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<strong>SEASON</strong> <strong>RETURN</strong>
INTRODUCTION<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST<br />
PARENTS is returning<br />
soon to deliver another<br />
dose of discipline<br />
to Australia’s most<br />
troublesome teens.<br />
Hosted by Home and Away star Axle Whitehead,<br />
it was the number one factual series of 2009,<br />
averaging 1.5 million viewers nationally.<br />
The fly-on-the-wall series pairs head-strong<br />
Aussie teens with strict parents overseas.<br />
Each week two of them are sent overseas to<br />
live with families who believe in regulation and<br />
respect. The new series will feature families<br />
from the USA, South Africa and for the first<br />
time an Australian family will play host to two<br />
tearaway teens.<br />
No swearing, no smoking, no wild parties<br />
and early curfews. Can seven days of tough<br />
love tame our wild teens? Or will these nononsense<br />
parents meet their match? Our<br />
Aussie parents are desperate to find out.<br />
Executive producer Trent Chapman believes<br />
the program offers teens that have gone off the<br />
rails a chance to get their lives back on track<br />
before it’s too late.<br />
“These teens are out of control and their<br />
parents are at their wits end,” he says. “The<br />
trip is an opportunity to curb their selfdestructive<br />
behaviour. More often than not they<br />
return with a new outlook on life and ready to<br />
rebuild their relationship with their family.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS is returning<br />
soon to Channel <strong>Seven</strong>.<br />
These parents have tough rules. And even<br />
tougher punishments. It’s a brave new world<br />
for these out of control youngsters as they<br />
learn to live by someone else’s rules.<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
HOST:<br />
AXLE<br />
WHITEHEAD<br />
Axle Whitehead returns<br />
to host WORLD’S<br />
STRICTEST PARENTS, a<br />
show he says no family<br />
should miss. “Whether<br />
you’re a teenager or a<br />
parent, this show is a<br />
must-see.”<br />
The talented singer, actor and musician can<br />
relate to the show’s naughty teens, admitting<br />
he too was a “brat” as a teenager. “I put my<br />
parents through their fair share of angst<br />
and anguish,” the 29-year-old says. “I was<br />
always in trouble and getting suspended<br />
from school.”<br />
After his wayward youth Axle turned a<br />
corner, just like the show’s tearaways who<br />
are all given a chance to turn their lives<br />
around. “When I left school I auditioned for<br />
the Music Conservatorium in Melbourne. The<br />
fact I got in was a real confidence booster. As<br />
long as you work hard and commit yourself,<br />
you can do anything you want.”<br />
Axle grew up on his family’s farm in country<br />
Victoria. While his dad managed the<br />
property, his mum instilled in him a love<br />
of music. She’d often drag him and his two<br />
older brothers along to all sorts of live music<br />
shows. “At home, someone would always be<br />
playing Bob Dylan, Paul Simon or Creedence<br />
Clearwater on the stereo,” he remembers.<br />
After finishing high school, he moved to<br />
Melbourne to attend the prestigious VCA<br />
(Victorian College of the Arts) to study music.<br />
In 2003, he entered the first series of<br />
Australian Idol and made it to the Top 20. He<br />
then went on to host music show Video Hits<br />
on Network Ten from 2004-2006.<br />
In 2006, Axle returned to the family farm to<br />
focus on his passion for making music. At<br />
the beginning of 2007, Axle moved back to<br />
Sydney to launch his recording career.<br />
His debut single ‘I Don’t Do Surprises’ was<br />
a Top 10 hit on the ARIA charts. His album<br />
Losing Sleep was released through Roadshow<br />
Music in August 2008 to rave reviews.<br />
After guest starring on Home and Away in<br />
2009 as rocker Liam Murphy, he joined the<br />
cast permanently that same year. “I’ve been<br />
taking classes for the last 18 months and it’s<br />
wonderful to be able to put it into practice.”<br />
Last year he was also crowned Cleo Bachelor<br />
of the Year, beating competition from<br />
sportsmen, actors and other personalities.<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
CHLOE<br />
16, BRISBANE, QLD<br />
Wild-child Chloe loves<br />
nothing more than fist<br />
fights and sneaking out<br />
of home to go cruising in<br />
cars with boys.<br />
According to her mum, Debby, Chloe’s<br />
temper is out of control. “When she’s angry<br />
she punches walls and has even broken<br />
her knuckles before. Chloe’s going to selfdestruct.<br />
If she keeps going on this path, she<br />
will end up going nowhere.”<br />
Chloe has mood swings that affect the whole<br />
family. “I control the household,” Chloe<br />
boasts. “When I’m not happy, nobody’s happy.<br />
When I’m angry, I scream at them and punch<br />
the walls and tell them to shut the f*&$ up.”<br />
Her parents are so fed up with her behaviour<br />
that they’ve moved her into a caravan in<br />
the backyard. “I got kicked out because I<br />
constantly argue with mum and dad,” Chloe<br />
says. “I break their rules all the time. No<br />
drinking – I drink. No smoking – I smoke. Not<br />
allowed to go out on a school night – I go out on<br />
a school night. So, yeah, I break them a lot.”<br />
Chloe’s father, Jeff, is heartbroken by her<br />
behaviour. “It’s hard for me to understand<br />
how our eldest daughter, who you love dearly,<br />
can treat her mum and dad in that manner,”<br />
he says. “I find it hard to cope with.”<br />
Her mother Debby is worn out by the constant<br />
fighting and worried about the influence Chloe<br />
is having on her younger brother and sister.<br />
“Chloe is ruling our roost and we try really<br />
hard not to let her be that way,” Debby says.<br />
“But it wears you down to the point where you<br />
just can’t take it anymore.”<br />
It’s not only her home life that’s suffering.<br />
Chloe’s just been expelled from her<br />
third school.<br />
“I hate school, it’s bull#$*t,” Chloe says.<br />
“People are always in your face. Teachers are<br />
in your face. I can’t smoke at school and can’t<br />
do what I want.”<br />
Debby worries that Chloe is out of options.<br />
“No other school in Queensland will take her”.<br />
For Debby, it’s a constant struggle. Even getting<br />
Chloe up in the morning starts a fight. “She will<br />
kick me and swear at me every morning, that’s<br />
how everyday starts with Chloe.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
CHRISTIAN<br />
17, MELBOURNE<br />
Christian’s parents<br />
describe him as an<br />
“anarchist.”<br />
His worried mum Anne says, “He smokes, he<br />
drinks, he’s dropped out of school, he’s got<br />
no formal qualifications at all, he’s dabbled<br />
in drugs, he’s dabbled in graffiti and criminal<br />
actions. It’s enough to turn you grey overnight.<br />
“He can charm anyone into thinking he’s<br />
innocent and a nice boy, but underneath he<br />
is an anarchist. He sees anyone in a position<br />
of authority as a killjoy, as someone to stop<br />
his pleasure.”<br />
Christian’s parents first noticed a change in<br />
his behaviour around the age of 14. “It was<br />
like Jekyll and Hyde,” Anne says. “It wasn’t<br />
quite overnight, but it was pretty close to<br />
it. So we got the shock of our lives and we<br />
weren’t prepared.”<br />
Christian was a good student, but when he<br />
hit high school, he started hanging out with a<br />
different crowd.<br />
“Year 9 was a disaster,” his mum says. “He<br />
wagged 82 days! That’s more than a term.”<br />
Eventually, Christian gave up on school<br />
completely and dropped out in Year 11.<br />
Christian says, “I just hate school so much.<br />
I hate being restricted. I hate the fact that<br />
everyone is the same, you’re all wearing the<br />
same shit, you don’t get to do your own thing,<br />
express yourself.”<br />
These days Christian doesn’t like to get up<br />
before 11am and then he doesn’t do much at<br />
all except recover from the night before.<br />
“I go hardcore with the drinking. My mates<br />
too, because they drink so much I have to<br />
keep up,” Christian says. “It becomes a<br />
big game, seeing who can drink the most<br />
and we all end up on our arses on the floor,<br />
completely and utterly smashed. One night I<br />
got so drunk I fell off the roof.”<br />
The lowest point for Anne and Tim was<br />
reporting Christian to the police as a missing<br />
person. “Many times I thought that Christian<br />
was dead,” says Anne. “Many times I thought<br />
I’d get a call to go and identify his body.”<br />
Christian’s dad Tim is just as concerned.<br />
“He’s just put his pursuit of pleasure in front<br />
of everything. He’s always challenging<br />
our authority.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
WOLF CREEK, MONTANA<br />
WIRTH FAMILY<br />
Teens Chloe and<br />
Christian will be<br />
spending a week in<br />
cowboy country, in a<br />
remote part of America,<br />
near Wolf Creek,<br />
Montana.<br />
They’ll be staying on Rocking “Z” Ranch with<br />
Zack and Patty Wirth, who’ve raised their<br />
kids on a combination of hard work, respect<br />
and old-fashioned cowboy values.<br />
Zack is a fifth-generation rancher while wife<br />
Patty is an expert horse trainer. Together<br />
they have six children. And, when it comes<br />
to parenting, it’s their way, or no way. “We’re<br />
dedicated parents,” says Zack. “We don’t get<br />
pushed around.”<br />
The Wirth’s believe raising children is like<br />
breaking in a horse. “Horses are always<br />
ready to take charge and if you let them take<br />
charge then they become the boss,” says<br />
Patty. “Which is somewhat like teenagers<br />
because they’re always pushing to see what<br />
the limits are.”<br />
The Wirth’s ban their kids from smokes,<br />
booze and bad language. “None of us,<br />
including my parents cuss,” says youngest<br />
daughter Anna. “It’s simply inappropriate<br />
and unnecessary.”<br />
And in this neck of the woods, there’s more<br />
than just strict parents to contend with.<br />
There’s grizzly bears, mountain lions and<br />
coyotes roaming free.<br />
So if the two Aussie teens are to survive a<br />
week with these strict parents, they’ll need to<br />
get back to basics, put in plenty of hard labour<br />
and learn some old-school cowboy manners.<br />
“We think we can teach a young person how<br />
to accept who they are and improve their life<br />
from here on,” says Zack.<br />
HOUSE RULES!!!<br />
• Hats off at the dinner table<br />
• No work, no food<br />
• No foul language<br />
• No drinking<br />
• No smoking<br />
• Be polite<br />
• Clean up after yourself<br />
• Do your portion of the work<br />
when told to do something<br />
• If you break trust, you have<br />
to earn it back<br />
There’s no late night parties and sleeping in<br />
for these tough cowboys and girls. From sun<br />
up to sunset, it’s all work. “Hard work goes<br />
with the territory,” says Zac. “We do not<br />
differentiate between what’s a girl’s job and<br />
what’s a boy’s job. We all do everything.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
ADRIANA<br />
16, PERTH, WA<br />
Adriana is a party girl<br />
who doesn’t like to get<br />
her hands dirty. “I don’t<br />
think I should have to<br />
help around the house.<br />
I don’t have time,” she<br />
says. “It’s mum’s role to<br />
cook, clean, to do all of<br />
that home stuff. And it’s<br />
the teenagers’ role to go<br />
out and have fun.”<br />
Adriana makes sure she has plenty of time for<br />
fun. She dropped out of school in Year 11 and<br />
her social life is now her number one priority.<br />
“I usually get smashed every weekend, I can’t<br />
think of a weekend where I haven’t been.”<br />
Adriana’s drinking is out of control. Her<br />
mother, Kate, says alcohol turns her daughter<br />
into a different person. “The drunk Adriana is<br />
loud, rude, and obnoxious,” Kate says. “The<br />
hung-over Adriana is depressing, nasty and<br />
horrible. I don’t like her when she’s drunk and<br />
I don’t like her when she’s hung-over, which is<br />
pretty much most of the time.”<br />
Even a liver infection and a warning from<br />
her doctor hasn’t slowed down Adriana’s<br />
partying. “The doctor told me that I wasn’t<br />
supposed to drink for three years, but I<br />
decided to keep drinking anyway,” she says.<br />
One night Adriana snuck out of her window<br />
and got so drunk she ended up in the<br />
emergency ward. “One minute it was six<br />
o’clock at night and I was drinking goon,<br />
and the next minute it was five o’clock in<br />
the morning and mum was yelling at me in<br />
the hospital,” she says. “I don’t remember<br />
anything that happened in between.”<br />
Her mother is so sick of her sneaking<br />
out that she’s resorted to putting bars on<br />
Adriana’s bedroom window.<br />
“Adriana lives from one party to the next,”<br />
Kate says. “Monday to Friday, she is pretty<br />
much in a bad mood. On the weekends she<br />
just wants to party. She loves to drink, she<br />
loves to dress up, she loves make up, she<br />
loves doing her hair, she loves to go out. It is<br />
literally just one party to the next. It’s what<br />
she lives for.”<br />
Her mother Kate is now at breaking point.<br />
“Adriana was an extremely loving child,”<br />
she says. “Up until she was about 14, she<br />
was beautiful. From 14 to now it has just<br />
progressed from bad to worse. I am really<br />
desperate for her to change. If she does not<br />
change I don’t know what else to do.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
NATHAN<br />
17, MELBOURNE VIC<br />
For consumer-crazy<br />
teen Nathan, only the<br />
best will do. “I love top of<br />
the range stuff,” Nathan<br />
says. “If something new<br />
comes out, I generally<br />
want it. Mum pays for<br />
pretty much everything.”<br />
Nathan’s mum Cathy works two jobs just to<br />
make ends meet, but Nathan thinks nothing of<br />
stealing money from her to make purchases<br />
like laptops, stereos and televisions.<br />
“Part of being a mum is definitely buying your<br />
kids everything,” Nathan says. “You’re meant to<br />
bring them up well aren’t you? I definitely think<br />
I’m spoiled, but I’m not complaining at all.”<br />
Nathan’s mother, Cathy, concedes, “I think I’ve<br />
spoilt him and it’s come back to bite me.”<br />
Despite spending all of Cathy’s money, Nathan<br />
has no respect for his mum. “One word would<br />
describe my mum and that’s a b*@!&.”<br />
In the past year he’s dropped out of school,<br />
run away from home and been picked up by<br />
the police.<br />
The 17-year-old boasts, “I love getting to the<br />
point where I’m out of control.”<br />
his way. He’s had a 360 degree turn around<br />
in personality. He’s very lost at the moment.<br />
I’ve given up. I don’t know how to guide him<br />
because he doesn’t let me guide him anymore.”<br />
Nathan’s parents split when he was very<br />
young, and Cathy thinks this has had a lasting<br />
impact on him. “He hasn’t had a male figure<br />
around and I think that might have a lot to do<br />
with it,” she says.<br />
Nathan sleeps in most days until lunchtime<br />
so he has plenty of energy at night to party.<br />
“Mum doesn’t really like me going out, but I<br />
just don’t listen,” Nathan says.<br />
”I jump the back fence if I have to. A great<br />
Saturday night for me is to pretty much get<br />
f*$#@d up. I love getting to the point where<br />
I’m out of control.”<br />
Nathan has dropped out of school, and has<br />
no plans to calm down in the near future.<br />
“Life for me is pretty much just party until I<br />
cannot physically party anymore,” he says.<br />
“You only live once. What’s the point of<br />
getting a full time job?”<br />
For a tech-head like Nathan, a week in<br />
remote outback Queensland will definitely be<br />
a shock to his system.<br />
“I use my laptop pretty much 24/7,” he says.<br />
“I’m always on my phone whether it’s for<br />
music or the Internet.”<br />
For Nathan the city life will be a world away.<br />
Cathy isn’t banking on a miracle makeover…<br />
she just wants her little boy back.<br />
“I don’t expect him to come back a completely<br />
changed person. I just want to have my son<br />
back, not the stranger he seems to be now.”<br />
Cathy has no idea why her son had a sudden<br />
attitude shift 18 months ago. “He was very<br />
directed and now he just seems to have lost<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
AUSTRALIA<br />
THE IRONSIDE<br />
FAMILY<br />
World’s Strictest<br />
Parents’ first Australian<br />
family, the Ironsides,<br />
will be serving up a dose<br />
of discipline - outback<br />
style.<br />
Mark Ironside is a grazier and pastor of<br />
his local church. Together with wife Grace<br />
they run a remote cattle station west of<br />
Charleville, in outback Queensland.<br />
Tearaway teens Nathan and Adriana will<br />
spend a week on the 40,000 acre property.<br />
The isolation will be tough for the teens, who<br />
are used to all the mod-cons of city living.<br />
“Many kids are shocked when they find out<br />
there’s no phone reception,” says Grace.<br />
“When most teenagers come here they think<br />
they’ve come to the end of the earth. The<br />
back fence is 30 kilometres away so there’s<br />
nowhere to run away to.”<br />
The Ironsides limit their kids’ access to the<br />
internet, movies and music. And they only<br />
receive Christian satellite TV channels.<br />
The couple are no strangers to troubled<br />
teens. They’ve been foster carers to so<br />
many kids over the years they’ve lost count.<br />
“We provide a stable, disciplined, loving<br />
environment. We say what we mean and<br />
mean what we say. But ultimately it’s up to<br />
the children to decide if they want to change.”<br />
The Ironsides are a traditional family who<br />
believe hard work and discipline is the key<br />
to good parenting.<br />
“We believe in corporal punishment, the<br />
stick or the wooden spoon,” says Mark.<br />
“And we have a rule here – if you don’t work,<br />
you don’t eat.”<br />
Their children – Amy, 23, Elizabeth, 19, and<br />
Matthew, 13 – describe their upbringing as<br />
“very, very strict.”<br />
Failure to do homework is punished<br />
immediately with chores such as fencing,<br />
cleaning out the cattle dog pens and mowing<br />
the lawn.<br />
But the kids understand it’s for their own<br />
good. “They have rules that protect you,”<br />
says Elizabeth.<br />
There’s also a strict no drinking, smoking or<br />
swearing policy in the Ironside household.<br />
“We are firm parents,” Grace says. “We have<br />
certain moral standards in our house and<br />
there are consequences if rules are broken.”<br />
HOUSE RULES!!!<br />
• No alcohol<br />
• No smoking<br />
• No drugs<br />
• No swearing<br />
• No regular TV, only Christian<br />
Television<br />
• If you don’t work, you don’t eat<br />
• Children must eat what’s in<br />
front of them<br />
• Daily chores – feed the<br />
dogs, clean out the kennels,<br />
make the bed, keep room tidy<br />
• Privileges are withdrawn if<br />
rules are disobeyed<br />
• Church every Sunday<br />
“The isolation is a shock factor,” adds Mark.<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
CORIE<br />
16, ADELAIDE, SA<br />
Corie’s quickly making<br />
a name for himself as a<br />
troublemaker.<br />
“I’m always up for some mischief, wherever<br />
I go,” Corie says. “Most of the time I live by<br />
my own rules.”<br />
His mum Elizabeth, who’s twice reported<br />
him as a missing person, says, “In the last<br />
year the police have rung four or five times<br />
asking me to pick him up.”<br />
Corie’s list of “hobbies” reads more like a<br />
juvenile delinquent’s wrap sheet: “Stealing<br />
things, smoking bongs, drinking,<br />
and getting chicks.”<br />
He’s been caught once for shoplifting, but<br />
this hasn’t stopped him. It’s got to the point<br />
where his mother can’t trust him, “Corie<br />
takes money from me,” Elizabeth says, “I<br />
take my handbag with me wherever I go.”<br />
Corie’s dad left when he was just two and his<br />
mother has raised him alone. “I’m trying to<br />
be both mother and father, which is difficult<br />
at times,” his mum says. “I think Corie would<br />
like to see his dad, and be with him more, but<br />
he finds it difficult because he is resentful,<br />
about not seeing him when he was little.”<br />
Corie’s behaviour has been getting more and<br />
more out of control. “I noticed a big change<br />
in Corie when he started high school,”<br />
Elizabeth says. “He got new friends and new<br />
influences and he started thinking, ‘This is<br />
great. I’m going to be a bad boy’. He doesn’t<br />
go to school. He quit his job because it was<br />
in the way of his social life. He drinks and<br />
smokes. He lies to me.”<br />
Recently Elizabeth received a call in the<br />
middle of the night to say that Corie was in<br />
hospital after overdosing on drugs. “I was<br />
really, really upset. You don’t want your kids<br />
to go through that. I worry about where it’s<br />
going to stop.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
THEA<br />
16, NOWRA, NSW<br />
High school drop-out<br />
Thea is on the road<br />
to nowhere.<br />
After being expelled from boarding school<br />
for sneaking out and getting drunk, Thea<br />
lasted just one term at her next school<br />
before being asked to leave.<br />
She is now out of options and too lazy to<br />
even seek the youth allowance. “If I could get<br />
money without having to work I’d do it,” Thea<br />
says. “But it’s too much effort to go down to<br />
Centrelink and do that.”<br />
Thea has no qualms about telling it how it<br />
is. “I’m a b!&*%,” she says, “If I want to be a<br />
b!&*% to you, I will be a b!&*% to you. I don’t<br />
hide how I feel or what I think of someone. I<br />
tell them.”<br />
But it’s not just the laziness, booze and<br />
bitchiness that’s cause for concern. Thea<br />
has stolen her mother’s clothes, jewellery,<br />
perfume and money so many times that<br />
Tahnee has been forced to put a deadlock on<br />
her own bedroom door.<br />
Ever since her mum re-married and had<br />
three more children, Thea has struggled<br />
with her role in the family.<br />
Thea’s mum Tahnee says, “I guess it’s just<br />
a reflection of the bitterness that she has<br />
towards me for having another family.”<br />
Her stepdad Hamish is also struggling to deal<br />
with Thea’s behaviour. “She treats her little<br />
brothers terribly,” Hamish says. “They are<br />
going to grow up knowing her as a disturbance<br />
in the household, rather than a sister.”<br />
Thea’s behaviour is now so bad that her<br />
mother has been forced to give her an<br />
ultimatum, “Live by our rules and fit in with<br />
our family or go and live somewhere else,<br />
because we can’t take it anymore.”<br />
When her mum Tahnee and stepdad Hamish<br />
went away on holiday, Thea used the house<br />
to host a two-week party that was fuelled by<br />
booze and boisterous teens.<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
TEXAS, USA<br />
THE SIMONS<br />
FAMILY<br />
Aussie teens Thea and<br />
Corie are heading to<br />
Texas to spend a week<br />
with the Simons family.<br />
Their approach to parenting has been heavily<br />
influenced by their years of military service.<br />
They believe kids should be brought up with<br />
old-fashioned manners, hard work and<br />
fierce discipline.<br />
From Port Lavaca in Texas, Laval Simons<br />
spent 22 years in the military – including 15<br />
years as an elite special forces “green beret”<br />
in Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan and Pakistan.<br />
His wife Jennifer is a former Army nurse.<br />
“We’re not afraid of being stern with our<br />
children at all,” says Laval. “If they get mad<br />
at us, so what? It doesn’t matter to me. They<br />
can get glad like they got mad.”<br />
In this household, the parents rule the roost.<br />
“We are the parents,” says mum Jennifer, “and<br />
they answer to us, not the other way around.”<br />
The Simons have two children, Moriah, 17<br />
and Milam, 14, who are both expected to<br />
behave with military manners.<br />
“Our kids always say ‘yes sir’ and ‘no sir’<br />
if they’re addressed, or if they’re asked a<br />
question,” says Laval.<br />
For the Simons kids, every day brings a long<br />
list of chores, even on weekends. They’re up<br />
before dawn to feed all the animals on the<br />
ranch, keep the lawns tidy, the kitchen clean<br />
and their rooms spotless.<br />
To make sure their schooling doesn’t slip, these<br />
parents monitor their kids grades weekly.<br />
And, in the Simons home, anything less than<br />
an A or a B is unacceptable.<br />
“When you start making bad grades and Cs<br />
you’re going to start getting consequences,”<br />
says Laval. And the consequences come<br />
swiftly and severely.<br />
“I’ve had my i-Pod, my phone, my laptop taken<br />
away,” says Moriah. “I’ve had my make-up, my<br />
jewellery taken away. I had my bedroom door<br />
removed. My dad’s very strict.”<br />
Port Lavaca is in Calhoun County, Texas. The<br />
county’s passed local laws making it illegal<br />
for students to drop out of school.<br />
Serial trouble-makers are sent to a militaryrun<br />
boot camp where students must take part<br />
in tough army drills in addition to lessons.<br />
Laval says, “The great thing about the<br />
Calhoun County school system is you mess<br />
up, you get clinked up.”<br />
HOUSE RULES!!!<br />
• Must say “sir” and “ma’am”<br />
when addressed<br />
• No drinking<br />
• No smoking<br />
• No swearing<br />
• No dating before age 17<br />
• Kids must do chores seven<br />
days a week<br />
• Must wake up at 0600<br />
everyday<br />
• Must dress modestly<br />
• Must achieve at least a B<br />
average at school<br />
• Punishments include having<br />
bedroom door removed<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
DILLAN<br />
16, ADELAIDE, SA<br />
Image-obsessed Dillan<br />
spends more time on his<br />
hair than he does on his<br />
schoolwork.<br />
“I spend about two-and-a-half hours a day<br />
getting ready,” he says. “If you don’t look<br />
good, there’s no point in living. I am the<br />
hottest guy in school.”<br />
And it’s not just the vanity.<br />
Dillan’s mum Angy recalls, “The rebelling<br />
started when he was about 12 or 13. It was<br />
like he was a different child overnight.”<br />
Dillan’s attitude changed dramatically and<br />
he began drinking and smoking. Angy is<br />
particularly worried about Dillan’s drinking,<br />
which even he admits is out of control. “I’ve<br />
been drinking at school recently and I get<br />
drunk about four times a week,” Dillan says.<br />
Dillan is openly gay, which his parents accept.<br />
What they can’t accept is his behaviour, which<br />
is worsening. His relationship with his<br />
mother has deteriorated to the point they can<br />
barely stand to be in the same room together.<br />
“I fight with mum 99 per cent of the time,”<br />
Dillan says.<br />
He has no respect for the rules and boundaries<br />
that his mother sets, and sometimes runs<br />
away from home for days on end.<br />
Angy has sleepless nights worrying about his<br />
whereabouts. “Life is just a party for him,”<br />
she says. “He’s defiant, he does what he<br />
wants, when he wants. And he talks back<br />
to anyone and everyone, teachers, police,<br />
whoever he feels like. He has no regard for<br />
authority whatsoever”<br />
Dillan can’t see what all the fuss is about. “I<br />
am perfect. I don’t need to change anything.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
HANNAH<br />
16, BENDIGO, VIC<br />
Brash and outspoken,<br />
Hannah is a girl who’s<br />
out of control and not<br />
afraid to speak her mind.<br />
“Yeah, I have an attitude<br />
problem, but so what?”<br />
she says.<br />
Her mum Debbie is at breaking point.<br />
“Hannah does not live by boundaries. She’ll<br />
do what she wants, when she wants. She<br />
sleeps all day until 3pm and won’t lift a finger<br />
around the house.”<br />
But foul-mouthed Hannah doesn’t see the<br />
problem. “Mum asks me to help around the<br />
house, but I just tell her to f*!% off or ignore<br />
her,” she says.<br />
It’s not just her mother who cops Hannah’s<br />
abuse. She’ll talk back to anyone, even the<br />
police. “I called this one cop a f#&% wit,”<br />
she says. “Cops don’t intimidate or scare<br />
me. They are just annoying. I ignore rules. I<br />
don’t see the point of them. No one’s got the<br />
right to tell me what to do.”<br />
Hannah’s given up on school and can’t be<br />
bothered holding down a job because it<br />
would “get in the way of partying.” This<br />
means Debbie is funding her daughter’s<br />
lifestyle, including her phone bill which is<br />
often hefty. Hannah sends up to 500 text<br />
messages a day.<br />
Hannah is not used to hearing the word<br />
“no” and when she does, you had better be<br />
prepared for revenge. “Dad wouldn’t give<br />
me alcohol,” Hannah says, “so I let his tyres<br />
down and stole his phones.”<br />
Although her parents are distraught, Hannah is<br />
more philosophical about her behaviour, “Why<br />
get so serious when I could die tomorrow? Life<br />
should be all about having fun.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
JOHANNESBURG, SOUTH AFRICA<br />
DE KOCK<br />
FAMILY<br />
Aussie teens Dillan and<br />
Hannah will be staying<br />
with South African couple<br />
Andrew and Charnell<br />
de Kock, who believe<br />
the key to bringing up<br />
angelic kids is through<br />
clean living and the strict<br />
moral teachings of the<br />
Mormon faith.<br />
Andrew imports medical technology,<br />
while wife Charnell is a part-time student<br />
counselor and special needs teacher. Three<br />
of their four children are students while the<br />
eldest is a missionary in Uganda.<br />
“Our religion isn’t just something we go to on<br />
Sunday, it’s a way of life,” says Andrew. “We<br />
are trying to live a Christ-like life.”<br />
And in the de Kock house, this means<br />
plenty of rules.<br />
“We have rules with internet access, we have<br />
rules with behaviour and code of conduct, we<br />
have rules with language, we have rules with<br />
interaction with people around them, we have<br />
rules with chores,” says Charnell. “The rules<br />
are there for them and for us to function in<br />
society and to function as a family.”<br />
The de Kock kids can only watch PG rated<br />
television. Andrew and Charnell also keep<br />
a close eye on the music they listen to, the<br />
movies they watch and the company they<br />
keep. “We monitor their friendships - that’s<br />
important,” says Charnell.<br />
This family has its own 10 point code of<br />
conduct, incorporating trust, work and<br />
respect. Every child in the de Kock family is<br />
expected to strictly abide by this code.<br />
“Teenagers have too much freedom,” says<br />
Andrew. “And as a result I feel that they perhaps<br />
are behaving in a way that is unbecoming of<br />
decent young men and young women.”<br />
The de Kocks believe a healthy body is as<br />
important as a healthy mind. You won’t find<br />
any tea, coffee or cola in their house. As a<br />
matter of fact, you won’t find any caffeinated<br />
drinks or foods that are considered addictive.<br />
“It’s important to fill the body and mind with<br />
wholesomeness,” says Charnell.<br />
Andrew adds, “We’d like to show Hannah<br />
and Dillan that happiness can be found by<br />
adherence to principals.”<br />
HOUSE RULES!!!<br />
• Everyone must follow the<br />
strict Mormon beliefs<br />
• No drinking caffeinated<br />
beverages or addictive foods<br />
• Everyone must perform their<br />
share of the house work<br />
• No smoking<br />
• No drinking<br />
• No swearing<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
AZA<br />
17, SYDNEY, NSW<br />
Raver girl Aza has<br />
overdosed on ecstasy<br />
three times. And she<br />
still won’t stop chasing<br />
the next high.<br />
“I woke up in hospital going, ‘What happened?’”<br />
Aza says. “Most people would think that I’d<br />
learn from that but I stopped taking them for a<br />
while then I got back into them.”<br />
Aza thinks nothing of mixing a cocktail of<br />
drugs and alcohol every weekend. “I’m a party<br />
girl. I’m a raver, I love to have fun. I smoke,<br />
do pot, drink, do pills. And anyone who thinks<br />
there’s a problem with it can just get stuffed.”<br />
Since dropping out of school, Aza has had<br />
plenty of time to party. “I usually go out about<br />
four days a week,” Aza says. “My weekend<br />
starts on Thursday and finishes on Monday<br />
morning. I usually take about three pills a<br />
night when I go out, maybe more.”<br />
For Aza’s mother, Natalie, every weekend is<br />
a nightmare. “My worst fear is waking up<br />
one morning and her not being here,” Natalie<br />
says. “I don’t think I could go on after that.<br />
What would I do with my life if she wasn’t<br />
here? She’s the centre of my universe.”<br />
Aza’s days are spent sleeping, hanging with<br />
her boyfriend and watching TV.<br />
Aza doesn’t want to hold down a job as it<br />
gets in the way of her partying and Natalie<br />
is at her wits end. “For the last eight or nine<br />
months she’s been doing nothing,” Natalie<br />
says. “I’m lucky if she gets out of bed before<br />
ten and when she does, all she will do is sit<br />
on the computer or watch TV.”<br />
Natalie’s noticed a massive change in Aza’s<br />
moods since she started doing drugs. “She’s<br />
become a lot more argumentative, a lot more<br />
moody,” says Natalie.<br />
“She has massive mood swings and has<br />
become a lot more unpleasant to live with.<br />
She’s lazy and doesn’t do anything<br />
around the house.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
TROY<br />
17, BRISBANE, QLD<br />
Rev-head Troy is on<br />
the verge of losing his<br />
license. And he’s only<br />
had it for six months.<br />
“The thing I like about cars is going real fast,<br />
the smell of the burnt rubber, the sound of<br />
the screeching. It just gets your adrenalin<br />
running,” Troy says.<br />
“I worry sick about him and that car,” says<br />
his father Doug.<br />
His mum Julie can barely sleep at night,<br />
worrying about what might happen.<br />
“Troy thinks he’s bullet proof,” Julie says. “My<br />
greatest fear with Troy is that he’s on a path<br />
of destruction. I’m not sure whether it will be<br />
driving his car, alcohol or even killing someone.<br />
We don’t even know who he is anymore.”<br />
Three months before he was due to finish<br />
school, Troy was expelled. But he says he’s not<br />
worried. “When I got expelled it was more of a<br />
relief because I wasn’t going to school anyway.<br />
So I get to sit at home, sleep, go out and party<br />
whenever I want. It’s pretty cool,” he says.<br />
All Troy wants to do is drive fast cars, party<br />
all night and sleep all day.<br />
His father says his behaviour has been<br />
spiralling out of control. “Week by week,<br />
month by month, his bad behaviour is<br />
escalating. He’s going out, he’s not telling us<br />
where he’s going. We ask over and over and<br />
he refuses to tell us.”<br />
But Troy sees things differently. “They have<br />
rules but I don’t abide by them so they’re not<br />
really rules to me,” Troy says. “I just do what<br />
I want. I don’t really care what they think.”<br />
Troy’s parents are desperate. They want<br />
him to grow up, get a job and take some<br />
responsibility.<br />
Troy has other plans. “If I could have my way I’d<br />
win the lotto and just keep partying all my life.”<br />
“I’m concerned the police are going to knock<br />
on my door and tell me that my son’s dead.”<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
OHIO, USA<br />
THE MCDONALD<br />
FAMILY<br />
The McDonald family<br />
believe a mix of<br />
compulsory study,<br />
church and chores is the<br />
key to good parenting.<br />
Nathan McDonald is the Pastor at his local<br />
church in the small town of Zanesville, Ohio.<br />
His wife Cassandra is an opera singer and<br />
music teacher.<br />
Teens Troy and Aza will spend a week with<br />
the McDonald’s, living by a routine of strict<br />
religious beliefs and ultra conservative values.<br />
Cassandra says, “You’re not going to be a<br />
raunchy teenager that I can’t stand. That’s<br />
not happening here. I tell my students there<br />
are two ‘L’s’ I don’t deal with ‘Lazy’ and ‘Liar.’<br />
If you’re either one of them go study with<br />
someone else.”<br />
The McDonald’s have five adult children, and<br />
an 18-year-old foster son, Bryan. All of them<br />
were made to work and study hard.<br />
“There’s no drinking. No smoking,” she says.<br />
“I’m not dealing with that because you’re in<br />
my care and you represent me. Not you.”<br />
For Troy and Aza, it’s going to be a crash<br />
course in old school discipline.<br />
“When you blow it the first time, I don’t trust<br />
you. And if I don’t trust you, there’s going to<br />
be limitations everywhere,” Cassandra says.<br />
Troy and Aza aren’t just facing a strict family.<br />
Ohio has some of the toughest laws in<br />
America. Even underage drinking can mean<br />
six months in jail.<br />
“I absolutely won’t tolerate it,” Cassandra<br />
says. “The most extreme punishment<br />
will be going to jail.”<br />
HOUSE RULES!!!<br />
• No drinking<br />
• No smoking<br />
• No bad language<br />
• No sex before marriage<br />
• Mandatory bible study<br />
• Must cook, clean and do your<br />
own laundry<br />
• Compulsory charity work<br />
• Compulsory study time<br />
• Compulsory music lessons<br />
“From seventh grade on, they had to do<br />
their own laundry, cook, clean and iron,”<br />
Cassandra says. “I’m nobody’s maid.”<br />
The McDonald’s older children have earned a<br />
dozen university degrees between them.<br />
WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS
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WORLD’S STRICTEST PARENTS