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run, it will feel great to tell someone what you really think abouthim/her, but in the long run it can really screw up your journey.That 10-minute tirade or spicy email can come back to haunt you.It goes into your file and all of the sudden you are not considered―leadership material.‖ Was it worth it? No. Part of developingwillpower is practicing restraint, especially when the unexpectedhits you in the face, or the sheer difficulty of dealing with certainpeople arises again. Don’t let a fear of failure drive you. Rather, take decisive actionand understand that if you do fail, you can use it as a steppingstone to success, a valuable lesson. If you are reading thiseBook, you probably have struggled with self-doubt. As part ofthat struggle, you are afraid of adding any failure to the alreadysizeable load on your shoulders. You need to not see failure asadded weight, but rather as a teacher, much like the unexpectedthat we discussed in the previous chapter. Once you vanquishyour fear of failure, you will have the willpower needed to takedecisive action at certain points in your life’s journey: you will askthe girl to marry you, you will start that side business, you willrequest a raise and a promotion. Willpower cannot coexist with afear of failure. Take physical, tangible actions to grow your willpower. Eventhought this eBook is on Mind Hacking, not all of the action pointssuggested in it are purely mental in nature. It is not recommendedthat you strive to develop discipline by purposely puttingtemptation in front of you. For example, if you are on a diet to loseweight, it is not advised to visit bakeries to take in the sights,sounds and smells! However, your discipline should have tangibleactions attached to it. If you want to grow your willpower as youseek life change, keep a record of actions you took thatdemonstrated your commitment to increasing your willpower.Examples would be: booked a place at the positive thinkingseminar for a weekend next month; sent my significant otherflowers in a determined effort to win her heart; began an IRA atthe bank to practice consistent saving and improve my long-termfinancial outlook. These all take willpower, which grows throughaction in many cases, not by simply wishing it to increase.
You will find that willpower will be most essential early in your journey towardslife change. That’s because it might be like an underused muscle. It might nothave any tone to it at all as you begin. You will need to lift your discipline andcommitment consistently to grow your willpower muscle. With time, you willdevelop an iron-strong will that cannot be defeated by anything or anyone, butit takes time to build that iron.Early in your quest to achieve small targets, double down on the discipline tofacilitate success. It’s sort of like the first days of a diet; early in that neweating regimen, you long for carbs or bread or sweets, whatever you areabstaining from. After a few days and weeks, your cravings subside.It’s the same way with willpower. As it grows, you become inherently moredisciplined—a better you. As that self-discipline gains momentum, it becomesunstoppable.Of course, you will fall short at times. You will give in to the doughnuts, youranger, your pettiness, your selfishness. That just proves that you’re human.What is important is that you realize your error and understand that multipleshortcomings in a row can really throw you off track, and that you need to getback on course as soon as possible.Willpower is not about total absence of weakness, but it is about consistentlymaking good choices and resisting mind-sets and snares that can drag youdown. After those three doughnuts, you might awaken your taste for sweets,so you will need to physically stay as far away from doughnuts for the nextseveral weeks. You do that not just to prove that you’re strong, but becauseyou have short- and long-term goals to fulfill.You won’t lose those five pounds this month if you keep on gorging ondoughnuts, and you have not seen many other bank presidents who are 75pounds overweight. Both short and long term, you need to abstain from 10a.m. snacks in the break room. Just because it’s there does not mean that youhave to eat it! It’s not worth missing out on your goals.
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