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PAGE 16, SUNDAY VANGUARD, SEPTEMBER 29, 2019<br />

By Josephine Agb<strong>on</strong>khese<br />

08054650907<br />

Email: jossynovia@gmail.com<br />

NAOMI: I shared<br />

my story of abuse<br />

<strong>on</strong> the world stage<br />

From drawing inspirati<strong>on</strong> from her travails as a victim of domestic violence in her first<br />

marriage and later a single mum, Naomi Osemedua became a global sensati<strong>on</strong>, streaming<br />

live videos from the comfort of her home. As a nursing motherand with no tech background,<br />

she would hit the live butt<strong>on</strong> <strong>on</strong> ‘PeriscopeTV’ and simply begin to ‘talk.’ So<strong>on</strong>, the world<br />

became her audience and in no time, she was nicknamed‘African Queen of Live Streaming.’<br />

This was at a time when the live butt<strong>on</strong> was absent <strong>on</strong> most social media<br />

platforms. Gradually, the author of Amaz<strong>on</strong>’s bestseller‘Socially Speaking -My Periscope<br />

Miracles’ became a highly sought-after inspirati<strong>on</strong>al speaker at c<strong>on</strong>ferences and seminars,<br />

a c<strong>on</strong>tent creator and positive change coach.<br />

The alumna of Ambrose Ali University, Dale Carnegie Institute, Dr. Myles<br />

Munroe Global Leadership Mentoring Programme and University of Cape<br />

Town Graduate School of Business, is today the Creative Director of the firm<br />

Sparkle with Naomi and the Chief Storyteller at Women With Stories<br />

Internati<strong>on</strong>al. Osemedua will be the <strong>on</strong>ly African speaking at the 8th editi<strong>on</strong><br />

of TEDx 2019 in the US next m<strong>on</strong>th.<br />

OW did you earn the ‘African Queen<br />

Hof Live Streaming’title?<br />

I started live streaming in October 2015.<br />

Before then, Iwas not a big fan of social media.<br />

I had no tech background and I assumed it<br />

was unnecessary. Everything changed when I<br />

hit the ‘Go Live’ butt<strong>on</strong> <strong>on</strong> the Periscope App. I<br />

was intrigued at how with <strong>on</strong>e touch of a<br />

butt<strong>on</strong>, I could c<strong>on</strong>nect with the world. This<br />

was at a time when there was no Facebook,<br />

Instagram,Twitter, YouTube or LinkedIn live<br />

platform.<br />

It was so profound because Periscope had a<br />

world map feature that would show you when<br />

people were ‘Live’ around the globe by a red<br />

dot. I would have people come into my live<br />

broadcasts <strong>on</strong> so many occasi<strong>on</strong>s and tell me:<br />

“Right now, you are the <strong>on</strong>ly <strong>on</strong>e who is live <strong>on</strong><br />

the African c<strong>on</strong>tinent.” I invested in learning<br />

how to use the platform and so<strong>on</strong> people<br />

wanted to pay me to teach them. On the 6th<br />

m<strong>on</strong>th anniversary of ‘Going Live,’ precisely<br />

October 11, 2016,something amazing<br />

happened. My channel started trending live<br />

<strong>on</strong> the Periscope.tv app, making me the first<br />

African to trend <strong>on</strong> the platform with milli<strong>on</strong>s<br />

of users. Hence the title ‘African Queen of Live<br />

Streaming’ from my fans across the globe.<br />

...but what inspires issues your talk about?<br />

I love to inspire people. As a people builder<br />

with amissi<strong>on</strong> to call out the seeds of greatness<br />

in others, I am obsessed about people living<br />

their best lives ‘now’. I am also <strong>on</strong> a missi<strong>on</strong><br />

to ‘die empty’. I do not want to take any of the<br />

gifts and talents that God has blessed me with<br />

to the grave. So, I show up daily <strong>on</strong>line to<br />

‘sparkle’ my world, like <strong>on</strong>ly Ican.<br />

What skills helped?<br />

I started with nothing but my smart ph<strong>on</strong>e<br />

and internet c<strong>on</strong>necti<strong>on</strong>. What kept me in the<br />

game were three things: the right mindset, the<br />

willingness to ‘do it afraid’ because there is no<br />

‘edit’ when you ‘go live’ and that could be scary<br />

for so many as they w<strong>on</strong>der about the mistakes<br />

they might make, and the c<strong>on</strong>stant investment<br />

in pers<strong>on</strong>al development.<br />

I’ve heard so much about Women with<br />

Stories. What’s the idea and is it<br />

meeting its objectives?<br />

During <strong>on</strong>e of my live streaming<br />

sessi<strong>on</strong>s, I went public about my<br />

pers<strong>on</strong>al story of running away from<br />

home and eloping at age 22. People<br />

really couldn’t believe I experienced so<br />

much because I didn’t look like mypast. I<br />

kept getting messages of how my story was<br />

inspiring. The<br />

Women with Stories platform was launched<br />

<strong>on</strong> March 8, 2017,with a podcast in which I<br />

shared my story as the first episode; we even<br />

got featured <strong>on</strong> the Internati<strong>on</strong>al<br />

Women’s Day website. Over the<br />

next <strong>on</strong>e year,we featured<br />

many more women from<br />

across the globe and in<br />

August 2018, as Iturned<br />

40, we hosted the first<br />

ever global c<strong>on</strong>ference<br />

in Lagos with the<br />

theme:’Your Story is<br />

Your Gift’.<br />

At the Women With<br />

S t o r i e s<br />

Internati<strong>on</strong>al, we<br />

are <strong>on</strong> a missi<strong>on</strong> to<br />

empower women<br />

to find and ‘own’<br />

their unique<br />

stories, disc<str<strong>on</strong>g>over</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

their cure, serve<br />

others and “profit<br />

from it”. I am a<br />

living witness as the ChiefStoryteller. In April,<br />

I received an invitati<strong>on</strong> to the Women<br />

Ec<strong>on</strong>omic Forum inNew Delhi, India, where<br />

I shared my story in different sessi<strong>on</strong>s <str<strong>on</strong>g>over</str<strong>on</strong>g> six<br />

daysand received the ‘Excepti<strong>on</strong>al Woman of<br />

Excellence Award.’ In October, I will be<br />

speaking at TEDx Providence, Rhode Island,<br />

U.S.A and I am the <strong>on</strong>ly speaker fromAfrica<br />

in this year’s editi<strong>on</strong>.<br />

You eloped?<br />

That was a major dark seas<strong>on</strong> of my life.<br />

Imagine losing your family and everything<br />

dear to you for love and then ending up being<br />

mistreated. My s<strong>on</strong>s were not spared.<br />

No <strong>on</strong>e should ever have to experience abuse<br />

in the hands of some<strong>on</strong>e they love.<br />

How did you survive?<br />

Survival came in various forms in that<br />

seas<strong>on</strong>. I was cut off from my family, so, I<br />

needed to survive emoti<strong>on</strong>ally. I was a sec<strong>on</strong>d<br />

year student in the university and therefore<br />

needed to survive academically too. Then there<br />

was the financial, marital and even<br />

motherhood survival struggle with my two<br />

s<strong>on</strong>s. I had to grow up fast and learn new<br />

things as the years went by. I never dropped<br />

out of school. Instead, I started a business to<br />

survive and after school, I got a job.<br />

What key pers<strong>on</strong>al decisi<strong>on</strong>s helped?<br />

I have always loved reading from my early<br />

years at Living Faith Church Internati<strong>on</strong>al;<br />

Bishop David Oyedepo always talked about<br />

reading books. That prepared me for what<br />

was ahead. My favourite author was Dr.Myles<br />

•Naomi<br />

Osemedua<br />

Munroe. I read so much about purpose,<br />

potential and more. It’s phenomenal that I<br />

actually met Dr Myles pers<strong>on</strong>ally in 2012<br />

and was privileged to be mentored by him<br />

before his passing. I had a str<strong>on</strong>g knowing<br />

that there was more to my life than my<br />

current situati<strong>on</strong>; and that there was<br />

purpose behind my pain. So, in April<br />

2009, I walked away and never looked<br />

back!<br />

But some remain in an abusive<br />

relati<strong>on</strong>ship...<br />

I believe you owe it to yourself to be<br />

alive first of all. Some stay for fear of<br />

how they will survive when they walk<br />

away, but end up getting killed in the<br />

process. Others stay for the kids who are<br />

not just watching, but whose entire adult<br />

life will be defined by decisi<strong>on</strong>s which they<br />

(the abused partner) didn’t make earlier. And<br />

the cycle sadly c<strong>on</strong>tinues.<br />

What is your idea of a peaceful, n<strong>on</strong>abusive<br />

marriage?<br />

One where there is love and respect. My<br />

story has a happy ending; I found love again<br />

after four years of being a single mum and I<br />

got married for the first time in 2013 in the<br />

presence of my entire family and loved <strong>on</strong>es.<br />

When my husband Richard met me, he had<br />

never been married and he had no kids. We<br />

recently celebrated our 6th year wedding<br />

anniversary and our uni<strong>on</strong> is blessed with<br />

another s<strong>on</strong> and a daughter. Richard has so<br />

much respect for who I am and the work I do<br />

and he really is my biggest supporter<br />

al<strong>on</strong>gside my family.

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