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PrisonMoment, Wonderful Moment<br />

by Sister Chan Khong<br />

Dear David, I wish to be your friend because Iknow that<br />

you are a good person caught in a difficult situation.<br />

When wearein a bad situation, wetend to believe that we are<br />

the only one whois unfortunate. In fact, everyone has difficulties<br />

.Only we may never hear about them. Please remember that<br />

being caughtin a bad situation is normal. Everyonehas toface<br />

this. <strong>The</strong> question is, how can we cope with our difficult<br />

situation in beauty and peace? When caughtin a bad situation,<br />

Itoowasasunhappy as you are. But I havelearned howto be<br />

unhappy for only several minutes or afew hours. During that<br />

time, I use the art of mindful living to be resurrectedand to look<br />

deeper in order to see many positive things. <strong>The</strong>n I discover<br />

that, thanks to a bad situation, I have manygood opportunities.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is a bodhisattva, an enlightened person, named<br />

Ksitigarbha, who goes to living beings in the worst situations<br />

and tries his best to cheer them up, togive them inspiration to<br />

live, to smile,and to help them get out of their bad situations.<br />

Ksitigarbha vows that, "If there is stillone living being caught<br />

in a hellish situation, Iwill stay there with him or heruntilhe<br />

or she is set free." I am sure that Ksitigarbha is there with you,<br />

like a gentle guard who listens carefully to what you say and<br />

kindly helps you in your time of need. Ksitigarbha could be a<br />

prisoner himself, butnot like other prisoners. While the others<br />

live without responsibility, without care, the prisoner<br />

Ksitigarbha is the one who lives mindfully, beautifullypeaceful<br />

and loving with everyone in the jail. Ksitigarbha<br />

could be a social worker—one who really loves, cares, and<br />

works overtime out of love, not for salary. Ksitigarbha could be<br />

a lawyer, devoted to his client's cause, really wishing to help,<br />

to relieve the suffering of the victims, not for money, but for<br />

being helpful and relieving suffering. Ksitigarbha could be<br />

yourself when you are peaceful, light, serene,and full of love<br />

and care for those around you.<br />

All situations, even desperate ones, change. If we know<br />

how to handle our moments in prison with mindfulness, with<br />

avery deeplook, with the loving heart andthe compassionate<br />

eyes of Ksitigarbha, we will treasure every moment. People<br />

suffer because they donot know thateverything changes. <strong>The</strong><br />

weather is sometimes sunny, sometimes rainy, sometimes<br />

foggy, sometimes snowy. We must learn the art of enjoying the<br />

sunshine when it is sunny, the rain when it is rainy, the fog<br />

when it isfoggy. We must learn the artofmindfully enjoying<br />

our time. When we play tennis, we play with 100% of our<br />

being; when we are with our beloved ones, we enjoy our<br />

beloved ones 100%; when wearein jail, we enjoy our time in<br />

jail 100%. You must know that this time in jailis an invaluable<br />

time for learning if you can be mindful, and look deeply at<br />

everything that is happening.<br />

In the past, Thay had an American student who was a<br />

devoted peace activist. One day, Thay gave him a tangerine. He<br />

ate the tangerine, but his mind was involved with many<br />

projects. While eating, he told Thay about them. Suddenly<br />

Thay said, "Jim, eat your tangerine!" Jim realized he was not<br />

eating his tangerine, but only his projects. He bowed to Thay<br />

and then ate slowly, mindfully, enjoying the fragrance and<br />

taste of the fruit. My dear David, please live mindfully every<br />

momentof your life in jail. Eat andenjoy what you are eating.<br />

Don't let your mind carryyou away to sorrow, frustration, and<br />

anger.<br />

Whenyou go home, you will enjoy deeply the presenceof<br />

your beloved mother, father, and sisters, and enjoy every<br />

moment being with them. And you will enjoy your own liberty.<br />

Many people only regret the absence of their beloved ones<br />

when they pass away or are forced to live far away. Often, we<br />

live with our beloved ones, but we are carried away by our<br />

career, fame, money, and interests. We never have time to<br />

really be with him or her, to look into her eyes, her feelings,<br />

joys, and pains. We rarely have time to enjoy their wonderful<br />

presence.<br />

Later, Jim was imprisoned for burning his draft card.Thay<br />

sent him a short note, exactly ashe didfor you recently, "Jim,<br />

your tangerine is still there. I hope you can enjoy your tangerine<br />

properly." After being released, Jim flew to France to thank<br />

Thay. Hetold us, "Thanks to your words, which woke me up,<br />

I lived my days in jail deeply. I was no longer frustrated,<br />

angered at everything like in the past." So, dear David, being<br />

released today is good, but being released next month is also<br />

good,and if they release you next year, it isfine too. Beingin<br />

jail every dayyou have a chance to sit still, to look deeply into<br />

your feelings, your past experiences, and the roots of your past<br />

experiences that ledyou to this place, so that you can see your<br />

future clearly. You can also see and help many people around<br />

you. When you are released, you will know how to enjoy the<br />

presenceof your wonderful family, and your liberty. <strong>The</strong>n you<br />

will certainly be able to go to a retreat with Thay to learn the art<br />

of mindful living. But for now, please enjoy your tangerine.<br />

Dharma teacher Sister Chan Khong, True Emptiness, has been<br />

Thick Nhat Hanh 's colleague since 1959. She wrote this letter<br />

to a prisoner in California.<br />

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