Pre-Birth to Three guidance (2.3 - Education Scotland
Pre-Birth to Three guidance (2.3 - Education Scotland
Pre-Birth to Three guidance (2.3 - Education Scotland
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PRE-BIRTH TO THREE: POSITIVE OUTCOMES FOR SCOTLAND’S CHILDREN AND FAMILIES<br />
ATTACHMENTS<br />
Bonding is the term that is commonly used <strong>to</strong> describe the deep and<br />
powerful connection between babies and the important people in<br />
their lives. Mothers can bond with their babies before birth, creating a<br />
strong connection which allows them <strong>to</strong> tune in <strong>to</strong> their babies’ needs<br />
quickly and create secure attachments. It was previously thought that<br />
babies only bonded with their parents, but it has been known for<br />
some time that babies can bond with a number of significant people<br />
such as grandparents, siblings, staff in early years settings and carers<br />
(Roberts, 2010).<br />
Attunement between the adult and baby helps <strong>to</strong> support the<br />
development of the baby’s emotional health and wellbeing. In this<br />
kind of secure relationship, the child learns about emotions and this<br />
supports a positive sense of self. Babies and young children look for<br />
reactions and responses from people around them and they often<br />
mirror what they see. They respond <strong>to</strong> facial expressions, <strong>to</strong>ne of<br />
voice, body language, eye contact and the kind of care they receive.<br />
Secure attachments also help young children <strong>to</strong> develop the skills,<br />
values and attributes which are essential for them <strong>to</strong> become<br />
confident individuals, successful learners, effective contribu<strong>to</strong>rs and<br />
responsible citizens. When babies and young children feel confident,<br />
they find it easier <strong>to</strong> get along with others and feel secure about<br />
exploring the world around them.<br />
Positive attachments can help babies and children <strong>to</strong> develop<br />
resilience. According <strong>to</strong> Perry and Szalavitz,<br />
‘Children become resilient as a result of the<br />
patterns of stress and of nurturing that they<br />
experience early on in life.’<br />
(2006, p 32)<br />
Children can become more resilient through, for example, developing<br />
positive relationships with kind and caring adults who act as effective<br />
role models.<br />
Strong relationships developed through secure attachments and<br />
attunement help babies and young children <strong>to</strong> develop empathy, the<br />
ability <strong>to</strong> understand the feelings of others. It is very important as it<br />
can facilitate and improve life chances as well as acting as a form of<br />
protection against developing aggressive and violent behaviour.