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Seedling Magazine Issue #3 - Feb | March 2019

Free vegan lifestyle magazine which also covers sustainability, spirituality and more. This issue: In our cover story, we find out how one family is 'homeschooling' their children whilst travelling the world. We have some tips on living sustainably when money is tight, and thoughts about how to form healthy new habits which last. Our talented recipe contributors have created delicious dishes like a sticky toffee pudding cake with chocolate whiskey sauce. And we have some thoughts on encouraging your partner to adopt a vegan lifestyle without putting them off, as well as some advice on dealing with food cravings from a registered nurse. Enjoy!

Free vegan lifestyle magazine which also covers sustainability, spirituality and more. This issue:
In our cover story, we find out how one family is 'homeschooling' their children whilst travelling the world. We have some tips on living sustainably
when money is tight, and thoughts about how to form healthy new habits which last. Our talented recipe contributors have created delicious dishes
like a sticky toffee pudding cake with chocolate whiskey sauce. And we have some thoughts on encouraging your partner to adopt a vegan lifestyle
without putting them off, as well as some advice on dealing with food cravings from a registered nurse. Enjoy!

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ISSUE #2 | DEC/JAN 2018-19<br />

art as<br />

activism<br />

The<br />

LiberationArts<br />

festival <strong>2019</strong><br />

encouraging<br />

your<br />

partner to<br />

go vegan<br />

what meat<br />

cravings<br />

really mean<br />

worldschooling<br />

travelling full‐time with<br />

young children<br />

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you're in for a real treat thanks to our amazing<br />

contributors.<br />

In our cover story, we find out how one family is<br />

'homeschooling' their children whilst travelling the<br />

world. We have some tips on living sustainably<br />

when money is tight, and thoughts about how to<br />

form healthy new habits which last. Our talented<br />

recipe contributors have created delicious dishes<br />

like a sticky toffee pudding cake with chocolate<br />

whiskey sauce. And we have some thoughts on<br />

encouraging your partner to adopt a vegan lifestyle<br />

without putting them off, as well as some advice on<br />

dealing with food cravings from a registered nurse.<br />

Enjoy, and be sure to let us know what you thought<br />

of the issue!<br />

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mind<br />

8.......encouraging your partner to go vegan<br />

20......alternative education and long-term<br />

travel with kids<br />

body<br />

27......yummy vegan recipes<br />

34......why you should try these two<br />

odd-looking veggies!<br />

38.......what meat cravings really mean<br />

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soul<br />

10......making new habits: the yoga and<br />

meditation challenge<br />

44.......thoughts about...forgiveness<br />

planet<br />

16......sustainable living on a budget<br />

42......beautiful planet - nature photos<br />

48.......how to use a menstrual cup: a comprehensive guide<br />

beings<br />

12......art as activism: the liberationarts festival<br />

24......why it's okay to be vegan and miss eggs<br />

36......vegan paint: what you need to know if<br />

you're redecorating<br />

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Encouraging Your<br />

Partner To<br />

Go Vegan<br />

by Katy Malkin<br />

Living in a mixed­diet household can be tricky to navigate.<br />

Indeed, we have what I like to call a ‘tri­diet’ in our<br />

household – with an omnivorous husband, vegetarian<br />

daughter, and a vegan (myself).<br />

I’m now an expert at cooking multiple dishes at once and<br />

writing strategic shopping lists. We make it work, but it’s<br />

not ideal. I dislike the smell of meat in the house, meals<br />

take longer to make and our 3­year­old asks a lot of<br />

awkward questions about why Daddy eats fish.<br />

Something that has made things a lot easier recently is my<br />

husband taking part in Veganuary. Not having any meat in<br />

the house for the last three weeks has been a blessing.<br />

What was it like? He said, “I thought going vegan for a<br />

month would be really difficult. There have been times<br />

when I’ve had to be more conscious of my decisions, such<br />

as buying beer or picking meals when eating out. But I’ve<br />

also been lucky that I don’t have to do the majority of the<br />

cooking and have great meals provided. What I’ve found is<br />

that I haven’t missed eating meat. The ‘conscious’ decisions<br />

have started to become more natural as the month has<br />

progressed. I’ve had to deal with some peer pressure and<br />

‘the questions’ around veganism, but I feel better in my<br />

body and healthier. I’m not sure yet if I would convert to<br />

veganism, but who knows!”<br />

So how can you encourage your partner to take a step in the<br />

right direction? Here are six top tips that worked for us!<br />

Don’t be a nag<br />

Does nagging really work for anybody in the long term?<br />

You might get your significant other to give the vegan<br />

lifestyle a try, but they will be doing it half­heartedly and<br />

for the wrong reasons, and more than likely give up.<br />

Launching into a speech about animal cruelty whilst they<br />

are biting into a chicken burger only inspires guilt and<br />

conflict, not change. Instead, try educating and informing.<br />

Ask if they’ll watch a vegan documentary with you (we’re<br />

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going to give What The Health a try soon!). Share the<br />

benefits of a vegan lifestyle, rather than the pitfalls of an<br />

omnivorous one.<br />

Lead by example<br />

When a lifestyle seems attractive, others will be drawn<br />

towards it. It sounds obvious, but many people’s actions<br />

don’t match up. Veganism should be a positive act, all<br />

about adding fun things to your diet and having a great<br />

impact on the world. Moaning about the lack of options at a<br />

restaurant, or how you miss Brie, simply makes a plantpowered<br />

life look like a chore.<br />

Show that you feel healthier and happier, and are excited to<br />

try the new vegan steak that’s being released in your local<br />

store – that gets people sitting up, taking notice, and joining<br />

in.<br />

Appeal to their preferences<br />

What’s your partner’s favourite food? If they hate tofu,<br />

don’t try to win them over with tofu scramble for breakfast.<br />

Big pizza fan? Go out and buy the best vegan mozzarella<br />

you can find. If they’re a gym junkie, buy sample sachets<br />

of vegan protein powders for them to try out. Greet them<br />

with a cruelty­free shake after their workout. Dating an<br />

animal lover? Visit a farm sanctuary together. My husband<br />

loves carb­filled fast food (he balances it out by trying to be<br />

healthy), so I’ll often make him a hot and spicy ‘chicken’<br />

burger with all the trimmings and sweet potato fries.<br />

Currently his favourite meal is really simple ­ vegan kebab<br />

meat and salad in wraps. Yum!<br />

Integrate them into the vegan<br />

community<br />

Most local areas have social meets of some kind – just<br />

check Facebook or Google. Vegan foodie nights, cooking<br />

classes, festivals and fairs ­ they can all be a really fun way<br />

of meeting other like­minded people. Plus, they show your<br />

partner how many of us there are out there, which<br />

normalises the plant­based lifestyle and prevents isolation.<br />

It also means you can pick foods together, take them home<br />

and enjoy making a meal from them as a couple.<br />

Check in with them<br />

What concerns your significant other about going vegan?<br />

Have an honest chat with them. They may be worried about<br />

what others will think, how awkward eating out will be, or<br />

getting the right nutrients. The worst thing we can do is<br />

scoff or roll our eyes – it’s demotivating. But we can talk<br />

through their fears with them. Show gratitude for what they<br />

are doing and tell them you’ve noticed and are proud,<br />

regardless of whether they are perfect or not.<br />

Be patient and provide them with the tools they need to<br />

make a change. Veganism is all about compassion, and this<br />

extends to our loved ones too.<br />

Ask for what you want!<br />

Have a heart­to­heart and explain why this is so important<br />

to you. Pick a good time – when you’re both relaxed and<br />

feeling happy. But don’t be disheartened if they don’t feel<br />

the same way – we all have different outlooks and<br />

boundaries. At the very least, your honesty will plant a seed<br />

for the future, and may even inspire a change in the right<br />

direction. The last thing you want is for your discussion to<br />

turn into an argument or nagging (see step 1!). Each person<br />

must develop on their terms, in their own timeframe.<br />

Most of us were not born vegan ­ we had a unique journey<br />

through life that led us to veganism. I’ve been vegan for six<br />

years, and have slowly seen my spouse’s eating habits<br />

change. Enjoy that journey and learn together, regardless of<br />

the twists and turns it may take. You never know, maybe<br />

someday your partner will sign up to Veganuary too!<br />

About the writer<br />

Katy Malkin is a writer, whole foods enthusiast,<br />

and the creator of Learner Vegan. She is<br />

passionate about making veganism accessible for<br />

all. Find her website here.<br />

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Making new habits:<br />

the yoga and meditation<br />

challenge<br />

by Hannah Parry<br />

I’m a pretty energetic kind of person. I like to maximise the<br />

potential of every day by cramming in as many activities as I<br />

can. And I love goal­setting, setting myself bigger and bigger<br />

projects to work towards, from marathons to completing longdistance<br />

paths, mountain climbing...you name it! However, I<br />

find it hard to switch off and take time out, which sometimes<br />

results in burnout when my fitness goals and work schedule<br />

are too much. So this year, I want to create the new habit of<br />

finding some quiet time every day. There is more and more<br />

research pointing out how connected we are all the time and<br />

how much time we spend staring at screens of various kinds.<br />

Both these things mean that I often have thoughts whizzing<br />

round my head when I’m trying to fall asleep. So here’s how<br />

I’m going about creating my new habit of mindfulness every<br />

day.<br />

Starting small<br />

Committing to an hour of yoga every day isn’t going to work<br />

­ what with work, blog writing, running and other hobbies, I<br />

can’t spare that much time. So I’m committing to 10 minutes<br />

a day. I can do that. Anyone can do that.<br />

Have a visual tracker<br />

You can search for and download some really lovely habit<br />

trackers. You’re encouraged to colour in the squares in<br />

beautiful rainbow colours ­ creating an ever more intricate<br />

pattern as your habit grows. I found a scrap of paper and drew<br />

some boxes on it with a biro. Scruffy ticks in wonky boxes<br />

work just as well as emerging artworks ­ pick what works for<br />

you.<br />

Create accountability<br />

Tell your friends and family what you’re doing (or write an<br />

article about it…). Telling people will help you stick to your<br />

new habit ­ people may even want to join you in your<br />

challenge, and then you’ll have to stick to it so as not to let<br />

your friend down.<br />

Seek out resources<br />

There are sooooo many resources on the big wide Web. From<br />

the Headspace app to yoga on YouTube, there is something<br />

for everyone. My personal favoutite internet choice is Yoga<br />

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with Adriene. Not only is she charismatic and approachable,<br />

but she has a video for every type of person and whatever<br />

mood you are in. Her 15 minute Sun Salutations video is<br />

great, as are her 7 minute Bedtime Yoga and 5 minute<br />

Morning Yoga practices. Of course, there are also longer<br />

videos for proper yoga practices ­ check out her 30­day<br />

programmes too.<br />

Make a routine<br />

Once your new habit is becoming routine, you can make it<br />

more ambitious, perhaps by committing more time to it or<br />

increasing the number of pushups (or whatever it is). Be<br />

happy and have fun, as well as enjoying a little more<br />

mindfulness each day. Good luck! SM<br />

I have decided to have my quiet time in the evening, just<br />

before going to bed. But if your new habit is something else,<br />

then try first thing in the morning. That would be a great time<br />

to do a pushup challenge or something more physical.<br />

Set a limit<br />

It’s fairly daunting to say that you HAVE to do this new habit<br />

FOREVER! Decide on a length of time to make it more<br />

manageable. 30 days is challenging but achievable. Studies<br />

show that it takes a minimum of 18 days to form a new habit.<br />

Don’t worry if you miss a day<br />

Yes, the idea is to commit to your habit every day. But if<br />

something happens which means you miss a day, then don’t<br />

beat yourself up. Why not colour that day differently and<br />

move on? If this happens too often then maybe make the habit<br />

easier, or maybe it’s just not important enough and you need<br />

to pick something else. It can also be a good idea to give<br />

yourself a reward for completion.<br />

Keep it simple<br />

I spend enough time staring at screens all day, so I’ve come<br />

up with my own meditation practice which doesn’t involve<br />

waiting for YouTube to load. I set a 10 minute timer on my<br />

phone (ok, so that involves looking at a screen ­ maybe I<br />

should get an old­fashioned hourglass that you turn over), get<br />

comfy and visualise a mantra. Something along the lines of:<br />

About the writer<br />

I am breathing in, I am breathing out (Thich Nhat Hanh)<br />

Om mani padme hum (a sacred chant from Tibetan Buddism)<br />

All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of thing<br />

shall be well<br />

(Julian of Norwich, a 13th century Christian mystic)<br />

When she can sit still long enough, Hannah the<br />

Traveller is a writer and blogger. The rest of the<br />

time, she’s running or hiking or cooking up<br />

vegan feasts somewhere in the world ­ or playing<br />

the organ! Find out more at<br />

www.hannahparry.co.uk/hannah­the­traveller.<br />

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art as<br />

activism<br />

How the LiberationArts festival is creating change for animals<br />

LiberationArts is an organisation on a mission ­ to create<br />

change for animals through the medium of art. After its<br />

successful Behind Closed Doors exhibition in London in<br />

2017, it's taking things up a notch with a 3­day vegan<br />

festival. This time, it will be held in the vegan hub of<br />

Bristol in the south west of England, from <strong>Feb</strong>ruary 9th to<br />

the 11th <strong>2019</strong>.<br />

impact of their dietary and lifestyle choices.“We believe<br />

that art is such a special form of activism, because it can get<br />

away with being quite hard­hitting whilst also allowing a<br />

safe environment for people to contemplate,” says founder<br />

Aisha Eveleigh.<br />

The venue is Paintworks, a former industrial site converted<br />

into an impressive event space. Pieces by a range of vegan<br />

artists in a variety of media will be present on all 3 days.<br />

Days 1 and 3 will feature screenings of vegan films. Day 2<br />

will be packed with activities ­ workshops where visitors<br />

can make their own vegan­themed badges and tote bags,<br />

talks by vegan advocates from all walks of life, and stalls<br />

selling everything from vegan food to clothes to artwork.<br />

Local animal rights charities and activist groups will also<br />

have stalls with information about what they do.<br />

For founder Aisha Eveleigh, art has always been a form of<br />

activism. An artist herself, her own work is all focused on<br />

vegan issues ­ whether it relates to animal rights, the<br />

environment, health or human rights. She makes ceramics<br />

and textiles with hard­hitting messages.<br />

Though the LiberationArts festival is themed around animal<br />

rights, vegans are not necessarily the target audience. The<br />

LiberationArts team hopes to attract non­vegans to the<br />

event, with the aim of encouraging them to consider the<br />

A key feature of the festival is that it's supposed to be fun!<br />

Many forms of activism, such as demos, can put nonvegans<br />

on the defensive. But the festival will expose<br />

visitors to new information in a way that is both nonthreatening<br />

and engaging.<br />

Aisha Eveleigh<br />

Best of all, entry to the event will be free to convince as<br />

many people as possible to come along!<br />

Visit the LiberationArts website for the lineup and more<br />

information. SM<br />

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Sustainable Living<br />

on a budget<br />

by mary imgrund<br />

Living ethically and sustainably is a privilege, in that not<br />

every household has the means or time to live according to<br />

their values; that being said, the idea that you can buy your<br />

way out of waste is a marketing ploy by companies who just<br />

want your well­meaning dollars. It’s an oxymoron that you<br />

can buy more things to reduce human waste, and frankly the<br />

tenets of capitalism and collectivist action are often at odds.<br />

It’s hard to wade through all of these sponsored posts,<br />

aspirational blogs, and lifestyle gurus to find out what works<br />

for you on your budget. It’s also easy to be discouraged.<br />

Personally, I began my journey towards sustainable and<br />

ethical living through my insatiable appetite for politics and<br />

environmental justice (though I didn’t call it that at the<br />

time). Being an activist isn’t just about reading the news or<br />

tweeting, so I began changing my lifestyle to better reflect<br />

my values. I did it through both undergrad and graduate<br />

school, and for a lot of that time, I had next to no money.<br />

Here’s my advice on how to do the same, no matter your<br />

budget.<br />

1. The Perfect is the Enemy of<br />

the Good<br />

The first and most important thing in this journey is to<br />

realize that no one is perfect, and just making an effort to<br />

stay informed and be an advocate, in any capacity, is the end<br />

goal. The destination is the journey.<br />

Don’t feel bad if you need new work shoes or want to buy<br />

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something frivolous or order delivery once in a while. The<br />

bulk of the blame for pollution and human exploitation lies<br />

at the feet of the companies that make that choice. We need<br />

policy change in both the private and public sector, and<br />

living sustainably is your way of doing what you can today.<br />

You don’t need to do everything at once, and you don’t<br />

need to hold yourself to ridiculous standards. That just sets<br />

you up for for failure.<br />

2. Sustainable Eating<br />

The kitchen is one of the most wasteful rooms of your<br />

house, or corners of your dorm. Everything is packaged and<br />

a lot of foods have either a high carbon footprint (meat) or<br />

cause social harm (quinoa). Whilst I don’t advise you to try<br />

to photosynthesize instead, you can make a few very small<br />

changes to have a drastic impact. For food, you want to<br />

avoid things packaged in plastic ­ and yes, that<br />

unfortunately includes vegan meat alternatives. You can<br />

DIY many alternatives, like oat milk, which end up being<br />

cheaper per pound than what you can get at the grocery<br />

store anyway. It’s also not necessary to eat organic food, but<br />

you can still try to avoid the “dirty dozen”.<br />

The rest of your kitchen likely generates waste as well.<br />

Simple replacements can make a huge impact. For<br />

containers, vintage stores are your friend. You can find<br />

glassware to store your veggies in to make them last longer,<br />

which will be cheap, more easily recyclable than plastic,<br />

and look beautiful. Why buy a pack of mason jars on<br />

Amazon when you could find dozens for next to nothing at<br />

the thrift store?<br />

Finally, if you meal prep and make your lunches for work<br />

over the weekend, you won’t need to (or have an excuse to)<br />

eat out at the office. These small expenses add up over the<br />

weeks, and by avoiding eating out, you’ll be healthier, save<br />

money, and live more sustainably. Just make sure you use<br />

your reusable containers (which you can get at the thrift<br />

store).<br />

3. Invest, Patch, and Thrift<br />

Think of your clothes, no matter how much you paid for<br />

them, as an investment. If you can’t afford expensive<br />

ethically­made clothing, that’s ok! These brands (at least<br />

the honest ones that aren’t upcharging to pay for<br />

Patched jeans<br />

advertisements) pay more for their materials and labor, so<br />

their pieces are simply worth more. That doesn’t mean that<br />

you should treat fast fashion as fast fashion if that’s what<br />

you can afford. Learn to patch your clothes, and don’t wash<br />

them unless they’re actually dirty. You shouldn’t wash your<br />

hair every day, so imagine what happens to your clothes<br />

when you wash them harshly after every wear.<br />

Besides treating your clothes with care, when they do rip or<br />

become damaged, find ways to fix or repurpose them.<br />

Patching and altering clothes extends their life and can<br />

often make them look more stylish. Patched elbows can<br />

look posh, and there are myriad methods of mending holes<br />

artfully, like darning or embroidery. If you do need new<br />

clothes, check your local thrift store.<br />

Admittedly, if you live in a rural or suburban area, you<br />

might not find such stylish clothes as you’d find in an urban<br />

area, but the great thing about thrift stores is that their<br />

offerings are always shifting. Thrifting supports a circular<br />

economy that continues to give purpose to the goods we’ve<br />

already made, which preserves more materials and creates<br />

less waste even than recycling.<br />

4. A Sustainable Home<br />

Home renovations are incredibly expensive. I recently<br />

walked into a home renovations store to price cabinets and<br />

walked right back out when the first I saw was $1,000. If<br />

you can afford to pay an artisan to make handmade items,<br />

absolutely do so. My boyfriend makes tables and other<br />

wooden goods from all salvaged materials, and his clients<br />

actually help keep wood from being discarded, but not<br />

everyone has that privilege.<br />

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"sustainability<br />

can be messy,<br />

imperfect and<br />

mundane. and<br />

that's ok!"<br />

An upcycled dressing table<br />

Instead of buying new, you can upcycle or refurbish old<br />

discarded pieces. It will take time, but stripping ugly paint<br />

from otherwise well­made furniture is an easy process. To<br />

select well­made goods, look for real wood rather than<br />

particle board, which is just made from wood scraps and<br />

glue. The corners will also reveal its quality ­ look for<br />

furniture that meets at a joint, where the wood is cut to fit<br />

together rather than glued or bolted at a right angle. It’s<br />

amazing how some paint (or lack thereof), new hardware,<br />

or new legs can totally transform a piece of furniture. If you<br />

learn what to look for, you can find the perfect base for a<br />

gorgeous home sitting at the roadside.<br />

5. Just... Buy Fewer Things<br />

This isn’t about suffering. It’s about the freedom that comes<br />

with overcoming powerful marketing forces that<br />

manipulate you into thinking more stuff will make you<br />

happier, fitter, healthier, or more attractive. That doesn’t<br />

mean never buy anything, but build in a buffer for yourself.<br />

Wait a few hours or days before buying something so you<br />

don’t succumb to an impulse buy. I’d also recommend<br />

keeping a running list of things you want or need; on mine,<br />

I have everything from “sustainable flat black sandals” to<br />

“new glasses and contacts.” Be as specific as you can so<br />

you know exactly what would improve your capsule<br />

wardrobe or what priorities you need to set. Bring it<br />

shopping with you so if something doesn't fit your criteria,<br />

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you don’t buy it. This makes sure that everything you buy<br />

is exactly what you wanted and, as Marie Kondo would<br />

recommend, is useful or brings you joy.<br />

No matter your budget, living your values is something you<br />

can do incrementally, cheaply, and purposefully. If there’s<br />

one thing you take from this article, let it be that<br />

sustainability has been co­opted by brands and lifestyle<br />

influencers who make it seem aspirational and unattainable.<br />

Showing that sustainable food and homes are just as<br />

beautiful or satisfying as conventional ones is important<br />

when persuading others to change their habits, but<br />

sustainability can also be messy, imperfect, and mundane.<br />

And that’s OK! You don’t need to live an Instagrammable<br />

lifestyle or perfectly curated life. Sustainability isn’t a habit<br />

for the rich, it’s something we should all strive for, in our<br />

own time and in our own way. SM<br />

About the writer<br />

Mary Imgrund is a writer, entrepreneur, politico, and<br />

activist currently living in Harrisburg, PA. She’s the cofounder<br />

of a monthly pop­up market for sustainable and<br />

artisan goods, the HBG Flea, and a recent graduate of<br />

American University where she earned her MA in<br />

Political Communication. She believes in social justice,<br />

environmentalism, intersectionality, and empathy.


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Alternative Education and<br />

Long-Term Travel with<br />

Kids<br />

by Emma Walmsley<br />

When my first­born child was a baby, I started learning<br />

about alternative education pathways. It was amazing to me<br />

that home education was such a popular and wonderful way<br />

to learn, and I fell in love with the idea of worldschooling<br />

as soon as I read about it. How incredible that we could not<br />

only take responsibility for educating our kids, but we<br />

could do it all over the world!<br />

I was very open to these ideas and happy to give them a go<br />

with our kids, but my partner Anthony needed a little more<br />

convincing. He eventually agreed to try home education<br />

rather than kindergarten for our son Dante, on the condition<br />

that Dante was learning and that we were all happy. If not,<br />

we figured school would always be there to fall back on.<br />

Well, we have never even considered sending him to school<br />

once, and he is turning nine this year! Home education suits<br />

Dante perfectly, and he is thriving outside of the school<br />

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system. We also have a daughter now, and it seems that our<br />

choice will suit her too. Allegra is four and is also happy<br />

and healthy and learning without school. You can read more<br />

about how we home educate in this blog post.<br />

Why we chose home education<br />

I think I was most attracted to home education because it<br />

allows my children to learn at their own pace, and to follow<br />

their interests rather than what someone else tells them is<br />

important. We follow a relaxed approach called<br />

Unschooling or Natural Learning, so we don’t use<br />

curriculums or schedules. We do use some resources as<br />

they’re appropriate for the kid’s learning, and we seek to<br />

support their ideas and interests with further relevant<br />

information and experiences that they might like and<br />

benefit from.<br />

I love following their current passions and seeing how<br />

many branches of learning they cover very naturally. It’s<br />

amazing! For example, Dante was really into Star Wars last<br />

year, and along with watching the movies and reading many<br />

books about the series, he sought activity books based on<br />

Star Wars (practicing writing, reading and math within), as<br />

well as drawing and coloring characters from the series,<br />

playing Star Wars apps and board games, learning about<br />

space with some great conversations and YouTube clips,<br />

and building Star Wars lego. It’s fun to follow a theme and<br />

it’s doesn’t need to be forced upon kids; it’s a very natural<br />

progression of learning.<br />

life skills and the development of empathy, kindness and<br />

other positive character traits), and to facilitate family<br />

travel. We knew from the beginning that travelling would<br />

be one of the best experiences we could give our children,<br />

and home education seemed like the best choice to enable<br />

us to travel often and for long periods.<br />

Our worldschooling adventures<br />

We officially began worldschooling in 2017 with a fourmonth<br />

trip to South East Asia. Before then we took many<br />

shorter trips within Australia with the kids, so they would<br />

slowly become familiarized with travelling. We have taken<br />

Dante to Queensland, South Australia and Byron Bay, and<br />

camped at Mungo National Park when he was three. We<br />

also spent a week in the snow at Mount Buller when<br />

Allegra was one, and two weeks in steamy Kununurra,<br />

Western Australia when she was two. We decided we<br />

didn’t want to travel overseas while she was still in<br />

nappies/diapers, so once the timing was right for her and<br />

for Anthony’s business, we rented out our home and left for<br />

Asia.<br />

He’s quite obsessed with Minecraft at present and similar<br />

patterns are occurring; he’s also doing his own very<br />

thorough research. Dante has learnt how to research online<br />

and also uses some books he got for Christmas to enhance<br />

his Minecraft worlds and test new features ­­ all by himself.<br />

One of the key benefits of homeschooling recognized by<br />

universities is the ability of students to research and take<br />

control of their learning independently. I can see why, after<br />

watching my son learn these skills at eight.<br />

The other reasons I had for choosing home education<br />

include avoiding competitiveness and bullying at school,<br />

having the opportunity to cover a greater range and depth of<br />

learning than school can provide (especially very practical<br />

Voluteering at a turtle conservation project<br />

Allegra had recently turned three when we arrived in<br />

Malaysia, and Dante turned seven while we were there. We<br />

spent two months exploring Peninsular Malaysia, including<br />

one week of volunteering together at a turtle conservation<br />

project on Tioman Island which was amazing. We soon<br />

learned that travelling from place to place every couple of<br />

days was too much for us all, and adjusted our travel style<br />

to include a week or more at each destination. It’s much<br />

better for our health and the planet’s health to travel slowly,<br />

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"Our kids are<br />

learning how<br />

to just be in<br />

the world, and<br />

that it is a safe<br />

and fascinating<br />

place."<br />

so we have time to relax and immerse in each place, and we<br />

don’t need to rely on transportation nearly as much.<br />

We also spent a little time in Singapore and then a month<br />

each in Thailand and Cambodia. We loved Chiang Mai in<br />

Thailand: it remains one of our favourite ever cities! From<br />

there we travelled into the mountains of Northern Thailand<br />

to see elephants in the forest and have a homestay with a<br />

rural family. It was a truly amazing experience, and is the<br />

type of travel we like best as it supports local people,<br />

allows us to connect and learn in a meaningful way, and it<br />

supports animals living naturally too.<br />

to travel a bit closer to home too, so we decided to get a van<br />

and travel within Australia last year. It seemed like the right<br />

decision at the time, but the old van we got needed a lot of<br />

work and it took Anthony more than six months to<br />

complete it. We finally got going in late October, and spent<br />

five weeks travelling through Central Australia, reaching<br />

Uluru before coming home for Christmas. It was still<br />

amazing, especially Uluru­Kata Tjuta National Park, where<br />

we stayed for ten days and absolutely loved exploring. We<br />

took several workshops and learnt a lot about aboriginal<br />

culture and history, as well as how the rock formations<br />

developed and much more.<br />

We also enjoyed Siem Reap in Cambodia and spent three<br />

weeks there over the holiday period, getting to know<br />

people, exploring Angkor Wat and supporting NGOs and<br />

social enterprises doing great work there. After Siem Reap<br />

we travelled to Battambang and learnt much from a<br />

wonderful local guide, but by this time the kids were<br />

getting quite homesick. So instead of continuing on to<br />

Vietnam or Central America as we’d planned, we surprised<br />

our families by arriving on their doorsteps in January 2018.<br />

Dante and Allegra were happy to stay home for awhile and<br />

That trip was supposed to be the start of our trip around<br />

Australia, but we won’t be continuing on with a lap around<br />

the coast. Towing a caravan is not a sustainable way to<br />

travel: we used a great deal of fuel, thus generating a lot of<br />

carbon emissions. We had hoped to be able to convert our 4<br />

wheel­drive to biodiesel but for numerous reasons it’s not<br />

going to work, so again we have changed our plans.<br />

Luckily we are all flexible! And Uluru was the trip we most<br />

wanted to take here, so we all feel satisfied that we made it<br />

to the heart of Australia at least.<br />

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What our kids have learned from our travels<br />

There are so many things we are all learning! Flexibility of<br />

course, and the ability to listen to each other and change<br />

direction if our plans don’t feel right. I love that we listen to<br />

our kids and our hearts, and take all opinions seriously.<br />

Dante and Allegra have already learned that they have<br />

much in common with children from all over the world, and<br />

they happily play with all kids even when they don’t share<br />

their language. Dante has converted Australian dollars to<br />

Malaysian ringgit, a great mathematics lesson as well as a<br />

stimulus for discussions about currency. Allegra loves<br />

animals and has seen how they live happily in nature rather<br />

than visiting them in a zoo. We have all learned more about<br />

our own country’s history and ancient culture; an education<br />

that Anthony and I didn’t get in school.<br />

Our kids are learning how to just be in the world, and that it<br />

is a safe and fascinating place. They are learning travel<br />

skills and life skills each day, and especially as we adapt to<br />

new places and situations. They’re learning how to<br />

communicate with a huge range of different people, and<br />

how to be respectful and thoughtful in all cultures. And<br />

they’re learning how to respect the earth too, with our focus<br />

on sustainable travel and supportive experiences. We talk<br />

often about our choices and allow them to make up their<br />

own minds about each topic, but find that since we model<br />

environmentally­conscious practices, they often want to<br />

help anyway.<br />

I really value being able to spend so much time with our<br />

kids as they are growing and taking in the world. Anthony<br />

and I have the chance to make a positive impact with our<br />

choices and demonstrate qualities such as kindness,<br />

empathy, respect and generosity, and it’s wonderful for our<br />

children to be a part of that. It’s also just amazing to be able<br />

to explore the world together, and we have very<br />

purposefully crafted our life so that we can travel often.<br />

We’re currently preparing to spend much of <strong>2019</strong> in South<br />

and Central America! And beyond that we have some ideas,<br />

but are open to going wherever our four hearts take us. SM<br />

About the writer<br />

Emma Walmsley blogs about sustainable travel and lifestyle on her site Small Footprints, Big Adventures. She is<br />

a worldschooling parent who loves to travel with her young family. They aim to travel slowly and often as the<br />

children grow up, immersing themselves in cultures, exploring landscapes, and leaving a positive trail along the<br />

way. She hopes to inspire others to travel with sustainability at heart, and to live amazing lives full of adventure,<br />

connection and hope.<br />

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23


why it's okay to<br />

be vegan and<br />

miss eggs<br />

by Laura Maria Grierson<br />

Eggs are off the menu on a vegan diet, but what happens when vegans miss eating them - and are<br />

free-roaming backyard chickens the answer?<br />

Welcome to Veganuary, folks ­ a movement so ubiquitous<br />

right now that we might as well do away with the word<br />

'January' and rename the first month of the year in homage to<br />

all things plant­based. Whether you're giving Veganuary a go,<br />

have been vegan a while, or are trying to cut back on your<br />

intake of animal products, this month is a great time for<br />

getting some extra info, connecting with other vegans, or<br />

simply grabbing some great deals at local restaurants. (Or<br />

watching a publicity­hungry dolt descend into a tantrum like<br />

an attention­seeking three­year­old because Greggs decided to<br />

launch a vegan sausage roll alongside its traditional offering.)<br />

I was a vegetarian for almost eighteen years, and I loved eggs.<br />

Whenever the subject of going vegan is broached, cheese<br />

always seems to be the one product that people feel they can't<br />

live without, but I was never a big fan of it, especially since<br />

I'd started gradually cutting it out of my diet for a couple of<br />

years before I went vegan. For me, it was always eggs.<br />

Boiled, fried, or poached: I loved 'em. Ironically, it's really<br />

easy to create vegan versions of scrambled eggs, quiche,<br />

omelette etc., which were all things I'd never particularly liked<br />

in the first place. Something that looked and tasted like a real,<br />

whole chicken's egg was elusive.<br />

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But I didn't mind. Knowing what went into producing that egg<br />

made giving them up an easy sacrifice. But the thing with the<br />

egg industry ­ just like all other forms of animal agriculture ­<br />

is that there's no indication of what had to happen to create<br />

that egg. The boxes might show photographs of heathy hens<br />

on lush green pastures, even when there's little chance of the<br />

hens those eggs came from setting foot outside. And the fate<br />

of the male chicks that had to be culled is obviously absent<br />

from any marketing campaigns. In fact, tiny stray feathers are<br />

often the only indication that these eggs were stolen from<br />

their imprisoned female counterparts.<br />

When I looked at the eggs in the family fridge, I didn't see a<br />

scrawny hen half­bald with stress, and I didn't see the gassed<br />

bodies of newly­born chicks. I saw the food that my mother<br />

prepared for me with toast as a special treat. I saw the main<br />

ingredient in a sandwich I'd learnt to cook as a teenager. I saw<br />

memories of holidays in the Scottish Highlands where we’d<br />

collect eggs from free­roaming chickens.<br />

And that's okay. Our food experiences are often tied to our<br />

cultures, our families, and our memories. And they taste good:<br />

that's at the crux of why we like to eat animal products, and<br />

admitting that isn't "failing" as a vegan ­ it just means that, a)<br />

we're not in denial, and b) we appreciate ethics (or health or<br />

the environment or whatever other reason you went vegan)<br />

more than our tastebuds.<br />

The same is true for bacon or fried chicken or margherita<br />

pizza or anything at all that contains an animal product. The<br />

overwhelming majority of vegans didn't give up animal foods<br />

because they happen to dislike the taste of all dairy, eggs, and<br />

meat, so craving them is perfectly normal.<br />

If you were to read some social media comments on posts that<br />

show animal foods replicated in vegan form, you'd probably<br />

see your fair share of users questioning why vegans want to<br />

eat things that look and taste like meat. The truth is, they want<br />

vegans and those considering a vegan diet to feel alienated.<br />

That if they don't conform to their expectations of what vegan<br />

means, they're not doing it right and might as well give up and<br />

return to eating animal products.<br />

There's no confusion. A shrimp made out of soya, coloured<br />

with beta­carotene and flavoured with seaweed, is not a<br />

crustacean any more than a cake made to look like a dog is a<br />

real dog. Maybe (hopefully) people don't want to eat a real<br />

dog, but they have no problem with eating a cake shaped like<br />

one. And a hunk of microprotein shaped like a shrimp is not<br />

the same as decapitating living creatures and overfishing the<br />

ocean.<br />

A couple of years after I went vegan, I returned to that same<br />

Scottish holiday where the chickens were poster­children for<br />

how we think they should be treated. They had acres to<br />

wander, they played with the ducks and bullied the dogs, and I<br />

felt that if humans wanted to eat those leftover chicken<br />

periods then it wasn't that big a deal. I wasn't eating<br />

commercial eggs, either on their own or as an ingredient, and<br />

I felt that if the positions were reversed and a chicken wanted<br />

to chomp down on a discarded tampon then it wouldn't have<br />

much effect on me.<br />

But, deep down, I knew that those eggs weren't mine to take. I<br />

didn't know what the landowner would do with those chickens<br />

once they were no longer laying, if they were slaughtered for<br />

guests, personal consumption or sale, or how he was able to<br />

prevent the rooster from fertilising those eggs (and if you<br />

really want to be put off eggs, imagine that bloodspot as a<br />

miniscule chicken foetus and that'll do the trick). I had food in<br />

the house to eat: I didn't need to take from another animal.<br />

And, selfishly, a part of me worried that if I ate those eggs, all<br />

those fond memories would come rushing back and I might be<br />

tempted to eat more.<br />

So in the end, I didn't eat them, but remembering that they<br />

tasted good and wishing for a realistic vegan replacement is<br />

not a failing. It's our actions in funding these horrific<br />

industries that make all the difference, not our hankering for<br />

an egg sandwich. SM<br />

About the writer<br />

Laura Maria Grierson is a writer and editor from<br />

Middlesbrough, North­East England. She creates<br />

business content for a range of industries, edits both<br />

fiction and non­fiction, and her poetry and short stories<br />

have been published in UK anthologies.<br />

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yummy<br />

vegan<br />

Recipes<br />

from vegan cooks Miggs McTaylor, Sarah Mordelt<br />

and Chloe of Baked by Clo<br />

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sweet potato<br />

porridge<br />

Serves 2<br />

Prep time: 10 minutes | Cook time: 10 minutes<br />

This healthy and easy­to­make sweet potato porridge has it<br />

all. It’s oil­free, sweet, a little bit crunchy, a little bit salty and<br />

oh­so filling. It comes together in just 20 minutes and you can<br />

even make it ahead of time! I just love sweet potato and<br />

adding it to my oatmeal porridge was definitely a great idea!<br />

Sweet Potatoes for Breakfast???<br />

I love having oatmeal in the morning. It’s just so satisfying, I<br />

can add all the toppings I fancy (peanut butter, peanut butter<br />

and did I mention peanut butter?) and especially on a chilly<br />

day, it warms me up inside. But sometimes, I get a little bit<br />

bored of my standard go­to banana chocolate oatmeal ­ so I<br />

thought why not throw in some sweet potato for a change?<br />

Sweet potato for breakfast?? you may be wondering now. It<br />

does seem a bit weird at first, I admit. But you can actually<br />

make a lot of breakfast meals with sweet potato – sweet<br />

potato waffles, sweet potato toast, sweet potato tacos, sweet<br />

potato brownies, sweet potato pancakes… Whilst sweet<br />

potatoes are not as sweet as fruits like banana or mango, they<br />

are definitely not savory like regular potatoes. So if paired<br />

with something sweet such as mashed bananas, they do make<br />

a great sweet breakfast.<br />

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Ingredients<br />

– 1 large sweet potato (~ 400 g)<br />

– 100 g rolled oats<br />

– 300 ml plant­based milk<br />

– 1 large banana<br />

– 1 tbsp agave syrup<br />

– 1 tsp cinnamon<br />

– pinch of salt<br />

– handful of almonds<br />

– 2 tsp peanut butter<br />

About the cook<br />

Sarah is the blogger behind Sarah's Vegan Guide, which<br />

she started to share her favorite recipes<br />

and her experience of going vegan. She loves getting<br />

creative in the kitchen, figure skating,<br />

traveling and listening to country music.<br />

Method<br />

1. Bring a pot of water to a boil. In the meantime, peel the sweet potato and cut into little cubes. Cook the sweet potato for ~ 5<br />

minutes until it's soft and you can mash it with a fork.<br />

2. While the potato is cooking, you can prepare the other ingredients. Mash half of the banana, and cut the second half into thin<br />

slices. Combine rolled oats, plant milk, mashed banana, agave syrup, cinnamon and salt in a bowl.<br />

3. When the sweet potato is cooked, remove the water and add back into the pot. Mash until there are no chunks left. Add in the<br />

remaining ingredients and bring to a simmer. Let simmer for 5­10 minutes until the oats are soft and the liquid is absorbed.<br />

4. Divide the porridge between two bowls. Top with the remaining banana, crushed almonds and peanut butter and enjoy warm.<br />

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3 ingredient<br />

peanut butter cookies<br />

Serves 15<br />

These 3 ingredient vegan cookies are soft, sweet and nutty.<br />

They’re dairy­free, egg­free, milk­free, healthy, gluten­free,<br />

oil­free, grain­free and low carb.<br />

And for those who can’t have nuts, I’ve even included<br />

adaptations so you can make vegan 3 ingredient allergy­free<br />

cookies! What more could you want?<br />

Usually, when I’m testing out a recipe for the first time there<br />

are almost always a few tweaks that I need to make. Most of<br />

the time I make the recipe at least 2 or 3 times until I get it<br />

just right. But this vegan peanut butter cookie recipe turned<br />

out perfectly the very first time!<br />

haven’t really played around much when it comes to cookie<br />

recipes without eggs or milk.<br />

How do you make cookies without eggs or milk?<br />

There are actually many ways to make dairy­free or eggless<br />

cookies. I’ve listed several dairy and egg replacements in my<br />

downloadable vegan baking cheat sheet.<br />

But these vegan 3 ingredient cookies require no<br />

“replacements”. The ingredients are naturally vegan and form<br />

a dough very easily when combined. Which makes them a<br />

super quick and easy dessert!<br />

I was originally planning to make a peanut butter and banana<br />

sundae this week. But when it came around to actually<br />

making it, I realised I hadn’t frozen my bananas. Fail.<br />

So, I had a full jar of peanut butter sitting there in my<br />

cupboard. I wanted to make good use of it in a recipe before I<br />

lost control and started eating it straight from the jar.<br />

(relatable, no?)<br />

What’s in these healthy vegan cookies?<br />

Are you ready? The 3 ingredients are peanut butter, maple<br />

syrup, and ground almonds. That’s it! Cool, right?<br />

Together, these ingredients make the most perfect<br />

combination. They are soft and chewy and have tons of<br />

benefits. These cookies are:<br />

Aside from my almond flour cookies and Christmas cookies, I<br />

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Healthy<br />

Naturally sweetened<br />

Full of healthy fats<br />

Low carb<br />

Gluten­free<br />

Oil­free<br />

Dairy­free<br />

Eggless<br />

Easy<br />

Quick<br />

And if you have allergies to nuts, check out the substitutions<br />

below to make 3 ingredient allergy­friendly vegan cookies!<br />

3 ingredient vegan cookies without peanut butter<br />

(allergy-friendly)<br />

Here’s how to make nut­free cookies:<br />

­ Sub peanut butter for sunflower seed butter in equal amounts<br />

­ Sub ground almonds for ground oats (gluten­free if<br />

necessary) in equal amounts<br />

Feel free to experiment with other flours too! The oat flour<br />

makes the cookies a little crunchier, so if you prefer crunchy<br />

cookies then definitely use oats instead of almonds.<br />

And that’s it! Happy baking!<br />

Ingredients<br />

8 Tablespoons / 120g peanut butter, the runny kind<br />

that's made from 100% nuts (or sunflower seed butter)<br />

8 Tablespoons / 120g maple syrup (or agave nectar)<br />

200g / 2 cups ground almonds (or ground oats)<br />

About the cook<br />

Chloe shares vegan dessert recipes on her<br />

blog Baked by Clo. She's been baking for<br />

friends and family in her home country of<br />

Scotland ever since she was young, and aims<br />

to show that going vegan deson't mean<br />

Method<br />

missing out on dessert!<br />

1. Preheat oven to 180°C/ (160°C fan / 350°F/ Gas mark 4) and line a tray with baking paper.<br />

2. Mix all ingredients together in a bowl to form a dough.<br />

3. Lightly flour a surface with almond/oat flour and roll the dough to around 3cm thick.<br />

4. Cut out your cookie shapes, place on the tray and bake for 12 minutes until golden brown.<br />

5. Leave to cool completely before enjoying.<br />

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sticky toffee pudding cake<br />

with<br />

chocolate whiskey sauce<br />

This traditional British dessert has been<br />

given a vegan makeover with a twist. It<br />

was developed while we were living in<br />

Scotland, and has proven popular with<br />

everyone I have made it for.<br />

Served warm, smothered in a whiskey<br />

chocolate sauce, this decadent dessert is<br />

a definite crowd pleaser. At home, we<br />

make this cake for birthdays and other<br />

special occasions. It can easily be made<br />

gluten­free if needed (whiskey becomes<br />

gluten­free during the distillation<br />

process).<br />

To fit a 19.5cm cake tin ­ a double<br />

recipe makes a large 27cm cake.<br />

Ingredients<br />

Sticky Toffee Pudding Cake<br />

­ 125g dates, pitted and chopped<br />

­ 125g prunes, pitted and chopped<br />

­ 375ml cola ­ I use the best boutique­style cola I can source<br />

­ 2 tablespoons chia seeds<br />

­ 90ml water<br />

­ 100g dairy­free margarine<br />

­ 125g soft brown sugar<br />

­ 375g self­raising flour (GF self­raising flour works too)<br />

­ 1 tsp baking powder<br />

­ 1 tsp baking soda<br />

­ 1/2 tsp flaky sea salt<br />

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Chocolate Whiskey Sauce<br />

­ 100g dairy­free dark chocolate<br />

­ 125g dairy­free margarine<br />

­ 125g soft brown sugar<br />

­ 125ml plant­based cream (I love Oatly, but we currently<br />

can't buy it in NZ)<br />

­ 50ml whiskey<br />

­ pinch of flaky sea salt<br />

gently.<br />

9. Pour the cake batter into the chilled cake tin.<br />

10. Bake at 170ºC/325ºF for 30­40 minutes or until risen<br />

and nearly cooked through. Remove from the oven and<br />

poke holes into the top with a skewer, pour a little sauce<br />

over the top and return to the oven for another 5 minutes.<br />

11. Remove from tin and smother with whiskey chocolate<br />

sauce.<br />

Method<br />

1. Line a 19.5cm cake tin with baking paper.<br />

2. Mix the chia seeds and water together and set aside.<br />

3. To make the whiskey chocolate sauce, melt margarine,<br />

chocolate and brown sugar in a small pot. Remove from<br />

heat and whisk in the plant­based cream, whiskey and a<br />

pinch of sea salt.<br />

4. Pour in enough sauce to coat the base of the lined cake<br />

tin and put it in the fridge to chill for 20 minutes.<br />

5. Set the rest of the sauce aside.<br />

6. Put chopped dates and prunes into a small pot with<br />

cola. Simmer over low heat for 5 minutes or until the<br />

dates are soft.<br />

7. Beat together margarine and sugar ­ using a mixer will<br />

get the best results. Add the chia seed mixture; if you<br />

have a grinder or stick blender you can make the chia<br />

seed mixture into a paste before adding it (not essential).<br />

Stir in the flour and baking powder.<br />

8. Add the baking soda and sea salt to the hot date and<br />

prune mixture. Pour this into the cake batter and mix<br />

About the cook<br />

Having trained as a professional chef, Miggs<br />

graduated to being a Botanical Cuisine Specialist after<br />

completing the e­Cornell Plant Based Nutrition<br />

Certificate and Rouxbe's Plant­Based Professional<br />

Course. You can find her recipes here.<br />

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Why You Should Try These Two<br />

Odd‐Looking Veggies!<br />

By Deborah Bostock‐Kelley<br />

Brussels Sprouts<br />

Preheat the oven to 425ºF/220ºC. Wash and cut the Brussels<br />

sprouts in half. Mix them with oil, garlic, salt, and pepper.<br />

Spread onto a baking sheet in a single layer and bake for<br />

about 30 minutes, stirring occasionally, until browned on the<br />

outside and fork tender. Remove from oven and toss with<br />

balsamic glaze. Put back in oven for 5 minutes or less, until<br />

Brussels sprouts are sticky. (Don’t go over 5 minutes as the<br />

glaze can burn.)<br />

­ 4 cups Brussels sprouts, halved or whole if small<br />

­ 1­2 garlic cloves, minced<br />

­ Salt and pepper, to taste<br />

­ 3 teaspoon Dijon mustard<br />

­ ¼ cup lemon juice<br />

You probably had Brussels sprouts as a kid, and if your<br />

childhood was anything like mine, your grandma boiled them<br />

into pile of mush, sitting pale green and unappetizing on your<br />

plate. You vowed that as an adult, you would never subject<br />

yourself to them again. Truly, Brussels sprouts have gotten a<br />

bad rap. Closely related to kale, cauliflower and mustard<br />

greens, they are low in calories but high in antioxidants, fiber,<br />

vitamins and minerals. Until we watched Food Network and<br />

my husband made these in a completely different way, I<br />

would never have agreed to try them. Now I’m addicted to<br />

two versions – healthy and naughty.<br />

­ 4 cups Brussels sprouts, halved<br />

­ 2 tablespoons olive oil<br />

­ 2­3 garlic cloves, minced<br />

­ Salt and pepper, to taste<br />

­ 3 tablespoons balsamic vinegar glaze<br />

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Heat oil in a deep fryer to 350ºF/1 75ºC. Wash and cut<br />

Brussels sprouts in half, or if small, leave whole. Deep fry for<br />

3-5 minutes until fork tender. Remove from deep fryer and<br />

drain on a paper towel. Place minced garlic, Dijon mustard,<br />

and lemon juice in bowl and mix. Add salt and pepper. Add<br />

fried Brussels sprouts and toss well.<br />

Kohlrabi<br />

Until a few months ago, I didn’t know what this vegetable<br />

was, much less how to spell it correctly. It sounds like a new<br />

medication – side effects include…. But seriously, this oddlooking<br />

little veggie is packed with nutrients and minerals like<br />

copper, potassium, manganese, iron, and calcium, as well as<br />

vitamins, such as vitamin C, B­complex vitamins, beta­


carotene vitamin A, and vitamin K. It’s typically seen in<br />

Europe and India. Its alleged health benefits include improved<br />

digestion, aiding in weight loss, boosting energy, regulating<br />

blood pressure, helping to prevent anemia, and improving<br />

bone strength. I was introduced to kohlrabi as a “steak” at<br />

Seasons 52 on their veggie plate. It was grilled and quite<br />

flavorful, so my husband and I went on a quest to find this<br />

elusive cabbage­like plant and finally discovered it at the<br />

Publix. We used a panini maker and added this odd­looking<br />

veggie to our list of quick and easy favorite meals.<br />

1 kohlrabi<br />

1 tablespoon olive oil<br />

Salt and pepper<br />

Your favorite spices<br />

Peel kohlrabi, taking off leaves and green outer skin. Slice<br />

into 1/2 inch ‘steaks’ and rub with olive oil. Put slices in a<br />

panini maker or pan and grill for approximately 20 minutes or<br />

until fork tender. Season with salt, pepper and your favorite<br />

spices.<br />

About the writer<br />

Deborah Bostock Kelley is a journalist, playwright,<br />

producer, director, actress, author, Broadway World<br />

theatre critic, owner of The WriteOne Creative<br />

Services, & founder of Life Amplified variety<br />

showcase for charity.<br />

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vegan paint<br />

Thinking of redecorating? Here's what you need to know about paint.<br />

By Chloe Bullock of Materialise Interiors<br />

When buying paint, I’m sad to say that you need to check<br />

whether both the end product AND its ingredients are tested<br />

on animals (yes ­ it’s STILL happening). And frustratingly,<br />

some manufacturers say their paints are vegan ­ but when you<br />

ask if that covers the ingredients as well as the end product, it<br />

can be difficult to get a straight answer.<br />

These are the questions I ask ­ they aren’t difficult, but not all<br />

companies can answer them.<br />

• Is the product tested on animals?<br />

• Are the ingredients of the product tested on animals?<br />

• Are there animal products in this paint?<br />

• Does the owning company test other products on animals?<br />

Some paint suppliers might say they are vegan but work to<br />

their own definition of vegan ­ usually that the end product is<br />

not tested and contains no animal­derived ingredients. It can<br />

be difficult getting a clear answer as to whether the<br />

ingredients are tested on animals or not. I’m all for working<br />

with manufacturers to change their ways rather than wagging<br />

my finger at them, but I really don’t like dishonesty. We don’t<br />

accept animal tested ingredients in our toiletries and cleaning<br />

products, so why should we in paint? My background is in<br />

designing for The Body Shop head office during the Anita<br />

days, so you’ll understand why I am so passionate about it.<br />

Then there’s the issue of the use of petrochemicals. If this is a<br />

concern to you, there are suppliers you can use, but it starts to<br />

get limited and colour­matching can get a bit long­winded. It<br />

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If you’re interested in the circular economy, there are great<br />

initiatives like recycled paint available, diverted from<br />

landfill. Don’t forget that you can recycle metal paint cans at<br />

most household waste recycling centres, so that might<br />

influence your decision when looking at paint in plastic<br />

containers.<br />

Resources: I use the The Good Shopping Guide and I’m<br />

lucky to have people I can collaborate and share my findings<br />

with. Ethical Consumer magazine are doing a feature on<br />

paint in their April/May issue, which should also give<br />

excellent guidance.<br />

is possible (by sending a sample in to the head office), but if<br />

you are in a hurry you will be working to the standard colours<br />

available.<br />

That last thing to thing to consider is brushes. Just as the use<br />

of animals is out­moded in other areas like fabrics, we don’t<br />

need wool or mohair rollers or animal hair brushes for<br />

product performance. I spoke to a salesperson at a local trade<br />

paint counter, and he confirmed this. Pay more and you get<br />

better quality, but synthetic alternatives are just as good ­ in<br />

fact better, as they are easier to clean and are cruelty­free. SM<br />

About Chloe and Materialise Interiors<br />

Chloe Bullock is a BIID Registered Interior Designer® at the British Institute of Interior Design – the pre-eminent professional<br />

organisation for interior designers in the UK. She is the first interior designer in the UK to be VEGANDESIGN.ORG<br />

CERTIFIED - the global accredited course and community set up by Deborah DiMare. In 2018, she won the Women in<br />

Property’ Business Women Excellence Awards, Sussex. Materialise Interiors supports UK businesses and residents in ethical<br />

builds and redesigns with a focus on the following: cruelty-free, sustainable and locally sourced, vegan products and the WELL<br />

building standard (for spaces designed with health, wellbeing and performance in mind).<br />

Chloe’s career passion was ignited by a post-university experience interning with the visionary Anita Roddick during the heyday<br />

of The Body Shop. Anita’s personal ethos imbued in her the original values of what was, at the time, the iconic ethical brand in<br />

retail. This lead to 10 years of working for the company on ethical global store concept projects globally and an ongoing<br />

commitment to environmental awareness, sustainability and cruelty-free<br />

materials, which Chloe has translated into her interior design business.<br />

Contact Chloe<br />

materialiseinteriors.com<br />

Phone: (+44)1273 699922<br />

Email: chloe@materialiseinteriors.com<br />

Address: 70 Bonchurch Road, Brighton, BN2 3PH, UK<br />

facebook.com/MaterialiseInteriors<br />

instagram.com/materialise_interiors<br />

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What<br />

Meat Cravings<br />

Really Mean<br />

by Olivia, registered nurse and<br />

health and wellness coach<br />

I was talking to someone the other day who gave me that<br />

classic:<br />

“I would go vegan, but ____”<br />

This time the ‘but’ was because she craves red meat during<br />

menstruation, and thinks that means she is/will be anemic.<br />

Now, please don’t think I’m making any assumptions about<br />

this gal’s character or intelligence. I have a great deal of<br />

respect for her, and outside the ‘vegan thing’, we have very<br />

similar ideals. She's truly intelligent with regard to health,<br />

which prompts me to question whether this whole ‘needing<br />

red meat for periods’ thing is simply another knowledge<br />

deficit created by the industrialized gods that be. Or perhaps it<br />

became a culture­bound belief and then a ‘craving’?<br />

How this wives’ tale came to be is irrelevant. What is<br />

important is that this misinformation ceases to spread and be<br />

believed.<br />

Do we crave nutrients we lack, or not?<br />

So, let’s start with whether the body can/does produce<br />

cravings for essential nutrients which it's deficient in. The<br />

short answer is yes and no, but mostly no.<br />

Ever heard of Pica? Those with Pica crave paint and dirt and<br />

all kinds of non­food and dangerous goodies. Not only do<br />

they crave it, they actually eat those things. Some research has<br />

demonstrated a correlation between Pica and nutrient<br />

deficiencies. In some cases, an improvement is achieved once<br />

the deficiencies have been treated with supplementation.<br />

However, this is far from being ‘always the case’. There are<br />

other studies that have shown a nutrient deficiency in Pica,<br />

but no improvement when the deficiency was corrected and<br />

the nutrient was at normal levels. Furthermore, there are many<br />

other studies which show no nutrient deficiencies in the<br />

presence of Pica. So even the craziest, and likely strongest,<br />

form of cravings one can experience (Pica):<br />

1. isn't a reliable indicator that there's a nutrient deficiency<br />

2. shows that if a nutrient deficiency exists, it can't be reliably<br />

associated with the craving one experiences (because A.<br />

correcting the deficiency doesn't consistently make the Pica<br />

go away and B. how could we correctly distinguish what<br />

nutrient someone might lack if they're eating hair or paint??).<br />

Physicians at one of the top ten leading medical institutions<br />

(Cedars Sinai Medical Center) state that there's no reliable or<br />

consistent evidence or research supporting that any food<br />

cravings are related to nutrient deficiencies. This honestly<br />

would be enough for me, but let’s explore some other points<br />

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to drive this bad boy home.<br />

Other instances where deficiencies<br />

produce the wrong cravings, or none<br />

Diets (not ways of eating, but regimes) are restrictive in one<br />

way, shape, or form, no? Low fat diets restrict fat, low calorie<br />

diets restrict some of each macronutrient, grapefruit diets<br />

restrict virtually everything, and so on. The same with a lowcarb<br />

diet; it significantly restricts sugars and carbohydrates. In<br />

other words, it creates a [macro]nutrient deficiency.<br />

Interestingly, this self­imposed deficiency results in fewer<br />

cravings for the deficient nutrient. This same study showed<br />

that those on a very low­fat diet experienced very few<br />

cravings for fat. If cravings were associated with deficiency,<br />

wouldn’t the opposite be true? The carbohydrate­deficient<br />

person would crave carbs, and the fat­deficient person would<br />

crave fats, no? Not the case.<br />

men have greater rates of malnourishment, but women<br />

experience significantly greater amounts and intensities of<br />

food cravings. That’s a little backwards if deficiency drives<br />

cravings, isn’t it? I thought so too.<br />

Let’s talk about the ladies a bit more. What’s the thing we<br />

ladies crave the most? You’re probably thinking chocolate,<br />

right? Ok, now do a Google search or two and you’ll find<br />

media posts, infographics, etc. claiming magnesium<br />

deficiency is responsible for chocolate cravings. But did you<br />

know that women don't crave chocolate that often at all?<br />

American women do to a degree, but not even 1/3 of<br />

American women sampled reported craving chocolate.<br />

Furthermore, it isn’t even a ‘female thing’, as the media<br />

would have us believe. As few as 4% of women in other<br />

countries report craving chocolate at all. I’d say that’s about<br />

as frequent as any other craving, demonstrating that this<br />

craving is cultural, and not due to magnesium deficiency.<br />

Specific Cravings<br />

One study even demonstrates that the greatest restriction of<br />

nutrients in total results in the greatest decrease in cravings<br />

altogether. Isn’t that interesting? When someone is deficient in<br />

everything, they crave nothing? Whoa.<br />

Another instance when nutrient deficiency is imposed is<br />

pregnancy. Eating for two, right? And one of those two needs<br />

enough nutrients for exponential growth, so the assumption<br />

would be that the mother would crave nutrient­dense foods.<br />

Right? But study after study shows that pregnant women<br />

crave nutrient­poor foods like sweets and fast food, not the<br />

nutrients needed to sustain the changes in their bodies.<br />

Guys and Dolls<br />

Cravings are, believe it or not, gender­specific. Women<br />

experience more cravings (no surprise here), and those<br />

cravings correlate significantly with sex hormones, mood, and<br />

various other factors, but not nutritional status. It's even been<br />

shown that when boys and girls are exposed to the same<br />

tempting food cues (sweets), the girls eat far more of the<br />

candies.<br />

Another fun fact ­ men and women achieve virtually the same<br />

percentage of recommended daily allowances of nutrients, and<br />

While we’re still on the topic of chocolate, let’s put this thing<br />

to rest. We’ve mentioned the idea that magnesium deficiency<br />

is behind chocolate cravings. If it were, wouldn’t craving<br />

peanuts, almonds, cashews, or spinach be more appropriate?<br />

Ounce for ounce, chocolate is far inferior to these with regard<br />

to magnesium content (and other nutrients). And why<br />

wouldn’t the body crave all of them, rather than only the<br />

sweetest option, with the greatest popularity among the<br />

masses, and several commercials and other in­your­face<br />

propaganda driving desire and purchase? It’s probably<br />

because cravings are more psychological, social, and [nonnutritive<br />

related] physical.<br />

The same concept applies to many other foods. For example,<br />

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if one craves a banana, what deficiency might be causing it?<br />

We'd assume potassium, right? That’s the nutrient often<br />

associated with bananas. But bananas only provide 12% of<br />

our requirement each day. So why wouldn’t one crave lentils,<br />

prunes, squash, or any other food that provides much more<br />

than bananas? See where I’m going with this? It has little to<br />

nothing to do with the nutrient and more to do with taste<br />

preference, societal cues, imposed dietary restrictions, and a<br />

whole slew of other things.<br />

Let’s not forget about our friend who craves meat. If it was<br />

anemia­driven, and iron was needed to right the imbalance,<br />

why isn’t she craving the foods that would give her most iron?<br />

Plants, such as white beans, red beans, lentils, spinach,<br />

chocolate, cereal, tofu….<br />

So what does cause cravings?<br />

The answer to this is multifactorial. There are several reasons<br />

why we crave certain foods at certain times, e.g:<br />

• Forbidden foods. This book has a plethora of research<br />

showing that forbidding oneself to eat certain foods results in<br />

craving them.<br />

• Mood. Cravings are often associated with negative moods<br />

and anticipation of how the food might impact our feelings.<br />

• This is probably a no­brainer, but stress can significantly<br />

impact whether, and to what degree, one experiences cravings.<br />

• If someone self­diagnoses as a ‘food addict’, they're more<br />

likely to experience cravings. There's also a correlation<br />

between cravings and both higher BMI (body mass index) and<br />

lower self­esteem.<br />

• Sleep deprivation significantly increases cravings. Some<br />

research correlates daytime sleeping with more cravings.<br />

calamities of having one too many, but alcohol significantly<br />

increases cravings. And if you didn’t know, the advertisement<br />

teams at your favorite snack companies do; they pay good<br />

money to show their ads in prime drinking hours.<br />

• Culture. For example, in America where chocolate (there it<br />

is again) is a big thing, we tend to crave it a lot, and not crave<br />

French fries with peanut butter sauce, which is popular in<br />

Amsterdam.<br />

How can we decrease cravings?<br />

• Physical activity. The more consistent physical activity we<br />

do, the fewer the cravings.<br />

• Thylakoid­containing foods ­ the more we eat, the fewer<br />

cravings we have. If it’s a green vegetable, it’s high in<br />

thylakoids ­ green leafy veggies in particular. These include:<br />

spinach, cabbage, lettuce, kale, collard and other greens.<br />

• Don’t diet. Those who don't restrict food and instead<br />

practice intuitive/mindful eating have significantly fewer<br />

cravings. Those who restrict themselves experience the most.<br />

• Stay hydrated.<br />

• Get enough sleep and don’t sleep during the day.<br />

• Give in to your cravings. That’s right, grab that chocolate<br />

bar, that ice cream, those pickles… without guilt. If you allow<br />

yourself to have what you crave, and reaffirm that you may<br />

have whatever food you want whenever you want, you'll<br />

reinforce your trust with food and decrease the number of<br />

true/strong cravings you have. You'll notice that former<br />

cravings are now just desires for things, and knowing that you<br />

may have them whenever you want will help you relax when<br />

they come to mind ­ not experience those frantic must­havenow<br />

thoughts. (Any food can be made cruelty­free, even<br />

‘meat’, so I'm not promoting deviating from veganism by<br />

indulging in cravings.)<br />

• Practice mindfulness and meditation. Slow down, be present,<br />

be here right now. Practice as often as you can. Food, work,<br />

relationships, sex, life ­ everything is better.<br />

Theories About Cravings Being Caused<br />

by Deficiencies are Anecdotal, at Best<br />

Upshot ­ unlike cars, our bodies don’t come with a diagnostic<br />

• Not consuming enough macronutrients, namely fiber and<br />

protein.<br />

• This may be another no­brainer if you’re privy to the<br />

sensor that spits out a code when certain symptoms are<br />

present (cravings). Craving foods as a result of deficiency is<br />

something no research yet soundly supports. However, we can<br />

and do crave foods due to hormonal and emotional<br />

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imbalances, and this can sometimes be a warning sign of<br />

deeper issues. If you notice excessive cravings, overeating or<br />

binging, or other characteristics of an unhealthy relationship<br />

with food, please get in touch with your physician, a dietician,<br />

and/or a nutritional therapist. Nutritional therapists help us<br />

become more intuitive and mindful eaters (which does not<br />

translate to sacrifice and misery).<br />

sped up and made more effective with a helping hand or two.<br />

Foods with Vitamin A increase iron absorption by up to 200%,<br />

so eat some green, orange, or yellow veggies. Vitamin C is<br />

We Can Be Deficient and Not Know..<br />

While it can confidently be said that my friend’s cravings are<br />

not driven by a need for iron, that doesn't rule out deficiency<br />

(it's possible for anyone, especially women of menstruating<br />

age). However, iron needn't be animal­derived, and vegans are<br />

at no greater risk of developing anemia than anyone else (and<br />

at less risk, according to many studies). Furthermore, as one<br />

author showed via a collection of 40+ research articles and<br />

reputable sources, iron from animals is harmful and can lead<br />

to the development of cancer, diabetes, heart disease, and<br />

many other maladies. These are not a concern when the iron is<br />

from plants. As clean, happy, free­range, or ‘humane’, etc. as<br />

the meat is, nutrients from plants are adequate, and often<br />

superior.<br />

If the subject of concern is heme­ versus non­heme iron:<br />

• Neither heme or non are exclusively essential to the body.<br />

You may have all heme, all non­heme, or a mixture, and the<br />

body is none the wiser.<br />

• While heme is absorbed a little faster than non­heme, this<br />

shouldn't be a concern for those with adequate, well­rounded<br />

diets. Here’s why:<br />

• The daily recommended iron intake for an adult male is 8<br />

mg ­ for an adult female of childbearing age, it's 18 mg. One<br />

bowl of fortified cereal meets the woman’s needs. One. And<br />

considering that virtually everything that comes from the<br />

ground (plants) has iron, you could say anything else is a<br />

bonus (or even overkill) in a well­balanced diet.<br />

• More recent studies have shown that the body’s homeostatic<br />

mechanisms play such a big role in iron absorption that<br />

differences in dietary iron bioavailability (heme versus non)<br />

may have been overestimated. So we need to head back to the<br />

drawing board to correctly establish their bioavailability.<br />

• Iron isn't hard to get. If one eats in a regular and wellbalanced<br />

manner, there's no risk of deficiency. Non­heme iron<br />

does absorb slower, but if there's a regular influx of nutrients,<br />

there won’t be a gap in availability. Iron absorption can be<br />

another big player, so load up on delicious citrus fruits.<br />

• Other factors play into the bioavailability of iron. For<br />

example, obesity ­ if we're obese, our bodies won't absorb iron<br />

well regardless of the source. If we eat mint with ironcontaining<br />

foods, it enhances absorption. Drinking tea or<br />

coffee with iron­containing foods decreases it. There are too<br />

many factors to mention, but iron bioavailability is much<br />

more impacted by self­care, eating habits, environmental<br />

factors, etc. than whether it came from animals.<br />

• So if you or someone you know is at risk for developing iron<br />

deficiency, it's wise to ensure adequate intake. We've collected<br />

some delicious plant­based recipes for all occasions to help<br />

you reach your recommended daily intake. Check them<br />

out here!<br />

References<br />

This article was originally published on Olivia's blog, where<br />

she included detailed references for all the facts cited. Check<br />

out the original article to see those references.<br />

About the writer<br />

Olivia is a Masters Degree­prepared Registered Nurse<br />

with several certifications and post­graduate<br />

designations. Her focuses are Nutrition and Human<br />

Movement. Olivia was once a meathead but has now<br />

been vegan for nearly two years, having experienced an<br />

amazing transformation after adopting a plant­based<br />

lifestyle. She promotes plant­based living for healing,<br />

athleticism, the animals, and the Earth on her blog, The<br />

Vegan Zebra.<br />

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eautiful planet<br />

Appreciating the world with photos of beautiful places<br />

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The Grand Canyon & Bee in Fresno,<br />

California<br />

By Farin Montanez<br />

Instagram: @spiritedvegan


Carmarthenshire, Wales<br />

By Sabree Simmons<br />

Instagram: @theveganbree<br />

Carmarthenshire, Wales<br />

Do you have a beautiful nature photo from your part of the world? Submit it by emailing<br />

bethany@littlegreenseedling.com, and be featured on this page next issue! You'll get a link back to your site or<br />

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thoughts about...<br />

forgiveness<br />

We all know that we're supposed to forgive those who wrong<br />

us and move on. But how many of us actually do so? Many ­<br />

if not most ­ of us have rifts in our families or friendship<br />

groups due to unresolved disputes. I think the pain and<br />

division this causes is a tremendous shame.<br />

We could all benefit from connecting, communicating, and ­<br />

above all ­ loving each other more. That means learning to<br />

overcome our differences ­ and yes, forgive. But forgiveness<br />

is another of those things that's much easier said than done.<br />

Why should I forgive?<br />

I've seen backlash online against the idea that we should<br />

always try to forgive. People who have been seriously hurt<br />

may think, "Why should I forgive? They don't deserve my<br />

forgiveness." It's understandable that people feel this way. But<br />

I think this line of thought derives from a misconception about<br />

what forgiveness is.<br />

Forgiveness is often seen as something we generously do to<br />

someone who has hurt us. But I believe it is something we do<br />

for ourselves. When we are carrying around anger, bitterness<br />

and resentment towards someone else, we can't keep these<br />

feelings contained in a little box. They spill over, preventing<br />

us from being at peace with the world. Sometimes, we may<br />

get caught in repetitive thought loops about how that person<br />

has hurt us ­ I've been there! We may badmouth them to others<br />

in search of validation, which only serves to spread blame and<br />

negativity. Hanging on to these emotions can poison our<br />

headspace and our interactions with others. So forgiveness is<br />

really about letting go of things that don't serve us. It's<br />

something we do primarily for ourselves, though it may<br />

benefit the other person too.<br />

Does forgiving someone mean<br />

allowing them back into your life?<br />

Another barrier many people have with regards to forgiveness<br />

is that they think forgiving someone means being willing to<br />

interact with them. But again, forgiveness is a personal<br />

journey. Letting go of your resentment towards someone does<br />

not mean condoning what they did. If you know it would not<br />

be healthy to have that person in your life, you can still<br />

choose to keep your distance. But that decision will be<br />

coming from a calm, rational place rather than a place of hurt<br />

and anger. Rather than blaming and accusing, you'll be able to<br />

accept what happened and move on.<br />

Acceptance really is the key to forgiveness. Some years back,<br />

a story made the headlines about a woman whose daughter<br />

had been murdered. She made the radical statement that she<br />

had forgiven her daughter's killer. Did she mean that she was<br />

ok with what had happened, or that she was over the loss of<br />

her daughter? Of course not. But she realised that no amount<br />

of anger would bring her daughter back and chose to let go of<br />

it, recognising that this was the only way for her to heal.<br />

When religious texts speak about forgiveness, I believe this is<br />

what they mean.<br />

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This is all well and good, but how can we overcome all those<br />

negative feelings towards those who have wronged us? There<br />

are a few things we can do.<br />

Think about why the person behaved<br />

in that way<br />

People are not born mean, selfish or spiteful. Usually, people<br />

are unpleasant because their life experiences have made them<br />

that way. Those who are abusive were often abused<br />

themselves, for example. The role models people have as<br />

"When we quiet our noisy<br />

minds and release our stress<br />

and tension, we feel more<br />

connected to others. This<br />

mindset can make it easier to<br />

think favourably of others, and<br />

let go of emotions like<br />

resentment which aren't serving<br />

us. "<br />

children have a huge impact on their development. And of<br />

course, these role models may themselves have been<br />

mistreated. Additionally, there may be traumatic events in<br />

someone's past that we are not aware of.<br />

None of this makes it ok for someone to hurt us. But it can<br />

help us to understand why they may have done so. We've all<br />

done things that we knew deep down were wrong; we are<br />

human, and we're not perfect. We understand that having done<br />

those things doesn't make us bad people, and the same likely<br />

applies to those who hurt us. They may have been hurting<br />

themselves at the time. Understanding what drives someone's<br />

actions can be the first step towards forgiveness.<br />

Recognise that the situation may not<br />

be clear‐cut<br />

Sometimes, as with abuse, it's clear that one person has<br />

wronged the other. But in most cases, it is less clear­cut. Take<br />

romantic relationships, for example. They can end because of<br />

mismatched needs and desires, a lack of shared goals,<br />

different priorities, meeting someone new, other<br />

commitments, stress...the list goes on. Many people feel very<br />

bitter and resentful if, for example, a partner devotes more<br />

time to their career than to the relationship. And the partner in<br />

question may think this bitterness is unjustified and that their<br />

partner is being unsupportive. So who is right? Probably no­<br />

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one. It's just that the people involved want different things<br />

from the relationship. But the ensuing breakup will likely<br />

leave both people feeling hard done by and badmouthing their<br />

partner to anyone who will listen. And this creates division,<br />

especially when there is a shared friendship group.<br />

Sometimes, we may need to take a step back and realise that<br />

what we're thinking of as offences may actually just be<br />

differences. And if this is the case, we either need to respect<br />

that or cease to be involved with the person in question ­ in an<br />

amiable fashion, of course, and without resentment. This<br />

applies to all relationships, not just romantic ones.<br />

Cultivate compassion for the other<br />

person<br />

As you ponder what may have made someone behave in a<br />

certain way, you may find you can even sympathise with<br />

them. Think about all the things they may have been through<br />

which have made them closed off, jealous, insecure etc.<br />

In a book on Buddhist meditation, I read that those who are<br />

most unpleasant towards us are most deserving of our pity,<br />

because they will live a lifetime (or several lifetimes!) of pain,<br />

suffering, anger, stress and dissatisfaction. We all know people<br />

who seem relentlessly negative and pessimistic, and who take<br />

those emotions out on other people. This tends to drive people<br />

away, making the person feel even more bitter. I often feel<br />

sorry for these people, because it can't be much fun to live that<br />

way. What must it be like to never experience joy, or be<br />

excited and satisfied with where your life is going, or feel a<br />

deep sense of peace and connection to the world and everyone<br />

in it? To me, that seems nothing short of a tragedy.<br />

Meditate<br />

Meditation can soothe a number of ills. When we quiet our<br />

noisy minds and release our stress and tension, we feel more<br />

connected to others. This mindset can make it easier to think<br />

favourably of others, and let go of emotions like resentment<br />

which aren't serving us.<br />

Loving­kindness meditation is particularly well­suited to this.<br />

It typically involves first directing our love to someone close<br />

to us, then to someone we dislike or who has hurt us, and<br />

finally expanding it to envelop the entire world. This exercise<br />

requires us to love unconditionally, which is impossible if we<br />

are still holding on to a grudge. It is difficult, but profoundly<br />

healing.<br />

Recognise that people grow and<br />

change<br />

Some of us hold grudges for years or even decades, without<br />

stopping to question whether the person we are angry with<br />

still exists. People change and evolve all the time. Someone<br />

may have matured and feel very ashamed of their past actions.<br />

We shouldn't refuse to accept the possibility that they have<br />

changed, unless we have hard evidence to the contrary.<br />

If we're already angry with someone, we are apt to blow all<br />

their mistakes out of proportion, using these mistakes as proof<br />

that they are a bad person. We should attempt to recognise<br />

when we're doing this and reason with ourselves!<br />

Communication<br />

If you're still on speaking terms with the person in question,<br />

talking things over can help you to forgive each other. But you<br />

need to be able to stay calm, or it may only make things<br />

worse. Good communication is beyond the scope of this post,<br />

but it may be worth looking into NVC (nonviolent<br />

communication) to help you out with this.<br />

Conclusion<br />

Forgiving isn't just for those of us who are religious ­ it can<br />

help us all to feel lighter, and build bridges with those around<br />

us if we so choose.<br />

Remember to extend the same treatment to yourself. Many of<br />

us are carrying tremendous guilt about something we have<br />

done. But we can't change the past, so we need to learn from it<br />

and move on ­ in other words, to forgive ourselves. For some<br />

of us, this can be the biggest challenge.<br />

I just want to acknowledge how difficult all this can be. I'm<br />

personally carrying some resentment towards other people,<br />

and a little guilt too. I recognise that it's damaging, but it can<br />

be hard to set aside time to process it. I've let my meditation<br />

practice slip a lot in recent months, for example. But hard is<br />

not the same as impossible, and I believe I'm capable of<br />

working through these emotions. What about you?<br />

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How to Use a<br />

Menstrual Cup<br />

a Comprehensive Guide<br />

by Bethany Ivy<br />

By now, you’ve probably heard of menstrual cups, but you<br />

may be unconvinced by the idea. If that's you, I'd like to<br />

answer some questions that many people have about<br />

menstrual cups, and hopefully convince you to take the plunge<br />

and try one out!<br />

your vagina when you have your period. When you insert it, it<br />

forms a seal, preventing leakage. The blood is collected<br />

inside, rather than being absorbed like with a tampon.<br />

Why use a menstrual cup?<br />

For those who are unfamiliar with menstrual cups, I'm going<br />

to start by explaining what they are and their benefits. Feel<br />

free to skip this section if you're already familiar with this<br />

information.<br />

What is a menstrual cup?<br />

A menstrual cup is a squishy silicone cup that you place in<br />

There are so many reasons to use a menstrual cup. Here are<br />

the main ones.<br />

• Sustainability. Think how many pads and tampons we throw<br />

away worldwide. They don't biodegrade, making them an<br />

environmental disaster. They are a huge waste of resources, a<br />

source of pollution and damaging to wildlife.<br />

• Price. Menstrual cups may seem a little expensive upfront,<br />

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ut they last years and will likely pay for themselves within a<br />

few months. I paid about £20 for my cup 3 years ago, and<br />

haven't had to buy a single pad or tampon since. That's a huge<br />

saving.<br />

• Comfort and convenience. Like a tampon, you shouldn't be<br />

able to feel your cup once it's in. And you can leave it in for<br />

up to 12 hours at a time, meaning you don't have to worry<br />

about changing it whilst at work or school.<br />

• Minimalism. A cup takes up much less space than a box of<br />

pads or tampons, which is especially convenient when you're<br />

travelling.<br />

• Safety. Unlike tampons, there is no known risk of toxic<br />

shock syndrome (TSS) with menstrual cups.<br />

• Hygiene. Menstrual cups are easy to clean and should not<br />

leak if inserted properly. Using a cup often allows me to forget<br />

I’m even on my period.<br />

Which menstrual cup should I choose?<br />

There are so many cups on the market that it can be<br />

overwhelming trying to decide which one to buy. I went for a<br />

Ruby Cup because for every one sold, they donate one to<br />

someone in a developing country. They aren't the cheapest<br />

option, however.<br />

Everyone's body is different, and you'll want to take this into<br />

account when choosing a cup. There are various different<br />

shapes and sizes, with some softer than others. I can only<br />

advise that you read reviews and decide which you think<br />

would suit you best. This quiz is really helpful too.<br />

In terms of sizes, those who have given birth will need a<br />

larger cup than those who haven't. Most brands have two sizes<br />

for this reason. There may also be other sizes you can choose<br />

from based on your flow; I chose the smallest available size<br />

because my flow is quite light.<br />

Can everyone use a menstrual cup?<br />

If you have a health condition like vaginosis which makes it<br />

difficult or painful for you to use tampons, you probably won't<br />

be able to use cups either. But otherwise, most people should<br />

be able to use them. For those who have just started their<br />

periods, smaller sizes are probably best.<br />

How do I insert my menstrual cup?<br />

It's easiest to do this sitting on the toilet or squatting. Start by<br />

folding your cup up ­ I fold it in two, making a C shape. Then<br />

you should be able to put it in. Cups sit much lower down<br />

than tampons, so don't be tempted to push it up too far. The<br />

stem may even stick out, depending on your body. If the stem<br />

feels uncomfortable, you can trim it or even cut it off<br />

completely ­ just be careful not to damage the cup.<br />

Now for the tricky part ­ you need your cup to open up and<br />

form a seal. If you're lucky, it may do this on its own.<br />

Otherwise, the easiest thing to do is turn it once, clockwise or<br />

anticlockwise. You should hopefully feel it open up ­ you can<br />

check a seal has formed by running your finger around the rim<br />

of the cup.<br />

If it doesn't open, you'll need to do some adjustment. Some<br />

peoples’ cervixes are tilted, so it may just be a case of<br />

experimenting till you find where it sits best. You can also try<br />

allowing it to open just inside the vagina then pushing it<br />

further up. Find what works for you.<br />

Putting in your cup can be fiddly when you're not used to it.<br />

Exercise patience and perseverance and you'll soon get the<br />

hang of it.<br />

Could my cup get stuck?<br />

You may have seen horror stories floating around on the<br />

internet of cups getting stuck too far up and having to be<br />

medically removed. I think the only way this could happen is<br />

if you inserted it way too far up. I made this mistake the first<br />

time I used my cup, since I was used to tampons. It migrated<br />

even further up in the night and I had a lot of trouble getting it<br />

out! But since I learned how to put it in properly I've had no<br />

issues whatsoever, so don't be put off.<br />

What do I do when it's full?<br />

If you suspect your cup is full, or it's been in for 12 hours, it's<br />

time to empty it. Again, you’ll want to do this sitting on the<br />

toilet or squatting. If the cup is too far up to grab hold of, push<br />

it down a little (as if you're giving birth!) then fold it to break<br />

the seal. Take it out carefully, so you don't spill the contents.<br />

Empty it into the toilet, then give it a rinse to get the blood<br />

off. If you're in a public toilet, you can wipe it clean with<br />

toilet paper instead. You can then reinsert it.<br />

How do I clean my cup?<br />

Once your period is over, you need to clean your cup. The<br />

best way is to sterilise it by boiling it. I put mine in a glass jar,<br />

cover it with water and microwave it on full power for 2<br />

minutes. You can also do this in the oven, or in a pan on the<br />

stove.<br />

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My cup came with a fold­up silicone container to boil it in,<br />

but it kept popping up open in the microwave and spilling<br />

water everywhere ­ gross! Eventually the lid broke off so I<br />

threw it out. The jar works way better, though it's not ideal for<br />

travelling.<br />

I know some people prefer to use a menstrual cup wash rather<br />

than boiling their cup, which could be easier if you are<br />

travelling. Personally, I like to know mine has been sterilised,<br />

but it's your choice.<br />

Help! My cup is leaking<br />

There are two reasons why your cup may leak:<br />

• It's full. If your flow is heavy, your cup will fill up quicker<br />

than expected, so try emptying it.<br />

• The seal hasn't formed correctly. Reinsert it, making sure the<br />

cup opens up properly.<br />

I always wear dark underwear on my period in case there is a<br />

bit of leakage. You may want to use a reusable cloth panty<br />

liner for extra security if your flow is heavy.<br />

Could a cup make my cramps worse?<br />

Many people actually report that their cramps improve after<br />

they start using a cup ­ this could be because it helps to train<br />

your muscles.<br />

Once, when my cramps were really bad, I wondered if my cup<br />

was to blame. I experimentally removed it and put in a pad<br />

instead, and my cramps got even worse. Needless to say, I<br />

went back to the cup.<br />

A couple of times, I’ve felt an odd tugging or pinching<br />

sensation after inserting my cup. Removing and reinserting it<br />

always solves the problem ­ I think it happens when the cup<br />

suctions itself onto the wrong place!<br />

stain. Though it's harmless, it does look kind of gross.<br />

Luckily, there's an easy fix. Go to the pharmacy and get some<br />

hydrogen peroxide solution ­ 3 to 9%, the kind you can use to<br />

clean cuts. Put your cup in a glass or jar and add roughly one<br />

part hydrogen peroxide solution to 3 parts water (I never<br />

measure). Leave it to soak for at least a few hours ­ you'll<br />

soon notice the stains starting to disappear. I leave mine in the<br />

jar till it looks completely clean.<br />

Note: many manufacturers recommend against using<br />

hydrogen peroxide on cups. I did my research and found no<br />

evidence that it could have any negative impact on the cup.<br />

Many people say they have used it without issue; I've soaked<br />

my cup multiple times with only good results. I suspect the<br />

manufacturers just want you to buy a new one!<br />

How long will my cup last?<br />

Most manufacturers say that their cups will last about 10<br />

years. I can easily see them lasting even longer if properly<br />

taken care of. Mine is showing no sign of wear after 3 years.<br />

Can I wear my cup at night/to go<br />

swimming?<br />

Yes to both!<br />

I can't/don't want to use a menstrual<br />

cup<br />

For those who can't, don't want to, or need a break from using<br />

a cup, please consider getting some reusable cloth pads to<br />

help the environment. Again, they may seem expensive<br />

upfront but will be far cheaper in the long run. I won't go into<br />

detail about those ­ this article is already long enough.<br />

So that's it. I hope I’ve convinced you that a menstrual cup is<br />

more than worth a try!<br />

If your cramps do seem to worsen after using a cup, it may be<br />

that your cup is the wrong shape or size, or too firm. Consider<br />

trying a different one. But most people should not experience<br />

any problems.<br />

How can I remove staining?<br />

About the writer<br />

Bethany is a freelance writer, blogger and the editor of<br />

<strong>Seedling</strong>. She loves books, long nature walks, cooking<br />

delicious plant­based food, meditation and yoga.<br />

After you've been using your cup for a while, it may begin to<br />

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