esprit - Academic Scranton - The University of Scranton
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were one <strong>of</strong> those families that compulsively records everything, but in<br />
fact they have very little footage <strong>of</strong> life prior to what Sue Kleinman calls<br />
“the accident,” and about as many photos as would normally be expected.<br />
Recording was, I think, their attempt to form a narrative <strong>of</strong> how they<br />
wanted things to be. It was a way <strong>of</strong> telling themselves a story <strong>of</strong> how they<br />
loved and accepted their son for whoever he was. And <strong>of</strong> course, it was a<br />
fiction. When Barry Kleinman says to his son in one video about how “we<br />
gotta find you a girl,” the viewer simply cringes. <strong>The</strong> saddest part <strong>of</strong> all is<br />
how the bicycle appears to be playing along.<br />
“It was Barry who ruined everything,” Sue told me, but <strong>of</strong> course<br />
things had been falling apart long before. Jake’s teacher had finally asked<br />
them to stop sending Jake; his presence was too severe a disturbance. “That<br />
bitch. I told her straight out, the boy has a right to an education. And you<br />
know what she had the balls to tell me? ‘What, so he can get a job?’” While<br />
Sue was busy shopping around for a good home-schooling program, she<br />
admits that she noticed Jake’s world retracting. “He’d go out less, and stop<br />
seeing his friends. I think people were uncomfortable, and he could sense<br />
that. Always a sensitive boy. Finally just kept around the house all the time,<br />
moping. I knew we had to figure a solution, and finally one day it hit me.<br />
I said to Barry, ‘If he can honk that horn, he can communicate in Morse<br />
code!’ Barry said he thought it was a great idea, but there was something<br />
funny in his eyes. I should’ve known better than to trust him, but, Jesus,<br />
Barry was supposed to be his father.”<br />
She was wiping tears from her eyes as she showed me out the<br />
door. <strong>The</strong> last thing she said to me was, “Remember, when you write that<br />
article, it’s a ‘he’ and not an ‘it.’” This was important to her; she mentioned<br />
several times in our interview having to correct people on that point. I<br />
don’t think she realizes how <strong>of</strong>ten she herself uses ‘it’ in referring to him.<br />
She is still telling herself she was a good mother.<br />
Barry Kleinman no longer tells himself stories. He has taken up<br />
residence in a no-tell motel at the edge <strong>of</strong> town, where he waits for the<br />
divorce to finalize. His room smells <strong>of</strong> beer, and he was drunk when we<br />
spoke.<br />
“She tell you that old line about how to call him ‘he?’” he asked<br />
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