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Train the Family Members for Difficult<br />
Situations and Spend “Quality Time” with Your<br />
Family. One of the major precursors of stress is<br />
the feeling of being “isolated” or “disconnected”.<br />
When you spend quality time with your family<br />
members, you feel connected, without any feeling<br />
of isolation, which helps preventing stress.<br />
a particular task or favour being asked of you is<br />
unjustified or beyond your capabilities.<br />
Avoid Ego Struggles. We sometimes act as<br />
if it is more important to be seen as “right” rather<br />
than be happy. It is best to avoid the tendency to<br />
forcefully convince others when it is not so critical<br />
Practise Assertiveness skills. Assertiveness<br />
is the honest expression of what you feel and<br />
want from others, without trying to force them<br />
to give it. It is particularly useful when dealing<br />
with “difficult” people and the consequent stress.<br />
Some of the characteristics of assertive behavior<br />
which need to be developed are :<br />
‣ Speak up for yourself, for your needs and<br />
rights, while letting others speak for themselves.<br />
‣ Develop a sense of respect for yourself as well<br />
as for others.<br />
‣ Protest, maybe politely but definitely, against<br />
unfair treatment or unjustified criticism.<br />
‣ Take honest responsibility for your own<br />
wrongs / mistakes, but at the same time, do not<br />
take responsibility for someone else’s lapses.<br />
‣ Say “NO”, maybe politely, when you feel that<br />
to your own health and well-being. Doing so<br />
will help you escape a great deal of unnecessary<br />
stress.<br />
Develop Social Support Systems. It is<br />
a very wise investment to put in some effort to<br />
develop some close friends towards whom we<br />
can look up for support during stressful situations.<br />
Others<br />
Adopt traditional cultures<br />
Practise “Relaxation” techniques<br />
Progressive, deep muscular relaxation<br />
Practise methods to get a good sleep<br />
Spiritual Practices, Praying and Meditation<br />
and<br />
Promote humor and laughter<br />
-Wg Cdr Juhi Borgohain<br />
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