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PRE-BIRTH TO THREE: POSITIVE OUTCOMES FOR SCOTLAND’S CHILDREN AND FAMILIES<br />

ATTACHMENTS<br />

Bonding is the term that is commonly used <strong>to</strong> describe the deep and<br />

powerful connection between babies and the important people in<br />

their lives. Mothers can bond with their babies before birth, creating a<br />

strong connection which allows them <strong>to</strong> tune in <strong>to</strong> their babies’ needs<br />

quickly and create secure attachments. It was previously thought that<br />

babies only bonded with their parents, but it has been known for<br />

some time that babies can bond with a number of significant people<br />

such as grandparents, siblings, staff in early years settings and carers<br />

(Roberts, 2010).<br />

Attunement between the adult and baby helps <strong>to</strong> support the<br />

development of the baby’s emotional health and wellbeing. In this<br />

kind of secure relationship, the child learns about emotions and this<br />

supports a positive sense of self. Babies and young children look for<br />

reactions and responses from people around them and they often<br />

mirror what they see. They respond <strong>to</strong> facial expressions, <strong>to</strong>ne of<br />

voice, body language, eye contact and the kind of care they receive.<br />

Secure attachments also help young children <strong>to</strong> develop the skills,<br />

values and attributes which are essential for them <strong>to</strong> become<br />

confident individuals, successful learners, effective contribu<strong>to</strong>rs and<br />

responsible citizens. When babies and young children feel confident,<br />

they find it easier <strong>to</strong> get along with others and feel secure about<br />

exploring the world around them.<br />

Positive attachments can help babies and children <strong>to</strong> develop<br />

resilience. According <strong>to</strong> Perry and Szalavitz,<br />

‘Children become resilient as a result of the<br />

patterns of stress and of nurturing that they<br />

experience early on in life.’<br />

(2006, p 32)<br />

Children can become more resilient through, for example, developing<br />

positive relationships with kind and caring adults who act as effective<br />

role models.<br />

Strong relationships developed through secure attachments and<br />

attunement help babies and young children <strong>to</strong> develop empathy, the<br />

ability <strong>to</strong> understand the feelings of others. It is very important as it<br />

can facilitate and improve life chances as well as acting as a form of<br />

protection against developing aggressive and violent behaviour.

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