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differential, and perpetrator aggression. The first possible element of clergy sexual abuse is <strong>the</strong><br />

power of <strong>the</strong> perpetrator against <strong>the</strong> weaker position of <strong>the</strong> victim. This power imbalance also<br />

exists between ephebophiles and <strong>the</strong>ir victims, and even between adult clerics and age<br />

appropriate victims. This aspect will be considered in more detail later in this Article, within <strong>the</strong><br />

context of <strong>the</strong> traumatic bond that arises between clergy abuser and victim. 83 Experts agree that<br />

sexual misconduct, as opposed to true consensual sex, occurs because <strong>the</strong>re is a power<br />

differential. 84 This differential is perhaps much more complex and certainly more powerful<br />

when it is between a trusted clergyman and a trusting congregant. Because of <strong>the</strong> role of <strong>the</strong><br />

clergyman in <strong>the</strong> congregant’s life, <strong>the</strong>re can be no true consent to a sexual relationship, even<br />

when <strong>the</strong> victim is age appropriate.<br />

Confronting <strong>the</strong> institutional Church on instances of sexual misconduct <strong>by</strong> <strong>Catholic</strong><br />

clergy is fur<strong>the</strong>r complicated <strong>by</strong> <strong>the</strong> historical fact that <strong>the</strong> Church has institutionalized this<br />

power imbalance in its <strong>the</strong>ology, law, and pastoral practice. Church leadership has responded<br />

with a heightened degree of defensiveness, undoubtedly propelled <strong>by</strong> <strong>the</strong> threat to its exalted<br />

position. At <strong>the</strong> same time, <strong>the</strong> Church has failed to fully grasp <strong>the</strong> part that <strong>the</strong> power<br />

differential plays in patterns of abuse and re-victimization.<br />

<strong>Clergy</strong> sexual abuse of any kind is always an aggressive act. Yet, <strong>the</strong> perpetrators often<br />

fail to see <strong>the</strong> aggressive component of <strong>the</strong> seduction or grooming process:<br />

The perpetrator's lack of awareness . . . is akin to disavowal or<br />

denial and is a delusional suspension of reality. Such persons may<br />

rationalize <strong>the</strong>ir molestation as serving a caretaker or parental role<br />

(taking <strong>the</strong> child/teen away for a holiday), performing an<br />

83<br />

See generally Candace R. Benyei, Understanding <strong>Clergy</strong> Misconduct in Religious Systems: Scapegoating,<br />

Family Secrets and <strong>the</strong> <strong>Abuse</strong> of Power 65 (1998).<br />

84<br />

See id. This power imbalance may be one of status, vested authority, hierarchy, age, gender, or physical strength.<br />

Id.<br />

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