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The Elim Connection, December 2022

The Elim Connection is a community publication distributed three times per year to all residents of Elim Village, across two campuses. It is also shared with subscribers to our mailing list and those visiting our communities. The Elim Connection focuses on the stories and lifestyle of those living and aging in place at our two retirement communities.

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A COMMUNITY NEW<br />

TIS THE SEASON<br />

OF FELLOWSHIP<br />

ISSUE 17 WINTER <strong>2022</strong><br />

A UNIQUE CHRISTIAN<br />

RETIREMENT COMMUNITY


FROM THE EDITOR<br />

I’ll let you in on a little secret; I always write this<br />

“From the Editor” at the very end, after everything<br />

else for <strong>The</strong> <strong>Connection</strong> is finished. I print out the<br />

near-complete edition and, with a coffee in hand, I<br />

read it cover to cover. Only then do I evaluate the<br />

space I’ve been drawn into; what am I left thinking<br />

about? How do I feel?<br />

Photos taken at the <strong>2022</strong> Health<br />

& Wellness Fair. This year's theme was<br />

Love Your Neighbour, Love Yourself.<br />

See page 10 to learn more.<br />

At the end of this 17th edition, what I feel is<br />

encouragement. <strong>The</strong> journey of life is not an easy<br />

one, yet enclosed here are accounts of remarkable<br />

living—of people overcoming hardship and<br />

demonstrating intentional, purposeful living both<br />

in action and in mindset. For many, a deep faith<br />

informs such an approach to life, which makes it<br />

particularly fitting to have ‘the reason for the season’<br />

interwoven throughout.<br />

Many thanks to the resident and staff participants<br />

of this wonderful edition, without whom this<br />

publication would not be whole. Enjoy the read; I<br />

trust you’ll find yourself encouraged by the end.<br />

Katrina LaRoy,<br />

Brand & Communications Manager<br />

WINTER <strong>2022</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 3


LIFE AT<br />

ELIM VILLAGE<br />

A snapshot of the last few months, with community highlights from <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood (FW), including<br />

Independent Living (IL), Assisted Living (AL), and Full Care (FC), and <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing (GC).<br />

A FESTIVE TIME<br />

FOR FELLOWSHIP<br />

This year’s Artisan Christmas<br />

Market was nothing short of<br />

amazing. Crowds filled the parking<br />

lot before doors opened at 10am,<br />

and once they did, <strong>The</strong> Oasis<br />

building came to life! Residents,<br />

family members, staff, and the<br />

public were warmly welcomed.<br />

It was a treat watching everyone<br />

come together to support local<br />

vendors, catch-up over coffee, and<br />

hum a few tunes while getting an<br />

early start to Christmas shopping.<br />

FIVE, SIX,<br />

SEVEN, EIGHT!<br />

Legs were kickin’ and hips were<br />

swingin’ at the inaugural linedancing<br />

events held at <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Fleetwood this fall for IL. For<br />

some, the events brought back<br />

fond memories, and for others it<br />

was a completely new experience.<br />

“It was my first time line-dancing,”<br />

shares resident, Dorothy Tsang,<br />

“And it was fun! It’s good for your<br />

body and legs, and it's a great way<br />

to gather as a community.” Thanks<br />

for joining us, partner!<br />

A VERY MERRY<br />

CHRISTMAS MARKET<br />

This year’s Emerald Christmas<br />

Market hit record sales! Over<br />

$2,600—about $1,000 more than<br />

the normal amount of proceeds—<br />

will be donated to the Surrey<br />

Food Bank and their Tiny Bundle<br />

program, which supports new<br />

moms and babies in need in our<br />

community. We are extra grateful<br />

for the residents who spent hours<br />

knitting and sewing in preparation<br />

for this wonderful event!<br />

THE TOVER-WHAT?<br />

<strong>The</strong> Tovertafel! Also known as<br />

a magic table, this new resource<br />

is sparking a lot of questions.<br />

Located on the third floor of the<br />

Harrison West, a Full Care building<br />

in Fleetwood, the Tovertafel is a<br />

projector that shines images down<br />

onto a table, allowing residents to<br />

interact with various objects and<br />

play fun games—either as a team<br />

or on their own. This fabulous tool<br />

supports resident wellbeing.<br />

A HALLOWEEN<br />

HURRAH!<br />

Candy, costumes, and a pumpkin<br />

or two—Halloween is anticipated<br />

by many, but most especially<br />

by children. And this year, over<br />

500 kids from Woodland Park<br />

Elementary walked around the<br />

Full Care buildings at Fleetwood!<br />

As the children showed off their<br />

costumes, they waved at residents<br />

who watched the parade from<br />

balconies and bedroom windows.<br />

What a sweet treat!<br />

REMEMBRANCE<br />

DAY DINNER<br />

Honouring Remembrance Day is<br />

top of mind for both <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

communities. A special ceremony<br />

took place in Assisted Living, and<br />

members from the SFU Pipeband<br />

marched around the Fleetwood<br />

campus, skirling their bagpipes for<br />

all to hear in acknowledgment of<br />

all those who have fallen. At <strong>Elim</strong><br />

Village Garrison Crossing, resident<br />

Veterans received a complimentary<br />

meal at the Alpine Bistro in <strong>The</strong><br />

Hawthorn, as a way to show<br />

our appreciation, respect, and<br />

gratitude. Lest we forget.<br />

HOP ON!<br />

<strong>The</strong> University of the Fraser Valley<br />

recently teamed up with our<br />

Garrison Crossing community to<br />

provide tri-shaw rides. “It was a<br />

blast!” Hawthorn resident, Grace<br />

Lachapelle, shares. “Lois and I had<br />

lots of giggles!” Before jumping on<br />

the tri-shaw, Grace hadn’t met her<br />

neighbour Lois yet. But the two<br />

bonded over the fun experience,<br />

took in the beautiful sights of the<br />

Vedder River together, and even<br />

reconnected afterwards. “It was a<br />

lovely afternoon,” says Grace, “I<br />

would do it again!”<br />

A wise visitor stopped by <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Fleetwood in recent weeks. Photo by<br />

IL resident, Clarence Bishop.<br />

LIGHT UP<br />

THE VILLAGES!<br />

<strong>The</strong> week leading up to <strong>December</strong><br />

kicked-off the holiday season at<br />

ELIM. For the first time, Garrison<br />

Crossing held a “Light Up the<br />

Village” event on November 29!<br />

<strong>The</strong>re were Christmas carols, a<br />

gingerbread house contest, and a<br />

pair of violinists who set the mood<br />

perfectly. What a treat! And on<br />

<strong>December</strong> 1st, Fleetwood held<br />

its own event. <strong>The</strong> campus was<br />

covered with a fresh blanket of<br />

snow (thanks to our first winter<br />

storm!) which made for a beautiful<br />

sight. Residents gathered to listen<br />

to the Surrey Christian School<br />

Choir sing beautiful Christmas<br />

tunes. And before heading outside<br />

to see the village covered in lights,<br />

attendees also enjoyed a hot<br />

cup of cocoa and freshly baked<br />

cookies. See page 18 for photos<br />

from these two events!<br />

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THE KING WAS HERE – IN THE BARN<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

VERN GLEDDIE,<br />

RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

Vern & Wilma Gleddie moved to <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Fleetwood in <strong>December</strong> 2019. <strong>The</strong>y were formerly<br />

sheep farmers in Southern Alberta. For many years,<br />

Vern wrote for a local publication, and the story below<br />

was published in 1998. While fictitious, the names are<br />

real, and the setting inspired by their sheep ranch.<br />

From the comfort of our farm home the family<br />

came spilling out into the <strong>December</strong> dark all<br />

cloaked, muffled and wondering. With some<br />

difficulty, my wife and I had kept secret a plan to<br />

give our tribe, now numbering 13 and two more<br />

on the way, a special feeling of the atmosphere of<br />

the first Christmas. This would be in a real barn<br />

redolent with stable smells and with farm animals in<br />

silent cud-chewing contentment.<br />

Usually I am uncomfortable with the many layers<br />

of wrappings around Christmas in our part of<br />

the world. <strong>The</strong> seasonal bundle is exhausting<br />

to produce, tends to exist for its own purposes<br />

rather than relating to the original event, and when<br />

unwrapped often leaves us with a let-down feeling.<br />

Yet, particularly for the young and impressionable,<br />

the occasion is pregnant with possibilities for<br />

memorable influence.<br />

We set out on our journey, boots crunching the<br />

snow. Beyond the yard light, stars twinkled overhead<br />

and we lit our own star and carried it in front of us<br />

on the end of a long pole. As the “star” pushed back<br />

the dark we followed, singing “We Three Kings of<br />

Orient Are.” <strong>The</strong> clues to our secret were becoming<br />

pretty obvious. But we trudged on past various<br />

lamb pens and haystacks, wending our way among<br />

a collection of buildings which, in the shadow, could<br />

have been a darkened village.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re was nothing regal about our procession,<br />

though royalty we are in God’s Kingdom: five-yearold<br />

Rachel, half-scared by the dark, trusting but<br />

asking myriad questions: Olivia, one-and-a-half-year<br />

old fully taxed; uncles making little jokes shushed by<br />

their spouses. <strong>The</strong> few of us in on the secret kept<br />

everyone moving. Blaze, the dog, and three cats<br />

completed the entourage.<br />

When we reached our destination, the wandering<br />

star was planted outside where its light could<br />

shine through a window into the barn. Through<br />

the opened top of the Dutch door we could see<br />

reflected on the walls the flickering glow of the<br />

flames of a small fire. Inside, features softly lit by the<br />

fire were a few sheep, a miniature donkey borrowed<br />

for the occasion, and a cow with her calf born out<br />

of season a month previous. It was she, with her<br />

new calf bedded in straw on the snow, that had<br />

given us the idea for this adventure.<br />

All eyes were drawn back to the fire, and there<br />

in the shadows was a mother quietly sitting with<br />

her baby. A gasp of surprise and recognition came<br />

from Rachel who knows the Christmas story. <strong>The</strong><br />

significance was intensified when she saw that it was<br />

her own mother and new baby brother, Matthew.<br />

We all knew that Jesus’ arrival into the world was as<br />

a baby into just such a place: damp, cold, dirty, dark<br />

and smelly, but it helped to use all of our senses<br />

to take it in. Neither we nor any other human,<br />

including God’s own chosen people Israel, could<br />

conceive of the King of kings entering the world in<br />

such ignoble circumstances. Words failed us as we<br />

stood there, but the wonder of how God works<br />

was expressed well enough for the moment by<br />

singing “Away In a Manger.”<br />

I’m not sure how successful was our surprise. Some<br />

people aren’t easily surprised. But I myself had an<br />

unanticipated realization. In my own family that<br />

evening in the barn, the Old and New Testaments<br />

came together. Rachel was there, whose namesake<br />

was an important ancestor of Jesus. And Isaiah was<br />

there, sharing the name of a famous Old Testament<br />

herald of Jesus’ coming. And the baby in the manger,<br />

though not named Jesus, was Matthew, the name of<br />

one of Jesus’ disciples.<br />

<strong>The</strong> significance of our grandchildrens’ names<br />

suddenly hit me. Generation after generation God<br />

fulfils his purposes, and the promise is to a thousand<br />

generations of those who love him and keep his<br />

commandments. Christmas is the always relevant<br />

celebration of the advent of Jesus our Saviour.<br />

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WINTER <strong>2022</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 7


I'M NOT DONE YET<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

RACHEL HOFFOS, STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

When I first met Norm Fowler, we were<br />

admiring the recently upgraded pond at <strong>Elim</strong><br />

Village Fleetwood. “Did you know the bridge<br />

lights up?” I remember him asking. “I don’t<br />

know how they think of such wonderful things!”<br />

Norm was mesmerized by the creative detail<br />

that went into the project. It got us<br />

talking about art, and I soon<br />

learned that Norm loves to<br />

paint in his Full Care room in<br />

the Harrison West. From<br />

that day on I knew Norm<br />

as an artist, but only later<br />

discovered what he was<br />

known for throughout<br />

most of his life—being<br />

an engineer.<br />

It’s common to associate<br />

yourself with your work. I<br />

mean, when the average person<br />

spends approximately 90,000 hours<br />

working in their life (gulp!), how could<br />

you not? It makes me wonder… what happens<br />

to that identity when you retire? And in the<br />

decades following? Does that connection to<br />

your work fade away? Little did I know, Norm<br />

would help me unpack this.<br />

Since retiring, Norm stumbled upon a new<br />

hobby to keep him busy. Plastered on his<br />

bedroom walls and piled high on his nightstand,<br />

dresser, and every other object that doubles<br />

as a countertop, are stacks of coloured paper<br />

with thick, swirls of paint—all similar, yet<br />

individually unique. “This came to me<br />

by accident,” he shares, “I had no<br />

interest in art before retiring.”<br />

Around the age of 60,<br />

Norm suffered a lifealtering<br />

stroke, leaving<br />

him paralyzed on one<br />

side and forcing him to<br />

retire from his career as<br />

a chief engineer. With the<br />

help of his then-girlfriend,<br />

Lois, Norm re-learned<br />

many things we often take for<br />

granted, like the ability to speak.<br />

Challenging days still come and go,<br />

but as Norm says, “I’m only 83, I’m not<br />

done yet!” And he truly embodies this.<br />

When Norm isn’t an artist, spattering hues of<br />

paint on paper and shaking them around until<br />

they marbleize, he’s an explorer. Sometimes he<br />

zooms around campus in his electric wheelchair,<br />

other times he ventures to the Dollarama off<br />

Fraser Highway. He’s even learned the bus<br />

system so he can visit Guildford Mall—to pick up<br />

more paint of course. And when Norm isn’t an<br />

artist or an explorer, he’s a friend.<br />

“Everyone suffers from something, so I make sure<br />

to say hello to my neighbours,” he says, “A smile<br />

back is enough for me.” Norm also looks forward<br />

to his daily calls with Lois. After all these years,<br />

they’ve maintained their close friendship, just as<br />

much as Norm maintains being an avid reader.<br />

BEHIND<br />

THE COVER<br />

A few hours a day, his nose can be found<br />

buried in a mystery novel or scrolling through<br />

a library of free books on his computer. And<br />

when Norm isn’t chatting about the latest<br />

book he’s read, he’s an engineer recounting<br />

fond memories.<br />

You see, after retiring Norm’s purpose<br />

didn’t fade away—it multiplied and became<br />

multi-faceted. Along with being a successful<br />

engineer, Norm is an artist, an explorer, a<br />

friend, and a bookworm. And you better<br />

believe he’s not done adding to this list either!<br />

Click, clack, click, clack. “That’s not an <strong>Elim</strong>ite,” thought Darrel.<br />

He was in the building parkade of <strong>The</strong> Carmanah at <strong>Elim</strong> Village<br />

Fleetwood, sweeping stalls and keeping things tidy. Accustomed<br />

to muffled shoes, shuffles, and the occasional sound of walkers<br />

and canes, the click clack of heels was notable. He turned<br />

around and caught a glimpse of a woman en route to the<br />

concert being held that night in <strong>The</strong> Oasis. “Must be a resident’s<br />

daughter,” he thought.<br />

Darrel soon learned this ‘resident’s daughter’ was, in fact, a<br />

resident herself, and they had actually lived in the same building<br />

for two years! While Darrel doesn’t recall seeing Marga before<br />

that night, suddenly she was everywhere in the subsequent<br />

weeks. “We clicked,” said Marga, remembering their first stroll<br />

together (dare we say ‘date’?) during Light Up the Village in<br />

2017. <strong>The</strong>ir wedding followed in February 2019.<br />

Finding a life partner is not a reason why people move into<br />

retirement communities, and it was certainly an unexpected turn<br />

of events for Darrel & Marga. We wish them every happiness.<br />

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WINTER <strong>2022</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 9


<strong>2022</strong> HEALTH &<br />

WELLNESS FAIR<br />

STAFF SPOTLIGHT<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

ALVIN KLASSEN, RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

On a Friday morning in October, <strong>The</strong> Oasis at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood was<br />

the site of a large gathering of residents (including a bus load from Garrison<br />

Crossing), friends, and neighbours. Event speakers Patricia Morgan, Nicola<br />

Bartel, and Angela Doell gave cogent advice related to the event’s theme<br />

of Love Your Neighbour, Love Yourself.<br />

Alvin Klassen at the<br />

Health & Wellness Fair<br />

Patricia gave a humorous, animated, and captivating presentation teaching<br />

us to laugh at our aging selves and encouraging us to take healthy action<br />

steps towards resilient aging. Nicola Bartel encouraged us to be good<br />

Samaritans and presented on two organizations that provide opportunities<br />

to give and receive love (Mercy Canada and NightShift Street Ministries).<br />

Pastor Angela of Relate Church offered pastoral advice to reach out and<br />

be a community person: be curious, ask questions, be conversational and lead<br />

with your ears!<br />

In addition to the speakers was a lunch break with sandwiches, finger food,<br />

and a myriad of sweets. It was also a time of renewing old acquaintances<br />

and making new friends. In the afternoon, attendees were treated to a<br />

beautiful musical duet of a pianist and violinist and for a bit of fun, there<br />

was also a fabulous fashion show, presented by Malary’s Fashion Network.<br />

<strong>The</strong> show featured a wide variety of fashion garments modelled by both<br />

professional models and our very own <strong>Elim</strong> models!<br />

All attendees left with an increased wellness of soul and spirit.<br />

DID YOU KNOW?<br />

50% of those aged 75+ have hearing loss, which<br />

can lead to isolation. Patricia shared this, encouraging<br />

attendees to be purposeful in loving their neighbour.<br />

Who can you be purposeful with?<br />

NIDCD (2021). Quick statistics about hearing. National Institute of Deafness and<br />

Other Communication Disorders. Retrieved from https://www.nidcd.nih.gov/health/<br />

statistics/quick-statistics-hearing<br />

SUZANNE<br />

My name is<br />

Suzanne, and<br />

I’ve worked at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood since July<br />

2017 as the Volunteer Coordinator. I love working<br />

at ELIM and aspire to be a friendly, approachable,<br />

positive team member. It’s important to me to<br />

help create inclusive environments for residents,<br />

families, volunteers, and staff. I always want to be<br />

helpful and upbeat, helping out wherever I can.<br />

One thing I love about working here is how<br />

everyone smiles at you. No one knew me on my<br />

very first day, and yet everyone was so friendly and<br />

smiled at me! I also love the teamwork and the<br />

opportunity to work with wonderful people every<br />

day. With residents, I love how you share your<br />

life stories and past experiences, reminding us to<br />

learn from the past, live in the moment, and look<br />

forward to the future. You’ve also shown me that<br />

you can give back to your community at any age.<br />

Outside of work, I’m a mom of three and a Nana<br />

to five. I’ve been married to my best friend for 34<br />

years and we love travelling together. My home<br />

is multi-generational with four generations living<br />

under one roof—what a blessing! I also recently<br />

learned how to ride a motorcycle, so if you see a<br />

Can-Am Spyder (three-wheel motorcycle) around<br />

the village, that’s me!!<br />

SUMAN<br />

Hello! I’m Suman. I just<br />

passed my four-year mark<br />

working at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Fleetwood. I started off in<br />

<strong>The</strong> Emerald Assisted Living before coming out to<br />

work in Independent Living. I work as a Wellness<br />

Assistant with Community Life.<br />

When I think about what is special about ELIM, I<br />

think about how no matter which building I enter<br />

or path I walk, everyone greets me with a big<br />

smile (I promise Suzanne and I did not compare<br />

answers…it must be true if we both said it!) What<br />

I like about working here is that there are so many<br />

stories to hear. Every individual has experienced<br />

and gone through different things before meeting<br />

together here, a place that is home to so many.<br />

If we get the chance to meet (and maybe we<br />

already have), I hope you’ll find me easy to<br />

approach. That way if you need help, you’ll feel<br />

comfortable enough to reach out (so please do!)<br />

In my spare time I enjoy cooking and baking. My<br />

go-to cookie is peanut butter chocolate chip (there<br />

shouldn’t be any other cookie in the world—this<br />

one is the most amazing!) I also like to read, spend<br />

time with family and friends and, when able, I go<br />

to the island to visit Oak Bay and Tofino; that’s my<br />

happy place.<br />

WINTER <strong>2022</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 11


I LOVE YOU, TOO<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

RACHEL HOFFOS, STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

As you step into Pat Polowy’s suite, your ears<br />

may be greeted with an array of tranquil music.<br />

“I loved the spa music so much, I came back and<br />

put it on myself!” Pat beams, referring to the<br />

Clearwater Spa in her new home, <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn.<br />

“I’ve already been to a choir performance, and<br />

chair exercise classes," she says, listing off the<br />

opportunities available in the building, “and I’ve<br />

taken advantage of the hairdresser and getting a<br />

manicure too.”<br />

Before Pat called <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn ‘home’, she lived<br />

in a similar suite in <strong>The</strong> Sequoia, an Independent<br />

Living building at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing.<br />

But as the walls of <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn went up, Pat<br />

grew more certain that a move to ‘Independent<br />

Plus’ would provide her with the lifestyle she<br />

desired. <strong>The</strong>re was only one thing she had to be<br />

sure of first: that her grandson, Ryley, could easily<br />

find and visit her in her new suite.<br />

Four times a week, Ryley rides a bus from his<br />

middle school to Garrison Crossing, where he<br />

spends a few hours with his grandma while his<br />

parents finish up at work. “It’s a real treasure<br />

getting to see him,” says Pat, “I soak up every<br />

moment I can.”<br />

Like many, family is a pillar in Pat’s life. Over 17<br />

years ago, she lost both her husband, Gordon,<br />

and eldest daughter, Jodi, to cancer—just over<br />

a year apart. “I had five years to say goodbye to<br />

Gordon and do all the things we always wanted to<br />

do…I only had one year with Jodi,” Pat recounts.<br />

“It makes you question, why is this happening?<br />

That is when you need to keep your faith and<br />

know God has a plan for you.” Since then, Pat and<br />

her second daughter, Laura-Lynn, have maintained<br />

a close relationship. It only grew stronger when<br />

Ryley was born—Pat’s first, and only, grandchild.<br />

“He’s a busy boy,” Pat adds, “He goes to drum<br />

lessons, piano, hockey, youth group—oh, and he<br />

is so polite! Always wanting to know everyone’s<br />

name so he can call them by it.” She chuckles<br />

and looks up at her ceiling, as if a million joyful<br />

moments flood her memory.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is no doubt that life is fragile; Pat, and many<br />

other residents, are far too familiar with this.<br />

It's why Pat cherishes her time with Ryley and<br />

Laura-Lynn, and why she focuses on things that<br />

bring her joy, which is made possible by a lifestyle<br />

where she is well taken care of. And once ELIM’s<br />

staff explained how Ryley could get from the bus<br />

to her new suite, she was even more certain that<br />

a move to <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn was the right decision.<br />

MYSTERY<br />

CHECKMATE<br />

?<br />

Imagine playing chess with an unknown person.<br />

A black pawn advances a square. A few hours<br />

later, a white bishop cuts diagonally. <strong>The</strong> next day,<br />

a black knight performs the signature L-shaped<br />

maneuver. <strong>The</strong> match lasts several days, even<br />

stretching into weeks. <strong>The</strong> opponents? A series<br />

of Jane and John Does vs Conrad Nedelec.<br />

Conrad is a staff member at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison<br />

Crossing who holds fond memories of playing<br />

chess with his Opa. When board games began<br />

to appear in the Chehalis Café & Lounge in <strong>The</strong><br />

Hawthorn, he noticed the absence of a chess<br />

set, but quickly rectified this. <strong>The</strong>n he began to<br />

envision a communal chess match, but now the<br />

conundrum; how on earth would that work?<br />

Through some testing, he devised a series<br />

of signs to inaugurate the first “Play Against<br />

Conrad” chess match. Conrad plays white, and<br />

his mysterious opponent(s) plays black. Once<br />

he’s played, Conrad flips a sign which says, Your<br />

Move: Flip me when you have made your move. At<br />

the time of writing, the winner of this inaugural<br />

mystery match has yet to be determined, but if<br />

you’re ever visiting <strong>The</strong> Hawthorn, jump in on<br />

the fun! It’s an inclusive match, open to all.<br />

“Every time Ryley leaves, he always says, goodbye<br />

grandma, I love you,” Pat says, her smile as warm<br />

as the music dancing around her. “And I always<br />

make sure to say, I love you, too.”<br />

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WINTER <strong>2022</strong> THE ELIM CONNECTION 13


It’s that time of year when we give and receive.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are presents beautifully wrapped, ready under<br />

the tree for eager recipients. At Christmas, it’s fair<br />

to say there’s an expectancy of reciprocity (even if<br />

unconscious); spouses gift presents to one another,<br />

children to parents and vice versa. Maybe you’re like<br />

my family, who’s opted to pull names from a hat. I may<br />

not know who pulled my name, but I know at least one<br />

of the gifts under the tree has my name on it.<br />

THE BLESSING<br />

OF GIVING<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

KATRINA LAROY,<br />

STAFF CONTRIBUTOR<br />

Have you ever received a gift that you weren’t<br />

expecting? It’s not Christmas, or your birthday; maybe<br />

the gift comes mid-year, on just another Thursday. It’s<br />

freely given, without anything expected in return.<br />

At ELIM, there’s an incredible current of giving—of<br />

selfless giving—that flows year-round. People gift their<br />

time, money, and talents. Some gifts are of material<br />

goods, much like a present, and we do a lot of this<br />

kind of giving as an organization. For example, did you<br />

know that once our office laptops have completed<br />

their life cycle, we donate them to our technology<br />

partner, Scout, who refurbishes and transports them<br />

to Guatemala? <strong>The</strong>se laptops enable schoolchildren<br />

to learn valuable skills, improving their career<br />

opportunities and altering the outlook of their lives.<br />

Did you know that medical mattresses have been sent<br />

overseas to Nigeria? Infection control measures are<br />

strict in Canadian long-term care settings, and even<br />

a small tear can compromise the safety of vulnerable<br />

residents. With proper mending, however, these Full<br />

Care mattresses are still very valuable. Nigeria has<br />

also been the recipient country of nursing supplies,<br />

wheelchairs, and walkers.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n there’s our appliances. <strong>The</strong>se also have a predetermined<br />

life cycle within our suites. <strong>The</strong> easy thing<br />

to do would be to haul them to a scrap yard after their<br />

lifespan; it takes time and effort to coordinate a more<br />

intentional drop-off to recipients in need. Habitat for<br />

Humanity and farmers in the Sumas Prairie whose<br />

homes were destroyed by flooding are just some of<br />

the recipients of our appliances—no strings attached.<br />

<strong>The</strong> list goes on. Updates to our buildings provide an<br />

Guatemalans also enjoy donations<br />

of resident-knitted blankets!<br />

opportunity to donate furniture. Local care homes<br />

have benefitted from these gifts, including the several<br />

dozen tables and chairs donated from <strong>The</strong> Emerald<br />

Assisted Living a few years ago. <strong>The</strong>se examples only<br />

just barely dip into the current of giving happening all<br />

around, all year long; I haven’t even mentioned the<br />

selfless giving of time, talents, and money; let’s now<br />

turn to that.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are so many events in our villages that seek to<br />

benefit others; events spearheaded or supported by<br />

residents. You’ll recall the wonderful report on the<br />

Estate & Garage Sale that gifted 30% of proceeds<br />

to Ukraine refugees. More recently, the Artisan<br />

Christmas Market held in Fleetwood had several<br />

vendor tables benefitting charities. At the end of<br />

November, <strong>The</strong> Emerald held its own market, where<br />

all proceeds were donated to the Surrey Foodbank.<br />

Residents worked for months knitting, sewing, making<br />

soaps, baking, and using their talents to give back.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n there are the many, many residents who gift<br />

their time. <strong>The</strong>re are countless volunteers in our<br />

midst, both those who volunteer within our villages<br />

and those who volunteer elsewhere: Gleaners, Prison<br />

Ministry, Thrift Stores. <strong>The</strong> list is lengthy of those<br />

freely giving of their time to benefit their communities.<br />

Resident Ken Barkman rides his bike to raise<br />

money for the BC Children's Hospital<br />

One extraordinary example of this is resident Ken<br />

Barkman, who lives at <strong>Elim</strong> Village Garrison Crossing.<br />

Ken has a goal to raise $25,000 for the BC Children’s<br />

Hospital Foundation by year’s end. He’s combined<br />

his love of cycling with his desire to give back to<br />

a cause close to his heart. With four adopted<br />

grandsons who, over the years, have required the<br />

incredible care and support provided by this hospital,<br />

he decided to use his time and energy to make a<br />

difference. So far this year he’s ridden 3,645km to<br />

help raise funds. He plans to continue to cycle and<br />

fundraise as long as physically able, with an ultimate<br />

goal of raising $100,000.<br />

It's incredible. This river of selfless giving flows wide<br />

and deep. And although there’s no thank-you gift<br />

under the tree with their name on it, I suspect many<br />

in our villages have personal life experience that, “it<br />

is more blessed to give than to receive.” What is<br />

the blessing that comes? Very likely joy; a sense of<br />

purpose and meaning. And the quiet fulfillment that<br />

comes from acts of giving, done unto others, but<br />

also unto God.<br />

Do you have (or know) of a story that exemplifies<br />

the blessedness of giving? Please get in touch – I’d<br />

love to hear it.<br />

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IN LOVING MEMORY<br />

THE PRECIOUS GIFT<br />

FROM SEPTEMBER 6 TH to DECEMBER 5 TH , <strong>2022</strong><br />

* Resident has a spouse living at <strong>Elim</strong> Village ^ Prior IL or AL resident<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

JEAN PRANTNER, RESIDENT CONTRIBUTOR<br />

FULL CARE<br />

Marg Ballard * ^<br />

Joyce Breedyk<br />

William Brown<br />

Barbara Carleton<br />

Wei Chen<br />

Eleanor Christie<br />

Joyce Conners ^<br />

Frank Fischer<br />

Bob Gracey<br />

Albert Harskamp ^<br />

Doreen Hayden<br />

Dorothy Krause<br />

Inga Ladwig ^<br />

Mary Magnus<br />

Martha Park ^<br />

Roseline Richards<br />

Dorothy Rolfe<br />

Joe Stam<br />

John Thomson<br />

INDEPENDENT LIVING<br />

Pat Fevang *<br />

Ed Forrieter<br />

<strong>The</strong>o Gesink<br />

John MacDonald *<br />

ASSISTED LIVING<br />

Bill Kellerman ^<br />

Mary Terweg ^<br />

“No room,” they heard the Innkeeper say. But a stable was near where this couple could stay.<br />

To the young woman very weary and worn, in this humble dwelling her Baby was born.<br />

Not in a castle befitting a King, only a barn (For the One who owned everything?)<br />

In royal robes He was not arrayed, but in swaddling clothes, and in a manger laid.<br />

Shepherds keeping watch o’er their flocks at night, quaked with fear in the beams of heavenly light.<br />

“Fear not,” the angel said and then, a chorus of angels sang, “Glory to God in the highest and on earth<br />

peace, good will toward men!”<br />

Do you wonder as I on that night long ago, about these events? What did young Mary know?<br />

Did she know the Babe she held close to her breast, was the One in whom the world would be blessed?<br />

Did she know that division would also increase because of Him, the Prince of Peace?<br />

Was, in the midst of her joy, a flutter of pain? Of some future sorrow she couldn’t explain?<br />

Mary pondered things that she kept in her heart, that Scripture reveals only in part.<br />

She was chosen by God as the one to bring, into the world the Lord Jesus, Saviour, and King!<br />

With Him comes love, joy, forgiveness and so, what things more wonderful are there to know?<br />

Unto you this day is born in the city of David, a Saviour which is Christ the Lord. Luke 2:11<br />

16 THE ELIM CONNECTION WINTER <strong>2022</strong>


THIS LITTLE LIGHT OF MINE<br />

WRITTEN BY<br />

RON PIKE, CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER<br />

Do you remember the song “This Little Light of Mine”? I still have<br />

vivid memories from my childhood of when I would sing this song<br />

at the top of my lungs in Mrs. Kemp’s Grade 1 Sunday School class.<br />

Although it’s a simple song, it has a powerful message that has stuck<br />

with me throughout my life.<br />

<strong>The</strong> lyrics speak of allowing the light within us to shine, which first<br />

recognizes that there’s a light there to begin with, and second that<br />

something must be done with it; the light must shine. This provides a<br />

perspective from which to live by, and for me, it spurred on a desire<br />

to be someone who makes a positive difference in the world. In a<br />

community like ELIM, that has so many people from this heritage,<br />

there’s little wonder that we see so many great things happening.<br />

Individuals and groups living out their faith, giving of their time,<br />

energy, talents, and resources to help and support others.<br />

At this time of the year we celebrate the greatest light to ever<br />

shine, Jesus’, whose life is an example for all humanity. His light is a<br />

timeless testament to how we should live: a life of purpose, a life<br />

of connection, a life of giving to others. I’m thankful to be a part of<br />

a community that follows this example and demonstrates it in such<br />

tangible ways.<br />

LIGHT IT UP!<br />

Blessings to each of you, your families, and the communities you<br />

are a part of this Christmas Season!<br />

(Top row) GC residents came out in style to<br />

the first edition of this campus-wide event.<br />

(Bottom row & circles) FW residents enjoyed<br />

hot treats and a performance inside <strong>The</strong><br />

Oasis before gathering in front of the wintry<br />

pond. What beautiful memories!


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Surrey, BC V4N 2X7<br />

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