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<strong>In<strong>for</strong>mation</strong> <strong>for</strong><br />
<strong>Malone</strong>/<br />
<strong>MACE</strong>/<br />
<strong>Appendicostomy</strong><br />
Notes written by parents, <strong>for</strong> parents!<br />
Collated by Bridgette Liedtke<br />
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This document was produced following several discussions on various<br />
online support groups about Antegrade Colonic Enemas and collated so<br />
that parents considering this procedure <strong>for</strong> their child can make a<br />
decision about whether this is something that may assist with the social<br />
continence of their child. It is assumed that the medical health care<br />
professional has discussed the surgical procedure with the parent, and<br />
the parent has been in<strong>for</strong>med of the possible risks and benefits. Parents<br />
reading this document should not take any in<strong>for</strong>mation from here as<br />
medical advice. If you want or need medical advice, you should seek it<br />
from a properly qualified medical health care professional. The<br />
in<strong>for</strong>mation in this document is purely anecdotal, and gathered with the<br />
intention of sharing knowledge and skills.<br />
Parents from Australia, New Zealand, USA, Ireland and Canada<br />
participated and provided answers to the questions posed.<br />
For confidentiality, no names were used and <strong>for</strong> ease of reading, the sex<br />
of the child was male.<br />
In total there were 29 participants, with children ranging from 3 and a<br />
half to 17 years of age. Diagnoses were varied; Imper<strong>for</strong>ate Anus, Spina<br />
Bifida, Hirschprungs Disease, Intestinal Neuronal Dysplasia (NID).<br />
The contributors were gathered from the following groups:<br />
• The Pull-Thru Network http://www.pullthrunetwork.org/<br />
• Imper<strong>for</strong>ate Anus <strong>In<strong>for</strong>mation</strong> and Support Group <strong>for</strong> parents<br />
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/IA-parents/<br />
• NZ-Australia-ACE-and-BOWEL-Network<br />
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NZ-Australia-ACE-and-BOWEL-<br />
Network/<br />
• The VATER Forum http://www.thevaterconnection.com/index.asp<br />
• VACTERL Network http://www.vacterlnetwork.org/<br />
• VACTERL Network (Yahoo Group) related to the above group<br />
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/VACTERLNetwork/<br />
• Bowel Group <strong>for</strong> Kids (BGK) http://www.bgk.org.au/index.php<br />
• Facebook : V.A.T.E.R.and/or V.A.C.T.E.R.L Syndrome awareness<br />
VACTERL Association Support Group<br />
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What is the best thing about having a <strong>Malone</strong>?<br />
• Less mess, less intrusive and that they will be able to do this on<br />
their own eventually.<br />
• No more worry about unpredictable incontinence. Having peace<br />
of mind -- knowing that his colon is getting cleared.<br />
• I believe giving a retrograde enema is less traumatic <strong>for</strong><br />
everyone involved and less intrusive. I always clean him out<br />
each day (no more bowel back-up).<br />
• The ease of doing retrograde enemas. It felt uncom<strong>for</strong>table<br />
giving my son a rectal enema. With the <strong>MACE</strong>, my child can sit<br />
on the toilet with a blanket over him <strong>for</strong> privacy and it just<br />
feels so much less invasive. He sits on the toilet <strong>for</strong> 50 minutes<br />
watching a DVD or doing homework and it's just part of our<br />
everyday routine. His sister often keeps him company. It also<br />
means that my husband is as com<strong>for</strong>table giving the enema as I<br />
am.<br />
• The com<strong>for</strong>t in knowing most or all of the colon is cleaned out all<br />
at once.<br />
• Not intrusive to private parts (my son didn't like the rectals).<br />
• Independence, continence, no soiling etc<br />
• It's so much "less invasive" if you will, than rectal enemas. My<br />
child loves it and he sits on the potty in the family room when<br />
he does the enema and it's much more private.<br />
• We definitely are able to clean him out and keep his undies<br />
clean 98% of the time with the flush (that's the language we<br />
use at home - we reference it as his flush.) Be<strong>for</strong>e, when we<br />
were working with oral laxatives, we could not achieve<br />
consistent results. We might have a string of several days<br />
where they would work; but they were not reliable. The flush is<br />
reliable <strong>for</strong> us. (Oh, and rectal enemas were completely<br />
traumatic <strong>for</strong> him & our whole family. Just never worked <strong>for</strong> us.)<br />
• My child’s life and the lives of all family members have been<br />
completely changed positively due to the <strong>Malone</strong>. My son<br />
suffered not only from severe constipation, but also repeated<br />
strictures, fissures, and severe pain daily!<br />
• Independence. I set up the <strong>for</strong>mula and my son takes over<br />
from there. It was getting very difficult to do a rectal enema<br />
on an older child. Plus, there used to be a great mess - poop<br />
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everywhere. Much cleaner now. The poop used to drip out, or<br />
fly back out at me as I was doing the enema, etc. Also, it was<br />
hard to find a place large enough <strong>for</strong> him to lie down<br />
com<strong>for</strong>tably as he got older, and now his flushes are done<br />
upright on the toilet.<br />
• Set up time is cut down. It is so much more com<strong>for</strong>table <strong>for</strong><br />
him.<br />
• We decided to get an ACE/<strong>Malone</strong> last May. The ACE has<br />
changed our lives! We no longer have to wonder, guess or<br />
strategize anymore -- we just know that he is cleaned out -- and<br />
we know that we have to do it each day. Although the ACE<br />
involves inserting a catheter, the ease of administration and the<br />
open stoma make it a nice option.<br />
• It shaved off 20 minutes of total time. He is in and out in 40<br />
minutes... although sometimes he wants to stay longer because<br />
he is in the middle of something.<br />
• I've just been really pleased with the <strong>Malone</strong> because,<br />
generally, we only have to deal with bowel movements once<br />
a day, and that's made life so much easier <strong>for</strong> us.<br />
How has it helped your child and/or your family?<br />
• I sit my child on the potty and then we start the flow of the<br />
solution. It has given him such confidence and he feels like<br />
every other child who has to go potty. No laying on the floor<br />
like with the rectal enemas. Even my oldest daughter sits in the<br />
bathroom with him and they watch a movie together and she will<br />
help hold the tube in.<br />
• Our lives are more predictable and my child seems to have much<br />
more energy without the constant bowel back-up.<br />
• My child isn't in pain any longer, which he always was either<br />
from a sore bum be<strong>for</strong>e the op or from a hellish few months<br />
after the op trying to get the meds mix right with little or no<br />
help from his team. That put enormous strain on us as a<br />
family.<br />
• Independence (to some degree).<br />
• Being able to plan when he has to be on the toilet and time it to<br />
not interfere with his busy social calendar.<br />
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• It's given my child his dignity. He didn't like laying face down<br />
on a changing pad while his toddler brother was being potty<br />
trained.<br />
• No fear and anxiety over soiling at school. No staying home<br />
from school as he did when soiling was bad. For me, not having<br />
to have a plan in my head of where every public toilet was<br />
situated on outings. Not having to even think about it when going<br />
places and taking underwear, clothes etc. Having a happy ‘new’<br />
child, one that wasn’t grumpy and tired from being blocked up.<br />
• It's just more pleasant all around. It did not change the time it<br />
takes to complete an enema (something we had hoped <strong>for</strong>), but<br />
it's just great and my child likes it.<br />
• Keeps him clean! He has (KNOCK ON WOOD) never had an<br />
accident at school, which was my biggest concern. We do the<br />
flush in the evenings; and he goes to school from 7:30 to 2:00.<br />
This is his third year of being at school & he's never had an<br />
accident there.<br />
• My child will become independent with regard to his bowel<br />
management and be able to keep washouts private. At the<br />
moment he is 4 and often removes the catheter himself and<br />
wipes his own bottom.<br />
• My child got his <strong>MACE</strong> at 3 and a half, so he will grow up with<br />
this routine as normal to him.<br />
• Having a <strong>MACE</strong> means that in the future it will be easier <strong>for</strong><br />
other adults such as grandparents (or a teacher/school nurse on<br />
school camps) to assist with washouts.<br />
• We are now able to go on vacations and my child can stay clean<br />
during the day.<br />
• It has helped our child have the freedom to wear underwear<br />
instead of nappies – he was very excited when we bought his<br />
first jocks. No accidents - there<strong>for</strong>e no smell, no reason <strong>for</strong> any<br />
teasing or negative comments from anyone. No problems<br />
swimming in a public/school pool – no fear of accidents. No more<br />
constipation which translates into no UTI infections.<br />
• He is able to live like a normal teenager the other 23 hours of<br />
the day.<br />
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How old was your child when they could<br />
manage independently?<br />
• My child had his <strong>Malone</strong> done fairly young so we still help him<br />
with it. He is 4 years old and he had the surgery done a few<br />
months be<strong>for</strong>e he turned three.<br />
• He got his <strong>Malone</strong> eight months ago (he is ten years old) -- he<br />
does most of the care himself -- with some supervision.<br />
• My child is 7 and still doesn't mix his own meds.<br />
• 8 years old - being the control freak I am, I didn't try<br />
earlier...he insisted at 8 that he go into the bathroom, shut the<br />
door and "poop in privacy like a normal kid".<br />
• He had it done at 10yrs and could manage independently quite<br />
soon after that (ie. @ 10 yrs)<br />
• I set up the kangaroo bag with the <strong>for</strong>mula and then he does<br />
the rest himself and is 14.<br />
• My child is 6 years old and he can do the <strong>Malone</strong> and<br />
Mitrofanoff, with supervision. We've never let him do this stuff<br />
independently.<br />
• Except <strong>for</strong> the pouring of the glycerin & saline into the gravity<br />
bag, my child who is 8 yrs old is capable of doing the rest<br />
himself. I can imagine how, when he's older, he'll be able to do<br />
that measuring part, as well. But <strong>for</strong> now, I want to make sure<br />
the recipe is made correctly.<br />
• He is eight and I still help him get started and get on the<br />
potty. He has been finishing on his own occasionally.<br />
• It is a very, very good thing. He is newly 5 and<br />
has already started figuring out how to put the tube in, etc. He<br />
definitely feels more normal.<br />
• He was 13 when he got the <strong>Malone</strong>, and he became independent<br />
about 8 months later.<br />
• He is not 100% independent yet at 8, I mix the solution. He has<br />
been putting in the tube <strong>for</strong> a few year now... maybe since he<br />
was 5.<br />
• My son got the malone at age 15. He is independent as far as<br />
inserting the tube. If my husband or I are home (most<br />
evenings) we mix the solution and set everything up. If we are<br />
out together than my son does everything alone.<br />
• Mine is almost 12 and we still mix the flush <strong>for</strong> him but after we<br />
hang the bag, he's on his own to insert his tube, connect it to<br />
the bag tubing and start it.<br />
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What problems did you encounter and what<br />
tips/tricks did you use to address them?<br />
Stenosis:<br />
• Taping a smaller size catheter in place or putting in a smaller size<br />
plug <strong>for</strong> a day or two, then replacing with correct sized cath/plug.<br />
I used the plug every night <strong>for</strong> a good month. Then tapered down,<br />
just like dilatations of the anal opening.<br />
• My child’s hole did look pretty stretched out during our frequent<br />
plug use but it now looks like a pencil tip sized hole, yet it's<br />
stretchy enough <strong>for</strong> us to easily insert the tube. After a few<br />
months of plug usage on a regular basis, we did not need it at all.<br />
It's been at least a year, maybe 2, since we used it.<br />
• Keep tube in place over night at least once a week. He<br />
has tactile defensiveness so the need to tape (ACE) plugs in place<br />
did not work out, <strong>for</strong> some reason the tube hanging out is easier<br />
<strong>for</strong> her to tolerate<br />
• Truly, it's like a pierced ear, it needs to be dilated. The ACE plug<br />
is a must or leaving the original tube in longer than 2 weeks. No<br />
problems after we started using the plug on occasion. Now we<br />
never need it.<br />
• We use a 10 gauge <strong>MACE</strong> plug, and 10 gauge catheters (we started<br />
out using size 8). We take the plug out <strong>for</strong> swimming. If we <strong>for</strong>get<br />
to replace the plug we use a 8 gauge catheter <strong>for</strong> the washout and<br />
the 10 gauge plug goes in fine after that.<br />
• We have a “night” catheter that we have cut and tied a knot in so<br />
it is occluded. We wrap an ace bandage around the abdomen to<br />
keep it in place. Sometimes it falls out, but no big deal b/c<br />
catheterizing it stoma more frequently has really seemed to help.<br />
Plug popping out:<br />
• Taping an “x” of micropore over the plug, we double the tape over<br />
at each end to <strong>for</strong>m a tab making it easier to remove the tape.<br />
We use flesh coloured micropore so it is less conspicuous.<br />
• We have found the 3cm length plugs the best length <strong>for</strong> our child.<br />
He is 4 years old and we have found that the longer plugs seem to<br />
push themselves out with increased activity (we lost one at a<br />
playground) and the shorter 15mm plugs can work their way out<br />
under the micropore.<br />
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Granulation:<br />
• Granulation often looks like and is confused with a small prolapsed<br />
of intestinal tissue. You hear it described as looking like cauliflower<br />
on the net but I have never seen it look like that. All the cases of<br />
granulation that I’ve seen personally look like a smooth bulge of red<br />
intestinal tissue poking out. It’s not though so don’t panic. Kenalog<br />
is great <strong>for</strong> getting rid of it if you get it on quickly enough. Blob it<br />
on, don’t rub it in.<br />
• We do sometimes have a problem with granulation tissue which is<br />
easily fixed with silver nitrate. We also keep gauze around the<br />
tube so it doesn't cause to much granulation tissue. His tube is<br />
always taped down so it doesn't catch and so he doesn't touch it.<br />
Skin Irritation:<br />
• Using 3M No-sting Barrier Wipes.<br />
• Bepanthan, Vitamin E or other such barrier/diaper (Nappy) cream.<br />
• Rotate band aids, gauze with tape.<br />
• White paper tape to cover the stoma during the day - it is not<br />
harsh on the skin, and it protects both the stoma and surrounding<br />
skin from irritation brought on by clothing or during play.<br />
• I did use a steroid cream, but this caused the skin to thin. Find<br />
prevention using the Allevyn Thin plasters is much better than any<br />
cure.<br />
• Initial healing is tricky too. We avoided dressings, which just hold<br />
the acid ‘tummy gook’ against the skin. Air time was best, with<br />
frequent cleaning (warm water and a little tea tree oil) and<br />
bepanthen nappy rash crème to protect the surrounding skin.<br />
• We don't have any skin irritation problems, but we keep the area<br />
clean and put mederma gel on the scaring every day.<br />
• My child kind of lives all the time with some permanent redness<br />
around his navel. I know that is due to the fact that he keeps the<br />
plug in 24 hrs a day. BUT, that's how it needs to be. One thing<br />
that helps a little is we alternate where we place the tape (durable<br />
clear is what we use) over the plug, to give different parts<br />
breathing room.<br />
• Once in a while the clothes rub on either the <strong>Malone</strong> or<br />
Mitrofanoff and that makes the area sore. We just tape some<br />
gauze over the area and that works great. We don't want to use a<br />
bandaid since that might keep the opening overly moist.<br />
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• We use latex free bandaids, but had to find the right ones. Not all<br />
latex free are the same.<br />
• We found a great tape—Mefix, and got insurance to cover it. It’s<br />
rather expensive.<br />
• Sometimes the feeling tighter is actually some irritation or scab at<br />
the malone site. We usually apply a warm wash cloth <strong>for</strong> 10 minutes<br />
or so prior to inserting catheter <strong>for</strong> the enema. We are also using<br />
a little betamethasone cream at night to the site to reduce the<br />
inflammation.<br />
• If a scab <strong>for</strong>ms, we just use a warm wash cloth to remove it and<br />
the tube goes right in.<br />
Flow Rate:<br />
• I open the gravity bag to its fullest capacity, so the flow is much<br />
faster than 10 minutes - I'd say the whole bag (we're at 500 ccs<br />
of saline + 25 of the glycerine) runs into him in less than 5<br />
minutes. I feel like the days when I walk away & the gravity bag is<br />
"stuck" - <strong>for</strong> some reason not draining - and the total input time is<br />
longer, like 15 or 20 minutes, that he's more likely to leak. The<br />
stool will still get removed; but he will have water leak into under<br />
an hour (or two hours or even three hours) later.<br />
• I learned the long and hard way is to slow down the flow. Now that<br />
we have done that, it works so efficiently. When I was shown how<br />
to flush through the <strong>Malone</strong>, they showed me to open the kangeroo<br />
bag completely and let the solution flush in. This would mean that<br />
all the solution would be in within 5-8 min. We tried everything<br />
under the sun to keep him accident free and finally when we slowed<br />
the flow down, we have success. I have the kangeroo bags with the<br />
slider ball so you can control the flow. I let it go in over 20 min and<br />
in total my child sits <strong>for</strong> 50 min on the potty and we are done and<br />
accident free. It took me almost a year to work this out.<br />
• We have experimented with how fast the solution is administered<br />
and have found that a very slow flow (we use syringes) results in a<br />
better washout <strong>for</strong> my child. If the solution goes in quickly<br />
he often gets a hard ball of poo plugging his anus which<br />
requires manual removal and is uncom<strong>for</strong>table <strong>for</strong> him. We have<br />
also found that slow flow seems to reduce the likeliness of soiling<br />
in the hour following a washout.<br />
• Sometimes if it goes in too fast and comes out too fast the<br />
solution is cutting around the edges of blockages and leaving the<br />
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Misc:<br />
solid stuff behind. Particularly if what is coming out is smooth<br />
liquid without much texture. I would suggest you slow it down going<br />
in, by putting in say a quarter of the flush then waiting a few<br />
minutes, then another quarter and so on. Putting in a smaller<br />
amount to start with will hopefully give a bit of soak time so that it<br />
softens it all up be<strong>for</strong>e the rest comes along and takes it all<br />
through.<br />
• I also agree that it might be helpful to have the child try to<br />
squeeze and hold <strong>for</strong> as long as they can when the flush is starting<br />
so that the saline has time to soften the stool throughout the<br />
colon.<br />
• Little trouble with the flow backing up or stopping in the tube...we<br />
learned to start the flow going in the sink or bathtub be<strong>for</strong>e<br />
hooking it up.<br />
• My child’s recipe is 20ml of glycerine with 80ml of saline drawn<br />
up equally into two 50ml syringes. Prior to connecting the end to<br />
the catheter we hold the syringe tip up and pull the plunger down<br />
to add air to the syringe. The air pushes all the solution through<br />
the catheter. If the syringe tip points down after adding air and<br />
be<strong>for</strong>e it's connected to the catheter the solution will drip out.<br />
Mucous usually indicates that the bowel is empty, I then put<br />
through a 20ml 'chaser' of saline. I flush the toilet at this point.<br />
This means the toilet is less smelly and he doesn't mind the toilet<br />
being flushed while he's sitting on it.<br />
• Certain foods e.g. popcorn, corn, oranges caused my child to block.<br />
Un<strong>for</strong>tunately I had to learn what foods by studying his stools!<br />
• My child started with a Chait in the <strong>Malone</strong> channel (it’s an<br />
Australian/New Zealand thing), which can be hard to open. My<br />
solution was to put KY on the stalky bit every time I closed it.<br />
• When we put the catheter into the <strong>Malone</strong>, we find the hole (we<br />
can't actually see it), gently push the catheter in, remove it and<br />
get a little more lubricant on the tip, and put it in. We often do<br />
this a few times and it makes it easier and the catheter slides<br />
easier.<br />
• Our biggest problem was his extreme fear of having the catheter<br />
inserted. He was afraid it would hurt and would fight us. We ended<br />
up, during those first six-eight weeks, working with a child<br />
psychologist, who specializies in children with medical problems, to<br />
come up with some strategies <strong>for</strong> calming him & getting him to stop<br />
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fighting us. We also started using ACE plugs, so that he knew that<br />
the hole would never have a chance to close up. Those helped<br />
tremendously. Even now, he worries a lot about the hole closing up,<br />
or narrowing so that it will hurt to put the catheter in. We have<br />
him dip the tip into KY jelly be<strong>for</strong>e he inserts it - he feels like it<br />
helps.<br />
• Sometimes he has cramps – I usually go and rub his belly. I think<br />
just having an adult with him helps.<br />
• When my child had diarrohea from antibiotics, I figured he didn’t<br />
need an enema since he's going anyway. WRONG <strong>for</strong> more than one<br />
reason. I let it go a week without giving the enema while he was<br />
having diarrohea and the hole started to close. I couldn't pass the<br />
tube, so back to surgery <strong>for</strong> a revision and this time we kept the<br />
tube in 3 or 4 weeks. Now, I know that <strong>for</strong> whatever reason I<br />
decide not to give the enema at least pass the tube in every other<br />
day. Also, now I know that when he starts with diarrhea that I<br />
immediately start the enema to flush him out. It saves on diapers<br />
and diaper rash.<br />
• I use a large band-aid on it at all times. You never know when a<br />
leak is going to break out. I know all about the constipating diet. I<br />
have opted not to go through that right now as my child is a very<br />
picky eater and as long as he's eating I'll deal with the<br />
consequences. Actually, he doesn't have leakage often, but I like<br />
to be ready just in case, and also to save from potentially staining<br />
clothes.<br />
• The biggest problem was leaking and this was helped by Deflux. He<br />
would tape gauze pads on over the stoma every day.<br />
Un<strong>for</strong>tunately, this caused skin break down. He’s allergic to<br />
latex. Since the Deflux, he’s only had to cover it about 5-6 times in<br />
a year!!!<br />
• Ensure you have EVERYTHING you need in terms of supplies,<br />
including stuff to cover emergencies, i.e. if a chait button were to<br />
get pulled out, have a replacement on hand. Often small hospitals<br />
will NOT have the expertise or equipment to help. Get good advice<br />
on what to do if you live far from a hospital with trained staff. Get<br />
staff to show you what to do be<strong>for</strong>e you leave hospital. Join an<br />
internet group with others who share similar interests. People at<br />
the coal face every day are the experts or are striving to be<br />
experts!<br />
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What do you wish you had known prior to surgery<br />
that you had to learn the hard way?<br />
• Don't expect to get the flush perfect <strong>for</strong> several months so<br />
anticipate them wearing pull-ups until all the kinks are worked out.<br />
• I wish that we were more aware, when he first got the <strong>Malone</strong>,<br />
about the possibility of it closing up and/or having pain when trying<br />
to insert the catheter. We had to learn the hard way that the skin<br />
can heal very quickly -- We had to go down to a 6 fr feeding tube<br />
(taped on) <strong>for</strong> our irrigations and work back up to a 10 fr. Once he<br />
was back to 10 fr, we obtained the ACE plugs and we haven't had<br />
any problems since! (Saved us from having to do a revision!)<br />
• Stomas are very vascular. It takes very little irritation to cause it<br />
to bleed, and it takes a while to get it to stop. Make sure and keep<br />
it covered (we like to use white paper tape), so that the stoma<br />
stays nice and protected.<br />
• That it wasn't a quick-fix solution. Our surgeon let us believe that<br />
we could go straight home and everything would be wonderful<br />
immediately. However it took us 18 months to finally get things<br />
working smoothly and that only happened because I found this<br />
network. I am really glad I didn't give up on the <strong>MACE</strong> though as I<br />
was tempted to when the going got tough.<br />
• Insist on total bowel cleanout be<strong>for</strong>e the surgery, even if this<br />
requires hospital admission the day be<strong>for</strong>e.<br />
• The new tract will want to close up. Keep a tube in place at all times<br />
<strong>for</strong> the first several months.<br />
• That it would be a gunky, goopy messy wound site.<br />
• That the recipe is everything and it doesn’t pay to stick with what<br />
the doctors recommend if it’s not working. Just saline rarely works!<br />
The Mums at the coalface are much better at recipes.<br />
• That it’s not as straight<strong>for</strong>ward afterwards as the surgeons lead<br />
you to believe. The surgery is the easy bit, it’s getting it running<br />
properly and all the little teething problems that you don’t expect.<br />
• Nothing really except we are glad that the <strong>Malone</strong> my child has is<br />
larger than most we saw while we were in hospital. My child uses a<br />
size 12FR catheter. Many of the kid’s catheters are tiny. We like<br />
the larger size and wonder if it's less prone to closing.<br />
• It took us several weeks - maybe six? - to figure out the recipe.<br />
That was hard <strong>for</strong> us. We were just using plain saline, with no<br />
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glycerin, the first week or so, and he ended up getting VERY<br />
backed up (stool was coming out the tube, when we'd stick it in the<br />
ostomy). So we messed around with glycerin & doses <strong>for</strong> quite<br />
some time. I got very discouraged at first, very worried that we'd<br />
made a terrible mistake. But the nurse we were working with was<br />
extremely supportive & optimistic & accessible - she'd walk us<br />
through every dose change, until we finally arrived at relative<br />
continence.<br />
• Our child's <strong>Malone</strong> was placed low which means he still needs to be<br />
lying down during the flush. It took a while to learn the best<br />
positioning, but even so, I wouldn’t go back.<br />
• We wished that we would have known that it wasn't going to<br />
automatically work without any problems. Our child did not know<br />
what it was like to push, so we spent months teaching him to push.<br />
Whenever we were anywhere but home, he had problems emptying,<br />
so we made sure that we were always home, at the same time,<br />
every evening. This was very limiting <strong>for</strong> us as a family.<br />
• It can sometimes leak. My child required 2 revisions. The second<br />
one was with Deflux, which is great. It won’t withstand another<br />
revision.<br />
• That the “recipe” that was given to us might not work as well as<br />
had been suggested by the nurse educator.<br />
• Our surgeon told us that 1 in 10 will need a revision.<br />
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If you were doing every other day (second daily)<br />
rectal enemas, did you need to change the<br />
frequency once the <strong>Malone</strong> was in place?<br />
• We were able to continue daily and skip every Friday.<br />
• Rectal enemas were only sporadic (and unsuccessful). We did daily<br />
flushes with the ACE.<br />
• NA - we've always done daily enemas.<br />
• We skip either Friday or Saturday pretty regular now with no<br />
problems... we never skipped with rectal enemas (at least I don't<br />
remember).<br />
If you were doing rectal enemas, did you need to<br />
adjust your recipe?<br />
• We needed to increase the saline solution once we switched to<br />
retrograde.<br />
• We did. Not sure if it was inevitable anyway due to growth spurt<br />
(we increased and in the end changed to a whole new recipe due to<br />
the dangers of fleet).<br />
• Our recipe is exactly the same. With both we have done, and<br />
currently do 700 mls saline + 30 mls glycerine.<br />
• We learned that after the surgery, there is so much change going<br />
on the body that it is hard to determine what recipe to use. I<br />
switched it all over the place and after months ended up with the<br />
same recipe we had <strong>for</strong> the rectals. So my advice would be keep<br />
everything the same <strong>for</strong> several months until the body has had time<br />
to regulate itself and then if you have to change things, do so at a<br />
later time to save yourself some frustration.<br />
• Yes it needed to be stronger. We added fleet. We have been able<br />
to take the fleet out and have been using Castile soap.<br />
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How long did it take to establish a working recipe or<br />
routine?<br />
• 3 months? But as he grows we have to adjust it anyway. It's always<br />
a work in progress. The routine he adjusts immediately to though.<br />
A much happier way to spend the morning!<br />
• Several months.<br />
• A couple of months. My child had surgery in early July. He was<br />
perfected in time <strong>for</strong> school in September.<br />
• 1 month. Would have been faster but in those days I thought I<br />
needed to stick with Dr’s orders!<br />
• Probably just a few days. What we had to learn was to really slow<br />
down the rate of flow of the solution. We need that solution to<br />
take about 15 minutes to go in or she doesn't get a good cleanout.<br />
• About 2 months <strong>for</strong> us.<br />
• Not long – we almost nailed it from the beginning.<br />
• Haha...about 9 months. The first month was hell. I kept thinking,<br />
"WHAT HAVE WE DONE?!"<br />
• About 6 months. The recipe worked great at the hospital and once<br />
we got home it didn't work, so had to return within days <strong>for</strong> more<br />
assistance and lots of visits until the recipe was right. We still<br />
adjust it ourselves when the results aren't there that we expect.<br />
• It took about 8 months of tweaking until it was set.<br />
• The routine that works <strong>for</strong> us now probably took us about 9<br />
months. Mind you, that included 3 months in intensive care and we<br />
had little control over that period, so I would say 6 months.<br />
• It took about 4-6 weeks <strong>for</strong> our flush to work and keep him clean<br />
<strong>for</strong> 24 hours.<br />
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How long did your surgeon suggest the initial<br />
catheter remain in place <strong>for</strong>? Would you have<br />
changed the time frame?<br />
• After the surgery the tube (catheter) stayed in <strong>for</strong> three weeks.<br />
I found it beneficial to keep it as open as possible. So we used only<br />
two bandaids to secure the catheter and let the wound heal. It<br />
oozed some fluid <strong>for</strong> several weeks so when it was completely<br />
covered it would get more irritated. Ours was in <strong>for</strong> three weeks<br />
and we had no problems with that afterward. We did pass the<br />
catheter morning and night <strong>for</strong> a few months afterward to ensure<br />
it healed properly.<br />
• About two weeks -- would have preferred longer to possibly avoid<br />
closure issues.<br />
• Two weeks. Then we used the plug <strong>for</strong> several months, as it did the<br />
same thing as leaving a catheter in <strong>for</strong> a longer period without the<br />
hassle of having a tube hanging around.<br />
• 2 weeks. That was ok, but from what I gather, most people then<br />
need a stopper <strong>for</strong> a longer period of time. My child needed a<br />
stopper (ACE Plug) <strong>for</strong> a few months.<br />
• Not long enough. Yes leave it in place <strong>for</strong> several months. It is so<br />
scary when it starts to get blocked.<br />
• Supposed to be at least 2 weeks. Due to scheduling issues, we had<br />
to have the tube removed 10 days later. I would say 3 weeks might<br />
have been better. Still, I recommend having a plug on hand.<br />
• No initial catheter. Had a Chait placed in the channel during the<br />
ACE surgery.<br />
• My child’s doctor kept the <strong>Malone</strong> and Mitrofanoff initial catheters<br />
in place <strong>for</strong> 7 weeks. That's typically what he does and <strong>for</strong> us, that<br />
was great. The area was completely healed and we have had no<br />
problems.<br />
• 3 weeks - really just until we were able to get back there - looks<br />
perfect and works perfectly!<br />
• I believe it was four to six weeks. No.<br />
• 4 weeks, Nope<br />
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What other tips/tricks have you found that you<br />
would pass on?<br />
• One thing I thought to share that the Drs have highly stressed to<br />
us is to get your rectal enemas working perfectly with no accidents<br />
be<strong>for</strong>e you ever consider the <strong>Malone</strong>. The <strong>Malone</strong> will not work<br />
better that the rectal enemas, it is just a different way of<br />
administering them.<br />
• Take the foley catheter out as soon as the enema is finished<br />
running in. Doing so will ensure that there is no water/stool left<br />
near the stoma after the child gets off the potty. Otherwise, you<br />
may experience a small amount of leaking later in the day. I've also<br />
found that if you do experience leaking not related to the foley<br />
catheter being left in too long, it could be an indicator that an<br />
accident might occur soon. In my child’s case, it is usually<br />
something that he ate that is going to run through him too fast.<br />
He's hypermotile, and it will show up in his <strong>Malone</strong> first a few hours<br />
be<strong>for</strong>e he has an accident. It helps to be prepared.<br />
• Use a soft com<strong>for</strong>table toilet seat as it is a long time to sit on the<br />
toilet.<br />
• Don't be discouraged if it's not perfect at first. It takes time.<br />
Probably stick to your original recipe <strong>for</strong> a good chunk of time<br />
unless the child is becoming backed up. Tolerate accidents as the<br />
body adjusts to the new system. Let the child be an active<br />
participant in daily flush.<br />
• There are so many things it’s hard to know where to start. Flushes,<br />
timing. I guess one of the things that makes a really big difference<br />
to being able to predict potential blockages be<strong>for</strong>e they happen is<br />
collecting the output (we used a plastic ice cream container in the<br />
toilet) . What it looks like (be<strong>for</strong>e it hits the water because once it<br />
does, you can’t tell) in terms of texture, colour, quantity tells you<br />
exactly what’s going on and where you are heading.<br />
• Remember that rectally, you had to keep the solution in place <strong>for</strong><br />
8-10 minutes or so, prior to deflating the balloon/removing the<br />
rectal cone and sitting on the potty. This is the same thing. If the<br />
solution doesn't stay in the colon <strong>for</strong> at least that amount of time,<br />
and <strong>for</strong> us longer, the colon doesn't get the irritation it needs to<br />
clean out. If you let the solution go in too quickly, it just pours out<br />
the other end without cleaning.<br />
• I was one of those people who didn't want a TV in our bedroom.<br />
BUT, we have one now, as the bathroom our child uses to do his<br />
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flush has a toilet w/ access to our bedroom. So flush time is now<br />
when the kids watch TV - usually around 5:00 pm or so - while<br />
hubby & I are starting on dinner. Hubby found a table with wheels,<br />
so we wheel that in every night and he can do homework or color or<br />
eat snacks while he sits there. His sibling sits on our bed, so they<br />
talk about what they are watching, etc. I'm glad it's a very "family<br />
friendly" event, considering its frequency. Oh, and, I don't know if<br />
you have other children - but we have a rule that our other child<br />
can't be outside with the neighbors/friends during flush time, as<br />
that made the one doing the flush feel left out.<br />
• Use of Movicol/MiraLax 12-24 hrs prior to washout helps my child<br />
have a better result.<br />
• If I don't think my child’s washout has been very effective I mix<br />
another 5ml of glycerine with 45mL of saline and put that through.<br />
• I usually sit on the toilet floor while administering the solution and<br />
stay there chatting to him while it takes effect. I encourage him<br />
to 'push' once the poo has started (and at several intervals during<br />
his toilet sit). I can see the stool go into the toilet and note the<br />
colour and consistency of it. I can see how much poo there is and<br />
use this to gauge the effectiveness of the washout.<br />
• When my child starts having diarrhea the <strong>Malone</strong> starts leaking.<br />
Enema or not. I figured that if I could leave a <strong>Malone</strong> Plug in that<br />
I could leave the feeding tube used to give the enema in and just<br />
cap it. So, when he has bad leakage, instead of irritating his skin<br />
w/ the constant change of the band aid, I just put the tube in<br />
and cap it. Also, they left it in <strong>for</strong> several weeks after surgery, so<br />
I figure a few days couldn't hurt.<br />
• Invest in a mini DVD player. Try to keep to a routine, but don’t<br />
feel totally bound by it. You and your child should try to live as<br />
normal a life as possible. We move the enema to adjust to other<br />
activities in our lives and even up the solution if we have to go 48<br />
hours between times. Usually we have a pretty regular routine<br />
though.<br />
• Don't change your recipe often. You should have the same person<br />
mix the recipe so it is always consistent.<br />
• When travelling, buy a stick-on hook <strong>for</strong> the bathroom. They’re<br />
great <strong>for</strong> hanging the bag, so you don’t have to hold it. It works at<br />
home, too.<br />
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Catheter tricks/tips:<br />
• Once the tube is inserted <strong>for</strong> the flush we place a piece of cut<br />
gauze over the tube and secure it with paper tape. This keeps the<br />
tube in place during the flush.<br />
• We generally insert the catheter about 8-10cm. We found<br />
measuring 10cm and marking it on the catheter to be very helpful<br />
to know how far to insert it. If it's not inserted far enough,<br />
solution will come out of the <strong>MACE</strong> around the catheter.<br />
• We use a #10 Fr tube <strong>for</strong> the flush, but he inserts a #8 first to<br />
open up the tract. I recently purchased a #6 to have on hand if the<br />
#8 is not going in easily, and it already came in handy this week.<br />
• Make sure you order the firm catheters as they are easier to<br />
insert than the soft ones.<br />
• Make sure you don't leave hospital without a spiggot or two. We<br />
still use ours. We leave the catheter in during the toilet sit time<br />
and spiggot the end (because stuff can come back out of it). It<br />
just helps keep the <strong>MACE</strong> nice and open (This ensures that the plug<br />
will be easy to insert after showering). My husband had to cut the<br />
tip off our spiggot and fill it with glue to shorten it to fit the<br />
catheter end.<br />
• I like using an Ace bandage around my child’s belly to keep the tube<br />
in. At first we were taping it in but the skin started to get rough.<br />
• We replace the tube weekly and the bag monthly.<br />
• 1st of the month I change bags and feeding tube.<br />
• We've been using each catheter (12Fr) and bag <strong>for</strong> about a month<br />
be<strong>for</strong>e switching. We've not noticed any problem and wash them<br />
both after and hang them to dry.<br />
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What advice would you give to parents considering<br />
this surgery <strong>for</strong> their child?<br />
• I would highly recommend this surgery and it has been the best<br />
choice <strong>for</strong> our child. I feel like it gives him much more privacy and<br />
normalcy.<br />
• If your life has become unmanageable and chaotic because of<br />
incontinence and bowel back-up -- don't hesitate. It really made a<br />
difference <strong>for</strong> our child and our family! He sometimes indicates<br />
concern about possibly having to do this <strong>for</strong> his whole life -- and he<br />
is bothered by the fact that he has to do it everyday -- but overall,<br />
he seems much more at ease and happy with the predictability that<br />
it gives to her life. Going to the conferences, and meeting other<br />
children who have the same or similar surgeries, has helped as<br />
well.<br />
• Of all the stomas my child has had placed (colostomy, vesicostomy,<br />
Mitrofanoff), the <strong>Malone</strong> has been the best and most problem free<br />
of them all. Not really specific advice, just want to encourage<br />
other parents by letting them know how wonderful it has been <strong>for</strong><br />
us.<br />
• Go <strong>for</strong> it, but be ready to keep looking <strong>for</strong> advise on getting the<br />
mix right.<br />
• Ask the surgeon how many he has done and ask about bowel<br />
cleanout be<strong>for</strong>e the surgery.<br />
• If you think that your child will not succeed on laxatives and<br />
enemas have worked well <strong>for</strong> at least a year...do it! Having an<br />
elective surgery done is always a difficult decision, but it was a<br />
great decision <strong>for</strong> our family.<br />
• Go <strong>for</strong> it! It’s not a major surgery but it can make a huge<br />
difference to your lives. It’s reversible. Everyone I know that’s had<br />
it has been happy, despite the initial glitchy things that happen.<br />
They are small and there is always a solution <strong>for</strong> them.<br />
• It’s always a tough decision to make but the benefits are huge.<br />
• I would not say that the ACE works <strong>for</strong> everyone. There are a<br />
small proportion of kids with very serious NID <strong>for</strong> whom the ACE<br />
doesn't work or is a partial success. Some of my child’s doctors<br />
prior to the interferential therapy would have argued that his had<br />
effectively failed because of the amount of time and energy we<br />
were spending on care. 18 hours care at minimum a week isn't a<br />
success story. No amount of tweaking and fiddling actually got his<br />
bowel functional really. All I was doing was preserving the bowel<br />
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from surgery. He's not the only kid I know of who didn't have a<br />
success story with the ACE. If we had had a nuclear transit study<br />
done prior to the ACE, my expectations would have been more<br />
realistic and if I could I would push to have this done so that you<br />
know where in the bowel you have issues. We never had leakage<br />
issues at all, ever until we had the stoma <strong>for</strong>med and it occasionally<br />
leaks.<br />
• Thinking about it some more there are a few I know that it hasn’t<br />
worked well <strong>for</strong>. On the whole though, I think even those people<br />
are still glad they did it, as compared to how things worked be<strong>for</strong>e<br />
the ACE they have still been better off, even though they haven’t<br />
had great success.<br />
• Do it. These kids need to have the "liberation" of the <strong>Malone</strong>.<br />
• Make sure your child understands, as much as possible, what is<br />
going to happen and why. And make sure you have easy access to<br />
great follow up care - a nurse or the surgeon himself/herself who<br />
will be available to help you figure it all out post-operatively.<br />
• Was the best thing we ever did!<br />
• Do it – if constipation and continence are out of the question<br />
without enema, this is definitely a great option.<br />
• In our situation, I wish that we pushed harder at an earlier age to<br />
get the <strong>Malone</strong>. Our child got his <strong>Malone</strong> at age 9 after years of<br />
failed bowel management, experimental treatments (Botox,<br />
Nitropaste), biofeedback, etc. We don't regret having done these<br />
things -- but in retrospect, we wish that we put the <strong>Malone</strong> in a few<br />
years earlier -- because as he got older the stress of having backup<br />
and unpredictable incontinence was difficult <strong>for</strong> him going to<br />
school each day and <strong>for</strong> our entire family.<br />
• Things prior to the ACE were completely unsustainable. We were<br />
offered the ACE after all other <strong>for</strong>ms of management had failed.<br />
I think a colostomy or ileostomy was on the cards. I know of a<br />
couple of kids as sick as my child who had their colon removed.<br />
• Get the facts and decide <strong>for</strong> yourself. Don't let anyone pressure<br />
you into it. EVER.<br />
• Find a good support group; moms and dads going through the same<br />
thing, otherwise you will drown. Also, don't be afraid to tell people<br />
no and adjust your daily life so your kid's poop schedule comes<br />
first. If you don't, your house will be in chaos and everyone will be<br />
stressed. There are certain things we can and cannot do (preschool,<br />
play dates, etc.) because in the mornings and evenings we are tied<br />
to the house. That said, I would never choose to go back to the<br />
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colostomy. It's worth the normalcy <strong>for</strong> my child, and he looks<br />
<strong>for</strong>ward to his potty time alone.<br />
• DO IT! Be an advocate <strong>for</strong> your child. Our surgeon believed that 5<br />
years old was too young and wanted us to try lots of different<br />
things. We insisted on this and said we would go elsewhere and<br />
then he did it.<br />
• Do it! We love the malone. My child was 3 at the time... I doubt he<br />
remembers anything different.<br />
• Bring lots of Kleenex, bring a journal, cry a lot, laugh a lot, it's all<br />
worth it.<br />
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