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PAGE 24—SUNDAY VANGUARD, JUNE 27, 2021<br />
Married to a ruthless, evil monster!<br />
He was every woman’s<br />
dream of the ideal<br />
man come true. Fade was<br />
fresh out of college and<br />
looking for a job when a<br />
friend introduced her to<br />
Godwin. “He was much<br />
older than my 22-year old<br />
but I didn’t see him as a<br />
potential l<strong>over</strong> – just a boss”,<br />
confessed Fade. “My<br />
friend had filled me in that<br />
most of his empire was in<br />
<strong>Niger</strong>ia but he had a very<br />
impressive office in London.<br />
His personal assistant just<br />
left to get married and he<br />
needed an urgent<br />
replacement. I didn’t have<br />
any working experience but<br />
he told me I would do. I had<br />
the job!<br />
“Within months, we’d<br />
attended various meetings<br />
and social events together. I<br />
didn’t know what I was<br />
expected to do officially, but<br />
he said I should just look<br />
pretty and serve coffee and<br />
be his ‘man Friday’ until I<br />
got the hang of the office<br />
routine. Before I could do<br />
that however, things took on<br />
a new dimension. Godwin<br />
constantly turned on the<br />
charm whenever we were<br />
together that it was easy to<br />
fall in love with him. He<br />
swept me off my feet –<br />
flowers, extravagant<br />
meals, jewellery – he made<br />
me feel like a princess. It<br />
was like a dream come<br />
true, like I was living a<br />
fairytale.<br />
“When he asked me to<br />
move into his house nine<br />
months later, I didn’t<br />
hesitate. He had a housekeeper<br />
– all I had to do was<br />
give instructions and be at<br />
his beck and call all the<br />
time, dressed to the nines.<br />
He was generous with<br />
money too and gave me a<br />
gold card. I was on cloud<br />
nine and when I got<br />
pregnant and feared he<br />
would ask me to get rid of<br />
it, I was surprised when he<br />
suggested we get married.<br />
He had a wife and children<br />
who lived in one of his<br />
property in <strong>Niger</strong>ia but he<br />
told me they were never<br />
legally married. All they<br />
did was a traditional<br />
marriage.<br />
“When I met Godwin,<br />
marriage was the<br />
furtherest thing on my<br />
mind. Now it’s staring me<br />
in the face. I know getting<br />
hitched so soon was<br />
moving too fast but I was<br />
in love with the man and<br />
he really was charming,<br />
funny, handsome and<br />
romantic. What would I<br />
gain by waiting? I may have<br />
only been 24, but I was ready<br />
for this good fortune. Within<br />
three years, I’d given birth to<br />
a set of twins and an<br />
adorable son. My husband’s<br />
career had really taken off<br />
by now and we had moved<br />
house twice – upgrading<br />
every time. Though his<br />
business schedule meant he<br />
had to work long hours, but<br />
it was worth it. He was a<br />
good dad – just not around<br />
that often. Every night, I’d<br />
go on my knees and pray to<br />
God before bed to thank<br />
Him for my blessings.<br />
“Sadly, I would soon<br />
disc<strong>over</strong> that Godwin was<br />
far from perfect. In fact my<br />
husband was one of the most<br />
ruthless men on earth – an<br />
evil monster, a sick and<br />
twisted man who caused<br />
unimaginable pain and<br />
suffering. He was a con<br />
artiste per excellence!<br />
People had asked me: ‘How<br />
could you not know?’ But<br />
the thing with psychopaths<br />
is you can’t tell. It’s part of<br />
the condition. They mimic<br />
normal people and it takes<br />
an expert to spot one.<br />
According to experts, a<br />
psychopath is wired towards<br />
making people do their<br />
bidding and they can be so<br />
charming. Some can go<br />
through their entire life<br />
undetected. Some even end<br />
up running corporations.<br />
The business would is rife<br />
with them as their utter lack<br />
of human compassion<br />
makes them good<br />
businessmen.<br />
“Almost ten years after we<br />
tied the knot, my life fell<br />
apart when the police<br />
knocked at my door in the<br />
early hours of a cold<br />
morning waving a search<br />
warrant in my face. I told<br />
them Godwin had travelled<br />
to <strong>Niger</strong>ia the previous day,<br />
but they didn’t believe me.<br />
They turned the house upside<br />
down, seized all the<br />
computers in the house. And<br />
nothing they said made<br />
sense. The police were<br />
telling me about my<br />
husband but it seemed like<br />
they were talking about a<br />
completely different person.<br />
This person didn’t run a<br />
legitimate business. He was<br />
a scam artiste, a ‘yahooyahoo-<br />
expert with a string<br />
of workers working for him<br />
at home and abroad.<br />
Several of his victims had<br />
been financially ruined<br />
beyond rec<strong>over</strong>y and he’d<br />
also dabbled into drugs. The<br />
police had been on his trail<br />
for weeks after one of his men<br />
was arrested with almost four<br />
kilograms of cocaine. In<br />
exchange for a prosecution<br />
deal, he’d told them everything<br />
about Godwin.<br />
“My jaw nearly hit the floor<br />
as I listened to these horrid<br />
stories about my husband and<br />
the police refused to believe I<br />
knew nothing about his<br />
crimes. But they had no<br />
evidence against me and they<br />
left me alone. I couldn’t get<br />
hold of Godwin in <strong>Niger</strong>ia –<br />
he’d changed all his phones<br />
and I didn’t have any address<br />
or contact through which I<br />
could reach him. He’s wanted<br />
for a string of crimes –<br />
racketeering, trafficking<br />
cocaine, human trafficking,<br />
prostitution charges and<br />
fraud. It’s obvious he’s not<br />
expected back in Britain any<br />
time soon. Meanwhile, my<br />
whole life has been ripped<br />
from me. I had no idea what<br />
my husband was up to, yet I<br />
am being punished for his<br />
crimes. The house we lived<br />
in, which was in his name, has<br />
been confiscated, and I’m now<br />
living in a rented flat.<br />
I can’t imagine what the<br />
families of his victims are<br />
going through and I’m truly<br />
sorry for what he did. Yet the<br />
children and I are victims<br />
too...”<br />
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Real estate firm extends housing project to Ibadan<br />
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companies in Lagos, has<br />
extended its operations to<br />
Ibadan with the launch of<br />
its new office and the<br />
groundbreaking ceremony<br />
of Primehood Estate.<br />
The launch, held recently<br />
in Ibadan, was attended by<br />
stakeholders and highlevel<br />
dignitaries from<br />
Lagos and Abuja,<br />
including the Olubadan of<br />
Ibadan, Oba Saliu<br />
Adetunji, and his wife.<br />
Speaking at the event,<br />
CEO, MKH Investment<br />
Limited, Dr Muibi Kehinde<br />
Hammed, described<br />
Primehood Estate as an<br />
affordable building project<br />
which will gradually<br />
transform into a city.<br />
According to him, the<br />
project, one of whose<br />
unique selling points is its<br />
proximity to the famous<br />
Ilaji Resort, is strategically<br />
positioned to be one of the<br />
best channels of profitable<br />
real estate investments in<br />
Ibadan.<br />
“Unlike existing beliefs,<br />
Ibadan is as profitable<br />
and marketable as other<br />
major cities in <strong>Niger</strong>ia<br />
because of the peace and<br />
tranquility that it offers,”<br />
Hammed enthused.<br />
Deputy Majority Whip of the Delta State House of<br />
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colleague, representing Ndokwa West Constituency in the<br />
House, Mr Charles Emetulu, during the second quarter<br />
meeting of Speakers of State Legislatures of <strong>Niger</strong>ia, held<br />
in Asaba, yesterday. Photo by Festus Ahon<br />
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Oboramohwoyere lauds Okowa <strong>over</strong> Orere Bridge<br />
ENIOR Special Adviser,<br />
SPolitical, to Delta State<br />
G<strong>over</strong>nor, Chief Samuel ,has<br />
lauded G<strong>over</strong>nor Ifeanyi<br />
Okowa for awarding the<br />
contract for the construction<br />
of the Orere bridge, Ughelli<br />
South Local G<strong>over</strong>nment<br />
Area.<br />
Speaking with newsmen in<br />
Ughelli, Oboramohwoyere<br />
noted that the Orere bridge<br />
which leads to Ogoda and<br />
other communities would<br />
impact positively on the socioeconomic<br />
lives of the people.<br />
He urged Deltans to pray for<br />
God's guidance and direction<br />
in their choice of a leader to<br />
that would continue with the<br />
good work that Okowa is<br />
doing in the state in 2023<br />
Oboramohwoyere, a former<br />
Chairman of the PDP in<br />
Ughelli South Local<br />
G<strong>over</strong>nment Area,<br />
noted that "in the history of<br />
PDP, in <strong>Niger</strong>ia and especially<br />
Delta State there has never<br />
been zoning of political office<br />
positions.<br />
"If we want to start zoning<br />
of the g<strong>over</strong>norship position<br />
Delta State, leaders in the state<br />
should sit in a round table to<br />
formally agree on it and<br />
determine which senatorial<br />
district it will start from.<br />
"If this is done, Urhobo<br />
should take advantage of such<br />
a meeting to lobby the two<br />
other senatorial district on the<br />
need for them to produce the<br />
ero MotoCorp, one of<br />
Hthe world’s largest<br />
manufacturers of<br />
motorcycles and scooters<br />
road show heralds the entry<br />
of Hunter motorcycle into<br />
<strong>Niger</strong>ia market.<br />
The company said it has<br />
developed the specially made<br />
motorcycle for <strong>Niger</strong>ia. The<br />
motorcycle themed after the<br />
traditional hunter’s<br />
legendary strength, stealth,<br />
and wisdom in challenging<br />
terrains, is dedicated to the<br />
average <strong>Niger</strong>ian’s renowned<br />
ruggedness.<br />
Speaking at the Ibadan<br />
roadshow, Managing<br />
Director, Automotive<br />
Division, Kewalram Chanrai<br />
Group, exclusive distributors<br />
of the bike, Mr. Anil Sahgal,<br />
said: “We are extremely glad<br />
to be the exclusive partner of<br />
g<strong>over</strong>nor of the state in 2023<br />
"Okowa is the only g<strong>over</strong>nor<br />
so far in the state that has<br />
deemed it necessary to meet<br />
with all political leaders to<br />
determine where the g<strong>over</strong>nor<br />
should go in 2023 and this is<br />
highly commendable."<br />
Hero MotoCorp’s road show heralds<br />
Hunter motorcycle entry into <strong>Niger</strong>ia<br />
Hero MotoCorp, the world’s<br />
largest manufacturer of<br />
motorcycles and scooters, in<br />
<strong>Niger</strong>ia. With our expertise in<br />
the market and Hero<br />
MotoCorp’s global<br />
excellence, we will provide the<br />
best products and services to<br />
customers in <strong>Niger</strong>ia.<br />
“The Hunter, which also<br />
comes with an industry-first<br />
12-month or 75,000 km<br />
warranty, has an engine that<br />
has been extensively tested for<br />
performance in <strong>Niger</strong>ian<br />
conditions. One key feature is<br />
its utmost safety which<br />
includes a metallic bash plate<br />
protecting the engine on rough<br />
roads, a combi-lock to protect<br />
it from theft, and tyre pressure<br />
monitoring indicator<br />
(accessory to prevent deflation<br />
& puncture while on rugged<br />
terrains.”