OCTOBER

WELL-BEING
Thirty Years Before
Mindfulness…
Finding Focus through Tactile Sensations
BY SAMANTHA BEDERMAN WELLNESS CONTRIBUTOR
F
rom the time I was very little, my uncle used to always applaud
how tactile I was. Everything, for me, was about how it felt, or
how it made me feel. Every little thing…from the tags in my clothes
to the finest seeds in my foods, these sensations had the power to
ignite feelings of lightning bolts shooting through my nervous system.
When my son was born, I noticed this infant seemed hypersensitive
to every kind of stimulus around him - from puppy murmurs to the
hum of the lights. This complex and overactive ‘sensitive’ gene had
been duplicated, and it was at that moment that I knew why this child
found me.
Being perceptible to touch is really about a communication signal.
Animals communicate using signals, which can include stimuli
that are visual, auditory, chemical, and tactile. Communication
behaviours can help animals find mates, establish dominance,
defend territory, coordinate group behaviour, and care for young.
As humans, if we can tap into this kind of awareness, we are more
capable of making transformative change occur. Eugene Gendlin, a
well-known psychotherapist during the ‘50s, called this “felt sense”:
When your body knows more about situations than you are explicitly
aware of, and the body picks up more about another person than you
consciously know. The sensations, and all the ‘feels’ you have, are part
of an internal dialogue that your body and mind are having.
So, from a yogic perspective, how do we train our ‘monkey minds’
to stay focused long enough to identify a felt sense, so ultimately, we
can create a felt shift? On average, people experience about 70,000
SAMANTHA BEDERMAN is a Certified Yoga Instructor and Iyengar trained. Sam uses Yoga to assist with healing from injury, surgery, as well as managing chronic
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thoughts a day. Practising Dhāraṇā, might just be the key...the practice
of Concentration (Dhāraṇā) teaches us to ‘zoom in,’ so we’re able to
focus on one thing alone. Much like any network, Dhāraṇā needs its
sidekick, Drishti, to be successful. Your (Drishti) Gaze is one point
of focus, a non-moving point in front of you that is your sole focus
when practising your yoga poses. This Drishti will not only aid in your
postural alignment, but will support your mind’s ability to concentrate.
Drishti is the yin to Dhāraṇā’s yang, for both asana and meditation.
Simply put, Dhāraṇā means to concentrate without interruption from
internal or external disruptions. This is helpful in an asana practice
because without Drishti and Dhāraṇā, the mind chatter runs wild
(What did she just say? My muscles are starting to shake. When can we
release? Boy, it’s getting hot in here! Remember to pick up milk on the way
home. Hmm, wonder when I will be able to walk the dog. Did I fold the clothes
in the dryer?). Seriously, I’ve been there!
Finding your Drishti in each pose will guide you towards deepening
your posture by virtue of your focus and concentration. This will allow
you to zero in on the meditation in action, and the transformative
changes will be on your horizon. Your deepened sensations will now
guide your journey to a place where more focus is attainable, and your
yoga becomes the medicine for the unsettling and restlessness of the
mind. Namaste
“The brain is the hardest part of the body
to adjust in asanas.” B.K.S. Iyengar