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December <strong>13</strong>, 20<strong>23</strong><br />

WEST NEWSMAGAZINE<br />

I 5<br />

CONGRESSWOMAN<br />

ANN WAGNER<br />

HERE TO SERVE<br />

MISSOURI’S 2ND DISTRICT<br />

DO YOU NEED…<br />

H Help with a Federal Agency<br />

If you are not getting the customer service you deserve<br />

from a federal agency, contact my office for assistance.<br />

We can help you:<br />

• Navigate Social Security, Medicare, and IRS matters<br />

• Resolve passport issues<br />

• Get information on VA claims and benefits<br />

• Acquire military records or replacement military medals<br />

• Understand SBA loan programs<br />

• Much more!<br />

H A Ceremonial American Flag<br />

The American flag is the fabric of our nation. Call<br />

my D.C. office at (202) 225-1621 if you would like to<br />

order a flag that has been flown over the U.S. Capitol.<br />

H A Special Commendation<br />

Do you know a first responder, teacher, or neighbor<br />

who has gone above and beyond for our community?<br />

How about a newly minted Eagle Scout? Let me know.<br />

I’d be honored to send a congressional commendation.<br />

OFFICE LOCATION<br />

301 Sovereign Court<br />

Suite 201<br />

Ballwin, MO 63011<br />

wagner.house.gov<br />

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My Congressional Issue Survey!<br />

Home for the Holidays<br />

Law Matters<br />

So, the holidays<br />

are upon us<br />

once again. It<br />

seems the older<br />

we get, the<br />

faster the years<br />

go by. My<br />

father-in-law<br />

used to say life<br />

is like a roll of toilet paper - the nearer<br />

you get to the end, the faster it goes.<br />

He had some wisdom there.<br />

And with the holidays come family<br />

and friends. We just got back from<br />

Thanksgiving on the beach. We like<br />

to walk along the shore listening to<br />

the rhythm of the waves and looking<br />

at all the colors of the water as the sun<br />

reflects off them from a million<br />

different angles. I like watching the<br />

horizon ignite in a blaze of color at<br />

sunrise and sunset. We missed a<br />

couple of this year because a storm<br />

blew in, but it was still beautiful.<br />

All-in-all, a great Thanksgiving and<br />

Christmas is shaping up nicely too.<br />

And this year my brother-in-law,<br />

his wife, and one of their sons came all<br />

the way from Alaska to see their<br />

newborn grandson who lives in<br />

Georgia with his mom and dad. We<br />

all got a chance to hold a<br />

two-month-old baby.<br />

But I realize that not everyone's<br />

holidays are joyful. For some it is a<br />

time to grieve over loved ones who are<br />

no longer with us. I am truly sorry for<br />

you.<br />

For others, it can be difficult for<br />

other reasons. Over the years, families<br />

have gotten complicated with divorces<br />

and remarriages. Splitting time between<br />

two sets of parents and four<br />

sets of grandparents. And even when<br />

we don't have the logistical<br />

challenges, tensions can run high in<br />

families over ancient insults and<br />

almost forgotten affronts. We get a<br />

lot of exercise carrying around our<br />

grievances.<br />

Perhaps I'm looking back with<br />

rose-colored glasses, but things<br />

seemed a lot easier when I was<br />

younger. Things seem a lot more<br />

complicated now.<br />

And that brings me to my point.<br />

A good estate plan is where the kids<br />

are still talking to one another and<br />

celebrating holidays together - or at<br />

least catching up. I've had children so<br />

alienated from one another that they<br />

couldn't even be in the same room to<br />

close a pay-on-death bank account<br />

with quite a bit of money in it.<br />

We can't fix everything, but I<br />

think we can plan our estates to<br />

minimize frictions between kids if<br />

possible. And then we just hope for<br />

the best.<br />

Give me a call if you want to talk.<br />

I look forward to hearing from you.<br />

Everyone’s experience<br />

with estate planning is<br />

unique and you don’t<br />

always know what to<br />

expect. Fred has gathered<br />

some of the most<br />

interesting examples he<br />

knows into an entertaining<br />

and educational book.<br />

You Can’t Take It With You is available<br />

to order online at www.law-matters.net<br />

Fred L. Vilbig is an attorney with over 30<br />

years of experience in the areas of wills<br />

and trusts, small businesses, and real<br />

estate. This column is for informational<br />

purposes only. Nothing herein should be<br />

treated as legal advice or as creating an<br />

attorney-client relationship. The choice<br />

of a lawyer is an important decision<br />

and should not be based solely upon<br />

advertisements.<br />

(636) 537-7884 | fvilbig@lawmatters.llc | www.lawmatters.llc

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