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YOUTH MINISTRIES/DYD | Lee Rogers | 717.795.5921 | lee@penndel.org<br />

There is nothing like being a new youth pastor! There’s<br />

the excitement, the vision, and the passion of the call.<br />

Almost everything is new. As a new youth pastor, at<br />

times I was overwhelmed with the immensity of the task;<br />

so much vision, so much to say, so much to accomplish.<br />

One thing I understood clearly was that ministry flowed best<br />

through relationships. Jesus was relational with His disciples.<br />

Barnabas was relational with Paul. Paul was relational with<br />

Timothy. I knew I had to develop relationships with the<br />

students and youth leaders in order to attain measurable<br />

discipleship results, that’s what I did. Once we landed on a<br />

clear vision and direction, we were well prepared to run in<br />

relationship together toward the discipleship outcomes as the<br />

Holy Spirit guided us.<br />

reNEW<br />

Most new youth pastors will spend a significant amount of<br />

time building relationships and establishing rapport. This is a<br />

time-intensive process that reaps results over the long-term.<br />

In some youth ministry contexts, it means attending school<br />

activities, birthday parties, and having relational events like<br />

(sigh) all-nighters. In other youth ministry contexts, youth<br />

pastors must focus on relationships with adult and student<br />

leaders, while the leaders focus on relationships with the<br />

students.<br />

The cost of this relational investment is emotionally and<br />

spiritually significant, and while the results we aim for are<br />

long-term, the nature of pastor-student relationships change<br />

after just a few years. Eventually students graduate from high<br />

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