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<strong>Issue</strong> 4<br />

<strong>Vol</strong>ume 1<br />

EXPLORE<br />

HIJAB<br />

AROUND THE WORLD<br />

&<br />

MEN<br />

MAKEUP?<br />

VISUALISATION:<br />

Discovering Mind<br />

Power For Success<br />

HIND<br />

EMIRATI INFLUENCER<br />

AL MADANI<br />

www.out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.com


Quote<br />

of<br />

M onth<br />

the<br />

Don’t Let Yesterday<br />

Take Up Too Much<br />

Of Today.<br />

~ Will Rogers


Welcome back to <strong>Out</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>About</strong> <strong>STYLE</strong> <strong>Mag</strong>azine. I’m still laughing<br />

at this one piece of feedback we received on the last issue:<br />

“Awesome work! Every section is eye-catching <strong>and</strong> interesting. I’m<br />

a grown man <strong>and</strong> have enjoyed most of this magazine. You’ve done<br />

a good job of catering to an array of people from so many walks of<br />

life. The “ish” is sexy, educational <strong>and</strong> sophisticated. Kudos!”<br />

Message<br />

EDITOR’S<br />

This meant so much on so many levels, but it’s also the most<br />

hilarious piece of feedback we’ve gotten so far. Thanks again, bro.<br />

We are absolutely over the moon because we are able to produce<br />

a publication that appeals to both genders! Watch this space for<br />

there is so much more to come.<br />

In this issue, we take another trip around the world. And this time,<br />

we are exploring “Hijab around the world.” You’ll also notice that in<br />

this issue, we are focusing on our hijabi fashionistas <strong>and</strong> women who<br />

are looking to up their hijab fashion game. We’ve given you a style<br />

guide as well as a few interviews with hijab game changers. The<br />

Emirati influencer, Hind Al Madani, talks to us about her personal<br />

style as well as what she thinks about the fashion industry’s take on<br />

beauty <strong>and</strong> style these days.<br />

The Behind The Br<strong>and</strong> interview in this issue is inspirational,<br />

aspirational <strong>and</strong> emotional. We talk to Dukkan Media’s Omar Tom<br />

— a young entrepreneur creating waves in the creative media<br />

industry.<br />

Inside, you’ll also find makeup ideas for men, a comparison between<br />

dry brushing <strong>and</strong> exfoliating, visualisation techniques, chia seeds<br />

recipes <strong>and</strong> a look into hybrid fruits <strong>and</strong> vegetables.<br />

Our fitness features this month includes Yummy Mommy <strong>and</strong> the<br />

pros <strong>and</strong> cons of hot yoga.<br />

In the section “For the Culture,” Jerome gives us tips on how to stay<br />

true to ourselves. Travel with Leela — our travel blogger <strong>and</strong> guru<br />

takes us to the Siem Reap Temple in Cambodia. And everyone’s<br />

favourite, The Cam, is back with Nailed it, Beard Gang Cam with a<br />

look back at fashion at the White Party 2019.<br />

Again, we want our magazine to be entertaining, informative <strong>and</strong><br />

engaging, but above all, useful.<br />

I hope you will enjoy this issue. We would love to know if there are<br />

any topics you’d like to know more about. Please also send us your<br />

feedback <strong>and</strong> remember to share on your social media channels by<br />

using the hashtag #out<strong>and</strong>aboutstylemag.<br />

LOTS OF LOVE.<br />

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CONTENTS<br />

FASHION<br />

1. Fashion feature — Hind Al Madani<br />

2. My hijab<br />

3. Hijabi style guide<br />

4. Explore hijab around the world<br />

5. The Cam:<br />

• Nailed It<br />

• Beard Gang Cam<br />

• Who wore what to the 5th Annual White <strong>Out</strong> Party<br />

BEAUTY<br />

1. Men <strong>and</strong> makeup? 10 beauty tips for men<br />

2. Dry Brushing vs Exfoliating<br />

BEHIND THE BRAND<br />

1. Omar Tom - Founder <strong>and</strong> Manager Partner of<br />

Dukkan Media<br />

LIFE<strong>STYLE</strong><br />

1. Visualisation: Discovering Mind Power For Success<br />

2. 9 Amazing Chia Recipes You Should Try<br />

3. “10 Shockingly Man-made Fruits, Nuts <strong>and</strong><br />

Vegetables We Didn’t Know”<br />

4. Hot Yoga? The pros <strong>and</strong> cons<br />

5. Yummy Mommy<br />

TRAVEL<br />

1. Travel with Leela - Siem Reap Temple<br />

FOR THE CULTURE<br />

1. Stay True To You (Me)


FASHION<br />

FEATURE<br />

AL MADANI<br />

Hindalmadani


Today’s women seek inspiration from a myriad of sources.<br />

A woman who has been a leaf of inspiration for many<br />

hijab-donning (<strong>and</strong> other) women out there is the Emirati<br />

style influencer Hind Al Madani. She has managed to<br />

capture hearts <strong>and</strong> fashion trends from around the world<br />

without ever having shown her face on Instagram. Let’s<br />

read her story <strong>and</strong> get to know why this style blogger has<br />

become such a hit amongst hijabi women:


1<br />

TELL US A BIT ABOUT YOURSELF.<br />

My name is Hind Al Madani <strong>and</strong> I am a passionate<br />

Emirati lifestyle blogger <strong>and</strong> style influencer. I have<br />

new fashion era called “modesty” <strong>and</strong> add it to<br />

their fashion palette. Many are now catering to this<br />

type of style. It was a very proud moment when<br />

an educational background in Fine Arts along with<br />

H&M decided to shoot a hijabi model <strong>and</strong> start<br />

an MBA in Business Administration. My love for<br />

their first ever modest fashion line.<br />

fashion <strong>and</strong> travel was the biggest motivation to<br />

start my blogging journey. Through it, I try <strong>and</strong><br />

reach my goal of inspiring women across the globe<br />

through my day-to-day life activities.<br />

6<br />

WHO DO YOU LOOK TO FOR FASHION<br />

INSPIRATION?<br />

When it comes to inspiration, it’s not a matter of<br />

who, but of what <strong>and</strong> where. I get my inspiration<br />

2<br />

HOW DO YOU DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONAL<br />

<strong>STYLE</strong>?<br />

I describe my personal style as chic, elegant <strong>and</strong><br />

from the most uncommon things anyone can think<br />

of. I always think of my style as special <strong>and</strong> unique.<br />

Instead of getting my inspiration from individuals,<br />

modest with a sprinkle of confidence. I always<br />

I elicit from objects <strong>and</strong> places. This could be a<br />

like to experiment with different types of fabrics,<br />

beautifully designed invitation box or even a garden<br />

patterns <strong>and</strong> colours which has really helped me<br />

of roses. Inspiration is everywhere <strong>and</strong> it is limitless.<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> how to dress according to my body<br />

shape <strong>and</strong> size. I am not afraid to be a bit edgy as<br />

long as I stay true to my style <strong>and</strong> identity.<br />

7<br />

IF YOU COULD CHOOSE ONLY ONE<br />

ACCESSORY TO ‘SPICE UP’ YOUR OUTFIT,<br />

WHAT WOULD IT BE AND WHY?<br />

3<br />

WHAT’S THE IMPORTANCE OF THE HIJAB<br />

FOR A MUSLIM WOMAN, AND WHAT DO YOU<br />

LOVE MOST ABOUT IT?<br />

I would usually say both a bag <strong>and</strong> shoes, but if I<br />

had to choose one item, it would definitely be a<br />

bag. Unlike many people who opt for shoes <strong>and</strong><br />

Hijab is the ultimate form of modesty for a Muslim<br />

believe that it is the first thing someone will notice<br />

woman. It depicts both religion <strong>and</strong> culture. What<br />

about you, I feel that having a stunning bag that<br />

I love most about the hijab is that it adds to my<br />

compliments your outfit will give you more credit.<br />

identity. In today’s world, the hijab has evolved<br />

so much that it is now styled in many different<br />

ways without taking away from being modest. I<br />

personally love to experiment with different hijab<br />

8<br />

WESTERN MEDIA TENDS TO PORTRAY THE<br />

MOST FASHIONABLE WOMEN AS NON-HIJAB<br />

WEARING. WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?<br />

colours <strong>and</strong> materials to fit my personal style on<br />

Although I see this as unjust, sometimes it does<br />

many different occasions.<br />

not bother me at all. Being fashionable was never<br />

about showing the maximum amount of skin or by<br />

4<br />

WHAT ROLE DOES YOUR CULTURE PLAY IN<br />

YOUR FASHION CHOICES?<br />

My culture fits perfectly with my fashion choice<br />

exposing your hair as an accessory to your outfit.<br />

It is more about an individual’s sense of style from<br />

head to toe, regardless of what is being exposed.<br />

<strong>and</strong> style. Ever since I was younger, my style has<br />

It is not about how little you wear, but more of how<br />

always been modest even before I decided to wear<br />

you wear it. We can’t change the views of Western<br />

the abaya. Coming from the traditional Khaleeji<br />

media about fashion. What we can do is surely<br />

culture, I decided to take it upon myself <strong>and</strong> use<br />

continue to excel in our own fashion sense.<br />

my Instagram page as a medium of show the world<br />

5<br />

that abayas can be stylish <strong>and</strong> modern too.<br />

DO YOU EVER FEEL LIMITED BY FASHION<br />

BRANDS?<br />

In the past, I felt very limited because most of<br />

9<br />

WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGED IN<br />

THE FASHION INDUSTRY?<br />

Now that there is an awareness, I would like to<br />

see more br<strong>and</strong>s embracing the modest fashion<br />

line <strong>and</strong> acknowledge its power in the fashion<br />

the br<strong>and</strong>s were Western <strong>and</strong> catered to Western<br />

industry. I also want to see more hijabi models<br />

styles <strong>and</strong> choices. But that is no longer an issue<br />

being used as a face for many different br<strong>and</strong>s to<br />

for me, <strong>and</strong> for many women who fall under the<br />

represent the modest community internationally.<br />

modest category. Many Muslim Arab <strong>and</strong> non-Arab<br />

And lastly, I would really love if there was a fashion<br />

designers have emerged in the fashion market <strong>and</strong><br />

show or competition dedicated to modest<br />

today, the choices are limitless. This has forced<br />

fashion <strong>and</strong> hijabis that is aired internationally for<br />

Western designers to acknowledge the birth of a<br />

the world to see.


HIJAB<br />

MARIAM<br />

SHAIKH<br />

mariamshkh


Mariam Shaikh is an Indian brought up in the<br />

UAE. She runs an Instagram page that talks<br />

about modest fashion <strong>and</strong> how to make it<br />

easier for women. Her minimalistic personal<br />

style is both elegant <strong>and</strong> classic, inspired<br />

by both her religion <strong>and</strong> culture, along with<br />

styles from many other people around her.<br />

Her shoe game is most important as it sets<br />

off a minimal look.<br />

However, she does feel limited by the choice<br />

of clothes in today’s market, but knows that it’s<br />

definitely not as difficult as it used to be earlier.<br />

Her thoughts on the Western media engaging<br />

in fashion stereotyping revolves around the<br />

current trend of “more skin, more beautiful,<br />

hence, more fashionable.” Fashion isn’t about<br />

the amount of skin one shows; it’s about the<br />

comfort zone — is an idea she affirms.<br />

She strongly believes that the hijab is an<br />

honour given to Muslim women, though to<br />

others, it may just be a piece of cloth. Mariam<br />

considers her hijab as her right, honour <strong>and</strong><br />

a very important part of her faith. It gives her<br />

a sense of empowerment <strong>and</strong> confidence.<br />

And now, stereotypes are being broken as<br />

there are more hijabi women in the fashion<br />

industry, who show the world how capable<br />

Muslim women are when given the right<br />

platform <strong>and</strong> that the hijab doesn’t stop them<br />

from achieving anything.


HIJAB<br />

ALIFYA<br />

KOTHARI<br />

Alifya_kothari


Alifya<br />

Irfan Kothari is a chic<br />

Indian girl who loves her<br />

hijab. Ever since she began to<br />

wear one 4 years ago, the garment has<br />

become a part of her. She associates the<br />

religious headdress, the hijab with its<br />

literal meaning (‘to cover’) <strong>and</strong> believes<br />

it’s her protection. Alifya is amongst<br />

the many women who feel the hijab<br />

completes their outward appearance<br />

by encouraging them to dress more<br />

modestly <strong>and</strong> become a better version of<br />

themself.<br />

Alifya started sharing her style with the<br />

world with the intention of expressing the<br />

fact that you don’t need to sacrifice your<br />

modesty to be fashionable. Her elegant<br />

<strong>and</strong> funky outfits show just that.


HIJABI<br />

<strong>STYLE</strong><br />

GUIDE<br />

Wearing a hijab is more than<br />

just a trend. For many years<br />

now, different styles have been<br />

incorporated into this rather<br />

significant piece of clothing. Set<br />

the bar high as you take on one<br />

of these hijab fashion trends<br />

<strong>and</strong> utilise them to create your<br />

own distinct style.


WIDE<br />

PANTS<br />

FEVER<br />

Pull off your A game by<br />

donning a pair of wide pants<br />

that you can wear for work<br />

or on a coffee date. The best<br />

thing about this comfy clothing<br />

is that it complements any<br />

type of footwear — a pair of<br />

black stilettos, cool trainers<br />

or platform heels. Take a cue<br />

from this chic ruffle <strong>and</strong> wide<br />

leg combo that accentuates<br />

the hijab. The getup itself<br />

speaks a lot of your sense of<br />

style — simply sophisticated<br />

<strong>and</strong> stylish. If you want<br />

more drama, throw in some<br />

statement accessories or opt<br />

for a head-turner bag. And<br />

remember, it’s not too late to<br />

take your fashionable hijab to<br />

the next level!


Who would overlook this vibrant<br />

blend of cheerful hues? Starting with<br />

your bright hijab, be daring in your<br />

approach to playing with colours. You<br />

can opt for a monochrome top <strong>and</strong><br />

a multi-coloured bottom. Or if you<br />

enjoy attention, don a fascinating<br />

print-<strong>and</strong>-pattern combo. This may<br />

sound challenging, but it actually<br />

works as long you know how to carry<br />

yourself! So go show your spirited<br />

personality to the whole world with<br />

beaming colours <strong>and</strong> bold designs.<br />

VIBRANT<br />

COLOURS &<br />

PATTERNS


PRETTY PASTELS<br />

& EARTHY TONES<br />

Pastel-coloured outfits are in vogue all year long. What’s<br />

beautiful about pastel <strong>and</strong> earthy shades is that they match<br />

a variety of skin tones, can be spruced up with a sprinkle of<br />

bling or accessories <strong>and</strong> go with both sultry <strong>and</strong> coral makeup.<br />

These shades also bring out the subtle feminine element in<br />

your attire <strong>and</strong> are perfect work <strong>and</strong> play. Light coloured<br />

blouses <strong>and</strong> chic pants also complement hijabs of various<br />

materials <strong>and</strong> shades.


STRIPES,<br />

STRIPES,<br />

STRIPES!<br />

It’s time to master the art of<br />

wearing stripes with ruffled<br />

stripe dresses topped with a<br />

plain hijab. Stripes, of course,<br />

is one of the most flattering<br />

patterns of all time. It always<br />

has a spot in the fashion scene<br />

because of its versatility <strong>and</strong><br />

chicness. Whilst the most<br />

popular stripe combo is blue<br />

<strong>and</strong> white, you can definitely<br />

add more colours into the<br />

pattern for a more distinct<br />

look. Since the clothing itself is<br />

already a head-turner, you can<br />

tone down the hue <strong>and</strong> style of<br />

your footwear. A pair of single<br />

colour heels would do!


FANCY<br />

FLORALS<br />

For a more feminine touch,<br />

take your favourite florals out of<br />

your wardrobe <strong>and</strong> strut around<br />

in them for a while. Without a<br />

doubt, florals are a breath of<br />

fresh air, making it a sought-after<br />

style during spring or summer.<br />

These charming patterns<br />

complement a black, white<br />

or pastel hijab perfectly. And<br />

what’s more, there are heaps of<br />

floral styles to choose from. For<br />

an office-approved ensemble,<br />

grab your sophisticated floral<br />

top <strong>and</strong> pair it with trousers.<br />

Don’t forget your statement<br />

blazer! And if you’re just running<br />

your err<strong>and</strong>s, then wear your<br />

simplest <strong>and</strong> cosiest floral dress<br />

with your hijab.


MONOCHROME<br />

MADNESS<br />

If you’re not a fan of mixing<br />

<strong>and</strong> matching, then you should<br />

try minimalist styling. This is<br />

probably the easiest way to<br />

loosen the burden of fashion<br />

uncertainty. Reality check —<br />

there are days when you don’t<br />

want to unleash your fashion<br />

genie. When that happens, you<br />

can always take a bit of style<br />

inspiration from this simple<br />

yet sophisticated attire. The<br />

monochrome wardrobe <strong>and</strong><br />

neutral hijab are enough to give<br />

you those refined vibes.


SPORTSWEAR<br />

MANIA<br />

Loose shirt <strong>and</strong> black leggings have<br />

never looked this cool with a hijab!<br />

Gone are the days when the hijab is<br />

meant only for dresses or other superfeminine<br />

attires. Now, the fashion<br />

game has evolved, <strong>and</strong> you can pair<br />

them with sportswear <strong>and</strong> even baggy<br />

clothes. This ensemble is such a great<br />

fashion statement. And if you’re<br />

planning to rock this attire, opting for<br />

monochrome colours will be a perfect<br />

start! From there, you can work your<br />

styling skills <strong>and</strong> discover what fits you<br />

better.


DENIM<br />

CRAZE<br />

Of course, denim will never go out<br />

of style. And in recent years, the<br />

trend has embraced the old-school<br />

pair of jeans — when high-waisted<br />

<strong>and</strong> flared. This kind of style gives<br />

us the 70s vibe, where comfort is<br />

a top priority above all. Denim can<br />

be paired with almost everything<br />

under the sun — sweaters, blouses<br />

or statement t-shirts. Whatever your<br />

choice, you can still get that coveted<br />

comfort <strong>and</strong> chicness with denim. A<br />

piece of advice — if you want to rock<br />

your flattering silhouette, team your<br />

flare denim jeans with a slim-fitting<br />

top.


PLEATED<br />

SKIRTS<br />

Lately, fashion has been revolving<br />

around loose yet refined styles. For<br />

any self-confessed stylish trendsetter,<br />

pleated skirts are must-haves in the<br />

wardrobe. Say goodbye to pencil skirts<br />

<strong>and</strong> hello to these super classy skirts<br />

lined with delicate folds. Since pleated<br />

skirts exude an old age charm, stay true<br />

to its style by matching it with ruffles or<br />

bell sleeves. If you’re wearing a bright<br />

skirt, you may want to pair it with tonal<br />

or earthy hues for a better balance. And<br />

while recent trends have mainly focused<br />

on chunky trainers with your skirt, you<br />

can still pick the footwear of your choice<br />

as almost every type will go with it.


STYLISH<br />

CARDIGANS<br />

Cardigans are always on top of their<br />

game all year-round. These wardrobe<br />

staples complement your hijab like a<br />

pro. And if you’re unsure of the colour<br />

coding, a black <strong>and</strong> white combo with<br />

a hint of gold <strong>and</strong> silver is truly a quick<br />

wardrobe success! There’s something<br />

about monochrome colours that keep<br />

this accessory trending it’s classic,<br />

sophisticated <strong>and</strong> simple. Of course,<br />

you can still accessorise your pleasingly<br />

straightforward colour selection by<br />

selecting more refreshing accessory<br />

shades <strong>and</strong> designs.


HIJAB AROUND THE WORLD


UAE<br />

In the UAE, most women wear a large,<br />

silky rectangular scarf known as the<br />

shayla. The most common shaylas are<br />

of black colour, although there are<br />

others that come in different shades.<br />

When using the shayla, adding<br />

elastic hair ties, large clips, as well as<br />

headb<strong>and</strong>s, create more volume to<br />

the way the hijab is wrapped around<br />

the head. This is a common way of<br />

stylising the shayla scarf while holding<br />

it steady at the same time.<br />

MALAYSIA<br />

Tudung or tudong is a Malay word,<br />

which means ‘cover or veil.’ It is one<br />

of the famous variations of the hijab<br />

in Southeast Asia. Some tudungs<br />

are decorated in several colours <strong>and</strong><br />

panels, while others come in just one<br />

colour. The round panel that shapes<br />

the front side of the wearer’s face<br />

accentuates the facial beauty, thus<br />

making it a popular pick in Malaysia.<br />

Some Malaysian women prefer to<br />

combine two complementing colours of<br />

the hijab, along with an inside cap. This<br />

gives a clear, bright <strong>and</strong> feminine touch<br />

around the woman’s crown.


PAKISTAN<br />

Dupatta is a shawl-like vibrant scarf worn<br />

by women in the Indian subcontinent.<br />

Covering the head, neck, shoulders,<br />

depending on individual preference, the<br />

dupatta’s light material is what makes it<br />

so comfortable to wear. On its edges<br />

are gorgeous <strong>and</strong> intricate patterns that<br />

add to the scarf’s bewitching designs.<br />

Women like to harmonise their brightcoloured<br />

dupattas with vivid dresses.<br />

Plus, the rectangular fabric is usually<br />

embellished with accessories.<br />

KUWAIT<br />

Easy to wear <strong>and</strong> classy is what the<br />

Kuwaiti hijab truly is. This style consists<br />

of only one piece of cloth that secures<br />

the head in a form-fitting manner. The<br />

stretchable hijab is tied into a scarf<br />

that covers all the way down to the<br />

neck, <strong>and</strong> sometimes, even up to the<br />

shoulders <strong>and</strong> chest. Other styles,<br />

however, include putting the rest of<br />

the long scarf on one side <strong>and</strong> letting it<br />

flow at the back. The overall design of<br />

the Kuwaiti hijab is uncomplicated, yet<br />

remarkable <strong>and</strong> sophisticated.


JORDAN<br />

Jordanian women love to express both<br />

their faith <strong>and</strong> fashion through their<br />

hijabs. Some women are quite particular<br />

in choosing their hijabs as this becomes<br />

a part of their self-expression, without<br />

having to ab<strong>and</strong>on the importance of<br />

their religious beliefs. They also like to<br />

pick their hijabs according to the colour<br />

of their dresses or shirts. The style of<br />

hijab in Jordan is quite similar to those<br />

in some other Middle Eastern countries.<br />

It is wrapped comfortably around the<br />

head <strong>and</strong> neck.<br />

SAUDI<br />

ARABIA<br />

Covering oneself head to toe <strong>and</strong><br />

excluding only the eyes is how many<br />

women in Saudi Arabia wear their head<br />

attire. This veil, known as the niqab, is<br />

a long smooth piece of cloth that has<br />

a small slit for the eyes. Some women<br />

go for the half-niqab while others prefer<br />

the full-niqab. Either of these two veils<br />

mark the graceful femininity of women.


TURKEY<br />

Expressing one’s religious belief <strong>and</strong><br />

modesty in clothing does not mean you<br />

can no longer be chic <strong>and</strong> stylish. In fact,<br />

Turkish women look extremely dashing<br />

in the silky, square fabric that covers<br />

their head <strong>and</strong> neck. This is known as an<br />

esarp, the hijab most common in Turkey.<br />

The secret to keeping the fabric in place<br />

is putting an inner cap before wearing<br />

the esarp, which helps accentuate<br />

one’s face shape <strong>and</strong> features. Wearing<br />

this fabric is also a way of celebrating<br />

Turkish hijab fashion.<br />

SUDAN<br />

Sudanese women wear different types<br />

of hijabs, but the rise of turbans has<br />

been a trending wave across the fashion<br />

industry. Most women prefer to lift their<br />

hijabs in the form of a turban to keep<br />

them comfortable in the boiling heat<br />

of the sun. The hijab can be curled<br />

on the side or in front, depending<br />

on preference. The fabrics also have<br />

detailed designs <strong>and</strong> glowing motifs.<br />

Because of the stylish effect of the<br />

turban, it has been adopted by many<br />

modern women as a major fashion<br />

statement.


INDONESIA<br />

Doa Gaun is the most widely worn<br />

attire by Muslim Indonesian women,<br />

especially when attending worship<br />

ceremonies. As a full-body cloak, this<br />

veil reveals only the face while wrapping<br />

the head <strong>and</strong> the body. The cotton attire<br />

mainly consists of a headscarf as well as<br />

a gown, which women can wear over a<br />

dress. When tying the veil, an elegant<br />

ribbon can be used to bring out the<br />

snazzy element in this hijab.<br />

SOMALIA<br />

Women in Somalia style their hijab in a<br />

snug manner with the headscarf lifted<br />

above their necks. The turban wraps<br />

comfortably around the hair, exuding a<br />

simple yet modish look. How the turbans<br />

are knotted in this elevated manner<br />

varies — Some opt for the quick front<br />

swirl or the plain front tied versions.<br />

Because of the country’s hot weather,<br />

the turban is usually the first accessory<br />

choice for most Somali women when<br />

going out in the sun. The head wraps<br />

are commonly adorned with intricate<br />

designs <strong>and</strong> colours.


KENYA<br />

Like in most African countries, turbanstyled<br />

hijabs are a major style boost.<br />

And it’s the same for most Kenyan<br />

women. They like to match their hijabs<br />

with hoops <strong>and</strong> other dangling earrings<br />

to reveal the beauty of the elevated<br />

scarves. The best <strong>and</strong> simplest ways of<br />

tying a hijab are the milkmaid, wrap-turn,<br />

criss-cross <strong>and</strong> floral styles. Aside from<br />

the turban, they also love wearing the<br />

traditional hijab that flows extensively<br />

below or till the knees. niqab <strong>and</strong> burqa<br />

are used by some women <strong>and</strong> school<br />

girls.<br />

EGYPT<br />

A choice for some women in Egypt is<br />

the minimalistic design of khimar. Only<br />

one colour is usually used for hijab.<br />

Beginning from the head <strong>and</strong> going<br />

all the way down from the neck to the<br />

shoulders, the khimar drapes smoothly<br />

around the lower part of the body. This<br />

becomes an almost full-body garment<br />

that can match your chosen outfit.


IRAQ<br />

The sophisticated element of black or<br />

a mix of colours is the winning factor<br />

of this traditional garment known as<br />

the chador. Iraqi women often clothe<br />

themselves in this sleek <strong>and</strong> flowy robe<br />

that slides loosely from their head to<br />

feet while attached to a small headscarf.<br />

Since chadors don’t have any buttons,<br />

women are to hold the fabric in order<br />

to wrap it around their bodies. This<br />

is a full-body fabric that leaves an<br />

effortlessly stunning <strong>and</strong> enigmatic<br />

look, symbolising the wearer’s pride,<br />

honour <strong>and</strong> faith.<br />

INDIA<br />

The most striking thing about the<br />

Indian hijab style is its rich colour<br />

combinations. Muslim women in India<br />

wear the hijab with the sari, where a<br />

collision of patterns <strong>and</strong> colours light<br />

up their ensemble. Some decorate the<br />

hijab with clips or pins when tying it up<br />

while others simply let it stay loose. The<br />

conventional style adopted by Muslims<br />

in India is usually the full-body length<br />

hijab that is carried with their h<strong>and</strong>s.<br />

However, newer generations now<br />

welcome hijabs covering only the head<br />

<strong>and</strong> neck.


KOSOVO<br />

Although the colours <strong>and</strong> styles of<br />

hijabs used in Kosovo largely vary, the<br />

sight of soft hues is easily noted as a<br />

favourite by women. Kosovar women<br />

usually prefer cream or pastel colours,<br />

which is a great way to match dresses of<br />

darker colour. Some are stylised in floral<br />

patterns <strong>and</strong> others in vogue designs.<br />

Using a coloured inner cap also makes<br />

the hijab more secured <strong>and</strong> shapely.<br />

This hijab is either shoulder-length or<br />

free-flowing atop their dresses.<br />

ALBANIA<br />

Like most hijabs, the type worn by<br />

the women in Albania is made up of<br />

a light material, which is mostly silk.<br />

What makes the Albanian style of hijab<br />

interesting is the beautiful blends of<br />

the headpiece. Accessories are added<br />

as a part of the traditional clothes<br />

worn by Albanian ladies during special<br />

ceremonies. Tied to the cloth are circleshaped<br />

ornaments that dangle <strong>and</strong><br />

match with their earrings <strong>and</strong> the colour<br />

of their hijab <strong>and</strong> dress.


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SEASON 8 S/S18 | 5 TH – 6 TH JULY<br />

2019 DUBAI, UAE<br />

International Fashion Week Dubai<br />

(IFWD), organised by Opulence Events<br />

LLC, has announced that the next edition<br />

of the globally famous fashion event is to<br />

be held at the Sofitel Dubai, The Palm<br />

Resort <strong>and</strong> Spa from 5 th to 6 th July 2019.<br />

IFWD Season 8S/S8 will keep with<br />

the trends <strong>and</strong> will, once again, bring<br />

together designers <strong>and</strong> exhibitors<br />

from around the world for yet another<br />

successful <strong>and</strong> diversified show. Always<br />

aiming to bring different trends <strong>and</strong><br />

fashions together, this season will also<br />

showcase the best of designers with their<br />

outst<strong>and</strong>ing collections.<br />

The MD <strong>and</strong> founder of IFWD, Ms.<br />

Cheryle Dias, mentions that Dubai is<br />

quickly growing into an international hub<br />

for fashion <strong>and</strong> business. For designers<br />

to focus only on their fashions, the IFWD<br />

becomes the biggest opportunity to<br />

participate <strong>and</strong> receive wider exposure<br />

<strong>and</strong> br<strong>and</strong>ing in local <strong>and</strong> international<br />

markets. The event will also add<br />

marketing value to their products by<br />

introducing them to various buyers.<br />

The IFWD has set a benchmark in the<br />

fashion industry of Dubai. It has also


attracted various international designers to the city to<br />

explore the market <strong>and</strong> set up businesses there. The<br />

event also gives opportunities for international <strong>and</strong> local<br />

designers to showcase their latest collections <strong>and</strong> attract<br />

buyers while also sustaining <strong>and</strong> br<strong>and</strong>ing themselves.<br />

The fashion week will feature fashion shows <strong>and</strong> showrooms.<br />

In these events, 15 established <strong>and</strong> emerging designers<br />

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Over 20 media partners, bloggers <strong>and</strong> influencers will be a<br />

part of this great event. There will also be the International<br />

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The event will be attended by many from the fashion<br />

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dignitaries, people from councils <strong>and</strong> fashion universities,<br />

influencers, bloggers, Chambers of Commerce<br />

representatives, entrepreneurs, fashion buyers <strong>and</strong> media<br />

from all across the world.<br />

Season 7 of the IFWD was very successful with designers<br />

having participated from France, UK, Italy, India, Syria,<br />

UAE, Pol<strong>and</strong>, etc. The event was attended by prominent<br />

members of the royal family which included H.H Sheikh<br />

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IFWD is ranked as the top <strong>and</strong> most sustainable fashion<br />

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already launched its br<strong>and</strong> in Milan (IFWM) on 23 Feb 2019<br />

with massive success <strong>and</strong> will be launching in Paris (IFWP)<br />

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the subsequent seasons in Dubai, Milan <strong>and</strong> Paris.<br />

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The IFWD sustainability <strong>and</strong> credibility in the international<br />

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captured international <strong>and</strong> local media attention which<br />

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M A K E U P<br />

M A D N E S S<br />

WITH<br />

MEN &<br />

MAKEUP?<br />

10 BEAUTY TIPS<br />

FOR MEN!<br />

Yes, you read that right! Today, we are diving face-first<br />

into the most controversial <strong>and</strong> widely acknowledged<br />

subject in the beauty world till date — Should a man<br />

wear makeup? And if so, how can he wear it without<br />

going full-on glam?<br />

Well, my answer to both questions is definitely<br />

Y-E-S! Now hold up… I’m not suggesting that you<br />

pull a Bretman Rock on us, even though he slays his<br />

makeup every day. All I am saying is that you can<br />

add a little something here <strong>and</strong> there to step up<br />

your male grooming game. So, let’s explore the top<br />

beauty products for men in the list below:<br />

01<br />

FULL-COVERAGE CREAM OR LIQUID FOUNDATION<br />

Danessa Myricks Beauty basically h<strong>and</strong>ed out the keys to<br />

‘complexion’ heaven when they launched their all-in-one foundation<br />

<strong>and</strong> concealer (Velvet Cream Cover) for EVERY skin tone out here<br />

on the street. This buildable duo only requires you to place 3-4 dots<br />

of the cream, starting from under the inner tear duct of each eye<br />

<strong>and</strong> following the pattern of where an under-eye bag would rest<br />

itself. Use a damp beauty blender or sponge to properly blend in<br />

the cream. Then, build a clean even look by adding more product<br />

based on your desired facial outcome! You now look refreshed <strong>and</strong><br />

awake!


02<br />

BROW TINT<br />

Believe me or not, there are MANY products available<br />

for men to tint their moustaches, beards <strong>and</strong> sideburns.<br />

So why not take it a step forward <strong>and</strong> tint those brows<br />

while you’re grooming? I’m just saying, if you are going<br />

to go as far as to tint your beard, then why not make the<br />

carpet match the drapes <strong>and</strong> tint those BROWS?! As a<br />

woman, my brows set the tone to my face which in turn<br />

makes my makeup look awesome. Think of it in the same<br />

way for a man. Even if you have the most desired haircut<br />

<strong>and</strong> a facial hair trim to match, wouldn’t everything just<br />

look so much better if you also kept those brows of yours<br />

in check? You’ll thank me later.<br />

03<br />

SETTING POWDERS OR LOOSE POWDERS<br />

Set that concealer, boys! You have already taken your beauty<br />

routine to the next level. So why not make sure it lasts all day?<br />

Use setting powders by Makeup Forever,<br />

Laura Mercier or my personal favourite<br />

cruelty-Mercier or Beauty Bakerie, to<br />

lock that concealer in <strong>and</strong> minimise<br />

shine along those T-zone areas.<br />

04<br />

COLOUR CORRECTORS<br />

Now, this is where beauty products can become a bit complicated to use at the beginning. So, let<br />

me break this one down for you.<br />

A good colour corrector guide should always remind you of a colour wheel. We use complementary<br />

colours to neutralise each other when they are mixed. The goal is to create a more even-toned skin<br />

colour as follows:<br />

Peach:<br />

Green:<br />

Yellow:<br />

Blue:<br />

Lavender:<br />

Use to eliminate or minimise dark circles <strong>and</strong><br />

discolouration<br />

Perfect for disguising redness<br />

Most popular because it reduces the shade of<br />

under-eye circles<br />

For yellow patches of skin<br />

For yellow undertones


HOW TO USE COLOUR CORRECTORS:<br />

STEP 1 STEP 2 STEP 3 STEP 4<br />

Apply a colour<br />

corrector<br />

from the<br />

Urban Decay’s<br />

Naked Skin<br />

collection<br />

after primer,<br />

right before<br />

applying<br />

concealer.<br />

Next, apply<br />

your colour<br />

corrector<br />

with a beauty<br />

blender,<br />

applicator<br />

w<strong>and</strong> or by<br />

simply using<br />

your fingers.<br />

Blend!<br />

Blend!<br />

Blend!<br />

This is where<br />

your concealer<br />

has the chance<br />

to make its<br />

entrance. Don’t<br />

forget to set<br />

everything you<br />

have just done<br />

with a good<br />

setting powder.<br />

05<br />

BEAUTY BLENDER AND SPONGE<br />

Now, this right here is a beauty must-have for every<br />

man, woman <strong>and</strong> child. None of your foundation,<br />

concealer or corrector application matters unless you<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> the importance of a good BLEND! And<br />

the best way to do this is to use a Beauty Blender.<br />

Their website has some amazing tips on the best<br />

ways to get the most out your Beauty Blender.<br />

06<br />

RETINOL + SUPER C + HYALURONIC ACID<br />

If you have absolutely no clue as to how to use these<br />

three skincare ingredients, let me school you really<br />

quickly — retinol helps to softens <strong>and</strong> often times,<br />

eliminate the appearance of wrinkles <strong>and</strong> dark spots<br />

from acne scarring. Super C Brightening Serum<br />

by Urban RX is the definition of ‘youthful skin in a<br />

bottle’. Softly rub this serum over your face <strong>and</strong> neck<br />

areas before you apply any other facial moisturiser.<br />

lastly, hyaluronic acid is hydration for the skin. Your<br />

very own skin cells naturally produce hyaluronic acid<br />

to maintain any sort of natural moisture you may<br />

have. Apply a single gram of hyaluronic acid onto<br />

your face <strong>and</strong> it equates to SIX litres of water. Yeah,<br />

that’s right. Try it <strong>and</strong> thank me later.


07<br />

BODY FOUNDATION<br />

Body foundation helps to give an even-toned skin<br />

from the face to the body. If you are often shirtless or<br />

happen to rock open chest shirts a lot, <strong>and</strong> your body<br />

<strong>and</strong> face skin tones vary by 2 to 3 shades, then this<br />

might be the solution for you. Granted you can get a<br />

simple spray tan, but if you don’t want that hassle <strong>and</strong><br />

prefer immediate results, try Dior’s Backstage Body<br />

Foundation. There are a total of 40 shades to choose<br />

from! Apply a small amount of primer on the clean<br />

skin of the area you wish to cover. Then place a drop<br />

or two on the back your h<strong>and</strong> or onto a beauty mixing<br />

tray. Use a damp Beauty Blender to start applying <strong>and</strong><br />

blending the body foundation onto the desired areas.<br />

I would recommend setting this with a setting spray of<br />

your choice to reduce shine <strong>and</strong> make it last longer.<br />

08<br />

EYELINER OR GUYLINER<br />

If you want that gazed-smudgy-sexy eye look, then rock<br />

some guyliner! This male grooming practice dates as far<br />

back as Egyptian times. And I highly doubt it will ever go<br />

away. Any eyeliner from a beauty br<strong>and</strong> of your choice will<br />

help you achieve this look. Check out some options from<br />

Men’s Makeup UK.<br />

09<br />

TINTED LIP BALM OR LIP OILS<br />

If you want to avoid looking like you have applied<br />

lipstick, then choose a colour that is natural or clear.<br />

Burt’s Bees has an amazing selection of sheer light<br />

colours that are 100% natural. Coconut oil also helps to<br />

keep your lips moisturised throughout the day.


10<br />

LIP SCRUBS<br />

Lip scrubs are a must have! Use Beauty Bakerie’s Vanilla Sugar<br />

Lip daily to secure soft lips for a long time. It’s simple to use<br />

<strong>and</strong> feels so good afterwards. Apply this scrub to your lips each<br />

night in a circular motion to remove dead skin that create a<br />

chapped <strong>and</strong> flaky dry lip. Add this step to your nightly facial<br />

cleansing routine <strong>and</strong> wake up with kissable soft lips.<br />

Katrina Long is the owner <strong>and</strong> Creative<br />

Director at The Beauty Studio, Middle East,<br />

a design <strong>and</strong> br<strong>and</strong>ing company. She is<br />

also the owner of several br<strong>and</strong>s including<br />

Kemet Lash Co., Melanin Deep Beauty, the<br />

Nail Hustle <strong>and</strong> Style Addicts Confidential.<br />

She is an African-American Texas native with<br />

a collegiate <strong>and</strong> professional background in<br />

government financial audit. Katrina is a shoe<br />

aficionado <strong>and</strong> owns over 200+ pairs.


DRY BRUSHING<br />

VS EXFOLIATING<br />

Getting smooth <strong>and</strong> glowing skin is an exciting yet tiring process! And it<br />

doesn’t just happen overnight. We’re pretty sure you may have already<br />

tried dry brushing, exfoliating <strong>and</strong> other methods of taking care of skin.<br />

Today, we’ll bust a few myths about skin care <strong>and</strong> give you tips on whether<br />

dry brushing or exfoliating is right for your skin.<br />

So here’s a way of getting things done — one scrub at a time!<br />

Exfoliating <strong>and</strong> dry brushing are two skincare techniques that have lasting<br />

effect on your skin. But using both the techniques together might not be a<br />

good idea. Instead, choose the right one for your skin <strong>and</strong> enjoy its benefits<br />

better. If you’re having some thoughts about which one is apt for your daily<br />

skin care routine, continue reading...


WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE?<br />

Since it’s your skin’s welfare that’s on the line, knowing<br />

which method works best for you is a top priority. Now, you<br />

may have heard about the benefits <strong>and</strong> miracle stories each<br />

method has brought to many. Underst<strong>and</strong>ing the nature of<br />

exfoliation <strong>and</strong> dry brushing firsth<strong>and</strong> is the springboard to<br />

knowing what these methods actually do to your skin <strong>and</strong><br />

reaping the benefits of each one.<br />

ABOUT EXFOLIATION<br />

To be pretty simple, exfoliation refers to the daily process of<br />

scrubbing your skin until all the dead skin cells are removed.<br />

Sometimes, you do this out of habit every morning or with<br />

the conscious intention of pampering your skin. Exfoliating<br />

is done with the help of any exfoliating tool.<br />

Brushes, washcloths as well as creams suited to your skin<br />

type are the most common exfoliating instruments you<br />

can find at almost any store. While you’re in the process<br />

of exfoliation, you must always have plenty of supply of<br />

one particular lubricant for casting off dead skin from the<br />

surface, i.e., water, which is not so the case when it comes<br />

to dry brushing.<br />

one is more effective will have to depend primarily on your<br />

skin type. If you have sensitive skin, dry brushing may not<br />

be the best technique for you. Exfoliating is a lot better for<br />

those who have fragile or thin skin. For people with oily<br />

skin, on the other h<strong>and</strong>, dry scrubbing is a great option as<br />

there’s no need to fill necessary moisture to make your skin<br />

smoother.<br />

Next off, the climate also contributes to how your skin will<br />

react to both processes. For some folks, winter season<br />

basically leads to drier skin. Dry brushing is a good<br />

option at that time. Pull out the best dry scrubs you own<br />

<strong>and</strong> sweep it across areas which need most tender care<br />

during this season. However, other people also opt for wet<br />

exfoliation since the cold climate can react to their easilyirritated<br />

skin. Again, your skin type is something you need<br />

to consider. Either way, both methods work effectively. And<br />

for those in places with a humid climate, dry brushing is<br />

not just practical, it’s also in vogue.<br />

WHICH IS A GENTLER APPROACH?<br />

Although dry-brushing has been very much in fashion,<br />

there are still a few things that you need to be wary of. Dry<br />

brushing is more abrasive in removing dead skin cells when<br />

ABOUT DRY BRUSHING<br />

<strong>About</strong> the only difference dry brushing has from exfoliation<br />

is that it does not involve water. Although dry brushing is<br />

still a form of exfoliation, this method only involves a long<br />

dry brush that easily reaches any part of your skin.<br />

WHICH METHOD IS MORE EFFECTIVE?<br />

To make things clear, both methods have a great<br />

impact on the appearance <strong>and</strong> texture of<br />

your skin. However, judging which


compared to exfoliation. Choosing a brush that is made up<br />

of strong, rough bristles is more like attempting to light a<br />

fire on your skin. There’s just too much friction going on. It<br />

will only take a while before your skin will no longer be able<br />

to h<strong>and</strong>le so much irritation.<br />

Besides, remember that when you dry brush, your goal is<br />

to remove dead skin <strong>and</strong> prevent it from having that dry<br />

look <strong>and</strong> feel. However, if you’re not attentive enough<br />

when dry brushing, there’s a fat chance that you may leave<br />

more harm than good to your skin. Shredding your skin,<br />

leaving cuts on areas that are much too delicate, acquiring<br />

skin infections <strong>and</strong> making your skin even drier are the last<br />

things you want to deal with in your skincare routine.<br />

Exfoliating, on the other h<strong>and</strong>, lets you avoid these risks.<br />

If you’re looking for a more gentle method, exfoliating<br />

definitely tops the list. In this way, you can prevent irritation<br />

especially in sensitive areas, <strong>and</strong> yet make your skin shiny<br />

in the long run.<br />

WHICH IS A MORE BENEFICIAL TECHNIQUE?<br />

Dry brushing is preferred by women these days a reason;<br />

there are a lot of good things that it really brings. Aside from<br />

the fact that it actually softens your skin, reduces puffiness<br />

<strong>and</strong> makes your skin less flaky, dry brushing also has other<br />

health benefits. Doing this technique daily has helped in<br />

relieving stress <strong>and</strong> has even become a form of meditation<br />

for some people. Other claims have also pointed out its<br />

benefits to the lymphatic system <strong>and</strong> blood circulation.<br />

On the whole, dry brushing doesn’t just target your skin’s<br />

wellbeing, but also your system’s in general.<br />

IMPORTANT SKIN CARE TIPS<br />

Final notes on this big skin care regime — you need to<br />

settle for nylon, non-toxic <strong>and</strong> natural bristles so that you<br />

can rub more gently <strong>and</strong> smoothly on different areas of the<br />

skin. Plus, following the proper way of stroking with the<br />

scrub when you’re dry brushing is very important. Moving it<br />

in a smooth upwards manner is the best way to scrub. Note<br />

that some skin problems pretty much lie in the quality of<br />

your brush <strong>and</strong> in your way of brushing.<br />

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TELL US A BIT ABOUT YOURSELF<br />

My name is Omar Tom, commonly known as ‘OT.’ I’m<br />

the managing partner at Dukkan Media which is a multiplatform<br />

content creation company as well as a creative<br />

marketing consultancy.<br />

My expertise pretty much started in the advertising industry<br />

where I was working as a strategist — which is a fancy way<br />

of saying I get paid for my opinion. I would do a lot of<br />

quantitative <strong>and</strong> qualitative research <strong>and</strong> get to underst<strong>and</strong><br />

a marketplace, city or country with the people in it, their<br />

behaviours, their do’s <strong>and</strong> don’t, cultures, subcultures,<br />

traditions, routines, etc. I’d take all that information <strong>and</strong><br />

develop a strategic opinion based on it. That then gets<br />

taken in by the creative team <strong>and</strong> they develop advertising<br />

based on what I shared. It’s like a glorified anthropologist<br />

in a way, which is cool.<br />

Before that, when I was in university, I worked in the radio as<br />

an RJ. I was a co-host <strong>and</strong> learnt to work the radio systems.<br />

I didn’t DJ, but most of the people there were DJs.<br />

At the time, I was in the US, living in the Bay Area in<br />

Oakl<strong>and</strong>. I discovered podcasting out there. There was<br />

no red tape, rules, regulations <strong>and</strong> hierarchy in the radio<br />

business in the US. I could just create my own show <strong>and</strong><br />

express myself truly. And I love that idea! So I packed my<br />

bag, moved back to Dubai <strong>and</strong> decided to launch the<br />

podcast, which was the Dukkan Show. And that eventually<br />

elevated itself to becoming a full business.<br />

DUKKAN MEDIA — HOW DID IT ALL START?<br />

It started with the podcast, the Dukkan Show. ‘Dukkan’<br />

means a small shop, a corner store or grocery. The reason<br />

why I liked the name was because I believe that the dukkan<br />

is the cornerstone of a community. Anywhere in the world,<br />

the shopkeeper will know everybody in the neighbourhood.<br />

It’s the place where people come <strong>and</strong> hang out. A hair<br />

salon is where girls get together <strong>and</strong> talk. A barber shop<br />

gives the same experience. In that sense, the grocery store<br />

is the essence of community, development <strong>and</strong> growth. In<br />

every community, you’ve got one. So for those of us who<br />

are an ethnic minority, that’s the place we felt like home.<br />

This thought was the birth of the show. It developed while<br />

I was working at the agency <strong>and</strong> pitching for a mega<br />

project. I was the lead strategist then. Throughout the<br />

project, people didn’t buy into my idea, but I stood my<br />

ground. The reason why people were hesitant was that my<br />

entire strategy was built off a 3-minute conversation I had<br />

with a guest on the podcast. They were hesitant because<br />

it defied all the research that was already available online<br />

done by other people.<br />

My inspiration was a Saudi Arabian YouTuber, Fahad<br />

Albutairi, known as the Seinfeld of Saudi Arabia. The<br />

beautiful thing about his comedy was that it’s very society<br />

dependant. He picks up these little nuances based on<br />

what he sees on the street. I thought that was just beautiful<br />

<strong>and</strong> built my entire strategy on this 3-minute conversation.<br />

Luckily, we ended up locking a $5 million business. That<br />

achievement meant that what I have is worth a lot more than


what I’m getting paid for there. So I decided to quit. When I made that<br />

decision, my business partner Reem had a video production company.<br />

She decided that she wanted to invest <strong>and</strong> become a partner, which I<br />

thought was the perfect match.<br />

We started the business in 2017 <strong>and</strong> been doing it ever since. I still<br />

do the consultancy on one side. On the other, we develop original<br />

content, our own intellectual property. We also run a show called<br />

Raghud Qahwa which is an Arabic show, with a completely different<br />

theme. The host of the show, Maya, is a television anchor, an<br />

editor-in-chief <strong>and</strong> a producer who’s been in the game for 25+<br />

years. In the show, she has one-on-one conversations over coffee<br />

(as the name of the show translates to ‘coffee pot <strong>and</strong> in Arabic<br />

tradition, coffee is in everything). On the show, they have<br />

these conversations with spectacular Arab women who have<br />

changed the l<strong>and</strong>scape of the Arab world like the first ever<br />

female Supreme Court judge in Jordan, amongst others.<br />

The other show that we’ve created is called “Switch Flix”<br />

which is a film review show. It’s hosted by a very talented<br />

top of the world also when being an<br />

entrepreneur.<br />

The hardest thing about running<br />

businesses is burnout. Burnout is when<br />

you don’t realise you suddenly can’t<br />

think anymore. You feel emotionally <strong>and</strong><br />

mentally defeated.<br />

In a 9-5, when you leave the office, you<br />

are done, physically <strong>and</strong> mentally. You can<br />

have fun with family, watch a show, go out...<br />

I don’t switch off because I’m still consumed<br />

by work thoughts all the time. The only times<br />

I actually disconnect are when I do Bikram<br />

Yoga or go running. For a business owner, the<br />

chances are that for the rest of the day, workrelated<br />

thoughts are always in your head. So<br />

learn to be comfortable with the discomfort of it.<br />

Another thing is to celebrate all your wins, no<br />

producer <strong>and</strong> director duo who screen a movie every<br />

week, deconstruct it <strong>and</strong> then, have a debate on it. But<br />

the trick is they switch between pros <strong>and</strong> cons so fast that<br />

it becomes a hilarious conversation.<br />

Another show that we’re currently working on is a<br />

podcast for MENAbytes, by partnering with Zubair<br />

Naeem Paracha. We have a video series called<br />

“HighPlus” which deconstructs trends <strong>and</strong> why<br />

they’re so popular in sneaker <strong>and</strong> hip hop culture.<br />

We present it in a fun <strong>and</strong> entertaining way. We’ve<br />

got a bunch of other shows that we’re unlocking.<br />

And the thing about our shows is that they are<br />

designed to be ground-breaking revolutionary<br />

pieces. The other side of our business is not<br />

public-facing as it’s mostly consulting.<br />

matter how small or trivial they may feel. Keep<br />

in mind that you are one of the very few who are<br />

actually doing this. I’m lucky that I don’t have a<br />

family at this point. I’m self-reliant. Thankfully, my<br />

parents don’t need my support. So financially, I was<br />

in a much more comfortable place to take the step.<br />

Those who have responsibilities of other people relying<br />

on them <strong>and</strong> still do it, then kudos! I’m glad I don’t have<br />

those responsibilities as it would have made things more<br />

difficult. Some people do it with that weight <strong>and</strong> they do<br />

it amazing. For some people, that’s their inspiration.<br />

Also, find a mental outlet for you, whether it’s running,<br />

bodybuilding, painting, baking — anything. Find a space<br />

where you can let that anxiety out. It should have nothing to<br />

do with your work so that you are completely disconnected<br />

from it. Find a hobby that doesn’t make money, where you can<br />

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO<br />

just be comfortable.<br />

SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO LEAVE THEIR<br />

9-5 TO FOLLOW THEIR PASSION?<br />

For those who are looking to leave their jobs<br />

<strong>and</strong> start their business, first <strong>and</strong> foremost,<br />

WHAT’S BEEN YOUR BEST ACHIEVEMENT AND YOUR<br />

LOWEST LOW?<br />

My best win is the internal win of realising that I could do this.<br />

it’s not for everyone. That’s always<br />

If you’ve always worked for somebody, always an employee, you<br />

the first thing I tell people because a<br />

business owner’s levels of stress, anxiety<br />

<strong>and</strong> feelings of being defeated <strong>and</strong><br />

questioning themselves are so much,<br />

it’s very difficult to deal with. I struggle<br />

with it. I have moments when I can’t<br />

face it at times. But I feel there are<br />

times when you feel like you’re on<br />

don’t know that you can find other means of income. Once that’s<br />

taken away from you, you have to suddenly figure out ways to make<br />

money. Now, I learnt a way to sell <strong>and</strong> make money.<br />

For the business, the biggest win was last year for locking the contract<br />

with Nike where we launched a Nike store in Dubai Mall. That was a<br />

massive project <strong>and</strong> they are a great team.<br />

A low point would be last year, around this time, I was just so focused<br />

on the business. And my lifestyle took a hit — my diet, emotions, mental


state. I had a surge in cholesterol <strong>and</strong> blood pressure.<br />

Being a post-kidney transplant, my health was in a really<br />

bad state. But thankfully, Reem <strong>and</strong> Akkaoui motivated me<br />

to train. And they started dragging me off every morning<br />

to train, exercise, go for a run, do yoga, attend spin class,<br />

hit the gym <strong>and</strong> do weights. This became a trajectory<br />

which I somehow found myself sticking to. Now I love it.<br />

It’s been a year now <strong>and</strong> I still do it. I’m very proud of that.<br />

From last year to this point, I’m down 15 kilos, I’ve reduced<br />

my blood pressure. I don’t have cholesterol problems<br />

anymore. Everything regulated <strong>and</strong> back to normal.<br />

I had another low point which was dealing with anxiety. I,<br />

unfortunately, had such aggressive anxiety that it became<br />

borderline paralysis. I couldn’t move, think or work. There<br />

were family <strong>and</strong> business pressures that all hit at the same<br />

time. I felt incredibly defeated. Coming out of anxiety<br />

doesn’t necessarily have a clear path — you have to push<br />

through it.<br />

5. HOW ARE YOU DEALING WITH YOUR ANXIETY?<br />

For me, it was figuring out the cause. How did I get<br />

here? Why do I have such high anxiety like I’ve never had<br />

before? I’m still on that journey of figuring out what it is.<br />

Every day, I’m in the journey of discovering something<br />

new, unlocking <strong>and</strong> dealing with what I’ve found... And I<br />

started journaling.<br />

6. HAVE YOU EVER MADE A LIST OF ALL THE THINGS<br />

THAT ARE BOTHERING YOU?<br />

I just started writing. In the journal, I record thoughts<br />

about gratitude. Every day, I have to find 10 things that I’m<br />

grateful for. Every morning, I have to ask myself, “What am<br />

I grateful for today?” — <strong>and</strong> just keep listing everything<br />

that comes to my head. Then, I go through it multiple<br />

times during the day. I don’t think I’m going to stop having<br />

anxiety. I’ve realised that it’s something I’ve got to learn<br />

to live with while managing the level of stress that comes<br />

from it.<br />

7. WHAT ARE YOUR GOALS FOR THE DUKKAN SHOW?<br />

WHERE DO YOU SEE YOURSELF IN 10 YEARS?<br />

I’ve got multiple roadmaps. Essentially, they’re the same,<br />

each for different things. For the business specifically, I’m<br />

trying to build the most unconventional creative solution<br />

business of our time. Where it is going to go <strong>and</strong> what<br />

it’s going to manifest itself into are things unheard of. I’m<br />

confident in our capabilities.<br />

I would like to sell a part of the business <strong>and</strong> get venture<br />

capitalists involved. I have products specifically designed<br />

to be sold.<br />

And also, I’m a Sudanese, living in the Middle East <strong>and</strong><br />

there are lots of global socio-political impacts that slow<br />

me down. My fight is to win against them, but also to<br />

create something that nobody could doubt or question.<br />

As a Sudanese, I have Sudanese citizenship. Not American<br />

or European like most people in this industry. So I need to<br />

apply for visas every time I travel. My biggest concern is<br />

healthcare <strong>and</strong> being temporary in a place. My intention<br />

with this business is that it becomes so successful, I<br />

wouldn’t have to worry about these issues anymore. I can<br />

afford to buy what I need. The business will get to a certain<br />

place, whether financially or with reputation. And then, the<br />

success will speak for me.<br />

8. WHAT MOTIVATES YOU?<br />

For me, there was always this notion of owning narrative<br />

<strong>and</strong> telling our stories before it’s told to us. That was what<br />

helped me kick start the show. Moving into the business,<br />

my motivation was heavily on fighting stereotypes <strong>and</strong><br />

building businesses that are — I’m not going to call them<br />

‘diverse’ because that is the norm. In its essence <strong>and</strong><br />

nature, it is like that — diverse, <strong>and</strong> that is the minimum<br />

expectation. It’s a business for talented individuals. It<br />

doesn’t matter who you are, or where you come from. All<br />

you need is to have something the world deserves to see.<br />

There’s a podcast called ‘The Dropout’ which focuses on<br />

the journey of a woman known as Elizabeth Holmes. She<br />

built a tech company designed around a medical solution<br />

which needed just a prick of blood at the fingertips instead<br />

of the exorbitant amount of blood asked by labs. She had<br />

these boxes at Walgreens where people can come <strong>and</strong> get<br />

their tests done. In reality, her company <strong>and</strong> product didn’t<br />

exist. She ran it for 12 years <strong>and</strong> after 9 years, questions<br />

started popping up. But she had gotten so much publicity


with magazines <strong>and</strong> television interviews,<br />

even l<strong>and</strong>ing an interview by Bill Clinton on<br />

his show. She got that far.<br />

Because she was so successful, people<br />

compared her to Steve Jobs. People said<br />

she’s going to be the next biggest thing who’s<br />

changing not just the US, but the world. She<br />

was godsent <strong>and</strong> became a billionaire. Her<br />

company was valued at billions worth of<br />

dollars. People wanted to believe the dream<br />

she had shown them, but they didn’t realise<br />

that they were being duped.<br />

I want to fight stereotypes <strong>and</strong> grow real<br />

businesses. I can’t fight fire with fire. All I can do<br />

is prove people wrong every step of the way.<br />

The idea of being underestimated is always<br />

attractive. You hear a lot of Sudanese jokes<br />

about our people about being lazy. And every<br />

time someone jokes about it, I refuse to laugh<br />

<strong>and</strong> ask them to point out a lazy Sudanese<br />

they know. Because I, for a fact, know that I will<br />

outwork anybody out there. I don’t take these<br />

jokes very lightly because they are offensive<br />

when people think they’re not. In a way, this<br />

is how we change stereotypes. We outgrow,<br />

outbuild <strong>and</strong> move faster than anybody else<br />

to get to good places.<br />

9. WHO INSPIRES YOU?<br />

I have a lot of mentors who I’m thankful for —<br />

people who have done amazing work in their<br />

spaces whom I go to for advice <strong>and</strong> guidance.<br />

But true inspiration for me goes beyond just<br />

business. People inspire me for different<br />

things.<br />

I’m inspired by Reem, my business partner, by<br />

her aggression <strong>and</strong> vision.<br />

My mom is just <strong>and</strong> fair. She passed through<br />

a religious journey after our gr<strong>and</strong>father died.<br />

And she’s very religious <strong>and</strong> conservative. But<br />

she’s also non-judgemental. People gravitate<br />

towards her, whether they are as religious or<br />

plain liberal. She makes it easy for people to<br />

talk to her by being welcoming, loving <strong>and</strong><br />

open. I find that to be powerful — the idea<br />

of allowing yourself to be non-judgmental,<br />

for allowing people to be who they are with<br />

their faults or whatever issues they have.<br />

Underst<strong>and</strong>ing that we’re not the same <strong>and</strong><br />

that’s okay. Being underst<strong>and</strong>ing of people’s<br />

differences is so powerful.<br />

My dad is a by-the-book kind of guy (which<br />

I’m not!) who clearly believes that ‘if it’s the<br />

law, then it’s the law.’ I love how fair he is <strong>and</strong><br />

how he puts everybody else’s needs in front of<br />

his, whether it’s his family’s or of his extended<br />

relatives. He’ll drop everything to go support<br />

people. He supports people on their job<br />

just because they have a family <strong>and</strong> kids <strong>and</strong><br />

other dependencies, <strong>and</strong> not because they<br />

are good for the job assigned. To me, that<br />

would feel like it will make the business bleed.<br />

But being able to see the good in them, that<br />

there’s something else. I deeply respect that<br />

<strong>and</strong> wish that I can get to that point where I<br />

look at someone <strong>and</strong> be so accepting.<br />

10. IF YOU WERE OFFERED A LARGE SUM<br />

OF MONEY TO TAKE ON A 9-5, WOULD<br />

YOU CONSIDER IT?<br />

Even if any salary Would be that big (<strong>and</strong><br />

my business cannot afford to pay me that at<br />

this moment), I won’t take that job, for two<br />

reasons. One is I know the business is not<br />

going to be here for long. The whole point<br />

of business is growth. If your business is not<br />

growing, it’s flatlining, which means it’s dead.<br />

The focus of businesses is always growth.<br />

Growth indicates that I can make that much<br />

money.<br />

Two — my worth is not just my worth. It’s the<br />

worth of the business. So I’m worth a lot more<br />

than what I was before.<br />

Business is also freedom — of schedule, of<br />

having the power of saying no, <strong>and</strong> choosing<br />

who to work with. In my previous company,<br />

some of my clients were tobacco <strong>and</strong> alcohol<br />

businesses that morally I don’t like to promote.<br />

If it were my business, I can decide that don’t<br />

have to work with them. So that sense of<br />

freedom <strong>and</strong> power of decision making —<br />

there’s no 9-5 that can give you that.


VISUALISATION<br />

DISCOVERING MIND<br />

POWER FOR SUCCESS<br />

If you dream it, live it! So if you want success,<br />

you have to claim it. A strong mind attracts the<br />

things you want in life. That’s the power of the mind<br />

possible through visualisation.<br />

Visualisation is an effective technique used by<br />

successful people to create their desired results<br />

— first in their minds, before in reality. For ages,<br />

this practice has helped achievers get positive<br />

outcomes. With it, they’ve created the life they<br />

want by accomplishing one goal at a time with<br />

confidence (to their abilities) <strong>and</strong> focus (in the now).<br />

Visualisation lets you focus <strong>and</strong> direct your thoughts<br />

towards what you desire — daily! Positive people<br />

direct their thoughts towards their end goal.<br />

Unfortunately, many of us are yet to discover,<br />

practice <strong>and</strong> harness visualisation to our advantage.<br />

Little do we know that the rich, the inventors,<br />

the athletes <strong>and</strong> all the rest of the world’s most<br />

powerful people have been visualising their desired<br />

outcomes. And you have that power to visualise<br />

such goals just like these successful people.<br />

By visualising your dreams as if it’s happening now,<br />

you can accelerate <strong>and</strong> achieve your ambitions,<br />

dreams <strong>and</strong> goals faster. Let’s look at what the<br />

benefits of visualisation are for us:<br />

VISUALISATION TO MANIFEST DESIRED<br />

OUTCOMES<br />

Constant visualisation can activate your creative<br />

<strong>and</strong> powerful subconscious mind by generating<br />

ideas. It can programme the brain to perceive <strong>and</strong><br />

acknowledge resources towards realising those<br />

dreams.<br />

Then, visualisation activates the Law of Attraction<br />

that draws those resources along with the needed<br />

people <strong>and</strong> circumstances towards you.<br />

So without even saying, “What your mind can<br />

conceive your body can achieve.”<br />

Simply put, you attract what you want in your life.<br />

And this is how the universe works. This makes it<br />

important to attract positive energies into your life.<br />

If it is trash you feed your brain with, your life will<br />

move towards that trashy direction.<br />

DEVELOPING MOTIVATION<br />

Another benefit of mastering visualisation is<br />

developing your internal motivation. With<br />

proper <strong>and</strong> constant visualisation, you will find<br />

the motivation needed to realise your goals <strong>and</strong><br />

ambitions.<br />

Without even saying, you don’t leave all the work<br />

to the universe <strong>and</strong> do nothing — but in fact, it<br />

becomes the exact opposite.<br />

Visualisation helps us create the realities we want to<br />

come our way by first visualising images, things <strong>and</strong><br />

places <strong>and</strong> so on. And this gives us the motivation<br />

to do what it takes to succeed <strong>and</strong> keep going until<br />

we do so.<br />

“BUT, MAYBE VISUALISATION ISN’T FOR<br />

BEGINNERS.”<br />

Actually, it is. In fact, visualisation is simple <strong>and</strong> for<br />

everyone.<br />

All you have to do is to sit still <strong>and</strong> calm in a<br />

comfortable position with your eyes closed <strong>and</strong> your<br />

mind visualising a powerful scene. For instance:<br />

you with your family living in a beachfront house<br />

<strong>and</strong> breathing cool <strong>and</strong> fresh air with morning sea<br />

breeze hitting your faces…..<br />

As you imagine the circumstance, you begin to<br />

visualise images with as many vivid details as<br />

you can possibly cook up in your mind’s eye. You<br />

visualise being in that moment — at that desired<br />

result of all your hard work.


IT’S A LITTLE TRICK FOR YOUR BRAIN!<br />

Claiming that you’re already in that moment with your goals<br />

achieved is a mental trick that conditions your brain <strong>and</strong> body<br />

— to live <strong>and</strong> feel that glorious event or achievement as if<br />

it’s happening NOW. Whatever it be, whether it’s winning<br />

a boxing match, acing an exam, becoming a top company<br />

executive, establishing a successful business… Visualisation<br />

will make it come alive in more ways than one.<br />

BUT IT IS NOT MAGIC. SUCCESS WON’T HAPPEN<br />

OVERNIGHT.<br />

Like all things in life, you need to keep working hard towards<br />

that vision until you get there. This takes time, effort <strong>and</strong><br />

focus. You have to define the success of what you can<br />

achieve.<br />

Remember, whatever you feed your mind with, you can<br />

achieve — <strong>and</strong> that’s how powerful the mind is.<br />

[So always, be cautious…. Be careful what you visualise.<br />

Avoid negativity.]<br />

EASY AND SIMPLE VISUALISATION TECHNIQUES<br />

For this mental practice, you don’t need to spend much time.<br />

All you need are a few (undisturbed) minutes. The most ideal<br />

time for visualisation is when you are most relaxed, like upon<br />

waking up, after prayer, meditation or BEFORE BEDTIME.<br />

IMAGES<br />

This simple yet powerful visualisation technique works by<br />

creating a photograph or image of oneself already with their<br />

goal — as if it’s achieved. For example, you have this dream<br />

house. Take a photo of yourself with it on the background<br />

as if it is yours.<br />

Or, perhaps, you’re dreaming of seeing the Northern Lights<br />

yourself. Print a photo of the lights from the internet, cut a<br />

photo of yourself <strong>and</strong> place it into the first picture. Keep it<br />

within sight.<br />

For every goal, create an image or a photo representing<br />

it. You can do this practice for every aspect of your life.<br />

For each goal like learning a new skill, starting a career,<br />

business, managing finances <strong>and</strong> so on, have its own visual<br />

representation.<br />

HOW ELSE CAN YOU VISUALISE YOUR REALITY?<br />

USE INDEX CARDS.<br />

Are you working on a couple of goals right now? Write each<br />

of them in an index card, <strong>and</strong> always take them with you.<br />

Every morning, go through each of those goals <strong>and</strong> close<br />

your eyes while imagining that goal completed. Repeat it<br />

with the next set of cards.<br />

SUPPORT VISUALISATION WITH AFFIRMATIONS<br />

Feel <strong>and</strong> live the life you want <strong>and</strong> claim the success you<br />

envision for yourself. Use affirmations.<br />

Examples:<br />

• I am running a successful company, working from<br />

anywhere, happily exploring cultures <strong>and</strong> meeting<br />

new people while travelling the world.<br />

· I have a happy family with two lovely kids <strong>and</strong> a<br />

supportive husb<strong>and</strong>. We’re living in a beachfront<br />

property <strong>and</strong> have a simple country life.<br />

Repeat the affirmation of choice a couple of times<br />

daily so that you can focus your goals towards it while<br />

programming your subconscious mind <strong>and</strong> developing<br />

motivation. By doing so, you’ll send a powerful message<br />

to the universe to help you achieve it. And with that,<br />

you can also train your body <strong>and</strong> mind to do whatever is<br />

needed to get it.<br />

VISUALISATION TECHNIQUES TO CALM YOUR<br />

ANXIOUS MIND<br />

In addition to manifesting our desired results, visualisation<br />

also silences our anxious mind <strong>and</strong> improves our performance<br />

through increased focus <strong>and</strong> confidence in ourselves.


THE STOP SIGN TECHNIQUE<br />

Intrusive thoughts can disrupt our daily lives <strong>and</strong> hinder<br />

in our performance, whether in school, work or play. They<br />

keep on whispering in our ears <strong>and</strong> meddling with our<br />

brains.<br />

This happens to everyone. We immediately start beating<br />

ourselves <strong>and</strong> go to the worst conclusions. To stop<br />

unwanted thoughts, use this technique:<br />

Imagine that you’re on an empty street with a stop sign.<br />

Look at <strong>and</strong> focus on the stop sign. Say <strong>and</strong> repeat the<br />

word “Stop” a couple of times.<br />

Using the stop sign technique, you can shoo away those<br />

anxieties <strong>and</strong> go about the rest of the day with a clear head.<br />

THE BALL OF YARN<br />

With our hectic lives, we find it hard to unwind after a long<br />

stressful day. So even when it’s time to sleep <strong>and</strong> recharge<br />

for the next day, it’s a big challenge for many of us. Here’s<br />

how visualisation can help you calm down:<br />

Sit down <strong>and</strong> visualise a yarn ball holding that tension.<br />

Find its tip <strong>and</strong> imagine the yarn unrolling. As the str<strong>and</strong><br />

becomes longer while unrolling, you can feel the tension<br />

loosen up.<br />

THE QUIET BEACH SCENE VISUALISATION<br />

Your mind is experiencing a panic attack as you’re about to<br />

take off on a plane. It is too anxious about the things that<br />

can possibly go wrong. Sounds familiar?<br />

When facing such situations, to calm one’s mind, imagine a<br />

serene beach with you lying on the s<strong>and</strong>s under blue skies<br />

<strong>and</strong> surrounded by breezy waves. Imagine <strong>and</strong> feel the<br />

s<strong>and</strong>’s warmth on your feet.<br />

Now, you can let go of the worries <strong>and</strong> tension, with your<br />

breathing going back to normal, synchronising with the<br />

water’s rolling waves.<br />

GET STARTED WITH VISUALISATION<br />

Activate <strong>and</strong> harness the power of your subconscious<br />

mind, work harder with more motivation <strong>and</strong> see how your<br />

goals get completed.<br />

Visualisation can help you get closer to your success.<br />

But don’t spend most of your day thinking about those<br />

aspirations <strong>and</strong> dreams. Otherwise, we’ll fail at living in the<br />

moment.<br />

Remember, visualisation is a guide, not a source of<br />

distraction.<br />

So once done visualising the reality you want, release<br />

<strong>and</strong> let go of those goals. Return to the present moment<br />

instantly to spend the rest of your day normally. Just as they<br />

say, “Today is a gift, that’s why it’s called the ‘present.’”<br />

So at the end of the day, use visualisation to achieve<br />

<strong>and</strong> focus on your goals. But also enjoy today’s gift for<br />

tomorrow’s magnificent results.<br />

After all, as we mentioned at the beginning, this practice<br />

can help you accomplish a GOAL at a time with confidence<br />

in your best abilities <strong>and</strong> by focussing on the PRESENT.<br />

Visualise. Live now. Succeed tomorrow.<br />

THE DOUBLE-PANED WINDOW<br />

With our anxious minds, we find it hard to sleep because they<br />

keep w<strong>and</strong>ering somewhere else, worrying about tomorrow<br />

<strong>and</strong> unable to switch off no matter how tired we are.<br />

Whenever anxiety is keeping you awake, tossing <strong>and</strong> turning,<br />

unable to drift off into sleep, here’s what you can do:<br />

Imagine some people outside your open window chatting<br />

loudly. Instead of shouting at them, calmly <strong>and</strong> slowly close<br />

your double paned window.<br />

The noise is gone. You can now hit the hay sack <strong>and</strong> go to<br />

sleep in peace.


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9 AMAZING<br />

Chia Recipes<br />

YOU SHOULD TRY


LEMON MUFFINS WITH HONEY GLAZE AND CHIA<br />

SEEDS<br />

Muffins are a favourite on any occasion because they’re<br />

comforting <strong>and</strong> filling at the same time. These lemon muffins<br />

are made more decadent <strong>and</strong> healthy with the addition of chia<br />

<strong>and</strong> honey.<br />

But to make these lovelies healthier, you can consider replacing<br />

white sugar with coconut palm sugar.<br />

Note that lemons are loaded with antioxidants <strong>and</strong> immuneboosting<br />

properties, making it one of the healthiest foods on<br />

the planet. It can help you reduce allergies, fight off cold <strong>and</strong><br />

lose weight.<br />

Check this video for the full recipe.<br />

QUINOA AND CHIA PROTEIN BARS<br />

If you love seeds, you might want to try these protein bars that<br />

combine quinoa <strong>and</strong> chia.<br />

They’re better than those store-bought protein bars loaded<br />

with preserved <strong>and</strong> processed ingredients that are in no way<br />

good for our health. In this recipe, you can make protein bars<br />

really healthy.<br />

These treats are ideal for an on-the-go breakfast <strong>and</strong> also for a<br />

great afternoon snack.<br />

You can consider adding other seeds of your choice. You can<br />

also use honey for this recipe to reduce inflammation <strong>and</strong><br />

supply your body with vitamins <strong>and</strong> minerals.<br />

Check out this video for recipe.<br />

PUMPKIN PIE OATMEAL<br />

We all love pumpkin pie, <strong>and</strong> we’d love it more if we use some<br />

oatmeal on it, right? Both the ingredients in this healthy chia<br />

recipe make it a nutritious breakfast loaded with fibre, vitamins,<br />

minerals <strong>and</strong> antioxidants.<br />

You can also add cinnamon along with all the goodness of<br />

pumpkin <strong>and</strong> chia, which will not only keep you fuller for a long<br />

time, but also healthier.<br />

The high amount of fibre in this oatmeal recipe will also<br />

stabilise blood sugar levels.<br />

**Do add more water in this recipe because the chia seeds will<br />

soak up water quickly. You can also get more creative <strong>and</strong> add<br />

in other nuts, fruits, seeds, or any toppings you have at home.<br />

Click here for the complete recipe.


STRAWBERRY CHIA JAM<br />

If you love jam, but don’t want a sugar overload, you can try this<br />

better version with lesser sugar <strong>and</strong> more nutrition, made from<br />

chia <strong>and</strong> strawberries.<br />

Chia seeds have the ability to form a gel-like substance, making<br />

it a perfect ingredient for jams. It is also one of my favourites for<br />

keeping the blood sugar stable.<br />

Alternatively, you can use other berries like blueberries or<br />

blackberries instead of strawberries if you want. You can also get<br />

creative <strong>and</strong> combine berries of different types. That’s up to you!<br />

Berries are high in antioxidants <strong>and</strong> chia seeds are great<br />

sources of fibre. The combination of this power duo can<br />

make you healthier with better ability in fighting free radicals.<br />

Additionally, berries work perfectly to slow down signs of<br />

ageing, hence are a favourite amongst men <strong>and</strong> women that<br />

want to stay wrinkle-free longer.<br />

Check this video for the full recipe.<br />

HEALTHY CHOCOLATE CHIA MILK<br />

This healthy <strong>and</strong> creamy chia milk shouldn’t be forgotten if<br />

you’re looking for good chia breakfast recipes. It will keep you<br />

energised <strong>and</strong> feeling full the entire morning without worrying<br />

about sugar spikes.<br />

Here is the complete video for the recipe.<br />

PEACH COBBLER<br />

Cobbler anyone? Make your own healthy version at home in<br />

a couple of steps as outlined in the video coming up. In this<br />

recipe, you add in ingredients like almond <strong>and</strong> coconut flour<br />

with chia seeds for healthy fats. Both fresh or frozen peaches<br />

will do just fine for this recipe. Alternatively, replace peaches<br />

with apples or mangoes or any juicy fruits of your choice.<br />

Here is the video for the complete recipe.


CREAMY STRAWBERRY CHIA PUDDING<br />

Satisfy your sweet cravings without the guilt! The perfect t<strong>and</strong>em<br />

of strawberries <strong>and</strong> chia in this recipe makes extra special. It is<br />

a great treat to yourself or your loved ones on a summer day.<br />

Swap processed bread or any other sugary pudding for this<br />

wholesome one.<br />

Chia gives its gelatin-like feel to the pudding <strong>and</strong> with<br />

strawberries, this dessert becomes more nutritious <strong>and</strong> yummy.<br />

Try this chia pudding <strong>and</strong> keep it fresh <strong>and</strong> light.<br />

It is one of our favourite chia recipes for a healthier alternative<br />

of dessert or an afternoon snack.<br />

Here is the video: Creamy Strawberry Chia Pudding<br />

APPLE AND POMEGRANATE CHIA PUDDING SLICE<br />

Another great pudding idea is the recipe that is packed with<br />

fibre, vitamins <strong>and</strong> minerals <strong>and</strong> antioxidants.<br />

It is not the traditional pudding we know of because it features<br />

the combo of pomegranate <strong>and</strong> apple with a host of nutrients<br />

along with our star of the day — fibre-rich chia seeds.<br />

Pomegranate, in particular, offers a host of benefits like antiageing,<br />

skin protection <strong>and</strong> enhancement which defies sun<br />

exposure that will otherwise lead to fine lines <strong>and</strong> wrinkles.<br />

Check here for the complete recipe.<br />

COCONUT CHIA PROTEIN PANCAKES<br />

I just love coconut chia protein pancakes versus the traditional<br />

refined flour based pancakes we’ve known since childhood.<br />

For sure, you’ll love the new twist of the addition of coconut<br />

flakes on this recipe. It adds that tropical flavour <strong>and</strong> a bit of<br />

texture in this staple breakfast food. It’s made healthier with<br />

whey protein <strong>and</strong> chia seeds that do not just enhance its<br />

character, but also increases its <strong>and</strong> protein content.<br />

So before heading for your day’s workout, consider planning<br />

for a really nice breakfast comprising of coconut chia protein<br />

pancakes. Alternatively, you can also add other ingredients<br />

like berries <strong>and</strong> nuts — the choice is yours. These pancakes<br />

can keep you focused <strong>and</strong> full until lunchtime.<br />

Check out this video for the recipe.<br />

Definitely, chia seeds are some of the most versatile ingredients around us that we can add in a wide range of recipes. No doubt, it is<br />

one of the planet’s superfoods. Chia is our ultimate source of fibre, vitamins <strong>and</strong> minerals along with a whole lot more of nutrients that<br />

can keep us young, healthy <strong>and</strong> fit. Try these recipes today!


10 Shockingly<br />

Man-made Fruits,<br />

Nuts & Vegetables<br />

WE<br />

DIDN’T<br />

KNOW<br />

Did you know that some of the nuts, fruits <strong>and</strong><br />

vegetables we consume are not natural? Yes, you<br />

got that right!<br />

These are man-made hybrids created through a<br />

selective breeding process in which only favourable<br />

plants with good characteristics are replanted to<br />

reproduce <strong>and</strong> become food. But in some instances,<br />

insects like bees, are responsible for creating the<br />

hybrids through a process called cross-pollination.<br />

Let’s take a look at the most common hybrids found<br />

around today’s markets:<br />

BANANAS<br />

When <strong>and</strong> where bananas came from was the subject of<br />

an analysis of the evolution of this famous fruit. The study<br />

evaluated different findings to seek the truth.<br />

Long ago, wild bananas (the musa balbisiana) had large<br />

hard seeds. The tree didn’t bear many fruits. Today’s<br />

bananas are said to have evolved from the wild varieties<br />

— the Musa balbisiana <strong>and</strong> the Musa acuminata, that had<br />

small <strong>and</strong> okra-like pods. These were used in breeding<br />

seedless bananas.<br />

CORN<br />

Did you know that the corn that we have all summer long<br />

is actually a hybrid? Where it came from is unknown to<br />

many of us as shockingly, the biological origins of this<br />

food remains a mystery.<br />

Some experts linked corn’s existence to teosinte, a<br />

Mexican grass, which has skinny ears <strong>and</strong> few dozens of<br />

kernels inside its casing. Others regard it as a relative of<br />

rice, not maize.<br />

A Cornell University graduate, George W. Beadle,<br />

discovered that teosinte kernels pop. And the plant <strong>and</strong><br />

maize appear to be having the same chromosomes. He<br />

later concluded that these plants were related <strong>and</strong> won<br />

the Nobel Prize for his “Genetics” work.


WATERMELONS<br />

Watermelons are one of the oldest foods on earth,<br />

having been around for over a millennium. In fact,<br />

archaeologists have found watermelon seeds at a 5000-<br />

year old Libya settlement. Watermelon paintings <strong>and</strong><br />

seeds have also been found in Egyptian tombs that are<br />

at least 4,000 years old. One of those tombs was of the<br />

famous King Tut.<br />

In the past, watermelons used to have a more pale<br />

colour <strong>and</strong> more seeds. It turns out that watermelons<br />

didn’t have the red flesh they have now. The amount of<br />

flesh was also comparatively less.<br />

APPLES<br />

This fruit’s ancestors look pretty much the same as what<br />

we can now find in groceries <strong>and</strong> supermarkets. But the<br />

tastes are different.<br />

A native <strong>and</strong> wild apple found in Tajikistan, China,<br />

Kyrgyzstan, Kazakhstan <strong>and</strong> Uzbekistan known as the<br />

Malus sieversii, is one of the ancestors of today’s apple,<br />

according to the Global Trees Campaign.<br />

TOMATOES<br />

Today, we can find so many varieties of this nutritious<br />

fruit, loaded with antioxidants, vitamins, minerals <strong>and</strong><br />

fibre. Some consider this fruit as a vegetable <strong>and</strong> it is<br />

one of the oldest veggies around.<br />

In fact, a herbarium sheet circa 1542-1544 shows the<br />

oldest conserved tomatoes of Europe. Long ago, today’s<br />

tomatoes ancestors had small yellow or green fruit. The<br />

Aztecs often used them in cooking.<br />

Eventually, explorers brought it to Italy <strong>and</strong> Spain.<br />

However, it was thought to be poison apple in the<br />

1700s because people thought the Aristocrats died after<br />

consuming it. It turned out later that they died due to<br />

lead poisoning that happened when the lead in the fruit<br />

leached from the pewter plates.


CARROTS<br />

Carrots have been around for quite a while <strong>and</strong> they are<br />

loved by not only just rabbits, but by children <strong>and</strong> adults<br />

as well. They were easy to grow even earlier, but they<br />

used to look quite different than what’s available in the<br />

market now.<br />

Did you know that they used to be purple or off-white<br />

instead of the bright orange as they are today? They<br />

were very thin as well.<br />

According to the virtual World Carrot Museum, Romans<br />

<strong>and</strong> Greeks grew the vegetables for food.<br />

PEANUTS<br />

Today’s peanuts are a cross between its ancestors —<br />

the Arachis duranensis (found in the Andean Valleys)<br />

<strong>and</strong> the Arachis ipaensis (native to Bolivia). As the<br />

plants are so far apart in the physical realm, they<br />

couldn’t have crossbred naturally.<br />

Later, researchers discovered that early settlers in<br />

South America brought the Arachis duranensis from<br />

the valleys when they travelled to modern Bolivia some<br />

10,000 years ago. But back then, the settlers didn’t<br />

know the new crop’s potential. It was a good thing that<br />

the bees did the cross-pollination between the two<br />

plants — resulting in the modern food, peanut.<br />

STRAWBERRIES<br />

This fruit is the smaller version of wild strawberries. Wild<br />

strawberries have a better aroma <strong>and</strong> flavour, but a<br />

shorter shelf life.<br />

Today’s strawberries were first seen in France in the 18 th<br />

century. But for this plant, the hybridisation programme<br />

started much earlier. French botanists began planting<br />

strawberries in the 1300s as soon as they realised that<br />

wild strawberries could reproduce through cloning.<br />

Shockingly, some didn’t produce fruits at all, while 50%<br />

of the ones that did could not be closed <strong>and</strong> stopped<br />

making fruits in the next few years. While the French<br />

were able to create wild strawberries, which were up to<br />

20 times their normal size, they were still tiny.<br />

Finally, Antoine Nicolas Duchesne, who crossed a<br />

female Fragaria chiloensis (from Chile) <strong>and</strong> male Fragaria<br />

moschata, created the first modern strawberry on July<br />

6, 1764.


EGGPLANTS<br />

Do you love the rich <strong>and</strong> deep purple colour of<br />

eggplants? We all do! But did you know that this veggie<br />

used to have several shades — purple, azure <strong>and</strong> even<br />

yellow?<br />

The vegetable got its name because it used to be round<br />

<strong>and</strong> white, hence similar to an ‘egg.’ Some of them even<br />

had spines.<br />

ORANGES<br />

While there are many varieties available now, all of<br />

them can trace their roots to the hybrid <strong>and</strong> manmade<br />

variety which resulted from the crossing of<br />

pomelo with m<strong>and</strong>arin.<br />

While some people believe that the orange is the<br />

ancestor of the m<strong>and</strong>arin, it is actually the other<br />

way around.<br />

And even if the history of the orange is unclear,<br />

many believed that the first one grew in<br />

Southern China.<br />

[Tidbit: A tangerine is unlike the orange <strong>and</strong><br />

not considered as one because it evolved<br />

from the m<strong>and</strong>arin, only not from the<br />

pomelo.]


HOT<br />

YOGA?<br />

CHECK OUT THESE<br />

PROS AND CONS<br />

You probably have one or two friends<br />

who’ve been selling hot yoga to you, telling<br />

how great that is to sweat, lose weight <strong>and</strong><br />

improve flexibility, to name a few benefits.<br />

But then, you might be sceptical, asking<br />

yourself how performing yoga poses in<br />

a room of at least 38°C can benefit the<br />

body. Well, you’re not the only one who’s<br />

confused whether to jump into this “hot”<br />

trend or stick with traditional yoga classes<br />

they know.<br />

Let’s dig into the real details of hot yoga<br />

<strong>and</strong> its pros <strong>and</strong> cons so that you can<br />

decide whether the workout is for you or<br />

not.


FLEXIBILITY<br />

It’s true that you can be more flexible when trying hot<br />

yoga in sauna-like temperatures of up to 41°C — with the<br />

humidity soaring to 60%. The warmth in the room allows<br />

muscles to stretch easier than in normal temperatures. With<br />

steamy <strong>and</strong> “sweaty” temperatures, you can increase your<br />

motion range, allowing for deeper stretches into each pose.<br />

So there, hot yoga actually does make your muscles more<br />

pliable, thus improving your flexibility in the process. The<br />

hot room temperature can also make you extend further<br />

than in a st<strong>and</strong>ard, cool yoga studio. And that is even<br />

without you knowing!<br />

INTENSIFIED WORKOUTS<br />

A hot environment is a challenge — as if working out<br />

itself is not a challenge enough. In hot yoga, the heat<br />

leads to a faster heart rate, resulting in faster pumping<br />

of the heart muscles. Consequently, more blood rushes<br />

to the skin to keep you feeling cool. So as the heart<br />

intensifies in its functioning, you’re also getting a better<br />

workout in the process versus what you’d get in a cooler<br />

room.<br />

STRESS REDUCTION AND BETTER BREATHING<br />

Kick the stress out the picture — faster! While traditional<br />

yoga already does well in this department, nothing beats<br />

a hot room when trying to focus better on our breathing.<br />

This focus due to the sweltering environment helps you to<br />

relax better <strong>and</strong> thereby relieve stress.<br />

LUNG CAPACITY<br />

Yoga in itself is good for improving lung capacity <strong>and</strong><br />

health as it improves breathing. Okay, we know that now<br />

you’re probably thinking that breathing can be harder in a<br />

stifling room. But the truth is that you can train your lungs<br />

to keep more air because doing deeper breaths. This will<br />

help your lungs to exp<strong>and</strong>, giving way for more oxygen to<br />

enter your bloodstream <strong>and</strong> reaching every single cell of<br />

the body.<br />

CALORIE BURNING<br />

Hot yoga can burn more calories. Just like other exercises<br />

<strong>and</strong> movements that increase the heart rate, eventually<br />

burning fat <strong>and</strong> calories that speed up weight loss, hot yoga<br />

is another useful weight loss tool. Studies show that it burns<br />

calories faster, that too, without involving any running or<br />

rapid movements.<br />

The temperature in a hot yoga studio alone is enough to burn<br />

calories. Did you know that you can burn at least 333 calories<br />

doing hot yoga? Try Vinyasa yoga to feel that intense burn.<br />

WHY HOT YOGA ISN’T FOR EVERYONE — THE<br />

DOWNSIDES<br />

Hot yoga isn’t an all-good workout despite all these pros.<br />

If you plan to try it, you should be ready to face some of<br />

its cons as well:<br />

EXHAUSTION<br />

Your blood pressure may drop, making you feel nauseated


<strong>and</strong> dizzy while doing hot yoga. There are many who have<br />

fainted in a yoga class due to the exhaustion. This is one of<br />

the realities associated with sweaty yoga workouts.<br />

To prevent this from happening: Listen to your body; how<br />

you are feeling after the first few minutes, especially if<br />

you’re new to hot yoga. Are you feeling drowsy or lightheaded?<br />

Or still stable <strong>and</strong> fit? Even if you’re feeling great<br />

<strong>and</strong> excited about the new exercise, do not ignore your<br />

body signs. Listen to them carefully.<br />

Tip: To keep yourself feeling comfortable <strong>and</strong> reduce<br />

exhaustion, wear sweat-wicking clothing because you’re<br />

going to sweat a lot in this class.<br />

from friends.<br />

FINAL THOUGHTS<br />

Hot yoga can burn more calories due to increased metabolism<br />

<strong>and</strong> heart rate. It can also improve flexibility, muscle tone<br />

<strong>and</strong> relieve stress. But while this form of exercise can make<br />

you feel better <strong>and</strong> healthier, it isn’t free from any drawbacks<br />

like potential injuries, exhaustion <strong>and</strong> dehydration.<br />

To prevent any such issues, don’t engage in hot yoga or<br />

any workout for that matter, without consulting your GP,<br />

especially if you have a medical condition. And when<br />

given the go signal, don’t ignore, but listen to your body.<br />

Stop when feeling dizzy or nauseated or if you’re feeling<br />

something’s quite not right with your body.<br />

DEHYDRATION<br />

The drawback of dehydration is another possibility,<br />

although it does not happen to everyone. The tendency<br />

to become dehydrated is high because of the large<br />

amounts of sweat produced. The body loses water very<br />

quickly in this process.<br />

So before beginning the workout, you need to drink<br />

plenty of water <strong>and</strong> keep yourself hydrated during the<br />

class in order to replenish lost fluid.<br />

Also, take note that the hot temperatures can lead to<br />

throwing up, cramping <strong>and</strong> fainting. Hydration prevents<br />

such issues.<br />

As a tip, you might want to load up on fluids, especially<br />

those high in electrolytes, until the day before a class.<br />

And for proper digestion, you should allow a gap of at<br />

least two hours between a meal <strong>and</strong> the class.<br />

POTENTIAL INJURY<br />

You might overdo <strong>and</strong> push yourself too hard in the<br />

workout due to the increased muscle flexibility, but you<br />

really shouldn’t. While you’re not actually feeling the<br />

tiredness during the class, you would later in the day. Do<br />

not push too hard when stretching for any pose — or you<br />

may suffer from injury.<br />

NOT FOR EVERYBODY<br />

Hot yoga is not for people who have a heart condition or<br />

are pregnant. If you belong to these categories, you must<br />

go <strong>and</strong> find another exercise, perhaps something like yoga<br />

for beginners in a cool studio room.<br />

Also, it is very important to talk to your doctor before<br />

engaging in any exercise for your safety. If you’re feeling<br />

uncomfortable exercising in a hot <strong>and</strong> humid room, you<br />

should not try hot yoga, regardless of the encouragement


YUMMY<br />

MOMMY<br />

Marianna is a happy single mom who<br />

has discovered the strength of fitness<br />

training <strong>and</strong> exercise. Her motto on<br />

keeping fit <strong>and</strong> staying healthy is a<br />

source of inspiration worth sharing.<br />

Here’s her story:


1. TELL US A LITTLE BIT ABOUT YOURSELF<br />

I’m Marianna, a happy mother <strong>and</strong> film producer. I began<br />

my career in the film industry at 18 <strong>and</strong> is still passionate<br />

about job. And I’m already 32, which is unbelievable for<br />

me because to be honest, I feel my body <strong>and</strong> well-being is<br />

better now than how it was 10 years ago.<br />

I don’t remember a time in my life I was not involved in sports.<br />

I had joined a dance school when I was just 6 years old, <strong>and</strong><br />

that became my passion for the next 20 years. During school<br />

<strong>and</strong> university days, when I was not having lessons, everyone<br />

knew that I was in the gym. Even now, it’s like that. When I<br />

have free time, or when I want to concentrate or want to<br />

really think about something, I go to the gym. That’s my time<br />

to recover not only my muscles, but my body <strong>and</strong> mind as<br />

well.<br />

It was in Dubai that I started my journey as a personal trainer.<br />

I began small, with a few friends, which later exp<strong>and</strong>ed to<br />

friends of friends who were interested in knowing about<br />

sessions on how to work out, get into shape after pregnancy<br />

<strong>and</strong> how to get ready for delivery. I have a bachelor’s degree<br />

in rehabilitation as well, so I feel I’m qualified to train. Some<br />

people started to ask me to work out with them as well. It<br />

was then that I decided to be a personal trainer.<br />

The biggest part of my life is my child. Since my daughter<br />

was born, my heart keeps beating in her. And of course,<br />

everything I do is all about her happiness.<br />

2. HOW DO YOU BALANCE YOUR CAREER,<br />

FAMILY AND KEEPING FIT?<br />

I think the answer to this question is in the word ‘balance.’<br />

You have to change your mind from doing sports, training<br />

<strong>and</strong> gym being a thing which you have to do every day to<br />

keep your body in shape to something which comes naturally<br />

to you. You must integrate them into your daily life. Training<br />

should feel like it’s a part of you <strong>and</strong> your lifestyle. Whatever<br />

you do, if it’s a walk in the park, biking, even when you need<br />

to do something with your kid, try to create activities that<br />

move your body — like ice skating or football. Whatever you<br />

pick, it should be like a part of your lifestyle so that it will be<br />

comfortable for you <strong>and</strong> for everyone in your family as well.<br />

Such integrated activities will also be much more fun.<br />

3. DESCRIBE YOUR FITNESS JOURNEY.


Today, if you know how to do exercises the right way, you can train anyone<br />

anywhere. When my daughter was born, I was using big water bottles weighing<br />

some 4 to 5 litres for weights, because I didn’t have anything else to train with<br />

at that time. Two months after delivery, I was looking even better than before<br />

due to my workouts.<br />

Today, you can find great exercises for muscles everywhere in each gym. You can<br />

train in the park as well. You can do home workouts. There’s a lot of information<br />

out there on the Internet <strong>and</strong> YouTube on how to do workouts right.<br />

For me, I keep my workouts simple. I train 6 days per week — 1 day off. I do a lot<br />

of things together with my clients. In my opinion, I feel this is a great motivation<br />

for them. Doing some really difficult exercises with them is great support. I train<br />

<strong>and</strong> motivate them to work hard.<br />

4. HOW DO YOU STAY MOTIVATED TO BE FIT?<br />

For me, my biggest motivation is my kid <strong>and</strong> my clients. I love to see how happy<br />

my daughter is when I stay fit. At just 6 years of age, she started to underst<strong>and</strong><br />

my body <strong>and</strong> often says, “Mommy looks fit <strong>and</strong> healthy.” I really love how she<br />

describes me, sometimes saying, “My mother is the most healthy, the most<br />

beautiful, the most sporty... I want to be exactly like you, mommy!”<br />

Regarding my clients, you have to be in perfect shape to be able to advise<br />

people. We should walk the talk.<br />

5. WHAT IS YOUR DIET LIKE?<br />

I prepare very simple <strong>and</strong> healthy food for myself. I begin my day with a wholesome<br />

breakfast which consists of 100% carbohydrates because we absolutely need the<br />

carbs at least one hour before the training sessions. Usually, breakfast is oatmeal<br />

with nuts <strong>and</strong> berries. I also like to drink coffee with unsweetened almond milk.<br />

My lunch is also very simple <strong>and</strong> low fat like some eggs or chicken breast. Dinner<br />

is 70% vegetables <strong>and</strong> leafy salad greens.<br />

This is what I usually eat in a day. But I like to enjoy life <strong>and</strong> food. I can’t live<br />

without sweets <strong>and</strong> good chocolate. Once a week, I indulge in a cheat meal. In<br />

that meal, I eat lots of stuff like chocolate or my favourite — cake. Sometimes,<br />

I cook something tasty <strong>and</strong> sweet with my daughter. We can’t cut out the good<br />

parts of life which we enjoy so much. I’m very happy for people who don’t need<br />

sugar <strong>and</strong> are really consistent with their diet. But for me, for us, for my family,<br />

we like to have some nice evenings where we can eat sweets <strong>and</strong> good food<br />

which makes us happy.<br />

6. WHAT ARE THE TYPES OF DIET AND WORKOUTS YOU


7. WHAT ARE THE TOP 3 TIPS YOU’D LIKE<br />

TO SHARE FOR WOMEN WHO’RE LOOKING<br />

TO GET INTO SHAPE POST-PREGNANCY?<br />

HAVE TRIED AND HATED?<br />

All my life, I’ve had lots of shoots for magazines, beauty<br />

salons <strong>and</strong> fitness clubs. When you get ready for them,<br />

you have to train a lot <strong>and</strong> keep a special diet. You’ll have<br />

to reduce your water <strong>and</strong> eat a lot of protein like chicken<br />

breast <strong>and</strong> meat. No carbs on this period. During the last<br />

few days of the shoot, you’re almost without water. And<br />

it’s difficult to keep it up. I love my training <strong>and</strong> fitness<br />

shoots, but hate to prepare for it. After the shoot, I drink<br />

a lot of water <strong>and</strong> eat some sweets.<br />

First of all, you have to start from the pregnancy period.<br />

Instead of reducing training sessions, you have to plan<br />

them well — maybe not so exhausting, not so hardcore.<br />

Do swimming instead of weights. Biking instead of<br />

jogging. There are some exercises you can do until the<br />

time of the delivery.<br />

Today, a lot of exercises out there are meant for pregnant<br />

women. These exercises ensure that the mothers are<br />

able to retain their wonderful figures, <strong>and</strong> at the same<br />

time, have a healthy baby. Some of the exercises even<br />

straighten the muscles during delivery, which make the<br />

process less painful <strong>and</strong> even easier.<br />

If you do sports <strong>and</strong> exercises during pregnancy, it will<br />

be easier to get back into shape after delivery. You can<br />

get your beautiful body back <strong>and</strong> look even prettier <strong>and</strong><br />

sexier.<br />

Don’t forget about eating healthy foods, maintaining<br />

positive moods <strong>and</strong> giving self-massages every day.


TRAVEL<br />

WITH<br />

LEELA<br />

SIEM REAP<br />

TEMPLE RUN


In my mind, Cambodia has long been synonymous with lush<br />

jungles <strong>and</strong> orange-robed monks, moving mysteriously through<br />

ancient temples. I’ve dreamt of visiting this place long before<br />

travel seemed like a possibility for me.<br />

With just 55 hours to explore the city of Siem Reap, I wanted to<br />

cram every minute with unforgettable moments.<br />

Although my goal was to experience as much of Siem Reap as<br />

possible, I also wanted the trip to have a measure of flexibility to<br />

do whatever I wanted, or in some cases, didn’t want.<br />

I arrived in the city mid-afternoon. My Airbnb host was awesome<br />

<strong>and</strong> had a tuk-tuk waiting for me at the airport. It’s great when I<br />

don’t have to worry about finding my way around a new city. That<br />

takes a lot of the anxiety away.<br />

My first stop was to buy a one-day pass for the temples. If you<br />

purchase the ticket after 3 pm, you can use it that same evening<br />

to see a temple of your choice for a sunset viewing, <strong>and</strong> it’s valid<br />

for the next full day. My driver took me to Phnom Bakheng, which<br />

was the optimal choice because it was a 25-minute trek uphill to<br />

get to the actual temple. This temple is best visited after sundown<br />

because otherwise, the humidity <strong>and</strong> heat can be intolerable.<br />

Once there though, the view is stunning — <strong>and</strong> it’s worth it.<br />

My second day was spent traversing the Angkor area <strong>and</strong> seeing<br />

the temples there. Despite the intense heat <strong>and</strong> humidity, I<br />

thoroughly enjoyed the experience. To walk amidst ruins that<br />

have been around since the 9 th Century AD is indescribable.<br />

There were moments when I was alone in the temples <strong>and</strong> felt<br />

like I was in a different time altogether.<br />

It was surreal to finally see Angkor Wat in real life after seeing it in<br />

so many pictures. And the best part of the experience was seeing<br />

the monks offering blessings to visitors.<br />

I definitely left a little piece of my heart in Siem Reap. It feels<br />

amazing to finally be able to check it off my bucket list.<br />

KAHLEEL<br />

HAMILTON<br />

is an international educator, travel<br />

enthusiast <strong>and</strong> guru who hails from New<br />

York City. Follow Kahleel on Instagram


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FOR THE<br />

CULTURE<br />

STAY TRUE TO YOU (ME)<br />

A true belief in self is the key to growth <strong>and</strong> evolution. When we<br />

begin to mimic the lives of characters on TV screens, we become<br />

desperate to leave our true self — the “ME” — <strong>and</strong> it is said that<br />

desperation is the key to moral failure.<br />

Many believe there is no need to bring ourselves or the “ME” to<br />

the table of life at all. Why? Most likely, it’s because the “ME” we<br />

have to offer is not cool enough. It is not the “HIM” or “THEM”<br />

talented enough to be showcased like it is in popular culture.<br />

Isn’t it strange how we can ‘win ourselves in the mould of others,’<br />

but lose ourselves in the uniqueness of our being? Think about<br />

it.<br />

We welcome comparisons to our idols <strong>and</strong> role models, thus<br />

giving away our rights, <strong>and</strong> even opportunity to be the “ME”<br />

somebody else may want to emulate. We lead our lives to satisfy<br />

the insatiably greedy eyes of others. We cringe from failure<br />

because we think we lose everything in one go, <strong>and</strong> hence,<br />

we don’t even try to be the real “ME.” We forget the fact that<br />

the greatest individuals in the history of mankind have an open<br />

secret — that their greatness came from self-assurance, selfsufficiency,<br />

perseverance <strong>and</strong> liberty.<br />

So who are we not to not show our amazing true inner selves to<br />

the world? Who are we to have a voice <strong>and</strong> not be heard? Who<br />

are we to be accepting the lowly pinnacle of the third, when we<br />

should be ideally gearing to be first?<br />

We must elevate <strong>and</strong> accept the responsibility of being true to<br />

“ME” so that “YOU” can see the “ME” we were meant to be.<br />

We must identify our downfalls to fly above the limits set for<br />

us by others. We must be our own pathfinders, pioneers <strong>and</strong><br />

vanguards who do not chase success in the footsteps of others.<br />

The importance of our being cannot be wholly realised until we<br />

have trained our individuality to be the true enforcer of self.<br />

Here are simple ways in which we can stay true to the “ME” in us:


• Being “YOU” is a commitment: First, we must realise<br />

that being “YOU” is a lifetime commitment. It must be a selfevolutionary<br />

movement that is led by the nucleus of our being<br />

— our beliefs. You should st<strong>and</strong> up for what you believe is<br />

right even though there maybe be occasional mishaps. Learn<br />

from the moments of miscalculation <strong>and</strong> failure, <strong>and</strong> grow<br />

from them. Listen to your intuition that says the truth — that<br />

we are our true role models; we are our “true self,” not our<br />

fetish or obsessions. We stay true to our core by trusting our<br />

ability to decide, take charge <strong>and</strong> recharge.<br />

• Develop a close relationship with “YOU”: Likewise,<br />

you must know “ME” in you fully <strong>and</strong> express the “ME-ness”<br />

in an authentic <strong>and</strong> judicious way. We must cultivate that deep<br />

relationship with self to the point where endings are new<br />

beginnings <strong>and</strong> new beginnings are the constant reminders<br />

of our purpose for life — our purpose for accepting change<br />

<strong>and</strong> moving accordingly to remain relevant to our own stories.<br />

Ultimately, the cultivation of this relationship begins <strong>and</strong><br />

ends with our own thoughts which are powerful elements in<br />

deciding to be “ME.”<br />

• Ask yourself what you are feeling: Additionally, we<br />

must be patient with ourselves <strong>and</strong> our feelings. We must<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> the differences between feelings <strong>and</strong> thoughts.<br />

Do not become dejected if you are not able to align your<br />

feelings of openness, inner joy <strong>and</strong> liberty with your state of<br />

mind immediately. If you are true to yourself, your heart will<br />

tell you what you need to know. On the contrary, if you are not<br />

being true to the “ME” in you, you will experience feelings of<br />

tension, disconnection, emptiness <strong>and</strong> discontentment. Pay<br />

attention to details <strong>and</strong> be patient with “YOU.”<br />

Stagnation leads to complacency, procrastination <strong>and</strong> lack<br />

of imagination. Do not punish yourself by avoiding learning<br />

new concepts. Pay attention to trends <strong>and</strong> patterns that may<br />

be subconsciously connected to your feelings <strong>and</strong> thoughts.<br />

Establish a strong linkage to the “ME” in yourself <strong>and</strong> be<br />

confident enough in applying new ideas to the core of the<br />

“ME” in yourself.<br />

• Avoid desperation: Do not be desperate in your<br />

attempt to be “ME.” Staying true to yourself means that your<br />

morality is an integral tenet of your being. Use your time with<br />

purpose. By staying true to yourself, you can slow the h<strong>and</strong>s<br />

of time to express your needs in important situations. Do not<br />

accept limitations <strong>and</strong> be led to suppression <strong>and</strong> obstruction.<br />

The reality of desperation comes from the fact that you did<br />

not give yourself the opportunity to think, pair feelings <strong>and</strong><br />

thoughts <strong>and</strong> share your views. Be the master of your destiny,<br />

not the passenger.<br />

• Respect yourself: Finally, respect the “ME” that is<br />

you. Never give up on you, you are the only “YOU” you<br />

have. You can lose any <strong>and</strong> everybody around you, but losing<br />

the “ME” in you means that you truly did lose. Stay true to<br />

your being, appreciate your flaws, but do not accept them as<br />

the law.<br />

Stay centred in you; be bold in your self-expression; quantify<br />

your losses to add quality to your successes. You are the best<br />

version of the “ME” in you when you take the responsibility<br />

to respect the fact that you are all you have, hence you are<br />

all you can give. Stay true to the “ME” in you by just simply<br />

being true to you.<br />

• Express yourself: Similarly, you deserve the right to<br />

express your own values <strong>and</strong> ideas. Your values will guide<br />

your decisions, shape your personality <strong>and</strong> help others<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> your character. Be bold in self-expression, yet<br />

never step on others to make yourself look better. There is<br />

so much to gain from authenticity. The more you express<br />

yourself, the more you will realise that you are the best<br />

version of “YOU.” Believe in the process <strong>and</strong> you will reap<br />

plentiful rewards for having an authentic personality.<br />

• Learn new things: Now, more importantly, you<br />

must always be prepared to learn new things. The “ME”<br />

in you must have a ravenous <strong>and</strong> unquenchable desire to<br />

learn, accommodate <strong>and</strong> apply new concepts. Cultivate<br />

an awareness about things you know nothing about.<br />

ABOUT THE AUTHOR<br />

Jerome Douglas is a 26-year old trained<br />

teacher, poet <strong>and</strong> writer from the beautiful<br />

isl<strong>and</strong> of Jamaica. His personal philosophy<br />

is “If it is for me to be, then it is up to<br />

me.” He attended the Catholic College<br />

of M<strong>and</strong>eville in Jamaica. Additionally, he<br />

is a community builder <strong>and</strong> humanitarian<br />

who volunteers his time to help with the<br />

academic <strong>and</strong> social wellbeing of people<br />

in his central Jamaica community <strong>and</strong><br />

surrounding areas.

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