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The Case of Steven V. xvii<br />

(1) recognize the role thinking and belief systems play in his problems; (2) identify self-statements,<br />

belief systems, or assumptions that are irrational and maladaptive and rationally dispute them; and (3)<br />

learn to replace irrational self-statements with productive ones. Let us use an example to illustrate this<br />

approach.<br />

As you recall, Steve first came to the attention of the university therapist after a breakup with his<br />

woman friend, Linda. Initially, he became severely depressed and withdrew from almost all social<br />

activities. Most of us, including Steve, could easily conclude that the reason he became depressed was<br />

because of the breakup of a valued relationship. However, this simple cause-effect analysis negates the<br />

importance of Steve’s internal cognitions. Ending a relationship is certainly unpleasant and unfortunate.<br />

Most people do not feel good about such an event, and the negative reactions we experience might even<br />

be normal and expected. Nevertheless, Steve’s reactions to the breakup are too severe, intense, and<br />

prolonged to be considered normal.<br />

The breakup with Linda must have other personal significance and meaning to him, contained in<br />

irrational beliefs he holds. Using Ellis’s A-B-C theory of personality we might say that the breakup with<br />

Linda is the activating event A and Steve’s depression and withdrawal is the consequence C. Steve’s<br />

beliefs and interpretations B about A, however, cause his psychological reactions C. It is quite clear that<br />

Steve has irrational beliefs about himself and others that are the basis of his problems. He might be<br />

saying something like this to himself: “Linda’s rejection of me shows me how inadequate and worthless<br />

I am. I’ll never be able to find another woman again. I’m a miserable failure as a man. No one will ever<br />

love me again.” These thoughts are very active in Steve and he keeps telling himself that they are true.<br />

Some of the irrational assumptions that seem to be operating in Steve’s thought processes are as<br />

follows:<br />

1. “I should always please my parents. I must live up to their expectations or I will be a failure as a<br />

son and person.”<br />

2. “If everyone doesn’t love me and approve of me, it would be awful. I’m a worthless and miserable<br />

person.”<br />

3. “I must be perfect in school. I must get straight A’s. If I don’t get good grades, I am stupid.”<br />

4. “A real ‘man’ would never be rejected by a woman. A real ‘man’ should always be able to<br />

perform sexually.”<br />

5. “I’m a prisoner of my past. No matter what I do I cannot change how screwed up I am. I can’t<br />

help being crazy. My future looks bleak.”<br />

These irrational beliefs are at the basis of much of Steve’s problems. He must be helped to distinguish<br />

between the real event and the unrealistic assumptions he makes about its consequences. Because<br />

human beings have the capacity for both rational and irrational thinking, I would utilize Steve’s<br />

capacity for rational thinking to attack his belief system. Logic could help Steve recognize and dispute<br />

faulty assumptions and reasoning, using statements such as “Where is it written that one’s self-worth is<br />

based on being universally loved?” He could be taught realistic and productive self-statements to<br />

replace irrational ones: “I’m catastrophizing again. It’s okay to flub up occasionally. I’m a worthwhile<br />

person even though my father doesn’t approve.” Having Steve understand the cognitive source of his<br />

problems, helping him attack these irrational beliefs, replacing them with realistic values and standards,<br />

and correcting his faulty logic will go a long way to help Steve become a more productive and healthy<br />

individual.<br />

The Family Systems Model of Psychopathology<br />

What if Steve were working with a family systems oriented therapist? How would the therapist view<br />

Steve’s problems and how would he or she help him?

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