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Welcome to <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

It’s in these pages we educate and inspire. Even more importantly, we<br />

create a community that thrives on connecting with one another. At our<br />

core, we all want to connect. When we seek to understand, by listening<br />

more intently, we find that our relationships deepen and our community<br />

strengthens as a result. With appreciation for the power of connection<br />

through meaningful conversations, it only made sense to name the<br />

b u s i n e s s Empowering Conversations.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | strength / 3<br />

Stacie Anderson, Owner<br />

It all starts with a conversation; with a desire to learn;<br />

to see things from another perspective; to seek<br />

truth. The truth is, we have more in common than we have<br />

differences. Well, maybe it would be more accurate to say, what<br />

brings us together is stronger than anything that divides us.<br />

We would never want to marginalize our differences. We love the words of Audre Lorde,<br />

“It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate<br />

those differences.” We are unique in vast and complicated ways. It’s our hope that we can<br />

come together with our unique strengths, perspectives and ideas to build a community with a<br />

powerful narrative of “us.”<br />

Through this humble publication, we will start having conversations. This is an ambitious and<br />

beautifully optimistic attempt to shine light on all the things that make our community strong,<br />

but also discuss, in a productive and compassionate manner, the challenges we face.<br />

We are doing our small part in building a cohesive community by creating conversations<br />

that refocus our attention on our similarities. We are bringing people together; replacing<br />

judgment with understanding. Perspective is powerful.<br />

We want to hear from you. At <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, we feel it is imperative to understand what<br />

the community wants and needs. Share your vision and dreams for <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

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STRENGTH<br />

Converse22<br />

Complexity of Strength............................................................................................................8<br />

Conversation About Strength...............................................................................10<br />

Seventy Years Strong....................................................................................................12<br />

Inclusive Peek................................................................................................................................14<br />

Nebraska 4-H Strong..................................................................................................18<br />

Positivity Can Strengthen Our Community.......................20<br />

I Yam What I Yam.................................................................................................................2 1<br />

Grow<br />

Balance<br />

Sit Pretty Bakery..........................................................................................................................28<br />

LEAD With STRENGTH in Purpose ............................................30<br />

Finding Your Strength as Entrepreneurs........................................31<br />

How Well Do You Know Your Business? CLAIM IT!...............32<br />

Explore Sioux City...................................................................................................................33<br />

Feelin’ Strong....................................................................................................................................35<br />

Building Our Own Form of Strength..................................................37<br />

Strong Resources to Help You Succeed.......................................39<br />

“She/He Is Strong.”.................................................................................................................40<br />

No Struggle, No Strength.........................................................................................42<br />

Ask the Therapist........................................................................................................................4 4<br />

Seasonal Cycles & Your Body: Springtime is for<br />

Liver Strengthening...................................................................................................................46<br />

“With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts.”<br />

– Eleanor Roosevelt


“You have power over your mind – not outside events.<br />

Realize this, and you will find strength.”<br />

– Marcus Aurelius<br />

Inspire<br />

Intentional Strength..............................................................................................................22<br />

The Tale of Two Organizations..........................................................................24<br />

Nurturing and Networking........................................................................................26<br />

At our core, we all want to connect. When we<br />

seek to understand by listening more intently, we find<br />

that our relationships deepen and our community<br />

strengthens as a result. That’s what our <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

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Keeping Spirits High at The Marquee.............................................48<br />

Body Love Warrior.................................................................................................................50<br />

Strength in Numbers............................................................................................................52<br />

Market Experience................................................................................................................54<br />

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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> writers<br />

CONVERSE<br />

Jetske Wauran,<br />

People of<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> -<br />

Portraits of the<br />

Extraordinary.<br />

INSPIRE<br />

Dr. Cyndi Hanson,<br />

Executive Director for<br />

Northeast Community<br />

College’s Extended<br />

Campus.<br />

GROW<br />

Stacy Orndorff,<br />

Entrepreneurial<br />

Community<br />

Navigator &<br />

Stacy O. Speaks.<br />

Tony Michaels,<br />

KSUX Morning<br />

Show Host with<br />

Candice Nash.<br />

Michelle Lessmann,<br />

Fully Licensed Office<br />

Professional in Keith<br />

Bales Office of Thrivent.<br />

Todd Rausch,<br />

SBDC Regional<br />

Director at<br />

WITCC.<br />

EXPLORE<br />

Alex Watters,<br />

Sioux City Council.<br />

University of<br />

Nebraska – Lincoln<br />

Nebraska Extension<br />

Educators.<br />

Up From the<br />

Earth Leadership<br />

Team.<br />

BALANCE<br />

Erin Bahrenfuss, Owner<br />

STRIVE Health + Wellness<br />

& Independent Certified<br />

OPTAVIA Coach.<br />

Dr. Meghan Nelson,<br />

Licensed Physical Therapist,<br />

Professional Yoga Therapist &<br />

Co-owner of Lumin Therapy.<br />

Gladys Smith,<br />

Licensed Independent<br />

Social Worker &<br />

Co-founder of Soul<br />

Creek Nature Therapy.<br />

Grace Nordquist,<br />

Business<br />

Development<br />

Coordinator for<br />

Downtown Partners.<br />

Emily Vondrak,<br />

President for<br />

Sioux City Growth<br />

Organization.<br />

Peggy Smith,<br />

Executive Director<br />

for Leadership<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

Adrian Kolbo,<br />

Host of the Webseries<br />

Sioux City<br />

Foodie and Local<br />

F&B Fanatic.<br />

Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata,<br />

Family Medicine<br />

Physician, Integrative<br />

Psychiatrist & Yoga<br />

Instructor.<br />

Erika Hansen,<br />

Lifelong<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Resident &<br />

Model.<br />

Emily Larson,<br />

Licensed Massage<br />

Therapist & Private<br />

Yoga Instructor.<br />

Kari Nelson,<br />

Graphic Designer.<br />

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Editors Note<br />

It’s time to celebrate strength.<br />

The seen and unseen moments. The big and little triumphs.<br />

Especially those moments that it was all you.<br />

The moments where you took the next step.<br />

Celebrate strength and recognize it in all its forms.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | STRENGTH / 7<br />

“A hero is an ordinary individual<br />

who finds the strength to<br />

persevere and endure in spite<br />

of overwhelming obstacles.”<br />

- Christopher Reeve<br />

Strong is knowing when to say no or enough.<br />

Strong is knowing when it’s time to recharge your batteries, to<br />

self-preserve.<br />

Strong is knowing who you are and staying true to your values.<br />

Strong is following your internal compass.<br />

Strong is asking for help, at times having to borrow strength.<br />

Strong is bravery.<br />

Strong is being vulnerable. Staying open.<br />

Strong is being flexible.<br />

Strong knows when to be silent and when to speak.<br />

Strong allows for space, to rebuild what’s torn, to internalize<br />

before expressing.<br />

Strong is being accountable.<br />

Strong carries responsibility, giving more than you take.<br />

Strong is committed, no excuses.<br />

Strong pushes through for purpose.<br />

Strong is putting yourself out there and facing fears. Moving in<br />

spite of fear.<br />

Strong is bold and beautiful.<br />

You got this. ”<br />

Stacie Anderson<br />

Owner of Empowering Conversations LLC & <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

Certified John Maxwell Speaker, Trainer & Coach<br />

Passionate about Leadership & Communication<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is owned and published by Empowering Conversations, LLC. All materials contained in this magazine (including text, content, and photographs)<br />

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strength<br />

resourceful<br />

courageous<br />

flexible<br />

Complexity of Strength<br />

By Stacie Anderson<br />

Where does strength come from?<br />

Undoubtedly you’ve experienced a time in your life<br />

when you’ve felt anything but strong.<br />

I can’t even begin to count the times in my life when I<br />

felt defeated, when the weight of the world was heavy,<br />

and might I even say at times, unbearable.<br />

Despite the challenges that each of us has experienced,<br />

here we are, stronger for it. Although sometimes I<br />

know it doesn’t feel that way.<br />

“Strength doesn’t always have to roar.<br />

Sometimes it’s a quiet whisper that tells us to<br />

take the next step. From somewhere deep<br />

inside we mustered up enough strength to<br />

move forward.”<br />

We might not always recognize it when it shows up<br />

when we show up, but often in reflection, we see how<br />

we’ve risen. Even if it does take someone to point it out<br />

to us. That’s the complexity of strength - sometimes we<br />

know when we are demonstrating it and other times<br />

not so much. It has the ability to be subtle, showing<br />

up in a quiet way. From being patient, restraining our<br />

words or actions, to holding space for someone to<br />

even letting someone else have the credit or win. There<br />

is also the way in which at times we need to borrow<br />

strength, leaning on someone to help us through.<br />

While other times we lend it and give of it generously.<br />

It is complex. Sometimes in triumphant physical<br />

display while other times quietly evolving through<br />

personal reflection and work. External and internal<br />

thresholds. Resistance coming from our outer world<br />

and from within. It takes many forms: emotional,<br />

mental, spiritual, and physical. None of which are<br />

independent of each other. There is a multitude of<br />

ways that we can expand ourselves, push our limits,<br />

and become stronger. Humans have been testing<br />

our boundaries since the beginning. Whether we are<br />

deliberate about strengthening exercises or it was a<br />

result of an experience we’ve survived, in either case,<br />

we are stronger for it.<br />

Through adversity comes character,<br />

resilience, and yes, strength.<br />

We all have our own mountains to climb, but over the<br />

last year, collectively, we faced a global pandemic. We<br />

felt the isolation as we were encouraged to distance.


influence<br />

capable<br />

mastery<br />

Each of us experiencing life in a new way and facing<br />

our own set of obstacles. But we also saw strength<br />

demonstrated in how the community came together,<br />

showing support for one another.<br />

Community is a powerful source of<br />

strength.<br />

Certainly, we all have access to something within us<br />

that can pull us through in the darkest of hours. We<br />

find out what we are made of during these tribulations.<br />

Often it is in the space of nowhere else to go but up,<br />

that we find our power source. When we are tested<br />

and our backs are to the wall, it’s then, we find our<br />

strength.<br />

But sometimes the way out is too much to endure<br />

alone. It’s in these times that we need to ask for help.<br />

And in that, great strength is demonstrated. For too<br />

long we’ve denied the strength and courage it takes<br />

to ask for help. But no longer. We are evolving and<br />

shedding what does not serve us. In other words, we<br />

are learning our lessons. We are becoming stronger<br />

through authentic, transparent conversation and<br />

choosing the path that gets us results. In accepting<br />

help, we find our strength.<br />

On our own we are capable, but<br />

together we are so much stronger.<br />

The work starts with us. It takes a commitment to put<br />

yourself out there and feel the resistance. It’s musclebuilding<br />

- emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical.<br />

It asks us to expand, to be willing to embrace the<br />

process, to release the fear, or at least move in spite<br />

of it. Sometimes we find our strength at unexpected<br />

moments, but most of the time it comes with decision<br />

and determination.<br />

Commit to building strength.<br />

Make yourself a priority. You can not give what you<br />

don’t have. If you want to be there for others, if you<br />

want to be generous, you have to be plentiful. Taking<br />

time, actually prioritizing your time, so that you are<br />

building yourself up and strengthening your resilience<br />

is essential.<br />

We have a responsibility to one another. We also must<br />

be mindful that we have to love and respect ourselves.<br />

It all comes down to love. What we love and cherish,<br />

we protect and nurture. Love is the reason and the way.<br />

Stacie Anderson, Owner of Empowering Conversations LLC<br />

& <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>. Certified John Maxwell Speaker,<br />

Trainer & Coach.<br />

Photo Credit Photography by KJ<br />

Physical strength: The ability to apply force<br />

or resistance during a given task. To lift, move,<br />

carry, or pull objects without hurting yourself.<br />

Mental strength: To be able to focus over<br />

an extended period of time, through highs<br />

and lows, good and bad. To value your own<br />

opinions and respect those of others and<br />

formulating your own conclusions to questions<br />

based upon the ability and commitment to<br />

continued education and learning of the self.<br />

Emotional strength: The ability to embrace<br />

a wide array of feelings and emotions and to<br />

transition from one response to another with<br />

full awareness, comfort, and confidence to<br />

allow yourself to feel and express them.<br />

Spiritual strength: Is one’s commitment to<br />

personal values and virtues and the commitment<br />

to displaying them on a day-to-day basis. These<br />

virtues should be in the best interest of the self<br />

and of others. Respecting your own beliefs and<br />

accepting the beliefs of others.<br />

Justin Thomas Miller


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | strength / 10<br />

Erin<br />

Dr. Bennett<br />

Conversation About Strength<br />

This issue, our Conversation participants are Erin<br />

Bahrenfus and Dr. Paula Bennett, M.D.. Each woman<br />

will respond to the same five questions, providing you an<br />

opportunity to hear different perspectives and continue<br />

the conversation with your circle of friends.<br />

Erin owns a healthy lifestyle business, STRIVE Health +<br />

Wellness and operates it with her husband, Jeff. She is<br />

certified by OPTAVIA in partnership with The MacDonald<br />

Center for Obesity Prevention and Education (C.O.P.E.) in<br />

the M. Louise Fitzpatrick College of Nursing at Villanova<br />

University.<br />

Dr. Bennett has recently been working on the frontlines<br />

of the Covid-19 pandemic in several states and has<br />

witnessed the devastation of the disease. She attended<br />

York College in the City University of New York (CUNY)<br />

where she graduated Magna Cum Laude with a major in<br />

Chemistry while minoring in Spanish. She obtained her<br />

Medical Degree from the State University of New York’s<br />

School of Medicine and Biomedical Sciences in Buffalo—<br />

now known as the Jacobs School of Medicine. She is<br />

one of the founding members of the American Board of<br />

Holistic Medicine.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> (SM): When you hear the<br />

word “strength” what comes to mind?<br />

Erin Bahrenfuss (EB): Strength to me is an inner grit<br />

and discipline to do the hard and heart work to break<br />

through barriers and embrace obstacles. It is identifying<br />

areas of weakness and pursuing the tools, people, or<br />

programs necessary to improve. Strength is the ability to<br />

move forward after a setback.<br />

We grow stronger by showing up every day and keeping<br />

the promises we make to ourselves.<br />

Dr. Paula Bennett (PB): My favorite definition of<br />

strength is ‘the capacity of an object, substance, or<br />

person to withstand great force or pressure, and with it,<br />

possessing the emotional and mental qualities necessary<br />

in dealing with situations or events that are distressing or<br />

difficult’ —like those we’ve just been through and continue<br />

to experience as a nation. It is the ability to adapt to both the<br />

brutal and the gentle situations in which we find ourselves,<br />

emerging transformed and improved because of it on the<br />

other side!<br />

Strength is flexibility. If the reed will not bend, it will break.<br />

It is the ability to fight for what we perceive to be right—<br />

yet having the courage to realize we might be wrong,<br />

and the humility and strength of character to accept what<br />

is finally revealed to be truth. To understand that on our<br />

singular planet of 7.4-billion souls, we must learn to share,<br />

to compromise, and to appreciate the differences that<br />

surround us.<br />

Strength is asking for help when our pride would dictate<br />

otherwise, to endure with grace and dignity even whilst<br />

homeless and on the streets, or while transitioning on<br />

one’s deathbed with no family by your side. Strength is<br />

recognizing where we can make a difference with our<br />

unique gifts bequeathed to us by the Creator, and using<br />

them to make our cooperative lives better and more joy<br />

filled.<br />

SM: Why have you dedicated your life to the health<br />

profession?<br />

PB: I have known that I would become a physician since I<br />

was 8 years old, when my mother died. Perhaps this desire<br />

emerged out of not understanding why my mother left my<br />

sisters and I when we were so young. I had to be able to<br />

figure out why, and stop it from happening to anyone else.<br />

Even back then, I felt a strong tug within me to attend to<br />

those ill and suffering.<br />

In those days, growing up as a girl in Jamaica, the obvious<br />

career choice for a girl with my conviction was to become<br />

a nurse. However, some force compelled me to do more,<br />

to be more. Not even my father believed I could become<br />

a physician-healer, but I persevered, and I believed it was<br />

my destiny.


EB: There’s a fire in my belly that desperately desires<br />

to partner with women to create the very best version of<br />

themselves. We all have times when we feel knocked<br />

down, stuck, hopeless, and unhappy. In these times, we<br />

need someone to walk with us and to believe in us, until we<br />

believe in our own ability.<br />

It is my mission to be that HOPE in someone’s life. I want to<br />

prove to women it is possible to change the trajectory of<br />

your health and to create the life you desire.<br />

SM: What are the most difficult areas of life for you to<br />

maintain/display strength?<br />

EB: I struggle feeling strong when I’m experiencing<br />

something new or when I’m in a situation where I feel<br />

unqualified. When I’m not practicing positive self-talk, I all<br />

too quickly stop myself, or give myself a bailout plan before<br />

I even try. I know I have the strength to try and yet, the reality<br />

that I could fail can cripple me from even starting.<br />

It’s also difficult to display strength in times of vulnerability.<br />

It’s challenging to show the world my imperfections and<br />

insecurities. However, I know there is incredible strength<br />

in vulnerability. It is in our vulnerability that we connect<br />

with others and prove our authenticity. With vulnerability<br />

comes true connection, and with true connection, growth<br />

is possible.<br />

PB: Changing and removing limiting beliefs has been the<br />

most difficult area of my life to master, until recently. When<br />

I completed Medical School and Residency, I was filled<br />

with a great passion and conviction that the world needed<br />

changing—and I was going to change it! People needed to<br />

be healthier, but organized medicine’s strong foundation<br />

is in a disease-based model. My fervent belief is that we<br />

should focus on total well-being, rather than one disease<br />

diagnosis after another. But it became clear that I could not<br />

move a mountain that did not want to be moved without<br />

help. Over time, I began to lose hope. I began to despair.<br />

Over the last three years, I have fully embraced the<br />

words of the 13-th century Persian poet Rumi, who wrote,<br />

“Yesterday—I was clever, so I wanted to change the World.<br />

Today—I am wise, so I want to change myself”. I have come<br />

to realize that I have been as much a victim of my own<br />

subconscious beliefs as my patients are of theirs.<br />

SM: So many things in our world are polarized right<br />

now – including viewpoints on pharmaceuticals or<br />

natural remedies. In your opinion, does it have to be<br />

an or thing? Is there room for and in strong physical<br />

well-being?<br />

PB: I revere my practice in Integrative Medicine because it<br />

is truly the melding of two worlds. There are components<br />

of medicine that Western medicine has truly triumphed in<br />

achieving, while more ancient or natural modes of healing<br />

are unsurpassed in their ability to bring us into a place of<br />

balance. If you’ve just had a heart attack, modern medicine<br />

will save you acutely, more often than not. It possesses<br />

powerful drugs and interventions in its arsenal to bring you<br />

back from the dead—so to speak, and that is definitively<br />

called for in those circumstances. However, once you’ve<br />

recovered from the heart attack, using combinations of<br />

prescription medications and herbal regimens including<br />

adopting healthy food choices and a cadre of vitamin<br />

supplements has been extremely successful at restoring<br />

one to full health. Then with time, one may transition to a<br />

purely holistic course of management.<br />

I have had patients who have refused any pharmaceutical<br />

drugs after their acute phase of recovery and done well<br />

and those who have done poorly. I do believe there is room<br />

for both pharmaceuticals and herbal regimens in today’s<br />

practice of medicine; however, even more crucial than<br />

starting and stopping drugs is truly engaging our patients in<br />

the process of securing their own optimal health. They must<br />

have knowledge and understanding of the dysfunctions<br />

and diseases that ail them and must be allowed to be active<br />

partners in their plan for health. Afterall, they are the true<br />

healers of themselves.<br />

EB: It starts with taking personal responsibility for your<br />

health and evaluating your current reality. Then, you must<br />

take action to choose healthy routines and habits that equip<br />

your body with the strongest armor of defense possible.<br />

There are also situations where medication is necessary<br />

and should be viewed accordingly.<br />

Ultimately, you need to be willing to have an honest<br />

conversation with yourself and ask if changing daily habits<br />

would improve the situation. If yes, then do that. If not or<br />

even if for a season, medication is required to give your<br />

body the self-care it needs, you need to be willing to do<br />

that.<br />

SM: What else should our readers know about you?<br />

EB: I am not a health expert. (Yes, you read that correctly.)<br />

When you make a change, you don’t need an expert. You<br />

need someone you can trust who is a little further ahead on<br />

the journey to show you the way. I am a health advocate, a<br />

pioneer for healthy living and I am a work-in-progress.<br />

I am committed to my health journey and growing into the<br />

best version of myself so that I can authentically lead others<br />

to do the same.<br />

PB: I am Board Certified in Family Practice and will sit for<br />

the Board exam to the newly organized American Board<br />

of Integrative Holistic Medicine-ABPS in May 2021. I am<br />

divorced and live in Sioux City as an empty nester with my<br />

two children migrating home and away to college as their<br />

busy lives allow.<br />

I love travelling, the study of geography, and learning about<br />

other cultures. I have spent significant time in 46-states<br />

and in more than 20-countries around the world. I also<br />

enjoy cooking, singing, and dancing, as well as—writing<br />

poetry, short stories, and journaling, which I believe is one<br />

of the least expensive and most effective forms of selfpsychotherapy.<br />

I am a life-long learner and truth seeker.<br />

Photos Contributed by Erin Bahrenfus and Dr. Paula Bennett.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | strength / 11


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Seventy Years Strong<br />

By Jetske Wauran<br />

It’s a very special year for Irv and Sue Givot.<br />

This long-time local couple has not only overcome<br />

the first year of the global pandemic, but they are<br />

perhaps the longest living married couple in Sioux<br />

City, Iowa. After all, they’ve been married for 69 years.<br />

“We have done so well together,” Irv said.<br />

Over those nearly seven decades, they had two<br />

daughters and five grandchildren. After serving<br />

in World War II, Irv came home and took over the<br />

family-owned Westside Market grocery store as well.<br />

Sue said they never really had any big arguments, nor have<br />

they had any troubles during this pandemic except that<br />

Irv can’t drive anymore due to health issues. “And that’s<br />

just fine because now HyVee and Walmart deliver our<br />

groceries,” Sue laughed.<br />

“We get along so well. I love him with all my heart,” she<br />

said, “And I knew at first, I would be marrying him too.”<br />

On June 17, 2021, this Northside couple will celebrate<br />

their 70th anniversary, at the place they say they will always<br />

love the most: Sioux City.<br />

“I worked there before the war. My mother ran it for<br />

a long time, so for me it was an easy transition,” Irv<br />

said. “It was a great 69 years. I loved work, I loved<br />

the customers, I loved the challenges. It was the best<br />

decision outside of my marriage with Sue.”<br />

Irv, 97, said the keys to their marriage longevity are<br />

love and respect for each other. “She’s so perfect.”<br />

Irv said there was never a doubt in his mind that he<br />

wanted to marry Sue.<br />

Sue, 91, said she likes to spend quality time with her<br />

husband.<br />

“He’s always been a hard worker for our family and<br />

he makes me feel safe.”<br />

Irv and Sue Givot


strengthening our community<br />

Conversations exploring perspectives<br />

coming together<br />

open minded<br />

focused on common good<br />

Hello, I’m Jetske<br />

Wauran and I am<br />

so excited to team<br />

up with <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>!<br />

This team effort will<br />

serve as an avenue<br />

to share my passion<br />

project, “People of<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> - Portraits<br />

of the Extraordinary.” I launched this project<br />

in September 2020, in hopes of inspiring and<br />

uplifting others in the most trying of times<br />

especially during the pandemic. As a visual<br />

storyteller, my mission is to connect with<br />

people who have made a true and profound<br />

impact in our community and write stories<br />

about the underrepresented individuals and<br />

hidden gems within <strong>Siouxland</strong>. You’d be<br />

amazed by how many there are! These are<br />

everyday people, from all backgrounds and<br />

walks of life, that are changing our world for the<br />

better. It is an honor to share their unique and<br />

remarkable stories with you. Stories that are<br />

worth encouraging, enjoying, and celebrating,<br />

and can fill our lives with positivity.<br />

Jetske Wauran is a professional photographer<br />

and an Emmy award-winning journalist who<br />

spent six and half years working as an anchor<br />

and reporter at <strong>Siouxland</strong> News. She has<br />

covered all types of stories from breaking<br />

news, presidential campaigns, uplifting stories,<br />

and much more. Jetske speaks Indonesian,<br />

and before moving to <strong>Siouxland</strong>, she lived<br />

in Southern California for most of her life. A<br />

community activist, Jetske is passionate about<br />

building bridges and creating a diverse and<br />

inclusive community.


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Inclusive Peek<br />

By Bernice Semana<br />

My name is Bernice Semana and I am an<br />

international student born in Kigali, Rwanda.<br />

I am a senior at Briar Cliff University majoring in<br />

biochemistry with a minor in business. I will graduate<br />

in May 2021 and will attend graduate school in the<br />

United States.<br />

What challenges have you experienced in<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

The language barrier was difficult, especially at the<br />

beginning. Sometimes people are not understanding<br />

that I, or other international students, come from a<br />

different place or a different background. This can<br />

happen for lots of reasons. It may be that the person<br />

hasn’t had the opportunity to travel or experience<br />

different ways of living. However, in this time in our<br />

world we each have the responsibility to educate<br />

ourselves. Even if travel isn’t an option, there are<br />

many ways to learn by attending cultural events,<br />

doing research online, and developing friendships<br />

with people different than you.<br />

Bernice Semana<br />

Coming to Iowa was a very different experience. I<br />

was awarded a scholarship to attend college here,<br />

so I took a big risk and decided to come. Being away<br />

from family has been difficult. Everything about my<br />

life in college is different from what I was used to.<br />

The teaching and learning styles in American school<br />

are different, the perceptions people have of me<br />

can be based on stereotypes or misinformation. I<br />

did my best to learn about the community I am in<br />

now, but have definitely experienced challenges in<br />

the process. I have experienced some racism during<br />

my time here, and it felt like I was taking two steps<br />

forward and one-step backward.<br />

How has <strong>Siouxland</strong> been welcoming?<br />

The Briar Cliff University campus has been a<br />

wonderful support group for me. There are other<br />

international students on campus, and we support<br />

each other. In fact, there was another student from<br />

Rwanda that helped me during my transition to<br />

Sioux City. There were other students that grew up<br />

in the United States that were also helpful and have<br />

become good friends. The staff and advisors at Briar<br />

Cliff have also made an impact on my time here<br />

and have encouraged me to keep working toward<br />

my goals. There have been people in the Sioux<br />

City community through my church and community<br />

groups that also welcomed me and mentored me.<br />

I have also had the opportunity to learn leadership<br />

skills through our Women of Color organization<br />

on campus. Together with the other women in the<br />

group we have held educational programs, built<br />

friendships, and supported each other.<br />

What do you want the people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> to<br />

know?<br />

The continent of Africa is a large and diverse place with<br />

many cultures and countries. Within the continent there<br />

are a variety of communities, cities, and rural areas. There<br />

is a diversity of languages, traditions, ways of making a<br />

living, and more. It is important for people to understand<br />

that even though I am from Africa, my life is not the<br />

same as others. It is the same as in other parts of the<br />

world or even the United States. Each person has their<br />

own unique story and experience. There are struggles<br />

and triumphs that each person carries with them. I want<br />

people to understand this diversity and take time to<br />

educate themselves about the various people within<br />

the community. People will benefit from developing an<br />

understanding and appreciation for differences.<br />

I also want the <strong>Siouxland</strong> community to know that my<br />

family is very proud and supportive of my educational<br />

and career goals. Even though we are a far distance<br />

apart, they remain a big part of my life. They take every<br />

chance they get to tell people about me and what I have<br />

achieved at Briar Cliff. I know they are proud of me and I<br />

want to continue to make them proud in the future.<br />

Despite experiencing some challenges along the way,<br />

I want the community to know that I am grateful for the<br />

people and opportunities I have come across. Being a<br />

leader in our Women of Color organization at Briar Cliff<br />

has especially made a positive impact. We have done lots<br />

of community outreach and events together. Being in the<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> community has given me access to experiences<br />

that have truly helped strengthen me as a person.


Inclusive Peek – En Espanol<br />

Berenice Semana, es una estudiante internacional<br />

nacida en Kigali, Ruanda. Berenice es estudiante<br />

de ultimo año en la Universidad de Briar Cliff con<br />

especialización en bioquímica con mención en<br />

negocios. Bernice se graduará en mayo del 2021 y<br />

asistirá a una escuela de posgrado en los Estados<br />

Unidos.<br />

¿Qué desafíos has experimentado en<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

La barrera del idioma fue difícil, especialmente al<br />

principio. A veces, las personas no comprenden que<br />

yo o otros estudiantes internacionales, venimos de<br />

un lugar diferente o de una procedencia diferente.<br />

Esto puede suceder por muchas razones. Puede<br />

ser que la persona no haya tenido la oportunidad<br />

de viajar o experimentar diferentes formas de vida.<br />

Sin embargo, en este momento de nuestro mundo,<br />

todos tenemos la responsabilidad de educarnos.<br />

Incluso si viajar no es una opción, hay muchas<br />

formas de aprender asistiendo a eventos culturales,<br />

investigando en línea y desarrollando amistades<br />

con personas diferentes a uno.<br />

Venir a Iowa fue una experiencia muy diferente. Me<br />

concedieron una beca para asistir a la universidad<br />

aquí, así que tomé un gran riesgo y decidí venir.<br />

Estar lejos de la familia ha sido difícil. Todo sobre<br />

mi vida en la universidad es diferente a lo que<br />

estaba acostumbrado. Los estilos de enseñanza<br />

y aprendizaje en la escuela estadounidense<br />

son diferentes, las percepciones que la gente<br />

tiene de mi pueden basarse en estereotipos<br />

o desinformación. Hice todo lo posible para<br />

aprender sobre la comunidad en la que estoy<br />

ahora, pero definitivamente he experimentado<br />

desafíos en el proceso. He experimentado algo de<br />

racismo durante mi tiempo aquí, y me sentí como<br />

si estuviera dando dos pasos hacia adelante y un<br />

paso hacia atrás.<br />

¿Como ha sido la bienvenida en<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

El campus de la Universidad de Briar Cliff ha sido<br />

un maravilloso grupo de apoyo para mí. Hay otros<br />

estudiantes internacionales en el campus y nos<br />

apoyamos mutuamente. De hecho, hubo otro<br />

estudiante de Ruanda que me ayudo ruante mi<br />

transición a Sioux City. Hubo otros estudiantes que<br />

crecieron en los Estados Unidos que también me<br />

ayudaron y se hicieron buenos amigos. El personal<br />

y los asesores y Briar Cliff también han tenido<br />

un impacto en mi tiempo aquí y me han animado a<br />

seguir trabajando para lograr mis objetivos. Ha habido<br />

personas en la comunidad de Sioux City a través de mi<br />

iglesia y grupos comunitarios que también me dieron la<br />

bienvenida y me guiaron. También tuve la oportunidad<br />

de aprender habilidades de liderazgo a través de<br />

nuestra organización Women of Color en el campus.<br />

Junto con otras mujeres del grupo, hemos realizado<br />

programas educativos, hemos construido amistades y<br />

nos hemos apoyado mutuamente.<br />

¿Qué quieres que sepa la gente de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

El continente de África es un lugar grande y diverso con<br />

muchas culturas y países. Dentro del continente hay una<br />

variedad de comunidades, ciudades y áreas rurales.<br />

Existe una diversidad de idiomas, tradiciones, formas<br />

de ganarse la vida y más. Es importante que la gente<br />

entienda que, aunque soy de África, mi vida no es la<br />

misma que la de los demás. Es lo mismo que en otras<br />

partes del mundo o incluso en Estados Unidos. Cada<br />

persona tiene su propia historia y experiencia. Hay<br />

luchas y triunfos que cada uno lleva consigo. Quiero<br />

que la gente comprenda esta diversidad y se tome el<br />

tiempo para informarse sobre las diversas personas<br />

dentro de la comunidad. Las personas se beneficiarán<br />

de desarrollar una compresión y una apreciación de las<br />

diferencias.<br />

También quiero que la comunidad de <strong>Siouxland</strong> sepa<br />

que mi familia esta muy orgullosa y me apoya en mis<br />

metas educativas y profesionales. A pesar de que<br />

estamos muy lejos, siguen siendo una gran parte de mi<br />

vida. Aprovechan cada oportunidad que tienen para<br />

contarle a la gente sobre mi y lo que he logrado en<br />

Briar Cliff. Se que estan orgullosos de mi y quiero seguir<br />

haciéndolos sentir orgullosos en el futuro.<br />

A pesar de pasar algunos desafíos en el camino,<br />

quiero que la comunidad sepa que estoy agradecida<br />

por las personas y las oportunidades con las que me<br />

he encontrado. Ser líder en nuestra organización de<br />

Mujeres de Color en Briar Cliff ha tenido un impacto<br />

especialmente positivo. Hemos realizado muchos<br />

eventos y actividades de alcance comunitario juntos.<br />

Estar en la comunidad de <strong>Siouxland</strong> me ha dado acceso<br />

a experiencias que realmente me han ayudado a<br />

fortalecerme como persona.<br />

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Inclusive Peek – In Somali<br />

Bernice Semana,waa ardayad caalami ah<br />

kudhalatay Kigali ee wadanka Rwanda. Bernice<br />

Semana, waxay dhigataa Jaamacada Briar Cliff<br />

University waxayna barataa biochemistry iyo<br />

ganacsiga. Bernice waxay qalinjabin doontaa<br />

bisha May 2021 waxayna sii wadandoontaa<br />

taqasuskeeda ee wadankan Mareykanka.<br />

Maxaa halgan ah oo kalakulantey<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

Somali- Luuqada ayaa idhibtey, qaasatan<br />

belowgii. Inta badan dadku ma fahmaan aniga<br />

iyo ardayda caalimiga ah inaan ka kalanimid<br />

meelo kaladuwan iyo dhaqamo kaladuwan.<br />

Arintan siyaabo kaladuwan bey udhicikartaa.<br />

Waxay noqonkartaa qofkani inuusan fursad u<br />

helin inuu safro ama nolol ka qibrad duwan<br />

mida uu kunoolyahey arko. Si walbaba ha<br />

ahaatee, waqtigaan iyo dunidaan aan kujirno<br />

waa masuuliyad nasaaran inaan iswacyigalino<br />

nafsadeena.<br />

Xataa hadaan safar ubixin, waxaa jira fursado<br />

badan oo lagu baran karo dhaqamada kaladuwan,<br />

sida adigoo kaqayb galaya bandhigyada<br />

dhaqamada kala duwan, adigoo macluumaad<br />

ka baaraya qadka tooska ah, iyo adigoo dhisaya<br />

xiriir saaxiibtinimo oo wanaagsan ee dadka<br />

kaladuwan.<br />

Somali- Imaashaheyga ee Iowa waxay aheed mid<br />

qibrad kaladuwan leh. Waxaan ku guuleystay<br />

deeq waxbarasho inaan machadkaan wax kubarto,<br />

isla markaasna waxaan qaatey go’aan halis ah oo<br />

wayn si aan meeshaan u imaado. Kalafogaashaha<br />

aniga iyo qoyskayga aad bey udhib badneyd.<br />

Waxkasta oo nolasheyda kusaabsan ee<br />

machadkaan wey kaduwanayd nolashaydii hore<br />

ee aan kunoolaanjirey. Habka wax loobaro loona<br />

barto ee wadankan Mareykanka waa nuuckale,<br />

fahanka dadku iga qabaan ee kusaleysan malo<br />

ama qiyas iyo macluumaad aan saxsaneyn.<br />

Aad ayaan udidaaley inaan barto bulshada aan<br />

lanoolahey, laakiin dhab ahaantii qibrad adag<br />

iyo halgan baan kalakulmey. Waxaan la kulmay<br />

cunsurinimo waqtigii meeshaan aan joogey,<br />

waxaana dareemey inaan labo tilaabo horey u<br />

qaadayo hal tilaabana gadaal u qaadayo.<br />

See <strong>Siouxland</strong> kuu soodhaweysey?<br />

Jaamacada Briar Cliff University kooxda joogta si<br />

cajaaib ah bey iitaageereen.


Waxaa kale oo jira ardey caalimi ah ee jaamacada,<br />

waana istaageernaa. Xaqiiqdii waxaa jirey ardey<br />

kale oo kayimid Rwanda oo icaawiyey waqtigii aan<br />

usoo wareegayey magaalada Sioux City.<br />

Waxaa kale oo jirey ardey ku kortey Mareykanka<br />

kuwaas oo icaawiyey kadibna noqdey saaxiibaheyga<br />

wanaagsan. Shaqaalaha iyo lataliyaasha Jaamacada<br />

Briar Cliff ayaa saameyn kuyeeshey waqtigeygii<br />

halkaan isla markaasna idhiiragaliyey inaan<br />

ahmiyadeyda sii wato.<br />

Waxaa kale oo jirey dad katirsan qoomiyada kunool<br />

magaalada Sioux City iyo kaniisadeyda kuwaas oo<br />

isoodhaweyey waxna ila toosiyey.<br />

Waxaan kale oo fursad u helay inaan barto xirfada<br />

hugaaminta ee barnaamijka loo yaqaan ama urur<br />

ka Dumarka Kalarka ee katirsan machadkan. Si<br />

wadajir ah aniga iyo dumarkale ee urur kan waxaan<br />

qabanay barnaamijyo wacyigalineed, waxaan<br />

dhisney saaxiibtinimo iyo in laystaageero.<br />

Maxaa rabtaa dadka <strong>Siouxland</strong> inay<br />

ogaadaan?<br />

Qaarada Africa waa weyn tahey waxayna<br />

leedahey meelo kaladuwan oo dhaqamo badan<br />

leh iyo wadamo. Qaarada dhexdeyda waxaa<br />

jira qoomiyado kaladuwan, magaalooyin, iyo<br />

dhul beeraley ah. Waxaa jira kaladuwanaansho<br />

luuqadaha, dhaqamada, habka nolosha iyo wax<br />

badan.<br />

Waxaa muhiim ah dadku inay fahmaan inkastoo<br />

aan ka imid Africa, nolasheydu ma ahan sida dadka<br />

kale. Waa sida qeybaha kale ee caalamka xataa<br />

Mareykanka. Qofkasta wuxuu leeyahay sheeko iyo<br />

qibrad asaga u gooni ah. Waxaa jira halgan iyo<br />

guulo qofwalba uusito. Waxaan rabaa dadku inay<br />

fahmaan kala duwanaanshaha isla markaasna ay<br />

waqti qaataan oo nafsadooda ay is wacyigaliyaan<br />

ee kusaabsan dadka kaladuwan ee qoomiyadaha.<br />

Dadku waxay ka faaidayaan horumarinta iyo<br />

isfahanka iyo isku mahadcelinta ee kaladuwan.<br />

ahmiyadeed. Inkastoo aan aad ukalafognahey waa<br />

qeyb weyn oo nolashayda kamid ah. Fursad kasta<br />

oo ey helaan waxay lawadaagaan dadka harumarka<br />

aan kasuubiyey Briar Cliff. Waxaan ogahey inay<br />

igufaanayaan anigana waxaan rabaa inay siiwadaan<br />

kufaanida mustaqbalka.<br />

Inkastoo qibrad adag aan soo maray, waxaan<br />

rabaa bulshadu inay ogaato inaan amaal u hayo<br />

dadka iyo fursadaha aan lakulmay. Ahaanshaha<br />

hugaanka ururka Dumarka Midabka leh ee Briar<br />

Cliff qaasatan waxyeelo wanaagsan bey igureebtey.<br />

Waxaan suubinay inaan laxiriirno bulsho badan<br />

iyo dhacdooyin isku imaansho oo badan. Inaan<br />

kamidnoqdo bulshada <strong>Siouxland</strong> waxay ii oogalaatey<br />

inaan waayo aragtinimo kahelo taas oo run ahaantii<br />

xoojisay aniga shaqsi ahaan.<br />

Bernice Semana, International Student (Senior) at Briar<br />

Cliff University<br />

Photo Credit Jetske Wauran.<br />

“Everything you do,<br />

do it with love.”<br />

– Bernice Semana<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Converse / 17<br />

Waxaan kale oo rabaa bulshada <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

inay fahmaan in qoyskayga uu igufaanayo ina<br />

taageerayo waxbarashadayda iyo hadafkayga


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Nebraska 4-H Teen Teacher leading a lesson on coding with a group of youth.<br />

Nebraska 4-H Strong<br />

By Angela Abts<br />

Nebraska will be celebrating a strong 4-H youth<br />

development program in February. The 4-H<br />

program offers many strengths for youth, volunteers,<br />

and communities. Those strengths include building life<br />

skills through hands-on learning, growing confidence,<br />

resilience, and compassion, while adults provide a<br />

positive, strong environment. The theme for this year’s<br />

Nebraska 4-H celebration is Belong. There will be several<br />

opportunities for the 4-H members, volunteers, and<br />

supporters to celebrate in Dakota County.<br />

The 4-H Pledge is the strong backbone of the 4-H program<br />

that has been around for more than 100 years. The H’s<br />

stand for head, heart, hands, and health. The pledge has<br />

been recited at 4-H meetings and events for almost 94<br />

years. Let’s see what the pledge has to offer youth and<br />

adults.<br />

classroom, a cafeteria, a gym, a living room, an outside<br />

space, or online, learning can happen anywhere. One<br />

program in Dakota County that has a strong collaboration<br />

with the South Sioux City Schools is First Lego League (FLL)<br />

Robotics for the past ten years. Each year, approximately<br />

40 students compete in the experience, learning valuable<br />

life skills with Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math,<br />

while building, programming, and testing robots with more<br />

than 15 coaches and mentors.<br />

Virtual learning experiences increased through Nebraska<br />

4-H in 2020. New statewide programs, including Living<br />

Room Learning, Boredom Busters, Virtual Field Trips, Virtual<br />

Summer Camps, and many more, have been created and<br />

continue to expand in 2021. Statewide and community-<br />

We pledge our heads to clearer thinking.<br />

The 4-H programs are grounded in the belief that kids<br />

learn best by doing. Participants complete hands-on<br />

projects in areas such as science, healthy living, food<br />

supply confidence, community development, career and<br />

college readiness, leadership, and entrepreneurship,<br />

in a positive environment. Through these projects, they<br />

receive guidance from adults and are encouraged to take<br />

leadership roles.<br />

Nebraska 4-H is committed to supporting the youth in our<br />

state with hands-on learning. Whether it be in a school<br />

The 4-H Pledge is the backbone of the program. It is recited<br />

at 4-H events and meetings for the last 94 years.


ased online opportunities within 4-H continue to<br />

broaden this year for youth in classrooms, home school<br />

co-ops, remote learners, and afterschool groups.<br />

[More information can be found at: https://4h.unl.edu/<br />

virtual-home-learning]<br />

We pledge our hearts to greater loyalty.<br />

It is important for youth to know they are cared about<br />

by others and feel a sense of connection to others<br />

in a group. Feeling nurtured in a safe emotional and<br />

physical environment is essential to their development.<br />

It is also important for youth to see themselves as active<br />

participants in the future.<br />

Nebraska 4-H is committed to providing learning<br />

environments for youth that contain the elements which<br />

are essential to effective youth development programs.<br />

Belonging, mastery, independence, and generosity, are<br />

integral to designing high-quality activities for hands-on<br />

learning.<br />

University of Nebraska-Lincoln faculty/staff, as well as<br />

volunteers, are trained to utilize and to incorporate<br />

the Essential Elements into their work with youth. The<br />

elements help these individuals view the whole young<br />

person, rather than focus on a single aspect of life or<br />

development. When used, youth are more likely to<br />

become civically involved.<br />

[More information can be found at: https://4h.unl.edu/<br />

essential-elements]<br />

We pledge our hands to larger service.<br />

The 4-H civic engagement programs empower young<br />

people to be well-informed citizens who are actively<br />

engaged in their communities and the world. Youth<br />

learn about civic affairs, build decision-making skills, and<br />

develop a sense of understanding and confidence in<br />

relating and connecting to other people.<br />

Nebraska 4-H is committed to fostering youth’s<br />

commitment and contribution to their communities.<br />

Through service opportunities, young people in 4-H<br />

develop a caring attitude, which builds character.<br />

Throughout 2020, youth across the state have found new<br />

and unique ways to give back to their local communities.<br />

From sending cards and messages to residents of<br />

community care centers, growing vegetable gardens<br />

and donating produce, designing painted kindness<br />

rocks with uplifting messages, or ensuring local health<br />

officials are well-supplied with personal protective<br />

equipment, Nebraska 4-H participants have persevered<br />

by continuing to serve others, despite challenging times.<br />

This movement continues in 2021.<br />

[More information can be found at: https://4h.unl.edu/<br />

civic-engagement]<br />

4-H members, volunteers, and the communities benefit from<br />

the strong contributions provided by the 4-H.<br />

We pledge our health to better living.<br />

The 4-H healthy living programs empower youth to be<br />

healthy – body and mind – with the skills to make healthy<br />

decisions and lead healthy lifestyles. Having the confidence<br />

and skills to lead healthy lifestyles not only improves overall<br />

well-being; it enables youth to tackle life’s challenges today<br />

and become leaders in their lives, careers, and communities<br />

as they grow into responsible adulthood.<br />

Nebraska 4-H is committed to supporting young people<br />

during times of change. The unpredictability of the<br />

COVID-19 pandemic has changed and continues to<br />

change, the routines of many. The school and activity<br />

schedules, as well as important milestones, of youth in our<br />

state, have been altered this year.<br />

To assist caring adults who help young people cope, a<br />

series of articles focused upon “Supporting Young People<br />

Through Change” were written and made available in<br />

2020. Topics focused upon contributing in a changing<br />

world; creating a routine, coping, and connecting in<br />

changing times; finding comfort in a changing world; and<br />

identifying grief. All who work with and/or care for youth<br />

can provide assistance in helping young people cope with<br />

the challenges and develop into caring, connected, and<br />

capable adults.<br />

[More information can be found at: https://4h.unl.edu/<br />

supporting-young-people-through-change]<br />

How do you get involved with this strong<br />

program in Nebraska? Please contact a<br />

Nebraska Extension Office or visit the website<br />

at www.dakota.unl.edu or https://4h.unl.edu.<br />

Angela Abts, a 4-H and Youth Development Extension Educator<br />

with Nebraska Extension for the past 12 years, along with<br />

eight years with K-State Research & Extension. She focuses her<br />

extension programming working with youth audiences through<br />

school enrichment, afterschool, First Lego League teams, and<br />

traditional 4-H clubs in Dakota County and statewide.<br />

Photos Contributed by Nebraska 4-H.<br />

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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Converse / 20<br />

Positivity Can Strengthen Our Community<br />

By Alex Watters<br />

Last month, staff with the state of Iowa’s<br />

Department of Cultural Affairs was in town<br />

shooting a video to showcase the newly<br />

renovated Warrior Hotel. They asked a group of<br />

city staff, community members, and two members of<br />

the City Council to gather virtually and present on the<br />

progress being made in our community. I welcomed<br />

the opportunity to present on behalf of the City Council.<br />

In doing so, I was so inspired and excited about the<br />

progress our city had made in 2020, even in the midst<br />

of a pandemic.<br />

For the majority of the year, I was focused on loss and<br />

sacrifice; however, for this brief presentation, I was<br />

inspired by what we had accomplished and once again<br />

looking forward to our future. In this magazine, you’re<br />

going to read about strength, so I want to share some<br />

of those accomplishments in hopes that they inspire<br />

you to think of what is on the horizon and how you can<br />

be a champion of our community’s strength.<br />

Companies expanded and invested in <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

Sabre Industries announced its plans for a $25<br />

million expansion to include a galvanizing plant and<br />

76 additional jobs. Standard Ready Mix built a new<br />

concrete plant for $7.6 million. CNOS opened a new<br />

Sunnybrook location, and Meridian Clinical Research<br />

relocated and expanded operations into Sioux City.<br />

We saw the opening of multiple hotel projects including<br />

the Warrior Hotel, the Courtyard by Marriott connected<br />

to the newly renovated convention center, and most<br />

recently, the Avid Hotel in Virginia Square. Numerous<br />

apartment complexes have started construction, are<br />

under contract, or recently opened, in addition to a<br />

record number of homes being constructed.<br />

Phase 1 of the riverfront redevelopment began, the<br />

Expo Center opened, eight pickleball courts were<br />

added to Riverside Park, and multiple trails were<br />

constructed or connected to ensure you will be able to<br />

stay active in 2021 and beyond.<br />

In addition, Sioux City Gateway Airport secured a<br />

direct flight to Denver, I-29 WAS FINISHED, and the<br />

city completed an $11 million renewable fuels project<br />

that compresses gas into a renewable fuel that is set to<br />

generate approximately $5 million for the city annually.<br />

I understand that there are certain things that we need<br />

to improve and continue to work on, but I’ve noticed<br />

that we as a community don’t talk about our successes<br />

nearly much as our shortcomings. Whether it is the<br />

journal or social media, it seems that when it comes<br />

to our community, we are often the most critical of<br />

ourselves.<br />

For example, I have heard the common claim that all<br />

we are building is hotels and car washes. However,<br />

when you look at it from a different perspective, the city<br />

does little, if anything, to recruit these businesses. Did<br />

you know that Silverstar Car Wash has invested more<br />

than $5 million throughout our community at their new<br />

locations? Our hotels are nearly at capacity for the<br />

weekend of February 20, when the Expo Center will<br />

host a 150-team volleyball tournament with The Arena<br />

Sports Academy, who will also be hosting a basketball<br />

tournament at their own facility.<br />

My point is this, if we want to continue experiencing<br />

growth, investment, and be the community that we<br />

hope to be, we need to start being a cheerleader and<br />

a positive voice for our community. If something is<br />

bothering you, please shoot me an email and allow me<br />

an opportunity to look into it. And the next time you’re<br />

feeling critical or negative about our city, and this goes<br />

for me as well, I hope we can reflect on all we have<br />

accomplished in 2020, a year of unforeseen challenges<br />

and innovation.<br />

Alex Watters, City Council of Sioux City<br />

awatters@sioux-city.org<br />

Photo Credit Jeff Gordon


I Yam What I Yam<br />

By Tony Michaels<br />

I am surrounded by great examples of strength<br />

in my life. That statement really hit home during the<br />

past year. Growing up, the notion of strength was best<br />

exemplified for me by watching Popeye cartoons on<br />

the weekends. But decades later, I realized my parents<br />

in the living room would be a much better example<br />

of strength. I included a picture of me with my “Pops”<br />

because my sister Victoria made a voyage to Poland<br />

a few years ago and found out we may be related to<br />

the real-life Popeye. I can totally see it. Can’t you? My<br />

parents sacrificed so much in their lives while working<br />

multiple jobs to give me and my sisters the best life<br />

possible. For that, I am very thankful.<br />

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I hope to carry on that characteristic of strength to my<br />

sons. If you read my articles in the past, you probably<br />

know about my son Trey, who happens to be pretty<br />

involved with his autism. How much strength do you<br />

think it takes to be non-verbal in a world that must be<br />

so confusing to him at times? Autism ain’t for weenies!<br />

My youngest son, Beau, is his strongest advocate at<br />

all times! He’s always by his side and leading a great<br />

example to others in his high school. I am very proud<br />

of both of them and how they flex their muscles to their<br />

world. I mean it’s gotta be easy for them. You know,<br />

we’re all related to Popeye. Shiver me timbers!<br />

My lovely wife isn’t as sold on the fact our bloodlines<br />

date back to Frank “Rocky” Feigel but she has other<br />

endearing qualities. A lot has been made about front<br />

line health care workers during the pandemic. I’ve<br />

seen very few reports about the importance of social<br />

workers during this very stressful time for <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

families. I’m happy to watch her strength as she has<br />

been an in-home social worker for more than a quarter<br />

of a century. I’m not sure what the burnout rate is for<br />

that line of work, but I’m sure it’s less than 25 years!<br />

She’s a rock star! Strong! I’m happy to call her my Olive<br />

Oyl.<br />

One good thing about the Huskers not winning much, you<br />

can buy matching $5 t-shirts! Tony and his father Dennis.<br />

I might go celebrate with a side of spinach. Shiver me<br />

timbers!<br />

Tony Michaels, morning host on “Tony and<br />

Candice” morning show (KSUX 105.7) and<br />

author of an upcoming book “Tacos and Beer<br />

Atmosphere”. Learn more at tacoswithtony.com.<br />

Photos Contributed by Tony Michaels.<br />

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Working to help others may not afford you the luxury<br />

of driving a new Corvette, but I dare say nothing is<br />

stronger than to make the best life possible for your<br />

fellow woman or man.<br />

That’s exactly what my parents did for me. Corvettes<br />

and muscles are nice. But strength comes from within.<br />

It’s easier to learn that when you have great role models<br />

in your life. I am forever grateful.


Inspire<br />

Lessons learned from stories in our community.<br />

Austin and Shelby Pierce<br />

Intentional Strength<br />

By Michelle Lessmann<br />

When Austin and Shelby Pierce became husband<br />

and wife, their combined debt exceeded<br />

$100,000. The bulk of this number came from student<br />

loans from when they attended private colleges, Austin<br />

at Morningside College, and Shelby at Colorado<br />

Christian University in Lakewood, Colorado. Before they<br />

wed, Shelby requested they develop a personalized<br />

premarital counseling program to address various issues<br />

that plague most marriages, including money. That is<br />

when they were introduced to Dave Ramsey’s Financial<br />

Peace University Program. They took the program twice,<br />

once before they married and again to ensure they had<br />

laser focus to tackle their debt.<br />

Like many couples, Austin and Shelby took the Program<br />

because they wanted to start their marriage off right<br />

and take control of their money. In 2015, they made the<br />

decision to follow the program to eliminate their debt.<br />

Within five years, they made their final payment and<br />

became debt-free in December 2020. According to<br />

Austin, they “told their money where to go, instead of<br />

figuring out where it went.”<br />

The couple intently followed four main Ramsey<br />

principles in their quest to become debt-free. First,<br />

they developed a monthly budget and dictated where<br />

they would spend every single dollar they earned that<br />

month. They established categories including the typical<br />

food, rent, and utilities, then added items specific to<br />

them, including weekly date nights. They set the monthly<br />

budget, then followed it religiously. At the beginning of<br />

the next month, Shelby would copy and paste the previous<br />

month’s budget, make adjustments if needed, then repeat<br />

the process, month after month.<br />

Next, Austin and Shelby used Ramsey’s infamous<br />

“envelope system” converting from using credit cards to<br />

an all-cash system. They had physical envelopes for each<br />

budget item and each envelope contained the precise<br />

number of budgeted dollars. Shelby attempted to make<br />

the envelope system more palatable by decorating her<br />

envelopes. When the envelope was empty, plain or fancy,<br />

that category was done. The Pierces laughed that some<br />

months they would have 3 really nice date nights and<br />

then stay at home on the fourth date night because the<br />

envelope was empty, or do something small, like go out<br />

for Blizzards if only a few dollars remained.<br />

Another widely-known piece of Ramsey’s advice the<br />

couple implemented was the Debt Snowball effect to pay<br />

off debt. This system for attacking accumulated debt has<br />

one pay off balances from smallest to largest, regardless<br />

of the debt’s interest rate. Minimum payments are made<br />

on everything except the smallest balance, and the largest<br />

sum is paid toward that. Once that balance is reduced<br />

to zero, those funds are added to the payment on the<br />

second smallest balance until that is paid off, and so on.<br />

In this manner, debt reduction momentum builds and the


non-profit<br />

community<br />

family<br />

small business<br />

people<br />

snowball keeps rolling to reduce bigger and bigger<br />

balances until all are paid off. Shelby mentioned they<br />

followed this method for the most part, except for one<br />

balance had a higher interest rate than the others. She<br />

laughed as she said that really bothered her, so she<br />

jumped ahead and paid off that balance, then went<br />

back to the system to pay off the remaining debts.<br />

Austin chuckled, too, when he said they could picture<br />

the creditors becoming angry as the couple reduced<br />

the company’s earnings by paying their balances off<br />

early.<br />

Another piece of advice from the program caused the<br />

couple to share a laugh. During one of their sessions,<br />

the question was raised about an emergency fund,<br />

or how much cash they had on hand to use toward<br />

unexpected expenses. They looked at their bank<br />

accounts, quickly performed the math, and came up<br />

with only $151.90 (out of the Ramsey recommended<br />

$1,500). Yet, they knew they were ready to take on this<br />

seemingly impossible task of paying off their six-figure<br />

debt.<br />

Their journey wasn’t easy and, like everyone else in<br />

life, they had setbacks along the way impacting their<br />

plan. An unexpected car repair left them without<br />

transportation for a while and cut into their budget.<br />

They also had a relative move in with them for a period<br />

of time, which both said they would never change.<br />

There were also times when they felt like giving up and<br />

hoped for a magical fairy to eliminate all of their debt<br />

with the wave of a wand.<br />

In spite of all the obstacles they faced, the couple<br />

remained focused and committed to paying it all off.<br />

They relied on a few things to keep them going when<br />

they were ready to give up. They reminded themselves<br />

they knew it wouldn’t be easy and they were in it for<br />

the long haul. They stuck to their monthly budget and<br />

followed the envelope system relentlessly. Shelby<br />

kept her numerous spreadsheets so they could look<br />

back and see how far they had already come, which in<br />

turn, gave them the strength to keep going. They put<br />

together a support system to cheer them on and found<br />

accountability partners to push them when needed.<br />

They established a timeline with milestones along the<br />

way to celebrate as each was reached. They also set<br />

up small things to look forward to, such as going out<br />

for ice cream once an account was paid in full. They<br />

would intentionally put larger denomination bills into<br />

their envelopes, which would encourage them to hold<br />

onto them rather than spend them on small items they<br />

decided they could live without. Along the way, they<br />

Austin and Shelby Pierce<br />

have purchased two homes and have built their $151.90<br />

emergency fund into one that now contains more than<br />

$2,000.<br />

Shelby said they eventually found themselves looking at<br />

money as a tool to use and reduced the power that money<br />

had over them. Austin added that “debt is expected in<br />

our society; however, it is possible to live without it.” They<br />

said there are things they could have done differently<br />

to lower their amount of debt. For instance, consider<br />

attending a state university rather than a private college,<br />

pursue more scholarship opportunities, and take more<br />

high school classes that earned college credit, any of<br />

which could have saved them a lot of money.<br />

The final word of advice comes from Austin. He said<br />

that he looks back now and makes the assessment that,<br />

“we took something that seemed impossible and made<br />

it to be only extremely difficult.” The extremely difficult<br />

process helped strengthen their marriage, their peace of<br />

mind, and their tenacity to take on anything. The couple<br />

encourages anyone wanting to pay off their debts to be<br />

intentional, make a plan, and then follow it through. With<br />

some luck and a well-executed plan, they may become<br />

debt-free, too.<br />

Michelle Lessmann, a fully licensed Office Professional<br />

in Keith Bales office of Thrivent. She can be contacted at<br />

mrlessmann@hotmail.com.<br />

Photo Credit Jetske Wauren


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Erica DeLeon with Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong> speaks at a recent community gathering.<br />

The Tale of Two Organizations<br />

By Dr. Cyndi Hanson<br />

What makes a strong community? Economic<br />

stability? Educational systems? Accessible Healthcare?<br />

Low crime rates? Quality of life initiatives? I’m guessing<br />

one (or more) of these five traits is something important to<br />

you. According to the Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong> and Growing<br />

Community Connections, these are the five areas where<br />

focused improvement will produce a positive impact.<br />

The Five Focus Groups are: Economic Stability,<br />

Education, Health, Safety and Quality of Life.<br />

Growing Community Connections (GCC) and Source for<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> work together and the work is very interwoven.<br />

GCC is the communication arm and Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

is the data arm. Data needs to be communicated and<br />

focused goals need data. It is a wonderful match, led by<br />

Erica DeLeon and JoAnn Gieselman.<br />

The two entities engage in work referred to as “collective<br />

impact”. Collective impact is the notion that working<br />

together we are stronger than working independently.<br />

For a region that has a plethora of small non-profit<br />

organizations, the strength of collective impact is<br />

immense. Evidence of that impact is noticed when data<br />

is used to set goals and measure progress toward them.<br />

Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong> was born out of Comprehensive<br />

Strategy, an effort to collect data on positive youth<br />

development. Over time, the focus of data gathering<br />

has expanded; largely because youth development is<br />

related to so much more – economic factors, food security,<br />

employment, etc. Each year the organization put together<br />

and published a data book that compiled all the data one<br />

might need for grant writing, program development, and<br />

so on.<br />

Growing Community Connections grew out of a desire<br />

to bring people serving organizations together in a way<br />

that encouraged communication and collaboration. The<br />

group meets monthly and before the pandemic, was nearly<br />

outgrowing the meeting space. Since March of 2020, the<br />

group has used Zoom and Facebook Live to involve 100-<br />

150 partners in the discussion.<br />

The Growing Community Connections group has continued<br />

to meet via Facebook Live and Zoom monthly.


Growing Community Connections is open to<br />

anyone. Check out their Facebook livestream<br />

the first Thursday of each month at 10 a.m.<br />

As Growing Community Connections set strategic goals<br />

for positive community impact, it became obvious that<br />

data was needed not only to measure progress but also<br />

to determine the areas of need in the community.<br />

Gieselman said, “as the years have progressed, the<br />

stories of Growing Community Connections impact<br />

weren’t enough. Funders and participants began to<br />

need more than the feel-good impact stories – they<br />

wanted data to show working together was helping the<br />

community.”<br />

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At the same time, DeLeon explained, “Source for<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> was looking for a way to make the data more<br />

useful. We had a ton of data, but just publishing a book<br />

of data didn’t seem like enough anymore. We wanted to<br />

use it to drive change.”<br />

So, the conversation began two years ago, now five<br />

community focus groups have been established. “These<br />

five groups zero in on a specific social determinant<br />

of our community’s well-being. Using the data from<br />

Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong>, we can analyze what they think is<br />

happening and set strategic goals, then create action<br />

plans.” said Gieselman.<br />

“It is a circular process. A goal is set because of some<br />

data; then we look at what specific data can help us<br />

measure progress. We incorporate analysis of data now,<br />

not just reporting data,” added DeLeon.<br />

“The data comes from everywhere. Some of it is<br />

proprietary from <strong>Siouxland</strong> Cares surveys of middle/high<br />

schoolers since 1999. Some is from the US Census, state<br />

Departments of Education, Economic Development,<br />

Chambers of Commerce, Public Health, police chiefs ...<br />

basically anything tracked by a reputable source can be<br />

gathered and put together,” stated DeLeon.<br />

“Putting it together is extremely important in our Tri-<br />

State area,” Gieselman added “We need information<br />

from multiple sources to tell the whole story of our<br />

community. It helps to keep us accountable and to<br />

identify gaps we may not have expected to see or ask<br />

analysis questions we wouldn’t have thought about<br />

previously.”<br />

“The annual data showcase is designed to do just<br />

what JoAnn mentions,” DeLeon remarked. “We want<br />

people to look at the data book, and now we’ve started<br />

including some “did you know” data points at each<br />

month’s Growing Community Connections meeting too.<br />

The idea is to get people talking about data, thinking<br />

about it and using it to focus efforts.”<br />

JoAnn Gieselman receives an award on behalf of Growing<br />

Community Connections. Nebraska first-lady Suzanne<br />

Shore, presented the award recognizing the impact of the<br />

collaboration.<br />

The community-wide “0-3 Prime Age to Engage” initiative<br />

came out of a focused analysis of data regarding school<br />

readiness and health benchmarks. “People’s mouths<br />

literally dropped when they saw the trend,” said DeLeon.<br />

As a result, a focused multi-agency action team was<br />

assembled. In less than 3 years, more than 70 partners<br />

have engaged, and the community has won national<br />

recognition for the collaboration. While it’s just a little too<br />

early to see movement on the school readiness data; the<br />

impact is immense. You will find free books in scores of<br />

lounges and waiting rooms across the area – books kids<br />

are encouraged to take home with them. Billboards,<br />

commercials, and pediatricians are all promoting<br />

interactive play, talking, and reading to children age 0-3.<br />

This is the epitome of collective impact – together we<br />

achieve more than we do individually working in isolation.<br />

“Four states have a collective impact similar to this. In<br />

Nebraska, we meet as a state and a nation-wide group<br />

to look at what solutions are and what works. Data and<br />

collective impact work are important parts of it,” Gieselman<br />

added. Both echo – “we truly are stronger together.”<br />

Compilations of Tri-State data on everything<br />

from COVID-19 diagnoses to miles of trails<br />

and number of social clubs can be viewed at<br />

www.sourceforsiouxland.com<br />

Photos Contributed by Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong>.


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Inspire /26<br />

1st Friday Coffee at Springboard.<br />

Nurturing and Networking<br />

By Dr. Cyndi Hanson<br />

What makes the <strong>Siouxland</strong> business community<br />

strong and what can make it stronger?<br />

Collaboration is the one-word answer provided by<br />

Dave Bernstein, founder of <strong>Siouxland</strong> Venture Initiative<br />

(SVI). He goes on to explain, “People are generally<br />

proud to be from here. They want to help other people<br />

here succeed and continue to fuel that cycle: help<br />

people, get help from others when you need it. Some<br />

of it is paying it forward; some of it is receiving help<br />

when you need it.”<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Venture Initiative is a fairly new entity<br />

established when Springboard Coworking Space was<br />

looking for a new owner. The co-working space was<br />

established in 2013 and is now on its third owner,<br />

indicating the viability and need for such a space in<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>. Located at 700 4th street, Springboard<br />

provides individual offices and collaborative working<br />

spaces for entrepreneurs, freelancers, side-hustlers,<br />

and others who don’t want to rent a full office space<br />

or work from their home. “There’s great wi-fi, common<br />

worktables, and private offices. Although the private<br />

offices are all booked right now, you can rent a desk or<br />

a meeting room. It’s a great place if you have a sidebusiness<br />

and don’t want to meet your clients in your<br />

living room,” said Bernstein.<br />

When you are starting out with an idea and<br />

don’t know what resources (financial and<br />

other) are around in the community, it can be<br />

daunting. There are a lot of resources!<br />

In addition to the physical amenities, Springboard<br />

also provides the ambiance of creativity and<br />

collaboration. It’s not the small business incubator of<br />

the past. Bernstein notes that doesn’t exist in Sioux<br />

City anymore. It is a communal, sharing atmosphere<br />

that provides support for people just starting out, or<br />

those who don’t want to be isolated in their homes.<br />

“Springboard is just one component of a bigger<br />

umbrella for me of wanting to nurture entrepreneurial<br />

activity in the area. There are a lot of different resources<br />

scattered around, and <strong>Siouxland</strong> Venture Initiative<br />

(SVI) is built on the desire to bring some of it together<br />

in one place. There has been a group of us discussing<br />

the ecosystem for entrepreneurship here for quite a<br />

while. We know there is a need to connect people with<br />

angel investors, venture capital, but also mentoring<br />

and advice. We have all that here in <strong>Siouxland</strong> – we<br />

have forever,” said Bernstein.


As he served on the Iowa Economic Development<br />

Authority Board (IDEA), Bernstein saw a lot of earlystage<br />

development happening across the state.<br />

He came to understand the support and resources<br />

Iowa has to help new businesses. He saw most of<br />

the resources for start-ups going to Des Moines and<br />

university cities, not Western Iowa. One of his goals<br />

with SVI and Springboard is to bring more of that to<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>. His vision means an intentional focus on<br />

what is already here and helping to nurture it.<br />

“We are a bit asleep in some ways in this community<br />

when it comes to economic development in my<br />

opinion. We are primarily stuck in the old mindset<br />

of economic development focusing on bringing an<br />

established business from outside of town, often<br />

through a site selector. What I saw a lot of when on<br />

IEDA, is lots of business growth and development<br />

in Iowa comes from businesses already here and<br />

startups. Existing businesses wanting to grow and<br />

entrepreneurs spinning off of existing businesses<br />

or starting something new. We need to convey the<br />

opportunities and programs available to help them<br />

keep growing,” said Bernstein.<br />

Technology Commercialization Committee is<br />

a subcommittee of IEDA, focused on helping<br />

technology related concepts come to fruition.<br />

“There’s so much happening with technology.<br />

Especially in agriculture and food processing.”<br />

Says Bernstein who recently joined the TCC<br />

board.<br />

An advantage in <strong>Siouxland</strong> is the tri-state area. There<br />

are different structural advantages in each of those<br />

states depending on what you are doing. Some focused<br />

collaborations like The <strong>Siouxland</strong> Initiative, Iowa West<br />

Coast, and contests like Swimming with the Sharks<br />

and Entrepreneur-Fest are evidence that growing our<br />

own new business is valuable to our community, but<br />

they are somewhat siloed and not holistic.<br />

In discussing contests for entrepreneurs, Bernstein<br />

explained a key difference in perspective.<br />

“We should not be looking for the best ideas, we<br />

should be looking for all viable ideas. There can be<br />

1,000 ideas that could produce something great.<br />

Instead of making it a contest only rewarding the top<br />

few, I want to see us help all of the viable ones move<br />

forward. The programs are there, we need to harness<br />

the resources in this community to nurture this activity.<br />

There’s nothing wrong with the contests, but let’s not<br />

limit ourselves,” suggested Bernstein.<br />

SVI will tap into existing resources including the Iowa<br />

Technology Commercialization Committee (TCC),<br />

Sioux City Economic Development personnel, the<br />

Common space at Springboard.<br />

Iowa West Coast Initiative, and the Career Academy to<br />

help advance the ecosystem. Bernstein joined the TCC<br />

board in January.<br />

“We need to be catalytic here. I don’t want credit<br />

and I don’t want SVI to get credit, it’s a collaborative<br />

effort. We just want to create the space that provides<br />

an opportunity to learn from others in the community,<br />

bring in speakers, networking events, mentoring, etc.,<br />

etc. I don’t care where these activities are held but want<br />

to offer spaces that are inspiring if needed. I just want<br />

to encourage and support those starting up. We have<br />

good things going on in this community, we need to<br />

be sure we are doing what we can to nurture them as<br />

well. When you are starting out with an idea and don’t<br />

know what resources (financial and other) are around<br />

in the community, it can be daunting. There are a lot<br />

of resources. People here are friendly and willing to<br />

help,” said Bernstein.<br />

“It’s really one of our greatest strengths. Helping<br />

others is enjoyable . . . or maybe rewarding. Actually,<br />

yes, enjoyable and rewarding,” concluded Bernstein.<br />

Springboard Co-working space has day passes,<br />

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Photos Contributed by Springboard.<br />

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Don’t fear failure. Embrace it. It’s where the learning happens.<br />

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Sit Pretty Bakery<br />

By Melissa Gritzmaker<br />

Short description of your business:<br />

Sit Pretty Barkery is a licensed and registered dog<br />

bakery. We cater to dog lovers who want to spoil<br />

their furry friends with something that tastes as<br />

good as it looks. We handcraft naturally good dog<br />

treats using only dog-safe ingredients. Our treats<br />

include personalized dog biscuits, special occasion<br />

cakes, mini pupcakes, donuts, pies, and more.<br />

Treats can be purchased online or by calling us to<br />

discuss custom orders. Wholesale offerings are also<br />

available.<br />

What motivated you to start your business?<br />

My brother and his wife, Curtis and Becky Gaskell,<br />

own Bed & Biscuit Doggie Daycare. They were in<br />

need of some special occasion treats for their holiday<br />

dog parties and<br />

birthday celebrations.<br />

Being the baker of the<br />

family, they turned to<br />

me. I have always had<br />

a passion for baking<br />

delicious treats for<br />

humans, so I thought<br />

I’d try my hand at<br />

baking for dogs.<br />

The treats were a hit<br />

right away! Everyone<br />

was asking where<br />

these custom dog<br />

treats were coming<br />

from because their<br />

dogs were going<br />

Bentley’s 1st Birthday.<br />

nuts for my fresh-baked goodness! After receiving<br />

many requests for custom treats, I decided to use my<br />

talent for creating droolicious treats and turn it into a<br />

business. I love being able to help people celebrate<br />

with their dogs by giving them a healthy and fetching<br />

little treat. Dogs are family and they deserve to be<br />

celebrated!<br />

What’s unique about your business?<br />

What makes this business unique is that we offer<br />

creative treats that you cannot buy at pet stores. We<br />

are able to personalize the treats with dog names<br />

and produce one-of-a-kind designs. It took a lot of<br />

trial and error to hone the recipes we use. We keep<br />

our ingredients simple and have no added sugar or<br />

artificial preservatives. Our treats are freshly baked,<br />

and the dogs go crazy for them!<br />

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve had to<br />

overcome as you’ve grown your business?<br />

We have spent the last couple of years combing<br />

through the regulations to be a licensed pet treat<br />

manufacturer. We follow the guidelines and each of<br />

our treats have been lab-tested and then the label is<br />

approved by the state. It has taken a lot just to set the<br />

foundation to start doing business.<br />

What has been your greatest reward?<br />

I have had customers thank me for my talent and tell<br />

me the treats look too good to eat. I believe dogs<br />

deserve pretty treats too! Seeing dogs gobble up our<br />

treats and having their hoomans share pictures of the<br />

celebration makes all the hard work worth it.


personal growth<br />

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determination<br />

business development<br />

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How have you benefited<br />

from the startup community<br />

in Sioux City and the<br />

region? What resources<br />

did you use?<br />

I had the opportunity in<br />

November and December to<br />

participate in the Small Business<br />

Marketplace event put on<br />

through the Downtown Partners<br />

of Sioux City and Iowa’s West<br />

Coast Initiative. This event is<br />

designed to get new businesses<br />

into spaces downtown to help<br />

promote local shopping. I was<br />

able to host a pop-up shop in<br />

a vacant building downtown.<br />

It was a great experience to be Melissa, Owner, Sit Pretty Barkery.<br />

able to have an actual store for<br />

dogs and their hoomans to visit and pick out treats. Being able<br />

to interact with my customers in person was amazing and has<br />

inspired me to take part in more events.<br />

Why is it important for the community to support startups<br />

and small businesses?<br />

It is important to support and promote new and unique<br />

businesses to add to the attractiveness of the community and<br />

to keep it growing. A great way to help them is by providing<br />

cost-effective opportunities. This makes it possible for small<br />

businesses to get a foothold and stay in business. Participating<br />

in the Small Business Marketplace event really helped our<br />

business become better known.<br />

What advice would you give to someone looking to<br />

start a business?<br />

Be prepared to wear all the hats in the beginning. There are a<br />

lot of decisions to make at first and you are the one in control<br />

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business?<br />

With a small startup budget, it is difficult to afford much<br />

advertising. Having people share our Facebook and Instagram<br />

page @SitPrettyBarkery, tag us in pictures, or leave us a review<br />

helps to support our business.<br />

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We have recipes we are working on to offer more flavors<br />

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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Grow/30<br />

LEAD WITH STRENGTH in Purpose – Grow Your Purpose<br />

During These Times!<br />

By Linda K. Krei (ActionCOACH ExcelEDGE)<br />

During uncertain times, great leaders continue<br />

to assess the environment, identify the emerging<br />

trends, look for opportunities to embrace and<br />

recognize threats to be managed.<br />

Appropriately so, great leaders also focus to ensure<br />

“safety” and “security”? When we let it, that focus often<br />

takes us to a reflective space where we simply want and<br />

need more. More of what? A recognition from within<br />

often creates an emerging need or pent-up desire<br />

for Purpose once again. Purpose for self, Purpose for<br />

others, Purpose with and among employees, customers,<br />

and communities. A need evolves to push through, to<br />

grow through and move beyond the chaos and crisis,<br />

becoming resilient as we live in the chaos and crisis.<br />

Getting grounded or maybe getting re-grounded in<br />

Purpose can become the compelling driver to become<br />

more resilient, to recognize once again that we still do<br />

and always will have a choice; a choice to engage and<br />

re-engage today, and in the times ahead. Re-engaging<br />

around a common Purpose propels us forward to<br />

Goodness.<br />

So, how does one Lead with Strength in Purpose these<br />

days? What does it mean to lead with purpose during<br />

this crisis? I have observed with many of our clients and<br />

those with whom we should partner, that this is a time<br />

when people are searching for and longing to be a part<br />

of something bigger than themselves. As a leader, invest<br />

in yourself and your team to create an environment to<br />

be Purpose-focused and Purpose-driven as the path<br />

to meaningful engagement or to re-engagement at a<br />

deeper level. Your “A” Team players already know how<br />

to do this. They want and need an environment these<br />

days that encourages them to do so.<br />

what would it mean to Live into our Purpose in three<br />

ways:<br />

• Doing what is expected of me and us as a collective<br />

group.<br />

• Inviting others to creatively partner around a shared<br />

purpose.<br />

• Going the extra mile, going above and way beyond<br />

what is expected.<br />

Create space today to simply ask and reflect upon what<br />

it would take for me to Lead with Strength in a deepened<br />

sense of Purpose. Purpose, and the desire for purpose,<br />

will build momentum to outlast this pandemic and<br />

become a sustainable force through any challenge or<br />

opportunity. It naturally evolves into a “way of being”<br />

and simply guides daily choices. We individually and<br />

collectively become better; an even better version of<br />

who we are today. BE x DO = HAVE.<br />

Take Action Today.<br />

Contact Coach Krei for your Complimentary<br />

Strategy Session to get you started.<br />

Think about the behaviors associated with finding<br />

strength in Purpose. What does that look like and feel<br />

like? It may be to declare Purpose before Profits and<br />

doing what it takes to demonstrate proof of Purpose<br />

before Profits; inviting others to demonstrate proactive<br />

engagement with Purpose in spite of and because<br />

of these challenging times. To literally find strength<br />

in Purpose and issue a rally cry for others to join you<br />

especially during times of fear and uncertainty. Help<br />

them BE CERTAIN that a Purpose-driven path will create<br />

the compassion, sensitivity and respect our customers<br />

and communities want and need. Abundance WILL<br />

follow. Abundance will be the measurable outcome.<br />

So, what are you and your team doing beyond the<br />

current “Now but temporary Unhealthy Normal” to<br />

push beyond to a New Purpose-Driven Normal? Simply<br />

start by identifying the key stakeholders for you and<br />

for your organization, your team members, customers,<br />

community members, and business partners. Then ask,<br />

As an award winning, globally<br />

recognized, Certified Executive<br />

Business Coach and Facilitator,<br />

Linda would love to help you take<br />

your leadership to the next level.<br />

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Finding Your Strength as Entrepreneurs<br />

By Stacy Orndorff<br />

I’ve been talking to entrepreneurs lately about<br />

honing in on their strengths. From time to time, I can<br />

get lost in projects, roles, and even new business ideas.<br />

When I chat with entrepreneurs who’ve lost their way, I<br />

often encourage them to explore their strengths. Here<br />

are a couple of my favorite resources to help you explore<br />

where your strengths line up:<br />

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1. Strengths Finder 2.0 from Gallup and Tom Rath.<br />

Discover your Clifton Strengths by Don Clifton. “Pair<br />

this book with the online assessment (https://www.<br />

gallup.com) to discover your Top 5 Talents from a list<br />

of 34 themes. Loaded with hundreds of strategies<br />

for applying your strengths, this new book and<br />

accompanying website will change the way you look<br />

at yourself — and the world around you — forever.”<br />

I was first introduced to this book when I purchased<br />

it for an upcoming “no electronics 7-day vacation.” I<br />

took the test right before I left and used the vacation to<br />

really dive into my strengths and strategize about how<br />

to utilize them. This was during my transition from nonprofit<br />

director to founder of Coffee & Nosh and was<br />

instrumental in defining my role going forward. I found<br />

out I’m really good at activating people into action and<br />

driven by achievement. I was able to embrace my love<br />

of learning and utilize that to my advantage in starting<br />

a business. I thought some of the things identified<br />

were common in all people. Being able to identify<br />

these attributes as strength, really catapulted me to<br />

capitalize on these gifts.<br />

2. The Enneagram Institute. https://www.<br />

enneagraminstitute.com/ “Discover your type by<br />

taking the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator<br />

(RHETI® version 2.5). At its core, the Enneagram helps<br />

us to see ourselves at a deeper, more objective level,<br />

and can be of invaluable assistance on our path to<br />

self-knowledge.” Also, The Enneagram: A Christian<br />

Perspective by Richard Rohr.<br />

There are a ton of resources on the Enneagram:<br />

Books, Websites, Instagram Accounts, and more! My<br />

niece first introduced me to Enneagram on her path<br />

of self-discovery during her college years. Seeing her<br />

develop an understanding of herself and those around<br />

her convinced me to explore this more myself. I was<br />

able to take this understanding and apply it to therapy<br />

sessions to really work through some of my insecurities<br />

common with my Enneagram type and come out<br />

the other side emotionally and spiritually stronger.<br />

Additionally, it has helped me approach managing<br />

a crew of different personalities according to their<br />

motivations and ways they feel appreciated. Anyone<br />

working with people will benefit from understanding<br />

the Enneagram.<br />

A few more resources I recommend for<br />

discovering your strengths:<br />

Books:<br />

1. The Motivation Code, by Todd Henry<br />

2. Chazown, by Craig Groeschel<br />

3. Personality Plus, by Florence Littauer<br />

Podcasts:<br />

1. Unlocking Us with Brene’ Brown<br />

2. EntreLeadership Podcast<br />

3. The Reboot Podcast Jerry Colonna<br />

4. Typology with Ian Morgan Cron<br />

Stacy Orndorff, Stacy O. Speaks<br />

Facebook @ stacyospeaks<br />

Photos Contributed by Stacy Orndorff.


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Grow/32<br />

How Well Do You Know Your Business? CLAIM IT!<br />

By Grace Nordquist<br />

Downtown Partners is here for all of our<br />

downtown businesses, and one simple<br />

way we provide assistance is through our<br />

marketing efforts. If you are not utilizing the<br />

downtown website and social media, we can help<br />

you start.<br />

The downtown website features all of our 438<br />

businesses. Each of these listings has the unique<br />

option for business owners to “CLAIM” their<br />

business on the website. Claiming a business<br />

listing on our website is quick and simple. By<br />

claiming your business, you have access to keep<br />

your business information up to date. Then people<br />

will have accurate information when searching<br />

all there is to do in downtown on our website. To<br />

claim your business, simply follow these steps…<br />

• Go to our website: downtownsiouxcity.com<br />

• Search your business name<br />

• Scroll to the “Is this your listing?” and click<br />

“claim listing”<br />

• Create an account on our website<br />

• Enter your business information and hit “submit”<br />

claim your business listing on our website. If you have ideas,<br />

comments, questions, or concerns on downtown, please<br />

share them with us at info@downtownsiouxcity.com or give<br />

us a call at (712)-252-0014.<br />

Downtown Partners is a non-profit organization that works<br />

with downtown stakeholders to create a vibrant, expanding<br />

downtown. To learn more about Downtown Partners<br />

and to stay up to date on downtown projects and events,<br />

visit www.downtownsiouxcity.com<br />

Once you do this, Downtown Partners verifies and<br />

confirms the claim to avoid any fraud or scams.<br />

Once approved, you have access to update your<br />

page, post events, change hours, post specials,<br />

add images, and more!<br />

For an easy “how to” video on claiming your<br />

business listing, visit our website and social media.<br />

Another simple way to increase traffic to your<br />

business is through social media. If you’re active on<br />

social media (which we highly recommend), make<br />

sure you are following and tagging Downtown<br />

Partners when you post about events, specials,<br />

closings, etc. That way Downtown Partners can<br />

help you get the word out more efficiently. You can<br />

find Downtown Partners on Facebook, Instagram,<br />

Twitter, LinkedIn, and YouTube.<br />

As the new year emerges, Downtown Partners is<br />

excited to create new events and reinvent old<br />

ones, inspire innovative ideas, and continue to<br />

develop an expanding and vibrant downtown<br />

Sioux City. We can only do this by working together<br />

and communicating with you and your business.<br />

Let us help you! Follow us on social media and


Explore Sioux City<br />

By Ron Bower<br />

Hello <strong>Siouxland</strong>! My name is<br />

Ron Bower. I am happy to be the<br />

first Destination Manager for The<br />

Sioux City Regional Convention<br />

& Visitors Bureau, better known<br />

as Explore Sioux City. You may<br />

ask what a Destination Manager<br />

does? I like to say that I promote<br />

FUN! My focus is to attract<br />

potential sports tournaments,<br />

meetings and conventions, Ron Bower<br />

motorcoach groups, destination<br />

weddings, and business and<br />

leisure travelers to <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

The Sioux City area has so<br />

much going for it with unique<br />

attractions, brand new lodging<br />

options, state-of-the-art sporting venues, and some of<br />

the best food in the Midwest. It may take me awhile to<br />

try all the delicious food in <strong>Siouxland</strong>, but I’m up for<br />

the challenge.<br />

in Marketing and Communications. I promised my mom<br />

that I would finish college after not being successful the<br />

first time around. Word of advice, always keep promises<br />

made to your mother. In 2012, I started my career in<br />

tourism. I knew after the first week that this was what I<br />

was supposed to be doing. During my career I have been<br />

fortunate enough to promote destinations in Ohio, North<br />

Carolina, and Wisconsin. During this time, I also earned<br />

several tourism industry certifications as well as numerous<br />

marketing awards for social media and blogging.<br />

I relocated to Sioux City in December with my life partner,<br />

Tim, and our cat, Kluber. We were impressed with Sioux<br />

City the moment we visited. As I stated above, there is so<br />

much here. This place already feels like home. So, what do<br />

I like to do for fun? Well, I’m a comic book collector. I have<br />

roughly 500 comics. Superman is my favorite hero. I love<br />

1980’s music and movies. You’ll want me on your team<br />

for 80’s trivia night. Oh, and I’m a Cleveland Sports Fan.<br />

Yeah, I know. Don’t hold that against me, we Cleveland<br />

fans have suffered enough.<br />

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Now a little about me, I am a born and raised<br />

Midwesterner from Ohio. I lived there the first four<br />

decades of my life. In 2003, I went back to college<br />

and earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Business<br />

Administration followed by a Master of Science degree<br />

Lastly, thank you for welcoming me and my family. Midwest<br />

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Feelin’ Strong<br />

By Peggy Smith<br />

“Feeling strong is more important than being strong.<br />

Because you may be the strongest in the room:<br />

But if you are not feeling strong, Then you are gone.”<br />

– Mohit Aggarwal<br />

There have been a lot of situations I have<br />

encountered in my life that I look back on<br />

now and realize that I had the ability to make<br />

a difference, but I didn’t. Times that I could have<br />

been successful, but I didn’t think I had the ability, so<br />

I gave up too soon and failed. Things I could have<br />

accomplished, but I doubted myself, so I didn’t try. I<br />

can be my own worst enemy, and I bet that could be<br />

true of you too, at least some of the time.<br />

Why do we shoot ourselves in the foot? Why do we<br />

sabotage our own success? We often blame our<br />

weakness and our lack of confidence in ourselves on<br />

others. “My parents never encouraged me, and they<br />

made me feel like a failure.” “My classmates called me<br />

names and made me feel stupid.” I remember a hard<br />

lesson I learned a long time ago that made me step<br />

back and re-evaluate. I was grousing about what a mess<br />

my life was in, but how it certainly wasn’t my fault. It<br />

was because of the way “they” made me feel. I couldn’t<br />

possibly fix my problems because “they” made me<br />

feel worthless, helpless, inadequate and incapable of<br />

change. My friend pointed out the fact that my feelings<br />

are my feelings – only I can control them, no one else<br />

can. And if I choose to take those feelings on, they will<br />

become true. I will become worthless, helpless, and<br />

inadequate. Or I can take control and write my own<br />

story.<br />

What a lesson! He was right – the way we feel about<br />

ourselves makes all the difference and becomes our<br />

truth. The little engine that could, could - because<br />

he knew how to think - “I think I can, I think I can”.<br />

Confidence and trust in ourselves exude strength, and<br />

we gain it by learning to understand – and appreciateourselves.<br />

The old adage, “Fake it till you make it”<br />

reminds us that if we act confident and strong, people<br />

will look at us differently and treat us differently and<br />

that will cause us to be more confident and stronger.<br />

We will become what we try to be.<br />

Another great quote I love is by Brigham Young: “Why<br />

should we worry about what others think of us; do we<br />

have more confidence in their opinions than we do<br />

our own?”<br />

Strength comes from within – from our own decision<br />

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story, and do not let others determine what you can<br />

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Building Our Own Form of Strength<br />

By Emily Vondrak<br />

Oftentimes, strength refers to physical ability,<br />

the power of one’s muscles. Sometimes<br />

it is handling a difficult situation well, not<br />

breaking down, keeping it together. But,<br />

frankly, sometimes strength is getting out of bed<br />

in the morning, brushing your teeth, and going<br />

to work. There are times even the smallest things<br />

require great strength.<br />

It is funny how our perceptions of strength have<br />

changed.<br />

A hundred years ago, strength was lying about your<br />

age to sneak into the military or staying home to<br />

raise children. “Strong” was mainly a masculine term<br />

and it meant you didn’t cry, you got up and threw<br />

some dirt on it. Strength was keeping it together, no<br />

matter what, and it was selfish to focus on yourself.<br />

Humans kept everything bottled up and put on a<br />

face when something was wrong.<br />

While a soldier and mother are still noble professions,<br />

as we have progressed as a society, we have<br />

learned more about mental health, equality, and the<br />

opportunities offered. We have learned to better<br />

take care of ourselves and others. We know that<br />

emotions and feelings are not a sign of weakness.<br />

And we know that it takes strength to overcome<br />

struggles with our mental health.<br />

Ultimately, strength is different for everyone.<br />

We all face different trials and tribulations. Some of<br />

us overcome homelessness, cancer, disability, and<br />

other difficulties others could not even begin to<br />

imagine. Those people are undeniably strong. But<br />

there is strength in all of us. Being a good parent or a<br />

good friend, taking steps to improve your health, seeing<br />

a therapist, or going back to school all take an immense<br />

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I believe that we all build our own form of strength to face<br />

our own struggles. Hopefully, we can do our best to help<br />

others have strength, as well. To be there to listen, pick<br />

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Strong Resources to Help You Succeed.<br />

By Todd Rausch<br />

Strong Resources to Help You Succeed. Most people<br />

reading this are naturally strong individuals with a<br />

vision for their lives. If you are a business owner, you<br />

have the amazing internal strength to even launch<br />

a business. The question is, did you know there are<br />

strong resources to help you become even stronger?<br />

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To begin with, of course, I will talk about the SBDC.<br />

We are Federally and State Funded with one goal<br />

in mind, and that is to help you become successful<br />

in your business ventures. There are 1300 centers<br />

across the nation with 15 being here in Iowa, along<br />

with our State office.<br />

Our services are free!<br />

The center for this area is hosted by the truly amazing<br />

Western Iowa Tech Community College and my office<br />

is in the Corp. College building on campus in B113.<br />

Our phone is 712-274-6454 and our email is todd.<br />

rausch@witcc.edu.<br />

So, what can we offer? My answer is always the same,<br />

what do you need? Our primary focus is not on<br />

startups as many people think. Even though 30% of<br />

our time is dedicated to startups, we spend 70% of our<br />

time with existing businesses. We help them expand,<br />

access capital, and in many instances succession plan<br />

to exit their business.<br />

We do a lot of help with planning your business,<br />

whether it is a startup or an established enterprise.<br />

We do a lot of financial forecasting for our clients.<br />

We also do a lot of market research, not primary<br />

source meaning we don’t go around asking people<br />

questions. Ours is more database driven. We have<br />

access currently to four very good databases that can<br />

give us really solid numbers on markets.<br />

Also, amazingly sometimes, we are here only to be a<br />

sounding board. The last year especially we have been<br />

used simply to sound things out so an owner can talk<br />

an idea through. That is particularly rewarding as we<br />

encourage them to make decisions not on emotion<br />

but on strong data and judgment.<br />

One of the things we are most often used for is to<br />

connect owners with additional resources to meet<br />

their needs. Other resources in our area that are truly<br />

strong to help the small business owners include:<br />

Our awesome local Chambers of Commerce, The<br />

Small Business Administration, The USDA, The SEDC<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Economic Development Corp., our local<br />

economic developers, our local Revolving Loan<br />

Funds, our private Banks who are the primary source of<br />

lending for small businesses. Local lawyers, CPAs, and<br />

Insurance Agents are also very helpful.<br />

Also, the Iowa West Coast Initiative is a wonderful resource<br />

to help you. Iowa Source link is truly an awesome resource<br />

to help people. They are out of UNI. Other resources<br />

include Venture School from U of I and Startup factory<br />

from ISU. Our three-pitch off competitions are also a<br />

good resource for grant money and sound advice. Those<br />

include Dream Big Grow Here, Swimming with the Sharks,<br />

and Innovation Market.<br />

That is a small list of 14 resources that you can immediately<br />

reach out to. You can be strong on your own. It is simpler<br />

to be strong with the help of others. That is what we exist<br />

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Stay Strong in 2021.<br />

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alance<br />

Inside and out.<br />

Climb the Mountain.<br />

“She/He Is Strong.”<br />

By Erin Bahrenfuss<br />

When you hear this phrase, what comes to<br />

mind? Do you think of a shredded, weightlifter? Do<br />

you think of a cancer survivor? Do you think of a single<br />

parent who is showing up for his/her children, pursuing<br />

a career, and also fulfilling personal commitments?<br />

What about the parent who lost a child and finds a way<br />

to heal? Do you think about them?<br />

I sure do. I think about all of them. In each of these<br />

scenarios, strength is a factor. Strength encompasses<br />

areas in our overall well-being. It describes physical,<br />

emotional, spiritual, and mental attributes.<br />

For this example, consider me. Upon first glance, you’d<br />

say I’m strong because I am active, muscular, and<br />

embody a healthy lifestyle. You would be correct. I am<br />

strong physically.<br />

If you dove a little deeper and had a conversation<br />

with me, you would learn I own my own business,<br />

intentionally choose healthy daily habits, and am in<br />

fearless pursuit of a mission to grow individuals into the<br />

best version of themselves. With these facts, you would<br />

say I have a strong mindset and you would be correct. I<br />

am strong mentally.<br />

If we got to know each other on a deeper level, experienced<br />

a significant amount of time together, or empathized about<br />

a similar fire we each walked through, I’m sure you would<br />

agree that despite lofty barriers, I am a survivor. You would<br />

say I am emotionally strong and you would be correct again.<br />

I am strong emotionally.<br />

Knowing these truths would help you to see that I am a<br />

strong spiritual believer. My faith and relationship with my<br />

Heavenly Father are the driving forces in all I do. My purpose<br />

to provide health and hope is the backbone of who I am.<br />

You see, strength is such a multifaceted word. It’s a word<br />

often reduced to physical strength but it is more than that.<br />

Strength is an inner grit and discipline to do the hard and<br />

heart work to break through barriers and embrace obstacles.<br />

It means identifying areas of weakness and pursuing the<br />

tools, people, or programs necessary to improve. Strength is<br />

the ability to move forward after a setback.<br />

We grow stronger by showing up every day and keeping the<br />

promises we make to ourselves.<br />

Strong people have weak moments.<br />

Just because I am strong doesn’t mean I am perfect. In fact,<br />

sometimes, I feel weak…and that is quite alright. You can be


eathe<br />

clarity<br />

nutrition<br />

flexibility<br />

both strong and experience weak moments.<br />

I feel weak when I experience something new or when<br />

I’m in a situation where I feel unqualified. When I’m not<br />

practicing positive self-talk (which requires a great deal<br />

of strength), I am quick to stop myself or give myself a<br />

bailout plan before I even try. I know I have the strength<br />

to do hard things and yet, the reality that I could fail<br />

cripples me from starting. Ever been there?<br />

I feel weak on days at the gym when I can’t lift as much<br />

weight as I would like or even on the days when getting<br />

to the gym seems impossible. I am not always in control<br />

of my food choices and slip into old, bad habits. I<br />

experience times where meeting the expectations of<br />

others leads me into areas that are not good for me. I<br />

feel incredibly weak when I do not keep the promises I<br />

made to myself.<br />

One area that I know feels weak at the moment but<br />

requires a great deal of strength is vulnerability. It is<br />

challenging to show the world my imperfections and<br />

insecurities. However, I know it is in our vulnerability<br />

that we connect with others and prove our authenticity.<br />

With vulnerability comes true connection and with true<br />

connection, growth is possible.<br />

Strength is grown and it is grown on a lifelong journey.<br />

How do I grow stronger?<br />

Physically<br />

Make a commitment to yourself to move your body and<br />

elevate your heart rate for at least 30 minutes, every<br />

single day. You don’t need to run a marathon or climb<br />

a mountain every day, but you do need to move. Your<br />

body was designed for healthy movement.<br />

Set yourself up with a workout plan that will help<br />

you achieve your goals. This could mean seeking<br />

support from someone to design a lifting plan for<br />

you, downloading an app, or purchasing a gym<br />

membership, or fitness equipment for home use.<br />

Plan a schedule and block out the appointments<br />

in your calendar for when you will exercise. Set a<br />

realistic commitment for yourself and show up for your<br />

appointments. You wouldn’t cancel on a good friend –<br />

don’t cancel on yourself.<br />

Eat food that nourishes your body with key vitamins<br />

and minerals. Remember, food is fuel for you – it’s gas<br />

in the tank. You wouldn’t put cheap, inefficient gasoline<br />

in your vehicle so choose to replenish your body with<br />

rich nutrients that bless your body.<br />

Physical Strength.<br />

Mentally, Emotionally & Spiritually<br />

Spend time with people who are good for your soul. We<br />

greatly underestimate the weight of which our surroundings<br />

play into our emotional and mental well-being. You need to<br />

find people that want to climb the mountain with you!<br />

This might mean using the Unfollow button on social<br />

media, stopping outings with a crowd of people that<br />

leaves you feeling run down or unhealthy, or connecting<br />

with positive groups both in-person and online that share<br />

common interests. Establish these connections to occur<br />

regularly in your routine. Showing up for these events is just<br />

as important for your growth as showing up to the gym.<br />

Learn from encouraging, growth-minded mentors. There are<br />

countless influencers providing information about how they<br />

achieved what you’re dying to do. Utilize podcasts, YouTube<br />

videos, books, and other resources like this to lead yourself<br />

in the direction of your goals. By empowering yourself, you<br />

give yourself the necessary tools to be successful. As your<br />

confidence in these areas grows, your mind and emotional<br />

endurance will grow stronger.<br />

Remember this: You are strong. You are stronger than you<br />

realize and you have everything in you that you need to be<br />

successful. Embrace the journey and you will grow stronger<br />

every day.<br />

Erin Bahrenfuss, Owner STRIVE Health + Wellness &<br />

Independent Certified OPTAVIA Coach<br />

Photos Contributed by Erin Bahrenfuss.


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Balance /42<br />

No Struggle, No Strength<br />

By Dr. Meghan Nelson<br />

It’s important to consult your physician or physical therapist<br />

before beginning any new physical activity. Always listen<br />

to your body and respect any warnings you hear.<br />

“Where there is no struggle,<br />

there is no strength.”<br />

– Oprah Winfrey<br />

Sadly, all are probably too well familiar with the<br />

struggles that we can face as a country, a community, or<br />

as family members. Nearly every person I speak to these<br />

days is stressed out, hurt, scared, or confused by the<br />

chaos, the unknown, the struggles we face throughout<br />

this nation with jobs, health, relationships, school, the<br />

list goes on. The heavy loads that we all carry during a<br />

global pandemic alone are enormous strains and many<br />

are getting hit with forces from all directions, on all<br />

fronts.<br />

But is all the stress we face in life a bad thing? Can a<br />

crisis illuminate opportunities?<br />

How can we grow stronger without the stress? I am<br />

hopeful that what has been broken will be repaired.<br />

Somehow those fissures will all draw closer, the divisions<br />

disappear, and strength rebuilt where the struggle was<br />

the greatest. We just need to connect back with our<br />

foundation, our own strength within for that sense of<br />

stability and confidence to handle whatever will come<br />

our way. We are all going to come out of this stronger<br />

than ever. I have to believe this.<br />

This protocol is based on Wolff’s Law, after the German<br />

anatomist and surgeon from the 19th century, which<br />

states that bones will adapt to the stress placed on them.<br />

As you increase the load or increase the stress and<br />

strain, the bone will continue to remodel itself stronger<br />

and stronger in all the areas where stress is applied.<br />

This law is why we emphasize the benefits of weightbearing<br />

and resistance exercises throughout the aging<br />

process. Because the inverse of this is true as well, if one<br />

decreases the amount of load put throughout, the bones<br />

will lose mass and density and become weak and brittle.<br />

We can give resistance through moving the body<br />

and limbs through space, against gravity, using our<br />

body weight as resistance, bands, or dumbbells. The<br />

power and strength we can get behind the muscular<br />

contraction can come through an increase in neural<br />

motor connections. In other words, if we focus and<br />

use the mind-body connection we can recruit a larger<br />

number of nerve endings to fire efficiently and attract the<br />

greatest force from the muscle groups. This comes from<br />

mindfulness and repetition—the more we practice, the<br />

greater the neural muscular connection.<br />

Let’s begin.<br />

“There is a crack, a crack in everything.<br />

That’s how the light gets in.”<br />

– Leonard Cohen<br />

This is how the physical body works. We will never build<br />

strength in our muscles if we do not put these tissues<br />

through some stress. If we want to increase the bulk of<br />

our muscles, we first have to tear them down a bit. With<br />

the stress and strain put upon muscles, small muscle<br />

cells or fibers may be torn. The body then responds<br />

by sending new muscle cells to repair all of the little<br />

microtears that occurred, bulking up muscle mass. The<br />

more we build that resistance over time, the stronger<br />

the muscle grows.<br />

Our bones work in a similar way: to increase strength,<br />

we must increase stress. For individuals who have<br />

suffered from bone fracture, the strength of the bone<br />

was unable to withstand whatever load was given.<br />

Through physical rehabilitation, we can assist the<br />

remodeling process of fractured bone after it begins<br />

to heal. Your physical therapist will gradually introduce<br />

weight-bearing and resistance exercises to your plan of<br />

care to build up the strength at the fracture site from all<br />

angles.<br />

Mountain<br />

Mountain: This pose is the essence of stability and<br />

foundation; it can be done in many positions and is<br />

often found in other postures or poses. Engage core<br />

by maintaining a neutral spine with the navel drawing<br />

inward. Legs and arms are fully engaged with an open<br />

heart. Feel connected and grounded to the Earth, while<br />

lifting your crown to the Heavens. Feel solid, strong,<br />

like a mountain, nothing can knock you down. Breathe<br />

in this moment stability and strength.


Boat (with variations): The goal again is to maintain that<br />

neutral spine like in Mountain. Reclining backward slightly<br />

will increase the load on the core but avoid going beyond<br />

the muscles’ ability to maintain that neutral spine. Numerous<br />

variations of this pose can include, arms helping to support<br />

the lift of the heart, feet on the ground, knees bent or<br />

extended. Try this pose in a chair with various positions of<br />

the legs and/or arms. Always keep your boat looking lovely<br />

and afloat with your heart center lifted. Do not compromise<br />

your spine in this pose by losing the neutral position and<br />

rounding throughout the back. Stay with whatever variation<br />

in which the core can maintain a long, neutral spine. With<br />

continued practice, the muscles will strengthen, and then<br />

you can advance to greater intensity if you wish. Breathe in<br />

this moment stability and strength.<br />

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Mountain chair<br />

Plank: Think about the strength of the Mountain<br />

pose for trunk and core, maintaining a neutral spine.<br />

Arms are extended out, bearing weight through<br />

hands to strengthen wrists, elbows, shoulders, and<br />

tone muscles of the arms. Options to start with low<br />

resistance by performing a plank at the wall, counter,<br />

or a chair. The more horizontal the body to the<br />

ground, the more gravity puts a greater load through<br />

muscles and joints. Breathe in this moment stability<br />

and strength.<br />

Medium boat<br />

Boat with chair<br />

Plank<br />

Big boat<br />

Plank with chair<br />

Dr. Meghan Nelson, a licensed physical therapist and<br />

professional yoga therapist with a passion for using yoga<br />

as medicine for optimal health, injury prevention, and<br />

overall health and wellness. Meghan is co-owner of Lumin<br />

Therapy, which provides integrative healing of the mind,<br />

body, and spirit through the practice of physical therapy,<br />

medical therapeutic yoga, and mindfulness.<br />

Photo Credit Britton Hacke Photography.


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Balance /44<br />

Ask the Therapist<br />

By Gladys Smith<br />

Question: I’m struggling to adjust to all the<br />

difficult changes that come with what’s been<br />

referred to as our new normal. How can I<br />

tap into my strengths to adapt and deal with<br />

these changes?<br />

Response: This is certainly a challenging time to<br />

be alive! When our normal way of navigating life<br />

has been turned upside down, it can be difficult to<br />

muster the strength to keep going. It is during these<br />

difficult times that we are often propelled to not only<br />

tap into the strengths that we have, but to discover<br />

new ones.<br />

With all the changes we as a society have been forced<br />

to make, it can often feel as though our lives are out<br />

of control. When we find ourselves in this position,<br />

it’s difficult to feel as if we have any strengths, let<br />

alone know how to tap into them. One of the first<br />

steps you can take to regain your inner strength is<br />

to ensure that you have some semblance of order<br />

in your life. It can be helpful to develop and stick<br />

to routines for completing your daily tasks. Routine<br />

can add structure and a measure of predictability to<br />

your daily life, which will in turn lend to feelings of<br />

relaxation and calm.<br />

In order to tap into our strengths, it’s critical to<br />

pay attention to your thought life, as our thoughts<br />

impact how we feel about ourselves. When we<br />

think negatively about ourselves or our situation, it’s<br />

difficult to draw on our strengths. If you find that your<br />

thoughts are mainly negative in nature, it’s helpful to<br />

replace those negative thoughts with positive ones.<br />

I would suggest making a list of positive affirmations<br />

that resonate with you. An example might be, “I have<br />

within me what I need to succeed,” or “I have the skills<br />

to accomplish my goals.” When you notice that you<br />

are thinking negative thoughts, work to replace those<br />

thoughts with your positive affirmations. You will find<br />

that with practice, this can become an effective habit<br />

to help you better manage your emotions in difficult<br />

and trying situations.<br />

Developing ways to enhance your feelings of<br />

accomplishment is an important aspect of enhancing<br />

our self-worth and inner strength. It’s been suggested<br />

that one way to do this is to make daily or weekly<br />

goals for ourselves. I find it helps to write your goals<br />

down as a way to hold yourself accountable and to<br />

have a visual note of what you plan to do. I like to<br />

make lists of the tasks I want to accomplish as it feels<br />

good to be able to check them off my list. You’ll want<br />

to be careful that your goals are realistic, so as not to<br />

set yourself up for failure as this can leave you feeling<br />

defeated.<br />

Send Your<br />

Questions to<br />

the Therapist.<br />

As always, it’s important to make sure that you are<br />

practicing self-care as a way to cultivate your inner<br />

strength. With the hustle and bustle of daily living, some<br />

feel this is a luxury they can’t afford, while others feel that<br />

caring for themselves is somehow selfish. In the words of<br />

L. R. Knost, “taking care of myself doesn’t mean ‘me first’,<br />

it means ‘me too’.” Self-care can be practiced in a myriad<br />

of ways as it depends on what you find replenishes you.<br />

Doing things, even small things, that bring you joy are<br />

great ways to practice self-care. It’s also imperative that<br />

you are not only getting enough sleep, but that you’re<br />

getting good sleep. In the words of one of my wise<br />

mentors, good sleep is restorative sleep. Developing<br />

calming routines around bedtime can help to slow down<br />

your mind and provide a sense of calm, making it easier<br />

to fall asleep. Exercise, eating a balanced diet, and staying<br />

hydrated are also important ways to practice self-care.<br />

There are times in our lives when we can benefit from<br />

drawing strength from others’ examples. Think about<br />

the people you feel are strong and have modeled that<br />

for you. What did you notice about their actions, or how<br />

they related to you and others that conveyed strength?<br />

What can you learn from their example that can help you<br />

draw on your strengths in difficult situations? It can be<br />

helpful to talk with others in your life that you feel possess<br />

strengths you would like to develop. Don’t hesitate to ask<br />

them what strengths they see in you as we don’t always<br />

recognize the qualities that others see in us.<br />

With all of the changes our new normal brings to our<br />

daily lives, it’s important to ask yourself if you have truly<br />

accepted these changes. One sure way to zap your inner<br />

strength is to fight changes that you can’t control. I recently


found myself in a situation where I had to ask myself if<br />

I was resisting a change that was beyond my control. I<br />

finally realized that I needed to give up the fight, (which<br />

was making my situation worse), and practice accepting<br />

my situation for what it was.<br />

In her article entitled, “Four Ways to Practice<br />

Acceptance Every Day”, Amy Hillock, 2016,<br />

shares the following:<br />

Nix judgement – try to avoid thinking of<br />

situations as good or bad and simply see them<br />

for what they are.<br />

Acknowledge always – practicing acceptance<br />

means respecting the process and your<br />

current place, and also acknowledging that<br />

everything is or can be temporary.<br />

Start with self – a positive mind pushes<br />

you forward, and when you acknowledge<br />

that you’re capable of doing better, any<br />

shortcoming begins to matter less.<br />

Find the good – even though it may seem<br />

impossible, there is always something to be<br />

positive about. It may take some time and<br />

effort but developing the skill to seek out the<br />

positive is well within everyone’s ability.<br />

It’s important to note that accepting your situation doesn’t<br />

mean that you necessarily approve of what has happened,<br />

or that you have given up. It’s about acknowledging that<br />

what has happened cannot be changed without the ability<br />

to accept what has happened. The act of acceptance can<br />

free you up to be able to tap into your inherent strengths<br />

as well as to reveal strengths you didn’t realize you had!<br />

“Challenges make you discover things about yourself that<br />

you never really know. They’re what make the instrument<br />

stretch – what make you go beyond the norm.”<br />

– Cicely Tyson<br />

Gladys Smith, a Licensed Independent Social Worker<br />

with Mental Health Associates, who has over 35<br />

years of clinical experience in inpatient, outpatient,<br />

and residential settings. Although she provides<br />

therapy to adults and families, she specializes in<br />

working with adolescents who are struggling with<br />

mental health, behavioral and substance disorders.<br />

Gladys is a co-founder of Soul Creek Nature Therapy<br />

that focuses on offering peace and healing through<br />

a connection with nature.<br />

Photo Credit Carolyn Goodwin Photography.<br />

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The wood element symbolizes new growth in springtime.<br />

Seasonal Cycles &Your Body: Springtime is for Liver Strengthening<br />

By Emily Larson<br />

With spring upon us, it is my hope to offer you<br />

a great healing resource that is relevant to this<br />

season of growth and renewal. As intelligent<br />

beings, humans have developed strong and variant<br />

ways to heal our bodies as we take on the art and<br />

struggle of living. Our developed world today comes<br />

with quickly advancing technology and continuously<br />

updated research, which shows itself in modern<br />

Western medicine. We continue to find new ways to<br />

address many different illnesses and diseases when<br />

they find their way into our bodies.<br />

This important form of medicine also has an important<br />

compliment to ancient medicine. Since developers<br />

of ancient forms of medicine did not have access to<br />

advanced medical technology to treat disease, they<br />

had to utilize the natural world around them to help<br />

their bodies be well and prevent diseases that could<br />

be difficult to treat. One form of medicine that has<br />

truly withstood the test of time, with more than 2,000<br />

years of practice is Traditional Chinese Medicine. Since<br />

it draws great influence from the earthly seasons and<br />

elements, it allows us to connect and live in harmony<br />

with the Earth’s cycles since those cycles are strongly<br />

reflected in our own bodies.<br />

The Chinese calendar consists of five seasons, each<br />

of which has an associated earthly element and vital<br />

organ. Each season, element, and organ association has<br />

deeply interconnected properties and functions, which<br />

exemplifies the strength of our relationship to the earth. For<br />

example, wood represents new growth and all things living<br />

in spring. During the springtime, the Earth is concentrating<br />

its energy on utilizing the nutrients of the soil to grow anew<br />

from the darkness and cold of winter. Thus, the renewal of<br />

spring is associated with the liver as it is responsible for<br />

cleansing the blood via filtration, removal of toxins, and<br />

storage and distribution of nutrients to the body.<br />

The fire element represents heat and transformation in<br />

the warm summer months. The long, warm days energize<br />

our bodies and represent a time of peak power within the<br />

seasonal cycle. We can see the transformative quality of fire<br />

in the small intestine as it converts our digested food into<br />

nutrients and sends them directly into the bloodstream.<br />

The heat of blood circulation via the pumping action of the<br />

heart also embodies the element of fire.<br />

After a climb toward long, warm days and summer, the<br />

Earth reaches a more stable period during late summer<br />

in preparation for the harvest of fall and darkness of<br />

winter. The stomach and spleen are organs associated<br />

with cultivating nutrients from food in the initial stages of<br />

digestion, a foundational process in nourishing the body.<br />

Thus, these two organs are clear representations of the<br />

Earth element.


Autumn, which is associated with the metal element, is<br />

a time of organization and order for the harvest. This is<br />

when we collect everything that is pure and necessary<br />

and rid ourselves of anything unnecessary or a waste<br />

of energy. The lungs, which take in oxygen and expel<br />

carbon dioxide, share this same process with the colon,<br />

which absorbs water and eliminates waste. So, the<br />

refinement of pure minerals into the finished product<br />

of metal is also a representation of the autumn season.<br />

Water symbolizes the fluidity and tranquility of winter, a<br />

time of darkness and turning inward. Our entire bodies<br />

are great representations of water since this element<br />

is the foundation of our physical makeup in the blood,<br />

fluids, and organs. We embody water especially in<br />

kidneys and urinary bladder which function to filter our<br />

body’s fluids and purify them by expelling waste.<br />

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The strength of the connection between the Earth, its<br />

elements, and our bodies is also apparent in the herbs<br />

and foods naturally available during each season.<br />

For example, as we enter the season of spring, the<br />

sprouts and greens popping up around us are ideal for<br />

cleansing the liver. This is the largest organ of the body,<br />

its master laboratory, and storage site for essential<br />

vitamins and minerals. Thus, the high mineral content of<br />

spring greens makes them an ideal resource for a liver<br />

cleanse. The liver cleanse takes place over an eight-day<br />

cycle with seven days on and one day off.<br />

During this time, the practitioner consumes no meat<br />

with the main food source being an ancient Indianinfluenced<br />

dish, called khichuri, of sprouted greens or<br />

lentils and warming spices like cardamom, cinnamon,<br />

and garlic. Throughout the liver cleanse, the practitioner<br />

also takes tea with herbs that provide a high mineral<br />

content such as nettles, dandelion leaves, and milk<br />

thistle. Since the liver cleanse utilizes greens with<br />

relatively small particles and low toxicity, the body can<br />

easily digest and process them. The warming spices<br />

help further stimulate digestion while the herbs target<br />

and heal the liver specifically by helping to detoxify it<br />

and replenish mineral storage.<br />

In order to assist the liver cleanse process, the practitioner<br />

can also take mineral baths with warming herbs like<br />

yarrow, ginger, elderflower, or basil. Ginger especially<br />

can draw a strong healing response by stimulating a<br />

low-grade fever, which can help the body rid itself of<br />

old waste and latent illness. The practitioner can deepen<br />

the liver cleanse further by receiving lymphatic or deep<br />

tissue massage, which has detoxifying effects.<br />

After the initial seven days of the cleanse, the practitioner<br />

takes one day “off” on the eighth day by fasting,<br />

consuming only vegetable broth, and beet or carrot<br />

juice. After the eighth day, it is time for the practitioner<br />

to finally break the fast, but gently! It is best to start<br />

with a small, clean-ish meal, even though the craving<br />

for a greasy burger and fries may be strong. Cleansing<br />

The fresher the herbs, the stronger the tea!<br />

the liver in this way can have profound healing effects,<br />

especially if the practitioner adheres strictly to the food<br />

and herbal prescription. However, great liver healing<br />

can still take place when the practitioner simply finds a<br />

degree of the cleanse during spring that suits their own<br />

needs and availability. For example, simply incorporating<br />

the buffer tea and mineral baths during spring can be<br />

simple yet strong ways to find liver healing. Both of these<br />

resources are available for your own exploration at Mind<br />

& Body Connection.<br />

As with springtime and liver cleansing, we can also take<br />

the herbs and foods that are naturally available during<br />

the other seasons of the earthly year. By taking each<br />

season’s unique and naturally occurring offerings, we can<br />

address the healing of each vital organ of the body. This<br />

technique of the ancient Traditional Chinese Medicine<br />

practice exemplifies the profoundly strong connection<br />

we have to our Earth and its seasonal cycles. Working<br />

through this connection gives our bodies the ability to<br />

protect themselves from possible disease, be well and<br />

strong, and live fully in this one precious life.<br />

For any questions concerning seasonal cleanses and the<br />

Traditional Chinese Medicine practice, you are welcome<br />

to contact the Mind & Body Connection, and we will do<br />

our best to assist you in your own unique explorations of<br />

self-care and healing.<br />

Emily Larson, Licensed Massage Therapist, Private<br />

Yoga Instructor, Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology<br />

& Human Performance, Co-teacher of Anatomy for<br />

massage therapy students at the Bio-Chi Institute,<br />

mother to Noah.<br />

Photos Contributed by Emily Larson.


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Enjoy Your Life.<br />

Adventurous<br />

Mitch Martin, co-owner of The Marquee, with a few of his creations.<br />

Keeping Spirits High at The Marquee<br />

By Adrian Kolbo<br />

Early last year, just before the pandemic<br />

shutdowns, many event spaces and restaurants in<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> had just closed the books on a banner<br />

year and were expecting more of the same.<br />

One relatively young live music venue on Historic 4th<br />

Street, The Marquee, had been humming along since<br />

their opening in May of 2017. “We were just cranking ‘em<br />

out, national shows, regional shows, local shows, I had<br />

everything booked up until about August 2020,” says The<br />

Marquee co-owner Mitch Martin. “Normally we book 3<br />

months out. At that time I was booking out 6-8 months in<br />

advance and everything was looking great,” Martin said.<br />

At the time there was really no way of knowing what was<br />

in store for this community, and certainly no idea of how it<br />

would affect the events industry.<br />

“Come February 2020 we started hearing rumblings of a<br />

global pandemic. And then I remember hearing that New<br />

York (had) shut down, and then Illinois shut down, and<br />

then it was like, we’re on our way here,” he explained. It<br />

was clear that the shutdowns were moving inland.<br />

“Then on March 17,” he continues, “which is historically our<br />

second busiest night of the year - St. Patty’s Day - we got the<br />

word that we had to shut down by 12pm. I shouldn’t have<br />

been in shock because I had been watching it happen to<br />

other states, but I was just in shock.”<br />

As I write this it is officially just shy of one year later, February<br />

2021, and Martin now stands behind his bar in a black<br />

hoodie with a matching buff around his neck. He asks me if<br />

I would like a glass of water and I accept with appreciation.<br />

I can see that it’s been a challenging year for him, but I can<br />

also tell that he’s proud to be where he is right now.<br />

After what has now been a full year of unexpected twists and<br />

turns, it’s safe to say that major shifts are now just par for the<br />

course. Martin and his co-owners, Kelly and Nikki Quinn and<br />

Martin’s wife, Emily, have all had to act quickly, decisively and<br />

with intention in order to keep things afloat.<br />

“You have to be able to diversify and pivot, to recognize<br />

that we have to do something different if we are going to<br />

survive,” he explained.<br />

And pivot they did. Shortly after the shutdown it was<br />

announced that the state of Iowa would relax their liquor laws<br />

to allow drinking establishments to sell pre-batched and togo<br />

cocktails. This presented a new revenue opportunity for<br />

The Marquee and others with similar business models in<br />

town.<br />

“We’d been doing these Ultimate Bloody Mary’s with our<br />

house mix since we opened in 2017. Probably around fall<br />

of 2019 is when we did our first MitchSlap (Bloody Mary<br />

Mix), and then the shut-down happened and we were really<br />

looking for a source of revenue, we had nothing coming in,”<br />

says Martin.


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Entertainment<br />

Nature<br />

Appreciation<br />

Indulge<br />

Once things really got moving, The Marquee was<br />

scrambling to keep up with demand for their premade<br />

MitchSlap Bloody Mary kits. “It would usually range<br />

between 75-100 kits. Those were in addition to the other<br />

drinks going out as well as cocktails to-go,” he says.<br />

“We were seeing people come in that had never been<br />

to the Marquee before, and saw our giant bloody mary<br />

with all this food on it on our Facebook page and just<br />

wanted to give it a shot. So it was really cool”, Martin says.<br />

His namesake bloody mary mix line now includes Regular,<br />

Spicy, Spicy Pickle, and Jalapeno Bacon flavors, all bottled<br />

and wax-sealed by hand at The Marquee.<br />

Recently, with the success of to-go items including canned<br />

cocktails, he’s added MitchSlap Marinara and MitchSlap<br />

Chili Starter mixes. ”All you have to do is brown some<br />

hamburger and put some beans in it and you’ve got a pot<br />

of chili. And our Marinara sauce, which is a recipe that I<br />

already like to make for my family, now includes a touch of<br />

MitchSlap,” he says.<br />

“My wife hates it because I’m experimenting all of the<br />

time. She’s like, can we please not have something tomato<br />

based today?” he says with a laugh.<br />

“At this point, I’m most interested in better understanding<br />

how I can get my “go-to” Bulleit Rye Old Fashioned “togo”.”<br />

“We make them all doubles,” Martin says, “because it’s<br />

a larger can, so it’s essentially two drinks. We’ll make the<br />

drink in the shaker like normal, we pour it into a can, seal<br />

it with our crowler machine, slap a label on it, you take<br />

it home and pour it over ice, and you’ve got your old<br />

fashioned.” Sounds pretty slick to me. But what if cocktails<br />

to-go and gargantuan Bloody Mary’s are not your thing?<br />

“We’re doing Sunday Fun-day and I was starting to get<br />

people ordering all of the food on the Bloody Mary with<br />

whatever brunch drink they really wanted. So [I thought]<br />

let’s do a Mimosa with a ton of breakfast food on it. Instead<br />

of a slider, a breakfast sandwich and a french toast stick.<br />

It’s a quick brunch and a drink in one. We call it Marquee<br />

Mark and the Funky Brunch,” Martin says with a laugh.<br />

When asked about other innovations and collaborations<br />

that have been helping to drive revenue during the<br />

shutdown, Martin is quick to bring up his Coffee &<br />

Cocktails collab with Alex Paulsen, owner of Nightingale<br />

Coffee. “We do this the last Sunday of every month. Alex<br />

has been really open to ideas and he’s very innovative.<br />

Every month it gets better and better,” he says.<br />

Good to know!<br />

IOWA TO-GO COCKTAIL RULES:<br />

The rules prohibit the sale of mixed drinks or<br />

cocktails to-go in paper or Styrofoam cups, or<br />

plastic cups that are intended for one-time use.<br />

Lids with straw holes or sipping holes are also<br />

prohibited.<br />

Containers of mixed drinks or cocktails to-go also<br />

must bear a seal that makes it apparent when that<br />

seal has been tampered with. The types of sealing<br />

methods allowed under the rules are heat shrink<br />

wrap bands around the cap or lid, twist-top caps<br />

that break apart when the container is opened, or<br />

vacuum or heat-sealed pouches containing the<br />

mixed drink or cocktail.<br />

As a sample of what types of drinks to expect, Martin offers<br />

up the Cold Fashioned as a favorite: a coffee-based take on<br />

an Old Fashioned that includes Cold Brew Coffee, Bulleit<br />

Bourbon, Bitters, and Simple Syrup, and is available to go<br />

along with the rest of the specialty menu.<br />

When asked to find a few positives to take away from this<br />

challenging time, Martin is quick to mention community<br />

support as first on his list.<br />

“Community support has been the #1 positive. Sioux City,<br />

per capita, the support they have for local business is<br />

unmatched in my opinion. I think they’ve really shown that<br />

they can support and help small businesses survive during<br />

this time. We’re very fortunate,” he says.<br />

And what is Martin most looking forward to in the coming<br />

year?<br />

“We will continue to do cocktails to-go. As the vaccines start<br />

rolling out and people are feeling better about things we’ll<br />

bring back more live music,” he says.<br />

“I’m just excited to hit the ground runnin and make it happen<br />

this year,” Martin says as I begin to pack up my things. “I’d<br />

rather be having shows with people hanging out, but we’ve<br />

proven that we will make it happen either way.”<br />

Adrian Kolbo is the Host of the Web-series Sioux City Foodie<br />

and Local F&B Fanatic.<br />

Photo Credit left to right, Adrian Kolbo, The Marquee and<br />

Britton Hacke Photography.


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Gill loves to capture images of her clients in beautiful natural settings.<br />

Body Love Warrior<br />

By Erika Hansen<br />

When photographer and body image activist<br />

Sarah Gill hit her own personal rock bottom in<br />

2017, she had no idea what journey awaited<br />

her. Or the changes she’d experience in her own<br />

development that would give her the vehicle to help<br />

other women transform their own body image and selfesteem<br />

- one picture at a time.<br />

“My own body image has always suffered,” said Gill<br />

during a phone call one chilly morning in January. “I’ve<br />

never been able to fully love my body and love myself<br />

because of that.”<br />

Gill was hospitalized in 2017 for mental health. It was at<br />

that point that a shift began to take place.<br />

Gill said she didn’t originally think about body image<br />

activism. But as she decided to invest in her own<br />

education as a photographer, she attended a workshop<br />

in Philadelphia. She had her photos taken by a boudoir<br />

photographer, an industry she had just recently entered<br />

after the brides she photographed started asking for the<br />

service.<br />

“The photographer in Philadelphia took my pictures<br />

as part of the class, and when I saw them, I realized,<br />

‘Wow, so that’s what I look like.’ Suddenly, I felt like I had<br />

permission to exist. And I realized I needed to do this for<br />

other people.”<br />

“Yoga teacher training coincidentally started two weeks<br />

after getting out of the hospital,” said Gill. “It was divine<br />

timing.”<br />

Gill said she found her power by immersing herself in<br />

the practice of yoga. Through breath and breathing, Gill<br />

said she realized she’s allowed to take up space, and<br />

developed the power to say, “This is who I am, and there<br />

is nothing wrong with this. Finding my voice, I realized<br />

I needed to give people the space I’d been afforded,<br />

so they could feel the same way.” And the momentum<br />

began.<br />

Clients express freedom and release during their sessions.


Boudoir photography is described as a photographic<br />

style featuring intimate, sensual, or romantic images<br />

of its subjects in a photographic studio, bedroom, or<br />

private dressing room environment. But Gill’s clients<br />

experienced a palpable shift in power after one of their<br />

sessions.<br />

“I’ve seen people go from quiet and shy, to immediately<br />

asking when they can book another session,” said Gill.<br />

“It’s hard to describe unless you witness it yourself. It’s a<br />

look in their eyes, the way they walk, the way they carry<br />

themselves, the way they interact with other people.”<br />

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Gill said some of the clients she sees have suffered<br />

various forms of abuse, and the photography session is<br />

a deep release of shame or pain that’s been buried over<br />

time.<br />

When asked about the most common misperceptions<br />

about what she does, Gill doesn’t hesitate.<br />

“Because I center a lot of my work on what I call<br />

‘marginalized’ bodies, I get a lot of comments like ‘You’re<br />

promoting obesity,’ or ‘You’re promoting unhealthy<br />

behaviors,’ and that’s simply not true. I’m giving people<br />

space where they can feel loved and realize there’s<br />

nothing wrong with them.”<br />

Sarah’s self portraits are unfiltered and authentic.<br />

Gill has backed up her work in the studio with a nowthriving<br />

Facebook group called Body Love Warriors.<br />

The online community supports one another, giving its<br />

members a safe space to voice fears, celebrate wins, and<br />

continue the mission of body-positivity. The group’s 2020<br />

Let Free Your Wild event raised money and collected<br />

goods to donate to the Safe Space in Sioux City.<br />

“We’re not only building community, we’re giving back<br />

to the community,” said Gill.<br />

She’s also used her yoga teacher training to offer body<br />

image bootcamp workshops.<br />

Gill hosts Let Free Your Wild retreats that include<br />

journaling, group support, body acceptance, and most<br />

importantly, healing. Her next retreat is scheduled for<br />

Breckenridge, Colorado, in September.<br />

Gill said she sees a ton of progress happening. Lots of<br />

work still needs to be done to arrive at the concept of<br />

body neutrality. But there is movement. She plans to<br />

make sure her Body Love Warriors are front and center<br />

of the positive shift.<br />

Sarah invites her clients to dress in whatever feels most<br />

comfortable.<br />

“I try to give people permission to exist as they are. We<br />

shouldn’t have to justify the way we show up in the world.<br />

That’s one of my favorite things to teach.”<br />

“Also, because I do take a lot of photos with minimal<br />

clothing, some say the subjects aren’t respecting<br />

themselves. But these people are reclaiming their<br />

sensuality and sexuality. Many of them are reclaiming<br />

their power.”<br />

Power seems to be a theme in all of Sarah Gill’s work. The<br />

images are stunning, and the (mostly) women in front of<br />

the camera appear incredibly comfortable; something<br />

that’s difficult to imagine in today’s ultra-filtered, ultrahappy,<br />

social media environment.<br />

Curious about exploring the connection between<br />

outward appearance and inner power? Erika is<br />

passionate about showcasing accessible style, and<br />

fostering a spirit of inclusion with no limits on age or<br />

body type. You can find more of Erika’s journey on<br />

Instagram, @erikahansen.official.<br />

Erika Hansen, a professional model, influencer, and<br />

lifelong lover of fashion.<br />

Photo Credit Sarah Ann Boudoir


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Appreciation of beauty is one of our greatest strengths as gardeners. Stop and smell the tomatoes! There is nothing more<br />

beautiful than a cool summer morning and buckets of ripe, red fruit.<br />

Strength in Numbers<br />

By Lisa Cox<br />

“By soliciting modest contributions from the<br />

many, we have produced a store of collective<br />

know-how with far greater power than any<br />

individual could have achieved.” In 2008, Atul<br />

Gawande published Better. It is a collection of medical<br />

essays. However, it is not the type of writing that one<br />

would expect from a surgeon at the top of his game. It<br />

is an introspective examination of details and, as others<br />

have said, compassion and humility. Why look back at the<br />

small things when outcomes are positives and numbers<br />

are up? Why pursue character strengths for the greater<br />

good? And what use to the world would these gifts be<br />

once discovered? Up from the Earth (UFTE) took a step<br />

back to dissect these questions for itself and saw great<br />

potential for growth in the Spring of 2021 and <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

volunteers.<br />

Since 2014, UFTE has been serving <strong>Siouxland</strong> with its<br />

creativity by harnessing the power of local gardeners<br />

to increase food security. During these six years,<br />

approximately 130,000 pounds of fresh fruits and<br />

vegetables have been harvested. This is a lot of food<br />

for families. Breaking it down, about 390,000 servings<br />

of fresh, seasonal, complex carbohydrates hit the<br />

tables of <strong>Siouxland</strong>. That is a big deal. This helps lower<br />

cholesterol, diabetes, heart disease, and reduces the the<br />

risk of stroke. We are also helping parents teach healthy<br />

lifestyle choices. Why does this not seem like enough?<br />

Honestly, according to the Foodbank of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, “Not<br />

only those who were food insecure before we heard<br />

the term COVID-19 or coronavirus but now countless<br />

individuals and families who are no longer certain of their<br />

paychecks are likely to need our help as well.” This means<br />

more families are in need now. Gardeners are starting<br />

to look ahead to bump up produce production for the<br />

summer. Even though our numbers are strong, and the<br />

collection sites and pantries are working together, we<br />

also need to assess our strength as a UFTE team. When<br />

we examine the details and inspect our actions, we can<br />

see how we can make them better.<br />

Sometimes the act of checking out the details reminds<br />

us of Bill Murray’s character in What About Bob? as he is<br />

about to go sailing, “but if your friend is a good sailor, and<br />

the craft is seaworthy.” Often, we rely on our judgment<br />

or the abilities of others. We seek people out who have<br />

certain skills or talents to help or assist. In the case of Up<br />

from the Earth, those with more computer proficiencies<br />

tackle the website, ISU Extension Master Gardeners seek<br />

out the gardens, and former teachers assist with public<br />

education. We see it as planting a garden with fertile soil.<br />

The interesting part is that these resources have a fluidity<br />

because they are connected to character strengths. We<br />

are strong not because we are gardeners, teachers, or<br />

other professionals. We are strong because we possess<br />

many of the VIA Institute on Character’s 24 Strengths of<br />

Character.


When you have a moment, check out viacharacter.org.<br />

Here is where you will find: Strength comes in many<br />

forms, and values like prudence, humility, and kindness<br />

are really good things to bring to the table. Take the<br />

ten minutes to learn what kind of signature principles<br />

are guiding your life. Which ones come most natural<br />

to you? Are you one of those people that ask lots of<br />

questions? Curiosity may be your strength. Similarly, to<br />

those diving into a task with their head are those leading<br />

with their heart. If you find yourself working at this for a<br />

longer period of time than ten minutes, you may have<br />

persistence or a Love of Learning. Often these two go<br />

together, combining like a recipe for chocolate zucchini<br />

bread. For those relentless individuals who seek to<br />

create something better than the original, you are UFTE.<br />

As a result, with the sage words of Dr. Gawande ringing<br />

in our ears, Up from the Earth is seeking the collective<br />

contributions of <strong>Siouxland</strong> gardeners and problemsolvers<br />

this Spring of 2021.<br />

Up from the Earth Harvest Heroes, Craig, Ron, and<br />

Dennis, at the Dennis and Barb Anfinson farm.<br />

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Likewise, if you appreciate beauty and have a sense of<br />

humor, there is definitely a place for you with us. We are<br />

seeking the gritty, the curious, the persistent. This year,<br />

when we plant, share, grow we want to know, are you<br />

Zesty? As we are a Hopeful group with Gratitude for<br />

the Kindness that <strong>Siouxland</strong> has shown UFTE’s last six<br />

growing seasons, we are looking forward to connecting<br />

people and having our numbers grow.<br />

To sign up, Go to:<br />

https://www.signupgenius.com<br />

go/904044BAAAA2BA6F58-upfrom<br />

Or stop by our Facebook page at:<br />

https://www.facebook.com/upfromtheearth/<br />

Or website:<br />

https://upfromtheearth.wixsite.com/siouxland<br />

Can you make a garden more organized, increasing<br />

the productivity? Taking the time to problem-solve<br />

strengthens a garden and its team.<br />

UFTE’s detail that we can do better is to gather a strong<br />

database of volunteers. The question is how do we expand<br />

this archive to have talents and skills that are inside and<br />

outside the garden realm during a pandemic? As Sonny<br />

would say, “We go to the mattresses.” No, we go to the<br />

technology! This year UFTE is starting a SignUpGenius<br />

for volunteers who have a passion for decreasing food<br />

insecurity in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. If you are physically strong<br />

and want to be a Harvest Hero or work in one of our<br />

community gardens, we need you. If you are a family<br />

that wants to volunteer as a group, we can connect you.<br />

Lisa Cox, an ISU/Woodbury County Extension Master<br />

Gardener, NATABOC Certified Athletic Trainer, and former<br />

high school teacher, combines her passion for education<br />

and gardening while seeking to understand the impact<br />

of food insecurity. She is active in UFTE, DKG, the South<br />

Sioux Cooperative Learning Garden, and the Sioux City<br />

Garden Club.<br />

Up From The Earth exists to connect extra produce<br />

from home gardens to people in need.<br />

Photo Credit Lisa Cox (left page). Photo Credit Lisa Cox<br />

(this page, left column). Photo Contributed by UFTE<br />

(above).


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A kayaker is hanging out in his life jacket, sipping<br />

a bloody mary, and listening to live music as he<br />

peruses the organic offerings at the Farmer’s<br />

Market. He passes by people enjoying yoga on the<br />

new boardwalk down by the Ferris Wheel before<br />

kayaking home. This is not just a pretty story painting<br />

a picture. This is real life, and that kayaker personifies<br />

what Krissy Thiessen and Tracy Evans had in mind when<br />

they launched the market at Arnold’s Park.<br />

There are only five Farmer’s Markets in the USA you<br />

can boat up to. One is in Iowa and it’s a street party<br />

you can basically grocery shop at. Why hasn’t this<br />

always existed? The intent was to create a new market<br />

with an atmosphere that emulated the lakes area:<br />

high quality produce and craftsman items like those of<br />

Lakeside Woodworking, live music, kids’ activities, and<br />

more all right on the water on Lake Street. This must see<br />

experience occurs every Saturday during the summer<br />

and continues through the fall.<br />

“We started with around 15 vendors but continued to<br />

add on through the end of the first season and into last<br />

season. We were planning on 40+ vendors last year<br />

but COVID stomped on that a little. We’re hopeful this<br />

year we will have close to 40 vendors give or take!”<br />

commented Krissy Thiessen, Executive Director –<br />

Farmer’s Market in the Park and owner of Cherry Lane<br />

Farm.<br />

Investment in the Okoboji experience is abundant. Park<br />

goers now take picturesque strolls on the Norwegian<br />

kebony wood planks of a newly constructed boardwalk<br />

up to Preservation Plaza donning nine arches with 250<br />

programmable LED lights that are lit up when bands like<br />

OAR and Iowa legend Damon Dotson take the stage.<br />

Rachel Carlson, RE/MAX Preferred hosted bands<br />

like Smashmouth on the very same stage during her<br />

time in the marketing department at Arnold’s Park.<br />

Beautification of the area is prominent and at its apex,<br />

the renaissance of The Inn Hotel.<br />

There is something magical about hotels and resorts<br />

of the past. In 1896, The Inn was erected on West Lake<br />

Okoboji and was labeled “the hub of society,” ushering<br />

in what was coined, “The Golden Age.” The legendary<br />

resort enjoyed occupants from all over the region<br />

for more than a century. Marc and Mercedes Steffes<br />

decided to run it back. In honor of the Inn and a nod to<br />

its history, they wanted to introduce a modern version<br />

that embodied the magic of an earlier era. The design<br />

remained true to the Art Deco feel of its predecessor,<br />

while introducing next-level amenities including a<br />

rooftop pool and The Beach Club just steps away from<br />

Arnold’s Park.<br />

“The Beach Club transports lake-goers to<br />

the northern Caribbean in its heyday. Inside<br />

the sweet smell of rum infuses handcrafted<br />

cocktails, while the luxe interior, romantic lighting,<br />

and vintage sounds of Cuban Jazz culminate<br />

in an island-inspired speakeasy vibe,”<br />

stated Mercedes Steffes, owner<br />

- The Inn Hotel.<br />

So. Much. Awesomeness. Is this heaven? No…it’s Iowa.<br />

Jeff and Rachel Carlson, Carlson Group @ RE/MAX<br />

Preferred<br />

Carlson kids enjoying the Farmer’s Market.


Back in the day, when I was just a young<br />

boy, we took a ton of backroads to get from<br />

Okoboji to Sioux City. I would stay for a week<br />

a couple times a year with the Johnsons on Floyd<br />

Blvd. I remember their home seemingly sat on the<br />

highest point of Floyd and the massive sledding<br />

hills we were so fortunate to go down. As a kid,<br />

I felt like I was visiting a HUGE metropolis with<br />

trains, stockyards, and old buildings. Boy, what a<br />

transformation has occurred since then.<br />

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The trip is so much easier by swiftly cruising down<br />

Highway 60. We’re met with gorgeous new housing<br />

developments, golf courses, incredible retail,<br />

restaurants, event centers, the Hard Rock, and so<br />

much more. It is jaw-dropping for this non-local<br />

to see the progress and Sioux City’s opportunity<br />

for growth. It’s an exciting time to invest in the<br />

community and to be a part of a great team at RE/<br />

MAX Preferred.<br />

Okoboji Real Estate News<br />

The Iowa Great Lakes continues to be the<br />

most sought-after vacation home destination<br />

in the Midwest. We’re fortunate to live in an area<br />

that seems to have a shield against economic and<br />

housing concerns like other parts of the United<br />

States have faced the last 20 years. Property values<br />

continue to rise through market crashes, poor ag<br />

markets, and a worldwide pandemic. The real estate<br />

market in Okoboji this year was strong. Low interest<br />

rates have driven buying at a rapid pace.<br />

Inventory is at all-time lows. Let’s check stats.<br />

As of February 14, 2021 , there are only 3 homes<br />

on West Lake for sale and only 1 condo. On<br />

East Lake, 1 home and 2 condos. On the other 3<br />

connecting lakes, Minnewashta, Lower Gar and<br />

Upper Gar, there are zero, yes zero, properties on<br />

the market. Finally, there are 3 Big Spirit listings,<br />

and none priced at more than $450,000. I’ve<br />

never witnessed such a limited inventory in<br />

my life and front foot lakeshore is setting alltime<br />

records. Perhaps there is no better example<br />

Aerial view of The Inn.<br />

of how strong the market is than Bridges Bay. Between<br />

the hundreds of condos and cabins there, there are<br />

ZERO on the market. This is crazy. It’s a great time to be<br />

a seller, but can be frustrating to be a buyer.<br />

If you’re a buyer looking for your Okoboji dream home,<br />

I highly recommend working with a REALTOR. During<br />

a tough supply time, they can be your eyes and ears.<br />

If you’re one day late finding out about that<br />

new listing, you are simply too late. More buying<br />

opportunities are coming, but with a ton of competition.<br />

Though some people refer to the University of Okoboji<br />

as a mythical campus, nothing could be further from the<br />

truth. If you believe in the spirit of Okoboji, as everyone<br />

that steps their foot on campus does, you never want to<br />

leave. Summers are filled with endless fun for families<br />

and friends, and complete strangers develop lifelong<br />

friendships. If you aren’t ready<br />

to buy, then come for a week;<br />

visit all the local businesses that<br />

try so hard to make your stay<br />

memorable. We look forward to<br />

seeing you.<br />

Aaron Jones,<br />

Broker, RE/MAX Lakes Realty<br />

“<strong>Siouxland</strong>’s Gateway to Okoboji”


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