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eview tumultuous events. The group will hopefully be able to resolve any differences <strong>and</strong> leave <strong>the</strong>group experience with fond memories <strong>and</strong> gratitude to <strong>the</strong> institution for <strong>the</strong> experiences gained.The Course Travel PeriodThe travel period is <strong>the</strong> prime time to put EI skills <strong>into</strong> practice. Trip leaders play an important rolein creating <strong>the</strong> proper climate for EI to be discussed <strong>and</strong> implemented. From a pedagogical perspective<strong>the</strong> manner in which <strong>the</strong> leaders h<strong>and</strong>le decision-making, communication, <strong>and</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir personal emotionalresponses serves as a powerful model for <strong>the</strong>ir students’ learning (Kouzes & Posner, 1993). Trip leadersshould expect that students will look to <strong>the</strong>m for emotional as well as practical guidance when <strong>the</strong> goinggets tough. It is also <strong>the</strong> case that <strong>the</strong> leaders emotional mood will be transmitted to <strong>and</strong> mirrored by <strong>the</strong>student travelers (Drusak & Wolff, 2001).We recommend that leaders schedule routine discussion times for EI issues. Pick a time when <strong>the</strong>group is relatively fresh, toge<strong>the</strong>r, <strong>and</strong> relaxed -- perhaps during breakfast before <strong>the</strong> pressures of <strong>the</strong> dayhave begun. Establish what discussion topics/issues are “fair game” <strong>and</strong> which are “off base”. Try to keeppersonal feedback ligh<strong>the</strong>arted. Make sure to practice EI at crisis moments. When <strong>the</strong> bus breaks down,tempers flare, <strong>the</strong> unexpected <strong>and</strong> unpleasant happens, remind participants that <strong>the</strong> EI tools are availableto be exercised.One exercise that we have personally found to be very valuable during travel is <strong>the</strong>Energy/Openness/Focus Activity of Cooper & Sawaf (1996). This exercise recommends that teammeetings begin by asking each person to identify his/her level of energy, openness, <strong>and</strong> focus on a scaleof 1 to 10. One would mean you have no energy, openness, or focus <strong>and</strong> 10 would mean you are burstingwith empathy, openness, <strong>and</strong> focus. This exercise raises <strong>the</strong> awareness <strong>and</strong> empathy of team participantsfor <strong>the</strong>ir fellows. It also builds self-awareness of a group member’s own emotional state. Additionalspecific suggestions that we provide to students on laminated cards to carry during travel are identified<strong>and</strong> discussed in Table 2.Table 2:Ten Suggestions for Increasing <strong>and</strong> Practicing <strong>Emotional</strong> <strong>Intelligence</strong> during International Travel1. Conduct energy, openness, <strong>and</strong> enthusiasm assessments. Ask yourself <strong>and</strong> o<strong>the</strong>rs at regular<strong>and</strong> crucial times to assess <strong>and</strong> share levels of <strong>the</strong>se qualities (from Cooper & Sawaf, 1996).2. Hold angry reactions until tomorrow. Sometimes it’s best to keep feelings to ourselves – atleast in <strong>the</strong> short term. Underst<strong>and</strong> how <strong>the</strong> pressures of travel can heighten emotions; rememberthat <strong>the</strong>se are most likely time limited relationships. Think through how reactions to anger shouldbe expressed – or not expressed – for yourself <strong>and</strong> o<strong>the</strong>rs.3. Dedicate specified times in <strong>the</strong> itinerary for group discussion on process. There is somuch to do. Build in specific times when <strong>the</strong> group will assess how things are going <strong>and</strong> stick toit. Give group members <strong>the</strong> opportunity to make suggestions, air concerns. Improvements – initinerary <strong>and</strong> mood – may follow.4. Specify personal goals for <strong>the</strong> course before traveling. Part of <strong>the</strong> pre-trip EI preparationshould be for each traveler to specify <strong>the</strong>ir personal goals for <strong>the</strong> trip – to <strong>the</strong>mselves <strong>and</strong> too<strong>the</strong>rs. This gives everyone good information about fellow travelers <strong>and</strong> a more accurate base onwhich to assess people’s choices <strong>and</strong> attitudes during <strong>the</strong> trip.5. Consider <strong>the</strong> trip's pacing. There’s so much to do <strong>and</strong> so little time! But remember to rest<strong>and</strong> build in some ‘alone time’ on a regular basis to allow self-awareness to surface.<strong>Emotional</strong> <strong>Intelligence</strong> Competency Building for International Travel Course Participants 9

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