J 'Bell - The Mindfulness Bell
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PrisonMoment, Wonderful Moment<br />
by Sister Chan Khong<br />
Dear David, I wish to be your friend because Iknow that<br />
you are a good person caught in a difficult situation.<br />
When wearein a bad situation, wetend to believe that we are<br />
the only one whois unfortunate. In fact, everyone has difficulties<br />
.Only we may never hear about them. Please remember that<br />
being caughtin a bad situation is normal. Everyonehas toface<br />
this. <strong>The</strong> question is, how can we cope with our difficult<br />
situation in beauty and peace? When caughtin a bad situation,<br />
Itoowasasunhappy as you are. But I havelearned howto be<br />
unhappy for only several minutes or afew hours. During that<br />
time, I use the art of mindful living to be resurrectedand to look<br />
deeper in order to see many positive things. <strong>The</strong>n I discover<br />
that, thanks to a bad situation, I have manygood opportunities.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is a bodhisattva, an enlightened person, named<br />
Ksitigarbha, who goes to living beings in the worst situations<br />
and tries his best to cheer them up, togive them inspiration to<br />
live, to smile,and to help them get out of their bad situations.<br />
Ksitigarbha vows that, "If there is stillone living being caught<br />
in a hellish situation, Iwill stay there with him or heruntilhe<br />
or she is set free." I am sure that Ksitigarbha is there with you,<br />
like a gentle guard who listens carefully to what you say and<br />
kindly helps you in your time of need. Ksitigarbha could be a<br />
prisoner himself, butnot like other prisoners. While the others<br />
live without responsibility, without care, the prisoner<br />
Ksitigarbha is the one who lives mindfully, beautifullypeaceful<br />
and loving with everyone in the jail. Ksitigarbha<br />
could be a social worker—one who really loves, cares, and<br />
works overtime out of love, not for salary. Ksitigarbha could be<br />
a lawyer, devoted to his client's cause, really wishing to help,<br />
to relieve the suffering of the victims, not for money, but for<br />
being helpful and relieving suffering. Ksitigarbha could be<br />
yourself when you are peaceful, light, serene,and full of love<br />
and care for those around you.<br />
All situations, even desperate ones, change. If we know<br />
how to handle our moments in prison with mindfulness, with<br />
avery deeplook, with the loving heart andthe compassionate<br />
eyes of Ksitigarbha, we will treasure every moment. People<br />
suffer because they donot know thateverything changes. <strong>The</strong><br />
weather is sometimes sunny, sometimes rainy, sometimes<br />
foggy, sometimes snowy. We must learn the art of enjoying the<br />
sunshine when it is sunny, the rain when it is rainy, the fog<br />
when it isfoggy. We must learn the artofmindfully enjoying<br />
our time. When we play tennis, we play with 100% of our<br />
being; when we are with our beloved ones, we enjoy our<br />
beloved ones 100%; when wearein jail, we enjoy our time in<br />
jail 100%. You must know that this time in jailis an invaluable<br />
time for learning if you can be mindful, and look deeply at<br />
everything that is happening.<br />
In the past, Thay had an American student who was a<br />
devoted peace activist. One day, Thay gave him a tangerine. He<br />
ate the tangerine, but his mind was involved with many<br />
projects. While eating, he told Thay about them. Suddenly<br />
Thay said, "Jim, eat your tangerine!" Jim realized he was not<br />
eating his tangerine, but only his projects. He bowed to Thay<br />
and then ate slowly, mindfully, enjoying the fragrance and<br />
taste of the fruit. My dear David, please live mindfully every<br />
momentof your life in jail. Eat andenjoy what you are eating.<br />
Don't let your mind carryyou away to sorrow, frustration, and<br />
anger.<br />
Whenyou go home, you will enjoy deeply the presenceof<br />
your beloved mother, father, and sisters, and enjoy every<br />
moment being with them. And you will enjoy your own liberty.<br />
Many people only regret the absence of their beloved ones<br />
when they pass away or are forced to live far away. Often, we<br />
live with our beloved ones, but we are carried away by our<br />
career, fame, money, and interests. We never have time to<br />
really be with him or her, to look into her eyes, her feelings,<br />
joys, and pains. We rarely have time to enjoy their wonderful<br />
presence.<br />
Later, Jim was imprisoned for burning his draft card.Thay<br />
sent him a short note, exactly ashe didfor you recently, "Jim,<br />
your tangerine is still there. I hope you can enjoy your tangerine<br />
properly." After being released, Jim flew to France to thank<br />
Thay. Hetold us, "Thanks to your words, which woke me up,<br />
I lived my days in jail deeply. I was no longer frustrated,<br />
angered at everything like in the past." So, dear David, being<br />
released today is good, but being released next month is also<br />
good,and if they release you next year, it isfine too. Beingin<br />
jail every dayyou have a chance to sit still, to look deeply into<br />
your feelings, your past experiences, and the roots of your past<br />
experiences that ledyou to this place, so that you can see your<br />
future clearly. You can also see and help many people around<br />
you. When you are released, you will know how to enjoy the<br />
presenceof your wonderful family, and your liberty. <strong>The</strong>n you<br />
will certainly be able to go to a retreat with Thay to learn the art<br />
of mindful living. But for now, please enjoy your tangerine.<br />
Dharma teacher Sister Chan Khong, True Emptiness, has been<br />
Thick Nhat Hanh 's colleague since 1959. She wrote this letter<br />
to a prisoner in California.<br />
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