The Discipline of Pious Reason: Goethe, Herder, Kant Daniel ...
The Discipline of Pious Reason: Goethe, Herder, Kant Daniel ...
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in favour <strong>of</strong> a more temperate balance between unity and separation which he labels<br />
‘friendship’.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are three fundamental reasons <strong>Kant</strong> prefers friendship to love. First, friendship,<br />
unlike love, is necessarily reciprocal: ‘<strong>The</strong>re can be amor unilateralis; but strictly such<br />
well-wishing changes into friendship (amicitia) through a reciprocal love, or amor<br />
bilateralis.’ (1997, 27:676) Second, friendship, unlike love, requires equality between<br />
the parties: ‘inter superiors et inferiors no friendship occurs’ (ibid, 27:676), for<br />
friendship demands ‘reciprocal esteem… among equals’ (ibid, 27:680). Finally, and<br />
here <strong>Kant</strong> is most insistent, friendship, unlike love, keeps the other at a distance. He<br />
writes in the Lectures, we ‘cannot permit the other to come too close… In this lies the<br />
mutual restriction <strong>of</strong> reciprocal love among friends.’ (ibid, 27:682) In consequence,<br />
one <strong>of</strong> <strong>Kant</strong>’s ‘rules <strong>of</strong> prudence’ reads, ‘To keep sufficiently at a distance from our<br />
friend’ so as to prevents ‘rash communication and… unrestrained love’, for ‘Too deep<br />
an intimacy detracts from worth’ (ibid, 27:684-5). <strong>Kant</strong> returns to this topic in the<br />
published version <strong>of</strong> the Metaphysik der Sitten. <strong>The</strong>re he writes,<br />
Love can be regarded as attraction and respect as repulsion, and if the principle <strong>of</strong><br />
love bids friends draw closer, the principle <strong>of</strong> respect requires them to stay at a<br />
proper distance from each other. This limitation on intimacy, which is expressed<br />
in the rule that even the best <strong>of</strong> friends should not make themselves too familiar<br />
with each other, contains a maxim that holds [in all cases]. (1996, 6:470)