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DIVERSIONS<br />

A mom and her two sons<br />

Dear Annie: My husband and his<br />

brother, “Sam,” are both in their 50s.<br />

My mother-in-law thinks Sam is “the<br />

golden child.” He and his wife receive<br />

the best gifts, and we get whatever trash<br />

she can put her hands on. She gives my<br />

sister-in-law all the best jewelry, and I<br />

get cheap junk. She recently told me that<br />

for my birthday, she was sending a blouse<br />

that she bought for herself, wore a few<br />

times and now doesn’t care for.<br />

I don’t know what to say to her when<br />

she does these things. My main concern is<br />

how it makes my husband feel. When he<br />

tries to visit, she tells him not to bother,<br />

that she doesn’t need to see him. But when<br />

Sam visits, she runs out and gets her hair<br />

and nails done and stocks the house with<br />

all of his favorite things.<br />

My husband deals with it by lowering<br />

his expectations, but I find it more<br />

difficult to handle. We will no longer<br />

spend holidays with his family, because<br />

our last Christmas was so painful. My<br />

sister-in-law received enough sapphires<br />

and diamonds for a ring, bracelet and<br />

earrings. I got a used mood ring. She gave<br />

each of her sons a family memento, but<br />

she told my husband he could only look<br />

at his and then needed to give it to his<br />

brother.<br />

I think she has a sick obsession with<br />

my brother-in-law, and of course, he<br />

doesn’t see the problem. My husband<br />

has told her he doesn’t appreciate how<br />

she treats us, but she doesn’t care. She<br />

has also made it clear that she’d like my<br />

husband to get back together with his exwife.<br />

(That will never happen.)<br />

I don’t care if I never see my in-laws<br />

again, but I want my husband to feel<br />

loved by his mother. Is there anything I<br />

can say or do to make her understand how<br />

hurtful her behavior is? — Sad Wife<br />

Dear Wife: Probably not. As much as it<br />

hurts, you need to let your husband handle<br />

this as he chooses. The best you can do is<br />

be supportive. Don’t harp on how unfair<br />

and unloving Mom is. That will only add<br />

to his pain. Instead, show him how much<br />

he is loved in his own home, and treat the<br />

rest with as light a touch as possible.<br />

Dear Annie: My 40-year-old daughter<br />

and her two young children live with me.<br />

Her husband is in and out of prison, and<br />

My<br />

Answer<br />

By Dr. Billy<br />

Graham<br />

SEEK CHRIST’S<br />

GUIDANCE IN ALL<br />

AREAS OF LIFE,<br />

INCLUDING YOUR<br />

FINANCES<br />

Q: We’ve been going<br />

through some hard times<br />

recently because my<br />

husband lost his job. Now,<br />

I’m afraid we didn’t cut<br />

back like we should have,<br />

and we’re up to our necks<br />

in debt. Could you please<br />

warn people about the<br />

danger of too much debt?<br />

I don’t know what we’re<br />

going to do. — Mrs. L.Y.<br />

A: Yes, debt can be<br />

very dangerous, and I hope<br />

others will learn from your<br />

example. And I hope you’ll<br />

learn from your experience<br />

as well, and you won’t keep<br />

Annie’s<br />

Mailbox<br />

living the way you’ve<br />

been living and getting<br />

deeper and deeper<br />

in debt. People often<br />

find that shopping or<br />

spending money gives<br />

them pleasure, even<br />

if they can’t afford<br />

it, simply because it<br />

helps them escape (at<br />

least temporarily) from the<br />

problems they’re facing.<br />

But take steps to keep this<br />

from happening to you.<br />

Not only would it be<br />

unwise to keep on the same<br />

road you’ve been on, but it<br />

would be a sin in the eyes<br />

of God. Instead of being<br />

the master of your money,<br />

you’ve become its slaves<br />

— and that is wrong. As<br />

the Bible says, “A man is<br />

a slave to whatever has<br />

mastered him” (2 Peter<br />

2:19).<br />

Accept the fact that you<br />

can’t do everything you<br />

once did, even if it hurts<br />

your pride or tarnishes your<br />

image with others. Then<br />

draw up a realistic budget<br />

she relies on me to<br />

help. I also have an<br />

18-year-old daughter<br />

with a baby living<br />

under my roof, not<br />

to mention a third<br />

daughter who is<br />

visiting for a month with her five kids.<br />

I’m fed up and want to be left alone.<br />

I plan to sell my home, move to a senior<br />

apartment and maybe travel. I don’t want<br />

them to follow me. I think that is the only<br />

way to get rid of them. I assure you, they<br />

will never leave on their own.<br />

Am I obligated to provide child care<br />

and housing forever? — Debbie<br />

Dear Debbie: Of course not. Let the<br />

kids know you are selling the house and<br />

moving into a much smaller place and<br />

they will have to find their own housing<br />

arrangements. We hope you enjoy your<br />

travels. It sounds like you deserve a<br />

break.<br />

Dear Annie: I read the letter from “Up<br />

a Creek,” whose friend, “Bob,” struggles<br />

with alcoholism. “Creek” suspects<br />

unresolved mental health issues, and you<br />

acknowledged that this could be true.<br />

We have an adult son who went<br />

through years of rehab, AA, arrests,<br />

counseling, you name it. It started when<br />

he was 18, and it got continuously worse<br />

until his mother and I finally got educated<br />

enough on bipolar disorders to help him<br />

get the treatment he should have received<br />

much earlier.<br />

Please tell “Creek” to get in touch with<br />

the National Alliance on Mental Illness<br />

(nami.org) at 1-800-950-NAMI (1-800-<br />

950-6264). — N.<br />

Annie’s Mailbox is written by Kathy<br />

Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors<br />

of the Ann Landers column. Please<br />

e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@<br />

comcast.net, or write to: Annie’s Mailbox,<br />

c/o Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century<br />

Blvd., Ste. 700, Los Angeles, CA 90045.<br />

© 2011 CREATORS.COM<br />

— and stick to it. Draw up<br />

a plan also to repay your<br />

debts, even if it seems<br />

impossible.<br />

Most of all, turn to Christ<br />

and ask Him to become the<br />

center and foundation of<br />

your lives -- including your<br />

finances. In addition, don’t<br />

stop trying to find work<br />

— but in the meantime<br />

make the most of the time<br />

God has given you — time<br />

to help others, and time to<br />

grow closer to God.<br />

(Send your queries to<br />

“My Answer,” c/o Billy<br />

Graham, Billy Graham<br />

Evangelistic Association,<br />

1 Billy Graham Parkway,<br />

Charlotte, N.C., 28201;<br />

call 1-(877) 2-GRAHAM,<br />

or visit the Web site for the<br />

Billy Graham Evangelistic<br />

Association: www.<br />

billygraham.org.)<br />

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