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Managing to Be a Great(and Fun) LeaderBy Ron Culberson, MSW, CSP“Do it Well. Make it Fun.”One <strong>of</strong> the toughest jobs I ever hadwas being a member <strong>of</strong> a committeecharged with cutting ten percent <strong>of</strong>the workforce. Reimbursements weredown and costs were up. The seniormanagement team determined that theonly option left was to eliminate staff.I quickly found that it’s very easy tosee “unnecessary” positions in otherdepartments but it’s very hard to getrid <strong>of</strong> your own people.After several weeks <strong>of</strong> gruelingdecisions, we presented our proposedcuts to the CEO and then he scheduleda series <strong>of</strong> meetings to present the newsto the staff. At the beginning <strong>of</strong> hispresentation, he showed a cartoon <strong>of</strong>a man chasing his head with a butterflynet. The CEO said, “This representsthe senior management team over thepast few weeks.”We sat in stunned silence.The CEO had intended to show, witha touch <strong>of</strong> humor, how difficult thisprocess was. Instead, he insultedeveryone who had been in on theprocess because it made us look like wedidn’t know what we were doing. Thisis a perfect example <strong>of</strong> bad leadershipand bad humor. When combined, itwill sink a leader-ship quicker than amutiny.I believe that humor is one <strong>of</strong> the mostpowerful leadership tools available.Yet most leaders believe that, in orderto be respected, they must be serious.It is certainly important to be a goodleader but not so serious that youare unapproachable and detached.Someone once said, “A leader withouthumor is like a mower <strong>of</strong> a cemetery.He may be doing a good job butnobody underneath is paying muchattention.” The following are someways to add excellence and humor toyour leadership repertoire.LEADERSHIP SKILLSBeing an Excellent LeaderEarly in our lives we are encouraged to“grow up” and to “act our age”. These“encouragements” lead us to believethat we must serious to get the respectand admiration <strong>of</strong> our elders and peers.Unfortunately, getting respect has moreto do with being excellent than serious.An excellent leader is good at leading.An excellent leader works at beinggood at leading. An excellent leadertakes responsibility for the values andskills with which he/she leads. Beforeyou can add humor to your leadershiptoolkit, you must be good at your job.Otherwise, humor will work againstyou.President Dwight D. Eisenhowersaid, “Leadership is the art <strong>of</strong> gettingsomeone else to do what you wantdone because he/she wants to do it.”If you want people to follow your lead,you must have the values and skillsthat inspire them. Know your business.Know your organization. Know yourpeople. And most importantly, knowwhat you do well and what you need toimprove. Then, humor is your friend.UnderstandingWhen First Lady Barbara Bush wasasked to speak to the graduating class<strong>of</strong> Wellesley <strong>College</strong>, a number <strong>of</strong> thegraduates protested because they feltthat Mrs. Bush’s success was a result<strong>of</strong> her husband’s position rather thanher own work. Knowing the discontentshe faced, the First Lady opened herpresentation by saying, “Somewhereout in this audience may be someonewho will one day follow in myfootsteps and preside over the WhiteHouse as the President’s spouse. I wishhim well.”Barbara Bush understood her audiencewell and then used a bit <strong>of</strong> humor towin them over. She received a standingovation and her opponents no longerresented her participation. Greatleaders understand those they lead.By connecting with compassion anda touch <strong>of</strong> humor, those in the rankswill see you as a human being worthfollowing.Communicating EffectivelyWhen my daughter was born, ourpediatrician was explaining the breastfeeding process to my wife and me(not that I had a whole lot to do withit). He said that it usually took a dayor two for the milk to come in. Mywife asked, “What if it doesn’t?” Thedoctor calmly replied, “Then we’ll giveyour daughter to someone whose milkdid come in.”I looked at my wife and gave her a smileand the thumbs up. This doctor was akeeper! With one humorous comment,he communicated that he understoodour concern but that there was no needto be concerned. He also showed usthat he was relaxed and comfortablewith us. We always appreciated thatand looked forward to his care <strong>of</strong> ourchildren.A good leader is able to communicateeffectively in a way that instillsconfidence in those being led. Humoris a wonderfully human way tocommunicate that confidence.18 care | volume 27 issue 1

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