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AMERICAN VALUES AND ASSUMPTIONS 5<br />

fered below has eight entries, each cover<strong>in</strong>g a set of closely<br />

related values and assumptions commonly held by <strong>American</strong>s:<br />

<strong>in</strong>dividualism, freedom, competitiveness, and privacy;<br />

equality; <strong>in</strong><strong>for</strong>mality; <strong>the</strong> future, change, and progress;<br />

goodness of humanity; time; achievement, action, work,<br />

and materialism; and directness and assertiveness. Because<br />

<strong>in</strong>dividualism is so vital to understand<strong>in</strong>g <strong>American</strong> society<br />

and culture, it receives more attention than <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>rs.<br />

Notice that <strong>the</strong> values and assumptions discussed<br />

below overlap with and support each o<strong>the</strong>r. In general,<br />

<strong>the</strong>y agree with each o<strong>the</strong>r. They fit toge<strong>the</strong>r. A culture<br />

can be viewed as a collection of values and assumptions<br />

that go toge<strong>the</strong>r to shape <strong>the</strong> way a group of people perceives<br />

and relates to <strong>the</strong> world around <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

Individualism, Freedom,<br />

Competitiveness, and Privacy<br />

Individualism<br />

The most important th<strong>in</strong>g to understand about <strong>American</strong>s<br />

is probably <strong>the</strong>ir devotion to <strong>in</strong>dividualism. They are<br />

tra<strong>in</strong>ed from very early <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir lives to consider <strong>the</strong>mselves<br />

as separate <strong>in</strong>dividuals who are responsible <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

own situations <strong>in</strong> life and <strong>the</strong>ir own dest<strong>in</strong>ies. They are<br />

not tra<strong>in</strong>ed to see <strong>the</strong>mselves as members of a close-knit,<br />

<strong>in</strong>terdependent family, religious group, tribe, nation, or<br />

any o<strong>the</strong>r collectivity.<br />

You can see it <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> way <strong>American</strong>s treat <strong>the</strong>ir children.<br />

One day I was at a local shopp<strong>in</strong>g mall, wait<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong><br />

l<strong>in</strong>e to buy an Orange Julius. (An Orange Julius is a cool<br />

dr<strong>in</strong>k made <strong>in</strong> a blender with orange juice, ice, and some<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong>gredients.) Beh<strong>in</strong>d me <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> l<strong>in</strong>e was a woman

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