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The Good Life – May-June 2024

On the cover – Frank Hunkler, Mentoring is Life. Also in this issue, Dad Life - Modern Dating as a Single Dad. Having A Beer with Peter “Casey” Absey, the Curious Creator of Blackbird Woodfire Pizza. Local Hero and Veteran Jim Deremo, Pinball Games and more.

On the cover – Frank Hunkler, Mentoring is Life. Also in this issue, Dad Life - Modern Dating as a Single Dad. Having A Beer with Peter “Casey” Absey, the Curious Creator of Blackbird Woodfire Pizza. Local Hero and Veteran Jim Deremo, Pinball Games and more.

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LOCAL HERO | JIM DEREMO<br />

"When you can change somebody's life doing this,<br />

that's the payday." <strong>–</strong> Jim Deremo<br />

the hand in another incident, which prevented him<br />

from being able to return to the dental clinic he had<br />

established just in time to get drafted. <strong>The</strong> VA denied<br />

Jerry benefits because he was a dentist, which they<br />

considered a safe role. Deremo changed their minds.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re’s Russ, who had three Purple Heart medals<br />

and was diagnosed with MS. That led to a nursing<br />

home stay and then a brain tumor that Deremo is<br />

convinced resulted from Agent Orange exposure.<br />

Deremo fought to reverse the VA’s decision to deny<br />

nursing home care. After Russ died, Deremo worked<br />

to ensure his widow and four minor children received<br />

the benefits due to them, too.<br />

"When you can change somebody's life doing this,<br />

that's the payday."<br />

But there’s also the Iraq War veteran who Deremo<br />

received a call on and fought to get into inpatient<br />

PTSD treatment. While there, however, he received<br />

a weekend pass and took his life at a hotel.<br />

And there’s Dan Olson, a two-time Iraq War veteran<br />

who biked across North Dakota in 2010 and 2011 to<br />

raise awareness of PTSD and in memory of losing<br />

his friend and fellow veteran, Joe Biel, to suicide.<br />

Deremo coordinated the trip with Olson to raise<br />

money for veterans, and he followed Olson from one<br />

end of the state to the other with the support vehicle<br />

over the six-day ride. Olson disappeared in October<br />

2021 and has never been found.<br />

Despite the awards and gratitude Deremo has<br />

received over the years <strong>–</strong> including from people he<br />

doesn’t remember who have approached him and<br />

thanked him for saving their lives <strong>–</strong> he carries the<br />

weight of those he couldn’t save with him.<br />

It’s not just war veterans that he’s fought for, either,<br />

and it’s about more than securing benefits. It’s about<br />

truly helping. A young soldier, one of the many<br />

military sexual trauma victims, shared his story with<br />

Deremo.<br />

“I told him, if you have PTSD, you’re going to have to<br />

deal with it, rather now or later, and it’s going to be<br />

easier to deal with it now.”<br />

Despite all the bad experiences Deremo witnessed,<br />

he’s incredibly proud of his three daughters, two of<br />

whom enlisted in the military, as well.<br />

BRINGING THE FIGHT HOME<br />

It’s not just his fellow Vietnam veterans who have<br />

experienced the effects of Agent Orange. Deremo<br />

himself has faced an array of health issues, including<br />

being diagnosed in 2020 with non-Hodgkin’s<br />

lymphoma, which the VA considers a “presumptive<br />

disease” resulting from Agent Orange exposure.<br />

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