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STRENGTH<br />
Converse22<br />
Complexity of Strength............................................................................................................8<br />
Conversation About Strength...............................................................................10<br />
Seventy Years Strong....................................................................................................12<br />
Inclusive Peek................................................................................................................................14<br />
Nebraska 4-H Strong..................................................................................................18<br />
Positivity Can Strengthen Our Community.......................20<br />
I Yam What I Yam.................................................................................................................2 1<br />
Grow<br />
Balance<br />
Sit Pretty Bakery..........................................................................................................................28<br />
LEAD With STRENGTH in Purpose ............................................30<br />
Finding Your Strength as Entrepreneurs........................................31<br />
How Well Do You Know Your Business? CLAIM IT!...............32<br />
Explore Sioux City...................................................................................................................33<br />
Feelin’ Strong....................................................................................................................................35<br />
Building Our Own Form of Strength..................................................37<br />
Strong Resources to Help You Succeed.......................................39<br />
“She/He Is Strong.”.................................................................................................................40<br />
No Struggle, No Strength.........................................................................................42<br />
Ask the Therapist........................................................................................................................4 4<br />
Seasonal Cycles & Your Body: Springtime is for<br />
Liver Strengthening...................................................................................................................46<br />
“With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts.”<br />
– Eleanor Roosevelt
“You have power over your mind – not outside events.<br />
Realize this, and you will find strength.”<br />
– Marcus Aurelius<br />
Inspire<br />
Intentional Strength..............................................................................................................22<br />
The Tale of Two Organizations..........................................................................24<br />
Nurturing and Networking........................................................................................26<br />
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Keeping Spirits High at The Marquee.............................................48<br />
Body Love Warrior.................................................................................................................50<br />
Strength in Numbers............................................................................................................52<br />
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CONVERSE<br />
Jetske Wauran,<br />
People of<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> -<br />
Portraits of the<br />
Extraordinary.<br />
INSPIRE<br />
Dr. Cyndi Hanson,<br />
Executive Director for<br />
Northeast Community<br />
College’s Extended<br />
Campus.<br />
GROW<br />
Stacy Orndorff,<br />
Entrepreneurial<br />
Community<br />
Navigator &<br />
Stacy O. Speaks.<br />
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Show Host with<br />
Candice Nash.<br />
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Fully Licensed Office<br />
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Bales Office of Thrivent.<br />
Todd Rausch,<br />
SBDC Regional<br />
Director at<br />
WITCC.<br />
EXPLORE<br />
Alex Watters,<br />
Sioux City Council.<br />
University of<br />
Nebraska – Lincoln<br />
Nebraska Extension<br />
Educators.<br />
Up From the<br />
Earth Leadership<br />
Team.<br />
BALANCE<br />
Erin Bahrenfuss, Owner<br />
STRIVE Health + Wellness<br />
& Independent Certified<br />
OPTAVIA Coach.<br />
Dr. Meghan Nelson,<br />
Licensed Physical Therapist,<br />
Professional Yoga Therapist &<br />
Co-owner of Lumin Therapy.<br />
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Licensed Independent<br />
Social Worker &<br />
Co-founder of Soul<br />
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Grace Nordquist,<br />
Business<br />
Development<br />
Coordinator for<br />
Downtown Partners.<br />
Emily Vondrak,<br />
President for<br />
Sioux City Growth<br />
Organization.<br />
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Executive Director<br />
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<strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
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Editors Note<br />
It’s time to celebrate strength.<br />
The seen and unseen moments. The big and little triumphs.<br />
Especially those moments that it was all you.<br />
The moments where you took the next step.<br />
Celebrate strength and recognize it in all its forms.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | STRENGTH / 7<br />
“A hero is an ordinary individual<br />
who finds the strength to<br />
persevere and endure in spite<br />
of overwhelming obstacles.”<br />
- Christopher Reeve<br />
Strong is knowing when to say no or enough.<br />
Strong is knowing when it’s time to recharge your batteries, to<br />
self-preserve.<br />
Strong is knowing who you are and staying true to your values.<br />
Strong is following your internal compass.<br />
Strong is asking for help, at times having to borrow strength.<br />
Strong is bravery.<br />
Strong is being vulnerable. Staying open.<br />
Strong is being flexible.<br />
Strong knows when to be silent and when to speak.<br />
Strong allows for space, to rebuild what’s torn, to internalize<br />
before expressing.<br />
Strong is being accountable.<br />
Strong carries responsibility, giving more than you take.<br />
Strong is committed, no excuses.<br />
Strong pushes through for purpose.<br />
Strong is putting yourself out there and facing fears. Moving in<br />
spite of fear.<br />
Strong is bold and beautiful.<br />
You got this. ”<br />
Stacie Anderson<br />
Owner of Empowering Conversations LLC & <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
Certified John Maxwell Speaker, Trainer & Coach<br />
Passionate about Leadership & Communication<br />
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Complexity of Strength<br />
By Stacie Anderson<br />
Where does strength come from?<br />
Undoubtedly you’ve experienced a time in your life<br />
when you’ve felt anything but strong.<br />
I can’t even begin to count the times in my life when I<br />
felt defeated, when the weight of the world was heavy,<br />
and might I even say at times, unbearable.<br />
Despite the challenges that each of us has experienced,<br />
here we are, stronger for it. Although sometimes I<br />
know it doesn’t feel that way.<br />
“Strength doesn’t always have to roar.<br />
Sometimes it’s a quiet whisper that tells us to<br />
take the next step. From somewhere deep<br />
inside we mustered up enough strength to<br />
move forward.”<br />
We might not always recognize it when it shows up<br />
when we show up, but often in reflection, we see how<br />
we’ve risen. Even if it does take someone to point it out<br />
to us. That’s the complexity of strength - sometimes we<br />
know when we are demonstrating it and other times<br />
not so much. It has the ability to be subtle, showing<br />
up in a quiet way. From being patient, restraining our<br />
words or actions, to holding space for someone to<br />
even letting someone else have the credit or win. There<br />
is also the way in which at times we need to borrow<br />
strength, leaning on someone to help us through.<br />
While other times we lend it and give of it generously.<br />
It is complex. Sometimes in triumphant physical<br />
display while other times quietly evolving through<br />
personal reflection and work. External and internal<br />
thresholds. Resistance coming from our outer world<br />
and from within. It takes many forms: emotional,<br />
mental, spiritual, and physical. None of which are<br />
independent of each other. There is a multitude of<br />
ways that we can expand ourselves, push our limits,<br />
and become stronger. Humans have been testing<br />
our boundaries since the beginning. Whether we are<br />
deliberate about strengthening exercises or it was a<br />
result of an experience we’ve survived, in either case,<br />
we are stronger for it.<br />
Through adversity comes character,<br />
resilience, and yes, strength.<br />
We all have our own mountains to climb, but over the<br />
last year, collectively, we faced a global pandemic. We<br />
felt the isolation as we were encouraged to distance.
influence<br />
capable<br />
mastery<br />
Each of us experiencing life in a new way and facing<br />
our own set of obstacles. But we also saw strength<br />
demonstrated in how the community came together,<br />
showing support for one another.<br />
Community is a powerful source of<br />
strength.<br />
Certainly, we all have access to something within us<br />
that can pull us through in the darkest of hours. We<br />
find out what we are made of during these tribulations.<br />
Often it is in the space of nowhere else to go but up,<br />
that we find our power source. When we are tested<br />
and our backs are to the wall, it’s then, we find our<br />
strength.<br />
But sometimes the way out is too much to endure<br />
alone. It’s in these times that we need to ask for help.<br />
And in that, great strength is demonstrated. For too<br />
long we’ve denied the strength and courage it takes<br />
to ask for help. But no longer. We are evolving and<br />
shedding what does not serve us. In other words, we<br />
are learning our lessons. We are becoming stronger<br />
through authentic, transparent conversation and<br />
choosing the path that gets us results. In accepting<br />
help, we find our strength.<br />
On our own we are capable, but<br />
together we are so much stronger.<br />
The work starts with us. It takes a commitment to put<br />
yourself out there and feel the resistance. It’s musclebuilding<br />
- emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical.<br />
It asks us to expand, to be willing to embrace the<br />
process, to release the fear, or at least move in spite<br />
of it. Sometimes we find our strength at unexpected<br />
moments, but most of the time it comes with decision<br />
and determination.<br />
Commit to building strength.<br />
Make yourself a priority. You can not give what you<br />
don’t have. If you want to be there for others, if you<br />
want to be generous, you have to be plentiful. Taking<br />
time, actually prioritizing your time, so that you are<br />
building yourself up and strengthening your resilience<br />
is essential.<br />
We have a responsibility to one another. We also must<br />
be mindful that we have to love and respect ourselves.<br />
It all comes down to love. What we love and cherish,<br />
we protect and nurture. Love is the reason and the way.<br />
Stacie Anderson, Owner of Empowering Conversations LLC<br />
& <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>. Certified John Maxwell Speaker,<br />
Trainer & Coach.<br />
Photo Credit Photography by KJ<br />
Physical strength: The ability to apply force<br />
or resistance during a given task. To lift, move,<br />
carry, or pull objects without hurting yourself.<br />
Mental strength: To be able to focus over<br />
an extended period of time, through highs<br />
and lows, good and bad. To value your own<br />
opinions and respect those of others and<br />
formulating your own conclusions to questions<br />
based upon the ability and commitment to<br />
continued education and learning of the self.<br />
Emotional strength: The ability to embrace<br />
a wide array of feelings and emotions and to<br />
transition from one response to another with<br />
full awareness, comfort, and confidence to<br />
allow yourself to feel and express them.<br />
Spiritual strength: Is one’s commitment to<br />
personal values and virtues and the commitment<br />
to displaying them on a day-to-day basis. These<br />
virtues should be in the best interest of the self<br />
and of others. Respecting your own beliefs and<br />
accepting the beliefs of others.<br />
Justin Thomas Miller
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | strength / 10<br />
Erin<br />
Dr. Bennett<br />
Conversation About Strength<br />
This issue, our Conversation participants are Erin<br />
Bahrenfus and Dr. Paula Bennett, M.D.. Each woman<br />
will respond to the same five questions, providing you an<br />
opportunity to hear different perspectives and continue<br />
the conversation with your circle of friends.<br />
Erin owns a healthy lifestyle business, STRIVE Health +<br />
Wellness and operates it with her husband, Jeff. She is<br />
certified by OPTAVIA in partnership with The MacDonald<br />
Center for Obesity Prevention and Education (C.O.P.E.) in<br />
the M. Louise Fitzpatrick College of Nursing at Villanova<br />
University.<br />
Dr. Bennett has recently been working on the frontlines<br />
of the Covid-19 pandemic in several states and has<br />
witnessed the devastation of the disease. She attended<br />
York College in the City University of New York (CUNY)<br />
where she graduated Magna Cum Laude with a major in<br />
Chemistry while minoring in Spanish. She obtained her<br />
Medical Degree from the State University of New York’s<br />
School of Medicine and Biomedical Sciences in Buffalo—<br />
now known as the Jacobs School of Medicine. She is<br />
one of the founding members of the American Board of<br />
Holistic Medicine.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> (SM): When you hear the<br />
word “strength” what comes to mind?<br />
Erin Bahrenfuss (EB): Strength to me is an inner grit<br />
and discipline to do the hard and heart work to break<br />
through barriers and embrace obstacles. It is identifying<br />
areas of weakness and pursuing the tools, people, or<br />
programs necessary to improve. Strength is the ability to<br />
move forward after a setback.<br />
We grow stronger by showing up every day and keeping<br />
the promises we make to ourselves.<br />
Dr. Paula Bennett (PB): My favorite definition of<br />
strength is ‘the capacity of an object, substance, or<br />
person to withstand great force or pressure, and with it,<br />
possessing the emotional and mental qualities necessary<br />
in dealing with situations or events that are distressing or<br />
difficult’ —like those we’ve just been through and continue<br />
to experience as a nation. It is the ability to adapt to both the<br />
brutal and the gentle situations in which we find ourselves,<br />
emerging transformed and improved because of it on the<br />
other side!<br />
Strength is flexibility. If the reed will not bend, it will break.<br />
It is the ability to fight for what we perceive to be right—<br />
yet having the courage to realize we might be wrong,<br />
and the humility and strength of character to accept what<br />
is finally revealed to be truth. To understand that on our<br />
singular planet of 7.4-billion souls, we must learn to share,<br />
to compromise, and to appreciate the differences that<br />
surround us.<br />
Strength is asking for help when our pride would dictate<br />
otherwise, to endure with grace and dignity even whilst<br />
homeless and on the streets, or while transitioning on<br />
one’s deathbed with no family by your side. Strength is<br />
recognizing where we can make a difference with our<br />
unique gifts bequeathed to us by the Creator, and using<br />
them to make our cooperative lives better and more joy<br />
filled.<br />
SM: Why have you dedicated your life to the health<br />
profession?<br />
PB: I have known that I would become a physician since I<br />
was 8 years old, when my mother died. Perhaps this desire<br />
emerged out of not understanding why my mother left my<br />
sisters and I when we were so young. I had to be able to<br />
figure out why, and stop it from happening to anyone else.<br />
Even back then, I felt a strong tug within me to attend to<br />
those ill and suffering.<br />
In those days, growing up as a girl in Jamaica, the obvious<br />
career choice for a girl with my conviction was to become<br />
a nurse. However, some force compelled me to do more,<br />
to be more. Not even my father believed I could become<br />
a physician-healer, but I persevered, and I believed it was<br />
my destiny.
EB: There’s a fire in my belly that desperately desires<br />
to partner with women to create the very best version of<br />
themselves. We all have times when we feel knocked<br />
down, stuck, hopeless, and unhappy. In these times, we<br />
need someone to walk with us and to believe in us, until we<br />
believe in our own ability.<br />
It is my mission to be that HOPE in someone’s life. I want to<br />
prove to women it is possible to change the trajectory of<br />
your health and to create the life you desire.<br />
SM: What are the most difficult areas of life for you to<br />
maintain/display strength?<br />
EB: I struggle feeling strong when I’m experiencing<br />
something new or when I’m in a situation where I feel<br />
unqualified. When I’m not practicing positive self-talk, I all<br />
too quickly stop myself, or give myself a bailout plan before<br />
I even try. I know I have the strength to try and yet, the reality<br />
that I could fail can cripple me from even starting.<br />
It’s also difficult to display strength in times of vulnerability.<br />
It’s challenging to show the world my imperfections and<br />
insecurities. However, I know there is incredible strength<br />
in vulnerability. It is in our vulnerability that we connect<br />
with others and prove our authenticity. With vulnerability<br />
comes true connection, and with true connection, growth<br />
is possible.<br />
PB: Changing and removing limiting beliefs has been the<br />
most difficult area of my life to master, until recently. When<br />
I completed Medical School and Residency, I was filled<br />
with a great passion and conviction that the world needed<br />
changing—and I was going to change it! People needed to<br />
be healthier, but organized medicine’s strong foundation<br />
is in a disease-based model. My fervent belief is that we<br />
should focus on total well-being, rather than one disease<br />
diagnosis after another. But it became clear that I could not<br />
move a mountain that did not want to be moved without<br />
help. Over time, I began to lose hope. I began to despair.<br />
Over the last three years, I have fully embraced the<br />
words of the 13-th century Persian poet Rumi, who wrote,<br />
“Yesterday—I was clever, so I wanted to change the World.<br />
Today—I am wise, so I want to change myself”. I have come<br />
to realize that I have been as much a victim of my own<br />
subconscious beliefs as my patients are of theirs.<br />
SM: So many things in our world are polarized right<br />
now – including viewpoints on pharmaceuticals or<br />
natural remedies. In your opinion, does it have to be<br />
an or thing? Is there room for and in strong physical<br />
well-being?<br />
PB: I revere my practice in Integrative Medicine because it<br />
is truly the melding of two worlds. There are components<br />
of medicine that Western medicine has truly triumphed in<br />
achieving, while more ancient or natural modes of healing<br />
are unsurpassed in their ability to bring us into a place of<br />
balance. If you’ve just had a heart attack, modern medicine<br />
will save you acutely, more often than not. It possesses<br />
powerful drugs and interventions in its arsenal to bring you<br />
back from the dead—so to speak, and that is definitively<br />
called for in those circumstances. However, once you’ve<br />
recovered from the heart attack, using combinations of<br />
prescription medications and herbal regimens including<br />
adopting healthy food choices and a cadre of vitamin<br />
supplements has been extremely successful at restoring<br />
one to full health. Then with time, one may transition to a<br />
purely holistic course of management.<br />
I have had patients who have refused any pharmaceutical<br />
drugs after their acute phase of recovery and done well<br />
and those who have done poorly. I do believe there is room<br />
for both pharmaceuticals and herbal regimens in today’s<br />
practice of medicine; however, even more crucial than<br />
starting and stopping drugs is truly engaging our patients in<br />
the process of securing their own optimal health. They must<br />
have knowledge and understanding of the dysfunctions<br />
and diseases that ail them and must be allowed to be active<br />
partners in their plan for health. Afterall, they are the true<br />
healers of themselves.<br />
EB: It starts with taking personal responsibility for your<br />
health and evaluating your current reality. Then, you must<br />
take action to choose healthy routines and habits that equip<br />
your body with the strongest armor of defense possible.<br />
There are also situations where medication is necessary<br />
and should be viewed accordingly.<br />
Ultimately, you need to be willing to have an honest<br />
conversation with yourself and ask if changing daily habits<br />
would improve the situation. If yes, then do that. If not or<br />
even if for a season, medication is required to give your<br />
body the self-care it needs, you need to be willing to do<br />
that.<br />
SM: What else should our readers know about you?<br />
EB: I am not a health expert. (Yes, you read that correctly.)<br />
When you make a change, you don’t need an expert. You<br />
need someone you can trust who is a little further ahead on<br />
the journey to show you the way. I am a health advocate, a<br />
pioneer for healthy living and I am a work-in-progress.<br />
I am committed to my health journey and growing into the<br />
best version of myself so that I can authentically lead others<br />
to do the same.<br />
PB: I am Board Certified in Family Practice and will sit for<br />
the Board exam to the newly organized American Board<br />
of Integrative Holistic Medicine-ABPS in May 2021. I am<br />
divorced and live in Sioux City as an empty nester with my<br />
two children migrating home and away to college as their<br />
busy lives allow.<br />
I love travelling, the study of geography, and learning about<br />
other cultures. I have spent significant time in 46-states<br />
and in more than 20-countries around the world. I also<br />
enjoy cooking, singing, and dancing, as well as—writing<br />
poetry, short stories, and journaling, which I believe is one<br />
of the least expensive and most effective forms of selfpsychotherapy.<br />
I am a life-long learner and truth seeker.<br />
Photos Contributed by Erin Bahrenfus and Dr. Paula Bennett.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | strength / 11
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Seventy Years Strong<br />
By Jetske Wauran<br />
It’s a very special year for Irv and Sue Givot.<br />
This long-time local couple has not only overcome<br />
the first year of the global pandemic, but they are<br />
perhaps the longest living married couple in Sioux<br />
City, Iowa. After all, they’ve been married for 69 years.<br />
“We have done so well together,” Irv said.<br />
Over those nearly seven decades, they had two<br />
daughters and five grandchildren. After serving<br />
in World War II, Irv came home and took over the<br />
family-owned Westside Market grocery store as well.<br />
Sue said they never really had any big arguments, nor have<br />
they had any troubles during this pandemic except that<br />
Irv can’t drive anymore due to health issues. “And that’s<br />
just fine because now HyVee and Walmart deliver our<br />
groceries,” Sue laughed.<br />
“We get along so well. I love him with all my heart,” she<br />
said, “And I knew at first, I would be marrying him too.”<br />
On June 17, 2021, this Northside couple will celebrate<br />
their 70th anniversary, at the place they say they will always<br />
love the most: Sioux City.<br />
“I worked there before the war. My mother ran it for<br />
a long time, so for me it was an easy transition,” Irv<br />
said. “It was a great 69 years. I loved work, I loved<br />
the customers, I loved the challenges. It was the best<br />
decision outside of my marriage with Sue.”<br />
Irv, 97, said the keys to their marriage longevity are<br />
love and respect for each other. “She’s so perfect.”<br />
Irv said there was never a doubt in his mind that he<br />
wanted to marry Sue.<br />
Sue, 91, said she likes to spend quality time with her<br />
husband.<br />
“He’s always been a hard worker for our family and<br />
he makes me feel safe.”<br />
Irv and Sue Givot
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Conversations exploring perspectives<br />
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Hello, I’m Jetske<br />
Wauran and I am<br />
so excited to team<br />
up with <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>!<br />
This team effort will<br />
serve as an avenue<br />
to share my passion<br />
project, “People of<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> - Portraits<br />
of the Extraordinary.” I launched this project<br />
in September 2020, in hopes of inspiring and<br />
uplifting others in the most trying of times<br />
especially during the pandemic. As a visual<br />
storyteller, my mission is to connect with<br />
people who have made a true and profound<br />
impact in our community and write stories<br />
about the underrepresented individuals and<br />
hidden gems within <strong>Siouxland</strong>. You’d be<br />
amazed by how many there are! These are<br />
everyday people, from all backgrounds and<br />
walks of life, that are changing our world for the<br />
better. It is an honor to share their unique and<br />
remarkable stories with you. Stories that are<br />
worth encouraging, enjoying, and celebrating,<br />
and can fill our lives with positivity.<br />
Jetske Wauran is a professional photographer<br />
and an Emmy award-winning journalist who<br />
spent six and half years working as an anchor<br />
and reporter at <strong>Siouxland</strong> News. She has<br />
covered all types of stories from breaking<br />
news, presidential campaigns, uplifting stories,<br />
and much more. Jetske speaks Indonesian,<br />
and before moving to <strong>Siouxland</strong>, she lived<br />
in Southern California for most of her life. A<br />
community activist, Jetske is passionate about<br />
building bridges and creating a diverse and<br />
inclusive community.
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Inclusive Peek<br />
By Bernice Semana<br />
My name is Bernice Semana and I am an<br />
international student born in Kigali, Rwanda.<br />
I am a senior at Briar Cliff University majoring in<br />
biochemistry with a minor in business. I will graduate<br />
in May 2021 and will attend graduate school in the<br />
United States.<br />
What challenges have you experienced in<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
The language barrier was difficult, especially at the<br />
beginning. Sometimes people are not understanding<br />
that I, or other international students, come from a<br />
different place or a different background. This can<br />
happen for lots of reasons. It may be that the person<br />
hasn’t had the opportunity to travel or experience<br />
different ways of living. However, in this time in our<br />
world we each have the responsibility to educate<br />
ourselves. Even if travel isn’t an option, there are<br />
many ways to learn by attending cultural events,<br />
doing research online, and developing friendships<br />
with people different than you.<br />
Bernice Semana<br />
Coming to Iowa was a very different experience. I<br />
was awarded a scholarship to attend college here,<br />
so I took a big risk and decided to come. Being away<br />
from family has been difficult. Everything about my<br />
life in college is different from what I was used to.<br />
The teaching and learning styles in American school<br />
are different, the perceptions people have of me<br />
can be based on stereotypes or misinformation. I<br />
did my best to learn about the community I am in<br />
now, but have definitely experienced challenges in<br />
the process. I have experienced some racism during<br />
my time here, and it felt like I was taking two steps<br />
forward and one-step backward.<br />
How has <strong>Siouxland</strong> been welcoming?<br />
The Briar Cliff University campus has been a<br />
wonderful support group for me. There are other<br />
international students on campus, and we support<br />
each other. In fact, there was another student from<br />
Rwanda that helped me during my transition to<br />
Sioux City. There were other students that grew up<br />
in the United States that were also helpful and have<br />
become good friends. The staff and advisors at Briar<br />
Cliff have also made an impact on my time here<br />
and have encouraged me to keep working toward<br />
my goals. There have been people in the Sioux<br />
City community through my church and community<br />
groups that also welcomed me and mentored me.<br />
I have also had the opportunity to learn leadership<br />
skills through our Women of Color organization<br />
on campus. Together with the other women in the<br />
group we have held educational programs, built<br />
friendships, and supported each other.<br />
What do you want the people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> to<br />
know?<br />
The continent of Africa is a large and diverse place with<br />
many cultures and countries. Within the continent there<br />
are a variety of communities, cities, and rural areas. There<br />
is a diversity of languages, traditions, ways of making a<br />
living, and more. It is important for people to understand<br />
that even though I am from Africa, my life is not the<br />
same as others. It is the same as in other parts of the<br />
world or even the United States. Each person has their<br />
own unique story and experience. There are struggles<br />
and triumphs that each person carries with them. I want<br />
people to understand this diversity and take time to<br />
educate themselves about the various people within<br />
the community. People will benefit from developing an<br />
understanding and appreciation for differences.<br />
I also want the <strong>Siouxland</strong> community to know that my<br />
family is very proud and supportive of my educational<br />
and career goals. Even though we are a far distance<br />
apart, they remain a big part of my life. They take every<br />
chance they get to tell people about me and what I have<br />
achieved at Briar Cliff. I know they are proud of me and I<br />
want to continue to make them proud in the future.<br />
Despite experiencing some challenges along the way,<br />
I want the community to know that I am grateful for the<br />
people and opportunities I have come across. Being a<br />
leader in our Women of Color organization at Briar Cliff<br />
has especially made a positive impact. We have done lots<br />
of community outreach and events together. Being in the<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> community has given me access to experiences<br />
that have truly helped strengthen me as a person.
Inclusive Peek – En Espanol<br />
Berenice Semana, es una estudiante internacional<br />
nacida en Kigali, Ruanda. Berenice es estudiante<br />
de ultimo año en la Universidad de Briar Cliff con<br />
especialización en bioquímica con mención en<br />
negocios. Bernice se graduará en mayo del 2021 y<br />
asistirá a una escuela de posgrado en los Estados<br />
Unidos.<br />
¿Qué desafíos has experimentado en<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
La barrera del idioma fue difícil, especialmente al<br />
principio. A veces, las personas no comprenden que<br />
yo o otros estudiantes internacionales, venimos de<br />
un lugar diferente o de una procedencia diferente.<br />
Esto puede suceder por muchas razones. Puede<br />
ser que la persona no haya tenido la oportunidad<br />
de viajar o experimentar diferentes formas de vida.<br />
Sin embargo, en este momento de nuestro mundo,<br />
todos tenemos la responsabilidad de educarnos.<br />
Incluso si viajar no es una opción, hay muchas<br />
formas de aprender asistiendo a eventos culturales,<br />
investigando en línea y desarrollando amistades<br />
con personas diferentes a uno.<br />
Venir a Iowa fue una experiencia muy diferente. Me<br />
concedieron una beca para asistir a la universidad<br />
aquí, así que tomé un gran riesgo y decidí venir.<br />
Estar lejos de la familia ha sido difícil. Todo sobre<br />
mi vida en la universidad es diferente a lo que<br />
estaba acostumbrado. Los estilos de enseñanza<br />
y aprendizaje en la escuela estadounidense<br />
son diferentes, las percepciones que la gente<br />
tiene de mi pueden basarse en estereotipos<br />
o desinformación. Hice todo lo posible para<br />
aprender sobre la comunidad en la que estoy<br />
ahora, pero definitivamente he experimentado<br />
desafíos en el proceso. He experimentado algo de<br />
racismo durante mi tiempo aquí, y me sentí como<br />
si estuviera dando dos pasos hacia adelante y un<br />
paso hacia atrás.<br />
¿Como ha sido la bienvenida en<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
El campus de la Universidad de Briar Cliff ha sido<br />
un maravilloso grupo de apoyo para mí. Hay otros<br />
estudiantes internacionales en el campus y nos<br />
apoyamos mutuamente. De hecho, hubo otro<br />
estudiante de Ruanda que me ayudo ruante mi<br />
transición a Sioux City. Hubo otros estudiantes que<br />
crecieron en los Estados Unidos que también me<br />
ayudaron y se hicieron buenos amigos. El personal<br />
y los asesores y Briar Cliff también han tenido<br />
un impacto en mi tiempo aquí y me han animado a<br />
seguir trabajando para lograr mis objetivos. Ha habido<br />
personas en la comunidad de Sioux City a través de mi<br />
iglesia y grupos comunitarios que también me dieron la<br />
bienvenida y me guiaron. También tuve la oportunidad<br />
de aprender habilidades de liderazgo a través de<br />
nuestra organización Women of Color en el campus.<br />
Junto con otras mujeres del grupo, hemos realizado<br />
programas educativos, hemos construido amistades y<br />
nos hemos apoyado mutuamente.<br />
¿Qué quieres que sepa la gente de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
El continente de África es un lugar grande y diverso con<br />
muchas culturas y países. Dentro del continente hay una<br />
variedad de comunidades, ciudades y áreas rurales.<br />
Existe una diversidad de idiomas, tradiciones, formas<br />
de ganarse la vida y más. Es importante que la gente<br />
entienda que, aunque soy de África, mi vida no es la<br />
misma que la de los demás. Es lo mismo que en otras<br />
partes del mundo o incluso en Estados Unidos. Cada<br />
persona tiene su propia historia y experiencia. Hay<br />
luchas y triunfos que cada uno lleva consigo. Quiero<br />
que la gente comprenda esta diversidad y se tome el<br />
tiempo para informarse sobre las diversas personas<br />
dentro de la comunidad. Las personas se beneficiarán<br />
de desarrollar una compresión y una apreciación de las<br />
diferencias.<br />
También quiero que la comunidad de <strong>Siouxland</strong> sepa<br />
que mi familia esta muy orgullosa y me apoya en mis<br />
metas educativas y profesionales. A pesar de que<br />
estamos muy lejos, siguen siendo una gran parte de mi<br />
vida. Aprovechan cada oportunidad que tienen para<br />
contarle a la gente sobre mi y lo que he logrado en<br />
Briar Cliff. Se que estan orgullosos de mi y quiero seguir<br />
haciéndolos sentir orgullosos en el futuro.<br />
A pesar de pasar algunos desafíos en el camino,<br />
quiero que la comunidad sepa que estoy agradecida<br />
por las personas y las oportunidades con las que me<br />
he encontrado. Ser líder en nuestra organización de<br />
Mujeres de Color en Briar Cliff ha tenido un impacto<br />
especialmente positivo. Hemos realizado muchos<br />
eventos y actividades de alcance comunitario juntos.<br />
Estar en la comunidad de <strong>Siouxland</strong> me ha dado acceso<br />
a experiencias que realmente me han ayudado a<br />
fortalecerme como persona.<br />
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Inclusive Peek – In Somali<br />
Bernice Semana,waa ardayad caalami ah<br />
kudhalatay Kigali ee wadanka Rwanda. Bernice<br />
Semana, waxay dhigataa Jaamacada Briar Cliff<br />
University waxayna barataa biochemistry iyo<br />
ganacsiga. Bernice waxay qalinjabin doontaa<br />
bisha May 2021 waxayna sii wadandoontaa<br />
taqasuskeeda ee wadankan Mareykanka.<br />
Maxaa halgan ah oo kalakulantey<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
Somali- Luuqada ayaa idhibtey, qaasatan<br />
belowgii. Inta badan dadku ma fahmaan aniga<br />
iyo ardayda caalimiga ah inaan ka kalanimid<br />
meelo kaladuwan iyo dhaqamo kaladuwan.<br />
Arintan siyaabo kaladuwan bey udhicikartaa.<br />
Waxay noqonkartaa qofkani inuusan fursad u<br />
helin inuu safro ama nolol ka qibrad duwan<br />
mida uu kunoolyahey arko. Si walbaba ha<br />
ahaatee, waqtigaan iyo dunidaan aan kujirno<br />
waa masuuliyad nasaaran inaan iswacyigalino<br />
nafsadeena.<br />
Xataa hadaan safar ubixin, waxaa jira fursado<br />
badan oo lagu baran karo dhaqamada kaladuwan,<br />
sida adigoo kaqayb galaya bandhigyada<br />
dhaqamada kala duwan, adigoo macluumaad<br />
ka baaraya qadka tooska ah, iyo adigoo dhisaya<br />
xiriir saaxiibtinimo oo wanaagsan ee dadka<br />
kaladuwan.<br />
Somali- Imaashaheyga ee Iowa waxay aheed mid<br />
qibrad kaladuwan leh. Waxaan ku guuleystay<br />
deeq waxbarasho inaan machadkaan wax kubarto,<br />
isla markaasna waxaan qaatey go’aan halis ah oo<br />
wayn si aan meeshaan u imaado. Kalafogaashaha<br />
aniga iyo qoyskayga aad bey udhib badneyd.<br />
Waxkasta oo nolasheyda kusaabsan ee<br />
machadkaan wey kaduwanayd nolashaydii hore<br />
ee aan kunoolaanjirey. Habka wax loobaro loona<br />
barto ee wadankan Mareykanka waa nuuckale,<br />
fahanka dadku iga qabaan ee kusaleysan malo<br />
ama qiyas iyo macluumaad aan saxsaneyn.<br />
Aad ayaan udidaaley inaan barto bulshada aan<br />
lanoolahey, laakiin dhab ahaantii qibrad adag<br />
iyo halgan baan kalakulmey. Waxaan la kulmay<br />
cunsurinimo waqtigii meeshaan aan joogey,<br />
waxaana dareemey inaan labo tilaabo horey u<br />
qaadayo hal tilaabana gadaal u qaadayo.<br />
See <strong>Siouxland</strong> kuu soodhaweysey?<br />
Jaamacada Briar Cliff University kooxda joogta si<br />
cajaaib ah bey iitaageereen.
Waxaa kale oo jira ardey caalimi ah ee jaamacada,<br />
waana istaageernaa. Xaqiiqdii waxaa jirey ardey<br />
kale oo kayimid Rwanda oo icaawiyey waqtigii aan<br />
usoo wareegayey magaalada Sioux City.<br />
Waxaa kale oo jirey ardey ku kortey Mareykanka<br />
kuwaas oo icaawiyey kadibna noqdey saaxiibaheyga<br />
wanaagsan. Shaqaalaha iyo lataliyaasha Jaamacada<br />
Briar Cliff ayaa saameyn kuyeeshey waqtigeygii<br />
halkaan isla markaasna idhiiragaliyey inaan<br />
ahmiyadeyda sii wato.<br />
Waxaa kale oo jirey dad katirsan qoomiyada kunool<br />
magaalada Sioux City iyo kaniisadeyda kuwaas oo<br />
isoodhaweyey waxna ila toosiyey.<br />
Waxaan kale oo fursad u helay inaan barto xirfada<br />
hugaaminta ee barnaamijka loo yaqaan ama urur<br />
ka Dumarka Kalarka ee katirsan machadkan. Si<br />
wadajir ah aniga iyo dumarkale ee urur kan waxaan<br />
qabanay barnaamijyo wacyigalineed, waxaan<br />
dhisney saaxiibtinimo iyo in laystaageero.<br />
Maxaa rabtaa dadka <strong>Siouxland</strong> inay<br />
ogaadaan?<br />
Qaarada Africa waa weyn tahey waxayna<br />
leedahey meelo kaladuwan oo dhaqamo badan<br />
leh iyo wadamo. Qaarada dhexdeyda waxaa<br />
jira qoomiyado kaladuwan, magaalooyin, iyo<br />
dhul beeraley ah. Waxaa jira kaladuwanaansho<br />
luuqadaha, dhaqamada, habka nolosha iyo wax<br />
badan.<br />
Waxaa muhiim ah dadku inay fahmaan inkastoo<br />
aan ka imid Africa, nolasheydu ma ahan sida dadka<br />
kale. Waa sida qeybaha kale ee caalamka xataa<br />
Mareykanka. Qofkasta wuxuu leeyahay sheeko iyo<br />
qibrad asaga u gooni ah. Waxaa jira halgan iyo<br />
guulo qofwalba uusito. Waxaan rabaa dadku inay<br />
fahmaan kala duwanaanshaha isla markaasna ay<br />
waqti qaataan oo nafsadooda ay is wacyigaliyaan<br />
ee kusaabsan dadka kaladuwan ee qoomiyadaha.<br />
Dadku waxay ka faaidayaan horumarinta iyo<br />
isfahanka iyo isku mahadcelinta ee kaladuwan.<br />
ahmiyadeed. Inkastoo aan aad ukalafognahey waa<br />
qeyb weyn oo nolashayda kamid ah. Fursad kasta<br />
oo ey helaan waxay lawadaagaan dadka harumarka<br />
aan kasuubiyey Briar Cliff. Waxaan ogahey inay<br />
igufaanayaan anigana waxaan rabaa inay siiwadaan<br />
kufaanida mustaqbalka.<br />
Inkastoo qibrad adag aan soo maray, waxaan<br />
rabaa bulshadu inay ogaato inaan amaal u hayo<br />
dadka iyo fursadaha aan lakulmay. Ahaanshaha<br />
hugaanka ururka Dumarka Midabka leh ee Briar<br />
Cliff qaasatan waxyeelo wanaagsan bey igureebtey.<br />
Waxaan suubinay inaan laxiriirno bulsho badan<br />
iyo dhacdooyin isku imaansho oo badan. Inaan<br />
kamidnoqdo bulshada <strong>Siouxland</strong> waxay ii oogalaatey<br />
inaan waayo aragtinimo kahelo taas oo run ahaantii<br />
xoojisay aniga shaqsi ahaan.<br />
Bernice Semana, International Student (Senior) at Briar<br />
Cliff University<br />
Photo Credit Jetske Wauran.<br />
“Everything you do,<br />
do it with love.”<br />
– Bernice Semana<br />
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Waxaan kale oo rabaa bulshada <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
inay fahmaan in qoyskayga uu igufaanayo ina<br />
taageerayo waxbarashadayda iyo hadafkayga
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Nebraska 4-H Teen Teacher leading a lesson on coding with a group of youth.<br />
Nebraska 4-H Strong<br />
By Angela Abts<br />
Nebraska will be celebrating a strong 4-H youth<br />
development program in February. The 4-H<br />
program offers many strengths for youth, volunteers,<br />
and communities. Those strengths include building life<br />
skills through hands-on learning, growing confidence,<br />
resilience, and compassion, while adults provide a<br />
positive, strong environment. The theme for this year’s<br />
Nebraska 4-H celebration is Belong. There will be several<br />
opportunities for the 4-H members, volunteers, and<br />
supporters to celebrate in Dakota County.<br />
The 4-H Pledge is the strong backbone of the 4-H program<br />
that has been around for more than 100 years. The H’s<br />
stand for head, heart, hands, and health. The pledge has<br />
been recited at 4-H meetings and events for almost 94<br />
years. Let’s see what the pledge has to offer youth and<br />
adults.<br />
classroom, a cafeteria, a gym, a living room, an outside<br />
space, or online, learning can happen anywhere. One<br />
program in Dakota County that has a strong collaboration<br />
with the South Sioux City Schools is First Lego League (FLL)<br />
Robotics for the past ten years. Each year, approximately<br />
40 students compete in the experience, learning valuable<br />
life skills with Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math,<br />
while building, programming, and testing robots with more<br />
than 15 coaches and mentors.<br />
Virtual learning experiences increased through Nebraska<br />
4-H in 2020. New statewide programs, including Living<br />
Room Learning, Boredom Busters, Virtual Field Trips, Virtual<br />
Summer Camps, and many more, have been created and<br />
continue to expand in 2021. Statewide and community-<br />
We pledge our heads to clearer thinking.<br />
The 4-H programs are grounded in the belief that kids<br />
learn best by doing. Participants complete hands-on<br />
projects in areas such as science, healthy living, food<br />
supply confidence, community development, career and<br />
college readiness, leadership, and entrepreneurship,<br />
in a positive environment. Through these projects, they<br />
receive guidance from adults and are encouraged to take<br />
leadership roles.<br />
Nebraska 4-H is committed to supporting the youth in our<br />
state with hands-on learning. Whether it be in a school<br />
The 4-H Pledge is the backbone of the program. It is recited<br />
at 4-H events and meetings for the last 94 years.
ased online opportunities within 4-H continue to<br />
broaden this year for youth in classrooms, home school<br />
co-ops, remote learners, and afterschool groups.<br />
[More information can be found at: https://4h.unl.edu/<br />
virtual-home-learning]<br />
We pledge our hearts to greater loyalty.<br />
It is important for youth to know they are cared about<br />
by others and feel a sense of connection to others<br />
in a group. Feeling nurtured in a safe emotional and<br />
physical environment is essential to their development.<br />
It is also important for youth to see themselves as active<br />
participants in the future.<br />
Nebraska 4-H is committed to providing learning<br />
environments for youth that contain the elements which<br />
are essential to effective youth development programs.<br />
Belonging, mastery, independence, and generosity, are<br />
integral to designing high-quality activities for hands-on<br />
learning.<br />
University of Nebraska-Lincoln faculty/staff, as well as<br />
volunteers, are trained to utilize and to incorporate<br />
the Essential Elements into their work with youth. The<br />
elements help these individuals view the whole young<br />
person, rather than focus on a single aspect of life or<br />
development. When used, youth are more likely to<br />
become civically involved.<br />
[More information can be found at: https://4h.unl.edu/<br />
essential-elements]<br />
We pledge our hands to larger service.<br />
The 4-H civic engagement programs empower young<br />
people to be well-informed citizens who are actively<br />
engaged in their communities and the world. Youth<br />
learn about civic affairs, build decision-making skills, and<br />
develop a sense of understanding and confidence in<br />
relating and connecting to other people.<br />
Nebraska 4-H is committed to fostering youth’s<br />
commitment and contribution to their communities.<br />
Through service opportunities, young people in 4-H<br />
develop a caring attitude, which builds character.<br />
Throughout 2020, youth across the state have found new<br />
and unique ways to give back to their local communities.<br />
From sending cards and messages to residents of<br />
community care centers, growing vegetable gardens<br />
and donating produce, designing painted kindness<br />
rocks with uplifting messages, or ensuring local health<br />
officials are well-supplied with personal protective<br />
equipment, Nebraska 4-H participants have persevered<br />
by continuing to serve others, despite challenging times.<br />
This movement continues in 2021.<br />
[More information can be found at: https://4h.unl.edu/<br />
civic-engagement]<br />
4-H members, volunteers, and the communities benefit from<br />
the strong contributions provided by the 4-H.<br />
We pledge our health to better living.<br />
The 4-H healthy living programs empower youth to be<br />
healthy – body and mind – with the skills to make healthy<br />
decisions and lead healthy lifestyles. Having the confidence<br />
and skills to lead healthy lifestyles not only improves overall<br />
well-being; it enables youth to tackle life’s challenges today<br />
and become leaders in their lives, careers, and communities<br />
as they grow into responsible adulthood.<br />
Nebraska 4-H is committed to supporting young people<br />
during times of change. The unpredictability of the<br />
COVID-19 pandemic has changed and continues to<br />
change, the routines of many. The school and activity<br />
schedules, as well as important milestones, of youth in our<br />
state, have been altered this year.<br />
To assist caring adults who help young people cope, a<br />
series of articles focused upon “Supporting Young People<br />
Through Change” were written and made available in<br />
2020. Topics focused upon contributing in a changing<br />
world; creating a routine, coping, and connecting in<br />
changing times; finding comfort in a changing world; and<br />
identifying grief. All who work with and/or care for youth<br />
can provide assistance in helping young people cope with<br />
the challenges and develop into caring, connected, and<br />
capable adults.<br />
[More information can be found at: https://4h.unl.edu/<br />
supporting-young-people-through-change]<br />
How do you get involved with this strong<br />
program in Nebraska? Please contact a<br />
Nebraska Extension Office or visit the website<br />
at www.dakota.unl.edu or https://4h.unl.edu.<br />
Angela Abts, a 4-H and Youth Development Extension Educator<br />
with Nebraska Extension for the past 12 years, along with<br />
eight years with K-State Research & Extension. She focuses her<br />
extension programming working with youth audiences through<br />
school enrichment, afterschool, First Lego League teams, and<br />
traditional 4-H clubs in Dakota County and statewide.<br />
Photos Contributed by Nebraska 4-H.<br />
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Positivity Can Strengthen Our Community<br />
By Alex Watters<br />
Last month, staff with the state of Iowa’s<br />
Department of Cultural Affairs was in town<br />
shooting a video to showcase the newly<br />
renovated Warrior Hotel. They asked a group of<br />
city staff, community members, and two members of<br />
the City Council to gather virtually and present on the<br />
progress being made in our community. I welcomed<br />
the opportunity to present on behalf of the City Council.<br />
In doing so, I was so inspired and excited about the<br />
progress our city had made in 2020, even in the midst<br />
of a pandemic.<br />
For the majority of the year, I was focused on loss and<br />
sacrifice; however, for this brief presentation, I was<br />
inspired by what we had accomplished and once again<br />
looking forward to our future. In this magazine, you’re<br />
going to read about strength, so I want to share some<br />
of those accomplishments in hopes that they inspire<br />
you to think of what is on the horizon and how you can<br />
be a champion of our community’s strength.<br />
Companies expanded and invested in <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
Sabre Industries announced its plans for a $25<br />
million expansion to include a galvanizing plant and<br />
76 additional jobs. Standard Ready Mix built a new<br />
concrete plant for $7.6 million. CNOS opened a new<br />
Sunnybrook location, and Meridian Clinical Research<br />
relocated and expanded operations into Sioux City.<br />
We saw the opening of multiple hotel projects including<br />
the Warrior Hotel, the Courtyard by Marriott connected<br />
to the newly renovated convention center, and most<br />
recently, the Avid Hotel in Virginia Square. Numerous<br />
apartment complexes have started construction, are<br />
under contract, or recently opened, in addition to a<br />
record number of homes being constructed.<br />
Phase 1 of the riverfront redevelopment began, the<br />
Expo Center opened, eight pickleball courts were<br />
added to Riverside Park, and multiple trails were<br />
constructed or connected to ensure you will be able to<br />
stay active in 2021 and beyond.<br />
In addition, Sioux City Gateway Airport secured a<br />
direct flight to Denver, I-29 WAS FINISHED, and the<br />
city completed an $11 million renewable fuels project<br />
that compresses gas into a renewable fuel that is set to<br />
generate approximately $5 million for the city annually.<br />
I understand that there are certain things that we need<br />
to improve and continue to work on, but I’ve noticed<br />
that we as a community don’t talk about our successes<br />
nearly much as our shortcomings. Whether it is the<br />
journal or social media, it seems that when it comes<br />
to our community, we are often the most critical of<br />
ourselves.<br />
For example, I have heard the common claim that all<br />
we are building is hotels and car washes. However,<br />
when you look at it from a different perspective, the city<br />
does little, if anything, to recruit these businesses. Did<br />
you know that Silverstar Car Wash has invested more<br />
than $5 million throughout our community at their new<br />
locations? Our hotels are nearly at capacity for the<br />
weekend of February 20, when the Expo Center will<br />
host a 150-team volleyball tournament with The Arena<br />
Sports Academy, who will also be hosting a basketball<br />
tournament at their own facility.<br />
My point is this, if we want to continue experiencing<br />
growth, investment, and be the community that we<br />
hope to be, we need to start being a cheerleader and<br />
a positive voice for our community. If something is<br />
bothering you, please shoot me an email and allow me<br />
an opportunity to look into it. And the next time you’re<br />
feeling critical or negative about our city, and this goes<br />
for me as well, I hope we can reflect on all we have<br />
accomplished in 2020, a year of unforeseen challenges<br />
and innovation.<br />
Alex Watters, City Council of Sioux City<br />
awatters@sioux-city.org<br />
Photo Credit Jeff Gordon
I Yam What I Yam<br />
By Tony Michaels<br />
I am surrounded by great examples of strength<br />
in my life. That statement really hit home during the<br />
past year. Growing up, the notion of strength was best<br />
exemplified for me by watching Popeye cartoons on<br />
the weekends. But decades later, I realized my parents<br />
in the living room would be a much better example<br />
of strength. I included a picture of me with my “Pops”<br />
because my sister Victoria made a voyage to Poland<br />
a few years ago and found out we may be related to<br />
the real-life Popeye. I can totally see it. Can’t you? My<br />
parents sacrificed so much in their lives while working<br />
multiple jobs to give me and my sisters the best life<br />
possible. For that, I am very thankful.<br />
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I hope to carry on that characteristic of strength to my<br />
sons. If you read my articles in the past, you probably<br />
know about my son Trey, who happens to be pretty<br />
involved with his autism. How much strength do you<br />
think it takes to be non-verbal in a world that must be<br />
so confusing to him at times? Autism ain’t for weenies!<br />
My youngest son, Beau, is his strongest advocate at<br />
all times! He’s always by his side and leading a great<br />
example to others in his high school. I am very proud<br />
of both of them and how they flex their muscles to their<br />
world. I mean it’s gotta be easy for them. You know,<br />
we’re all related to Popeye. Shiver me timbers!<br />
My lovely wife isn’t as sold on the fact our bloodlines<br />
date back to Frank “Rocky” Feigel but she has other<br />
endearing qualities. A lot has been made about front<br />
line health care workers during the pandemic. I’ve<br />
seen very few reports about the importance of social<br />
workers during this very stressful time for <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
families. I’m happy to watch her strength as she has<br />
been an in-home social worker for more than a quarter<br />
of a century. I’m not sure what the burnout rate is for<br />
that line of work, but I’m sure it’s less than 25 years!<br />
She’s a rock star! Strong! I’m happy to call her my Olive<br />
Oyl.<br />
One good thing about the Huskers not winning much, you<br />
can buy matching $5 t-shirts! Tony and his father Dennis.<br />
I might go celebrate with a side of spinach. Shiver me<br />
timbers!<br />
Tony Michaels, morning host on “Tony and<br />
Candice” morning show (KSUX 105.7) and<br />
author of an upcoming book “Tacos and Beer<br />
Atmosphere”. Learn more at tacoswithtony.com.<br />
Photos Contributed by Tony Michaels.<br />
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At KSUX, I am amazed at how many nonprofits have<br />
made strong moves to completely pivot away from<br />
traditional fundraising events and go virtual, or some<br />
other creative outlet, to spread the mission of their<br />
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make such a positive impact on <strong>Siouxland</strong> residents.<br />
Working to help others may not afford you the luxury<br />
of driving a new Corvette, but I dare say nothing is<br />
stronger than to make the best life possible for your<br />
fellow woman or man.<br />
That’s exactly what my parents did for me. Corvettes<br />
and muscles are nice. But strength comes from within.<br />
It’s easier to learn that when you have great role models<br />
in your life. I am forever grateful.
Inspire<br />
Lessons learned from stories in our community.<br />
Austin and Shelby Pierce<br />
Intentional Strength<br />
By Michelle Lessmann<br />
When Austin and Shelby Pierce became husband<br />
and wife, their combined debt exceeded<br />
$100,000. The bulk of this number came from student<br />
loans from when they attended private colleges, Austin<br />
at Morningside College, and Shelby at Colorado<br />
Christian University in Lakewood, Colorado. Before they<br />
wed, Shelby requested they develop a personalized<br />
premarital counseling program to address various issues<br />
that plague most marriages, including money. That is<br />
when they were introduced to Dave Ramsey’s Financial<br />
Peace University Program. They took the program twice,<br />
once before they married and again to ensure they had<br />
laser focus to tackle their debt.<br />
Like many couples, Austin and Shelby took the Program<br />
because they wanted to start their marriage off right<br />
and take control of their money. In 2015, they made the<br />
decision to follow the program to eliminate their debt.<br />
Within five years, they made their final payment and<br />
became debt-free in December 2020. According to<br />
Austin, they “told their money where to go, instead of<br />
figuring out where it went.”<br />
The couple intently followed four main Ramsey<br />
principles in their quest to become debt-free. First,<br />
they developed a monthly budget and dictated where<br />
they would spend every single dollar they earned that<br />
month. They established categories including the typical<br />
food, rent, and utilities, then added items specific to<br />
them, including weekly date nights. They set the monthly<br />
budget, then followed it religiously. At the beginning of<br />
the next month, Shelby would copy and paste the previous<br />
month’s budget, make adjustments if needed, then repeat<br />
the process, month after month.<br />
Next, Austin and Shelby used Ramsey’s infamous<br />
“envelope system” converting from using credit cards to<br />
an all-cash system. They had physical envelopes for each<br />
budget item and each envelope contained the precise<br />
number of budgeted dollars. Shelby attempted to make<br />
the envelope system more palatable by decorating her<br />
envelopes. When the envelope was empty, plain or fancy,<br />
that category was done. The Pierces laughed that some<br />
months they would have 3 really nice date nights and<br />
then stay at home on the fourth date night because the<br />
envelope was empty, or do something small, like go out<br />
for Blizzards if only a few dollars remained.<br />
Another widely-known piece of Ramsey’s advice the<br />
couple implemented was the Debt Snowball effect to pay<br />
off debt. This system for attacking accumulated debt has<br />
one pay off balances from smallest to largest, regardless<br />
of the debt’s interest rate. Minimum payments are made<br />
on everything except the smallest balance, and the largest<br />
sum is paid toward that. Once that balance is reduced<br />
to zero, those funds are added to the payment on the<br />
second smallest balance until that is paid off, and so on.<br />
In this manner, debt reduction momentum builds and the
non-profit<br />
community<br />
family<br />
small business<br />
people<br />
snowball keeps rolling to reduce bigger and bigger<br />
balances until all are paid off. Shelby mentioned they<br />
followed this method for the most part, except for one<br />
balance had a higher interest rate than the others. She<br />
laughed as she said that really bothered her, so she<br />
jumped ahead and paid off that balance, then went<br />
back to the system to pay off the remaining debts.<br />
Austin chuckled, too, when he said they could picture<br />
the creditors becoming angry as the couple reduced<br />
the company’s earnings by paying their balances off<br />
early.<br />
Another piece of advice from the program caused the<br />
couple to share a laugh. During one of their sessions,<br />
the question was raised about an emergency fund,<br />
or how much cash they had on hand to use toward<br />
unexpected expenses. They looked at their bank<br />
accounts, quickly performed the math, and came up<br />
with only $151.90 (out of the Ramsey recommended<br />
$1,500). Yet, they knew they were ready to take on this<br />
seemingly impossible task of paying off their six-figure<br />
debt.<br />
Their journey wasn’t easy and, like everyone else in<br />
life, they had setbacks along the way impacting their<br />
plan. An unexpected car repair left them without<br />
transportation for a while and cut into their budget.<br />
They also had a relative move in with them for a period<br />
of time, which both said they would never change.<br />
There were also times when they felt like giving up and<br />
hoped for a magical fairy to eliminate all of their debt<br />
with the wave of a wand.<br />
In spite of all the obstacles they faced, the couple<br />
remained focused and committed to paying it all off.<br />
They relied on a few things to keep them going when<br />
they were ready to give up. They reminded themselves<br />
they knew it wouldn’t be easy and they were in it for<br />
the long haul. They stuck to their monthly budget and<br />
followed the envelope system relentlessly. Shelby<br />
kept her numerous spreadsheets so they could look<br />
back and see how far they had already come, which in<br />
turn, gave them the strength to keep going. They put<br />
together a support system to cheer them on and found<br />
accountability partners to push them when needed.<br />
They established a timeline with milestones along the<br />
way to celebrate as each was reached. They also set<br />
up small things to look forward to, such as going out<br />
for ice cream once an account was paid in full. They<br />
would intentionally put larger denomination bills into<br />
their envelopes, which would encourage them to hold<br />
onto them rather than spend them on small items they<br />
decided they could live without. Along the way, they<br />
Austin and Shelby Pierce<br />
have purchased two homes and have built their $151.90<br />
emergency fund into one that now contains more than<br />
$2,000.<br />
Shelby said they eventually found themselves looking at<br />
money as a tool to use and reduced the power that money<br />
had over them. Austin added that “debt is expected in<br />
our society; however, it is possible to live without it.” They<br />
said there are things they could have done differently<br />
to lower their amount of debt. For instance, consider<br />
attending a state university rather than a private college,<br />
pursue more scholarship opportunities, and take more<br />
high school classes that earned college credit, any of<br />
which could have saved them a lot of money.<br />
The final word of advice comes from Austin. He said<br />
that he looks back now and makes the assessment that,<br />
“we took something that seemed impossible and made<br />
it to be only extremely difficult.” The extremely difficult<br />
process helped strengthen their marriage, their peace of<br />
mind, and their tenacity to take on anything. The couple<br />
encourages anyone wanting to pay off their debts to be<br />
intentional, make a plan, and then follow it through. With<br />
some luck and a well-executed plan, they may become<br />
debt-free, too.<br />
Michelle Lessmann, a fully licensed Office Professional<br />
in Keith Bales office of Thrivent. She can be contacted at<br />
mrlessmann@hotmail.com.<br />
Photo Credit Jetske Wauren
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Erica DeLeon with Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong> speaks at a recent community gathering.<br />
The Tale of Two Organizations<br />
By Dr. Cyndi Hanson<br />
What makes a strong community? Economic<br />
stability? Educational systems? Accessible Healthcare?<br />
Low crime rates? Quality of life initiatives? I’m guessing<br />
one (or more) of these five traits is something important to<br />
you. According to the Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong> and Growing<br />
Community Connections, these are the five areas where<br />
focused improvement will produce a positive impact.<br />
The Five Focus Groups are: Economic Stability,<br />
Education, Health, Safety and Quality of Life.<br />
Growing Community Connections (GCC) and Source for<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> work together and the work is very interwoven.<br />
GCC is the communication arm and Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
is the data arm. Data needs to be communicated and<br />
focused goals need data. It is a wonderful match, led by<br />
Erica DeLeon and JoAnn Gieselman.<br />
The two entities engage in work referred to as “collective<br />
impact”. Collective impact is the notion that working<br />
together we are stronger than working independently.<br />
For a region that has a plethora of small non-profit<br />
organizations, the strength of collective impact is<br />
immense. Evidence of that impact is noticed when data<br />
is used to set goals and measure progress toward them.<br />
Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong> was born out of Comprehensive<br />
Strategy, an effort to collect data on positive youth<br />
development. Over time, the focus of data gathering<br />
has expanded; largely because youth development is<br />
related to so much more – economic factors, food security,<br />
employment, etc. Each year the organization put together<br />
and published a data book that compiled all the data one<br />
might need for grant writing, program development, and<br />
so on.<br />
Growing Community Connections grew out of a desire<br />
to bring people serving organizations together in a way<br />
that encouraged communication and collaboration. The<br />
group meets monthly and before the pandemic, was nearly<br />
outgrowing the meeting space. Since March of 2020, the<br />
group has used Zoom and Facebook Live to involve 100-<br />
150 partners in the discussion.<br />
The Growing Community Connections group has continued<br />
to meet via Facebook Live and Zoom monthly.
Growing Community Connections is open to<br />
anyone. Check out their Facebook livestream<br />
the first Thursday of each month at 10 a.m.<br />
As Growing Community Connections set strategic goals<br />
for positive community impact, it became obvious that<br />
data was needed not only to measure progress but also<br />
to determine the areas of need in the community.<br />
Gieselman said, “as the years have progressed, the<br />
stories of Growing Community Connections impact<br />
weren’t enough. Funders and participants began to<br />
need more than the feel-good impact stories – they<br />
wanted data to show working together was helping the<br />
community.”<br />
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At the same time, DeLeon explained, “Source for<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> was looking for a way to make the data more<br />
useful. We had a ton of data, but just publishing a book<br />
of data didn’t seem like enough anymore. We wanted to<br />
use it to drive change.”<br />
So, the conversation began two years ago, now five<br />
community focus groups have been established. “These<br />
five groups zero in on a specific social determinant<br />
of our community’s well-being. Using the data from<br />
Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong>, we can analyze what they think is<br />
happening and set strategic goals, then create action<br />
plans.” said Gieselman.<br />
“It is a circular process. A goal is set because of some<br />
data; then we look at what specific data can help us<br />
measure progress. We incorporate analysis of data now,<br />
not just reporting data,” added DeLeon.<br />
“The data comes from everywhere. Some of it is<br />
proprietary from <strong>Siouxland</strong> Cares surveys of middle/high<br />
schoolers since 1999. Some is from the US Census, state<br />
Departments of Education, Economic Development,<br />
Chambers of Commerce, Public Health, police chiefs ...<br />
basically anything tracked by a reputable source can be<br />
gathered and put together,” stated DeLeon.<br />
“Putting it together is extremely important in our Tri-<br />
State area,” Gieselman added “We need information<br />
from multiple sources to tell the whole story of our<br />
community. It helps to keep us accountable and to<br />
identify gaps we may not have expected to see or ask<br />
analysis questions we wouldn’t have thought about<br />
previously.”<br />
“The annual data showcase is designed to do just<br />
what JoAnn mentions,” DeLeon remarked. “We want<br />
people to look at the data book, and now we’ve started<br />
including some “did you know” data points at each<br />
month’s Growing Community Connections meeting too.<br />
The idea is to get people talking about data, thinking<br />
about it and using it to focus efforts.”<br />
JoAnn Gieselman receives an award on behalf of Growing<br />
Community Connections. Nebraska first-lady Suzanne<br />
Shore, presented the award recognizing the impact of the<br />
collaboration.<br />
The community-wide “0-3 Prime Age to Engage” initiative<br />
came out of a focused analysis of data regarding school<br />
readiness and health benchmarks. “People’s mouths<br />
literally dropped when they saw the trend,” said DeLeon.<br />
As a result, a focused multi-agency action team was<br />
assembled. In less than 3 years, more than 70 partners<br />
have engaged, and the community has won national<br />
recognition for the collaboration. While it’s just a little too<br />
early to see movement on the school readiness data; the<br />
impact is immense. You will find free books in scores of<br />
lounges and waiting rooms across the area – books kids<br />
are encouraged to take home with them. Billboards,<br />
commercials, and pediatricians are all promoting<br />
interactive play, talking, and reading to children age 0-3.<br />
This is the epitome of collective impact – together we<br />
achieve more than we do individually working in isolation.<br />
“Four states have a collective impact similar to this. In<br />
Nebraska, we meet as a state and a nation-wide group<br />
to look at what solutions are and what works. Data and<br />
collective impact work are important parts of it,” Gieselman<br />
added. Both echo – “we truly are stronger together.”<br />
Compilations of Tri-State data on everything<br />
from COVID-19 diagnoses to miles of trails<br />
and number of social clubs can be viewed at<br />
www.sourceforsiouxland.com<br />
Photos Contributed by Source for <strong>Siouxland</strong>.
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1st Friday Coffee at Springboard.<br />
Nurturing and Networking<br />
By Dr. Cyndi Hanson<br />
What makes the <strong>Siouxland</strong> business community<br />
strong and what can make it stronger?<br />
Collaboration is the one-word answer provided by<br />
Dave Bernstein, founder of <strong>Siouxland</strong> Venture Initiative<br />
(SVI). He goes on to explain, “People are generally<br />
proud to be from here. They want to help other people<br />
here succeed and continue to fuel that cycle: help<br />
people, get help from others when you need it. Some<br />
of it is paying it forward; some of it is receiving help<br />
when you need it.”<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Venture Initiative is a fairly new entity<br />
established when Springboard Coworking Space was<br />
looking for a new owner. The co-working space was<br />
established in 2013 and is now on its third owner,<br />
indicating the viability and need for such a space in<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>. Located at 700 4th street, Springboard<br />
provides individual offices and collaborative working<br />
spaces for entrepreneurs, freelancers, side-hustlers,<br />
and others who don’t want to rent a full office space<br />
or work from their home. “There’s great wi-fi, common<br />
worktables, and private offices. Although the private<br />
offices are all booked right now, you can rent a desk or<br />
a meeting room. It’s a great place if you have a sidebusiness<br />
and don’t want to meet your clients in your<br />
living room,” said Bernstein.<br />
When you are starting out with an idea and<br />
don’t know what resources (financial and<br />
other) are around in the community, it can be<br />
daunting. There are a lot of resources!<br />
In addition to the physical amenities, Springboard<br />
also provides the ambiance of creativity and<br />
collaboration. It’s not the small business incubator of<br />
the past. Bernstein notes that doesn’t exist in Sioux<br />
City anymore. It is a communal, sharing atmosphere<br />
that provides support for people just starting out, or<br />
those who don’t want to be isolated in their homes.<br />
“Springboard is just one component of a bigger<br />
umbrella for me of wanting to nurture entrepreneurial<br />
activity in the area. There are a lot of different resources<br />
scattered around, and <strong>Siouxland</strong> Venture Initiative<br />
(SVI) is built on the desire to bring some of it together<br />
in one place. There has been a group of us discussing<br />
the ecosystem for entrepreneurship here for quite a<br />
while. We know there is a need to connect people with<br />
angel investors, venture capital, but also mentoring<br />
and advice. We have all that here in <strong>Siouxland</strong> – we<br />
have forever,” said Bernstein.
As he served on the Iowa Economic Development<br />
Authority Board (IDEA), Bernstein saw a lot of earlystage<br />
development happening across the state.<br />
He came to understand the support and resources<br />
Iowa has to help new businesses. He saw most of<br />
the resources for start-ups going to Des Moines and<br />
university cities, not Western Iowa. One of his goals<br />
with SVI and Springboard is to bring more of that to<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>. His vision means an intentional focus on<br />
what is already here and helping to nurture it.<br />
“We are a bit asleep in some ways in this community<br />
when it comes to economic development in my<br />
opinion. We are primarily stuck in the old mindset<br />
of economic development focusing on bringing an<br />
established business from outside of town, often<br />
through a site selector. What I saw a lot of when on<br />
IEDA, is lots of business growth and development<br />
in Iowa comes from businesses already here and<br />
startups. Existing businesses wanting to grow and<br />
entrepreneurs spinning off of existing businesses<br />
or starting something new. We need to convey the<br />
opportunities and programs available to help them<br />
keep growing,” said Bernstein.<br />
Technology Commercialization Committee is<br />
a subcommittee of IEDA, focused on helping<br />
technology related concepts come to fruition.<br />
“There’s so much happening with technology.<br />
Especially in agriculture and food processing.”<br />
Says Bernstein who recently joined the TCC<br />
board.<br />
An advantage in <strong>Siouxland</strong> is the tri-state area. There<br />
are different structural advantages in each of those<br />
states depending on what you are doing. Some focused<br />
collaborations like The <strong>Siouxland</strong> Initiative, Iowa West<br />
Coast, and contests like Swimming with the Sharks<br />
and Entrepreneur-Fest are evidence that growing our<br />
own new business is valuable to our community, but<br />
they are somewhat siloed and not holistic.<br />
In discussing contests for entrepreneurs, Bernstein<br />
explained a key difference in perspective.<br />
“We should not be looking for the best ideas, we<br />
should be looking for all viable ideas. There can be<br />
1,000 ideas that could produce something great.<br />
Instead of making it a contest only rewarding the top<br />
few, I want to see us help all of the viable ones move<br />
forward. The programs are there, we need to harness<br />
the resources in this community to nurture this activity.<br />
There’s nothing wrong with the contests, but let’s not<br />
limit ourselves,” suggested Bernstein.<br />
SVI will tap into existing resources including the Iowa<br />
Technology Commercialization Committee (TCC),<br />
Sioux City Economic Development personnel, the<br />
Common space at Springboard.<br />
Iowa West Coast Initiative, and the Career Academy to<br />
help advance the ecosystem. Bernstein joined the TCC<br />
board in January.<br />
“We need to be catalytic here. I don’t want credit<br />
and I don’t want SVI to get credit, it’s a collaborative<br />
effort. We just want to create the space that provides<br />
an opportunity to learn from others in the community,<br />
bring in speakers, networking events, mentoring, etc.,<br />
etc. I don’t care where these activities are held but want<br />
to offer spaces that are inspiring if needed. I just want<br />
to encourage and support those starting up. We have<br />
good things going on in this community, we need to<br />
be sure we are doing what we can to nurture them as<br />
well. When you are starting out with an idea and don’t<br />
know what resources (financial and other) are around<br />
in the community, it can be daunting. There are a lot<br />
of resources. People here are friendly and willing to<br />
help,” said Bernstein.<br />
“It’s really one of our greatest strengths. Helping<br />
others is enjoyable . . . or maybe rewarding. Actually,<br />
yes, enjoyable and rewarding,” concluded Bernstein.<br />
Springboard Co-working space has day passes,<br />
monthly rentals of open or dedicated desk spaces.<br />
Learn more at www.springboardcoworking.com<br />
Photos Contributed by Springboard.<br />
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Don’t fear failure. Embrace it. It’s where the learning happens.<br />
No risk. No reward.<br />
Sit Pretty Bakery<br />
By Melissa Gritzmaker<br />
Short description of your business:<br />
Sit Pretty Barkery is a licensed and registered dog<br />
bakery. We cater to dog lovers who want to spoil<br />
their furry friends with something that tastes as<br />
good as it looks. We handcraft naturally good dog<br />
treats using only dog-safe ingredients. Our treats<br />
include personalized dog biscuits, special occasion<br />
cakes, mini pupcakes, donuts, pies, and more.<br />
Treats can be purchased online or by calling us to<br />
discuss custom orders. Wholesale offerings are also<br />
available.<br />
What motivated you to start your business?<br />
My brother and his wife, Curtis and Becky Gaskell,<br />
own Bed & Biscuit Doggie Daycare. They were in<br />
need of some special occasion treats for their holiday<br />
dog parties and<br />
birthday celebrations.<br />
Being the baker of the<br />
family, they turned to<br />
me. I have always had<br />
a passion for baking<br />
delicious treats for<br />
humans, so I thought<br />
I’d try my hand at<br />
baking for dogs.<br />
The treats were a hit<br />
right away! Everyone<br />
was asking where<br />
these custom dog<br />
treats were coming<br />
from because their<br />
dogs were going<br />
Bentley’s 1st Birthday.<br />
nuts for my fresh-baked goodness! After receiving<br />
many requests for custom treats, I decided to use my<br />
talent for creating droolicious treats and turn it into a<br />
business. I love being able to help people celebrate<br />
with their dogs by giving them a healthy and fetching<br />
little treat. Dogs are family and they deserve to be<br />
celebrated!<br />
What’s unique about your business?<br />
What makes this business unique is that we offer<br />
creative treats that you cannot buy at pet stores. We<br />
are able to personalize the treats with dog names<br />
and produce one-of-a-kind designs. It took a lot of<br />
trial and error to hone the recipes we use. We keep<br />
our ingredients simple and have no added sugar or<br />
artificial preservatives. Our treats are freshly baked,<br />
and the dogs go crazy for them!<br />
What’s the biggest challenge you’ve had to<br />
overcome as you’ve grown your business?<br />
We have spent the last couple of years combing<br />
through the regulations to be a licensed pet treat<br />
manufacturer. We follow the guidelines and each of<br />
our treats have been lab-tested and then the label is<br />
approved by the state. It has taken a lot just to set the<br />
foundation to start doing business.<br />
What has been your greatest reward?<br />
I have had customers thank me for my talent and tell<br />
me the treats look too good to eat. I believe dogs<br />
deserve pretty treats too! Seeing dogs gobble up our<br />
treats and having their hoomans share pictures of the<br />
celebration makes all the hard work worth it.
personal growth<br />
leadership<br />
determination<br />
business development<br />
influence<br />
How have you benefited<br />
from the startup community<br />
in Sioux City and the<br />
region? What resources<br />
did you use?<br />
I had the opportunity in<br />
November and December to<br />
participate in the Small Business<br />
Marketplace event put on<br />
through the Downtown Partners<br />
of Sioux City and Iowa’s West<br />
Coast Initiative. This event is<br />
designed to get new businesses<br />
into spaces downtown to help<br />
promote local shopping. I was<br />
able to host a pop-up shop in<br />
a vacant building downtown.<br />
It was a great experience to be Melissa, Owner, Sit Pretty Barkery.<br />
able to have an actual store for<br />
dogs and their hoomans to visit and pick out treats. Being able<br />
to interact with my customers in person was amazing and has<br />
inspired me to take part in more events.<br />
Why is it important for the community to support startups<br />
and small businesses?<br />
It is important to support and promote new and unique<br />
businesses to add to the attractiveness of the community and<br />
to keep it growing. A great way to help them is by providing<br />
cost-effective opportunities. This makes it possible for small<br />
businesses to get a foothold and stay in business. Participating<br />
in the Small Business Marketplace event really helped our<br />
business become better known.<br />
What advice would you give to someone looking to<br />
start a business?<br />
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lot of decisions to make at first and you are the one in control<br />
of it all. Also, pursue a business that you are passionate about,<br />
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How can the community continue to help your<br />
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With a small startup budget, it is difficult to afford much<br />
advertising. Having people share our Facebook and Instagram<br />
page @SitPrettyBarkery, tag us in pictures, or leave us a review<br />
helps to support our business.<br />
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We have recipes we are working on to offer more flavors<br />
and grain-free options. Our goal for 2021 is to do more local<br />
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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Grow/30<br />
LEAD WITH STRENGTH in Purpose – Grow Your Purpose<br />
During These Times!<br />
By Linda K. Krei (ActionCOACH ExcelEDGE)<br />
During uncertain times, great leaders continue<br />
to assess the environment, identify the emerging<br />
trends, look for opportunities to embrace and<br />
recognize threats to be managed.<br />
Appropriately so, great leaders also focus to ensure<br />
“safety” and “security”? When we let it, that focus often<br />
takes us to a reflective space where we simply want and<br />
need more. More of what? A recognition from within<br />
often creates an emerging need or pent-up desire<br />
for Purpose once again. Purpose for self, Purpose for<br />
others, Purpose with and among employees, customers,<br />
and communities. A need evolves to push through, to<br />
grow through and move beyond the chaos and crisis,<br />
becoming resilient as we live in the chaos and crisis.<br />
Getting grounded or maybe getting re-grounded in<br />
Purpose can become the compelling driver to become<br />
more resilient, to recognize once again that we still do<br />
and always will have a choice; a choice to engage and<br />
re-engage today, and in the times ahead. Re-engaging<br />
around a common Purpose propels us forward to<br />
Goodness.<br />
So, how does one Lead with Strength in Purpose these<br />
days? What does it mean to lead with purpose during<br />
this crisis? I have observed with many of our clients and<br />
those with whom we should partner, that this is a time<br />
when people are searching for and longing to be a part<br />
of something bigger than themselves. As a leader, invest<br />
in yourself and your team to create an environment to<br />
be Purpose-focused and Purpose-driven as the path<br />
to meaningful engagement or to re-engagement at a<br />
deeper level. Your “A” Team players already know how<br />
to do this. They want and need an environment these<br />
days that encourages them to do so.<br />
what would it mean to Live into our Purpose in three<br />
ways:<br />
• Doing what is expected of me and us as a collective<br />
group.<br />
• Inviting others to creatively partner around a shared<br />
purpose.<br />
• Going the extra mile, going above and way beyond<br />
what is expected.<br />
Create space today to simply ask and reflect upon what<br />
it would take for me to Lead with Strength in a deepened<br />
sense of Purpose. Purpose, and the desire for purpose,<br />
will build momentum to outlast this pandemic and<br />
become a sustainable force through any challenge or<br />
opportunity. It naturally evolves into a “way of being”<br />
and simply guides daily choices. We individually and<br />
collectively become better; an even better version of<br />
who we are today. BE x DO = HAVE.<br />
Take Action Today.<br />
Contact Coach Krei for your Complimentary<br />
Strategy Session to get you started.<br />
Think about the behaviors associated with finding<br />
strength in Purpose. What does that look like and feel<br />
like? It may be to declare Purpose before Profits and<br />
doing what it takes to demonstrate proof of Purpose<br />
before Profits; inviting others to demonstrate proactive<br />
engagement with Purpose in spite of and because<br />
of these challenging times. To literally find strength<br />
in Purpose and issue a rally cry for others to join you<br />
especially during times of fear and uncertainty. Help<br />
them BE CERTAIN that a Purpose-driven path will create<br />
the compassion, sensitivity and respect our customers<br />
and communities want and need. Abundance WILL<br />
follow. Abundance will be the measurable outcome.<br />
So, what are you and your team doing beyond the<br />
current “Now but temporary Unhealthy Normal” to<br />
push beyond to a New Purpose-Driven Normal? Simply<br />
start by identifying the key stakeholders for you and<br />
for your organization, your team members, customers,<br />
community members, and business partners. Then ask,<br />
As an award winning, globally<br />
recognized, Certified Executive<br />
Business Coach and Facilitator,<br />
Linda would love to help you take<br />
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E: lindakrei@actioncoach.com<br />
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Finding Your Strength as Entrepreneurs<br />
By Stacy Orndorff<br />
I’ve been talking to entrepreneurs lately about<br />
honing in on their strengths. From time to time, I can<br />
get lost in projects, roles, and even new business ideas.<br />
When I chat with entrepreneurs who’ve lost their way, I<br />
often encourage them to explore their strengths. Here<br />
are a couple of my favorite resources to help you explore<br />
where your strengths line up:<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Grow/31<br />
1. Strengths Finder 2.0 from Gallup and Tom Rath.<br />
Discover your Clifton Strengths by Don Clifton. “Pair<br />
this book with the online assessment (https://www.<br />
gallup.com) to discover your Top 5 Talents from a list<br />
of 34 themes. Loaded with hundreds of strategies<br />
for applying your strengths, this new book and<br />
accompanying website will change the way you look<br />
at yourself — and the world around you — forever.”<br />
I was first introduced to this book when I purchased<br />
it for an upcoming “no electronics 7-day vacation.” I<br />
took the test right before I left and used the vacation to<br />
really dive into my strengths and strategize about how<br />
to utilize them. This was during my transition from nonprofit<br />
director to founder of Coffee & Nosh and was<br />
instrumental in defining my role going forward. I found<br />
out I’m really good at activating people into action and<br />
driven by achievement. I was able to embrace my love<br />
of learning and utilize that to my advantage in starting<br />
a business. I thought some of the things identified<br />
were common in all people. Being able to identify<br />
these attributes as strength, really catapulted me to<br />
capitalize on these gifts.<br />
2. The Enneagram Institute. https://www.<br />
enneagraminstitute.com/ “Discover your type by<br />
taking the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator<br />
(RHETI® version 2.5). At its core, the Enneagram helps<br />
us to see ourselves at a deeper, more objective level,<br />
and can be of invaluable assistance on our path to<br />
self-knowledge.” Also, The Enneagram: A Christian<br />
Perspective by Richard Rohr.<br />
There are a ton of resources on the Enneagram:<br />
Books, Websites, Instagram Accounts, and more! My<br />
niece first introduced me to Enneagram on her path<br />
of self-discovery during her college years. Seeing her<br />
develop an understanding of herself and those around<br />
her convinced me to explore this more myself. I was<br />
able to take this understanding and apply it to therapy<br />
sessions to really work through some of my insecurities<br />
common with my Enneagram type and come out<br />
the other side emotionally and spiritually stronger.<br />
Additionally, it has helped me approach managing<br />
a crew of different personalities according to their<br />
motivations and ways they feel appreciated. Anyone<br />
working with people will benefit from understanding<br />
the Enneagram.<br />
A few more resources I recommend for<br />
discovering your strengths:<br />
Books:<br />
1. The Motivation Code, by Todd Henry<br />
2. Chazown, by Craig Groeschel<br />
3. Personality Plus, by Florence Littauer<br />
Podcasts:<br />
1. Unlocking Us with Brene’ Brown<br />
2. EntreLeadership Podcast<br />
3. The Reboot Podcast Jerry Colonna<br />
4. Typology with Ian Morgan Cron<br />
Stacy Orndorff, Stacy O. Speaks<br />
Facebook @ stacyospeaks<br />
Photos Contributed by Stacy Orndorff.
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Grow/32<br />
How Well Do You Know Your Business? CLAIM IT!<br />
By Grace Nordquist<br />
Downtown Partners is here for all of our<br />
downtown businesses, and one simple<br />
way we provide assistance is through our<br />
marketing efforts. If you are not utilizing the<br />
downtown website and social media, we can help<br />
you start.<br />
The downtown website features all of our 438<br />
businesses. Each of these listings has the unique<br />
option for business owners to “CLAIM” their<br />
business on the website. Claiming a business<br />
listing on our website is quick and simple. By<br />
claiming your business, you have access to keep<br />
your business information up to date. Then people<br />
will have accurate information when searching<br />
all there is to do in downtown on our website. To<br />
claim your business, simply follow these steps…<br />
• Go to our website: downtownsiouxcity.com<br />
• Search your business name<br />
• Scroll to the “Is this your listing?” and click<br />
“claim listing”<br />
• Create an account on our website<br />
• Enter your business information and hit “submit”<br />
claim your business listing on our website. If you have ideas,<br />
comments, questions, or concerns on downtown, please<br />
share them with us at info@downtownsiouxcity.com or give<br />
us a call at (712)-252-0014.<br />
Downtown Partners is a non-profit organization that works<br />
with downtown stakeholders to create a vibrant, expanding<br />
downtown. To learn more about Downtown Partners<br />
and to stay up to date on downtown projects and events,<br />
visit www.downtownsiouxcity.com<br />
Once you do this, Downtown Partners verifies and<br />
confirms the claim to avoid any fraud or scams.<br />
Once approved, you have access to update your<br />
page, post events, change hours, post specials,<br />
add images, and more!<br />
For an easy “how to” video on claiming your<br />
business listing, visit our website and social media.<br />
Another simple way to increase traffic to your<br />
business is through social media. If you’re active on<br />
social media (which we highly recommend), make<br />
sure you are following and tagging Downtown<br />
Partners when you post about events, specials,<br />
closings, etc. That way Downtown Partners can<br />
help you get the word out more efficiently. You can<br />
find Downtown Partners on Facebook, Instagram,<br />
Twitter, LinkedIn, and YouTube.<br />
As the new year emerges, Downtown Partners is<br />
excited to create new events and reinvent old<br />
ones, inspire innovative ideas, and continue to<br />
develop an expanding and vibrant downtown<br />
Sioux City. We can only do this by working together<br />
and communicating with you and your business.<br />
Let us help you! Follow us on social media and
Explore Sioux City<br />
By Ron Bower<br />
Hello <strong>Siouxland</strong>! My name is<br />
Ron Bower. I am happy to be the<br />
first Destination Manager for The<br />
Sioux City Regional Convention<br />
& Visitors Bureau, better known<br />
as Explore Sioux City. You may<br />
ask what a Destination Manager<br />
does? I like to say that I promote<br />
FUN! My focus is to attract<br />
potential sports tournaments,<br />
meetings and conventions, Ron Bower<br />
motorcoach groups, destination<br />
weddings, and business and<br />
leisure travelers to <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
The Sioux City area has so<br />
much going for it with unique<br />
attractions, brand new lodging<br />
options, state-of-the-art sporting venues, and some of<br />
the best food in the Midwest. It may take me awhile to<br />
try all the delicious food in <strong>Siouxland</strong>, but I’m up for<br />
the challenge.<br />
in Marketing and Communications. I promised my mom<br />
that I would finish college after not being successful the<br />
first time around. Word of advice, always keep promises<br />
made to your mother. In 2012, I started my career in<br />
tourism. I knew after the first week that this was what I<br />
was supposed to be doing. During my career I have been<br />
fortunate enough to promote destinations in Ohio, North<br />
Carolina, and Wisconsin. During this time, I also earned<br />
several tourism industry certifications as well as numerous<br />
marketing awards for social media and blogging.<br />
I relocated to Sioux City in December with my life partner,<br />
Tim, and our cat, Kluber. We were impressed with Sioux<br />
City the moment we visited. As I stated above, there is so<br />
much here. This place already feels like home. So, what do<br />
I like to do for fun? Well, I’m a comic book collector. I have<br />
roughly 500 comics. Superman is my favorite hero. I love<br />
1980’s music and movies. You’ll want me on your team<br />
for 80’s trivia night. Oh, and I’m a Cleveland Sports Fan.<br />
Yeah, I know. Don’t hold that against me, we Cleveland<br />
fans have suffered enough.<br />
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Now a little about me, I am a born and raised<br />
Midwesterner from Ohio. I lived there the first four<br />
decades of my life. In 2003, I went back to college<br />
and earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Business<br />
Administration followed by a Master of Science degree<br />
Lastly, thank you for welcoming me and my family. Midwest<br />
nice is certainly true in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. I look forward to getting<br />
to know this community and making it our home. Now I<br />
have to get Exploring!<br />
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Feelin’ Strong<br />
By Peggy Smith<br />
“Feeling strong is more important than being strong.<br />
Because you may be the strongest in the room:<br />
But if you are not feeling strong, Then you are gone.”<br />
– Mohit Aggarwal<br />
There have been a lot of situations I have<br />
encountered in my life that I look back on<br />
now and realize that I had the ability to make<br />
a difference, but I didn’t. Times that I could have<br />
been successful, but I didn’t think I had the ability, so<br />
I gave up too soon and failed. Things I could have<br />
accomplished, but I doubted myself, so I didn’t try. I<br />
can be my own worst enemy, and I bet that could be<br />
true of you too, at least some of the time.<br />
Why do we shoot ourselves in the foot? Why do we<br />
sabotage our own success? We often blame our<br />
weakness and our lack of confidence in ourselves on<br />
others. “My parents never encouraged me, and they<br />
made me feel like a failure.” “My classmates called me<br />
names and made me feel stupid.” I remember a hard<br />
lesson I learned a long time ago that made me step<br />
back and re-evaluate. I was grousing about what a mess<br />
my life was in, but how it certainly wasn’t my fault. It<br />
was because of the way “they” made me feel. I couldn’t<br />
possibly fix my problems because “they” made me<br />
feel worthless, helpless, inadequate and incapable of<br />
change. My friend pointed out the fact that my feelings<br />
are my feelings – only I can control them, no one else<br />
can. And if I choose to take those feelings on, they will<br />
become true. I will become worthless, helpless, and<br />
inadequate. Or I can take control and write my own<br />
story.<br />
What a lesson! He was right – the way we feel about<br />
ourselves makes all the difference and becomes our<br />
truth. The little engine that could, could - because<br />
he knew how to think - “I think I can, I think I can”.<br />
Confidence and trust in ourselves exude strength, and<br />
we gain it by learning to understand – and appreciateourselves.<br />
The old adage, “Fake it till you make it”<br />
reminds us that if we act confident and strong, people<br />
will look at us differently and treat us differently and<br />
that will cause us to be more confident and stronger.<br />
We will become what we try to be.<br />
Another great quote I love is by Brigham Young: “Why<br />
should we worry about what others think of us; do we<br />
have more confidence in their opinions than we do<br />
our own?”<br />
Strength comes from within – from our own decision<br />
to BE strong. Own your feelings, write your own<br />
story, and do not let others determine what you can<br />
accomplish. Be strong!<br />
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Building Our Own Form of Strength<br />
By Emily Vondrak<br />
Oftentimes, strength refers to physical ability,<br />
the power of one’s muscles. Sometimes<br />
it is handling a difficult situation well, not<br />
breaking down, keeping it together. But,<br />
frankly, sometimes strength is getting out of bed<br />
in the morning, brushing your teeth, and going<br />
to work. There are times even the smallest things<br />
require great strength.<br />
It is funny how our perceptions of strength have<br />
changed.<br />
A hundred years ago, strength was lying about your<br />
age to sneak into the military or staying home to<br />
raise children. “Strong” was mainly a masculine term<br />
and it meant you didn’t cry, you got up and threw<br />
some dirt on it. Strength was keeping it together, no<br />
matter what, and it was selfish to focus on yourself.<br />
Humans kept everything bottled up and put on a<br />
face when something was wrong.<br />
While a soldier and mother are still noble professions,<br />
as we have progressed as a society, we have<br />
learned more about mental health, equality, and the<br />
opportunities offered. We have learned to better<br />
take care of ourselves and others. We know that<br />
emotions and feelings are not a sign of weakness.<br />
And we know that it takes strength to overcome<br />
struggles with our mental health.<br />
Ultimately, strength is different for everyone.<br />
We all face different trials and tribulations. Some of<br />
us overcome homelessness, cancer, disability, and<br />
other difficulties others could not even begin to<br />
imagine. Those people are undeniably strong. But<br />
there is strength in all of us. Being a good parent or a<br />
good friend, taking steps to improve your health, seeing<br />
a therapist, or going back to school all take an immense<br />
amount of strength, too.<br />
I believe that we all build our own form of strength to face<br />
our own struggles. Hopefully, we can do our best to help<br />
others have strength, as well. To be there to listen, pick<br />
them up when they are down, be the shoulder to cry on or<br />
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Strong Resources to Help You Succeed.<br />
By Todd Rausch<br />
Strong Resources to Help You Succeed. Most people<br />
reading this are naturally strong individuals with a<br />
vision for their lives. If you are a business owner, you<br />
have the amazing internal strength to even launch<br />
a business. The question is, did you know there are<br />
strong resources to help you become even stronger?<br />
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To begin with, of course, I will talk about the SBDC.<br />
We are Federally and State Funded with one goal<br />
in mind, and that is to help you become successful<br />
in your business ventures. There are 1300 centers<br />
across the nation with 15 being here in Iowa, along<br />
with our State office.<br />
Our services are free!<br />
The center for this area is hosted by the truly amazing<br />
Western Iowa Tech Community College and my office<br />
is in the Corp. College building on campus in B113.<br />
Our phone is 712-274-6454 and our email is todd.<br />
rausch@witcc.edu.<br />
So, what can we offer? My answer is always the same,<br />
what do you need? Our primary focus is not on<br />
startups as many people think. Even though 30% of<br />
our time is dedicated to startups, we spend 70% of our<br />
time with existing businesses. We help them expand,<br />
access capital, and in many instances succession plan<br />
to exit their business.<br />
We do a lot of help with planning your business,<br />
whether it is a startup or an established enterprise.<br />
We do a lot of financial forecasting for our clients.<br />
We also do a lot of market research, not primary<br />
source meaning we don’t go around asking people<br />
questions. Ours is more database driven. We have<br />
access currently to four very good databases that can<br />
give us really solid numbers on markets.<br />
Also, amazingly sometimes, we are here only to be a<br />
sounding board. The last year especially we have been<br />
used simply to sound things out so an owner can talk<br />
an idea through. That is particularly rewarding as we<br />
encourage them to make decisions not on emotion<br />
but on strong data and judgment.<br />
One of the things we are most often used for is to<br />
connect owners with additional resources to meet<br />
their needs. Other resources in our area that are truly<br />
strong to help the small business owners include:<br />
Our awesome local Chambers of Commerce, The<br />
Small Business Administration, The USDA, The SEDC<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Economic Development Corp., our local<br />
economic developers, our local Revolving Loan<br />
Funds, our private Banks who are the primary source of<br />
lending for small businesses. Local lawyers, CPAs, and<br />
Insurance Agents are also very helpful.<br />
Also, the Iowa West Coast Initiative is a wonderful resource<br />
to help you. Iowa Source link is truly an awesome resource<br />
to help people. They are out of UNI. Other resources<br />
include Venture School from U of I and Startup factory<br />
from ISU. Our three-pitch off competitions are also a<br />
good resource for grant money and sound advice. Those<br />
include Dream Big Grow Here, Swimming with the Sharks,<br />
and Innovation Market.<br />
That is a small list of 14 resources that you can immediately<br />
reach out to. You can be strong on your own. It is simpler<br />
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Stay Strong in 2021.<br />
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Inside and out.<br />
Climb the Mountain.<br />
“She/He Is Strong.”<br />
By Erin Bahrenfuss<br />
When you hear this phrase, what comes to<br />
mind? Do you think of a shredded, weightlifter? Do<br />
you think of a cancer survivor? Do you think of a single<br />
parent who is showing up for his/her children, pursuing<br />
a career, and also fulfilling personal commitments?<br />
What about the parent who lost a child and finds a way<br />
to heal? Do you think about them?<br />
I sure do. I think about all of them. In each of these<br />
scenarios, strength is a factor. Strength encompasses<br />
areas in our overall well-being. It describes physical,<br />
emotional, spiritual, and mental attributes.<br />
For this example, consider me. Upon first glance, you’d<br />
say I’m strong because I am active, muscular, and<br />
embody a healthy lifestyle. You would be correct. I am<br />
strong physically.<br />
If you dove a little deeper and had a conversation<br />
with me, you would learn I own my own business,<br />
intentionally choose healthy daily habits, and am in<br />
fearless pursuit of a mission to grow individuals into the<br />
best version of themselves. With these facts, you would<br />
say I have a strong mindset and you would be correct. I<br />
am strong mentally.<br />
If we got to know each other on a deeper level, experienced<br />
a significant amount of time together, or empathized about<br />
a similar fire we each walked through, I’m sure you would<br />
agree that despite lofty barriers, I am a survivor. You would<br />
say I am emotionally strong and you would be correct again.<br />
I am strong emotionally.<br />
Knowing these truths would help you to see that I am a<br />
strong spiritual believer. My faith and relationship with my<br />
Heavenly Father are the driving forces in all I do. My purpose<br />
to provide health and hope is the backbone of who I am.<br />
You see, strength is such a multifaceted word. It’s a word<br />
often reduced to physical strength but it is more than that.<br />
Strength is an inner grit and discipline to do the hard and<br />
heart work to break through barriers and embrace obstacles.<br />
It means identifying areas of weakness and pursuing the<br />
tools, people, or programs necessary to improve. Strength is<br />
the ability to move forward after a setback.<br />
We grow stronger by showing up every day and keeping the<br />
promises we make to ourselves.<br />
Strong people have weak moments.<br />
Just because I am strong doesn’t mean I am perfect. In fact,<br />
sometimes, I feel weak…and that is quite alright. You can be
eathe<br />
clarity<br />
nutrition<br />
flexibility<br />
both strong and experience weak moments.<br />
I feel weak when I experience something new or when<br />
I’m in a situation where I feel unqualified. When I’m not<br />
practicing positive self-talk (which requires a great deal<br />
of strength), I am quick to stop myself or give myself a<br />
bailout plan before I even try. I know I have the strength<br />
to do hard things and yet, the reality that I could fail<br />
cripples me from starting. Ever been there?<br />
I feel weak on days at the gym when I can’t lift as much<br />
weight as I would like or even on the days when getting<br />
to the gym seems impossible. I am not always in control<br />
of my food choices and slip into old, bad habits. I<br />
experience times where meeting the expectations of<br />
others leads me into areas that are not good for me. I<br />
feel incredibly weak when I do not keep the promises I<br />
made to myself.<br />
One area that I know feels weak at the moment but<br />
requires a great deal of strength is vulnerability. It is<br />
challenging to show the world my imperfections and<br />
insecurities. However, I know it is in our vulnerability<br />
that we connect with others and prove our authenticity.<br />
With vulnerability comes true connection and with true<br />
connection, growth is possible.<br />
Strength is grown and it is grown on a lifelong journey.<br />
How do I grow stronger?<br />
Physically<br />
Make a commitment to yourself to move your body and<br />
elevate your heart rate for at least 30 minutes, every<br />
single day. You don’t need to run a marathon or climb<br />
a mountain every day, but you do need to move. Your<br />
body was designed for healthy movement.<br />
Set yourself up with a workout plan that will help<br />
you achieve your goals. This could mean seeking<br />
support from someone to design a lifting plan for<br />
you, downloading an app, or purchasing a gym<br />
membership, or fitness equipment for home use.<br />
Plan a schedule and block out the appointments<br />
in your calendar for when you will exercise. Set a<br />
realistic commitment for yourself and show up for your<br />
appointments. You wouldn’t cancel on a good friend –<br />
don’t cancel on yourself.<br />
Eat food that nourishes your body with key vitamins<br />
and minerals. Remember, food is fuel for you – it’s gas<br />
in the tank. You wouldn’t put cheap, inefficient gasoline<br />
in your vehicle so choose to replenish your body with<br />
rich nutrients that bless your body.<br />
Physical Strength.<br />
Mentally, Emotionally & Spiritually<br />
Spend time with people who are good for your soul. We<br />
greatly underestimate the weight of which our surroundings<br />
play into our emotional and mental well-being. You need to<br />
find people that want to climb the mountain with you!<br />
This might mean using the Unfollow button on social<br />
media, stopping outings with a crowd of people that<br />
leaves you feeling run down or unhealthy, or connecting<br />
with positive groups both in-person and online that share<br />
common interests. Establish these connections to occur<br />
regularly in your routine. Showing up for these events is just<br />
as important for your growth as showing up to the gym.<br />
Learn from encouraging, growth-minded mentors. There are<br />
countless influencers providing information about how they<br />
achieved what you’re dying to do. Utilize podcasts, YouTube<br />
videos, books, and other resources like this to lead yourself<br />
in the direction of your goals. By empowering yourself, you<br />
give yourself the necessary tools to be successful. As your<br />
confidence in these areas grows, your mind and emotional<br />
endurance will grow stronger.<br />
Remember this: You are strong. You are stronger than you<br />
realize and you have everything in you that you need to be<br />
successful. Embrace the journey and you will grow stronger<br />
every day.<br />
Erin Bahrenfuss, Owner STRIVE Health + Wellness &<br />
Independent Certified OPTAVIA Coach<br />
Photos Contributed by Erin Bahrenfuss.
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No Struggle, No Strength<br />
By Dr. Meghan Nelson<br />
It’s important to consult your physician or physical therapist<br />
before beginning any new physical activity. Always listen<br />
to your body and respect any warnings you hear.<br />
“Where there is no struggle,<br />
there is no strength.”<br />
– Oprah Winfrey<br />
Sadly, all are probably too well familiar with the<br />
struggles that we can face as a country, a community, or<br />
as family members. Nearly every person I speak to these<br />
days is stressed out, hurt, scared, or confused by the<br />
chaos, the unknown, the struggles we face throughout<br />
this nation with jobs, health, relationships, school, the<br />
list goes on. The heavy loads that we all carry during a<br />
global pandemic alone are enormous strains and many<br />
are getting hit with forces from all directions, on all<br />
fronts.<br />
But is all the stress we face in life a bad thing? Can a<br />
crisis illuminate opportunities?<br />
How can we grow stronger without the stress? I am<br />
hopeful that what has been broken will be repaired.<br />
Somehow those fissures will all draw closer, the divisions<br />
disappear, and strength rebuilt where the struggle was<br />
the greatest. We just need to connect back with our<br />
foundation, our own strength within for that sense of<br />
stability and confidence to handle whatever will come<br />
our way. We are all going to come out of this stronger<br />
than ever. I have to believe this.<br />
This protocol is based on Wolff’s Law, after the German<br />
anatomist and surgeon from the 19th century, which<br />
states that bones will adapt to the stress placed on them.<br />
As you increase the load or increase the stress and<br />
strain, the bone will continue to remodel itself stronger<br />
and stronger in all the areas where stress is applied.<br />
This law is why we emphasize the benefits of weightbearing<br />
and resistance exercises throughout the aging<br />
process. Because the inverse of this is true as well, if one<br />
decreases the amount of load put throughout, the bones<br />
will lose mass and density and become weak and brittle.<br />
We can give resistance through moving the body<br />
and limbs through space, against gravity, using our<br />
body weight as resistance, bands, or dumbbells. The<br />
power and strength we can get behind the muscular<br />
contraction can come through an increase in neural<br />
motor connections. In other words, if we focus and<br />
use the mind-body connection we can recruit a larger<br />
number of nerve endings to fire efficiently and attract the<br />
greatest force from the muscle groups. This comes from<br />
mindfulness and repetition—the more we practice, the<br />
greater the neural muscular connection.<br />
Let’s begin.<br />
“There is a crack, a crack in everything.<br />
That’s how the light gets in.”<br />
– Leonard Cohen<br />
This is how the physical body works. We will never build<br />
strength in our muscles if we do not put these tissues<br />
through some stress. If we want to increase the bulk of<br />
our muscles, we first have to tear them down a bit. With<br />
the stress and strain put upon muscles, small muscle<br />
cells or fibers may be torn. The body then responds<br />
by sending new muscle cells to repair all of the little<br />
microtears that occurred, bulking up muscle mass. The<br />
more we build that resistance over time, the stronger<br />
the muscle grows.<br />
Our bones work in a similar way: to increase strength,<br />
we must increase stress. For individuals who have<br />
suffered from bone fracture, the strength of the bone<br />
was unable to withstand whatever load was given.<br />
Through physical rehabilitation, we can assist the<br />
remodeling process of fractured bone after it begins<br />
to heal. Your physical therapist will gradually introduce<br />
weight-bearing and resistance exercises to your plan of<br />
care to build up the strength at the fracture site from all<br />
angles.<br />
Mountain<br />
Mountain: This pose is the essence of stability and<br />
foundation; it can be done in many positions and is<br />
often found in other postures or poses. Engage core<br />
by maintaining a neutral spine with the navel drawing<br />
inward. Legs and arms are fully engaged with an open<br />
heart. Feel connected and grounded to the Earth, while<br />
lifting your crown to the Heavens. Feel solid, strong,<br />
like a mountain, nothing can knock you down. Breathe<br />
in this moment stability and strength.
Boat (with variations): The goal again is to maintain that<br />
neutral spine like in Mountain. Reclining backward slightly<br />
will increase the load on the core but avoid going beyond<br />
the muscles’ ability to maintain that neutral spine. Numerous<br />
variations of this pose can include, arms helping to support<br />
the lift of the heart, feet on the ground, knees bent or<br />
extended. Try this pose in a chair with various positions of<br />
the legs and/or arms. Always keep your boat looking lovely<br />
and afloat with your heart center lifted. Do not compromise<br />
your spine in this pose by losing the neutral position and<br />
rounding throughout the back. Stay with whatever variation<br />
in which the core can maintain a long, neutral spine. With<br />
continued practice, the muscles will strengthen, and then<br />
you can advance to greater intensity if you wish. Breathe in<br />
this moment stability and strength.<br />
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Mountain chair<br />
Plank: Think about the strength of the Mountain<br />
pose for trunk and core, maintaining a neutral spine.<br />
Arms are extended out, bearing weight through<br />
hands to strengthen wrists, elbows, shoulders, and<br />
tone muscles of the arms. Options to start with low<br />
resistance by performing a plank at the wall, counter,<br />
or a chair. The more horizontal the body to the<br />
ground, the more gravity puts a greater load through<br />
muscles and joints. Breathe in this moment stability<br />
and strength.<br />
Medium boat<br />
Boat with chair<br />
Plank<br />
Big boat<br />
Plank with chair<br />
Dr. Meghan Nelson, a licensed physical therapist and<br />
professional yoga therapist with a passion for using yoga<br />
as medicine for optimal health, injury prevention, and<br />
overall health and wellness. Meghan is co-owner of Lumin<br />
Therapy, which provides integrative healing of the mind,<br />
body, and spirit through the practice of physical therapy,<br />
medical therapeutic yoga, and mindfulness.<br />
Photo Credit Britton Hacke Photography.
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Ask the Therapist<br />
By Gladys Smith<br />
Question: I’m struggling to adjust to all the<br />
difficult changes that come with what’s been<br />
referred to as our new normal. How can I<br />
tap into my strengths to adapt and deal with<br />
these changes?<br />
Response: This is certainly a challenging time to<br />
be alive! When our normal way of navigating life<br />
has been turned upside down, it can be difficult to<br />
muster the strength to keep going. It is during these<br />
difficult times that we are often propelled to not only<br />
tap into the strengths that we have, but to discover<br />
new ones.<br />
With all the changes we as a society have been forced<br />
to make, it can often feel as though our lives are out<br />
of control. When we find ourselves in this position,<br />
it’s difficult to feel as if we have any strengths, let<br />
alone know how to tap into them. One of the first<br />
steps you can take to regain your inner strength is<br />
to ensure that you have some semblance of order<br />
in your life. It can be helpful to develop and stick<br />
to routines for completing your daily tasks. Routine<br />
can add structure and a measure of predictability to<br />
your daily life, which will in turn lend to feelings of<br />
relaxation and calm.<br />
In order to tap into our strengths, it’s critical to<br />
pay attention to your thought life, as our thoughts<br />
impact how we feel about ourselves. When we<br />
think negatively about ourselves or our situation, it’s<br />
difficult to draw on our strengths. If you find that your<br />
thoughts are mainly negative in nature, it’s helpful to<br />
replace those negative thoughts with positive ones.<br />
I would suggest making a list of positive affirmations<br />
that resonate with you. An example might be, “I have<br />
within me what I need to succeed,” or “I have the skills<br />
to accomplish my goals.” When you notice that you<br />
are thinking negative thoughts, work to replace those<br />
thoughts with your positive affirmations. You will find<br />
that with practice, this can become an effective habit<br />
to help you better manage your emotions in difficult<br />
and trying situations.<br />
Developing ways to enhance your feelings of<br />
accomplishment is an important aspect of enhancing<br />
our self-worth and inner strength. It’s been suggested<br />
that one way to do this is to make daily or weekly<br />
goals for ourselves. I find it helps to write your goals<br />
down as a way to hold yourself accountable and to<br />
have a visual note of what you plan to do. I like to<br />
make lists of the tasks I want to accomplish as it feels<br />
good to be able to check them off my list. You’ll want<br />
to be careful that your goals are realistic, so as not to<br />
set yourself up for failure as this can leave you feeling<br />
defeated.<br />
Send Your<br />
Questions to<br />
the Therapist.<br />
As always, it’s important to make sure that you are<br />
practicing self-care as a way to cultivate your inner<br />
strength. With the hustle and bustle of daily living, some<br />
feel this is a luxury they can’t afford, while others feel that<br />
caring for themselves is somehow selfish. In the words of<br />
L. R. Knost, “taking care of myself doesn’t mean ‘me first’,<br />
it means ‘me too’.” Self-care can be practiced in a myriad<br />
of ways as it depends on what you find replenishes you.<br />
Doing things, even small things, that bring you joy are<br />
great ways to practice self-care. It’s also imperative that<br />
you are not only getting enough sleep, but that you’re<br />
getting good sleep. In the words of one of my wise<br />
mentors, good sleep is restorative sleep. Developing<br />
calming routines around bedtime can help to slow down<br />
your mind and provide a sense of calm, making it easier<br />
to fall asleep. Exercise, eating a balanced diet, and staying<br />
hydrated are also important ways to practice self-care.<br />
There are times in our lives when we can benefit from<br />
drawing strength from others’ examples. Think about<br />
the people you feel are strong and have modeled that<br />
for you. What did you notice about their actions, or how<br />
they related to you and others that conveyed strength?<br />
What can you learn from their example that can help you<br />
draw on your strengths in difficult situations? It can be<br />
helpful to talk with others in your life that you feel possess<br />
strengths you would like to develop. Don’t hesitate to ask<br />
them what strengths they see in you as we don’t always<br />
recognize the qualities that others see in us.<br />
With all of the changes our new normal brings to our<br />
daily lives, it’s important to ask yourself if you have truly<br />
accepted these changes. One sure way to zap your inner<br />
strength is to fight changes that you can’t control. I recently
found myself in a situation where I had to ask myself if<br />
I was resisting a change that was beyond my control. I<br />
finally realized that I needed to give up the fight, (which<br />
was making my situation worse), and practice accepting<br />
my situation for what it was.<br />
In her article entitled, “Four Ways to Practice<br />
Acceptance Every Day”, Amy Hillock, 2016,<br />
shares the following:<br />
Nix judgement – try to avoid thinking of<br />
situations as good or bad and simply see them<br />
for what they are.<br />
Acknowledge always – practicing acceptance<br />
means respecting the process and your<br />
current place, and also acknowledging that<br />
everything is or can be temporary.<br />
Start with self – a positive mind pushes<br />
you forward, and when you acknowledge<br />
that you’re capable of doing better, any<br />
shortcoming begins to matter less.<br />
Find the good – even though it may seem<br />
impossible, there is always something to be<br />
positive about. It may take some time and<br />
effort but developing the skill to seek out the<br />
positive is well within everyone’s ability.<br />
It’s important to note that accepting your situation doesn’t<br />
mean that you necessarily approve of what has happened,<br />
or that you have given up. It’s about acknowledging that<br />
what has happened cannot be changed without the ability<br />
to accept what has happened. The act of acceptance can<br />
free you up to be able to tap into your inherent strengths<br />
as well as to reveal strengths you didn’t realize you had!<br />
“Challenges make you discover things about yourself that<br />
you never really know. They’re what make the instrument<br />
stretch – what make you go beyond the norm.”<br />
– Cicely Tyson<br />
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with Mental Health Associates, who has over 35<br />
years of clinical experience in inpatient, outpatient,<br />
and residential settings. Although she provides<br />
therapy to adults and families, she specializes in<br />
working with adolescents who are struggling with<br />
mental health, behavioral and substance disorders.<br />
Gladys is a co-founder of Soul Creek Nature Therapy<br />
that focuses on offering peace and healing through<br />
a connection with nature.<br />
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The wood element symbolizes new growth in springtime.<br />
Seasonal Cycles &Your Body: Springtime is for Liver Strengthening<br />
By Emily Larson<br />
With spring upon us, it is my hope to offer you<br />
a great healing resource that is relevant to this<br />
season of growth and renewal. As intelligent<br />
beings, humans have developed strong and variant<br />
ways to heal our bodies as we take on the art and<br />
struggle of living. Our developed world today comes<br />
with quickly advancing technology and continuously<br />
updated research, which shows itself in modern<br />
Western medicine. We continue to find new ways to<br />
address many different illnesses and diseases when<br />
they find their way into our bodies.<br />
This important form of medicine also has an important<br />
compliment to ancient medicine. Since developers<br />
of ancient forms of medicine did not have access to<br />
advanced medical technology to treat disease, they<br />
had to utilize the natural world around them to help<br />
their bodies be well and prevent diseases that could<br />
be difficult to treat. One form of medicine that has<br />
truly withstood the test of time, with more than 2,000<br />
years of practice is Traditional Chinese Medicine. Since<br />
it draws great influence from the earthly seasons and<br />
elements, it allows us to connect and live in harmony<br />
with the Earth’s cycles since those cycles are strongly<br />
reflected in our own bodies.<br />
The Chinese calendar consists of five seasons, each<br />
of which has an associated earthly element and vital<br />
organ. Each season, element, and organ association has<br />
deeply interconnected properties and functions, which<br />
exemplifies the strength of our relationship to the earth. For<br />
example, wood represents new growth and all things living<br />
in spring. During the springtime, the Earth is concentrating<br />
its energy on utilizing the nutrients of the soil to grow anew<br />
from the darkness and cold of winter. Thus, the renewal of<br />
spring is associated with the liver as it is responsible for<br />
cleansing the blood via filtration, removal of toxins, and<br />
storage and distribution of nutrients to the body.<br />
The fire element represents heat and transformation in<br />
the warm summer months. The long, warm days energize<br />
our bodies and represent a time of peak power within the<br />
seasonal cycle. We can see the transformative quality of fire<br />
in the small intestine as it converts our digested food into<br />
nutrients and sends them directly into the bloodstream.<br />
The heat of blood circulation via the pumping action of the<br />
heart also embodies the element of fire.<br />
After a climb toward long, warm days and summer, the<br />
Earth reaches a more stable period during late summer<br />
in preparation for the harvest of fall and darkness of<br />
winter. The stomach and spleen are organs associated<br />
with cultivating nutrients from food in the initial stages of<br />
digestion, a foundational process in nourishing the body.<br />
Thus, these two organs are clear representations of the<br />
Earth element.
Autumn, which is associated with the metal element, is<br />
a time of organization and order for the harvest. This is<br />
when we collect everything that is pure and necessary<br />
and rid ourselves of anything unnecessary or a waste<br />
of energy. The lungs, which take in oxygen and expel<br />
carbon dioxide, share this same process with the colon,<br />
which absorbs water and eliminates waste. So, the<br />
refinement of pure minerals into the finished product<br />
of metal is also a representation of the autumn season.<br />
Water symbolizes the fluidity and tranquility of winter, a<br />
time of darkness and turning inward. Our entire bodies<br />
are great representations of water since this element<br />
is the foundation of our physical makeup in the blood,<br />
fluids, and organs. We embody water especially in<br />
kidneys and urinary bladder which function to filter our<br />
body’s fluids and purify them by expelling waste.<br />
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The strength of the connection between the Earth, its<br />
elements, and our bodies is also apparent in the herbs<br />
and foods naturally available during each season.<br />
For example, as we enter the season of spring, the<br />
sprouts and greens popping up around us are ideal for<br />
cleansing the liver. This is the largest organ of the body,<br />
its master laboratory, and storage site for essential<br />
vitamins and minerals. Thus, the high mineral content of<br />
spring greens makes them an ideal resource for a liver<br />
cleanse. The liver cleanse takes place over an eight-day<br />
cycle with seven days on and one day off.<br />
During this time, the practitioner consumes no meat<br />
with the main food source being an ancient Indianinfluenced<br />
dish, called khichuri, of sprouted greens or<br />
lentils and warming spices like cardamom, cinnamon,<br />
and garlic. Throughout the liver cleanse, the practitioner<br />
also takes tea with herbs that provide a high mineral<br />
content such as nettles, dandelion leaves, and milk<br />
thistle. Since the liver cleanse utilizes greens with<br />
relatively small particles and low toxicity, the body can<br />
easily digest and process them. The warming spices<br />
help further stimulate digestion while the herbs target<br />
and heal the liver specifically by helping to detoxify it<br />
and replenish mineral storage.<br />
In order to assist the liver cleanse process, the practitioner<br />
can also take mineral baths with warming herbs like<br />
yarrow, ginger, elderflower, or basil. Ginger especially<br />
can draw a strong healing response by stimulating a<br />
low-grade fever, which can help the body rid itself of<br />
old waste and latent illness. The practitioner can deepen<br />
the liver cleanse further by receiving lymphatic or deep<br />
tissue massage, which has detoxifying effects.<br />
After the initial seven days of the cleanse, the practitioner<br />
takes one day “off” on the eighth day by fasting,<br />
consuming only vegetable broth, and beet or carrot<br />
juice. After the eighth day, it is time for the practitioner<br />
to finally break the fast, but gently! It is best to start<br />
with a small, clean-ish meal, even though the craving<br />
for a greasy burger and fries may be strong. Cleansing<br />
The fresher the herbs, the stronger the tea!<br />
the liver in this way can have profound healing effects,<br />
especially if the practitioner adheres strictly to the food<br />
and herbal prescription. However, great liver healing<br />
can still take place when the practitioner simply finds a<br />
degree of the cleanse during spring that suits their own<br />
needs and availability. For example, simply incorporating<br />
the buffer tea and mineral baths during spring can be<br />
simple yet strong ways to find liver healing. Both of these<br />
resources are available for your own exploration at Mind<br />
& Body Connection.<br />
As with springtime and liver cleansing, we can also take<br />
the herbs and foods that are naturally available during<br />
the other seasons of the earthly year. By taking each<br />
season’s unique and naturally occurring offerings, we can<br />
address the healing of each vital organ of the body. This<br />
technique of the ancient Traditional Chinese Medicine<br />
practice exemplifies the profoundly strong connection<br />
we have to our Earth and its seasonal cycles. Working<br />
through this connection gives our bodies the ability to<br />
protect themselves from possible disease, be well and<br />
strong, and live fully in this one precious life.<br />
For any questions concerning seasonal cleanses and the<br />
Traditional Chinese Medicine practice, you are welcome<br />
to contact the Mind & Body Connection, and we will do<br />
our best to assist you in your own unique explorations of<br />
self-care and healing.<br />
Emily Larson, Licensed Massage Therapist, Private<br />
Yoga Instructor, Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology<br />
& Human Performance, Co-teacher of Anatomy for<br />
massage therapy students at the Bio-Chi Institute,<br />
mother to Noah.<br />
Photos Contributed by Emily Larson.
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Adventurous<br />
Mitch Martin, co-owner of The Marquee, with a few of his creations.<br />
Keeping Spirits High at The Marquee<br />
By Adrian Kolbo<br />
Early last year, just before the pandemic<br />
shutdowns, many event spaces and restaurants in<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> had just closed the books on a banner<br />
year and were expecting more of the same.<br />
One relatively young live music venue on Historic 4th<br />
Street, The Marquee, had been humming along since<br />
their opening in May of 2017. “We were just cranking ‘em<br />
out, national shows, regional shows, local shows, I had<br />
everything booked up until about August 2020,” says The<br />
Marquee co-owner Mitch Martin. “Normally we book 3<br />
months out. At that time I was booking out 6-8 months in<br />
advance and everything was looking great,” Martin said.<br />
At the time there was really no way of knowing what was<br />
in store for this community, and certainly no idea of how it<br />
would affect the events industry.<br />
“Come February 2020 we started hearing rumblings of a<br />
global pandemic. And then I remember hearing that New<br />
York (had) shut down, and then Illinois shut down, and<br />
then it was like, we’re on our way here,” he explained. It<br />
was clear that the shutdowns were moving inland.<br />
“Then on March 17,” he continues, “which is historically our<br />
second busiest night of the year - St. Patty’s Day - we got the<br />
word that we had to shut down by 12pm. I shouldn’t have<br />
been in shock because I had been watching it happen to<br />
other states, but I was just in shock.”<br />
As I write this it is officially just shy of one year later, February<br />
2021, and Martin now stands behind his bar in a black<br />
hoodie with a matching buff around his neck. He asks me if<br />
I would like a glass of water and I accept with appreciation.<br />
I can see that it’s been a challenging year for him, but I can<br />
also tell that he’s proud to be where he is right now.<br />
After what has now been a full year of unexpected twists and<br />
turns, it’s safe to say that major shifts are now just par for the<br />
course. Martin and his co-owners, Kelly and Nikki Quinn and<br />
Martin’s wife, Emily, have all had to act quickly, decisively and<br />
with intention in order to keep things afloat.<br />
“You have to be able to diversify and pivot, to recognize<br />
that we have to do something different if we are going to<br />
survive,” he explained.<br />
And pivot they did. Shortly after the shutdown it was<br />
announced that the state of Iowa would relax their liquor laws<br />
to allow drinking establishments to sell pre-batched and togo<br />
cocktails. This presented a new revenue opportunity for<br />
The Marquee and others with similar business models in<br />
town.<br />
“We’d been doing these Ultimate Bloody Mary’s with our<br />
house mix since we opened in 2017. Probably around fall<br />
of 2019 is when we did our first MitchSlap (Bloody Mary<br />
Mix), and then the shut-down happened and we were really<br />
looking for a source of revenue, we had nothing coming in,”<br />
says Martin.
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Once things really got moving, The Marquee was<br />
scrambling to keep up with demand for their premade<br />
MitchSlap Bloody Mary kits. “It would usually range<br />
between 75-100 kits. Those were in addition to the other<br />
drinks going out as well as cocktails to-go,” he says.<br />
“We were seeing people come in that had never been<br />
to the Marquee before, and saw our giant bloody mary<br />
with all this food on it on our Facebook page and just<br />
wanted to give it a shot. So it was really cool”, Martin says.<br />
His namesake bloody mary mix line now includes Regular,<br />
Spicy, Spicy Pickle, and Jalapeno Bacon flavors, all bottled<br />
and wax-sealed by hand at The Marquee.<br />
Recently, with the success of to-go items including canned<br />
cocktails, he’s added MitchSlap Marinara and MitchSlap<br />
Chili Starter mixes. ”All you have to do is brown some<br />
hamburger and put some beans in it and you’ve got a pot<br />
of chili. And our Marinara sauce, which is a recipe that I<br />
already like to make for my family, now includes a touch of<br />
MitchSlap,” he says.<br />
“My wife hates it because I’m experimenting all of the<br />
time. She’s like, can we please not have something tomato<br />
based today?” he says with a laugh.<br />
“At this point, I’m most interested in better understanding<br />
how I can get my “go-to” Bulleit Rye Old Fashioned “togo”.”<br />
“We make them all doubles,” Martin says, “because it’s<br />
a larger can, so it’s essentially two drinks. We’ll make the<br />
drink in the shaker like normal, we pour it into a can, seal<br />
it with our crowler machine, slap a label on it, you take<br />
it home and pour it over ice, and you’ve got your old<br />
fashioned.” Sounds pretty slick to me. But what if cocktails<br />
to-go and gargantuan Bloody Mary’s are not your thing?<br />
“We’re doing Sunday Fun-day and I was starting to get<br />
people ordering all of the food on the Bloody Mary with<br />
whatever brunch drink they really wanted. So [I thought]<br />
let’s do a Mimosa with a ton of breakfast food on it. Instead<br />
of a slider, a breakfast sandwich and a french toast stick.<br />
It’s a quick brunch and a drink in one. We call it Marquee<br />
Mark and the Funky Brunch,” Martin says with a laugh.<br />
When asked about other innovations and collaborations<br />
that have been helping to drive revenue during the<br />
shutdown, Martin is quick to bring up his Coffee &<br />
Cocktails collab with Alex Paulsen, owner of Nightingale<br />
Coffee. “We do this the last Sunday of every month. Alex<br />
has been really open to ideas and he’s very innovative.<br />
Every month it gets better and better,” he says.<br />
Good to know!<br />
IOWA TO-GO COCKTAIL RULES:<br />
The rules prohibit the sale of mixed drinks or<br />
cocktails to-go in paper or Styrofoam cups, or<br />
plastic cups that are intended for one-time use.<br />
Lids with straw holes or sipping holes are also<br />
prohibited.<br />
Containers of mixed drinks or cocktails to-go also<br />
must bear a seal that makes it apparent when that<br />
seal has been tampered with. The types of sealing<br />
methods allowed under the rules are heat shrink<br />
wrap bands around the cap or lid, twist-top caps<br />
that break apart when the container is opened, or<br />
vacuum or heat-sealed pouches containing the<br />
mixed drink or cocktail.<br />
As a sample of what types of drinks to expect, Martin offers<br />
up the Cold Fashioned as a favorite: a coffee-based take on<br />
an Old Fashioned that includes Cold Brew Coffee, Bulleit<br />
Bourbon, Bitters, and Simple Syrup, and is available to go<br />
along with the rest of the specialty menu.<br />
When asked to find a few positives to take away from this<br />
challenging time, Martin is quick to mention community<br />
support as first on his list.<br />
“Community support has been the #1 positive. Sioux City,<br />
per capita, the support they have for local business is<br />
unmatched in my opinion. I think they’ve really shown that<br />
they can support and help small businesses survive during<br />
this time. We’re very fortunate,” he says.<br />
And what is Martin most looking forward to in the coming<br />
year?<br />
“We will continue to do cocktails to-go. As the vaccines start<br />
rolling out and people are feeling better about things we’ll<br />
bring back more live music,” he says.<br />
“I’m just excited to hit the ground runnin and make it happen<br />
this year,” Martin says as I begin to pack up my things. “I’d<br />
rather be having shows with people hanging out, but we’ve<br />
proven that we will make it happen either way.”<br />
Adrian Kolbo is the Host of the Web-series Sioux City Foodie<br />
and Local F&B Fanatic.<br />
Photo Credit left to right, Adrian Kolbo, The Marquee and<br />
Britton Hacke Photography.
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Gill loves to capture images of her clients in beautiful natural settings.<br />
Body Love Warrior<br />
By Erika Hansen<br />
When photographer and body image activist<br />
Sarah Gill hit her own personal rock bottom in<br />
2017, she had no idea what journey awaited<br />
her. Or the changes she’d experience in her own<br />
development that would give her the vehicle to help<br />
other women transform their own body image and selfesteem<br />
- one picture at a time.<br />
“My own body image has always suffered,” said Gill<br />
during a phone call one chilly morning in January. “I’ve<br />
never been able to fully love my body and love myself<br />
because of that.”<br />
Gill was hospitalized in 2017 for mental health. It was at<br />
that point that a shift began to take place.<br />
Gill said she didn’t originally think about body image<br />
activism. But as she decided to invest in her own<br />
education as a photographer, she attended a workshop<br />
in Philadelphia. She had her photos taken by a boudoir<br />
photographer, an industry she had just recently entered<br />
after the brides she photographed started asking for the<br />
service.<br />
“The photographer in Philadelphia took my pictures<br />
as part of the class, and when I saw them, I realized,<br />
‘Wow, so that’s what I look like.’ Suddenly, I felt like I had<br />
permission to exist. And I realized I needed to do this for<br />
other people.”<br />
“Yoga teacher training coincidentally started two weeks<br />
after getting out of the hospital,” said Gill. “It was divine<br />
timing.”<br />
Gill said she found her power by immersing herself in<br />
the practice of yoga. Through breath and breathing, Gill<br />
said she realized she’s allowed to take up space, and<br />
developed the power to say, “This is who I am, and there<br />
is nothing wrong with this. Finding my voice, I realized<br />
I needed to give people the space I’d been afforded,<br />
so they could feel the same way.” And the momentum<br />
began.<br />
Clients express freedom and release during their sessions.
Boudoir photography is described as a photographic<br />
style featuring intimate, sensual, or romantic images<br />
of its subjects in a photographic studio, bedroom, or<br />
private dressing room environment. But Gill’s clients<br />
experienced a palpable shift in power after one of their<br />
sessions.<br />
“I’ve seen people go from quiet and shy, to immediately<br />
asking when they can book another session,” said Gill.<br />
“It’s hard to describe unless you witness it yourself. It’s a<br />
look in their eyes, the way they walk, the way they carry<br />
themselves, the way they interact with other people.”<br />
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Gill said some of the clients she sees have suffered<br />
various forms of abuse, and the photography session is<br />
a deep release of shame or pain that’s been buried over<br />
time.<br />
When asked about the most common misperceptions<br />
about what she does, Gill doesn’t hesitate.<br />
“Because I center a lot of my work on what I call<br />
‘marginalized’ bodies, I get a lot of comments like ‘You’re<br />
promoting obesity,’ or ‘You’re promoting unhealthy<br />
behaviors,’ and that’s simply not true. I’m giving people<br />
space where they can feel loved and realize there’s<br />
nothing wrong with them.”<br />
Sarah’s self portraits are unfiltered and authentic.<br />
Gill has backed up her work in the studio with a nowthriving<br />
Facebook group called Body Love Warriors.<br />
The online community supports one another, giving its<br />
members a safe space to voice fears, celebrate wins, and<br />
continue the mission of body-positivity. The group’s 2020<br />
Let Free Your Wild event raised money and collected<br />
goods to donate to the Safe Space in Sioux City.<br />
“We’re not only building community, we’re giving back<br />
to the community,” said Gill.<br />
She’s also used her yoga teacher training to offer body<br />
image bootcamp workshops.<br />
Gill hosts Let Free Your Wild retreats that include<br />
journaling, group support, body acceptance, and most<br />
importantly, healing. Her next retreat is scheduled for<br />
Breckenridge, Colorado, in September.<br />
Gill said she sees a ton of progress happening. Lots of<br />
work still needs to be done to arrive at the concept of<br />
body neutrality. But there is movement. She plans to<br />
make sure her Body Love Warriors are front and center<br />
of the positive shift.<br />
Sarah invites her clients to dress in whatever feels most<br />
comfortable.<br />
“I try to give people permission to exist as they are. We<br />
shouldn’t have to justify the way we show up in the world.<br />
That’s one of my favorite things to teach.”<br />
“Also, because I do take a lot of photos with minimal<br />
clothing, some say the subjects aren’t respecting<br />
themselves. But these people are reclaiming their<br />
sensuality and sexuality. Many of them are reclaiming<br />
their power.”<br />
Power seems to be a theme in all of Sarah Gill’s work. The<br />
images are stunning, and the (mostly) women in front of<br />
the camera appear incredibly comfortable; something<br />
that’s difficult to imagine in today’s ultra-filtered, ultrahappy,<br />
social media environment.<br />
Curious about exploring the connection between<br />
outward appearance and inner power? Erika is<br />
passionate about showcasing accessible style, and<br />
fostering a spirit of inclusion with no limits on age or<br />
body type. You can find more of Erika’s journey on<br />
Instagram, @erikahansen.official.<br />
Erika Hansen, a professional model, influencer, and<br />
lifelong lover of fashion.<br />
Photo Credit Sarah Ann Boudoir
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Appreciation of beauty is one of our greatest strengths as gardeners. Stop and smell the tomatoes! There is nothing more<br />
beautiful than a cool summer morning and buckets of ripe, red fruit.<br />
Strength in Numbers<br />
By Lisa Cox<br />
“By soliciting modest contributions from the<br />
many, we have produced a store of collective<br />
know-how with far greater power than any<br />
individual could have achieved.” In 2008, Atul<br />
Gawande published Better. It is a collection of medical<br />
essays. However, it is not the type of writing that one<br />
would expect from a surgeon at the top of his game. It<br />
is an introspective examination of details and, as others<br />
have said, compassion and humility. Why look back at the<br />
small things when outcomes are positives and numbers<br />
are up? Why pursue character strengths for the greater<br />
good? And what use to the world would these gifts be<br />
once discovered? Up from the Earth (UFTE) took a step<br />
back to dissect these questions for itself and saw great<br />
potential for growth in the Spring of 2021 and <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
volunteers.<br />
Since 2014, UFTE has been serving <strong>Siouxland</strong> with its<br />
creativity by harnessing the power of local gardeners<br />
to increase food security. During these six years,<br />
approximately 130,000 pounds of fresh fruits and<br />
vegetables have been harvested. This is a lot of food<br />
for families. Breaking it down, about 390,000 servings<br />
of fresh, seasonal, complex carbohydrates hit the<br />
tables of <strong>Siouxland</strong>. That is a big deal. This helps lower<br />
cholesterol, diabetes, heart disease, and reduces the the<br />
risk of stroke. We are also helping parents teach healthy<br />
lifestyle choices. Why does this not seem like enough?<br />
Honestly, according to the Foodbank of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, “Not<br />
only those who were food insecure before we heard<br />
the term COVID-19 or coronavirus but now countless<br />
individuals and families who are no longer certain of their<br />
paychecks are likely to need our help as well.” This means<br />
more families are in need now. Gardeners are starting<br />
to look ahead to bump up produce production for the<br />
summer. Even though our numbers are strong, and the<br />
collection sites and pantries are working together, we<br />
also need to assess our strength as a UFTE team. When<br />
we examine the details and inspect our actions, we can<br />
see how we can make them better.<br />
Sometimes the act of checking out the details reminds<br />
us of Bill Murray’s character in What About Bob? as he is<br />
about to go sailing, “but if your friend is a good sailor, and<br />
the craft is seaworthy.” Often, we rely on our judgment<br />
or the abilities of others. We seek people out who have<br />
certain skills or talents to help or assist. In the case of Up<br />
from the Earth, those with more computer proficiencies<br />
tackle the website, ISU Extension Master Gardeners seek<br />
out the gardens, and former teachers assist with public<br />
education. We see it as planting a garden with fertile soil.<br />
The interesting part is that these resources have a fluidity<br />
because they are connected to character strengths. We<br />
are strong not because we are gardeners, teachers, or<br />
other professionals. We are strong because we possess<br />
many of the VIA Institute on Character’s 24 Strengths of<br />
Character.
When you have a moment, check out viacharacter.org.<br />
Here is where you will find: Strength comes in many<br />
forms, and values like prudence, humility, and kindness<br />
are really good things to bring to the table. Take the<br />
ten minutes to learn what kind of signature principles<br />
are guiding your life. Which ones come most natural<br />
to you? Are you one of those people that ask lots of<br />
questions? Curiosity may be your strength. Similarly, to<br />
those diving into a task with their head are those leading<br />
with their heart. If you find yourself working at this for a<br />
longer period of time than ten minutes, you may have<br />
persistence or a Love of Learning. Often these two go<br />
together, combining like a recipe for chocolate zucchini<br />
bread. For those relentless individuals who seek to<br />
create something better than the original, you are UFTE.<br />
As a result, with the sage words of Dr. Gawande ringing<br />
in our ears, Up from the Earth is seeking the collective<br />
contributions of <strong>Siouxland</strong> gardeners and problemsolvers<br />
this Spring of 2021.<br />
Up from the Earth Harvest Heroes, Craig, Ron, and<br />
Dennis, at the Dennis and Barb Anfinson farm.<br />
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Likewise, if you appreciate beauty and have a sense of<br />
humor, there is definitely a place for you with us. We are<br />
seeking the gritty, the curious, the persistent. This year,<br />
when we plant, share, grow we want to know, are you<br />
Zesty? As we are a Hopeful group with Gratitude for<br />
the Kindness that <strong>Siouxland</strong> has shown UFTE’s last six<br />
growing seasons, we are looking forward to connecting<br />
people and having our numbers grow.<br />
To sign up, Go to:<br />
https://www.signupgenius.com<br />
go/904044BAAAA2BA6F58-upfrom<br />
Or stop by our Facebook page at:<br />
https://www.facebook.com/upfromtheearth/<br />
Or website:<br />
https://upfromtheearth.wixsite.com/siouxland<br />
Can you make a garden more organized, increasing<br />
the productivity? Taking the time to problem-solve<br />
strengthens a garden and its team.<br />
UFTE’s detail that we can do better is to gather a strong<br />
database of volunteers. The question is how do we expand<br />
this archive to have talents and skills that are inside and<br />
outside the garden realm during a pandemic? As Sonny<br />
would say, “We go to the mattresses.” No, we go to the<br />
technology! This year UFTE is starting a SignUpGenius<br />
for volunteers who have a passion for decreasing food<br />
insecurity in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. If you are physically strong<br />
and want to be a Harvest Hero or work in one of our<br />
community gardens, we need you. If you are a family<br />
that wants to volunteer as a group, we can connect you.<br />
Lisa Cox, an ISU/Woodbury County Extension Master<br />
Gardener, NATABOC Certified Athletic Trainer, and former<br />
high school teacher, combines her passion for education<br />
and gardening while seeking to understand the impact<br />
of food insecurity. She is active in UFTE, DKG, the South<br />
Sioux Cooperative Learning Garden, and the Sioux City<br />
Garden Club.<br />
Up From The Earth exists to connect extra produce<br />
from home gardens to people in need.<br />
Photo Credit Lisa Cox (left page). Photo Credit Lisa Cox<br />
(this page, left column). Photo Contributed by UFTE<br />
(above).
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A kayaker is hanging out in his life jacket, sipping<br />
a bloody mary, and listening to live music as he<br />
peruses the organic offerings at the Farmer’s<br />
Market. He passes by people enjoying yoga on the<br />
new boardwalk down by the Ferris Wheel before<br />
kayaking home. This is not just a pretty story painting<br />
a picture. This is real life, and that kayaker personifies<br />
what Krissy Thiessen and Tracy Evans had in mind when<br />
they launched the market at Arnold’s Park.<br />
There are only five Farmer’s Markets in the USA you<br />
can boat up to. One is in Iowa and it’s a street party<br />
you can basically grocery shop at. Why hasn’t this<br />
always existed? The intent was to create a new market<br />
with an atmosphere that emulated the lakes area:<br />
high quality produce and craftsman items like those of<br />
Lakeside Woodworking, live music, kids’ activities, and<br />
more all right on the water on Lake Street. This must see<br />
experience occurs every Saturday during the summer<br />
and continues through the fall.<br />
“We started with around 15 vendors but continued to<br />
add on through the end of the first season and into last<br />
season. We were planning on 40+ vendors last year<br />
but COVID stomped on that a little. We’re hopeful this<br />
year we will have close to 40 vendors give or take!”<br />
commented Krissy Thiessen, Executive Director –<br />
Farmer’s Market in the Park and owner of Cherry Lane<br />
Farm.<br />
Investment in the Okoboji experience is abundant. Park<br />
goers now take picturesque strolls on the Norwegian<br />
kebony wood planks of a newly constructed boardwalk<br />
up to Preservation Plaza donning nine arches with 250<br />
programmable LED lights that are lit up when bands like<br />
OAR and Iowa legend Damon Dotson take the stage.<br />
Rachel Carlson, RE/MAX Preferred hosted bands<br />
like Smashmouth on the very same stage during her<br />
time in the marketing department at Arnold’s Park.<br />
Beautification of the area is prominent and at its apex,<br />
the renaissance of The Inn Hotel.<br />
There is something magical about hotels and resorts<br />
of the past. In 1896, The Inn was erected on West Lake<br />
Okoboji and was labeled “the hub of society,” ushering<br />
in what was coined, “The Golden Age.” The legendary<br />
resort enjoyed occupants from all over the region<br />
for more than a century. Marc and Mercedes Steffes<br />
decided to run it back. In honor of the Inn and a nod to<br />
its history, they wanted to introduce a modern version<br />
that embodied the magic of an earlier era. The design<br />
remained true to the Art Deco feel of its predecessor,<br />
while introducing next-level amenities including a<br />
rooftop pool and The Beach Club just steps away from<br />
Arnold’s Park.<br />
“The Beach Club transports lake-goers to<br />
the northern Caribbean in its heyday. Inside<br />
the sweet smell of rum infuses handcrafted<br />
cocktails, while the luxe interior, romantic lighting,<br />
and vintage sounds of Cuban Jazz culminate<br />
in an island-inspired speakeasy vibe,”<br />
stated Mercedes Steffes, owner<br />
- The Inn Hotel.<br />
So. Much. Awesomeness. Is this heaven? No…it’s Iowa.<br />
Jeff and Rachel Carlson, Carlson Group @ RE/MAX<br />
Preferred<br />
Carlson kids enjoying the Farmer’s Market.
Back in the day, when I was just a young<br />
boy, we took a ton of backroads to get from<br />
Okoboji to Sioux City. I would stay for a week<br />
a couple times a year with the Johnsons on Floyd<br />
Blvd. I remember their home seemingly sat on the<br />
highest point of Floyd and the massive sledding<br />
hills we were so fortunate to go down. As a kid,<br />
I felt like I was visiting a HUGE metropolis with<br />
trains, stockyards, and old buildings. Boy, what a<br />
transformation has occurred since then.<br />
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The trip is so much easier by swiftly cruising down<br />
Highway 60. We’re met with gorgeous new housing<br />
developments, golf courses, incredible retail,<br />
restaurants, event centers, the Hard Rock, and so<br />
much more. It is jaw-dropping for this non-local<br />
to see the progress and Sioux City’s opportunity<br />
for growth. It’s an exciting time to invest in the<br />
community and to be a part of a great team at RE/<br />
MAX Preferred.<br />
Okoboji Real Estate News<br />
The Iowa Great Lakes continues to be the<br />
most sought-after vacation home destination<br />
in the Midwest. We’re fortunate to live in an area<br />
that seems to have a shield against economic and<br />
housing concerns like other parts of the United<br />
States have faced the last 20 years. Property values<br />
continue to rise through market crashes, poor ag<br />
markets, and a worldwide pandemic. The real estate<br />
market in Okoboji this year was strong. Low interest<br />
rates have driven buying at a rapid pace.<br />
Inventory is at all-time lows. Let’s check stats.<br />
As of February 14, 2021 , there are only 3 homes<br />
on West Lake for sale and only 1 condo. On<br />
East Lake, 1 home and 2 condos. On the other 3<br />
connecting lakes, Minnewashta, Lower Gar and<br />
Upper Gar, there are zero, yes zero, properties on<br />
the market. Finally, there are 3 Big Spirit listings,<br />
and none priced at more than $450,000. I’ve<br />
never witnessed such a limited inventory in<br />
my life and front foot lakeshore is setting alltime<br />
records. Perhaps there is no better example<br />
Aerial view of The Inn.<br />
of how strong the market is than Bridges Bay. Between<br />
the hundreds of condos and cabins there, there are<br />
ZERO on the market. This is crazy. It’s a great time to be<br />
a seller, but can be frustrating to be a buyer.<br />
If you’re a buyer looking for your Okoboji dream home,<br />
I highly recommend working with a REALTOR. During<br />
a tough supply time, they can be your eyes and ears.<br />
If you’re one day late finding out about that<br />
new listing, you are simply too late. More buying<br />
opportunities are coming, but with a ton of competition.<br />
Though some people refer to the University of Okoboji<br />
as a mythical campus, nothing could be further from the<br />
truth. If you believe in the spirit of Okoboji, as everyone<br />
that steps their foot on campus does, you never want to<br />
leave. Summers are filled with endless fun for families<br />
and friends, and complete strangers develop lifelong<br />
friendships. If you aren’t ready<br />
to buy, then come for a week;<br />
visit all the local businesses that<br />
try so hard to make your stay<br />
memorable. We look forward to<br />
seeing you.<br />
Aaron Jones,<br />
Broker, RE/MAX Lakes Realty<br />
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