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A FREE MAGAZINE FOR<br />

PARENTS AND CAREGIVERS<br />

WINTER <strong>2022</strong>/23 • Volume 11 Issue 4 • greybrucekids.com<br />

Holiday<br />

EATING<br />

Enjoy food traditions<br />

without feeling guilty<br />

You OK,<br />

Mom?<br />

Dealing with<br />

motherhood<br />

burnout<br />

RISKY<br />

BUSINESS<br />

Taking risks actually<br />

protects kids over time<br />

FREE!


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Trained and educated professionals help children learn and develop<br />

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FROM THE PUBLISHER<br />

Soak in the season<br />

Every year the pages of the calendar seem to flip more quickly. At one moment<br />

it’s a hot summer’s day and then you blink and it’s Christmas.<br />

As the saying goes, “The days are long but the years are short,” and there are<br />

no truer words when you are raising children. Now that those calendars are<br />

back to looking like they did pre-COVID – with parents back at work, kids<br />

in school or daycare, and everyone running to the arena, ball diamond, pool,<br />

music class and everything in between – time seems to be flying.<br />

At this time of year, I try to reflect and take that quote to heart; to enjoy<br />

the time with our kids, embrace the busyness of the season, and enjoy the<br />

monotony of being in the trenches of parenting. Trying to embrace these<br />

moments while keeping one’s sanity and living your own life is a challenge, and<br />

Lesley Johnston gives some great tips in her article “You OK, Mom?” which<br />

looks at recognizing burnout and how to care for yourself.<br />

We also have an informative article from the <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit on<br />

healthy eating habits during the holiday season, and a history lesson from <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Roots Museum on the area’s Black settlers.<br />

Michele Bischof shares her expertise about encouraging resilience in children,<br />

while Paula Brunkard writes about the benefits of risky play.<br />

Although <strong>2022</strong> was not without its challenges, specifically affecting <strong>Grey</strong>-Bruce<br />

Kids in the form of industry-wide paper shortages and limited printer capacity,<br />

we are committed to publishing this magazine every quarter, and I thank<br />

all our readers, writers and advertisers who supported us in <strong>2022</strong>. We look<br />

forward to continuing to inform and entertain local parents in 2023.<br />

I wish everyone a safe and healthy holiday season and prosperous New Year –<br />

be sure to take the time to soak it all in!<br />

CONTENTS<br />

4 Mom burnout<br />

8 Black settlers of <strong>Grey</strong><br />

14 Thriving kids<br />

18 Guilt-free food traditions<br />

22 Risky business<br />

26 Resources<br />

30 Recipes<br />

Amy Irwin, Publisher<br />

WINTER <strong>2022</strong>/23<br />

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FAMILY<br />

You OK, Mom?<br />

MOTHERHOOD BURNOUT AND POST-PANDEMIC LIFE<br />

BY LESLEY JOHNSTON<br />

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The last few years have not been kind to mothers. At the<br />

beginning of the pandemic and lockdowns, moms were<br />

asked to take on more tasks and responsibilities while<br />

simultaneously working from home, parenting full-time, helping<br />

children with online schooling, doing post-partum life alone,<br />

and/or experiencing significant financial constraints.<br />

With this increase in expectations we saw a distinct rise in<br />

depression and anxiety symptoms. Over two million mothers<br />

left the workforce in 2020 to be available for the mountain of<br />

responsibilities piled on top of their day-to-day life. Perhaps now<br />

some time has passed and we have a bit more perspective, we<br />

can re-evaluate societal norms and governmental expectations<br />

that put mothers in this lose-lose situation. Until those<br />

conversations happen, let’s talk about what we do to repair the<br />

mental-emotional damage many women suffered.<br />

We’ve now spent nearly three years rewiring our nervous systems<br />

to be on high alert. We’ve moved into a space where we are<br />

more triggered, not sleeping as well, quick to anger, and rarely<br />

alone. Now that life is returning to some sort of normalcy,<br />

it’s important to recognize the current state of our health<br />

and nourish our bodies, minds and souls from the long-term<br />

consequences of burnout. This brings us to the concept of the<br />

‘Window of Tolerance.’ This term is based off of the Polyvagal<br />

Theory of nervous system regulation. The diagram on Page 6<br />

provides a wonderful visualization to show us how our nervous<br />

systems work.<br />

When we are in a grounded, neutral and regulated state, we are<br />

within our Window of Tolerance. This window will get wider<br />

or narrower depending on our life experiences. Over the past<br />

two years, a mother experiencing chronic stress, trauma or<br />

burnout will narrow her window, making it easier to become<br />

dysregulated and subsequently fall into either a hyperarousal<br />

state or a hypoarousal state.<br />

Hyperarousal is seen as a state of anxiety, jitteriness, anger and<br />

fight-or-flight. She can’t sit still, there are way too many things<br />

on her plate, she has difficulty sleeping due to racing thoughts,<br />

and she feels that if she were to let anything slip, the weight of<br />

the world would come crashing down. She almost booked that<br />

flight for somewhere tropical because running away just seemed<br />

like the best way to stop the madness.<br />

Hypoarousal is more of a depressed state. She seeks numbing<br />

techniques such as bingeing TV, scrolling social media, eating,<br />

excess sleeping, or anything that takes her out of the present<br />

moment and prevents her from thinking about what needs to be<br />

done. She is extremely tired, yet sleep isn’t restorative, and she<br />

has no motivation to do anything or go anywhere. She wouldn’t<br />

be labeled with depression; she simply doesn’t care as much.<br />

GET BACK IN THE WINDOW<br />

Identifying our current state is the first step to becoming<br />

better regulated and to begin feeling like ourselves again.<br />

Techniques such as meditation, journalling, nature time, seeking<br />

professional help or therapy, and setting stronger boundaries<br />

can be used successfully in expanding our Window of Tolerance,<br />

when used consistently.<br />

Let’s talk about the more subtle basics of healing our nervous<br />

systems. They include:<br />

CONNECTION<br />

When chaos ensues, we are too busy putting out fires to<br />

connect with ourselves. In fact, we have put ourselves last for<br />

so long that the thought of “connecting to ourselves” carries<br />

little meaning. Nevertheless, this connection is the foundation<br />

for creating all the other healthy habits that re-regulate our<br />

nervous system. This means understanding who we are,<br />

what is triggering us, what old stories are still influencing us,<br />

what brings us the most energy and fulfillment, and who we<br />

authentically are. If we don’t know ourselves, it becomes very<br />

difficult to know our core values or what motivates us to do<br />

the things we do, think the things we think, and be the way we<br />

are. It then becomes challenging to create strong boundaries,<br />

healthy habits and an abundant mindset.<br />

One of the best ways to reconnect to ourselves is to spend time<br />

in solitude. However, a common theme in motherhood is that<br />

we’re never truly alone. We can create 10 or 15 minute breaks<br />

of quiet time, but usually we’re occupied by thoughts of grocery<br />

lists, throwing a load of laundry in, running a solo errand or<br />

organizing something. This is not solitude. Also, solitude to<br />

a hyperarousal state can feel incredibly uncomfortable at first<br />

because the thought of doing nothing, or just “being,” feels<br />

unproductive or even dangerous.<br />

Think of it like stopping to do nothing while being chased by<br />

a bear – your nervous system may see this as threatening and<br />

irresponsible, and respond accordingly.<br />

Knowing this, we must first dip our toe into solitude, reminding<br />

ourselves that time alone is quality time that allows us to get<br />

to know ourselves more deeply. Solitude consists of extended<br />

periods of time spent in communion with ourselves. Nothing<br />

is to be accomplished except our complete presence in the<br />

moment. It is a time where we are only responsible for ourselves,<br />

our thoughts and our needs. It’s the space needed to hear our<br />

deepest desires and provide clarity on who we want to become.<br />

It may help to journal during this time or to put on music<br />

and see where the moment takes us. When we get a bit more<br />

comfortable, trying new solo adventures like a new hobby,<br />

recipe, hiking trail; all are really beneficial for strengthening the<br />

connection to self. From this connected state, we begin to make<br />

better decisions, we are able to ask for the support we need and<br />

we are able to say no to the tasks, events and people that aren’t<br />

aligned with our values.<br />

Connection also extends to the support system around us,<br />

people who know us best and have our backs; the folks we can<br />

turn to without judgment and allow into our inner world.<br />

During pandemic life, every person was dealing with their<br />

own high levels of stress, so asking for help from others felt<br />

impossible. This lack of support and social distancing left<br />

us feeling like we were alone in our struggles. Connection<br />

with other humans is a biological need and one we can’t take<br />

lightly. We need affection. We need conversation. We need<br />

love from others and we need to feel seen, heard and known.<br />

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According to the National Institute on Aging, the health risks<br />

of prolonged isolation are equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a<br />

day. Social isolation and loneliness have even been estimated to<br />

shorten a person’s life span by as many as 15 years. Bottom line,<br />

we need people. Yes social media, and the Internet, has made it<br />

easier to “connect” with people around the world, but nothing<br />

takes the place of a heart-to-heart hug!<br />

PRIORITIZING YOUR HEALTH<br />

In my practice, the first questions I ask patients are, “How is<br />

your sleep, tell me about your diet, do you exercise, how are<br />

your bowel movements, and are you exposed to any chemicals<br />

or toxins regularly?” These five questions can tell me a lot about<br />

what’s going on in a person’s body, how they may respond to<br />

stress, and where their nervous systems are being influenced.<br />

To get back into our healthy, grounded Window of Tolerance<br />

state, we have to look at the whole body and tweak certain<br />

daily habits to create better physical health.<br />

For example:<br />

• Choose nutrient-dense foods, fewer processed foods, and<br />

hydrate properly to maintain good gut health. A healthy<br />

gut has a feedback loop to the brain to help with anxiety,<br />

depression, mental health triggers and improving mood.<br />

• Proper sleep hygiene and prioritizing sleep ahead of “one<br />

more show on Netflix” or “20 more minutes on Instagram”<br />

is important to regulate your hormones, nervous system,<br />

digestion and weight.<br />

• Limiting your toxin exposure from beauty products,<br />

cleaning products, environmental sources and certain foods<br />

(dyes, chemicals) will help to keep your liver and other<br />

detoxification pathways working efficiently, and prevent<br />

chronic diseases and inflammation.<br />

• Prioritizing physical activity and movement can reduce<br />

anxiety levels, provide time and space to process our day,<br />

and relieve any tension caused by too much sitting.<br />

The brain and body are tightly connected and yet our physical<br />

health is often the first area that gets neglected or deprioritized<br />

when we are burnt out.<br />

BE PRESENT, PAY ATTENTION<br />

Yes we’ve heard over and over how important it is to stay<br />

present, enjoy the moment, etc. However, when we are in a state<br />

of exhausted burnout, this doesn’t feel like an option. What I’m<br />

referring to is the realization that we actually don’t have anything<br />

but the present moment. The future has not been created yet, so<br />

worrying about the future and being in fear robs us of enjoying<br />

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the present moment (the pandemic did an awesome job of<br />

throwing every human on the planet into fear and hijacking our<br />

nervous systems, collectively).<br />

Similarly, if we’re constantly thinking about the past and<br />

feeling guilty about what we did or didn’t do, this robs us of<br />

our ability to be happy in the moment. Staying present can be<br />

very difficult for a stressed out mind. The mind tells us that if<br />

we aren’t thinking about all the things we have to do and the<br />

lists we need to keep track of, it’s possible that everything will<br />

fall apart and subsequently our loved ones will suffer for it.<br />

The mind also likes to keep track of all the mistakes we’ve ever<br />

made and keep us locked in this feeling of unworthiness, which<br />

of course is detrimental to our mental health.<br />

Instead, I challenge you to stay right here, right now – in this<br />

moment. Look around and take stock of your surroundings<br />

as you read this. Can you bring some lighter energy into this<br />

moment? Can you think of a thought that is a little softer or<br />

gentler on your nervous system? Can you simply unclench your<br />

jaw and notice how the body has been craving a deep breath?<br />

Can you appreciate where you are in life, all that you have and<br />

who is in your corner?<br />

Staying present gives us the ability to understand ourselves<br />

more fully and extend gratitude for everything and everyone in<br />

our lives.<br />

OK, now that we have a chance to take a deep breath, let’s<br />

bring some much-needed compassion to what we’ve been<br />

through these past two years, allowing ourselves the space and<br />

time to simply ‘be’ and heal. Whether that means that we are<br />

sad, mad, tired, frustrated, irritated or relieved, it’s important<br />

to feel how we feel without burying, numbing or downplaying<br />

the emotions. We need to give ourselves permission and space<br />

to feel it all. Be gentle as we heal from what was likely the most<br />

stressful time of our adult lives, and know we aren’t alone in<br />

this process.<br />

Healing the nervous system from burnout will be ongoing.<br />

Healing takes place in the small daily choices we make to<br />

nourish ourselves, find more peace, and say yes to the things that<br />

bring us joy. GBK<br />

References:<br />

More than 2 million moms left the labour force in 2020 according<br />

to new global estimates | UN Women Data Hub Feb 21, <strong>2022</strong><br />

Loneliness and Social Isolation - Tips on staying connected<br />

Loneliness and Social Isolation — Tips for Staying Connected |<br />

National Institute on Aging (nih.gov) Jan 14, 2021<br />

LESLEY JOHNSTON is a Naturopathic Doctor turned health strategist<br />

that helps moms live a truly simple and abundant life. She is an<br />

advocate for maternal mental health and supports women in creating a<br />

deeper connection to herself and her family. Learn more at<br />

www.simplelifenaturopathic.com.<br />

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COMMUNITY<br />

Building <strong>Grey</strong><br />

County<br />

BLACK CITIZENS HELPED SHAPE THE REGION’S EARLY SETTLEMENT<br />

BY STEPHANIE McMULLEN AND ZAK ERB<br />

Black citizens have been part of <strong>Grey</strong> County since the first non-Indigenous settlers<br />

arrived in the northernmost part of the Queen’s Bush. Some of these early pioneers<br />

were born in Canada, while others had only recently slipped the bonds of slavery in the<br />

Upper South.<br />

All contributed significantly to the settlement of southern Ontario.<br />

After a long and arduous journey to freedom, the escaped slaves arrived to discover<br />

even greater challenges awaited them. Racism, insecurity, and uncertainty in border<br />

cities often propelled people to move further north into Ontario. Indeed, one of<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County’s most prominent early Black citizens, John Hall, had been born in<br />

Amherstburg, Ont., but was captured in a border raid as a young man and sold into<br />

slavery in Kentucky.<br />

Several important Black settlements existed in <strong>Grey</strong> County, including Nenagh and<br />

Virginia (now Ceylon) in the southern part of the county, Artemesia Township, around<br />

Holland Centre, and Owen Sound in the north. The small village of Priceville in<br />

southern <strong>Grey</strong> County sprang to life very early in settlement history. Among its early<br />

pioneers were free Black citizens and escaped slaves. Many of these individuals practiced<br />

trades, although a good number of them also farmed the land.<br />

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Morton Family. [c. 189-] - [c. 190-]<br />

Wilson Woodbeck (left) and George Woodbeck.<br />

[c. 192-] - [c. 194-]<br />

The vibrant Priceville community flourished initially.<br />

European immigration during the 1850s changed the district<br />

dramatically. While some families struggled to hold on to<br />

their lands, the new arrivals often forced Black residents out<br />

and many made their way to Collingwood, Owen Sound and<br />

elsewhere. By 1930, little evidence remained in Priceville of the<br />

early Black settlement, except for their gravestones, until a white<br />

farmer decided to remove the gravestones and plant potatoes on<br />

the land. The quest to uncover the early history of Priceville and<br />

restore the cemetery has taken the better part of 70 years.<br />

In central <strong>Grey</strong> County, south of Williamsford, the fertile land<br />

along Negro Creek and Negro Lake attracted pioneers in the<br />

mid-19th Century. Free of some of the discrimination found in<br />

more developed areas of southern Ontario, the district became<br />

home to some 50 Black families by 1851. The name Negro<br />

Creek appeared on Patents Plan No. 46 for Holland Township,<br />

on Dec. 29, 1851, indicating that the community was well<br />

established by that time.<br />

Although few of the original Black pioneer families remain<br />

in the area today, some of their descendants can be found in<br />

neighbouring communities. The Earll, Douglas, Miller and<br />

Bowie families, among others, cleared forests and ploughed<br />

fields around Negro Creek and Negro Lake.<br />

“Mudtown” was the name given to a section of Owen Sound<br />

north of 18th St. E., along 3rd Ave. The limestone bluffs east of<br />

the factories tended to have water run-off and mud slides in the<br />

spring, choking the streets in this low-lying area with mud. This,<br />

along with the poor state of roads and sidewalks, gave the area<br />

its name.<br />

Black residents first moved to Mudtown in the 1880s. The<br />

Polson shipyard employed many workmen, and the sudden<br />

influx of workers necessitated affordable housing. Some<br />

landowners built small houses near the shipyard and labeled<br />

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the area “Polsonville.” As other factories opened along the east<br />

shore of Owen Sound, workers who could not afford horses<br />

(and later, cars) lived in the area so they could be close to their<br />

workplaces. In 1920, a contest was held to rename Mudtown.<br />

The official name chosen was “Northcliffe,” in honour of a<br />

British statesman. However, residents continued to refer to the<br />

neighbourhood as Mudtown.<br />

Surnames from a 1932 directory show that many Black families<br />

lived in Mudtown. Names like Douglas, Booey, Scott, Morton,<br />

and Earlls. Douglass Street, which is now 8th Ave. E., north of<br />

16th St., bore the name of the first family to settle in the area<br />

– the African-Canadian Douglass family lent their name to the<br />

road.<br />

In the early-20th Century, Owen Sound developed as a thriving<br />

hub on the Great Lakes. Factories lined the city’s harbour,<br />

employing hundreds of residents. Black workers often faced<br />

hiring discrimination, particularly in difficult economic times.<br />

Seasonal employment was available on the ships of the Great<br />

Lakes, which berthed frequently in Owen Sound. Black men<br />

often worked as deckhands or cooks, while Black women<br />

sometimes joined their husbands on the boats, in the kitchens or<br />

in housekeeping.<br />

Many enterprising individuals made names for themselves in<br />

the community. William Henry Harrison established his career<br />

as a quarryman in Owen Sound during an important era of<br />

civic construction. Locally, Harrison worked on the First Baptist<br />

Church, St. Mary’s Separate School, cement plants, and several<br />

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Mudtown east side of Owen Sound near the harbour (c. 1925).<br />

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local stores. In addition to local work, Harrison shipped stone<br />

across the country, including for the locks at Sault Ste. Marie.<br />

The Cousby family displayed remarkable ingenuity and<br />

resourcefulness in Owen Sound’s early business community.<br />

Jeremiah’s Confectionery enjoyed great popularity, in large<br />

part due to the ice cream and Coca-Cola that his main street<br />

store offered. Cousby’s confectionery was the first to sell the<br />

carbonated beverage in the city. In 1907, Jeremiah was voted<br />

the most popular merchant in Owen Sound. Jeremiah’s son,<br />

Jeremiah Jr. (Jerry), learned from his father’s example and<br />

applied himself to his studies. Jerry Cousby practiced law, and<br />

co-owned the local newspaper, the Owen Sound Sun (1897-<br />

99), before seeking his fortune in the Alaskan frontier.<br />

Some community members achieved high levels of musical<br />

success, including opera singer Wilson Woodbeck, and<br />

musician/actor Tommy Earlls. The Sea Island Merry-Makers<br />

knew great popularity on the local scene in the mid-20th<br />

Century. Church life, and an active social community,<br />

including groups such as the Black (Prince Hall) Masons and<br />

the Daughters of the Eastern Star, ensured that the local Black<br />

community could find and draw strength from one another,<br />

while participating in the larger community.<br />

​<strong>Grey</strong> County’s Black heritage stretches back to the early days<br />

of settlement. Controversy, challenge, and triumph mark the<br />

paths of individuals, and Black communities. The legacy of<br />

William Henry Harrison with son James. [c.<br />

190-]<br />

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Reverend Henry Cousby. [c. 186-] -<br />

[c. 187-]<br />

earlier generations lives on at Negro Creek, Priceville, Owen<br />

Sound, and elsewhere in <strong>Grey</strong> County, as modern citizens work<br />

to ensure the contributions of these important pioneers are not<br />

forgotten. GBK<br />

STEPHANIE McMULLEN is the Community Historian at <strong>Grey</strong> Roots<br />

Museum & Archives. She has enjoyed a varied career at the museum,<br />

beginning in 1999. After earning an MA in history from the University<br />

of Calgary, Stephanie worked at the Mackenzie King Estate and the<br />

Canadian Museum of Civilization before arriving at the County of<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>-Owen Sound Museum, now <strong>Grey</strong> Roots Museum & Archives.<br />

ZAK ERB is a freelance writer and photographer contributing to<br />

numerous publications in <strong>Grey</strong>, Bruce and Simcoe counties. Since<br />

2021, he has served as Public Relations Coordinator for <strong>Grey</strong> Roots<br />

Museum & Archives.<br />

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HEALTH<br />

EMPOWERING KIDS<br />

to thrive<br />

RESILIENCE HELPS CHILDREN BE SUCCESSFUL<br />

BY MICHELE BISCHOF


Growing up in Bruce County, I like to give back by sharing<br />

why I’m so passionate about empowering kids to thrive<br />

and what I have done to help my kids in challenging times.<br />

Being a mom of three has been my greatest blessing and my<br />

biggest challenge in life. My children are my greatest teachers<br />

and have taught me some invaluable life lessons.<br />

As parents, we want our children to grow up well – to be happy<br />

and confident in who they are, and to have healthy relationships<br />

with themselves, peers, and teachers. We want them to be<br />

successful in school and in their careers, and to live a healthy<br />

life and one that they love. Our children look up to us for<br />

guidance, encouragement, support, and love, and our role is to<br />

provide access to activities that enable the child to grow both<br />

emotionally and mentally.<br />

As parents, it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day busyness<br />

of our lives, and we can forget to focus on the present moment<br />

that can make the greatest impact in our children’s life. When<br />

we focus on the good, the good gets better. When we are happy,<br />

our children are happy.<br />

A few years ago, while out shopping, I saw an art piece that<br />

instantly touched my heart. It said, “The most important<br />

work you will ever do will be within the walls of your home.”<br />

Immediately, my mind flooded with thoughts, and I knew I had<br />

to have it.<br />

What better reminder is there for a parent or caregiver than<br />

this? It’s a perfect reminder for me in any season of my life that<br />

being a mom is a privilege and my responsibility. Put simply,<br />

everything starts at home and it’s where we build the foundation<br />

together with our children.<br />

While it does indeed take a village to raise a child, the best<br />

starting point is at home, with parents. It is essential for children<br />

to develop deep, strong roots through positive relationships with<br />

their parents and to be supported by other significant adults<br />

and peers so their resilience will carry them successfully into the<br />

future.<br />

With everything going on in the world today, and with mental<br />

health issues on the rise, there’s no better time to work together<br />

to build a solid foundation for our kids’ continued success now<br />

and in the future. It’s our responsibility to help our children<br />

develop resiliency skills so they can confidently navigate the<br />

world.<br />

WHAT IS RESILIENCE?<br />

Resilience is the ability to bounce back after challenges and<br />

tough times. Resilience develops when children experience<br />

challenges and learn healthy ways to navigate through adversity.<br />

Resilience is often described as the “invisible superpower” like a<br />

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A resilient child:<br />

• Feels confident, optimistic and empowered.<br />

• Shows empathy towards the feelings of others, as well as<br />

their own.<br />

• Sets realistic goals and expectations for themselves.<br />

• Uses healthy coping strategies and tools when challenges<br />

arise.<br />

• Sees challenges as opportunities.<br />

• Sees mistakes as a way of learning and not failure.<br />

• Has a strong sense of who they are and asks for help when<br />

needed.<br />

• Knows what they can and cannot control in their lives.<br />

• Often actively involved in sports, mentoring, and leadership<br />

activities.<br />

WHY IS RESILIENCE IMPORTANT?<br />

There are certain things in life we cannot change, but one thing<br />

we can change is our perception of the situation. Many of us<br />

weren’t taught as children about emotional flexibility and how<br />

to be more comfortable with whatever emotions we are feeling.<br />

Instead we learned how to resist or avoid our emotions and keep<br />

them bottled inside.<br />

We will always have both good stress and bad stress, but it’s<br />

important to learn to manage it in a positive healthy way. I<br />

believe that if we teach our children how to build their resilience<br />

earlier in life, their ability to adapt to change and be resilient in<br />

the face of adversity would increase and help them in the long<br />

run.<br />

Research has shown that resilience is an essential factor in<br />

determining which children will adapt and who will thrive in<br />

challenging times. Resilient children are able to problem solve<br />

better and look for the solution to the problem rather than focus<br />

on the problem itself. They have an optimistic mindset when<br />

faced with challenging situations and are able to see how the<br />

problem may have helped them. Instead of looking externally<br />

for answers they will have the confidence to look within and<br />

trust the answers that they get.<br />

They are also more likely to find healthy ways to cope with stress<br />

and release their feelings by doing things like going for a walk<br />

or listening to calming music, or talking about how they feel<br />

instead of turning to alcohol or drugs and avoiding situations.<br />

Kids face real pressures socially, academically, and mentally and<br />

it’s up to us to help our kids develop resiliency skills at a young<br />

age that will grow with them into adulthood.<br />

Building on our children’s strengths rather than their weaknesses<br />

leads to positive mindset changes that will empower them to see<br />

their true potential instead of what they perceive they lack. This<br />

strengthens their resilience mindset, so they feel confident in<br />

being able to handle anything that comes their way. All children<br />

are capable of extraordinary things. The potential for happiness<br />

and greatness lies in each one of them. We can’t change that they<br />

will face challenges along the way, but we can help them develop<br />

resiliency skills, so these challenges don’t break them.<br />

While the journey of each child is uniquely shaped, I share with<br />

you the following 10 things that have helped my children grow<br />

their resiliency superpower.<br />

See the potential in your child. Every child is unique and has<br />

their own potential. As parents, we want what is best for our<br />

children, but sometimes we overprotect them and give them the<br />

answers before they even have a chance to think about it, as we<br />

try to mitigate all of life’s challenges. Focus on their strengths<br />

and what they are doing well, and encourage them to think<br />

outside the box and guide them to brainstorm ways to problem<br />

solve.<br />

Parent-child connection. The connection between a child and<br />

their parents is just like a house that needs a solid foundation<br />

– built on trust and love. This helps them develop trust, selfesteem,<br />

and confidence in themselves and others. Kids won’t<br />

always notice the people who are in their corner cheering them<br />

on, so when you can, let them know about the people in their<br />

fan club and tell them often how proud you are of them.<br />

Promote learning from mistakes. It can be hard as a parent to<br />

watch your child make mistakes, but we have to resist the urge<br />

to step in and save them. Let them make their own mistakes and<br />

give them the space to try to resolve it on their own first. If they<br />

ask for help, let them know that they did not fail and help them<br />

brainstorm solutions of how they could approach the situation<br />

differently. Children need to know that making mistakes does<br />

not define who they are, but rather it helps them grow.<br />

Healthy emotions. Children need to learn how to express<br />

their feelings and emotions in healthy ways. Holding in stress<br />

only harms their mental and physical health. Give your child<br />

the freedom to express their emotions and feel safe sharing<br />

them instead of keeping those negative feelings bottled inside.<br />

Emotions are simply “energy in motion,” so encourage your<br />

child to move their body to help release any negative emotions<br />

they’re feeling. Exercise or movement such as a walk or dancing<br />

will release good endorphins or “happy brain chemicals” that<br />

will have an immediate mood-boosting effect.<br />

Celebrate your child’s wins along the way. Each step in the<br />

right direction is an achievement regardless of how big or small<br />

it is. Recognize their accomplishments and show praise at each<br />

moment. This builds their self-confidence and self-esteem and<br />

motivates them to keep going and setting new goals to work<br />

towards.<br />

It’s OK to ask for help. Children will often have the idea that<br />

being brave is about dealing with things by themselves. Let them<br />

know that being brave and strong means knowing when to ask<br />

for help too. Sometimes they just need someone to listen to<br />

them so they can express their feelings.<br />

Trust your gut. We all have intuition – like a deep gut feeling,<br />

or a sudden thought, or a strong sense of knowing something.<br />

It’s like an internal compass, a GPS that’s always with them,<br />

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and it’s there to help them make decisions, keep them safe and<br />

guide them in the right direction. Teach your child that when<br />

they feel easy and comfortable with a decision that means it’s<br />

usually the right one, and when they feel tense and unsure, it’s<br />

best to wait or make a different decision. This will help children<br />

build self-awareness and resiliency by going with their gut<br />

feeling and not relying on what others do or say.<br />

The power of positivity. Positive thinking is a powerful healthy<br />

coping tool that helps to build resilience in a child. Positive<br />

thinking is a mental attitude that perceives situations in a<br />

constructive way. If your child is sad or upset about something,<br />

always acknowledge and honour a negative situation or feeling<br />

and then help your child see it in a way that is positive and<br />

productive.<br />

Practice mindfulness and meditation. Meditation helps<br />

children connect their mind to their body and get in touch<br />

with their present emotions and feelings. Meditation, even if<br />

only for a few minutes, will help children work through hard<br />

feelings, and process and learn from them. Focus on breath<br />

and body connection. Simply noticing their belly move up<br />

and down as they take deep breaths helps to build these skills<br />

and reduces stress and anxiety resulting in a more relaxed and<br />

calming energy.<br />

Make gratitude a habit. Making gratitude a habit reminds<br />

us of our blessings, and it can also help children focus on the<br />

small stuff in life that we often take for granted. Maybe it’s<br />

making a gratitude jar or daily journalling about something<br />

they are grateful for, or maybe it’s simply showing appreciation<br />

to others, but children who practice gratitude are happier and<br />

show more compassion and kindness towards themselves and<br />

others.<br />

As parents and caregivers, it’s natural to want nothing, but the<br />

very best for your children. We want them to be happy, healthy,<br />

independent and confident as they take on the world. Helping<br />

them to build a resilience mindset early will provide children<br />

with the foundation they need. The benefits of being resilient<br />

are like tentacles that will thread through every aspect of your<br />

child’s life, including their relationships, learning ability, selfesteem<br />

and confidence. It is really an invaluable gift to give<br />

them. Let’s empower our kids to thrive! GBK<br />

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HEALTH<br />

Enjoy food<br />

TRADITIONS<br />

without guilt<br />

DIET CULTURE GIVES US WRONG IMPRESSION<br />

OF OUR CELEBRATIONS BY LAURA NEEDHAM<br />

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December, for many in <strong>Grey</strong>/Bruce, marks the return of the<br />

holiday season. This is the time of year when we gather<br />

with those we care about, surrounded by an array of foods.<br />

These festive foods are central to many traditions, but do they<br />

negatively impact our overall health?<br />

Canada’s Food Guide recommends enjoying our food and eating<br />

with others. Many parents, however, worry that the holidays<br />

will derail their efforts to plan, prepare, and serve their families<br />

nutritious meals and snacks. Many may ask, what are the<br />

lifelong health impacts?<br />

Certainly, food contributes to our health and well-being in<br />

many ways. The nutrients in food give our bodies the building<br />

blocks they need to grow, develop, and thrive. Both physical and<br />

mental health can be affected by the nutrients we need in food<br />

over time. However, food is more than nutrients and health is<br />

more than the absence of disease.<br />

Through our food, we can build or maintain connections to<br />

others, share traditions and culture, protect our environment,<br />

and express our creativity.<br />

These connections with loved ones, culture, and environment<br />

also support our physical, mental, and social well-being.<br />

Diet culture has led us to believe that our food traditions<br />

and celebrations are a danger to our well-being rather than a<br />

support.<br />

This season, I encourage all parents and caregivers to consider<br />

their family’s relationship with food and gift their child with the<br />

skills for building a positive relationship with food.<br />

NUTRIENTS AND CONNECTIONS<br />

Holiday food traditions provide us with nutrients and<br />

connections.<br />

Many traditional foods may be high in sugar or saturated fat.<br />

Diet culture is a system of beliefs that teaches us that some body<br />

sizes are more worthy than others and that health may only be<br />

achieved through restriction. It also teaches us that weight is<br />

the best indicator of health and good character. Sharing food<br />

traditions without guilt or labels is one way families can combat<br />

diet culture and promote healthy relationships with food.<br />

The holidays are a perfect time to invite kids into the kitchen to<br />

help cook and bake, teach them food skills, and pass on family<br />

traditions. Kids of all ages can help with a variety of<br />

tasks in the kitchen. Young children can<br />

safely help wash fresh produce or<br />

sort ingredients. As they grow,<br />

adults can introduce new skills<br />

like measuring, mixing,<br />

counting, reading recipes,<br />

and cutting or chopping<br />

foods.<br />

With each new skill, your<br />

child’s confidence and<br />

comfort in the kitchen can<br />

grow. Creating these positive moments around food will help<br />

build their resilience and support their mental well-being now<br />

and in the future.<br />

Being aware of the messages kids hear about food is also critical<br />

to establishing a healthy relationship with food. It is easy for us<br />

all to fall into a habit of labelling food as healthy or unhealthy,<br />

good or bad, or speaking about needing to ‘work off’ a meal.<br />

Instead, try to role model mindful eating and positive foodtalk.<br />

Avoiding value statements (eg. healthy, junk, treat) will<br />

prevent picky eating since food will no longer be seen as a<br />

reward or punishment. When you speak about food, focus on its<br />

characteristics like taste, texture, colour, or cultural uses. Some<br />

foods may be bright and colourful, others may sweet, salty, or<br />

crunchy. By encouraging children to explore the various tastes<br />

and textures of food, you are building their food literacy and<br />

preventing picky eating.<br />

ENCOURAGE POSITIVE MEALTIMES<br />

To encourage positive mealtimes, you can ask them to help plan<br />

or prepare their meals and snacks. Sometimes, simply asking,<br />

“Would you rather have beans or broccoli at dinner today?” can<br />

make all the difference for a peaceful mealtime.<br />

When food is just food, meal times can respect the ‘Division of<br />

Responsibility’ as recommended by experts. Parents can focus<br />

on offering a variety of foods, where and when it is appropriate.<br />

Allow your child to learn to listen to their body’s hunger and<br />

fullness cues by respecting their responsibility to choose whether<br />

and how much to eat. If they choose not to eat a certain<br />

item, do not worry and avoid pressuring them. Instead of<br />

commenting on their food choices, share how you are enjoying<br />

your meal or ask if they would like to save part of their meal<br />

for later. If it is something they are not interested in eating, do<br />

not make a replacement. Remember, it is your responsibility to<br />

choose what is served and theirs to choose how much to eat.<br />

Often parents who are new to this approach are concerned that<br />

their child will skip dinner and only eat dessert. There are a few<br />

ways to manage this. Consider serving dessert with dinner –<br />

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whether your dessert is some fruit or ice cream, serving it at the same time will keep it<br />

from becoming a reward for finishing dinner. If they finish their dessert before eating<br />

their dinner that is OK, when they are still hungry they can return to their dinner.<br />

Second servings do not have to be available for all foods.<br />

Most children will start hearing messages about food and health very early in life.<br />

When asked about the health impacts of certain foods, tailor your comments to<br />

your child’s age, but continue to avoid value labels. For example, you may tell a<br />

young child that carrots and other bright orange vegetables help our eyes see in<br />

the dark. As they get older, you can explore the names and benefits of different<br />

nutrients like Vitamin A. All foods contribute to our nutritional intake. Protein<br />

foods like eggs, meat, fish, beans, and milk help our muscles and make us feel<br />

full until our next meal or snack. Sugary foods provide fast energy, when we have<br />

protein foods with sugary foods, we get the energy we need and we will stay full<br />

until our next meal or snack.<br />

DISCUSS DIET MESSAGING<br />

Talk to your kids about the weight and diet messages they see and hear. Help them<br />

be aware of how social media and marketing is used to make them want to eat<br />

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certain foods and look a certain way. Explain that this is about<br />

making money and is not about what is best for our bodies or<br />

our mental well-being. Help them learn from their positive food<br />

experiences rather than these messages. The best way to decrease<br />

the influence of food marketing is to reduce our exposure, but it<br />

is not possible to avoid it entirely.<br />

Marketing exists in print ads, food packaging, and billboards.<br />

It is hidden in product placement, social media influencers and<br />

pop-up ads. Reducing screen time can minimize our exposure<br />

and reading food labels can help cut through marketing<br />

messages to better understand food products. Remember that<br />

food marketing is not limited to telling us what to buy; the diet<br />

industry also tells us that we must restrict.<br />

Make sure that you are also having conversations about body<br />

diversity. Help kids see that bodies come in many different<br />

shapes and sizes and that we cannot know about a person’s<br />

behaviours, health, or character based on their appearance.<br />

Weight is the top source of bullying. Children need to know<br />

that their value is not tied to a body shape or size. Weight bias<br />

can be found in all settings including at home, school, and in<br />

health care. Try being aware when your child may be hearing<br />

judgmental language about body shape or size and counter these<br />

messages to prevent unhealthy coping strategies like extreme<br />

dieting, disordered eating and eating disorders.<br />

This holiday season share your food traditions and skills<br />

without guilt or judgment. All children deserve to have a<br />

healthy relationship with food and their bodies. Laying a strong<br />

foundation now will nourish their bodies and minds, help them<br />

grow resilient to harmful diet culture, and protect their wellbeing<br />

far better than restricting their food choices ever can. GBK<br />

LAURA NEEDHAM BASc, MPH, RD, is a public health dietitian with the<br />

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FAMILY<br />

RISKY<br />

BUSINESS<br />

ALLOWING YOUR CHILD TO TAKE RISK ACTUALLY<br />

PROTECTS THEM BY PAULA BRUNKARD


In the mid-70s, Robert Munsch, then an Early Childhood<br />

Educator, began creating oral stories to entertain the children<br />

in his care. One of his first stories was called Mud Puddle.<br />

In this story, the young girl, Jule Anne, gets filthy every time<br />

she goes outside to play, claiming a mud puddle keeps jumping<br />

on her. This story became one of his first published books and<br />

continues to delight children around the world (Munsch, 2012).<br />

Hidden in the story’s humour is an important message – the<br />

chance to wander outdoors and the joy of experimenting with<br />

mud and dirt are becoming freedoms of the past. Parental and<br />

societal concerns about keeping children safe have increased<br />

over the past few decades, causing children to spend far less<br />

time playing outdoors (Pimento & Kernested, 2019, p352).<br />

Children’s outdoor play has been replaced with indoor activities<br />

and organized sports, causing our current generation to be more<br />

scheduled, stressed, and involved in adult-directed activities,<br />

resulting in what specialists are calling ‘play deprivation’ (Dietze<br />

& Kashin, 2019, p37).<br />

Research indicates that play is critical to the healthy<br />

development of children. Play helps them develop physically,<br />

mentally, emotionally, and socially (Pimento & Kernested,<br />

2019). The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the<br />

Child (UNCRC) includes the ‘Right to Play’ as one of 42<br />

rights recognized around the world (UNICEF, 1989). This right<br />

ensures children can spend time in leisure activities.<br />

Yet are our children really enjoying leisure time when we<br />

structure the majority of their play experiences? Is it truly<br />

considered play when most of the decisions are made by the<br />

adults supervising them?<br />

LEARNING THROUGH PLAY<br />

Since research has proven just how important play is to<br />

children’s healthy development, educators have begun to embed<br />

it into their curriculum. You will now find children attending<br />

play-based programs in Kindergarten and sometimes into the<br />

older elementary grades. Schools are placing a special emphasis<br />

on learning outdoors, and some have outdoor classrooms.<br />

Play is typically driven by children’s own interests and curiosity<br />

because when these two meet, learning follows. Play is how<br />

children make sense of their world as they try on ideas, skills,<br />

and concepts (Best Start Expert Panel, 2006).<br />

Given time, space, and encouragement, children are inspired to<br />

explore the environment and materials around them – they take<br />

on imaginary roles with items they find; make decisions and<br />

solve problems; and take risks guided by their developmental<br />

level and temperament (Pimento & Kernested, 2019). For<br />

example, toddlers learn how to solve simple problems when they<br />

experiment with manipulating objects, while preschool children<br />

solve problems by collecting information, making predictions<br />

about what happens next, and talk about what they found (Best<br />

Start Expert Panel, 2006).<br />

The play process teaches children how to make decisions, some<br />

of which work while others don’t. The outcomes teach them<br />

what to do differently the next time. When they are successful,<br />

children feel excited and competent. When they fail, they feel<br />

frustrated and must rethink their approach. These feelings of<br />

frustration are important too – children who learn how to<br />

overcome their negative feelings, how to regulate their emotions,<br />

and how to move on in their thoughts, are more likely to have<br />

better mental health (Little, et al., 2012).<br />

Recent research has highlighted the importance of something<br />

called ‘risk’ within play. The reference to risk does not mean<br />

danger or hazard, but rather some type of challenge the child<br />

must solve or conquer (Pimento & Kernested, 2019). Risky<br />

play, “Allows children to push themselves to the limits of their<br />

capabilities,” and gives them a sense of control over their actions<br />

and learning (Pimento & Kernested, 2019). By managing the<br />

risks they encounter, children gain confidence in their own<br />

abilities and learn the boundaries of what they are capable.<br />

Through acceptable risk, children build on their own ideas, feel<br />

empowered physically and emotionally, and develop a sense of<br />

belonging in the environment (Dietze & Kashin, 2019). Healthy<br />

risk taking prepares children to be observant and make good<br />

decisions (Little, et al., 2012).<br />

RISKS REQUIRE PRACTICE<br />

Ellen Sandsetter, a Norwegian researcher, observed children’s<br />

outdoor play and found six different types of risk that children<br />

around the world seem to be particularly attracted to (Little, et<br />

al., 2012). You may have witnessed some of these and perhaps<br />

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even tried to discourage children from them.<br />

Height. Children enjoy climbing, jumping from different<br />

heights, hanging, or swinging from heights, and balancing at<br />

various heights. The risk of falling teaches children to overcome<br />

anxiety and fear.<br />

Speed. Children enjoy sliding, sledding, spinning, running,<br />

skiing, and cycling at various speeds. Safety equipment such as<br />

helmets may be needed for protection. The risk of a collision<br />

teaches children to control speed.<br />

Adult tools. Children enjoy adults’ cutting tools that pose a<br />

sense of possible harm. Tools include hammers, saws, knives,<br />

lawnmowers, and axes. Supervision and direct instruction may<br />

be needed to keep them safe. The risk of getting cut inspires<br />

children to learn careful handling.<br />

Rough and tumble play. Children often invent games that<br />

require hitting, dragging, or pushing. They wrestle or play fight,<br />

sometimes using sticks for swords. Risk of getting hurt teaches<br />

children about the importance of consent from others. They<br />

learn to distinguish between ‘pretend’ and ‘real’ harm.<br />

Play with dangerous elements. Children are drawn to fire pits,<br />

deep icy water, and cliffs. The potential danger of falling into or<br />

from something gives them a respect for situations beyond their<br />

control.<br />

Disappear/get lost. Children enjoy exploring on their own,<br />

without adult intervention or supervision. This activity teaches<br />

children to be resourceful and rely on their own abilities. This is<br />

crucial for developing self-esteem.<br />

It seems that children are instinctively inspired by a sense of<br />

thrill or challenge. Even as adults, we feel exhilarated after<br />

successfully completing a challenge – running marathons,<br />

climbing mountains, and skydiving are based on our thrillseeking<br />

behaviours, and athletes will tell you it takes practice to<br />

appreciate your own limits.<br />

Research indicates that children who practice risky play are less<br />

likely to get hurt. When they learn the limits of their physical,<br />

emotional, and mental abilities, they know what they can or<br />

cannot control. Children who have less experience are more<br />

likely to misinterpret dangers and make poor decisions (Little, et<br />

al., 2012).<br />

Risky play is simply exploration driven by children’s own<br />

desires, in which they challenge themselves to be at the edge of<br />

their own comfort zone. It means children need opportunity<br />

to actively choose and assess risk for themselves, and this can<br />

result in getting dirty or experiencing some bumps, scrapes, and<br />

bruises.<br />

SUPPORT RISKY PLAY<br />

For parents and teachers, risky play requires us to re-evaluate<br />

our habits and thoughts regarding what it means to protect<br />

our children. Can we trust our children to make accurate selfassessments?<br />

How do we encourage children to take risks, yet<br />

keep them safe? Here are several ideas for giving your children<br />

the best learning experience possible.<br />

Begin by ensuring safety. Watch your children play, or join<br />

them, to understand what risks they might be ready for, and<br />

what skills they demonstrate. This will help you know in what<br />

play situations they’ll do well (Pimento & Kernested, 2019).<br />

Some children are comfortable with risks and can assess their<br />

abilities for themselves, while others seem to be fearless and<br />

impulsive, requiring some supervision and reminding of safer<br />

behaviour. Other children may be hesitant to try new activities<br />

and require support to attempt even small challenges. Once<br />

you understand what your child is ready for, you can provide<br />

a safe environment for them to explore. When you provide a<br />

variety of experiences and materials, your children will challenge<br />

themselves at a level they’re ready for.<br />

Balance supervision with opportunities for independent<br />

exploration and discovery. Continue to gradually give your<br />

children additional freedom and risk. Follow your children’s<br />

lead to ensure they are feeling secure and in control of their<br />

challenges. Celebrate with them as their confidence increases.<br />

Your enthusiasm is important in encouraging their joy in<br />

exploration (Rodgers, 2018).<br />

Provide time and space. Allow for uninterrupted and extended<br />

periods of play (College of ECE, 2018). It takes time for children<br />

to fully grasp a concept and begin to explore its boundaries.<br />

This process can’t be rushed. Planning for extended periods of<br />

play time, gives children the opportunity to fully explore their<br />

abilities.<br />

Provide interesting materials. Encourage children to contribute<br />

their ideas and to help with set up of activities when possible<br />

(College of ECE, 2018). You can provide creative outlets – or<br />

“loose parts” – that help children discover, invent, create, and<br />

construct. Loose parts can include boxes, buckets, baskets, cloth,<br />

building materials, old pots and pans, milk crates, etc. Children<br />

are guided by their own ideas and abilities, in how to play<br />

with these materials – there is no right or wrong way to play.<br />

Decision-making becomes a natural aspect of their play when<br />

children need to move or build using loose parts. The creative<br />

element of this type of play engages children for longer periods<br />

of time than standard playground equipment, and loose parts<br />

can be used in endless ways.<br />

Include natural elements in their environment. Having<br />

children play in trees, grasses, stones, leaves, sand, water, helps<br />

them learn more about nature and the physical world. The<br />

next time you see someone cutting down a tree, bring back<br />

some tree stumps and watch how children incorporate these<br />

into their play. You’ll be amazed by their imagination. Heavy<br />

and large items like these require children to use their whole<br />

body, exercising their muscles and challenging their physical<br />

knowledge.<br />

Offer a wide range of age-appropriate tools and equipment.<br />

Check in with your children. Are there any tools they need<br />

to help extend their play? Choose items that match children’s<br />

abilities. For example, while some children are ready to cut with<br />

a sharp knife, others still require a knife that is dull. Provide<br />

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instructions or demonstrations on how to safely hold or use<br />

a tool if necessary to increase children’s awareness. Listen and<br />

respond to their questions, as you explore together.<br />

Offer children challenges rather than solutions. Let them<br />

decide how to handle situations. For example, “Your feet<br />

are stuck in the mud. How will you get them out?” Resist<br />

interfering with your children’s ability to solve a problem by<br />

being too helpful and taking over. Shifting your tolerance for<br />

risk will depend on your understanding that risk can be positive.<br />

Knowing that even solving problems requires practice may<br />

encourage you to be more patient and allow your child time to<br />

figure out the solution. GBK<br />

References<br />

Best Start Expert Panel (2006). Early learning for every child today:<br />

A framework for Ontario early childhood settings. Ontario Ministry<br />

of Children and Youth Services.<br />

College of Early Childhood Educators. (April 2018). Play-based<br />

learning. https://www.college-ece.ca/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/<br />

Practice_Note_Play-Based_Learning-1.pdf<br />

Dietze, B. & Kashin, D. (2019). Outdoor and nature play in Early<br />

Childhood Education. Pearson Canada Ltd.<br />

Little, H., Sandseter, E., Beate H., & Wyver, S. (2012), Early<br />

childhood teachers’ beliefs about children’s risky play in Australia<br />

and Norway. Contemporary issues in early childhood, Vol. 13, No.<br />

4, pp. 300-316. http://dx.doi.org/10.2304/ciec.2012.13.4.300<br />

Munsch, R. (2012). Mud puddle. 4th ed. Annick Press.<br />

Pimento, B. & Kernested, D. (2019). Healthy foundations in early<br />

childhood settings. 6th edition, Nelson Education Ltd.<br />

Rodgers, A. (October 17, 2018). The Importance of Risky Play in<br />

Childhood. Early Years Resources. https://www.earlyyearsresources.<br />

co.uk/blog/2018/10/risky-play-importance/.<br />

UNICEF (1989). The convention on the rights of the child: The<br />

children’s version.<br />

https://www.unicef.org/child-rights-convention/convention-textchildrens-version<br />

PAULA BRUNKARD M.Ed., RECE, is an Early Childhood Education<br />

Professor at Fanshawe College’s Regional Sites Huron/Bruce. Learn<br />

more about the program at www.fanshawec.ca/huronbruce.<br />

Internet | Digital TV | Home Phone | Mobile<br />

Bundle Up<br />

with<br />

(519) 368-2000<br />

1-866-517-2000<br />

brucetelecom.com<br />

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RESOURCES<br />

ABUSE<br />

Assaulted Women’s Helpline<br />

Crisis line: 1-866-863-0511<br />

www.awhl.org<br />

Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />

(Bruce and <strong>Grey</strong> Children’s Aid Societies<br />

amalgamated April 1, 2012)<br />

1-855-322-4453<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384; 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Saugeen First Nation - Kabaeshiwim<br />

Respite Women’s Shelter<br />

519-797-2521<br />

cgeorge@saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

Sexual Assault and Partner<br />

Abuse Care Centre<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Services<br />

1-888-525-0552 or www.gbhs.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Victim Services Bruce <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Perth<br />

Crisis: 1-866-376-9852<br />

Administration: 1-888-577-3111<br />

info@victim-services.com<br />

www.victim-services.com<br />

Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />

Owen Sound - 1-866-259-4823<br />

Walkerton - 1-866-994-9904<br />

attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />

http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />

Women’s Centre (<strong>Grey</strong> and Bruce)<br />

Administration: 519-376-0755<br />

Crisis: 1-800-265-3722<br />

womenscentre@bmts.com<br />

www.bmts.com/~womenscentre<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Women’s House Serving Bruce and <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Sexual assault crisis: 1-866-578-5566<br />

Crisis line: 1-800-265-3026<br />

Administration: (519) 396-9814<br />

crisis@whsbg.on.ca<br />

www.whsbg.on.ca<br />

Kincardine<br />

BREASTFEEDING<br />

Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />

1-866-507-2021 or 519-881-1920<br />

RN/certified Lactation Consultant available<br />

www.bafht.com<br />

Walkerton<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

RN/Certified Lactation Consultant<br />

519-506-4348<br />

www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

La Leche League Canada<br />

Owen Sound; 519-376-5916; www.lllc.ca<br />

Moms Walkerton<br />

New Mom support<br />

320 Durham St.., Walkerton; 519-379-6769<br />

Support groups<br />

Southampton, Port Elgin, Paisley, and Tara -<br />

519-797-2010<br />

Kincardine, Ripley, Tiverton, and Lucknow -<br />

519-368-4847<br />

South-Bruce Breastfeeding Buddies -<br />

519-881-1920<br />

Wiarton and Bruce Peninsula - 519-534-0912<br />

Markdale - 519-369-3381<br />

Owen Sound - 519-372-1330<br />

The Mama Nurse<br />

www.themamanurse.com<br />

CHILDBIRTH<br />

Glamma Doula<br />

Christine Piotrowski, Postpartum Doula<br />

www.glammadoula.com; 519-477-9985<br />

Hanover and District Hospital Obstetrics/<br />

Family Centred Care Birthing Centre<br />

519-364-2340<br />

admin@hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />

www.hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />

Jessica Connor Doula Services<br />

519-580-0612 or jconnor.doula@gmail.com<br />

www.jessicaconnor.ca<br />

Midwives <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce<br />

519-371-2886<br />

www.midwivesgreybruce.com<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Owen Sound Hospital Labour and Delivery<br />

519-376-2121<br />

www.gbhs.on.ca/owensound.php<br />

Walkerton Hospital Family Birthing Centre<br />

519-881-1220<br />

www.sbghc.on.ca<br />

CHILD CARE<br />

Acorn Montessori<br />

705-606-1642<br />

Thornbury<br />

Amabel-Sauble Child Care Centre<br />

519-422-3611<br />

Sauble Beach<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach<br />

519-599-2577<br />

Bobi’s Playschool<br />

519-538-5483<br />

Meaford<br />

Brockton Child Care Centre<br />

sbross@brockton.ca<br />

Brooke Montessori Toddler Program<br />

519-376-3447, Owen Sound<br />

Bruce County Childcare Services<br />

519-881-0431 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

Bruce Peninsula Family Centre<br />

519-793-4100<br />

Lion’s Head<br />

Chesley Nursery School<br />

519-363-9544<br />

Durham Nursery School<br />

519-369-6973<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County Childcare Services<br />

519-376-7324, www.greycounty.ca/childcare<br />

Hanover Montessori Children's House<br />

1-800-906-7036 or 519-364-6455<br />

Happy Hearts Day Care Centre<br />

519-376-1284<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Inglenook Creche Day Care<br />

519-371-9471; Owen Sound<br />

Kids & Us Community Childcare<br />

and Family Education Centres<br />

Ayton - 519-665-<strong>2022</strong><br />

Dundalk - 519-923-2182<br />

Durham - 519-369-9911<br />

Holstein - 519-334-3132<br />

Markdale - 519-986-3692<br />

Osprey - 519-922-2333<br />

Paisley - 519-353-7220<br />

www.kidsandus.ca<br />

Kids Street Nursery School - Port Elgin<br />

519-389-9050<br />

Kinhuron Integrated Day Nursery School<br />

Co-op<br />

519-396-4532<br />

Kincardine<br />

Le Jardin des decouvertes - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-4411<br />

Military Family Resource Centre - Meaford<br />

519-538-1371 x6509<br />

mfrc.meaford@gmail.com<br />

www.cafconnection.ca/Meaford/Home.aspx<br />

Meaford Co-operative Nursery School<br />

519-538-3854<br />

Nawash N'Shiime Day Care Centre<br />

519-534-3909<br />

Neyaashiinigmiing (Cape Croker)<br />

OneList – Find and apply for child care<br />

brucecountychildcare.ca<br />

greycountychildcare.ca<br />

Queen of Hearts Nursery School<br />

109 Balmy Beach Rd., Owen Sound<br />

www.queenofheartsnurseryschool.com<br />

Sandbox Daycare - Hanover<br />

519-506-7263<br />

Saugeen First Nation G’Shaw-da-Gawin<br />

Day Care Centre<br />

519-797-2419<br />

gshawdagawin@bmts.com<br />

www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

Saugeen Shores Childcare Centre<br />

519-832-2400<br />

Tobermory Primary Place<br />

519-596-2606<br />

Unity House - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-8686<br />

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Viola Jean’s Garden Daycare - Owen Sound<br />

519-416-5633 or 519-371-2362<br />

Wiarton Kids Den Day Care/Kids Club<br />

School age Program<br />

519-534-4434<br />

Wiarton Nursery School<br />

519-534-2121<br />

Wooden Hill Child Care Centre (La Colline<br />

De Bois) at Notre Dame School<br />

519-376-6952<br />

Owen Sound<br />

YMCA Childcare<br />

Arran Tara - 519-376-0484<br />

Hanover - 519-364-4938<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-9622<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-0484<br />

Port Elgin - 519-832-6225<br />

Ripley - 519-395-5570<br />

ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

DIET/NUTRITION<br />

EatRight Ontario<br />

Ministry of Health Promotion and Sport<br />

1-877-510-5102; www.eatrightontario.ca<br />

Foodlink <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce<br />

Find locally grown meat, fruit and produce<br />

www.foodlinkgreybruce.com<br />

Good Food Box<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit<br />

519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

519-506-4348; www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384, 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

Ontario Student Nutrition Program <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Bruce<br />

www.osnp.ca<br />

EDUCATION<br />

Academy of Learning - Owen Sound<br />

1077 2nd Ave. E., Suite B (2nd floor)<br />

519-371-6188 or www.academytraining.ca<br />

Adult Learning Centres<br />

Collingwood, Port Elgin, Markdale, Owen<br />

Sound, Walkerton, Wiarton<br />

www.adultlearningcentres.com<br />

Bluewater District School Board<br />

1-800-661-7509 or www.bwdsb.on.ca<br />

Bruce-<strong>Grey</strong> Catholic District School Board<br />

519-364-5820 or www.bgcdsb.org<br />

Conseil Scolaire Catholique Providence<br />

(French Catholic School Board)<br />

1-888-768-2219; www.cscprovidence.ca<br />

Edgehill Country School, Durham<br />

www.edgehillschool.org<br />

Georgian Tutors<br />

www.georgiantutors.com<br />

EMPLOYMENT SERVICES<br />

JobsWork<br />

Aimee Kim, Job Developer, akim@clkd.ca<br />

519-396-9434 x223<br />

Leads Employment Services<br />

1051 2nd Ave. E Owen Sound<br />

1-866-955-3237<br />

www.leadsservices.com<br />

Live<strong>Grey</strong>Bruce<br />

www.livegreybruce.ca<br />

VPI Employment Strategies (Walkerton)<br />

519-881-4900 or 1-855-260-4900<br />

jobswalkerton@vpi-inc.com<br />

www.vpi-inc.com<br />

YMCA Employment Services<br />

1450 1st Ave. W., Suite 4A, Owen Sound<br />

519-371-9222<br />

employmentservices@ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

FAMILY SUPPORT<br />

211 Ontario<br />

Online database of services in your area<br />

www.211ontario.ca<br />

Aspire Youth Services Inc.<br />

Ryan McLeod, CPT, RSW, MSW, CYC (BA)<br />

ryanmcleodplaytherapy@gmail.com<br />

aspireyouth.ca; 416-417-7098<br />

Big Brothers Big Sisters<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-4449<br />

www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/bbowensound<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3565<br />

www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/kincardine<br />

Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />

1-855-322-4453<br />

www.bgcfs.ca<br />

Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Mentorship<br />

504 10th St., Suite 2, Hanover<br />

519-506-5065<br />

www.brucegreymentorship.ca<br />

Chippewas of Nawash Unceded First Nation<br />

- Native Child Welfare - Cape Croker<br />

519-534-3818<br />

supervisor.ncw@gbtel.ca<br />

www.nawash.ca<br />

EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />

Chesley, Hanover, Kincardine, Markdale,<br />

Meaford, M’Wikwedong (Owen Sound), Owen<br />

Sound (East Ridge), Port Elgin, Thornbury,<br />

Wiarton<br />

1-800-616-8116<br />

Family Support Initiative<br />

Peer support for family of those with mental<br />

health issues<br />

519-371-4802; fsi@hopegb.org<br />

mhagb.ca<br />

Grandparent Network<br />

For grandparents raising grandchildren<br />

Meets first Monday of month at 9:30 a.m.<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Call Mary Nuckowski at 519-371-2498<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Supervised Access Program<br />

519-371-5991; pc-superacc@bmts.com<br />

www.supervisedaccess.ca, Owen Sound<br />

Kids Help Phone<br />

1-800-668-6868 (24 hours)<br />

www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />

Multiples in Bruce<br />

For families with or expecting multiples<br />

http://multiplesinbrucecounty.webs.com<br />

Nemesis Group Services<br />

Owen Sound; 519-372-2425<br />

www.nemesisgroupservices.com<br />

Parent Help Line<br />

1-888-603-9100<br />

Penetangore Wellness<br />

Art and family therapy<br />

www.penetangorewellness.com<br />

Salvation Army<br />

Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />

Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />

Wiarton - 519-534-0353<br />

Victim Services Bruce <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Perth<br />

Crisis: 1-866-376-9852; Admin: 1-888-577-3111<br />

info@victim-services.com;<br />

www.victim-services.com<br />

Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />

1-866-259-4823 - Owen Sound<br />

1-866-994-9904 - Walkerton<br />

attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />

http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />

FINANCIAL SUPPORT<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach (Thornbury)<br />

519-599-2577; info@bvo.ca; www.bvo.ca<br />

Bruce Children are Special Foundation<br />

Directs donations to the children programs<br />

provided by Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family<br />

Services (formerly Children’s Aid)<br />

1-855-322-4453 ext 4133<br />

Social Services<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County - 1-800-265-3119<br />

www.grey.ca/health-social-services/<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Bruce County - 1-800-265-3005<br />

www.brucecounty.on.ca/ontworks.php<br />

Walkerton<br />

United Way of Bruce <strong>Grey</strong><br />

519-376-1560 or manager@unitedwaybg.com<br />

www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com<br />

YMCA of Owen Sound and <strong>Grey</strong>/Bruce<br />

519-376-0484 or ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

FOOD BANKS/HOUSING<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach - Thornbury<br />

519-599-2577, info@bvo.ca or www.bvo.ca<br />

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RESOURCES<br />

Durham District Food Bank<br />

Monday and Friday, 9 a.m.-noon<br />

Flesherton and Area Food Bank<br />

Marian Doyle, 519-599-3576<br />

Kincardine Ministerial Food Bank<br />

519-396-2185 or circlek@bmts.com<br />

Lion’s Head and District Food Bank<br />

519-793-3860 or helen.rick@amtelecom.net<br />

Markdale and District Food Bank<br />

519-986-3094<br />

Meaford Food Bank<br />

519-538-4550<br />

Paisley Food Bank<br />

Immanuel Evangelical Mission Church<br />

307 Balaclava St.; 519-353-5270 (Carol)<br />

Salvation Army<br />

Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />

Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />

Tobermory Food Bank<br />

519-596-1501<br />

Walkerton and District Food Bank<br />

519-881-0168<br />

Wiarton Food Bank<br />

519-534-0353<br />

Habitat for Humanity <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce<br />

1-866-771-6776 or habitatos@bmts.com<br />

www.habitatgreybruce.com<br />

Ontario Tenants Rights<br />

ontariotenants@hotmail.com<br />

www.ontariotenants.ca<br />

Safe ‘n Sound Homelessness Initiative<br />

519-470-7233; www.safensoundgreybruce.com<br />

Subsidized housing<br />

Bruce County - 1-800-265-3022<br />

www.brucecounty.on.ca/socialhousing.php<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County - 376-5744<br />

http://bit.ly/vVG1k0<br />

HEALTH CARE<br />

Auditory Health Care<br />

202 Cayley St., Walkerton<br />

519-881-4994 or info@auditoryhealthcare.com<br />

Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />

1-866-507-2021 or www.bafht.com<br />

Walkerton<br />

Canadian Mental Health Association<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>-Bruce Branch<br />

Administration - 519-371-3642<br />

Crisis: 1-877-470-5200<br />

jralph@cmhagb.org; www.cmhagb.org<br />

Collingwood General and Marine Hospital<br />

705-445-2550<br />

www.cgmh.on.ca<br />

Connect Rehabilitation, Yoga and Fitness<br />

1100 16th Ave. E., Owen Sound<br />

admin@connectrehab.com; 519-372-2121<br />

www.connectrehab.com<br />

ConnexOntario Help Lines<br />

Drug and alcohol - 1-800-565-8603<br />

Gambling - 1-888-230-3505<br />

Mental health - 1-866-531-2600<br />

www.connexontario.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Services (hospitals)<br />

Lion’s Head - 519-793-3424<br />

Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />

Meaford - 519-538-1311<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />

Southampton - 797-3230<br />

Wiarton - 534-1260<br />

www.gbhs.on.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit - Owen Sound<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Hanover and District Hospital<br />

519-364-2340/info@hdhospital.ca<br />

www.hdhospital.ca<br />

Healthy Babies, Healthy Children<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit<br />

519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

519-506-4348 or dford@hanoverfht.ca<br />

www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

Healthy Smiles Ontario<br />

Dental for families making under $20,000/yr<br />

Register through the health unit<br />

Online: http://bit.ly/JAqJbY<br />

Honouring Life Network<br />

Indigenous youth suicide prevention<br />

www.honouringlife.ca<br />

Hope<strong>Grey</strong>Bruce - Owen Sound<br />

Mental Health and Addiction Services<br />

519-371-4120 or www.mhagb.ca/gbchc/<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384 or 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

Kids Help Phone (24 hours)<br />

1-800-668-6868 or www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />

Kincardine Family Health Team<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-2700<br />

Ripley - 519-395-2601<br />

www.kincardinefht.ca<br />

Mino Bimadsawin Health Centre<br />

57 Mason Dr., Saugeen First Nation<br />

519-797-3336<br />

M’Wikwedong Native Cultural Resource<br />

Centre - Owen Sound<br />

1-866-202-2068 or admin@mwikwedong.com<br />

www.mwikwedong.com<br />

Owen Sound Crisis Pregnancy Centre<br />

1-888-371-2004<br />

oscpc@wightman.ca<br />

Pediatric clinics<br />

Hanover - 519-364-2340<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />

Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1220<br />

Penetangore Wellness<br />

Art and family therapy<br />

www.penetangorewellness.com<br />

Poison Control Centre<br />

1-800-268-9017<br />

Postpartum depression<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Health Unit - 1-800-263-3456<br />

Keystone Child, Youth and Family Services -<br />

1-800-567-2384<br />

Sandra Hall Physiotherapy<br />

519-270-6528; shallphysio12@gmail.com<br />

www.sandrahallphysiotherapy.com<br />

South Bruce <strong>Grey</strong> Health Centre (hospitals)<br />

Chesley - 519-363-2340<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />

Durham - 519-369-2340<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1220<br />

www.sbghc.on.ca<br />

South East <strong>Grey</strong> Community Health Centre<br />

55 Victoria St., Markdale<br />

519-986-2222 or 1-855-519-2220<br />

info@segchc.ca or www.segchc.ca<br />

St. John Ambulance First Aid training<br />

519-364-7004 or grey.bruce@on.sja.ca<br />

Online: http://bit.ly/t3Ye8g<br />

TeleHealth Ontario<br />

1-866-797-0007<br />

TVCC<br />

519-3370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />

www.tvcc.on.ca<br />

LIBRARIES<br />

Blue Mountains Public Library/<br />

L.E. Shore Memorial Library<br />

Thornbury<br />

519-599-3681 or thebluemountainslibrary.ca<br />

Bruce County Public Library<br />

opac.brucecounty.on.ca; 519-832-6935;<br />

libraryinfo@brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Cargill - 519-366-9990<br />

Chesley - 519-363-2239<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3289<br />

Lion’s Head - 519-793-3844<br />

Lucknow - 519-528-3011<br />

Mildmay - 519-367-2814<br />

Paisley - 519-353-7225<br />

Port Elgin - 519-832-2201<br />

Ripley - 519-395-5919<br />

Sauble Beach - 519-422-1283<br />

Southampton - 519-797-3586<br />

Tara - 519-934-2626<br />

Teeswater - 519-392-6801<br />

Tiverton - 519-368-5655<br />

Tobermory - 519-596-2446<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-3240<br />

Wiarton - 519-534-2602<br />

Collingwood Public Library<br />

519-445-1571; www.collingwoodpubliclibrary.ca<br />

Dundalk/Southgate Public Library<br />

519-923-3248; http://southgate-library.com/<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Highlands Public Library<br />

Flesherton - 519-924-2241<br />

Kimberley - 519-599-6990<br />

Walter Harris Memorial Library (Markdale) -<br />

519-986-3436; greyhighlandspubliclibrary.com<br />

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Hanover Public Library<br />

519-364-1420 or www.hanoverlibrary.ca<br />

Meaford Public Library<br />

519-538-1060<br />

www.meaford.ca/meaford-library-home.html<br />

Owen Sound and North <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Union Public Library<br />

519-376-6623; www.owensound.library.on.ca<br />

West <strong>Grey</strong> Public Library system<br />

www.westgreylibrary.com<br />

Durham (main) branch - 519-369-2107<br />

Elmwood and area - 519-363-3321<br />

Neustadt - 519-799-5830<br />

Ayton/Normanby - 519-799-3242<br />

MUSEUMS<br />

Billy Bishop Heritage Museum - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-0031 or www.billybishop.org<br />

Bruce County Lighthouse Museums<br />

Cabot (Lion’s) Head - 519-795-7780<br />

Chantry Island (Southampton) - 866-318-8889<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3468<br />

Point Clark - 519-395-2494<br />

Bruce County Museum, Cultural Centre &<br />

Archives - Southampton<br />

519-797-2080 or www.brucemuseum.ca<br />

Bruce Peninsula Visitors Centre<br />

519-596-2233 or http://bit.ly/rQQFf6<br />

Tobermory<br />

Bruce Power Visitors’ Centre<br />

519-361-7777; www.brucepower.com<br />

Chesley Heritage & Woodworking Museum<br />

519-363-9837<br />

Craigleith Heritage Depot - Thornbury<br />

519-599-3131<br />

www.thebluemountains.ca/Craigleith-Heritage-Depot.cfm<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Roots Museum & Archives<br />

Includes county’s archives<br />

1-877-GREY ROOTS; www.greyroots.com<br />

RR4 Owen Sound<br />

Meaford Museum<br />

519-538-5974<br />

www.visitmeaford.com/meaford-museum.html<br />

Owen Sound Marine and Rail Museum<br />

519-371-3333<br />

www.marinerail.com<br />

Paddy Walker Heritage Society - Kincardine<br />

519-396-1850<br />

www.walkerhousekincardine.com<br />

South <strong>Grey</strong> Museum - Flesherton<br />

519-924-2843 or museum@greyhighlands.ca<br />

www.southgreymuseum.ca<br />

St. Edmunds Township Museum - Tobermory<br />

519-596-2479 or online http://bit.ly/vEdicK<br />

Tobermory Maritime Association<br />

519-596-2700; www.tobermorymaritime.ca<br />

Treasure Chest Museum - Paisley<br />

519-353-7176 or http://bit.ly/1PjTS1D<br />

NEWCOMER SERVICES<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Settlement & Langauge Services<br />

519-371-9222 or settlement@osgb.ymca.ca<br />

ONLINE SUPPORT<br />

www.211.ca<br />

www.pathwaysawareness.org<br />

www.mentallyfit.ca<br />

www.shelternet.ca<br />

www.targetyouth.ca<br />

www.thehealthline.ca<br />

www.wesforyouthonline.ca<br />

PLAYGROUPS<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Play<br />

Monthly inclusive playgroup<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>bruceplay@gmail.com<br />

Kincardine Toy Library and Playgroup<br />

249 Bruce Ave.; Wednesday, 9:30-11:30 a.m.<br />

Pine River Moms<br />

519-389-7136; jill.ricica@gmail.com.<br />

Thursdays during school year, info on FB<br />

EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />

Chesley, Paisley, Kincardine, Port Elgin, and<br />

Wiarton - 1-800-616-8116<br />

Hanover, Markdale, Meaford, M’Wikwedong<br />

(Owen Sound), Owen Sound (East Ridge), and<br />

Thornbury - 1-866-483-7774<br />

SPECIAL NEEDS<br />

Autism Ontario <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Chapter<br />

226-787-0333 or marti@autismontario.com<br />

http://bit.ly/tO6kam; Owen Sound<br />

Autism Parent Support Group<br />

Community Living Kincardine & District<br />

519-396-9434 or www.clkd.ca<br />

Bruce County Children’s Services Resource<br />

Program<br />

1-800-265-3005 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

Bruce Peninsula (Wiarton) Association<br />

for Community Living<br />

519-534-0553<br />

Community Living Kincardine & District<br />

519-396-9434; www.clkd.ca<br />

Community Living Meaford<br />

519-538-4165<br />

Community Living Owen Sound<br />

and District<br />

519-371-9251 or communitylivingowensound.ca<br />

Community Living Walkerton & District<br />

519-881-3713 or www.clwalkerton.org<br />

Georgian Riding Association<br />

for Challenged Equestrians<br />

519-372-2721; grace@log.on.ca<br />

Wicklen Stables, RR5 Owen Sound<br />

Hope Haven Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />

519-986-1247<br />

www.hopehavencentre.org<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

Owen Sound; 1-800-567-2384<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

PRANCE Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />

519-832-2522 or prance@bmts.com<br />

Miramichi Farms, Hwy. 21 Port Elgin<br />

Reading Rescue Ontario<br />

519-794-4745 or soehner@bmts.com<br />

www.readingrescueontario.ca<br />

Holland Centre<br />

South <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce Youth Literacy Council<br />

519-364-0008 or info@sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />

www.sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />

Hanover<br />

Special Therapy and Education<br />

Program of Saugeen (STEPS)<br />

519-797-1935<br />

info@stepsahead.ca; www.stepsahead.ca<br />

Southampton<br />

TVCC<br />

519-370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />

www.tvcc.on.ca<br />

United Way of Bruce <strong>Grey</strong><br />

519-376-1560; unitedwaybg@bmts.com<br />

www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com/<br />

Owen Sound<br />

SPEECH/LANGUAGE<br />

Bruce County Childcare Services<br />

1-800-265-3005; www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

Closing the Gap Healthcare Group<br />

Rehab Express <strong>Grey</strong> Bruce<br />

1-866-990-9901 or www.closingthegap.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

South West Community Care Access Centre<br />

In-Home Services<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-2112<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1181<br />

www.sw.ccac-ont.ca<br />

TVCC<br />

519-370-0777 or 1-866-590-8822<br />

www.tvcc.on.ca<br />

VOICE for Hearing Impaired Children<br />

Support, speech and language therapy<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>/Bruce chapter is free to families<br />

www.voicefordeafkids.com<br />

WISH PROGRAMS<br />

Children’s Wish Foundation of Canada<br />

1-800-267-9474<br />

on@childrenswish.ca or www.childrenswish.ca<br />

Ajax, ON<br />

Make-A-Wish - Southwestern Ontario Chapter<br />

519-471-4900 or www.makeawishswo.org<br />

London, ON GBK<br />

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RECIPES<br />

Muffin time!<br />

HONEY OAT APPLE MUFFINS<br />

A crunchy topping elevates these muffins to a new level, and are<br />

more economical than your usual coffee spot. Freeze muffins for<br />

a take-along breakfast or mid-morning break<br />

Baking Time: 25 minutes<br />

Preparation Time: 20 minutes<br />

Makes: 12<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

Topping:<br />

• ½ cup apple, unpeeled and diced<br />

• ⅓ cup pecans, chopped<br />

• ¼ cup large flake rolled oats<br />

• 3 tbsp brown sugar, packed<br />

• ½ tsp ground cinnamon<br />

• ¼ tsp ground nutmeg<br />

• 1 tbsp butter, melted<br />

Batter:<br />

• 2 cups all-purpose flour<br />

• ½ cup large flake rolled oats<br />

• 1½ tsp each baking powder and ground cinnamon<br />

• ¾ tsp salt<br />

• ½ tsp each baking soda and ground nutmeg<br />

• 2 eggs<br />

• ⅔ cup milk<br />

• ⅓ cup each packed brown sugar and vegetable oil<br />

• ⅓ cup honey<br />

• 1½ tsp vanilla<br />

• 2½ cups apples, unpeeled and diced<br />

MAPLE BRAN MUFFINS<br />

Cooking Time: 20 minutes<br />

Servings: 12<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

• ¾ cup natural wheat bran<br />

• ½ cup milk<br />

• ½ cup maple syrup<br />

• 1 egg<br />

• ¼ cup vegetable oil<br />

• 1¼ cup whole wheat flour<br />

• 3 tsp baking powder<br />

• ½ tsp salt<br />

• ⅓ cup chopped walnuts<br />

INSTRUCTIONS<br />

Combine bran, milk and maple syrup. Mix in egg and oil. Combine<br />

remaining ingredients and add first mixture to this until just<br />

moistened. Spoon batter into greased muffin tins. Bake at 400 F for 20<br />

minutes. GBK<br />

Recipes courtesy Foodland Ontario<br />

INSTRUCTIONS<br />

Sprinkle topping evenly over muffins and press lightly into batter.<br />

Bake in 375 F oven for 20 to 25 minutes or until toothpick inserted in<br />

centre comes out clean.<br />

Cool pan on wire rack for five minutes. Remove muffins to wire rack<br />

to cool.<br />

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