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Train the Family Members for Difficult<br />

Situations and Spend “Quality Time” with Your<br />

Family. One of the major precursors of stress is<br />

the feeling of being “isolated” or “disconnected”.<br />

When you spend quality time with your family<br />

members, you feel connected, without any feeling<br />

of isolation, which helps preventing stress.<br />

a particular task or favour being asked of you is<br />

unjustified or beyond your capabilities.<br />

Avoid Ego Struggles. We sometimes act as<br />

if it is more important to be seen as “right” rather<br />

than be happy. It is best to avoid the tendency to<br />

forcefully convince others when it is not so critical<br />

Practise Assertiveness skills. Assertiveness<br />

is the honest expression of what you feel and<br />

want from others, without trying to force them<br />

to give it. It is particularly useful when dealing<br />

with “difficult” people and the consequent stress.<br />

Some of the characteristics of assertive behavior<br />

which need to be developed are :<br />

‣ Speak up for yourself, for your needs and<br />

rights, while letting others speak for themselves.<br />

‣ Develop a sense of respect for yourself as well<br />

as for others.<br />

‣ Protest, maybe politely but definitely, against<br />

unfair treatment or unjustified criticism.<br />

‣ Take honest responsibility for your own<br />

wrongs / mistakes, but at the same time, do not<br />

take responsibility for someone else’s lapses.<br />

‣ Say “NO”, maybe politely, when you feel that<br />

to your own health and well-being. Doing so<br />

will help you escape a great deal of unnecessary<br />

stress.<br />

Develop Social Support Systems. It is<br />

a very wise investment to put in some effort to<br />

develop some close friends towards whom we<br />

can look up for support during stressful situations.<br />

Others<br />

Adopt traditional cultures<br />

Practise “Relaxation” techniques<br />

Progressive, deep muscular relaxation<br />

Practise methods to get a good sleep<br />

Spiritual Practices, Praying and Meditation<br />

and<br />

Promote humor and laughter<br />

-Wg Cdr Juhi Borgohain<br />

INDIAN AIR FORCE 2 0 1 2 J u n e Aerospace Safety 9

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