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WINTER <strong>2022</strong>/23 • Volume 11 Issue 4 • greybrucekids.com<br />
Holiday<br />
EATING<br />
Enjoy food traditions<br />
without feeling guilty<br />
You OK,<br />
Mom?<br />
Dealing with<br />
motherhood<br />
burnout<br />
RISKY<br />
BUSINESS<br />
Taking risks actually<br />
protects kids over time<br />
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FROM THE PUBLISHER<br />
Soak in the season<br />
Every year the pages of the calendar seem to flip more quickly. At one moment<br />
it’s a hot summer’s day and then you blink and it’s Christmas.<br />
As the saying goes, “The days are long but the years are short,” and there are<br />
no truer words when you are raising children. Now that those calendars are<br />
back to looking like they did pre-COVID – with parents back at work, kids<br />
in school or daycare, and everyone running to the arena, ball diamond, pool,<br />
music class and everything in between – time seems to be flying.<br />
At this time of year, I try to reflect and take that quote to heart; to enjoy<br />
the time with our kids, embrace the busyness of the season, and enjoy the<br />
monotony of being in the trenches of parenting. Trying to embrace these<br />
moments while keeping one’s sanity and living your own life is a challenge, and<br />
Lesley Johnston gives some great tips in her article “You OK, Mom?” which<br />
looks at recognizing burnout and how to care for yourself.<br />
We also have an informative article from the <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit on<br />
healthy eating habits during the holiday season, and a history lesson from <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Roots Museum on the area’s Black settlers.<br />
Michele Bischof shares her expertise about encouraging resilience in children,<br />
while Paula Brunkard writes about the benefits of risky play.<br />
Although <strong>2022</strong> was not without its challenges, specifically affecting <strong>Grey</strong>-Bruce<br />
Kids in the form of industry-wide paper shortages and limited printer capacity,<br />
we are committed to publishing this magazine every quarter, and I thank<br />
all our readers, writers and advertisers who supported us in <strong>2022</strong>. We look<br />
forward to continuing to inform and entertain local parents in 2023.<br />
I wish everyone a safe and healthy holiday season and prosperous New Year –<br />
be sure to take the time to soak it all in!<br />
CONTENTS<br />
4 Mom burnout<br />
8 Black settlers of <strong>Grey</strong><br />
14 Thriving kids<br />
18 Guilt-free food traditions<br />
22 Risky business<br />
26 Resources<br />
30 Recipes<br />
Amy Irwin, Publisher<br />
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FAMILY<br />
You OK, Mom?<br />
MOTHERHOOD BURNOUT AND POST-PANDEMIC LIFE<br />
BY LESLEY JOHNSTON<br />
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The last few years have not been kind to mothers. At the<br />
beginning of the pandemic and lockdowns, moms were<br />
asked to take on more tasks and responsibilities while<br />
simultaneously working from home, parenting full-time, helping<br />
children with online schooling, doing post-partum life alone,<br />
and/or experiencing significant financial constraints.<br />
With this increase in expectations we saw a distinct rise in<br />
depression and anxiety symptoms. Over two million mothers<br />
left the workforce in 2020 to be available for the mountain of<br />
responsibilities piled on top of their day-to-day life. Perhaps now<br />
some time has passed and we have a bit more perspective, we<br />
can re-evaluate societal norms and governmental expectations<br />
that put mothers in this lose-lose situation. Until those<br />
conversations happen, let’s talk about what we do to repair the<br />
mental-emotional damage many women suffered.<br />
We’ve now spent nearly three years rewiring our nervous systems<br />
to be on high alert. We’ve moved into a space where we are<br />
more triggered, not sleeping as well, quick to anger, and rarely<br />
alone. Now that life is returning to some sort of normalcy,<br />
it’s important to recognize the current state of our health<br />
and nourish our bodies, minds and souls from the long-term<br />
consequences of burnout. This brings us to the concept of the<br />
‘Window of Tolerance.’ This term is based off of the Polyvagal<br />
Theory of nervous system regulation. The diagram on Page 6<br />
provides a wonderful visualization to show us how our nervous<br />
systems work.<br />
When we are in a grounded, neutral and regulated state, we are<br />
within our Window of Tolerance. This window will get wider<br />
or narrower depending on our life experiences. Over the past<br />
two years, a mother experiencing chronic stress, trauma or<br />
burnout will narrow her window, making it easier to become<br />
dysregulated and subsequently fall into either a hyperarousal<br />
state or a hypoarousal state.<br />
Hyperarousal is seen as a state of anxiety, jitteriness, anger and<br />
fight-or-flight. She can’t sit still, there are way too many things<br />
on her plate, she has difficulty sleeping due to racing thoughts,<br />
and she feels that if she were to let anything slip, the weight of<br />
the world would come crashing down. She almost booked that<br />
flight for somewhere tropical because running away just seemed<br />
like the best way to stop the madness.<br />
Hypoarousal is more of a depressed state. She seeks numbing<br />
techniques such as bingeing TV, scrolling social media, eating,<br />
excess sleeping, or anything that takes her out of the present<br />
moment and prevents her from thinking about what needs to be<br />
done. She is extremely tired, yet sleep isn’t restorative, and she<br />
has no motivation to do anything or go anywhere. She wouldn’t<br />
be labeled with depression; she simply doesn’t care as much.<br />
GET BACK IN THE WINDOW<br />
Identifying our current state is the first step to becoming<br />
better regulated and to begin feeling like ourselves again.<br />
Techniques such as meditation, journalling, nature time, seeking<br />
professional help or therapy, and setting stronger boundaries<br />
can be used successfully in expanding our Window of Tolerance,<br />
when used consistently.<br />
Let’s talk about the more subtle basics of healing our nervous<br />
systems. They include:<br />
CONNECTION<br />
When chaos ensues, we are too busy putting out fires to<br />
connect with ourselves. In fact, we have put ourselves last for<br />
so long that the thought of “connecting to ourselves” carries<br />
little meaning. Nevertheless, this connection is the foundation<br />
for creating all the other healthy habits that re-regulate our<br />
nervous system. This means understanding who we are,<br />
what is triggering us, what old stories are still influencing us,<br />
what brings us the most energy and fulfillment, and who we<br />
authentically are. If we don’t know ourselves, it becomes very<br />
difficult to know our core values or what motivates us to do<br />
the things we do, think the things we think, and be the way we<br />
are. It then becomes challenging to create strong boundaries,<br />
healthy habits and an abundant mindset.<br />
One of the best ways to reconnect to ourselves is to spend time<br />
in solitude. However, a common theme in motherhood is that<br />
we’re never truly alone. We can create 10 or 15 minute breaks<br />
of quiet time, but usually we’re occupied by thoughts of grocery<br />
lists, throwing a load of laundry in, running a solo errand or<br />
organizing something. This is not solitude. Also, solitude to<br />
a hyperarousal state can feel incredibly uncomfortable at first<br />
because the thought of doing nothing, or just “being,” feels<br />
unproductive or even dangerous.<br />
Think of it like stopping to do nothing while being chased by<br />
a bear – your nervous system may see this as threatening and<br />
irresponsible, and respond accordingly.<br />
Knowing this, we must first dip our toe into solitude, reminding<br />
ourselves that time alone is quality time that allows us to get<br />
to know ourselves more deeply. Solitude consists of extended<br />
periods of time spent in communion with ourselves. Nothing<br />
is to be accomplished except our complete presence in the<br />
moment. It is a time where we are only responsible for ourselves,<br />
our thoughts and our needs. It’s the space needed to hear our<br />
deepest desires and provide clarity on who we want to become.<br />
It may help to journal during this time or to put on music<br />
and see where the moment takes us. When we get a bit more<br />
comfortable, trying new solo adventures like a new hobby,<br />
recipe, hiking trail; all are really beneficial for strengthening the<br />
connection to self. From this connected state, we begin to make<br />
better decisions, we are able to ask for the support we need and<br />
we are able to say no to the tasks, events and people that aren’t<br />
aligned with our values.<br />
Connection also extends to the support system around us,<br />
people who know us best and have our backs; the folks we can<br />
turn to without judgment and allow into our inner world.<br />
During pandemic life, every person was dealing with their<br />
own high levels of stress, so asking for help from others felt<br />
impossible. This lack of support and social distancing left<br />
us feeling like we were alone in our struggles. Connection<br />
with other humans is a biological need and one we can’t take<br />
lightly. We need affection. We need conversation. We need<br />
love from others and we need to feel seen, heard and known.<br />
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According to the National Institute on Aging, the health risks<br />
of prolonged isolation are equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a<br />
day. Social isolation and loneliness have even been estimated to<br />
shorten a person’s life span by as many as 15 years. Bottom line,<br />
we need people. Yes social media, and the Internet, has made it<br />
easier to “connect” with people around the world, but nothing<br />
takes the place of a heart-to-heart hug!<br />
PRIORITIZING YOUR HEALTH<br />
In my practice, the first questions I ask patients are, “How is<br />
your sleep, tell me about your diet, do you exercise, how are<br />
your bowel movements, and are you exposed to any chemicals<br />
or toxins regularly?” These five questions can tell me a lot about<br />
what’s going on in a person’s body, how they may respond to<br />
stress, and where their nervous systems are being influenced.<br />
To get back into our healthy, grounded Window of Tolerance<br />
state, we have to look at the whole body and tweak certain<br />
daily habits to create better physical health.<br />
For example:<br />
• Choose nutrient-dense foods, fewer processed foods, and<br />
hydrate properly to maintain good gut health. A healthy<br />
gut has a feedback loop to the brain to help with anxiety,<br />
depression, mental health triggers and improving mood.<br />
• Proper sleep hygiene and prioritizing sleep ahead of “one<br />
more show on Netflix” or “20 more minutes on Instagram”<br />
is important to regulate your hormones, nervous system,<br />
digestion and weight.<br />
• Limiting your toxin exposure from beauty products,<br />
cleaning products, environmental sources and certain foods<br />
(dyes, chemicals) will help to keep your liver and other<br />
detoxification pathways working efficiently, and prevent<br />
chronic diseases and inflammation.<br />
• Prioritizing physical activity and movement can reduce<br />
anxiety levels, provide time and space to process our day,<br />
and relieve any tension caused by too much sitting.<br />
The brain and body are tightly connected and yet our physical<br />
health is often the first area that gets neglected or deprioritized<br />
when we are burnt out.<br />
BE PRESENT, PAY ATTENTION<br />
Yes we’ve heard over and over how important it is to stay<br />
present, enjoy the moment, etc. However, when we are in a state<br />
of exhausted burnout, this doesn’t feel like an option. What I’m<br />
referring to is the realization that we actually don’t have anything<br />
but the present moment. The future has not been created yet, so<br />
worrying about the future and being in fear robs us of enjoying<br />
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the present moment (the pandemic did an awesome job of<br />
throwing every human on the planet into fear and hijacking our<br />
nervous systems, collectively).<br />
Similarly, if we’re constantly thinking about the past and<br />
feeling guilty about what we did or didn’t do, this robs us of<br />
our ability to be happy in the moment. Staying present can be<br />
very difficult for a stressed out mind. The mind tells us that if<br />
we aren’t thinking about all the things we have to do and the<br />
lists we need to keep track of, it’s possible that everything will<br />
fall apart and subsequently our loved ones will suffer for it.<br />
The mind also likes to keep track of all the mistakes we’ve ever<br />
made and keep us locked in this feeling of unworthiness, which<br />
of course is detrimental to our mental health.<br />
Instead, I challenge you to stay right here, right now – in this<br />
moment. Look around and take stock of your surroundings<br />
as you read this. Can you bring some lighter energy into this<br />
moment? Can you think of a thought that is a little softer or<br />
gentler on your nervous system? Can you simply unclench your<br />
jaw and notice how the body has been craving a deep breath?<br />
Can you appreciate where you are in life, all that you have and<br />
who is in your corner?<br />
Staying present gives us the ability to understand ourselves<br />
more fully and extend gratitude for everything and everyone in<br />
our lives.<br />
OK, now that we have a chance to take a deep breath, let’s<br />
bring some much-needed compassion to what we’ve been<br />
through these past two years, allowing ourselves the space and<br />
time to simply ‘be’ and heal. Whether that means that we are<br />
sad, mad, tired, frustrated, irritated or relieved, it’s important<br />
to feel how we feel without burying, numbing or downplaying<br />
the emotions. We need to give ourselves permission and space<br />
to feel it all. Be gentle as we heal from what was likely the most<br />
stressful time of our adult lives, and know we aren’t alone in<br />
this process.<br />
Healing the nervous system from burnout will be ongoing.<br />
Healing takes place in the small daily choices we make to<br />
nourish ourselves, find more peace, and say yes to the things that<br />
bring us joy. GBK<br />
References:<br />
More than 2 million moms left the labour force in 2020 according<br />
to new global estimates | UN Women Data Hub Feb 21, <strong>2022</strong><br />
Loneliness and Social Isolation - Tips on staying connected<br />
Loneliness and Social Isolation — Tips for Staying Connected |<br />
National Institute on Aging (nih.gov) Jan 14, 2021<br />
LESLEY JOHNSTON is a Naturopathic Doctor turned health strategist<br />
that helps moms live a truly simple and abundant life. She is an<br />
advocate for maternal mental health and supports women in creating a<br />
deeper connection to herself and her family. Learn more at<br />
www.simplelifenaturopathic.com.<br />
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COMMUNITY<br />
Building <strong>Grey</strong><br />
County<br />
BLACK CITIZENS HELPED SHAPE THE REGION’S EARLY SETTLEMENT<br />
BY STEPHANIE McMULLEN AND ZAK ERB<br />
Black citizens have been part of <strong>Grey</strong> County since the first non-Indigenous settlers<br />
arrived in the northernmost part of the Queen’s Bush. Some of these early pioneers<br />
were born in Canada, while others had only recently slipped the bonds of slavery in the<br />
Upper South.<br />
All contributed significantly to the settlement of southern Ontario.<br />
After a long and arduous journey to freedom, the escaped slaves arrived to discover<br />
even greater challenges awaited them. Racism, insecurity, and uncertainty in border<br />
cities often propelled people to move further north into Ontario. Indeed, one of<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> County’s most prominent early Black citizens, John Hall, had been born in<br />
Amherstburg, Ont., but was captured in a border raid as a young man and sold into<br />
slavery in Kentucky.<br />
Several important Black settlements existed in <strong>Grey</strong> County, including Nenagh and<br />
Virginia (now Ceylon) in the southern part of the county, Artemesia Township, around<br />
Holland Centre, and Owen Sound in the north. The small village of Priceville in<br />
southern <strong>Grey</strong> County sprang to life very early in settlement history. Among its early<br />
pioneers were free Black citizens and escaped slaves. Many of these individuals practiced<br />
trades, although a good number of them also farmed the land.<br />
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Morton Family. [c. 189-] - [c. 190-]<br />
Wilson Woodbeck (left) and George Woodbeck.<br />
[c. 192-] - [c. 194-]<br />
The vibrant Priceville community flourished initially.<br />
European immigration during the 1850s changed the district<br />
dramatically. While some families struggled to hold on to<br />
their lands, the new arrivals often forced Black residents out<br />
and many made their way to Collingwood, Owen Sound and<br />
elsewhere. By 1930, little evidence remained in Priceville of the<br />
early Black settlement, except for their gravestones, until a white<br />
farmer decided to remove the gravestones and plant potatoes on<br />
the land. The quest to uncover the early history of Priceville and<br />
restore the cemetery has taken the better part of 70 years.<br />
In central <strong>Grey</strong> County, south of Williamsford, the fertile land<br />
along Negro Creek and Negro Lake attracted pioneers in the<br />
mid-19th Century. Free of some of the discrimination found in<br />
more developed areas of southern Ontario, the district became<br />
home to some 50 Black families by 1851. The name Negro<br />
Creek appeared on Patents Plan No. 46 for Holland Township,<br />
on Dec. 29, 1851, indicating that the community was well<br />
established by that time.<br />
Although few of the original Black pioneer families remain<br />
in the area today, some of their descendants can be found in<br />
neighbouring communities. The Earll, Douglas, Miller and<br />
Bowie families, among others, cleared forests and ploughed<br />
fields around Negro Creek and Negro Lake.<br />
“Mudtown” was the name given to a section of Owen Sound<br />
north of 18th St. E., along 3rd Ave. The limestone bluffs east of<br />
the factories tended to have water run-off and mud slides in the<br />
spring, choking the streets in this low-lying area with mud. This,<br />
along with the poor state of roads and sidewalks, gave the area<br />
its name.<br />
Black residents first moved to Mudtown in the 1880s. The<br />
Polson shipyard employed many workmen, and the sudden<br />
influx of workers necessitated affordable housing. Some<br />
landowners built small houses near the shipyard and labeled<br />
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the area “Polsonville.” As other factories opened along the east<br />
shore of Owen Sound, workers who could not afford horses<br />
(and later, cars) lived in the area so they could be close to their<br />
workplaces. In 1920, a contest was held to rename Mudtown.<br />
The official name chosen was “Northcliffe,” in honour of a<br />
British statesman. However, residents continued to refer to the<br />
neighbourhood as Mudtown.<br />
Surnames from a 1932 directory show that many Black families<br />
lived in Mudtown. Names like Douglas, Booey, Scott, Morton,<br />
and Earlls. Douglass Street, which is now 8th Ave. E., north of<br />
16th St., bore the name of the first family to settle in the area<br />
– the African-Canadian Douglass family lent their name to the<br />
road.<br />
In the early-20th Century, Owen Sound developed as a thriving<br />
hub on the Great Lakes. Factories lined the city’s harbour,<br />
employing hundreds of residents. Black workers often faced<br />
hiring discrimination, particularly in difficult economic times.<br />
Seasonal employment was available on the ships of the Great<br />
Lakes, which berthed frequently in Owen Sound. Black men<br />
often worked as deckhands or cooks, while Black women<br />
sometimes joined their husbands on the boats, in the kitchens or<br />
in housekeeping.<br />
Many enterprising individuals made names for themselves in<br />
the community. William Henry Harrison established his career<br />
as a quarryman in Owen Sound during an important era of<br />
civic construction. Locally, Harrison worked on the First Baptist<br />
Church, St. Mary’s Separate School, cement plants, and several<br />
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Mudtown east side of Owen Sound near the harbour (c. 1925).<br />
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local stores. In addition to local work, Harrison shipped stone<br />
across the country, including for the locks at Sault Ste. Marie.<br />
The Cousby family displayed remarkable ingenuity and<br />
resourcefulness in Owen Sound’s early business community.<br />
Jeremiah’s Confectionery enjoyed great popularity, in large<br />
part due to the ice cream and Coca-Cola that his main street<br />
store offered. Cousby’s confectionery was the first to sell the<br />
carbonated beverage in the city. In 1907, Jeremiah was voted<br />
the most popular merchant in Owen Sound. Jeremiah’s son,<br />
Jeremiah Jr. (Jerry), learned from his father’s example and<br />
applied himself to his studies. Jerry Cousby practiced law, and<br />
co-owned the local newspaper, the Owen Sound Sun (1897-<br />
99), before seeking his fortune in the Alaskan frontier.<br />
Some community members achieved high levels of musical<br />
success, including opera singer Wilson Woodbeck, and<br />
musician/actor Tommy Earlls. The Sea Island Merry-Makers<br />
knew great popularity on the local scene in the mid-20th<br />
Century. Church life, and an active social community,<br />
including groups such as the Black (Prince Hall) Masons and<br />
the Daughters of the Eastern Star, ensured that the local Black<br />
community could find and draw strength from one another,<br />
while participating in the larger community.<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> County’s Black heritage stretches back to the early days<br />
of settlement. Controversy, challenge, and triumph mark the<br />
paths of individuals, and Black communities. The legacy of<br />
William Henry Harrison with son James. [c.<br />
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Reverend Henry Cousby. [c. 186-] -<br />
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earlier generations lives on at Negro Creek, Priceville, Owen<br />
Sound, and elsewhere in <strong>Grey</strong> County, as modern citizens work<br />
to ensure the contributions of these important pioneers are not<br />
forgotten. GBK<br />
STEPHANIE McMULLEN is the Community Historian at <strong>Grey</strong> Roots<br />
Museum & Archives. She has enjoyed a varied career at the museum,<br />
beginning in 1999. After earning an MA in history from the University<br />
of Calgary, Stephanie worked at the Mackenzie King Estate and the<br />
Canadian Museum of Civilization before arriving at the County of<br />
<strong>Grey</strong>-Owen Sound Museum, now <strong>Grey</strong> Roots Museum & Archives.<br />
ZAK ERB is a freelance writer and photographer contributing to<br />
numerous publications in <strong>Grey</strong>, Bruce and Simcoe counties. Since<br />
2021, he has served as Public Relations Coordinator for <strong>Grey</strong> Roots<br />
Museum & Archives.<br />
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HEALTH<br />
EMPOWERING KIDS<br />
to thrive<br />
RESILIENCE HELPS CHILDREN BE SUCCESSFUL<br />
BY MICHELE BISCHOF
Growing up in Bruce County, I like to give back by sharing<br />
why I’m so passionate about empowering kids to thrive<br />
and what I have done to help my kids in challenging times.<br />
Being a mom of three has been my greatest blessing and my<br />
biggest challenge in life. My children are my greatest teachers<br />
and have taught me some invaluable life lessons.<br />
As parents, we want our children to grow up well – to be happy<br />
and confident in who they are, and to have healthy relationships<br />
with themselves, peers, and teachers. We want them to be<br />
successful in school and in their careers, and to live a healthy<br />
life and one that they love. Our children look up to us for<br />
guidance, encouragement, support, and love, and our role is to<br />
provide access to activities that enable the child to grow both<br />
emotionally and mentally.<br />
As parents, it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day busyness<br />
of our lives, and we can forget to focus on the present moment<br />
that can make the greatest impact in our children’s life. When<br />
we focus on the good, the good gets better. When we are happy,<br />
our children are happy.<br />
A few years ago, while out shopping, I saw an art piece that<br />
instantly touched my heart. It said, “The most important<br />
work you will ever do will be within the walls of your home.”<br />
Immediately, my mind flooded with thoughts, and I knew I had<br />
to have it.<br />
What better reminder is there for a parent or caregiver than<br />
this? It’s a perfect reminder for me in any season of my life that<br />
being a mom is a privilege and my responsibility. Put simply,<br />
everything starts at home and it’s where we build the foundation<br />
together with our children.<br />
While it does indeed take a village to raise a child, the best<br />
starting point is at home, with parents. It is essential for children<br />
to develop deep, strong roots through positive relationships with<br />
their parents and to be supported by other significant adults<br />
and peers so their resilience will carry them successfully into the<br />
future.<br />
With everything going on in the world today, and with mental<br />
health issues on the rise, there’s no better time to work together<br />
to build a solid foundation for our kids’ continued success now<br />
and in the future. It’s our responsibility to help our children<br />
develop resiliency skills so they can confidently navigate the<br />
world.<br />
WHAT IS RESILIENCE?<br />
Resilience is the ability to bounce back after challenges and<br />
tough times. Resilience develops when children experience<br />
challenges and learn healthy ways to navigate through adversity.<br />
Resilience is often described as the “invisible superpower” like a<br />
muscle – the more we use it, the stronger it grows.<br />
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A resilient child:<br />
• Feels confident, optimistic and empowered.<br />
• Shows empathy towards the feelings of others, as well as<br />
their own.<br />
• Sets realistic goals and expectations for themselves.<br />
• Uses healthy coping strategies and tools when challenges<br />
arise.<br />
• Sees challenges as opportunities.<br />
• Sees mistakes as a way of learning and not failure.<br />
• Has a strong sense of who they are and asks for help when<br />
needed.<br />
• Knows what they can and cannot control in their lives.<br />
• Often actively involved in sports, mentoring, and leadership<br />
activities.<br />
WHY IS RESILIENCE IMPORTANT?<br />
There are certain things in life we cannot change, but one thing<br />
we can change is our perception of the situation. Many of us<br />
weren’t taught as children about emotional flexibility and how<br />
to be more comfortable with whatever emotions we are feeling.<br />
Instead we learned how to resist or avoid our emotions and keep<br />
them bottled inside.<br />
We will always have both good stress and bad stress, but it’s<br />
important to learn to manage it in a positive healthy way. I<br />
believe that if we teach our children how to build their resilience<br />
earlier in life, their ability to adapt to change and be resilient in<br />
the face of adversity would increase and help them in the long<br />
run.<br />
Research has shown that resilience is an essential factor in<br />
determining which children will adapt and who will thrive in<br />
challenging times. Resilient children are able to problem solve<br />
better and look for the solution to the problem rather than focus<br />
on the problem itself. They have an optimistic mindset when<br />
faced with challenging situations and are able to see how the<br />
problem may have helped them. Instead of looking externally<br />
for answers they will have the confidence to look within and<br />
trust the answers that they get.<br />
They are also more likely to find healthy ways to cope with stress<br />
and release their feelings by doing things like going for a walk<br />
or listening to calming music, or talking about how they feel<br />
instead of turning to alcohol or drugs and avoiding situations.<br />
Kids face real pressures socially, academically, and mentally and<br />
it’s up to us to help our kids develop resiliency skills at a young<br />
age that will grow with them into adulthood.<br />
Building on our children’s strengths rather than their weaknesses<br />
leads to positive mindset changes that will empower them to see<br />
their true potential instead of what they perceive they lack. This<br />
strengthens their resilience mindset, so they feel confident in<br />
being able to handle anything that comes their way. All children<br />
are capable of extraordinary things. The potential for happiness<br />
and greatness lies in each one of them. We can’t change that they<br />
will face challenges along the way, but we can help them develop<br />
resiliency skills, so these challenges don’t break them.<br />
While the journey of each child is uniquely shaped, I share with<br />
you the following 10 things that have helped my children grow<br />
their resiliency superpower.<br />
See the potential in your child. Every child is unique and has<br />
their own potential. As parents, we want what is best for our<br />
children, but sometimes we overprotect them and give them the<br />
answers before they even have a chance to think about it, as we<br />
try to mitigate all of life’s challenges. Focus on their strengths<br />
and what they are doing well, and encourage them to think<br />
outside the box and guide them to brainstorm ways to problem<br />
solve.<br />
Parent-child connection. The connection between a child and<br />
their parents is just like a house that needs a solid foundation<br />
– built on trust and love. This helps them develop trust, selfesteem,<br />
and confidence in themselves and others. Kids won’t<br />
always notice the people who are in their corner cheering them<br />
on, so when you can, let them know about the people in their<br />
fan club and tell them often how proud you are of them.<br />
Promote learning from mistakes. It can be hard as a parent to<br />
watch your child make mistakes, but we have to resist the urge<br />
to step in and save them. Let them make their own mistakes and<br />
give them the space to try to resolve it on their own first. If they<br />
ask for help, let them know that they did not fail and help them<br />
brainstorm solutions of how they could approach the situation<br />
differently. Children need to know that making mistakes does<br />
not define who they are, but rather it helps them grow.<br />
Healthy emotions. Children need to learn how to express<br />
their feelings and emotions in healthy ways. Holding in stress<br />
only harms their mental and physical health. Give your child<br />
the freedom to express their emotions and feel safe sharing<br />
them instead of keeping those negative feelings bottled inside.<br />
Emotions are simply “energy in motion,” so encourage your<br />
child to move their body to help release any negative emotions<br />
they’re feeling. Exercise or movement such as a walk or dancing<br />
will release good endorphins or “happy brain chemicals” that<br />
will have an immediate mood-boosting effect.<br />
Celebrate your child’s wins along the way. Each step in the<br />
right direction is an achievement regardless of how big or small<br />
it is. Recognize their accomplishments and show praise at each<br />
moment. This builds their self-confidence and self-esteem and<br />
motivates them to keep going and setting new goals to work<br />
towards.<br />
It’s OK to ask for help. Children will often have the idea that<br />
being brave is about dealing with things by themselves. Let them<br />
know that being brave and strong means knowing when to ask<br />
for help too. Sometimes they just need someone to listen to<br />
them so they can express their feelings.<br />
Trust your gut. We all have intuition – like a deep gut feeling,<br />
or a sudden thought, or a strong sense of knowing something.<br />
It’s like an internal compass, a GPS that’s always with them,<br />
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and it’s there to help them make decisions, keep them safe and<br />
guide them in the right direction. Teach your child that when<br />
they feel easy and comfortable with a decision that means it’s<br />
usually the right one, and when they feel tense and unsure, it’s<br />
best to wait or make a different decision. This will help children<br />
build self-awareness and resiliency by going with their gut<br />
feeling and not relying on what others do or say.<br />
The power of positivity. Positive thinking is a powerful healthy<br />
coping tool that helps to build resilience in a child. Positive<br />
thinking is a mental attitude that perceives situations in a<br />
constructive way. If your child is sad or upset about something,<br />
always acknowledge and honour a negative situation or feeling<br />
and then help your child see it in a way that is positive and<br />
productive.<br />
Practice mindfulness and meditation. Meditation helps<br />
children connect their mind to their body and get in touch<br />
with their present emotions and feelings. Meditation, even if<br />
only for a few minutes, will help children work through hard<br />
feelings, and process and learn from them. Focus on breath<br />
and body connection. Simply noticing their belly move up<br />
and down as they take deep breaths helps to build these skills<br />
and reduces stress and anxiety resulting in a more relaxed and<br />
calming energy.<br />
Make gratitude a habit. Making gratitude a habit reminds<br />
us of our blessings, and it can also help children focus on the<br />
small stuff in life that we often take for granted. Maybe it’s<br />
making a gratitude jar or daily journalling about something<br />
they are grateful for, or maybe it’s simply showing appreciation<br />
to others, but children who practice gratitude are happier and<br />
show more compassion and kindness towards themselves and<br />
others.<br />
As parents and caregivers, it’s natural to want nothing, but the<br />
very best for your children. We want them to be happy, healthy,<br />
independent and confident as they take on the world. Helping<br />
them to build a resilience mindset early will provide children<br />
with the foundation they need. The benefits of being resilient<br />
are like tentacles that will thread through every aspect of your<br />
child’s life, including their relationships, learning ability, selfesteem<br />
and confidence. It is really an invaluable gift to give<br />
them. Let’s empower our kids to thrive! GBK<br />
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HEALTH<br />
Enjoy food<br />
TRADITIONS<br />
without guilt<br />
DIET CULTURE GIVES US WRONG IMPRESSION<br />
OF OUR CELEBRATIONS BY LAURA NEEDHAM<br />
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December, for many in <strong>Grey</strong>/Bruce, marks the return of the<br />
holiday season. This is the time of year when we gather<br />
with those we care about, surrounded by an array of foods.<br />
These festive foods are central to many traditions, but do they<br />
negatively impact our overall health?<br />
Canada’s Food Guide recommends enjoying our food and eating<br />
with others. Many parents, however, worry that the holidays<br />
will derail their efforts to plan, prepare, and serve their families<br />
nutritious meals and snacks. Many may ask, what are the<br />
lifelong health impacts?<br />
Certainly, food contributes to our health and well-being in<br />
many ways. The nutrients in food give our bodies the building<br />
blocks they need to grow, develop, and thrive. Both physical and<br />
mental health can be affected by the nutrients we need in food<br />
over time. However, food is more than nutrients and health is<br />
more than the absence of disease.<br />
Through our food, we can build or maintain connections to<br />
others, share traditions and culture, protect our environment,<br />
and express our creativity.<br />
These connections with loved ones, culture, and environment<br />
also support our physical, mental, and social well-being.<br />
Diet culture has led us to believe that our food traditions<br />
and celebrations are a danger to our well-being rather than a<br />
support.<br />
This season, I encourage all parents and caregivers to consider<br />
their family’s relationship with food and gift their child with the<br />
skills for building a positive relationship with food.<br />
NUTRIENTS AND CONNECTIONS<br />
Holiday food traditions provide us with nutrients and<br />
connections.<br />
Many traditional foods may be high in sugar or saturated fat.<br />
Diet culture is a system of beliefs that teaches us that some body<br />
sizes are more worthy than others and that health may only be<br />
achieved through restriction. It also teaches us that weight is<br />
the best indicator of health and good character. Sharing food<br />
traditions without guilt or labels is one way families can combat<br />
diet culture and promote healthy relationships with food.<br />
The holidays are a perfect time to invite kids into the kitchen to<br />
help cook and bake, teach them food skills, and pass on family<br />
traditions. Kids of all ages can help with a variety of<br />
tasks in the kitchen. Young children can<br />
safely help wash fresh produce or<br />
sort ingredients. As they grow,<br />
adults can introduce new skills<br />
like measuring, mixing,<br />
counting, reading recipes,<br />
and cutting or chopping<br />
foods.<br />
With each new skill, your<br />
child’s confidence and<br />
comfort in the kitchen can<br />
grow. Creating these positive moments around food will help<br />
build their resilience and support their mental well-being now<br />
and in the future.<br />
Being aware of the messages kids hear about food is also critical<br />
to establishing a healthy relationship with food. It is easy for us<br />
all to fall into a habit of labelling food as healthy or unhealthy,<br />
good or bad, or speaking about needing to ‘work off’ a meal.<br />
Instead, try to role model mindful eating and positive foodtalk.<br />
Avoiding value statements (eg. healthy, junk, treat) will<br />
prevent picky eating since food will no longer be seen as a<br />
reward or punishment. When you speak about food, focus on its<br />
characteristics like taste, texture, colour, or cultural uses. Some<br />
foods may be bright and colourful, others may sweet, salty, or<br />
crunchy. By encouraging children to explore the various tastes<br />
and textures of food, you are building their food literacy and<br />
preventing picky eating.<br />
ENCOURAGE POSITIVE MEALTIMES<br />
To encourage positive mealtimes, you can ask them to help plan<br />
or prepare their meals and snacks. Sometimes, simply asking,<br />
“Would you rather have beans or broccoli at dinner today?” can<br />
make all the difference for a peaceful mealtime.<br />
When food is just food, meal times can respect the ‘Division of<br />
Responsibility’ as recommended by experts. Parents can focus<br />
on offering a variety of foods, where and when it is appropriate.<br />
Allow your child to learn to listen to their body’s hunger and<br />
fullness cues by respecting their responsibility to choose whether<br />
and how much to eat. If they choose not to eat a certain<br />
item, do not worry and avoid pressuring them. Instead of<br />
commenting on their food choices, share how you are enjoying<br />
your meal or ask if they would like to save part of their meal<br />
for later. If it is something they are not interested in eating, do<br />
not make a replacement. Remember, it is your responsibility to<br />
choose what is served and theirs to choose how much to eat.<br />
Often parents who are new to this approach are concerned that<br />
their child will skip dinner and only eat dessert. There are a few<br />
ways to manage this. Consider serving dessert with dinner –<br />
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whether your dessert is some fruit or ice cream, serving it at the same time will keep it<br />
from becoming a reward for finishing dinner. If they finish their dessert before eating<br />
their dinner that is OK, when they are still hungry they can return to their dinner.<br />
Second servings do not have to be available for all foods.<br />
Most children will start hearing messages about food and health very early in life.<br />
When asked about the health impacts of certain foods, tailor your comments to<br />
your child’s age, but continue to avoid value labels. For example, you may tell a<br />
young child that carrots and other bright orange vegetables help our eyes see in<br />
the dark. As they get older, you can explore the names and benefits of different<br />
nutrients like Vitamin A. All foods contribute to our nutritional intake. Protein<br />
foods like eggs, meat, fish, beans, and milk help our muscles and make us feel<br />
full until our next meal or snack. Sugary foods provide fast energy, when we have<br />
protein foods with sugary foods, we get the energy we need and we will stay full<br />
until our next meal or snack.<br />
DISCUSS DIET MESSAGING<br />
Talk to your kids about the weight and diet messages they see and hear. Help them<br />
be aware of how social media and marketing is used to make them want to eat<br />
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certain foods and look a certain way. Explain that this is about<br />
making money and is not about what is best for our bodies or<br />
our mental well-being. Help them learn from their positive food<br />
experiences rather than these messages. The best way to decrease<br />
the influence of food marketing is to reduce our exposure, but it<br />
is not possible to avoid it entirely.<br />
Marketing exists in print ads, food packaging, and billboards.<br />
It is hidden in product placement, social media influencers and<br />
pop-up ads. Reducing screen time can minimize our exposure<br />
and reading food labels can help cut through marketing<br />
messages to better understand food products. Remember that<br />
food marketing is not limited to telling us what to buy; the diet<br />
industry also tells us that we must restrict.<br />
Make sure that you are also having conversations about body<br />
diversity. Help kids see that bodies come in many different<br />
shapes and sizes and that we cannot know about a person’s<br />
behaviours, health, or character based on their appearance.<br />
Weight is the top source of bullying. Children need to know<br />
that their value is not tied to a body shape or size. Weight bias<br />
can be found in all settings including at home, school, and in<br />
health care. Try being aware when your child may be hearing<br />
judgmental language about body shape or size and counter these<br />
messages to prevent unhealthy coping strategies like extreme<br />
dieting, disordered eating and eating disorders.<br />
This holiday season share your food traditions and skills<br />
without guilt or judgment. All children deserve to have a<br />
healthy relationship with food and their bodies. Laying a strong<br />
foundation now will nourish their bodies and minds, help them<br />
grow resilient to harmful diet culture, and protect their wellbeing<br />
far better than restricting their food choices ever can. GBK<br />
LAURA NEEDHAM BASc, MPH, RD, is a public health dietitian with the<br />
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FAMILY<br />
RISKY<br />
BUSINESS<br />
ALLOWING YOUR CHILD TO TAKE RISK ACTUALLY<br />
PROTECTS THEM BY PAULA BRUNKARD
In the mid-70s, Robert Munsch, then an Early Childhood<br />
Educator, began creating oral stories to entertain the children<br />
in his care. One of his first stories was called Mud Puddle.<br />
In this story, the young girl, Jule Anne, gets filthy every time<br />
she goes outside to play, claiming a mud puddle keeps jumping<br />
on her. This story became one of his first published books and<br />
continues to delight children around the world (Munsch, 2012).<br />
Hidden in the story’s humour is an important message – the<br />
chance to wander outdoors and the joy of experimenting with<br />
mud and dirt are becoming freedoms of the past. Parental and<br />
societal concerns about keeping children safe have increased<br />
over the past few decades, causing children to spend far less<br />
time playing outdoors (Pimento & Kernested, 2019, p352).<br />
Children’s outdoor play has been replaced with indoor activities<br />
and organized sports, causing our current generation to be more<br />
scheduled, stressed, and involved in adult-directed activities,<br />
resulting in what specialists are calling ‘play deprivation’ (Dietze<br />
& Kashin, 2019, p37).<br />
Research indicates that play is critical to the healthy<br />
development of children. Play helps them develop physically,<br />
mentally, emotionally, and socially (Pimento & Kernested,<br />
2019). The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the<br />
Child (UNCRC) includes the ‘Right to Play’ as one of 42<br />
rights recognized around the world (UNICEF, 1989). This right<br />
ensures children can spend time in leisure activities.<br />
Yet are our children really enjoying leisure time when we<br />
structure the majority of their play experiences? Is it truly<br />
considered play when most of the decisions are made by the<br />
adults supervising them?<br />
LEARNING THROUGH PLAY<br />
Since research has proven just how important play is to<br />
children’s healthy development, educators have begun to embed<br />
it into their curriculum. You will now find children attending<br />
play-based programs in Kindergarten and sometimes into the<br />
older elementary grades. Schools are placing a special emphasis<br />
on learning outdoors, and some have outdoor classrooms.<br />
Play is typically driven by children’s own interests and curiosity<br />
because when these two meet, learning follows. Play is how<br />
children make sense of their world as they try on ideas, skills,<br />
and concepts (Best Start Expert Panel, 2006).<br />
Given time, space, and encouragement, children are inspired to<br />
explore the environment and materials around them – they take<br />
on imaginary roles with items they find; make decisions and<br />
solve problems; and take risks guided by their developmental<br />
level and temperament (Pimento & Kernested, 2019). For<br />
example, toddlers learn how to solve simple problems when they<br />
experiment with manipulating objects, while preschool children<br />
solve problems by collecting information, making predictions<br />
about what happens next, and talk about what they found (Best<br />
Start Expert Panel, 2006).<br />
The play process teaches children how to make decisions, some<br />
of which work while others don’t. The outcomes teach them<br />
what to do differently the next time. When they are successful,<br />
children feel excited and competent. When they fail, they feel<br />
frustrated and must rethink their approach. These feelings of<br />
frustration are important too – children who learn how to<br />
overcome their negative feelings, how to regulate their emotions,<br />
and how to move on in their thoughts, are more likely to have<br />
better mental health (Little, et al., 2012).<br />
Recent research has highlighted the importance of something<br />
called ‘risk’ within play. The reference to risk does not mean<br />
danger or hazard, but rather some type of challenge the child<br />
must solve or conquer (Pimento & Kernested, 2019). Risky<br />
play, “Allows children to push themselves to the limits of their<br />
capabilities,” and gives them a sense of control over their actions<br />
and learning (Pimento & Kernested, 2019). By managing the<br />
risks they encounter, children gain confidence in their own<br />
abilities and learn the boundaries of what they are capable.<br />
Through acceptable risk, children build on their own ideas, feel<br />
empowered physically and emotionally, and develop a sense of<br />
belonging in the environment (Dietze & Kashin, 2019). Healthy<br />
risk taking prepares children to be observant and make good<br />
decisions (Little, et al., 2012).<br />
RISKS REQUIRE PRACTICE<br />
Ellen Sandsetter, a Norwegian researcher, observed children’s<br />
outdoor play and found six different types of risk that children<br />
around the world seem to be particularly attracted to (Little, et<br />
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even tried to discourage children from them.<br />
Height. Children enjoy climbing, jumping from different<br />
heights, hanging, or swinging from heights, and balancing at<br />
various heights. The risk of falling teaches children to overcome<br />
anxiety and fear.<br />
Speed. Children enjoy sliding, sledding, spinning, running,<br />
skiing, and cycling at various speeds. Safety equipment such as<br />
helmets may be needed for protection. The risk of a collision<br />
teaches children to control speed.<br />
Adult tools. Children enjoy adults’ cutting tools that pose a<br />
sense of possible harm. Tools include hammers, saws, knives,<br />
lawnmowers, and axes. Supervision and direct instruction may<br />
be needed to keep them safe. The risk of getting cut inspires<br />
children to learn careful handling.<br />
Rough and tumble play. Children often invent games that<br />
require hitting, dragging, or pushing. They wrestle or play fight,<br />
sometimes using sticks for swords. Risk of getting hurt teaches<br />
children about the importance of consent from others. They<br />
learn to distinguish between ‘pretend’ and ‘real’ harm.<br />
Play with dangerous elements. Children are drawn to fire pits,<br />
deep icy water, and cliffs. The potential danger of falling into or<br />
from something gives them a respect for situations beyond their<br />
control.<br />
Disappear/get lost. Children enjoy exploring on their own,<br />
without adult intervention or supervision. This activity teaches<br />
children to be resourceful and rely on their own abilities. This is<br />
crucial for developing self-esteem.<br />
It seems that children are instinctively inspired by a sense of<br />
thrill or challenge. Even as adults, we feel exhilarated after<br />
successfully completing a challenge – running marathons,<br />
climbing mountains, and skydiving are based on our thrillseeking<br />
behaviours, and athletes will tell you it takes practice to<br />
appreciate your own limits.<br />
Research indicates that children who practice risky play are less<br />
likely to get hurt. When they learn the limits of their physical,<br />
emotional, and mental abilities, they know what they can or<br />
cannot control. Children who have less experience are more<br />
likely to misinterpret dangers and make poor decisions (Little, et<br />
al., 2012).<br />
Risky play is simply exploration driven by children’s own<br />
desires, in which they challenge themselves to be at the edge of<br />
their own comfort zone. It means children need opportunity<br />
to actively choose and assess risk for themselves, and this can<br />
result in getting dirty or experiencing some bumps, scrapes, and<br />
bruises.<br />
SUPPORT RISKY PLAY<br />
For parents and teachers, risky play requires us to re-evaluate<br />
our habits and thoughts regarding what it means to protect<br />
our children. Can we trust our children to make accurate selfassessments?<br />
How do we encourage children to take risks, yet<br />
keep them safe? Here are several ideas for giving your children<br />
the best learning experience possible.<br />
Begin by ensuring safety. Watch your children play, or join<br />
them, to understand what risks they might be ready for, and<br />
what skills they demonstrate. This will help you know in what<br />
play situations they’ll do well (Pimento & Kernested, 2019).<br />
Some children are comfortable with risks and can assess their<br />
abilities for themselves, while others seem to be fearless and<br />
impulsive, requiring some supervision and reminding of safer<br />
behaviour. Other children may be hesitant to try new activities<br />
and require support to attempt even small challenges. Once<br />
you understand what your child is ready for, you can provide<br />
a safe environment for them to explore. When you provide a<br />
variety of experiences and materials, your children will challenge<br />
themselves at a level they’re ready for.<br />
Balance supervision with opportunities for independent<br />
exploration and discovery. Continue to gradually give your<br />
children additional freedom and risk. Follow your children’s<br />
lead to ensure they are feeling secure and in control of their<br />
challenges. Celebrate with them as their confidence increases.<br />
Your enthusiasm is important in encouraging their joy in<br />
exploration (Rodgers, 2018).<br />
Provide time and space. Allow for uninterrupted and extended<br />
periods of play (College of ECE, 2018). It takes time for children<br />
to fully grasp a concept and begin to explore its boundaries.<br />
This process can’t be rushed. Planning for extended periods of<br />
play time, gives children the opportunity to fully explore their<br />
abilities.<br />
Provide interesting materials. Encourage children to contribute<br />
their ideas and to help with set up of activities when possible<br />
(College of ECE, 2018). You can provide creative outlets – or<br />
“loose parts” – that help children discover, invent, create, and<br />
construct. Loose parts can include boxes, buckets, baskets, cloth,<br />
building materials, old pots and pans, milk crates, etc. Children<br />
are guided by their own ideas and abilities, in how to play<br />
with these materials – there is no right or wrong way to play.<br />
Decision-making becomes a natural aspect of their play when<br />
children need to move or build using loose parts. The creative<br />
element of this type of play engages children for longer periods<br />
of time than standard playground equipment, and loose parts<br />
can be used in endless ways.<br />
Include natural elements in their environment. Having<br />
children play in trees, grasses, stones, leaves, sand, water, helps<br />
them learn more about nature and the physical world. The<br />
next time you see someone cutting down a tree, bring back<br />
some tree stumps and watch how children incorporate these<br />
into their play. You’ll be amazed by their imagination. Heavy<br />
and large items like these require children to use their whole<br />
body, exercising their muscles and challenging their physical<br />
knowledge.<br />
Offer a wide range of age-appropriate tools and equipment.<br />
Check in with your children. Are there any tools they need<br />
to help extend their play? Choose items that match children’s<br />
abilities. For example, while some children are ready to cut with<br />
a sharp knife, others still require a knife that is dull. Provide<br />
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instructions or demonstrations on how to safely hold or use<br />
a tool if necessary to increase children’s awareness. Listen and<br />
respond to their questions, as you explore together.<br />
Offer children challenges rather than solutions. Let them<br />
decide how to handle situations. For example, “Your feet<br />
are stuck in the mud. How will you get them out?” Resist<br />
interfering with your children’s ability to solve a problem by<br />
being too helpful and taking over. Shifting your tolerance for<br />
risk will depend on your understanding that risk can be positive.<br />
Knowing that even solving problems requires practice may<br />
encourage you to be more patient and allow your child time to<br />
figure out the solution. GBK<br />
References<br />
Best Start Expert Panel (2006). Early learning for every child today:<br />
A framework for Ontario early childhood settings. Ontario Ministry<br />
of Children and Youth Services.<br />
College of Early Childhood Educators. (April 2018). Play-based<br />
learning. https://www.college-ece.ca/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/<br />
Practice_Note_Play-Based_Learning-1.pdf<br />
Dietze, B. & Kashin, D. (2019). Outdoor and nature play in Early<br />
Childhood Education. Pearson Canada Ltd.<br />
Little, H., Sandseter, E., Beate H., & Wyver, S. (2012), Early<br />
childhood teachers’ beliefs about children’s risky play in Australia<br />
and Norway. Contemporary issues in early childhood, Vol. 13, No.<br />
4, pp. 300-316. http://dx.doi.org/10.2304/ciec.2012.13.4.300<br />
Munsch, R. (2012). Mud puddle. 4th ed. Annick Press.<br />
Pimento, B. & Kernested, D. (2019). Healthy foundations in early<br />
childhood settings. 6th edition, Nelson Education Ltd.<br />
Rodgers, A. (October 17, 2018). The Importance of Risky Play in<br />
Childhood. Early Years Resources. https://www.earlyyearsresources.<br />
co.uk/blog/2018/10/risky-play-importance/.<br />
UNICEF (1989). The convention on the rights of the child: The<br />
children’s version.<br />
https://www.unicef.org/child-rights-convention/convention-textchildrens-version<br />
PAULA BRUNKARD M.Ed., RECE, is an Early Childhood Education<br />
Professor at Fanshawe College’s Regional Sites Huron/Bruce. Learn<br />
more about the program at www.fanshawec.ca/huronbruce.<br />
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RESOURCES<br />
ABUSE<br />
Assaulted Women’s Helpline<br />
Crisis line: 1-866-863-0511<br />
www.awhl.org<br />
Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />
(Bruce and <strong>Grey</strong> Children’s Aid Societies<br />
amalgamated April 1, 2012)<br />
1-855-322-4453<br />
Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />
1-800-567-2384; 519-371-4773<br />
kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Saugeen First Nation - Kabaeshiwim<br />
Respite Women’s Shelter<br />
519-797-2521<br />
cgeorge@saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />
www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />
Sexual Assault and Partner<br />
Abuse Care Centre<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Services<br />
1-888-525-0552 or www.gbhs.on.ca<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Victim Services Bruce <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Perth<br />
Crisis: 1-866-376-9852<br />
Administration: 1-888-577-3111<br />
info@victim-services.com<br />
www.victim-services.com<br />
Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />
Owen Sound - 1-866-259-4823<br />
Walkerton - 1-866-994-9904<br />
attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />
http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />
Women’s Centre (<strong>Grey</strong> and Bruce)<br />
Administration: 519-376-0755<br />
Crisis: 1-800-265-3722<br />
womenscentre@bmts.com<br />
www.bmts.com/~womenscentre<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Women’s House Serving Bruce and <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Sexual assault crisis: 1-866-578-5566<br />
Crisis line: 1-800-265-3026<br />
Administration: (519) 396-9814<br />
crisis@whsbg.on.ca<br />
www.whsbg.on.ca<br />
Kincardine<br />
BREASTFEEDING<br />
Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />
1-866-507-2021 or 519-881-1920<br />
RN/certified Lactation Consultant available<br />
www.bafht.com<br />
Walkerton<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit<br />
1-800-263-3456<br />
publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Hanover Family Health Team<br />
RN/Certified Lactation Consultant<br />
519-506-4348<br />
www.hanoverfht.ca<br />
La Leche League Canada<br />
Owen Sound; 519-376-5916; www.lllc.ca<br />
Moms Walkerton<br />
New Mom support<br />
320 Durham St.., Walkerton; 519-379-6769<br />
Support groups<br />
Southampton, Port Elgin, Paisley, and Tara -<br />
519-797-2010<br />
Kincardine, Ripley, Tiverton, and Lucknow -<br />
519-368-4847<br />
South-Bruce Breastfeeding Buddies -<br />
519-881-1920<br />
Wiarton and Bruce Peninsula - 519-534-0912<br />
Markdale - 519-369-3381<br />
Owen Sound - 519-372-1330<br />
The Mama Nurse<br />
www.themamanurse.com<br />
CHILDBIRTH<br />
Glamma Doula<br />
Christine Piotrowski, Postpartum Doula<br />
www.glammadoula.com; 519-477-9985<br />
Hanover and District Hospital Obstetrics/<br />
Family Centred Care Birthing Centre<br />
519-364-2340<br />
admin@hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />
www.hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />
Jessica Connor Doula Services<br />
519-580-0612 or jconnor.doula@gmail.com<br />
www.jessicaconnor.ca<br />
Midwives <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce<br />
519-371-2886<br />
www.midwivesgreybruce.com<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Owen Sound Hospital Labour and Delivery<br />
519-376-2121<br />
www.gbhs.on.ca/owensound.php<br />
Walkerton Hospital Family Birthing Centre<br />
519-881-1220<br />
www.sbghc.on.ca<br />
CHILD CARE<br />
Acorn Montessori<br />
705-606-1642<br />
Thornbury<br />
Amabel-Sauble Child Care Centre<br />
519-422-3611<br />
Sauble Beach<br />
Beaver Valley Outreach<br />
519-599-2577<br />
Bobi’s Playschool<br />
519-538-5483<br />
Meaford<br />
Brockton Child Care Centre<br />
sbross@brockton.ca<br />
Brooke Montessori Toddler Program<br />
519-376-3447, Owen Sound<br />
Bruce County Childcare Services<br />
519-881-0431 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />
Walkerton<br />
Bruce Peninsula Family Centre<br />
519-793-4100<br />
Lion’s Head<br />
Chesley Nursery School<br />
519-363-9544<br />
Durham Nursery School<br />
519-369-6973<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> County Childcare Services<br />
519-376-7324, www.greycounty.ca/childcare<br />
Hanover Montessori Children's House<br />
1-800-906-7036 or 519-364-6455<br />
Happy Hearts Day Care Centre<br />
519-376-1284<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Inglenook Creche Day Care<br />
519-371-9471; Owen Sound<br />
Kids & Us Community Childcare<br />
and Family Education Centres<br />
Ayton - 519-665-<strong>2022</strong><br />
Dundalk - 519-923-2182<br />
Durham - 519-369-9911<br />
Holstein - 519-334-3132<br />
Markdale - 519-986-3692<br />
Osprey - 519-922-2333<br />
Paisley - 519-353-7220<br />
www.kidsandus.ca<br />
Kids Street Nursery School - Port Elgin<br />
519-389-9050<br />
Kinhuron Integrated Day Nursery School<br />
Co-op<br />
519-396-4532<br />
Kincardine<br />
Le Jardin des decouvertes - Owen Sound<br />
519-371-4411<br />
Military Family Resource Centre - Meaford<br />
519-538-1371 x6509<br />
mfrc.meaford@gmail.com<br />
www.cafconnection.ca/Meaford/Home.aspx<br />
Meaford Co-operative Nursery School<br />
519-538-3854<br />
Nawash N'Shiime Day Care Centre<br />
519-534-3909<br />
Neyaashiinigmiing (Cape Croker)<br />
OneList – Find and apply for child care<br />
brucecountychildcare.ca<br />
greycountychildcare.ca<br />
Queen of Hearts Nursery School<br />
109 Balmy Beach Rd., Owen Sound<br />
www.queenofheartsnurseryschool.com<br />
Sandbox Daycare - Hanover<br />
519-506-7263<br />
Saugeen First Nation G’Shaw-da-Gawin<br />
Day Care Centre<br />
519-797-2419<br />
gshawdagawin@bmts.com<br />
www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />
Saugeen Shores Childcare Centre<br />
519-832-2400<br />
Tobermory Primary Place<br />
519-596-2606<br />
Unity House - Owen Sound<br />
519-371-8686<br />
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Viola Jean’s Garden Daycare - Owen Sound<br />
519-416-5633 or 519-371-2362<br />
Wiarton Kids Den Day Care/Kids Club<br />
School age Program<br />
519-534-4434<br />
Wiarton Nursery School<br />
519-534-2121<br />
Wooden Hill Child Care Centre (La Colline<br />
De Bois) at Notre Dame School<br />
519-376-6952<br />
Owen Sound<br />
YMCA Childcare<br />
Arran Tara - 519-376-0484<br />
Hanover - 519-364-4938<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-9622<br />
Owen Sound - 519-376-0484<br />
Port Elgin - 519-832-6225<br />
Ripley - 519-395-5570<br />
ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />
DIET/NUTRITION<br />
EatRight Ontario<br />
Ministry of Health Promotion and Sport<br />
1-877-510-5102; www.eatrightontario.ca<br />
Foodlink <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce<br />
Find locally grown meat, fruit and produce<br />
www.foodlinkgreybruce.com<br />
Good Food Box<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit<br />
519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />
publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit<br />
1-800-263-3456<br />
publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Hanover Family Health Team<br />
519-506-4348; www.hanoverfht.ca<br />
Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />
1-800-567-2384, 519-371-4773<br />
kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />
Ontario Student Nutrition Program <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Bruce<br />
www.osnp.ca<br />
EDUCATION<br />
Academy of Learning - Owen Sound<br />
1077 2nd Ave. E., Suite B (2nd floor)<br />
519-371-6188 or www.academytraining.ca<br />
Adult Learning Centres<br />
Collingwood, Port Elgin, Markdale, Owen<br />
Sound, Walkerton, Wiarton<br />
www.adultlearningcentres.com<br />
Bluewater District School Board<br />
1-800-661-7509 or www.bwdsb.on.ca<br />
Bruce-<strong>Grey</strong> Catholic District School Board<br />
519-364-5820 or www.bgcdsb.org<br />
Conseil Scolaire Catholique Providence<br />
(French Catholic School Board)<br />
1-888-768-2219; www.cscprovidence.ca<br />
Edgehill Country School, Durham<br />
www.edgehillschool.org<br />
Georgian Tutors<br />
www.georgiantutors.com<br />
EMPLOYMENT SERVICES<br />
JobsWork<br />
Aimee Kim, Job Developer, akim@clkd.ca<br />
519-396-9434 x223<br />
Leads Employment Services<br />
1051 2nd Ave. E Owen Sound<br />
1-866-955-3237<br />
www.leadsservices.com<br />
Live<strong>Grey</strong>Bruce<br />
www.livegreybruce.ca<br />
VPI Employment Strategies (Walkerton)<br />
519-881-4900 or 1-855-260-4900<br />
jobswalkerton@vpi-inc.com<br />
www.vpi-inc.com<br />
YMCA Employment Services<br />
1450 1st Ave. W., Suite 4A, Owen Sound<br />
519-371-9222<br />
employmentservices@ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />
FAMILY SUPPORT<br />
211 Ontario<br />
Online database of services in your area<br />
www.211ontario.ca<br />
Aspire Youth Services Inc.<br />
Ryan McLeod, CPT, RSW, MSW, CYC (BA)<br />
ryanmcleodplaytherapy@gmail.com<br />
aspireyouth.ca; 416-417-7098<br />
Big Brothers Big Sisters<br />
Owen Sound - 519-376-4449<br />
www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/bbowensound<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3565<br />
www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/kincardine<br />
Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />
1-855-322-4453<br />
www.bgcfs.ca<br />
Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Mentorship<br />
504 10th St., Suite 2, Hanover<br />
519-506-5065<br />
www.brucegreymentorship.ca<br />
Chippewas of Nawash Unceded First Nation<br />
- Native Child Welfare - Cape Croker<br />
519-534-3818<br />
supervisor.ncw@gbtel.ca<br />
www.nawash.ca<br />
EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />
Chesley, Hanover, Kincardine, Markdale,<br />
Meaford, M’Wikwedong (Owen Sound), Owen<br />
Sound (East Ridge), Port Elgin, Thornbury,<br />
Wiarton<br />
1-800-616-8116<br />
Family Support Initiative<br />
Peer support for family of those with mental<br />
health issues<br />
519-371-4802; fsi@hopegb.org<br />
mhagb.ca<br />
Grandparent Network<br />
For grandparents raising grandchildren<br />
Meets first Monday of month at 9:30 a.m.<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Call Mary Nuckowski at 519-371-2498<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Supervised Access Program<br />
519-371-5991; pc-superacc@bmts.com<br />
www.supervisedaccess.ca, Owen Sound<br />
Kids Help Phone<br />
1-800-668-6868 (24 hours)<br />
www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />
Multiples in Bruce<br />
For families with or expecting multiples<br />
http://multiplesinbrucecounty.webs.com<br />
Nemesis Group Services<br />
Owen Sound; 519-372-2425<br />
www.nemesisgroupservices.com<br />
Parent Help Line<br />
1-888-603-9100<br />
Penetangore Wellness<br />
Art and family therapy<br />
www.penetangorewellness.com<br />
Salvation Army<br />
Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />
Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />
Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />
Wiarton - 519-534-0353<br />
Victim Services Bruce <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Perth<br />
Crisis: 1-866-376-9852; Admin: 1-888-577-3111<br />
info@victim-services.com;<br />
www.victim-services.com<br />
Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />
1-866-259-4823 - Owen Sound<br />
1-866-994-9904 - Walkerton<br />
attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />
http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />
FINANCIAL SUPPORT<br />
Beaver Valley Outreach (Thornbury)<br />
519-599-2577; info@bvo.ca; www.bvo.ca<br />
Bruce Children are Special Foundation<br />
Directs donations to the children programs<br />
provided by Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family<br />
Services (formerly Children’s Aid)<br />
1-855-322-4453 ext 4133<br />
Social Services<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> County - 1-800-265-3119<br />
www.grey.ca/health-social-services/<br />
Owen Sound<br />
Bruce County - 1-800-265-3005<br />
www.brucecounty.on.ca/ontworks.php<br />
Walkerton<br />
United Way of Bruce <strong>Grey</strong><br />
519-376-1560 or manager@unitedwaybg.com<br />
www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com<br />
YMCA of Owen Sound and <strong>Grey</strong>/Bruce<br />
519-376-0484 or ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />
FOOD BANKS/HOUSING<br />
Beaver Valley Outreach - Thornbury<br />
519-599-2577, info@bvo.ca or www.bvo.ca<br />
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RESOURCES<br />
Durham District Food Bank<br />
Monday and Friday, 9 a.m.-noon<br />
Flesherton and Area Food Bank<br />
Marian Doyle, 519-599-3576<br />
Kincardine Ministerial Food Bank<br />
519-396-2185 or circlek@bmts.com<br />
Lion’s Head and District Food Bank<br />
519-793-3860 or helen.rick@amtelecom.net<br />
Markdale and District Food Bank<br />
519-986-3094<br />
Meaford Food Bank<br />
519-538-4550<br />
Paisley Food Bank<br />
Immanuel Evangelical Mission Church<br />
307 Balaclava St.; 519-353-5270 (Carol)<br />
Salvation Army<br />
Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />
Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />
Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />
Tobermory Food Bank<br />
519-596-1501<br />
Walkerton and District Food Bank<br />
519-881-0168<br />
Wiarton Food Bank<br />
519-534-0353<br />
Habitat for Humanity <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce<br />
1-866-771-6776 or habitatos@bmts.com<br />
www.habitatgreybruce.com<br />
Ontario Tenants Rights<br />
ontariotenants@hotmail.com<br />
www.ontariotenants.ca<br />
Safe ‘n Sound Homelessness Initiative<br />
519-470-7233; www.safensoundgreybruce.com<br />
Subsidized housing<br />
Bruce County - 1-800-265-3022<br />
www.brucecounty.on.ca/socialhousing.php<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> County - 376-5744<br />
http://bit.ly/vVG1k0<br />
HEALTH CARE<br />
Auditory Health Care<br />
202 Cayley St., Walkerton<br />
519-881-4994 or info@auditoryhealthcare.com<br />
Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />
1-866-507-2021 or www.bafht.com<br />
Walkerton<br />
Canadian Mental Health Association<br />
<strong>Grey</strong>-Bruce Branch<br />
Administration - 519-371-3642<br />
Crisis: 1-877-470-5200<br />
jralph@cmhagb.org; www.cmhagb.org<br />
Collingwood General and Marine Hospital<br />
705-445-2550<br />
www.cgmh.on.ca<br />
Connect Rehabilitation, Yoga and Fitness<br />
1100 16th Ave. E., Owen Sound<br />
admin@connectrehab.com; 519-372-2121<br />
www.connectrehab.com<br />
ConnexOntario Help Lines<br />
Drug and alcohol - 1-800-565-8603<br />
Gambling - 1-888-230-3505<br />
Mental health - 1-866-531-2600<br />
www.connexontario.ca<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Services (hospitals)<br />
Lion’s Head - 519-793-3424<br />
Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />
Meaford - 519-538-1311<br />
Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />
Southampton - 797-3230<br />
Wiarton - 534-1260<br />
www.gbhs.on.ca<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit - Owen Sound<br />
1-800-263-3456<br />
publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
Hanover and District Hospital<br />
519-364-2340/info@hdhospital.ca<br />
www.hdhospital.ca<br />
Healthy Babies, Healthy Children<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit<br />
519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />
www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />
Hanover Family Health Team<br />
519-506-4348 or dford@hanoverfht.ca<br />
www.hanoverfht.ca<br />
Healthy Smiles Ontario<br />
Dental for families making under $20,000/yr<br />
Register through the health unit<br />
Online: http://bit.ly/JAqJbY<br />
Honouring Life Network<br />
Indigenous youth suicide prevention<br />
www.honouringlife.ca<br />
Hope<strong>Grey</strong>Bruce - Owen Sound<br />
Mental Health and Addiction Services<br />
519-371-4120 or www.mhagb.ca/gbchc/<br />
Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />
1-800-567-2384 or 519-371-4773<br />
kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />
Kids Help Phone (24 hours)<br />
1-800-668-6868 or www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />
Kincardine Family Health Team<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-2700<br />
Ripley - 519-395-2601<br />
www.kincardinefht.ca<br />
Mino Bimadsawin Health Centre<br />
57 Mason Dr., Saugeen First Nation<br />
519-797-3336<br />
M’Wikwedong Native Cultural Resource<br />
Centre - Owen Sound<br />
1-866-202-2068 or admin@mwikwedong.com<br />
www.mwikwedong.com<br />
Owen Sound Crisis Pregnancy Centre<br />
1-888-371-2004<br />
oscpc@wightman.ca<br />
Pediatric clinics<br />
Hanover - 519-364-2340<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />
Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />
Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />
Walkerton - 519-881-1220<br />
Penetangore Wellness<br />
Art and family therapy<br />
www.penetangorewellness.com<br />
Poison Control Centre<br />
1-800-268-9017<br />
Postpartum depression<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit - 1-800-263-3456<br />
Keystone Child, Youth and Family Services -<br />
1-800-567-2384<br />
Sandra Hall Physiotherapy<br />
519-270-6528; shallphysio12@gmail.com<br />
www.sandrahallphysiotherapy.com<br />
South Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Health Centre (hospitals)<br />
Chesley - 519-363-2340<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />
Durham - 519-369-2340<br />
Walkerton - 519-881-1220<br />
www.sbghc.on.ca<br />
South East <strong>Grey</strong> Community Health Centre<br />
55 Victoria St., Markdale<br />
519-986-2222 or 1-855-519-2220<br />
info@segchc.ca or www.segchc.ca<br />
St. John Ambulance First Aid training<br />
519-364-7004 or grey.bruce@on.sja.ca<br />
Online: http://bit.ly/t3Ye8g<br />
TeleHealth Ontario<br />
1-866-797-0007<br />
TVCC<br />
519-3370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />
www.tvcc.on.ca<br />
LIBRARIES<br />
Blue Mountains Public Library/<br />
L.E. Shore Memorial Library<br />
Thornbury<br />
519-599-3681 or thebluemountainslibrary.ca<br />
Bruce County Public Library<br />
opac.brucecounty.on.ca; 519-832-6935;<br />
libraryinfo@brucecounty.on.ca<br />
Cargill - 519-366-9990<br />
Chesley - 519-363-2239<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3289<br />
Lion’s Head - 519-793-3844<br />
Lucknow - 519-528-3011<br />
Mildmay - 519-367-2814<br />
Paisley - 519-353-7225<br />
Port Elgin - 519-832-2201<br />
Ripley - 519-395-5919<br />
Sauble Beach - 519-422-1283<br />
Southampton - 519-797-3586<br />
Tara - 519-934-2626<br />
Teeswater - 519-392-6801<br />
Tiverton - 519-368-5655<br />
Tobermory - 519-596-2446<br />
Walkerton - 519-881-3240<br />
Wiarton - 519-534-2602<br />
Collingwood Public Library<br />
519-445-1571; www.collingwoodpubliclibrary.ca<br />
Dundalk/Southgate Public Library<br />
519-923-3248; http://southgate-library.com/<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Highlands Public Library<br />
Flesherton - 519-924-2241<br />
Kimberley - 519-599-6990<br />
Walter Harris Memorial Library (Markdale) -<br />
519-986-3436; greyhighlandspubliclibrary.com<br />
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Hanover Public Library<br />
519-364-1420 or www.hanoverlibrary.ca<br />
Meaford Public Library<br />
519-538-1060<br />
www.meaford.ca/meaford-library-home.html<br />
Owen Sound and North <strong>Grey</strong><br />
Union Public Library<br />
519-376-6623; www.owensound.library.on.ca<br />
West <strong>Grey</strong> Public Library system<br />
www.westgreylibrary.com<br />
Durham (main) branch - 519-369-2107<br />
Elmwood and area - 519-363-3321<br />
Neustadt - 519-799-5830<br />
Ayton/Normanby - 519-799-3242<br />
MUSEUMS<br />
Billy Bishop Heritage Museum - Owen Sound<br />
519-371-0031 or www.billybishop.org<br />
Bruce County Lighthouse Museums<br />
Cabot (Lion’s) Head - 519-795-7780<br />
Chantry Island (Southampton) - 866-318-8889<br />
Kincardine - 519-396-3468<br />
Point Clark - 519-395-2494<br />
Bruce County Museum, Cultural Centre &<br />
Archives - Southampton<br />
519-797-2080 or www.brucemuseum.ca<br />
Bruce Peninsula Visitors Centre<br />
519-596-2233 or http://bit.ly/rQQFf6<br />
Tobermory<br />
Bruce Power Visitors’ Centre<br />
519-361-7777; www.brucepower.com<br />
Chesley Heritage & Woodworking Museum<br />
519-363-9837<br />
Craigleith Heritage Depot - Thornbury<br />
519-599-3131<br />
www.thebluemountains.ca/Craigleith-Heritage-Depot.cfm<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Roots Museum & Archives<br />
Includes county’s archives<br />
1-877-GREY ROOTS; www.greyroots.com<br />
RR4 Owen Sound<br />
Meaford Museum<br />
519-538-5974<br />
www.visitmeaford.com/meaford-museum.html<br />
Owen Sound Marine and Rail Museum<br />
519-371-3333<br />
www.marinerail.com<br />
Paddy Walker Heritage Society - Kincardine<br />
519-396-1850<br />
www.walkerhousekincardine.com<br />
South <strong>Grey</strong> Museum - Flesherton<br />
519-924-2843 or museum@greyhighlands.ca<br />
www.southgreymuseum.ca<br />
St. Edmunds Township Museum - Tobermory<br />
519-596-2479 or online http://bit.ly/vEdicK<br />
Tobermory Maritime Association<br />
519-596-2700; www.tobermorymaritime.ca<br />
Treasure Chest Museum - Paisley<br />
519-353-7176 or http://bit.ly/1PjTS1D<br />
NEWCOMER SERVICES<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Settlement & Langauge Services<br />
519-371-9222 or settlement@osgb.ymca.ca<br />
ONLINE SUPPORT<br />
www.211.ca<br />
www.pathwaysawareness.org<br />
www.mentallyfit.ca<br />
www.shelternet.ca<br />
www.targetyouth.ca<br />
www.thehealthline.ca<br />
www.wesforyouthonline.ca<br />
PLAYGROUPS<br />
<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Play<br />
Monthly inclusive playgroup<br />
<strong>Grey</strong>bruceplay@gmail.com<br />
Kincardine Toy Library and Playgroup<br />
249 Bruce Ave.; Wednesday, 9:30-11:30 a.m.<br />
Pine River Moms<br />
519-389-7136; jill.ricica@gmail.com.<br />
Thursdays during school year, info on FB<br />
EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />
Chesley, Paisley, Kincardine, Port Elgin, and<br />
Wiarton - 1-800-616-8116<br />
Hanover, Markdale, Meaford, M’Wikwedong<br />
(Owen Sound), Owen Sound (East Ridge), and<br />
Thornbury - 1-866-483-7774<br />
SPECIAL NEEDS<br />
Autism Ontario <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Chapter<br />
226-787-0333 or marti@autismontario.com<br />
http://bit.ly/tO6kam; Owen Sound<br />
Autism Parent Support Group<br />
Community Living Kincardine & District<br />
519-396-9434 or www.clkd.ca<br />
Bruce County Children’s Services Resource<br />
Program<br />
1-800-265-3005 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />
Walkerton<br />
Bruce Peninsula (Wiarton) Association<br />
for Community Living<br />
519-534-0553<br />
Community Living Kincardine & District<br />
519-396-9434; www.clkd.ca<br />
Community Living Meaford<br />
519-538-4165<br />
Community Living Owen Sound<br />
and District<br />
519-371-9251 or communitylivingowensound.ca<br />
Community Living Walkerton & District<br />
519-881-3713 or www.clwalkerton.org<br />
Georgian Riding Association<br />
for Challenged Equestrians<br />
519-372-2721; grace@log.on.ca<br />
Wicklen Stables, RR5 Owen Sound<br />
Hope Haven Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />
519-986-1247<br />
www.hopehavencentre.org<br />
Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />
Owen Sound; 1-800-567-2384<br />
kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />
PRANCE Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />
519-832-2522 or prance@bmts.com<br />
Miramichi Farms, Hwy. 21 Port Elgin<br />
Reading Rescue Ontario<br />
519-794-4745 or soehner@bmts.com<br />
www.readingrescueontario.ca<br />
Holland Centre<br />
South <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Youth Literacy Council<br />
519-364-0008 or info@sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />
www.sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />
Hanover<br />
Special Therapy and Education<br />
Program of Saugeen (STEPS)<br />
519-797-1935<br />
info@stepsahead.ca; www.stepsahead.ca<br />
Southampton<br />
TVCC<br />
519-370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />
www.tvcc.on.ca<br />
United Way of Bruce <strong>Grey</strong><br />
519-376-1560; unitedwaybg@bmts.com<br />
www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com/<br />
Owen Sound<br />
SPEECH/LANGUAGE<br />
Bruce County Childcare Services<br />
1-800-265-3005; www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />
Walkerton<br />
Closing the Gap Healthcare Group<br />
Rehab Express <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce<br />
1-866-990-9901 or www.closingthegap.ca<br />
Owen Sound<br />
South West Community Care Access Centre<br />
In-Home Services<br />
Owen Sound - 519-371-2112<br />
Walkerton - 519-881-1181<br />
www.sw.ccac-ont.ca<br />
TVCC<br />
519-370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />
www.tvcc.on.ca<br />
VOICE for Hearing Impaired Children<br />
Support, speech and language therapy<br />
<strong>Grey</strong>/Bruce chapter is free to families<br />
www.voicefordeafkids.com<br />
WISH PROGRAMS<br />
Children’s Wish Foundation of Canada<br />
1-800-267-9474<br />
on@childrenswish.ca or www.childrenswish.ca<br />
Ajax, ON<br />
Make-A-Wish - Southwestern Ontario Chapter<br />
519-471-4900 or www.makeawishswo.org<br />
London, ON GBK<br />
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RECIPES<br />
Muffin time!<br />
HONEY OAT APPLE MUFFINS<br />
A crunchy topping elevates these muffins to a new level, and are<br />
more economical than your usual coffee spot. Freeze muffins for<br />
a take-along breakfast or mid-morning break<br />
Baking Time: 25 minutes<br />
Preparation Time: 20 minutes<br />
Makes: 12<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
Topping:<br />
• ½ cup apple, unpeeled and diced<br />
• ⅓ cup pecans, chopped<br />
• ¼ cup large flake rolled oats<br />
• 3 tbsp brown sugar, packed<br />
• ½ tsp ground cinnamon<br />
• ¼ tsp ground nutmeg<br />
• 1 tbsp butter, melted<br />
Batter:<br />
• 2 cups all-purpose flour<br />
• ½ cup large flake rolled oats<br />
• 1½ tsp each baking powder and ground cinnamon<br />
• ¾ tsp salt<br />
• ½ tsp each baking soda and ground nutmeg<br />
• 2 eggs<br />
• ⅔ cup milk<br />
• ⅓ cup each packed brown sugar and vegetable oil<br />
• ⅓ cup honey<br />
• 1½ tsp vanilla<br />
• 2½ cups apples, unpeeled and diced<br />
MAPLE BRAN MUFFINS<br />
Cooking Time: 20 minutes<br />
Servings: 12<br />
INGREDIENTS<br />
• ¾ cup natural wheat bran<br />
• ½ cup milk<br />
• ½ cup maple syrup<br />
• 1 egg<br />
• ¼ cup vegetable oil<br />
• 1¼ cup whole wheat flour<br />
• 3 tsp baking powder<br />
• ½ tsp salt<br />
• ⅓ cup chopped walnuts<br />
INSTRUCTIONS<br />
Combine bran, milk and maple syrup. Mix in egg and oil. Combine<br />
remaining ingredients and add first mixture to this until just<br />
moistened. Spoon batter into greased muffin tins. Bake at 400 F for 20<br />
minutes. GBK<br />
Recipes courtesy Foodland Ontario<br />
INSTRUCTIONS<br />
Sprinkle topping evenly over muffins and press lightly into batter.<br />
Bake in 375 F oven for 20 to 25 minutes or until toothpick inserted in<br />
centre comes out clean.<br />
Cool pan on wire rack for five minutes. Remove muffins to wire rack<br />
to cool.<br />
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