one point, Naveen felt choked, for he remembered his maths teacher, the very lovableman he had left behind, and he blinked away the tears which had welled up. He wonderedwhat the new man would be like. The next test was Hindi which he could not do so well.They asked him several questions in grammar and although he knew the language wellenough to compose poems in it, he could not make anything <strong>of</strong> what the grammarianssaid about the language. “These grown-ups have a way <strong>of</strong> complicating simple things,”he thought. Then followed an English test about which he was extremely diffident, for hehad been told he would have to compete with boys who were very good in the subject asthey came from important towns. In fact, after great effort he had learnt by heart a longpoem by a man called Longfellow, but when he was asked to recite it, the words wouldnot flow. The English teacher seemed to have a certain steely look about him that took allthe courage out <strong>of</strong> him. After this experience he muddled up even his essay on, ‘How Ispent my summer holidays’. He could not remember having had a holiday, leave alonespending it, for he had spent the time preparing for these tests! His parents and relativeshad been after him to make the grade — all <strong>of</strong> them — father, mother, uncle and cousin.When the results were announced Naveen did not go to school. Father did not either,nor mother. His cousin went and carne back triumphantly waving his hands. Naveen hadbeen admitted although his name was last on the list. “So Mr. X has managed theadmission. Good”, said father. Naveen was again <strong>of</strong>fended, for he was sure that he hadsecured his admission only because he had done well in the tests.That night, Naveen went to bed rather dejected. He had loved his old school. It was ina ramshackle building with very little drinking water and the classrooms were dingy, buthis headmaster loved him and his maths teacher was kind. They used to play a lot <strong>of</strong>improvised games morning and evening, as there were no hockey sticks or properplaygrounds. The new school was different. It had an imposing building and it was neatand clean and boys from “good’ homes attended it. But Naveen wondered what thepeople inside were like. That night he dreamed <strong>of</strong> a large bird carrying away a frightenedboy, read to drop him into a strange land. It is so true, isn’t it, that it is the warmth <strong>of</strong> thepeople that makes you feel at home in a place? Buildings are important and goodfurniture, <strong>of</strong> course. If, in addition, there are large grounds and a sense <strong>of</strong> space and ifthere are beautiful trees and flowers, a school would be a most welcome place to go to.But most important <strong>of</strong> all are the feelings <strong>of</strong> the people inside and this Naveen found outquite soon.Have you faced any difficulties in new situations? What is your idea <strong>of</strong> a good school?What are some things that grownups around you say or do that you do not understand?Think upon these things and discuss them in class.2. Home and Its InfluenceSome children are naturally very helpful. They do not at all have to be told to help.That was so with Ayesha. The moment she saw any teacher, her own, or anyone elsewalking down the corridor with a pile <strong>of</strong> books, she would run up and <strong>of</strong>fer to carry them.She would notice the state <strong>of</strong> the black-board before a teacher came in and she wouldwipe it clean and keep a chalk-piece and duster ready. If the mali was seen carrying twopots <strong>of</strong> water she would <strong>of</strong>fer to take one and start watering the plants. It all came verynaturally to her — picking up a stone on the road, putting away waste paper in the
dustbin, lifting a child that had fallen, helping back-stage at any school function, cleaningup the art room after the class was over, putting the tanpura back in its case, carryinghockey sticks to the fields and bringing them back after the game, distributing sweets onan occasion, and she did it all with quiet dignity and a smile. She never felt that she wasdoing something unusual. It seemed the most natural thing for her and she delighted inhelping others.When the school announced the forming <strong>of</strong> a Social Service Squad she was the first toopt for it although it was really meant for the senior students. She begged her teacher tolet her join and be an assistant to the school volunteers <strong>of</strong> the ninth and tenth classes.They all liked her so much that they welcomed her. The first expedition was to theChildren’s Orthopaedic Centre <strong>of</strong> the local hospital. There, for the first time, Ayeshaencountered human suffering <strong>of</strong> a kind she had never seen before and she was moved.She was only twelve years <strong>of</strong> age then and to see a boy in a plaster cast whose knee hadfractured, a girl limping with one crutch, a small child in a perambulator who shediscovered had contracted polio, another boy with his shoulder in plaster and several suchcases must have been a difficult experience; and, on the first day, she was very quiet,content to move along with her seniors. Sarla held her hand warmly and that made herfeel brave and after a couple <strong>of</strong> visits she became one <strong>of</strong> the regular visitors to the centre.She would read stories to the young ones or tell them jokes or help generally. They allsaid she would grow to be a good nurse or doctor, for she was so warm-hearted. Helpingthese children, Ayesha became more aware <strong>of</strong> various kinds <strong>of</strong> disabled people aroundher home and neighbourhood; the beggar with a crutch, the blind girl who sangbeautifully, the basket weaver squatting on the wayside who had no legs and so on. Shewas indeed a sensitive child.Perhaps Ayesha’s home was, in some measure, responsible for cultivating this deepsensitivity in her. Her mother was a primary school teacher and her father worked in abank. They were both very hard-working people but Ayesha grew up watching howfather helped her mother in the household work. He would do all the shopping, cutvegetables, cook, wash dishes. He had taken on himself the task <strong>of</strong> putting Ayesha to bedtill she was five. Her mother too was very efficient in household work and, in addition,would help her father in drafting letters for she had an M.A. degree in English. It was adelight to see how husband and wife managed everything together, sharing and helping toproduce together the right climate in the home. Ayesha grew up in such an atmosphere <strong>of</strong>security and contentment and learnt to lend a hand naturally without any fuss.But a day came, when Ayesha realised that not all fathers were like hers, naturallyinclined to help in the kitchen or the household. She had gone to her neighbour’s house.Her friend Shankar lived there. He was also <strong>of</strong> her age although he went to anotherschool, a boy’s school in town. Shankar’s mother was doing all the cooking herself andAyesha discovered that everyday she spent most <strong>of</strong> her time in the kitchen making puris,potatoes, gulab jamuns and all kinds <strong>of</strong> delicious things for the father and son. Shankar’sfather had a small business <strong>of</strong> his own and was out most <strong>of</strong> the day. When he returned inthe evening he expected to be waited upon by his wife. He also seemed quite distant andharsh with her and it seemed he felt that wives should not be encouraged to talk toomuch. As a result, there wasn’t much conversation and the father, it was apparent, wasthe lord <strong>of</strong> the house. Shankar’s mother accepted this as her lot. In fact she would tellAyesha in her son’s presence that after all she was a woman and women were meant to
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