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Issue: 06 – February 2013<br />

...it’s all about Bedford!<br />

❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ Bedford in love ... happy valentine’s day! ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤<br />

BEDFORD LIONS ...<br />

Ordinary People doing<br />

Extraordinary Things<br />

your FREE copy<br />

VALENTINES DAY ...<br />

Have you found<br />

your soulmate?


2013 Holidays<br />

WINTER WARMER – Sussex 11th March 5 Days £310<br />

WARNERS – HOLME LACY HOUSE 18th March 5 Days £399<br />

EASTER IN EASTBOURNE 29th March 5 Days £365<br />

CHESHIRE CHOICE 15th April 5 Days £385<br />

LAKE DISTRICT 29th April 5 Days £390<br />

KEUKENHOF GARDENS 10th May 4 Days £399<br />

Ferry crossing on the Stena Line to include lunch on the outward journey and dinner on the return journey (cabins available for a supplement)<br />

Other tours include…<br />

Somerset, Wiltshire, The Rhine in Flames, Tenby, Peak District, Dumfries & Galloway, Cornwall,<br />

Switzerland & Austria, Northern Ireland, German Christmas Markets, Tinsel & Turkey breaks<br />

— plus many more ...<br />

MOST TOURS INCLUDE HALF BOARD BASIS AND EXCURSIONS.<br />

Single supplements may apply on some tours.<br />

PLEASE CALL THE OFFICE FOR YOUR FREE 2013 BROCHURE 01234 355440<br />

PERSONAL PICK UP SERVICE AVAILABLE ON ALL HOLIDAYS*<br />

*charges may apply for a pick up outside a 20 mile radius of Bedford<br />

DAY EXCURSIONS<br />

Snowdrops at Batsford Arboretum Thursday 28th February<br />

Hampton Court Palace – Florimania Sunday 10th March<br />

Mamma Mia at the Novello Theatre, London Thursday 14th March<br />

Kew Palace & Gardens Wednesday 10th April<br />

Ely Thursday 18th April<br />

British Museum. Pompeii & Herculaneum Exhibition Tuesday 30th April<br />

Southwold Friday 10th May<br />

Blenheim Palace Tuesday 14th May<br />

Gardeners World Live & BBC Good Food Show Summer Saturday 15th June<br />

Chelsea Flower Show Thursday 23rd May<br />

Other excursions include: Theatre Trips, Seasides, Highclere Castle, Ascot Behind The Scenes Tour,<br />

Norfolk Lavender, Waddington International Air Show, Thames Lunch Cruise, Shakespeare Express,<br />

Buckingham Palace, Cadbury World, Thursford Christmas Spectacular and many more…<br />

2013 Day Excursion brochure now available. Please call the office for your free copy and to book your seats.<br />

BROCHURES ARE ALSO AVAILABLE TO DOWNLOAD www.barfordiancoaches.co.uk<br />

GIFT VOUCHERS ALSO AVAILABLE<br />

500 Goldington Rd, Bedford , MK41 0DX<br />

Tel - 01234 355440 Fax – 01234 355310<br />

Or email: holidays@barfordiancoaches.co.uk<br />

(please type ‘CLM’ in the subject line)<br />

www.barfordiancoaches.co.uk<br />

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Welcome ...<br />

With Christmas almost a distant<br />

memory, this is the time to start keeping<br />

to those resolutions– how are you<br />

getting on with them or have they faded<br />

just as quickly! Never mind, it’s February<br />

- The month of love! Start planning your<br />

romancing and chase the Winter blues<br />

away. This month we look at the world<br />

of The Bedford Lions, a long established<br />

charity achieving great things in Bedford.<br />

They would love some new Lions so have a read and if it’s<br />

something you could give any time to, please get in touch with<br />

them.<br />

February is also celebration time for Chinese New Year – a great<br />

tradition of goodwill to all and it certainly lasts a lot longer than<br />

our one night!<br />

If you are planning to give up smoking, this is the time to commit<br />

to it as the British Heart Foundation begin their new campaign<br />

‘Fags or Swag’ on February 27<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

th ready for No Smoking day on<br />

March 13th Editor<br />

Teresa Brooks<br />

T: 01234 310521<br />

M: 07429 136815<br />

E: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

Advertising Manager<br />

Marie Rugg<br />

T: 01234 930634<br />

M: 07761 472164<br />

E: communitylifemag@yahoo.co.uk<br />

.<br />

Continuing the theme of health and wellbeing, why not learn how<br />

to meditate or at least start to take some time out for yourself?<br />

Down to Earth Holistics shows you how.<br />

Whatever appeals to you this month, we hope you enjoy it and,<br />

Front Cover<br />

as ever, if you would like to write an article for us or contribute,<br />

please do get in touch.<br />

Picture: Stock<br />

Teresa x Facebook – Community Life Magazine Twitter@CLM_bedford<br />

Design & Artwork Contents<br />

tweet: @doodlemunky<br />

Mencap’s Social Enterprise .............................................................. 5<br />

Production<br />

info@tmmedia.co.uk<br />

Sports Injuries – Torn Cartilage ..................................................<br />

Can Acupuncture help depression? .......................................<br />

Polly Smith – Living with PKU ....................................................<br />

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Printed by<br />

White Hart Press, Bedford<br />

Ambitious Couples .................................................................................. 14<br />

Vera Wang Wedding Flowers ........................................................ 17<br />

The Bedford Lions – Charity of the month ..................... 18 & 19<br />

Publisher<br />

Meeting your Soulmate ...................................................................... 21<br />

Brooks Media<br />

Supporting Cancer Research UK ................................................ 22<br />

Chinese New Year – Year of the Snake.................................. 24<br />

Learning to Meditate ........................................................................... 27<br />

Disclaimer<br />

Age UK Bedfordshire .............................................................................. 28<br />

© 2012 Community Life Magazine.<br />

All adverts and editorial are printed in<br />

good faith. While we make every effort to<br />

ensure the reliability and accuracy of the<br />

material contained in Community Life, we<br />

Volunteering Opportunities ..........................................................<br />

Taking Care of your Feet ....................................................................<br />

Fags or Swag? Quit Smoking Campaign .............................<br />

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can accept no responsibility for the veracity<br />

of any claims made by our advertisers or<br />

contributors. No part of this publication<br />

may be reproduced or copied in any form<br />

without the written consent of the publisher.<br />

Bedford River Valley Park ..................................................................<br />

Pet Health – Neutering .......................................................................<br />

What’s On in February .........................................................................<br />

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Mini Ads & Services ................................................................................ 35


20b De Parys Avenue, Bedford MK40 2TW<br />

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Handcrafted Social<br />

Enterprise flourishes!<br />

At a thriving mosaic workshop in Colmworth, local<br />

people with learning disabilities or autism are being<br />

given the chance to undertake paid work through an<br />

apprenticeship scheme, and thus help contribute to the<br />

local economy rather than rely on benefits.<br />

Many handcrafted items are now<br />

on sale and the team undertakes<br />

special commissions, from large<br />

scale company logos and signs<br />

to personalised plaques and<br />

household items.<br />

The Bromham Millers Colmworth<br />

workshop is Mencap’s social<br />

enterprise. The chair, John Myers,<br />

says: “It’s a shocking fact that only<br />

about 5% of people<br />

with learning<br />

disabilities or<br />

autism work<br />

full-time. Many<br />

want to earn a<br />

living and we are<br />

helping them achieve<br />

that.”<br />

One of the team is Beverley<br />

Conlon, a 53 year old from<br />

Bedford who was diagnosed<br />

as a slow learner and has never<br />

been able to do paid work before.<br />

She has uncovered a real talent<br />

for making mosaics at Bromham<br />

Millers. She says: “Creating<br />

mosaics is very relaxing and I’ve<br />

learned a lot about how to make<br />

designs in mosaic form. I can<br />

now work much more quickly<br />

than when I started the training.<br />

It’s exciting that the plaques and<br />

products we’re making are being<br />

sold. I also enjoy going to the<br />

workshop because it’s a chance<br />

to socialise while we work. ”<br />

The team are happy to create<br />

personalised house plaques or<br />

commemorative pet plaques to<br />

order. Businesses and community<br />

groups can commission striking<br />

external signs or logos to<br />

their own design<br />

specifications.<br />

Woodfines<br />

Solicitors<br />

of Bedford<br />

has recently<br />

commissioned<br />

a large mosaic of their<br />

logo that will be displayed<br />

in their reception area.<br />

A whole range of mosaic<br />

items created by Beverley and her<br />

colleagues are now on sale, from<br />

a set of coasters at £6 to mosaictopped<br />

tables at £150. The shop<br />

at the Colmworth is open every<br />

Thursday, 10am to 3pm.<br />

The money raised goes towards<br />

helping to keep people employed<br />

in the mosaic workshop and the<br />

artists receive a percentage from<br />

the sale of their mosaic piece.<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

soCial enterprise<br />

The Bromham<br />

Millers’ target is<br />

to place at least 18 people with<br />

learning disabilities or autism in<br />

full-time jobs by April 2013.<br />

This would be achieved by<br />

producing arts and crafts such<br />

as mosaics, and also through<br />

computer service contracts;<br />

sectors which are said to best<br />

suit the capabilities of those with<br />

learning disabilities or autistic<br />

spectrum.<br />

The funding they have received to<br />

date from the likes of JobCentre<br />

Plus and other organisations goes<br />

a long way to helping achieve this,<br />

but they are still in need of grants<br />

or donations to help create these<br />

jobs.<br />

The workshop in action<br />

how to donate: virgin Money Giving (http://tinyurl.com/ccw7hfr) or by cheque payable to Bedford Mencap<br />

mailed to: 2 tamworth Buildings, tythe Barn, school lane, Colmworth, MK44 2JZ.<br />

Mosaic online shop: http://www.etsy.com/shop/Craftarcadia<br />

please contact: 01234 376699 or email: aj_myers@btinternet.com for more info.<br />

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health<br />

Torn Cartilage – what’s it all about?<br />

What are these cartilage things? There<br />

are two types of cartilage in some<br />

joints. Firstly, there is the articular cartilage<br />

which covers the ends of most bones. This<br />

forms the smooth, shiny slippery surface<br />

which allows movement. This can wear out<br />

in arthritis but does not tear.<br />

Secondly, in the knee (and a few other joints) there<br />

are also two menisci (singular = meniscus) which<br />

support and stabilise the knee. They are shaped like<br />

crescent moons, and are wedged into the joint. One<br />

of their main functions is to increase the contact<br />

surface area in the knee and thereby distribute the<br />

load. They are made of tough fibro-cartilage, but<br />

sometimes it is not tough enough and they tear.<br />

Why do they tear?<br />

Usually due to a twisting force on the knee while<br />

weight bearing.<br />

This is the classic<br />

footballer’s injury.<br />

Sometimes they tear<br />

due to degeneration<br />

and very minor<br />

trauma.<br />

symptoms<br />

An acute traumatic tear is usually very painful, but<br />

occasionally one can carry on playing sport with it.<br />

The knee will swell over a few hours. Thereafter the<br />

knee will often lock, give way or be stiff.<br />

do you need a scan?<br />

Most post-traumatic knee problems will require at<br />

least an X-ray. If the history and physical examination<br />

are classic, an MRI scan may not be necessary, but if<br />

there is any doubt it may be advisable. It may also<br />

be necessary to exclude or confirm other associated<br />

injuries such as a torn cruciate ligament. Top tipsometimes<br />

scans show tears which do not in fact<br />

exist – they are not infallible!<br />

Will it need surgery?<br />

Tears come in all shapes and sizes. Some cause few<br />

symptoms while others can be very disabling. Not<br />

Meniscal Cinch procedure<br />

all tears need surgery. The decision as to whether<br />

surgery is necessary or not is complex and there are<br />

many factors to take into account. This should be<br />

discussed with your surgeon.<br />

What does the operation involve?<br />

It is usually possible to deal with torn cartilages<br />

using keyhole surgery. There are two main options<br />

– excision or repair. Excision is relatively straightforward,<br />

but it can be difficult to decide how much<br />

to remove. Take out too little and the symptoms<br />

can recur. Take out too much and there is a higher<br />

chance of arthritis<br />

later in life.<br />

Occasionally it may<br />

be possible to repair<br />

a torn cartilage.<br />

This depends very<br />

much on the shape<br />

and position of the<br />

tear, as well as how old it is. If a repair is attempted<br />

recovery is slower and there is an increased chance<br />

of repeat tears. However, if it is technically possible<br />

this may be worthwhile as to remove a torn cartilage<br />

leads to early wear and tear arthritis.<br />

Mr Phillip Edge<br />

Consultant<br />

Orthopaedic Surgeon<br />

Based at:<br />

The Manor Hospital,<br />

Biddenham.<br />

For all enquiries call Tina on: 07974 514793<br />

E: ortho.edge@o2.co.uk W: www.bedfordortho.co.uk<br />

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S et<br />

in the beautiful<br />

village of Turvey, Ye<br />

Three Fyshes is under new<br />

management for 2013 and<br />

Becky and Jimi extend a<br />

warm welcome to all.<br />

A great vibe welcomed all at the<br />

relaunch evening on January<br />

17th with gentle jazz tones from<br />

acoustic duo, Crystal & Reo.<br />

With a full house by 7.30pm, the<br />

atmosphere was buzzing with<br />

guests enjoying the real ales and<br />

wine tasting while friendly staff<br />

offered delicious canapés. Becky<br />

is really keen to further improve<br />

some aspects of this popular<br />

pub “We want people to meet,<br />

eat, drink and chat in a relaxed<br />

environment and generally have<br />

a good time. We now offer great<br />

guest ales from local brewery<br />

Hopping Mad, excellent wine<br />

choices and we source all our<br />

meats from local butcher, Phil E<br />

Burley, and vegetables from the<br />

neighbouring village of Olney.<br />

Our new seasonal menus will<br />

combine the very best quality<br />

local ingredients with a modern<br />

take on traditional pub food.<br />

Our chef is happy to<br />

accommodate individual dietary<br />

requirements and even tailor<br />

the dishes to your preference.<br />

We want to offer that extra<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

loCal BUsiness<br />

Ye Three Fyshes — Under new management<br />

Ye Three Fyshes is a beautiful country pub in the<br />

picturesque village of Turvey in Bedfordshire.<br />

You are invited to join us for a wonderful meal<br />

or drinks with friends and you’re sure to be<br />

given a warm welcome.<br />

level of service which makes the<br />

difference.” A bar menu and a la<br />

carte menu offers casual dining in<br />

the bar or a more formal dinner,<br />

enjoying the ambiance of the<br />

gently candlelit restaurant area<br />

and the large, open fireplace.<br />

Regular live music nights are also<br />

on the way along with Summer<br />

Hog Roasts and seasonal dining<br />

al fresco.<br />

so why not head over and<br />

enjoy for yourself?<br />

telephone:01234 881463<br />

www.yethreefyshes.co.uk<br />

Opening Hours<br />

Monday -Thursday: 12pm till 12am<br />

Friday & Saturday: 12pm till 1am<br />

Sunday: 12pm till 11pm<br />

Under New Management!<br />

Our menus combine the very best quality local<br />

ingredients with a modern take on traditional pub<br />

fayre. At peak times we advise you to make a reservation by calling us on 01234 881463 but you<br />

are always more than welcome to just drop in and we’ll accommodate you as best we can.<br />

Steak night every Tuesday – 2 steaks and a bottle of wine for £30<br />

Ye Three Fyshes<br />

Country Pub & Restaurant<br />

Bridge Street, Turvey,<br />

Valentines Day Menu<br />

Bedfordshire, MK43 8ER<br />

3 course menu with a choice of 4 starters,<br />

4 mains and 4 desserts and a liquer coffee to follow.<br />

Tel: 01234 881463<br />

2 Courses £21.00* per person 3 Courses £26.00* per person Email: info@yethreefyshes.co.uk<br />

A music act will also be playing quietly in the background for your enjoyment. www.yethreefyshes.co.uk<br />

*If you would prefer beer instead of wine or regular coffees instead of liquer then prices will vary – we are here to cater to the individual!<br />

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Our Services Include:<br />

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Fertility Screen*<br />

Medical Tests*<br />

(Cholesterol, Homocysteine, Vit D, Thyroid,<br />

Adrenal Stress, Hormones, Hair Analysis)<br />

● Breast & Carotid<br />

Artery Thermograms*<br />

Workplace Health<br />

Screening<br />

● Diet & Lifestyle<br />

Advice<br />

● Health Talks to Local<br />

Groups<br />

Bio-Resonance Testing*<br />

If you are experiencing …<br />

● Anxiety<br />

● Allergies<br />

● Asthma<br />

● Candida<br />

● Depression<br />

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● Headaches<br />

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● Sleep Disorders<br />

● Stress<br />

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... we may be able to help<br />

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able to claim back the cost of these screenings in full<br />

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We specialise in the control of pests and vermin<br />

including: Mice, Wasps, Rats, Pigeons, Fleas, Squirrels,<br />

Moles, Bed Bugs & Insects.<br />

Email: info@pestawaysolutions.co.uk<br />

Web: www.pestawaysolutions.co.uk<br />

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MONDAYS<br />

Goldington Day Centre – BARKERS LANE<br />

10 Barkers lane, just off Goldington Rd,<br />

MK41 9SJ<br />

Mondays 7.30pm<br />

**New 5.30pm session starting 7 th Jan<br />

2013**<br />

For info call Michele 01234 300314<br />

AFC Kempston – KEMPSTON<br />

Hillgrounds Road, (next to pool) MK42 8SZ<br />

Monday mornings 9.30am<br />

For info call Lorrie 01234 340473<br />

Centenary Hall - KEMPSTON<br />

Behind Town Council, Bedford Road,<br />

MK42 8BG<br />

Mondays 5:30 pm & 7:15 pm<br />

For info call Lorrie 01234 340473<br />

**New Consultant**<br />

Ampthill Methodist Church - AMPTHILL<br />

Chandos Road, Ampthill MK45 2LF<br />

Mondays 5.30 pm, & 7.30 pm<br />

For info call Jane 07545 856986<br />

TUESDAYS<br />

Jubilee Community Centre - WILSTEAD<br />

Off Bedford Road, Wilstead, MK45 3HN<br />

Tuesdays 7.30pm<br />

For info call Sarah 07970 946017<br />

St Marks Church Centre – BRICKHILL<br />

Calder Rise, Avon Drive, Bedford, MK41 7UY<br />

Tuesday mornings 9.30 am & 11.30 am<br />

For info call Helen 07989 080389<br />

St Marks Church Centre - BRICKHILL<br />

Calder Rise, Avon Drive, Bedford, MK41 7UY<br />

Tuesdays, 3.30pm, 5.30 pm.<br />

**New 7.30pm session starting<br />

8th Jan 2013**<br />

For info call Helen 07989 080389<br />

**New Consultant**<br />

Ampthill Methodist Church - AMPTHILL<br />

Chandos Road, Ampthill, MK45 2LF<br />

Tuesday mornings 9.30am<br />

For info call Jane 07545 856986<br />

Bromham Lower School – BROMHAM<br />

Grange Lane entrance, Bromham, MK43 8NR<br />

Tuesdays 7.30pm<br />

For info call Lorraine 07789757917<br />

WEDNESDAYS<br />

Bedford Heights – MANTON LANE<br />

**New Venue**<br />

Bedford Heights Conference Centre<br />

Brickhill Drive. MK41 7PH<br />

Wednesdays 7.30pm<br />

For info call Leanne 07979 343212<br />

Harrowden Middle School - BEDFORD<br />

Oak Road, (off London Road) MK42 0HH<br />

Wednesdays 6.00 pm<br />

For info call Liz 01234 354078<br />

Flitwick Cricket Club - FLITWICK<br />

Westoning Rd, (Next to Flitvale Nursery)<br />

MK45 5AA<br />

Wednesdays 4.00pm & 5.45 pm & 7:30 pm<br />

For info call Diane 01234 741334<br />

Church End Lower School -<br />

MARSTON<br />

Church Walk, Marston Mortaine,<br />

MK43 0NE<br />

Wednesdays 5.30pm & 7.30 pm<br />

For info call Jane 07545 856986<br />

THURSDAYS<br />

Bedford Athletic Rugby Club –<br />

PUTNOE<br />

Wentworth Drive, Putnoe, Bedford,<br />

MK41 8QA<br />

Thursdays 5.30pm & 7.30pm<br />

For info call Kim on 01234 308480<br />

Scott Hall Community Centre –<br />

BEDFORD<br />

Barford Avenue, off London Rd,<br />

MK42 0DS<br />

Thursday mornings 9.30am<br />

For info call Amanda 01234 325886<br />

Old School House - OAKLEY<br />

Lovell Road, Oakley, MK43 7RY<br />

Thursdays 7.30pm<br />

**New 5.30pm session starting<br />

3 rd Jan 2013**<br />

For info call Karen 07841 075100<br />

Castle Lower School - BEDFORD<br />

Goldington Road, Bedford, MK40 3EP<br />

Thursdays 5.30pm & 7.30pm<br />

For info call Lorraine 01234 741033<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

All of our groups are open 52<br />

weeks a year, however some<br />

may be subject to time/venue<br />

changes during the holidays.<br />

Please confirm by contacting the<br />

consultant direct or visiting our<br />

website.<br />

Thank you x<br />

www.slimmingworld.com<br />

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Dyslexia Success:<br />

Specialists in Dyslexia<br />

University and College Students<br />

Dyslexia Success has been supporting students successfully in higher<br />

education for 15 years.<br />

Do you need assessing for dyslexia for DSA? We are licenced to do this!<br />

Have you already been assessed and awarded DSA?<br />

If so, we are specialists in supporting students one a 1-2-1 basis.<br />

Schools:<br />

Dyslexia Success already provides expert FREE advice and support to a<br />

number of schools in Bedfordshire by way of presentations to teachers<br />

and parents.<br />

We work in partnership with the school offering concessions to your<br />

children’s parents in assessing or screening for dyslexia and other<br />

learning difficulties.<br />

Parents:<br />

Does your child have low confidence? Are they struggling at school with reading, writing spelling and planning their work?<br />

Dyslexia Success have an excellent record of assessing children for learning difficulties (including Dyslexia) as well as<br />

supporting them on a 1-2-1 basis; the age range is 6-18 years.<br />

We offer either full assessments or screening tests, at reasonable prices, both providing a diagnostic report with<br />

recommendations in how your child should be supported in the future.<br />

Why not email or give us a call, we provide FREE advice of whether your child should be assessed<br />

and the type of tests necessary: or visit our web site for more information:<br />

Dyslexia Success 01234 219193 Email: dyslexiasuccess@aol.com Web: www.dyslexiasuccess.com<br />

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Depression & acupuncture<br />

T here<br />

can be several<br />

factors working together<br />

that lead to<br />

depression.<br />

The three most important<br />

are biological, genetic, and<br />

environmental factors.<br />

Biological causes are due to<br />

changes in the chemistry of<br />

the brain- fluctuations in<br />

the levels of important<br />

hormones. Genetic causes<br />

are the result of what<br />

you inherit from parents.<br />

Environmental/emotional factors<br />

result from stressful situations. To<br />

make it even more complicated,<br />

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Mum, Alice, had to stop breastfeeding immediately<br />

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her diet is being constantly adjusted<br />

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Alice says “A lot of her food is on prescription and<br />

I do a lot of home baking with special flour and<br />

meats. She likes pizza, veggie sausages and burgers<br />

like most young children but it does mean we can’t<br />

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Her school, Castle Lower, is very supportive- she<br />

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for class birthday treats.”<br />

On a day to day basis, Polly copes really well and<br />

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Christmas times are difficult as she can’t have party<br />

food. She tells people she has a “special tummy” and<br />

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Great Ormond Street hold an annual Christmas<br />

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confidence and support her to start managing her<br />

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Ambition – Gift or Burden?<br />

Traditionally ambition has been acted<br />

out in the workplace by men, but as<br />

women became high flyers in the work<br />

force the balance has shifted.<br />

Whereas women were seen to support successful<br />

men they are now successful in their own right. This<br />

change has created tension in many relationships.<br />

Ambitious women have often been seen as more<br />

dangerous than ambitious men. Shakespeare’s<br />

portrayal of Lady Macbeth as the force that drives<br />

her husband to take the throne is seen as a wicked<br />

aberration of womanhood. But it appears that<br />

ambitious men and ambitious women share many<br />

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The highly ambitious person is generally exciting,<br />

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Charity<br />

Bedford Lions ... Ordinary<br />

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Lions are ordinary people who do extraordinary<br />

things, working closely with local organisations and<br />

are dedicated to the welfare of others less fortunate.<br />

They provide a service that can improve the quality of<br />

life for many whether it is improving environments,<br />

donating, encouraging youth or providing help<br />

during emergencies. Bedford Lions Club has been<br />

running since 1967 and local businessmen Clifton<br />

Ibbett, Chris Kilroy and Andrew Field were three of<br />

the founder members. Elinor Ashby followed in her<br />

father’s footsteps and is currently Zone Chairman for<br />

six clubs across Bedfordshire. There are 30 lions in<br />

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The Lions give the time they can afford freely<br />

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sometimes hard work, sometimes fun,<br />

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Elinor believes passionately in what she<br />

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within a club so it’s like a family atmosphere.<br />

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of fun too.”<br />

She not only supports and organises but raises<br />

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Bike ride for ridgeway school, Bedford athletic stadium<br />

Their monthly meetings are held at The Fox and<br />

Hounds Goldington and their 45th Charter Dinner<br />

on February 23rd at The Sharnbrook Hotel is an<br />

important event in 2013. Open to all, tickets are<br />

available from Eddie Burry on 01234 271155, 07850<br />

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2012 events<br />

On August Bank Holiday Saturday, the annual<br />

Kempston Fun Day was a huge success. Local people<br />

enjoyed a community event whilst raising funds. The<br />

Wild West show, sponsored by The Lions, was enjoyed<br />

by all and the rest of the day offered charity and craft<br />

stalls and presence from the Naval Cadets, Territorial<br />

Army and Fire Service. A specially arranged spitfire<br />

flyby thrilled everyone and over £1700 was raised to<br />

be distributed between Kempston charities.<br />

Ridgeway School in Kempston organised a sponsored<br />

bike ride in July at Bedford Athletic Stadium. The<br />

Lions and Rotarians assisted the children with riding<br />

so the 200 laps could be completed and Mayor<br />

Dave Hodgson joined in along with local Police<br />

Community Support Officers.<br />

In November, the Lions were proud to be a part of<br />

The Lord Mayor’s show and they also ran a highly<br />

successful 50/50 auction at the Ents Shed in The<br />

Gordon Arms. Items collected from the public and<br />

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December is the month that most people are aware<br />

of the Lions as the musical Santa Sleigh takes to the<br />

streets and supermarkets of Bedford. Delighting<br />

children along the way, they collect donations for<br />

local charities and in 2012; the money went to Dogs<br />

for the Disabled and Keech Cottage, the children’s<br />

Hospice.<br />

Kempston leo Club<br />

The Leo’s aged 11-18 are based in Kempston and they<br />

volunteer their time for projects like tree planting at<br />

Marston Vale, the Kempston Fun Day, Poppy Appeals<br />

and can participate in the Young Leaders in Service<br />

scheme. These awards recognise any young people<br />

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community. Contribution can include fundraising<br />

activities, clearing litter, recycling, services to the<br />

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reading to visually impaired people. Whatever they<br />

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There are exciting opportunities to go abroad and<br />

be part of International Exchanges too. The Leo’s<br />

welcome other young people who want to join in!<br />

santa sleigh Christmas Collections<br />

The generosity of the public makes it possible for the<br />

Lions to achieve all they do and they are grateful for<br />

the donations and support.<br />

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❝<br />

People think a soul mate is your<br />

perfect fit, and that’s what everyone<br />

wants. But a true soul mate is a<br />

mirror, the person who shows you<br />

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These days, do people even really believe<br />

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brought together for a reason<br />

● The relationship has a deep sense of purpose<br />

● You have a timeless bond even when you are<br />

apart<br />

● You see yourself in the other person<br />

Soul mate relationships, while wonderful, are almost<br />

never pain-free. These people are in our lives to<br />

help us grow and as a result, they often challenge us<br />

more than others. They will impact you on a deeply<br />

emotional level.<br />

Challenging but never boring<br />

Soulmates give you a chance to see yourself more<br />

clearly and teach you something. So when you find<br />

them, it’s not always easy with jumping on clouds<br />

and smiling as you gaze into each other’s eyes for<br />

hours -though there is some of that!<br />

Lots of personal growth takes place when you<br />

find your soulmate which can be challenging but<br />

certainly never boring.<br />

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fUndraisinG<br />

Supporting valuable research<br />

Hello! My name is<br />

Victoria and I am the<br />

local representative from<br />

Cancer Research UK, my<br />

role is to help anyone in the<br />

local area who would like<br />

to volunteer or fundraise<br />

for us.<br />

Cancer Research UK is the world’s<br />

leading cancer charity dedicated<br />

to saving lives through research.<br />

Our groundbreaking work into<br />

the prevention, diagnosis and<br />

treatment of cancer has seen<br />

survival rates double in the last 40<br />

years. Our scientists and doctors<br />

have contributed to most of the<br />

world’s top cancer drugs and<br />

we have pioneered the use of<br />

radiotherapy to treat cancer.<br />

We don’t just do research. Every<br />

year we help millions of people<br />

get the information they need<br />

to understand the disease. And,<br />

together with our supporters, we<br />

campaign on key cancer issues<br />

including access to cancer drugs,<br />

screening and reducing the use of<br />

tobacco.<br />

More than one in three of us<br />

will get cancer at some point in<br />

our lives. Our research to beat<br />

cancer is entirely funded by<br />

the public. And thanks to their<br />

generosity our scientists, doctors<br />

The Cancer research UK Centre at Cambridge<br />

and nurses are leading the world<br />

in discovering new ways to fight<br />

cancer. Research saves lives and<br />

our work is critical to ensuring<br />

more people beat this devastating<br />

disease.<br />

Last year 2011/12 we raised £432<br />

million, £332 million of which was<br />

spent on research, the rest goes<br />

on future fundraising. For every<br />

£1 you donate we guarantee<br />

that 80p will be spent directly on<br />

research. You might be surprised<br />

to hear that 90% of our donations<br />

are for £10 or less and there are<br />

lots of things you can do to help<br />

raise funds.<br />

Get involved & sponsored<br />

Get sponsored to give up one<br />

of your guilty pleasures like<br />

chocolate, shopping or swearing.<br />

Sponsored silence - Keep your<br />

lips sealed for a day and ask for<br />

donations.<br />

Shave it off - Get sponsored<br />

to shave off your hair or your<br />

eyebrows.<br />

Have a good clear out - Start<br />

auctioning off all those unused<br />

items sitting around your house<br />

that you don’t need any more.<br />

Do a good deed - From sweeping<br />

up those autumn leaves to<br />

cleaning and car washing – there<br />

are lots of chores your neighbours<br />

could use some help with.<br />

victoria Goldsmith<br />

Empty your pockets - Donate<br />

your loose change every night for<br />

a month.<br />

Thanks to our supporters, we<br />

spent more than £42 million last<br />

year on leading scientific and<br />

clinical research in East Anglia.<br />

We fund groundbreaking research<br />

throughout the region, from<br />

clinical trials running at nearby<br />

hospitals, to our Cancer Research<br />

UK Centre in Cambridge. Our<br />

Centres bring together experts<br />

in the local medical and scientific<br />

community to translate research<br />

into benefits for patients as<br />

quickly as possible.<br />

Every day, 80 people are<br />

diagnosed with cancer in East<br />

Anglia which adds up to 29,300<br />

people a year being diagnosed in<br />

the local area alone and cancer<br />

death rates in East Anglia have<br />

fallen by almost a quarter over<br />

the last twenty years.<br />

We have made great progress but<br />

there is still so much more to be<br />

done.<br />

if you would like to find out<br />

more about volunteering or<br />

fundraising for Cancer research<br />

UK please contact me at<br />

victoria.goldsmith@cancer.org.uk<br />

or telephone: 07909 967718.<br />

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CUltUre<br />

Chinese New Year 2013 – The Year of the Snake<br />

As the longest and most<br />

important festival<br />

in the chinese calender,<br />

Chinese New Year is itself<br />

centuries old and is a major<br />

holiday for the Chinese.<br />

Known as ‘Spring Festival’, it<br />

marks the end of the winter<br />

season. Customs and traditions<br />

concerning the celebration<br />

of the Chinese New Year<br />

vary widely. People pour out<br />

their money to buy presents,<br />

decoration, material, food, and<br />

clothing. It is also traditional for<br />

families to thoroughly cleanse the<br />

house in order to sweep away any<br />

ill-fortune and to make way for<br />

good incoming luck. Windows<br />

and doors will be decorated<br />

with red coloured paper with<br />

popular themes good fortune,<br />

happiness, wealth and longevity.<br />

Chinese New Year’s Eve is the<br />

annual dinner where the family<br />

feast and end the night with<br />

firecrackers! The next morning,<br />

children will greet their parents<br />

by wishing them a healthy and<br />

happy New Year, and receive<br />

money in red paper envelopes.<br />

The Chinese New Year tradition is<br />

to reconcile, forget all grudges<br />

and sincerely wish peace and<br />

happiness for everyone. It ends<br />

15 days into the New Year with<br />

the Lantern Festival.<br />

The Year of the Snake<br />

signifies steady progress,<br />

attention to detail, and focus<br />

and discipline to accomplish<br />

what you set out to achieve.<br />

The Snake is the sixth sign of the<br />

Chinese Zodiac and is the most<br />

enigmatic, intuitive, introspective<br />

and refined of the Animal Signs.<br />

Ancient Chinese wisdom says<br />

a Snake in the house is a good<br />

omen because it means that your<br />

family will not starve.<br />

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We take much pride in sourcing the very best Best Sausage in Bedford<br />

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Time to meditate?<br />

❝<br />

others inspire us,<br />

information feeds us,<br />

practice improves our<br />

performance, but we need<br />

quiet time to figure things<br />

out, to emerge with new<br />

discoveries, to unearth<br />

original answers.<br />

dr ester Buchholz<br />

❝<br />

Why is it we are always trying so hard<br />

to be perfect at everything? What<br />

is it inside of us that cries, “That’s not<br />

enough! Do better, do more”.<br />

Isn’t it time we gave ourselves a break and let<br />

ourselves off the hook. Why not try telling yourself<br />

“Well done, I have achieved a lot today, I have done<br />

things to the best of my ability with the time and<br />

energy that I have”. It is time to take the pressure off<br />

yourself!<br />

Some days your energy levels are lower<br />

so listen to yourself, rest when you<br />

can, take some time and recharge your<br />

batteries. Easier said than done I hear<br />

you say, but you must always make time<br />

to put yourself first, even if it is just half<br />

an hour. Meditate, take a bath, go for a<br />

walk, have a massage/treatment or even<br />

an afternoon nap. Remember when you<br />

are feeling good everyone around you benefits it has<br />

a knock on effect.<br />

A great way to recharge and feel centred again is<br />

to meditate: “…but I don’t have time to sit and do<br />

nothing” I hear you say but it doesn’t have to be<br />

for long- even ten minutes a day can make you<br />

feel better. The word meditation comes from the<br />

latin word “meditari” which means frequent so the<br />

more you can practice it the better. Meditation is so<br />

beneficial especially in today’s society. In relaxing the<br />

mind, the brain releases endorphins which create<br />

a feeling of well-being. Physically it helps to boost<br />

the immune system, reduces stress levels, and stress<br />

Down to Earth<br />

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related illnesses. It helps to reduce anxiety, insomnia<br />

and lower blood pressure.<br />

You can meditate when washing up, walking, laying<br />

in the bath, or sitting still. You don’t even have to<br />

be silent, there are plenty of good guided meditation<br />

cd’s out there. Or you can sing to yourself, or play<br />

some soothing music. A lovely way to meditate is to<br />

imagine or visualise you are in a lovely safe peaceful<br />

place and all is well, let go of worries and feel that<br />

peace, stay there for as long as you can. Imagine you<br />

are surrounded by a beautiful white<br />

light keeping you calm and protected<br />

from daily issues.<br />

When you say the words meditation<br />

people automatically think of<br />

somebody sitting crossed legged sitting<br />

for hours on end in silence -there is no<br />

right or wrong, just do what suits you.<br />

Try and give your mind a break. Focus<br />

on something else than your thoughts,<br />

a candle, your breathing, your singing, a guided cd,<br />

a visualisation. Let your thoughts come and go like<br />

they are moving across your mind, try not to focus<br />

on them -let them go. Remember practice makes<br />

perfect, the more you practice the easier it will<br />

become.<br />

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aromatherapy and angel Card readings.<br />

Based in Clophill, she offers a relaxing environment<br />

and a warm approach.<br />

Call her on 07939 541703 or email:<br />

tracy.handley@hotmail.co.uk<br />

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CoMMUnity<br />

Supporting older people in the community<br />

A<br />

ge UK Bedfordshire<br />

is the largest older<br />

peoples’ charity operating in<br />

the county of Bedfordshire.<br />

Previously known as Age Concern<br />

Bedfordshire we have been<br />

helping older people for over 15<br />

years with free, confidential and<br />

objective advice to support each<br />

individual to live independently<br />

in safety and with choices. We<br />

work with Bedfordshire residents<br />

over the age of 50, their families,<br />

friends and carers. We focus on<br />

the individual client to ensure<br />

their needs and wishes are<br />

prioritised.<br />

Our range of services include:<br />

● Practical assistance around<br />

the home through our home<br />

and gardening support services<br />

(Home Help, Handyperson and<br />

Gardening).<br />

Charity shop in Ampthill Ref 157<br />

They are looking for volunteers of all ages. It’s more of a book shop<br />

at the moment. Open Monday to Saturday. They are a friendly<br />

bunch of volunteers so if you want to make new friends please<br />

contact us. Ages from 13.<br />

Befriending and enabling volunteers Ref 155<br />

Providing support to our clients, both in care homes or their own<br />

homes, to take part in social and leisure or educational activities<br />

enabling them to get more involved in their local communities.<br />

Activities might include: swimming, going to the cinema/theatre,<br />

shopping trips, going for a pub lunch, gardening, day trips etc.18+<br />

Volunteer Mentor Ref 35<br />

Mentors are required to support people with a range of mental<br />

health problems. You will be asked to mentor in the East Mid Beds<br />

area. Full training will be given. Mentoring is goal based and time<br />

limited. Mentors also to assist individuals to engage in physical<br />

activity. Age 18+ but particularly over 56 and availablein the day.<br />

Emergency Volunteer Ref 190<br />

Would you like to become a member of a group of emergency<br />

volunteers and specialise in emergency response? If so why not<br />

sign up as an emergency volunteer by joining the Bedfordshire and<br />

Luton Emergency Volunteers Executive Committee (BLEVEC).<br />

● Information and Advice on<br />

issues like money, care, health,<br />

housing, benefits, personal<br />

budgets, or any other issue.<br />

● Home visits to complete forms<br />

for people who are housebound.<br />

● Community Support Workers<br />

work with clients who have<br />

complex needs including issues<br />

on multiple health problems,<br />

social care, finance, debt,<br />

benefits, housing, bereavement<br />

or any other need.<br />

● We advocate for our clients on<br />

any issue they may have.<br />

Our services are delivered in a<br />

caring, friendly but professional<br />

manner, through our team of<br />

dedicated staff and volunteers.<br />

Volunteering Opportunities<br />

Can you give some time to help others?<br />

if you or anyone you know<br />

would like more information,<br />

please contact us on the<br />

number below or visit our<br />

website<br />

www.ageukbedfordshire.org.uk<br />

tel: 01234 360510<br />

Volunteer for out-of-school Activities Ref 191<br />

Volunteers needed to help bringing in the sports equipment,<br />

checking the yp in and giving them name badges, phoning parents<br />

if young person does not arrive and<br />

making sure young people leave with their parents. You need to 20+<br />

Website Administrator Ref 192<br />

To update the company website with information provided by<br />

other members of the team.<br />

Computer Mentor Ref 193<br />

We assist clients with their search for new employment.One of the<br />

services is training on computers in the use of the internet and office<br />

documentation. This includes helping clients set up email addresses<br />

and use the recently introduced Universal Job Match system.<br />

Computer literate volunteers, who enjoy teaching computer skills,<br />

are needed to mentor clients. This will be mainly on a 1:1 basis and<br />

clients’ IT skills vary considerably. Based in Sandy. 18+<br />

Just to remind you all that volunteering DOES NOT EFFECT YOUR BENEFITS<br />

Telephone: 01234 213100<br />

43 Bromham Road, Bedford MK40 2AA www.volunteeringbedford.org.uk<br />

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Taking care of our mobility<br />

Mo’s Toes offer mobile<br />

routine and ongoing care<br />

for anyone who values their<br />

mobility and general sense of<br />

wellbeing.<br />

Maurice is a qualified Foot Health<br />

Professional and provides an<br />

enjoyable, relaxing service as well<br />

as keeping corns, calluses and<br />

errant toenails under control.<br />

A relaxing massage is a part of the<br />

treatment and many customers<br />

book more than they need to<br />

simply because they enjoy it so<br />

much!<br />

Each session starts with a brief<br />

examination to look for anything<br />

unusual. It is not uncommon<br />

to notice problems like minor<br />

infections at this stage even<br />

though they may not be apparent<br />

to the client. Toenails often show<br />

signs of systemic problems earlier<br />

than other parts of the body so<br />

clients can be advised to seek<br />

further treatment if necessary.<br />

Next, toenails are trimmed,<br />

leaving them correctly shaped<br />

and smooth. Depending on the<br />

needs of the individual, corns,<br />

calluses and hard skin can be<br />

removed, reduced and smoothed.<br />

The treatment finishes with the<br />

application of a suitable foot<br />

massage cream, leaving the feet<br />

feeling refreshed and invigorated.<br />

In an age where personal contact<br />

with the local community is<br />

harder to achieve, Maurice<br />

takes pride in getting to know<br />

his clients and believes this is of<br />

enormous importance.<br />

MO’s TOES<br />

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health<br />

Due to the high level customer<br />

satisfaction, he also offers a<br />

100% satisfaction guarantee -<br />

or your money back! Prices are<br />

very reasonable at just £20.00<br />

for a session. They usually last<br />

for around an hour and include<br />

the cost of any necessary minor<br />

dressings. So why not book<br />

yourself an appointment and give<br />

your feet a treat!<br />

Call Maurice Criddle on:<br />

tel: 01234 926331<br />

Mob: 07758 153205<br />

BEDFORDSHIRE HEARING<br />

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IN THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME<br />

OR AT OUR LOCAL CENTRE<br />

We are a well established friendly business giving expert service and advice,<br />

with no pushy sales talk and no obligation to buy.<br />

10% off from now until end March<br />

call now<br />

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healthy livinG<br />

Fags or swag? Smokers choice for No Smoking Day<br />

More than 750,000 smokers are<br />

expected to ‘swap fags for swag’ on<br />

No Smoking Day on Wednesday 13 March<br />

2013.<br />

The British Heart Foundation hopes that by showing<br />

smokers the swag-style luxuries they could afford,<br />

such as trips to the cinema, meals out or the holiday<br />

of a lifetime for the cost of their usual cigarettes,<br />

smokers will be more likely to try and quit for good.<br />

More than 10 million men and women in the UK<br />

smoke but about two thirds say they want to quit<br />

With the average smoker saving £7 a day, £49 a<br />

week, £210 a month and £2,555 a year if they do<br />

ditch the cigarettes for good,<br />

it’s easy to see<br />

the potential<br />

for some<br />

lifestyle<br />

indulgencies<br />

instead.<br />

Doireann<br />

Maddock,<br />

Senior Cardiac<br />

Nurse at the BHF,<br />

said: “Everyone<br />

loves a little luxury,<br />

but if you smoke,<br />

you could probably only afford the treats you’re<br />

after for you and your family if you quit. That’s why<br />

we’re asking all smokers to ‘swap fags for swag’ on<br />

No Smoking Day and think about what else they<br />

might prefer to spend their money on.”<br />

“Whether it’s buying your child’s birthday presents,<br />

a family trip to a theme park or a complete house<br />

makeover, the financial gain from quitting is one<br />

of the biggest motivating factors for anyone who<br />

wants to kick the habit for good. But whether it’s<br />

your health or wealth that’s the incentive, we’re here<br />

to help and support you at every turn.”<br />

The No Smoking Day campaign, which is now in its<br />

30th year, is set to launch on Wednesday 27 February<br />

2013 to give smokers time to prepare their minds,<br />

seek advice or get any quitting aids they might<br />

need to quit on No Smoking Day itself. Last year No<br />

Smoking Day helped more than 760,000 people quit<br />

smoking and inspired another 1.5 million to seek out<br />

information to help them quit in future.<br />

Smokers who want get more information and advice<br />

can visit www.wequit.co.uk or call 0800 434 6677.<br />

Quit tips<br />

Set a date to stop - and stick to it!<br />

No Smoking Day on Wednesday 13 March 2013 is an<br />

ideal day to quit, with over a million other smokers<br />

all around the UK trying to quit at the same time.<br />

Write down your reasons<br />

Whether it’s saving money<br />

or for the health<br />

of you and<br />

your family,<br />

keep your list<br />

somewhere<br />

handy to use as<br />

a reminder if you<br />

are tempted to<br />

have a cigarette.<br />

Get help<br />

Let friends and family<br />

know you’re quitting<br />

and you could encourage them to<br />

sponsor you, giving an extra dimension to your quit<br />

attempt.<br />

Your GP, nurse or pharmacist will be delighted to<br />

give you advice about stop smoking support and<br />

to let you know about<br />

stop smoking services<br />

and helplines.<br />

reward yourself!<br />

Save the money that<br />

you would have spent<br />

on cigarettes for a treat<br />

such as a new outfit,<br />

going out for a meal or<br />

taking a holiday.<br />

start by visiting: www.wequit.co.uk or call the hotline on 0800 434 6677.<br />

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Interior Specification for Limo for Hire<br />

● Drivers partition wall with privacy curtain<br />

● Side facing limousine-style seating for 16 passengers with individual lap-belts<br />

● Seats trimmed in two tone black and silver with white piping<br />

● Rear bar unit to the centre, between side seats and across the back<br />

● 1x40” LCD screen inside back and 3x19” LCD screens side & front of vehicle<br />

● Full bespoke sound system with 6x5” speakers, 2 x 12” subs<br />

● Combined CD/DVD unit to the front<br />

● Roof panel incorporating fibre-optics and color changing led’s<br />

● Interior laser for cabin laser-light show<br />

● Over 6 foot headroom providing standing room and a spacious cabin interior<br />

● Air conditioning ● Glass and drinks storage areas ● Licensed bar<br />

● 6 wine bottle fridge ● Karaoke machine ● Full COIF cert. supplied by V.O.S.A<br />

Tel: (01234) 354054 info@cedarcoaches.co.uk<br />

Arkwright Road, Bedford MK42 0LE<br />

Property Maintenance<br />

One of the longest established property<br />

maintenance companies in Bedfordshire.<br />

Services include:<br />

• Patios / Fencing / Decking<br />

•Floor & Wall Tiling • Glass & Glazing<br />

installation & repairs • Fascias &<br />

Guttering • Painting &<br />

Decorating • Building • General<br />

Property maintenance etc.<br />

A friendly service that’s second to none.<br />

All work by appointment only.<br />

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standardised purpurea extract<br />

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90 Tablets £10.69 £5.35<br />

Glucosamine Sulphate (1500 mg)<br />

Mega Strength<br />

90 Tablets £14.99 £7.10<br />

Omega 3 Fish Oil (1000 mg)<br />

High in EPA & DHA<br />

90 Capsules £8.99 £4.49<br />

Organic Coconut Oil (500 ml) £9.95 £8.99<br />

1 litre bottle Maximum<br />

Strength Aloe Vera Juice<br />

HALF PRICE for £5.99<br />

Many Protein Powders also Reduced by 50%<br />

PHD Diet Whey 1kg only £22.99<br />

BPHA offers<br />

Computer<br />

Clubs and<br />

Courses for<br />

the Over 50s<br />

So come and discover what you can do<br />

on a computer with the aid of our<br />

friendly volunteers!<br />

Surf the Net, Email friends and family;<br />

Whatever your interests we can offer IT<br />

learning in relaxed and friendly environments.<br />

Call Janet Cook<br />

0330 100 0272<br />

for more information<br />

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environMent<br />

Creating a vast new<br />

country park for Bedfordshire<br />

Bedford River Valley Park is an ambitious regeneration<br />

project to create a vast new country park for<br />

Bedfordshire. The project will unlock more than 3.5<br />

square miles of land, establishing new expanses of riverside<br />

landscape across the flood plain of the River Great Ouse.<br />

Rivalling many regional parks,<br />

Bedford River Valley Park will<br />

form a natural link between<br />

Bedford and the wider<br />

countryside around the village<br />

of Willington. It will become<br />

an inspiring landscape where<br />

visitors of all ages, abilities and<br />

backgrounds can exercise, relax,<br />

play, compete, learn and work in<br />

a variety of natural settings.<br />

a pair of tufted ducks<br />

facility with playing fields, plus<br />

a business park for research and<br />

development and a 100 bed hotel<br />

and conference centre.<br />

exciting projects<br />

Bedford River Valley Park will<br />

be delivered by local authorities<br />

and organisations such as the<br />

Marston Vale Trust, to sport and<br />

recreation clubs, local people<br />

and groups. In 2006, Marston<br />

Vale Trust purchased the Grange<br />

and very easy to ride. Whether<br />

on foot or bike, head east from<br />

Priory and enjoy the delights of<br />

the developing Bedford River<br />

Valley Park.<br />

A thriving volunteer team is now<br />

carrying out a wide range of<br />

important work at the Grange.<br />

The ‘Big Society’ in action; such<br />

wonderfully selfless contributions<br />

made by local people enormously<br />

volunteers at the Grange estate<br />

Estate between the village of<br />

Willington and the river. Since<br />

Creating a new habitat on elstow Brook<br />

It will be one of England’s largest<br />

complexes of woodland, marsh,<br />

and pools, bringing valuable new<br />

opportunities for wildlife, flood<br />

alleviation and the production of<br />

renewable energy.<br />

new developments<br />

An Olympic standard Water<br />

Sports Lake already has planning<br />

permission. Local landowners<br />

have proposed an area to the<br />

south of the lake to be developed.<br />

The scheme proposed is a mix<br />

of extra care housing for elderly<br />

people, a higher education<br />

then, many exciting projects have<br />

been completed.<br />

Dovecote Lake habitat<br />

improvements – reed and<br />

bulrush were planted to prevent<br />

erosion and increase diversity. The<br />

new planting will provide habitats<br />

for fish, bugs and wildfowl.<br />

A new 2 mile cycle loop built<br />

by in 2008 follows the Ouse<br />

as it meanders to the north<br />

of Willington and this is also<br />

becoming popular with cyclists<br />

and walkers. A third connection,<br />

in 2009, completes a figure of<br />

eight of 3½ miles; all surfaced, safe<br />

increase the amount of work that<br />

can be achieved and hopefully,<br />

gives something back in<br />

satisfaction and a feeling of doing<br />

something really worthwhile.<br />

Bedford River Valley Park<br />

is an amazing venture and<br />

somethingthat will be producing<br />

results well into the future.<br />

to find out more visit www.<br />

bedfordrivervalleypark.org.uk<br />

Guy lambourne<br />

forest of Marston vale<br />

tel: 01234 762608 or<br />

email:<br />

guy.lambourne@marstonvale.org<br />

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take Me home<br />

An affectionate young dog who missed<br />

out on a lot of early training, needs a home<br />

committed to helping him “catch up”.<br />

Wood Green Tel: 0844 248 8181<br />

5326 (Godmanchester Centre)<br />

This is Tye, he has come into the centre<br />

with his friend Harvey, Tye is looking for his<br />

forever home, he is good with children.<br />

LEWIS HONEY MUSTARD<br />

Honey and Mustard – lovely brother and sister pair looking for a new home together. They<br />

love to play together but Honey is definitely the boss, though she’s a bit of a lap-cat and<br />

enjoys lots of fuss, loves to be out and about too, usually with Mustard not far behind!<br />

Wood Green Tel: 0844 248 8181 – 4215/6 (Heydon Centre)<br />

TYE HARVEY<br />

This is Harvey he is one year old looking for<br />

his forever home, good with children.<br />

Pauline on 01462 834458 about Tye or Harvey — R.A.T.S. — www.rats-animalrescue.co.uk – 01234 853100<br />

Neutering – The Kindest Cut<br />

N eutering<br />

aniMals<br />

CUDDLES & TOFFEE<br />

Cuddles and Toffee are 15 month old males,<br />

very tame and are 2 lovely boys looking for<br />

a loving family. Call Hazel on 01234 357788.<br />

your pet can<br />

be a controversial<br />

decision to which there<br />

are many opinions and<br />

misconceptions.<br />

neutering. The following misunderstandings<br />

are common;<br />

neutering is expensive<br />

Most vets provide special offers<br />

on neutering. It is worth ringing<br />

At Wood Green we promote the<br />

round to find the best rate. Many<br />

neutering of all dogs, cats and<br />

charities are able to help with a<br />

rabbits for the following reasons;<br />

Unwanted litters<br />

Each year thousands of animals<br />

will find themselves abandoned;<br />

often the result of unplanned<br />

or poorly considered breeding.<br />

Puppies and kittens may be easy<br />

to find homes for but many will<br />

find themselves unwanted once<br />

the novelty wears off. Before<br />

breeding also consider the<br />

financial implications – specific<br />

health tests are required for<br />

many dog breeds and birth<br />

complications require expensive<br />

veterinary treatment.<br />

preventing health problems<br />

Unneutered pets are susceptible<br />

to life threatening womb<br />

infections. The chances of<br />

some types of cancers are also<br />

eradicated through neutering.<br />

Often pets are given up due to<br />

behaviour issues which could<br />

be avoided by neutering. These<br />

include the urine spraying by<br />

male cats and aggression towards<br />

other animals<br />

Wood Green’s Outreach team<br />

provides advice to owners<br />

unconvinced or nervous about<br />

voucher towards the cost. There<br />

is no evidence that it is healthier<br />

for a pet to have a litter before<br />

being spayed. Animals do not<br />

experience the same feelings<br />

about motherhood as humans do.<br />

Even if you keep one of the litter<br />

you will have many other puppies<br />

or kittens to rehome and there<br />

are always risks that breeding<br />

may permanently affect pets’<br />

behaviour and health.<br />

if you would like help or advice<br />

regarding neutering your pet, contact<br />

our outreach team on: 0844 248 8181<br />

www.woodgreen.org.uk<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylife.co.uk<br />

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diary<br />

What’s on<br />

White Horse PH Newnham Avenue<br />

24 hour Live Music Jam and Superbowl night<br />

Sun 3 rd February 11pm -Midnight on Mon 4 th<br />

February. Help raise money for Help4Heroes<br />

Hot dogs and Doughnuts<br />

Free Preparing to Breastfeed Course<br />

Monday 4 th February 7.30-8.30pm<br />

Peter Pan Children’s Centre<br />

01234 269512 or fran_griffin@hotmail.com<br />

The Italian Consulate Office is open every Friday<br />

9.00-12.00 & 14.00-16.00<br />

Italian Church, 12 Woburn Road, Bedford.<br />

Bedford Lions<br />

45 th Charter Anniversary Dinner<br />

at Sharnbrook Hotel. Black Tie, Tickets £45<br />

Call Eddie Burry on 01234 271155 or<br />

07850 482206 - Eddie.burry@btinternet.com<br />

Age UK – Free Learning Lunchtime<br />

Marston Forest Centre<br />

Thursday 7 th February at 11am. An expert from<br />

Age UK will be visiting to talk about what you<br />

may be entitled to as years gather pace!<br />

Tuesday morning walkers<br />

RSPB The Lodge, Sandy<br />

Tues 5th,12th,19th,26th 9:30am - 11:30am<br />

Join our friendly weekly walks around the reserve<br />

with a leader looking for birds, wildlife and<br />

enjoying the reserve. Cost Adults £3 (free for RSPB<br />

members)<br />

Call 01767 680541 - www.rspb.org.uk/thelodge<br />

Nordic Walking Marston Forest Centre<br />

Sunday’s 2pm to 3pm, Tuesday’s 9.30am to<br />

10.30am. 6x1hr sessions £20 paid in advance or<br />

£6 per session. Advance booking essential -<br />

contact Dennis Simpson on 07508 827279 .<br />

E: fortytwa@virginmedia.com<br />

Free Learning Lunchtime<br />

Marston Forest Centre<br />

Thursday 21 February at 11am<br />

Writing your Will with Park Woodfine Heald<br />

Mellows LLP<br />

Have you written your will or does your will need<br />

updating? Just turn up for 11am.<br />

Family Fun Trail<br />

Wrest Park, Bedfordshire<br />

Saturday 16 th February to Sunday 24 th February<br />

11am-4pm<br />

White Horse, Newnham Avenue<br />

Fund-raising Quizzes £5 per person incl.<br />

ploughmans<br />

Wed 6 th Feb Hills Lower School<br />

Wed 13 th Feb The Samaritans<br />

Wed 20 th Feb Hearing Dogs (Unison)<br />

Wed 27 th Feb Friends of Bedford Hospital<br />

Thurs 28 th Feb The Mayor’s Charities<br />

Conservation Task<br />

Marston Forest Centre<br />

Sunday 17 th February at 10.15am<br />

Hedge Planting, wear old clothes and bring lunch.<br />

anna.charles@marstonvale.org or 01234 762614<br />

Fabulous Fox<br />

Friday 22 February<br />

Make a fox mask and discover some fabulous fox<br />

facts. Four sessions, 10am, 11am, 1pm and 2pm.<br />

For children 4-10 years. £2.50 per child<br />

Advance booking 01234 767037<br />

Love Nature Walk<br />

RSPB The Lodge, Sandy Sunday 10 th February<br />

Warm up for Valentine’s Day with a pleasant stroll<br />

around The Lodge Reserve<br />

Adults £4 Children £3 Call 01767 680541<br />

www.rspb.org.uk/thelodge<br />

Children’s Woodpecker Hunt<br />

RSPB The Lodge, Sandy<br />

Monday 18 th Feb – Sunday 24 th February<br />

£1 per sheet. Call 01767 680541<br />

www.rspb.org.uk/thelodge<br />

White Horse, Newnham Avenue Karaoke<br />

Fridays 1 st , 15 th February and Saturday 23 rd Feb<br />

Open Mic Big Band Jam Nights -Monday 25 th<br />

February.<br />

If you would like to list your community or charity<br />

event for free, please email us by February 18th for<br />

March listings. teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

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364444<br />

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● Special Rates for airports & long distance<br />

● We offer a quick & reliable service<br />

● Live Internet Booking<br />

Text Booking Service<br />

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Telephone: 01234 219443/400990<br />

Mobile: 07825 089570<br />

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WATCH REPAIRS/<br />

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JEWELLERY REPAIRS<br />

BIG RANGE OF<br />

WATCHES & JEWELLERY<br />

WATCHWORK<br />

9 LIME STREET, BEDFORD<br />

Tel: 01234 352710<br />

HAVE YOU GOT<br />

PAINFUL FEET?<br />

IS IT GETTING YOU DOWN?<br />

THEN YOU NEED:<br />

Mo’s Toes<br />

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Call Maurice Criddle on:<br />

Tel: 01234 926331 Mob: 07758 153205<br />

SIMPLY<br />

DANCE SHOES<br />

3 Clair Court, Lime Street, Bedford<br />

Tel: 01234 344422<br />

Ballroom/Latin Shoes for:<br />

Men, Women and Children<br />

Good range of styles and and sizes in stock<br />

SALE NOW ON<br />

We also stock shoes for:<br />

Ballet, Tap, Jazz, Line Dancing, Jive<br />

Leotards, Jazz Pants, Leggings, Tights,<br />

Bags and Accessories<br />

To advertise on this page please phone Marie on 07761 472164<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

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HEATING SERVICES<br />

Local Engineer<br />

Specialising in all heating appliances<br />

Breakdowns & Installations<br />

Fixed Boiler Services £55<br />

Landlord Gas Certs<br />

Power Flushing<br />

All Plumbing Repairs Carried Out<br />

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