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INTERACTING WITH FAMILY & FRIENDS MIGHT DO THE TRICK<br />

By Mellonie Page<br />

Mellonie Page has a BA Honours in Performing Arts. A Singer, Writer, Performing Artist and Mental Wealth<br />

Workshop Facilitator. She organises singing classes where participants are also thought good mental<br />

health boosting exercises.<br />

One of the problems a decline in Mental<br />

Health can bring is isolation. The last<br />

thing you may feel like doing is going<br />

anywhere. Closing the curtains,<br />

wrapping up and going to bed is often<br />

more appealing. Some people cut<br />

themselves off from friends and family<br />

for months on end which can be<br />

damaging to relationships. It can be<br />

very difficult to carry out basic day to<br />

day tasks whilst feeling under a cloud<br />

of depression or other mental illness.<br />

Going out, even to the local shops at<br />

first can help your mental state to<br />

improve and give you the courage to<br />

venture out further.<br />

You don’t need lots of money to get<br />

yourself out there. You could meet<br />

someone at a cafe, library or park.<br />

Going to the cinema can help a great<br />

deal, because it can be entertaining but<br />

you don’t have to worry too much<br />

about having a lot to say, if you aren’t<br />

feeling very talkative.<br />

Group activities could be beneficial.<br />

Self help groups and church can prove<br />

to be supportive.<br />

“Interacting with others boosts<br />

feelings of well-being and decreases<br />

feelings of depression. Research has<br />

shown that one sure way of improving<br />

your mood is to work on building<br />

social connections. You may even<br />

lower your risk of dementia.” 30 Jun<br />

2016 Psychology Today.<br />

Social interaction reduces stress and<br />

builds trust. Oxytocin and dopamine<br />

levels rise when time is spent with<br />

friends and family.<br />

Oxytocin is sometimes known as the<br />

"cuddle hormone" or the "love<br />

hormone," because it is released<br />

when people snuggle up or bond<br />

socially.<br />

Dopamine is released at pleasurable<br />

moments, when eating food you<br />

enjoy, doing things you love and in<br />

company you enjoy.<br />

Spending money on experiences<br />

instead of material things, brings us<br />

more joy.<br />

Community and voluntary work will<br />

give you new skills and new friends.<br />

THE MHMUK MAGAZINE | 21

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