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Lenarduzzi<br />

Beyond the<br />

Beautiful Game<br />

Campus Talk<br />

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Dynamic Duo<br />

Gurnam &<br />

Harminder<br />

Sanghera<br />

Perspective:<br />

Weddings<br />

More Bling<br />

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Mind Power<br />

Tulshi Sen<br />

Reveals Ancient<br />

Success Secrets<br />

Diwali<br />

Celebrating<br />

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4 Mehfil September/October 2009<br />

COVER STORY<br />

Manjit Minhas. .............38<br />

The daughter of liquor-store owners, Manjit Minhas has always<br />

had a knack for the beverage business. She began honing her<br />

entrepreneurial skills early, trouncing the neighbourhood<br />

competition with her lemonade stand when she was a kid. Today,<br />

along with her brother and business partner Ravinder, she owns<br />

Minhas Craft Brewery, which does about $100 million in business<br />

annually and employs a staff of 200 worldwide. She tells the tale of<br />

their business trajectory in a book called Brewing Up a Damn Good<br />

Story — and so it is.<br />

Features<br />

Tulshi Sen............... 28<br />

Motivational author and speaker Tulshi Sen<br />

says you can change your life by changing<br />

your thoughts. It’s not a new idea —<br />

many books on the subject have become<br />

bestsellers — but the trick is being able to<br />

master those thoughts consistently, says Sen,<br />

who shares the “ancient secrets” that are the<br />

basis of his book and his seminars.<br />

Celebrating Diwali. ..................... 44<br />

In addition to joining family and friends for traditional<br />

celebrations, this year’s options for marking Diwali include a<br />

day of entertainment by outstanding performers at Vancouver<br />

Celebrates Diwali’s Diwali Downtown event and VCD’s new<br />

Moving Landscape, a series of performances by South Asian dance<br />

companies from across North America.<br />

Meanwhile, SFU’s second annual Diwali<br />

Gala will deliver great food and entertainment,<br />

with proceeds benefiting the university’s<br />

student programs and partnerships<br />

with the South Asian community.<br />

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Cover Photo by James Mah<br />

September/October 2009<br />

Publishers’ Note.............7<br />

Guest Column.............. 8<br />

Stellar Student............ 10<br />

Power Player. ............ 12<br />

Campus Talk...............14<br />

Unsung Hero.............. 16<br />

Life Lessons ...............18<br />

Scene & Society. .......... 20<br />

Fashion. ................ 50<br />

Beauty ...................58<br />

Weddings................ 60<br />

Auto Reviews ..............70<br />

Local Artist................75<br />

Reflections............... 78<br />

Columns<br />

22<br />

The Inspired Sufi<br />

by Azim Jamal<br />

24<br />

Politics<br />

by Andy Radia<br />

26<br />

Perspectives<br />

by Divinder Purewal<br />

64<br />

Horoscope<br />

by Georgia Nicols<br />

66<br />

Cuisine<br />

by Gurj Dhaliwal<br />

68<br />

Health & Fitness<br />

by Shefali Raja<br />

76<br />

Movie Reviews<br />

by Ron Ahluwalia


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September/October 2009 VOLUME 13 ISSUE 5<br />

Editor<br />

Minto Vig<br />

Contributing Editor<br />

Hardip Vig<br />

Contributing Writers<br />

Robin Roberts, Rajinder Sandhu,<br />

Azim Jamal, Shefali Raja,<br />

Georgia Nicols, Gurj Dhaliwal<br />

Andy Radia, Anita Sangha,<br />

Alisha Randhawa, Jaspreet Singh Mangat<br />

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James Mah, Jorge Posada, Chandra Bodalia<br />

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Publishers’ Note<br />

Inspiration comes in many forms. Through the<br />

stories we share with our readers, we hope that<br />

Mehfil Magazine is one of them — whether it’s<br />

inspiring ambitious young people setting career<br />

goals, entrepreneurs blazing a trail in business or<br />

industry, or those whose time and talent can make<br />

a difference to the community.<br />

Manjit Minhas, the subject of this issue’s<br />

cover story, was inspired by the example of her<br />

entrepreneur parents to launch a business of her<br />

own in the same industry.<br />

Harminder and Gurnam Sanghera, who are<br />

this issue’s Unsung Heroes, were inspired by their<br />

own struggles as new immigrants in England to<br />

volunteer their time and efforts to improve the lives<br />

of other immigrants.<br />

Motivational speaker and author Tulshi Sen,<br />

who is featured in this issue’s Spotlight, was<br />

inspired by the teachings of some of the greatest<br />

philosophers and spiritual masters of the East<br />

and West to spread the message that any goal is<br />

attainable if you truly believe it can be attained.<br />

We asked Sen to share with Mehfil readers several<br />

of the “ancient secrets” of success that he believes<br />

have the power to transform people’s lives.<br />

Also, in this issue, we introduce Campus Talk,<br />

a new section devoted to information and insights<br />

from students for students. We invite students to be<br />

part of the discussion online through our Facebook<br />

group, Campus Talk on Mehfil Magazine, and at<br />

www.mehfilmagazine.com.<br />

As this issue was going to press, we were in the<br />

midst of preparing for the first annual RBC Mehfil<br />

Magazine Awards for Excellence Gala to recognize<br />

individuals from the Indo-Canadian community<br />

who have made outstanding contributions in<br />

community service, philanthropy, business, the arts,<br />

education, technology.<br />

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Guest Column<br />

by Bob Lenarduzzi<br />

Beyond the Beautiful Game<br />

When I made my debut for the<br />

Vancouver Whitecaps against the<br />

San Jose Earthquakes at Empire Stadium<br />

on May 5, 1974, little did I imagine<br />

where my experiences as a professional<br />

soccer player and playing for my hometown<br />

club would take me.<br />

There have been many great moments<br />

during my career in Vancouver. Winning<br />

the 1979 Soccer Bowl championship will<br />

always be a special memory, while claiming<br />

four straight Canadian Soccer League<br />

titles as Vancouver 86ers head coach is<br />

an achievement that I’m also very proud<br />

of. Even the recent success of winning<br />

two United Soccer Leagues First Division<br />

titles in 2006 and 2008 brought great joy<br />

to me as Whitecaps president.<br />

Though striving for success on the<br />

pitch has always been a passion of mine,<br />

there have been many things that I have<br />

taken from my time in professional soccer.<br />

Like many other professional athletes,<br />

the benefits of discipline, leadership, and<br />

teamwork have allowed me to transition<br />

from a player to roles as both a coach and<br />

an executive in the game.<br />

Though I am biased, I believe that<br />

soccer exceeds all other sports for its global<br />

popularity and inclusiveness. Soccer<br />

(or association football, as it is formally<br />

known) has no real barriers. It is gender<br />

neutral, requires minimal equipment,<br />

and can be played in any open space that<br />

is available. The simplicity of soccer’s<br />

rules makes it easy for all who play or<br />

watch from the sidelines to understand.<br />

It’s no wonder that soccer is the No. 1<br />

sport in the world.<br />

My time in professional soccer has<br />

allowed me to work with and meet some<br />

great people, both within the game and<br />

outside of it. One individual that I was<br />

privileged to meet was former Vancouver<br />

Canucks general manager Brian Burke.<br />

Not only has Brian proved to be an astute<br />

hockey executive, I always admired his<br />

candidness when he spoke to the media<br />

and in public. I also admired his commitment<br />

to the community, as he made<br />

it a policy at the Canucks to have the<br />

team reach out to all of its fans across the<br />

8 Mehfil September/October 2009<br />

Lower Mainland and British Columbia.<br />

Being a significant community asset is<br />

something that we’ve adopted in our<br />

mission statement at the Whitecaps and<br />

always look to strive towards with all<br />

aspects of our programming.<br />

One of the best aspects of my time<br />

with the Whitecaps has been meeting<br />

our many fans over the years. Their<br />

long-standing support has contributed<br />

greatly to the success that professional<br />

soccer has enjoyed in Vancouver. I look<br />

back to last season and the influence our<br />

supporters had during our triumphant<br />

playoff run. The atmosphere at Swangard<br />

Stadium in the USL-1 Championship<br />

Final against the Puerto Rico Islanders<br />

last Thanksgiving was particularly memorable.<br />

Yet one of the most exciting things<br />

that I’ve seen is how soccer has allowed<br />

people of all ages to get involved in the<br />

sport in various capacities. Each year,<br />

thousands of kids participate in our many<br />

community clinics and camps that we<br />

hold across the province. It is also interesting<br />

to see the more senior generation<br />

still playing the game at the “Masters”<br />

level. Whether a player is three years old<br />

or over 60 years of age, it’s terrific to think<br />

that the passion I have for soccer is being<br />

shared by a wide and varied segment of<br />

the population.<br />

What has also been fascinating is<br />

seeing a wider diversity of people get<br />

involved in soccer in recent years. Back<br />

in the North American Soccer League<br />

days, most of our fans were of European<br />

descent. Yet, if you attend a Whitecaps<br />

game these days, you will see people<br />

from all corners of the globe supporting<br />

our club and the game. We’ve even<br />

seen that impact in the number of young<br />

Indo-Canadians who have been part of<br />

our club’s programs in the last couple of<br />

years. For example, Gagandeep Dosanjh,<br />

Bhupinder (Bobby) Jhutty, and Sahil<br />

Sandhu have all developed as players in<br />

our full-time Whitecaps Residency program,<br />

with Dosanjh and Sandhu recently<br />

joining German club FC Energie Cottbus<br />

on loan. Our Whitecaps Prospects men’s<br />

team includes youngsters Harry Lakhan<br />

and Avindeep Sidhu, with both players<br />

having recently represented British<br />

Columbia at the 2009 Canada Games in<br />

Prince Edward Island.<br />

I’ve always been proud of the<br />

Whitecaps’ efforts to reach out to communities<br />

like the Indo-Canadian community,<br />

with whom we have had an active<br />

engagement for some time. I remember<br />

the excitement we generated during the<br />

2005 season when Indian recording artist<br />

Gurdas Maan performed the ceremonial<br />

kickoff before a men’s team match, while<br />

in 2006, the participation of the Indian<br />

national team in our four-team Whitecaps<br />

Nations Cup tournament generated the<br />

greatest support for a visiting team to<br />

Swangard. Off the pitch, the Whitecaps<br />

have also been a proud supporter of the<br />

CORSA Foundation (Central Organizing<br />

Resource for South Asians).<br />

This type of inclusiveness is only a<br />

small part of how soccer has united<br />

people around the world. For me, soccer<br />

is the only sport that has proven to<br />

mend fences between nations and people<br />

in ways that no other sport has been able<br />

to achieve. I remember the 1998 FIFA<br />

World Cup match between Iran and<br />

the United States in France. Before that<br />

game, both teams showed their solidarity<br />

as sportsmen by coming together as one<br />

group of players for a photo. It was a huge<br />

symbol of unity between two nations that<br />

had been at odds with each other on a<br />

political and diplomatic front for many<br />

years.<br />

The Whitecaps remain committed to<br />

making soccer inclusive for all. It is only<br />

by being open and inclusive that we will<br />

attract the best people to the sport and<br />

ensure that soccer continues to be “the<br />

Beautiful Game.” p<br />

Bob Lenarduzzi is the president of the Vancouver<br />

Whitecaps. He has been inducted into the North<br />

American Soccer Hall of Fame, the Canadian<br />

Soccer Hall of Fame, the British Columbian<br />

Sports Hall of Fame and the United Soccer<br />

Leagues Hall of Fame. In 2005, he received the<br />

Order of British Columbia for his contributions<br />

to the sport of soccer.


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S tellar Student<br />

Gagandeep Arora<br />

Age: 18 Hometown: Richmond, B.C.<br />

Academic awards: UBC President’s<br />

Entrance Scholarship, St. George’s<br />

School Diamond Jubilee Award,<br />

St. George’s School Headmaster’s<br />

Leadership Award, College Board AP<br />

Scholar With Honor.<br />

Area of study: Faculty of Science<br />

at UBC.<br />

Volunteer work: World Vision<br />

30-Hour Famine, St. George’s School<br />

Hamper Drive, Surrey Vaisakhi Parade.<br />

Advice for students: Keep your social<br />

life and school life planned out, know<br />

when to play and when to study. Having<br />

a well-organized schedule that dedicates<br />

enough time towards both will only benefit<br />

you in the long run.<br />

Your favourite confidence-building<br />

tips: Don’t take offence to constructive<br />

criticism; you don’t have to agree with<br />

everything others say to you.<br />

Success strategies: I can’t stress<br />

enough the importance of organization<br />

when it comes to school. Not only will it<br />

help you decide how much time to dedicate<br />

to school, but it will also prevent<br />

the build-up of unnecessary stress that<br />

results from not knowing what’s happening<br />

in your surroundings.<br />

How do you de-stress when school<br />

gets intense? I usually turn to sports<br />

when I need time to relax and focus on<br />

something other than academics. I find<br />

that focusing on something such as<br />

sports allows me to keep my mind at<br />

ease so that when I do need to dedicate<br />

numerous hours to school, it’s not as<br />

strenuous.<br />

What do you do in your spare<br />

time? I like to engage myself in various<br />

sports, both competitive and recreational,<br />

to stay active, which I believe is vital<br />

in maintaining a healthy mind. I particularly<br />

enjoy playing ball hockey when the<br />

weather in Vancouver permits it.<br />

What role has your family played<br />

in your academic career? My family<br />

has provided me with the unconditional<br />

support that I have looked for when<br />

times have gotten tough at school,<br />

whether it’s been with exams or busy<br />

schedules. My dad particularly has been<br />

a demonstration of hard work and perseverance,<br />

and I look to him especially<br />

when times get tough. I believe I am a<br />

direct product of the amount of time and<br />

effort that my family has invested in me<br />

during my academic career.<br />

A quote that inspires you: “That<br />

which does not kill us makes us<br />

stronger.”<br />

– Friedrich Nietzsche<br />

Photo by RON SANGHA<br />

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Sunny Dhinsa<br />

Age: 16 Hometown: Abbotsford, B.C<br />

Sport: Wrestling<br />

Team: Guru Gobind Singh<br />

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When did you become active in<br />

your sport? I started wrestling at the<br />

age of six.<br />

Most memorable accomplishments:<br />

Getting trained by Amandeep<br />

Sondhi. Getting nationally ranked<br />

athlete of the year at my school.<br />

Representing Team B.C and Team<br />

Canada.<br />

Sports career highlights: Winning<br />

Pan Am Championships; winning<br />

Canada Cup Jr. International two<br />

times; Victory Cup International Bronze<br />

Medalist; two-time National Champion<br />

and one time out standing wrestler in<br />

Canada; Canada Games gold medal;<br />

three-time Western Canada Champion;<br />

2009 Canada Bal Kesri.<br />

What do you love most about your<br />

sport? The fact that it is a one-man<br />

sport, and if I lose I have no one to<br />

blame but myself.<br />

How do you balance your school<br />

life with your sports life? I consider<br />

school first then wrestling. When I<br />

come home from school I finish my<br />

homework then train for wrestling.<br />

How has this sport influenced<br />

your life in other ways? This sport<br />

has given me a lot of respect in my<br />

community and in other communities.<br />

Who do you consider your support<br />

team outside your sport?<br />

Boota Singh Dhinsa, my dad and<br />

coach. Avtar Singh Dhinsa, my uncle<br />

and coach. Amandeep Sondhi, my<br />

cousin and trainer. Nav Dulat, my training<br />

partner. Rashpal K. Dhinsa, my<br />

mom.<br />

Advice for aspiring athletes: Keep<br />

your hopes high and keep your eyes<br />

on the prize and keep trying hard to<br />

achieve it.<br />

Career goals: Representing Canada<br />

on the international stage.<br />

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door of my lecture hall, I overlooked the ‘A’ preceeding the<br />

room number, and unknowingly walked into a faculty meeting.<br />

Head down, all too conscious of being late, I rushed into<br />

the nearest available seat. When I finally looked up, I found<br />

what seemed to be the only first-year Political Science class<br />

filled entirely with mature students. I could feel every pair of<br />

eyes on me, as the room suddenly grew quiet. “You mean this<br />

isn’t Poli Sci 100?”<br />

Certainly, my first experience at UBC was particularly<br />

awkward. But while I may have started off, quite literally, on<br />

the wrong foot, I did manage to eventually find my place at<br />

university. However, many students find it difficult to forge a<br />

personal connection with their school.<br />

The typical university or college lecture hall serves as a metaphor<br />

for campus life. It’s equal parts intimidating and safe. It<br />

provides a challenging forum for students to voice their unique<br />

perspectives, but it also allows them to disappear into the background<br />

as one number among many. Large classes, which are<br />

common for the average first or second year, are overwhelming.<br />

If you are disconnected from your classes, your professors<br />

and from the campus experience, you are more likely to do the<br />

bare minimum — or drop out from your studies altogether.<br />

It is largely up to us to become actively involved in class<br />

discussions, campus clubs and events, and to initiate dialogues<br />

with our professors before or after class, or during their office<br />

hours. It is easy to feel alienated in such an intensely competitive<br />

environment if you do not make a concerted effort.<br />

Universities offer a variety of channels through which students<br />

can get involved. Many have allocated funding for students<br />

who want to create their own group or club if they feel<br />

a certain cause or interest is not being represented. Some even<br />

allow students to develop their own seminar class, approved by<br />

their department and under the guidance of a faculty sponsor.<br />

UBC, for example, has a Student Directed Seminars Advisory<br />

Committee that considers proposed course outlines from<br />

upper level students who want to run and develop their own<br />

eight- to 15-person seminar.<br />

The opportunities for achieving a sense of inclusion are<br />

endless; you simply need to identify your personal goals and<br />

interests and find out whatever university outlet supports<br />

these. Sometimes all it really takes is to<br />

attend a meeting, join a society or something<br />

as seemingly mundane as striking up<br />

a conversation with a favourite professor.<br />

Then again, stumbling into the wrong room<br />

is also effective.<br />

– Alisha Randhawa,<br />

UBC, Senior, Political Science and English<br />

Student Life<br />

For the launch of a new section aimed at giving<br />

post-secondary students a forum in which to share<br />

information and address issues that affect them, we<br />

asked students from Simon Fraser University and the<br />

University of British Columbia to offer advice to new<br />

students on everything from the best places to study<br />

to how to stay fit to where to get academic help.<br />

Rupeela Gill, Alumna, UBC Political Science<br />

Study spots: Main Library, Life Sciences, Wood<br />

library and during the nice weather take advantage<br />

of UBC’s plentiful beautiful green spaces.<br />

Keep fit: Go to class, participate in UBC Rec<br />

activities such as Day of the Longboat, intramurals,<br />

or the infamous Storm the Wall, walk to the nearby<br />

beach, or take a dip in aquatic centre pool (its free<br />

at times).<br />

Get involved: Join a club, a sport, or any oncampus<br />

activities to get the FULL campus experience, university life is<br />

incomplete without it; Clubs Days take place at the end of Sept with clubs<br />

for everything imaginable - from the UBC Bhangra Club or Sikh Students<br />

Association to academic-oriented clubs.<br />

Bikramjit Singh, Senior, UBC International<br />

Relations<br />

Keep fit: Check out the Student Recreation Centre<br />

which has 3 full-sized gyms in which drop-in<br />

sports as well as intramurals are held.<br />

Get involved: Join the UBC Bhangra Club which<br />

is a great way to get involved and interact with the<br />

Indo – Canadian community.<br />

Student resources: UBC offers many academic<br />

services on campus, simply login at www.leap.ubc.ca to check out all<br />

the services.<br />

Mandy Mann, Alumna, SFU<br />

Study spots: The library and around Images<br />

Theatre.<br />

Keep fit: Intramurals are a great way to keep fit<br />

and meet people.<br />

Get involved: Attend club events and check<br />

out Student Central see what’s happening around<br />

campus.<br />

Amrinder Sidhu, Senior, SFU Biochemistry &<br />

Business Administration<br />

Study spots: Library 4th, 5th and 6th floor;<br />

Academic Quadrangle; Physics, Chemistry and<br />

Biology lounges and Applied Science building.<br />

Keep fit: On-campus gym, swimming pool, track<br />

and field are open to all students.<br />

Get involved: SFU has student clubs of all types:<br />

academic, sports, recreational, informational, musical,<br />

fund-raiser and cultural. Students can join as<br />

many clubs as they like. They can also participate in mentorship and<br />

orientation leadership programs.<br />

14 Mehfil September/October 2009


Harmit Sarai, Junior, UBC Psychology<br />

Study spots: If you need a quiet place to study<br />

and want to be MIA for a while, especially during<br />

exam period, then the library inside the Neville<br />

Scarfe building is, by far, the best library to study<br />

at. You’ll have fewer distractions, because most<br />

of your friends will probably be “studying” at the<br />

Irving library.<br />

Get involved: You can get involved on campus,<br />

by volunteering with different student organizations/foundations.<br />

Also, there is an endless<br />

list of clubs you can join at UBC, from the Giddha Dance Club to the<br />

Motorcycling or Sailing Club, I’m sure there is something for everyone.<br />

Student resources: The free AMS tutoring sessions is one of many<br />

academic services offered at UBC and this is especially valuable for those<br />

students who may want extra help achieving their course goals.<br />

Hira Gill, Junior, UBC General Sciences<br />

Study spots: The Irving K. Barber Learning Centre is great for studying.<br />

You can sit in the open area and talk things<br />

over with friends or find yourself a seat in the<br />

stacks and study in a quieter environment.<br />

Keep fit: UBC Rec offers a variety of programs<br />

for all students. You can sign up a team<br />

for intramural soccer or rejuvenate yourself in<br />

a yoga class.<br />

Student resources: If you need help, don’t<br />

wait until it’s too late. Go to your professor’s or<br />

TA’s office hours and ask them to clarify any<br />

unclear concepts. They’re more than willing to<br />

help students who take the initiative to seek extra help.<br />

Ashish Gurung: Senior, SFU Business<br />

Study spots: Food, quiet space and convenience<br />

are all located at SFU Surrey, most notably<br />

the 4th and 5th floors.<br />

Keep fit: The pass to the gym facilities is<br />

included in the SFU tuition - use it!<br />

Get involved: There are many clubs/competitions<br />

on campus - sign up and don’t be afraid to<br />

take the lead.<br />

Student resources: The Student Learning<br />

Commons (SLC) is great place to receive help and improve your academic<br />

standing<br />

Andrew Kumar, Senior, SFU Management Systems<br />

and Interactive Design<br />

Study spots: The break out rooms at SFU<br />

Surrey are great places to study as they have<br />

whiteboards (great for organizing or getting creative)<br />

and ample power outlets for laptops and<br />

cell phone chargers as well as a mall downstairs<br />

to grab a quick snack.<br />

Get involved: Walk around Clubs Days and<br />

Week of Welcome and sign up for as many clubs<br />

that interest you as you can; they’ll all email you and then you can pick<br />

and choose which club/organization on campus to volunteer with.<br />

Student resources: Yosef Wosk Learning Commons is a good<br />

academic resource at SFU Surrey that provides tutors and academic<br />

assistance.<br />

Share your tips and experiences at www.mehfilmagazine.com<br />

Shine Your Shoes:<br />

take your game to the next level<br />

with scholarships and bursaries<br />

Assignments, provincial exams, part-time work and sports: a<br />

student’s life in high school can be a rollercoaster of social<br />

events, volunteer activities, intense exams and tight deadlines.<br />

How do you make time for it all despite juggling time for friends,<br />

family, relationships and school? Most importantly, how can you<br />

get recognized for the amazing work that you do inside and outside<br />

the classroom? I still remember the horrible advice my high<br />

school counsellor gave me when I first started thinking about<br />

scholarships and bursaries, “Well, you gotta work hard” he said.<br />

That meant very little to me; I wanted the juice: What are<br />

scholarship committees looking for? What types of activities<br />

should I get involved in? Who can I go to for advice and how do<br />

I present myself in the essays?<br />

Applying for scholarships is more than performing well in<br />

exams or volunteering at charity events, it means being ready to<br />

step out of your comfort zone, overcoming unique challenges,<br />

genuinely advocating for positive change, and caring for the<br />

well-being of others. Passion takes preference over performance<br />

in many scholarships, and committees frequently hunt for outstanding<br />

applicants who show potential to be great leaders of<br />

tomorrow.<br />

Sure, marks are important, but they’re not enough if not<br />

backed by an extensive background in service, dialogue, and<br />

athletics. Being well-rounded also means getting involved at different<br />

levels locally, nationally and on a global scale.<br />

Bursaries vs. Scholarships<br />

Bursaries are financial-need-based awards, which essentially<br />

means that a student is given money if he or she can demonstrate<br />

strong academic motivation as a high school student and would<br />

like financial assistance to pursue higher education. Applying for<br />

a bursary doesn’t mean that you are poor or anything, but it is a<br />

great opportunity for students to seek financial assistance if they<br />

need it. Many families have recently immigrated to Canada, for<br />

example, and may seek assistance to finance their child’s education<br />

while they find suitable work. Some families have a disabled<br />

member such as a sibling, child, parent or extended family member,<br />

while other families may have a parent who is unemployed.<br />

The beauty of bursaries is that they aren’t based on high marks or<br />

extracurricular activities; they only require that you demonstrate<br />

a need for money.<br />

Scholarships, on the other hand, really have little to do with<br />

a need for money. Although most students applying for scholarships<br />

sincerely need financial assistance, scholarships require that<br />

you excel in academics, community service, athletics and other<br />

extracurricular activities (music, drama, sports, book clubs, tutoring,<br />

etc.). In the next issue of the magazine, we will go in-depth<br />

as to how to apply for bursaries and scholarships, the personal<br />

qualities of outstanding students, and the types of projects that<br />

make great applications.<br />

– Jaspreet Singh Mangat,<br />

UBC, Senior, Honours Behavioural<br />

Neuroscience & Neurophysiology<br />

Please join in on the discussion online through<br />

our Facebook group, “Campus Talk on Mehfil<br />

Magazine” and at www.mehfilmagazine.com.<br />

For project ideas and ways to get involved in your<br />

community, email jaspreetsingh@nasaghc.com.<br />

Mehfil September/October 2009 15


Unsung Heroes<br />

Harminder and<br />

Gurnam Sanghera<br />

Dynamic Duo<br />

Harminder Sanghera gives virtually<br />

all of her free time to several causes<br />

close to her heart. In some homes<br />

that kind of commitment to volunteer work,<br />

while laudable, could cause friction, but not<br />

in the Sanghera household. That’s because<br />

Harminder’s husband, Gurnam, has the<br />

same passion for donating his time to worthy<br />

causes.<br />

Both say their interest in community<br />

work can be traced back to their childhoods<br />

in Punjab.<br />

“My father was very active in his village<br />

for the welfare of the people,” says<br />

Harminder. “He always encouraged us to<br />

work for the community.”<br />

“My father fought for India’s independence<br />

at the local level,” says Gurnam.<br />

“I imbibed that spirit of wanting to help<br />

people.”<br />

After marrying and moving from India to<br />

England in 1962, the couple became active<br />

in the struggle against racial discrimination.<br />

“We faced racism everywhere,” says Gurnam.<br />

“When it came to buying a house, finding a<br />

job, meeting other people . . . we faced discrimination<br />

at every step. That’s how I got<br />

involved more actively in community affairs.<br />

I met other activists, and with the Indian<br />

Workers Association of Great Britain, we<br />

were instrumental in bringing about the first<br />

race relations act in Britain in 1965.”<br />

Although both Gurnam and Harminder<br />

got their teaching certification in England<br />

and were working as teachers, they decided<br />

in the late 1970s to move to Canada. “We<br />

thought the future was not so bright in<br />

Britain so moved to Canada, which we<br />

thought of as a country of immigrants,” says<br />

Gurnam.<br />

From the time that they settled in<br />

Vancouver in 1979, they have affiliated<br />

themselves with several community causes.<br />

Following are just a few of the tireless<br />

couple’s contributions:<br />

In 1980, Harminder joined the India<br />

Mahila Association, a volunteer organization<br />

that provides referral and emotional<br />

support to South Asian women<br />

in crisis. She’s still on the board today.<br />

Twelve years ago, she was instrumental<br />

in establishing the South<br />

Burnaby Neighbourhood House,<br />

where she continues to serve on<br />

Photo by RON SANGHA<br />

16 Mehfil September/October 2009


the board. It was one of many examples of<br />

Harminder going into action after seeing a<br />

gap in community services.<br />

“Before I began working for the Burnaby<br />

School District as a multicultural liaison<br />

worker, I was a settlement worker at the<br />

South Vancouver Neighbourhood House,”<br />

she explains. “When I came to Burnaby,<br />

I saw that there was no neighbourhood<br />

house. Eventually, I got together with several<br />

other people and we formed one. Today,<br />

we have a budget of $2 million.”<br />

Since retiring from her job with the<br />

Burnaby School District, Harminder has<br />

made an even greater commitment to volunteer<br />

work. Today, in addition to giving<br />

her time to the Mahila Association and the<br />

South Burnaby Neighbourhood House, she<br />

is on the Red Cross’s South Asian Advisory<br />

Committee, which is currently focused on<br />

educating seniors about disaster preparedness.<br />

“We have reached a thousand seniors in<br />

the Lower Mainland through the program,”<br />

she says.<br />

Meanwhile, Gurnam, who retired from<br />

his job as a social worker in 2000, has focused<br />

on promoting social and religious tolerance.<br />

Over the years, he has been involved<br />

with the Association of Sikh Gurdwaras of<br />

North America and the Hindu-Sikh Forum<br />

of North America. His work with the latter<br />

includes helping to organize an India Day<br />

celebration this past August on the grounds<br />

of the Guru Nanak Gurdwara in Surrey.<br />

The event attracted thousands, as well as<br />

politicians and other dignitaries.<br />

“It was a celebration promoting the<br />

message that as Canadians we should unite<br />

here and live as good neighbours with other<br />

Canadians,” says Gurnam.<br />

In December, he will attend the World<br />

Parliament of Religions in Melbourne,<br />

Australia, to give a speech on interfaith<br />

relations. (He earned his PhD in interfaith<br />

relations from Punjabi University.)<br />

Husband and wife credit each other for<br />

providing the support and encouragement<br />

that allows each of them to share their time<br />

and energy with others.<br />

Speaking for them both, Harminder<br />

says: “You can only work if your partner<br />

supports you in whatever you do.”<br />

She adds that she and her husband are<br />

both inspired by the sheer enormity of what<br />

volunteers can accomplish.<br />

“This world is so beautiful, and the people<br />

who have made it what it is today were<br />

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Scene & Society<br />

1<br />

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2<br />

3<br />

Grandma’s Gala<br />

in memory of Gurmej K. Dhanda<br />

(benefitting Scleroderma BC)<br />

1. Dr Dhar Dhanda with his wife Harv and<br />

daughter Kiran.<br />

2. Saraya, Asha, Sarina, Anaya and Kiran<br />

enjoy face-painting.<br />

4<br />

MLA Harry Bains with sufi-sensation Kailash<br />

Kher, MLA Raj Chohan and promoter Kamal<br />

Sharma at a dinner to honour the singer.<br />

(from left) Kwantlen Polytechnic University’s Simone Le<br />

Blanc and SPARK Foundation president Amarjit Samra<br />

accept a $10,000 donation from Bud Patel, CORSA<br />

Foundation director. Also pictured (far right) is Kwantlen<br />

Polytechnic University Chancellor Arvinder Bubber.<br />

5<br />

First Annual South Asian<br />

Business Association of<br />

BC’s Golf Tournament 6<br />

1. Founding members<br />

2. Indra Bhan and Dr. Gulzar Cheema<br />

3. Tochi Sandhu, Barry Christiansen,<br />

Tim Mackie, Rajdeep S. Deol<br />

4. Kashif Mian, Daljit Dehal and<br />

Ranjit Sandhu<br />

5. Kal Bachra and Mike Buttar<br />

6. Justin Dhaliwal, Gurveer Pattar,<br />

and S.S. Teja<br />

7. Pravin Narotam and Surrey Board<br />

of Trade CEO Anita Huberman<br />

7<br />

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Guru Gobind Singh<br />

Children’s Foundation’s<br />

Children’s Run Across<br />

Canada<br />

1<br />

1 & 2. Runners make their<br />

way across the country.<br />

3. Mission accomplished!<br />

The children completed the<br />

final section of the run at<br />

Stanley Park in Vancouver.<br />

The 7000-kilometre crosscountry<br />

relay raised funds for<br />

children’s hospitals across<br />

Canada.<br />

2<br />

1 2<br />

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2010 Commonwealth<br />

Games Fundraiser<br />

hosted by Avtar Bains<br />

and Monika Deol<br />

Abbotsford Mayor George Peary with Punjabi Patrika<br />

publishers Andy and Pritam Sidhu at the lauch of the<br />

weekly edition. The couple raised more than $10,000<br />

for the Abbotsford Police Foundation by selling the first<br />

edition of the paper for $100 each.<br />

1. Hosts Avtar Bains and<br />

Monika Deol<br />

2. Robin Dhir, Gary Lunn (Minister of State for Sport)<br />

and Thomas Jones (Chief Executive Officer of<br />

Commonwealth Games Canada)<br />

3. Former Vancouver mayoral candidate Peter Ladner<br />

and Wally Oppal<br />

4. Olympic weightlifter Jasvir Singh and Olympic<br />

badminton player and Canadian national champion<br />

Anna Rice<br />

Mehfil September/October 2009 21


The Inspired Sufi<br />

By Azim Jamal<br />

Life Is Not a Race<br />

Life is not a race to be won but a<br />

journey to be savoured. We forget<br />

that the path has no value when<br />

you arrive. It is the journey that counts.<br />

When we enjoy the ride and we are<br />

relaxed, we see the signs around us. In<br />

the frenzy of life we miss the signs. Also,<br />

when you are relaxed you get insightful<br />

ideas from within.<br />

I used to drop my children at school<br />

every morning. It was a big job getting<br />

them both aboard and in time for school.<br />

It was a struggle and stressful. Driving fast<br />

in the rush hour was not the best way to<br />

start the morning for me or the kids. It<br />

was humbling, especially for a guy who<br />

teaches others how to be calm and collected<br />

under pressure.<br />

I decided that I would do my best to<br />

get the kids in the car and once we were<br />

in the car, I would not look at the watch.<br />

Instead, we would start our journey by<br />

saying our morning prayers together followed<br />

by a game I played with my son,<br />

who is the younger of my two children.<br />

The game included teaching him quotes<br />

from different philosophers and authors<br />

ranging from Shakespeare to Rumi. The<br />

number of quotes we would learn or discuss<br />

would coincide with the date of the<br />

month. Today, at age 14 my son knows at<br />

least 50 quotes by heart and now comes<br />

up with his own quotes at will. While<br />

praying and playing en route to school, I<br />

had no time to change lanes or compete<br />

with fellow drivers. In fact, I was gentle<br />

enough to let others overtake me at will.<br />

Guess what?<br />

We were hardly ever late to school<br />

and even if we were late the odd time we<br />

enjoyed the ride and had a great start to<br />

the morning!<br />

Being attentive and focused makes<br />

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What you give attention and<br />

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by Andy Radia<br />

Governments Addicted<br />

to Gambling Revenues<br />

Casinos, lotteries, slot machines, race<br />

tracks, online poker – Canadians are<br />

inundated with gambling opportunities.<br />

Recent studies suggest that we are now<br />

spending five times more money on these<br />

games of chance than we did in the early<br />

1990s.<br />

While most of us are able to limit ourselves<br />

to a weekly purchase of a lottery<br />

ticket or a monthly visit to a casino, there<br />

is a growing number of Canadians who<br />

are becoming problem gamblers. According<br />

to the Canadian Center on Substance<br />

Abuse, between 3 per cent and 5 per cent<br />

now have gambling addictions. In other<br />

words, between 600,000 and one million<br />

Canadians are grappling with the financial<br />

and social problems related to gambling.<br />

A 2004 University of Chicago study<br />

outlined the consequences of “pathological”<br />

or problem gambling. The researchers<br />

isolated the problem of gambling (from<br />

drug use, alcoholism, mental health issues,<br />

etc..) and found that pathological<br />

gamblers compared to non-gamblers were<br />

5.3 times more likely to lose their jobs<br />

in the next year, 4.5 times more likely<br />

to file for bankruptcy in their lifetime,<br />

seven times more likely to be arrested,<br />

three times more likely to be divorced,<br />

and almost twice as likely to suffer mental<br />

health issues. Moreover, the Canada Safety<br />

Council suggests that every year 200<br />

people in Canada commit suicide because<br />

of problems resulting from compulsive<br />

gambling.<br />

So what are legislators across Canada<br />

doing about this emerging social malady?<br />

Very little. In fact, the governments are<br />

filling their coffers from gambling.<br />

Gambling regulation across Canada<br />

is under the authority of the provincial<br />

governments. For these governments,<br />

gambling has become big business. Today<br />

there are four times as many governmentsanctioned<br />

gambling venues across the<br />

country than there were in 1992. Canadians<br />

can now choose to gamble at one of<br />

87,000 gambling machines (slot machines<br />

and video lottery terminals), 33,000 lottery<br />

ticket centres, 60 permanent casinos,<br />

250 race tracks and tele-theatres. There<br />

are also 25,000 licenses granted to run<br />

various bingos, temporary casinos, raffles,<br />

pull tickets and other activities.<br />

Provincial governments now earn in<br />

excess of $13 billion a year from operating<br />

(or facilitating) gambling establishments.<br />

In other words, 3.8 per cent of all<br />

revenue raised by the provinces is derived<br />

from gambling sources. It’s no wonder<br />

that governments are addicted to gambling<br />

revenues.<br />

Provincial governments<br />

now earn in excess of<br />

$13 billion a year from<br />

operating (or facilitating)<br />

gambling establishments.<br />

In other words, 3.8 per<br />

cent of all revenue raised<br />

by the provinces is<br />

derived from gambling<br />

sources. It’s no wonder that<br />

governments are addicted<br />

to gambling revenues.<br />

For the most part, the specific allocation<br />

of gambling revenues is at the discretion<br />

of governments. For some provinces<br />

there can be commitments to spend a certain<br />

percentage of these revenues in specific<br />

areas such as health care, municipal<br />

infrastructure or the arts. All provinces<br />

also spend a portion, albeit a diminutive<br />

portion, of these revenues for gambling<br />

addiction services. The province of Ontario,<br />

for example, spends $36 million a<br />

year – but $36 million a year doesn’t come<br />

close to making up for the social costs of<br />

gambling.<br />

Online gambling websites are an<br />

emerging competitor segment to government-sanctioned<br />

venues. Canadians<br />

have taken a liking to online gambling;<br />

it’s estimated that we account for 10 per<br />

cent of all international online gambling<br />

revenues.<br />

But instead of finding ways to combat<br />

online gambling, governments in this<br />

country have chosen to profit from it.<br />

Provincial governments are now expanding<br />

their own online gambling programs.<br />

The British Columbia Lottery<br />

Corporation, for example, recently said<br />

that it will raise the weekly gambling<br />

limit on its website from $120/person to<br />

$10,000/person. In its press release, the<br />

government shamelessly announced that<br />

it wanted to get its hands on the $87 million<br />

that B.C. residents spend annually on<br />

offshore gambling websites.<br />

Mass expansion of government-sponsored<br />

gambling has unequivocally created<br />

substantial numbers of new problem<br />

gamblers. The British Columbia government<br />

operates a Problem Gambling helpline<br />

service that individuals who need<br />

help with their gambling addictions can<br />

call for counselling and prevention services.<br />

In 2001 the helpline received 1,340<br />

calls; in 2008 they received 5,656 calls.<br />

The British Columbia government’s own<br />

Responsible Gambling website references<br />

a study that admits “increased availability<br />

leads to more gambling and problem<br />

gambling.”<br />

As the predominant provider of gambling<br />

venues in Canada, the provincial<br />

governments are therefore directly culpable<br />

for the increasing societal and financial<br />

repercussions of problem gambling.<br />

The easy revenues were just too hard<br />

for our elected officials to resist. It’s a classic<br />

case of let’s make the money now and<br />

deal with the problems later. p<br />

Andy Radia is political columnist based in Vancouver,<br />

B.C. His articles have been published in the Vancouver<br />

Sun, Winnipeg Free Press and Vancouver Metro. He<br />

can be contacted through his website at www.radia.ca<br />

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P erspectives<br />

by Divinder Purewal<br />

Runaway pride<br />

Whenever I see the familiar sight of a<br />

wedding car, I smile because it reminds<br />

me that despite all the things that<br />

have changed in the world, people still<br />

want to get married.<br />

For most people, getting married is<br />

probably the biggest day of their lives. It’s<br />

something that they dream about. Over<br />

the years I have spoken to hundreds of<br />

female friends and relatives who have<br />

shared every aspect of their dream wedding<br />

like it was a military exercise! They<br />

have gone into incredibly minute (and often<br />

boring) detail about everything from<br />

the lengha they’ll wear and the colour of<br />

their groom’s turban to what song would<br />

play for their first dance.<br />

I’ve had to be the voice of reason during<br />

these fantasies and remind them that<br />

they need to find someone willing to marry<br />

them first!<br />

As a realist and an old-fashioned romantic<br />

at heart, I appreciate that times<br />

have changed and weddings have, too.<br />

Nowadays it seems that a growing number<br />

of couples want their very own Dream<br />

Bollywood Wedding or DBW.<br />

Ker-ching!<br />

The DBW often costs more money<br />

than most people’s first house a generation<br />

ago! Often-times it’s the parents’ desire to<br />

show that they’ve “made it” that pushes<br />

the elaborate wedding plans along.<br />

In 2009 the average Indian wedding<br />

costs something in the region of $30,000<br />

to $40,000. The DBW, on the other<br />

hand, can cost hundreds of thousands of<br />

dollars that you’ll never see again. Why<br />

does it cost so much? Well, I’ll tell you.<br />

The DBW involves a cast of hundreds of<br />

extras.<br />

Gone are the days when well-meaning<br />

auntyjis spent the days before the wedding<br />

cooking huge pots of sholay, aloo<br />

gobi and chicken curry over a lethal-looking<br />

gas canister for the big day. Back then,<br />

when that day arrived the reception took<br />

place in a rented hall that, if you were<br />

“fancy,” had a balloon arch and a used<br />

“congratulations” banner draped across<br />

the paper tablecloth on the head table.<br />

The food would be served in overflowing<br />

metal thalis by male relatives who seemed<br />

to take great delight in splashing some of<br />

the dishes on guests’ clothes.<br />

Now the food at a DBW is catered by<br />

top Indian chefs, and the meals are served<br />

by elegant waiting staff and the evening<br />

includes live performances from professional<br />

artists like Gurdas Mann.<br />

Here comes the bride and vroom!<br />

We seem to have embraced a bigger is<br />

better mentality. For instance, the bride<br />

and groom wear outfits that cost a small<br />

fortune. Even the wedding car, which in<br />

the past was the Mercedes owned by some<br />

distant uncle, has been replaced by not<br />

one, but a fleet of limousines or high-end<br />

sports cars. In the pursuit of outdoing one<br />

another, couples are adopting ever more<br />

elaborate ways of making their grandest<br />

of grand entrances. I have even heard of<br />

weddings where the bride and groom have<br />

arrived at the hall in a helicopter or a hotair<br />

balloon or on the back of an elephant.<br />

What happened to doing things in an<br />

understated way? When I’m at a lavish<br />

wedding reception I feel like I’m Shrek at<br />

the royal court! I look around and all I see<br />

is a sea of waxed eyebrows, pristine facials,<br />

immaculately made-up faces . . . and the<br />

women look good, too!<br />

So, am I advocating that we go back to<br />

the auntyjis’ home-cooked food served in<br />

thalis? Hell no — not even for a minute.<br />

What I’m really saying is let’s think about<br />

our kids’ financial futures and maybe scale<br />

down the wedding in return for a nice deposit<br />

on a house or to pay off education<br />

fees.<br />

My wife and I are trying to convince<br />

our kids that the Chapel of Love in Las Vegas<br />

or an intimate Caribbean beach wedding<br />

is the way to go. Wish us luck! p<br />

Divinder Singh Purewal, 40, is a human<br />

resources professional in Surrey, B.C.<br />

What’s your perspective?<br />

“I completely believe that people<br />

feel pressure to have a lavish<br />

wedding. The most memorable<br />

example to me isn't something<br />

completely over the top like<br />

flamingos or live peacocks being<br />

at a wedding reception as decor<br />

but more serious things like the<br />

amount of gold that is given to<br />

relatives. One wedding in Singapore had<br />

18 milnis and each person was given gold<br />

rings. I am not joking when I say that the<br />

father of the bride had a heart attack (literally)<br />

while the milnis were going on!<br />

“I would rather live within my means<br />

and I don't care about what other people<br />

think, so I personally am not influenced by<br />

the "bigger is better" trend. However, if I<br />

marry into a family that is influenced by this<br />

trend, then things could get a bit complicated.<br />

I hope that whoever I find to become<br />

my partner in life will be respectful of my<br />

wishes and my financial situation because<br />

the real point of a wedding is the joining of<br />

two families, not how grand your reception<br />

was.”<br />

— Sharin Randhawa, student/co-host of<br />

Punjabi Vibes, Surrey, B.C.<br />

“Based on my observations as in<br />

'insider' in the wedding industry,<br />

it's very evident that the pressure<br />

to have a lavish wedding is sky<br />

high. In our culture, this pressure used to<br />

traditionally come from the desire/need to<br />

please the groom's family. As Canadians,<br />

we've seen this element diminish over time<br />

and become overtaken by the desire for<br />

families to compete within their own family<br />

circles. And still further pressure is sometimes<br />

from the bride and groom themselves<br />

who aim to match or exceed lavish weddings<br />

displayed by their peers.<br />

“I was shown the actual bill for a $3000<br />

wedding cake and that literally 'takes the<br />

cake'. Sadly, however, I didn't get a slice!<br />

“All that being said, higher costs definitely<br />

have some correlation with having a<br />

high number of guests which will likely be<br />

the case for my wedding. However, I hope<br />

the groom and I are able to build a reasonable<br />

budget, manage the competitive pressure,<br />

and put the rest of our money towards<br />

our future.”<br />

— JJ Kaur, Professional Makeup Artist<br />

& Hairstylist Surrey, BC<br />

26 Mehfil September/October 2009


“I work in the wedding industry<br />

and I have noticed that families are<br />

increasingly sparing no expense<br />

when it comes to wedding celebrations.<br />

I do understand that these are<br />

happy times for families and they do want to<br />

express and share that celebration with those<br />

people close to them, but it is getting excessive.<br />

“I know of one girl spending $15,000 on a<br />

bridal lengha.<br />

“She also flew my partner and I (we own<br />

a makeup/hair company) out to her city to do<br />

her wedding hair and makeup, paid for our<br />

airfare, hotel, and meal allowances on top of<br />

our service fees. This bride’s fiance was going<br />

abroad to school. She had not discussed her<br />

living arrangements after marriage. She had<br />

no plans on joining her husband while he was<br />

attending school, and she did not want to live<br />

with her inlaws without him. So here is this<br />

couple about to be married, and they had not<br />

discussed her living arrangements after marriage.<br />

I could see the potential hornets nest of<br />

problems for this couple.<br />

“My sister married into a Catholic family,<br />

and I discovered that the church requires<br />

couples that are entering into marriage to go<br />

to couples counseling before marriage so that<br />

they both enter into the union with realistic<br />

expectations of each other. I believe that all<br />

couples regardless of faith need to enter into<br />

this practice. I have been married for eight<br />

years, and it is not like ‘filmi’ romances, it’s<br />

hard work, and marriage requires two people to<br />

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“I think that couples are under pressure<br />

to have a lavish wedding from<br />

parents and relatives. Some perhaps<br />

even from friends who had lavish<br />

weddings so they feel the need to do the same<br />

to maintain the same social standard.<br />

“Most over-the-top? I think it was an out<br />

door wedding where we had to blow bubbles<br />

for the couple after the ceremony and then they<br />

had white doves to fly away.<br />

“If I were getting married, I don’t think I<br />

would be influenced by the idea that bigger<br />

is better as I just want people whom I know<br />

personally to be part of my special day. A<br />

wedding to me is a personal commitment of my<br />

love to the man of my dreams and to have close<br />

friends there to witness as we honour our serious<br />

commitment to each other.”<br />

— Rajela Singh, Burnaby<br />

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Feature<br />

Tulshi Sen<br />

Mastering<br />

The<br />

Mind<br />

Getting him to agree to an interview is<br />

easy — he wants to share his knowledge with<br />

as many people as possible. Getting him to<br />

talk about himself? That’s another story. He<br />

responds to each question about his life with<br />

a parable.<br />

“Who was your master?” we asked.<br />

“I had many masters,” he says. When<br />

asked for their names he smiles and says the<br />

true teachers keep as low a profile as possible<br />

and relates a story:<br />

“A man was travelling to Calcutta. When<br />

he was halfway there he ran into a couple and<br />

asked, ‘Is this the way to Calcutta?’<br />

“‘Yes,’ they said, ‘but there’s a better, way.<br />

Go back and take the other road.’<br />

“The man went back to the beginning<br />

and started down the other road. Half way to<br />

Calcutta he ran into another man and asked<br />

him, ‘Is this the way to Calcutta?’<br />

“‘Yes’ the other man replied. ‘But there<br />

is a faster way. Go back and take the third<br />

route.’ So the man went back to the beginning<br />

and starts down the third route. Half<br />

way to Calcutta, he ran into an elderly<br />

couple...”<br />

You can guess the rest of the story. The<br />

man keeps going back to the beginning and<br />

by Rajinder Sandhu<br />

Tulshi Sen doesn’t want to talk about himself. Except, that is, to relate<br />

personal experiences to help his students learn. Insisting he is simply<br />

a messenger delivering age-old secrets of success, he shies away from the<br />

limelight. “I’m not here to become famous,” he says while waiting to start a<br />

workshop on success. “I’ve come here to spread a teaching that I love.”<br />

never makes it to Calcutta.<br />

There are many paths to the truth, says<br />

Sen, and a true master will not accept wouldbe<br />

disciples who are already going down one<br />

path. Most people who are already following<br />

a path, or program, should stick with<br />

it rather than jump from one program to<br />

another. “Otherwise, you’ll never make it to<br />

Calcutta.”<br />

Promoting his teachings without drawing<br />

too much attention to himself is a bit of a<br />

paradox, he admits, but he emphasizes that<br />

too many people put the messenger on a<br />

pedestal and it’s too easy for the messenger<br />

to let his ego get the best of him.<br />

“When the light bulb thinks it is the light,<br />

that’s ego,” he says, adding that eventually<br />

the bulb will burn out, but the energy, the<br />

root of the light, will still be there to shine<br />

through the next light bulb. The bulb is just<br />

a messenger.<br />

Born in undivided India in Dhaka in<br />

1944, Sen, who describes himself as a barefoot<br />

boy from Calcutta, worked for the East<br />

India Hotel company before joining Bata<br />

Shoes, which transferred him to Canada in<br />

1972 at the age of 28.<br />

“I wanted to get some overseas experience<br />

28 Mehfil September/October 2009


Photo by Jorge Pasada<br />

Mehfil September/October 2009 29


“I realized that when I was showing people business that the greatest<br />

thing they needed, more than learning business, was to learn to develop<br />

the mental muscle to build a business. To set visions and goals”<br />

— Tulshi Sen<br />

and I was intrigued by Canada because<br />

people said there were a lot of opportunities,”<br />

he says.<br />

“I became a training director and<br />

labour negotiator for Bata Shoes. It was<br />

a fantastic experience. At that time they<br />

had 106 companies in 96 countries,”<br />

says Sen. “I got the full spectrum of how<br />

international business worked.”<br />

Although he could see a great career<br />

ahead of him as a company man, Sen<br />

wanted to be independent, so in 1974 he<br />

started an import/export business.<br />

“One of the products was a headlight<br />

reminder,” he recalls, recounting the<br />

problem of drained car batteries caused<br />

by headlights being left on.<br />

“Anyone could install this device easily<br />

in their car and if you left your headlights<br />

on, a buzzer would sound when you took<br />

the keys out of the ignition,” he recalls,<br />

adding that the product sold throughout<br />

North America.<br />

His success in his direct marketing<br />

mail order business prompted family and<br />

friends to ask for help in establishing<br />

businesses of their own.<br />

“People used to come to me, especially<br />

friends, and say, ‘Show me how to do<br />

business.’ So I would give them ideas and<br />

spend hours and hours of my time with<br />

them,” he says. “Then after a while they<br />

didn’t do a thing.”<br />

Sen decided that maybe if he charged<br />

them a fee they would take his advice more<br />

seriously. He was right. After becoming<br />

a professional business consultant, Sen<br />

decided to go from one-on-one training<br />

to group seminars.<br />

“I thought this could be a part of<br />

another business model and create a<br />

whole network of entrepreneurs and business<br />

people all around the world,” says<br />

Sen. “That’s what prompted me to do<br />

seminars.”<br />

Sen also wrote a manual, Fast Track<br />

into Import/Export in Direct Marketing<br />

half of which, he explains, was focused on<br />

empowering the heart and mind.<br />

“I realized that when I was showing<br />

people business that the greatest thing<br />

they needed, more than learning business,<br />

was to learn to develop the mental muscle<br />

to build a business. To set visions and<br />

goals” says Sen.<br />

Neil Thompson, a chartered accountant<br />

with KPMG at the time, heard Sen<br />

on a talk show about money in 1988.<br />

“He [Sen] talked about how you can<br />

start your own import export business<br />

from home. He was so engaging and<br />

knowledgeable I found out when he was<br />

going to be in Vancouver and attended<br />

his weekend seminar that same month,”<br />

says Thompson.<br />

“I had never heard or met someone<br />

with such depth of knowledge in business<br />

and life. Not only was he teaching the<br />

concepts of business that were street<br />

smart and practical but the mindset you<br />

needed to have to be successful in business.<br />

I learnt more in that one weekend<br />

about actual business and life than I did<br />

in all my years at university,” he says.<br />

Thompson became Sen’s student and<br />

travelled with him on a trade mission<br />

to the far east. With the knowledge he<br />

gained and skills he learned, Thompson<br />

says he started his own business and<br />

about a year later left his position at<br />

KPMG to be a full time entrepreneur.<br />

Today, Thompson is not only a student of<br />

Sen’s but helps arrange and promote Sen’s<br />

seminars on success.<br />

“Tulshi Sen is one of those rare individuals<br />

you meet in life and immediately<br />

know you want to have them as your<br />

mentor. He is tireless in his pursuit to<br />

show others how to be successful in life,”<br />

says Thompson.<br />

In 1997, while Sen was speaking at<br />

an import/export seminar at the Calgary<br />

Saddledome, an aboriginal gentleman<br />

approached him. “He said, ‘I’m a politician<br />

and I would like you to come and<br />

help our people,’” says Sen. That man<br />

turned out to be the chief of one of<br />

the largest first nation communities in<br />

Canada: the Blood Reserve. “He told me<br />

the unemployment rate is so high, suicide<br />

rate is so high,” says Sen, who decided to<br />

take a break from his other work to focus<br />

on teaching life and business skills to the<br />

people of the Blood Reserve and other<br />

First Nations people across Canada.<br />

Over the next eight years Sen took<br />

eight First Nations trade delegations overseas<br />

and helped them establish relationships<br />

and partnerships with businesses in<br />

China, Hong Kong, Taiwan and Japan.<br />

In 2005 Sen decided it was time to put<br />

his teachings in the book Ancient Secrets<br />

of Success for Today’s World and today the<br />

Toronto resident is busy sharing mindmastering<br />

secrets from his book at workshops<br />

and through online material.<br />

At a recent workshop in Vancouver,<br />

Sen is introduced as an author, entrepreneur<br />

and business trainer who has been<br />

teaching people the principles of success<br />

for more than 20 years.<br />

He begins the day-long session with<br />

a simple statement: “I am not the hero<br />

here. You are the hero. Get the teachings.<br />

Forget the teacher.”<br />

He goes on to explain that the workshop<br />

will not be about breaking bricks<br />

with one’s head — rather it will be about<br />

controlling one’s thoughts to break free<br />

from the shackles of the mind and learn<br />

how to get what you want out of life.<br />

The charismatic and eloquent Sen, who<br />

can be described as equal parts romantic,<br />

philosopher and entrepreneur, uses poetry,<br />

parables and lessons in etymology to<br />

impart the wisdom of a lifetime of study<br />

and practice to his students. At times he<br />

sounds more like a theologian, reciting<br />

passages from the Bible in Hebraic and<br />

the equivalent lessons from the Bhagavad<br />

Gita in Sanskrit. All his teachings, he<br />

says, can be found in the major religious<br />

texts of the world and were taught by all<br />

the great philosophers of the west – he<br />

quotes Plato, Hippocrates, Pythagorous,<br />

Hermes, Euclid to name a few – and the<br />

masters of the east, including Buddha and<br />

Pritanjali.<br />

Everything we touch, taste, smell,<br />

hear and feel, says Sen was created by<br />

consciousness. Our very lives and the<br />

circumstances that surround us were created<br />

by our own consciousness. It’s not<br />

a simple concept to grasp and is a bitter<br />

pill to swallow for some, he says, but it is<br />

the truth. The good news is that you can<br />

change your circumstances by changing<br />

your thinking, he says.<br />

It’s not a new message. Hundreds of<br />

authors, motivational speakers and success<br />

gurus have written and talked about<br />

the power of the mind. From Napoleon<br />

30 Mehfil September/October 2009


Feature<br />

Freeing Your Mind<br />

(excerpted from Ancient Secrets of Success<br />

for Today’s World by Tulshi Sen<br />

Achieving the ability to set goals<br />

from the Absolute is the purpose of Ancient<br />

Secrets of Success. These secrets<br />

reveal how you can develop the capacity<br />

to set goals and visions from the heart,<br />

from the Unconditioned, from outside<br />

the box. Till we are able to achieve this<br />

state of mind all our goals are being set<br />

by us on the basis of our past experiences<br />

and present conditions. In the<br />

Ancient Vedic texts this is described as<br />

being trapped in Karma. Karma simply<br />

means action, and being trapped in<br />

Karma means that all our actions are a<br />

ripple effect of our previous actions. It is<br />

an endless chain of the same conditions<br />

and it appears there is no escape from<br />

its iron grip.<br />

It is the ultimate desire of life to go<br />

where you have never gone before but<br />

unless we break free from this karmic<br />

entrapment it is not achievable. To break<br />

free this dependency on the past and<br />

build a brand new future is the purpose<br />

of the teachings of the ancient masters.<br />

The ancient secrets give us the<br />

knowledge and understanding that all visions<br />

are real. The manifestation of these<br />

visions are only reflections in the plane<br />

of existence. These visions are molds<br />

with an irresistible power of attraction<br />

to draw and be filled with the cosmic<br />

substance; the stuff with which the entire<br />

universe is made. Everything. Stars,<br />

galaxies, grains of sand, and the human<br />

body are all made with this one thing by<br />

adaptation.<br />

This one thing, this cosmic substance<br />

with which the entire universe<br />

is made, is consciousness. Science<br />

calls this force energy, and the ancient<br />

teachings call it consciousness. The new<br />

physics declares consciousness creates<br />

reality. The Vedas and the Bible affirmed<br />

millenniums ago that consciousness<br />

creates reality,<br />

Consciousness is the creator<br />

- Rg Veda, Aitareya Upanishad 3.3<br />

“What good is it for us to know all the laws of<br />

success if we cannot control our thoughts?”<br />

— Tulshi Sen<br />

Hill, in his classic Think and Grow Rich,<br />

to the more recent bestseller The Secret,<br />

the promise is similar; they’ll show you<br />

how to attract the money, spouse, house,<br />

car – or whatever – into your life. But do<br />

they work?<br />

Yes, says Sen, to a degree people may<br />

be able to slip in a few thoughts of success<br />

and see some results, but there is no<br />

certainty — and what people need is to<br />

know they can create the life they want.<br />

“We know that the world operates on<br />

the law of cause and effect. The thought<br />

is the cause and the thing is the effect,”<br />

he says.<br />

First Proclamation:<br />

Consciousness is the creator.<br />

Second Proclamation:<br />

That thou art.<br />

Third Proclamation:<br />

My consciousness is the creator.<br />

Fourth Proclamation:<br />

I am the creator.<br />

It’s great information, says Sen.<br />

Important information. They are indeed<br />

the laws of success.<br />

“But what good is it for us to know all<br />

the laws of success if we cannot control<br />

our thoughts?” he asks.<br />

Thought is the creative force, he says,<br />

not the mind. The mind is the tool<br />

through which our thoughts are processed<br />

and, according to Sen, the mind<br />

thinks it is in control.<br />

He illustrates with one of his favourite<br />

examples: “If I give you a Ferrari for free,<br />

you would say ‘great!’ But if I told you it<br />

had no brakes you wouldn’t want to drive<br />

it. Without being able to control it the<br />

Ferrari would be dangerous to drive.”<br />

Most people’s minds, says Sen, are<br />

like Ferraris without brakes. People are<br />

unhappy, unsuccessful, and stressed out<br />

for one simple reason, he says: They have<br />

no control over their thoughts.<br />

He goes on to explain further that for<br />

most people, their minds dictate what<br />

their consciousness should be conscious<br />

about. In other words, “the mind decides<br />

what thoughts it wants to think” rather<br />

than the individual being in control.<br />

“The ancients understood this … and<br />

they formulated a system to enable their<br />

students to have total control over their<br />

minds,” he says.<br />

“The sages of the Vedic period in<br />

India formulated the four proclamations<br />

— meditating upon these, the mind is<br />

brought under our control to think the<br />

thoughts that we want to think regardless<br />

of our circumstances. This is the key<br />

to success. And this can only be done<br />

through meditation,” explains Sen.<br />

“The mind is like a dog,” he reiterates<br />

with another favourite analogy. “It is restless.<br />

It sniffs every post.”<br />

To create the life you want you must<br />

put a leash on that dog so that you can<br />

“think the thoughts that you want to<br />

think and not the thoughts that you don’t<br />

want to think.”<br />

So what does it take to “leash the<br />

mind?” There are two phases, says Sen.<br />

The first phase is the theory that prepares<br />

the mind to understand its capacity and<br />

its role, and to convince it that it can rely<br />

on consciousness.<br />

The second phase is the meditation on<br />

the four proclamations, which trains the<br />

mind to have complete union with consciousness,<br />

which is yoga, says Sen.<br />

Once you learn to control your mind,<br />

says Sen, you can use your imagination<br />

to create a vision of your life and turn<br />

that vision into reality. It takes persistent<br />

practice and patience, but it can be done,<br />

he says, and his book, Ancient Secrets of<br />

Success for Today’s World, can show you<br />

how.<br />

Sen may be trying to keep a lowish<br />

profile, but judging from the lineup of<br />

students waiting patiently for the opportunity<br />

to thank him personally at the<br />

conclusion of the workshop, he may not<br />

be able to keep his message and teachings<br />

under the radar for long. This messenger<br />

clearly has a knack for delivering the message<br />

— and we won’t be surprised at all to<br />

find the limelight seeking him out.<br />

But on a parting note, as if on cue, Sen<br />

reminds us gently: “Take the message.<br />

Forget the messenger. It’s the message<br />

that’s important.” p<br />

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“[Parents] need to learn to<br />

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hard to feed us, clothe us and<br />

shelter us, they also must work<br />

harder to know how to build us<br />

up, to not be afraid and to be<br />

brave and successful.”<br />

Q&A<br />

with<br />

Tulshi Sen<br />

Photo by Jorge Pasada<br />

Q: What is the single biggest obstacle<br />

that prevents people from achieving<br />

success?<br />

A: Belief level. We are what we believe. We<br />

don’t get what we want, we get what we are.<br />

We are what we believe in. Success is not<br />

setting goals and achieving goals. We do that<br />

every day. Success is raising our belief level<br />

to heights unknown to us. To answer your<br />

question: The obstacle is our mind, which has<br />

to be controlled by our consciousness. Now<br />

our mind tells us what we can have and what<br />

we cannot have.<br />

Q: There are many people who read<br />

book after book and attend seminar<br />

after seminar but still can’t seem to<br />

change their lives. What are they doing<br />

wrong?<br />

A: In my book I mention that most of us are<br />

like donkeys with a load of books. Knowledge<br />

limits. Throughout the history of the world all<br />

the teachers and masters of both the east and<br />

the west have vehemently told us that we have<br />

to listen to our heart, our consciousness, and<br />

follow our bliss. Knowledge is our memory.<br />

We have to reach the depths of our being that<br />

creates our memory. That is what my book is<br />

all about. We have to transcend the mind.<br />

Q: Even before the global economic<br />

crisis it seemed that people were more<br />

stressed than ever. Why are so many<br />

people so stressed?<br />

A: Stress comes out of uncertainty. My book,<br />

Ancient Secrets of Success, is about creating<br />

a life without any uncertainty, to become the<br />

master of our world according to the teachings<br />

of the east and the west. To quote one of the<br />

greatest poets of our times, Walt Whitman, who<br />

said: “No one has begun to think how divine he<br />

34 Mehfil September/October 2009<br />

himself is and how certain the future is.”<br />

Q: What can people do to reduce the<br />

stress in their lives?<br />

A: Only one thing, one thing alone and no<br />

reading and any other knowledge can help<br />

them. Meditate on the four proclamations.<br />

And that is not my answer, that is the answer<br />

of all the masters of the world. These four<br />

proclamations are the very foundation of all<br />

the teachings of all the ages of both the east<br />

and the west. These four proclamations are the<br />

basis of building lives for fulfillment.<br />

Q: You talk about circumstances being<br />

created by our consciousness. Is the<br />

global economic meltdown an event<br />

created by someone’s — or a group’s<br />

— consciousness?<br />

A: Yes you are right. Our world represents<br />

our race consciousness. Our consciousness<br />

creates our reality. A true leader of today must<br />

change the consciousness of their nation.<br />

Q: You talk of the limitations we impose<br />

on ourselves and that these limitations<br />

are passed on to us in childhood from<br />

parents. What can parents do to avoid<br />

instilling limitations in their children?<br />

A: Parents are our first teachers. According<br />

to the ancient teachings, the first masters of<br />

our lives are our parents. They mould and<br />

shape us. Parents have a great responsibility,<br />

more than just taking care of us physically.<br />

They need to learn to inspire. Just like they<br />

work hard to feed us, clothe us and shelter us,<br />

they also must work harder to know how to<br />

build us up, to not be afraid and to be brave<br />

and successful. They have to realize that they<br />

don’t own us; they are our custodians for the<br />

universe.<br />

Q: You also say that the mind will<br />

resist. What can people do to overcome<br />

frustration and the urge to give up and<br />

go back to life as usual?<br />

A: We have come to quench our thirst.<br />

We have to remember our longing, our<br />

expectations and our thirst. The pain of not<br />

having what we want is the thirst. We have<br />

to know what we want. We have to learn to<br />

believe that we can have anything we want.<br />

Q: What is the most difficult step for<br />

people to overcome in developing a<br />

success consciousness?<br />

A: Raising their belief level and not following<br />

others who have given up living a life of<br />

designed destiny. To remove themselves from<br />

the herd mentality.<br />

Q: What kind of changes take place<br />

in people as their understanding of<br />

consciousness increases?<br />

A: They feel a sense of liberation from the<br />

opinion of others. They do not seek approval<br />

for their vision of their life. They believe that<br />

they know what they want.<br />

Q: Why do you think some people are<br />

skeptical of programs like yours?<br />

A: Skeptics are people who are seeking<br />

clarifications and have not yet been able to<br />

formulate their questions. Every question has<br />

the answer built in it.<br />

Q: What is the first, most important step<br />

a person should take to change their<br />

lives for the better?<br />

A: To set a vision for their lives and know<br />

how they want to be remembered when they<br />

leave this plane. p


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would serve the savvy brother-and-sister team well for bigger things<br />

to come. The budding entrepreneurs learned to put their product in<br />

front of their customers (they routinely moved their stand to take<br />

advantage of traffic) and to make a better brew at a competitive<br />

price than any of the other neighbourhood kids’ stands. Years later,<br />

they honed their business sense working summers for their parents,<br />

Moni and Rani, who owned OK Liquor Stores, a mini-chain<br />

of very successful liquor stores in Calgary.<br />

“My dad always let us in on the dealings at the liquor stores,”<br />

says Manjit. “We were always privy to money issues and how business<br />

worked.”<br />

The elder Minhas, however, was no strict disciplinarian who demanded his children<br />

carry on the family business. His advice to them was, “Do what you love, and<br />

if you’re successful at it, what more can you ask?” He and Rani also ensured they<br />

had a broader understanding of the world and the importance of relationships. “We<br />

always did things with our kids, took them out to dinner every fourth or fifth day,<br />

and we discussed important things in life,” says Moni, an engineer by trade, who,<br />

like his wife, emigrated from Punjab. “Not just business but education and family.<br />

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“Naturally, being a woman, being young<br />

and being Indian is interesting when you’re<br />

dealing with old, white gentlemen... At the<br />

beginning it was hard to get respect.”<br />

— Manjit Minhas<br />

With $10,000 in cash, Manjit and<br />

Ravinder Minhas started a company called<br />

Mountain Crest Liquors Inc., and began<br />

developing liquor at discount prices.<br />

The Minhas siblings wrote the book<br />

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you money, but they are not doing you<br />

any favours. They are doing themselves a<br />

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fees from you. Be very careful before you<br />

dance with the banker.”<br />

Manjit and Ravinder not only followed<br />

their father’s advice, they followed in his<br />

footsteps — which turned out to leave<br />

many imprints. First, they enrolled in engineering<br />

school at the University of Calgary.<br />

After graduating, Ravinder worked<br />

for Husky Energy, Manjit for Marathon<br />

Oil Company. But booze was in their<br />

blood, and just one year into Manjit’s engineering<br />

degree and while Ravinder was<br />

still in high school, they began dreaming<br />

about their own venture. Heeding their<br />

dad’s words of wisdom about borrowing<br />

money, the siblings scraped together their<br />

own seed capital.<br />

They sold the purple Rav 4 car (“she<br />

picked the colour,” insists Ravinder) they<br />

co-owned, and added it to the bit of savings<br />

Manjit had. With $10,000 in cash,<br />

they started a company called Mountain<br />

Crest Liquors Inc., and began developing<br />

premium hard liquor at discount prices.<br />

“Our initial idea was to bring a private<br />

brand to my parents’ stores,” says<br />

Manjit, now 29. “Just as Superstore has<br />

President’s Choice, Safeway has Select,<br />

we thought we’d bring Mountain Crest<br />

to OK Liquor Stores. So we did a bunch<br />

of research, met a lot of people, went to<br />

a lot of trade shows. Then I developed a<br />

line of spirits that included rum, rye, gin,<br />

brandy, scotch and tequila. All the recipes<br />

and names were mine. We brought them<br />

into my parents’ stores and they did very<br />

well. After the first year we got a lot of<br />

other independent liquor stores wanting<br />

to buy this stuff.”<br />

Getting the product into the big chain<br />

stores was another story, however, and<br />

Manjit admits there was resistance. “Naturally,<br />

being a woman, being young and<br />

being Indian is interesting when you’re<br />

dealing with old, white gentlemen,” she<br />

says.<br />

“At the beginning it was hard to get<br />

respect; people don’t take you seriously.<br />

People don’t even want to meet you, and<br />

if they do they don’t think you have anything<br />

worth saying or that you could accomplish<br />

anything. You just have to keep<br />

knocking on doors. You can’t take it personally.<br />

You have to build a reputation<br />

for yourself and your company, and that<br />

comes on its own.”<br />

Things turned around for the pair<br />

when they secured a tequila supplier in<br />

Kentucky just as a blue agave shortage hit<br />

Mexico. They locked in at a bargain price<br />

and began producing premium tequila at<br />

low cost. Sales spiked, and in a matter of<br />

months they controlled a sizable portion<br />

of the tequila supply in Alberta. Still, with<br />

90 brands of spirits, wines and cordials in<br />

their inventory, they were not content.<br />

“We were doing well, expanding our<br />

hard liquor category, and thought, why<br />

not beer,” says Manjit. The price of beer<br />

had been rising steadily, and Manjit and<br />

Ravinder wanted to offer a cheaper alternative<br />

for their fellow Albertans. So, in<br />

2002, the siblings unveiled their Mountain<br />

Crest Classic Lager, brewed at the<br />

Minnesota Brewing Company in Minneapolis,<br />

for about a buck a beer. Sales of<br />

their suds immediately took off — and<br />

took over their time.<br />

“We came to that crossroad where we<br />

had to ask, ‘Do you want to be in oil and<br />

gas or do you want to be in beer?’” says<br />

Ravinder. “It was a really easy decision,<br />

because beer is a lot more fun.”<br />

The brother and sister quit their petroleum<br />

engineering jobs and poured<br />

their energies into expanding their product,<br />

soon introducing nine more brands,<br />

including light beer, ice beer, lime beer,<br />

Pilseners and coolers. They spilled into<br />

Manitoba in 2004 and Saskatchewan<br />

soon after, capturing 15 per cent of the<br />

beer business in the three western provinces<br />

alone. When the Minnesota Brewery<br />

went bankrupt in 2002, Ravinder moved<br />

production briefly first to Stephens Point,<br />

Wisconsin, then LaCrosse, Wisconsin. A<br />

year later, they began producing their beer<br />

at the historic Joseph Huber Brewery in<br />

Monroe, Wisconsin, built in 1845 and the<br />

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oldest brewery in the Midwest. In 2006,<br />

they bought the brewery and became the<br />

world’s youngest brewery owners (they<br />

would have preferred to purchase a Canadian<br />

brewery, but there are so few, and<br />

they’re rarely for sale).<br />

They put $5 million in upgrades into<br />

the facility and changed the name to the<br />

Minhas Craft Brewery. In addition to<br />

making all their beers, the brewery now<br />

produces energy drinks, old-fashioned<br />

sodas and coolers for export to four provinces<br />

in Canada, 15 states in the U.S.,<br />

as well as to Japan and Korea. They have<br />

their eye on India next, and already have<br />

a head start with Rani Lager (named after<br />

their mom), a beer they began producing<br />

about five years ago for sale primarily in<br />

restaurants.<br />

“Beer is not very prevalent in the Indian<br />

community,” says Manjit, who travels<br />

with her brother to India every few years<br />

to visit family in Chandigarh. “But in<br />

India, there’s a big youth population that<br />

is into watching American TV. They’re<br />

starting to get into beer, not just the hard<br />

stuff as it used to be in their parents’ generation.”<br />

Today, the Minhas siblings do about<br />

$100 million in business annually and<br />

employ a staff of 200 worldwide. Looking<br />

back, as they celebrate the 10th anniversary<br />

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“In the beer industry, there’s lots of<br />

high-powered competition, big companies<br />

that have been around since the dawn of<br />

time, like Molson and Labatt,” says Manjit<br />

of their brouhaha with the big boys.<br />

“And they’ve got a lot more money than<br />

we do, so it’s always interesting trying to<br />

fight against these big powerhouses. But<br />

we’re doing very well, we’re happy with<br />

what we’ve been able to achieve. There<br />

hasn’t been a new beer company that has<br />

been successful in Canada in over a decade,<br />

and so we can say we are one of the<br />

few beer companies that actually survive<br />

and make money. We’re the fourth largest<br />

one in Canada, and still growing.”<br />

Adds Ravinder, “We always said once<br />

we launch Ontario, B.C. is next. I think<br />

we have the proof our product should be<br />

in their stores. We sell over 500 million<br />

cans. We suspect they’ll now be open to<br />

the idea of us in their territory.”<br />

Even if they become an empire the size<br />

of Molson or Labatt, Ravinder and Manjit<br />

will still be the face of their company.<br />

“Nobody can tell you who the president<br />

or the owner of Molson or Labatt is,” says<br />

Manjit, who last year followed in her father’s<br />

footsteps once again by co-writing a<br />

book about their company and the history<br />

of their brewery with Ravinder, called<br />

Brewing Up a Damn Good Story, taken<br />

from their company’s slogan, “Damn<br />

Good Beer.” (Moni had written a book<br />

called The Sikh Canadians, about the history<br />

of Sikhs in Canada, in 1994.) “My<br />

brother and I are always in our commercials<br />

and in our marketing. We try to be<br />

the face of our company, not just a faceless<br />

company. That’s important for our<br />

marketing strategy.”<br />

The first new face of the Minhas Brewing<br />

Company could be Manjit’s pintsized<br />

daughter, who’s barely two months<br />

old. “We joke that she’s going to run the<br />

empire with her cousins and brothers<br />

and sisters,” says Ravinder, 27. “When<br />

she gazes up at the ceiling we figure she’s<br />

thinking about how she’s going to run her<br />

empire.”<br />

Ravinder and Manjit vow they will<br />

never sell their company, will never offer<br />

shares. “We’re always asked when we’re<br />

going public,” says Manjit. “We don’t<br />

need or want the money, and we wouldn’t<br />

want to be answering to other people. If<br />

you can do it by your own means, that’s<br />

the way.”<br />

It’s the advice passed on to them from<br />

their parents all those years ago, and they<br />

clearly heeded it to their benefit. “They’ve<br />

always tried to make us wiser than our<br />

years because we’re often dealing with<br />

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that most people mention when<br />

talking about their fondest<br />

memories of Diwali.<br />

Known as the Festival of<br />

Lights, Diwali is a celebration<br />

of universal themes of progress.<br />

Diwali is an opportunity to<br />

rejoice in the victory of light<br />

over darkness, good over evil<br />

and knowledge over ignorance.<br />

People of different faiths acknowledge<br />

a different legend as the origin of Diwali,<br />

but all these narratives share a common<br />

message: that a pure heart and good<br />

intentions have the power to triumph<br />

over oppression and injustice.<br />

For Hindus, Diwali represents<br />

Lord Rama’s return to the kingdom of<br />

Ayodhya after rescuing his wife Sita<br />

from the demon Ravana. The subjects of<br />

Shan-E-Punjab kids bhangra group performing at Vancouver Celebrates Diwali 2008.<br />

Celebrating Diwali<br />

Paromita Naidu has loved Diwali as far<br />

back as she can remember.<br />

“I had always been involved in Diwali<br />

celebrations in my childhood and knew it<br />

to be a wonderful and meaningful time<br />

in the Indian calendar,” says the University<br />

of British Columbia<br />

healthcare project manager<br />

and mother of two. “Vivid<br />

memories of performing,<br />

visiting, celebrating, eating<br />

and listening would always<br />

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Diwali.”<br />

For the past five years, as<br />

a member of the Vancouver<br />

Celebrates Diwali Steering<br />

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memories of their own.<br />

Naidu says she got involved after the<br />

first year of the event to help give it some<br />

guidance and direction both as a performing<br />

artist (she’s a professional dancer) and<br />

as a community member.<br />

This year marks the sixth anniversary of<br />

Vancouver Celebrates Diwali (VCD). The<br />

celebrations will get under way on October<br />

8 and will continue until the 18th.<br />

The idea for the festival came about<br />

when the steering committee was initially<br />

created by the South Asian Family Association<br />

in association with South Vancouver<br />

Neighbourhood House, the City<br />

of Vancouver, various community centres<br />

and a group of dedicated community volunteers,<br />

explains Naidu.<br />

“The aim was two-fold: to make the<br />

celebration of Diwali more visible in Vancouver<br />

and to communicate its deep and<br />

profound messages through a showcase of<br />

the arts.”<br />

The essential principles<br />

of Diwali — light over darkness,<br />

the triumph of good<br />

over evil and knowledge<br />

over ignorance — make<br />

this festival truly universal<br />

in nature and intended for<br />

all cultures and communities,<br />

she says.<br />

“Our mission is to gather<br />

people from all walks of life<br />

in celebration of the universal<br />

light that exists in everyone,”<br />

she explains.<br />

While there is a predominantly<br />

South Asian presence among the<br />

artists and audiences, the festival emphasizes<br />

multiculturalism and inclusiveness<br />

as one of its principal themes. There has<br />

been a growing involvement over the years<br />

from all of Vancouver’s diverse cultural<br />

communities.<br />

“The numbers [of non-Indians] are<br />

definitely increasing and media interest<br />

and word of mouth have really helped our<br />

festival’s profile,” says Naidu.<br />

The numbers overall have also been on<br />

the rise as the success of the festival, not to<br />

mention the celebration itself, has drawn<br />

an increasing larger audience.<br />

“In the first year, there was a small<br />

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“Our mini-festival workshops spanned<br />

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Naidu.<br />

Some of the hottest acts last year included<br />

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musician Dal Dil Vog, and UBC Girlz<br />

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band Sangha and 14-year old dancer Malavika Santosh.<br />

Chai-House sensations included musician Chin Injeti, comedian<br />

Sunee Dhaliwal, human beatbox artist Shamik Bilgi,<br />

Pakistani band Naqsh, and dancehall crew Bucky Top. “Audiences<br />

were literally blown away by the quality, caliber and<br />

diversity of the talent we showcased — both professional and<br />

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This year, Diwali Downtown and Chai-House have been<br />

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the Roundhouse Community Centre. The event will feature<br />

the hottest acts from last year and a new crop of fresh talent<br />

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with performances from some of Vancouver’s bestknown<br />

contemporary South Asian musicians,” says Naidu,<br />

adding that it’s something that has never happened in Vancouver<br />

on this scale before.<br />

Indeed, VCD is a unique Canadian festival that encourages<br />

participation and provides opportunities for South<br />

Asian artists to develop new audiences and break cultural<br />

barriers.<br />

“So far, we have been fortunate enough to present arts<br />

programming that has never been seen before,” says Naidu.<br />

“Our challenges remain to stay afloat financially (every year<br />

is a struggle), and to continue to be imaginative and creative<br />

while ensuring the essential principles of Diwali are communicated<br />

and preserved.” p<br />

Those interested in attending or volunteering at Vancouver<br />

Celebrates Diwali can find a complete schedule of events as well<br />

as other information at www.vandiwali.ca<br />

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Meena Betra from Atlanta, Georgia<br />

Suman Kollipara from Vancouver, B.C.<br />

Meena Betra and Suman<br />

Kollipara were so sure that<br />

they were meant for each other<br />

that they let only two weeks elapse<br />

between their first meeting and<br />

their wedding.<br />

They were introduced while<br />

Suman was visiting his brother,<br />

Prashant, in Atlanta, Georgia.<br />

Suspecting that Meena, who had<br />

become a family friend, and Suman<br />

would hit it off, Prashant invited<br />

her to join the family for dinner.<br />

“When I first saw her in person<br />

at my brother’s place, it felt as if the<br />

whole roller coaster ride of finding<br />

the right partner ended in this<br />

beautiful silence,” recalls Suman.<br />

“It was very instant and natural.<br />

There were no questions, no<br />

judgments, no analysis further.”<br />

Meena was just as sure she’d<br />

found the perfect match. “I felt<br />

complete,” she says of her<br />

reaction.<br />

It was obvious to both of them<br />

that their feelings were mutual, and<br />

wedding plans were under way<br />

within a couple of days. Even the<br />

overwhelming task of arranging<br />

for relatives on both sides to fly<br />

into Atlanta from as far away as<br />

Africa and India in less than two<br />

August<br />

2009<br />

weeks wasn’t enough to diminish<br />

the sense of calm that they say<br />

descended on them from the<br />

moment they met.<br />

“I felt very easy and relaxed<br />

any time I was around her,” says<br />

Suman. “In her proximity there was<br />

this force that kept telling me that<br />

we belong to each other.”<br />

The fact that the wedding plans,<br />

which included arranging for<br />

multiple visas and airline tickets,<br />

went so smoothly came as no<br />

surprise to the happy couple.<br />

“I felt that we were made for<br />

each other and that everything was<br />

happening as per divine plan, that<br />

we were just playing our roles,”<br />

says Suman. “It would have<br />

been humanly impossible to see<br />

something like this happen in two<br />

weeks. I was very thankful to God.”<br />

The sense of well-being<br />

extended to everyone who attended<br />

the wedding, which was a Hindu<br />

ceremony with about 30 guests<br />

from each side. “Each person<br />

brought a lot of positive energy and<br />

blessings and I could feel it every<br />

moment,” says Meena. “That was<br />

very inspiring and created a very<br />

solid sense that this marriage is<br />

blessed by heaven.”<br />

The honeymoon wasn’t idyllic<br />

but it did turn out to provide yet<br />

more proof of their compatibility.<br />

“It was a very hectic trip,” says<br />

Suman. “The most we remember<br />

is how we both actually cared<br />

for each other because we were<br />

still suffering from jet lag from<br />

flying into India and also we were<br />

knocked down by cold, cough<br />

and frequent headaches from the<br />

hot weather. It was not the typical<br />

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allowed<br />

us to see the reality of life and<br />

how important it is to respect the<br />

other’s space and reach out to each<br />

other in tough times.”<br />

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Weddings<br />

Sandy Sidhu from Mission, B.C.<br />

Sonny Janda from Richmond, B.C.<br />

It’s not easy getting a straight<br />

answer from Sandy and Sonny<br />

Janda when you ask them about<br />

their engagement and wedding.<br />

It seems these two never miss a<br />

chance to make a wisecrack, but it’s<br />

obvious that their feelings for each<br />

other are no joke.<br />

Their first conversation was<br />

during a calculus class in fall<br />

2003. “It was the first couple<br />

of weeks of school and, being<br />

severely directionally challenged, I<br />

couldn’t find my economics class,”<br />

recalls Sandy. “I ended up missing<br />

the class and when I walked into<br />

calculus I realized that Sonny was<br />

also in my economics class so I<br />

asked him if I could borrow his<br />

notes. He admirably conceded.”<br />

Sandy got the notes and Sonny<br />

eventually got the girl.<br />

Although they were obviously<br />

headed for marriage, Sonny<br />

managed to surprise Sandy with a<br />

proposal.<br />

“He took me out to lunch near<br />

Stanley Park and he was definitely<br />

acting odd,” recalls Sandy. “Sonny<br />

is normally so confident and<br />

relaxed. But when the waitress<br />

brought our bill I could see that<br />

he was really nervous and I got<br />

so worried. He pulled out his brief<br />

case and said that he got a job<br />

July<br />

2009<br />

offer. I suddenly thought that he<br />

was going to move somewhere<br />

far away and I started to get teary<br />

eyed. Then he takes out a ring box<br />

and asks me if he should take the<br />

job. I couldn’t stop laughing. It was<br />

perfectly his style.”<br />

Sonny describes his arrival at<br />

the gurdwara on their wedding day<br />

with his characteristic flair.<br />

“I rode in on a white horse<br />

dressed in all Indian attire. The<br />

strut went well, all to plan, until<br />

the hoards of family and friends<br />

started to join behind me. The<br />

horse started to get a little rattled<br />

and was preparing to gallop across<br />

the parking lot. I decided at this<br />

time that maybe I shouldn’t be a<br />

hero, and I jumped off. Everybody<br />

thought it was part of the show but<br />

it was a desperate move to avoid<br />

bodily injury.”<br />

The groom made it safely<br />

into the gurdwara and was soon<br />

rewarded by the sight of his bride.<br />

“She was beautiful and elegant,”<br />

he says. “She put my silly, slanted<br />

turban to shame. Kodak moment.”<br />

The couple had something out<br />

of the ordinary in store for their<br />

guests at the reception.<br />

“Sonny and I decided to surprise<br />

our family and do the rumba for<br />

our first dance,” says Sandy.<br />

“Sonny is very co-ordinated, so it<br />

went off without a hitch! Our family<br />

and friends loved it.”<br />

The newlyweds honeymooned<br />

in Costa Rica — complete with<br />

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Weddings<br />

Meena Loretta Violet Duhra from Surrey, B.C.<br />

Aaron Brent Neibel from Port Moody, B.C.<br />

“ It was love at first laugh!”<br />

That’s how Meena and Aaron<br />

describe their first meeting. They<br />

were both students at Douglas<br />

College when a mutual friend took<br />

Meena along to see Aaron perform<br />

a funny routine during a small<br />

gathering.<br />

“He made me laugh and I<br />

thought he had the nicest eyes,”<br />

Meena recalls. “After our first<br />

introduction I walked away telling<br />

my friend that I wanted to marry<br />

him.”<br />

Aaron was smitten, too.<br />

May<br />

2009<br />

“This sounds a little corny, but<br />

the moment I laid eyes on her I was<br />

done!” he says. “I believe there<br />

were four or five girls there that day<br />

that I was supposed to be funny for,<br />

but the minute I saw Meena I knew<br />

this beautiful woman was going to<br />

be mine. No one else existed for<br />

that 10 minutes; it was just me and<br />

her! I spent the next month trying<br />

to get closer and closer to her, any<br />

opportunity we had to be together<br />

I was there. Every moment was so<br />

precious and always too short.”<br />

“We were basically inseparable<br />

from that moment on,” adds Meena.<br />

“He has a way of making me feel<br />

like I am the only one in the room<br />

and the most beautiful girl ever. He<br />

accepts all of my faults and has a<br />

way to make me laugh no matter<br />

how I’m feeling.”<br />

Any reservations on the part of<br />

Meena’s family — she’s an only<br />

child whose father assumed she’d<br />

bring home an Indian boy — were<br />

quickly overcome when they saw<br />

how deeply in love the couple were.<br />

Aaron came up with a<br />

characteristically unique way to<br />

propose, enlisting a little help from<br />

Santa Claus at his family’s annual<br />

Christmas get together.<br />

“All the kids in the<br />

neighbourhood and all of our close<br />

family and friends come over for a<br />

special Santa appearance,” explains<br />

Aaron. “We do crafts, sing carols,<br />

eat and drink and, of course, Santa<br />

shows up with his helpers and<br />

gives all the kids presents. Meena<br />

and I along with my sister and her<br />

boyfriend all play Santa’s helpers<br />

and hand out the gifts. Santa was<br />

the only other person who knew that<br />

I was going to propose so he helped<br />

me with the lead up. After handing<br />

out the last gift from Santa’s sack I<br />

reached in and pretended as though<br />

the sack was stuck on my head. I<br />

asked if one of the elves could help<br />

me out and Meena came over and<br />

pulled the bag off my head. Then<br />

I bent down on one knee and told<br />

her how much I loved her and how<br />

I wanted to spend the rest of my<br />

life together. She started to cry and<br />

eventually said yes.”<br />

“We were surrounded by<br />

family and friends, not to mention<br />

Santa, so it made the moment<br />

unforgettable,” adds Meena.<br />

The couple were married at<br />

Swan-e-Set Country Club in an<br />

outdoor Christian ceremony where<br />

the bride, wearing an ivory wedding<br />

gown, walked down the aisle with<br />

her father to the strains of the<br />

wedding march to join her groom,<br />

who was wearing a black tuxedo.<br />

But the couple and their families<br />

also had a chance to celebrate<br />

Indian style at an engagement party<br />

leading up to the wedding.<br />

“ I wanted to wear traditional<br />

Indian bridal attire so with the<br />

help of my friends I picked out<br />

the perfect red lengha,” says<br />

Meena. “Aaron is always up to new<br />

experiences and will do anything to<br />

make me happy so he wore a gold<br />

echken. The night was perfect. All<br />

of my family and friends were able<br />

to come from near and far. We had<br />

a bhangra team perform, we did<br />

juggo and danced the night away.<br />

Everyone had a blast and it was a<br />

night I will never forget.”<br />

The couple honeymooned in<br />

Montego Bay, Jamaica, where<br />

they recuperated from the wedding<br />

festivities by lounging on the beach,<br />

swimming with dolphins and<br />

shopping<br />

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Horoscope<br />

by Georgia Nicols<br />

October 2009<br />

Aries (March 21-April 19)<br />

This month the Sun is as far<br />

away from you as it gets all year.<br />

Since the Sun is the source of energy,<br />

you feel more tired than usual.<br />

However, this low energy could<br />

lead to feeling discouraged. (Bummer.)<br />

Don’t take this seriously. It<br />

will pass. Meanwhile, things in<br />

your life are coming to a head now.<br />

Some are successes and others<br />

are not! This means you have to<br />

regroup, and organize your life so<br />

that you can move forward. What<br />

can you learn now about your oneto-one<br />

encounters with others?<br />

Taurus (April 20-May 20)<br />

You’re keen to get organized!<br />

We’re talking about the real deal<br />

-- clean fridge, clean closets (well,<br />

maybe not the bedroom -- let’s be<br />

realistic.) You want to feel that in<br />

every aspect of your life, you can<br />

reach out and put your hand on<br />

exactly what you’re looking for,<br />

whether it’s a file, a tool or a $100<br />

bill. Give yourself the right tools<br />

-- cleaning supplies, file folders,<br />

shelves, whatever, to do a great,<br />

bang-up job. Afterward, you’ll feel<br />

satisfied, and rewarded. “I love<br />

me!”<br />

Gemini (May 21-June 20)<br />

It’s party time! Once a year, each<br />

sign gets a boost when it comes to<br />

seeking out pleasure, fun, romance<br />

and love affairs. This also applies<br />

to vacations, sports, and playful activities<br />

with children. Guess what?<br />

It’s your turn! Creative efforts can<br />

flourish because you’re in touch<br />

with your muse. Romance will be<br />

breathless. Social occasions are<br />

scintillating and stimulating. This<br />

is also a great time to entertain at<br />

home. Invite the gang over!<br />

Cancer (June 21-July 22)<br />

This month, your focus shifts to<br />

home, family, and domestic matters.<br />

You might be more involved<br />

with family events, or relatives<br />

might be visiting. (Still?) Discussions<br />

with family members, especially<br />

parents, will be significant.<br />

In part, this could be because<br />

childhood memories are bubbling<br />

to the surface of your mind. Even if<br />

you’re caught up in a swirl of activities<br />

at home, you’ll want some<br />

time alone. (Oh, yeah.) You need<br />

a little window of opportunity to<br />

cogitate, ruminate, meditate, and<br />

think about stuff.<br />

Leo (July 23-Aug. 22)<br />

A celestial shift now accelerates<br />

the pace of your days. You’re busy!<br />

Short trips, increased errands, extra<br />

jobs, conversations with everyone<br />

plus mucho reading, writing<br />

and studying, keep you on the go<br />

at a mildly hysterical pace. (“My<br />

hair’s on fire!”) However, all this<br />

busyness will help you to notice<br />

more about your style of communicating<br />

with others. Now is the<br />

time to express your real thoughts<br />

and intentions about something.<br />

Should you tell it like it is? (Well,<br />

it’s one thing to shoot yourself in<br />

the foot; but don’t do it with your<br />

foot in your mouth!)<br />

Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22)<br />

This month, you’re preoccupied<br />

with financial matters, money<br />

deals, and cash flow. You might<br />

also be thinking about your earnings,<br />

especially how to boost your<br />

wealth, or get a different job, or<br />

make some money on the side.<br />

”What can I do that’s fun and really<br />

going to make me happy?”<br />

However, this is also a good time<br />

to take stock of your possessions.<br />

Be mindful of taking care what<br />

you already have. The bottom line<br />

is: What do you really want? Take<br />

some time to answer that question.<br />

Surprisingly, very few do.<br />

Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 22)<br />

The Sun is back in your sign for<br />

the next four weeks, boosting your<br />

energy, and attracting powerful<br />

people and opportunities to you.<br />

Make the most of this time. Demand<br />

the advantage! (Because you<br />

certainly have it.) Why? Because<br />

you can project your energy out to<br />

others more than usual. Mind you,<br />

others will notice you have a more<br />

subjective viewpoint. So what?<br />

This is the beginning of your new<br />

personal year (birthday to birthday).<br />

It’s also the most powerful<br />

birthday you’ve had in 30 years!<br />

Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov. 21)<br />

Because your birthday is just a<br />

month away, this is your turn to<br />

play it cool, lie low, and work alone<br />

or behind the scenes. You need<br />

this down time to be able to strategize<br />

and plan what you want your<br />

new year to be all about. If you do<br />

nothing, then you’ll probably just<br />

respond to whatever happens.<br />

(Management by crisis.) Alternatively,<br />

you could set some broad<br />

goals that you want to achieve this<br />

year. These goals are not intended<br />

to restrict or hamper you, au contraire!<br />

They can help you focus on<br />

getting what you want.<br />

Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21)<br />

The next several weeks will be<br />

extremely popular. Everyone wants<br />

to see your face. This is the time to<br />

join groups, clubs, organizations,<br />

and committees. You might also<br />

join a class. Friends will be glad<br />

to see you; and you’ll be glad to<br />

see them. This is an excellent time<br />

to share your dreams and goals for<br />

the future with others because their<br />

feedback will help you.<br />

Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19)<br />

Confessions may be good for<br />

the soul but they’re bad for the<br />

reputation. The next month you’ll<br />

be involved with bosses, parents,<br />

teachers, VIPS, and the police. Relax.<br />

It all looks good. Nevertheless,<br />

when you are around people who<br />

have power over you, always be<br />

honest, and always edit whatever<br />

you say. (Like duh?) Actually, one<br />

of the reasons authority types will<br />

buttonhole you is simply this: They<br />

notice you! Because the Sun is at<br />

high noon in your chart, it acts like<br />

a spotlight on you. “What seems to<br />

be the problem, Officer?”<br />

Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18)<br />

You want to break free of your<br />

chains! You want to explore new<br />

and different ideas. During the<br />

next six weeks, if you can get out<br />

of Dodge, do so. You’re hungry<br />

to learn something new, plus you<br />

want more adventure in your life.<br />

An increased focus on publishing,<br />

higher education, medicine and<br />

the law, are also likely. You’re very<br />

work driven right now because<br />

you want to accomplish a lot. This<br />

ambition will help you to study or<br />

learn new things as well<br />

Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20)<br />

This month, you’ll feel unusually<br />

passionate. You might meet<br />

somebody who provokes some<br />

deep soul-searching within you.<br />

Or perhaps someone challenges<br />

your values or your beliefs? You<br />

might also feel strongly sexually<br />

attracted to someone. This is also<br />

a time when many of you will be<br />

more involved with the earnings,<br />

or lack of earnings of your partner.<br />

In fact, many issues related<br />

to shared possessions and jointly<br />

held property require your attention.<br />

(It’s not easy being in hot water,<br />

but it keeps you clean.) p<br />

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Ingredients:<br />

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1 skinless, boneless<br />

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¼ red onion, thinly sliced<br />

½ cup spinach chopped<br />

1 tbsp. apple chutney<br />

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1 tbsp. low fat mayonnaise<br />

salt and pepper to taste<br />

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Method:<br />

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2. In a large bowl combine<br />

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Apple Chutney<br />

Ingredients:<br />

4 granny smith apples, peeled &<br />

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1 cup apple cider vinegar<br />

¼ cup golden raisins<br />

1 cup brown sugar<br />

2 tsp. ground cinnamon<br />

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2 tbsp. olive oil<br />

1 tsp. paprika<br />

1 tsp. smoked paprika<br />

salt & pepper to taste<br />

Method:<br />

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Overcoming Common Barriers to<br />

Physical Activity<br />

Physical activity offers many health benefits no matter what<br />

age you are. For children, regular physical activity is essential<br />

for healthy growth and development. For adults, it allows daily<br />

tasks to be accomplished with greater ease and comfort and<br />

with less fatigue. For seniors, weight-bearing physical activity<br />

reduces the rate of bone loss associated with osteoporosis<br />

and also maintains strength and flexibility, balance and coordination,<br />

which can help reduce the risk of falls.<br />

Being physically active not only<br />

strengthens your body, it also makes you<br />

feel good about yourself. It reduces stress,<br />

strengthens the heart and lungs, increases<br />

energy levels, helps maintain and achieve a<br />

healthy body weight and decreases the risk<br />

of chronic disease and disability.<br />

However, despite awareness of the need<br />

to exercise regularly, many people find it<br />

hard to get started. In fact, 58 per cent of<br />

the Canadian population is inactive. Think<br />

about how many times you’ve started a<br />

workout program and eventually let it<br />

lapse as other priorities came up.<br />

Keep in mind that starting an exercise<br />

routine doesn’t always have to fall after<br />

New Year’s Day as a resolution. Today is as<br />

good a time as any. Following are common<br />

barriers to exercise how to get past them.<br />

“I don’t like exercising”<br />

The key to success when it comes to<br />

exercising is doing activities you enjoy. If<br />

you hate running, you don’t have to do it.<br />

Find activities that suit your personality.<br />

If you love the outdoors, go hiking or<br />

biking. If you like simplicity, stick with<br />

walking. Activities of daily living, such<br />

as housework, gardening and playing tag<br />

with the kids, all count. Aim for at least 30<br />

minutes in total – it can’t get easier than<br />

that!<br />

“I can’t seem to commit to an exercise<br />

routine. I start and then quit”<br />

When you look at exercise in the<br />

long term (i.e. that you have to exercise<br />

on a regular basis FOREVER), it can be<br />

overwhelming. However, you don’t have to<br />

change your life overnight.<br />

Start with small, realistic goals, such<br />

as to be more active every day by taking<br />

the stairs and moving around more. Don’t<br />

promise yourself you’re going to work out<br />

for an hour every day, and then get down<br />

on yourself when you fall short. Start with<br />

where you are, not where you want to be.<br />

Decide you’ll get up 10 minutes early<br />

to walk or lift weights. Over time, you can<br />

increase your workout time and try new<br />

things. For now, just worry about making<br />

it a daily habit.<br />

Schedule your exercise time in your<br />

calendar like any other appointment.<br />

When you write it down it becomes<br />

a commitment that must be fulfilled;<br />

make sure your friends and family are<br />

aware of your commitment. Ask for their<br />

encouragement and support.<br />

Keep track of your daily activity<br />

on a calendar or tack your steps using<br />

a pedometer. This will help you move<br />

forward and get inspired.<br />

If you’re tired, stressed or bored with<br />

your workouts, it’s hard to keep going.<br />

Change your routine every four to six weeks<br />

by trying something new or changing your<br />

intensity or time.<br />

Sign up for an event such as a walk<br />

or a run to help you stay focused and<br />

motivated. There are so many such events<br />

in our communities. Choose one for each<br />

season – you’ll soon be addicted!<br />

Find a partner to work out with as<br />

this will make you accountable to each<br />

other and encourage you to stick to your<br />

commitment.<br />

Be gentle with yourself as some days<br />

you might not want to do as much; do<br />

more another day.<br />

“I can’t afford a gym membership”<br />

There’s no reason you have to join a gym<br />

to exercise.<br />

Dumbbells, skipping ropes and<br />

resistance bands are cheap and can be used<br />

for a variety of exercises.<br />

Borrow an exercise DVD or one on<br />

dance aerobics, cardio-kickboxing, yoga,<br />

tai chi, etc. from the library.<br />

Start a walking group. Round up friends,<br />

neighbours or co-workers for regular<br />

group walks. Plan routes through your<br />

neighbourhood or near your workplace,<br />

along local parks and trails, or in a nearby<br />

shopping mall.<br />

“I am not noticing any changes in my<br />

body”<br />

Not losing weight fast enough? You<br />

don’t put weight on overnight and it won’t<br />

come off that quickly either. Once you<br />

start exercising, give your body time to<br />

react and build muscle. It could take up<br />

to 12 weeks before you start seeing some<br />

real changes in your body. As long as you<br />

burn more calories than you consume,<br />

the weight will come off. Mix up your<br />

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outine: Do three days of cardio and two<br />

days of strength training. Make sure you<br />

are exercising at least 30 minutes a day at<br />

a moderate intensity. If you are not seeing<br />

results you may have to increase your<br />

intensity or exercise duration. Males tend<br />

to have more muscle mass and will notice<br />

changes sooner.<br />

“I don’t have time!”<br />

Physically inactive people have just as<br />

much free time as exercisers, so you can<br />

throw this excuse out! Here’s how to get<br />

past a busy schedule:<br />

If you can’t find a full 30 minutes<br />

during your day, break it up into 10- or<br />

15-minute segments.<br />

Get up a few minutes early and take a<br />

brisk walk. Use 15 minutes of your lunch<br />

hour to walk the stairs and walk the dog or<br />

lift weights after work.<br />

Rethink your rituals. Your weekly<br />

Saturday matinee with the kids or your<br />

best friend could be reborn as your weekly<br />

Saturday bike ride, rock-climbing lesson or<br />

trip to the pool.<br />

Be prepared by always having your<br />

workout gear in the car and capture the<br />

many opportunities that arise, such as<br />

when the kids are at a practice or you end<br />

up having to wait longer somewhere.<br />

“I am not sure what to eat before,<br />

during and after a workout”<br />

To get the most from your workout:<br />

Eat a healthy breakfast. Most of the energy<br />

you got from dinner last night is used up<br />

by morning. Your blood sugar may be low.<br />

If you don’t eat, you may feel sluggish or<br />

lightheaded while exercising. If you plan<br />

to exercise within an hour after breakfast,<br />

eat a smaller breakfast or drink something<br />

to raise your blood sugar, such as a sports<br />

drink.<br />

Time your meals based on their size.<br />

Large meals may be eaten at least three to<br />

four hours before exercising; small meals<br />

two to three hours before exercising.<br />

1-1.5 hours before a workout<br />

A mini-meal/snack consisting of lean<br />

protein, complex carbohydrates and<br />

healthy fat, and about two to three cups<br />

of water.<br />

1 serving of whole grain cereal with<br />

skim or 1% milk<br />

4-6 graham crackers and peanut butter<br />

¾ cup of low-fat yogurt and a banana<br />

granola bar and a decaf latte<br />

string cheese and an apple<br />

30 minutes before a workout<br />

a fruit, ½ to one cup of water<br />

During the workout<br />

Depending on the length of the workout<br />

– water is adequate for the first hour and<br />

for longer and more intense workouts<br />

sports drinks, gels would be appropriate<br />

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Shifting Gears<br />

by Veeno Dewan<br />

2009 Mazda RX8-R3<br />

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For 2009 the RX-8 R3 is a special<br />

version of the unique Mazda RX-8, a<br />

Wankel rotary-engined spots car with four<br />

doors and now undergoing a revamp since<br />

its introduction five years ago. Nothing<br />

too radical, comprising a new front fascia<br />

with a wider grille and a revised rear<br />

fascia. However it is enough for one to<br />

notice the sleeker, cleaner look. Interior<br />

wise, the centre dash console is restyled<br />

and features amenities such as Bluetooth<br />

connectivity; an auxiliary audio jack and<br />

a new touch-screen navigation system are<br />

now offered. No four- cylinder V6 or V8<br />

engine under the hood. The RX-8’s rotary<br />

Wankel engine is a one of a kind engine<br />

with less moving parts. Mazda is now the<br />

only automaker to use a rotary engine in<br />

a mass-produced car. Key advantages of<br />

the Wankel engine are its compact size,<br />

lighter weight and more power with a<br />

lower displacement, allowing the 1.3-litre<br />

engine to rev up to 9,000 rpm in the sixspeed<br />

manual version.<br />

Other special technical features on<br />

the special R-3 version we tested include<br />

Recaro seats, and a front strut cross<br />

member brace. Models with the six-speed<br />

automatic (with paddle shifters) produce<br />

212 hp and redline at 7,500 rpm. The<br />

six-speed manual version develops 232<br />

hp. The R3 model essentially takes an<br />

RX-8 Touring model and adds revised<br />

tuned suspension, very nice looking black<br />

finished 19-inch alloy wheels, a rear wing<br />

spoiler, a special front fascia, front sport<br />

seats, keyless ignition/entry, Bluetooth<br />

and the upgraded Bose stereo. Our R3 had<br />

the Mazdaspeed logo on the B-pillar side<br />

skirts, badging and some extra bling and<br />

elicited many envious looks. Also special<br />

to the R3 are the unique front bumper,<br />

deep side sills and skirts that make this<br />

car look longer, lower and wider and<br />

sportier. Xenon headlights and Bilstein<br />

performance suspension dampers are the<br />

functional extras.<br />

ON THE ROAD<br />

The R3 offers scintillating performance<br />

in the form of a tight, grippy ride and<br />

solid responsive steering and handling.<br />

The rotary engine is really in its element at<br />

high engine revs, making use of that long<br />

power band, and it’s a smooth, vibrationfree<br />

experience. The whirring, whooshing<br />

engine noise is unusual, but characteristic<br />

of this power plant, although the exhaust<br />

note on this R3 model was nice and loud.<br />

The more aggressively tuned suspension<br />

on the R3 also means a tighter, more<br />

grip-enhanced ride and somewhat<br />

sharper reflexes so fast corners become a<br />

welcome sight in this quick handling car.<br />

Otherwise, this RX-8 is a very tight, welldefined<br />

sports car. The major controls —<br />

steering, shifter, and brakes — are all very<br />

well calibrated for sporty driving.<br />

The steering is very responsive to the<br />

driver inputs — you don’t have to give<br />

it too much turning off the centre to go<br />

where you need. The brakes are strong,<br />

and they bite early. The gear shifter is<br />

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want it to be, and it moves through the<br />

gearbox gate with short throws and the<br />

gears engage positively,<br />

The RX-8 look like nothing else on the<br />

planet, offers four seats and four doors as<br />

well as a usable trunk, therefore making<br />

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2009 Nissan Cube<br />

Novelty Squared<br />

The 2009 Nissan Cube is not in fact<br />

a new vehicle and has actually been<br />

on sale in Japan for a number of years.<br />

2009, however, becomes the debut year in<br />

Canada for this boxy, interesting looking<br />

four-door hatchback vehicle. Note the<br />

Cube does have curves to round out and<br />

soften the design, but still remains square,<br />

tall and high sided. Key stand-out styling<br />

features include the wrap-around rear<br />

window that extends across the side of the<br />

vehicle into the C-pillar, giving the Cube<br />

a unique looking aspect and is the major<br />

styling focal point for Nissan’s newest<br />

Canadian vehicle.<br />

The interior is equally novel, featuring<br />

a roof headliner, speakers and cup holders<br />

that have a pond ripple-like motif. I<br />

attended the media launch of the Cube<br />

in Toronto and according to Nissan’s Ian<br />

Forsyth: “The Nissan Cube has a face<br />

designed to look like a bulldog wearing<br />

sunglasses!” One thing is for sure: the<br />

Cube looks unlike anything else on the<br />

road. Even the marketing and advertising<br />

campaign for the Cube’s Canadian launch<br />

was unconventional. Nissan used social<br />

media networking sites such as Twitter and<br />

Facebook to reach a younger demographic<br />

and gave away 50 Cubes in a national<br />

competition across Canada, attracting<br />

the young, hip, edgy buyers Nissan is<br />

aiming at.<br />

The Cube is based on the popular<br />

Nissan Versa small car platform but is<br />

priced higher due to its specification and<br />

design — starting at a price of $16,998<br />

for the 1.8- litre engined four-door model<br />

with a six-speed manual transmission;<br />

add the CVT (Continuously Variable<br />

Transmission) and the price rises to around<br />

$18,298 for a well-equipped, fully loaded<br />

model. Interior wise the Cube arrives<br />

with a plethora of as standard comforts<br />

including power windows, door locks and<br />

mirrors, air conditioning and CD audio<br />

system. In addition there are a number of<br />

personalization options available such as:<br />

movable multi-hooks which hold bags and<br />

accessories throughout the vehicle, interior<br />

mood lighting, elastic bungee door bands<br />

for holding objects, colour coded vent and<br />

switch plate covers, dash-top accent mat<br />

(or shag carpeting for your car), aluminum<br />

pedal covers, 16-inch alloy wheels in silver<br />

or gun metal, as well as an available aero kit<br />

with front chin spoiler, rear under spoiler,<br />

rear roof spoiler and side body sills.<br />

I do like the interior of the Cube. Not<br />

only is it spacious with excellent headroom,<br />

many will appreciate the fact that you step<br />

into the Cube thanks to the low floor<br />

height and sit nice and high with excellent<br />

visibility. The rear seats are also roomy and<br />

recline and fold, offering decent enough<br />

legroom.<br />

On the road the Cube proves to be a fun<br />

to drive little four-door with overall good<br />

handling and ride, but I found the Cube<br />

was a bit slow in acceleration and could<br />

do with an injection of extra horsepower<br />

for more spirited driving. The Cube’s little<br />

engine is buzzy on the highways and takes<br />

its time to get up to speed as the engine’s<br />

122 horses and 127 lb-ft of torque seem<br />

more at home in the cut and thrust of the<br />

urban grind<br />

I would opt for the six speed manual<br />

transmission for more driving fun and<br />

responsiveness.<br />

Fuel economy for the Cube is average<br />

for its class with the six-speed rated at 8.3<br />

L/100 km in the city and 6.6 on the highway<br />

while the automatic CVT transmission is<br />

rated at 7.3 L/100 km in the city and 6.5<br />

L/100 km on the highway.<br />

To sum up: The Cube offers a unique<br />

unconventional interior and exterior<br />

design. There are some strong alternatives<br />

in this sector, but few can approach the<br />

unique looks and panache of the Cube. It<br />

is new and distinct and may strike a chord<br />

with buyers looking for out-of-the-box<br />

styling.<br />

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- $18,298<br />

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Local Artist<br />

Moninder Bubber’s<br />

Creative<br />

Expression<br />

Looking at artist Moninder Bubber’s drawing entitled<br />

“First Born,” the old saying that a picture is worth a<br />

thousand words comes to mind. The image is a moving<br />

depiction of the profound connection between mother and<br />

infant. It’s easy to see why Bubber names it as one of her<br />

favourite creations.<br />

“I have painted the idea of<br />

‘mother and child’ for many<br />

years in drawings, in watercolors<br />

and acrylics,” says Bubber.<br />

“I enjoy expressing human<br />

emotions as well as concepts<br />

such as spirituality.”<br />

Bubber’s passion for drawing<br />

and painting can be traced<br />

back to her youth.<br />

“My high school art teacher,<br />

Mr. Kolysher, gave us a<br />

weekly homework assignment<br />

to do three sketches from life.<br />

I remember drawing ballet<br />

dancers from watching them<br />

on TV and making my mom<br />

sit so I could have a model,”<br />

she says, adding that her parents<br />

encouraged her to develop<br />

her talent.<br />

“My parents always supported<br />

my interest and<br />

bought me paints and other<br />

supplies,” she says. “I still<br />

have the bamboo brush that I<br />

got from them in high school.<br />

Because I did well in every<br />

subject they guided me to go<br />

into medicine, but after one<br />

year I followed my heart and<br />

switched to fine arts. Later, I<br />

did a Masters of Library Science<br />

degree to make a living as<br />

a librarian. I had decided early<br />

on that I didn’t want the pressure<br />

of making a living from<br />

the art because, at least for<br />

me, the joy would go out of<br />

it. My priorities have always<br />

been very clear: my family, my<br />

work and then my art.”<br />

Hence her long break from<br />

art between 1976, when she<br />

showed her work at her Bachelor<br />

of Fine Arts Exhibit at the<br />

University of Saskatchewan,<br />

and her one-person show in<br />

2001 at The Tech Gallery at<br />

Simon Fraser University at<br />

Harbour Centre.<br />

“It was a proud moment,<br />

an affirmation that if I put in<br />

some time and energy I could<br />

really develop as an artist,” she<br />

says of the exhibit.<br />

Since then, Bubber has<br />

had another one-person show,<br />

at SFU’s Bennett Library Gallery<br />

in 2005, and recently had<br />

a group exhibit at the Cornerstone<br />

Building at SFU’s Burnaby<br />

campus. In late September,<br />

she’ll have a one-person<br />

exhibit in the same space.<br />

“With my children all<br />

grown up, I have the time to<br />

devote to my art,” she says,<br />

adding she always knew she’d<br />

reconnect with painting at<br />

some point. “There was never<br />

any doubt in my mind . . . I<br />

love the process, the uncertainty,<br />

the working though<br />

and resolving of the problems<br />

faced on the canvas, and the<br />

surprises that come up. It’s<br />

like taking a journey into the<br />

unknown. There is no getting<br />

around practising the craft,<br />

First Born<br />

just like a pianist has to practise<br />

for hours. But once we get<br />

past the mastery of the craft<br />

part and become proficient to<br />

a certain degree, there is such<br />

joy in being inventive.”<br />

But you don’t have to be a<br />

professional artist to benefit<br />

from discovering and expressing<br />

your creativity, she says.<br />

“We can be creative through<br />

everyday things like cooking,<br />

working on a project, putting<br />

together an outfit, telling a story,<br />

writing, etc. It doesn’t have<br />

to be painting, music, dance,<br />

or theatre.”<br />

Blue Madaonna<br />

Artist Moninder Bubber<br />

When Bubber comes across<br />

people who are interested in art<br />

but feel they can’t even draw a<br />

straight line, she encourages<br />

them to stop thinking and<br />

start creating.<br />

“Just do it,” she says. “Maybe<br />

start with a small sketchbook<br />

that you keep with you all the<br />

time. Scribble. Put down your<br />

thoughts and feelings. Nurture<br />

your creativity because<br />

that nurtures your soul.<br />

“Discover what being creative<br />

is for you, and then don’t<br />

let anyone extinguish your<br />

flame.” p<br />

Mehfil September/October 2009 75


Movie reviews<br />

By Ron Ahluwalia<br />

Love Aaj Kal<br />

Now this a love story for the<br />

21st century. Love Aaj Kal<br />

dares to accept that relationships<br />

and love no longer need to work<br />

like they used to — and that it’s<br />

OK. Saif Ali Khan’s first movie as a<br />

producer is a winner.<br />

This up-to-date romance tells<br />

the story of Jai (Saif Ali Khan)<br />

and Meera (Deepika Padukone),<br />

two Londoners who meet at a<br />

bar, date for two years and live<br />

fulfilling lives. When Meera<br />

decides to move to India to further<br />

her career in art restoration, they<br />

amicably split up. They stay in<br />

touch, even though they move on<br />

to new lovers. But have they really<br />

moved on? All the while, Veer<br />

Singh (Rishi Kapoor) recounts<br />

his love story, a track that runs<br />

parallel to the main story; Khan as<br />

a sardar plays the young Kapoor<br />

and Giselle Monteiro is his love<br />

interest.<br />

Director Imtiaz Ali’s latest gets<br />

off to a perfect start and maintains<br />

its pace for the duration of the<br />

film. The plot moves seamlessly<br />

between eras and the mature but<br />

light-hearted nature of the scenes<br />

is not lost on the viewer. Pritam’s<br />

soundtrack is much better than<br />

his recent efforts. Delhi, London,<br />

and San Francisco are beautifully<br />

photographed.<br />

Saif Ali Khan is the master<br />

of the romantic comedy in<br />

Bollywood. Since Hum Tum<br />

(and with a few exceptions), he<br />

continues to challenge himself<br />

while entertaining the masses.<br />

His portrayal of a young sardar is<br />

bang on. Deepika Padukone finally<br />

gives a performance that makes<br />

her seem worthy of her fame. She<br />

shares great chemistry with Khan.<br />

Rishi Kapoor gives a sold performance.<br />

Rahul Khanna is royally<br />

wasted and should take a leave<br />

from films until he find a role of<br />

substance. Giselle Monteiro does<br />

well in a small role.<br />

Love Aaj Kal is a must-see so<br />

if you missed it this summer, get<br />

the DVD aaj and not kal.<br />

Kambakht Ishq<br />

Remember the exquisite song,<br />

Kambakht Ishq in Ram Gopal<br />

Verma’s adaptation of Fatal<br />

Attraction, Pyaar Tune Kya Kiya? It<br />

was arguably the best song of that<br />

year. The movie by the same name<br />

falls flat on almost all fronts.<br />

Lucky and Kamini (Aftab<br />

Shivdasani, Armita Arora) are<br />

in love and get married. Lucky’s<br />

brother, Viraj (Akshay Kumar), is<br />

against the marriage because he<br />

believes that commitment is nothing<br />

but trouble because girls are<br />

out to emasculate men. Kamini’s<br />

best friend Sim (Kareena Kapoor)<br />

thinks all men are dogs and thus<br />

opposes marriage. She also disapproves<br />

of the marriage because<br />

Lucky is a stunt-double in movies.<br />

Viraj is also a stunt-double and<br />

takes offence to Sim’s elitism. This<br />

sparks a war between Sim and<br />

Viraj. The rest is predictable.<br />

Commitment-phobes, fighters<br />

who become lovers, and bad<br />

comedic subplots are generic<br />

Bollywood plots, all of which make<br />

Kambakht Ishq a case of old<br />

wine in a new bottle. Sabbir Khan<br />

doesn’t tell the story well — the<br />

songs do not move the story forward<br />

(and they’re really bad) and<br />

the Javed Jaffery plot is useless.<br />

The comedy is pedestrian.<br />

Akshay Kumar repeats the<br />

same performances he gave in his<br />

last ten movies. And those were<br />

bad performances. Enough said.<br />

Kareena Kapoor does better than<br />

Kumar but goes overboard in a few<br />

scenes. Amrita Arora manages a<br />

performance that does not make<br />

you squirm, which shows that she<br />

is improving. Aftab Shivdasani<br />

is in a big-name movie after a<br />

long time but doesn’t get any<br />

scope to perform; the man is a<br />

good actor (see Kasoor, Ankahee,<br />

and Darwaaza Bandh Rakho as<br />

reminders) but is not getting the<br />

roles he needs to showcase his<br />

talent. Bowman Irani and Kirron<br />

Kher don’t stand out like they<br />

usually do. Brandon Routh plays<br />

second fiddle to Kumar. Why?<br />

Superman would be Khiladi any<br />

day. Sylvester Stallone is very<br />

awkward, while the plot makes<br />

Denise Richards an antagonist for<br />

no reason.<br />

The only thing more kambakht<br />

than ishq is this movie. So don’t<br />

watch it.<br />

Chintuji<br />

Harbahedi is a small village<br />

under the shadow of an<br />

allegedly corrupt larger village by<br />

the name of Tirphila. The villagers<br />

of Harbahedi gather to contemplate<br />

ways to increase the village’s profile.<br />

Soon they realize that famous<br />

Bollywood actor Rishi Kapoor, aka<br />

“Chintuji,” is also from their village<br />

and they invite him to visit in<br />

the hopes that his appearance will<br />

generate press, extended electricity<br />

and development. Rishi (played<br />

by himself) is on the verge of a<br />

political career and his publicist,<br />

Devika (Kulraj Randhawa), suggests<br />

Harbahedi as the perfect<br />

launch platform.<br />

In Harbahedi, Devika falls<br />

for local newspaper editor Arun<br />

(Priyanshu Chatterjee) and Rishi<br />

boards with a local family (headed<br />

by Grusha Kapoor of TV fame).<br />

His behaviour towards the locals<br />

is outright deplorable despite their<br />

hospitality. Of course, there are<br />

skeletons in characters’ closets<br />

and ever-imminent threat of sabotage<br />

by the people of Tirphila.<br />

Director Ranjit Kapoor’s venture<br />

is highly reminiscent of Shyam<br />

Benegal’s Welcome to Sajjanpur<br />

and the comedic village look<br />

seems uninspired. But his ability<br />

to focus on a major plotline with<br />

relevant subplots makes this an<br />

interesting film.<br />

In the title role, Rishi Kapoor<br />

takes a big risk in portraying his<br />

real-life self as an arrogant and<br />

insufferable buffoon. He toys with<br />

going over-the-top but manages to<br />

deliver a commendable performance.<br />

Kulraj Randhawa, who made<br />

a splash on the TV show Kareena<br />

Kareena, is solid. Priyanshu<br />

Chatterjee does well. Grusha<br />

Kapoor plays her stock character<br />

very well. Shaurabh Sukhla, as<br />

always, hits the mark.<br />

Chintuji is good movie, but<br />

nothing spectacular or novel. Give<br />

it a shot to pass a rainy day.<br />

76 Mehfil September/October 2009


Reflections<br />

Manjit Dhillon has a knack for remembering<br />

dates. For example, he<br />

left India with his father on June 2, 1948,<br />

and after stops in Hong Kong, San Francisco<br />

and Yuba City, California, he arrived<br />

in White Rock, British Columbia, on July<br />

3, 1948.<br />

The 18-year-old didn’t have any leisure<br />

time in which to form an impression of<br />

his new country.<br />

“My father, who had first moved to<br />

Canada in 1931, had very good connections<br />

with Kapoor Lumber Company<br />

in North Vancouver. He phoned there<br />

looking for a chance to work. They said<br />

we have work for two people. My father<br />

and I started working there on July 5. My<br />

father said to improve your English you<br />

should go to night school. So I worked<br />

eight hours in the mill, then I would go<br />

to night school in North Burnaby for two<br />

hours. I would come home at 11 o’clock,<br />

then go to work again in the morning.<br />

This went on until the spring of 1949.<br />

Then there was a wood shortage in that<br />

mill and I moved to Victoria to work.”<br />

For a year, Dhillon worked during the<br />

week at a mill and then helped his uncle<br />

make deliveries on the weekends.<br />

“My uncle had a wood and sawdust<br />

business and on the weekend we would<br />

haul sawdust. In those days, the main fuel<br />

The India Grass Hockey Club, with goalie Manjit Dhillon, beat five other Lower Mainland<br />

teams to win a championship trophy in 1954. “My teammates were (back row) Bachan Gill,<br />

Jeet Singh, Jian Rai, Pandat Rai, Lashman Gill, Herby, Chumkour Singh. And (front row) Avtar<br />

Singh, Mager Rai, Karnail Johal, Manjit Dhillon, Harbans Singh,” recalls Dhillon.<br />

Manjit Dhillon<br />

was wood and sawdust and we would haul<br />

sacks of wood on our back and go door to<br />

door to make extra money.”<br />

Dhillon then moved to Mesachie Lake,<br />

where he lived in a bunkhouse along with<br />

about 60 mill co-workers for two years.<br />

“We would work eight hours a day, then<br />

in the evening we would have lots of time<br />

to do exercise, play volleyball and soccer,”<br />

recalls Dhillon.”<br />

Next came a six-week stint working at<br />

a mill in Kamloops before Dhillon and his<br />

father moved back to Vancouver in 1952.<br />

“I started going to night school for<br />

lumber grading and lumber tallying,” recalls<br />

Dhillon. “After I finished those two<br />

courses, I could work anywhere I wanted<br />

because lumber graders were in big demand.”<br />

In 1954, he landed a job at the Burke<br />

Lumber Company. That same year,<br />

Dhillon helped the India Grass Hockey<br />

Club win a championship over five other<br />

Lower Mainland teams. He has vivid<br />

memories of the deciding game, which<br />

was against a team from North Vancouver.<br />

“We started playing on a Saturday,<br />

and we had three overtimes without a<br />

goal. We decided we weren’t going to quit<br />

until the game was decided. The following<br />

week, we played again in Stanley Park.<br />

I was playing goalie, and I must have been<br />

a good goalie because we won 3-nothing.<br />

Out of those 12 players, only three of us<br />

are still living.”<br />

In 1955, Dhillon married Harjit Kaur,<br />

the daughter of a close friend of his grandfather’s.<br />

“When I came from India, I had told<br />

my grandfather he could choose my bride.<br />

In 1954 he wrote me and said he’d found<br />

a good match for me. My grandfather and<br />

Harjit’s father had both been freedom<br />

fighters and were good friends.<br />

“Harjit came from India on July 9,<br />

1955. She came to our home and then we<br />

got married on July 16, 1955.”<br />

In 1964, the family, which by then<br />

included Manjit and Harjit’s three small<br />

children, moved into the house in which<br />

the couple still live today. “We bought it<br />

brand new and moved in on October 24,”<br />

recalls Dhillon. “The price was $19,000<br />

but I told the builder I would buy it only<br />

if he finished the basement. I gave him<br />

another $1,500 to complete the basement<br />

so we would have three bedrooms upstairs<br />

and three bedrooms downstairs.<br />

“We thought about moving at one<br />

point, but my wife said this house has a<br />

big history. Many freedom fighters would<br />

come to visit my grandfather here when<br />

he lived here. We decided we will never<br />

move.” p<br />

78 Mehfil September/October 2009


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