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DIVERSIONS<br />
A mom and her two sons<br />
Dear Annie: My husband and his<br />
brother, “Sam,” are both in their 50s.<br />
My mother-in-law thinks Sam is “the<br />
golden child.” He and his wife receive<br />
the best gifts, and we get whatever trash<br />
she can put her hands on. She gives my<br />
sister-in-law all the best jewelry, and I<br />
get cheap junk. She recently told me that<br />
for my birthday, she was sending a blouse<br />
that she bought for herself, wore a few<br />
times and now doesn’t care for.<br />
I don’t know what to say to her when<br />
she does these things. My main concern is<br />
how it makes my husband feel. When he<br />
tries to visit, she tells him not to bother,<br />
that she doesn’t need to see him. But when<br />
Sam visits, she runs out and gets her hair<br />
and nails done and stocks the house with<br />
all of his favorite things.<br />
My husband deals with it by lowering<br />
his expectations, but I find it more<br />
difficult to handle. We will no longer<br />
spend holidays with his family, because<br />
our last Christmas was so painful. My<br />
sister-in-law received enough sapphires<br />
and diamonds for a ring, bracelet and<br />
earrings. I got a used mood ring. She gave<br />
each of her sons a family memento, but<br />
she told my husband he could only look<br />
at his and then needed to give it to his<br />
brother.<br />
I think she has a sick obsession with<br />
my brother-in-law, and of course, he<br />
doesn’t see the problem. My husband<br />
has told her he doesn’t appreciate how<br />
she treats us, but she doesn’t care. She<br />
has also made it clear that she’d like my<br />
husband to get back together with his exwife.<br />
(That will never happen.)<br />
I don’t care if I never see my in-laws<br />
again, but I want my husband to feel<br />
loved by his mother. Is there anything I<br />
can say or do to make her understand how<br />
hurtful her behavior is? — Sad Wife<br />
Dear Wife: Probably not. As much as it<br />
hurts, you need to let your husband handle<br />
this as he chooses. The best you can do is<br />
be supportive. Don’t harp on how unfair<br />
and unloving Mom is. That will only add<br />
to his pain. Instead, show him how much<br />
he is loved in his own home, and treat the<br />
rest with as light a touch as possible.<br />
Dear Annie: My 40-year-old daughter<br />
and her two young children live with me.<br />
Her husband is in and out of prison, and<br />
My<br />
Answer<br />
By Dr. Billy<br />
Graham<br />
SEEK CHRIST’S<br />
GUIDANCE IN ALL<br />
AREAS OF LIFE,<br />
INCLUDING YOUR<br />
FINANCES<br />
Q: We’ve been going<br />
through some hard times<br />
recently because my<br />
husband lost his job. Now,<br />
I’m afraid we didn’t cut<br />
back like we should have,<br />
and we’re up to our necks<br />
in debt. Could you please<br />
warn people about the<br />
danger of too much debt?<br />
I don’t know what we’re<br />
going to do. — Mrs. L.Y.<br />
A: Yes, debt can be<br />
very dangerous, and I hope<br />
others will learn from your<br />
example. And I hope you’ll<br />
learn from your experience<br />
as well, and you won’t keep<br />
Annie’s<br />
Mailbox<br />
living the way you’ve<br />
been living and getting<br />
deeper and deeper<br />
in debt. People often<br />
find that shopping or<br />
spending money gives<br />
them pleasure, even<br />
if they can’t afford<br />
it, simply because it<br />
helps them escape (at<br />
least temporarily) from the<br />
problems they’re facing.<br />
But take steps to keep this<br />
from happening to you.<br />
Not only would it be<br />
unwise to keep on the same<br />
road you’ve been on, but it<br />
would be a sin in the eyes<br />
of God. Instead of being<br />
the master of your money,<br />
you’ve become its slaves<br />
— and that is wrong. As<br />
the Bible says, “A man is<br />
a slave to whatever has<br />
mastered him” (2 Peter<br />
2:19).<br />
Accept the fact that you<br />
can’t do everything you<br />
once did, even if it hurts<br />
your pride or tarnishes your<br />
image with others. Then<br />
draw up a realistic budget<br />
she relies on me to<br />
help. I also have an<br />
18-year-old daughter<br />
with a baby living<br />
under my roof, not<br />
to mention a third<br />
daughter who is<br />
visiting for a month with her five kids.<br />
I’m fed up and want to be left alone.<br />
I plan to sell my home, move to a senior<br />
apartment and maybe travel. I don’t want<br />
them to follow me. I think that is the only<br />
way to get rid of them. I assure you, they<br />
will never leave on their own.<br />
Am I obligated to provide child care<br />
and housing forever? — Debbie<br />
Dear Debbie: Of course not. Let the<br />
kids know you are selling the house and<br />
moving into a much smaller place and<br />
they will have to find their own housing<br />
arrangements. We hope you enjoy your<br />
travels. It sounds like you deserve a<br />
break.<br />
Dear Annie: I read the letter from “Up<br />
a Creek,” whose friend, “Bob,” struggles<br />
with alcoholism. “Creek” suspects<br />
unresolved mental health issues, and you<br />
acknowledged that this could be true.<br />
We have an adult son who went<br />
through years of rehab, AA, arrests,<br />
counseling, you name it. It started when<br />
he was 18, and it got continuously worse<br />
until his mother and I finally got educated<br />
enough on bipolar disorders to help him<br />
get the treatment he should have received<br />
much earlier.<br />
Please tell “Creek” to get in touch with<br />
the National Alliance on Mental Illness<br />
(nami.org) at 1-800-950-NAMI (1-800-<br />
950-6264). — N.<br />
Annie’s Mailbox is written by Kathy<br />
Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors<br />
of the Ann Landers column. Please<br />
e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@<br />
comcast.net, or write to: Annie’s Mailbox,<br />
c/o Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century<br />
Blvd., Ste. 700, Los Angeles, CA 90045.<br />
© 2011 CREATORS.COM<br />
— and stick to it. Draw up<br />
a plan also to repay your<br />
debts, even if it seems<br />
impossible.<br />
Most of all, turn to Christ<br />
and ask Him to become the<br />
center and foundation of<br />
your lives -- including your<br />
finances. In addition, don’t<br />
stop trying to find work<br />
— but in the meantime<br />
make the most of the time<br />
God has given you — time<br />
to help others, and time to<br />
grow closer to God.<br />
(Send your queries to<br />
“My Answer,” c/o Billy<br />
Graham, Billy Graham<br />
Evangelistic Association,<br />
1 Billy Graham Parkway,<br />
Charlotte, N.C., 28201;<br />
call 1-(877) 2-GRAHAM,<br />
or visit the Web site for the<br />
Billy Graham Evangelistic<br />
Association: www.<br />
billygraham.org.)<br />
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