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studentSuccess<br />

annual secondary edition<br />

A MAGAZINE FOR STUDENTS AND PARENTS IN LANGLEY<br />

spring 2011<br />

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secondary<br />

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Craig Spence<br />

Editor<br />

Susan Cairns<br />

Designer<br />

Andrew Sloan<br />

Advertising<br />

Success breeds Successes<br />

There’s so much going on in Langley <strong>School</strong> <strong>District</strong> of<br />

interest to families and students that we don’t always<br />

have room to fit it all into the print version of Student<br />

Success. And sometimes things come up between our Fall, Winter,<br />

Spring and Summer editions that we’d like to get to readers. And<br />

we also want to connect with secondary communities.<br />

So after just over a year in our current format, we’ve decided to<br />

launch a couple of initiatives we hope will improve our reach and<br />

the timeliness of the information we bring to you.<br />

First, I’d like to welcome you to visit the online version of Student<br />

Success at studentsuccessmagazine.blogspot.com. Going online<br />

opens up several new possibilities, which we’re really excited<br />

about. First, it allows us to post material whenever we like, and<br />

to have it available to readers 24 hours a day. All you have to do<br />

is bookmark the site.<br />

There’s more, though. In the blog we can provide you with live<br />

links to information related to the articles you read. That opens<br />

up whole new avenues of connectivity for parents and students,<br />

who can immediately follow up on information trails that might<br />

otherwise go cold. In an information age, where data passes by in<br />

a blink, that ability to click and go is essential.<br />

As well, the online version can be developed as a standing<br />

resource. If you go to the blog and look down the right column,<br />

you will come to a heading called ‘Labels’. Each article posted<br />

on the blog –just about every article that will appear in Student<br />

Success – will be labeled according to subject. So if, for instance,<br />

you want to find all the articles that have been posted related to<br />

Internet Safety, all you have to do is click on the label and up<br />

they’ll come. And if you can’t find a label, there’s also a search<br />

box you can try.<br />

Finally, the blog allows you to share information more readily.<br />

If you see something you like, you can email it, blog it, Twitter<br />

it, Facebook it and so on, all at the click of a button. Or, if you<br />

want to reach us with comments or ideas, there’s a direct email<br />

link posted on the blog’s home page.<br />

There are more features to the Success blog, but we’re going to<br />

have to let you discover them yourself because we want to leave<br />

a little room to talk about our Student Success <strong>Secondary</strong> edition.<br />

This targeted publication, which some of you are reading right<br />

now, having discovered it in your child’s report card envelop,<br />

will carry information about planning for post-secondary, events<br />

and activities going on in secondary venues, choices available to<br />

secondary students and issues secondary students and parents<br />

need to be aware of. Issue Number One is a pilot. Based on the<br />

feedback we get, we will determine the look, format and content<br />

of Issue Number Two. So let us know what you think.<br />

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Features<br />

5 The todd marr story<br />

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foundation<br />

Project Resiliency<br />

Family donates $20,000 to drug<br />

prevention program<br />

When Lorraine Marr<br />

happened upon three<br />

boys smoking marijuana<br />

in an alley, her first thought was to<br />

turn the other way. But then she<br />

reconsidered and approached the<br />

teens. She was met with hostile,<br />

defiant glares. One boy stomped off.<br />

“I’m not here to admonish you,” she<br />

said. “But do you mind if I tell you<br />

a story.”<br />

The boys rolled their eyes, but<br />

Lorraine persevered. When she<br />

finished, the two were truly shaken.<br />

Here is her story. It’s about a popular,<br />

smart, athletic boy. Lorraine’s son,<br />

Todd.<br />

Todd was one of those kids that<br />

everybody liked. Although he was<br />

an honors student and a star athlete<br />

in school, he had a charming, selfeffacing<br />

manner and a large and<br />

diverse group of friends. He was<br />

every parents dream. Until the day<br />

he started experimenting with drugs.<br />

Like most he dabbled in soft drugs,<br />

but before long he was hooked,<br />

seriously hooked, on crystal meth.<br />

So began his long journey through<br />

hell.<br />

He managed to graduate from<br />

school, but university plans were put<br />

forever on hold. His parents were<br />

puzzled, but not overly concerned.<br />

They had no idea that their beautiful<br />

boy was addicted to drugs. He kept<br />

Smart, athletic and<br />

popular - Todd Marr<br />

desperately fought<br />

for his life and lost<br />

it to himself and most people were<br />

fooled. But the struggle took its toll.<br />

Several years went by and the drug<br />

continued to hold Todd in its<br />

fearful grip. He was becoming more<br />

and more desperate. He started to<br />

look for help. There was none to<br />

be found. Finally, he sought out his<br />

family. They were devastated, but<br />

they stood by him. They joined<br />

him in his search for a clinic, a cure,<br />

therapy – anything that would help<br />

their boy. There was nothing. Todd<br />

even tried to check himself into the<br />

hospital, but they wouldn’t take him.<br />

He lost hope and crippling despair<br />

set in.<br />

Two days later, he committed suicide.<br />

He left behind his mother Lorraine,<br />

father Chuck, sister Lana and<br />

brother Dean. Now the Marr family<br />

is fighting to save other kids from the<br />

evil, insidious drug, known as crystal<br />

meth. They investigated programs<br />

throughout British Columbia. They<br />

interviewed doctors, counselors<br />

and therapists. Then they looked<br />

within their own community and<br />

found the Langley <strong>School</strong> <strong>District</strong>’s<br />

James Anderson Learning Centre<br />

offering Project Resiliency – a drug<br />

awareness and prevention program<br />

for students and parents.<br />

Under the capable direction of the<br />

principal, Dr. Patrick Thomas and<br />

counselor, Dee Bassi, the school<br />

takes in at-risk students from<br />

throughout the district and works<br />

with them on their drug use and<br />

addiction. The results have been<br />

amazing.<br />

The Marrs concur.<br />

“We only wish that the program<br />

was available when Todd was going<br />

through school,” said Todd’s father.<br />

The family has donated $20,000 to<br />

the program. “Hopefully, this will<br />

help other kids like Todd,” said<br />

Lorraine. v<br />

secondary edition 5


feature<br />

Peacebuilding<br />

TAlking<br />

peace<br />

conversation<br />

peace<br />

Restorative Action in<br />

Elementary <strong><strong>School</strong>s</strong><br />

Restorative Action in <strong>Secondary</strong> <strong><strong>School</strong>s</strong><br />

Fraser Region Community Justice Initiatives Association & Langley <strong>School</strong> <strong>District</strong> <strong>#35</strong><br />

TRAINER MANUAL<br />

Fraser Region Community Justice Initiatives Association & Langley <strong>School</strong> <strong>District</strong> <strong>#35</strong> • www.sd35.bc.ca<br />

Restorative Action<br />

it takes time but it’s worth it<br />

As BC’s Restorative Justice Coordinator, and a seminal figure in the implementation<br />

of Restorative Action programs in Langley <strong>School</strong> <strong>District</strong>,<br />

Catherine Bargen knows in her heart that it makes absolute sense<br />

to heal relationships rather than simply punish transgressors when ‘harm’ has<br />

been done in a community.<br />

That’s the foundational principle of Restorative Justice.<br />

But ask her if she still has to struggle with the impulse to punish and Ms. Bargen<br />

doesn’t hesitiate. “Absolutely,” she said. “I’m constantly uncovering, and<br />

uncovering, and uncovering more and more layers of how deep it goes within<br />

us – the impulse to cut people off instead of staying in a relationship with<br />

them when we are experiencing conflict.”<br />

Catherine Bargen, author of<br />

Educating for Peacebuilding<br />

the new Restorative Action<br />

resource<br />

She and her colleagues don’t have any illusions about how much work remains<br />

to be done to shift society’s deeply ingrained response from punishment to<br />

a philosophy of healing. But there are examples of progress, Langley <strong>School</strong><br />

<strong>District</strong> being one of them.<br />

Ms. Bargen recently launched her new book Educating for Peacebuilding,<br />

which is based to a large degree on the successful implementation of Restorative<br />

Action programs in this district. What distinguishes Langley from most<br />

others is the fact that Restorative Justice was adopted as a district-wide strategy<br />

Ms. Bargen noted.<br />

Restorative Action is part of the curriculum at the elementary and secondary<br />

levels in Langley, with Talking Peace introducing younger students to the principles<br />

of Restorative Action, and Conversation Peace building on that learning.<br />

“Conversation Peace is a training manual outlining four days of training and<br />

6 Student Success


a student workbook,” Ms. Bargen said. “It really is just<br />

teaching the skills of mediation and the principles embedded<br />

in that mediation.”<br />

Restorative Action Coordinator for Langley <strong>School</strong> <strong>District</strong><br />

Dan Basham said ‘teams’ have been established in<br />

seven Langley high schools. This fall 50 secondary students<br />

were trained using the Conversation Peace manual,<br />

and training was also offered to 24 elementary students.<br />

He noted that as well as getting support from the district<br />

the program is getting support from the community.<br />

Coast Capital Savings has provided funding.<br />

Despite Langley’s progress, he said there’s a long way to<br />

go. “Punishment is very quick,” he said. “I’m not saying<br />

everybody deals with things in a punitive way, but it may<br />

not be being dealt with in a restorative way either, right,<br />

because that takes time to do properly.”<br />

Lasting solutions almost always take time though, and<br />

Mr. Basham believes we won’t ever get there if we run out<br />

of patience. “If you just jump to solutions, which is the<br />

tendency because as adults we want to fix things for kids,<br />

then it’s very difficult to come to a meaningful kind of<br />

solution or agreement or consensus,” he said.<br />

Mr. Basham doesn’t rest his case for Restorative Action<br />

on a strictly cost-benefit analysis. A system that embraces<br />

mediation instead of punishment might see a decrease<br />

in anti-social behaviours; it will certainly feel empowered<br />

when it comes to dealing with situations that will inevitably<br />

occur.<br />

“I think there would still be conflict – I mean conflict is<br />

normal,” he explained. “What would change is students’<br />

ability to resolve conflict in a peaceful way. Students<br />

would be more equipped with tools to resolve things next<br />

time in a better way.”<br />

Makes sense. So why isn’t Restorative Justice the norm<br />

“I think one of the systemic obstacles is our deeply held<br />

views around punishment,” Ms. Bargen said. “Even those<br />

of us who think it does make sense, we do find ourselves<br />

wanting revenge or thinking that people do need to be<br />

punished for their wrong actions.<br />

“That’s almost reflexive in our society. Our notions about<br />

punishment are very deeply held. “<br />

Madeleine de Little, Senior Counselor at Langley Fine<br />

Arts <strong>School</strong>, believes that reflex can be countered by a determined<br />

effort to implement Restorative Action. LFAS<br />

Madeleine de Little, Senior<br />

Counselor at Langley<br />

Fine Arts <strong>School</strong><br />

Dan Basham, Coordinator<br />

Restorative Action for Langley<br />

<strong>School</strong> <strong>District</strong><br />

has a very active program, she noted. Up to 30 students<br />

often show up for weekly Restorative Action breakfast<br />

meetings, and the school’s annual RA retreat has been a<br />

huge success.<br />

She said the program changes students who participate in<br />

it. At one of their weekly sessions the students were asked:<br />

“How is it impacting your life now”<br />

“They were saying ‘I’m different,” Ms. De Little reported.<br />

“I’m completely different because of my experiences and<br />

what I’ve been learning over the last few years. I’m more<br />

understanding; I’m more compassionate. I see the world<br />

differently. I view conflict differently.”<br />

“It’s just unbelievably important that every child learn this<br />

stuff,” she concluded.<br />

Critics argue that you can’t make someone engage in a<br />

restorative process in good faith. Ms. Bargen responds<br />

that a variety of responses are necessary, but that the effort<br />

should be made to restore relationships rather than<br />

punish offences.<br />

“If the person who has caused harm isn’t willing to engage,<br />

then we start saying ‘Well, we’d like to support you<br />

in doing better or making things right,’ but when that<br />

doesn’t happen we as a community say, ‘We’re not okay<br />

with what you’re doing,’ and boundaries need to be put<br />

in place.”<br />

The objective, though, is to enlarge those boundaries if<br />

possible, so that those who have caused harm can learn to<br />

take responsibility for their actions. v<br />

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feature<br />

Planning for post-secondary<br />

Life-long learning<br />

isn’t always easy<br />

Asked if parents should be concerned<br />

if no clear career choice has<br />

materialized, even after students<br />

have left the secondary fold, Ms.<br />

Rosen answered, “not overly.”<br />

“A lot of the literature tells us that a<br />

person can take up to 10 years to<br />

actually end up where they’re going<br />

to end up when it comes to occupations<br />

and so on. So I think the<br />

simple answer to your question is,<br />

there’s no need for concern, everybody<br />

will find their way.”<br />

“Even if your kids don’t seem like they<br />

are planning for a successful future,<br />

they will often fool you. Eventually<br />

most of them figure it out.”<br />

Pat Rosen, Langley <strong>District</strong> Teacher-<br />

Career Education<br />

8 Student Success<br />

What is your child going to<br />

be doing that first Tuesday<br />

after Labour Day, after<br />

he or she has graduated from high<br />

school Every year thousands of<br />

students throughout BC are either<br />

thinking hard about that question,<br />

avoiding it, or have already got an<br />

answer and are living it.<br />

And every year, thousands of parents<br />

are pacing the sidelines wondering if<br />

their kid is making the choices that<br />

will move the yardsticks in the right<br />

direction.<br />

But Career Education Teacher Pat<br />

Rosen suggests it’s a mistake to think<br />

about the future as a grid of right<br />

and wrong choices. A more positive<br />

and realistic view is of young adults<br />

being open to a range of possibilities,<br />

and focusing on the skills they want<br />

to build on.<br />

But she knows the simple answer<br />

doesn’t always cut it when children’s<br />

futures are at stake. Young grads and<br />

parents want to know, even in their<br />

moments of deepest doubt, that success<br />

isn’t slipping out of reach, and<br />

that when the time comes the lessons<br />

learned during 13 years of schooling<br />

and 18 years of living will gain some<br />

traction in the ‘real world’.<br />

Ms. Rosen maps out two very distinct<br />

skill sets people acquire as they<br />

move into the working world. There<br />

are specific skills university students<br />

and apprentices learn through education<br />

and training; then there’s<br />

a whole set of more general skills<br />

about how to succeed at a career,<br />

things like: knowing what kinds<br />

of occupations are out there; what<br />

education and training programs<br />

are available; how to apply to postsecondary<br />

programs; how to finance<br />

post-secondary options.<br />

Pretty well at the top of the life skills<br />

list is one that’s embedded in the<br />

Graduate Profile of Langley <strong>School</strong><br />

<strong>District</strong>, and is a key component of<br />

the Planning 10 and Grad Transition<br />

programs: Life-Long Learning.<br />

Get that right and the future will<br />

likely fall into place.


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“The learning outcomes within those courses and programs<br />

asks young people to basically follow a career development<br />

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of strengths and some of their areas of challenge, and to<br />

say, ‘Where could I go in terms of what I have to offer<br />

and what I’m interested in’<br />

“What we know is 72 percent of occupations require some<br />

form of formalized post-secondary training after high<br />

school,” Ms. Rosen observed. “Formalized education after<br />

high school is in the cards for most people.”<br />

That doesn’t mean everyone is going to pack his bags and<br />

head straight off for university, or college, or apprenticeship.<br />

Some may choose to travel, or work for a while, or<br />

hole up in their rooms. Nervous as it makes them when<br />

their kids don’t follow a set trajectory, parents have to<br />

know it’s usually okay. Kids will figure things out.<br />

“There’s really no one-way to do this, there’s no ‘right’ way<br />

to do this, and you can’t really go wrong either. We from<br />

a career-education perspective don’t even like to think of<br />

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we are and where we might go, and where we might fit<br />

for down the road.”<br />

Much as parents want to nudge their kids in the right directions,<br />

their role has changed. “They’re going to be the<br />

coach on the sidelines,” Ms. Rosen said. “They’re going to<br />

be the encourager.”<br />

“The older the child gets, the less likely parents are to be<br />

making the decisions, because these are life skill areas that<br />

young people in fact own, and they make all the choices<br />

in order for things to come to be.”<br />

Perhaps a tough lesson, but like their kids parents will get<br />

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feature<br />

Financial Planning<br />

Beyond the<br />

Classroom<br />

Start that RESP now if you want to get the most<br />

out of it<br />

There are gifts that come with ribbons and gifts<br />

that come with strings. RESPs come with a little<br />

of both. But Avi Kay, a Certified Financial Planner<br />

with Envision Financial Credit Union, said it’s a program<br />

well worth looking into for families planning their<br />

children’s post secondary futures.<br />

“As a new parent myself, I strongly believe that the pros<br />

outweigh the cons,” he said.<br />

On the upside, a Registered Education Saving Plan will<br />

attract matching contributions of 20% from the Government<br />

of Canada. You can deposit up to $2,500 per year<br />

per child in a RESP and the government will kick in up to<br />

$500 per year until your child reaches age 17.<br />

If you do not maximize your annual contributions, the<br />

remaining contributions that would have been matched<br />

do carry forward to future years, although the maximum<br />

government grant paid in any calendar year will not exceed<br />

$1,000.<br />

The lifetime contribution limit is $50,000 per child and<br />

the maximum the government grants can add up to is<br />

$7,200. There are additional generous government grants<br />

depending on one’s household income.<br />

And there’s an upside to RESPs beyond the grant money.<br />

Mr. Kay noted that RESPs are tax-sheltered investments,<br />

which means any investment income earned on your deposited<br />

funds comes tax-free and will compound over<br />

the life of your RESP. As well, they are essentially ‘shell<br />

accounts’, which means that the money you put into a<br />

RESP can be invested in different ways to maximize the<br />

investment income earned.<br />

What’s ahead for<br />

your child after<br />

graduation<br />

from school.<br />

Are you prepared<br />

Illustration by Raymond Brown<br />

To maximize the benefit of an<br />

RESP, you have to get in early<br />

So why isn’t every family rushing out to open a RESP the<br />

moment their child is born Mr. Kay figures less than half<br />

of Canadian families take advantage of the free money<br />

and sheltered investment earnings that come with RESPs.<br />

The biggest constraint, he suggested, is “cash-flow”.<br />

To take full advantage of the program, you have to come<br />

up with $2,500 per year per child. That works out to<br />

$208.33 per month or $96.15 bi-weekly until your child<br />

reaches 17 years old, after which matching grants are<br />

no longer available. For many families that just can’t be<br />

squeezed out of their budgets, especially since the child<br />

rearing years are often when families are most financially<br />

stretched.<br />

As well, some are turned off by the seemingly complicated<br />

rules and requirements of registering an education<br />

savings plan, and potentially tying up a significant investment<br />

over a long period of time. Then there’s the question<br />

of what to do if your child doesn’t continue on to postsecondary<br />

school<br />

Bottom line, you will always get back what you put in.<br />

But if the RESP funds are not used for educational purposes,<br />

the federal government will take back its contributions.<br />

Taxes will also apply to the investment earnings<br />

that were sheltered by the fund, although there are ways<br />

of mitigating that impact by transferring the earnings into<br />

Registered Retirement Savings Plans, if you have room.<br />

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Like any investment RESPs may entail a certain amount<br />

of risk. But this risk is being taken to help cover the costs<br />

of post-secondary education for families. Mr. Kay points<br />

out that with escalating student costs, and the average<br />

post-secondary student now graduating with an average<br />

of $18,000 in education-related debt according to the Vanier<br />

Institute, a long-term plan is an option that makes<br />

sense for many families.<br />

To maximize the benefit you have to get in early, he advised.<br />

“If possible, you certainly want to maximize the<br />

amount the government will match in the form of a<br />

grant.”<br />

Figures Mr. Kay pulled up from a university cost calculator<br />

showed that a student in an arts program at a publicly<br />

funded university can expect to pay about $19,500 in tuition<br />

and fees over four years. If you add an accommodation<br />

plan to that, university costs jump to $37,500. Then<br />

you can add on books, transportation and other living<br />

expenses.<br />

A similar calculation for an engineering student at another<br />

university results in $25,650 for tuition and fees<br />

and a total cost of $46,000. A calculation for a private<br />

university rings in at about $80,000. And those costs are<br />

not likely to go down. If anything, post-secondary education<br />

costs are likely to increase.<br />

An important question to ask is: What kinds of post-secondary<br />

education programs can be paid for using RESP<br />

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canlearn.ca. There’s all kinds of information on the site to<br />

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You can also find a lot of info online at www.envisionfinancial.ca.<br />

Just click RESP into the search box on the<br />

site then select Education Planning (RESPs), which will<br />

be at the top of the search list. Be sure to have a look at<br />

the RESP brochure, which can be downloaded in PDF<br />

format.<br />

Families are coming up with innovative ways to keep up<br />

with RESP contributions. For instance, instead of adding<br />

to the pile of toys and gadgets under the Christmas tree,<br />

some grandparents are contributing to their grandkids’<br />

RESPs. Maybe not exactly what Junior would like to see<br />

wrapped with ribbons and a bow, but it does offer opportunities<br />

for families to talk post-secondary. v<br />

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safety<br />

Technology<br />

Don’t text and<br />

drive...get the message<br />

Here’s a simple exercise that might just save your life, or a<br />

friend’s, or your child’s.<br />

Look down at your right hand, curl it as<br />

if you’re holding something compact that<br />

your fingers fit round snuggly, now count<br />

to three slowly. One-thousand-and-one,<br />

one-thousand-and-two, one-thousand-andthree…<br />

now snap your fingers.<br />

Brad Gorski<br />

was told he would<br />

never walk again<br />

Now imagine what you’re looking at as you<br />

count those seconds is a cell phone, and your<br />

texting a friend. No big deal, just the normal<br />

kind of yak that jiggles the airwaves all the<br />

time: a laugh about last night’s party, or a<br />

reminder about this morning’s meeting.<br />

The three seconds is how long it might take<br />

you to run a red light smack into the path of<br />

an oncoming semi; the snap of your fingers<br />

is how long it would take that semi to plow<br />

into your car, cave in the driver’s side doors,<br />

throw you into the steering column, collapse<br />

a lung and cause a Traumatic Brain Injury –<br />

TMI.<br />

That’s what happened to Brad Gorski on<br />

October 30, 2005, when, as he was heading<br />

for the gym and a morning workout, he<br />

decided to text and drive. After his accident<br />

he was in a coma for seven weeks. He awoke<br />

to a grim prognosis. Doctors told him he<br />

would not likely walk or drive again. But one<br />

thing hadn’t changed – Brad’s determination<br />

to live life to the fullest.<br />

Refusing to accept any limitations he<br />

set to work on his recovery, first at Royal<br />

Columbian Hospital, then at G.F. Strong<br />

Rehabilitation Centre. He is able to walk<br />

now, and drive, and talk, and eat and a<br />

thousand other things he once took for<br />

granted. Having had to earn those abilities<br />

back, Brad has a message those who text and<br />

drive – or ‘multi-task’ and drive in any way:<br />

DON’T DO IT!<br />

“Do you really want to put your family, your<br />

friends, yourself through what I’ve been<br />

through” he asks. “It’s not worth it.”<br />

Brad has a lineup of schools eager to have him<br />

do his presentation on the hazards of using<br />

cell phones while driving. Since appearing<br />

on TV the requests have been rolling in. But<br />

he wants more schools to invite him.<br />

“I speak on my life pre-accident, the crash<br />

itself, what it did to me and everyone around<br />

me and how stupid it is to use cell phones<br />

while driving,” he says in a letter to schools.<br />

“I’m living proof on what can happen when<br />

you are not paying attention while driving.”<br />

It’s a message teens need to hear. Laws<br />

against using cell phones while driving have<br />

been enacted. But stand at any intersection<br />

for a few minutes and there’s a good chance<br />

you’ll see people driving while talking or<br />

even texting. Brad wants to push the end-call<br />

button on those kinds of risky habits.<br />

He thinks he’s making a difference.<br />

Recently he received a call about the effect<br />

his presentation had on one young man.<br />

“Because he saw me and what I went through<br />

and my life, he will never text and drive.”<br />

That’s the kind of impact Brad wants to have<br />

on the young people he’s talking to. Contact<br />

Brad at bgorski35@hotmail.com. v<br />

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sports<br />

Olympics<br />

Matthew Williams in training<br />

to compete in the Special Olympics<br />

Olympian<br />

a very special<br />

What’s so special about the Special Olympics Just ask Matthew<br />

Williams.<br />

Matthew, a recent Walnut Grove<br />

<strong>Secondary</strong> grad is a Global<br />

Congress Chair, sitting on the<br />

Board of the Special Olympics Committee.<br />

He’s a Global Messenger for the Special<br />

Olympics. And he’s a very special Olympian<br />

himself.<br />

That’s a lot of accomplishments, but<br />

Williams has a few of more points he can put<br />

on his resume. He’s got an infectious, upbeat<br />

attitude. He trains rigorously, exhibiting the<br />

discipline that makes a great athlete. And he<br />

celebrates the achievements of everyone on<br />

the field as much as his own – his world is<br />

full of winners.<br />

Williams knows sports from the ground up,<br />

and there doesn’t seem to be a sport he’s not<br />

enthusiastic about. He participates yearround<br />

in six or seven events including speed<br />

skating, curling and basketball in the winter;<br />

soccer, track and field and softball in the<br />

summer.<br />

He explained that taking to the ice or the<br />

playing field is like stepping into a world<br />

where he is meant to be. “It feels sort of like<br />

I’m free. I let go of everything else that’s on<br />

my mind – I’m there,” he said. “I’m free to<br />

be myself.”<br />

That’s something Special Olympians share<br />

with all athletes. “I have a passion for my<br />

sports,” he said. “A lot of athletes that don’t<br />

have disabilities say they have a passion for<br />

their sport, that they love it, and it’s where<br />

they can be themselves and forget about<br />

everything else.<br />

“I feel the same, so we’re not very different. It<br />

doesn’t matter if you have a disability or you<br />

don’t, you’re an athlete.”<br />

That’s one of the messages Williams wants to<br />

get out in his role as official Messenger for<br />

the Special Olympics. People are familiar<br />

with the Olympics and Paralympics, he said,<br />

but many don’t know about the thousands<br />

of athletes who participate in the Special<br />

Olympics worldwide.<br />

The Special Olympics are for athletes that<br />

have intellectual disabilities. Williams is<br />

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epileptic. Fellow Special Olympians might have autism,<br />

or Downs Syndrome, or another learning disability.<br />

Williams thinks Special Olympians deserve the same<br />

recognition as others, and that begins by recognizing<br />

them as a group. “The Special Olympics and Paralympics<br />

do get mixed up,” he said, “People think because Special<br />

Olympians have disabilities, they’re in the same group.<br />

That’s a big problem, trying to explain the difference.”<br />

His own athletic journey got a boost in Grade 8 when<br />

Walnut Grove <strong>Secondary</strong> teacher Ms. Kidd introduced<br />

him to the sport of floor hockey. Williams had participated<br />

in organized sports before, but the supportive atmosphere<br />

of floor hockey appealed.<br />

A balance of camaraderie and<br />

competition is what Williams<br />

finds in the Special Olympics<br />

“I felt accepted finally. I didn’t feel bad about making a<br />

mistake because I said, ‘Oh well, I’ll get it the next time.’”<br />

That one thoughtful suggestion from a teacher made a<br />

huge difference in Williams’ life. “I think it’s important to<br />

have that encouragement,” he said. Without it, he might<br />

not have continued in sports because he was finding the<br />

increasingly competitive atmosphere uncomfortable.<br />

“It was stressful because kids get more competitive, kids<br />

get more serious, you almost have to be a perfect athlete,<br />

being able to get things right the first time.”<br />

A balance of camaraderie and competition is what<br />

Williams finds in the Special Olympics, and that’s what<br />

he wants to share with others. “I find a lot of people don’t<br />

know about the Special Olympics,” he said. “They don’t<br />

know how big of a life-changing experience it is, so for<br />

me to be able to be a voice for Special Olympics athletes<br />

and share my own experiences, it’s a great feeling.”<br />

He added that all athletes could learn from the<br />

combination of supportiveness and competition that<br />

marks the Special Olympics. Everyone’s there to win,<br />

and do his or her best to cross the line first, but win or<br />

lose they all get to share in the victory celebration. Said<br />

Williams, “Honestly, some of my favorite times have been<br />

watching others win, the looks on their faces.”<br />

Spoken like a true Special Olympian, and a passionate<br />

Messenger for the games. v<br />

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