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<strong>Volume</strong> 5, <strong>Issue</strong> 3<br />

Starting Conversations<br />

Diversity of Thought<br />

Do your friends think<br />

differently than you?<br />

Exposure to Art<br />

Are you having wildly<br />

different experiences?


Y O U R T E A M | O U R C O M M U N I T Y<br />

Keeping us on our feet<br />

and feeding the hungry.<br />

Dr. David Rettedal, Foot & Ankle Surgeon | <strong>Siouxland</strong> Soup Kitchen Board Member<br />

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Starting Conversations<br />

Podcast<br />

with Stacie & Tony<br />

Season 2, Episode 9, Jeff Carlson,<br />

Leaning All In with Optimism and Energy<br />

Season 2, Episode 12, Treyla Lee,<br />

Planning with Grace and<br />

Love Begins at 4 am<br />

Season 2, Episode 13, Heidi Reinking,<br />

An Open Road to Happiness<br />

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Conversing<br />

Collaborating<br />

22-23 Nonprofit Spotlight – Hope Redemption Center<br />

24-25 Small Business Spotlight – Buscioni’s Bakes<br />

26-27 IWCI’s Business Feature – Carroll Street Treats<br />

28 SBDC – Minority-Owned Businesses<br />

29 Chamber – Sioux City Kicks Off 50th Ragbrai<br />

31 Experience Downtown<br />

32 Tony Michaels – Hot Air<br />

33 Council Connection<br />

34 Leading the Way – Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

35 Future Foundation – <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO<br />

37 Up From The Earth<br />

BeComing<br />

CONTENTS8-9 Diversity<br />

ON THE COVER<br />

Photo Credit Shane Monahan Photography<br />

Sioux City Art Center Fundraiser: Through the Looking Glass<br />

Bruce Miller, Marie Roeder, Greg Giles<br />

of Thought<br />

10 -11 Exposure to Art<br />

12-13 Inclusive Hiring Practices: How Small Businesses Can<br />

Expand Their Network and Deepen The Talent Pool<br />

14 A Celebration of Culture<br />

15 Juneteenth<br />

16 June is Pride Month<br />

17 What It Means To Be An Effective Ally & Why It Matters<br />

19 Inclusive Peek<br />

20-21 Starting Conversations Podcast wtih Stacie & Tony,<br />

Interview with Nicki Werner<br />

38-39 Ask the Therapist<br />

40-41 Ask the Doc<br />

42-43 Healing in Your Own Hands<br />

45 Dare 2B Great – Small Adjustments For Better Results<br />

46-47 Living Lumin – Getting Schooled: Cultivatin A Mindful Classroom


Welcome To siouxland magazine<br />

It’s in these pages we educate and inspire. Even more importantly, we<br />

create a community that thrives on connecting with one another. At our<br />

core, we all want to connect. When we seek to understand, by listening<br />

more intently, we find that our relationships deepen and our community<br />

strengthens as a result. With appreciation for the power of connection<br />

through meaningful conversations, it only made sense to name the<br />

business Empowering Conversations.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> / 5<br />

Stacie Anderson, Owner<br />

It all starts with a conversation; with a desire to learn;<br />

to see things from another perspective; to seek<br />

truth. The truth is, we have more in common than we have<br />

differences. Well, maybe it would be more accurate to say, what<br />

brings us together is stronger than anything that divides us.<br />

We would never want to marginalize our differences. We love the words of Audre Lorde, “It is<br />

not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those<br />

differences.” We are unique in vast and complicated ways. It’s our hope that we can come<br />

together with our unique strengths, perspectives, and ideas to build a community with a<br />

powerful narrative of us.<br />

Through this humble publication, we will start having conversations. This is an ambitious and<br />

beautifully optimistic attempt to shine light on all the things that make our community strong,<br />

but also discuss, in a productive and compassionate manner, the challenges we face.<br />

We are doing our small part in building a cohesive community by creating conversations that<br />

refocus our attention on our similarities. We are bringing people together; replacing judgment<br />

with understanding. Perspective is powerful.<br />

We want to hear from you. At <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, we feel it is imperative to understand what<br />

the community wants and needs. Share your vision and dreams for <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

We want you to lean into the conversation and participate in the discussion.<br />

connect@empowering-conversations.com<br />

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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Writers<br />

Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata,<br />

Family Medicine<br />

Physician, Integrative<br />

Psychiatrist & Yoga<br />

Instructor<br />

Carly Howrey,<br />

Business<br />

Development<br />

Coordinator for<br />

Downtown Partners<br />

Emily Larson,<br />

Licensed Massage<br />

Therapist & Private<br />

Yoga Instructor<br />

Dr. Meghan Nelson &<br />

Dr. Ryan Allen, Co-owners<br />

of Lumin Therapy, LLC,<br />

integrative health and<br />

education provider<br />

Matthew O’Kane,<br />

Sioux City Council<br />

Jackie Paulson,<br />

Licensed Mental<br />

Health Counselor &<br />

Registered 500Hour<br />

Yoga Instructor<br />

Peggy Smith,<br />

Executive Director<br />

for Leadership<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Up from the<br />

Earth Leadership<br />

Team<br />

Sydney<br />

McManamy,<br />

President of SGO<br />

Todd Rausch,<br />

SBDC Regional<br />

Director at<br />

WITCC<br />

Amy Buster,<br />

Writer & Editor<br />

Tony Michaels,<br />

KSUX Morning<br />

Show Host with<br />

Candice Nash<br />

Cody Rininger,<br />

Certified<br />

Professional<br />

Fitness<br />

Instructor<br />

Kari Nelson,<br />

Graphic Designer


Editors<br />

Note<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> / 7<br />

I recently had the opportunity to attend the Art Center’s fundraiser, Through the Looking-Glass. It was a<br />

wonderful event and an opportunity to step outside my everyday world. They created a magical space<br />

that night. What stood out to me was the significance of creativity and exploration.<br />

In the everyday mundane routine, we lose sight of the possibilities in life. We get stuck doing things the<br />

same way and often have the same conversations, but with different people. Imagine how our world<br />

could open up if only we’d allow diversity into it. Who could we become if we appreciated more?<br />

I have two guest writers, Dr. Julie Lohr and Todd Behrens, this month. They encourage us to think about<br />

the people we surround ourselves with and the experiences we expose ourselves to. Diversity comes in<br />

many forms. And it is diversity that expands who we are and how full our lives can be. I invite you to open<br />

yourself to the vastness.<br />

Stacie Anderson<br />

Owner of Empowering Conversations LLC & <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

Certified John Maxwell Speaker, Trainer & Coach<br />

Passionate about Leadership & Communication<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> is owned and published by Empowering Conversations, LLC. All materials contained in this magazine (including text, content, and<br />

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modified in any way without the prior written consent of Empowering Conversations, LLC or in the case of third party materials, the owner of that content.<br />

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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 8<br />

Diversity of Thought<br />

By Dr. Julie Lohr<br />

What<br />

of<br />

thought?<br />

is<br />

diversity<br />

Our life experiences shape our ideas. Each<br />

individual gathers perceptions based upon their<br />

daily reality. Our culture, background, and unique<br />

personalities form how we think. How we think and<br />

interpret information influences our decisions in all<br />

aspects of life, affecting the trajectory of our choices<br />

in our education, religious and spiritual growth or<br />

lack thereof, marriage and family planning, and our<br />

careers.<br />

Diversity of thought refers to the range of mindsets,<br />

thought processes, and perspectives that can be found<br />

throughout an area, region, or organization. When<br />

researching diversity of thought, some opinions<br />

centered on how beneficial, even integral, the<br />

concept can be to maximize the potential and<br />

productivity of teams. Other opinions felt that the<br />

idea of the diversity of thought being promoted<br />

within an organization was risky or problematic.<br />

It was fascinating to read many different articles<br />

for business hiring, team building, and employee<br />

training that focused on all the positive attributes of<br />

a work culture that prioritized creating a workplace<br />

that valued diversity of thought. The companies that<br />

bring people together who think differently from<br />

one another can start difficult conversations and<br />

create dialogue that stimulates new ideas and drives<br />

efficiency.<br />

That’s just the workplace. What about diversity<br />

of thought in our community? In the media? In<br />

our places of worship? In our schools? Within our<br />

homes and families? Should diversity of thought<br />

be something we strive for on our city council and<br />

school board?<br />

Is diversity of thought valued in our country? In the<br />

last few years especially, conformity of thought was<br />

the expectation. Strong feelings emerged during the<br />

pandemic, with many Americans feeling polarized and<br />

alienated from their neighbors. Family estrangement<br />

became more commonplace due to opposing views<br />

regarding masking, vaccination status, quarantine<br />

rules, and social distancing. Why were these opposing<br />

views held in such contempt?<br />

Ideas that deviated from the commonly accepted<br />

train of thought were scorned, quickly dismissed, and<br />

even resulted in the societal character assassination<br />

of the source.<br />

Fear often prevents people from being open to<br />

different ideas or diversity of thought.<br />

“Diversity of thought is the idea<br />

that people in a group don’t need<br />

to look different or identify with<br />

an underrepresented group in<br />

order to bring varying, diverse<br />

viewpoints to the table. While<br />

this is technically true, it is a risky<br />

concept to find comfort in.”<br />

– Rebekah Bastian, Forbes, 2019


Do you shy away from communication that may bring up<br />

dissenting views?<br />

“The word ‘diversity’ often conjures images of a workplace<br />

consisting of people from different backgrounds,<br />

cultures, and genders. While those things certainly<br />

explain a component of diversity, it’s only part of what<br />

diversity includes. Realistically speaking, physical and<br />

social aspects only comprise about half of diversity, and<br />

the remainder lies in the diversity of thought,” stated<br />

Rick Bowers in Training Industry <strong>Magazine</strong>.<br />

In 2004, Anthony Lising Antonio, a Stanford Graduate<br />

School of Education professor, said,” When we hear<br />

dissent from someone who is different from us, it<br />

provokes more thought than when it comes from<br />

someone who looks like us.”<br />

Do you enjoy talking to people who disagree with you?<br />

Is a rousing debate something that invigorates you and<br />

challenges your thought processes? Or would you rather<br />

have the floor swallow you up and help you disappear<br />

when a difficult or sensitive topic is broached?<br />

Can you maintain a friendship with someone with<br />

different views regarding issues you feel are important?<br />

Do you end working relationships with colleagues based<br />

on a different perspective?<br />

There is (and has been for some time) a considerable<br />

emphasis in U.S. popular culture right now on the<br />

appreciation of diversity. We are often reminded of the<br />

DEI efforts of nearly every organization, business, and<br />

entity. Daily bombardment from the mainstream media<br />

on race relations and identity politics can exhaust the<br />

average person attempting to live a meaningful and<br />

authentic life.<br />

What does it say about us as a country or community if<br />

we do not respect the diversity of thought? What does it<br />

say about us individually if we do not value diversity of<br />

thought?<br />

Some people have different skin colors, and not everyone<br />

has the same ethnic or racial background. We celebrate<br />

these differences, and we are taught to appreciate the<br />

differences in human sexuality and gender identity. We<br />

hear praise for diversity, equity, and inclusion.<br />

“In the course of our<br />

work with clients, we often see<br />

diversity of thought<br />

presented as a counter argument by<br />

privileged identity groups<br />

against efforts to increase the<br />

representation of underrepresented<br />

employees across levels<br />

at an organization.<br />

This can show up as tension<br />

around efforts to increase<br />

representation in the C-Suite<br />

and the governing boards or<br />

prioritizing focus on<br />

socioeconomic status and political<br />

differences in diversity work.<br />

In this way,<br />

diversity of thought<br />

is often used to sidestep real action<br />

and avoid accountability around bias,<br />

unchecked privilege, and systemic<br />

discrimination that has been<br />

proven time and again to<br />

exist in organizations<br />

across all industries.”<br />

– Rahimeh Ramezany<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 9<br />

What about different thought processes? Are you able<br />

to see value in a perspective that is in stark contrast to<br />

your own?<br />

Resources:<br />

The Great Ideological Lie of Diversity by Jordan Peterson<br />

Are you able to respect people who have ideas that<br />

challenge your own beliefs and values? Are you able to<br />

be friends with people who think differently than you?<br />

Are you able to collaborate and problem-solve with a<br />

coworker who has a different vision? Or do you prefer to<br />

work with colleagues who think the same way you do?<br />

Dr. Julie Lohr, DDS is a happy wife to Chris and a<br />

proud mother to Jack, Savannah, Landon, Charlotte.<br />

There is much diversity of thought in her household.


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 10<br />

Exposure to Art<br />

By Todd Behrens<br />

Sioux City Art Center’s fundraiser, Through the Looking-Glass, with Bruce Miller as the Mad Hatter, Marie Roeder as the<br />

Queen of Hearts, and Greg Giles as the White Rabbit.<br />

What do you think? What do you believe? When were<br />

those thoughts and beliefs determined? And how were<br />

they determined?<br />

For most of us adults, we reach a point at which we feel<br />

confident in our knowledge of how things work and in<br />

our beliefs about what is right and wrong or good and<br />

bad. And once that happens, we seek settings, friends,<br />

and activities that align with our thoughts and beliefs. It’s<br />

the safest method for living a relatively calm, stable life in<br />

our increasingly tense, divisive society.<br />

Challenging our thoughts and beliefs is often seen as<br />

one of the most uncomfortable and unnecessary things<br />

an adult can do. But participation in and exposure to<br />

new experiences can have beneficial effects. Engaging in<br />

art, music, writing, or performing is one of the easiest<br />

ways to reap benefits. While children’s brains benefit<br />

most from these activities, adults who play music can<br />

experience brain improvement too.<br />

But I’m not a scientist. I’m an art museum director. I have<br />

not conducted studies on the physical development of<br />

the human brain, but I have seen what time with art can<br />

do. When you pick up a book you’ve never read, listen<br />

to music you’ve never heard before, or enter a gallery<br />

filled with art that is new to you, you have a risk-free<br />

opportunity to step into a new way of thinking. Too often,<br />

readers, listeners, and viewers keep their attention on<br />

the surfaces of what they experience. It’s hard to give<br />

yourself the time required for a deep exploration of art,<br />

but it’s incredibly rewarding. Whether it’s characters


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Todd Behrens, Executive Director for the Sioux City Art Center, addresses the fundraiser attendees.<br />

that come alive in your imagination, music that fills your<br />

body and gets stuck in your head, or art that brings to you<br />

entirely new visions of the world, the gentle, quiet, internal<br />

feeling of excitement that comes from having your brain<br />

take a new journey is unlike anything else.<br />

What does art have to do with diversity? Two important<br />

things. First, art can provide a more direct and<br />

emotional connection to lived experiences than<br />

simply reading historical or biographical information.<br />

While our embracing of diversity has also brought<br />

with it an awareness of how many different categories<br />

of identity can exist within a single person, humans<br />

cannot be understood as data points or boxes to<br />

check. Literature, music, and art connect us not just to<br />

a thing or idea but to the inspiration behind that thing<br />

or idea. And second, art represents the best of us.<br />

The writer, poet, composer, singer, painter, sculptor,<br />

etc., responsible for the artworks you are experiencing,<br />

have given everything they have to share their thoughts<br />

and beliefs in a way that is most potent for them.<br />

Whether the creator of the work checks some of the<br />

same demographic boxes that you would or matches<br />

none of them, set aside your preconceptions—I know<br />

it’s incredibly hard for me to do, so it’s probably at least<br />

a little difficult for you—and open yourself to whatever<br />

ideas and emotions underlie their work.<br />

Might it change how you think or believe? There’s no<br />

way to know unless you try. But, in this increasingly<br />

loud, often obnoxious world, I believe nothing is more<br />

valuable than time spent with the arts.<br />

Todd Behrens, Executive Director for Sioux City Art Center.


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 12<br />

Small businesses are the backbone of our<br />

communities, and hiring diverse talent is<br />

crucial to their success. Hiring employees<br />

from different backgrounds can bring new ideas,<br />

experiences, and perspectives to a company,<br />

leading to increased innovation and improved<br />

business outcomes. However, finding and hiring<br />

qualified, diverse candidates can be a challenge<br />

for small business owners. This article will discuss<br />

some strategies that small business owners can<br />

use to find and hire diverse talent from their local<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> community.<br />

Inclusive Hiring Practices:<br />

How Small Businesses Can Expand<br />

Their Network and Deepen The Talent Pool<br />

By Bryan Shusterman<br />

Develop relationships with local colleges<br />

and universities:<br />

Developing relationships with local colleges and<br />

universities can be an effective way to identify and<br />

attract diverse talent. Reach out to the career services<br />

department and offer to participate in career fairs<br />

or speak to students about job opportunities.<br />

Consider offering internships or co-op programs<br />

to provide students with valuable work experience<br />

and identify potential full-time hires.<br />

Partner with local community organizations:<br />

Partnering with local community organizations can<br />

be an effective way to find diverse candidates.<br />

Consider reaching out to organizations that serve<br />

underrepresented groups, such as immigrant<br />

advocacy groups, minority business associations, or<br />

disability rights organizations. These organizations<br />

often have connections to a pool of qualified<br />

candidates and can help spread the word about job<br />

openings.<br />

Attend local job fairs:<br />

Attending local job fairs is another way to connect<br />

with diverse candidates in the community. Job fairs<br />

provide a platform for small businesses to showcase<br />

their brand, connect with potential candidates, and<br />

learn about the local talent pool. Be sure to attend<br />

job fairs catering to diverse candidates, such as<br />

those hosted by minority-focused organizations or<br />

targeting individuals with disabilities.<br />

Use local job boards:<br />

Posting job openings on local job boards is an<br />

effective way to reach out to candidates in the<br />

community. These job boards are often free or lowcost<br />

and can provide small businesses access to<br />

diverse candidates. Consider posting job openings<br />

on job boards that cater to specific groups, such as<br />

women or veterans.<br />

Leverage social media:<br />

Social media platforms such as LinkedIn, Facebook,<br />

and Twitter are powerful tools for small businesses<br />

to connect with diverse candidates. Consider<br />

creating a company page on social media platforms<br />

and using it to share job openings, company news,<br />

and updates. Additionally, consider joining local<br />

business groups on social media and participating<br />

in discussions to build relationships with potential<br />

candidates.<br />

Use employee referrals:<br />

Employee referrals can be an effective way to find<br />

diverse candidates. Encourage current employees<br />

to refer qualified candidates from their personal<br />

and professional networks. Consider offering<br />

incentives such as bonuses or extra vacation days<br />

for successful referrals.<br />

Train your hiring team:<br />

Training your hiring team on unconscious bias and<br />

inclusive hiring practices is crucial. This training<br />

can help them identify their own biases and<br />

make more objective hiring decisions. Encourage<br />

your team to ask open-ended questions and<br />

avoid making assumptions about a candidate’s<br />

background. Additionally, consider implementing<br />

blind screening processes that remove personal<br />

information such as name, age, and gender from<br />

resumes.


Revise your job descriptions:<br />

Often, job descriptions may include language that<br />

unintentionally discourages diverse applicants<br />

from applying. This can be corrected by revising<br />

job descriptions to use inclusive language that<br />

highlights the company’s commitment to diversity<br />

and inclusion. Avoid using gender-specific<br />

pronouns or words that imply a certain race or<br />

ethnicity. For example, use “strong communication<br />

skills” instead of “excellent English skills.”<br />

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Consider blind hiring:<br />

Blind hiring is a process in which personal<br />

information such as name, age, and gender is<br />

removed from resumes to reduce unconscious<br />

bias in the hiring process. Consider implementing<br />

blind hiring practices to ensure that candidates<br />

are evaluated based on their qualifications and<br />

not their personal characteristics.<br />

Create an inclusive workplace culture:<br />

Creating an inclusive workplace culture is crucial<br />

to attracting and retaining diverse talent. Small<br />

business owners should focus on creating a<br />

workplace that is welcoming, inclusive, and<br />

respectful of all employees, regardless of their<br />

background. Implement policies and practices<br />

that promote diversity, such as providing training<br />

on unconscious bias, offering flexible work<br />

arrangements, and implementing a zero-tolerance<br />

policy for discrimination.<br />

In conclusion, attracting and hiring qualified,<br />

diverse applicants requires a deliberate effort<br />

and commitment to inclusive hiring practices.<br />

By reaching out and getting involved with the<br />

community, small businesses can build a diverse<br />

and talented workforce that can help them thrive<br />

in a rapidly changing marketplace.<br />

Bryan Shusterman, an attorney at the Heidman<br />

Law Firm. He graduated from the University of<br />

Iowa Law School in 2019 and practices in IA, NE,<br />

and SD. Bryan specializes in advising business<br />

owners on formation, growth, and expansion,<br />

and has worked with companies of all sizes and<br />

industries. Throughout his career, Bryan has been<br />

passionate about helping entrepreneurs turn their<br />

dreams into successful businesses by providing<br />

them with the legal guidance necessary to achieve<br />

their goals. Whether it’s forming a new business<br />

entity, negotiating contracts, creating a business<br />

succession plan or navigating a sale or acquisition,<br />

Bryan has the expertise and knowledge to work<br />

together with his clients at any stage of their<br />

business’s life cycle.<br />

2022 Winners<br />

We’re accepting nominations for 10 Under 40.<br />

The highly anticipated September issue features young<br />

professionals in <strong>Siouxland</strong> who are making a real difference<br />

in our community. Nominate someone today! Visit<br />

siouxlandmagazine.com to access nomination form.<br />

Here is what we look for in<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>’s 10 Under 40<br />

Look around work, the places you volunteer, your friend<br />

circles, or anywhere there are outstanding individuals, and<br />

consider who meets the following criteria:<br />

• Under the age of 40 as of December 31, 2023<br />

(Yes, you may have to ask, but he/she will be honored<br />

that you are thinking of them for an award!)<br />

• Is a business owner or high executive/manager/<br />

director (or has experience in this area) within their<br />

organization. This can be a large corporation, small<br />

business, or non-profit organization.<br />

• Must be in their current position or have had<br />

experience in a managerial role for at least one year.<br />

• Lives and works in the <strong>Siouxland</strong> area (approximately<br />

a 60-mile radius around Sioux City.)<br />

Has a history of displaying:<br />

• Vision and Leadership<br />

• Innovation and Achievement<br />

• Growth/Development Strategy<br />

• Community Involvement/Contribution<br />

• Consistent display of excellent character and ethics<br />

Details on how to be a<br />

Ten Under 40 Sponsor<br />

visit siouxlandmagazine.com.


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing /14<br />

A Celebration of Culture<br />

By Peggy La<br />

Group photo of Asian Fest’s amazing attendees and volunteers.<br />

A celebration of culture, life, and community is<br />

something that is both appreciated and necessary<br />

in the eyes of those who aren’t always able to<br />

showcase what defines them. In the warmth of<br />

the June sun and under the always caring eyes of<br />

George Sayavong watching from above, the annual<br />

Asian Fest blooms and breathes along with the<br />

culture celebrated there.<br />

George Sayavong, one of the co-founders of Asian Fest, is<br />

affectionately referenced as the balance and mediation with<br />

the group. Without him, my fellow co-founder, I would’ve<br />

given up multiple times due to the difficulty they faced<br />

organizing the event. Many people they contacted were<br />

hesitant to volunteer for the event, and finding people to<br />

perform, cook, and attend became even more daunting.<br />

However, George didn’t give up. George had a butterfly<br />

effect. Everything he touched, blossomed. With his kind<br />

touch, the festival became something to be proud of.<br />

The Fest began as an idea that stemmed from my college<br />

life in Des Moines, where I volunteered at CelebrAsian. After<br />

returning to <strong>Siouxland</strong> and realizing that the community<br />

didn’t have the same type of gathering, I brought the idea<br />

up to George. With a broad smile and endless positivity, he<br />

said, “Let’s do it!” and the planning began.<br />

One of the challenges that presented itself was the<br />

layout. How would they find a place where both food and<br />

entertainment could be offered at once? Where would the<br />

community be able to join together and feel connected?<br />

I admit it took some time to figure out exactly how to lay<br />

out the festival. It started with separate shelters that offered<br />

different aspects of the festival. Still, it was difficult for guests<br />

to grasp the entirety of the celebration when they had to<br />

travel between two different shelters. The committee and I<br />

realized that we bring the festival closer by creating a circle<br />

with a single shelter so everyone could enjoy the festivities.<br />

While Asian Fest is a day of fun, food, and performance,<br />

the ultimate goal is to create an understanding and unity<br />

between the Asian and non-Asian communities. As our<br />

younger generation becomes Americanized, we typically<br />

lose our culture. With the loss of culture and the gap between<br />

nationality and traditions, Asian Fest aims to bridge the gap<br />

and continue the traditions passed down from generation<br />

to generation in various Asian cultures. <strong>Siouxland</strong> is home<br />

to multitudes of Asian ethnicities: Chinese, Vietnamese,<br />

Laotian, Indian, and others call <strong>Siouxland</strong> their home. With<br />

the festival, we hope to connect them in a community they<br />

can be proud of.<br />

The Fest will also reach those who don’t have ties to the<br />

Asian community. Pulling them into the festival creates an<br />

understanding they might not have seen before and, with<br />

the many opportunities to experience the culture, brings<br />

them closer to a community they may not know.<br />

FREE TO ATTEND<br />

Saturday, May 27 | 12 pm to 4 pm<br />

Yummi Blox Food Truck Lot<br />

700 West 7th Street<br />

Food available for purchase<br />

Kids activities<br />

Caricatures<br />

Family fun event<br />

Peggy La, owner of Yummi Blox and Hong Kong Supermarket.<br />

Peggy is also the co-founder of the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Asian Festival,<br />

serves on the Commission of Asian and Pacific Islanders for the<br />

State of Iowa, is a member of the Inclusive Sioux City Advisory<br />

Committee, and board member of <strong>Siouxland</strong> Public Radio.<br />

Photo provided by Peggy La.


Juneteenth<br />

What is Juneteenth?<br />

By Malia Swaggerty-Morgan<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing /15<br />

Juneteenth is a federal holiday celebrating<br />

the commemoration of the end of slavery in<br />

the United States. It lasts one day, and that special<br />

day is June 19th. You may keep reading if your<br />

interest has peaked about this amazing day; if not,<br />

this is your warning. Now, back to our main topic,<br />

back on June 19th, 1865, all slaves in the United<br />

States were free. Two and a half years prior to that,<br />

Lincoln decided that the emancipation was much<br />

needed due to their battlefield loss. You may wonder,<br />

“how does the military’s loss affect slaves?” I’d be<br />

glad to tell you. Lincoln knew it was time for slaves to<br />

fight for their Union. This was because it would push<br />

over border states, such as Missouri, right over to the<br />

Confederacy. And in case you didn’t get an 8th grade<br />

education in American history, a border state or<br />

a “slave state” were US states that did not secede<br />

from the Union during the Civil War. One hundred<br />

and fifty-six years later, President Biden signed into<br />

law the Senate Bill making Juneteenth a federal<br />

holiday. Which I do think deserves a whoop whoop!<br />

The name Juneteenth comes from the two words<br />

June and nineteenth.<br />

However, Juneteenth has<br />

many other names such<br />

as Emancipation Day,<br />

Second Independence<br />

Day, Jubilee Day, and<br />

more. Juneteenth is such<br />

an important holiday, not<br />

only for African Americans,<br />

but for the entirety of the<br />

United States. After the<br />

abolishment of slavery,<br />

there was an increase in<br />

America’s economy and<br />

the labor stock grew. Don’t<br />

believe me? Look at Brazil.<br />

Brazil hadn’t gotten rid of<br />

slavery until the 1880’s and it was worse than America.<br />

Overall, Juneteenth is a meaningful holiday with a<br />

wonderful background.<br />

Malia Swaggerty-Morgan, Freshman at West High School<br />

Why Celebrate Juneteenth?<br />

By Flora Lee<br />

Juneteenth is as much of United States History as George Washington<br />

being the first President of the U.S., yet the story of Juneteenth has only<br />

recently been a holiday in America. The importance of Juneteenth is not only to<br />

celebrate the freedom of enslaved people, but to celebrate the many contributions<br />

enslaved, free Black/African Americans have contributed to this country and the<br />

world. The invention of the cotton gin, the stop light, ironing boards, food and spices<br />

(tasty southern cooking), and the list continues. Black/African American people have<br />

been the backbone of this country as well, and due to our ability to march, fight,<br />

go to court for civil rights, human rights, education, women rights and the war on<br />

poverty, so others are able to benefit from laws and policies supporting equitable<br />

rights for all American Citizens.<br />

Flora Lee, Community Advocate


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing /16<br />

June is Pride Month when the LGBTQ+ community<br />

is celebrated worldwide.<br />

June is Pride Month<br />

By Karen (Chanté Wambdi Win) Mackey<br />

Historically LGBTQ+ people were criminalized, lost<br />

custody of their children, and could be fired or denied<br />

housing simply for who they were. Because there were<br />

so few safe public places, gay bars were (and still are) a<br />

mainstay in the queer community. Police raids on gay bars<br />

were commonplace. On June 28, 1969, the New York City<br />

Police Department raided the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar<br />

popular with a diverse clientele, including drag queens<br />

and gay youth. The patrons fought back, touching off six<br />

days of riots. In 1970 the first pride parade was held on<br />

the anniversary of the Stonewall Riot.<br />

Locally, Pride is celebrated during the first week in<br />

June, and various businesses and organizations will be<br />

hosting Pride events. I will focus here on two non-profits;<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Pride Alliance will host a teen Pride Prom on<br />

May 26, a Pride Parade on June 1, and the Sioux City<br />

Pride Festival on June 3, and Winnebago Two-Spirit will<br />

hold their Pride Carnival on June 2.<br />

LGBTQIA2S+ Why the alphabet salad?<br />

Our community encompasses a variety of sexual<br />

orientations, gender identities, and gender expressions.<br />

LGBTQ+ is shorthand for LGBTQIA2S+ and recognizes<br />

that, as queer people, we are finding new ways to define<br />

ourselves.<br />

Sexual orientation refers to your primary emotional,<br />

romantic, and sexual attraction. Lesbian is the term for<br />

same-sex attracted women, and gay is the term for samesex<br />

attracted men. Bisexual people are attracted to both<br />

sexes. (Pansexual is sometimes used to avoid viewing<br />

gender as a binary.)<br />

Transgender—someone whose gender identity does not<br />

correspond with their sex assigned at birth.<br />

Free Mom Hugs Iowa and Free Mom Hugs Nebraska at<br />

Winnebago Pride.<br />

Queer—traditionally a derogatory term, it has been reclaimed<br />

by some in the LGBTQ+ community as a term of pride and<br />

positivity; it is an umbrella term to describe the LGBTQ+<br />

community. Sometimes the “Q” stands for questioning—people<br />

who are in the process of exploring their sexual orientation or<br />

gender identity.<br />

Intersex—a person’s sex traits and reproductive anatomy<br />

combine in ways that fall outside the medical classifications<br />

of male or female. This can include differences in genitalia,<br />

chromosomes, gonads, internal sex organs, hormone<br />

production, hormone response, and secondary sex traits.<br />

Asexual—someone who has little or no sexual attraction or<br />

interest in sexual activity.<br />

Two-Spirit—an LGBTQ+ Indigenous person. (While each<br />

Indigenous Nation is unique, some traditionally believed there<br />

are more than two genders.)<br />

More Important Definitions<br />

Gender identity—your innermost concept of yourself as male,<br />

female, a blend of both, or neither. Your gender identity can be<br />

the same or different from your sex.<br />

Gender expression—your external appearance may or may<br />

not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics<br />

associated with being masculine or feminine.<br />

Sioux City’s first Pride Parade hosted by <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Pride Alliance.<br />

Non-binary—someone whose gender identity is not exclusively<br />

male or female. They may identify with elements of both, with<br />

another gender or no gender at all.


What It Means To Be An Effective Ally<br />

& Why It Matters<br />

By Sherry Martin<br />

Merriam-Webster defines effective as “producing<br />

a decided, decisive, or desired effect.” Merriam-<br />

Webster defines an ally as “one that is associated with<br />

another as a helper: a person or group that provides<br />

assistance and support in an ongoing effort, activity, or<br />

struggle—often now used specifically of a person who<br />

is not a member of a marginalized or mistreated group<br />

but who expresses or gives support to that group.”<br />

But what does it mean to be an<br />

effective ally? It means:<br />

• Advocacy and allyship must be intentional, yearround!<br />

(Not just during Pride month.)<br />

• Acknowledging your own implicit bias and then<br />

taking action to resolve your implicit bias. Visit<br />

Implicit Project online to test privately. Attend a Safe<br />

Zone training or similar training, where you are free to<br />

ask questions in a nonjudgmental space.<br />

• To educate yourself about the LGBTQIA2S+<br />

community. Learn about sexual identity, gender<br />

identity, and pronouns. The Trevor Project, Free Mom<br />

Hugs, Iowa Safe Schools, and One Iowa all have<br />

incredible resources and educational options.<br />

• To be willing to have difficult conversations. Will every<br />

conversation change hearts and minds? It’s unlikely.<br />

Will you stay calm during every conversation?<br />

Probably not. If necessary, step away and regroup. If<br />

you didn’t handle the conversation as calmly as you<br />

had intended, take an honest look at why you reacted<br />

the way you did and address it.<br />

According to the Trevor Project’s 2022 National Survey<br />

on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health, “45% of LGBTQ youth<br />

seriously considered attempting suicide.” The survey<br />

also showed that “LGBTQ youth who felt high social<br />

support from their family reported attempting suicide at<br />

less than half the rate of those who felt low or moderate<br />

social support.” In their 2019 National Survey, the<br />

Trevor Project reported that “LGBTQ youth who report<br />

having at least one accepting adult were 40% less likely<br />

to report a suicide attempt in the past year.”<br />

Being an effective ally can save lives. But doing it solo<br />

can be intimidating. Joining a group of supporters can<br />

be incredibly empowering, especially if you are new<br />

to advocacy. Free Mom Hugs is a non-profit group of<br />

parents and supporters with chapters in all 50 states.<br />

The Free Mom Hugs Mission: Empowering the world to<br />

celebrate the LGBTQIA+ community through visibility,<br />

education, and conversation. But giving hugs is the<br />

best part! You do not have to be a mom to be a Hugger;<br />

all are welcome!<br />

Sherry Martin is serving as a State Chapter Leader<br />

for Free Mom Hugs Iowa, as a member of the<br />

Educational Equity Committee and the School<br />

Improvement Advisory Committee, as the Chair of<br />

the Sioux City Human Rights Commission, and as<br />

a board member of the League of Women Voters<br />

and Community Action Agency. Sherry formerly<br />

served on the Inclusive Sioux City Advisory<br />

Committee.<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing /17<br />

For more definitions, go to:<br />

Glossary of Terms - Human Rights Campaign (hrc.org)<br />

Karen (Chanté Wambdi Win) Mackey is the Executive Director of the Sioux City Human Rights Commission. She is an enrolled<br />

member of the Santee Sioux Tribe of Nebraska and received her J.D. from the University of Nebraska, College of Law.<br />

Karen was named a Woman of Excellence by Women Aware in 2008. In 2019, she was named a LGBTQ Legacy Leader by DSM<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> and One Iowa.<br />

Karen is a co-founder of <strong>Siouxland</strong> Pride Alliance, a local grassroots LGBTQ+ organization. She is chair of the Community Initiative<br />

for Native Children and Families, Disabilities Resource Center of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, Great Plains Action Society, Urban Native Center in<br />

Sioux City and <strong>Siouxland</strong> Human Investment Partnership.<br />

Photos Contributed by Karen Mackey.


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Inclusive Peek – Interview with Miranda Valdovinos<br />

What challenges have you experienced in<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

Earlier in my life, I struggled with being a first-generation<br />

American. Having immigrant parents who did not speak<br />

English and were still adapting to their new home,<br />

is where my struggles came from. At the same time,<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> was adapting to the growing cultural diversity.<br />

Growing up, this created a lot of confusion as I did not<br />

know how to approach life and what came next—also,<br />

trying to find a balance between Mexican culture and the<br />

American way of living.<br />

Today I am proud to say both the <strong>Siouxland</strong> area and I<br />

have embraced our diversity and grown immensely.<br />

Thankfully, I had the support of my two older sisters, who<br />

paved the way for me. My parents also sacrificed so much<br />

for my sisters and I, and for that I will be eternally grateful.<br />

How has <strong>Siouxland</strong> been welcoming?<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> is an incredibly diverse area, it inhabits so many<br />

cultures, ethnicities, and religions. <strong>Siouxland</strong> will always be<br />

my home, it is such a warm,<br />

inviting, and inclusive region.<br />

From cultural parades to<br />

fairs there has been such<br />

a prevalent embrace of<br />

difference. Local businesses<br />

have also increasingly<br />

become more aware of<br />

language barriers and offer<br />

multilingual services. For<br />

people like me who are first<br />

generation, schools offer<br />

support services like TRIO<br />

that helped me pursue my<br />

professional dreams.<br />

Miranda Valdovinos<br />

What do you want the people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> to know?<br />

I would like the people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> to know that if there is<br />

anyone who feels as if their dreams are unreachable because of<br />

where you live, I assure you they are not. I believe in you and the<br />

people of <strong>Siouxland</strong> believe in you!<br />

“Don’t be afraid to share your struggles because you don’t know who you may inspire.”<br />

– Dr. Kamshia Childs<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Conversing / 19<br />

Inclusive Peek – In Spanish<br />

¿Qué desafíos ha experimentado en <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

Al principio de mi vida, luche por ser estadounidense de<br />

primera generación. Tener padres inmigrantes que no<br />

hablaban ingles y aun se estaban adaptando a su nuevo<br />

hogar, esto es de donde vienen mis luchas. Al mismo<br />

tiempo, <strong>Siouxland</strong> se estaba adaptando a la creciente<br />

diversidad cultural. Esto creo mucha confusión mientras<br />

crecía, ya que no sabia como abordar la vida y lo que vino<br />

después. También tratando de encontrar un equilibrio<br />

entre la cultura mexicana y el estilo de vida americano.<br />

Hoy me enorgullece decir que tanto el área de <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

como yo han abrazado nuestra diversidad y han crecido<br />

inmensamente. Afortunadamente, tuve el apoyo de mis<br />

dos hermanas mayores que me allanaron el camino. Mis<br />

padres también se sacrificaron mucho por mis hermanas<br />

y por mí, por eso les estaré eternamente agradecida.<br />

¿Cómo ha sido la recibida de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> es un área increíblemente diversa, habitan tantas<br />

culturas, etnias y religiones. <strong>Siouxland</strong> siempre será mi hogar,<br />

es un lugar cálido, acogedor y región inclusivo. Desde desfiles<br />

culturales hasta ferias, ha habido una adopción tan frecuente de<br />

diferencia. Los negocios locales también se han vuelto cada vez<br />

más conscientes de las barreras del lenguaje y ofrecen servicios<br />

multilingües. Las escuelas ofrecen servicios de apoyo como<br />

TRIO para personas como yo que son de primera generación.<br />

Esto me ayudo a seguir mis sueños profesionales.<br />

¿Qué quiere que sepa la gente de <strong>Siouxland</strong>?<br />

Me gustaría que la gente de <strong>Siouxland</strong> supiera que si hay alguien<br />

que siente como que sus sueños son inalcanzables por el lugar<br />

donde viven te aseguro que no lo son. ¡Yo creo en ti y la gente<br />

de <strong>Siouxland</strong> cree en ti!<br />

“No tengas miedo de compartir tus luchas porque no sabes a quien puedes inspirar.”<br />

– Dr. Niños Kamshia


<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Collaborating / 20<br />

Starting Conversations<br />

Podcast<br />

Interview with Nicki Werner<br />

Jefferson Beer Supply - A Unique Blend of Talent, Ingenuity, and Integrity<br />

with Stacie & Tony<br />

When you think of the blending ingredients<br />

for craft beers, barley, wheat, and hops might<br />

be the first ingredients that come to mind.<br />

However, when you’re speaking of Jefferson Beer<br />

Supply in Jefferson, South Dakota, agency, ethos,<br />

equality, prosperity, pineapple upside down cake,<br />

Gryffindor, and a Challenger are more what owner<br />

Nicki Werner thinks are the recipe for success.<br />

“One of the most important things we wanted to<br />

do with this company was bring prosperity to<br />

our town. We wanted to have the company be<br />

employee owned including with stock ownership.<br />

To have each employee be involved with trust in<br />

the voting rights, future of the business, how the<br />

business grows, the financial goals. Employee<br />

stock ownership in ethos,” stated Nicki.<br />

One of the ways that is accomplished is through<br />

the employee beer director program.<br />

“Each employee has total ownership and control<br />

over a specific brew each year. It’s a multifaceted<br />

approach. It helps them learn about the brewing<br />

process and gives them agency and ownership in<br />

the business itself,” said Nicki.<br />

As an example, Nicki shared that one of the<br />

bartenders, Trevor, really wants to develop a<br />

pineapple upside down cake brew.<br />

“That’s a fun flavor, and then he wants to use the<br />

proceeds the beer makes to donate to the Boys<br />

and Girls Club. Different employees go different<br />

ways with it. Especially in beer, there are so many<br />

different ideas. No one master genius holds all the<br />

power. We really try to make this an equal playing<br />

field for everyone involved,” remarked Nicki.<br />

She went on to say that her intention with the<br />

beer has always been to drink beer and to build a<br />

community around it and with it.<br />

Stacie & Tony interviewing Nicki Werner.<br />

“We make the culture that we want to be a part of<br />

and involved in. What do we want the business to<br />

do for our employees, town, community, and in a<br />

broader perspective for <strong>Siouxland</strong>?”<br />

It is an interesting perspective from a business<br />

owner with mostly an arts background; however,<br />

she had worked at craft breweries in both<br />

Wisconsin and Colorado. The breweries were<br />

closely entwined with the arts scene in both<br />

locations, and in time, Nicki had more than 10<br />

years of experience working in the breweries and<br />

being involved in the arts community. She and<br />

her partner wanted to be living closer to family,<br />

so they moved back to the <strong>Siouxland</strong> area.<br />

“I was always interested in equity and issues of<br />

justice. We started planning this business in 2020.<br />

If that wasn’t the year to live according to your<br />

values, I don’t know what was. I’d been involved


in start-ups before, and I knew how much you<br />

have to totally give your life over to it at least<br />

for a time. I was like if we’re going to do that,<br />

then I really want to do it in a way that matters<br />

to me.”<br />

The business was started by Nicki, who has a<br />

master’s degree in sculpture; her partner, who<br />

has a graphic design degree; her motherin-law,<br />

who is an accountant for the city of<br />

Jefferson; and their good buddy, Andy.<br />

“We all have a lot of great skills that we<br />

bring into the business with the brewing<br />

experience,” commented Nicki.<br />

Have you figured out where Gryffindor and<br />

a Challenger fit into the mix yet? Tune in<br />

and listen to the entire inspiring podcast<br />

of Starting Conversations with Stacie and<br />

Tony, Season 2, Episode 10, on your favorite<br />

platform. While you are there, don’t forget to<br />

subscribe to catch future episodes.<br />

The Jefferson Brewing Company is located at<br />

202 Main Street, in Jefferson, South Dakota.<br />

Written by Amy Buster based on the<br />

podcast interview with Nicki Werner.<br />

Amy Buster has been working as a writer/editor for<br />

the past 25 years. The majority of her work has been<br />

writing and editing for small-town newspapers in<br />

Kansas City and <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

This article is just a preview of Season 2, Episode<br />

6 of Starting Conversations with Stacie and Tony<br />

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Hope Redemption Center<br />

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Tell me a bit about Hope Redemption Center.<br />

Hope Redemption Center provides hope for all people through meaningful work, unique volunteer opportunities,<br />

authentic relationships, and faith-based personal growth so that everyone can fulfill God’s calling in their life.<br />

Hope Redemption Center, an independent 501 c(3), allows you to feel good about recycling your cans, glass, and<br />

plastic and not just throwing them away. We redeem approximately 5,000,000 cans per year! Seventy-one percent<br />

of redeemable containers are recycled annually in Iowa through redemption centers, keeping all this material out<br />

of landfills. Approximately 400,000 cans were donated to Hope Redemption Center, providing financial assistance<br />

that allows our mission to go beyond recycling. Proceeds from donated cans have been donated to Sunnybrook<br />

Hope Center and local sober living houses to support the under-resourced in <strong>Siouxland</strong>.<br />

Your commitment to redeeming your cans provides hope to individuals struggling with homelessness and<br />

addiction. Hope Redemption Center, a local non-profit, encourages and mentors individuals active in recovery by<br />

providing meaningful, faith-based employment opportunities.<br />

We desire to build relationships and see transformation in their lives; meaningful work is just an avenue to begin.<br />

We aim to provide a positive, uplifting environment for our staff, volunteers, and guests. We are known for our<br />

unshakeable commitment to the dignity of people.<br />

Hope Redemption Center also provides volunteer opportunities for individuals and groups. In 2022, over 2,234<br />

hours were spent volunteering, mentoring, and walking alongside our employees. We welcome volunteers looking<br />

for a service project or even completing a community service project. Our commitment is to help our volunteers<br />

grow spiritually, build a community, and serve others with the gifts God has given each of us.


How may the community support<br />

this endeavor?<br />

There are several ways the community can<br />

support Sunnybrook Redemption Center.<br />

Donate Cans: Individuals are encouraged to<br />

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City, or one of our trailers located at Sunnybrook<br />

Community Church, Whispering Creek Golf<br />

Course, and Morningside Lutheran Church.<br />

Serve: This ministry is only possible because<br />

of the time and talents of volunteers. Our<br />

employees serve alongside volunteers who<br />

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Days/Hours of operation?<br />

If someone would like to help, what is the best way to<br />

contact Hope Redemption Center?<br />

Please call us at 712-560-4113 or visit us online at Hope<br />

Redemption Center | Sunnybrook Community Church<br />

(sunnybrookchurch.org).<br />

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Tuesday, and Friday from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Then<br />

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Small Business Spotlight<br />

Buscioni’s Bakes<br />

By Amy Buster<br />

Henry Chrestensen is the owner and baker of<br />

Buscioni’s Bakes in Lawton, Iowa. However, this<br />

is not your typical small-town bakery. Buscioni’s also<br />

caters to diet restrictions, with their specialty being<br />

gluten free baked goods.<br />

“We make New York Style cheesecakes from scratch,<br />

and that also includes gluten-free. We have lots<br />

of flavors: old school traditional, chocolate, and<br />

pumpkin. You can’t really tell the difference from the<br />

gluten-free when you taste it, other than it is slightly<br />

denser,” explained Henry.<br />

For all of you pumpkin fans out there, that isn’t<br />

a flavor he carries only in the fall. Due to the high<br />

demand, it is a flavor he carries year-round now.<br />

“I’ve always had a passion for cooking and baking, I<br />

like making people happy,” said Henry.<br />

His biggest seller at the moment at the bakery is<br />

cannoli.<br />

“As far as I know, I’m the only baker in the <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

area that makes fresh cannoli. We have a wide variety<br />

of flavors. Of course the traditional vanilla-base with<br />

chocolate chips, pistachio, amaretto for the adults,<br />

pumpkin, and then seasonal flavors like peppermint,”<br />

explained Henry.<br />

Leave the donuts, pick up or order the cannoli.<br />

Buscioni’s also can custom-make birthday cakes; not<br />

only customize the design, but also the flavors.<br />

“We did a Pokémon cake for a five-year old’s birthday.<br />

It was chocolate obsession for the cake, that had<br />

seven different types of chocolate in it, chocolate<br />

cream cheese frosting, and then I made blue and<br />

purple decorations, and we designed the Pokémon<br />

character for decoration,” said Henry.<br />

The cake itself took two days to completely construct<br />

and bake.<br />

“I used Nutella, chocolate syrup, hot fudge, three<br />

different kinds of chocolate chips, and different<br />

flavors of cocoa. Basically, some dentist is going to<br />

be very upset with me about this cake,” said Henry.


However, if chocolate isn’t your flavor of choice, he also<br />

does something similar with a strawberry obsession<br />

cake.<br />

“That has strawberry cake, strawberry filling, strawberry<br />

buttercream frosting, fresh strawberries, and a<br />

strawberry drizzle. It’s three layers high, 10 inches round,<br />

and weighs between 5 to 10 pounds,” stated Henry.<br />

Although their cakes, cannoli, and New York Style<br />

cheese cakes are decedent, they are not the only bake<br />

goods offered here.<br />

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“We bake tea bread, garlic bread, French bread, wheat<br />

bread, and rye bread. It’s all made fresh from scratch,<br />

with no preservatives. The only thing that is storebought<br />

here are the ingredients,” stated Henry.<br />

For more information about all of Buscioni’s baked<br />

goods, please visit their Facebook page at www.<br />

facebook.com/Chef Buscioni1, or www.shop.castiron.<br />

me/buscionibakes. To place an order, please call (712)<br />

454-8308.<br />

Henry delivers to the tristate area, and ships to states<br />

across the country.<br />

“I have customers I ship to in Vegas, Georgia, Colorado,<br />

New Jersey, and New York. It’s affordable and delicious<br />

baked goods. I can create whatever your heart desires.”<br />

Amy Buster has been working as a writer/editor for the past<br />

25 years. The majority of her work has been writing and<br />

editing for small-town newspapers in both the Kansas City<br />

Metro area and the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Community.<br />

Photos Contributed by Buscioni Bakes.<br />

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Businesses and Nonprofits.<br />

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Carroll Street Treats<br />

Iowa’s West Coast Initiative Feature<br />

Business Owner: Reece, Liam, Ayda, Blake,<br />

Nora, and Evan Vander Zee<br />

Business Name: Carroll Street Treats<br />

Main Products/Services: Homemade Ice Cream<br />

Sandwiches<br />

Location: Rock Rapids, IA<br />

Connect: Find us on Facebook/Instagram<br />

Short description of your business:<br />

Carroll Street Treats is a 100% kid-owned business.<br />

We specialize in distributing the best homemade ice<br />

cream sandwiches in the tri-state area. We offer nine<br />

different flavor options, packing each homemade<br />

cookie combination with mounds of hand-scooped<br />

ice cream.<br />

What motivated you to start your business? What<br />

drives you each day?<br />

The vision of Carroll Street Treats started from a<br />

curbside ice cream sandwich stand in the summer of<br />

2013 when CEO, Reece Vander Zee, was eight years<br />

old. The initial motivation was to share our favorite<br />

family treat with our small-town community. What<br />

drives us daily is how God continues to use this<br />

“for-purpose” ministry to share love and connection<br />

through ice cream.<br />

What’s unique about your business?<br />

The unique thing about Carroll Street Treats is that it’s<br />

a sibling-owned business, and each sibling has a role<br />

in production, marketing, and finance.<br />

The Carroll Street Treats Crew: Joe, Meredith, Reece (17),<br />

Liam (15), Ayda (13), Blake (11), Nora (8) and Evan (4).<br />

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve had to<br />

overcome as you’ve grown your business?<br />

The biggest challenge has been staying ahead of<br />

the growth. With each passing year, each employee<br />

(sibling) has also grown in maturity and capacity, so<br />

we’ve been lucky to grow with the business, literally.<br />

What has been your greatest reward?<br />

The greatest reward has been how our success<br />

has allowed us to pay it forward to our community.<br />

The value of stewardship is essential to our vision<br />

statement. We have gotten to do some really cool<br />

things for our community.<br />

A 100% kid-owned entity that operates on a large<br />

scale is something that makes us very proud.<br />

New playground near the baseball & softball complex in<br />

Rock Rapids. One of 12 pay-it-forward projects that Carroll<br />

Street Treats has helped fund to give back.<br />

Ice Cream Sandwiches<br />

How have you benefited from the startup<br />

community in Sioux City and the region? What<br />

resources did you use?<br />

We are grateful for the exposure and experience<br />

we gained participating in The Big Challenge. Our<br />

second-place earnings helped us reach another<br />

business goal of purchasing a traveling treat trailer to


take to local events. The<br />

experience of preparing<br />

a sales pitch and making<br />

a promotional video was<br />

great for our whole crew.<br />

Why is it important<br />

for the community to<br />

support startups and<br />

small businesses? What<br />

more can be done to<br />

help them?<br />

We are so thankful for the<br />

support from our local<br />

community and beyond.<br />

Best selling Snickerdoodle Salted<br />

Caramel goodness.<br />

The success of smaller-scale businesses is a direct result of<br />

people who are willing to trust and be intentional with their<br />

support of a unique product and organic mission. We try to<br />

make sure our customers know how much we value them too.<br />

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What is one thing you know now that you wish you knew<br />

when starting your business?<br />

The most efficient way to mass produce a product that we value<br />

is homemade and fresh. It’s been a learning curve, but we’ve<br />

got a great system now that is duplicatable and sustainable to<br />

match growth.<br />

What advice would you give to someone looking to start<br />

a business?<br />

Entrepreneurship is a marathon, not a sprint. Growing slowly<br />

is still growing. Serve others with their best interest in mind,<br />

and your bottom line reflects your service. Continue to show up<br />

with a grateful heart, keep your vision filled with faith, love, and<br />

trust that God is ahead.<br />

How can the community continue to help your business?<br />

We currently have 16 wholesale partners in the tri-state area<br />

and are always open to other opportunities. We also are<br />

excited about the edition of our mobile food unit this spring, so<br />

if you’re looking for a fun addition to your summer festivities,<br />

we’d love to serve you!<br />

What are some future goals for your company?<br />

Future goals are to establish a consistent events calendar with<br />

our mobile food unit, add additional employees, expand our<br />

wholesale partner reach, and continue to follow where the Lord<br />

leads.<br />

Iowa’s West Coast Initiative (IWCI) is a collaboration between the<br />

economic development organizations in Plymouth, Monona, and<br />

Woodbury counties, and includes the following organizations:<br />

City of Sioux City, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Interstate Metropolitan Planning<br />

Council, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Economic Development Corporation, The<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Initiative, Le Mars Business Initiative Corporation,<br />

Woodbury County, and Monona County. Learn more about IWCI<br />

at www.IAWestCoast.com.<br />

Photos Contributed by Carroll Street Treats.


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Counseling and Training<br />

The U.S. Small Business Administration leverages<br />

its field offices, resource partners, and additional<br />

partnerships to help level the playing field for business<br />

owners and aspiring entrepreneurs who historically<br />

have lacked access to wealth or business opportunities.<br />

SBA Resource Partners<br />

SBA works with independent organizations to provide<br />

high-quality counseling and training to meet the<br />

specific needs of new and existing small businesses.<br />

This resource partner network includes SCORE<br />

business mentors, Small Business Development<br />

Centers (SBDCs), Women’s Business Centers (WBCs),<br />

and Veterans Business Opportunity Centers (VBOCs).<br />

Several resource partner service centers are located<br />

at Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs)<br />

across America. SBA resource partners provide<br />

counseling and training to business owners at all<br />

stages.<br />

SBA Emerging Leaders Initiative<br />

The Emerging Leaders Initiative is an intensive<br />

executive-level series intended to accelerate the<br />

growth of high-potential small businesses in America’s<br />

underserved cities. The program provides customized<br />

training for C-level executives with demonstrated<br />

business sustainability. Participants create a threeyear<br />

strategic growth action plan with benchmarks<br />

and performance targets to help them emerge as<br />

self-sustaining businesses creating jobs and building<br />

communities.<br />

Federal Partners<br />

The U.S. Department of Commerce operates the<br />

Minority Business Development Agency, which is<br />

dedicated to the growth and global competitiveness of<br />

business enterprises owned and operated by African<br />

Americans, Asian Americans, Hasidic Jews, Hispanic<br />

Americans, Native Americans, and Pacific Islanders.<br />

Funding Programs<br />

The federal government does not provide grants to<br />

start a business. However, there are several funding<br />

programs to help entrepreneurs start, expand, or<br />

recover from disasters. You can learn more about<br />

funding options for small businesses, including those<br />

targeted at minority and underserved communities,<br />

and connect with SBA-approved lenders. SBA also<br />

offers several special COVID-19 relief options.<br />

SBDC – Taking Care of Business<br />

By Todd Rausch<br />

Minority-Owned Businesses<br />

SBA is committed to supporting the development and growth of minority-owned small businesses and entrepreneurs from<br />

underserved communities.<br />

SBA Contracting Certifications &<br />

Business Development Programs<br />

8(a) Business Development Program<br />

The 8(a) Business Development program helps socially and<br />

economically disadvantaged small businesses grow by limiting<br />

competition for specific contracts to participating businesses,<br />

allowing them to become solid competitors in the federal<br />

marketplace.<br />

Disadvantaged businesses in the 8(a) program can:<br />

• Compete for set-aside and sole-source contracts in the program.<br />

• Get a Business Opportunity Specialist to navigate federal<br />

contracting.<br />

• Form joint ventures with established businesses through the<br />

SBA’s Mentor-Protégé Program.<br />

• Receive management and technical assistance, including<br />

business training, counseling, marketing assistance, and highlevel<br />

executive development.<br />

• Compete for contract awards under multiple socio-economic<br />

programs as they apply.<br />

Before you can participate in the 8(a) Business Development<br />

program, you must meet certain criteria and be certified.<br />

HUBZone Program<br />

The government limits competition for certain contracts<br />

to businesses in historically underutilized business zones.<br />

The program aims to award at least three percent of federal<br />

contract dollars each year to HUBZone-certified companies.<br />

Mentor-Protégé Program<br />

The SBA Mentor-Protégé Program enables eligible small<br />

businesses (protégés) to get valuable business development<br />

help and win government contracts through partnerships with<br />

more experienced companies (mentors).<br />

Additional Government Contracting Program<br />

SBA offers several additional government contracting<br />

certifications and programs.<br />

Office of Diversity, Inclusion, and Civil Rights<br />

All SBA programs and services are extended to the public on<br />

a nondiscriminatory basis. For additional information, you may<br />

contact SBA’s Office of Diversity, Inclusion, and Civil Rights for<br />

additional information.<br />

America’s SBDC Iowa provides free, confidential, customized,<br />

professional business advice and consulting in all 99 Iowa counties<br />

to entrepreneurs.<br />

Todd Rausch, Regional Director for the Small Business Development<br />

Center at Western Iowa Tech Community College. 712-274-6454 |<br />

Todd.rausch@witcc.edu


Sioux City Kicks Off 50th Ragbrai<br />

Sioux City Chamber<br />

Get ready for the area’s biggest party when<br />

Sioux City celebrates the 50th anniversary of The<br />

Register’s Annual Great Bike Ride Across Iowa,<br />

better known as RAGBRAI, on Saturday, July 22,<br />

with festivities that will attract a record number of<br />

registered riders.<br />

RAGBRAI cyclists will arrive in droves and stay the night, July<br />

22, before they dip their tires in the Missouri River and take<br />

off Sunday morning.<br />

It will be the eighth time RAGBRAI starts from Sioux City,<br />

including the first RAGBRAI, that launched in 1973 with more<br />

than 300 riders, 114 of whom made it to the end. This year<br />

cyclists will stop in Storm Lake and five other communities<br />

before ending in Davenport, Iowa, on, July 29.<br />

More than a dozen committees are addressing publicity,<br />

housing, signage, special events, public safety, medical,<br />

sponsorships, and more.<br />

Sioux City is seeking host homes, vendors, and volunteers.<br />

While thousands of registered riders will travel with charters<br />

and camp at Riverside Park and Chris Larsen Park on Sioux<br />

City’s riverfront, others will stay in area hotels, there is still a<br />

need for local homes, Salvatore said. “We need residents to<br />

open their yards and homes for smaller teams and individual<br />

riders. Most riders expect only a yard for camping, but they<br />

do appreciate access to a bathroom and shower along with<br />

a place to fill their water bottles. Some hosts enjoy cooking<br />

breakfast.”<br />

RAGBRAI insures registered participants.<br />

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A focal point for the riders and local residents will be the<br />

entertainment and bike expo area in the Tyson Events<br />

Center and Long Lines Family Rec Center parking lot.<br />

“RAGBRAI can showcase Sioux City like no other event<br />

and create a powerful economic impact,” said Sioux City<br />

RAGBRAI Chair Matt Salvatore. “Cyclists and their supporters<br />

from across the United States and from other countries will<br />

eat in our restaurants, stay in our hotels, shop and spend<br />

time with our warm and friendly residents.”<br />

RAGBRAI began when Des Moines Register reporters,<br />

John Karras and Donald Kaul, decided to bike across Iowa<br />

and invited others to join them. The ride exploded over<br />

the years, making RAGBRAI a major summer event across<br />

the state of Iowa.<br />

Sign up to host riders, volunteer, or be a vendor at<br />

ragbraisiouxcity.com. News also appears on Facebook<br />

@siouxcityragbrai, Twitter @scragbrai, and Instagram @<br />

siouxcityragbrai.<br />

JULY<br />

22<br />

RAGBRAISIOUXCITY.COM


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Okoboji Writer’s Retreat – Sept. 17-20, 2023<br />

The Okoboji Writer’s Retreat, September 17-20, is an annual event for anyone who has a story to tell.<br />

The three-day experience is designed for all skill levels, whether participants have a manuscriptready to publish, need a nudge to<br />

start a family memoir, or simply become a better writer.<br />

Award-winning columnists, authors, poets, and publishers from around the country<br />

will be there holding small-group workshops, serving on panels, or be available for<br />

individual consultation.<br />

Meet a literary agent, find your voice, and get started.<br />

There are optional social activities in the evening, including a barge trip around the lake.<br />

The Okoboji Writer’s Retreat is an opportunity to get started on your projects, become<br />

empowered, and make new connections.<br />

Enrollment will close on June 1. Space is limited, and has sold out each prior year,<br />

so act now (the fee is refundable less service charge until September 1).<br />

Cost: $795<br />

Some partial scholarships are available for emerging writers, or working journalists.<br />

Learn more: www.okobojiwritersretreat.com


Experience Downtown<br />

By Carly Howrey<br />

Downtown Partners is dedicated to creating a<br />

vibrant, expanding, and busy Downtown Sioux<br />

City. In order to fill vacant spaces and enhance existing<br />

ones, we’ve focused our efforts on business recruitment<br />

and retention. With the help of our partners and passionate<br />

work group members, we have developed two grant<br />

opportunities for downtown properties and businesses—<br />

the Downtown Business Recruitment Rent Relief Program<br />

and the Storefront Grant.<br />

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The Rent Relief Program is in full swing, awarding $10k in<br />

funds to new businesses within the first three months of its<br />

launch in July of 2022. The program allows a new business<br />

to receive 50% off rent for the first six months of operating<br />

in Downtown Sioux City. This is an agreement between the<br />

property owner and Downtown Partners to each cover 25%<br />

of the rent for up to half a year, capped at $3,600. The goal<br />

of this program is to attract new and exciting businesses.<br />

Whether it’s an ice cream parlor, a new pub, or a retail<br />

store—we want you downtown.<br />

To receive Rent Relief, a new business must have a 3-year<br />

lease agreement (minimum) and approval from the property<br />

owner. If you’re opening a business downtown and are<br />

unsure how to approach your property owner about this<br />

opportunity, please contact us at info@downtownsiouxcity.<br />

com. We would love to meet and explain the importance of<br />

this program to anyone interested. The annual Downtown<br />

Partners budget determines the total funding available;<br />

therefore the number of awarded applications depends<br />

on funding available, so apply today! Our dedication to<br />

help new businesses doesn’t stop there. After receiving<br />

Rent Relief funds, a business may also be eligible for the<br />

Storefront Grant.<br />

Rent relief<br />

Downtown Partners has awarded 22 businesses a total<br />

of $182,609.50 for façade improvements through<br />

the Storefront Grant. This program offers funds up to<br />

50% of owner or tenant investment, capped at $2,500<br />

per storefront. What exactly is a ‘storefront’ and what<br />

improvements qualify for the storefront grant? We define<br />

a storefront as: ‘the facade of a store; a room(s) of a<br />

commercial building, typically used as a store. Several<br />

storefronts could make up one building parcel.’ As for<br />

qualifying improvements, we have helped pay for signage,<br />

new front doors, murals, historic refurbishment, and more.<br />

If you have questions on your upcoming project, reach<br />

out to us. We’d be happy to answer any specific questions<br />

regarding your storefront. We want your business or<br />

property to leave the best first impression, apply for the<br />

Storefront grant today!<br />

Our grant funding is available for businesses and<br />

properties within the downtown district. We are<br />

excited to support projects directly making impacts<br />

on local businesses and hope to create more funding<br />

opportunities for downtown entities in the near future. All<br />

applications and further business assistance can be found<br />

on our website. To see the downtown district map, and for<br />

a more in-depth look at rules, benefits, and the selection<br />

process of each Downtown Partners grant opportunity,<br />

visit downtownsiouxcity.com.<br />

Maya Modification received the Storefront Grant in 2022.<br />

Contributed by Downtown Partners, a non-profit<br />

organization that works with downtown stakeholders to<br />

create a vibrant, expanding downtown. To learn more about<br />

Downtown Partners and stay up to date on downtown<br />

projects and events, visit downtownsiouxcity.com.


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Buff by Labor Day<br />

Hot Air<br />

By Tony Michaels<br />

Here’s a news flash. I am not a finished product. If<br />

you listen to me on the radio daily, this will not come as<br />

a shock. I am more than open about my shortcomings<br />

and where I need to improve. I am also very fortunate<br />

to have so many guests on “Starting Conversations<br />

with Stacie and Tony” podcast who are absolutely<br />

crushing it and are inspirations. Rachelle Rawson, Jeff<br />

Carlson, and Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata are recent guests who<br />

would probably fill this space with insight galore.<br />

I use this space as a confessional. Thanks for bearing<br />

with me. I am working it all out one article at a time.<br />

I would like to have the physique of a buff dude like<br />

country music superstar and actor Tim McGraw. I have<br />

subscribed to Men’s Health <strong>Magazine</strong> for 20 years to<br />

accomplish this goal! I read every issue from start to<br />

finish while crushing a six-pack and a pound of potato<br />

oles from my favorite taco place. Actually, my lovely<br />

wife gifted me the Tim McGraw fitness book for my<br />

birthday. However, it did not come with a magic weight<br />

loss elixir or “something like that.”<br />

When I took a vacation to New York City, I noticed many<br />

of the locals were very fit. I assume because they are<br />

constantly walking ALL the time. I live a short 20-minute<br />

walk from the radio station. When the weather allows,<br />

I really should hike into work. However, the extra 18<br />

minutes of sleep would make me a more tolerable coworker.<br />

You would take a slightly chubby happy fellow<br />

over a ripped, grumpy guy by the water cooler at work,<br />

right?<br />

I read in Esquire <strong>Magazine</strong> the many benefits of a<br />

daily sauna. That’s an idea I can champion. Sitting<br />

and sweating off the Lbs.? I’m sold. The stories from<br />

the sauna are great with intelligent people who tout<br />

increased activity and smarter food decisions, like<br />

recipes featuring kale and cabbage. After one recent<br />

conversation, I ran to the store and bought ten bucks<br />

worth of it. That was two weeks ago. It’s still in my<br />

fridge. Untouched. Can I add kale to my tacos? Would<br />

that help?<br />

I can’t imagine sitting down to watch a big game and<br />

substituting chicken wings from a local eatery for<br />

carrots and hummus. Even Tim McGraw has cheat days<br />

where he probably eats toast and avocado.<br />

I’ve been told the key to a more active lifestyle is to<br />

“lean in” to an activity I enjoy and pretend it’s not<br />

exercise. You know, like pretending kale does taste like<br />

lettuce or a stuffed crust pizza.<br />

So, I am calling on all readers of this magazine who own a<br />

golf course. Please give me a free membership to the links,<br />

and I promise I will walk the course. No golf cart for this<br />

guy! In just one summer, I will look just like Tim McGraw.<br />

My wife will be thrilled! I prefer to stroll to my next shot<br />

because I can quietly utter profanities under my breath as<br />

I walk to my Taylor Made golf ball 75 yards down the way,<br />

out of bounds in the tall weeds of the golf course.<br />

Which, by the way, those tall weeds do resemble something.<br />

Kale.<br />

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Council Connection<br />

By Matthew O’Kane<br />

Springtime is fast approaching, but for many, it’s tough to get out of that winter mindset. We’re at that<br />

awkward part of the year where it can be freezing in the morning and bright and sunny in the afternoon. It’s a<br />

slow warm-up, but as the frost gives way to a sun-soaked city, it leaves you feeling that the frost was worth it just<br />

to see the contrast it helped to highlight. It takes something special to live in this climate, and you have to be<br />

able to adapt to those long nights and the cold weather.<br />

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During this time of year, it’s not uncommon for people to feel isolated and discouraged. Daylight savings time<br />

and the cold lingering from the recent winter months can make you feel like winter is never going to end. But<br />

those afternoon hours that break through the crisp weather and make way for the sun’s warmth are just the<br />

medicine the doctor ordered. It reminds us to get outside and feel the sunshine on our face, even if it’s only for<br />

a brief moment before the rain starts.<br />

Green thumbs like me will have started planting in February. Stick to your planting schedule and make time for<br />

it. The nurturing and care you provide to these tiny seedlings will pay off when we’re in the heat of summer. If<br />

planting is not your thing, get outdoors and find some time for restful relaxation or some light exercise. Take the<br />

kids for a walk around the block, visit a park, or bike a trail.<br />

If you’re so inclined, bring along a sack for trash. As the snow melts away and the wind picks up, there’s never<br />

a shortage of trash to be collected. Living in a community takes an effort by everyone to keep our space green.<br />

If you’re not keen on handling trash, report some potholes to the city so we can get them patched. This time of<br />

year they tend to be plentiful!<br />

Don’t forget to visit neighbors, loved ones, and friends. This time of year can be hard for everyone, and we<br />

should all help each other shake off the cold of the winter and embrace the springtime whenever we’re able.<br />

Everyone needs help now and then but don’t forget to take time for yourself as well. You are a valuable member<br />

of our community, and you should prioritize yourself.<br />

Matthew O’Kane, a K-12 Art Teacher for the Sioux City Community School District and a Sioux City Council Person. He’s a life-long<br />

resident of Sioux City, and an avid gardener and artist.<br />

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Leading the Way – Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

By Peggy Smith<br />

Celebrating the 2022-2023 Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> Class<br />

Almost 1200 young professionals have graduated from<br />

Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> since its inception in 1984. 39 years<br />

ago, a small group of progressive, forward-thinking individuals<br />

from Sioux City saw a need for an organized forum to develop<br />

leaders and help them get involved in the community. They<br />

offered a nine-month program to educate participants about<br />

the city, help them gain confidence and leadership skills,<br />

and invoke a passion for making a positive difference in their<br />

community. It is a tribute to those first visionaries that the<br />

program is still in existence and adding value today.<br />

Over the years, the program has expanded from Sioux Citycentric<br />

to tri-state-focused. The curriculum ncludes specific<br />

educational leadership skill components, such as Change<br />

Cycle Management, principles of positive leadership and<br />

emotional intelligence, and an emphasis on IDEA (Inclusion/<br />

Diversity/Equity/Access and Accessibility). There are<br />

numerous dynamic opportunities for participants to network<br />

with entrepreneurs and people of influence they might never<br />

have the chance to meet and interact with socially. Each year,<br />

the program attracts a diverse group of participants from<br />

different industries/occupations, at various career levels,<br />

different ethnicity, gender, age, and socioeconomic levels.<br />

This diversity within the class results in an extremely interactive,<br />

inspiring, and exciting learning environment.<br />

This year’s class undertook projects in collaboration with<br />

mission-driven organizations including <strong>Siouxland</strong> Youth for<br />

Christ, Sleep In Heavenly Peace, Wet-Nose Rescue, Meet<br />

the Need <strong>Siouxland</strong> Inc., YANA (You Are Not Alone), SCAHT<br />

(<strong>Siouxland</strong> Coalition Against Human Trafficking), and a newly<br />

formed Cancer SUX Tea Party. The graduates from the<br />

program enhanced their leadership skills and found their<br />

passion, and will go on to make positive differences in our<br />

community for years to come.<br />

Applications are now being taken for the 2023 – 2024 class.<br />

To learn more or apply, contact the Executive Director<br />

at exdir@leadershipsiouxland.org or call 712-898-8594.<br />

Congratulations to the graduates of the 2022 -2023 class<br />

and sincere thanks to the organizations that sponsored their<br />

participation:<br />

Stacie Anderson - <strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>; Antonio Bass, Brian<br />

Ganger, and Anna Salas – Goodwill of the Great Plains;<br />

Janell Broekemier – Goosmann Law Firm; Greg Brummond<br />

- Chesterman Company ; Erin Cantrell – Seaboard Triumph<br />

Foods; Brooke Daane – Big Brothers/Big Sisters; Mary Davis,<br />

Katie Helgeland, Anna Howard, Bethany Jones, Lori Kasel,<br />

Valente Leon, Keith O’Dell, Dory Parkin, Rachel Ruiz, Rocky<br />

Schmitz – Wells Enterprises, Inc.; Janelle DeCora, Jaime<br />

Monroe, Darlyn St. Cyr – Ho Chunk Inc.; DJ Flores – Northwest<br />

Bank; Ashlee French – Barnhart Crane; Autumn Hernandez<br />

– Central Bank; Ben Hull – WA Klinger LLC; Erin McElroy – Briar<br />

Cliff University; LaShawna Moyle, Josh Van Zweden – WITCC; Neil<br />

Niehus – Schuster Inc.; Lt. Col. Will Poulson and SMSgt Luke Terry<br />

– SC ANG 185th; Jessica Ross – Security National Bank; Pat Schnell<br />

– FEH Design; Christy Schwaderer – Boy Scouts of America; Steve<br />

Steichen, Mike Yellot – Great West Casualty Company; Sarah<br />

Sturges – Floyd Valley HealthCare; Laura Tranmer – <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

Community Health Center; Tarn Vieira – Self-Employed; Jennifer<br />

Williams – Boys and Girls Club; Glen Winekauf – Horn Memorial<br />

Hospital<br />

Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> is able to cultivate community leaders<br />

because of our supporters. We’d like to thank Sioux City<br />

Museum, Orpheum Theater and Warrior Hotel, Seaboard<br />

Triumph Expo Center, WITCC Security Institute and 911 Center,<br />

Sioux City Chamber of Commerce, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Community<br />

Health Center, Boys and Girls Club of <strong>Siouxland</strong>, Girls Inc., SC<br />

ANG 185th, Salvation Army Camp. Kudos to our caterer, Susan<br />

Frahm. Special thanks as well to our presenters – Tom Munson<br />

(SC Museum); Rex Mueller, Ryan Bertrand (Sioux City Police) and<br />

Ryan Collins (Sioux City Fire); Julian Lee (<strong>Siouxland</strong> Community<br />

Health Center), Alex Watters (Morningside University and SC<br />

City Council); Heidi Kammer-Hodge (Consulting by Design LLC<br />

and Briar Cliff University); Zachary Nelson, (SC Juvenile Court<br />

Services), Tessa Dinsdale (First Interstate Bank), Barbara Sloniker<br />

(Sioux City Initiative and Sioux City Chamber), Chris Bogenrief<br />

(NAI United Business Brokerage), Chris Jacobs (ARNP<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Community Health Center), Kevin Grieme (<strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

District Health Department), Keith Vollstedt MD (UnityPoint<br />

Health); and representatives from the following organizations –<br />

Girls Inc, YANA, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Youth For Christ, Sleep In Heavenly<br />

Peach, Meet the Need <strong>Siouxland</strong> Inc., Youth Crisis Intervention<br />

Center, and Youth Shelter, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Coalition Against Human<br />

Trafficking.<br />

Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> continues to develop diverse, passionate<br />

leaders who positively impact our community for today and<br />

tomorrow. Please join us; you will find your passion and help make<br />

our community even stronger and better!<br />

The mission of Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> is to develop diverse,<br />

passionate leaders who positively impact our community for<br />

today and tomorrow. Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong> began in 1984<br />

and is proud of the over 1200 graduates who make positive<br />

differences each and every day. To learn more, contact Peggy<br />

Smith, Executive Director, at 712-898-8594 or email info@<br />

leadershipsiouxland.org.<br />

Peggy Smith, Executive Director of Leadership <strong>Siouxland</strong>, is<br />

dedicated to inspiring others to follow their passion to positively<br />

impact the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Community.


<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization (SGO) is excited to<br />

announce that they will be hosting their 13th Annual<br />

Innovation Market! This year’s Market, Thursday, May 18,<br />

will host a Rush Hour Connect from 4-6:30 p.m., gathering<br />

the community around aspiring entrepreneurs. Innovation<br />

Market strives to grow our community through innovative<br />

ideas and supporting local businesses by bridging the<br />

gap between the inception of an entrepreneurial idea<br />

and making it a reality. SGO uses this event to create an<br />

environment where potential startups or businesses, less<br />

than a year old, test their ideas in a community setting.<br />

At our Innovation Market, you can expect a wall illuminated<br />

with business idea submissions, and attendees are<br />

encouraged to vote for their favorite business they would<br />

like to see in <strong>Siouxland</strong>. After votes are tallied, the top five<br />

finalists will be announced. The event winners will later<br />

attend a business pitch event where they can win up to<br />

$5,000 to help get their businesses started. We strongly<br />

believe this helps boost local economic growth and the<br />

overall well-being of our community. After you’ve had the<br />

opportunity to read all of the impressive idea submissions,<br />

you can network and sample from some of <strong>Siouxland</strong>’s<br />

favorite breweries, restaurants, and more!<br />

For the last 13 years, <strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization has<br />

successfully hosted our Innovation Market, awarding more<br />

than $100,000 in grant money to help local entrepreneurs<br />

realize their vision. It is also one of the only opportunities<br />

locally for entrepreneurs to win grant money for their<br />

potential business ventures.<br />

If you or someone you know has a business idea you<br />

would like to submit for the Innovation Market, please have<br />

them submit their business idea to SiouxCityGO.com. The<br />

deadline to submit is Thursday, May 4. If you do not want to<br />

start a new business but you want to have a direct impact<br />

on the economic influence that entrepreneurs have in the<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> community, stop by our event Thursday, May 18,<br />

between 4:30 - 6 p.m. If you have any questions regarding<br />

the event, submissions, or how to get involved with the event<br />

in the future, please reach out to our Innovation Market<br />

Chair, Ashley, at <strong>Siouxland</strong>GO@gmail.com.<br />

If you want to join the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization, there<br />

are many exciting opportunities to get involved with and<br />

affect change in our community. One of the best ways to<br />

get involved is to join one of our committees. No matter<br />

your expertise or background, we welcome all members<br />

Future Foundation – <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO<br />

By Sydney McManamy<br />

Supporting Aspiring Entrepreneurs in <strong>Siouxland</strong><br />

2022 Innovation Market Winner Furrow Flower.<br />

interested in helping improve the organization through their<br />

committee efforts.<br />

Our committees include Community Engagement, Connect,<br />

Marketing, Innovation Market, and Special Events. To learn<br />

more about the various committees that are available, you<br />

can visit our website, SiouxCityGO.com, and click on the<br />

committee titles to be redirected to their respective pages. If<br />

you are interested in joining a committee, you can contact the<br />

SGO Board Chair of that committee to get involved.<br />

Our monthly general meeting will be held Wednesday,<br />

May 10th from 12 to 1 p.m., at the <strong>Siouxland</strong> Chamber of<br />

Commerce, 101 Pierce Street. The June meeting will be<br />

Wednesday, June 14, from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m., at the South Sioux<br />

City College Center, 1001 College Way. These meetings are<br />

open to the public and we welcome anyone who is interested<br />

in learning more about our organization and how we support<br />

our <strong>Siouxland</strong> community. This is an excellent opportunity to<br />

meet our team, hear about our plans for the coming months,<br />

and get involved in the activities and events we have planned.<br />

If you would like more information about the events we have<br />

coming up in the future, please check us out on Facebook.<br />

We hope to see you soon at Innovation Market!<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> Growth Organization, was formed in 2002 to<br />

encourage young professionals to become active members<br />

of the <strong>Siouxland</strong> community. Our goal is to attract<br />

and retain young professionals in the area by providing<br />

insight into what <strong>Siouxland</strong> has to offer and how they can<br />

get involved in shaping its future.<br />

Sydney McManamy, President of SGO.<br />

Photo Contributed by <strong>Siouxland</strong> GO.<br />

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Up From The Earth Is Beginning Its 10th Growing Season<br />

By Up From The Earth<br />

Up From the Earth is beginning its 10th growing<br />

season and is celebrating as gardeners and<br />

farmers grow extra garden produce to share<br />

through our collection sites and pantries! We<br />

made the connections, and this amazing community<br />

has stepped up to work together to meet the needs.<br />

Our program has evolved to meet the needs of the<br />

community through the years while consistently growing<br />

in pounds donated.<br />

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We began in 2014 with a pilot program with a handful<br />

of churches and pantries. Going into 2023’s season, we<br />

have 40 local area collection sites and pantries. THANK<br />

YOU ALL for stepping up.<br />

In our early years, we received grants to help fund some<br />

gardening tools for donation gardens. Throughout the<br />

years, we have handed out seeds and seedlings often<br />

grown by master gardeners to donate to individuals<br />

and donation gardens. Our mission diversified to<br />

include educating the public regarding healthy eating<br />

of fresh vegetables and fruits, and how to grow some<br />

vegetables in containers to have some “at home.” We<br />

continue to educate the community on the needs in our<br />

neighborhood to increase food security and develop an<br />

awareness of what each of us can do to help. More and<br />

more individuals come forward to donate each year.<br />

We have partnered and collaborated with an array of<br />

organizations working together to increase food security<br />

in our community! This is a generous place to live!<br />

In 2018 we introduced our garden mascot Zucchini Guy<br />

to help us get our message out. In 2018, with the help<br />

of a marketing professor and students at Morningside<br />

University, our webpage was upgraded, and our logo<br />

was reinvented. Currently, in 2023, we have added a QR<br />

code on the website and posters around town. Take a<br />

picture of that QR code,, and you will be taken directly<br />

to our website, the list of collection sites and pantries,<br />

the days they are open, and how to contact them. You<br />

may contact us to donate or supplement what you need<br />

to feed your family. Our Facebook page has a lot of<br />

traffic thanks largely to the behind-the-scenes work of<br />

Zucchini Guy (aka Mark Raymond). Annual Certificates<br />

of Appreciation and frequent “Tip of the Trowel” on<br />

Facebook help us recognize the wonderful people<br />

sharing in our vision.<br />

Z Guy at the Sioux City Farmers Market with manager Becky.<br />

Randy Burnight, Mark Raymond, and Jenny Jorgensen, ISU<br />

Woodbury County Extension and Outreach Master Gardeners<br />

and Steering Team Committee members for Up From the Earth.<br />

At St. James Methodist Vacation Bible School learning<br />

about gardening from Jenny Jorgensen.<br />

Up from the Earth exists to connect extra produce from<br />

home gardens to people in need.


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Ask the Therapist<br />

By Jackie Paulson<br />

Send Your<br />

Questions<br />

to the<br />

Therapist.<br />

have heard of the importance of letting my feelings ‘be<br />

there’ but wonder at what point am I giving feelings such as<br />

depression and anxiety too much attention. I am afraid I will<br />

Q:“I<br />

get stuck in negativity.”<br />

Dear Reader,<br />

This is actually a common exploration that happens<br />

in therapy. The theories I work from as a therapist<br />

often promote a lot of emotional intimacy, which<br />

encourages learning to “be with” emotions rather<br />

than try to dissociate or distract from them. The<br />

idea is that emotions themselves are not actually<br />

a threat. Our belief about those emotions creates<br />

a story that emotions are unsafe and that we<br />

should fix them or get away from them as quickly<br />

as possible, which can become problematic.<br />

Emotions never really go away when we run from<br />

them. Often they just get tucked away. Repressed<br />

emotions can manifest in the body as physical<br />

symptoms if they go unaddressed for a long time.<br />

For this reason, I like to empower people to find the<br />

courage to address their feelings and challenge<br />

the belief that there is anything to fix. I want them to<br />

acknowledge the intelligence of their body-mind.<br />

Often the body knows exactly how to respond to<br />

help wake the individual up to an overall better<br />

well-being. And sometimes, the body does that<br />

through symptoms like depression, anxiety, anger,<br />

etc. Just as the body elicits pain when you put<br />

your hand on something too hot to motivate<br />

you to respond and move it away, the body also<br />

offers you feedback through the emotions and<br />

sensations in your body. I also appreciate that<br />

sometimes states of depression and anxiety can<br />

be patterns that need to be re-patterned, which<br />

requires intentional action in building an opposite<br />

state inside the body-mind.<br />

Ultimately, the answer to this question is highly<br />

individual. First, I encourage anyone who feels they<br />

can relate to access someone who can support them<br />

with reflections that will guide that person in the right<br />

direction for themselves.<br />

Next, learning to attune and track your body’s<br />

“signals” (often felt through sensations through the<br />

body) will be the most helpful skill in understanding<br />

what the best response is at any given time. Practices<br />

such as guided breathwork, yoga, mindfulness, etc.,<br />

can all be helpful in learning the skill of interoception.<br />

Building on this skill does take practice and some<br />

training, but when one learns to do so - it can open<br />

up a vast array of possibilities and personal authority.<br />

In order to really understand when a feeling needs<br />

more space and time from you versus when you are<br />

hijacked by and getting stuck in an emotional state<br />

will often be felt quite subtly within the context of our<br />

body’s internal signals. Pendulation is a word that<br />

describes the practice of moving back and forth. A<br />

lot of emotional regulation and nervous system work<br />

is not about achieving a higher state and staying there<br />

but rather increasing one’s capacity to be flexible<br />

between states, including emotions. For example,<br />

if I have a conflict with my friend and become really<br />

angry, how available do I feel to soften the anger?


Which doesn’t mean not feeling it but allowing<br />

myself to be buoyant within the emotion. I am not<br />

necessarily being carried away by it, nor feeling as<br />

if I am not allowed to experience it at all.<br />

This is where curiosity comes in. Building a curious<br />

nature is extremely helpful in imbibing an answer<br />

to the question of “what do I need right now as<br />

it relates to this feeling - to be with it or to take<br />

action and move beyond it?”. As long as we are<br />

judging ourselves one way or another, we likely<br />

aren’t actually being intimate with any part of our<br />

experience. Shame and judgment are surefire ways<br />

of getting stuck in any situation. Curiosity and an<br />

attitude of playfulness with one’s experience are<br />

the anecdotes to shame. For example, suppose I<br />

am feeling overwhelmed and confused, instead of<br />

judging myself for that experience, I allow another<br />

curious and compassionate part of me to come<br />

“online.” It is not in place of the overwhelming<br />

feelings but with it. This has taken practice and<br />

time to develop this skill. And often, we cannot<br />

learn this until we have been shown it by another<br />

relationship - especially if we didn’t get this level of<br />

co-regulation from our parents growing up. When<br />

we are able to get curious, space opens up. And<br />

when space opens up, emotions and sensations<br />

have somewhere to flow.<br />

If you ever find emotions or sensations becoming<br />

too overwhelming, you should not push or force<br />

yourself to stay with it longer than necessary. A big<br />

part of why our systems have developed a story<br />

that emotions are unsafe is that we have likely<br />

experienced some level of trauma or childhood<br />

conditioning that left us feeling powerless in the<br />

state of our own emotions. I like to help people<br />

feel they have a choice in their experience, and at<br />

any given time - you can choose to comfort yourself<br />

and choose something different - including<br />

reaching out for help. In the depth of this work,<br />

we can become too serious and get overly focused<br />

on the narrative of “healing.” I want to remind you<br />

that your purpose in life is not just to heal, but to<br />

enjoy this life with which we have been blessed.<br />

You can submit your question for “Ask the Therapist”<br />

by visiting jaclynpaulson@gmail.com and sending your<br />

question through the contact page. Please put “Ask the<br />

Therapist” in the subject line.<br />

Jackie Paulson is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the<br />

state of Iowa. It is her belief that every person has an innate<br />

intelligence within them and can “whole” themselves with<br />

the right support. Jackie offers a holistic and somatic based<br />

therapy practice in Sioux City, IA. Ultimately, she humbly<br />

sits with others in hopes to empower them to seek and<br />

connect into their own deep and sacred wisdom that<br />

resides within. You already have the answers, it is with the<br />

right witnessing and curiosity that the truth is revealed.<br />

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There is much more here regarding this topic, but<br />

I will leave it with these three invitations for now.<br />

• Get support. Someone who can clearly mirror for<br />

you your own inner body wisdom.<br />

• Develop the skill of interoception.<br />

• Get curious.<br />

• Don’t forget to play!<br />

With love,<br />

Jackie


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Ask the Doc<br />

By Dr. Nesrin Abu Ata<br />

Send Your<br />

Questions<br />

to the<br />

Doctor.<br />

son is a teenager and has been moodier lately, skipping school,<br />

hanging with the wrong crowd, and smoking pot daily. He says it helps him<br />

calm down, cope with his anxiety, and concentrate. I did the same thing<br />

when I was his age, only I ended up in and out of juvenile detention and<br />

residential treatment facilities, which didn’t help me. I was also abused as<br />

a child, and my parents didn’t protect me the way I protect my son. I love<br />

Q:My<br />

my son; he is a great kid, and I have done my best to protect and provide<br />

for him. I just didn’t see ‘this’ coming. I thought by protecting him from<br />

any form of abuse, he would be safe and not travel down the same path I<br />

did. Thankfully, he is now in therapy and seeing a mental health provider.<br />

However, I struggle as a parent: Why did this happen to my son? Why<br />

couldn’t I protect him?<br />

Dear Reader,<br />

You are self-aware and intentional as a parent to be<br />

there for your son in ways that you needed when you<br />

were his age. Knowledge and self-awareness are the<br />

first steps towards healing and taking charge of your<br />

health journey, ultimately trickling down to your son and<br />

the next generation. While this article provides general<br />

information and is not medical advice, consult with a<br />

trained mental health professional for your and your son’s<br />

specific needs.<br />

Transgenerational Trauma<br />

We now know that newborns don’t come into the world<br />

with a “clean slate.” They not only inherit the genes<br />

from their parents, but they also inherit what we call<br />

epigenetics. Epigenetics refer to how genes may or not<br />

be expressed.<br />

A study done in mice that found a link between the<br />

intergenerational effects of trauma and scent. The<br />

researchers blew a chemical that is the cherry blossom<br />

scent into the cages of adult male mice while zapping<br />

their feet with an electric current at the same time. The<br />

mice then associate the smells of cherry blossom with<br />

pain. When the offspring of these male mice smelled the<br />

scent of cherry blossom, they became more nervous and<br />

jumpier compared to other pups whose fathers weren’t<br />

conditioned to fear it. The grand pups of the traumatized<br />

pups also showed heightened sensitivity to the cherry<br />

blossom scent only.<br />

The sensitivity to cherry blossom scent was connected<br />

to epigenetic changes in the fathers’ sperm DNA. The<br />

pups’ brains had a more significant number of neurons<br />

that detect the cherry blossom scent. A greater sensitivity<br />

to cherry blossom was passed down from parent mice to<br />

pups.<br />

Impact of Transgenerational Trauma<br />

What researchers learned from the Adverse Childhood<br />

Experiences (ACE) is that childhood trauma, chronic<br />

diseases, and emotional and social problems were<br />

linked. This means that children who experienced at least<br />

one event on the ACE questionnaire were more likely to<br />

struggle with chronic diseases as adults, such as diabetes,<br />

obesity, lung cancer, autoimmune disease, depression,<br />

and substance abuse.


Neuroplasticity and Resilience<br />

The brain cells can continue to grow and make a<br />

new connection (synapsis) when you challenge your<br />

brain to learn and cultivate new skills. We call that<br />

neuroplasticity, and that is where resiliency comes<br />

from. This is also known as “Post Traumatic Growth,”<br />

as the brain is still able to grow, and change provided<br />

the right conditions. Below are some tips you can do to<br />

help set your brain cells to recovery and growth:<br />

Positive Childhood Experiences<br />

Research found an association between positive<br />

childhood experiences and adult mental and<br />

relationship health, regardless of what the ACE score<br />

was. To create your positive childhood experiences<br />

inventory, ask yourself the following questions: how<br />

often during your childhood:<br />

• Did you feel able to talk to your family<br />

about your feelings?<br />

• Did you feel your family stood by you<br />

during difficult times?<br />

• Did you enjoy participation in community<br />

traditions?<br />

• Did you feel a sense of belonging in<br />

school or faith community?<br />

• Did you feel supported by friends?<br />

• Did you have at least two non-parent<br />

adults who took a genuine interest in you?<br />

• Did you feel safe and protected by an<br />

adult in your home?<br />

Engaging with Art<br />

Researchers have found that engaging with any form of art<br />

helps your being to access its creativity and inner wisdom to<br />

help you heal. You don’t have to be an artist to engage in art.<br />

The act of engaging with a creative process is what matters!<br />

Cultivating a Sense of Purpose and Meaning<br />

The trauma you, and your ancestors, have experienced is<br />

unfortunate. However, these experiences do not have to<br />

define you. With the help of journaling or a therapist, you<br />

can reflect on what lessons you have learned from it, what<br />

you want to do with your life, and how you want to live it.<br />

Social Support and Spiritual Community<br />

You may consider finding a support group, depending on<br />

what you are interested in and what your needs are. You may<br />

also consider exploring spiritual practices and community.<br />

For example, your source of support and community may be<br />

your child’s classmates’ parents or other people in recovery.<br />

You may consider finding a support group, depending on<br />

what you are interested in and what your needs are. You may<br />

also consider exploring spiritual practices and community.<br />

For example, your source of support and community may be<br />

your child’s classmates’ parents or other people in recovery.<br />

You can submit your questions for “Ask the Doctor” to<br />

drnesrinabuata@gmail.com. Please put “Ask the Doctor”<br />

in the subject line.<br />

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Mindfulness Practices<br />

Studies have found that learning mindfulness practices<br />

help increase distress tolerance and resiliency, and<br />

low-stress hormones. You can work with a therapist to<br />

learn these skills and teach them to your son. There is<br />

also the Center for Mindfulness Self Compassion that<br />

has online resources.<br />

Dr. Abu Ata, a board-certified holistic trauma-informed psychiatrist<br />

and family medicine physician. She is in private practice and can<br />

be found at www.nesrinabuatamd.com or at drnesrinabuata@<br />

gmail.com. Dr. Abu Ata believes in holistic care that integrates the<br />

mind, body, and spirit. In addition to offering lifestyle interventions,<br />

mindfulness-based psychotherapy, and psychopharmacology, she<br />

also offers ketamine-assisted psychotherapy.<br />

Exercise Regularly<br />

People with trauma tend to move their bodies less,<br />

which worsens their medical conditions and physical<br />

health. Researchers have found that exercise helps<br />

with depression, and anxiety and promotes better selfesteem.<br />

The endorphins your body releases help you<br />

feel better, and with feeling better, you are more likely<br />

to continue to engage in activities that bring you joy<br />

and a general sense of well-being.


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Summer, the season of the heart, illuminates<br />

as the culmination of our Attunement with<br />

the Seasons series, which brings us to this<br />

element: fire. As always, ancient medicine provides<br />

sound guidance in embracing, understanding, and<br />

absorbing the medicine of the heart through its<br />

season. Kathy Jensen of Mind & Body Connection<br />

in Sioux City sheds a vast orb of light on the many<br />

unique herbal protocols associated with each season<br />

in Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM). She explains<br />

that the blood is the mother of chi (or qi), that vital,<br />

life force energy carried, as a child, throughout the<br />

body by the bloodstream. This approach paints a<br />

unique picture of the cardiovascular system, aiding<br />

us in nourishing and healing the physical system and<br />

its emotions, neurology, and general energy.<br />

Healing in Your Own Hands<br />

By Emily Larson<br />

Attunement with the Seasons: Play the Music of the Heart in Summer<br />

deeper qualities of the summer season, associating<br />

it with fire and the color red and the South direction,<br />

from which warm winds come. This is a time of action,<br />

as represented by the winds of the South and the fire<br />

element. In acknowledging these deeper concepts of<br />

the seasons and how they align with the body and the<br />

Earth, we can find our own unique and personal ways<br />

of attuning to the season of Summer.<br />

One such example is music. Of course, a full seasonal<br />

cleanse, with its many protocols and disciplines, has<br />

deep healing qualities and provides a full hero version<br />

of alignment with the Earthly season. However, music<br />

provides a modern yet timeless alternative to the<br />

alternative medicine seasonal approach, specifically,<br />

playing musical instruments.<br />

As a clinical herbalist and longtime student and<br />

teacher of TCM, she stated that the season is not<br />

simply associated with certain herbs but that the<br />

Earthly season supports and has an affinity for certain<br />

medicine, movement, emotions, and energy. For<br />

example, hawthorn berries are a staple in TCM as a<br />

heart protector. Western medicine aligns with this<br />

finding by observing the polyphenols in hawthorn<br />

berries, which act as antioxidants, cleansing the<br />

blood of toxic free radicals. However, in following<br />

ancient medicine to its great depths, we find much<br />

more than this physiological benefit.<br />

Sometimes, understanding and communicating the<br />

heart can prove to be a prickly challenge laced with<br />

miscommunication and confusion. Words like happy,<br />

sad, or excited can name an emotion but may not do<br />

justice to the raw expression of that emotion.<br />

However, as Zach Pickens, lead guitarist of the Sioux<br />

City band Port Nocturnal, states, “Everyone has a song<br />

that makes them cry” and explains that music provides<br />

a resource for tapping into emotions and inner human<br />

experiences that beg for more than words as their<br />

deliverance.<br />

In TCM, Kathy explains<br />

that summer is a time<br />

to listen to the heart’s<br />

deepest desires, connect<br />

with what we love, and<br />

heal with love. The heart<br />

and the element of fire<br />

are associated with the<br />

emotion of purified joy<br />

and creation, so the<br />

summer season also<br />

supports working with<br />

family and intimate<br />

relationships.<br />

Kathy states that Native<br />

American medicine also<br />

acknowledges these<br />

Whole dried hawthorne<br />

berries can be a heart<br />

tonic in many forms.<br />

Pickens also provides an intuitive connection between<br />

his musical creative process and the true expression of<br />

the heart. “When I’m feeling something big, complex,<br />

or difficult and can describe that sonically, it allows<br />

me to fully feel, explore, and communicate it without<br />

confusing words to get it out there. Talking about my<br />

feelings doesn’t have the same effect.”<br />

According to Pickens, this ability to manifest genuine<br />

expression of his emotional life is further validated<br />

when he and his bandmates, Layne Medema (bass<br />

wizard/riff dealer) and Alex Rhymer, find themselves<br />

in their dark basement studio. “When we jam, each of<br />

us is allowed to play what we feel in real-time. One of<br />

us leads while the other two paint the canvas that’s<br />

been provided, playing to that feel, that vibe. It gives<br />

us a chance to understand each other without having<br />

to explain it.”


TCM teaches us many ways to take heart medicine,<br />

especially in its deeper themes that guide us in<br />

connecting with oneself and each other. By playing the<br />

music of the heart, we can find an adapted yet authentic<br />

version of music as medicine.<br />

For local sources of musical learning:<br />

Ray’s Midbell Music<br />

4230 S Lancelot Ln<br />

Sioux City, IA 51106<br />

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Together in the basement as Port Nocturnal each<br />

counterpart contributes his own inner experience.<br />

Pickens’ observations support the microcosmic storm<br />

of electrical activity in his brain when he plays guitar,<br />

especially improvisationally in a jam.<br />

According to Anita Collins, doctor of Neuroscience<br />

and Music Education, playing a musical instrument<br />

creates many connections in the brain, including<br />

centers for movement, sensation, emotion, audition,<br />

and visualization. She says this develops the level<br />

of connection across the left and right hemispheres<br />

of the brain, strengthening the music player’s<br />

ability to marry creativity with precision, planning<br />

with improvisation, and language with emotion. By<br />

tapping many different areas of the brain, playing<br />

music becomes a way to connect the mind, body, and<br />

heart. The brain is the center of the central nervous<br />

system and communicates with every system of the<br />

body, primarily through the bioelectrical activity<br />

informing the rhythm of the heartbeat. Thus, learning<br />

a musical instrument would not only be in harmony<br />

with ancient heart medicine but also has support from<br />

more Western styles of medicine.<br />

Sioux City Conservatory of Music<br />

1309 Pierce St<br />

Sioux City, IA 51105<br />

For a TED Talk on Music and<br />

the Brain with Dr. Anita Collins:<br />

TedxTalk - Anita Collins Music<br />

https://www.anitacollins.com/tedxtalk<br />

For an herbal consultation with<br />

Kathy Jensen, seasonal cleanse<br />

workshops or medicinal herbs:<br />

Mind & Body Connection<br />

1925 Geneva St.<br />

Sioux City, IA 51104<br />

Emily Larson, Licensed Massage Therapist, Private<br />

Yoga Instructor, Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology<br />

& Human Performance, Instructor of Anatomy and<br />

Pathology for massage therapy students at the Bio Chi<br />

Institute, and mother to Noah.<br />

Photo Credit Emily Larson.<br />

Pickens, Medema, and Rhymer unite in their basement<br />

studio once a week, inside cushioned walls that<br />

create a womb-like echo chamber, a macrocosm of<br />

the heart’s warm, electrical, pulsing inner ventricles.<br />

Medema creates a deep well of driving force bass<br />

tones as he explores ancient Raga scales, representing<br />

the walls of the heart, reverberating and constant.<br />

Pickens rips streams of color and emotion dark and<br />

deep, representing the flow of blood and energy as<br />

crashing, tympanic skins reinforce each sound, giving<br />

it clear meaning. Rhymer’s every strike represents<br />

the heartbeat, supporting the hallucinogenic, bluesexploring,<br />

grunge sound of the trio speaking their<br />

own language. This collaboration even stands to<br />

represent the different areas of the brain lighting up,<br />

coming together as one storm and true expression of<br />

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By Cody Rininger<br />

Summer Is Around The Corner – Time To Get That Shred On<br />

The glorious drug, caffeine, is<br />

frequently used in pre-workout<br />

and fat-burning supplements<br />

to increase energy and focus. It<br />

improves mental alertness, memory,<br />

exercise performance, and fat burning.<br />

So why are they so popular in these<br />

supplements?<br />

Caffeine studies have shown<br />

enhanced peak torque and motor unit<br />

recruitment in lower and upper body<br />

muscle groups. The increase in energy<br />

allows individuals to produce more<br />

power (energy) to squeeze out extra<br />

reps. Muscle burns calories. Caffeine<br />

is a central nervous system stimulant.<br />

It works by stimulating the brain.<br />

There are also plant sources of<br />

caffeine, including kola nuts, guarana,<br />

Mexico Shred.<br />

and yerba mate. You will often see these<br />

last two ingredients when looking at a<br />

thermogenic (fat burner). Caffeine can<br />

be useful and, typically, most people’s<br />

best friend, but it is a drug. It can<br />

cause shakiness, agitation, decreased<br />

coordination, high blood pressure, and<br />

increased heart rate in extremely high<br />

doses. It should be taken with care and<br />

always assess tolerance.<br />

Nitric oxide is a compound that your<br />

body NATURALLY produces to relax<br />

blood vessels and improve blood flow.<br />

It contributes to “the pump.” The pump<br />

is when your muscles swell, caused by<br />

excessive blood.<br />

Some common compounds used to<br />

make nitric oxide are included in preworkout<br />

supplements. These include<br />

L-arginine, L-citrulline, and sources of<br />

dietary nitrates. L-citrulline is an amino<br />

acid found in meat, nuts, legumes,<br />

and watermelon. An example of how<br />

the pump powers growth is through<br />

oxygen.<br />

Increasing the delivery of oxygen-rich<br />

red blood cells to your starving muscles<br />

accelerates the speed at which your<br />

system is able to cleanse itself of muscle<br />

toxins, such as ammonia. It also may<br />

decrease muscle soreness due to the<br />

oxygen-rich blood cells. Nitric oxide is<br />

also crucial for the fat-burning process,<br />

as it facilitates the breakdown of fats.<br />

If nitric oxide levels are low, fat<br />

accumulation increases, leading to<br />

negative impacts on blood flow and<br />

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heart health. Moreover, insufficient<br />

nitric oxide can result in a slow<br />

metabolism and hinder weight loss.<br />

So, that last part is critical for those<br />

reading, not necessarily interested in<br />

muscle building or fat burning.<br />

Nitric oxide production is essential<br />

for overall health because it allows<br />

blood, nutrients, and oxygen to travel<br />

to every part of your body effectively<br />

and efficiently. It offers heart-boosting<br />

effects, including reducing arterial<br />

stiffness, reducing blood pressure,<br />

and improving carotid artery blood<br />

flow. Limited nitric oxide production is<br />

associated with heart disease, diabetes,<br />

and a particular “male dysfunction.”<br />

<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | BeComing /45<br />

Cody Rininger is certified by the National Academy of Medicine as a Professional Fitness Instructor. He is also certified in Cardiorespiratory<br />

Fitness, Heart Variance, Nutrition, Neuromuscular Flexibility, Supplements, and Mental/Behavior Performance. He incorporates techniques<br />

for concentration, focus, motivation, and coping with anxiety. He has been featured in National Fitness <strong>Magazine</strong>s and has spoken<br />

on several national Podcasts. Prior to personal training, Cody received his Master’s in Instruction. He has first-hand experience with<br />

differentiating personalized instruction, planning, and goal setting. Cody brings his 2B Imperium training methods, knowledge, and<br />

experience to give clients the best overall experience, whether they have been exercising for years or are beginning their fitness journey.<br />

He was named 2022 <strong>Siouxland</strong> Trainer of the Year and is nominated for the 2023 Award. Cody trains at the Four Seasons in Sioux City and<br />

North Sioux City.<br />

Photo Credit Cancun Resort Photography. Photo Contributed by Cody Rininger.


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Living Lumin<br />

Dr. Meghan Nelson & Dr. Ryan Allen<br />

Getting Schooled: Cultivating A Mindful Classroom<br />

We are all connected, we like to say. It doesn’t<br />

always feel that way, especially with my own children<br />

and those I serve. The force and frequency that so<br />

many of our young people operate with today has us<br />

all in a frenzy. The pace is too frantic. The energy out<br />

there can be just too much.<br />

In our work in the community, nowhere do we see<br />

these truths at play more than in our schools. Many<br />

kids today carry a heavy emotional weight in those<br />

backpacks to class each morning. Massive forces are<br />

reshaping the development and maturation in how<br />

all young people learn: a destabilization of family<br />

life, a lack of academic preparation, a decline in<br />

social-emotional learning, the absence of resiliency,<br />

an explosion of behavioral, intellectual, and physical<br />

disability diagnoses, and a rapid rise in mental health<br />

issues—we’re at a tipping point. And this was all even<br />

before Covid-19. Additionally, childhood trauma can<br />

negatively impact learning and behavior because of<br />

how terror and fear change the brain. Without trauma<br />

intervention, research has shown that these emotional<br />

states alter brain function and the young person’s<br />

ability to process information.<br />

It doesn’t have to be trauma, though. There are all<br />

sorts of barriers to learning—disabilities, environment,<br />

language acquisition, curriculum design, teacher<br />

disposition, the list goes on. Thus, those of us who<br />

hold leadership positions have a special responsibility<br />

to ensure that what we’re fostering is universal and<br />

accessible to all. To create equitable and inclusive<br />

classrooms and schools, it’s our job to co-create with<br />

our students, parents, and community the space for<br />

diverse voices and visions to flourish.<br />

One of my favorite places to practice all these virtues<br />

in action is Bishop Heelan’s Dual Language Academy.<br />

There’s a beautiful community of learning and care here,<br />

evidenced clearly in the closeness of bonds between<br />

teachers and students and amongst the students in<br />

the different classes. They belong to one another. They<br />

support one another. They pick each other up when<br />

someone gets knocked down, even if they are the<br />

ones who knocked them down in the first place (they’re<br />

kiddos, after all). They have challenges, and some of<br />

Laughing – Learning – Fun<br />

their students struggle pretty mightily, but there’s a lot of<br />

love in that building and clear communication between<br />

the adults. These aren’t always a given.<br />

One of the greatest lessons I learned from my time<br />

studying and serving with the Veterans Yoga Project years<br />

back is how the teacher/facilitator can help to shape the<br />

interpretation or meaning of internal states by:<br />

1. Focusing on breath and sensation<br />

2. Normalizing sensations and experiences<br />

3. Encouraging non-reactive awareness/acceptance<br />

4. Facilitating consciousness rotation throughout<br />

the body (body scanning)<br />

The constant test-taking in schools, over-committing in<br />

sports and clubs, and lessons out of school, coupled with<br />

a generally more disjointed home life and an over-reliance<br />

on technology is producing a generation of children who<br />

are missing golden opportunities to cultivate their critical<br />

thinking, communication, and resilience skills. And they’re<br />

screaming at us for help.<br />

When our schools listen and our teachers create safe,


mindful classroom spaces, we all feel the benefits.<br />

During the school year, our kids spend more time with<br />

their teachers each day than with their parents. There is<br />

power in time. Here are a few suggestions for how to<br />

use it wisely:<br />

1. Have fun. Rethink discipline. Emphasize play.<br />

2. Repeat #1 often.<br />

The closer an activity is to a game the more likely it is<br />

to be successful. Games allow us to forget that we’re<br />

learning because we’re having so much fun playing.<br />

Imaginative play empowers children to use physical,<br />

social, and intellectual skills. They develop focus,<br />

concentration, coordination, self-awareness, selfcontrol,<br />

and a trust in their creativity and problemsolving<br />

skills.<br />

Preschoolers finding and losing themselves.<br />

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The physiological impact of fun and joy produces<br />

a coherent mind-body state and stimulates the<br />

production and secretion of positive mind-body<br />

regulating chemicals, such as dopamine, serotonin,<br />

and epinephrine that integrate and support all the<br />

systems of the body to function optimally and are vital<br />

to the growth and plasticity of the brain. And because<br />

the body is always keeping score (Van Der Kolk), when<br />

we play games, we allow ourselves to journey from<br />

body to bliss within the layers of our Being. The more<br />

we play, the better we feel, and the better we feel, the<br />

quicker and deeper we learn.<br />

A relaxing brain break.<br />

Play is essential to childhood development. Play is<br />

not a reward—IT IS A NECESSITY and taking play time<br />

or recess away almost always backfires. So, when in<br />

doubt, play a game. Change the momentum. Create<br />

a little confusion. When the flower doesn’t grow, we<br />

don’t blame the flower. We change the environment.<br />

We observe. We plan. We evolve as our understanding<br />

changes. We keep caring. We keep loving.<br />

Maybe the hardest thing for a more seasoned<br />

educator to do is to rethink discipline and to reframe<br />

the negative behaviors we experience more as bids<br />

for connection. The hour of the time out is ending,<br />

my friends; the era of the time in is here. Instead of<br />

thinking kids act out because they want attention,<br />

we understand that kids act out because they need<br />

attention. Instead of forcing time apart, disconnecting,<br />

and withdrawing, we cultivate time together, give<br />

attention, and foster connection. Instead of leaving a<br />

child to regain their regulated state on their own, we<br />

offer ourselves to help the child co-regulate back to<br />

stasis. Instead of being punitive, and shaming, and<br />

rejecting, we promote growth, self-empowerment, and<br />

acceptance. It’s time for all of us who love and serve<br />

kids to up our game, to go to school ourselves, and to<br />

look ourselves in the mirror. Loving that person is step<br />

one to serving the rest.<br />

The bell is ringing. Take a deep breath. Class is back<br />

in session.<br />

Lumin Therapy provides integrative health and education for the mind, body, and spirit to those who are suffering or struggling to step into and live<br />

their heartfelt mission and purpose. Through the practice of physical therapy, medical therapeutic yoga, meditation, mindfulness, and resiliency<br />

mentoring, Dr. Meghan Nelson, DPT, and Dr. Ryan Allen, PhD, bring more than 40 years of knowledge and experience serving individuals, families,<br />

and organizations to learn and heal and live without boundaries.<br />

Photo Credit Ryan Allen.

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