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14Wi n g s pa nopinion<strong>May</strong> 4, 2009lccc.wy.edu/wingspanBroke lifestyle brings rich life lessonsco-a&e editorDown and out times lead to desperate measuresDominicBenintendeDear Editor:Recently, I wrote ane-mail to the LaramieCounty CommunityCollege communityasking for their feedbackon a positionstatement “opposingbullying, harassment,and hate crimes.” Theresponses I receivedwere quite diverse,yet, overall, supportivein nature.Toilet paperis a horriblesubstitute forcoffee filters and viceversa—but sometimesyou have to do what ittakes to get by.In recent months, Ihave used many productsin unusual waysand have made evenmore bizarre shorttermlife choices as Islipped into poverty.Actually, the bestpart of being brokeis observing how youadapt. I’m not doingextremely weird stuffyet, but I’m gettingclose.Recently, in mypursuits of food,money and happiness,I have:• Used dish soap towash my body;• Looked in the mycouch over andover because Ithought, “Hey,maybe, this timethere will bechange in there”;• Built a stage for anElton John concertthat I was not aleditor’scommentarylowed to watch;• Faked a problemwith a food orderto, in fact, get morefood;• Traded a beer for adry pair of socks;• Explained to mywife, very logically,why she doesn’tneed to become aprostitute;• Watched “Survivor”and saw the peopleon the show eatbetter than I hadthat day;• Reconsidered mywife becoming ahooker;• Lost $5 and almostcried;• Found $5 andalmost cried;• Applied for foodstamps;• Listened to a bluesband and said tomyself, “Theseguys know whatI’m going through”;• Been rejected forfood stamps;• Eaten more spaghettithan I wouldwish on my worstenemy.• Realized friendsare all you have;• Added family tothe list of all I have;• Made the decisionthat money doesn’tmatter to me anymore.I don’t know if itwere because of howhungry or stressed Iwas, but one day I justbecame really OK withbeing poor. It onlytook 24 years, y’all,but I did it.Like that Jaredguy from Subwaysaid, “I’m no longertoo big for my‘poor-ass’ britches,“Life had given me lemons,and I melted cheese onthem.”and I’ve never feltbetter.”About two weeksago, I looked inmy cupboard andrealized my wife andI would be on an allricediet for the nextfew days.Two days into our“rice-a-thon,” I wasreminded by NationalPublic Radio how villagesin Africa couldsurvive on what I hadin my cupboard formonths at a time.Sadly, this mademe smile. It knockedLetter to the editorme off my self-pitystallion and forced meto look at my situationobjectively.I can’t stand howcliché the logic was,but I was guilty ofbeing shown thelight by people lessfortunate than myself.Worse yet, I hadmelted cheese intorice the night before,which is as bad as itsounds.Dominic BenintendeCo-A&E EditorLife had given melemons, and I meltedcheese on them.I realized somestudents are supposedto be poor, and I’mgood at it, so why notembrace it?College seems likethe easiest thing in theworld now becauseI know I’m choosingto attend. This wasan unprecedenteddevelopment withinmy life.Before I still haddelusions I was in itfor a career or enoughmoney never to eatSpam again.If I really didn’twant to be as poor asI am anymore, I couldjust quit college andreturn to my dismalconstruction job.However, I’d take theknowledge I’m gettingnow over temporaryphysical comforts anyday, especially whenI wasn’t happy theneither.I’m happier whenI’m learning.For my tradingthe Shakespeare I’vedigested for steakdinners is like payingmoney to seeNickelback: it’s notworth it. Actually, mylife without highereducation was quitesimilar to Nickelback’smusic: boring, repetitiveand full of whining.A man whom Irespect told me theother day, “You haveto keep one foot in theacademic community,and the other in thefilthy world that surroundsit.”Because I haveplaced myself in theacademic community,I have found myselfmore interested in thedifferences betweenthe “filthy world”and that which existsin the college atmosphere.For me, my life as acollege journalist andmy life as a poor manwere combating eachother. I wasn’t seeingthe point in school.Life belongs to theperson living it, andI was not taking fullresponsibility of myown.By accepting whatwe like about ourselvesor situationsand changing what wedon’t, we can drive ourown lives. The roadisn’t always pleasantor guaranteed to bethere tomorrow, butthat doesn’t makewhat we do along theway futile.College isn’t foreverybody—nor isusing coffee filters astoilet paper, but happinessis somethingthat can be appreciatedand pursued byeveryone.Nickelback said,“We all just wannabe big rock stars/andlive in hilltop houses,drivin’ 15 cars.”I couldn’t disagreemore.Feedback request yields diverse results, supportI do appreciate thatwe live in a communitythat supports thekind of conversationmy e-mail generated;after all, this is the“free world,” and ifyou cannot exerciseyour right to expressan opinion, then theterm “free world”becomes rather aninteresting paradox,indeed.Thereafter, if thepublic begins to feelthey are losing their“voice,” then their societycould well spiralinto the “Orwellian”societies of novels Iread in high school.“Big Brother” iswatching you.As I said previously,the e-mail I wrotecreated a somewhatdiverse reaction fromour community. Letme address those whoseemed concernedwith my use of sucha “broad form ofcommunication” toexpress my ideas onthe topic of discrimination.I realize thereare subjects that areconsidered taboo,and perhaps we livein a culture that is notcompletely comfortablewith this <strong>issue</strong>.However, beyondcertain walls, there isanother culture thatpervades in this country,one that is builtupon the sweat andtears of all the immigrantsand aboriginalgroups of yester year.I belong to oneof these groups;therefore, I did feela strong inclinationto communicate mythoughts on this rathercontroversial topicof discrimination andhate. To those whowere concerned withmy e-mail, pleaselisten carefully withan open mind and anopen heart.I was raised in avery multiculturalclimate. Vancouver,Canada, is not onlya place of naturalbeauty but is alsoa place made evenmore beautiful by thevarious cultures wholive there. This couldeasily describe a typicalday in my hometownof Vancouver.See Letter, Page 15

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