Paralysis by Lucrezia Dal Toso

Look, the world isn’t all roses and
flowers, it’s really a miserable and
dirty place, and no matter how
strong you may be, if you let it, it
will bring you to your knees and
leave you with nothing forever.
Fear is going to be a player in your
life, but you get to decide how
much. You can spend your whole
life imagining ghosts, worrying
about your pathway to the future,
but all there will ever be is what’s
happening here, and the decisions
we make in this moment, which are
based in either love or fear.
So many of us choose our path out
of fear disguised as practicality. What
we really want seems impossibly out
of reach and ridiculous to expect, so
we never dare to ask the universe for
it. I’m saying, I’m the proof that you
can ask the universe for it. And if it
doesn’t happen for you right away,
it’s only because the universe is so
busy fulfilling my order. It’s party
size!
Neither you nor I can hit as hard
as life does, so going forward is
not important how you hit, the
important thing is how you can
resist the blows, how you cash in
and if you end up on the floor you
have the strength to get up... So
you’re a winner!
And if you think you’re strong, you
gotta prove it! Because a man only
wins if he can take it! He doesn’t
go around pointing the finger
at people who aren’t involved,
blaming this guy and that guy for
making a mistake! That’s what
cowards do and you’re not! You’re
not a coward at all! [...]
Until you have faith in yourself, your
life is no longer your own.
I learned many great lessons from
my father, not the least of which was
that you can fail at what you don’t
want, so you might as well take a
chance on doing what you love.
Rocky Balboa
Jim Carrey
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