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IN SEARCH OF THE IDEAL LOVE CRISTINA NUNEZ Cristina Nunez With perseverance and optimism, it is possible to achieve everything that one proposes in life. Always, I dreamed to fine real love, to have my own home and my own family. Until I was forty years old, my dreams didn’t materialize. My life was boring with the same routine, and I was feeling tired <strong>of</strong> the same thing. I needed to make some major change in my life. Everybody in my family was calling me the “solterona,” the word that means that I was never going to leave and get married. Sometimes, I said to myself, “I know that in some place in the world there is a wonderful man waiting for me.” That filled me with optimism to keep on dreaming <strong>of</strong> the ideal love. Everything began from the moment I won a Caribbean Cruise. I started imagining what I would do on the trip. I materialized the idea by making a collage <strong>of</strong> photos <strong>of</strong> an ideal couple. I placed this collage in my room so I could see it daily. For one reason or another, the cruise liner did not give me the trip. I felt a bit sad and disappointed, but I said to myself, “For a reason, it happened this way.” So after this, my friend, Beatriz who was going to accompany me on the trip, invited me to stay a few days at her house in Miami. She sent me the airplane ticket because at this time in my life, my economic conditions were not very good. In May 2005, I came to Miami and I felt very happy, but also very strange because this country is very different than Venezuela where I am from. Miami seemed to me very beautiful and my one and a half months at Beatriz’s house were unforgettable, but it was time to return to my country. Before returning, Beatriz insisted that I had to go to visit my brother in Massachusetts. I had not seen him for twelve years. After that, my brother called me and invited me to his house. He sent me some money to buy a ticket to go to Boston to meet him. Beatriz said to me, “You should buy a one way ticket because you do not know when you are going to return, and maybe you will find new opportunities and you may remain there.” I arrived in Boston on July third, and my brother was there to meet me. I felt very happy to see him. But after a while, I was feeling alone and depressed. I was missing my family in Venezuela and I wanted to go back to my country, until the day I met Chris. He was my brother’s friend. As soon as we met, we liked each other and we started dating. We went out to dinner, to the mall, the movies, the theater, and the beach, etc. He treated me like a queen and gave me beautiful flowers. He was the man who I so much had hoped to find. He is a wonderful man! All his attention made me feel like I was dreaming again, and I was afraid <strong>of</strong> waking up because I could not believe it was true. But it was true. At first I did not understand him very much because I didn’t speak English, but he spoke a little Spanish. This way we were communicating with the language <strong>of</strong> love. Finally, my life changed 180 degrees and I had to adapt to my new life as a happily married woman. We will soon be celebrating our first wedding anniversary. The changes in our lives are not easy at all, but with love, determination and optimism, everything is possible. 101