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Active Parenting rides the video wave<br />
Dean Anason Staff Writer<br />
05/15/1992<br />
Atlanta Business Chronicle<br />
Page 10b<br />
(Copyright 1992)<br />
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<strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong><br />
August 4, 1999<br />
<strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> , founder and director of Active Parenting Publishers in Marietta, knew he had some<br />
business sense early on in college .<br />
Even though he was a recreation major at Indiana University who would later become a family therapist,<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> was playing Monopoly one day as a freshman and beat three business majors at their own game .<br />
"Well, it's not so hard," <strong>Popkin</strong> , an Atlanta native, told himself . And now he's a finalist for the Atlanta<br />
Small Business Person of the Year.<br />
Active Parenting sells educational videos and support materials to schools, hospitals, churches and<br />
anyone else who wants to teach parents how to raise their kids . The company provides training for group<br />
leaders who can in turn help parents .<br />
When Active Parenting began in 1983, the company only offered one video to cover the whole parenting<br />
experience . But in 1989, a video dedicated to teen parenting was released .<br />
The teen video sold as many copies in the first two months as the original did in the first two years .<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> says . Additional video programs have been put together on building self-esteem and, most<br />
recently, on coping with loss, such as divorce or death .<br />
Active Parenting sells about 5,000 videotapes a year, <strong>Popkin</strong> says . That includes sales to a number of<br />
other countries, including Canada, Australia and Japan .<br />
The company now employs 23, with an additional 27 sales representatives around the country, <strong>Popkin</strong><br />
says .<br />
But the entrepreneurial leap was not an easy one to make, <strong>Popkin</strong> says . More so than having vision,<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> says he had to persevere in the face of three years of research and development and two years<br />
of losses .<br />
When <strong>Popkin</strong> decided to quit his job as coordinator of child and family services for Northside Hospital's<br />
community mental health centers in 1980, he had an idea for interactive videos via computer terminal that co<br />
could provide parenting instruction, and he envisioned a nationwide chain of centers featuring the p<br />
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"I felt like I really wanted to control the destiny of the project," <strong>Popkin</strong> says . "The only way to do that is to co<br />
branch out and do it on your own." 0 a<br />
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But in the early 1980s, the hardware for the project was too expensive, so <strong>Popkin</strong> decided to switch to the oC)<br />
videotape-based training . The move turned out to be a good one, as it brought groups of parents together<br />
in one session who could share information with each other.<br />
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"It was probably fortuitous that we jettisoned the {computer} idea," <strong>Popkin</strong> says .<br />
The next task was finding investors . <strong>Popkin</strong> 's father, Harry, and two of his friends signed for a $250,000<br />
loan for <strong>Popkin</strong> to begin the business .<br />
One of those friends, Irwin Feldman, says it was no risk at all .<br />
"It was a sure thing from the beginning," says Feldman, former owner of the Carriage House . "<strong>Michael</strong> is a<br />
very smart fellow."<br />
The company grew from $130,000 in sales in 1984 to $564,000 in 1986, the first year the company turned<br />
a profit . By 1989, Inc. magazine put Active Parenting at 243 on a list of the 500 fastest-growing<br />
companies in the country, and last year they surpassed $3 million in sales .<br />
That growth rate has slowed considerably as the company has matured, but Active Parenting has a<br />
commitment to grow and keep adding products, <strong>Popkin</strong> says .<br />
In the meanwhile, <strong>Popkin</strong> , who has a,doctorate from Georgia State University in counseling psychology,<br />
will no doubt have many chances to practice at home what he preaches . He and his wife, Melody, have<br />
two children of their own : Megan, 6, and Ben, 2 . Filename V Dsk Date Pag KY1 KY2 Slug<br />
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Publisher leads the way to the video revolution<br />
Heather MacLeod Staff Wiiter<br />
11/04/1991<br />
Atlanta Business Chronicle<br />
Page 42a<br />
(Copyright 1991)<br />
<strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong>, Ph .D ., founded Active Parenting Publishers in 1983 with an idea slightly ahead of its<br />
time : to use newly widespread video technology as the carrier for his personal development curriculum .<br />
Eight years later, <strong>Popkin</strong> has 25 employees in 8,000 square feet of a Cobb County office park . He<br />
publishes four major video-based programs, and he expects sales this year to top $3 million .<br />
By training, <strong>Popkin</strong> is a child and family therapist who always has been fascinated by innovations in<br />
education, or "how we teach as well as what we teach ." He says he first thought of video-based parenting<br />
education in 1979, but had to convince investors not only that the education was needed, but that the<br />
technology was sound .<br />
His father and two of his father's friends helped provide <strong>Popkin</strong> with the some of the $250,000 he needed<br />
to produce, market and distribute Active Parenting, his first series . Sold primarily to teachers, counselors<br />
and ministers, the company's major programs now include Active Parenting for Teens, Free the Horses : A<br />
Self-Esteem Adventure, and Windows : Healing and Helping Through Loss .<br />
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<strong>Popkin</strong> says 95 percent of the information contained in the curriculum "was already out there, but the<br />
video-based delivery system is uniquely structured ."<br />
Active Parenting Publishers has become the industry leader in video-based parenting education, <strong>Popkin</strong><br />
says, because, "The leaders in parenting education at the time (in 1983} were audio-based . They really<br />
left us alone for the first five years," because they apparently thought video would be expensive and<br />
therefore couldn't sustain mass appeal .<br />
Boy, were they wrong . <strong>Popkin</strong> says his company turned a profit after two years . His second product,<br />
Active Parenting for Teens, which was released five years after the first series, turned a profit after two<br />
months . He estimates sales of Active Parenting at 15,000-plus in eight years, and 6,000 for the teen<br />
program in three years . For those two programs alone, <strong>Popkin</strong> estimates 200,000 parents will be trained<br />
this year, based on the book sales .<br />
In 1989, Inc . magazine put Active Parenting at 243 on a list of the 500 fastest-growing companies in<br />
America, based on a five-year average of between 1,200 percent and 1,300 percent growth in sales .<br />
For the fiscal year ended June 30, Active Parenting showed 13 percent growth in sales, well below the<br />
previous three years' rates of 50, 67 and 67 percent . <strong>Popkin</strong> says the recession, as well as the education<br />
budget-slashing that is occurring in a lot of states, is to blame .<br />
"The good news is we're in good shape, if we ever come out of recession . We're poised to take off with<br />
four major programs," says <strong>Popkin</strong> . He has four employees in product development, and has plans to<br />
introduce a product a year. That sort of long-range thinking, <strong>Popkin</strong> says, is essential to his vision of<br />
growth for the company .<br />
Marketing is crucial to Active Parenting, which mails a million pieces of direct mail a year.<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> says of his marketing instincts, "I'm self-taught, but I'm smart enough to know my limitations and<br />
{then} hiring consultants with knowledge of education ." And he credits his company's string of successes<br />
to market research and the fact that "I was a customer first . My instincts are pretty good because I was on<br />
the other side of it ."<br />
Active Parenting Publishers also offers leader certification workshops across the country, and Training of<br />
Trainers seminars, which have enabled more parents to receive the education without <strong>Popkin</strong> having to<br />
be the one delivering the message and therefore traveling constantly .<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> serves on the U .S . Government Office of Substance Abuse Prevention expert panel on "Parenting<br />
as Prevention ."<br />
Like many an entrepreneur before him, <strong>Popkin</strong> wants to get away from being "overly involved in routine<br />
decisions" by hiring a manager, so that he can devote himself to developing programs and strategic<br />
planning .<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> says, "We are unique in that we are a for-profit company with a social mission . And we must<br />
never lose sight of that . We have to balance the contribution {to society} and the numbers {we're earning} .<br />
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"That was the criteria I put on myself when I became an entrepreneur," says <strong>Popkin</strong> ."I had to be o<br />
financially successful but good for society." "Vision, courage and perseverance" : <strong>Popkin</strong><br />
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METRO<br />
Psychologist tells parents to give children choices<br />
<strong>Michael</strong> O/love<br />
04/25/1993<br />
The Baltimore Sun<br />
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(Copyright 1993 @ The Baltimore Sun Company)<br />
Government has evolved from autocracies to democracies . It's time parenting techniques followed suit,<br />
says psychologist and author <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> .<br />
As the keynote speaker at the fifth annual mayor's conference on child care at the Baltimore Convention<br />
Center, Dr. <strong>Popkin</strong> insisted that autocratic or dictator-style parenting is as ill-suited to a democratic<br />
society as kings and nobles would be .<br />
Autocracies of all kinds do not respect the individual . Today's children, Dr. <strong>Popkin</strong> said, do not respond<br />
well to absolute dictums.<br />
"We've got to find better techniques than laying down the law," Dr . <strong>Popkin</strong> said . A steady barrage of<br />
scolding and humiliation "just falls on deaf ears or, worse yet, falls on rebellious ears, much like those 13<br />
colonies ."<br />
Dr. <strong>Popkin</strong> 's advocacy for parenting that emphasizes encouragement and choices rather than<br />
punishment and strict control is not particularly novel . He is a pioneer, though, in the method of spreading<br />
his message. In 1984, he began marketing his techniques in a series of interactive videos, one of which,<br />
"Active Parenting," is now being presented to parents of students at Baltimore's "Tesseract" schools, the<br />
city's nine-school experiment in privatizing education .<br />
Dr. <strong>Popkin</strong>'s hourlong speech culminated Mayor Kurt L . Schmoke's child-care conference, where as<br />
many as 1,200 workers attended seminars on child-rearing .<br />
The subjects ranged from the concrete - diet and exercise - to the complex - juvenile violence and drug<br />
abuse . The theme that threaded through all the seminar discussions was the primacy of building selfesteem<br />
during a child's earliest years as the best prevention to later destructive behavior .<br />
Dr. <strong>Popkin</strong> , who lives in Atlanta, reiterated the point .<br />
Punishment, he insisted, may cause a child to avoid bad behavior, but it will also breed resentment and<br />
anger. On the other hand, he said, enhancing a child's self-esteem prompts the child to make the right<br />
choices for the right reasons, to be cooperative, contributing members of society .<br />
Rather than the autocratic approach, Dr. <strong>Popkin</strong> strongly urged parents to give their children choices so<br />
they will learn independ ence and gain confidence . But he warned parents that the children must also be<br />
exposed to the consequences of the choices they make .<br />
While stressing the need to give children liberties, Dr . <strong>Popkin</strong> railed against the permissive or "doormat"<br />
parents, who give in to their children's every whim to avoid confrontation . Parents must establish limits, he<br />
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Another benefit of self-esteem, Dr. <strong>Popkin</strong> said, is that it helps build a characteristic disappearing from<br />
the American character : courage, the willingness to take risks . Children must learn to take "known risks<br />
for known purposes ." Only then, he said, will they have the best chance to succeed .<br />
"We don't want our children to live lives of regret because of fear not to risk," he said .<br />
GWINNETT EXTRA<br />
Parenting specialist in growing demand Family therapist's videos, seminars focus on skills<br />
Rebecca Nash STAFF WRITER<br />
10/13/1994<br />
Atlanta Constitution<br />
Page H/5<br />
(Copyright 1994 The Atlanta Journal-Constitution)<br />
Former Northside Hospital family therapist <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> has parlayed parenting into a lucrative<br />
business - his video training programs for parents are so successful he's had to give up his practice .<br />
Afterjuggling the demands of his new company and a full schedule of speaking engagements, the<br />
Marietta resident now teaches parenting through his programs, books and lectures .<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> , the 44-year-old father of two, produces videos designed to help parents enhance their childrearing<br />
roles . After founding Active Parenting Publishers with a $250,000 loan in 1983, <strong>Popkin</strong> introduced<br />
the first video parent education program, the Active Parenting Discussion Program .<br />
The company turned a profit in two years, and in 1989 was named to Inc . magazine's list of fastestgrowing<br />
small businesses .<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong>'s video-based training is also used by churches, schools, hospitals and mental health centers to<br />
help parents learn skills in group settings as they interact with each other .<br />
"They're designed to give practical answers to problems," said <strong>Popkin</strong>, who focuses on four themes in<br />
the videos: responsibility, cooperation, courage and self-esteem .<br />
"We help instill this in children," <strong>Popkin</strong> said . "The whole idea is parenting is a skill, and like any skill, we<br />
need to provide some training and education for it ."<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> , who holds a doctorate in counseling psychology from Georgia State University, is a frequent cp<br />
speaker at conferences across the country and abroad - he made four appearances in Kuwait last year . p<br />
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He will be featured Oct. 22 at "The Family Forum : A Survival Guide for Parents in the'90s," a daylong I<br />
parenting seminar open to the public . The program will be held at the Castlegate Hotel at 1-75 and Howell co<br />
Mill Road ; for ticket information, call 454-7599. -91<br />
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The keynote speaker will be Dr . Ron Taffel, author of "Parenting by Heart" and a columnist for McCall's tv<br />
magazine, a co-sponsor of the event along with Atlanta Parent magazine, Egleston Children's Hospital,<br />
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WPCH-FM radio and <strong>Popkin</strong> 's company .<br />
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<strong>Popkin</strong> said he will discuss "how things have changed since we were kids, and the importance of<br />
discipline in building children's self-esteem and courage ."<br />
But <strong>Popkin</strong> doesn't confine his talks to his own experiences .<br />
"I innovate a little bit based on my experiences at home, {but} most of what we teach is developed over<br />
the decades," he said . "The last thing I want to do is learn from only one source of personal experiences ."<br />
Notes: Photo : Family therapist <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> plays with children Ben, 4, and Megan, 8 . l ERIK S .<br />
LESSER / Special Photo : <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> plays soccer with his son . / ERIK S . LESSER / Special<br />
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Style Plus ; Families<br />
Dinner-Hour Bonding<br />
Barbara Burtoff<br />
09/04/i987<br />
The Washington Post<br />
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(Copyright 1987)<br />
Is the family dinner hour about to become obsolete?<br />
Some social researchers worry that it will . As we overschedule our lives with work and extracurricular<br />
activities, we won't have as much time to sit down together for meals as a family unit .<br />
The consequences, they warn, will be a generation of youngsters who have less opportunity to develop<br />
self-esteem, communication skills, manners and a sense of responsibility .<br />
"Dinner is one of the few times during the day that the whole family is together," says Atlanta psychologist<br />
<strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong>,"so dinner becomes one of the few times for emotional bonding . This reinforces a<br />
child's sense of belonging, which is a basic foundation for mental health and self-esteem ."<br />
C. Margaret Hall, associate professor and chair of the sociology department at Georgetown University,<br />
agrees . "Parents learn what is going on in the life of their children and they get to hear it from the<br />
children's perspective, which should make them more understanding adults .<br />
"In turn," says Hall, who is also a family therapist, "children learn what is going on in the life of their<br />
siblings and parents . Being in the know makes children feel more sure and secure."<br />
For those who study behavior, the family dinner hour is not a new subject of concern . In the 1940s, social<br />
researchers at the University of Pennsylvania were recording and analyzing table talk .<br />
Authors James Bossard and Eleanor Boll reported in their 1948 college textbook The Sociology of Child<br />
Development (Harper and Row) that the dinner table was the focal point for most of the family interaction,<br />
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and thus it also was the time the family was most apt to reveal its true self : whether exchanges were<br />
constructive or destructive, and whether the father, mother or one of the children was in charge of the<br />
household .<br />
So why the new scrutiny of the dinner hour as we finish the 1980s?<br />
Family therapists point to the rise in two-career families and single-parent families . Many mothers and<br />
fathers have less time to spend with their children and are asking how to make the most of it . The dinner<br />
hour, say parenting pros, is one way families can spend quality time together .<br />
"Dinner becomes one of the few times for emotional bonding . This reinforces a child's sense of<br />
belonging ."<br />
-Psychologist <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong><br />
Among the questions these therapists are asked concerning the dinner hour :<br />
"How long should the dinner hour be?"<br />
"Whatever it takes to eat at a relaxed pace and share and discuss news . Thirty minutes might be enough<br />
for some while others may prefer an hour . Do try to keep it to the same time-5 p .m . or 6 p.m . or whatever,"<br />
says sociologist Hall . "Routine makes youngsters feel secure . Don't delay it more than 15 to 30 minutes to<br />
accommodate a tardy family member. Let your family know that you expect them to make the dinner meal<br />
together a top priority and to show up on time . If someone can't, it is only courteous to let you know<br />
ahead."<br />
Palo Alto psychologist Arthur Bodin tells the story about parents with a young daughter who dawdled at<br />
the table . They couldn't understand why it took her so long to eat . Was it a lack of appetite? Was she<br />
having difficulty swallowing? Bodin, president-elect of the Family Psychology Division of the American<br />
Psychological Association, told them she was starved for attention . The dinner meal was the only time<br />
she could get her parents to look and listen so she wanted to make the most of it . Since they had other<br />
evening activities, he advised them to tell the child ahead when mealtime would have to be over and to<br />
make it a point to give her quality attention at other times as well .<br />
"In our family, Dad doesn't get home from work until 7 or 8 p .m. The children are home from school by 4<br />
or 5 p .m . and they are starving . I can't expect them to wait to eat dinner so that we can be together as a<br />
family ."<br />
"Who's in charge?" asks psychologist Lonnie Carton . "You or the kids? Give them a nutritious snack to<br />
tide them over until dinner with their father or serve them dinner earlier but save the fruit or dessert course<br />
to eat later with their dad and allow time for meaningful conversation ."<br />
Carton, who is director of the Parent Education Resource Center-School Volunteers for Boston and is the<br />
author of Raise Your Kids Right (Pocket Books, 1985), offers another reason for an orderly dinner hour :<br />
"Unfortunately," she says, "I see the flip side when children don't eat with parents . There's a good reason<br />
why school cafeterias are called 'zoos.' "<br />
"Everyone in our house is on a different schedule . My husband and I both work and never seem to come<br />
home at the same time twice. The teens have afterschool sports and club activities . There is no way we<br />
can have dinner together every night as a family unit . What do you suggest?"<br />
"Schedule a quiet time of talk later in the evening after homework or before bed . On the weekend, make it<br />
a point to have at last one family meal," says Bodin . "The hectic schedule has a silver lining . It provides<br />
opportunities for various family members to eat together . When talking in subgroups, they may discover<br />
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and enjoy new facets of one another ."<br />
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"For the last two years, I've been a single parent . After the divorce, I didn't feel we were much of a family<br />
anymore . The dinner hour was the most difficult time. That's when the absence of the children's father<br />
was felt most. When the kids asked to eat their dinner in front of the TV, I didn't raise any objections . What<br />
do you think?"<br />
"It is even more important for the single-parent family to make dinner together a top priority," says<br />
psychologist <strong>Popkin</strong> . "Immediately following the divorce is the time the children feel especially vulnerable<br />
and insecure . Dinner together reinforces that you are still a family unit even without that other parent at<br />
the table . Occasionally, invite other adults to join the family for dinner-people your children already know,<br />
such as longtime family friends, grandparents, aunts and uncles . To bring to the table someone of the<br />
opposite sex they do not know might make them worry that you are about to announce remarriage plans,"<br />
says <strong>Popkin</strong> .<br />
Says Carton : "The added adults give the children a chance to hear other points of view and help them<br />
learn skills of being a good host and making a guest feel comfortable ."<br />
"If there are never adult visitors," adds Hall, "the single parent may use their children as their confidantes .<br />
This places an inappropriate burden on children ."<br />
"How do you feel about TV being on during dinner?"<br />
"The best news is family news," says <strong>Popkin</strong> . "No TV with dinner."<br />
Adds Carton, "Some parents turn on the TV with the excuse that they absolutely must watch the news to<br />
keep informed . This is nonsense . News shows come on several times during the evening ."<br />
Bodin believes, however, that exceptions can be made. "If you must watch while you eat to see an<br />
especially important program-President's address or a sporting event, for example-it could be a unifying<br />
experience . Spend a little time together afterward talking about it so that there's family interaction ."<br />
"I recently married for a second time. I have two teens . My husband also has two teens from his previous<br />
marriage who live with us . The dinner hour is the absolutely worst time of day . I have always expected my<br />
children to talk and share at the table . He grew up in a family where children were seen but never heard .<br />
He doesn't allow his children to talk while we're eating and gets mad when mine do . Any suggestions?"<br />
"Have a family discussion or meeting-separate from the dinner hour-and pool ideas as to how to deal with<br />
this," recommends Hall . "What is most important is that the dinner time be relaxed and tension-free ."<br />
Says Bodin, "The husband and wife should try to resolve this, possibly bringing in the children on some<br />
parts of this if the parents have made substantial progress . If they can't, they may benefit from<br />
professional help ."<br />
"What about dining at a restaurant?"<br />
"If you sit down together as a family and have time for real communication, then the fast food place or<br />
restaurant experience can be as meaningful as dining at home," says Hall . "If the child feels it's a special<br />
treat, he or she may be more relaxed and more likely to open up and discuss a troubling issue . Eating out<br />
is a real release for parents, too ."<br />
Adds Carton, "Of course, if you eat out as a family at a restaurant, you can control your children's eating<br />
habits . If they act like pigs or are rude, you can give them a look or a gentle reminder . But the many times<br />
your children are invited for a snack, dinner or a sleep-over at someone's home, the only control you have<br />
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is the good training you've provided at home . Like it or not, your children's actions reflect your actions . So<br />
it isn't only for our children's good that you eat together as a family . Consider it self-protection ." C 1987<br />
Barbara Burtoff Syndicated Features<br />
ILLUSTRATION,,Loel Barr<br />
LIFESTYLE<br />
FAMILY TIES<br />
What to do when it's kids vs . parents I Free, five-Saturday series of classes begins locally today<br />
Jane Clifford<br />
04/12/1997<br />
The San Diego Union-Tribune<br />
UNION-TRIBUNE ; 1,2,3,4,5,6,7<br />
Page E-3<br />
(Copyright 1997)<br />
If you've already had a rough morning nagging the kids over how many cartoon shows they can watch or<br />
you anticipate an argument later this weekend over undone homework or curfews, then read on .<br />
Parents all over San Diego County are invited to attend a series of free workshops called "For Moms &<br />
Dads," where many familiar conflicts will be addressed - and maybe even resolved .<br />
Beginning today and running through May 10, the five-part Saturday series will be presented<br />
simultaneously at schools in 12 of the county's districts from 10 a .m . to 12 :30 p .m . (See below for sites<br />
and further information .) The presentation is a combination video/discussion program led by teachers and<br />
counselors from each district who have been through training sessions on the materials .<br />
The videos were developed by <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> , an Atlanta psychologist who is founder and president of<br />
Active Parenting Publishers . <strong>Popkin</strong> believes that parents are more likely to learn new skills by seeing<br />
familiar problems -- and solutions - acted out on tape .<br />
'We want parents to walk away from these workshops with specific, concrete things they can do," said<br />
Jerry Bronstein, director of the Parent Education Project, which coordinates the series . Bronstein and his<br />
wife, Einat, are both clinical social workers with experience in family and marriage counseling .<br />
'We wanted to offer parenting education free to parents in the St . Louis area," he said . So the couple<br />
organized a series of workshops in their hometown, coordinating it through the local schools . It was so 00<br />
well-received, he said, that they decided to take the series on the road . Today, it comes to San Diego and p<br />
several other cities . Whether you can attend all five workshops, or only one, Bronstein promises you will W<br />
come away with "concrete ways of eliminating the stress inherent in raising children." I<br />
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Today : "How You Can Help Your Child Succeed in School." 01%<br />
{} Preparing your child to succeed . Focuses on how to develop your child's leaming style ; how to provide<br />
the right environment for study and homework ; and how to build a positive relationship with the teacher . {}<br />
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Encouraging positive behavior. Targets techniques to motivate children and promote positive and<br />
cooperative behavior at home and in school . {} Reinforcing your child's academic skills . Highlights how to<br />
strengthen your child's language and reading skills .<br />
Next Saturday : "Becoming the Best Parent You Can Be ."<br />
(This is the first half of <strong>Popkin</strong> 's "Active Parenting Today" curriculum for parents of children ages 2 to<br />
12.)<br />
{} Parenting Styles . A look at three styles of parenting, allowing you to explore your roles and goals as a<br />
parent . Learn how giving your children choices reduces power struggles and promotes cooperation . {}<br />
Encouragement and Self-Esteem . Illustrates concrete skills to build courage and self-esteem in children -<br />
the foundation for positive behavior and success . Highlights four methods of encouragement to strengthen<br />
your child's belief that he or she is capable, lovable and can succeed . {} From Misbehavior to Positive<br />
Behavior. Learn why children act the way they do and how you can respond most effectively to both meet<br />
their needs and eliminate inappropriate behavior, including whining and tantrums . April 26 : "Raising<br />
Responsible, Self-Confident Cooperative Kids ."<br />
(This is the second half of <strong>Popkin</strong> 's "Active Parenting Today" curriculum for parents of children ages 2 to<br />
12 .)<br />
{} Developing Responsibility . Learn how to develop mutual respect, set limits and use effective discipline<br />
skills, such as'9ogical consequences" to prevent conflict .<br />
{) Winning Cooperation . Focus is on recognizing communication blocks and practicing specific techniques<br />
to win your child's cooperation and strengthen your relationship .<br />
{} The Power of Family Meetings . Learn how to start having family meetings, how to choose and discuss<br />
important topics and structure "ground rules" for problem-solving . You'll also see a family meeting that<br />
demonstrates how to talk to children about alcohol and drugs .<br />
May 3 : Facing the Turbulent Teen Years .<br />
(This is the first half of <strong>Popkin</strong> 's "Active Parenting of Teens" curriculum for parents of pre-teens and<br />
teens .)<br />
{} Understanding Your Teens . Here you can explore your roles and goals as a parent of a teen-ager,<br />
viewing three parenting styles and determining what effect your style has on your teen .<br />
{} Encouragement and Self-Esteem . Highlights ways to show confidence in your teen ; how to avoid<br />
discouraging your teen ; how to help build confidence and self-esteem to successfully deal with life's<br />
challenges . {} Developing Responsibility . How setting limits and effective discipline prepare your teen for<br />
responsible adulthood . You also will learn how to structure "freedom to make choices" within expanding<br />
limits. May 10 : Thriving Throughout the Teen Years . co<br />
(This is the second half of <strong>Popkin</strong> 's "Active Parenting of Teens" curriculum for parents of pre-teens and CD<br />
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{} Winning Cooperation . Learn the most effective ways to communicate with your teen-ager<br />
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{} The Challenge of Alcohol and Drugs . Understanding the reasons teens experiment the four stages of ~<br />
drug-use progression ; and the 10 key parental roles in the prevention of substance abuse. V<br />
{} Parenting and Teen Sexuality . How to talk with teens about their feelings and values while clearly<br />
stating your expectations . Learn how to provide accurate information and set clear guidelines for behavior<br />
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<strong>Michael</strong> Popkirz<br />
August 4, 1999<br />
This comprehensive series of workshops, which includes in-depth brochures distributed to parents<br />
through participating school districts, is funded by Sharp Healthcare .<br />
Following is a listing of sites and numbers to call for information . You are invited to attend any or all of<br />
these no-cost workshops, which Bronstein says are "for all parents, not just those having problems ." The<br />
end result, he says, is that "the parent is still the leader and authority in the family, but family living<br />
becomes much less stressful ." Participating districts/workshop locations :<br />
{} Cajon Valley -- Cajon Valley Middle School Library, 395 Ballantine St ., El Cajon ; (619) 588-3645 .<br />
{} Chula Vista Elementary (workshops in Spanish and English) - Harborside School, 681 Maple St . ; (619)<br />
425-9600, Ext . 467 .<br />
{} Coronado Unified -- District Office, 555 D Ave . ; (619) 522-8932 .<br />
{} Escondido Union (today's workshop only) -- Baker Branch of Escondido Boys and Girls Club, 835 15th<br />
Ave. ; (760) 745-0515 .<br />
{I La Mesa-Spring Valley (April 26 and May 3 workshops only) - Sweetwater Springs School Auditorium,<br />
10129 Austin Drive, Spring Valley ; (619) 668-5895 .<br />
{} Lemon Grove Elementary -- Golden Avenue School Auditorium, 7885 Golden Ave .; (619) 589-5764 .<br />
{} National (workshops in Spanish and English) - Family Resource Center at Kimball School, 304 W . 18th<br />
St. ; (619) 477-4155 .<br />
{} San Diego Unified (workshops at three sites in Spanish and English) - Clairemont High, 4150 Ute St . ;<br />
Gompers Secondary, 1005 47th St . ; Roosevelt Junior High, 3366 Park Blvd . ; (619) 293-8129 for<br />
information on all three sites .<br />
{} Santee -- Carlton Oaks Elementary Media Center, 9353 Wethersfield Drive; (619) 449-2076.<br />
{} San Ysidro (workshops in Spanish and English) - to be offered from May through July ; please call<br />
district for further information on dates and sites ; (619) 428-4476, Ext. 269 or 217 .<br />
{} Vista Unified - Breeze Hill Elementary, 1111 Melrose Way; (760) 726-2170, Ext . 2218.<br />
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NEWS<br />
Atlanta fights the downside of prosperity<br />
Larry Copeland<br />
06/18/1999<br />
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<strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong><br />
August 4, 1999<br />
<strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> was born in the city and now owns a small publishing company up the road in Marietta .<br />
He remembers when Atlanta moseyed, when folks rarely griped about traffic, when smog was a West<br />
Coast concept.<br />
Deborah Rucker recalls fondly when commuting from Hall County to downtown was a breeze . There was<br />
only one set of traffic lights in her town and no one feared being late because of gridlock .<br />
Ah, those pre-sprawl days .<br />
Now, <strong>Popkin</strong> , 49, has settled into a house in the suburbs . He picked the neighborhood partly because it<br />
would let him commute against traffic . But he worries that he's losing potential employees because they<br />
don't want to face the daily trek to Marietta . He frets about his health because of the brownish haze that<br />
tints the Atlanta sky .<br />
Rucker, 51, finds she needs a trip to the family farm in rural Georgia now and then, a quick fix of open<br />
spaces. She says the daily gridlock had become such a grind that she took a pay cut so she could<br />
telecommute and work from home . "It is horrible," she says . "I just didn't want to deal with it anymore ."<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> and Rucker don't know each other and don't have that much in common . They're merely two<br />
Atlantans, two among 3 .5 million, who have seen their lives altered by suburban sprawl .<br />
Across the nation, sprawl - growth designed primarily around automobile access - has joined such<br />
perennials as crime and education as quality-of-life issues that people care about passionately . In last<br />
fall's elections, voters in 19 states approved more than 70% of ballot measures to protect and preserve<br />
sprawl-threatened green spaces, says Phyllis Myers, president of State Resource Strategies, a<br />
Washington, D .C., consulting firm . Suburban voters increasingly are fed up with sprawl's consequences,<br />
and businesses are worried that gridlocked roads and long commutes are hurting their ability to attract<br />
and keep employees .<br />
Atlanta, where growth has been equated with success for decades, is the nation's latest cautionary tale on<br />
the problems of sprawling growth : traffic congestion, poor air quality and disappearing green space .<br />
"Certainly, Atlanta has become the poster child for sprawl," says Edward Thompson Jr ., senior vice<br />
president of American Farmland Trust in Washington, D .C . "Among those who work on these kinds of<br />
issues fulltime, there is no question that Atlanta is sort of Exhibit A ."<br />
The region doesn't like that label . So it's launching an ambitious effort to control sprawl that, if it succeeds,<br />
could be a blueprint for other regions . The effort is anchored by a new regional transit authority that is to<br />
have unprecedented powers . The first members of the Georgia Regional Transit Authority, which Gov .<br />
Roy Barnes pushed through the Legislature in March, were sworn in last week .<br />
They are to have nearly unlimited say on almost every aspect of transportation in the region - from<br />
building and widening roads, to creating a carpooling system, to building a new regional transit system or<br />
coordinating existing ones. They will be able to issue $1 billion in revenue bonds and tap another $1<br />
billion in general bonds . Their rulings will affect zoning decisions . They even will have control over new<br />
business sites .<br />
GRTA, called Greta by Atlantans, is the new superagency expected to be immune to the regional<br />
factionalism and political tampering that hampered such initiatives in the past . Its decisions can be<br />
overruled only by a three-quarters majority of local governments . But such a vote would risk losing federal<br />
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and state transportation money, because GRTA has the final say over all expenditures of those funds .<br />
Even with all that muscle, the new agency's success hinges on convincing Atlantans to do what they have<br />
long rejected : Get out of their cars .<br />
Nobody expects that to be easy . Atlanta has tried before, with Metropolitan Atlanta Rapid Transit Authority<br />
(MARTA) . But when MARTA, which controls buses and subways in two counties, tried to influence<br />
commuting habits of Atlantans, it was spurned . "It's going to be very difficult," GRTA Chairman Joel<br />
Cowan says. 'We've got to get people to take that first step toward getting out of their cars ."<br />
He says GRTA likely will try to do that initially with a modest plan that combines carpooling and lowpolluting<br />
compressed natural gas buses . "That helps achieve the desired environmental impact, and it's<br />
an easier step for that critical cultural change ."<br />
Once Atlantans accept mass transit as a viable alternative, he believes, they will be more receptive to<br />
traditional forms of mass transit .<br />
During the past decade, metropolitan Atlanta has grown faster than any other city in the country, adding<br />
nearly a half-million out-of-state residents since 1990 and stretching from 65 miles north to south to 110<br />
miles. -<br />
They're still coming .<br />
Last year, in fact, the metropolitan area had three of the nation's 10 fastest-growing counties : Forsyth,<br />
Henry and Paulding, according to the U .S. Census Bureau .<br />
That growth has come at a cost. Metropolitan Atlanta heads into the 21st century as an endless stretch of<br />
strip shopping centers, large and small subdivisions and huge malls . Its rivers are among the nation's<br />
most imperiled, and developers are clearing 50 acres of tree cover a day .<br />
But traffic is where sprawl gnaws hardest at the daily lives of Atlantans . Drivers here endure the nation's<br />
longest commute -- an average daily round trip of 34 miles for every person in Atlanta . Dozens of new<br />
road projects have been stalled because the region violates the federal Clean Air Act .<br />
"What bothers me is when you look at the horizon and you see that band of pollution," says <strong>Popkin</strong> , who<br />
grew up in northwest Atlanta in the 1950s and 1960s and is the owner of Active Parenting Publishers .<br />
"When I was growing up, it was blue skies from horizon to horizon ."<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> 's company, which develops videos and books for parenting education courses, employs 20<br />
people . When a position comes open an he tries to hire, he doesn't always get the person he wants . He<br />
points to sprawl as a reason .<br />
"Sometimes, when we're interviewing for a position, I've lost candidates because Atlanta has gotten so big<br />
that if they live on the other side of town, they say they don't want to commute all the way to Marietta," he<br />
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When <strong>Popkin</strong> was growing up, he rode the bus from northwest Atlanta downtown to Georgia Tech football p<br />
games, where he sold Coca-Cola . "It seemed very, very easy to get around back then," <strong>Popkin</strong> says. w<br />
"Atlanta was much more self-contained . Sandy Springs (a suburb 20 miles north of Atlanta) was I<br />
considered way out." CC)<br />
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across the whole region for hours .<br />
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for Transportation Alternatives, a coalition of groups seeking public support for alternatives to roads . "You<br />
start to think, 'Why do we have to drive so much to meet our daily needs?' It's just the way the area grew ."<br />
In 1985, when Rucker moved back to Georgia from Broward County, Fla ., the population boom had only<br />
just begun . She split her time between Atlanta and Oakwood, out in Hall County, north of the city . "That<br />
was kind of a bedroom community of Atlanta, and the traffic wasn't bad at all," she says . "There was only<br />
one traffic light, and that was when you got off the expressway . There was one bank, and no hotels .<br />
"Now there are six banks on one street and four or five motels . What used to be open space and open<br />
fields has now become strip malls ." Eventually, Rucker quit commuting . "Itjust got to the point where I<br />
couldn't take it anymore," she says . "I just couldn't deal with being stuck in that traffic anymore ."<br />
Rucker and <strong>Popkin</strong> , like others here and in other areas that are beginning to suffer sprawl problems, are<br />
watching closely to see what Barnes and GRTA do . They have their fingers crossed .<br />
Barnes, a veteran state legislator who took office in January, was born and raised in suburban Cobb<br />
County, and says his awareness of sprawl came gradually. "There was no moment of epiphany," he says .<br />
"But Cobb County, which used to be some 50,000 people, started to grow in the'60s and now there are<br />
more than 500,000 .<br />
"I saw the changes that occurred, and I knew that sprawl, as opposed to planned growth was something<br />
we had to address, for air quality and quality of life ."<br />
"For the first time in my life, I'm thinking about whether I want to stay, whether I want to remain here after<br />
retirement," <strong>Popkin</strong> says . "I'm wondering what's Atlanta going to be like in 12 years, and whether I'll want<br />
to still be here ."<br />
GRAPHIC,b/w,James Abundis,USA TODAY,Source :U .S. Census Bureau(Map,Bar graphs) ;<br />
PHOTOS,color,<strong>Michael</strong> Schwarz for USA TODAY(2) ; PHOTO,b/w,John Bazemore,AP ; Caption : On an<br />
overpass in rush hour: Atlanta native <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> moved to the suburbs to commute against traffic,<br />
but the publisher worries that the area's traffic hinders his efforts to find top-quality employees, and he<br />
fears fo r his health . Deborah Rucker: She took a pay cut to telecommute and work from home to avoid<br />
metropolitan Atlanta traffic .<br />
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LOCAL NEWS<br />
Classes help moms, dads grow in parenting<br />
Robert Anthony Watts Staff Writer<br />
05/10/1988<br />
Atlanta Journal<br />
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(Copyright 1988 The Atlanta Journal-Constitution)<br />
There was a time when, if Carmen Smith's child was having trouble in school, Mrs . Smith would have<br />
acted first and pondered the matter later .<br />
But when her daughter, Melanie, recently complained of being harassed by a fellow student at Chesnut<br />
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Elementary School in DeKalb County, Mrs . Smith didn't march down to the school and demand action<br />
from the teacher, as she might have done in the past.<br />
Instead, she drew on ideas she learned in the Active Parenting class at Chesnut Elementary and<br />
encouraged Melanie to tell her friends that she was being harassed . The trouble stopped after Melanie's<br />
friends confronted the bullying girl .<br />
"That worked out beneficially for her in two ways," Mrs . Smith said . "She saw that she had friends, which<br />
gave her a feeling of self- confidence . And it also showed her that she didn't need me to come in and talk<br />
to the teacher and handle the situation for her ."<br />
Mrs . Smith is one of an increasing number of parents who, faced with the difficulties of raising children in<br />
a rapidly changing society, are looking to a new place for guidance and support: the classroom. Some,<br />
such as Mrs . Smith, say the new skills and approaches they learn are helpful .<br />
"I think it's good that the school system offers this type of thing, because today's parents don't have<br />
parents or grandparents right here to talk to you and that's where you used to get your support system,"<br />
Mrs . Smith said .<br />
"Parenting courses are becoming more popular," said John Vaughan, director of guidance counseling and<br />
testing for the Fulton County school system, which sponsors several parenting courses at schools .<br />
"In our society today, parents are just experiencing a need for some help in learning to do the things that<br />
help children grow up ."<br />
Active Parenting, the six-week class Mrs . Smith enrolled in, is one of the more popular parenting courses,<br />
and has seen explosive growth in the number of classes offered since it started five years ago, according<br />
to its founder, <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> .<br />
"Parenting is a skill and with any skilled job in our society, we provide training," <strong>Popkin</strong> said . "But<br />
parenting is the one skill that we expect people to do automatically ."<br />
One premise of the course is that autocratic approaches to raising children provoke anger and resentment<br />
among children in modern society . The course espouses the idea of a democratic family in which children<br />
are allowed to state their views freely .<br />
But <strong>Popkin</strong> is quick to say that allowing children to state their views doesn't mean they should make the<br />
final decisions . "It means you talk to him with respect," <strong>Popkin</strong> said .<br />
But deciding to enroll in a parenting course can be a difficult decision for many parents, according to Pat<br />
Williamson, a marriage and family counselor who teaches parenting courses for Gwinnett County .<br />
"There's . . . a little bit of a threat in going to the classes in that it's an admission that they aren't doing it as<br />
well as they'd like to," said Ms . Williamson .<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> agrees that there is resistance and hesitation among many people who frown at the idea that co<br />
parenting skills can be taught in a class. But, he added, "When they sign up, there is a sense of relief." O W<br />
David Smith, a 39-year-old Delta Air Lines pilot and father of two, enrolled in an Active Parenting class at ~<br />
Esther Jackson Elementary School in Roswell because he was having trouble getting along with his 8- ~<br />
year- old twins. ~ ~<br />
Smith said the class had given him many helpful ideas . "I kind of joked in class that if I had taken this N<br />
class a couple of years ago, I may not have been divorced ."<br />
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Smith said he learned to pay better attention whenever one of his sons, Kris and Erik, speaks to him .<br />
"Kris, my one son, told me, 'You always say I'm stupid"' Smith didn't recall saying that to his son, but he<br />
listened carefully to see what the youngster might have meant .<br />
Smith, who had been feeling pressured at work and had been in a bad mood, figured his son had noticed<br />
the frustration in his voice when he spoke to him .<br />
"I don't know whether it's a result of the class alone, but there's just no screaming and hollering in the<br />
house ."<br />
Notes : Photo: Sharing stories and laughs about their parenting experiences (from left) Edna Wu, Judy<br />
Barnes and Heidi Bass attend a meeting of a parenting support goup ./DIANNE LAAKSO/Staff<br />
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GWINNETT EXTRA<br />
SKILL SHARPENER Parenting specialist in growing demand<br />
Rebecca Nash STAFF WRITER<br />
10/13/1994<br />
Atlanta Constitution<br />
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(Copyright 1994 The Atlanta Journal-Constitution)<br />
Help for guiding hands : A Marietta resident's videos and seminars on bringing up offspring focus on<br />
practical skills for problem-solving .<br />
Former Northside Hospital family therapist <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> has parlayed parenting into a lucrative<br />
business - his video training programs for parents are so successful he's had to give up his practice .<br />
Afterjuggling the demands of his new company and a full schedule of speaking engagements, the<br />
Marietta resident now teaches parenting through his programs, books and lectures .<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> , the 44-year-old father of two, produces videos designed to help parents enhance their childrearing<br />
roles . After founding Active Parenting Publishers with a $250,000 loan in 1983, <strong>Popkin</strong> introduced<br />
the first video parent education program, the Active Parenting Discussion Program .<br />
The company turned a profit in two years, and in 1989 was named to Inc . magazine's list of fastestgrowing<br />
small businesses .<br />
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"They're designed to give practical answers to problems," said <strong>Popkin</strong> , who focuses on four themes in co<br />
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need to provide some training and education for it"<br />
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August 4, 1999<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> , who holds a doctorate in counseling psychology from Georgia State University, is a frequent<br />
speaker at conferences across the country and abroad - he made four appearances in Kuwait last year .<br />
He will be featured Oct. 22 at "The Family Forum : A Survival Guide for Parents in the'90s," a daylong<br />
parenting seminar open to the public . The program will be held at the Castlegate Hotel at 1-75 and Howell<br />
Mill Road ; for ticket information, call 454-7599 .<br />
The keynote speaker will be Dr . Ron Taffel, author of "Parenting by Heart" and a columnist for McCall's<br />
magazine, a co-sponsor of the event along with Atlanta Parent magazine, Egleston Children's Hospital,<br />
WPCH-FM radio and <strong>Popkin</strong>'s company .<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> said he will discuss "how things have changed since we were kids, and the importance of<br />
discipline in building children's self-esteem and courage ."<br />
But <strong>Popkin</strong> doesn't confine his talks to his own experiences .<br />
"I innovate a little bit based on my experiences at home, {but} most of what we teach is developed over<br />
the decades," he said . "The last thing I want to do is learn from only one source of personal experiences ."<br />
Notes : Color Photo : Family therapist <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> plays with son Ben, 4, and daughter Megan, 8 ./<br />
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Across America: Atfantans see ugly side of sprawl Prosperity brings gridlock, smog -- and move<br />
to control growth<br />
Larry Copeland / USA TODAY<br />
07/09/1999<br />
The Detroit News<br />
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ATLANTA - <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> was born in the city and now owns a small publishing company up the road<br />
in Marietta . He remembers when Atlanta moseyed, when folks rarely griped about traffic, when smog was<br />
a West Coast concept .<br />
Deborah Rucker recalls fondly when commuting from Hall County to downtown was a breeze . There was<br />
only one set of traffic lights in her town and no one feared being late because of gridlock .<br />
Ah, those presprawl days .<br />
Now, <strong>Popkin</strong> , 49, has settled into a house in the suburbs . He picked the neighborhood partly because it<br />
would let him commute against traffic . But he worries that he's losing potential employees because they<br />
don't want to face the daily trek to Marietta . He frets about his health because of the brownish haze that<br />
tints the Atlanta sky .<br />
Rucker, 51, finds she needs a trip to the family farm in rural Georgia now and then, a quick fix of open<br />
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spaces . She says the daily gridlock had become such a grind that she took a pay cut so she could<br />
telecommute and work from home . "It is horrible," she says . "I just didn't want to deal with it anymore ."<br />
<strong>Popkin</strong> and Rucker don't know each other and don't have that much in common . They're merely two<br />
Atlantans, two among 3 .5 million, who have seen their lives altered by suburban sprawl .<br />
Atlanta, where growth has been equated with success for decades, is the nation's latest cautionary tale on<br />
the problems of sprawling growth : traffic congestion, poor air quality and disappearing green space .<br />
"Certainly, Atlanta has become the poster child for sprawl," says Edward Thompson Jr ., senior vicepresident<br />
of American Farmland Trust in Washington, D .C . "Among those who work on these kinds of<br />
issues full time, there is no question that Atlanta is sort of Exhibit A ."<br />
The region doesn't like that label. So it's launching an ambitious effort to control sprawl that, if it succeeds,<br />
could be a blueprint for other regions . The effort is anchored by a new regional transit authority that is to<br />
have unprecedented powers . The first members of the Georgia Regional Transit Authority, which Gov .<br />
Roy Barnes pushed through the legislature in March, were sworn in last month .<br />
They are to have nearly unlimited say on almost every aspect of transportation in the region - from<br />
building and widening roads, to creating a carpooling system, to building a new regional transit system or<br />
coordinating existing ones . They will be able to levy $1 billion in revenue bonds and tap another $1 billion<br />
in general bonds. Their rulings will affect zoning decisions . They even will have control over new business<br />
sites.<br />
Even with all that muscle, the new agency's success hinges on convincing Atlantans to do what they have<br />
long rejected : Get out of their cars .<br />
"9t's going to be very difficult " agency Chairman Joel Cowan says . "We've got to get people to take that<br />
first step toward getting out of their cars ."<br />
During the past decade, metropolitan Atlanta has grown faster than any other city in the country, adding<br />
nearly a half-million out-of- state residents since 1990 and stretching from 65 miles north to south to 110<br />
miles .<br />
They're still coming .<br />
Last year, in fact, the metropolitan area had three of the nation's 10 fastest-growing counties : Forsyth,<br />
Henry and Paulding, according to the U .S . Census Bureau .<br />
Now a simple delay on one of the area's critical highways - 1-85, 1-75, 1-20, 1-285 - often stalls traffic<br />
across the whole region for hours.<br />
Drivers here endure the nation's longest commute, an average daily round trip of 34 miles for every<br />
person in Atlanta . Dozens of new road projects have been stalled because the region violates the federal<br />
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'What bothers me is when you look at the horizon and you see that band of pollution," says <strong>Popkin</strong> , who W<br />
grew up in northwest Atlanta in the 1950s and 1960s and is the owner of Active Parenting Publishers . -~<br />
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In 1985, when Rucker moved back to Georgia from Broward County, Fla., the population boom had only -'<br />
just begun . She split her time between Atlanta and Oakwood, out in Hall County, north of the city . "That ~<br />
was kind of a bedroom community of Atlanta, and the traffic wasn't bad at all," she says . "There was only<br />
one traffic light, and that was when you got off the expressway . There was one bank, and no hotels .<br />
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"Now there are six banks on one street and four or five motels . What used to be open space and open<br />
fields has now become strip malls ." Eventually, Rucker quit commuting . "9tjust got to the point where I<br />
couldn't take it anymore," she says . "I just couldn't deal with being stuck in that traffic anymore ."<br />
Photo : Daily traffic jams are making Atlanta a poster child for the dangers of urban sprawl . The Atlanta<br />
region - with 3 .5 million people -- is launching an effort to control sprawl . Ric Field I Associated Press<br />
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JOB GUIDE<br />
'Right' Mistakes Can Spur Growth lf They're Handled Constructively<br />
Virginia Hall and Joyce Wessel Special to The Journal-Constitution<br />
03/26/1989<br />
Atlanta Journal and Constitution<br />
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(Copyright 1989 The Atlanta Journal-Constitution)<br />
"Perfection is notjust a right but an obligation," declares <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> in his "tongue-in-cheek" book,<br />
"So - Why Aren't You Perfect Yet?"<br />
"Each of us bears two undeniable obligations in life," Mr . <strong>Popkin</strong> says. "One is the golden rule . . . . The<br />
other is to become perfect as soon as possible and stay that way for as long as necessary ."<br />
In the interest of humor, Mr. <strong>Popkin</strong> caricatures our passion for perfection . For many of us, however, his<br />
words feel all too true. The fear of making mistakes hangs heavy in our thoughts and creates real<br />
obstacles to pursuing our dreams .<br />
The irony, of course, is that mistakes are inevitable and that trying to avoid them sends us in selfdefeating<br />
circles . Our career success hinges not on avoiding mistakes, but on dealing with them<br />
intelligently .<br />
The important considerations when tackling mistakes are understanding the difference between "right"<br />
and "wrong" mistakes and developing appropriate attitudes to deal with each type .<br />
Wrong mistakes spring from sloppiness, inattention, carelessness or indifference . Our attitude toward<br />
these, whether they are ours or others, is that they are intolerable .<br />
If you see a pattern of wrong mistakes in your behavior, get to the root of the problem - fast . You may be<br />
burned out, worn out, stressed out or in need of a job change . Whatever it is, deal with it now . It won't get<br />
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If you manage employees with consistent patterns of wrong mistakes, you risk sabotaging your entire V .t<br />
operation . The smart management attitude is, of course, to "fix the problem ." If you can't fix the problem, -I<br />
the worst-case scenario is that you may have to sever the source . Before you take drastic action, 00<br />
however, check out the situation carefully. ~ ~<br />
Be sure the person really knows what you expect from him . He may be confused, inexperienced or ~<br />
inadequately trained . In that case, you will want to assess your part of the responsibility and look to<br />
training, mentoring or other good management options to solve the problem .<br />
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When and where criticism is necessary, make it constructive, positive and clear . Set out desired<br />
behaviors, rewards and time frames for behavior changes . Be sure the consequences for failing to change<br />
are understood. Summarize and clarify to make sure everyone is on the same page of the hymn book . Set<br />
follow-up dates for reassessment of the situation .<br />
Sloppy mistakes often come more from poor planning than from poor judgment . If you or your<br />
subordinates are shortchanging on plans for quick execution of projects, wrong mistakes may be the price<br />
you are paying for the shortcut .<br />
Wrong mistakes are not separated from right ones by the scope of the consequences . People have<br />
committed some million dollar dillies and been promoted . The dividing line is the care, thought and logic<br />
that preceded the problem .<br />
Right mistakes are the honest ones, those that come from someone who is trying and thinking but is<br />
simply wrong . Right mistakes are the logical consequences of stretching and risking in the name of<br />
creating a new or better product, system or idea .<br />
Our attitude toward right mistakes is that they are our "teachable moments ." We don't want to waste them .<br />
The degree to which we use right mistakes constructively is the degree to which we become successful .<br />
It's called turning stumbling blocks into steppingstones .<br />
The first step is to realize that you can't stumble if you are standing still, so give yourself credit for moving .<br />
Applaud what you did right and acknowledge what went wrong .<br />
Next, consider the following tips for profiting from your mistakes :<br />
Admit your mistakes . Many of us cringe at the idea of criticism . We deny any and all parts of what went<br />
wrong . Blame becomes our crutch . In reality, the quickest way to draw attention to a mistake is to try to<br />
cover it up. You certainly don't want to broadcast your every error to the world, but if it was an important<br />
glitch, admit it. -<br />
Hendrie Weisinger and Norman Lobsenz, authors of "Nobody's Perfect " call criticism a "four-letter word -<br />
grow." When we learn to see criticism as useful feedback, and right mistakes as a willingness to take<br />
risks, it becomes much easier to lay the facts objectively on the table, discuss them and grow in wisdom .<br />
Don't confuse what you did with who you are . It is all too easy to personalize our fallibility . It is critical to<br />
realize that you are not your mistakes . Don't personalize them, analyze them .<br />
Look around and notice the honest mistakes others make . "Failure is the most democratic of all clubs,<br />
admitting old and young, rich and poor, black and white, chief executive officers and simple clerks,"<br />
Carole Hyatt and Linda Gottlieb say in "Why Smart People Fail ." "About the only thing its members have<br />
in common is their secrecy about belonging ." When you can admit your mistakes and view them<br />
objectively, you are still a member of the club, but the pressure is off .<br />
Don't make excuses . Most people won't believe excuses . Even if they do, they probably will be turned off<br />
from having to listen to them . Don't excuse, explain . It is important to be able to articulate the reasoning<br />
behind decisions that don't pan out . Describe, step by step, your logic, your plan, your actions, your<br />
obstacles and your outcomes .<br />
Emphasize the parts that worked well and be straight about the problems . Demonstrate clearly what you<br />
have learned and how you will use this understanding in the future .<br />
Never blame others . It may be true that the mistake was not your fault . It is, however, irrelevant if the<br />
glitch happened in your area of responsibility . It is a matter of integrity among successful managers to<br />
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share the glory of succe sses with subordinates and bear the public heat for flawed decisions or projects .<br />
Utilize, don't agonize . From Adam to lacocca, people have prevailed because they overcame mistakes,<br />
not because they didn't make them . Ask .for constructive feedback to analyze what went wrong and how<br />
things can be turned around in the future . When we ask for feedback, we have to be prepared to accept it<br />
gracefully, even when it stings the ego . The more the words burn, the more we probably need to hear<br />
them .<br />
Mistakes are never to be taken lightly . Making the same mistake twice is a big mistake . Honest mistakes,<br />
however, are turning points . They give us pause to clarify our thought processes, our planning strategies<br />
and our personal goals .<br />
Send comments or suggested topics to Virginia Hall and Joyce Wessel, The Atlanta Journal-Constitution,<br />
P .O . Box 4689, Atlanta, Ga . 30302 .<br />
Notes : Illustration : a man with angel's wings flying through the sky . I CLAIRE INNESS I Staff<br />
LIFESTYLE<br />
Parental fine-tuning // Lessons learned<br />
Charlene Duroni<br />
02/17/1998<br />
lntelligencerJournal Lancaster, PA<br />
Page A-6<br />
(Copyright 1998 Lancaster Newspapers)<br />
Parenting is the most important job that anyone can have . It is also one of the most difficult. Many parents<br />
today admit they could use a little help .<br />
Florence Stemplinger took the COBYS Active Parenting course last fall at the urging of a friend . In March,<br />
she will take the "Family Ties that Bind" course and has asked another friend to join her .<br />
Stemplinger said she realized that her parenting needed to stay current with the times . "Some of the<br />
techniques that worked when I was a child just don't work now," she said . She also found her style<br />
needed to adapt to the needs of a growing child . Her daughter, Greta, is now 8 years old .<br />
"The course made me more aware that this child is a human being with emotions and feelings that I<br />
probably was not in tune with . You keep thinking that this 8-year-old is still a 4-year-old," she said . co<br />
While she views herself as a good parent, Stemplinger said there is always room for improvement . And CD<br />
she found the course at COBYS a supportive learning environment. "The things I was doing right, they U4<br />
affirmed," she said . "And the things I knew I didn't do right, they showed me a better way ." co<br />
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Stemplinger said she now takes time out to think about how she will react in a given situation . "If she does I<br />
something and I just take that extra minute to think "how do I want to react to this?' it helps defuse the co<br />
situation," she said .<br />
Her newfound parenting skills have worked well so far and Stemplinger said her husband is very<br />
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When her friend first suggested taking the course together, Stemplinger, who works part time, admits she<br />
didn't want to spare the time . "You just have to stop and say, "this is a priodty,"' she said . "Once you get in<br />
there, you feel so much better about being a parent ."<br />
The strain of an impending divorce was taking a toll on David Schra's two sons, <strong>Michael</strong>, 10, and Dan, 6,<br />
He signed up for the Active Parenting course in search of some answers .<br />
"I didn't think I had a parenting problem - I love my children," Schra said . "But I think that is what everyone<br />
thinks . Now I know you can always get better."<br />
Schra has temporary custody of <strong>Michael</strong>, while Dan and his mother live in Florida with her parents . He is<br />
anxious to make a smooth transition for the boys when they are reunited and live with their mother .<br />
Schra was impressed with the <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> book, "Active Parenting," and has adopted many of its<br />
suggestions . "Take time every day to play," is one piece of advice that he has taken to heart . "Time is<br />
precious," Schra said . "Any kind of play - even if it is only five minutes - goes a long way to strengthen the<br />
relationship ."<br />
Another of the book's suggestions is an age-appropriate responsibility list in conjunction with an<br />
allowance . Schra says <strong>Michael</strong> is responsible for vacuuming once a week, picking up his room, putting his<br />
clothes in the hamper and his dishes on the sink . He also empties all the inside trash cans on trash pickup<br />
day and brings the recycling bin out to the road . He also is learning to fold his underwear, pajamas and<br />
socks after they are laundered . If everything on his list is completed, <strong>Michael</strong> receives a $6 allowance . "!f<br />
something isn't done, it's a dollar or two off," his father said, reporting that, so far, the system is working<br />
very well .<br />
Consistency and discipline appropriate to the circumstance were other important concepts that Schra<br />
found beneficial. "I think parents typically raise kids the way they were raised," Schra said, adding that he<br />
is glad to have other options now .<br />
PHOTO ; Caption: David Schra and son <strong>Michael</strong> have both benefitted from the Active Parenting Today<br />
course at COBYS Family Services . David has learned there is always room for improvement when it<br />
comes to parenting skills . ; Credit: Barry Zecher<br />
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GENERATION BUY With spending money to bum, the offspring of baby boomers make savry,<br />
optimistic consumers, creating and killing trends almost overnight Go<br />
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Strolling at nearly a jogger's pace down the corridors of Perimeter Mall, Cade Grisham busts a Larry with<br />
his friend Chris Barry, heading to the shirt racks in Abercrombie & Fitch, an upscale shop whose earsplitting<br />
music, bright lights and young sales staff attracts teenagers like bugs to candles .<br />
"Cool," says Cade as the two plop down on a plump couch to plot strategy . "Yeah, but expensive," Chris<br />
responds, as other chattering teens wander in and out, gently touching garments and placing them back<br />
respectfully onto neat stacks .<br />
Cade and Chris are 16-year-olds from Cobb County . They're among the core of what is known as<br />
Generation Y, the offspring of baby boomers . These are kids who wouldn't be caught dead in the tattered,<br />
tacky, tie-dyed garb their nonconformist parents wore as marks of rebellion .<br />
Rebellion doesn't really fit Gen Y. Coming of age during the prosperous, peaceful 1990s, it's the richest,<br />
savviest, most optimistic generation ever, marketers who study it say . And the biggest-spending one, too .<br />
The teenage Gen Y'er spends, on the average, nearly $84 a week .<br />
Goodbye, Gen X slackers ; hello, Gen Am-Ex .<br />
That spending, combined with Gen Y's sheer size -- there are 31 million American teenagers now, and<br />
the number will continue to grow until 2010 --- means Gen Y is capable of creating and killing trends<br />
almost ovemight, says <strong>Michael</strong> Wood, director of research for Teenage Research Unlimited in Chicago,<br />
one of the many think tanks that have popped up like pimples to help retailers rake in their share from<br />
teenagers' deep pockets .<br />
That's why it's critical for stores such as Abercrombie to "have a cool feel," Wood says . Stores turn up the<br />
music and stay attuned to the fickle, flexible minds of kids, who can turn a hot item cold almost overnight .<br />
Take baggy jeans . A year ago they were so hot that retailers couldn't get them fast enough . Now many<br />
stores are stuck with jeans that won't sell even on sale .<br />
Even Nike, the once-dominant sneaker brand, is now barely ahead of once-forgotten Adidas in teen<br />
popularity.<br />
And beware, Gap : "I think Gap stuff has fizzled out " says Anita Kim, an 18-year-old Emory University<br />
freshman, fingering a rainbow of pastel shirts at Gadzooks, a chain that's growing in popularity .<br />
"Gadzooks is more trendy . More cool. Cheaper."<br />
To grab, hold and increase their share of this ever-changing market, businesses have to hop to be hip, to<br />
shift their focus away from aging baby boomers, says economist Charlie Carter of Clark Atlanta<br />
University. They need to employ people who speak the lingo, knowing, for example, that to "bust a Larry"<br />
means to turn left, that to "hang" means to relax, and that "sup" can mean anything from "what's new?" to<br />
"what are you doing tonight?" says Carter.<br />
"Generation Y's parents dominated culture for several decades," Wood says . "Gen Y will dominate the<br />
next few decades, so it's critical that we know more about them, what they think, what they want to do and<br />
where they want to go ."<br />
In broad terms, Gen Y is more entrepreneurial and upbeat about the future than its predecessors, the<br />
more cynical and less numerous Generation X'ers. And definitely into shopping . Teenage Research<br />
Unlimited says the average teenager visits a mall 54 times a year, compared with 39 for other shoppers .<br />
But teenagers are somewhat thoughtful shoppers . They don't generally spend on whims but save money<br />
for compact discs, videos and movies, says Irma Zandl of the New York-based Zandl Group . As<br />
shoppers, they have a powerful tool that previous generations didn't the Internet . Most Gen Y'ers have<br />
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access to the World Wide Web, using it to browse and buy .<br />
"We're price-conscious," declares Laura Hay, 18, a Dunwoody High School graduate who's headed for<br />
the Pratt Art Institute in Brooklyn, N .Y. "Most kids our age work ."<br />
Dunwoody High freshman Alaina Johns, 14, browsing in American Eagle, says, "Whenever I need<br />
something, I get it. But I also baby-sit and save ."<br />
Sarah Keller, a 14-year-old freshman at Centennial High in north Fulton, insists that she's a frugal<br />
shopper.<br />
"You can get CDs cheaper at other places than the mall," she says . "I'd never buy them here."<br />
Adds friend Amanda Feldman, 14, also a Dunwoody freshman : "I baby-sit and save . If I want something<br />
and it's expensive, my parents will split the cost . But I don't get stuff just because I want it ."<br />
Lots of youngsters who look as if they're shopping might not be . In a recent poll, Teen Research Unlimited<br />
found that 87 percent of Gen Y'ers go to malls to shop, but 73 percent also go just to hang out .<br />
Between yelps of "yes" and "awwright" as he furiously pushes buttons on a video game at Perimeter's Tilt<br />
arcade, Chris Williams, 13, says he goes to malls mainly to be with friends.<br />
But he has also managed to acquire the right clothes . He looks like a model for a Tommy Hilfiger ad . He's<br />
also into the FUBU and Zonz brands . "I have enough money to keep me happy," he grins .<br />
Where does the money come from? A lot of it comes from parents .<br />
The booming economy has filled the pockets of many baby boomers, many of whom are easy marks<br />
when their kids open their palms, says Dr . <strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong> , an Atlanta child psychologist . He urges<br />
parents to avoid giving in too easily .<br />
But it's not solely boomer affluence that's responsible for the Gen Y spending spree . Guilt is another<br />
factor .<br />
"It's time poverty," says economist Jeffrey Humphreys of the University of Georgia . "Parents have money,<br />
and in more than 50 percent of marriages both partners work . And parents who're divorced or single try to<br />
offset guilt by giving money when asked ."<br />
Page Morgan, 42, says she feels that she's spoiling her two sons, "but I absolutely can't help it ." Both she<br />
and her husband work and are often too exhausted to devote as much time to their children as they would<br />
like.<br />
"The reason I work as hard as I do is so I can give my children more," says Morgan, a real estate agent in<br />
Marietta . But she says, "I worry we're not teaching them how to appreciate a dollar ."<br />
Gen Y'ers' money also comes from the ambitious teens' jobs . According to Teenage Research Unlimited, co<br />
55 percent of Gen Y'ers get at least some of their money from their parents on an as-needed basis, 47 O<br />
percent get it from odd jobs, 44 percent get it from gifts, 30 percent get it from part-time jobs, 28 percent W<br />
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"There may be a rude awakening," says Clark Atlanta's Carter . "The savings rate is lower than it's been<br />
since the Depression . Personal debt is at an all-time high, and so is credit card debt and bankruptcies .<br />
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TRUE NORTH INFORMATION CENTER<br />
<strong>Michael</strong> <strong>Popkin</strong><br />
August 4, 1999<br />
They can only keep spending as long as good times roll ."<br />
Photo The mall as hangout : In the booming '90s, teenagers are more fashion-conscious than ever . Above,<br />
Alaina Johns of Dunwoody and Amy Hebling of Illinois shop at the Limited in Perimeter Mall . / PHIL<br />
SKINNER / Staff Photo At top, Rodney Bryant watches as Anthony Harris and Chris Williams play video<br />
games at the Tilt arcade . / PHIL SKINNER / Staff Graphic COOLEST BRANDS AMONG TEENS 1 . Nike<br />
2 . Adidas 3 . Tommy Hilfiger 4 . Sony 5 . Nintendo 6. The Gap 7 . Old Navy 8 . Abercrombie & Fitch 9 . JNCO<br />
clothing 10 . Levi's 11 . FUBU 12. Coca-Cola 13 . Calvin Klein 14. Cover Girl 15 . Pepsi 16 . Ralph Lauren<br />
17 . Clinique 18. Mudd Jeans 19 . Nautica 20 . Reebok 21 . Ford 22 . Skechers 2,044 teenagers nationwide<br />
(ages 12-19) were asked, "Thinking about brand names of clothes, food, drinks, shoes, cosmetics, video<br />
games, cars, audio/video products, etc ., write in which are the three'coolest' brands ." The rankings are<br />
based on their responses . Source : Teenage Marketing & Lifestyle Update, Spring 1999, by Teenage<br />
Research Unlimited, a Chicago-based marketing research firm<br />
Copyright ©1999 Dow Jones & Company, Inc. Al/ Rights Reserved.<br />
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