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T h e O l d S t a t i o n e r - N o 8 8

gracious hostess, and a perfect soulmate to

Ian, her contribution was immeasurable.

She was often a shoulder I could lean on

and tell troubles, always receiving support

and great advice.

So in celebrating Ian, I would like to

conclude with my impressions of the man.

A sociable companionable man, with a

fine appreciation of both the qualities and

the negative aspects of those he

encountered. No time for fools, sharp

tongued and direct when criticism was

needed, balanced by a similar capacity for

praise when anything deserved it. A bon

viveur, with great appreciation for the

pleasures of fife. A man who would enter a

new field with great passion, and seek to

make himself knowledgable about it

without ever ignoring input from those for

whom he had regard. An honest man, who

believed in fair business practice, and for

whom the shortest distance between two

points was a straight line. And above all, a

man who exuded passion for life, passion

for his interests, passion for his family and

friends. In short, I treasure the years in

which I shared his and Annie's friendship.

They are a high point of my life, and I

shall always have only the fondest

memories of them.

Prof Vishnu Padayachee, initially met Ian

through a well known book dealer in

Durban, Ike Mayet. His tribute follows:

I was deeply saddened to hear of the

passing of my dear friend Ian Snelling

after a long and painful illness. Ian was a

fighter and despite the prognosis of his

doctors fought on for over a year beyond

the time they gave him.

I tried to visit him and Annie as often as I

could and despite the circumstances he

looked forward to our lunches and we

always had an interesting and engaged

discussion over lunch. He remained

interested and knowledgeable about world

and South African affairs and was always

eager to hear my news, especially on the

economy, and of my academic

achievements, which he celebrated ( such

as they were) as only a good friend would.

As a former book-dealer myself and as one

who is well connected within the South

African book dealers and collecting

community, I can attest to the great respect

that Ian commanded in our community.

No one in the Johannesburg book

community where he was based for so

many decades had anything but good and

generous things to say about him. His

A poem read by Ian's younger daughter at the service

The old Syringa tree

Up the old Syringa tree

Were my brother, sister, and me

Building our thrones;

Entwined purple blossom, course vines, and ivy.

Bright sun glimmered through the leaves

There came a treasured voice on the breeze

Down the trunk I scrambled

My hero waited under the eaves.

Bare feet sprinted swiftly through the grass

The dry scent of summer hung thick and heavy

In the distance, the ha-ha-ing of a hadidaas.

Giggles of delight as strong arms held me tight

I stroked his bearded cheeks, then patted the bald bit on his dome

'Oh Daddy, I'm so glad you're home!'

Grabbing his hand I dragged him off to the land of sand

Where to cure me off my echolalia

He told me if I dug deep enough, eventually I'd reach Australia ...

Down I dug, dirt asunder

Faster and faster. Higher and higher. '

Making believe I was a bird flying through the sky.

At the bottom of the garden the Jukskei flowed by.

So many games we once played; me and my trusty big aide

Memories that will never fade

'Where's my nose?' 'Gee-up Tonto! And the singing,of silly prose

I can still see young me, perched on my dad's knee

Striking a hard bargain for 'just one more game of under the water,

under the sea'.

Time for dinner. Always a winner!

Bellies full and darkness setting

We all sat huddled round the table

Waiting in anticipation for the latest fable

From the Goons, Squad Cars, and Tracy Dark

What a lark.

My eyelids grew weary and thoughts of sleep filled my head

So my dad picked me up again and took me up to bed.

Downstairs the Commodors crooned a tune

As dim light threw shadows dancing round the room

'Daddy', I declared, 'I love you all the way to the moon!'

Laughing he kissed my chin before upping me one

'And, I love you, my baby girl, all the way to the sun!'

Quiet footsteps across the floor

Night, night. Sleep tight', he whispered, and closed the door.

I will always miss the dad I once had ...

Before all the tears and fears of the bramble years

When hugs came easy, and love was simple, and carefree.

Back in those days of the old Syringa tree ...

knowledge of books and especially of

modern first editions was encyclopedic

and I was fortunate to have benefited from

his wisdom and advice over a long period.

Ian and I built a special friendship despite

one of the greatest obstacles to such

relationships that one can conceivably

imagine. He was a passionate and lifelong

fan of Arsenal Football Club (and

that is a poor description of his dedication

to the Gunners), and with equal passion I

supported their North London rivals,

Tottenham Hotspurs, the "Spuds" to Ian.

But we always managed to keep our

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