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<strong>Volume</strong> 5, <strong>Issue</strong> 3<br />
Starting Conversations<br />
Diversity of Thought<br />
Do your friends think<br />
differently than you?<br />
Exposure to Art<br />
Are you having wildly<br />
different experiences?
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22-23 Nonprofit Spotlight – Hope Redemption Center<br />
24-25 Small Business Spotlight – Buscioni’s Bakes<br />
26-27 IWCI’s Business Feature – Carroll Street Treats<br />
28 SBDC – Minority-Owned Businesses<br />
29 Chamber – Sioux City Kicks Off 50th Ragbrai<br />
31 Experience Downtown<br />
32 Tony Michaels – Hot Air<br />
33 Council Connection<br />
34 Leading the Way – Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
35 Future Foundation – <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO<br />
37 Up From The Earth<br />
BeComing<br />
CONTENTS8-9 Diversity<br />
ON THE COVER<br />
Photo Credit Shane Monahan Photography<br />
Sioux City Art Center Fundraiser: Through the Looking Glass<br />
Bruce Miller, Marie Roeder, Greg Giles<br />
of Thought<br />
10 -11 Exposure to Art<br />
12-13 Inclusive Hiring Practices: How Small Businesses Can<br />
Expand Their Network and Deepen The Talent Pool<br />
14 A Celebration of Culture<br />
15 Juneteenth<br />
16 June is Pride Month<br />
17 What It Means To Be An Effective Ally & Why It Matters<br />
19 Inclusive Peek<br />
20-21 Starting Conversations Podcast wtih Stacie & Tony,<br />
Interview with Nicki Werner<br />
38-39 Ask the Therapist<br />
40-41 Ask the Doc<br />
42-43 Healing in Your Own Hands<br />
45 Dare 2B Great – Small Adjustments For Better Results<br />
46-47 Living Lumin – Getting Schooled: Cultivatin A Mindful Classroom
Welcome To siouxland magazine<br />
It’s in these pages we educate and inspire. Even more importantly, we<br />
create a community that thrives on connecting with one another. At our<br />
core, we all want to connect. When we seek to understand, by listening<br />
more intently, we find that our relationships deepen and our community<br />
strengthens as a result. With appreciation for the power of connection<br />
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business Empowering Conversations.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> / 5<br />
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It all starts with a conversation; with a desire to learn;<br />
to see things from another perspective; to seek<br />
truth. The truth is, we have more in common than we have<br />
differences. Well, maybe it would be more accurate to say, what<br />
brings us together is stronger than anything that divides us.<br />
We would never want to marginalize our differences. We love the words of Audre Lorde, “It is<br />
not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those<br />
differences.” We are unique in vast and complicated ways. It’s our hope that we can come<br />
together with our unique strengths, perspectives, and ideas to build a community with a<br />
powerful narrative of us.<br />
Through this humble publication, we will start having conversations. This is an ambitious and<br />
beautifully optimistic attempt to shine light on all the things that make our community strong,<br />
but also discuss, in a productive and compassionate manner, the challenges we face.<br />
We are doing our small part in building a cohesive community by creating conversations that<br />
refocus our attention on our similarities. We are bringing people together; replacing judgment<br />
with understanding. Perspective is powerful.<br />
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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> / 7<br />
I recently had the opportunity to attend the Art Center’s fundraiser, Through the Looking-Glass. It was a<br />
wonderful event and an opportunity to step outside my everyday world. They created a magical space<br />
that night. What stood out to me was the significance of creativity and exploration.<br />
In the everyday mundane routine, we lose sight of the possibilities in life. We get stuck doing things the<br />
same way and often have the same conversations, but with different people. Imagine how our world<br />
could open up if only we’d allow diversity into it. Who could we become if we appreciated more?<br />
I have two guest writers, Dr. Julie Lohr and Todd Behrens, this month. They encourage us to think about<br />
the people we surround ourselves with and the experiences we expose ourselves to. Diversity comes in<br />
many forms. And it is diversity that expands who we are and how full our lives can be. I invite you to open<br />
yourself to the vastness.<br />
Stacie Anderson<br />
Owner of Empowering Conversations LLC & <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
Certified John Maxwell Speaker, Trainer & Coach<br />
Passionate about Leadership & Communication<br />
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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 8<br />
Diversity of Thought<br />
By Dr. Julie Lohr<br />
What<br />
of<br />
thought?<br />
is<br />
diversity<br />
Our life experiences shape our ideas. Each<br />
individual gathers perceptions based upon their<br />
daily reality. Our culture, background, and unique<br />
personalities form how we think. How we think and<br />
interpret information influences our decisions in all<br />
aspects of life, affecting the trajectory of our choices<br />
in our education, religious and spiritual growth or<br />
lack thereof, marriage and family planning, and our<br />
careers.<br />
Diversity of thought refers to the range of mindsets,<br />
thought processes, and perspectives that can be found<br />
throughout an area, region, or organization. When<br />
researching diversity of thought, some opinions<br />
centered on how beneficial, even integral, the<br />
concept can be to maximize the potential and<br />
productivity of teams. Other opinions felt that the<br />
idea of the diversity of thought being promoted<br />
within an organization was risky or problematic.<br />
It was fascinating to read many different articles<br />
for business hiring, team building, and employee<br />
training that focused on all the positive attributes of<br />
a work culture that prioritized creating a workplace<br />
that valued diversity of thought. The companies that<br />
bring people together who think differently from<br />
one another can start difficult conversations and<br />
create dialogue that stimulates new ideas and drives<br />
efficiency.<br />
That’s just the workplace. What about diversity<br />
of thought in our community? In the media? In<br />
our places of worship? In our schools? Within our<br />
homes and families? Should diversity of thought<br />
be something we strive for on our city council and<br />
school board?<br />
Is diversity of thought valued in our country? In the<br />
last few years especially, conformity of thought was<br />
the expectation. Strong feelings emerged during the<br />
pandemic, with many Americans feeling polarized and<br />
alienated from their neighbors. Family estrangement<br />
became more commonplace due to opposing views<br />
regarding masking, vaccination status, quarantine<br />
rules, and social distancing. Why were these opposing<br />
views held in such contempt?<br />
Ideas that deviated from the commonly accepted<br />
train of thought were scorned, quickly dismissed, and<br />
even resulted in the societal character assassination<br />
of the source.<br />
Fear often prevents people from being open to<br />
different ideas or diversity of thought.<br />
“Diversity of thought is the idea<br />
that people in a group don’t need<br />
to look different or identify with<br />
an underrepresented group in<br />
order to bring varying, diverse<br />
viewpoints to the table. While<br />
this is technically true, it is a risky<br />
concept to find comfort in.”<br />
– Rebekah Bastian, Forbes, 2019
Do you shy away from communication that may bring up<br />
dissenting views?<br />
“The word ‘diversity’ often conjures images of a workplace<br />
consisting of people from different backgrounds,<br />
cultures, and genders. While those things certainly<br />
explain a component of diversity, it’s only part of what<br />
diversity includes. Realistically speaking, physical and<br />
social aspects only comprise about half of diversity, and<br />
the remainder lies in the diversity of thought,” stated<br />
Rick Bowers in Training Industry <strong>Magazine</strong>.<br />
In 2004, Anthony Lising Antonio, a Stanford Graduate<br />
School of Education professor, said,” When we hear<br />
dissent from someone who is different from us, it<br />
provokes more thought than when it comes from<br />
someone who looks like us.”<br />
Do you enjoy talking to people who disagree with you?<br />
Is a rousing debate something that invigorates you and<br />
challenges your thought processes? Or would you rather<br />
have the floor swallow you up and help you disappear<br />
when a difficult or sensitive topic is broached?<br />
Can you maintain a friendship with someone with<br />
different views regarding issues you feel are important?<br />
Do you end working relationships with colleagues based<br />
on a different perspective?<br />
There is (and has been for some time) a considerable<br />
emphasis in U.S. popular culture right now on the<br />
appreciation of diversity. We are often reminded of the<br />
DEI efforts of nearly every organization, business, and<br />
entity. Daily bombardment from the mainstream media<br />
on race relations and identity politics can exhaust the<br />
average person attempting to live a meaningful and<br />
authentic life.<br />
What does it say about us as a country or community if<br />
we do not respect the diversity of thought? What does it<br />
say about us individually if we do not value diversity of<br />
thought?<br />
Some people have different skin colors, and not everyone<br />
has the same ethnic or racial background. We celebrate<br />
these differences, and we are taught to appreciate the<br />
differences in human sexuality and gender identity. We<br />
hear praise for diversity, equity, and inclusion.<br />
“In the course of our<br />
work with clients, we often see<br />
diversity of thought<br />
presented as a counter argument by<br />
privileged identity groups<br />
against efforts to increase the<br />
representation of underrepresented<br />
employees across levels<br />
at an organization.<br />
This can show up as tension<br />
around efforts to increase<br />
representation in the C-Suite<br />
and the governing boards or<br />
prioritizing focus on<br />
socioeconomic status and political<br />
differences in diversity work.<br />
In this way,<br />
diversity of thought<br />
is often used to sidestep real action<br />
and avoid accountability around bias,<br />
unchecked privilege, and systemic<br />
discrimination that has been<br />
proven time and again to<br />
exist in organizations<br />
across all industries.”<br />
– Rahimeh Ramezany<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 9<br />
What about different thought processes? Are you able<br />
to see value in a perspective that is in stark contrast to<br />
your own?<br />
Resources:<br />
The Great Ideological Lie of Diversity by Jordan Peterson<br />
Are you able to respect people who have ideas that<br />
challenge your own beliefs and values? Are you able to<br />
be friends with people who think differently than you?<br />
Are you able to collaborate and problem-solve with a<br />
coworker who has a different vision? Or do you prefer to<br />
work with colleagues who think the same way you do?<br />
Dr. Julie Lohr, DDS is a happy wife to Chris and a<br />
proud mother to Jack, Savannah, Landon, Charlotte.<br />
There is much diversity of thought in her household.
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 10<br />
Exposure to Art<br />
By Todd Behrens<br />
Sioux City Art Center’s fundraiser, Through the Looking-Glass, with Bruce Miller as the Mad Hatter, Marie Roeder as the<br />
Queen of Hearts, and Greg Giles as the White Rabbit.<br />
What do you think? What do you believe? When were<br />
those thoughts and beliefs determined? And how were<br />
they determined?<br />
For most of us adults, we reach a point at which we feel<br />
confident in our knowledge of how things work and in<br />
our beliefs about what is right and wrong or good and<br />
bad. And once that happens, we seek settings, friends,<br />
and activities that align with our thoughts and beliefs. It’s<br />
the safest method for living a relatively calm, stable life in<br />
our increasingly tense, divisive society.<br />
Challenging our thoughts and beliefs is often seen as<br />
one of the most uncomfortable and unnecessary things<br />
an adult can do. But participation in and exposure to<br />
new experiences can have beneficial effects. Engaging in<br />
art, music, writing, or performing is one of the easiest<br />
ways to reap benefits. While children’s brains benefit<br />
most from these activities, adults who play music can<br />
experience brain improvement too.<br />
But I’m not a scientist. I’m an art museum director. I have<br />
not conducted studies on the physical development of<br />
the human brain, but I have seen what time with art can<br />
do. When you pick up a book you’ve never read, listen<br />
to music you’ve never heard before, or enter a gallery<br />
filled with art that is new to you, you have a risk-free<br />
opportunity to step into a new way of thinking. Too often,<br />
readers, listeners, and viewers keep their attention on<br />
the surfaces of what they experience. It’s hard to give<br />
yourself the time required for a deep exploration of art,<br />
but it’s incredibly rewarding. Whether it’s characters
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Todd Behrens, Executive Director for the Sioux City Art Center, addresses the fundraiser attendees.<br />
that come alive in your imagination, music that fills your<br />
body and gets stuck in your head, or art that brings to you<br />
entirely new visions of the world, the gentle, quiet, internal<br />
feeling of excitement that comes from having your brain<br />
take a new journey is unlike anything else.<br />
What does art have to do with diversity? Two important<br />
things. First, art can provide a more direct and<br />
emotional connection to lived experiences than<br />
simply reading historical or biographical information.<br />
While our embracing of diversity has also brought<br />
with it an awareness of how many different categories<br />
of identity can exist within a single person, humans<br />
cannot be understood as data points or boxes to<br />
check. Literature, music, and art connect us not just to<br />
a thing or idea but to the inspiration behind that thing<br />
or idea. And second, art represents the best of us.<br />
The writer, poet, composer, singer, painter, sculptor,<br />
etc., responsible for the artworks you are experiencing,<br />
have given everything they have to share their thoughts<br />
and beliefs in a way that is most potent for them.<br />
Whether the creator of the work checks some of the<br />
same demographic boxes that you would or matches<br />
none of them, set aside your preconceptions—I know<br />
it’s incredibly hard for me to do, so it’s probably at least<br />
a little difficult for you—and open yourself to whatever<br />
ideas and emotions underlie their work.<br />
Might it change how you think or believe? There’s no<br />
way to know unless you try. But, in this increasingly<br />
loud, often obnoxious world, I believe nothing is more<br />
valuable than time spent with the arts.<br />
Todd Behrens, Executive Director for Sioux City Art Center.
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Small businesses are the backbone of our<br />
communities, and hiring diverse talent is<br />
crucial to their success. Hiring employees<br />
from different backgrounds can bring new ideas,<br />
experiences, and perspectives to a company,<br />
leading to increased innovation and improved<br />
business outcomes. However, finding and hiring<br />
qualified, diverse candidates can be a challenge<br />
for small business owners. This article will discuss<br />
some strategies that small business owners can<br />
use to find and hire diverse talent from their local<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> community.<br />
Inclusive Hiring Practices:<br />
How Small Businesses Can Expand<br />
Their Network and Deepen The Talent Pool<br />
By Bryan Shusterman<br />
Develop relationships with local colleges<br />
and universities:<br />
Developing relationships with local colleges and<br />
universities can be an effective way to identify and<br />
attract diverse talent. Reach out to the career services<br />
department and offer to participate in career fairs<br />
or speak to students about job opportunities.<br />
Consider offering internships or co-op programs<br />
to provide students with valuable work experience<br />
and identify potential full-time hires.<br />
Partner with local community organizations:<br />
Partnering with local community organizations can<br />
be an effective way to find diverse candidates.<br />
Consider reaching out to organizations that serve<br />
underrepresented groups, such as immigrant<br />
advocacy groups, minority business associations, or<br />
disability rights organizations. These organizations<br />
often have connections to a pool of qualified<br />
candidates and can help spread the word about job<br />
openings.<br />
Attend local job fairs:<br />
Attending local job fairs is another way to connect<br />
with diverse candidates in the community. Job fairs<br />
provide a platform for small businesses to showcase<br />
their brand, connect with potential candidates, and<br />
learn about the local talent pool. Be sure to attend<br />
job fairs catering to diverse candidates, such as<br />
those hosted by minority-focused organizations or<br />
targeting individuals with disabilities.<br />
Use local job boards:<br />
Posting job openings on local job boards is an<br />
effective way to reach out to candidates in the<br />
community. These job boards are often free or lowcost<br />
and can provide small businesses access to<br />
diverse candidates. Consider posting job openings<br />
on job boards that cater to specific groups, such as<br />
women or veterans.<br />
Leverage social media:<br />
Social media platforms such as LinkedIn, Facebook,<br />
and Twitter are powerful tools for small businesses<br />
to connect with diverse candidates. Consider<br />
creating a company page on social media platforms<br />
and using it to share job openings, company news,<br />
and updates. Additionally, consider joining local<br />
business groups on social media and participating<br />
in discussions to build relationships with potential<br />
candidates.<br />
Use employee referrals:<br />
Employee referrals can be an effective way to find<br />
diverse candidates. Encourage current employees<br />
to refer qualified candidates from their personal<br />
and professional networks. Consider offering<br />
incentives such as bonuses or extra vacation days<br />
for successful referrals.<br />
Train your hiring team:<br />
Training your hiring team on unconscious bias and<br />
inclusive hiring practices is crucial. This training<br />
can help them identify their own biases and<br />
make more objective hiring decisions. Encourage<br />
your team to ask open-ended questions and<br />
avoid making assumptions about a candidate’s<br />
background. Additionally, consider implementing<br />
blind screening processes that remove personal<br />
information such as name, age, and gender from<br />
resumes.
Revise your job descriptions:<br />
Often, job descriptions may include language that<br />
unintentionally discourages diverse applicants<br />
from applying. This can be corrected by revising<br />
job descriptions to use inclusive language that<br />
highlights the company’s commitment to diversity<br />
and inclusion. Avoid using gender-specific<br />
pronouns or words that imply a certain race or<br />
ethnicity. For example, use “strong communication<br />
skills” instead of “excellent English skills.”<br />
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Consider blind hiring:<br />
Blind hiring is a process in which personal<br />
information such as name, age, and gender is<br />
removed from resumes to reduce unconscious<br />
bias in the hiring process. Consider implementing<br />
blind hiring practices to ensure that candidates<br />
are evaluated based on their qualifications and<br />
not their personal characteristics.<br />
Create an inclusive workplace culture:<br />
Creating an inclusive workplace culture is crucial<br />
to attracting and retaining diverse talent. Small<br />
business owners should focus on creating a<br />
workplace that is welcoming, inclusive, and<br />
respectful of all employees, regardless of their<br />
background. Implement policies and practices<br />
that promote diversity, such as providing training<br />
on unconscious bias, offering flexible work<br />
arrangements, and implementing a zero-tolerance<br />
policy for discrimination.<br />
In conclusion, attracting and hiring qualified,<br />
diverse applicants requires a deliberate effort<br />
and commitment to inclusive hiring practices.<br />
By reaching out and getting involved with the<br />
community, small businesses can build a diverse<br />
and talented workforce that can help them thrive<br />
in a rapidly changing marketplace.<br />
Bryan Shusterman, an attorney at the Heidman<br />
Law Firm. He graduated from the University of<br />
Iowa Law School in 2019 and practices in IA, NE,<br />
and SD. Bryan specializes in advising business<br />
owners on formation, growth, and expansion,<br />
and has worked with companies of all sizes and<br />
industries. Throughout his career, Bryan has been<br />
passionate about helping entrepreneurs turn their<br />
dreams into successful businesses by providing<br />
them with the legal guidance necessary to achieve<br />
their goals. Whether it’s forming a new business<br />
entity, negotiating contracts, creating a business<br />
succession plan or navigating a sale or acquisition,<br />
Bryan has the expertise and knowledge to work<br />
together with his clients at any stage of their<br />
business’s life cycle.<br />
2022 Winners<br />
We’re accepting nominations for 10 Under 40.<br />
The highly anticipated September issue features young<br />
professionals in <strong>Siouxland</strong> who are making a real difference<br />
in our community. Nominate someone today! Visit<br />
siouxlandmagazine.com to access nomination form.<br />
Here is what we look for in<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>’s 10 Under 40<br />
Look around work, the places you volunteer, your friend<br />
circles, or anywhere there are outstanding individuals, and<br />
consider who meets the following criteria:<br />
• Under the age of 40 as of December 31, 2023<br />
(Yes, you may have to ask, but he/she will be honored<br />
that you are thinking of them for an award!)<br />
• Is a business owner or high executive/manager/<br />
director (or has experience in this area) within their<br />
organization. This can be a large corporation, small<br />
business, or non-profit organization.<br />
• Must be in their current position or have had<br />
experience in a managerial role for at least one year.<br />
• Lives and works in the <strong>Siouxland</strong> area (approximately<br />
a 60-mile radius around Sioux City.)<br />
Has a history of displaying:<br />
• Vision and Leadership<br />
• Innovation and Achievement<br />
• Growth/Development Strategy<br />
• Community Involvement/Contribution<br />
• Consistent display of excellent character and ethics<br />
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A Celebration of Culture<br />
By Peggy La<br />
Group photo of Asian Fest’s amazing attendees and volunteers.<br />
A celebration of culture, life, and community is<br />
something that is both appreciated and necessary<br />
in the eyes of those who aren’t always able to<br />
showcase what defines them. In the warmth of<br />
the June sun and under the always caring eyes of<br />
George Sayavong watching from above, the annual<br />
Asian Fest blooms and breathes along with the<br />
culture celebrated there.<br />
George Sayavong, one of the co-founders of Asian Fest, is<br />
affectionately referenced as the balance and mediation with<br />
the group. Without him, my fellow co-founder, I would’ve<br />
given up multiple times due to the difficulty they faced<br />
organizing the event. Many people they contacted were<br />
hesitant to volunteer for the event, and finding people to<br />
perform, cook, and attend became even more daunting.<br />
However, George didn’t give up. George had a butterfly<br />
effect. Everything he touched, blossomed. With his kind<br />
touch, the festival became something to be proud of.<br />
The Fest began as an idea that stemmed from my college<br />
life in Des Moines, where I volunteered at CelebrAsian. After<br />
returning to <strong>Siouxland</strong> and realizing that the community<br />
didn’t have the same type of gathering, I brought the idea<br />
up to George. With a broad smile and endless positivity, he<br />
said, “Let’s do it!” and the planning began.<br />
One of the challenges that presented itself was the<br />
layout. How would they find a place where both food and<br />
entertainment could be offered at once? Where would the<br />
community be able to join together and feel connected?<br />
I admit it took some time to figure out exactly how to lay<br />
out the festival. It started with separate shelters that offered<br />
different aspects of the festival. Still, it was difficult for guests<br />
to grasp the entirety of the celebration when they had to<br />
travel between two different shelters. The committee and I<br />
realized that we bring the festival closer by creating a circle<br />
with a single shelter so everyone could enjoy the festivities.<br />
While Asian Fest is a day of fun, food, and performance,<br />
the ultimate goal is to create an understanding and unity<br />
between the Asian and non-Asian communities. As our<br />
younger generation becomes Americanized, we typically<br />
lose our culture. With the loss of culture and the gap between<br />
nationality and traditions, Asian Fest aims to bridge the gap<br />
and continue the traditions passed down from generation<br />
to generation in various Asian cultures. <strong>Siouxland</strong> is home<br />
to multitudes of Asian ethnicities: Chinese, Vietnamese,<br />
Laotian, Indian, and others call <strong>Siouxland</strong> their home. With<br />
the festival, we hope to connect them in a community they<br />
can be proud of.<br />
The Fest will also reach those who don’t have ties to the<br />
Asian community. Pulling them into the festival creates an<br />
understanding they might not have seen before and, with<br />
the many opportunities to experience the culture, brings<br />
them closer to a community they may not know.<br />
FREE TO ATTEND<br />
Saturday, May 27 | 12 pm to 4 pm<br />
Yummi Blox Food Truck Lot<br />
700 West 7th Street<br />
Food available for purchase<br />
Kids activities<br />
Caricatures<br />
Family fun event<br />
Peggy La, owner of Yummi Blox and Hong Kong Supermarket.<br />
Peggy is also the co-founder of the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Asian Festival,<br />
serves on the Commission of Asian and Pacific Islanders for the<br />
State of Iowa, is a member of the Inclusive Sioux City Advisory<br />
Committee, and board member of <strong>Siouxland</strong> Public Radio.<br />
Photo provided by Peggy La.
Juneteenth<br />
What is Juneteenth?<br />
By Malia Swaggerty-Morgan<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing /15<br />
Juneteenth is a federal holiday celebrating<br />
the commemoration of the end of slavery in<br />
the United States. It lasts one day, and that special<br />
day is June 19th. You may keep reading if your<br />
interest has peaked about this amazing day; if not,<br />
this is your warning. Now, back to our main topic,<br />
back on June 19th, 1865, all slaves in the United<br />
States were free. Two and a half years prior to that,<br />
Lincoln decided that the emancipation was much<br />
needed due to their battlefield loss. You may wonder,<br />
“how does the military’s loss affect slaves?” I’d be<br />
glad to tell you. Lincoln knew it was time for slaves to<br />
fight for their Union. This was because it would push<br />
over border states, such as Missouri, right over to the<br />
Confederacy. And in case you didn’t get an 8th grade<br />
education in American history, a border state or<br />
a “slave state” were US states that did not secede<br />
from the Union during the Civil War. One hundred<br />
and fifty-six years later, President Biden signed into<br />
law the Senate Bill making Juneteenth a federal<br />
holiday. Which I do think deserves a whoop whoop!<br />
The name Juneteenth comes from the two words<br />
June and nineteenth.<br />
However, Juneteenth has<br />
many other names such<br />
as Emancipation Day,<br />
Second Independence<br />
Day, Jubilee Day, and<br />
more. Juneteenth is such<br />
an important holiday, not<br />
only for African Americans,<br />
but for the entirety of the<br />
United States. After the<br />
abolishment of slavery,<br />
there was an increase in<br />
America’s economy and<br />
the labor stock grew. Don’t<br />
believe me? Look at Brazil.<br />
Brazil hadn’t gotten rid of<br />
slavery until the 1880’s and it was worse than America.<br />
Overall, Juneteenth is a meaningful holiday with a<br />
wonderful background.<br />
Malia Swaggerty-Morgan, Freshman at West High School<br />
Why Celebrate Juneteenth?<br />
By Flora Lee<br />
Juneteenth is as much of United States History as George Washington<br />
being the first President of the U.S., yet the story of Juneteenth has only<br />
recently been a holiday in America. The importance of Juneteenth is not only to<br />
celebrate the freedom of enslaved people, but to celebrate the many contributions<br />
enslaved, free Black/African Americans have contributed to this country and the<br />
world. The invention of the cotton gin, the stop light, ironing boards, food and spices<br />
(tasty southern cooking), and the list continues. Black/African American people have<br />
been the backbone of this country as well, and due to our ability to march, fight,<br />
go to court for civil rights, human rights, education, women rights and the war on<br />
poverty, so others are able to benefit from laws and policies supporting equitable<br />
rights for all American Citizens.<br />
Flora Lee, Community Advocate
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing /16<br />
June is Pride Month when the LGBTQ+ community<br />
is celebrated worldwide.<br />
June is Pride Month<br />
By Karen (Chanté Wambdi Win) Mackey<br />
Historically LGBTQ+ people were criminalized, lost<br />
custody of their children, and could be fired or denied<br />
housing simply for who they were. Because there were<br />
so few safe public places, gay bars were (and still are) a<br />
mainstay in the queer community. Police raids on gay bars<br />
were commonplace. On June 28, 1969, the New York City<br />
Police Department raided the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar<br />
popular with a diverse clientele, including drag queens<br />
and gay youth. The patrons fought back, touching off six<br />
days of riots. In 1970 the first pride parade was held on<br />
the anniversary of the Stonewall Riot.<br />
Locally, Pride is celebrated during the first week in<br />
June, and various businesses and organizations will be<br />
hosting Pride events. I will focus here on two non-profits;<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Pride Alliance will host a teen Pride Prom on<br />
May 26, a Pride Parade on June 1, and the Sioux City<br />
Pride Festival on June 3, and Winnebago Two-Spirit will<br />
hold their Pride Carnival on June 2.<br />
LGBTQIA2S+ Why the alphabet salad?<br />
Our community encompasses a variety of sexual<br />
orientations, gender identities, and gender expressions.<br />
LGBTQ+ is shorthand for LGBTQIA2S+ and recognizes<br />
that, as queer people, we are finding new ways to define<br />
ourselves.<br />
Sexual orientation refers to your primary emotional,<br />
romantic, and sexual attraction. Lesbian is the term for<br />
same-sex attracted women, and gay is the term for samesex<br />
attracted men. Bisexual people are attracted to both<br />
sexes. (Pansexual is sometimes used to avoid viewing<br />
gender as a binary.)<br />
Transgender—someone whose gender identity does not<br />
correspond with their sex assigned at birth.<br />
Free Mom Hugs Iowa and Free Mom Hugs Nebraska at<br />
Winnebago Pride.<br />
Queer—traditionally a derogatory term, it has been reclaimed<br />
by some in the LGBTQ+ community as a term of pride and<br />
positivity; it is an umbrella term to describe the LGBTQ+<br />
community. Sometimes the “Q” stands for questioning—people<br />
who are in the process of exploring their sexual orientation or<br />
gender identity.<br />
Intersex—a person’s sex traits and reproductive anatomy<br />
combine in ways that fall outside the medical classifications<br />
of male or female. This can include differences in genitalia,<br />
chromosomes, gonads, internal sex organs, hormone<br />
production, hormone response, and secondary sex traits.<br />
Asexual—someone who has little or no sexual attraction or<br />
interest in sexual activity.<br />
Two-Spirit—an LGBTQ+ Indigenous person. (While each<br />
Indigenous Nation is unique, some traditionally believed there<br />
are more than two genders.)<br />
More Important Definitions<br />
Gender identity—your innermost concept of yourself as male,<br />
female, a blend of both, or neither. Your gender identity can be<br />
the same or different from your sex.<br />
Gender expression—your external appearance may or may<br />
not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics<br />
associated with being masculine or feminine.<br />
Sioux City’s first Pride Parade hosted by <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
Pride Alliance.<br />
Non-binary—someone whose gender identity is not exclusively<br />
male or female. They may identify with elements of both, with<br />
another gender or no gender at all.
What It Means To Be An Effective Ally<br />
& Why It Matters<br />
By Sherry Martin<br />
Merriam-Webster defines effective as “producing<br />
a decided, decisive, or desired effect.” Merriam-<br />
Webster defines an ally as “one that is associated with<br />
another as a helper: a person or group that provides<br />
assistance and support in an ongoing effort, activity, or<br />
struggle—often now used specifically of a person who<br />
is not a member of a marginalized or mistreated group<br />
but who expresses or gives support to that group.”<br />
But what does it mean to be an<br />
effective ally? It means:<br />
• Advocacy and allyship must be intentional, yearround!<br />
(Not just during Pride month.)<br />
• Acknowledging your own implicit bias and then<br />
taking action to resolve your implicit bias. Visit<br />
Implicit Project online to test privately. Attend a Safe<br />
Zone training or similar training, where you are free to<br />
ask questions in a nonjudgmental space.<br />
• To educate yourself about the LGBTQIA2S+<br />
community. Learn about sexual identity, gender<br />
identity, and pronouns. The Trevor Project, Free Mom<br />
Hugs, Iowa Safe Schools, and One Iowa all have<br />
incredible resources and educational options.<br />
• To be willing to have difficult conversations. Will every<br />
conversation change hearts and minds? It’s unlikely.<br />
Will you stay calm during every conversation?<br />
Probably not. If necessary, step away and regroup. If<br />
you didn’t handle the conversation as calmly as you<br />
had intended, take an honest look at why you reacted<br />
the way you did and address it.<br />
According to the Trevor Project’s 2022 National Survey<br />
on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health, “45% of LGBTQ youth<br />
seriously considered attempting suicide.” The survey<br />
also showed that “LGBTQ youth who felt high social<br />
support from their family reported attempting suicide at<br />
less than half the rate of those who felt low or moderate<br />
social support.” In their 2019 National Survey, the<br />
Trevor Project reported that “LGBTQ youth who report<br />
having at least one accepting adult were 40% less likely<br />
to report a suicide attempt in the past year.”<br />
Being an effective ally can save lives. But doing it solo<br />
can be intimidating. Joining a group of supporters can<br />
be incredibly empowering, especially if you are new<br />
to advocacy. Free Mom Hugs is a non-profit group of<br />
parents and supporters with chapters in all 50 states.<br />
The Free Mom Hugs Mission: Empowering the world to<br />
celebrate the LGBTQIA+ community through visibility,<br />
education, and conversation. But giving hugs is the<br />
best part! You do not have to be a mom to be a Hugger;<br />
all are welcome!<br />
Sherry Martin is serving as a State Chapter Leader<br />
for Free Mom Hugs Iowa, as a member of the<br />
Educational Equity Committee and the School<br />
Improvement Advisory Committee, as the Chair of<br />
the Sioux City Human Rights Commission, and as<br />
a board member of the League of Women Voters<br />
and Community Action Agency. Sherry formerly<br />
served on the Inclusive Sioux City Advisory<br />
Committee.<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing /17<br />
For more definitions, go to:<br />
Glossary of Terms - Human Rights Campaign (hrc.org)<br />
Karen (Chanté Wambdi Win) Mackey is the Executive Director of the Sioux City Human Rights Commission. She is an enrolled<br />
member of the Santee Sioux Tribe of Nebraska and received her J.D. from the University of Nebraska, College of Law.<br />
Karen was named a Woman of Excellence by Women Aware in 2008. In 2019, she was named a LGBTQ Legacy Leader by DSM<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> and One Iowa.<br />
Karen is a co-founder of <strong>Siouxland</strong> Pride Alliance, a local grassroots LGBTQ+ organization. She is chair of the Community Initiative<br />
for Native Children and Families, Disabilities Resource Center of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, Great Plains Action Society, Urban Native Center in<br />
Sioux City and <strong>Siouxland</strong> Human Investment Partnership.<br />
Photos Contributed by Karen Mackey.
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Inclusive Peek – Interview with Miranda Valdovinos<br />
What challenges have you experienced in<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
Earlier in my life, I struggled with being a first-generation<br />
American. Having immigrant parents who did not speak<br />
English and were still adapting to their new home,<br />
is where my struggles came from. At the same time,<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> was adapting to the growing cultural diversity.<br />
Growing up, this created a lot of confusion as I did not<br />
know how to approach life and what came next—also,<br />
trying to find a balance between Mexican culture and the<br />
American way of living.<br />
Today I am proud to say both the <strong>Siouxland</strong> area and I<br />
have embraced our diversity and grown immensely.<br />
Thankfully, I had the support of my two older sisters, who<br />
paved the way for me. My parents also sacrificed so much<br />
for my sisters and I, and for that I will be eternally grateful.<br />
How has <strong>Siouxland</strong> been welcoming?<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> is an incredibly diverse area, it inhabits so many<br />
cultures, ethnicities, and religions. <strong>Siouxland</strong> will always be<br />
my home, it is such a warm,<br />
inviting, and inclusive region.<br />
From cultural parades to<br />
fairs there has been such<br />
a prevalent embrace of<br />
difference. Local businesses<br />
have also increasingly<br />
become more aware of<br />
language barriers and offer<br />
multilingual services. For<br />
people like me who are first<br />
generation, schools offer<br />
support services like TRIO<br />
that helped me pursue my<br />
professional dreams.<br />
Miranda Valdovinos<br />
What do you want the people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> to know?<br />
I would like the people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> to know that if there is<br />
anyone who feels as if their dreams are unreachable because of<br />
where you live, I assure you they are not. I believe in you and the<br />
people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> believe in you!<br />
“Don’t be afraid to share your struggles because you don’t know who you may inspire.”<br />
– Dr. Kamshia Childs<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 19<br />
Inclusive Peek – In Spanish<br />
¿Qué desafíos ha experimentado en <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
Al principio de mi vida, luche por ser estadounidense de<br />
primera generación. Tener padres inmigrantes que no<br />
hablaban ingles y aun se estaban adaptando a su nuevo<br />
hogar, esto es de donde vienen mis luchas. Al mismo<br />
tiempo, <strong>Siouxland</strong> se estaba adaptando a la creciente<br />
diversidad cultural. Esto creo mucha confusión mientras<br />
crecía, ya que no sabia como abordar la vida y lo que vino<br />
después. También tratando de encontrar un equilibrio<br />
entre la cultura mexicana y el estilo de vida americano.<br />
Hoy me enorgullece decir que tanto el área de <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
como yo han abrazado nuestra diversidad y han crecido<br />
inmensamente. Afortunadamente, tuve el apoyo de mis<br />
dos hermanas mayores que me allanaron el camino. Mis<br />
padres también se sacrificaron mucho por mis hermanas<br />
y por mí, por eso les estaré eternamente agradecida.<br />
¿Cómo ha sido la recibida de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> es un área increíblemente diversa, habitan tantas<br />
culturas, etnias y religiones. <strong>Siouxland</strong> siempre será mi hogar,<br />
es un lugar cálido, acogedor y región inclusivo. Desde desfiles<br />
culturales hasta ferias, ha habido una adopción tan frecuente de<br />
diferencia. Los negocios locales también se han vuelto cada vez<br />
más conscientes de las barreras del lenguaje y ofrecen servicios<br />
multilingües. Las escuelas ofrecen servicios de apoyo como<br />
TRIO para personas como yo que son de primera generación.<br />
Esto me ayudo a seguir mis sueños profesionales.<br />
¿Qué quiere que sepa la gente de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />
Me gustaría que la gente de <strong>Siouxland</strong> supiera que si hay alguien<br />
que siente como que sus sueños son inalcanzables por el lugar<br />
donde viven te aseguro que no lo son. ¡Yo creo en ti y la gente<br />
de <strong>Siouxland</strong> cree en ti!<br />
“No tengas miedo de compartir tus luchas porque no sabes a quien puedes inspirar.”<br />
– Dr. Niños Kamshia
<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Collaborating / 20<br />
Starting Conversations<br />
Podcast<br />
Interview with Nicki Werner<br />
Jefferson Beer Supply - A Unique Blend of Talent, Ingenuity, and Integrity<br />
with Stacie & Tony<br />
When you think of the blending ingredients<br />
for craft beers, barley, wheat, and hops might<br />
be the first ingredients that come to mind.<br />
However, when you’re speaking of Jefferson Beer<br />
Supply in Jefferson, South Dakota, agency, ethos,<br />
equality, prosperity, pineapple upside down cake,<br />
Gryffindor, and a Challenger are more what owner<br />
Nicki Werner thinks are the recipe for success.<br />
“One of the most important things we wanted to<br />
do with this company was bring prosperity to<br />
our town. We wanted to have the company be<br />
employee owned including with stock ownership.<br />
To have each employee be involved with trust in<br />
the voting rights, future of the business, how the<br />
business grows, the financial goals. Employee<br />
stock ownership in ethos,” stated Nicki.<br />
One of the ways that is accomplished is through<br />
the employee beer director program.<br />
“Each employee has total ownership and control<br />
over a specific brew each year. It’s a multifaceted<br />
approach. It helps them learn about the brewing<br />
process and gives them agency and ownership in<br />
the business itself,” said Nicki.<br />
As an example, Nicki shared that one of the<br />
bartenders, Trevor, really wants to develop a<br />
pineapple upside down cake brew.<br />
“That’s a fun flavor, and then he wants to use the<br />
proceeds the beer makes to donate to the Boys<br />
and Girls Club. Different employees go different<br />
ways with it. Especially in beer, there are so many<br />
different ideas. No one master genius holds all the<br />
power. We really try to make this an equal playing<br />
field for everyone involved,” remarked Nicki.<br />
She went on to say that her intention with the<br />
beer has always been to drink beer and to build a<br />
community around it and with it.<br />
Stacie & Tony interviewing Nicki Werner.<br />
“We make the culture that we want to be a part of<br />
and involved in. What do we want the business to<br />
do for our employees, town, community, and in a<br />
broader perspective for <strong>Siouxland</strong>?”<br />
It is an interesting perspective from a business<br />
owner with mostly an arts background; however,<br />
she had worked at craft breweries in both<br />
Wisconsin and Colorado. The breweries were<br />
closely entwined with the arts scene in both<br />
locations, and in time, Nicki had more than 10<br />
years of experience working in the breweries and<br />
being involved in the arts community. She and<br />
her partner wanted to be living closer to family,<br />
so they moved back to the <strong>Siouxland</strong> area.<br />
“I was always interested in equity and issues of<br />
justice. We started planning this business in 2020.<br />
If that wasn’t the year to live according to your<br />
values, I don’t know what was. I’d been involved
in start-ups before, and I knew how much you<br />
have to totally give your life over to it at least<br />
for a time. I was like if we’re going to do that,<br />
then I really want to do it in a way that matters<br />
to me.”<br />
The business was started by Nicki, who has a<br />
master’s degree in sculpture; her partner, who<br />
has a graphic design degree; her motherin-law,<br />
who is an accountant for the city of<br />
Jefferson; and their good buddy, Andy.<br />
“We all have a lot of great skills that we<br />
bring into the business with the brewing<br />
experience,” commented Nicki.<br />
Have you figured out where Gryffindor and<br />
a Challenger fit into the mix yet? Tune in<br />
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of Starting Conversations with Stacie and<br />
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The Jefferson Brewing Company is located at<br />
202 Main Street, in Jefferson, South Dakota.<br />
Written by Amy Buster based on the<br />
podcast interview with Nicki Werner.<br />
Amy Buster has been working as a writer/editor for<br />
the past 25 years. The majority of her work has been<br />
writing and editing for small-town newspapers in<br />
Kansas City and <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
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Hope Redemption Center<br />
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Redeeming cans,<br />
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Tell me a bit about Hope Redemption Center.<br />
Hope Redemption Center provides hope for all people through meaningful work, unique volunteer opportunities,<br />
authentic relationships, and faith-based personal growth so that everyone can fulfill God’s calling in their life.<br />
Hope Redemption Center, an independent 501 c(3), allows you to feel good about recycling your cans, glass, and<br />
plastic and not just throwing them away. We redeem approximately 5,000,000 cans per year! Seventy-one percent<br />
of redeemable containers are recycled annually in Iowa through redemption centers, keeping all this material out<br />
of landfills. Approximately 400,000 cans were donated to Hope Redemption Center, providing financial assistance<br />
that allows our mission to go beyond recycling. Proceeds from donated cans have been donated to Sunnybrook<br />
Hope Center and local sober living houses to support the under-resourced in <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />
Your commitment to redeeming your cans provides hope to individuals struggling with homelessness and<br />
addiction. Hope Redemption Center, a local non-profit, encourages and mentors individuals active in recovery by<br />
providing meaningful, faith-based employment opportunities.<br />
We desire to build relationships and see transformation in their lives; meaningful work is just an avenue to begin.<br />
We aim to provide a positive, uplifting environment for our staff, volunteers, and guests. We are known for our<br />
unshakeable commitment to the dignity of people.<br />
Hope Redemption Center also provides volunteer opportunities for individuals and groups. In 2022, over 2,234<br />
hours were spent volunteering, mentoring, and walking alongside our employees. We welcome volunteers looking<br />
for a service project or even completing a community service project. Our commitment is to help our volunteers<br />
grow spiritually, build a community, and serve others with the gifts God has given each of us.
How may the community support<br />
this endeavor?<br />
There are several ways the community can<br />
support Sunnybrook Redemption Center.<br />
Donate Cans: Individuals are encouraged to<br />
drop off their cans at Hope Redemption Center,<br />
located at 2801 Correctionville Road in Sioux<br />
City, or one of our trailers located at Sunnybrook<br />
Community Church, Whispering Creek Golf<br />
Course, and Morningside Lutheran Church.<br />
Serve: This ministry is only possible because<br />
of the time and talents of volunteers. Our<br />
employees serve alongside volunteers who<br />
graciously give 230 hours every month. We are<br />
always welcoming individuals and groups who<br />
may be interested in serving for a few hours.<br />
Sponsor a Trailer: If your church or business<br />
wants to sponsor or host a can redemption<br />
trailer, please contact us on the next steps.<br />
Days/Hours of operation?<br />
If someone would like to help, what is the best way to<br />
contact Hope Redemption Center?<br />
Please call us at 712-560-4113 or visit us online at Hope<br />
Redemption Center | Sunnybrook Community Church<br />
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Buscioni’s Bakes<br />
By Amy Buster<br />
Henry Chrestensen is the owner and baker of<br />
Buscioni’s Bakes in Lawton, Iowa. However, this<br />
is not your typical small-town bakery. Buscioni’s also<br />
caters to diet restrictions, with their specialty being<br />
gluten free baked goods.<br />
“We make New York Style cheesecakes from scratch,<br />
and that also includes gluten-free. We have lots<br />
of flavors: old school traditional, chocolate, and<br />
pumpkin. You can’t really tell the difference from the<br />
gluten-free when you taste it, other than it is slightly<br />
denser,” explained Henry.<br />
For all of you pumpkin fans out there, that isn’t<br />
a flavor he carries only in the fall. Due to the high<br />
demand, it is a flavor he carries year-round now.<br />
“I’ve always had a passion for cooking and baking, I<br />
like making people happy,” said Henry.<br />
His biggest seller at the moment at the bakery is<br />
cannoli.<br />
“As far as I know, I’m the only baker in the <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
area that makes fresh cannoli. We have a wide variety<br />
of flavors. Of course the traditional vanilla-base with<br />
chocolate chips, pistachio, amaretto for the adults,<br />
pumpkin, and then seasonal flavors like peppermint,”<br />
explained Henry.<br />
Leave the donuts, pick up or order the cannoli.<br />
Buscioni’s also can custom-make birthday cakes; not<br />
only customize the design, but also the flavors.<br />
“We did a Pokémon cake for a five-year old’s birthday.<br />
It was chocolate obsession for the cake, that had<br />
seven different types of chocolate in it, chocolate<br />
cream cheese frosting, and then I made blue and<br />
purple decorations, and we designed the Pokémon<br />
character for decoration,” said Henry.<br />
The cake itself took two days to completely construct<br />
and bake.<br />
“I used Nutella, chocolate syrup, hot fudge, three<br />
different kinds of chocolate chips, and different<br />
flavors of cocoa. Basically, some dentist is going to<br />
be very upset with me about this cake,” said Henry.
However, if chocolate isn’t your flavor of choice, he also<br />
does something similar with a strawberry obsession<br />
cake.<br />
“That has strawberry cake, strawberry filling, strawberry<br />
buttercream frosting, fresh strawberries, and a<br />
strawberry drizzle. It’s three layers high, 10 inches round,<br />
and weighs between 5 to 10 pounds,” stated Henry.<br />
Although their cakes, cannoli, and New York Style<br />
cheese cakes are decedent, they are not the only bake<br />
goods offered here.<br />
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“We bake tea bread, garlic bread, French bread, wheat<br />
bread, and rye bread. It’s all made fresh from scratch,<br />
with no preservatives. The only thing that is storebought<br />
here are the ingredients,” stated Henry.<br />
For more information about all of Buscioni’s baked<br />
goods, please visit their Facebook page at www.<br />
facebook.com/Chef Buscioni1, or www.shop.castiron.<br />
me/buscionibakes. To place an order, please call (712)<br />
454-8308.<br />
Henry delivers to the tristate area, and ships to states<br />
across the country.<br />
“I have customers I ship to in Vegas, Georgia, Colorado,<br />
New Jersey, and New York. It’s affordable and delicious<br />
baked goods. I can create whatever your heart desires.”<br />
Amy Buster has been working as a writer/editor for the past<br />
25 years. The majority of her work has been writing and<br />
editing for small-town newspapers in both the Kansas City<br />
Metro area and the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Community.<br />
Photos Contributed by Buscioni Bakes.<br />
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Carroll Street Treats<br />
Iowa’s West Coast Initiative Feature<br />
Business Owner: Reece, Liam, Ayda, Blake,<br />
Nora, and Evan Vander Zee<br />
Business Name: Carroll Street Treats<br />
Main Products/Services: Homemade Ice Cream<br />
Sandwiches<br />
Location: Rock Rapids, IA<br />
Connect: Find us on Facebook/Instagram<br />
Short description of your business:<br />
Carroll Street Treats is a 100% kid-owned business.<br />
We specialize in distributing the best homemade ice<br />
cream sandwiches in the tri-state area. We offer nine<br />
different flavor options, packing each homemade<br />
cookie combination with mounds of hand-scooped<br />
ice cream.<br />
What motivated you to start your business? What<br />
drives you each day?<br />
The vision of Carroll Street Treats started from a<br />
curbside ice cream sandwich stand in the summer of<br />
2013 when CEO, Reece Vander Zee, was eight years<br />
old. The initial motivation was to share our favorite<br />
family treat with our small-town community. What<br />
drives us daily is how God continues to use this<br />
“for-purpose” ministry to share love and connection<br />
through ice cream.<br />
What’s unique about your business?<br />
The unique thing about Carroll Street Treats is that it’s<br />
a sibling-owned business, and each sibling has a role<br />
in production, marketing, and finance.<br />
The Carroll Street Treats Crew: Joe, Meredith, Reece (17),<br />
Liam (15), Ayda (13), Blake (11), Nora (8) and Evan (4).<br />
What’s the biggest challenge you’ve had to<br />
overcome as you’ve grown your business?<br />
The biggest challenge has been staying ahead of<br />
the growth. With each passing year, each employee<br />
(sibling) has also grown in maturity and capacity, so<br />
we’ve been lucky to grow with the business, literally.<br />
What has been your greatest reward?<br />
The greatest reward has been how our success<br />
has allowed us to pay it forward to our community.<br />
The value of stewardship is essential to our vision<br />
statement. We have gotten to do some really cool<br />
things for our community.<br />
A 100% kid-owned entity that operates on a large<br />
scale is something that makes us very proud.<br />
New playground near the baseball & softball complex in<br />
Rock Rapids. One of 12 pay-it-forward projects that Carroll<br />
Street Treats has helped fund to give back.<br />
Ice Cream Sandwiches<br />
How have you benefited from the startup<br />
community in Sioux City and the region? What<br />
resources did you use?<br />
We are grateful for the exposure and experience<br />
we gained participating in The Big Challenge. Our<br />
second-place earnings helped us reach another<br />
business goal of purchasing a traveling treat trailer to
take to local events. The<br />
experience of preparing<br />
a sales pitch and making<br />
a promotional video was<br />
great for our whole crew.<br />
Why is it important<br />
for the community to<br />
support startups and<br />
small businesses? What<br />
more can be done to<br />
help them?<br />
We are so thankful for the<br />
support from our local<br />
community and beyond.<br />
Best selling Snickerdoodle Salted<br />
Caramel goodness.<br />
The success of smaller-scale businesses is a direct result of<br />
people who are willing to trust and be intentional with their<br />
support of a unique product and organic mission. We try to<br />
make sure our customers know how much we value them too.<br />
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What is one thing you know now that you wish you knew<br />
when starting your business?<br />
The most efficient way to mass produce a product that we value<br />
is homemade and fresh. It’s been a learning curve, but we’ve<br />
got a great system now that is duplicatable and sustainable to<br />
match growth.<br />
What advice would you give to someone looking to start<br />
a business?<br />
Entrepreneurship is a marathon, not a sprint. Growing slowly<br />
is still growing. Serve others with their best interest in mind,<br />
and your bottom line reflects your service. Continue to show up<br />
with a grateful heart, keep your vision filled with faith, love, and<br />
trust that God is ahead.<br />
How can the community continue to help your business?<br />
We currently have 16 wholesale partners in the tri-state area<br />
and are always open to other opportunities. We also are<br />
excited about the edition of our mobile food unit this spring, so<br />
if you’re looking for a fun addition to your summer festivities,<br />
we’d love to serve you!<br />
What are some future goals for your company?<br />
Future goals are to establish a consistent events calendar with<br />
our mobile food unit, add additional employees, expand our<br />
wholesale partner reach, and continue to follow where the Lord<br />
leads.<br />
Iowa’s West Coast Initiative (IWCI) is a collaboration between the<br />
economic development organizations in Plymouth, Monona, and<br />
Woodbury counties, and includes the following organizations:<br />
City of Sioux City, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Interstate Metropolitan Planning<br />
Council, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Economic Development Corporation, The<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Initiative, Le Mars Business Initiative Corporation,<br />
Woodbury County, and Monona County. Learn more about IWCI<br />
at www.IAWestCoast.com.<br />
Photos Contributed by Carroll Street Treats.
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Counseling and Training<br />
The U.S. Small Business Administration leverages<br />
its field offices, resource partners, and additional<br />
partnerships to help level the playing field for business<br />
owners and aspiring entrepreneurs who historically<br />
have lacked access to wealth or business opportunities.<br />
SBA Resource Partners<br />
SBA works with independent organizations to provide<br />
high-quality counseling and training to meet the<br />
specific needs of new and existing small businesses.<br />
This resource partner network includes SCORE<br />
business mentors, Small Business Development<br />
Centers (SBDCs), Women’s Business Centers (WBCs),<br />
and Veterans Business Opportunity Centers (VBOCs).<br />
Several resource partner service centers are located<br />
at Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs)<br />
across America. SBA resource partners provide<br />
counseling and training to business owners at all<br />
stages.<br />
SBA Emerging Leaders Initiative<br />
The Emerging Leaders Initiative is an intensive<br />
executive-level series intended to accelerate the<br />
growth of high-potential small businesses in America’s<br />
underserved cities. The program provides customized<br />
training for C-level executives with demonstrated<br />
business sustainability. Participants create a threeyear<br />
strategic growth action plan with benchmarks<br />
and performance targets to help them emerge as<br />
self-sustaining businesses creating jobs and building<br />
communities.<br />
Federal Partners<br />
The U.S. Department of Commerce operates the<br />
Minority Business Development Agency, which is<br />
dedicated to the growth and global competitiveness of<br />
business enterprises owned and operated by African<br />
Americans, Asian Americans, Hasidic Jews, Hispanic<br />
Americans, Native Americans, and Pacific Islanders.<br />
Funding Programs<br />
The federal government does not provide grants to<br />
start a business. However, there are several funding<br />
programs to help entrepreneurs start, expand, or<br />
recover from disasters. You can learn more about<br />
funding options for small businesses, including those<br />
targeted at minority and underserved communities,<br />
and connect with SBA-approved lenders. SBA also<br />
offers several special COVID-19 relief options.<br />
SBDC – Taking Care of Business<br />
By Todd Rausch<br />
Minority-Owned Businesses<br />
SBA is committed to supporting the development and growth of minority-owned small businesses and entrepreneurs from<br />
underserved communities.<br />
SBA Contracting Certifications &<br />
Business Development Programs<br />
8(a) Business Development Program<br />
The 8(a) Business Development program helps socially and<br />
economically disadvantaged small businesses grow by limiting<br />
competition for specific contracts to participating businesses,<br />
allowing them to become solid competitors in the federal<br />
marketplace.<br />
Disadvantaged businesses in the 8(a) program can:<br />
• Compete for set-aside and sole-source contracts in the program.<br />
• Get a Business Opportunity Specialist to navigate federal<br />
contracting.<br />
• Form joint ventures with established businesses through the<br />
SBA’s Mentor-Protégé Program.<br />
• Receive management and technical assistance, including<br />
business training, counseling, marketing assistance, and highlevel<br />
executive development.<br />
• Compete for contract awards under multiple socio-economic<br />
programs as they apply.<br />
Before you can participate in the 8(a) Business Development<br />
program, you must meet certain criteria and be certified.<br />
HUBZone Program<br />
The government limits competition for certain contracts<br />
to businesses in historically underutilized business zones.<br />
The program aims to award at least three percent of federal<br />
contract dollars each year to HUBZone-certified companies.<br />
Mentor-Protégé Program<br />
The SBA Mentor-Protégé Program enables eligible small<br />
businesses (protégés) to get valuable business development<br />
help and win government contracts through partnerships with<br />
more experienced companies (mentors).<br />
Additional Government Contracting Program<br />
SBA offers several additional government contracting<br />
certifications and programs.<br />
Office of Diversity, Inclusion, and Civil Rights<br />
All SBA programs and services are extended to the public on<br />
a nondiscriminatory basis. For additional information, you may<br />
contact SBA’s Office of Diversity, Inclusion, and Civil Rights for<br />
additional information.<br />
America’s SBDC Iowa provides free, confidential, customized,<br />
professional business advice and consulting in all 99 Iowa counties<br />
to entrepreneurs.<br />
Todd Rausch, Regional Director for the Small Business Development<br />
Center at Western Iowa Tech Community College. 712-274-6454 |<br />
Todd.rausch@witcc.edu
Sioux City Kicks Off 50th Ragbrai<br />
Sioux City Chamber<br />
Get ready for the area’s biggest party when<br />
Sioux City celebrates the 50th anniversary of The<br />
Register’s Annual Great Bike Ride Across Iowa,<br />
better known as RAGBRAI, on Saturday, July 22,<br />
with festivities that will attract a record number of<br />
registered riders.<br />
RAGBRAI cyclists will arrive in droves and stay the night, July<br />
22, before they dip their tires in the Missouri River and take<br />
off Sunday morning.<br />
It will be the eighth time RAGBRAI starts from Sioux City,<br />
including the first RAGBRAI, that launched in 1973 with more<br />
than 300 riders, 114 of whom made it to the end. This year<br />
cyclists will stop in Storm Lake and five other communities<br />
before ending in Davenport, Iowa, on, July 29.<br />
More than a dozen committees are addressing publicity,<br />
housing, signage, special events, public safety, medical,<br />
sponsorships, and more.<br />
Sioux City is seeking host homes, vendors, and volunteers.<br />
While thousands of registered riders will travel with charters<br />
and camp at Riverside Park and Chris Larsen Park on Sioux<br />
City’s riverfront, others will stay in area hotels, there is still a<br />
need for local homes, Salvatore said. “We need residents to<br />
open their yards and homes for smaller teams and individual<br />
riders. Most riders expect only a yard for camping, but they<br />
do appreciate access to a bathroom and shower along with<br />
a place to fill their water bottles. Some hosts enjoy cooking<br />
breakfast.”<br />
RAGBRAI insures registered participants.<br />
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A focal point for the riders and local residents will be the<br />
entertainment and bike expo area in the Tyson Events<br />
Center and Long Lines Family Rec Center parking lot.<br />
“RAGBRAI can showcase Sioux City like no other event<br />
and create a powerful economic impact,” said Sioux City<br />
RAGBRAI Chair Matt Salvatore. “Cyclists and their supporters<br />
from across the United States and from other countries will<br />
eat in our restaurants, stay in our hotels, shop and spend<br />
time with our warm and friendly residents.”<br />
RAGBRAI began when Des Moines Register reporters,<br />
John Karras and Donald Kaul, decided to bike across Iowa<br />
and invited others to join them. The ride exploded over<br />
the years, making RAGBRAI a major summer event across<br />
the state of Iowa.<br />
Sign up to host riders, volunteer, or be a vendor at<br />
ragbraisiouxcity.com. News also appears on Facebook<br />
@siouxcityragbrai, Twitter @scragbrai, and Instagram @<br />
siouxcityragbrai.<br />
JULY<br />
22<br />
RAGBRAISIOUXCITY.COM
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Okoboji Writer’s Retreat – Sept. 17-20, 2023<br />
The Okoboji Writer’s Retreat, September 17-20, is an annual event for anyone who has a story to tell.<br />
The three-day experience is designed for all skill levels, whether participants have a manuscriptready to publish, need a nudge to<br />
start a family memoir, or simply become a better writer.<br />
Award-winning columnists, authors, poets, and publishers from around the country<br />
will be there holding small-group workshops, serving on panels, or be available for<br />
individual consultation.<br />
Meet a literary agent, find your voice, and get started.<br />
There are optional social activities in the evening, including a barge trip around the lake.<br />
The Okoboji Writer’s Retreat is an opportunity to get started on your projects, become<br />
empowered, and make new connections.<br />
Enrollment will close on June 1. Space is limited, and has sold out each prior year,<br />
so act now (the fee is refundable less service charge until September 1).<br />
Cost: $795<br />
Some partial scholarships are available for emerging writers, or working journalists.<br />
Learn more: www.okobojiwritersretreat.com
Experience Downtown<br />
By Carly Howrey<br />
Downtown Partners is dedicated to creating a<br />
vibrant, expanding, and busy Downtown Sioux<br />
City. In order to fill vacant spaces and enhance existing<br />
ones, we’ve focused our efforts on business recruitment<br />
and retention. With the help of our partners and passionate<br />
work group members, we have developed two grant<br />
opportunities for downtown properties and businesses—<br />
the Downtown Business Recruitment Rent Relief Program<br />
and the Storefront Grant.<br />
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The Rent Relief Program is in full swing, awarding $10k in<br />
funds to new businesses within the first three months of its<br />
launch in July of 2022. The program allows a new business<br />
to receive 50% off rent for the first six months of operating<br />
in Downtown Sioux City. This is an agreement between the<br />
property owner and Downtown Partners to each cover 25%<br />
of the rent for up to half a year, capped at $3,600. The goal<br />
of this program is to attract new and exciting businesses.<br />
Whether it’s an ice cream parlor, a new pub, or a retail<br />
store—we want you downtown.<br />
To receive Rent Relief, a new business must have a 3-year<br />
lease agreement (minimum) and approval from the property<br />
owner. If you’re opening a business downtown and are<br />
unsure how to approach your property owner about this<br />
opportunity, please contact us at info@downtownsiouxcity.<br />
com. We would love to meet and explain the importance of<br />
this program to anyone interested. The annual Downtown<br />
Partners budget determines the total funding available;<br />
therefore the number of awarded applications depends<br />
on funding available, so apply today! Our dedication to<br />
help new businesses doesn’t stop there. After receiving<br />
Rent Relief funds, a business may also be eligible for the<br />
Storefront Grant.<br />
Rent relief<br />
Downtown Partners has awarded 22 businesses a total<br />
of $182,609.50 for façade improvements through<br />
the Storefront Grant. This program offers funds up to<br />
50% of owner or tenant investment, capped at $2,500<br />
per storefront. What exactly is a ‘storefront’ and what<br />
improvements qualify for the storefront grant? We define<br />
a storefront as: ‘the facade of a store; a room(s) of a<br />
commercial building, typically used as a store. Several<br />
storefronts could make up one building parcel.’ As for<br />
qualifying improvements, we have helped pay for signage,<br />
new front doors, murals, historic refurbishment, and more.<br />
If you have questions on your upcoming project, reach<br />
out to us. We’d be happy to answer any specific questions<br />
regarding your storefront. We want your business or<br />
property to leave the best first impression, apply for the<br />
Storefront grant today!<br />
Our grant funding is available for businesses and<br />
properties within the downtown district. We are<br />
excited to support projects directly making impacts<br />
on local businesses and hope to create more funding<br />
opportunities for downtown entities in the near future. All<br />
applications and further business assistance can be found<br />
on our website. To see the downtown district map, and for<br />
a more in-depth look at rules, benefits, and the selection<br />
process of each Downtown Partners grant opportunity,<br />
visit downtownsiouxcity.com.<br />
Maya Modification received the Storefront Grant in 2022.<br />
Contributed by Downtown Partners, a non-profit<br />
organization that works with downtown stakeholders to<br />
create a vibrant, expanding downtown. To learn more about<br />
Downtown Partners and stay up to date on downtown<br />
projects and events, visit downtownsiouxcity.com.
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Buff by Labor Day<br />
Hot Air<br />
By Tony Michaels<br />
Here’s a news flash. I am not a finished product. If<br />
you listen to me on the radio daily, this will not come as<br />
a shock. I am more than open about my shortcomings<br />
and where I need to improve. I am also very fortunate<br />
to have so many guests on “Starting Conversations<br />
with Stacie and Tony” podcast who are absolutely<br />
crushing it and are inspirations. Rachelle Rawson, Jeff<br />
Carlson, and Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata are recent guests who<br />
would probably fill this space with insight galore.<br />
I use this space as a confessional. Thanks for bearing<br />
with me. I am working it all out one article at a time.<br />
I would like to have the physique of a buff dude like<br />
country music superstar and actor Tim McGraw. I have<br />
subscribed to Men’s Health <strong>Magazine</strong> for 20 years to<br />
accomplish this goal! I read every issue from start to<br />
finish while crushing a six-pack and a pound of potato<br />
oles from my favorite taco place. Actually, my lovely<br />
wife gifted me the Tim McGraw fitness book for my<br />
birthday. However, it did not come with a magic weight<br />
loss elixir or “something like that.”<br />
When I took a vacation to New York City, I noticed many<br />
of the locals were very fit. I assume because they are<br />
constantly walking ALL the time. I live a short 20-minute<br />
walk from the radio station. When the weather allows,<br />
I really should hike into work. However, the extra 18<br />
minutes of sleep would make me a more tolerable coworker.<br />
You would take a slightly chubby happy fellow<br />
over a ripped, grumpy guy by the water cooler at work,<br />
right?<br />
I read in Esquire <strong>Magazine</strong> the many benefits of a<br />
daily sauna. That’s an idea I can champion. Sitting<br />
and sweating off the Lbs.? I’m sold. The stories from<br />
the sauna are great with intelligent people who tout<br />
increased activity and smarter food decisions, like<br />
recipes featuring kale and cabbage. After one recent<br />
conversation, I ran to the store and bought ten bucks<br />
worth of it. That was two weeks ago. It’s still in my<br />
fridge. Untouched. Can I add kale to my tacos? Would<br />
that help?<br />
I can’t imagine sitting down to watch a big game and<br />
substituting chicken wings from a local eatery for<br />
carrots and hummus. Even Tim McGraw has cheat days<br />
where he probably eats toast and avocado.<br />
I’ve been told the key to a more active lifestyle is to<br />
“lean in” to an activity I enjoy and pretend it’s not<br />
exercise. You know, like pretending kale does taste like<br />
lettuce or a stuffed crust pizza.<br />
So, I am calling on all readers of this magazine who own a<br />
golf course. Please give me a free membership to the links,<br />
and I promise I will walk the course. No golf cart for this<br />
guy! In just one summer, I will look just like Tim McGraw.<br />
My wife will be thrilled! I prefer to stroll to my next shot<br />
because I can quietly utter profanities under my breath as<br />
I walk to my Taylor Made golf ball 75 yards down the way,<br />
out of bounds in the tall weeds of the golf course.<br />
Which, by the way, those tall weeds do resemble something.<br />
Kale.<br />
Tony Michaels, morning show co-host on KSUX<br />
105.7, co-host Starting Conversation with Stacie<br />
& Tony Podcast, Golf Handicap 20, Fitness<br />
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Council Connection<br />
By Matthew O’Kane<br />
Springtime is fast approaching, but for many, it’s tough to get out of that winter mindset. We’re at that<br />
awkward part of the year where it can be freezing in the morning and bright and sunny in the afternoon. It’s a<br />
slow warm-up, but as the frost gives way to a sun-soaked city, it leaves you feeling that the frost was worth it just<br />
to see the contrast it helped to highlight. It takes something special to live in this climate, and you have to be<br />
able to adapt to those long nights and the cold weather.<br />
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During this time of year, it’s not uncommon for people to feel isolated and discouraged. Daylight savings time<br />
and the cold lingering from the recent winter months can make you feel like winter is never going to end. But<br />
those afternoon hours that break through the crisp weather and make way for the sun’s warmth are just the<br />
medicine the doctor ordered. It reminds us to get outside and feel the sunshine on our face, even if it’s only for<br />
a brief moment before the rain starts.<br />
Green thumbs like me will have started planting in February. Stick to your planting schedule and make time for<br />
it. The nurturing and care you provide to these tiny seedlings will pay off when we’re in the heat of summer. If<br />
planting is not your thing, get outdoors and find some time for restful relaxation or some light exercise. Take the<br />
kids for a walk around the block, visit a park, or bike a trail.<br />
If you’re so inclined, bring along a sack for trash. As the snow melts away and the wind picks up, there’s never<br />
a shortage of trash to be collected. Living in a community takes an effort by everyone to keep our space green.<br />
If you’re not keen on handling trash, report some potholes to the city so we can get them patched. This time of<br />
year they tend to be plentiful!<br />
Don’t forget to visit neighbors, loved ones, and friends. This time of year can be hard for everyone, and we<br />
should all help each other shake off the cold of the winter and embrace the springtime whenever we’re able.<br />
Everyone needs help now and then but don’t forget to take time for yourself as well. You are a valuable member<br />
of our community, and you should prioritize yourself.<br />
Matthew O’Kane, a K-12 Art Teacher for the Sioux City Community School District and a Sioux City Council Person. He’s a life-long<br />
resident of Sioux City, and an avid gardener and artist.<br />
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Leading the Way – Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
By Peggy Smith<br />
Celebrating the 2022-2023 Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> Class<br />
Almost 1200 young professionals have graduated from<br />
Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> since its inception in 1984. 39 years<br />
ago, a small group of progressive, forward-thinking individuals<br />
from Sioux City saw a need for an organized forum to develop<br />
leaders and help them get involved in the community. They<br />
offered a nine-month program to educate participants about<br />
the city, help them gain confidence and leadership skills,<br />
and invoke a passion for making a positive difference in their<br />
community. It is a tribute to those first visionaries that the<br />
program is still in existence and adding value today.<br />
Over the years, the program has expanded from Sioux Citycentric<br />
to tri-state-focused. The curriculum ncludes specific<br />
educational leadership skill components, such as Change<br />
Cycle Management, principles of positive leadership and<br />
emotional intelligence, and an emphasis on IDEA (Inclusion/<br />
Diversity/Equity/Access and Accessibility). There are<br />
numerous dynamic opportunities for participants to network<br />
with entrepreneurs and people of influence they might never<br />
have the chance to meet and interact with socially. Each year,<br />
the program attracts a diverse group of participants from<br />
different industries/occupations, at various career levels,<br />
different ethnicity, gender, age, and socioeconomic levels.<br />
This diversity within the class results in an extremely interactive,<br />
inspiring, and exciting learning environment.<br />
This year’s class undertook projects in collaboration with<br />
mission-driven organizations including <strong>Siouxland</strong> Youth for<br />
Christ, Sleep In Heavenly Peace, Wet-Nose Rescue, Meet<br />
the Need <strong>Siouxland</strong> Inc., YANA (You Are Not Alone), SCAHT<br />
(<strong>Siouxland</strong> Coalition Against Human Trafficking), and a newly<br />
formed Cancer SUX Tea Party. The graduates from the<br />
program enhanced their leadership skills and found their<br />
passion, and will go on to make positive differences in our<br />
community for years to come.<br />
Applications are now being taken for the 2023 – 2024 class.<br />
To learn more or apply, contact the Executive Director<br />
at exdir@leadershipsiouxland.org or call 712-898-8594.<br />
Congratulations to the graduates of the 2022 -2023 class<br />
and sincere thanks to the organizations that sponsored their<br />
participation:<br />
Stacie Anderson - <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>; Antonio Bass, Brian<br />
Ganger, and Anna Salas – Goodwill of the Great Plains;<br />
Janell Broekemier – Goosmann Law Firm; Greg Brummond<br />
- Chesterman Company ; Erin Cantrell – Seaboard Triumph<br />
Foods; Brooke Daane – Big Brothers/Big Sisters; Mary Davis,<br />
Katie Helgeland, Anna Howard, Bethany Jones, Lori Kasel,<br />
Valente Leon, Keith O’Dell, Dory Parkin, Rachel Ruiz, Rocky<br />
Schmitz – Wells Enterprises, Inc.; Janelle DeCora, Jaime<br />
Monroe, Darlyn St. Cyr – Ho Chunk Inc.; DJ Flores – Northwest<br />
Bank; Ashlee French – Barnhart Crane; Autumn Hernandez<br />
– Central Bank; Ben Hull – WA Klinger LLC; Erin McElroy – Briar<br />
Cliff University; LaShawna Moyle, Josh Van Zweden – WITCC; Neil<br />
Niehus – Schuster Inc.; Lt. Col. Will Poulson and SMSgt Luke Terry<br />
– SC ANG 185th; Jessica Ross – Security National Bank; Pat Schnell<br />
– FEH Design; Christy Schwaderer – Boy Scouts of America; Steve<br />
Steichen, Mike Yellot – Great West Casualty Company; Sarah<br />
Sturges – Floyd Valley HealthCare; Laura Tranmer – <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
Community Health Center; Tarn Vieira – Self-Employed; Jennifer<br />
Williams – Boys and Girls Club; Glen Winekauf – Horn Memorial<br />
Hospital<br />
Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> is able to cultivate community leaders<br />
because of our supporters. We’d like to thank Sioux City<br />
Museum, Orpheum Theater and Warrior Hotel, Seaboard<br />
Triumph Expo Center, WITCC Security Institute and 911 Center,<br />
Sioux City Chamber of Commerce, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Community<br />
Health Center, Boys and Girls Club of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, Girls Inc., SC<br />
ANG 185th, Salvation Army Camp. Kudos to our caterer, Susan<br />
Frahm. Special thanks as well to our presenters – Tom Munson<br />
(SC Museum); Rex Mueller, Ryan Bertrand (Sioux City Police) and<br />
Ryan Collins (Sioux City Fire); Julian Lee (<strong>Siouxland</strong> Community<br />
Health Center), Alex Watters (Morningside University and SC<br />
City Council); Heidi Kammer-Hodge (Consulting by Design LLC<br />
and Briar Cliff University); Zachary Nelson, (SC Juvenile Court<br />
Services), Tessa Dinsdale (First Interstate Bank), Barbara Sloniker<br />
(Sioux City Initiative and Sioux City Chamber), Chris Bogenrief<br />
(NAI United Business Brokerage), Chris Jacobs (ARNP<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Community Health Center), Kevin Grieme (<strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
District Health Department), Keith Vollstedt MD (UnityPoint<br />
Health); and representatives from the following organizations –<br />
Girls Inc, YANA, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Youth For Christ, Sleep In Heavenly<br />
Peach, Meet the Need <strong>Siouxland</strong> Inc., Youth Crisis Intervention<br />
Center, and Youth Shelter, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Coalition Against Human<br />
Trafficking.<br />
Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> continues to develop diverse, passionate<br />
leaders who positively impact our community for today and<br />
tomorrow. Please join us; you will find your passion and help make<br />
our community even stronger and better!<br />
The mission of Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> is to develop diverse,<br />
passionate leaders who positively impact our community for<br />
today and tomorrow. Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> began in 1984<br />
and is proud of the over 1200 graduates who make positive<br />
differences each and every day. To learn more, contact Peggy<br />
Smith, Executive Director, at 712-898-8594 or email info@<br />
leadershipsiouxland.org.<br />
Peggy Smith, Executive Director of Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong>, is<br />
dedicated to inspiring others to follow their passion to positively<br />
impact the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Community.
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization (SGO) is excited to<br />
announce that they will be hosting their 13th Annual<br />
Innovation Market! This year’s Market, Thursday, May 18,<br />
will host a Rush Hour Connect from 4-6:30 p.m., gathering<br />
the community around aspiring entrepreneurs. Innovation<br />
Market strives to grow our community through innovative<br />
ideas and supporting local businesses by bridging the<br />
gap between the inception of an entrepreneurial idea<br />
and making it a reality. SGO uses this event to create an<br />
environment where potential startups or businesses, less<br />
than a year old, test their ideas in a community setting.<br />
At our Innovation Market, you can expect a wall illuminated<br />
with business idea submissions, and attendees are<br />
encouraged to vote for their favorite business they would<br />
like to see in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. After votes are tallied, the top five<br />
finalists will be announced. The event winners will later<br />
attend a business pitch event where they can win up to<br />
$5,000 to help get their businesses started. We strongly<br />
believe this helps boost local economic growth and the<br />
overall well-being of our community. After you’ve had the<br />
opportunity to read all of the impressive idea submissions,<br />
you can network and sample from some of <strong>Siouxland</strong>’s<br />
favorite breweries, restaurants, and more!<br />
For the last 13 years, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization has<br />
successfully hosted our Innovation Market, awarding more<br />
than $100,000 in grant money to help local entrepreneurs<br />
realize their vision. It is also one of the only opportunities<br />
locally for entrepreneurs to win grant money for their<br />
potential business ventures.<br />
If you or someone you know has a business idea you<br />
would like to submit for the Innovation Market, please have<br />
them submit their business idea to SiouxCityGO.com. The<br />
deadline to submit is Thursday, May 4. If you do not want to<br />
start a new business but you want to have a direct impact<br />
on the economic influence that entrepreneurs have in the<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> community, stop by our event Thursday, May 18,<br />
between 4:30 - 6 p.m. If you have any questions regarding<br />
the event, submissions, or how to get involved with the event<br />
in the future, please reach out to our Innovation Market<br />
Chair, Ashley, at <strong>Siouxland</strong>GO@gmail.com.<br />
If you want to join the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization, there<br />
are many exciting opportunities to get involved with and<br />
affect change in our community. One of the best ways to<br />
get involved is to join one of our committees. No matter<br />
your expertise or background, we welcome all members<br />
Future Foundation – <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO<br />
By Sydney McManamy<br />
Supporting Aspiring Entrepreneurs in <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />
2022 Innovation Market Winner Furrow Flower.<br />
interested in helping improve the organization through their<br />
committee efforts.<br />
Our committees include Community Engagement, Connect,<br />
Marketing, Innovation Market, and Special Events. To learn<br />
more about the various committees that are available, you<br />
can visit our website, SiouxCityGO.com, and click on the<br />
committee titles to be redirected to their respective pages. If<br />
you are interested in joining a committee, you can contact the<br />
SGO Board Chair of that committee to get involved.<br />
Our monthly general meeting will be held Wednesday,<br />
May 10th from 12 to 1 p.m., at the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Chamber of<br />
Commerce, 101 Pierce Street. The June meeting will be<br />
Wednesday, June 14, from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m., at the South Sioux<br />
City College Center, 1001 College Way. These meetings are<br />
open to the public and we welcome anyone who is interested<br />
in learning more about our organization and how we support<br />
our <strong>Siouxland</strong> community. This is an excellent opportunity to<br />
meet our team, hear about our plans for the coming months,<br />
and get involved in the activities and events we have planned.<br />
If you would like more information about the events we have<br />
coming up in the future, please check us out on Facebook.<br />
We hope to see you soon at Innovation Market!<br />
<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization, was formed in 2002 to<br />
encourage young professionals to become active members<br />
of the <strong>Siouxland</strong> community. Our goal is to attract<br />
and retain young professionals in the area by providing<br />
insight into what <strong>Siouxland</strong> has to offer and how they can<br />
get involved in shaping its future.<br />
Sydney McManamy, President of SGO.<br />
Photo Contributed by <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO.<br />
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Up From The Earth Is Beginning Its 10th Growing Season<br />
By Up From The Earth<br />
Up From the Earth is beginning its 10th growing<br />
season and is celebrating as gardeners and<br />
farmers grow extra garden produce to share<br />
through our collection sites and pantries! We<br />
made the connections, and this amazing community<br />
has stepped up to work together to meet the needs.<br />
Our program has evolved to meet the needs of the<br />
community through the years while consistently growing<br />
in pounds donated.<br />
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We began in 2014 with a pilot program with a handful<br />
of churches and pantries. Going into 2023’s season, we<br />
have 40 local area collection sites and pantries. THANK<br />
YOU ALL for stepping up.<br />
In our early years, we received grants to help fund some<br />
gardening tools for donation gardens. Throughout the<br />
years, we have handed out seeds and seedlings often<br />
grown by master gardeners to donate to individuals<br />
and donation gardens. Our mission diversified to<br />
include educating the public regarding healthy eating<br />
of fresh vegetables and fruits, and how to grow some<br />
vegetables in containers to have some “at home.” We<br />
continue to educate the community on the needs in our<br />
neighborhood to increase food security and develop an<br />
awareness of what each of us can do to help. More and<br />
more individuals come forward to donate each year.<br />
We have partnered and collaborated with an array of<br />
organizations working together to increase food security<br />
in our community! This is a generous place to live!<br />
In 2018 we introduced our garden mascot Zucchini Guy<br />
to help us get our message out. In 2018, with the help<br />
of a marketing professor and students at Morningside<br />
University, our webpage was upgraded, and our logo<br />
was reinvented. Currently, in 2023, we have added a QR<br />
code on the website and posters around town. Take a<br />
picture of that QR code,, and you will be taken directly<br />
to our website, the list of collection sites and pantries,<br />
the days they are open, and how to contact them. You<br />
may contact us to donate or supplement what you need<br />
to feed your family. Our Facebook page has a lot of<br />
traffic thanks largely to the behind-the-scenes work of<br />
Zucchini Guy (aka Mark Raymond). Annual Certificates<br />
of Appreciation and frequent “Tip of the Trowel” on<br />
Facebook help us recognize the wonderful people<br />
sharing in our vision.<br />
Z Guy at the Sioux City Farmers Market with manager Becky.<br />
Randy Burnight, Mark Raymond, and Jenny Jorgensen, ISU<br />
Woodbury County Extension and Outreach Master Gardeners<br />
and Steering Team Committee members for Up From the Earth.<br />
At St. James Methodist Vacation Bible School learning<br />
about gardening from Jenny Jorgensen.<br />
Up from the Earth exists to connect extra produce from<br />
home gardens to people in need.
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Ask the Therapist<br />
By Jackie Paulson<br />
Send Your<br />
Questions<br />
to the<br />
Therapist.<br />
have heard of the importance of letting my feelings ‘be<br />
there’ but wonder at what point am I giving feelings such as<br />
depression and anxiety too much attention. I am afraid I will<br />
Q:“I<br />
get stuck in negativity.”<br />
Dear Reader,<br />
This is actually a common exploration that happens<br />
in therapy. The theories I work from as a therapist<br />
often promote a lot of emotional intimacy, which<br />
encourages learning to “be with” emotions rather<br />
than try to dissociate or distract from them. The<br />
idea is that emotions themselves are not actually<br />
a threat. Our belief about those emotions creates<br />
a story that emotions are unsafe and that we<br />
should fix them or get away from them as quickly<br />
as possible, which can become problematic.<br />
Emotions never really go away when we run from<br />
them. Often they just get tucked away. Repressed<br />
emotions can manifest in the body as physical<br />
symptoms if they go unaddressed for a long time.<br />
For this reason, I like to empower people to find the<br />
courage to address their feelings and challenge<br />
the belief that there is anything to fix. I want them to<br />
acknowledge the intelligence of their body-mind.<br />
Often the body knows exactly how to respond to<br />
help wake the individual up to an overall better<br />
well-being. And sometimes, the body does that<br />
through symptoms like depression, anxiety, anger,<br />
etc. Just as the body elicits pain when you put<br />
your hand on something too hot to motivate<br />
you to respond and move it away, the body also<br />
offers you feedback through the emotions and<br />
sensations in your body. I also appreciate that<br />
sometimes states of depression and anxiety can<br />
be patterns that need to be re-patterned, which<br />
requires intentional action in building an opposite<br />
state inside the body-mind.<br />
Ultimately, the answer to this question is highly<br />
individual. First, I encourage anyone who feels they<br />
can relate to access someone who can support them<br />
with reflections that will guide that person in the right<br />
direction for themselves.<br />
Next, learning to attune and track your body’s<br />
“signals” (often felt through sensations through the<br />
body) will be the most helpful skill in understanding<br />
what the best response is at any given time. Practices<br />
such as guided breathwork, yoga, mindfulness, etc.,<br />
can all be helpful in learning the skill of interoception.<br />
Building on this skill does take practice and some<br />
training, but when one learns to do so - it can open<br />
up a vast array of possibilities and personal authority.<br />
In order to really understand when a feeling needs<br />
more space and time from you versus when you are<br />
hijacked by and getting stuck in an emotional state<br />
will often be felt quite subtly within the context of our<br />
body’s internal signals. Pendulation is a word that<br />
describes the practice of moving back and forth. A<br />
lot of emotional regulation and nervous system work<br />
is not about achieving a higher state and staying there<br />
but rather increasing one’s capacity to be flexible<br />
between states, including emotions. For example,<br />
if I have a conflict with my friend and become really<br />
angry, how available do I feel to soften the anger?
Which doesn’t mean not feeling it but allowing<br />
myself to be buoyant within the emotion. I am not<br />
necessarily being carried away by it, nor feeling as<br />
if I am not allowed to experience it at all.<br />
This is where curiosity comes in. Building a curious<br />
nature is extremely helpful in imbibing an answer<br />
to the question of “what do I need right now as<br />
it relates to this feeling - to be with it or to take<br />
action and move beyond it?”. As long as we are<br />
judging ourselves one way or another, we likely<br />
aren’t actually being intimate with any part of our<br />
experience. Shame and judgment are surefire ways<br />
of getting stuck in any situation. Curiosity and an<br />
attitude of playfulness with one’s experience are<br />
the anecdotes to shame. For example, suppose I<br />
am feeling overwhelmed and confused, instead of<br />
judging myself for that experience, I allow another<br />
curious and compassionate part of me to come<br />
“online.” It is not in place of the overwhelming<br />
feelings but with it. This has taken practice and<br />
time to develop this skill. And often, we cannot<br />
learn this until we have been shown it by another<br />
relationship - especially if we didn’t get this level of<br />
co-regulation from our parents growing up. When<br />
we are able to get curious, space opens up. And<br />
when space opens up, emotions and sensations<br />
have somewhere to flow.<br />
If you ever find emotions or sensations becoming<br />
too overwhelming, you should not push or force<br />
yourself to stay with it longer than necessary. A big<br />
part of why our systems have developed a story<br />
that emotions are unsafe is that we have likely<br />
experienced some level of trauma or childhood<br />
conditioning that left us feeling powerless in the<br />
state of our own emotions. I like to help people<br />
feel they have a choice in their experience, and at<br />
any given time - you can choose to comfort yourself<br />
and choose something different - including<br />
reaching out for help. In the depth of this work,<br />
we can become too serious and get overly focused<br />
on the narrative of “healing.” I want to remind you<br />
that your purpose in life is not just to heal, but to<br />
enjoy this life with which we have been blessed.<br />
You can submit your question for “Ask the Therapist”<br />
by visiting jaclynpaulson@gmail.com and sending your<br />
question through the contact page. Please put “Ask the<br />
Therapist” in the subject line.<br />
Jackie Paulson is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the<br />
state of Iowa. It is her belief that every person has an innate<br />
intelligence within them and can “whole” themselves with<br />
the right support. Jackie offers a holistic and somatic based<br />
therapy practice in Sioux City, IA. Ultimately, she humbly<br />
sits with others in hopes to empower them to seek and<br />
connect into their own deep and sacred wisdom that<br />
resides within. You already have the answers, it is with the<br />
right witnessing and curiosity that the truth is revealed.<br />
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There is much more here regarding this topic, but<br />
I will leave it with these three invitations for now.<br />
• Get support. Someone who can clearly mirror for<br />
you your own inner body wisdom.<br />
• Develop the skill of interoception.<br />
• Get curious.<br />
• Don’t forget to play!<br />
With love,<br />
Jackie
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Ask the Doc<br />
By Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata<br />
Send Your<br />
Questions<br />
to the<br />
Doctor.<br />
son is a teenager and has been moodier lately, skipping school,<br />
hanging with the wrong crowd, and smoking pot daily. He says it helps him<br />
calm down, cope with his anxiety, and concentrate. I did the same thing<br />
when I was his age, only I ended up in and out of juvenile detention and<br />
residential treatment facilities, which didn’t help me. I was also abused as<br />
a child, and my parents didn’t protect me the way I protect my son. I love<br />
Q:My<br />
my son; he is a great kid, and I have done my best to protect and provide<br />
for him. I just didn’t see ‘this’ coming. I thought by protecting him from<br />
any form of abuse, he would be safe and not travel down the same path I<br />
did. Thankfully, he is now in therapy and seeing a mental health provider.<br />
However, I struggle as a parent: Why did this happen to my son? Why<br />
couldn’t I protect him?<br />
Dear Reader,<br />
You are self-aware and intentional as a parent to be<br />
there for your son in ways that you needed when you<br />
were his age. Knowledge and self-awareness are the<br />
first steps towards healing and taking charge of your<br />
health journey, ultimately trickling down to your son and<br />
the next generation. While this article provides general<br />
information and is not medical advice, consult with a<br />
trained mental health professional for your and your son’s<br />
specific needs.<br />
Transgenerational Trauma<br />
We now know that newborns don’t come into the world<br />
with a “clean slate.” They not only inherit the genes<br />
from their parents, but they also inherit what we call<br />
epigenetics. Epigenetics refer to how genes may or not<br />
be expressed.<br />
A study done in mice that found a link between the<br />
intergenerational effects of trauma and scent. The<br />
researchers blew a chemical that is the cherry blossom<br />
scent into the cages of adult male mice while zapping<br />
their feet with an electric current at the same time. The<br />
mice then associate the smells of cherry blossom with<br />
pain. When the offspring of these male mice smelled the<br />
scent of cherry blossom, they became more nervous and<br />
jumpier compared to other pups whose fathers weren’t<br />
conditioned to fear it. The grand pups of the traumatized<br />
pups also showed heightened sensitivity to the cherry<br />
blossom scent only.<br />
The sensitivity to cherry blossom scent was connected<br />
to epigenetic changes in the fathers’ sperm DNA. The<br />
pups’ brains had a more significant number of neurons<br />
that detect the cherry blossom scent. A greater sensitivity<br />
to cherry blossom was passed down from parent mice to<br />
pups.<br />
Impact of Transgenerational Trauma<br />
What researchers learned from the Adverse Childhood<br />
Experiences (ACE) is that childhood trauma, chronic<br />
diseases, and emotional and social problems were<br />
linked. This means that children who experienced at least<br />
one event on the ACE questionnaire were more likely to<br />
struggle with chronic diseases as adults, such as diabetes,<br />
obesity, lung cancer, autoimmune disease, depression,<br />
and substance abuse.
Neuroplasticity and Resilience<br />
The brain cells can continue to grow and make a<br />
new connection (synapsis) when you challenge your<br />
brain to learn and cultivate new skills. We call that<br />
neuroplasticity, and that is where resiliency comes<br />
from. This is also known as “Post Traumatic Growth,”<br />
as the brain is still able to grow, and change provided<br />
the right conditions. Below are some tips you can do to<br />
help set your brain cells to recovery and growth:<br />
Positive Childhood Experiences<br />
Research found an association between positive<br />
childhood experiences and adult mental and<br />
relationship health, regardless of what the ACE score<br />
was. To create your positive childhood experiences<br />
inventory, ask yourself the following questions: how<br />
often during your childhood:<br />
• Did you feel able to talk to your family<br />
about your feelings?<br />
• Did you feel your family stood by you<br />
during difficult times?<br />
• Did you enjoy participation in community<br />
traditions?<br />
• Did you feel a sense of belonging in<br />
school or faith community?<br />
• Did you feel supported by friends?<br />
• Did you have at least two non-parent<br />
adults who took a genuine interest in you?<br />
• Did you feel safe and protected by an<br />
adult in your home?<br />
Engaging with Art<br />
Researchers have found that engaging with any form of art<br />
helps your being to access its creativity and inner wisdom to<br />
help you heal. You don’t have to be an artist to engage in art.<br />
The act of engaging with a creative process is what matters!<br />
Cultivating a Sense of Purpose and Meaning<br />
The trauma you, and your ancestors, have experienced is<br />
unfortunate. However, these experiences do not have to<br />
define you. With the help of journaling or a therapist, you<br />
can reflect on what lessons you have learned from it, what<br />
you want to do with your life, and how you want to live it.<br />
Social Support and Spiritual Community<br />
You may consider finding a support group, depending on<br />
what you are interested in and what your needs are. You may<br />
also consider exploring spiritual practices and community.<br />
For example, your source of support and community may be<br />
your child’s classmates’ parents or other people in recovery.<br />
You may consider finding a support group, depending on<br />
what you are interested in and what your needs are. You may<br />
also consider exploring spiritual practices and community.<br />
For example, your source of support and community may be<br />
your child’s classmates’ parents or other people in recovery.<br />
You can submit your questions for “Ask the Doctor” to<br />
drnesrinabuata@gmail.com. Please put “Ask the Doctor”<br />
in the subject line.<br />
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Mindfulness Practices<br />
Studies have found that learning mindfulness practices<br />
help increase distress tolerance and resiliency, and<br />
low-stress hormones. You can work with a therapist to<br />
learn these skills and teach them to your son. There is<br />
also the Center for Mindfulness Self Compassion that<br />
has online resources.<br />
Dr. Abu Ata, a board-certified holistic trauma-informed psychiatrist<br />
and family medicine physician. She is in private practice and can<br />
be found at www.nesrinabuatamd.com or at drnesrinabuata@<br />
gmail.com. Dr. Abu Ata believes in holistic care that integrates the<br />
mind, body, and spirit. In addition to offering lifestyle interventions,<br />
mindfulness-based psychotherapy, and psychopharmacology, she<br />
also offers ketamine-assisted psychotherapy.<br />
Exercise Regularly<br />
People with trauma tend to move their bodies less,<br />
which worsens their medical conditions and physical<br />
health. Researchers have found that exercise helps<br />
with depression, and anxiety and promotes better selfesteem.<br />
The endorphins your body releases help you<br />
feel better, and with feeling better, you are more likely<br />
to continue to engage in activities that bring you joy<br />
and a general sense of well-being.
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Summer, the season of the heart, illuminates<br />
as the culmination of our Attunement with<br />
the Seasons series, which brings us to this<br />
element: fire. As always, ancient medicine provides<br />
sound guidance in embracing, understanding, and<br />
absorbing the medicine of the heart through its<br />
season. Kathy Jensen of Mind & Body Connection<br />
in Sioux City sheds a vast orb of light on the many<br />
unique herbal protocols associated with each season<br />
in Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM). She explains<br />
that the blood is the mother of chi (or qi), that vital,<br />
life force energy carried, as a child, throughout the<br />
body by the bloodstream. This approach paints a<br />
unique picture of the cardiovascular system, aiding<br />
us in nourishing and healing the physical system and<br />
its emotions, neurology, and general energy.<br />
Healing in Your Own Hands<br />
By Emily Larson<br />
Attunement with the Seasons: Play the Music of the Heart in Summer<br />
deeper qualities of the summer season, associating<br />
it with fire and the color red and the South direction,<br />
from which warm winds come. This is a time of action,<br />
as represented by the winds of the South and the fire<br />
element. In acknowledging these deeper concepts of<br />
the seasons and how they align with the body and the<br />
Earth, we can find our own unique and personal ways<br />
of attuning to the season of Summer.<br />
One such example is music. Of course, a full seasonal<br />
cleanse, with its many protocols and disciplines, has<br />
deep healing qualities and provides a full hero version<br />
of alignment with the Earthly season. However, music<br />
provides a modern yet timeless alternative to the<br />
alternative medicine seasonal approach, specifically,<br />
playing musical instruments.<br />
As a clinical herbalist and longtime student and<br />
teacher of TCM, she stated that the season is not<br />
simply associated with certain herbs but that the<br />
Earthly season supports and has an affinity for certain<br />
medicine, movement, emotions, and energy. For<br />
example, hawthorn berries are a staple in TCM as a<br />
heart protector. Western medicine aligns with this<br />
finding by observing the polyphenols in hawthorn<br />
berries, which act as antioxidants, cleansing the<br />
blood of toxic free radicals. However, in following<br />
ancient medicine to its great depths, we find much<br />
more than this physiological benefit.<br />
Sometimes, understanding and communicating the<br />
heart can prove to be a prickly challenge laced with<br />
miscommunication and confusion. Words like happy,<br />
sad, or excited can name an emotion but may not do<br />
justice to the raw expression of that emotion.<br />
However, as Zach Pickens, lead guitarist of the Sioux<br />
City band Port Nocturnal, states, “Everyone has a song<br />
that makes them cry” and explains that music provides<br />
a resource for tapping into emotions and inner human<br />
experiences that beg for more than words as their<br />
deliverance.<br />
In TCM, Kathy explains<br />
that summer is a time<br />
to listen to the heart’s<br />
deepest desires, connect<br />
with what we love, and<br />
heal with love. The heart<br />
and the element of fire<br />
are associated with the<br />
emotion of purified joy<br />
and creation, so the<br />
summer season also<br />
supports working with<br />
family and intimate<br />
relationships.<br />
Kathy states that Native<br />
American medicine also<br />
acknowledges these<br />
Whole dried hawthorne<br />
berries can be a heart<br />
tonic in many forms.<br />
Pickens also provides an intuitive connection between<br />
his musical creative process and the true expression of<br />
the heart. “When I’m feeling something big, complex,<br />
or difficult and can describe that sonically, it allows<br />
me to fully feel, explore, and communicate it without<br />
confusing words to get it out there. Talking about my<br />
feelings doesn’t have the same effect.”<br />
According to Pickens, this ability to manifest genuine<br />
expression of his emotional life is further validated<br />
when he and his bandmates, Layne Medema (bass<br />
wizard/riff dealer) and Alex Rhymer, find themselves<br />
in their dark basement studio. “When we jam, each of<br />
us is allowed to play what we feel in real-time. One of<br />
us leads while the other two paint the canvas that’s<br />
been provided, playing to that feel, that vibe. It gives<br />
us a chance to understand each other without having<br />
to explain it.”
TCM teaches us many ways to take heart medicine,<br />
especially in its deeper themes that guide us in<br />
connecting with oneself and each other. By playing the<br />
music of the heart, we can find an adapted yet authentic<br />
version of music as medicine.<br />
For local sources of musical learning:<br />
Ray’s Midbell Music<br />
4230 S Lancelot Ln<br />
Sioux City, IA 51106<br />
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Together in the basement as Port Nocturnal each<br />
counterpart contributes his own inner experience.<br />
Pickens’ observations support the microcosmic storm<br />
of electrical activity in his brain when he plays guitar,<br />
especially improvisationally in a jam.<br />
According to Anita Collins, doctor of Neuroscience<br />
and Music Education, playing a musical instrument<br />
creates many connections in the brain, including<br />
centers for movement, sensation, emotion, audition,<br />
and visualization. She says this develops the level<br />
of connection across the left and right hemispheres<br />
of the brain, strengthening the music player’s<br />
ability to marry creativity with precision, planning<br />
with improvisation, and language with emotion. By<br />
tapping many different areas of the brain, playing<br />
music becomes a way to connect the mind, body, and<br />
heart. The brain is the center of the central nervous<br />
system and communicates with every system of the<br />
body, primarily through the bioelectrical activity<br />
informing the rhythm of the heartbeat. Thus, learning<br />
a musical instrument would not only be in harmony<br />
with ancient heart medicine but also has support from<br />
more Western styles of medicine.<br />
Sioux City Conservatory of Music<br />
1309 Pierce St<br />
Sioux City, IA 51105<br />
For a TED Talk on Music and<br />
the Brain with Dr. Anita Collins:<br />
TedxTalk - Anita Collins Music<br />
https://www.anitacollins.com/tedxtalk<br />
For an herbal consultation with<br />
Kathy Jensen, seasonal cleanse<br />
workshops or medicinal herbs:<br />
Mind & Body Connection<br />
1925 Geneva St.<br />
Sioux City, IA 51104<br />
Emily Larson, Licensed Massage Therapist, Private<br />
Yoga Instructor, Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology<br />
& Human Performance, Instructor of Anatomy and<br />
Pathology for massage therapy students at the Bio Chi<br />
Institute, and mother to Noah.<br />
Photo Credit Emily Larson.<br />
Pickens, Medema, and Rhymer unite in their basement<br />
studio once a week, inside cushioned walls that<br />
create a womb-like echo chamber, a macrocosm of<br />
the heart’s warm, electrical, pulsing inner ventricles.<br />
Medema creates a deep well of driving force bass<br />
tones as he explores ancient Raga scales, representing<br />
the walls of the heart, reverberating and constant.<br />
Pickens rips streams of color and emotion dark and<br />
deep, representing the flow of blood and energy as<br />
crashing, tympanic skins reinforce each sound, giving<br />
it clear meaning. Rhymer’s every strike represents<br />
the heartbeat, supporting the hallucinogenic, bluesexploring,<br />
grunge sound of the trio speaking their<br />
own language. This collaboration even stands to<br />
represent the different areas of the brain lighting up,<br />
coming together as one storm and true expression of<br />
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Summer Is Around The Corner – Time To Get That Shred On<br />
The glorious drug, caffeine, is<br />
frequently used in pre-workout<br />
and fat-burning supplements<br />
to increase energy and focus. It<br />
improves mental alertness, memory,<br />
exercise performance, and fat burning.<br />
So why are they so popular in these<br />
supplements?<br />
Caffeine studies have shown<br />
enhanced peak torque and motor unit<br />
recruitment in lower and upper body<br />
muscle groups. The increase in energy<br />
allows individuals to produce more<br />
power (energy) to squeeze out extra<br />
reps. Muscle burns calories. Caffeine<br />
is a central nervous system stimulant.<br />
It works by stimulating the brain.<br />
There are also plant sources of<br />
caffeine, including kola nuts, guarana,<br />
Mexico Shred.<br />
and yerba mate. You will often see these<br />
last two ingredients when looking at a<br />
thermogenic (fat burner). Caffeine can<br />
be useful and, typically, most people’s<br />
best friend, but it is a drug. It can<br />
cause shakiness, agitation, decreased<br />
coordination, high blood pressure, and<br />
increased heart rate in extremely high<br />
doses. It should be taken with care and<br />
always assess tolerance.<br />
Nitric oxide is a compound that your<br />
body NATURALLY produces to relax<br />
blood vessels and improve blood flow.<br />
It contributes to “the pump.” The pump<br />
is when your muscles swell, caused by<br />
excessive blood.<br />
Some common compounds used to<br />
make nitric oxide are included in preworkout<br />
supplements. These include<br />
L-arginine, L-citrulline, and sources of<br />
dietary nitrates. L-citrulline is an amino<br />
acid found in meat, nuts, legumes,<br />
and watermelon. An example of how<br />
the pump powers growth is through<br />
oxygen.<br />
Increasing the delivery of oxygen-rich<br />
red blood cells to your starving muscles<br />
accelerates the speed at which your<br />
system is able to cleanse itself of muscle<br />
toxins, such as ammonia. It also may<br />
decrease muscle soreness due to the<br />
oxygen-rich blood cells. Nitric oxide is<br />
also crucial for the fat-burning process,<br />
as it facilitates the breakdown of fats.<br />
If nitric oxide levels are low, fat<br />
accumulation increases, leading to<br />
negative impacts on blood flow and<br />
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heart health. Moreover, insufficient<br />
nitric oxide can result in a slow<br />
metabolism and hinder weight loss.<br />
So, that last part is critical for those<br />
reading, not necessarily interested in<br />
muscle building or fat burning.<br />
Nitric oxide production is essential<br />
for overall health because it allows<br />
blood, nutrients, and oxygen to travel<br />
to every part of your body effectively<br />
and efficiently. It offers heart-boosting<br />
effects, including reducing arterial<br />
stiffness, reducing blood pressure,<br />
and improving carotid artery blood<br />
flow. Limited nitric oxide production is<br />
associated with heart disease, diabetes,<br />
and a particular “male dysfunction.”<br />
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Cody Rininger is certified by the National Academy of Medicine as a Professional Fitness Instructor. He is also certified in Cardiorespiratory<br />
Fitness, Heart Variance, Nutrition, Neuromuscular Flexibility, Supplements, and Mental/Behavior Performance. He incorporates techniques<br />
for concentration, focus, motivation, and coping with anxiety. He has been featured in National Fitness <strong>Magazine</strong>s and has spoken<br />
on several national Podcasts. Prior to personal training, Cody received his Master’s in Instruction. He has first-hand experience with<br />
differentiating personalized instruction, planning, and goal setting. Cody brings his 2B Imperium training methods, knowledge, and<br />
experience to give clients the best overall experience, whether they have been exercising for years or are beginning their fitness journey.<br />
He was named 2022 <strong>Siouxland</strong> Trainer of the Year and is nominated for the 2023 Award. Cody trains at the Four Seasons in Sioux City and<br />
North Sioux City.<br />
Photo Credit Cancun Resort Photography. Photo Contributed by Cody Rininger.
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Living Lumin<br />
Dr. Meghan Nelson & Dr. Ryan Allen<br />
Getting Schooled: Cultivating A Mindful Classroom<br />
We are all connected, we like to say. It doesn’t<br />
always feel that way, especially with my own children<br />
and those I serve. The force and frequency that so<br />
many of our young people operate with today has us<br />
all in a frenzy. The pace is too frantic. The energy out<br />
there can be just too much.<br />
In our work in the community, nowhere do we see<br />
these truths at play more than in our schools. Many<br />
kids today carry a heavy emotional weight in those<br />
backpacks to class each morning. Massive forces are<br />
reshaping the development and maturation in how<br />
all young people learn: a destabilization of family<br />
life, a lack of academic preparation, a decline in<br />
social-emotional learning, the absence of resiliency,<br />
an explosion of behavioral, intellectual, and physical<br />
disability diagnoses, and a rapid rise in mental health<br />
issues—we’re at a tipping point. And this was all even<br />
before Covid-19. Additionally, childhood trauma can<br />
negatively impact learning and behavior because of<br />
how terror and fear change the brain. Without trauma<br />
intervention, research has shown that these emotional<br />
states alter brain function and the young person’s<br />
ability to process information.<br />
It doesn’t have to be trauma, though. There are all<br />
sorts of barriers to learning—disabilities, environment,<br />
language acquisition, curriculum design, teacher<br />
disposition, the list goes on. Thus, those of us who<br />
hold leadership positions have a special responsibility<br />
to ensure that what we’re fostering is universal and<br />
accessible to all. To create equitable and inclusive<br />
classrooms and schools, it’s our job to co-create with<br />
our students, parents, and community the space for<br />
diverse voices and visions to flourish.<br />
One of my favorite places to practice all these virtues<br />
in action is Bishop Heelan’s Dual Language Academy.<br />
There’s a beautiful community of learning and care here,<br />
evidenced clearly in the closeness of bonds between<br />
teachers and students and amongst the students in<br />
the different classes. They belong to one another. They<br />
support one another. They pick each other up when<br />
someone gets knocked down, even if they are the<br />
ones who knocked them down in the first place (they’re<br />
kiddos, after all). They have challenges, and some of<br />
Laughing – Learning – Fun<br />
their students struggle pretty mightily, but there’s a lot of<br />
love in that building and clear communication between<br />
the adults. These aren’t always a given.<br />
One of the greatest lessons I learned from my time<br />
studying and serving with the Veterans Yoga Project years<br />
back is how the teacher/facilitator can help to shape the<br />
interpretation or meaning of internal states by:<br />
1. Focusing on breath and sensation<br />
2. Normalizing sensations and experiences<br />
3. Encouraging non-reactive awareness/acceptance<br />
4. Facilitating consciousness rotation throughout<br />
the body (body scanning)<br />
The constant test-taking in schools, over-committing in<br />
sports and clubs, and lessons out of school, coupled with<br />
a generally more disjointed home life and an over-reliance<br />
on technology is producing a generation of children who<br />
are missing golden opportunities to cultivate their critical<br />
thinking, communication, and resilience skills. And they’re<br />
screaming at us for help.<br />
When our schools listen and our teachers create safe,
mindful classroom spaces, we all feel the benefits.<br />
During the school year, our kids spend more time with<br />
their teachers each day than with their parents. There is<br />
power in time. Here are a few suggestions for how to<br />
use it wisely:<br />
1. Have fun. Rethink discipline. Emphasize play.<br />
2. Repeat #1 often.<br />
The closer an activity is to a game the more likely it is<br />
to be successful. Games allow us to forget that we’re<br />
learning because we’re having so much fun playing.<br />
Imaginative play empowers children to use physical,<br />
social, and intellectual skills. They develop focus,<br />
concentration, coordination, self-awareness, selfcontrol,<br />
and a trust in their creativity and problemsolving<br />
skills.<br />
Preschoolers finding and losing themselves.<br />
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The physiological impact of fun and joy produces<br />
a coherent mind-body state and stimulates the<br />
production and secretion of positive mind-body<br />
regulating chemicals, such as dopamine, serotonin,<br />
and epinephrine that integrate and support all the<br />
systems of the body to function optimally and are vital<br />
to the growth and plasticity of the brain. And because<br />
the body is always keeping score (Van Der Kolk), when<br />
we play games, we allow ourselves to journey from<br />
body to bliss within the layers of our Being. The more<br />
we play, the better we feel, and the better we feel, the<br />
quicker and deeper we learn.<br />
A relaxing brain break.<br />
Play is essential to childhood development. Play is<br />
not a reward—IT IS A NECESSITY and taking play time<br />
or recess away almost always backfires. So, when in<br />
doubt, play a game. Change the momentum. Create<br />
a little confusion. When the flower doesn’t grow, we<br />
don’t blame the flower. We change the environment.<br />
We observe. We plan. We evolve as our understanding<br />
changes. We keep caring. We keep loving.<br />
Maybe the hardest thing for a more seasoned<br />
educator to do is to rethink discipline and to reframe<br />
the negative behaviors we experience more as bids<br />
for connection. The hour of the time out is ending,<br />
my friends; the era of the time in is here. Instead of<br />
thinking kids act out because they want attention,<br />
we understand that kids act out because they need<br />
attention. Instead of forcing time apart, disconnecting,<br />
and withdrawing, we cultivate time together, give<br />
attention, and foster connection. Instead of leaving a<br />
child to regain their regulated state on their own, we<br />
offer ourselves to help the child co-regulate back to<br />
stasis. Instead of being punitive, and shaming, and<br />
rejecting, we promote growth, self-empowerment, and<br />
acceptance. It’s time for all of us who love and serve<br />
kids to up our game, to go to school ourselves, and to<br />
look ourselves in the mirror. Loving that person is step<br />
one to serving the rest.<br />
The bell is ringing. Take a deep breath. Class is back<br />
in session.<br />
Lumin Therapy provides integrative health and education for the mind, body, and spirit to those who are suffering or struggling to step into and live<br />
their heartfelt mission and purpose. Through the practice of physical therapy, medical therapeutic yoga, meditation, mindfulness, and resiliency<br />
mentoring, Dr. Meghan Nelson, DPT, and Dr. Ryan Allen, PhD, bring more than 40 years of knowledge and experience serving individuals, families,<br />
and organizations to learn and heal and live without boundaries.<br />
Photo Credit Ryan Allen.