minded is giving your flesh everything<br />
it desires (Romans 8:6).<br />
a covenant agreement between us and God. We<br />
therefore need to understand and believe the<br />
Word of God concerning us and healing.<br />
We need a full transformation in order for us<br />
to become Christ like and win people to the<br />
Kingdom of God. This transformation begins in<br />
our mind.<br />
This article is based on the message:– Total<br />
Transformation (2018) © Pastor Matthew<br />
Ashimolowo. To obtain your copy of this<br />
message please log onto www.pastormatthew.tv<br />
We need to be transformed from fear to faith.<br />
Hebrew 10:38, states that when we are led by<br />
fear we are not released into the faith walk.<br />
Christianity is a faith walk. It is not a walk of<br />
analytical belief. Thomas was analytical in his<br />
belief. It was only when he saw the nail prints in<br />
Christ hands that he believed Christ had risen<br />
from the dead.<br />
We need to be transformed from a life of<br />
barrenness to fruitfulness. We need to bear<br />
fruit in Christ by reaching people for Jesus. John<br />
15:2 states that if we are not fruitful he will cast<br />
away: He cuts off every branch in me that bears<br />
no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit<br />
he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.<br />
We also need to bear the fruit of character. Our<br />
character should be changed to a Christ-like<br />
character.<br />
We need to transform from weakness to<br />
strength. Stop talking about your weakness and<br />
start talking about God’s strength.<br />
When we know transformation we shall be able<br />
to hold onto his Word of healing and God will<br />
also take us from sickness to health. Healing is<br />
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Miracles STILL Happen<br />
GOD TRANSFORMED OUR LIVES!<br />
MIRACLE WORKER<br />
I<br />
have been trusting God for another child although there<br />
have been challenges. I went for a medical appointment<br />
and it was confirmed that I was two months pregnant. In<br />
the fullness of time the baby was born by caesarean section<br />
and declared a still<br />
birth. However, our<br />
God is a miracle worker<br />
and as the lifeless baby<br />
was being taken away<br />
by a nurse I requested<br />
them to bring the baby<br />
to me. I touched my<br />
baby and commanded<br />
her to come to life.<br />
The nurse then began<br />
to walk out of the<br />
room, as they got to the<br />
door the baby sneezed.<br />
Glory to God. My daughter and I are doing well.<br />
GOD IS OUR VERY PRESENT HELP<br />
I<br />
want to thank God for His love and mercy. Some time<br />
ago, my younger brother was arrested on an account of<br />
a crime he knew nothing about. Despite the fact that he<br />
had an alibi, the anti-robbery squad (SARS) picked him up<br />
and he was charged. We employed lawyers, but to no avail.<br />
However, one particular Sunday several declarations were<br />
made during service, and I trusted God for His release.<br />
Following this I received a call to say that my brother had<br />
been discharged and acquitted. He was released. Praise God!<br />
N.O.<br />
I could have been made homeless with my children but<br />
God gave me a house fully paid. In February 2013, I put in<br />
an application to renew my visa because I was on my late<br />
husband’s one but my application was refused and we were<br />
asked to go back home. I appealed. Again it was refused.<br />
In 2016 I applied for my indefinite leave to remain and by<br />
His grace it was granted. However, my children were asked<br />
to go back home even though they were born in the United<br />
Kingdom. I kept holding onto the word in Isaiah 43:1 - 3 that<br />
‘He would shield and protect us wherever we are’ . During<br />
The River event in January, I applied for naturalisation.<br />
The Home Office stated that it would take a maximum of 6<br />
months so, I kept praying for the application to be granted<br />
and arrive early. By His special grace naturalisation was<br />
granted to all of us exactly one month after I submitted<br />
the application. Hold on to God’s Word and He will see you<br />
through. Thank you Jesus.<br />
E.B<br />
JEHOVAH RAPHA<br />
Last year my 3 year old daughter was diagnosed with<br />
bone cancer and a gallstone in her stomach.<br />
This led to her having tests, MRI scans, x-rays and a<br />
biopsy. My daughter was transferred to and from various<br />
hospitals before finally being transferred to Great Ormond<br />
Street Childrens Hospital.<br />
Today, I testify that God has healed my daughter. The bone<br />
cancer and the gallstone inher stomach have completely<br />
disappeared. This is completely the LORD’s doing and I give<br />
Him all the glory.<br />
O.J<br />
THE LORD IS MY<br />
SHIELD<br />
I<br />
could have lost<br />
my unborn child<br />
or even gone mad<br />
when I heard the news of<br />
my late husband’s death<br />
but God strengthened<br />
me and gave me a new<br />
heart to go through<br />
the bereavement and<br />
childbirth.<br />
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THE<br />
TRANSFORMED<br />
FAMILY<br />
Pastor Yemisi Ashimolowo<br />
Whether we are married or single, we need to<br />
build our home for God. God is interested<br />
in families, and family is actually derived<br />
directly from Him (Eph 3:14-15). It is God’s<br />
wisdom that builds a family and through understanding is it<br />
established (Pro 24:3-4).<br />
Family is one of God’s greatest resources. It is a place that<br />
provides acceptance, encouragement, guidance and counsel.<br />
It can be thought of as a mini nation and the strength of that<br />
nation is in direct proportion to the strength of the family<br />
unit. When the family operates without God it can never<br />
experience the spiritual bond that He brings to relationships.<br />
We belong to God and He has appointed you in your family.<br />
You are not a member of your family by accident (Ps 68:5-6).<br />
There are families living together like tenants, in a house<br />
that is not a home. They come to church, clap and shout and<br />
then when they step into their car there is silence. That is not<br />
God’s plan for you and we see this in Luke 6:49. God wants<br />
your home to be built on Him; He wants your home to have<br />
a solid foundation. He wants your house to be standing<br />
through and after the storms. It does not matter whether you<br />
are married, or single; you still need to build your home for<br />
God. God wants a home built for Him.<br />
SIGNS OF AN UNHEALTHY HOME<br />
1. Fighting over money.<br />
2. Confusion. God is not the author of confusion.<br />
3. Lack of understanding.<br />
4. Division.<br />
5. Jealousy between husband and wife.<br />
6. Selfishness.<br />
7. Strife.<br />
8. Being quick tempered: A quick temper brings strife and<br />
assumptions can cause problems in the home.<br />
WHAT MAKES A HEALTHY HOME?<br />
1. Enduring love.<br />
2. Trust.<br />
3. Peace and unity in the home<br />
4. The grace of God. Single parents, the grace of God will be<br />
sufficient for you as you raise a family, take a stand and<br />
draw a line. Children are to be brought up in the way of<br />
God.<br />
5. Order: The woman is not the head of the home, anything<br />
that supersedes God’s divine order is out of order.<br />
6. Love means no violence. You are not allowed to beat<br />
your wife or husband.<br />
IS THERE A FAMILY IN YOUR HOUSE?<br />
God has to be the architect of your family, it says so in the<br />
Bible in Ps 127:1:Except the Lord build the house, they<br />
labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the<br />
watchman waketh but in vain. (KJV). Storms will come but<br />
the home built on the Rock of Jesus Christ will stand. Shut<br />
the door to the devil in your homes by determining to live in<br />
harmony.<br />
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KICC<br />
TRANSFORMING<br />
COMMUNITIES<br />
Kingsway International<br />
Christian Centre’s Noah’s Ark<br />
Food Bank (NAFB) Ministry is<br />
dedicated to its assignment to<br />
take a stand against poverty.<br />
Through its outreach initiatives; Noah’s<br />
Ark Food Bank, the Noah’s Ark Community<br />
Kitchen and Noah’s Ark Cares, the church<br />
is able to bring practical help to those in<br />
need. Divisional Leader Min Peju Oluyomi<br />
said: “We believe we are sent out to disciple<br />
the nations and express the unfailing love<br />
of God to all, particularly those who are<br />
going through a crisis.<br />
“We are the hands, feet, ears and eyes<br />
of Christ. We are to empower people to<br />
overcome poverty and suffering and it’s our<br />
role to reveal Christ to our communities. As<br />
we disciple the people, it’s our aim to bring<br />
them to church and ensure they settle into<br />
regular fellowship.”<br />
THE NAFB MISSION<br />
Team work based on Ecclesiastes 4:9-12:<br />
Two people are better off than one, for<br />
they can help each other succeed. If one<br />
person falls, the other can reach out<br />
and help. But someone who falls alone<br />
is in real trouble. Likewise, two people<br />
lying close together can keep each other<br />
warm. But how can one be warm alone? A<br />
person standing alone can be attacked and<br />
defeated, but two can stand back-to-back<br />
and conquer. Three are even better, for a<br />
triple-braided cord is not easily broken.<br />
THE VISION<br />
• Grow up<br />
• Grow big<br />
• Grow together<br />
THE OBJECTIVE<br />
• Zero tolerance to hunger, lack and<br />
poverty<br />
• Food distribution<br />
• Empowering families and individuals<br />
to overcome poverty<br />
THE NAFB PROGRAMS<br />
THE NOAH’S ARK COMMUNITY<br />
KITCHEN<br />
In collaboration with Basildon council<br />
the Community Kitchen project provides<br />
a three course meal once a month for<br />
local elderly residents. The Community<br />
Kitchen also hosts quiz evenings and talks<br />
on various subjects including benefits,<br />
personal safety, bridging the age gap,<br />
carers support and housing.<br />
Every month it also donates breakfast<br />
packages for the breakfast clubs of four<br />
primary schools in Rochester, Kent.<br />
The initiative also works in collaboration<br />
with The Open House Project, based at the<br />
Quaker Meeting House, also in in Rochester,<br />
Kent. The Open House community project<br />
(co-ordinated and managed by Mr John<br />
Spencer) is also supported by local Hindu,<br />
Sikh and Islamic groups, for homeless and<br />
vulnerable people.<br />
“On the last Saturday of every month we<br />
join OHP to provide hot meals and drinks,<br />
snacks, toiletries and good company to<br />
between 40-70 homeless and vulnerable<br />
people from all parts of Medway. We<br />
respect the views and choices of everyone<br />
but maintain our identity as Christians. As<br />
such, we believe that the Lord will work<br />
through us as living testimonies and some<br />
of these people will be led to Christ and<br />
start to attend our church”, said Min Peju.<br />
THE NOAHS ARK FOOD BANK<br />
The Food Bank distribution takes place<br />
every third Saturday of the Month at KICC<br />
Prayer City and KICC The Land of Wonders,<br />
London. We don’t just supply food, we also<br />
supply toiletries, clothing, baby formula<br />
and food and products. There is also a<br />
stock of ethnic foods.<br />
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THE ROLE OF MARRIAGE<br />
God instituted the family and performed the first wedding<br />
ceremony in the Garden of Eden. This marriage relationship<br />
is the cornerstone of every family. That is why satan regards<br />
marriage and the home as his greatest battle ground. He<br />
knows that the easiest way to destroy churches and society<br />
is through the home. This is why he attacks marriages and<br />
attempts to weaken and tear the family unit apart. It is<br />
our duty therefore as Christians, to be diligent in standing<br />
against his intrusions (1 Pet 5:8).<br />
Marriage is not for the immature. You have to be ready and<br />
be selfless. A good marriage does not just happen, you have<br />
to work on it, it must be built. It takes wisdom to have a good<br />
family and it takes understanding to make it strong (Prov<br />
24.3) NCV<br />
RULES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE<br />
• Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.<br />
• If you feel you must criticize do it lovingly.<br />
• If you have a choice between making yourself or your<br />
mate look good, choose your mate.<br />
• Never bring up a mistake of the past.<br />
• Neglect the whole world rather than neglecting each<br />
other.<br />
• Never let the day end without saying one complimentary<br />
thing to your partner.<br />
• Don’t lie to your spouse because you think that is what<br />
they want to hear.<br />
• Be polite one to another.<br />
• Wear your wedding ring if you are married.<br />
• Date your spouse at least once a week.<br />
• Laugh together.<br />
• Listen to one another.<br />
• Show respect and try to look your best.<br />
• Seek help when needed.<br />
RESTORATION<br />
What the devil has taken can be restored. If the enemy has<br />
come in, he can be driven out. If children have been lost, they<br />
can be prayed back into the Kingdom of God. God will put<br />
things back together again. Acknowledge that your family<br />
and your marriage are priority. Make God your priority and<br />
let Him do the building.<br />
This article is based on the message:– Is there a Family in your<br />
House (2004) © Pastor Yemisi Ashimolowo. To obtain your<br />
copy of this message please log onto www.pastormatthew.tv<br />
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NAFB also works with Fareshare Kent, a charity that redistributes<br />
surplus food to charities and community organisations working<br />
with disadvantaged people across the region. This service is not<br />
exclusive to KICC members. People come via KICC Branches or<br />
Chapels in and around London and people are also referred from<br />
local health groups, single parent clubs and other churches.<br />
NAFB products are supplied through a mix of retail partners at<br />
subsidised rates, structured shopping at local grocery stores and<br />
donations from KICC members, individual donors, local schools<br />
& businesses. Min Peju said: “We welcome everyone’s support.<br />
They can fundraise for us, volunteer, and after discussions with us<br />
people can contact their local schools, businesses, grocery stores<br />
on our behalf.”<br />
NOAHS ARK CARES<br />
This programs serves the needs of the elderly in care homes. A<br />
Visitation Team goes to the Fort Horstead Nursing Home, Chatham,<br />
Kent on the last Saturday of each month. The team conducts a<br />
church service in the care home’s common room and also visit the<br />
bed-bound in their rooms. In Walthamstow, the teams visits the<br />
residents of Aspray Care Home, Hoe Street on the 3rd Saturday of<br />
each month.<br />
JOINING THE TEAM<br />
It’s easy to join the NAFB Ministry. “You only need to ask!”,<br />
says Min Peju, “Serving in the NAFB offers the joy of pleasing<br />
God, knowing that we are ambassadors for Christ and KICC,<br />
personal contentment and fulfilment and serving God’s purpose<br />
in our generation. NAFB stewards serve intentionally, lovingly,<br />
respectfully, with a heart of gratitude and with excellence and<br />
great grace. It is humbling and fulfilling to be a part of the NAFB<br />
team, we are a family.” “Renowned author Malcolm Gladwell has<br />
an idea that it takes at least 10,000 hours of practice, plus talent, to<br />
achieve mastery a particular skill. The stewards who serve in this<br />
department, build up our own 10,000 hours of practice through<br />
several activities including community engagement with local<br />
and national agencies, producing monthly, quarterly and annual<br />
reports, interview skills (face-face & telephone), team building,<br />
project management, logistics efforts and so much more.<br />
For more information about the XXXX Ministry please call the<br />
church office on +44 (0) 20 8525 0000 or email: XXXX<br />
KICC ALSO RUNS THE FOLLOWING FREE SERVICES:<br />
Legal Counselling, Educational Counselling, the Christmas<br />
hamper Challenge, Homeless Outreach (befriending team), a<br />
Prison Ministry and Career Counselling. For more details please<br />
call the church office or email admin@kicc.org.uk.<br />
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BE A THINK<br />
TANK<br />
dare to meditate.<br />
Inventive thinking requires taking a new<br />
step, altering your worldview to discover new<br />
horizons. It is finding the things that challenge<br />
you the most, facing them until you finish it<br />
with the solution God gives. – Then you will<br />
know the truth, and the truth will set you free.<br />
John 8:32<br />
Don’t be glued to old habits and belief<br />
systems. Recognise that they can hamper and<br />
hinder the fresh thoughts that can take you<br />
out of the rut you may have found yourself in.<br />
Thinking is calling to mind certain<br />
things or remembering them.<br />
It is the capacity to concentrate<br />
on particular matters until a<br />
clear line of decision or indecision is<br />
drawn. Thinking is anticipating, assuming,<br />
comprehending, conceiving; it is drawing a<br />
conclusion. To think is to consider a matter,<br />
to deem it, to estimate and to determine.<br />
Becoming a think tank makes you see<br />
what others overlook. It means you will<br />
use the gifts of observation planted inside<br />
you from the beginning. Becoming a think<br />
tank is necessary because only those who<br />
exercise their mind will rule the world.<br />
Think tanks ask questions where others<br />
brush over. Think tanks do not just accept<br />
poverty and other challenges of life. They<br />
want to know what is at work. – Now the<br />
Bereans were of more noble character than<br />
the Thessalonians, for they received the<br />
message with great eagerness and examined<br />
the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul<br />
said was true. Acts 17:11<br />
The application of the mind helps to<br />
discover the greatness of our God, the<br />
beauty of His creation, the awesomeness<br />
of His universe, the faithfulness of His<br />
word, the timeliness of His work and the<br />
intricacies of His creation.<br />
It is not even enough to think. In our<br />
presentation in this chapter we shall see<br />
how thinking has to meet five criteria.<br />
1. THINKING MUST BE PROGRESSIVE<br />
You cannot be progressive and keep a<br />
weak mind. – Your attitude should be the<br />
same as that of Christ Jesus: Philippians 2:5<br />
Weak minds are like a microscope. They<br />
magnify small things but cannot perceive<br />
great ones.<br />
To have a progressive mind means<br />
having the capacity to receive new things,<br />
to be taught new things. – Because of the<br />
LORD’s great love we are not consumed,<br />
for his compassions never fail. They are new<br />
every morning; great is your faithfulness.<br />
Lamentations 3:22-23<br />
2. THINKING MUST BE CONSTRUCTIVE<br />
Your thinking must be constructive and<br />
by that we mean that your thoughts are the<br />
blocks God hands over to you with which to<br />
build your world. It starts in the inner recess<br />
of your spirit but soon crystallises into the<br />
habits you exercise and then your habits<br />
move on to become your circumstance.<br />
If you can change your thoughts to be in<br />
agreement with the Word of God you will<br />
build a world that is in consonance with the<br />
mind of God.<br />
3. THINKING MUST BE INVENTIVE<br />
This method of thinking recognises that<br />
life is always virgin territory and that no one<br />
has the best or brightest idea. The whole<br />
playing field of life is open to those who will<br />
4. THINKING MUST BE CREATIVE<br />
One of the greatest privileges which<br />
distinguishes man from all of the creations of<br />
God is the capacity for creativity. The Creator,<br />
God himself created entities out of nothing<br />
and out of something.<br />
He then gave us the ability to imagine and<br />
use the raw material He gave us to create.<br />
Everything God gives is in seed form. He<br />
therefore expects you to use the skill of<br />
creative thinking to take the seed and multiply<br />
it.<br />
If you must be creative in your thoughts<br />
you must first start with hindsight. With that,<br />
you are able to look back at the limitations<br />
that have hampered the things that you desire<br />
to do, and with foresight, look ahead to the<br />
things that you can achieve for God.<br />
5. THINKING MUST BE POSITIVE<br />
To be a think tank you must approach life<br />
with positive thinking. Those who fear failure<br />
never succeed at all because they never make<br />
any attempt. Thinking is an act which you<br />
freely engage in. However, you can become<br />
imprisoned by engaging in negative thoughts.<br />
Your future can be energised or paralysed<br />
by what goes through your mind. So if your<br />
thoughts are bad, the fruits which follow will<br />
be the same.<br />
The kind of thinking which is rooted in the<br />
will of God as described by Paul in Philippians<br />
4:8 serves like good medicine. It cures the<br />
heart and gives you the energy for progress.<br />
Improve yourself, get out of indolence,<br />
wrath and self-deception. Remember; godly<br />
thoughts and actions can never produce<br />
bad results so engage yourself in the kind of<br />
thinking that is positive, godly and progressive.<br />
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever<br />
is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure,<br />
whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if<br />
anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think<br />
about such things. Philippians 4:8<br />
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DON’T WORRY<br />
STAY HAPPY<br />
lack adequate information. If access<br />
to information is possible, access it to<br />
enlighten your mind.<br />
7. Create an ability to see positive<br />
outcomes.<br />
Life is about perspective. You must<br />
create that ability to see a positive<br />
outcome. If someone comes with<br />
things that want to create worry,<br />
ask the right questions. Sometimes<br />
people will whip us into a state<br />
of worry and they are acting on<br />
inadequate information.<br />
The musician Bobby<br />
McFerrin made popular<br />
the words, “Don’t worry,<br />
be happy” in his song. His<br />
lyrics state: “In every life<br />
we have some trouble But when<br />
you worry you make it double. Don’t<br />
Worry, Be Happy. Ain’t got no place<br />
to lay your head, somebody came and<br />
took your bed. Don’t Worry, Be Happy.<br />
The landlord say your rent is late, he<br />
may have to litigate. Don’t Worry, Be<br />
Happy. The song goes on and on and<br />
on and seems to suggest that one can<br />
simply snap out of worry and simply be<br />
happy.<br />
Before him, Bob Marley also sang:<br />
“Don’t worry about a thing. ‘Cause<br />
every little thing, is gonna be alright”.<br />
Many people want to snap out of<br />
worry but their brains, emotions and<br />
possibly the state of their mind does<br />
not allow them to walk-away that<br />
easily.<br />
Worry is the act of tormenting<br />
oneself with, or to suffer from<br />
disturbing thoughts. It is fretting over<br />
every matter. It is an act which brings<br />
a lot of anguish, mentally, physically,<br />
emotionally and sometimes spiritually.<br />
Worry is a projection of anxiety<br />
and apprehension, particularly over<br />
situations that we sometimes do not<br />
have total control over.<br />
Worry has never been known to<br />
accomplish anything; rather, it leaves<br />
the person under its spell totally<br />
miserable. This is because much of<br />
what people worry about, they may<br />
not even have control over. Worry<br />
cannot change the past, neither can it<br />
be the solution to the issue at hand.<br />
In order to end worry, you can take<br />
these steps.<br />
1. Make a list of all the worries.<br />
Analyse the list, embrace the<br />
fact that there will be a degree of<br />
uncertainty for some time to come<br />
but in the midst of it all, stay calm.<br />
2. Make yourself uncomfortable.<br />
In other words, do not be<br />
comfortable in the zone of worry.<br />
3. Move on and get away from the<br />
feeling of urgency.<br />
When we are worried, a sense of<br />
urgency comes upon us because<br />
we want to snap out of the<br />
problem. You have got to learn<br />
to not work yourself into a frenzy<br />
when you think, “This matter is<br />
urgent and I need to get out of it.”<br />
Things are not always as bad as<br />
they seem.<br />
4. You must cry out for help.Talk to<br />
somebody about it. Deal with one<br />
day at a time.<br />
5. You must practice mindfulness.<br />
Let your mind be full of other<br />
things. This will serve as a good<br />
distraction from the very subject<br />
that worries you.<br />
6. Get to the root of your worry.<br />
Sometimes worries result from a<br />
8. Designate time for some worries.<br />
Some matters will never go away. You<br />
might as well find it, face it and finish<br />
it. Get to the root of the problem and<br />
do not make assumptions.<br />
9. Let God do a new thing in your life.<br />
“Behold, I will do a new thing, now it<br />
shall spring forth; shall you not know<br />
it? I will even make a road in the<br />
wilderness and rivers in the desert.”<br />
Isaiah 43:19<br />
Always be ready, be open to<br />
experiencing a new thing. You need<br />
to recognise the toxicity of worry<br />
and address it from the perspective.<br />
Ask God to help you get rid of this<br />
satanic toxin that is eating into your<br />
happiness.<br />
10. Learn to laugh<br />
Even though it may not make natural<br />
sense, part of the practical steps<br />
that need to be mastered includes<br />
laughter.<br />
“A merry heart does good, like medicine,<br />
but a broken spirit dries the bones.”<br />
Proverbs 17:22<br />
Beating worry takes a concerted effort.<br />
It takes going the extra mile.As you<br />
rely on God and pray, He can give you<br />
unspeakable joy in the midst of whatever<br />
has caused worry.<br />
“Whom having not seen you love. Though<br />
now you do not see Him, yet believing, you<br />
rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of<br />
glory,” 1 Peter 1:8<br />
Stay focused on your purpose and<br />
direction in life, and don’t allow worry to<br />
distract you.<br />
“I press toward the goal for the prize of<br />
the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”<br />
Philippians 3:14<br />
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The Power<br />
of Relationships<br />
Whatever a man attains to, if he has a problem with<br />
relationships it can ruin everything he has ever built.<br />
Great empires, enterprises, establishments and systems<br />
have been brought down, because of the founder’s or manager’s<br />
inability to build positive relationships.<br />
IT STARTS WITH YOU<br />
Positive relationships must first start<br />
from within. You can only achieve<br />
fulfilment, lasting joy, self-actualisation<br />
and vocational success to the extent<br />
to which you love yourself and others<br />
unconditionally.<br />
Sometimes the concept of selflove<br />
within the Christian teaching of<br />
being crucified with Christ sounds like<br />
an anomaly. It is not hard for some<br />
theologians to pick on the subject of<br />
self-love and say, ‘Didn’t Christ say that<br />
we must carry the cross and follow<br />
Him, didn’t He say we are unprofitable<br />
servants?’ Luke 17:10<br />
This is true however, Christ also said<br />
to love your neighbour as yourself. The<br />
simplest meaning of that sentence is<br />
that you can only love your neighbour<br />
to the degree to which you love<br />
yourself. You cannot give more or less<br />
than what you have.<br />
Self-love is the ability to understand<br />
yourself and value who you are. It<br />
is also strongly connected to selfacceptance<br />
and self-knowledge; that<br />
is, knowing who you are and accepting<br />
your strengths and limitations.<br />
The goals you set, the visions you<br />
have, the dreams and ideals you<br />
strive for, the ability to be the best,<br />
are always attached to the degree of<br />
self-acceptance and love you have for<br />
yourself.<br />
If you love and respect yourself, you<br />
will have confidence in other people<br />
too. Positive relationship is not only<br />
about believing in your own gifting and<br />
ability, it is about investing the same<br />
confidence in others.<br />
SELF LOVE vs SELFISHNESS<br />
Selfishness and self-love are two<br />
different things. Self-love is valuing<br />
who you are. Selfishness is, believing<br />
that the world belongs to you and<br />
everything must be about you.<br />
Selfishness contradicts the Gospel of<br />
Jesus Christ because it enthrones man<br />
on the throne which Christ should<br />
occupy.<br />
Positive love, on the other hand,<br />
leads to positive self-esteem and<br />
self-respect. These qualities are<br />
necessary for a wholesome and<br />
healthy personality. These qualities are<br />
necessary for your transformation.<br />
Self-love is not pride. When people<br />
are proud it is an indication of a deep<br />
seated problem of self-rejection and<br />
low self-esteem.<br />
THE REAL YOU<br />
Once you understand that you are<br />
holy, accepted, beloved, seated in the<br />
heavenly places and adopted by God,<br />
your godly self-confidence and self-<br />
worth will increase.<br />
This beautiful and godly confidence now<br />
affects how you relate to other people<br />
because you now realise that just as you are<br />
accepted in God, they are precious in His<br />
sight too. You are immediately able to value<br />
other people (Romans 15:7 Ephesians 1:4-5).<br />
Accepting yourself unconditionally,<br />
irrespective of what has happened to you in<br />
the past is very important for you to make<br />
progress. God did not start loving you after<br />
you were cleaned up, He loved you when<br />
you were still a sinner (Romans 5:8).<br />
Self-love is setting worthwhile goals and<br />
pursuing them, having a clear vision for<br />
yourself, knowing what you want to become<br />
and what you want to achieve spiritually,<br />
physically, mentally, financially etc. If you<br />
cannot believe in the grace and ability of<br />
God for your life you will not be able to<br />
commit it to paper.<br />
THE BENEFITS OF POSITIVE LOVE<br />
AND RELATIONSHIP<br />
The bottom line here really is ‘Why should<br />
you develop positive relationships? What<br />
benefit is there?<br />
Well, the law of focus says that whatever<br />
you dwell on will occur. If you choose to<br />
love people, love grows around you and in<br />
you.<br />
Love is the antidote to every negative<br />
relationship. It is the answer to conquering<br />
behavioural problems. “He that loveth not<br />
knoweth not God; for God is love.” 1 John 4:8<br />
“There is no fear in love; but perfect love<br />
casts out fear, because fear involves torment.<br />
But he who fears has not been made perfect<br />
in love.” 1 John 4:18 (NKJV).<br />
The kind of love indicated here is the<br />
one which was manifested by God through<br />
Christ, and led to the transformation of the<br />
world. We must change the world around<br />
us. You cannot be transformed if your life is<br />
devoid of positive love. We must know the<br />
real and powerful transformation of love.<br />
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THE<br />
WEALTHY<br />
PLACE<br />
Many Christians have<br />
allowed the spirit of<br />
the age to confirm<br />
their thinking about<br />
money but it is time<br />
to experience a transformation<br />
so that the entire Church can<br />
experience the blessing of<br />
Abraham and live in the wealthy<br />
place, which Christ’s redemptive<br />
work has provided.<br />
The time has come for the<br />
church to be empowered to do<br />
the things it was ordained for.<br />
THE MOTIVE FOR FINANCIAL<br />
INCREASE<br />
What motivates your desire to<br />
have money? From a biblical point<br />
of view, it can be said that there<br />
are positive reasons for wanting<br />
to be blessed financially and there<br />
are negative reasons.<br />
It is God’s will that Christians<br />
be financially empowered (Deut<br />
8:18). Positive motives include<br />
personal and family comfort<br />
and convenience, being blessed<br />
to be a blessing, ministering to<br />
the household of faith and the<br />
promotion of the Kingdom of God.<br />
Negative motivations include peer<br />
pressure, envy, personal validation<br />
and a love of money.<br />
One of the key problems at the<br />
root of the debate on prosperity<br />
within the Church is the motive<br />
of pursuit. People with good<br />
intentions have found their<br />
minds corrupted in the past. So<br />
good intention is not a good<br />
enough reason for the pursuit of<br />
prosperity. It is important to not<br />
only know positive motives, but<br />
you must also know how to keep<br />
your heart pure and right before<br />
and after you have been blessed.<br />
THE MANDATE FOR INCREASE<br />
In 3 John 1:2 the wish of God is<br />
expressed.<br />
Beloved, I wish above all things<br />
that thou mayest prosper and be in<br />
health, even as thy soul prospereth.<br />
3 John 1:2<br />
This means that it’s God’s plan is<br />
for the believer to experience this<br />
blessing. However, if the blessing<br />
of God is eluding you, there must<br />
be a reason. Because having come<br />
into the knowledge of salvation<br />
through Christ, everything God<br />
has is now made available to you.<br />
According as his divine power<br />
hath given unto us all things that<br />
pertain unto life and godliness,<br />
through the knowledge of him that<br />
hath called us to glory and virtue: 2<br />
Peter 1:3<br />
There is always a reason for the<br />
absence of supply, there is a cause<br />
for every effect. That cause and<br />
effect is what underwrites the principle or the<br />
law of sowing and reaping.<br />
While the earth remaineth, seedtime and<br />
harvest, and cold and heat, and summer and<br />
winter, and day and night shall not cease.<br />
Genesis 8:22<br />
If you can get to the root cause of the<br />
lack you are experiencing, then you can be<br />
released into God›s original intention for your<br />
blessing.<br />
YOUR FIELD OF DREAMS<br />
Are you finding fulfilment in what you are<br />
doing? Are you blossoming and expressing<br />
the gift of God planted in you? Are you<br />
achieving all that God has given you the<br />
ability to achieve? Do you sense growth in<br />
your personal life and dream? Are you reaping<br />
harvests in the field God has planted for you?<br />
God’s harvest is a ready one and He wants<br />
to bring it into our lives immediately. Until you<br />
search diligently you may not recognise the<br />
harvest God already has for you.<br />
Your breakthrough in life is in your field,<br />
not what works for somebody else. Your<br />
actualisation is tied to the discovery of the<br />
field of your dreams. Jesus said, “Lift up your<br />
eyes and look.”<br />
Say not ye, There are yet four months, and<br />
then cometh harvest? behold, I say unto you, Lift<br />
up your eyes, and look on the fields; for they are<br />
white already to harvest. John 4:35<br />
Until you find your field of dreams,<br />
happiness eludes you, the struggle continues<br />
and life is a continuous fight. The mandate<br />
for financial blessing is certainly that there is<br />
a divine field ready for your harvest. It is a<br />
matured harvest field waiting for you to put<br />
in the sickle. You must be ready to see that<br />
harvest with the eyes of God.<br />
Your chief quest is to know where God<br />
has planted His harvest for you. If you have<br />
the field of God’s planting you will have the<br />
blessing of Deuteronomy 28, not the curses.<br />
So I ask you again, is your present work the<br />
most fulfilling you could do?<br />
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Praying For The<br />
Presence & Power<br />
Of The Holy Spirit<br />
• Job 22:28, 37:23<br />
• Psalm 106:8<br />
• Isaiah 11:2, 45:11<br />
• Mark 10:27<br />
• Ephesians 3:20<br />
• 2 Corinthians 12:9<br />
• 2 Timothy 1:7<br />
2 Corinthians 10:3-5<br />
• Nahum 1:9<br />
• Jeremiah 32:17<br />
Mark 9:23<br />
• Proverbs 28:1<br />
• Ephesians 3:20<br />
Pray that as you pursue<br />
God’s will, His anointing will<br />
rest upon your life.<br />
Pray to receive the<br />
anointing of the Holy Spirit<br />
with signs and wonders<br />
following.<br />
Pray for the anointing power<br />
and presence of God to<br />
always be manifest in your<br />
life.<br />
Pray that you will proclaim<br />
God’s word such that His<br />
anointing and power will<br />
cause people to react to it.<br />
Thank God for the anointing<br />
which is key to you winning<br />
in life.<br />
Pray to receive the boldness<br />
of the Holy Ghost to enter<br />
territories and occupy them<br />
for God.<br />
Pray for the power and<br />
presence of the Holy Spirit<br />
to bring deliverance in every<br />
aspect of your life.<br />
Pray that the gifts of the<br />
Spirit will be manifest<br />
through your ministry in<br />
Jesus name.<br />
Pray for the anointing to<br />
preach the word of God<br />
with power and boldness.<br />
Pray for the power and<br />
presence of the Holy Spirit<br />
so that your ministry will<br />
change lives in Jesus name.<br />
Pray for the anointing of the<br />
Holy Spirit that will influence<br />
and change your prayer life<br />
for good.<br />
Ask the Lord to give you<br />
wisdom on how to build<br />
fellowship with the Holy<br />
Spirit.<br />
Pray that the Holy Spirit will<br />
release in your heart deep<br />
compassion about people in<br />
need.<br />
Pray for divine revelation to<br />
flow in you by reason of the<br />
Holy Spirit.<br />
Repent of every sin that<br />
breaks the circuit of power<br />
that the Holy Spirit brings.<br />
Thank God for the inner<br />
witness that the Holy Spirit<br />
gives you concerning whom<br />
you are in God.<br />
Pray to receive the<br />
anointing to bring healing<br />
and deliverance to the sick.<br />
Pray that at all times in your<br />
life and ministry God will<br />
confirm His word with signs<br />
and wonders.<br />
Confess daily that you will<br />
be the evidence of the<br />
power of God in action.<br />
Command every mountain<br />
of satanic confrontation to<br />
crumble in Jesus Name.<br />
Take authority over every<br />
lie of Satan and declare that<br />
God’s grace is sufficient for<br />
you.<br />
Confess that you will not fall<br />
but stand in the assembly<br />
of His people to declare His<br />
goodness.<br />
Come against every<br />
stronghold of the mind that<br />
wants you to walk in fear.<br />
Declare that every<br />
reoccurring cycle of problem<br />
has come to an end in your<br />
life.<br />
Confess that according to<br />
the Word of God, nothing<br />
shall be impossible, because<br />
you believe in Him.<br />
Pray for boldness and<br />
confidence in Him that will<br />
help you trust in Him.<br />
Thank God, because He will<br />
exceed every situation.<br />
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TRANSFORMING<br />
YOUR HEALTH<br />
When God created mankind, He<br />
commented on the fact that creation in<br />
its entirety was very good (Genesis 1:31).<br />
This implies that disease and ill health<br />
could not have been present in Adam and Eve at that<br />
stage. Disease, sickness and ill health entered the<br />
world because Adam and Eve disobeyed and sinned<br />
against God (Genesis 3).<br />
But now, in Christ Jesus, the regenerated believer is<br />
being transformed so that their health conforms to<br />
God’s original purpose (Romans 12:2), made possible<br />
by Christ’s restorative work of Salvation.<br />
illness that repeats itself from one generation to<br />
another. One must also recognise lifestyle associated<br />
illnesses and those that are race, culture, gender or<br />
age specific. Once a predisposition to an illness is<br />
recognised, action must be taken by applying God’s<br />
Word to the situation and seeking medical help.<br />
Just as medical doctors prescribe medication to be<br />
taken at certain times and frequency, so believers<br />
should self-administer healing scriptures several times<br />
a day. The good part of administering God’s Word for<br />
healing and divine health is that it has no known side<br />
effects.<br />
Transformation can only be achieved through a<br />
wholesome and three-pronged approach:<br />
THE SPIRITUAL APPROACH<br />
The approach helps one to gain spiritual insight. It<br />
involves searching the Bible for healing scriptures and<br />
allowing the Holy Spirit to illuminate the scriptures<br />
that promise divine health and healing.<br />
These scriptures (including Isaiah 53:3-5; Exodus15:26,<br />
Luke 5:12,3John1:2 and many more) must be<br />
memorised, believed, confessed and applied to the<br />
individual’s situation.<br />
THE INTELLECTUAL APPROACH<br />
Pattern recognition: Be quick to recognise the family<br />
THE PHYSICAL APPROACH<br />
God’s healing Word has been sent forth (Psalm 107:20);<br />
it is hovering and waiting for the believer to make a<br />
demand on it and take steps of faith until their healing<br />
is complete. In-addition to the above actions, lifestyle<br />
changes should be made to maintain good health.<br />
Practical Considerations for those with chronic illness<br />
Some may ask, how do I know when I have been<br />
healed if I don’t stop taking my medication? It is<br />
not advisable for individuals to stop taking their<br />
medication without consulting their doctor because of<br />
the risk that their condition may worsen.<br />
If God has healed, it will be evident to your doctors.<br />
For example, those healed of diabetes develop<br />
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persistently low sugar levels and their doctor usually<br />
has no option but to withdraw their medication. For<br />
those healed from mental health illness, doctors will<br />
gradually withdraw medication if they remain well and<br />
have no relapse after a number of years.<br />
This principle applies to several chronic conditions<br />
and it is important not to unilaterally stop medication<br />
without consulting your doctor.<br />
GENERAL HEALTH TIPS FOR LIVING WELL<br />
The average life expectancy in the UK is 79.4 years for<br />
men and 83.1 years for women. This is at variance with<br />
biblical life expectancy that was put at 120 years in<br />
Genesis 6: 3. There are very few people on earth today<br />
who live close to this age.<br />
Medical consensus will roughly put the factors that<br />
affect longevity as follows: genetics, environment,<br />
level of physical activity and a healthy diet. God<br />
suspended and amended some of these factors so<br />
that the Israelites, who were on the move for 40 years<br />
in the desert, had none feeble among them (Psalm<br />
105:37). The same God is still at work today and will<br />
fulfil the number of our days (Exodus 23:26). However,<br />
we also need to pursue healthy lifestyle choices in the<br />
following areas:<br />
CARDIOVASCULAR HEALTH<br />
People with a family history of heart attacks and<br />
strokes, should get themselves checked out sooner<br />
rather than later, especially if they occur before the<br />
age of 55. Everyone else should avail themselves of the<br />
free NHS health check for those aged between 40 and<br />
74 years.<br />
EXERCISE NUGGETS<br />
Everyone, irrespective of their age, must keep<br />
themselves active and moving. Spending long periods<br />
of time being inactive (watching television or being<br />
glued to a computer screen, smart phone or tablet) is<br />
detrimental to health.<br />
Adults aged 19 and older must do at least 150 minutes<br />
of moderate activity (cycling, brisk walking) and<br />
strength exercises (lifting weights, heavy gardening)<br />
on two or more days a week. Those who are much<br />
older, and frail should seek expert guidance about<br />
appropriate exercise regimes.<br />
10,000 STEPS A DAY The science behind this number<br />
is not firmed up yet and it is arbitrary. However, the<br />
preliminary guideline is for daily steps of between<br />
10,000 and 15,000 depending on age and gender.<br />
10,000 steps, walked mostly at brisk pace (quick<br />
enough to make one break out in a sweat), will count<br />
towards the recommended 150 minutes of aerobic<br />
exercise per week. Younger people should do more<br />
than this and include vigorous activity (a game of<br />
football, basketball etc) in their weekly exercise<br />
routine.<br />
Many who can’t exercise regularly, because of<br />
complicated and busy lives, should include walking<br />
in their daily routine as a way of increasing their level<br />
of physical activity. Examples of what they can do are:<br />
walking for part of the journey to work; getting off<br />
the bus or train a station early and walking the rest of<br />
the way; walking to the shops; using stairs instead of<br />
the lift; walking the children to school and going for a<br />
stroll with family or friends after dinner.<br />
DOES THE PERFECT DIET EXIST?<br />
Many people are still searching for this, but it has not<br />
been found yet. Several diets that exist are based on<br />
calorific restriction and only work for the period one<br />
is on them. Going back to unrestricted eating will lead<br />
to rebound weight gain. Anyone looking to achieve a<br />
healthy weight will have to embrace a diet plan that<br />
works for them and make other lifestyle changes<br />
that will help them burn more calories than they are<br />
eating. Any diet must contain the following elements<br />
to be successful: calorific restriction (smaller plate/<br />
portion size) and a good variety of food types, based on<br />
the eatwell plate guide.<br />
Intermittent fasting is on the rise as a way of dieting<br />
and the most popular method used is the five to two<br />
variants. This involves five days of normal eating and<br />
the two other days are spent fasting. On these days,<br />
calorific intake is reduced to 500 calories for women<br />
and 600 for men.<br />
In summary, do the practical and needful but believe<br />
God for divine health and healing. The healing power<br />
of God is real and active today, no matter what the<br />
health condition is. God needs our health to be<br />
transformed so we can carry out the great commission<br />
and fulfil His purpose for us on earth.<br />
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NOT CONFORMED BUT<br />
TRANSFORMED<br />
The motto of the KICC Singles<br />
Ministry to ‘know no man after the<br />
flesh but after the spirit’ recognises<br />
that things are not always as they<br />
appear. It reminds us to aspire to get to know<br />
the real person underneath what we see<br />
or experience of other peoples behaviour,<br />
character, or appearance.<br />
Theme for this year’s IGOC has great<br />
significance for every single person pursuing<br />
true friendships and a lasting relationship<br />
with a future spouse.<br />
In Philippians 4:8, Paul admonishes us to<br />
think about things that are true, honest, just,<br />
pure, lovely, of good report, full of virtue<br />
and praiseworthy. The best relationships are<br />
developed when we commit to cultivating a<br />
positive mind-set.<br />
CONFORMING<br />
As we live in an age where there is prolific<br />
reporting of evil happenings with some<br />
businesses thriving on so called ‘fake news’; it<br />
can be challenging for people who try to have<br />
a positive frame of reference. Hence, people<br />
readily conform to the existing norms.<br />
Conformation is agreeing with the status<br />
quo, whether it is good or bad. It is accepting<br />
the norm without positively questioning or<br />
challenging it.<br />
This gives birth to stagnancy and can be<br />
a trap of the enemy. Conformation can<br />
also manifest as living perpetually in one’s<br />
comfort zone, redundancy, inflexibility and a<br />
failure to embrace progressive thinking.<br />
TRANSFORMATION<br />
In contrast, transformation is dynamic<br />
and speaks of good change. The road to<br />
transformation is a renewed mind. In<br />
Romans 12 Paul pleads with believers that<br />
each one should present themselves a living<br />
sacrifice; not conformed to this world but<br />
rather transformed by the renewing of<br />
their minds. This order of affairs is crucial<br />
for anyone who desires to go from hope to<br />
actualisation. A renewed mind is necessary<br />
for healthy relationships as it has built into its<br />
fabric trust, hope, love and a genuine quality<br />
of being naked and unashamed.<br />
A renewed mind seeks to see things through<br />
God’s own eyes, whilst a conformed mind<br />
judges based on the outward appearance.<br />
If God opens your eyes to see a person’s<br />
potential, you can become part of the process<br />
of turning a stone with rough edges into a<br />
diamond. Investing in others in this way also<br />
transforms us and makes us more like our<br />
Father, the greatest Investor of all times.<br />
As far as relationships are concerned, a<br />
renewed mind is not focused on people’s past<br />
and does not define others based on their past<br />
failures, insufficiencies or current difficulties.<br />
When individuals lean on their natural<br />
senses and conform to societal expectations,<br />
peer or parental pressure, they can make<br />
wrong judgements and miss out on the best<br />
opportunities and friendships. Love dictates<br />
that we must give people a chance.<br />
Paul’s portrayal of the process for<br />
transformation in 2 Corinthians 3:18 (AMP)<br />
highlights that that it should be continual and<br />
progressive, a sort of continuous personal<br />
development.<br />
As we fill our minds with God’s word, we<br />
behold Christ as in a mirror; His image rubs<br />
off on us and we become more like him in the<br />
way we think and live. Real change starts on<br />
the inside and works its way out. Whilst we<br />
acknowledge that true transformation is by<br />
His spirit, we know that it comes at a cost to<br />
the individual and not by wishful thinking.<br />
To be transformed and not conformed, it will<br />
take<br />
• Turning to God<br />
• Relinquishing self-will as a living<br />
sacrifice<br />
• Accepting Gods order and embracing<br />
• New ways of thinking with a definite<br />
• Shift to seeing others through Gods eyes<br />
and a fervent pursuit of good change<br />
irrespective of the opportunity cost<br />
• Remodelling our frames of reference to<br />
align with godly values and welcoming<br />
• Metamorphosis as we understand that<br />
transformation must be from glory to<br />
glory.<br />
With a transformed mind, each individual<br />
can become a pacesetter equipped with the<br />
best tool kit for successful relationships.<br />
Dr. Nkiru Asiegbunam<br />
Head of KICC Singles Ministry<br />
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TRANSFORMING<br />
YOUR CAREER<br />
What we achieve, what<br />
we aspire to achieve<br />
and what we settle<br />
for in life, starts in<br />
our minds. Your mindset can either<br />
be a springboard to help maximise<br />
your potential, or it can hinder your<br />
progress. The analogy of a cup being<br />
half empty or full epitomises how<br />
people approach situations.<br />
A positive mindset looks at possibilities<br />
and constantly sees opportunities to<br />
increase capacity, while a negative<br />
mindset focuses on the void and often<br />
looks for excuses or seeks to blame<br />
others for the void. It is important we<br />
adopt a positive mindset in order to<br />
transform our careers and future proof<br />
them against the storms of life.<br />
Here are 5 steps to apply to aid the<br />
transformation of your career.<br />
STEP 1 – Devise a career development<br />
plan: Plans are not limited to<br />
businesses, we need to appreciate the<br />
need to plan for a successful career.<br />
If you fail to steer your career in the<br />
direction you choose, its course is<br />
likely to be determined by others.<br />
Always start with the end in mind<br />
and work backward. Identify what<br />
it is that you want to accomplish and<br />
where you want to be in 5 or 10 years<br />
time. Whether it is running your own<br />
business or getting to the top of the<br />
ladder in your sector, it won’t happen<br />
accidentally. You need to plan. Effective<br />
planning is quite simply about setting<br />
goals which need to be SMART.<br />
The S in the mnemonic stands for<br />
specific; you need to be able to define<br />
your goal.<br />
M is measurable you cannot manage<br />
a goal that can’t be measured as this<br />
will enable you to know when it is<br />
accomplished.<br />
The A means the goal must also<br />
be Achievable whilst it should be<br />
stretching it must be something that<br />
you personally can attain. It must also<br />
be Realistic and relevant to your future<br />
ambitions. Lastly, an effective goal<br />
must have a Timeframe attached to<br />
it. You should set short, medium and<br />
long-term goals. Your plan should be<br />
written down, pass the SMART test and<br />
be reviewed regularly. Achieving shortterm<br />
goals will spur you on to achieve<br />
the medium and longer-term goals.<br />
Don’t wait until the New Year to map<br />
your career goals!<br />
STEP 2 - Identify your strengths and<br />
address your weaknesses: Businesses<br />
analyse their internal environment<br />
by determining their strengths and<br />
weaknesses. Individuals also need to<br />
be fully aware of these. A strength can<br />
be anything you do exceptionally well<br />
either because it is innate and a natural<br />
gifting or because it is something you<br />
have worked hard to achieve. In short,<br />
your strength should make you stand<br />
out from the crowd.<br />
There should not be a mismatch<br />
between your strengths and your career<br />
goals. Your passion is demonstrated in<br />
something you would be willing to do<br />
if money weren’t an issue, something<br />
you can never tire of that puts a smile<br />
on your face.<br />
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Employers look for passion and strengths on your CV and are<br />
increasingly conducting strength-based interviews in order<br />
to establish what motivates you and what you are good at.<br />
You should keep a log of major accomplishments and<br />
ensure your CV is updated regularly, at least once a year.<br />
Weaknesses are evident in the things you struggle with, or<br />
only do because you have to. Unfortunately, many people are<br />
blind to their weaknesses, but they are things that need to be<br />
addressed in order to turn them into strengths.<br />
A good appraisal review should highlight weaknesses and a<br />
trusted friend can also point these out to you. However, you<br />
need to be receptive to receiving constructive feedback.<br />
STEP 3 - Identify gaps and barriers and address them:<br />
Many of us have dreams, unfortunately for many people<br />
aspirations don’t become actualised because they fail to plan<br />
and address the obstacles preventing them from realising<br />
their goals. Anything preventing your success is a barrier<br />
and needs to be removed. Many job seekers see a lack of<br />
work experience as a barrier.<br />
Where you lack direct experience use transferable skills<br />
which can be drawn from a range of sources such as<br />
hobbies, work experience, your education and home life.<br />
You don’t have to have worked as a manager to demonstrate<br />
leadership skills. Leadership skills can come from activities<br />
at College, managing your siblings, or being a carer for a<br />
relative. The same applies to budgeting skills. A great source<br />
of experience for those in work is taking on responsibilities<br />
beyond the remit of the job description; managing projects<br />
can help plug the gaps in your experience.<br />
a world of rapid change, it is predicted that 65% of jobs that<br />
Generation Z will perform don’t yet exist.<br />
Be aware of the impact of technology on your chosen<br />
profession and learn how to exploit it.<br />
Consider jobs that artificial intelligence will produce not<br />
displace, review the PEST analysis for your sector. The PEST<br />
tool analyses the political, economic, socio-cultural and<br />
technological changes in your sector. Core and professional<br />
competencies are as important as technical skills, so ensure<br />
you can demonstrate that you possess them examples<br />
include leadership, communication, resilience and problemsolving<br />
skills, which are transferable across sectors. Think<br />
globally and consider learning a new language. Given that in<br />
the year 2020 four generations will be working side by side<br />
(baby boomers, generation X, Y, and Z) it will be imperative,<br />
irrespective of age, for those in work to ensure their skills are<br />
current, relevant and economically valuable.<br />
STEP 5 - Build your professional network and develop your<br />
brand. Ensure your network is wide-ranging and includes<br />
strategic networks, that is people with significant influence<br />
and positioning in their fields, operational networks<br />
comprising of people you work with and social networks<br />
of peers and friends. Include mentors or coaches in your<br />
network.<br />
Ensure your networks are diverse in all aspects of their skills,<br />
backgrounds, and influence. Rebrand yourself. Restaurants<br />
and many other local businesses are very keen to draw our<br />
attention to the fact that they are under new management by<br />
doing so they raise our expectations and make us feel that we<br />
will experience something new and better.<br />
Volunteering is a great example of acquiring employability<br />
skills as it demonstrates determination and motivation.<br />
Consider an apprenticeship where you are employed by an<br />
organisation who pay you a salary and cover all training<br />
fees (including degrees) these are open to young people and<br />
adults.<br />
STEP 4 - Constantly update your skills. Take every opportunity<br />
to continue your professional development. Increase<br />
your net worth by exploiting training and development<br />
opportunities at work or invest in your own training and<br />
development. Don’t wait until you are asked to leave work<br />
to retrain. Employers are increasingly looking for staff that<br />
have the capacity to learn new skills “learnability”. We live in<br />
It is never too late for us to refresh our approach. Make sure<br />
you are the go-to person for things to be done at work. Be<br />
consistent, reliable and loyal not the first out of the door<br />
when the clock strikes 5. Have an impeccable work ethic, at<br />
all times. Give your CV a makeover and have someone look<br />
over it. Many people are much better at selling themselves<br />
verbally than they are in writing, not realising that a CV<br />
creates the first impression.<br />
By Teresa Esan, Head of the Career Counselling Department.<br />
For further advice on how to transform your career, improve<br />
your CV or identify your strengths and possible career<br />
options contact KICC’s Career counselling department:<br />
career_counselling@kicc.org.uk<br />
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